Book recommendations?

Stockmeifimwrong · 2025-02-05T15:21:19+00:00

Becoming supernatural Joe dispenza

Popular-Car-9569 · 2025-02-05T14:23:17+00:00

The Bible. Even if you aren't religious it is a blueprint for a successful life. Has solid advice for every area of your life including finding a quality partner. I'd disregard everything else.

The only other thing you need is to figure out your sleep, nutrition and gym. All guys who fail after divorce have one thing in common - they do not lift heavy things and do not take care of themselves.

Greedy-Air-9292 · 2025-02-05T02:22:53+00:00

Hope you don’t have a daughter.

probebeta · 2025-02-04T23:24:16+00:00

I'd say read a variety of what you heard in these comments and take something out of each one of them. I find stoic wisdom to be amazing but doesn't always serve YOU, at least not right at this moment. Similarly, you can read some pretty controversial stuff and that doesn't serve you either. It's best to stick somewhere around the middle.

Squidgy68 · 2025-02-04T22:20:03+00:00

Don't get stuck in the loop of reading loads of books but never acting on any of the stuff you learn apparently it's a thing Men do like you tell yourself I will just read this again or I just need to learn abit more it's a way of hiding away from rejection, It's a chapter in one of these books can't remember which one it might be Models by Mark Mansoon.

Squidgy68 · 2025-02-04T22:16:00+00:00

The Value of Others by Orion Taraban.

The Chimp Paradox by Prof Steve Peters

No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover

Dating Essentials for Men by Dr Robert Glover

The four thoughts that F*ck you up by Daniel Fryer.

OkAnalysis7427 · 2025-02-04T14:43:07+00:00

Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends https://g.co/kgs/PrqDhpJ

Ok_Builder_3285 · 2025-02-04T13:56:38+00:00

You can read all you want, but good luck finding single women to actually interact with.

I've read plenty of the post-divorce books. I've never come across one that was actually helpful.

For example, Models gets mentioned a lot and is highly recommended by a lot of people. It contains sage advice like 'you should only date women who are interested in dating you.' Cool, that's a population of zero.

Helpful-Paramedic463 · 2025-02-04T13:25:57+00:00

I don't have a book recommendation but I do have a podcast I think you'd like. It's called Dr. Pysch Mom. It's free and each episode is maybe 20 minutes. This lady knows her shit, talks like a dude, and drops some of the best knowledge bombs you can get. She talks about post divorce dating, whole bunch of good stuff. I listen to new episodes on the way to work and on the way home.

ExaminationKlutzy194 · 2025-02-04T10:45:54+00:00

The Unplugged Alpha, 2nd edition by Richard Cooper.

This should complement very well with the gatekeeper and tactical guide to women books.

Flawed_Cleric · 2025-02-04T08:55:59+00:00

Going through a divorce now. I’ve been laser focused on keeping my Peace. Never knew how valuable it was to me until it was wildly disrupted. I picked up reading as an escape from her chaos and I had no idea id love it so much, all she wants to do is fight. First book I read was ‘No-nonsense Buddhism for beginners’ by Noah Rashets. I’m not religious at all but this book helped get me started on my journey. The next book I read was ‘The Alchemist’ by Paulo Coelho, that was just for fun. Just finished ‘A New Earth’ by Eckhart Tolle because my STBX said I had an ego problem but after reading that book it turns out she’s the one with the ego problem. Girl had me convinced it was me this whole time😅. That book was a tough read in the beginning but got better by the end. I’m currently reading ‘The let them theory’ by Mel Robbins. I haven’t made it far into this one yet but so far it sounds like most of what I’m reading you can get from her interviews on YouTube. On deck after that is ‘The power of now.’ Another Tolle book. Once this divorce is final I’m going to take the next year or so off from women and focus on being at peace. I think it will be better for me, my kids and my financial situation moving forward. Good luck finding what you’re after.

Gattsama · 2025-02-04T08:45:09+00:00

"No more Mr Nice guy" by Robert Glover

"Models" by Mark Manson

Also Stoic philosophy

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