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/r/seduction22/05/15 06:28 PM
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Every one is different, think about the things you did to wow your s.o. Are you still doing those same things? If not why? Here is what I am doing: Random road trips for concerts Write in a journal together and pass it back n forth to write down your thoughts about your s.o. (This way you have cute shit to look back to when your married) Write letters to eachother back and forth ( I am currently writing letters to my s.o. Like I am a soldier in WW2 writing to his woman back home) Cook dinner tog…
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:15 PM
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I am in a similar boat. I practiced seduction for 3 years and it is engrained into my head. Now I am in a very stable relationship with a girl who I want to marry so bad I would do it today if I could. One thing I have noticed is that girls look at me in a different way, but no urges to game them or anything. By what I need to practice more is the seduction on my own love, my woman. Keep the fire for us and keep the fire for a lifetime. One thing you have to remember, and what most guys fail to …
/r/seduction22/05/15 03:17 PM
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Usually Harry's, Harpos, Foundry for the weekend. And coffee shops in the crossroads for the week days. I have a gf as of now, but I wouldnt mind playing wingman!
/r/seduction19/04/15 10:34 PM
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YOOO! Wesport whats up
/r/seduction19/04/15 10:27 PM
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Work out a bunch!
/r/seduction07/03/15 02:50 PM
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You bet! I have always thought I was behind the curve, little did I know from the girls I have been with they compliment it very well.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:00 AM
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I can skate like a champion. Nothing wrong with skating, but I try to stray away from the typical date stuff on the first date to set me apart. Ice skating ill do a couple months in with the girl.
/r/seduction05/02/15 04:42 AM
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always a to go to classic! Good thing is, I have great ice skating and great coffee nearby!
/r/seduction05/02/15 04:28 AM
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Oh yeah, she even suggested it because show knows how good of a skier I am. She said she is a great learner and never gets mad. Lying...huge red flag
/r/seduction05/02/15 04:27 AM
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I like this! Never take a girl skiing. I made that mistake....
/r/seduction05/02/15 01:48 AM
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Pretty fierce. Some days it can be 60 like this Saturday and snow and be 15 the next. So its hard to plan outside. I love the cold, but most people aren't as crazy as us!
/r/seduction05/02/15 01:48 AM
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Best date ever in small towns. Skinny dipping and pond hopping. Used to go to school in a small town
/r/seduction05/02/15 01:38 AM
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I know right? I'm the king of dates in the summer. In the winter I'm like.... Uhhh we can go to a bar? Its lame!
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:55 PM
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God damnit! Date ideas are so easy in the summer. I hate the winter
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:53 PM
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God damnit! Date ideas are so easy in the summer. I hate the winter
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:44 PM
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I found one, but turned out she was just a whore.....
/r/seduction31/01/15 02:42 PM
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AA = approach anxiety. It happens when a man sees a very beautiful woman, but often thinks in the terms of "I will make a fool of myself talking to this person" when in reality, they are normal human beings. Often times, HB8 and up rarely get approached due to this nature, often giving you a upper hand when talking to them when approached.
/r/seduction30/01/15 04:20 AM
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Damage report: Visited my coffee shops and farmers market I love going to. Scored 3 numbers at the coffee shops over two days, and got one at the farmers market. All with simple approaches of "Hey, any one sitting here? Mind if I chat for a bit". ITS THAT EASY! I even impressed myself. My main accomplishment was approaching a really cute girl, she had her headphones in, and her friends were there. Instant no go? WRONG! I was patient, waited a little longer on the computer and saw her friends lea…
/r/seduction30/01/15 02:36 AM
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Congrats man! it feels great doesn't it? Remember this feeling everytime you are out on the lookout for your next amazing woman. I was in the same shoes too. Lost the vcard freshman year. Now I dont have any problem setting up dates thanks to /r/seduction, /r/fitness and /r/malefashionadvice. The trinity. my milestone as of this week? I have four dates, and all of them were approaches from the previous weekend. It has never been easier, just to walk up to a girl in a coffee shop, and number clos…
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:39 AM
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driving range? ballsy (pun intended) a full 9? that would be long, only if you can get to the back 9 ;)
/r/seduction26/01/15 03:26 AM
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I live a block away from a renowned arts gallery that has a lawn amazing for picnics and day gatherings, I live in a city known for jazz. Kansas Fucking City! So yes, really. The girls love it.
/r/seduction26/01/15 03:22 AM
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Here is a tip about tinder. Don't take it seriously.
/r/seduction25/01/15 06:01 PM
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Self Awareness. This has allowed me to change/alter my personality to who I really am to show my upmost confidence. My most improved quality is how I talk and carry my voice. Why? because thats what we listen too! Your voice is one of your most powerful tools, second to body language. When you know how to use and manipulate your voice, you will become very powerful. Its not the kind of words you use, its how you say them.
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:59 PM
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I don't think anyone should be dependent on a stripper for confidence. What you should be doing is building your confidence yourself. You don't become some wizard with women over night, it takes practice and a bunch of fails. And doing this means talking to real people in real life situations, not going to strip clubs and going to bars while drunk. If you are only dependent on that, you are not going to meet the right people to follow your life passions.
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:53 PM
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This is when communication is key and why I don't like to drink and have sex. When I do find myself in this scenario, I usually tell her I cant get off while drunk. She is never upset because I always make it clear. Then I tell her tonight is all about you, let me make you feel amazing, then in the morning well have round 2. Works everytime.
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:46 PM
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How did you meet this girl originally? What did you do with her before? Which city? Big? Small? With out knowing her style/what she likes and your location, it will be hard to pinpoint what will make for the best date. (My to go to) When ever I am uncertain of what to do, I usually go to a coffee bar, where depending on the mood or the time you can order a coffee or a drink. Go look up local performances, jazz clubs, small venues usually $7-$10 a show. Go to art galleries. Find food places, food…
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:42 PM
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The more you are in it, the more comfortable you will be. Also what I like about busy places is you can either pull her in closer, to shield her from the crazy amount of people,and to better hear each other, which makes it easy to kino. Or you can provide the idea "hey, its super busy here, let's go to a more relaxing place" setting you up for a place you are comfortable at!
/r/seduction21/01/15 10:11 PM
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Little project. Go to these "busy" public places that you have a hard time in and just stand there. Examine your surroundings. The best part is, every one of those sheeple out there are so engrained in where they are going, in their cellphones ect, they won't judge you, they don't even know you're there. Best thing is, you don't have to worry about them either. Its all about you and your prize. What are these locations that you do better in? Coffee shops? Libraries? The classroom?
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:30 PM
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I am slowly finding this too. It may be that it's because I'm turning 25 this year, or just growing to be a better person. Tonight I am challenging myself to approach 3 girls today that I would normally write off, and just see how the conversation feels. Getting out of that comfort zone!
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:52 PM
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Depends on the type of date. Really cute girl I want to escelate/ progress with pick her up. A girl who I set up a date to practice my personality that I don't want to get involved with? You're meeting me there
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:31 PM
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I'm complete opposite. I kill it in coffee shops and cold approaches in broad daylight. I guess it goes on the notion that they aren't expecting approaches like they are in a bar/club setting. Less pressure for me, but others have felt different. I also feel like when I don't have alcohol in me, I game way better. But don't get me wrong, I still get a little AA like every other guy. I have every day approach pretty well versed, with little failures, even if the girl isn't single, I always make a…
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:27 PM
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My man! You ever make it to Westport?
/r/seduction14/12/14 04:25 AM
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I always laugh these off and turn them into a joke if they fail. Example: At a bar last night. Two cute girls were standing by the pinball machine. Spur of the moment I ran over there and said something stupid about the observation of the bar. They werent having it. They were stone cold. I just said out loud to myself "HA, well fuck this", then dipped out laughing as I was leaving. Cant take any of it seriously. When you do is when you start having a bad time when you get shut down.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:17 PM
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thank you! I might start seeing a girl here pretty soon, and I know that I will make her my only option. But, I don not consider this oneitis.
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:56 PM
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handshakes are great for that very first meeting as in, approaching for the first time. When I meet her for a date, I always get that hug in; in the very begining.
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:45 PM
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girl I am talking to last night: "HEY! I noticed you drive a clutch, you should teach me sometime!" Just after I put a brand new clutch in my STI. me: "Yeaaaaahhhhh, no"
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:35 PM
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Not at all, strait and simple too the point with out the BS in between. You dont have much invested in the convo, so if it doesnt work, you wont look bad/desperate.
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:02 AM
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Not at all, which is the terrible part. I'm slowly coaching him on 1. not to get drunk 2. don't act like an idiot.
/r/seduction02/11/14 03:00 PM
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I know a buddy who frequents the same bar I do. His main job, that he does very well is look like an idiot. He makes me look very well when we hang out with people. Best wing man ever.
/r/seduction02/11/14 03:30 AM
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Kansas City!
/r/seduction02/11/14 02:32 AM
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Kansas City
/r/seduction02/11/14 02:32 AM
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This is the important part of becoming an adult with these kind of things. Educate yourself first and ask your partner if she has any history. IMO: It's not as bad getting rejected/turning down a person who has something, versus finding out you have it the next day.
/r/seduction01/11/14 07:01 PM
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Getting that first kiss right 2. Closing 3. Keeping her interested.
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:12 AM
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Fucked up sooo much on #4 sooo much in the past.
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:03 AM
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Make a quick approach and be like "hey (super cute girl you like), (Insert your line here)...then quickly introduce yourself to her friend, dont ignore her friend.
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:59 AM
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Was at a club dancing with a girl, her friend came over pulled her away and said I can only dance with her if I buy her a drink. I respectfully declined her offer by dancing with the girl next to them
/r/seduction19/10/14 02:58 PM
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See how responsive she is. Put your hand on her leg, her hand, over the shoulder. If she responds, then she will be very easy to open further. Best thing about these are its not like your going for the kiss instantly and making stuff awkward. I get nervous a lot too, and this works for me.
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:25 AM
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Any one here use ZUM soap and body spray? I use the cedar one, with cedar smelling essential oils i put on my wrist and neck. Have gotten raving reviews on how nice I smell. What isnt more manly than a guy who smells like fresh cut wood?
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:29 PM
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I was dancing with a girl at a night club, having a fantastic time. Her friend pulled her away and said you can only dance with her if I buy her drinks. I left immediately. But guess who found their way back. Her friend was a bitch!
/r/seduction04/10/14 10:18 PM
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go with that. I wore a toga last year to a college party (real original, i know) but I started lifting a year ago and had my abs poking out of the costume. It wasnt even fair. They stood no chance.
/r/seduction17/09/14 04:53 AM
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This is what is keeping me current relationship so awesome! We keep the texting to the minimum.
/r/seduction14/09/14 01:32 PM
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"How to hook up with endless amounts of women"?! just lower your standards
/r/seduction26/08/14 11:51 PM
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Just like animals, they are just as shy as you.
/r/seduction20/07/14 08:04 PM
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Because i want to meet new people and I have the confidence to do so.
/r/seduction20/07/14 08:02 PM
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Yeah, I wish I knew this a year ago. Shit was I dumb. Met an awesome girl off tinder, hung out with friends. Later in the night friends ask us where we are going, "Back to her place" we said, then she said to her friends, but we aren't going to have sex. Couldn't of been more obvious Yeah, I didnt get it at the time. That was the last time she talked to me. Blew it!
/r/seduction19/07/14 12:45 AM
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Very plausible. I wouldn't wear a suit to hang out with the hipster girls that I know, same as I wouldn't wear my hipster clothes when I hang out with my colleagues who are professionals. I feel like a girl could get intimidated if you day game her in a suit while she is in a tank top and shorts, while if a girl was dressed up in a dress and you approach her in your workout/lounge clothes she might not take you as serious. (Just my thoughts, not credible by any means). If it is the first time yo…
/r/seduction11/07/14 11:09 PM
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I go out solo a bunch. When ever I get asked if I am by myself I always say hell yeah I am. Its awesome. And their responses are usually like, damn you are awesome or you have some huge balls, and I own that shit.
/r/seduction05/07/14 10:52 PM
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No one ever remembers being 12 and calling your crush and staying up till 3? im 24 btw. did this regularly.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:38 AM
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Clearing it up. as of 12:00 AM its my birthday. I have plans with my friends tomorrow for my real bday party. I was making myself a nice dinner tonight and thought I would have her over. But I am pretty drunk so I am going to stop replying. Cheeeeers.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:31 AM
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thank you. Its what I want to hear
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:25 AM
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I am used to being a lone, I like it. But when you find a super attractive girl which you share every common interest with and this happens. Well shit.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:17 AM
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Edit: I am also kinda drunk right now, so that could be why. It just seemed strange I invited her over for my birthday, as she was the only person I wanted to see, and she dipped out on that evening.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:02 AM
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She texted thanks for the dinner, and i told her it was my pleasure. That was it. Im waiting for her to text/make the next move. After ditching me 30 min after I make an amazing dinner for us, kind of left me in the dumps.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:02 AM
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yeah, MFA can be a little iffy sometimes. But what ever you wear, wear it proud, walk tall. Being a man is about confidence. Own that shit!
/r/seduction02/06/14 11:33 AM
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Dress nice. No 18 year old out there dresses nice.
/r/seduction01/06/14 09:47 PM
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Prepare for your accent to make every girl wet over here.
/r/seduction24/05/14 08:06 PM
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all mine are rich bitches, ghetto hoes and hookers. Where are the cute hipster girls? Damn you Kansas City
/r/seduction02/05/14 03:34 AM
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I wouldn't rely on it by your only means of dating, but it does help during the winter months and during the work week. Keep practicing social interaction outside, approaching every one and chatting, this will help immensely if you do happen to meet up. Worked for me. Have fun and good luck! Source. Current girl I am talking too is from Okcupid even though I have met plenty of girls outside that site.
/r/seduction18/04/14 07:29 PM
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I do exactly this and it makes me the most noticeable guy on the dance floor. I always try to get people to join in and usually after half an hour the whole dance floor is doing what I am doing. Biggest power move on the dance floor!
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:21 PM
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good!
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:56 PM
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Save all that energy for other girls.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:17 PM
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you and me both brotha
/r/seduction12/03/14 02:04 AM
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messaging them is the easy part. Getting shitty replies from girls who dont care at all and responding back to that. Now thats the hard part
/r/seduction09/03/14 09:15 PM
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Amen. Tomorrow i am doing this
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:29 AM
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I would just be like "Hey! would you like to grab some coffee at said place(hopefully not starbucks) and study for the test coming up?!" Im sure she will love it. If she is giving you the eyes, she will be open to any ideas you have to get to know each other.
/r/seduction25/02/14 03:01 AM
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ask her to study sometime! DUH! plenty of chances to escalate studying 1v1.
/r/seduction25/02/14 02:09 AM
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Try not to be as available/needy. Show her you are busy. Make plans and tell her it will only work for that night. Girls dont like guys that seem easy and clingy. well atleast the girls that i have talked to seem that way lol
/r/seduction25/02/14 02:07 AM
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Dont be a home wrecker. How would you feel if your SO was doing the same thing? Tell her your feelings, but be patient. Good things can always wait.
/r/seduction24/02/14 12:18 AM
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When she gets really drunk her whole personality changes and she starts to talk with an irish accent. She also beleives in wicken/witchcraft stuff. Shes super cool and we have a blast together, but that part ill never understand lol
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:04 PM
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Ive maintained mine for half a year now. We are pretty much 60% friends and 40% benefits and its just where i like it. the way I keep her that way and lost my other one is DONT TALK TO HER ALL THE TIME! and also heavily communicate. when this girl and i first started hanging out we were just friends untill we became attracted for eachother. We had clear communiction that we both "Arent eachothers type for dating" just pure physical friend ship and neither of us want to be in a relationship. best…
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:24 PM
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yes, just the tip though and see how she likes it.
/r/seduction02/02/14 05:24 AM
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Getting rediculous is my thing. Usually if i am by myself and I see a bunch of cute girls (may not work all the time) but i usually start twerking on them and booty bump their group. its pretty funny. My to go to, to get the club riled up is jump in the air fist pumping doing crazy dances with the biggest fucking smile on your face. Trust me people will follow and see you as a leader. never fails
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:00 AM
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this
/r/seduction30/01/14 04:06 PM
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give it time man. Like bill nye the professional guy said above, text her in two weeks and don't make it sound like you care/need anything. I remember when I met my FWB, she was attracted to me and sent me those pictures/texts n stuff. But I could care less. I saw her at a party at my alma mater just a couple months after i graduated. She was eyin me and everything, but I was going to hang out with the guys, i left, she followed and asked where I was going. I told her I was trying to get laid. L…
/r/seduction30/01/14 02:07 PM
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How much would it hurt your chances though? I know if I was at a place and saw a girl smiling all the time vs. a girl who had a flat smile. I would go towards that smiling girl every time. You made do it, but USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE! make her smile!!! :D
/r/seduction29/01/14 10:06 PM
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Actually got complimented on this today by a pretty little lady. said it was the best pick up shes heard. and im sure shes seen a lot Saw her profile, and listed off the interests that ingruige me: "you like to cook, work out, study business, etc......... Where do I sign up?
/r/seduction29/01/14 05:50 PM
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It happened to me the other day. We talked and hit it off, her BF rolled up and I politely gave him my bar stool as there were none left, when I left I asked for her number and her BF's number. Just because you didn't pick up the girl doesnt mean you cant make friends out of it! Side note: Im also new to where i live, so im looking to make friends more than just to bang a random girl.
/r/seduction29/01/14 01:48 PM
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I rely on a crutch, when im at my craziest at bars n such, its most likely because I have had a few drinks. Never stops me from closing or anything, just gets the juices flowing. I have a good sober game, im just more reserved and held back. My tip is just to be determined when you first go out. You have a goal. Stick to it. Eye out the place/bar, and know how this place flows before you go out. The place I went to has a lot of grinding/close person dancing. Right up my alley. Think of some thin…
/r/seduction28/01/14 05:13 AM
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