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Digging it and will definitely listen to the whole album. Might I suggest others add songs they find meaning in? Here's one on my divorce playlist: Devotion to a dream
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/26 03:32 AM
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https://g.co/gemini/share/707c39ad12d1
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/26 08:19 PM
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This video sums it up completely:One thing a narcissist will always do in your absence
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 10:18 PM
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Try copy and pasting your post into Google Gemini? here
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 10:07 PM
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https://youtu.be/ii9M6P05w1g?si=7ZLT1zZ7aVAqTUiw
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 05:47 PM
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Another good book: Rebuilding : when your relationship ends / Bruce Fisher, EDD, Robert Alberti, PHD ; [foreword by Virginia M. Satir]. If you have Spotify premium, this book and No More Mr. Nice Guy are on there.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 10:48 AM
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The drinking is definitely making it worse, at least I know it does for me. You need an extended break. Start with at least a month, or as long as you can handle or choose to justify. That break will enable you to detox, both from alcohol and the emotions you're holding in and numbing by drinking. Likewise, an extended break will enable you to heal your sleeping, which is being affected by alcohol, which will also help heal you mentally, physically, and emotionally. Of course, abstaining will he…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 10:44 AM
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Thanks. Nothing is stopping me from filing, other than the desire to continue being peaceful and to not have anything to do with her at all. Drama, chaos, and fighting are her lifeblood, so to a certain degree, as long as I continue to have my children 50% of the time, I'll see how long I can go without having to receive a text or email from her.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 07:01 PM
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I'm feeling as well as can be expected. I'm over three years since becoming aware that my wife is a severely personality disordered, morally bankrupt, pathological liar, manipulative piece of trash. I found this out during her psychotic year of 2022, so while I was processing and dealing with that betrayal and realization that my entire relationship with her has been a lie, I was also dealing with her psychotic behavior and trying to help her / protect my children (emotionally, physically, finan…
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 06:58 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:18 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:18 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:17 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:17 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:17 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:17 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:17 PM
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Just an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1kvwrxa/update_on_protective_order_and_false_domestic/
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:16 PM
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I had ChatGPT respond: This isn’t inane at all—it’s actually a really thoughtful and nuanced question that a lot of people silently grapple with, especially in the overlapping spaces of dating, divorce, and emotional communication. Yes, for many divorced men—particularly those who’ve been through contentious or legally intense breakups—there is a heightened awareness of what gets put in writing. Texts, emails, DMs—all of it can be screenshotted, forwarded, subpoenaed. This can make them more cau…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 04:24 AM
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Did you have to prove infidelity? Was the divorce completely contested? What about child custody?
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/25 07:18 PM
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My playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2a15Cf4qBiSnjjtuv3ufCC?si=z9IxZFNIRouUJnDHLmJetg&pi=gE7i_MU7QYmla
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 11:43 AM
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You don't want your kids stopping by whenever they want? Do you realize how much of an asshole that statement makes you sound?
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 12:17 AM
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Right, but you need to ask the police, as that is likely only an emergency protection order for three days. If you want more time for her no contact order, you'll need to petition for a preliminary protective order. What state did this assault and battery occur?
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 07:01 PM
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After she was arrested, an emergency protective order was issued? Are you going to petition for a preliminary protective order? This will give you about 2 weeks more of no contact with her, then you could petition for a full protective order of up to 2 years.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 06:39 PM
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She took out half our brokerage account and left me the other half, and her lawyer informed me, so I've got about $120k cushion. My lawyer is taking this in order, criminal charge, protective order, then divorce. I've only paid him for the first two ($5000 retainer so far, but will probably be more at $430 an hour).
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 03:03 PM
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That's what her plan was for sure, and I am absolutely fighting it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 12:41 AM
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Lawyer hired. Same lawyer for criminal charge, protection order, and divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 12:34 AM
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So much more to this nightmare story. In 2021, she took a new job even though she was doing fine at her old job for 10 years making $200k+. She wound up doing terribly at it (security cleared staffing) because she lied on her resume to get the job. This triggered a narcissistic collapse, which led to a psychotic breakdown that lasted for a year where she isolated, was paranoid/delusional ("I'm going to prison! We're going to lose the house, " they're" going to take the kids"). During the first a…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 12:32 AM
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My situation is that she earns way more, and I was the stay at home dad when daughter was 1 (2014 - 2020). I'm back working, but make about 1/3 of what wife does. Her lawyer sent her a proposed settlement agreement where she was paying me $3500 a month spousal support for 3 years, $2500 a month for 3 years, $1500 a month for 2 years, PLUS child support, even with 50/50. She didn't like those numbers, so she never provided that proposed settlement agreement, and on 2/12/25, she took her shot at t…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 12:06 AM
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Misdemeanor, first offense. She has an audio recording where she states "he hit me! He pushed me!", to which I reply, "No, I didn't".
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 11:56 PM
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Did you have kids? In my situation, my wife is "allowing" me to see the kids and they're not listed on the preliminary protective order.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 11:50 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/share/r/166LPBG1iT/
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 11:44 PM
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Any update?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 12:31 AM
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Any update from the original poster?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 12:17 AM
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How did your situation turn out regarding the restraining order?
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/25 11:55 PM
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Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends https://g.co/kgs/PrqDhpJ
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 02:43 PM
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See you there!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 12:35 PM
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Devotion to a dream https://youtu.be/sQEKkxZYQnc?si=uEmNmEORXAEn_Yoi
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 10:19 PM
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