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False AccusationOldEgalitarianMRA/r/MensRights01/06/22 07:26 PM
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The divorce rate is about 50% for first marriages. So your chances of a long term relationship working out is 33%. Quite a risky life plan.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 05:31 AM
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Statistics say women are working more than they used to 60 years ago and men are working less than they used to with the labor participation rate for men at a low. From Google AI: In 2022, 68% of the US male civilian population participated in the job market. The labor force participation rate for men has been falling for more than 50 years, especially among Black men. The decline has accelerated since the Great Recession, largely due to the start of retirement by baby boomers. Here are some oth…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:47 AM
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/r/MensRights15/02/24 09:49 PM
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Florida is one of the only States that extends parental rights to unwed fathers and only since 2023. Now unwed fathers have the right to rebuttable default 50/50 custody but only in Florida.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 09:27 PM
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I copied it again and here it is. It's working for me. https://law.yale.edu/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/Intellectual\_Life/Stevenson\_ParadoxDecliningFemaleHappiness\_Dec08.pdf
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:43 AM
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Men are happier than women in absolute and relative terms reversing the ratios in the 1970's. Men are working less and women working more. None of my 30 year old nieces can stay home with their children. It's culturally taboo due to feminisms teachings. By many objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the past 35 years, yet we show that measures of subjective well‐being indicate that women’s happiness has declined both absolutely and relative to men. The para…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 04:59 PM
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Something similar happened to me. I was in the Family Law attorneys office first thing in the morning, filed exparte and had full custody by the afternoon. The judge is trying to tell you something by being annoyed. Listen he has a lot of discretion.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:59 AM
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And remember. The biggest victim of this fight will be your child. I had to give up 50/50 because the ongoing fighting was affecting him negatively.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:07 AM
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Don't miss any more court dates like your relationship with your son depends upon it. That's the way the judge sees it.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 12:23 AM
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And 100 years later, with feminist victory and destruction of the nuclear family and widespread single mother homes, men have fought for and won rebuttable default 50/50 custody of children born out of wedlock in Florida. Unprecedented rights for unwed fathers. Probably passed because of all the social trouble caused by 40% of boys raised by single mothers. Ref
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:59 PM
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Give up on the idea of having children. It was the worse decision of my life. He's alienated, I lost my job, my savings and had a nervous breakdown. And I had 50/50. It's never ending torture. My friends who never had children are very happy.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 11:02 PM
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And the fact that British feminists are holding off a misogyny law because they fear they will no longer be able to spread their misandry and demonize men. It's gotten them this far.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:36 AM
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Desi Arnez refused to have Ricky Ricardo portrayed as a dufus in "I Love Lucy". It goes back to the 1950's tv.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 01:18 AM
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I'm old and lived through the changes of the 1960's and 1970's and can attest you are correct. Also single motherhood was encouraged since the 1970's as it is now. Even TV got involved normalizing single mother with the show "One Day at a Time" beginning with her packing her bags and jumping for joy encouraging divorce and glamorizing single motherhood. I raised my son solo for 3 years and there is nothing glamorous about being a single parent. Tell us more of the history please.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:26 PM
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I went through this. Unless she can prove your an unfit father, you'll win in court. As far as custody goes, two years after his mom moved my son missed her so moved down with her anyway.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 05:27 AM
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I ran through 300k, lost my house, my sanity and my job. But years later I have a great relationship with my son and that's what matters. Good luck.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 03:42 AM
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The whole point of 50/50 is to keep things similar for the children. If you put that clause in then it's a useless agreement. My ex had to take me to court and prove it was better for our son for her to move. She lost, twice.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 11:48 PM
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“Dante is quoted as saying, 'The hottest places in Hell are reserved for those who, in a period of moral crisis, maintain their neutrality. Not confronting hate is condoning hate. Men are suffering suicide rates are high.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 06:09 PM
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The only reason I got married a second time was I wanted children and unwed fathers have few rights. But now in Florida full 50/50 equal shared custody has been extended to unwed fathers so there really is no reason to marry in Florida at least.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 05:52 PM
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People that use the term mansplaining find thinking about reasons hard.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 03:48 AM
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It's just a statistical fact. Why is another question. The authors of the study proposed that undervaluing the relationship of fathers with their children was the main cause.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 03:16 AM
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The laws go state by state. In most states unmarried fathers have few rights. In Florida just this past June they passed 50/50 equal shared parenting for unwed parents. I bet the jurisdiction is based on where the baby is born. Be careful she might put it up for adoption without your knowledge. It happens a lot,
/r/MensRights02/11/23 03:07 PM
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It is not just in Japan that suicide skyrockets after divorce mainly thought due to disruption of the child/parent bond. Suicide in men rises 8 times after divorce. For women it doesn't change. Reference After adoption of shared custody suicide rates for men go down. Reference
/r/MensRights02/11/23 03:03 AM
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It is not that dissimilar to what we have in the US. The standard custody is 2 weekends a month and dinner one night a week. We are fighting against that as it interferes with a strong relationship between children and their fathers. Research is clear that both parents are important especially after divorce. We advocate for default 50/50 equal shared parenting.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 02:59 AM
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With all this it is no surprise that the suicide rate for divorcing men is 8 times non divorcing men while women's suicide rates don't change after divorce. Divorce is a life ruining experience for men.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 07:03 PM
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The average length of a marriage in the US is 8.2 years. Reference In the most modern alimony reform in Florida alimony doesn't even kick in until 3 years of marriage. Also, women are working more than ever before and earning more money. At the same time men are taking more paternity leave and taking time off from work for child care activities. While we wait for alimony and child support to die, legislation like in Florida is helping.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 06:09 PM
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In a Gadda Da Vida Baby I saw them live in a small bar with a huge PA system. It was great.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 02:39 AM
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That's the truth. Most are older women are divorced with grown kids and a house and receive hefty alimony payments. The ones I went out with were not very nice. As fun as grandma's can be I suppose. Younger women are thrilled if you have a house.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 01:06 AM
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I'm a little older and I know two women who are divorced. We are all nearing retirement and they have nothing saved. No real estate owned. They have to work and will have to live in low cost housing or a nursing home when they get older. The divorce revolution is hard on those who don't have a career and save for retirement. Those women thought they could rely on a relationship. I only know one older divorced guy and he just bought a nice house so he has resources. He's an electrician.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 11:38 PM
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The Men's Rights Movement is primarily a political movement. We need to identify politicians that support our issues and vote for them if we want to succeed.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 10:34 PM
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Dante said "The hottest places in Hell are reserved for those who, in a period of moral crisis, maintain their neutrality." It is wrong to discriminate against women or men just based on their sex or stereotypes you might have about them.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 09:19 PM
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This being the internet we have a big problem confusing online activity from real life activity. I don't deal with online activity because it's all made up and false just to rile people up.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 08:50 PM
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That was great. I think this song most closely captures the theme of the Men's Rights Movement than any other song I've heard. I like the song too.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 08:33 PM
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Men are just as likely to stab you in the back as women in the workplace. Men and women can equally be assholes at work. It is a tired old stereotype that women are more gossipy or whatever. Men and women are pretty interchangeable in most jobs. What you're referring to is hiring practice based on sexist assumptions like you quoted. Firstly it is illegal to discriminate based on sex. So those bigots who think women are lesser cannot act without consequences. Women are hired in great numbers thes…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 08:02 PM
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I don't think any politicians are sincere. And you can only judge their stances based on their actions. One thing I can say for DeSantis is that he's not afraid to act on his convictions and I like that in a politician. And one of his main convictions is in the family which I wholly endorse. I think think that's why he supported 50/50 custody. It maintains a sort of family order. I'm not really endorsing a candidate but am trying to highlight men's issues in the election that is only 1 year away…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 07:22 PM
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Men consuming women's social media does produce a terrible narrative about women. Just like judging all men from some of the more extreme posts on r/MRA would lead you to believe. I stay to men's rights issues and stay away from reading any social media other than articles posted here that have references.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 07:07 PM
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I think it's really smart of Haley to be a "girl power" candidate as there are many girl power female republican voters. I think that's why she is doing better in the polls. I bet she beats out DeSantis to go head to head with Trump. DeSantis has been stagnant in the polls.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 07:01 PM
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Voting is the most basic kind of activism. Be the change you want to make. Do just one act of anonymous activism. Vote.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 06:07 PM
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And you would think their standards would relax but no, they get worse as they get older. And less women and men are dating as you get older so dating becomes more difficult. I have a single female friend my age, 60's, attractive for her age and active, and she is having no problems dating.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 04:31 PM
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There are the three L's of divorce. Get a lawyer, get a lawyer, get a lawyer. It's a complicated game and you could very well end up in jail. Get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 04:19 AM
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I've been telling MRA's to use surrogacy for 20 years and few have. I only ever heard of two. Women are turning to it just to not have pregnancy interfere with their career. It costs 150K. About as expensive as a divorce and custody fight. But you're guaranteed to win. Amber Heard recently had a baby by surrogacy. And as the range of fertility options open to clients has diversified, so have their requests. Now, a growing number of women are coming to Sahakian for “social” surrogacy: they want t…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 12:12 AM
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The most important reason to be with a woman is to make a family. Have children. Porn can't replace that. It's just that society has removed children from men's lives routinely for the last 75 years since no fault divorce. Men now see real women as just a source of eventually boring repetitive sex. A lot of married guys look at porn.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 11:03 PM
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And there is always "creep".
/r/MensRights30/10/23 07:37 PM
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Feminisms greatest trick was fooling women into believing work was fun and fulfilling. Work is work. That's why they pay you for it and the harder the job the more they pay. "Women shouldn't have the choice to stay home or too many women would make it." -Simone de Beauvoir, famous feminist philosopher.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 11:45 PM
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An estimated 20 million Americans or 8% of the population are self reported victims of false accusations. In real life they are very common.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 06:12 PM
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I'm talking about her picking up the phone, in anger, during a fight and calling the cops and saying you threatened her or something. They will then incarcerate you, the dominant aggressor by dint of your larger size, and you will have to stay until you see a judge the next morning or Monday if you have bad luck. Then you will have a restraining order. Even if the house belongs to you you will not be allowed home. Or to talk to your soon to be ex. This happened to me. My ex girlfriend was fighti…
/r/MensRights29/10/23 06:04 PM
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Co-habitation increases your risk greatly. If a woman has a history of living with you for a period of time she can fabricate coercive control which could be anything.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 03:44 AM
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It will be used to prove you are a predator who set up his house as a trap so his rape can be perceived to be given but is actually given under duress. Coerced consent. It means more time in jail if you're convicted.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 11:06 PM
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If your co-habituating with a woman you are one false accusation from losing your home and spending time in a cell.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 10:30 PM
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Years ago I realized that the feminist train moves fast and they like to catch those that are not yet caught up with the times in scandals like #metoo that I needed to keep up with the times. So I would read men's sites like this. But here I can actually make a difference.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 10:00 PM
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And 4% think we are domestic terrorists.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 05:57 PM
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All children have the right to both a father and a mother. At what point does denying a child of a loving parent become child abuse?
/r/MensRights27/10/23 05:27 PM
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PTSD and I've tried to get rid of it but it persists. That's what drives men to give up on marriage and relationships, how damaging they can be.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 10:39 PM
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What is the difference between video games and chess? In chess we segregate the sexes, for what reason I don't know. But maybe women would like a less competitive female gaming space. I don't care. I suspect this is a way to kick men out of gaming thus destroying the genre.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 09:29 PM
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Colleges are becoming finishing schools for girls.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 08:36 PM
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Have a child in Florida where you can probably get 50/50 custody or better yet use a surrogate.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 08:12 PM
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Pretty typical. The abuse becomes severe when you try to leave.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 04:05 AM
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The best thing I ever did was have my son. Second best is taking care of my elderly mother. There is nothing as fulfilling as family. Consider adopting or using a surrogate. Men have to open their mind. Marriage is not the only way to have children.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 05:51 PM
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"They will continue to (discriminate illegally) until they are enjoined from doing so." These people will have to be taken to court to stop their reverse discrimination because they are real believers that equality of outcomes is achievable.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:47 PM
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Parental alienation is child abuse. She had to abuse this child 3 times before the judge stepped in to stop the child abuse. It will probably continue as, like my ex wife, these alienators, men and women, are delusional and feel their hatred of the other parent is more important than the welfare of their children.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 07:48 PM
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This was published in 2016. Notice no outrage. This just confirmed to feminists things in education of boys was working as planned.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 03:21 PM
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After hearing stories like yours many men have decided to avoid entanglements altogether as, you are right, it could happen to anyone. btw: I get those messages from fake female's saying "hi" not infrequently. Your ex is a psycho.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 06:43 PM
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She admits her sought after mate her own age is dating 21 year olds. So these hard driving career women are going to go for farmers. lol.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 11:55 PM
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Women are by far the greater perpetrators of physical and emotional child abuse.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 06:13 PM
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Paternity testing during pregnancy is done on a peripheral blood sample from the mom. It it totally safe. Circulating fetal cells are tested against a swab from the putative fathers cheek. It can be done at 7 weeks gestation and costs a few hundred dollars. Reference
/r/MensRights21/10/23 02:54 AM
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He is her step father. Biology is based on evidence. He has a relationship with her that is very much closer than many biological fathers, I bet. But it's important to stop blurring the distinction between grand fathers, step fathers, father figures and all the others feminists want to replace biological fathers with.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 07:02 PM
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Parents have the right to control their children's medical privacy. It would also be unwise to argue that a fetus, available for abortion, has privacy rights, if you are a feminist. It argues against abortion. Personally I'm pro-choice.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 06:42 PM
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In the UK a man was driven off a train because he was reading this site and a woman on the train accused him of misogyny, a new speech code it the UK. If they could make any anti-feminist speech illegal they will. That's why it's relevant to this sub.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 06:31 PM
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There is a test that costs a few hundred dollars and can be done very early in pregnancy on mom's blood test at 7 weeks gestation. It takes a swab from the putative father and compares it to fetal cells circulating in moms blood. It is a true very accurate DNA paternity test. With a high paternity fraud and a punishment of possible prison for failure to pay 18 years of debt, this paternity test should be made mandatory in all pregnancies to verify the paternity of all children. It would allow th…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 05:10 PM
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So much disinformation about pre-nups. I try to post articles about divorces and how prenups help men going through divorce. Like Kevin Costner and Joe Jonas.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 05:08 PM
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Listening to your video I'm reminded that the pain that fathers feel for not seeing their alienated children is mirrored in the pain the alienated children feel for the missing part of their family.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 04:08 AM
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But if it was done in all pregnancies all she would have to fear is her own behavior. Which she knows quite well.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 03:44 AM
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The Nobel Prize for Economics was won by a woman this year that showed that the wage gap was due women's own choices and to child bearing. https://apnews.com/article/nobel-prize-economy-224c204c0cc20843636e5525d6a61673
/r/MensRights19/10/23 10:57 PM
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It would be against the privacy clause of the constitution. No surprise that the surveillance state of China is creating a database of all male DNA.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 10:52 PM
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Reverse the sexes. Would a woman feel it was emotionally traumatic to miss years of her child's life due to her ex husbands parental alienation? That happens all the time. Not only women are alienators. It's like having your arm removed without anesthesia. Fessing up on the other hand does help to heal wounds. A friend of mine found out he was a father at age 70 from a relationship over 30 years before. He was an automatic grandfather. Sadly he found out because child support finally found him a…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 10:26 PM
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You don't need to wait until it's a newborn. At 7 weeks gestation fetal cells are circulating in the mothers blood and it's a simple test to collect moms blood, a cheek swab from prospective dad and do a DNA test. Totally commercially available through the OB/GYN. A few hundred dollars. Many tests are required as part of prenatal screening. Establishing the father should be one of them.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 10:21 PM
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It may be that physical size is meant to compete for females in a hierarchy. These larger males also would be useful for fighting for resources with other human groups. As weapons became more important size would not be a necessity only for hunting.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 07:45 PM
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It seems like a trend in peer reviewed literature that women are and were very involved in hunting in hunter gatherer societies. Here is a peer reviewed article on current societies: Results Data were compiled from literature on sixty-three different foraging societies across the globe. These included nineteen different foraging societies from North America, six from South America, twelve from Africa, fifteen from Australia, five from Asia and six from the Oceanic region (Fig 1 & Table 1). Of th…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 06:54 PM
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These girls should have to go through sensitivity training classes about what harm false accusations do. Then they should be on a false accuser registry until they are 18.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 05:15 PM
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I don't have references but I think I read that about 10% of all babies have misattributed paternity. I think paternity testing should be part of all prenatal testing. It can be done on a blood sample from the mom at 7 weeks gestation and then, if the father doesn't want to be involved, women can make more informed decisions on whether she wants to bring the pregnancy to term and a lot of men would learn they are or are not parents, the truth.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 04:03 PM
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Women are working hard and long in academics and are smoking the boys. Women are just as capable as men. Whether they want to be is another question.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 04:28 AM
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I had 50/50 and paid 700/month for one child plus all medical etc. I wonder how many of the men with 50/50 paying a lot would choose to give up custody and save the money? Not any I bet. I know a guy who has to pay 700/month for a daughter he didn't learn about until she was in her mid thirties. He was an instant grandfather. He is thrilled as he never had other children.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:44 AM
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Link to the 8 times article: https://jech.bmj.com/content/57/12/993 And this link shows a graph of how once shared parenting laws are enacted male suicide rates fall. https://wol.iza.org/articles/do-joint-custody-laws-improve-family-well-being/long
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:12 AM
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Suicide is a real risk in a situation like yours. You need support. Reach out to your extended family. Financial support would help you as well. There is nothing wrong with asking for help funding a lawyer or something, I did. Suicide rises 8 times for men after divorce and doesn't change for women. They think it's custody issues that are driving part of the suicide epidemic. You can't help your child if you can't help yourself.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:03 PM
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This is great news and a radical change for unwed fathers. Thanks to the legislature and Gov Ron DiSantis for signing this legislation. The key to him winning his case was being involved. If single men want to take advantage of this law they need to be involved with the child from conception. Go to all the OB visits you can and be there at the birth, if the mother lets you. All you can do is show the court you tried. But maintain evidence of your involvement. Like people that see you taking care…
/r/MensRights18/10/23 04:42 PM
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I'm talking about co-parenting where the custody is shared 50/50. Men and women still work in these situations. What I'm saying is the stereotype that men cannot care for children and women are better at it needs to change.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 12:46 PM
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So using his counting method 50% of allegations of rape are probably false? That's what it looks like to me but you have to go to the end to find it. Very strange.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 12:08 AM
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https://www.currentaffairs.org/2022/09/why-we-should-abolish-the-family I don’t see where there are any great advantages to the nuclear family at this point.” Then they are not paying attention. This experiment in family destruction has been tried and, as predicted is failing millions of girls and especially boys who are being raised in fatherless homes in 30% of US house holds.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 11:57 PM
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The reason my conservative sister wanted her daughter to go to law school was because if she got divorced she wouldn't need to depend on her husband. This is a good reason IMO.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 11:32 PM
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I let feminists worry about educating girls. Boys need to be educated that they can raise babies themselves. Girls need to be educated that boys make just as good parents as girls.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 08:04 PM
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He owes her the 300K because he was slightly disrespectful.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 05:03 PM
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They want to label this behavior toxic when men do it but want to retain the right to do it themselves for payback. An incoherent way of thinking.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 03:53 AM
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Well, to be clear, they can get laid. Sex workers are a thing. IMO they want to be loved and that is a different thing. I once did a little research on Incel web sites and found a lot of depression and suicidal ideation.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 05:40 PM
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Women hit has much or more than men. They just don't hurt as much. Women are much more capable of intimidation in the form of threats of ending the relationship and taking (alienating) the children. Women use coercive control much more frequently.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 05:15 PM
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What about da menz!!!
/r/MensRights15/10/23 05:07 PM
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I think her plan was to move to the UK and then file for divorce and custody. Shared custody is rare in the UK. How rare it is hard to say. I searched but cannot find the numbers. It is definitely not a default 50/50 equal shared custody jurisdiction like Florida. If she had filed in England she could have pushed Joe Jonas out of his children's lives as so frequently happens.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:56 PM
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I raised my son 50/50 and they are doing every two weeks so it's equal. Believe me, the judge will make it equal if it's not already. He filed first. He filed in a 50/50 state. He'll do ok. I don't know what you mean that 50/50 means she's getting a better deal. I'm a fathers rights advocate stumping for 50/50. Edit: I looked it up, he's worth 50 million and she's worth 12 million. What matters is their income and that I don't know. I wouldn't be surprised if he has to pay her. I had full custod…
/r/MensRights14/10/23 07:37 PM
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She's a major star, I'm not sure who's worth more. I don't think child support will be an issue. She wanted to take the kids to England. He wouldn't know them. Now she has to stay in the US which was not her plan. I had 50/50 and it was when she wanted to move that things got serious in court. But in Florida it's default 50/50. Edit: I looked it up and they do have a pre-nup. Now that custody is settled divorce should be easy. Easy as root canal.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 07:31 PM
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In the US it is illegal to discriminate based on sex because it is wrong.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 05:16 PM
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How To Emotionally Support a Man Don't alienate his children from him by sharing custody.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 04:57 AM
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You are not alone. Up to 20 million Americans report being falsely accused of abuse. The witch hunt against men is leading to a lot of damaged people.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 01:00 AM
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These are non-scientists trying to talk away the science of Parental Alienation, a well known phenomenon in science for hundreds of years and acceptable in thousands of court cases every year. PA is a crime as it is child abuse. These are abusers trying to pursue their abuse on men who just want to have a relationship with their children. Their only evidence is "men bad, women good". Trial courts in English-speaking jurisdictions have been dealing with parents alienating their children from thei…
/r/MensRights13/10/23 06:13 PM
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Women earn significantly more than men in 16% of relationships. Men should not marry down, marrying up is the way to go. In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/MensRights13/10/23 04:48 PM
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In a survey in the US, 11% of men and 6% of women report being falsely accused. That comes out to 20 million Americans. https://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/#:\~:text=In%2062%25%20of%20cases%2C%20the,were%20reported%20to%20be%20females
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:07 AM
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I'm talking about what Israeli leaders are saying on TV, directly from their mouths and what US leaders are saying on TV, from their own mouths.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 01:59 PM
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I noticed that Israelis say "men, women and children were victims". The US press says "women and children were victims". It's pretty stark.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 04:27 AM
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They drive a stake in the heart of parental alienation deniers. That's all the feminists have with regard to parental alienation is to deny it happens. But as we see here thousands of cases of parental alienation are adjudicated every year and it's a long known problem. Trial courts in English-speaking jurisdictions have been dealing with parents alienating their children from their other parent for more than two hundred years (Lorandos, 2020a; Joshi, 2021). Despite the qualitative and quantitat…
/r/MensRights12/10/23 03:32 AM
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Usually step parent, grandparent, other relatives, then strangers.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 12:20 AM
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I think that breaking things is a form of threat of violence and is coercive control so abuse. Protect yourself. Don't lose self control. If your going to...leave. If your being abused just leave. If men left like women are doing, maybe we'd have a 75% divorce rate but at least men wouldn't be putting themselves in positions where they get falsely accused. 11% of men in the US report being falsely accused most frequently during divorce.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 06:11 PM
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For one she abused him by defaming him causing, according to the court, him to lose 18 million dollars or something. Public defamation is a form of emotional abuse frequently following false allegations. Like Amber did.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 06:00 PM
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There are many sources with this google search that say women commit more child abuse than men. Spanking is borderline. I think they mean convicted of serious emotional or physical child abuse. In the United States, more women than men commit child abuse. In 2021, there were 233,918 female perpetrators of child abuse, compared to 213,672 male perpetrators. Women are more likely to be convicted of physical abuse. A British study found that mothers were more likely than fathers to be responsible f…
/r/MensRights11/10/23 05:03 PM
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In public...for now.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:21 PM
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I think it's a crime and they define misogyny as anti-feminism. So, no freedom of speech, no freedom of thought.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 05:13 AM
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That's the best way to do it. Don't let yourself in for more abuse. Leave no forwarding address. Consider a restraining order if they stalk you.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 04:30 AM
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Addition to the reason for a false accusation: reading r/MensRights.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:42 AM
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Didn't we have a post about a woman who falsely accused an Uber driver to get out of paying 50 dollars? Edit: Additional reason for false accusation of rape: Reading r/MensRights in public. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1742pbi/a\_feminist\_assaulted\_me\_for\_using\_this\_subreddit/
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:36 AM
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And with 50/50 default custody men and women will be equally raising children even if they don't live together. Default 50/50 is a great answer to the so gender pay gap.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:13 AM
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I was looking for it and I thought it was earlier but I did find a case that might be the one I'm referencing: The year of our Lord 1140. The king [Conrad] besieged the city of the duke Welf of Bavaria, which was called Weinsberg, and accepted its surrender, having granted with royal magnanimity permission to the wives and other women found there that they might take with them whatever they could carry on their shoulders. Taking thought both for their loyalty for their husbands and the safety of…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 10:58 PM
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This is how ancient conflicts were settled. In one story a great General said all the men should stay in the city and be killed and all the women could leave with one possession, they're most important. The women carried their husbands on their backs. Seeing this the General let the men live. I guess our modern progressives have old world ways of doing things. Edit: modern talking heads
/r/MensRights09/10/23 04:22 AM
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I think you have your head on straight and that makes you far ahead of the game. Before you do anything else see an attorney and follow their advice. If your gut it telling you it may soon be over then believe it. I protected myself in my marriage and got 50/50 custody which was a good deal.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:00 AM
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Incel. ​ /s
/r/MensRights07/10/23 04:57 PM
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It is becoming more acceptable. Micheal Jackson had a child by surrogate and recently Amber Heard had a child by surrogate.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 08:34 PM
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Like female contraceptive pills? They are just as bad.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 07:15 PM
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We have undergone a 70 year experiment on the need for not simply visitation with a biological father but a frequent and meaningful relationship and the results are in. Crime is up. Single mother families are up and the children are not doing well. All of these bullshit social science studies justified this current state but the current state has boys dropping out of high school at record rates.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 06:36 PM
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It does seem like the way to go for men that don't want to get married but want kids. But still very few men use these services. I once calculated that about 1% of births are through artificial insemination. So women are much more likely to go the single mom route. Maybe if men weren't stigmatized more would use surrogates.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 12:56 PM
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Get a lawyer. Listen to the lawyer. If you can't afford a lawyer borrow money from family. You need to file for a court ordered visitation schedule. To do this go see a lawyer. One thing to keep in mind is that the one who files first has an advantage in family court. So start moving.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 01:10 AM
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I don't know too many men who get to see their kids that complain about child support. I have a friend who thought he never had children. Then in his seventies he was caught by child support services because he moved a lot. It turns out he got a woman pregnant 30 years before and she collected welfare and they've been looking for him ever since. He now has to pay 700/month forever to cover child support. However he's really happy. He now has a daughter at a time when he thought having children w…
/r/MensRights05/10/23 01:05 AM
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Surrogacy is legal in New York, and Circle Surrogacy is licensed to work with NY surrogates and intended parents! Surrogacy is a wonderful way for intended parents to grow their families, and for gestational surrogates to carry babies for those who can't do so on their own. This company advertises surrogacy for single men in some states. Conceptual Options Can a person have a baby without a partner? Yes. Many states in the U.S. allow a single person to be listed as the sole parent on a child’s b…
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:05 PM
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In your early thirties when you have a bank balance, savings, and a house. If you don't waste your money on dating and work hard for yourself and your future child or children you should be set by early thirties. You'll need a good nanny. I raised my son solo from 9 months until 3 years so can say it was very fun and fulfilling.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:47 PM
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It's like having your heart cut out without anesthesia. The trauma has lead to this vibrant men's rights movement. A lot of very damaged men who will not stop until there are changes and men can feel safe to be fathers again.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:31 PM
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If your wife gets bored and wants to move on you'll be an obstacle. She'll likely cut you out of the children's lives as happens to millions of men every year. Default 50/50 is only in a few states. In the rest if she doesn't want it she can say you both have high conflict and she will get full custody. No proof required. Like most men you can do everything right and still get screwed like a wife beater and child abuser without proof.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:28 PM
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How would you feel about paying child support for children that you cannot see and have been taught to hate you?
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:04 PM
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We live in a country where discrimination based on sex is illegal, period. Everyone has their reasons but the constitution makes it illegal. This is true mens activism. Men should also be applying for scholarships advertised for women. Men are less than 33% of college students. It's time for the discrimination to end.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 05:42 PM
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It's heartening that despite the judge trying to minimize her responsibility by accepting her testimony that her husband was a verbally abusive alcoholic he still held her responsible for some degree of malice as she shoved the blade into her husbands chest. First degree murder. That's the right judgement.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:58 PM
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Poring over data collected between 2016 and 2018 via the CDC’s National Violent Death Reporting System, the researchers found that males without known mental health issues who died by suicide were between 50% and 90% more likely to use a firearm and 20% more likely to have tested positive for alcohol postmortem compared to males with mental health issues who committed suicide. They were also 40% to 50% more likely to have been in a recent argument with a friend or loved one, 30% more likely to h…
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:44 AM
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Yeah, I was thinking most are kind of funny. Like having one dish, one fork, one knife, one spoon and expecting a girl to come over and make dinner. That's funny. I'm a little like that.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 01:22 AM
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Just like men are jailed for failure to pay child support, women should be jailed for parental alienation. Only when women face prison for not encouraging their children to have a loving father will they relent and share custody.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:35 AM
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It is child abuse and is dealt with as contempt of court. Just like men are jailed for not paying child support the extremely rare woman can be jailed for parental alienation, theoretically. Reference
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:29 AM
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It's called parental alienation and is a form of emotional child abuse. We talk about it as much as we can and stump for default 50/50 equal shared custody as the single best solution.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:25 AM
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Borrow money from family. That's what I did, but hire an attorney. For your daughters sake. The best you can afford.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:19 AM
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All of these fathers are playing the roles that the media says to be involved fathers. Wait until half get divorced and their now ex see's them as an impediment to getting into another relationship. Their hearts will be broken and the ranks of bitter men men avoiding marriage will grow. At least fathers back in the day didn't expect a relationship with their kids post divorce, which was rare.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:22 AM
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Paywall
/r/MensRights02/10/23 02:08 AM
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https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Triangle\_Shirtwaist\_Factory\_fire
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:15 AM
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Here is the iconic triangle building in NY famous for the fire there in 1911 in a mill. At approximately 4:40 p.m. on March 25, 1911, a savage fire breaks out at the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory in New York City. With doors to stairwells and exits locked, 146 garment workers perish, mostly young immigrant women, some of which leap from windows to their deaths.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 08:21 PM
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This is terrible. Australia had something like shared parenting since 2006. Is this what would happen if we pass default 50/50?
/r/MensRights30/09/23 05:23 AM
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Uber refund added to the possible reasons a woman might lie about rape.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:56 PM
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In the US we have a coalition to form a White House Council on Men and Boys supported by Warren Farrell https://whitehouseboysmen.org/
/r/MensRights28/09/23 05:28 PM
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I fought against parental alienation from when my son was less than a year and his mother kidnapped him. We shared 50/50 until he was 12 and she moved. He decided to move at age 14 with her. In order to do that he had to prove to her that he was on her team so he rejected me. This is all part of parental alienation. Since I was very educated about it I knew that any attempts to have a relationship with him would lead to his punishment. So I didn't talk to him for 3 years. He didn't call me and I…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:29 PM
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She see's men as subhuman predators. Nothing about women. Check out the antics of Cardi B with her drunk male patrons she robbed.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 02:48 PM
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Swedish Social Workers, they're just teen attracted. It's a gender I think. Women can't rape. Keep saying it. Women can't rape men.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:18 AM
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There is a lot of depression on Incel sites.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:11 AM
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The CDC also reports that virgins make up 12.3 percent of females and 14.3 percent of males ages 20 to 24. That number drops below 5 percent for both male and female virgins ages 25 to 29 and goes as low as 0.3 percent for virgins ages 40 to 44. Reference
/r/MensRights25/09/23 09:46 PM
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Unfettered female alcohol abuse is fueling the rape epidemic on campus. Maybe we shouldn't be celebrating either side drinking irresponsibly.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 07:22 PM
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Run don't walk before you get her pregnant.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 02:56 AM
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This was my experience.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 05:17 PM
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With divorce becoming more and more socially acceptable and family law reform is decreasing divorces bite, you don't see an increase in divorce. Still half the couples who marry stay married of their own choice. I think pair bonding in humans is something that evolved over hundreds of thousands if not millions of years. It's not going to end in 70 years. Having a family is fulfilling but being a doormat is unacceptable. That's why I work on the part at the beginning where he said...if we had leg…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 05:14 PM
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One gendered issue is child custody. Maybe attention to this issue would help males specifically. Men's suicide rates rise 8 times after divorce and women's doesn't change. Custody reform giving both parents meaningful relationships with their children is recommended by the authors as they theorize that the bond between men and their children has been underestimated. https://jech.bmj.com/content/57/12/993 We MRA's fight for rebuttable default 50/50 equal shared parenting after divorce. And there…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 04:41 PM
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Having travelled quite a lot and seeing how foreign men are treated in these countries I think it's a huge risk to move there. Here is an article on what can happen to expats in Thailand. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2008/aug/17/thailand.familyandrelationships Like in Thailand it's hard to own things and those sorts of safeguards make it hard for expats to live abroad in other countries.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 04:33 PM
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I agree. Can you explain why that is? The difference between liberal, left and progressive?
/r/MensRights24/09/23 03:55 PM
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Perhaps they are conflating the civilian casualties with military casualties. The feminist Wikipedia says that in modern conflicts around 2:1 to 3:1 civilian to combatant casualty rates are usual. Still, the civilians are probably 50:50 male female meaning all the combatants are men and men die more in war. I couldn't find any reference with actual numbers of male vs female civilian casualties of war. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Civilian\_casualty\_ratio
/r/MensRights23/09/23 09:31 PM
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All too often when we see a man having a problem with his children we don't think, oh, there's a parent who needs support. When a single mother is having a problem unless it's sever abuse we do all we can to help her. When we see a father who moves on maybe we should see a place with the possibility to heal a family that likely wants to stay together. I saw a thread above where a young woman says here father hasn't called her for two years. That means he wants a relationship. That's all you get.…
/r/MensRights23/09/23 05:59 PM
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Those fathers are not here. Here a lot of men who can't see their children come to ask advice and stump for things like 50/50 custody. But as an MRA I think we should better support fathers from an early age. Teaching boys that fatherhood is the best experience and most important responsibility they can have. Because we 50/50 custody men will be doing a lot of solo childcare, like I did.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 05:49 PM
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You asked the question "What can we do about bad fathers". This has been the mantra of feminists for 70 years. Now that it is clear the single mom revolution has serious problems men are being brought back into the equation. I answered the question"How can we make better fathers". Maybe that's what you meant.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 05:32 PM
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This is what I did and is the reason I got full custody. My ex had post partum depression but just up and left taking our son one day. I got custody the day I filed.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 05:00 PM
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I made a whole post on how we can raise boys to be better fathers. With the advent of default 50/50 we have to change the way we raise children. Fathers are important and boys should be raised to try to be good fathers. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/16mygwd/state\_of\_american\_fathers\_2023/
/r/MensRights23/09/23 04:20 PM
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Go to Florida where there is default 50/50 equal shared custody. Alimony doesn't kick in for three years. It's a pretty safe place to have a baby and if things don't work out share custody. This is what I did, but it wasn't default. But that's how I raised my son and I loved it. Would do it again in a heart beat. I have PTSD from my custody fight and I'll never be the same. Neither will you but therapy may help. Take a chance, it's 50/50 you'll stay married but it's 100% you'll be in your kids l…
/r/MensRights23/09/23 04:15 AM
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It is possible to do a blood test of the mother, find fetal cells and do a paternity test as early as 7 weeks gestation. It should be part of normal prenatal care. Also, if a woman doesn't have a bio dad willing to support her she can make her decision. Prenatal paternity tests can be performed as early as the 7th week of pregnancy. The tests can establish a DNA link to the child's biological father.The tests are considered non-medical procedures and most insurance companies will not cover the c…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 05:30 PM
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I had a conversation on here with a representative of the National Parents Organization sharedparenting.org and we both agreed, as feminist central, NY will be the last state to pass default 50/50. Right after California.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 11:34 PM
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By people that don't like men. To most everyone a hookup is a mutual use. But the problem is that hookups have become weaponized. Look at the Brand and Masterson cases. Part of the hookup culture in LA gone wrong. I wouldn't hookup with someone I wasn't getting to know these days. It could come back decades later to bite you.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 11:18 PM
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We are talking about 50/50 equal shared physical custody.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 06:32 PM
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They hid that pretty good. I guess you have to look at who funded the study. Here's a peer reviewed article documenting the changes up until 2008 showing a large increase in shared parenting. We begin by examining the trend in physical custody. Figure 1 shows significant change over time and demonstrates an acceleration in the trends documented in the earlier research. For example, Cancian and Meyer (1998) documented that between 1986 and 1993/1994, the share of cases awarded mother–sole custody…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 06:01 PM
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Where is your quotation from? The graph I linked was all fathers.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 05:46 PM
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I highlighted the area where they give a nod to the MRM in a positive way. The progress we've made toward 50/50 custody shows the MRM can be effective.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 05:14 PM
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Women used to get the vast majority of custody. Not so much anymore. Here is a state by state listing of what lawyers and other sources say are usual custody arrangements from 2018. https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:17 PM
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Women used to get the vast majority of custody. Not so much anymore. Here is a state by state listing of what lawyers and other sources say are usual custody arrangements from 2018. https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:12 PM
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In surveys 60% of men and 60% of women said they considered themselves caregivers. We need to change the stereotype.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 02:33 AM
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My 26 year old son asked me. I thought he was finally getting interested in a little culture. lol.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 12:43 AM
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I never think about the Roman Empire. I'm interested in Ancient History. I think about the Roman Republic 850-27 BCE. It is one of the main basis of the US constitution so if you want to know why we support the constitution it's because a civilization that lasted almost 900 years was based on it. Now I'm interested in pre agrarian civilizations like Gobekli Tepe the oldest known Temple 11K years old. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/gobekli-tepe-the-worlds-first-temple-83613665/ The Roman …
/r/MensRights20/09/23 05:49 PM
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But a lot of people bring that into their public opinion and I support that. Only the jury sees all the evidence and makes the decision. Until then, I don't think people should be punished in the public square.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 04:55 PM
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This is where online activism is important. Feminists know this and that's why they respond. More men should respond. If there is a way to link the post so those here who want to comment and have Facebook could do so, link it.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 04:49 PM
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They don't care. They would make a curfew for men right after work if they could get away with it. Work, come home. Then women would be safe to walk at night! Men are sub human to them.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:37 PM
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Helen Dodd, a professor of child psychology at Exeter Medical School, said: “This is a strong piece of research, showing the importance of parent involvement in children’s development. It is particularly interesting that they found that fathers’ and mothers’ involvement might be linked to different outcomes for children, with fathers’ involvement linked particularly to broad educational outcomes whereas mothers’ involvement was more closely linked to overall wellbeing, attention, mental health a…
/r/MensRights20/09/23 02:58 PM
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The citation at the top of this thread says that 39% of false accusers are men and 6% of victims of false accusations are women. 11% of the victims of false allegations are men. So false allegations of abuse, like other forms of DV are not gendered. Both genders to it in large numbers.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 01:41 PM
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They must also be misandric because 39% of the false accusers were found to be men and 11% accused were men but 6% of those falsely accused were women. False accusations is not a gendered issue. Both men and women are falsely accused at high numbers. Also look at the source. This is not a men's rights advocacy group. The respondents are unlikely to me men's rights activists like the female survey respondents are mainly feminists.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 12:32 PM
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And the victims of false accusations are piling up. An estimated 20 million Americans report being the victims of false accusations. Usually during divorce. https://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/#:\~:text=In%2062%25%20of%20cases%2C%20the,were%20reported%20to%20be%20females
/r/MensRights20/09/23 02:58 AM
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Anyone who doesn't fight for the removal of due process in the mission to maximize rape convictions and that means all accusations lead to convictions is "supporting rapists" to feminists. #believeallwomen You're dealing with an ideologue she's there to convert you or cancel you. She knows the truth. It just doesn't serve her purpose. Look at the survey yourself. Investigate the surveys that say that 3/4 of women are sexually assaulted and how the definitions are manipulated and make your own de…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:27 PM
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Threats to file false DV allegations is coercive control and is a form of emotional abuse. Document it and if it persists, leave. Tell it to the judge.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:09 PM
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We need to keep up the consciousness raising around boys elementary education, like feminists say, we need to help ourselves.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 09:14 PM
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How are you going to judge a false allegation. Proving a negative is very difficult. Hence the arguments back and forth.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 08:06 PM
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If you don't want to raise your kids post divorce, fine. But many men do and they need to learn basic caregiving. When I got full custody of my 9 month old son I had to do a lot of caregiving for a bunch of years and it was hard. I was unprepared. There is nothing wrong, especially since women are equal numbers of workers with men, teaching boys it's ok to be involved fathers. We have a huge fatherless problem. This is a positive solution. It's the way things are going anyway. Default 50/50 is b…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:53 PM
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Here is a nice graph by state of usual custody arrangements from 2018. https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php Graph showing a 10% reduction in male suicides after enacting shared custody laws. https://wol.iza.org/articles/do-joint-custody-laws-improve-family-well-being/long
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:43 PM
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All of this data is done by self reporting. Your reference is the best I've found and cite it frequently. Also, years of having done this bears out the numbers, IME.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:18 PM
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Counseling and social support programs are staffed 70-80% female and have 70-80% female patients. We need to reimagine the mental health care system for men. I suggest more project oriented services like Men's Sheds in Australia.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 05:57 PM
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Sorry, don't understand in what meaning you're saying Insurance. In the US it's something you purchase for protection. I believe you've discovered what Johnny Depp proved during his trial. DV is more generational than gender specific. I also had a violent mom.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 05:39 PM
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This is for psuedo courts on campus. They ruled they are not court enough, not enough due process so you can sue the accuser.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 01:52 PM
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These things are all considered in court but so is your likelihood of supporting her parenting. She can date whoever she wants so you don't want to come off controlling. Focus on whats best for the kids in terms of seeing you and her as well as maintaining their friends and schools. Stuff like that.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 04:10 AM
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They were warmly welcomed into the soul crushing world of the workplace.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 03:49 AM
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You have to be a good parent and look out for whats best for the kids. Going to the same school and having the same friends is very important but staying with their brothers and sisters might be more important. I had my son on weeknights because I was responsible for the homework. That's one of the reasons I fought to keep him in a steady environment. When he moved with her he didn't do well at school and got into trouble. After he left we got closer and now he is doing well and started his own …
/r/MensRights19/09/23 03:31 AM
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We had 50/50 until our son was 12. Then she wanted to move three states away. She took me to court and the judge heard that neither she or I were bad parents and were both involved with our sons life. He ruled to keep 50/50 and she couldn't move him. Then the next year she took me to court again, same thing, just to outspend me. This time she started to lean on my son to get him to agree to move with her. He said no and started to get stomach pains. I documented this with the pediatrician. She d…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 01:57 AM
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Expect a big fight. I had 50/50 and my ex wanted to move. It cost me my house, my job and I had a nervous breakdown but that's because my ex re-married a trust fund kid and kept taking me back to court until I was deep in debt. But I won every time and retain a great relationship with my son. So, it was worth it. Good luck. Expect a fight and false accusations. Get the best lawyer you and your family can afford.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 01:48 AM
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How many children? Ages? Are you the father? State? Get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 01:44 AM
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From now on all across the US anybody accused of the terrible crime of sexual assault on campus can sue his accuser. That will deter those without credible accusations from coming forward.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 12:44 AM
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I read an article that says this is an important decision because it was well thought out by an appellate court and unanimously agreed on. That means that throughout the country this can be cited as a president and that will greatly affect outcomes. But this will go to the Supreme Court IMO.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 05:59 PM
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The Title IX Coordinator.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 05:54 PM
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Mob rule on college campus. Even though he was acquitted, he still got kicked out of school because of an academic lynching.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 02:37 AM
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This changes everything. For campus reforms to not put women at risk of defamation for coming forward with accusations they need to allow cross examination and provide a transcript of the proceedings. Campus rape tribunals will probably have to be found to be unconstitutional by the Supreme Court before the feminists stop the rape hysteria on campus. I read somewhere else that the young man who won this case is going to stump for making the accusers name public in these campus rape accusation ca…
/r/MensRights18/09/23 01:33 AM
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I wonder if the kids that did this have fathers at home.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 01:17 AM
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Paywall.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 12:54 AM
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So parental alienation will have to be litigated in court. Are they going to put 4 year olds on the stand and ask them if mommy won't let them talk to the daddy they've barely seen on the phone? How often? It's ridiculous. Parental alienation is a syndrome like Stockholm syndrome and it is the 70% female feminist psychology associations that are causing more fathers from bringing up the child abuse of parental alienation.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 06:00 PM
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From the comments from a male psychotherapist about how female psychotherapists hate men: I probably shouldn’t say this but as a psychotherapist (and man) myself, I think one of the largest issues that isn’t talked about in the world of therapy is that there is a bias - theoretically, and practically - that negatively impacts men. I can’t tell you how many female therapists I’ve spoken with who have a negative view of working with men, but don’t see how feeling that way could possibly impact wor…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 05:34 PM
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All the men here are doing something about it by raising consciousness. Only when a problem is recognized can it be fixed. For example we constantly point out the difference in government funding that should be gender neutral. Just like 50/50 custody, gender discrimination will lose out over time.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 04:57 PM
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When I was in elementary school in the 1960's we had many recess periods, our behavior grade was a separate grade from our academic grade and boys and girls did equally well. Feminists started lobbying for behavior to be taken into account in the grade to advantage girls. Now how you act is more important than what you know and this turns off boys. Here is a nice article on the subject. https://ifstudies.org/blog/boys-are-falling-farther-and-farther-behind-their-sisters-should-we-care- Here is a…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:20 PM
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Like pro athletes. I don't feel sorry for them. They don't feel sorry for themselves.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:38 PM
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These terms have been around for a while. Maybe these guys related to the label "Incel" when they were younger and now, despite their experience, they can't shake the label. Like some people who lose weight still feel they look heavy. I think there is a lot of depression in the Incel community and that may be why these guys identify so strongly with Incels.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 03:37 AM
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I would add to the motto part that men make more than the women. I've always denied there is a patriarchy because it was always on this site in the context as used by feminists or the Bailey part. I will now admit we live in a patriarchy. But it's changing and I'm hoping for a future where children are not the sole sphere of women.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:33 AM
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To get money to get girls. As long as girls like guys with money better then guys without money guys will try to get more money.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:16 AM
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That was horrible. Boys are defective girls to those teachers. No compassion or empathy for half their students. They acknowledged the rise of single mothers and the lack of "role models" for boys is the main problem. Who are these missing "role models"? I guess they don't want to admit boys need fathers. Support default 50/50 because fathers are the solution to boys under performance at school. If I had to do it over I would have sent my son to an all boys school.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:26 AM
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Marriage rates are the lowest in 100 years.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:14 AM
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I don't mean to be argumentative, and I know how unromantic it sounds, but I posted this article to point out that in academics, not just on anonymous internet blogs, the rules of economics, supply and demand, are thought to operate. As the article says women trade sex for sex or exclusive sex for sex and resources, from an economic point of view. No gender war.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:11 AM
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Normal human behavior can be modeled mathematically and this is called Economics. Human behavior is modeled by Economics. It's subconscious. People place value on things, like money, and sex is no different. I read and posted an interesting economic model of how humans became monogamous. Sexual market value is an academic term. Sexual economics theory rests on standard basic assumptions about economic marketplaces, such as the law of supply and demand. When demand exceeds supply, prices are high…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 06:10 PM
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What do judges (custody evaluators) look for in custody cases
/r/MensRights16/09/23 05:24 PM
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Too many people think that men that don't contribute to society should just walk off and die. Men are a tool and when broken to be thrown out.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 04:57 PM
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Then you'd be imprisoned.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 03:54 AM
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IMO this is a hit piece by feminists who want to cancel this custody evaluator. Now his name and reputation have been besmirched in the newspaper when no wrong doing was found. It is well known that court appointed professionals cannot be personally sued for their legal opinion or none would ever do the job. This includes all kinds of court appointed experts. Surely the attorney who brought this case knew this. The article makes it clear that this is well worn legal ground: In August, District C…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 03:47 AM
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By having to share custody they feel they are being punished. They are guilty of parental alienation which is a form of emotional child abuse and yes the judge takes this into account and mom's get less time with their kids because of it. They want the parents to support the parental rights of the other parent. Feminists hate that. #believeallwomen In extreme cases alienators lose all custody.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 02:59 AM
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He found that the allegations of abuse by six mothers was false and granted for fathers, probably 50/50. They are trying to bully him. They complained to the state licensing board who found no bias.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 01:36 AM
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I was a feminist before I hit family court 26 years ago. I feel as though we are finishing the equality revolution that organized feminism says they support but want us to do it ourselves. I focus on 50/50 custody and it is passing state legislatures all around the country so feminists are not opposing it too much.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 07:02 PM
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I would probably have felt fulfilled without a son as well. But I can't imagine anything replacing the kind of bond I have with my son. It's probably pretty genetic to feel this way.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:38 PM
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This is defamation and should be a punishable crime. You have to prove accusations in public like that. News papers are sued all the time for stuff like this.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:20 PM
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Many times the desire to have children doesn't come until into the late 30s. I was almost 40 when my son was born. Having a child was the best decision I ever made. I'm old now and as you get older you realize that children are a blessing. And raising my son was fun and fulfilling. But the only reason I had him in my life was 50/50 custody so his mom couldn't alienate him from me no matter how hard she tried. And she tried for 14 years. The reason I am here is to push for default 50/50 equal sha…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:36 PM
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You're right and it's probably genetic. This is a problem though today. In corporate culture if you work harder, overtime, get promotions, as a man you are making more than your co-worker women. I ran into this. I took on an extra job at work and all the women I worked with made me drop it because they wanted pay equality. But the drive to earn more after having a child is significant. As is the desire of our independent women to stay home for an extended time after having a child making the hus…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:17 PM
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Most people buy into the consumer culture and more materialistic than they need to be. We are a capitalistic country known for our voracious consumption. Children should be the reason you work, they are the greatest joy life can bring. I didn't used to feel this way but lived with a single mom girlfriend when she had an infant and learned I loved taking care of children. It's only when you're older you realize this. If I could do it over I would have had three children. But my ex got post partum…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:04 PM
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When default 50/50 equal shared parenting becomes the norm and culturally the expected thing, maybe 60 years from now, men will not have to fear losing their family half the time in divorce. And children will have the benefit of both parents unlike the 40% of children now who are raised by solo single parents. btw: After my divorce I got my vasectomy.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 03:44 PM
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Keeping in contact with my son cost me my house, my job and I had a nervous breakdown with 300K in legal expenses defending 50/50 custody. Now I'm old and my son is doing well and we have a good relationship. What else would I have now? Money? I have that and a son who I love more than anything.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 02:27 PM
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And should my kids miss him, I'll have him deported by use of these accusations.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 12:35 PM
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It took ten years and a pair of unbiased scholars to find what we knew when these atrocities first happened. And we pointed out that the boys were killed, the girls kidnapped, a much worse fate. Even this article doesn't address the gendered degree of injury with men and boys burned to death or shot. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/29-boys-killed-boko-haram-attacks-boarding-school-nigeria-n37991 Now Boko Haram had kidnapped 10K boys for service in the military. Have we heard about that? Maybe…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:07 AM
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I live in the suburbs in a large city in the US and all the divorced dads I know are very close with their children of divorce. The only men I know that couldn't see their children for periods of time, me included, was during parental alienation by the mother. That's why I fight for default 50/50 custody after divorce. Then it will be safe to be close with your kids.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 03:45 AM
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I think this is agitation for more money for more activism on the part of women and other marginalized groups. Not actual help. Just "A voice"
/r/MensRights14/09/23 11:56 PM
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To be a licensed marriage counselor you need any bachelors degree and a masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. The course requirements for a masters in Marriage Counseling is pretty sparse as far as course work. Reference
/r/MensRights14/09/23 11:33 PM
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By definitions of progressives men cannot be discriminated against because they are the oppressors. Therefore advocating for the rights of oppressors is just more oppression and thus a superiority movement. To get people to stop thinking we are a supremacy movement is to keep quiet and let the feminist utopia unfurl. But I loved my son too much to give up 50/50 so here I am advocating for men's rights, especially rights to be fathers.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 07:31 PM
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Everyone likes something different. I don't date anymore because I'm attracted to gold diggers.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 03:59 AM
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If convicted there should be a false accuser registry that she should have to be reported to.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 03:57 AM
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She's bringing attention to men's problems for a profit. That's not exploitation that's an ally.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 04:11 AM
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Great video, thanks. Explains the origins of intersectionality and why we use the term liberal incorrectly.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 11:00 PM
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There is no way to totally protect yourself from false accusations but there are ways to reduce your chances. Two I can think of is don't get drunk and have casual sex and don't have casual sex. Wait until you meet someone you have feelings for where the chances of a miscommunication is less. This will not eliminate the chances. Even wives falsely accuse husbands, but it will greatly reduce the chances.
/r/MensRights10/09/23 05:09 PM
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And that's an extra charge of menacing and more time longer sentence.
/r/MensRights10/09/23 05:00 PM
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I agree. Elementary and other lower level schools are totally misandrist on purpose. I'm old and watched it happen. Boys are considered broken girls and besides not getting good grades are graduating at rates of only 70% from high school in the US. This needs to start at the national level and a Commission on Boys would help align the teaching establishment to these new goals. But I think he's also right the NYT's just wants to rile up feminists with male quotas.
/r/MensRights10/09/23 04:18 PM
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I would think that it puts pressure on judges to come close to 50/50 but you have to talk to a lawyer.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 06:11 PM
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A 70 year old version of feminist nirvana. They are more technologically advanced than men but are also Miss Universe contestants. Run time 1 min From 1953 trailer to Abott and Costello Go To Mars (but make a wrong turn and end up on Venus populated by an all female society).
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:33 PM
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I think they are making fun of people who say that women have to work their way up from the bottom and giving them leadership roles just based on their gender is affirmative action and discrimination. Actually sounds pretty funny to me. I still think we shouldn't groom women for leadership and not provide the same resources for men. We should select our leaders based on merit. In Barbieland I would say the Kens can't have separate leadership set asides.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:22 PM
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Couples counseling is the first last step before divorce so women can feel that the therapist is siding with them in them being unhappy with their husbands. Couples counselors are more feminist than psychologists. I had two divorces. The second time, when she forced me to go to couples counseling I started counting the days until she filed for divorce. Being prepared was being forewarned so when she left me the next morning I filed first getting me a much better deal in the divorce.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 01:07 AM
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If Georgia is no fault then your cheating is irrelevant except she wants to punish you. She can't. I was divorced twice and it goes by the laws. But don't expect her to go along with your plans without giving her what she wants. It's a negotiation and most never go to court.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 06:51 PM
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Feminist social media is propaganda meant to raise your blood pressure. Don't read it.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:16 AM
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One of the more outrageous answers to the question "why would a woman ever falsely accuse a man of rape?".
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:01 AM
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Monkey branching.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 11:27 PM
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She's guilty of child abuse by parental alienation and should spend time in jail. Then get supervised visitation until she can prove she can see the kids without alienating them.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 10:36 PM
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No, when a woman does it a man drove her to it. Women don't get ill.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:38 PM
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https://theconversation.com/men-and-women-kill-their-children-in-roughly-equal-numbers-and-we-need-to-understand-why-153527 Women and men commit filicide in roughly equal numbers but men are more to blame because they are well known domestic abusers. They even suggest that women who commit suicide are really victims of men. A form of "slow murder".
/r/MensRights29/08/23 03:40 PM
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Men kill themselves when they lose custody. Suicide rates rise 8 fold after divorce for men only, not for women.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:35 PM
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It should be a pretty simple legal argument to require the federal government spend equally on gender specific cancers with equal impacts. That's why they are so focused on using the metric of "years left to live" because women live more than men saving a women with breast cancer gives you more "years left to live". A feminist grift. Men and women deserve to fight cancer equally.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 11:46 PM
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Most cancer research funding comes from the National Institute of Health so it is a competition for grants from tax money. Also screening programs like PSA and MRI for prostate and mammogram etc for breast and these have a national committee that decides who gets the funding for screening. Also a governmental org. A competition. Feminists know there is a limit to funding for research and screening and work the system. Men need to elect politicians that support their health concerns.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 10:35 PM
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All he asked from her was not to write a tell all book making him look bad. She couldn't do that one thing. He trusted her when he married her.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 05:15 PM
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Research divorce laws. They vary by state. Florida just instituted Alimony reform so might be a good place. Move there and get residency. If you have have kids there they have default 50/50 custody.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 12:31 AM
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Janet Fiemengo on the Dark History of Feminsm
/r/MensRights26/08/23 08:07 PM
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Famous feminist philosopher Simone De Beauvoir said women shouldn't be given the choice to stay home and not work because too many would take it. Now we need two incomes to make ends meet. I would divorce if my wife stopped working. Most of the young couples I know go back to work when the baby is 1 year.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 07:49 PM
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I'm not traditionalist. I believe women should work. They are already are over 50% of the workforce, are getting 60% of college degrees and earn more than men in their 20's. More single women own homes than single men. Any man who stays with a woman who decides to quit working is looking at hefty alimony and loss of custody of children.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 05:55 PM
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And men frequently lose meaningful relationships with their children after divorce with no other support system. It's no wonder the suicide rates for men rise 8 fold after divorce and women's suicide rates don't change.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:54 PM
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They don't raise them alone. This is a generational problem with one generation passing it on to the next. I once worked in an inner city social org and we had 20 teen moms. All their moms were teen moms so the moms were 30. The moms would raise all the kids. I had a long time to talk to the girls and they said that they didn't think the child would impact them as their mother's would do most of the childcare. Including educational opportunities. The welfare check gets added to the rest with lit…
/r/MensRights24/08/23 08:17 PM
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That was awesome. Shows the hypocrisy in a having a gender war. We all share problems more or less. But society hasn't caught up to true equality and that's why I'm on here fighting for equal fathers rights through default 50/50 custody for when Barbie won't let Ken see the kids.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 07:55 PM
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Here's the clip, it's pretty awesome. I think the part about paying women to stay without husbands he means welfare. Welfare is available to women but only if they don't have husbands. It tears families apart as sometimes men cannot earn and the best financial decision is to evict the father. This has created fatherless ghetto's in all major cities with high crime. Boys are failing school and the nation is waking up to this problem of fatherlessness.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 04:32 AM
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Then you can give her what she wants but if she ever takes you to court she can deny you ever gave her anything and sue you for back child support. See a lawyer, don't trust what you read on the internet.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 04:24 AM
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Go see a lawyer asap. Child support is like 500 dollars a month for 18 years or about 100k dollars, it's something you have to get right. Since I doubt your the father since she didn't put your name on the birth certificate you can save 100k by spending 5k on a family lawyer for a paternity test. And stop communicating with her except by email or something you can document.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 03:05 AM
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Women are responsible for 70% of the murder of children under age 5. Reference
/r/MensRights22/08/23 11:55 PM
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For $6,500 a year I have my house cleaned once a week, laundry done, dishes, floors, dusting, windows and happy to have the work.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 11:39 PM
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The article section you quoted indicated that a patient over 50 could ask for one. I don't know who pays. This is great news, finally an imaging modality for prostate cancer. This will make a big improvement in survival times from prostate cancer as they will be found earlier while they are curable.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 07:51 PM
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The idea that woman are nicer than men is misogyny to this feminist psychologist. I agree. Men and women are equally good and bad in my experience. But feminist women want to benefit from some stereotypes like that women never commit crimes or are abusive except when caused to by a man. The general population of females likes this feminist perspective as it gives them power in relationships and a leg up in custody fights. I don't hear a lot of woke from my suburban mom friends but I do hear that…
/r/MensRights22/08/23 07:36 PM
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When I was first considering my custody fight for my son, then 12 months, I heard that women were better parents. I was shocked to find that the clear majority of child abusers are women. My first thought was then why do they get custody? This is in the era of #metoo and #believeallwomen. Knowledgable consultants were made to apologize to the killer based on beurocratic practices.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:50 PM
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Some divorces and custody fights last for decades.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:17 AM
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How do they know you've been falsely accused? Do you need to have a verdict of guilty of perverting justice. Otherwise it's just a place to make unfounded accusations. What we need is an official registry of those whose false allegations are proven false so that prosecutors can search the registry when new cases of abuse are alleged to filter out serial false accusers. Run by the government to assure accuracy and a serious tool of law enforcement like sexual abuse registries.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 06:14 PM
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we may move closer to building a workforce with better performers and leaders — that is, leaders who act in ways that are more likely to drive systemic gender equality, diversity, and inclusion. So equality, diversity and inclusion are the goals of business, not returns to the investors. And they only talk about the top 500 companies not having enough women CEO's. The answer is to attack men...more gender solutions from Harvard.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 09:46 PM
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Excellent analysis. Chimps are much better species to study as they're social structure is most similar to ours. They ignore a lot of data to debunk the chimp hypothesis with the bonobo hypothesis. Thanks for pointing this out.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 07:17 PM
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False allegations of spousal abuse have been used frequently for saving women from getting the death penalty for killing their husbands. I'd be surprised if she didn't say she was driven to kill him by his insistance on having a meaningful custody arrangement for his kids.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 07:12 PM
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It's just that they didn't make a Barbie Movie, they made a Barbie and Ken movie giving Ken much higher billing than in the doll world. I think it's because feminists are fascinated and scared of the MRM.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 03:41 PM
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Gender theory is more a belief system than a scientific theory. One belief built on another belief built on feelings.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 02:55 AM
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Many academic articles are never cited, although I could not find any study with a result as high as 90%. Non-citation rates vary enormously by field. “Only” 12% of medicine articles are not cited, compared to about 82% (!) for the humanities. It's 27% for natural sciences and 32% for social sciences (cite) I imagine that women's and gender studies departments are similar to humanities. They churn out junk no on ever reads. It's just for magazine articles and blog posts. Reference
/r/MensRights18/08/23 01:32 AM
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Women's studies, lately called gender studies is responsible for Patriarchy Theory and the promulgation of the Duluth Model of DV. They publish non reproducible results that are completely gender biased and are responsible for the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion push excluding men from the workplace. They are the intellectual wing of Feminism with tenured professors instructing generation after generation of young people, 65% women.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 07:46 PM
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80% of men are remarried two years after divorce.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:43 AM
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I don't read reddit except for here. I don't read posts here about reddit or social media posts and stick to social activism posts like fathers rights, false allegations etc. Too much gender war rhetoric is bad for your mental health.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:15 AM
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For each sex I'd say don't get blotto drunk and have sex is the single best move you can make.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:35 AM
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How about feminists fighting for more equal male representations in fields that affect both genders and point of view is essential as they are early sciences, like psychology or teaching?
/r/MensRights15/08/23 10:49 PM
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Men are 4/5 victims of suicide. Is suicide more of a male issue? I don't think just because something is somewhat more common in one group makes it solely their issue.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 10:06 PM
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Men who work all the time risk losing their spouses. Now it is women. Who is going to raise the child? If the man were smarter he would have waited until the baby came then file for divorce, alimony and child support. That's what my ex did.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 09:56 PM
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I don't think they mean women's self exclusion from fields they don't like. I think they mean due to misogyny.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 12:02 AM
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Why don't you share his interests. At this age my son was into video games and we made it a team effort. I wasn't good at first person shooters but was a great cheer leader...lol. We had great family time.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:44 AM
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Once a critical mass of managers is female your comments here will get you fired. That's the endgame for feminists. All female managers getting paid extra to do the emotional work of managing men.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:51 PM
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Whoever wrote the article thinks there is a relationship between "woke" politics and gender politics.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:10 PM
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This is what I've been saying. The plot line revolves around the MRM. Maybe we're the most interesting thing to happen to feminism in a while. But our efforts at raising consciousness have worked.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 12:56 AM
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The gender pay gap does not show differences in pay for comparable jobs. Unequal pay for men and women has been illegal for 45 years. It is a tool of social engineering. You can't force women to go into higher earning, harding working fields.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 11:19 PM
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I think you mean extreme. Radical just means you want change. All social activists are radicals by definition.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 06:48 PM
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ncfm.org
/r/MensRights11/08/23 06:45 PM
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Thanks for coming on here and supporting men's rights. We ARE the place where we're supposed to see things through a gendered lens. You are right. Feminists have pushed nearly all males out of OB/GYN. Just like they do other fields. Yet they're still complaining about a pay gap?
/r/MensRights11/08/23 05:37 PM
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An estimated 8% or 20 million Americans have been falsely accused of abuse. They can't keep them all from being employed. I'm not an attorney but what you need to know is what you are required to tell a prospective employer. http://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/
/r/MensRights11/08/23 05:11 PM
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I'm not surprised that doctor Barbies are all happy with the male bashing Barbie movie. Where is the Garbage Girl Barbie? Teaching young women they can do anything they want, including the essential work of cleaning up trash. All I could find on the internet was Garbage Man Barbie and is male. Why not Garbage Man Greg? Female doctors are the most feminist group in the higher ed pantheon.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 04:29 PM
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Some say colleges are losing legitimacy. They are becoming finishing schools for middle management, mainly female. One thing is surely being created. A bunch of severely indebted students with limited degrees.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 01:10 AM
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As long as the custody jurisdiction is in Florida you should start at 50/50. It's very complicated and you need a good attorney but there is a good chance you will win everything else being equal.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 07:14 PM
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Support the Coalition to form a White House Council on Boys and Men. Chaired by Warren Farrell.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 06:48 PM
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Men are being driven out of higher education. In lower grades a movement in the early 1980's, when boys and girls were doing equally well in school, to advantage girls who were said to be having an identity crisis around puberty. They simply included behavior into the entire grade making sitting still as important as merit in knowledge of the subject. Prior to this, when I was in school in the 1960's, behavior was a separate grade. Girls were told they were better than boys and this encouraged t…
/r/MensRights10/08/23 06:29 PM
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That's why I said "real crime". Punishable by a year in jail. But the detractors will say we are regressive and want to go back to a time when women were afraid to call for help when it's real. As a result up to 20 million Americans report being falsely accused of abuse. And women have a hotline to coerce their partners to do whatever they please for fear of incarceration and losing everything...if not getting shot or tazed. Reference
/r/MensRights10/08/23 06:09 PM
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Feminists have worked for 50 years to make DV the most intensely prosecuted crime. DA's love DV cases.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 05:08 PM
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Maybe when making false allegations becomes a real crime that they prosecute he will have grounds for getting the child away from this emotionally abusive woman.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 04:46 PM
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It was a site like this called Men's News Daily. It was in 2004. Early in the online MRM.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 04:49 AM
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The only reason I got married the second time was to confirm my parental rights. Now, in Florida, men no longer have to get married to be fathers. This is a profound change.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 03:12 AM
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I was part of the online men's rights group that got the "Boys Are Stupid, Throw Rocks at Them" tee shirts removed from major brand stores. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Boys\_are\_stupid,\_throw\_rocks\_at\_them!\_controversy
/r/MensRights10/08/23 03:09 AM
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That font looks old. Wikipedias page on MRA's is fair. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Men%27s\_Rights\_Activist
/r/MensRights08/08/23 04:44 AM
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This is the way woman win in divorce. You're so beaten down by the time the hammer drops you think your dog shit and don't deserve an even deal.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 03:14 PM
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Trailer for movie Her, circa 2014.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 06:24 PM
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I was single in LA for 25 years and can attest that women have just as strong a sex drive and sleep around just as much as men do. We are all humans and this stuff affects men and women fairly equally. Biases run deep.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 02:28 PM
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Don't spare an expense with your lawyer and do exactly what they say to do.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 01:55 AM
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False accusations affects both men and women. Survey: Over 20 Million Have Been Falsely Accused of Abuse WASHINGTON / December 17, 2020 – A recent national survey conducted by YouGov reveals 8% of Americans report being falsely accused of domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, or other forms of abuse. The 2,407 survey respondents were representative of the U.S. adult population. The 8% figure represents 20.4 million adults. In 62% of cases, the false accusers were reported to be females…
/r/MensRights04/08/23 12:33 AM
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Controversy=Publicity=Moviegoers
/r/MensRights03/08/23 11:54 PM
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The fight over who will own the AI bias has been going on for years in academia. Biased decision support systems are bad decision support systems so hopefully quality will push out the bias.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 05:43 PM
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A range of child sexual abuse prevalence rates has been derived from these studies. These studies suggest the child sexual abuse prevalence rate for girls is 10.7% to 17.4%* and the rate for boys is 3.8% to 4.6%*. Reference By way of reference suicide rates are 5 times higher in men than women while child sexual abuse prevalence is 2 to three times higher in girls than boys. There is a significant difference between boys and girls however the rate among boys is large as well and needs attention.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 05:23 PM
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Nice to see a child abuser stopped from further damaging their children. Parental alienation is emotional child abuse and is a crime punishable by jail time and losing your children.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:35 AM
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All media is propaganda and feminist propaganda sells. So don't consume it. You have to take responsibility. I only watch one news show on tv and visit this site. I pay no attention to their propaganda. I've heard it all before. They just rename everything every 5 years and have a new crisis. But social media like twitter, facebook and the rest or reddit is damaging to listen to for too long. That's a feature, not a bug.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:30 AM
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My son's mom had bad post partum depression and left the family home without notice and with our son. The next morning, 8am, I was in my divorce attorneys office and he said I should file immediatly, ex-parte. The next day she admitted to the court she couldn't care for our child but wanted me to hire a full time nanny. Then, she said, she wanted full custody. I was granted temporary full custody on the spot as the competent parent. Three years later, when the case was settled, my ex got better …
/r/MensRights31/07/23 09:00 PM
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Many relationships are like yours today. I have many family members sharing your experience. That's why totally avoiding marriage risks losing a very fulfilling part of life. With family court reform marriage and cohabitation is becoming less risky.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 02:53 AM
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Now the fellow falsely accused is fighting to have the identity of those guilty of filing false accusations made public so they can be forever shamed on the internet just like young men they falsely accused.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 05:35 AM
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In the second world war women worked as combat nurses and snipers. Especially in Ukraine. Lady Death” of the Red Army: Lyudmila Pavlichenko Known to her enemies as “Lady Death,” Lyudmila Pavlichenko is recognized as the most successful female sniper in history with a total of 309 confirmed kills. Reference
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:24 PM
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What sexist propaganda. Men represent double the amount of alcoholics and yet women increasing the "rate" of alcoholism by 2% gets the "women have it worse" title. They probably couldn't get it published without the women are victims angle. A cursory review of the statistics from the National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NSDUH) for the demographic eighteen years of age and older shows the incidence of alcohol use disorder to be 6.2% in the general population, of which 8.4 % are male and 4.2% a…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 07:27 PM
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Typical psychology. Feminist to the core. Despite the data from numerous studies showing men want children more than women, we KNOW that boys don't like babies. Besides, girls play with dolls more so they must be better parents. /s
/r/MensRights29/07/23 02:09 PM
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I raised my son as a single parent from age 1 yr to age 3 yrs. His mom, my ex, had post partum depression. It was really hard. We eventually moved to 50/50 when she got better and this was a different ball game entirely. That's why I stump on here for default 50/50. The single parent trend is bad for the children.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 06:14 AM
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The suicide rate for men in the US is 5 times the rate for women but you just ignore this. Men need suicide services more than women. It's numbers. There should be 5 times the financial support to stop male suicide as female suicide. Until we reach equality like in China with an equal suicide rate. It should be a national emergency. Yet you say you support Men's Rights? Or only when men don't need more services than women?
/r/MensRights29/07/23 05:12 AM
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For many MRA's the real world that causes men to see how pink the laws really are is when they enter family court. Once you see how justice is just for women and how feminism lies about wanting family equality you cannot unsee the way men are second class citizens in family court. And when you decide you want to get involved and change family law you are then a radical. Radical is often used as a prejorative especially when applied to conservatives, the so called radical right. But radical just …
/r/MensRights28/07/23 05:25 PM
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A girl usually has her first Barbie by age 3, and collects a total of seven dolls during her childhood. Over a billion dollars worth of Barbie dolls and accessories were sold in 1993, making this doll big business and one of the top 10 toys sold. If Barbie were an actual women, she would be 5’9” tall, have a 39” bust, an 18” waist, 33” hips and a size 3 shoe! Barbie calls this a “full figure” and likes her weight at 110 lbs. At 5’9” tall and weighing 110 lbs, Barbie would have a BMI of 16.24 and…
/r/MensRights28/07/23 04:24 PM
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Here is another nice graph combining nation and gender. There is a huge variation between nations indicating that the gender disparity in suicide rates is cultural as you say. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Gender_differences_in_suicide
/r/MensRights27/07/23 10:51 PM
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You are correct, the suicide rate for women after divorce doesn't change. It's no wonder women file 80% of divorces. It isn't devastating like it is for many men.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 10:46 PM
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Interesting graph of suicide rates by nation and gender. In almost all men have a higher suicide rate. https://www.statista.com/statistics/236567/number-of-suicides-in-selected-countries-by-gender/
/r/MensRights27/07/23 10:26 PM
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She had serious mental illness, she was bipolar. A year ago her 17 year old son escaped suicide watch and committed suicide. She said in her tweets she's been living in purgatory ever since her son's death. That's why they are not treating this as suspicious.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 07:49 PM
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The rate of suicide after divorce increases 800%. Researchers theorize that mens bonds with their children is highly under estimated. Default 50/50 equal shared custody might help reduce the rate of suicide in men.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 06:34 PM
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What about gay men?
/r/MensRights27/07/23 03:16 AM
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LGBTQ+ATM
/r/MensRights27/07/23 01:44 AM
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He should leave her as she doesn't understand they are not two singles, they are a married couple. She resents his hobbies and feels the extra money she earns while he does child care is hers and hers alone. When men say this they are vilified. The Advisor was very nice and tried to help her see her selfishness as it appears to me, and probably to her, this woman is on thin ice.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:46 PM
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Upvoted for operating in enemy territory at the ultra woke Medium Magazine.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:42 PM
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This happened to me in a public school in a large US city. When the first year was over I moved my son to a private school and I paid the entire tuition. Then I got service.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 03:04 PM
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There is no excuse for child abuse. Maybe with default 50/50 equal shared parenting we will see less child abuse.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 03:43 AM
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It's easier for the script writers in LA to sell woman good/men bad scripts so things go from interesting to predictable repetition of worn our tropes.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 12:20 AM
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Women do more child abuse than men. In the United States, more perpetrators of child abuse were women than men. In 2021, about 233,918 perpetrators of child abuse were women, compared to 213,672 male perpetrators. Reference
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:45 PM
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I have a solution, equal parenting time for both parents from paternal/maternal leave on to default 50/50 equal shared parenting. The vast majority of men on here want to be involved fathers and many say they would gladly be stay at home fathers. This is what's happening in real life. My 30 something nieces and nephews have their kids with a nanny until age 1 and then it's on to daycare and pre-school. There is no reason to favor a mother over a father anymore. We need to change our way of think…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:31 PM
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I don't expect women do keep their gender roles as that is controlling and abusive behavior as defined by the Duluth Model and under Coercive Control.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 11:37 PM
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Women own 66% of student loan debt. Student loan forgiveness is a man tax.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 10:25 PM
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The voters are both male and female. This law made it's way through the state legislature and passed numerous votes. Both men and women see that lifetime enslavement, meaning men in their 80's can't retire, is a bad thing.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 10:19 PM
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What do other females think of your MRA?
/r/MensRights23/07/23 05:28 PM
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And it cuts both ways. Men no longer need to stay in sexless or controlling relationships.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 08:50 PM
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50% of workers dislike their jobs. 29% of workers who dislike their jobs say that it's because of unfair pay. 22% of dissatisfied workers also feel underappreciated. Dissatisfied workers are 50% more likely to call out monthly, and 300% more likely to call out weekly. Reference
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:51 PM
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Women no longer need mens money to make ends meet. They would rather stay alone than compromise on someone that doesn't turn them on. I think that was the point of the sexual revolution of the 1960's-1970's.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 01:24 PM
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In this mini review, I show that all the studies revised demonstrate the good psychosocial adjustment of these children, and that they are as likely to flourish as children born into traditional families, even if they may find themselves exposed to prejudice and stigma. In conclusion, single fatherhood and surrogacy do not contribute to any adverse consequences to the children’s psychosocial development and adjustment, and there is no observed evidence to why single men, irrespective of their se…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 04:26 PM
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Could you imagine a male manager let go, complaining that his female staff talked about their boyfriends and fashion trends to his exclusion and how this created a hostile sexist work environment? lol.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 07:30 PM
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The divorce rate for those with Bipolar disorder is 90%.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 07:10 PM
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I thought all mothers were saints who would die for their children? With the advent of mothers first feminism we are seeing how truly dedicated to their children women are.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 05:35 PM
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You could go for the jugular. Divorce is war. Tell your soon to be ex that you want to travel to the US with your wife and child for a short visit. Get your parents to pay for it. Just your child if you think she would agree. Go to Florida and file for custody in Florida claiming that the law in China is unfair and because of the tender years doctrine you are being discriminated against as parent and need political asylum. In Florida you are entitled to default 50/50 custody. Then file for divor…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 01:46 PM
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A group of girls caused the death of 24 people at the Salem Witch Trials a few centuries ago. They were lying or maybe it was a mass delusion. Or, with #metoo, a fad.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:45 PM
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It cuts both ways. Whoever has been divorced before does better when fighting those with no experience. My second wife found out.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:22 PM
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But what about WAGE GAP? Doesn't everyone know women earn less than men? How is this possible? Don't women want to marry for LUV?
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:07 PM
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Two of the assumptions were that Beta or the aggressiveness of males in the male hierarchy had to be high. And Alpha the contribution of males to the success of mating was small. We see the real life data showing that removal of males from the household is leading to much worse outcomes for the offspring. And it's not just resources that males bring. Males who are not biologically related are not as involved with their children as biological fathers.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:56 AM
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But this is from the PNAS, the premier scientific journal in the world.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:45 AM
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Children love their mothers and their fathers both the same. It's child abuse to remove a loving parent from a child's life. I'm glad it's finally getting jail time like other forms of emotional child abuse.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 12:45 AM
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And this Uber-man who is active and responsible and takes risks expects greater rewards. But what about the wage gap? The leadership gap? How are these risk takers going to get these greater rewards? I'm not for men wanting greater rewards for being men. That's the definition of male supremacy. I'm for equality of opportunity. Specifically the opportunity to be a parent to your children through the adoption of default 50/50 custody laws. I suspect the fellow who wrote this article thinks that wo…
/r/MensRights18/07/23 10:47 PM
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They gave the manosphere a shout out. Not in a good way. The success of boys is as important to their parents as that of their daughters. And parents vote. The state failing male pupils shouldn’t be disregarded just because it’s in vogue to decry the horrors of toxic masculinity or rhapsodise about the need to smash the patriarchy. Boys won’t be made into good men by trying to make them behave more like girls, any more than they will be by leaving them to the wolves of the online manosphere.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 08:59 PM
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I knew these kangaroo courts were unconstitutional. Court is where sexist policies will see a change. That's why the National Coalition for Men ncfm.org concentrates on legal battles like females in the Draft which almost made it to the Supreme Court.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 05:53 PM
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She missed the spot light and was jealous of Hill. Maybe she'll get more modeling gigs. I'm sure she has no empathy for him.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:58 PM
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Or at least has a degree, a good job and no plans on ever staying home. I have two nieces in their 30's with young children and all their friends are like this. Nanny until 1, then daycare with an eye on a prestigious preschool. But no plans to stop working.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 12:10 AM
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Family law is heavily favoring women today. It's mainly because the laws are slow to change and society is very different from when the laws were written 50 years ago. But that is changing. More and more states are passing custody laws that allow equal involvement of both parents after divorce. Default 50/50 equal shared parenting. Florida just passed this law. With women having equal labor participation with men and 50/50 custody, child support will become less onerous, a real problem for men t…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 11:57 PM
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So, even if you decide to live someone you need a prenup.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 11:51 PM
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The divorce rate is about 50%. I asked my elderly mother, of the marriages that she knew from a time when divorce was illegal unless there were causes, what percent were happy in her opinion. She said about 50%. So maybe the unhappy married people are now able to get divorced and do. Leaving the remaining marrieds reporting being more happy. The internet says that 74% of married people in the Census say they are happily married. A recent study of Census Data, and survey conducted by Mixbook of 3…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 11:30 PM
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There is no common law marriage in California. According to the State of California, two people living together who are not married are two separate and distinct individuals with respect to finances. No bank accounts, investments or savings accounts will be jointly owned. If anything is held jointly, it will be divided equally in the absence of any other legally recognized agreement. No alimony will be available to either party if the couple splits, however, if there is a child, a partner will b…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 11:17 PM
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I had a 75 year old feminist tell me how proud she is that young affluent mothers now are working and putting their children in day care from age 1 year. She said how great it is that they know how to read by the time they start kindergarten. I said that we will find out what the result of this experiment is in 50 years. This is the feminist game plan working according to their aims. On the other hand, with women admitting they don't like raising children, men are being seen as just as good pare…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 08:28 PM
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I don't think child support is taxable. So she gets the entire 7.8 mill. Is Child Support Taxable as Income in California? According to the Internal Revenue Service (IRS), child support payments are not taxable as income for the recipient. Furthermore, child support is not considered a deductible for the payer
/r/MensRights17/07/23 11:44 AM
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The judge ordered that each has to share the actual expenses of the children. So, out of the 140k a month she has to pay half the education, medical, extracurricular, cooks if so inclined expenses. He kicks in the other half. She asked to have him give her the 140k plus pay all the kids expenses. So she won't be able to keep all the money. This is the whole point of a prenup for a guy like Costner. Stop a gold digger taking his hard earned money from a lifelong career that they had before they m…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 04:12 AM
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They currently spend 6.6 million per year as a family. She probably represents 80% of the spending so about 5 million per year. From 5 mill per year down to 1.7 million per year for 5 years. Then she has to get a job.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 11:54 PM
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The best thing he has going for him is that both he and his soon to be ex want shared custody so it's unlikely that she will alienate the children from him. Unlike Brad Pitt. With default 50/50 equal shared custody and a good prenup marriage might be worth the risk as it's the best place for the children. But in Florida, and probably the rest of the States eventually, even unmarried fathers have full parental rights, 50/50 shared custody, meaning it's no longer necessary to marry to get a meanin…
/r/MensRights16/07/23 10:18 PM
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From what I read the prenup is still up for evaluation to see if it will stand up in court but the judge seems to be following it. He is making her leave the family residence and she is getting the 1.2 million they agreed on in the prenup. If she gets 140K a month thats about 1.7 mill a year in child support and this will end when the children are 18 or out of college. His youngest is 13 so he'll be paying child support for at most 5 years not counting college. Let's look at the other angle. He …
/r/MensRights16/07/23 09:51 PM
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Most experts agree with you that a child does best with both parents frequently involved in their lives. Most family courts agree with this so you have some leverage. If you have money, see a good family law attorney and start the process of getting 50/50 equal shared custody. Contact sharedparenting.org for help with your efforts.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 04:03 PM
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Looking at it from an evolutionary anthropologist perspective, chimps, 98% genetically identical to humans, have a male dominated society without, to our knowledge, the males knowing who are their offspring. Unless they, like us, know our children look like us. Chimps and humans are more similar in mating styles than different in my opinion. We can learn a lot by studying chimps. For example, chimps are not monogamous.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 01:06 AM
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Ernest Belfort Bax was doing this 120 years ago. I think we will be doing it 100 years from now.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 02:42 AM
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With default 50/50 becoming the norm these sexists better pay attention to who their customers are. Eventually half will be fathers. My nephew has a 1 year old daughter and his mother in law told him that she would never trust men to watch children. This was over one step in the living room the child, who was just learning to walk, had to navigate. I raised my son alone from 9mo -3 yrs. I just softly said, "Yes men are capable of watching children". She didn't respond.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 04:25 PM
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I think he made a big mistake sending that to her. Firstly it hurt her feelings. Next it was taken out of context and turned into a hyper feminist meme. If you don't want to go out with someone just ghost them and give them nothing to use against you on social media or texts. Broken hearts are unpredictable.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 01:07 AM
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If he knew about it why would he even consider a relationship with a model/surfer. I lived in LA for many years and those are big red flags. Not for me, I'm not very conservative but for guys expecting someone demure. For me those were pluses. Unfortunately, I'm attracted to gold diggers. You can't change a persons nature.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:46 AM
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Then he should have walked away. This will now follow him his whole career. Lesson to learn: Walk away if you're going to and put nothing in writing on social media. It will be used against you in the future.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 07:14 PM
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Hill should have checked her instagram before he went out with her. Don't date women with many followers and borderline only fans pics if you're not into that.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 07:09 PM
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This will be a long slog and, if you want 50/50 you'll have to co-parent so keep your relationship good. Don't worry about small things, always follow your attorneys advice. I got 50/50 but she had post partum depression and I had a better lawyer. I never took her to court but she took me to court to try to move out of state. It cost me a total 300k, I lost my house and my job. Nearly lost my sanity. But my son is now in his 20's and we have a good relationship. Just me and him with no interfere…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 06:48 PM
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She agreed to a payout of 1.2 million dollars. She is asking 3 mill/yr in child support. This will be a good test of if prenups are worth the paper they are written on.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:12 PM
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Don't live on campus full of 60% social justice warriors. Move off campus ASAP and use public laundries, etc. Interact with college women as little as possible. They are the dominant force at college and know they can kick any man out that they choose to. And they are very young and power drunk.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:09 PM
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Take care of yourself. You can't help your child if you're dead. Suicide rates rise 8 times after divorce. And for passport bro's, still think foreign women don't know the system and exploit it? Good point about her moving. Get a custody order ASAP or she will move, especially if she thinks she has to share custody. Foreign women are more traditional than American women when it comes to custody. They want full custody. American women are finding they have to share and are aware if they alienate …
/r/MensRights08/07/23 11:56 AM
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In Northern Europe marriage is equal and 50/50 custody the rule. If you want to stay at home and not work you need a special contract that sets out your plans to support the non-working spouse during the transition in case of divorce. Otherwise they become a responsibility of the State.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:08 AM
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And a lot of people are feminists when it suits them. Think...around the time of divorce or breakup.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 01:13 AM
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I've heard feminists say: "Yes men have problems but women solved their own problems and it's up to men to solve theirs". But sometimes for men to progress women need to adjust and they see this as losing. 50/50 default shared custody is one issue like this. Women have to give up children as property only of theirs and a reduction in child support meaning they have to work. Another is cancer funding. More funding for expensive screening tests for prostate cancer like MRI means less money for exp…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:13 PM
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One way to look at it, the way I look at it, is that the MRM is completing the goal of achieving gender equality. Feminists stopped once it was not to their benefit then went to war against men. Men are starting to win new rights that men never had before. Primary among them is 50/50 shared custody. Fifty years ago this was unthinkable and said to tear children apart into two households. Now State after State are passing default 50/50 equal shared custody. This is one of the most important issue…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:37 PM
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It is bull that working makes you happy. Since women have started working in large numbers around 1980 and their happiness went down. Men, who are working less, are happier since 1980. I think anyone should have the opportunity to do what they like. Men and women just the same. I was married twice and married career women both times. Within two years both stopped working because I made enough that they could. I didn't like it as I don't want to support someone. That's my choice. I would never al…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 03:41 PM
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This is what Michael Jackson did. It's totally legal and becoming more common.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 11:40 AM
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I don't work. I retired in my 50's. I love being retired and don't think there is something spiritual about working. Women were sold a bunch of bull by feminists as you can see in my quote from a feminist from 1976. Not that long ago. They want women working and women have never been more miserable. They even admit that women work as much as men now. I say go for it. Someone has to do the work.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 04:24 AM
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The article says they spend 6.6 million a year as a family. She's asking for 247K a month or about 3 mill a year for only child support. His prenup must be pretty good because she's trying to get alimony mixed in with her child support. Maybe their prenup limits alimony. The prenup seems to be holding up and she has to leave the family home by the end of July, says the Judge.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 03:34 AM
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EDITOR’S NOTE: A previous version of this article stated that white males could not apply to this program. This is not the case. We regret this error. Then it goes on to say: For women, newcomers and others from underrepresented groups. Which is it? I think their sexism is embarrassing them.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:27 AM
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She will file in California for sure. Then you will have to travel thousands of miles to go to court. Get a lawyer, file now.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:44 AM
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I'm sure she doesn't want you limiting her travel. If you have any hope of gaining a reasonable custody agreement you will need to live near each other. If she moves you are probably not going to be in your child's life and will pay more child support because you'll have less custody. File now, while she's here and you may have some say in whether she takes your child away or not.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:42 AM
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This article was written in reverse-land. It should read: "Why do women not want to work and want to stay home?". They then complain that the men made more than the women and instead of blaming it on women marrying up they say that it's the wage gap and say that it's because women earn 77% of the salary of men. I'll tell you why women stay home. Choice. According to famous feminist Philosopher Simone De Beauvoir: In 1976, the French feminist icon Simone de Beauvoir said, “No woman should be auth…
/r/MensRights06/07/23 05:22 PM
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Only communicate with her by email and save and print the emails and put them in a binder. This is what got me 50/50 custody.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 04:51 PM
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The court is likely to grant shared custody and unlikely to grant full custody. So better off going for 50/50 equal shared custody. One of the considerations of the court is that the parents don't bad mouth each other. Unless he has proof the child is in real danger of physical harm the judge will hold any attacks on her mothering as a sign you aren't arguing in good faith and, as the judge explained to me, she would get full custody. Be the reasonable one.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 03:27 PM
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They data mine this site. They collect a data set then make that public for research scientists. They search for key words like "red pill" and smv, sexual market value. Then they call us misogynistic in published research papers. I don't want them to have my data so I change the spelling of keywords to throw them off.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 01:15 PM
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We already have slavery in our jailing of men for failure to pay interest on child support arrears.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 11:17 AM
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He also extended parental rights to unmarried fathers. He's the man!
/r/MensRights05/07/23 11:28 PM
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Men have problems. Her solution? More feminism. Moran suggests the answer isn’t to reverse feminism but to be inspired by it: for men to get our own adjacent little thing going. “Feminism isn’t a set of rules about women,” she says. “It's a set of tools for understanding gender. So if we want to reinvent men, you go and look at these tools that we invented that allow you to go: is this because of my gender? Why is this a problem? I don't like these clichés about my gender.”
/r/MensRights05/07/23 10:12 PM
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Finally the courts speak out. It was inevitable as we live in a nation of laws and the law is blind, theoretically. Based on this ruling a person accusing someone of sexual assault can be sued if they can't prove their accusation, it appears to me from reading this. This would help to ease the climate of fear on the part of campus men. This death blow to campus kangaroo courts and default 50/50 equal shared parenting passing in Florida has made this my favorite month in my 20 years being involve…
/r/MensRights05/07/23 10:04 PM
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Why consider each case individually and limiting dangerous devices that can spread child porn (pictures of naked underage girls), highly illegal but not recognized by young men with new toys, when you can increase funding for feminist groups that make talks for schools? That's who wrote this piece of trash. More feminist programming says the feminist programmers. They don't want to solve the problem, they want to increase their funding. And what is the problem? They said a few times that boys ar…
/r/MensRights05/07/23 09:47 PM
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If they can forgive 500 billion in student loan debt then why not help out really poor people and their children? Compounding debt on top of men that can barely make ends meet is punishment to men. Let the children have their money, the principal, and eliminate the 27% of child support debt due to predatory interest practices. And stop incarceration for failure to pay child support.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 07:54 PM
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The problem is the boys have been given two years without constant programming by feminists in school during COVID and have begun to think critically as a result of being exposed to different ideas. The answer is more feminist programming.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 04:42 PM
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You're in college to prepare you for the rest of your life. Don't risk it on relationships. Today they are fraught with peril. If you must socialize with women socialize with towny women. Never shit where you eat and don't date women from college. They have been weaponized. Focus on your studies. When you've done well relationships will come to you.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 02:53 AM
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But that is not the case. Do you think those who are unable to pay, 50,000 of them, should be incarcerated? Eliminating debtors prison for child support is an important men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 06:03 PM
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You should spend some time looking this stuff up. It is poor people that are generally imprisoned. Those with the ability to pay generally pay before going to prison. The reality is stark if you look it up. State legislatures have enacted laws focused on noncustodial parents who do not, or are unable to, pay child support. These policies overlap into criminal justice. Noncustodial parents with child support orders can intersect with the criminal justice system in two primary ways:A noncustodial …
/r/MensRights04/07/23 05:35 PM
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It's go broke-----> Become homeless-----> Go to jail. With no ability to make money. How do men get out? Their family pays. How big is the problem: Of 1 mill incarcerated men, 50,000 men are currently incarcerated for failure to pay child support. Reference
/r/MensRights04/07/23 04:52 PM
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With reform of custody and the advent of default equal custody child support will be affected. For men and women who earn roughly equal amounts child support will be minimal or eliminated completely. It is the very poor that suffer the most as they often get pregnant young, both mother and father can't work and the government pays the mother through aid to women and dependent children. It is the government that puts you in jail because Americans don't want to pay for irresponsible people who mak…
/r/MensRights04/07/23 04:30 PM
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Prison for failure to make child support payments creates a new debtors prison and is a form of modern slavery. Jailing of those who cannot make child support payments needs to end for all races. Many women withhold children from fathers that don't pay child support and feel justified in removing a loving parent from their children's lives. Fathering is not about money, it is about love and emotional support as well. Maybe looking at individual circumstances and giving aid to poor and homeless m…
/r/MensRights04/07/23 04:02 PM
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I've asked a few young men on here, around 16-18, when they realized their they were being treated differently than the girls and they say it's in school, early grade school. Schools have been taken over by women. Send your children to private schools with a good male/female teacher balance if you can afford it.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 01:55 AM
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No male-centric activities allowed. Wrestling is definitely out. Maybe synchronized swimming. Or would that be men invading a woman's space. I hope they fight and really fight in the Colosseum but I think they'll do some virtual fight using computers. Nerds to the end.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 11:28 PM
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I agree. You can't be a good father if you're in jail falsely accused of abuse. Keep in touch as much as possible virtually. Wait until they are old enough to voice their opinion on seeing you, around 12-14. Then build a relationship with them. Forcing their mother will escalate her claims of abuse I think.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 02:38 AM
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I know a woman like this. 68, divorced in Florida 26 years ago, still getting 300/month. It doesn't sound like a lot but it was worth probably 1000 dollars a month 26 years ago. Even with the money she has to work doing sanitation work in a nursing home working really hard. She comes home tired, the politics are intense in a nursing home. She only got the alimony because her father and brothers threatened her ex husband. When he pays her he tells her she doesn't deserve it as it was given under …
/r/MensRights02/07/23 02:53 PM
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Possibly the reaction of a group of 350,000 like minded people online. Politicians come out for groups much smaller. I hope we had at least a small contribution.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 07:31 PM
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He did sign equal shared parenting and also extended parental rights to unmarried fathers. A great day for fairness in marriage. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14o20ao/rebuttable\_default\_5050\_equal\_shared\_custody\_now/
/r/MensRights01/07/23 07:03 PM
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Get money to pay your attorney and do whatever they say. Only communicate with her through your attorney. Ask your attorney your chances. Thats what you pay him for and he knows all the details, not us. Interestingly Florida just adopted default 50/50 equal shared parenting today: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14o20ao/rebuttable\_default\_5050\_equal\_shared\_custody\_now/
/r/MensRights01/07/23 07:01 PM
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In 2022 the alimony bill was tied to a shared custody bill. Was that not the case this time? We all thought that shared custody was sunk because it was tied to alimony reform. What about shared custody in Florida?
/r/MensRights01/07/23 05:27 PM
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It seems that 2010 was a turning point against men marrying. This sub is from 2008. I hope the MRM is contributing to men avoiding bad marriages as marriage has been weaponized against men and children.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 03:28 PM
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Then why are men happier in relative and absolute terms than women? It's been that way since the 1980's. All I have to say is thanks for the fish.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 05:03 AM
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"Match me Abroad", I'll wait for the sequel "Divorce me at Home". lol. What channel is this train wreck on? Eddie Murphy on marrying abroad.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 05:43 PM
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It is critical we advocate for non-violent activism as we always do. These issues are sensitive and people are getting injured. Care in our rhetoric to not incite those with mental illness and other emotional problems is essential as these issues are very emotionally evocative. I've never read a post advocating violence on this sub. Of this I am proud.
/r/MensRights29/06/23 09:07 PM
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I also had shared 50/50 custody and read some of what you wrote. I agree with all you said. I did similar. If you love your children spend time with them and document it by having people know of your involvement who can testify on your behalf. We had a nanny who would testify that no abuse or other problems were present, that I did at least half the childcare and I think thats why my ex didn't accuse me to get custody.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 05:30 AM
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The protection of women and children from violence, a victim-centered approach, and the best interests of the child, must take precedence over all other criteria when establishing arrangements for custody and visitation rights,” she said. The best interest of the child is to have an ongoing meaningful relationship with both parents in the vast majority of cases. Parental alienation syndrome is child abuse and even the US courts, biased against men, recognize this.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 05:12 AM
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Abusive mothers are caused to be that way by controlling husbands. These women are perpetrating male abuse by proxy on their children because they are being abused by their husbands. Women are innately caring and rarely abusive unless acting out due to an abusive husband. Citation: Duluth Model /s
/r/MensRights27/06/23 11:13 PM
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However, the ruling notes the wording of the law can also include someone other than a mother if that person assumes financial care of the child. A team of feminist lawyers are feverishly working to change the wording of the law to preclude men who pay child support from getting compensation for sexual assault. Calling the matter a "unique" case, a panel of two administrative judges agreed with the father, noting that he alone provides financial support for the child as the mother is unemployed.…
/r/MensRights27/06/23 05:04 PM
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Every person thinks they're the special one. I'm sure in the polygamous marriages each wife feels they are the special one. To be more precise, if 34% of young women are single then 66% are in relationships. If 63% of men are single then 37% of men are in relationships. So 63% of women are in relationships with 37% of men, hence a lot of sharing. Polygamy seems to be the new normal, we just call it "dating".
/r/MensRights27/06/23 04:05 PM
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That's sharing or just willfully ignoring the facts. I don't think 60% of women are simply fooling themselves. If you date a man that is seeing other people you know your sharing.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 03:38 PM
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As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men If single men voted men's issues they would overwhelm single women. It's interesting that men are double the singles than women. How is that possible in a cis hetero world? Maybe most of the women are sharing men, in other words, modern polygamy.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 03:07 PM
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I used to take my son to an inner city park in a large city in the US. It was a small park nearby as I had full custody from 1-3 years then 50/50. As I sat alone at the wood tables they had my son would go play in the big sandbox/swingset. Every time I went an old man would come sit at my table and give me the stink eye. It was an ethnic park with mainly Eastern European immigrants. As soon as my son ran over the man would leave. I don't think the same thing would happen to a female. The stereot…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 06:29 PM
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The world would grind to a halt in 3 days without men. Namely garbage men. NYC Garbage Strike 1978.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 12:18 PM
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Surrogacy is open to LGTBQT+ people, single mothers and single fathers. They advertise a number of companies in NYC. 99.3% surrogacy success rate – guaranteed How successful a surrogacy agency is should be one of the criteria intended parents use to find an agency. Circle Surrogacy has been making parenthood possible for over 27 years, and we're the most successful surrogacy agency with a success rate of 99.3% for parents; we've been guaranteeing intended parents bring home a baby at the end of …
/r/MensRights24/06/23 12:50 PM
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I got 50/50 25 years ago of a 9 month old in California. One piece of advice, don't criticize the mother of your child unless it's really endangering your child. I was told that by a judge in open court. He said if I had called her a bad mom he would have given her full custody. You want to co-parent and help each other after this.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 05:46 PM
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In both revolutions focusing on the self is part of the philosophy. Giving rise to identity politics. Feminism tells women that child care is a job and that a regular job is better. Stay at home mothers are vilified. Neither of my mid 30's nieces stay home despite them having attorney husbands and living in upper middle class houses. They are modern and send their kids to daycare at age 6 months just as the Soviets suggested was the best method to raise children 100 years ago. Just one generatio…
/r/MensRights23/06/23 05:11 PM
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Not telling the children of their real father is a double benefit to mothers. They can do as they please with the children with no "other parent" to have to deal with and also portray the alienated parent as leaving without caring making them the bad guy. This woman should do a DNA test to see if she is a match with her real father and maybe brothers or sisters or cousins. Just goes to show that biology matters more than who raised you as feminists would have us believe.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 12:52 PM
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The vast majority of homicide by a wife against his husband it is in retaliation for abuse that might be long standing and emotionally destructive. /s What women have been told for 4 decades, The Burning Bed, 1984, when Hollywood got into bed with the DV industry to sell this trope: The Burning Bed Trailer
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:06 PM
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Hire a lawyer immediately. If you don't have the money then borrow from family. It is essential to move quickly and not allow a pattern of you not being with your son. She will use that against you in court.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 02:11 AM
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Try posting on r/MRA_TitleIX.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 10:31 PM
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This reference is full of statistics on DV against men in Canada directly from the Canadian Government Justice Departement. So reliable reference for your project. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/cj-jp/victim/rd14-rr14/p4.html Some statistics: About one third (36%) or 4.9 million men reported experiencing IPV in their lifetime (compared to 44% or 6.2 million women) (Cotter 2021). When asked about the previous 12 months, 12% of women and 11% of men indicated experiencing some form of IPV (Cot…
/r/MensRights20/06/23 10:11 PM
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Except, according to to a women's activist organization, men and women's poverty levels in the UK are virtually identical. They don't give any range of error accuracy but in 2016/17 women are said to be 20% of those below the poverty level and men are 18%. Not a big difference. Single women are 25% of the poor and single men are between 23% to 26%. The same. In this report they don't seem to understand statistics as no error rate in their measurements are reported. Yet their conclusion is that w…
/r/MensRights20/06/23 07:07 PM
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Bipolar disorder really sucks. The divorce rate is 90%. Be careful, don't get married.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 01:46 AM
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We are not afraid of every woman. We're afraid because it could be any woman that has a grudge for many reasons. Politics, especially at higher levels, is intense. Every woman has been weaponized and men are becoming rightfully cautious. It is not men that want a segregated workplace. It is women that want to eliminate men. Any man they don't like.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 11:18 PM
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Men need to adapt. And they are. Men are leaving the workforce as working overtime in a suck ass job is no longer required and because all the women are working. Becoming "marriageable" is no longer required. Marriage is not something many men aspire to anymore. The marriage rate is the lowest since the great depression of 1930. Notably, you don't need to be married to have access to sex like it was a mere 60 years ago. I'm old and retired but my son started his own business. He'll have no femal…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 10:21 PM
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From the article the prosecution was afraid to have to rely on the testimony of a 5 year old. But mainly the women plead no contest to child abuse and in return they would not seek custody of the children. More than anything, this light sentence was to be sure they removed these children from these women.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 09:47 PM
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As women move into a sphere they transform it into a place hostile to males. Then males leave that profession. It happened in education, psychology and now most colleges. Now it is happening in business. The movement to remove men from positions of power is working better than expected
/r/MensRights19/06/23 06:32 PM
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In the past police would make an arrest if the intimate partner pressed charges. Then the war on the family called for mandatory arrests in every case of reported DV. So many women were arrested they became very upset. Women spoke out and everyone bent over backwards. Here is an example from 2008. Much of the time the police cannot figure out who started it and arrested both. These were called "dual arrests". The result of efforts to stop having women arrested for DV is the Duluth Model. Under t…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 05:56 PM
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I once had a girlfriend tell me she liked me better when I drank. I was never a big drinker. I had three drinks when I was next with her and could tell it was unsafe to drive home. A woman that would encourage me to drink and drive an hour home is not a good person. I dropped her immediately.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 03:22 PM
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What feminists think about the family: That's one woman murdered every ten minutes by someone she knows. These findings led to the UN declaring home to be the most dangerous place for women. One in three women experience physical or sexual violence in their lifetimes.Jan 29, 2020 https://iwda.org.au/the-most-dangerous-place-for-women-their-own-home/#:\~:text=That's%20one%20woman%20murdered%20every,sexual%20violence%20in%20their%20lifetimes.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 01:36 AM
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Men need to learn how to leave bad relationships. My ex pulled shit like this, I filed first and got full temporary custody. Leave before they can make a false accusation.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 12:46 AM
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But they want equality during the marriage with husbands doing half the child care. A feminist wrote to me on another thread that she supports default 50/50 after divorce because that is what feminists have been pushing for decades inside the marriage.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 06:16 PM
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Where do you live? In Nordic countries it is different. In the US, custody is cases are a war zone. Default 50/50 makes for a level playing field at the beginning of the court case. If there is a problem at dads or at moms 50/50 is ended. It is really for high conflict cases and those with parental alienation that would benefit from this. Most couples will still settle out of court on their custody agreements and these will change over time. Mine did. It is not "every case". It is rebuttable def…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 06:07 PM
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Children need and have the right to have both parents frequently involved in their care. Currently 45% of children don't have a meaningful relationship with one parent, usually the father. https://www.jec.senate.gov/public/index.cfm/republicans/analysis?ID=E63AEB04-2C68-40B8-9A8D-9426D4091CF9 This is the best interest of the child model, which, in practice is best interest of the mother. The best interest of the child is both parents and all the other things like having to live near each other p…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:59 PM
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I'm a campaigner for default 50/50. I raised my son 50/50 and it's the only reason I have a good relationship with him as his mother tried hard to alienate us. I live in NY. Any progress? I think this might be the last State to adopt default 50/50 as NY is heavily feminist.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 04:45 PM
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Today, around 45 percent of American children spend some time without a biological parent by late adolescence.3 That is up from around one-third of children born in the 1960s and one-fifth to one-quarter born in the 1950s.4 Even more strikingly, among the most disadvantaged socioeconomic groups, even fewer children are raised in continuously intact families. Single parenthood is experienced by two-thirds of the children of mothers with less than a high school education and by eighty percent of b…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:33 AM
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"Whose doing the heavy lifting at work: Men" Where ever I worked no matter what position I held, when a box that was heavy needed lifting, which happened all the time, I was asked along with the other men to do the heavy lifting.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 06:44 PM
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But feminists would have us not trust our eyes and believe that most custody cases are settled amicably. Men settle like men who are given extensive charges in criminal court settle for a lesser sentence...under pressure and with few options. That's why we need default 50/50 custody so women can no longer steal children from their fathers thus eliminating half the child's family.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 02:31 PM
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You could talk about how relationships and especially having children removed from men after divorce leads to an 8 times increase in suicide rates and how making custody more equal this might be ameliorated. Women have no increase in suicide rate after divorce. https://jech.bmj.com/content/57/12/993
/r/MensRights16/06/23 12:14 PM
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I think the study indicated women are turned on by money. According to the study, if you have it she gets wet for you. Women and men are different.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 02:27 AM
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It's not just hard to trust a woman but anyone can falsely accuse. IMO false accusations can lead to a form of PTSD where triggers lead to anxiety and other symptoms. Men like this shut themselves in.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 06:43 PM
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Sometimes you don't get over this sort of false allegation. His life might already be permanently damaged.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 06:31 PM
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About a third of the 250 comments say she must have been abused by him. Blaming the victim. We live in a time when men are considered less than human.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 05:09 PM
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War, they have excess young men who are good for cannon fodder.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 04:35 PM
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I once did a deep dive into Incel websites and found deep depression. I'm surprised the researchers admitted the truth that these are just sad guys. Who wouldn't curse the world if you had deep depression. But men are not allowed to be human. And certainly depressed men are not allowed to congregate and discuss their shared experience and try to help each other.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 03:47 PM
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You are too gender conforming. You are both a misogynist and transphobic. /s
/r/MensRights15/06/23 03:33 PM
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In contested custody cases the judge rarely decides. He relies on expert consultants called custody evaluators. Usually specially trained psychologists. They do a three day evaluation of both parents. This is where the feminist leanings of family court comes from. Psychologists are 85% female and predominantly feminist. Women in the US protect custody more than anything. Feminists and conservatives.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 05:20 PM
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She should be found guilty of aggravated emotional abuse with foresight of knowledge that this could lead to his death, a statement she clearly made when she told him it was best for his daughter if he committed suicide. She should go to jail for the same amount of time as manslaughter and she should never have custody of a child. With suicide rates of men rising 800%, women's rate doesn't change, during divorce, statisticians theorize that we underestimate the bonding of men with their children…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 04:51 PM
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In my case it was a role reversal. Although I had a good job she re-married a very very wealthy trust fund kid who financed her so that she could move with him three states away. It was devastating for my son when his mom left although he chose to stay with me. Eventually he missed her and I didn't fight with him or her when he decided to go live with her for a while. I always felt that a child needs both parents.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 03:18 PM
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What happens when men go on strike, NYC during the Covid vaccine wars. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10140717/Brooklyn-looks-like-NYC-1970s-trash-piles-amid-workers-vaccine-protest.html
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:52 PM
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Parental alienation is so common I am going to generalize. The reasons for alienation are about money but more frequently about power. Especially the power to create a new family with a new man and have the children call him dad. This usually involves moving. Moving is forbidden if you have 50/50. My ex tried and I won twice in court and maintained 50/50. She eventually moved and I got full custody. Cost: 300K, took 4 years. With default 50/50 likely wouldn't have gone to court.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 05:04 AM
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I knew my ex would try to alienate me as soon as she left me so I filed for 50/50 when my son was 9 months. Having my own one on one relationship with my son meant she could never really alienate me. He's in his 20's and we have a good relationship. I probably have a better relationship with my son than a lot of men with gate keeping wives.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 04:38 AM
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You see your honor we were having a fight then she called me an asshole...it was an accident though, I raised my clenched hand in defense and she ran into it.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 06:23 PM
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Her preparation for an abused spouse defense must have looked unlikely to win by her attorney. So she's going with "accident". I bet she gets time off for claiming he was abusive. She killed him for calling her a bitsh. And what was she doing with a long knife, she claimed to be making tea?
/r/MensRights13/06/23 04:56 PM
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You got off easy. If you had children it would have been ten times as hard. And the aggravation never stops.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 01:56 PM
0

Do you go on a second date if your first date makes you split the bill?
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:55 PM
1

https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/2019/08/30/kentuckys-joint-custody-law-leads-decline-family-court-cases/2158216001/ https://spectrumnews1.com/oh/columbus/news/2022/01/11/lawmakers-push-for-equal-shared-parenting-in-ohio#:~:text=According%20to%20ODVN%2C%20%22HB%20508,good%20parents%2C%E2%80%9D%20said%20Creech. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/List\_of\_shared\_parenting\_legislation
/r/MensRights09/06/23 06:44 PM
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I like that better than being called a White Nationalist because I'm an MRA. Personally I'm an old style liberal, fiscally conservative and socially liberal. I just want to finish the revolution and create a family structure where children can have fathers as well as mothers. I'm a fathers rights advocate pushing for default 50/50 custody on divorce and a lot of feminists agree with me. As a result this sort of legislation is making rapid progress in State Houses.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 09:40 PM
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No, you're just starting to think critically. Don't trust the propaganda, make your own decisions based on real life experience.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 05:45 PM
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Men are not allowed to be proud of their sex (even during Pride month) as that makes them Male Supremacists according the the FBI endorsed Southern Poverty Law Center.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 02:03 PM
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Reddit has a dataset they let researchers use. They track words like "SMV" for sexual market value, Chad and Stacy. Red Pill...etc. They track users and what other sites on reddit that they also post on.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 12:26 AM
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They are data mining and tracking us too. To them MRA's, MGTOW and Incels are synonymous.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 12:04 AM
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Excellent work. Great website. Let us know if any activism, letter writing, etc would help.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 06:46 PM
1

I know a very smart guy, official Mensa member, who stopped working two years before the divorce. She left the marital home when she left him. He got the kids, the house and hefty child support and alimony payments. She's still paying half her kids college even though she's single and having a hard time keeping a job in her 60's. He didn't even pay a lawyer. He had a friend who was a lawyer and convinced his soon to be ex that they would settle things without the legal expenses. She had no lawye…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 06:14 PM
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I was divorced in California twice. That was 20 years ago so laws may have changed. If you bought the house prior to marriage then it is your property. But any gain in value do to the house going up in price during the marriage is split in half. It is community property. If you try to hide anything that will be used against you in court.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 06:02 PM
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This article argues that all identity politics, and MRA's are called out, contain more narcissists. https://areomagazine.com/2018/10/30/narcissism-and-the-new-politics-of-identity/
/r/MensRights05/06/23 10:23 PM
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This reminds me of all the men who think women from other countries are more traditional when it's really people from rural areas are more traditional. The difference is that in the city you can be anonymous. In a small town everyone knows you so there is social pressure not to be a bad person, male or female. Want a traditional foreign wife, move to the village with her and live there where family matters.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 01:12 AM
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He should go see a lawyer and remove himself and his children from harm. If he plays his cards right he might be able to get 50/50. The longer he stays the more abuse he will receive and the greater the likilihood that she will get hurt while he is trying to protect himself landing him in jail. He must leave ASAP.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 05:03 AM
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Often family court takes into consideration visits to the OB/GYN during the pregnancy and being there for the birth as evidence of a man being involved with the birth of their child. Therefore, it is in any mans best interest, if he loves his child, to be there at the birth.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 03:10 PM
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More tradcon propaganda. It didn't take long to point out that women are biologically superior parents, not saying but setting the stage, for more mother custody. Celebrating Men and Women, and Their Differences Answers to why mothers often rank higher in the happiness department can most certainly be found in the brain. Studies show that men and women actually respond to newborn infant faces differently. When shown pictures of babies, women’s brains saw more activity in areas related to empathy…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:02 PM
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One of the key legal changes that the metoo movement brought in the US is the ability to bring in witnesses from decades ago and create a modus operandi of sexual abuse over decades. Perhaps we need a hetoo movement so men may learn about the rape accusation history of women who accuse them, truley or falsely, of rape. I even support a registry for those convicted of false accusation of rape.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 04:28 PM
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I'm old and it's not a movie but it lead me as a young boy to think I could raise a child on my own. Which I later did. And it was great just like in the series. The Courtship of Eddies Father TV Series Trailer and Kramer vs Kramer.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:44 PM
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Great trailer you linked. Sounds like the propaganda machine is reading what men are complaining about. They just want to make money and I don't think weak men sells in China. Can't wait to see it.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 04:32 PM
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In 2012, on the Costa Concordia, it was every man for himself. https://observers.france24.com/en/20120118-costa-concordia-passenger-shipwreck-class-action-lawsuit-italy-schettino-manslaughter-rescue-giglio-cruise
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:30 AM
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You're a single mom but don't sound like a victim needing a white knight to save her. Society sends the message that men are deadbeats and single moms are generally poor put upon victims. I also raised my son 50/50 but don't even consider that raising him as a single parent as I had help half the time. That made it much easier, IMO. I do feel that full time single moms have special needs but think that encouraging young men to get involved with their kids and share custody, default 50/50, would …
/r/MensRights27/05/23 04:16 PM
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IMO if men are guilty of anything when confronted by emotionally abusive women it's that they don't realize they have a secret power. A secret power that women know they have as well. The power to leave. When I see an abused man or woman who doesn't leave IMO it's partially on them for staying.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 04:01 PM
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In the older singles market widows are the most sought after group after never been married. The majority of women who are divorced, in my experience, have issues with relationships. Any parent, male or female, who talks down about the other parent of their children is probably a bad person and should be avoided.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 06:22 PM
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I read somewhere when this first happened that the gene they edited was for resistance to HIV infection although I could be wrong, it was a long time ago.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 12:56 PM
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DNA was finally discovered to be the genetic material in 1957 for which Watson and Crick won the Nobel prize. Only 67 years later we are turning arm cells into egg and sperm cells manipulating cells maturity at will. With CRISPR, a gene editing tool discovered in bacteria, we can now edit any gene we want to. Want to remove a genetic predisposition for cancer...no problem. The question what is a woman...or...what is a man is becoming more interesting in a short time. We are in the midst of two r…
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:10 AM
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It's not just MGTOW'ers: CNN — The University of Pennsylvania nominated swimmer Lia Thomas – who has become the face of the debate on transgender women in sports – for the 2022 NCAA Woman of the Year award https://www.cnn.com/2022/07/15/sport/lia-thomas-ncaa-woman-of-the-year-nomination/index.html
/r/MensRights24/05/23 12:30 AM
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In her book, Inhorn writes that closing the gap between the genders will be a “critical policy challenge in the decades ahead”. But until society “fixes men”, egg freezing will remain the best reproductive option for single women in their 30s . Men are broken according the feminist "scientist" who only listened to one side of the story. No attempt to be balanced. And no attempt to examine the lives of the children born to these single women who cannot manage a successful relationship.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:48 PM
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Revenge, attention, money, saving face. Black men are the easiest target demographic as sexism and racism are still prevalent.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:39 PM
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The only way to end parental alienation is default 50/50 shared parenting so the child has a relationship with each parent without interference from the other. I did and it worked when my ex tried to alienate my son.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 04:48 PM
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A poster said that this was because she's probably a sexually aggressive woman and the men she met were into that. This is probably true. I know some unattractive women who get by because they are sexually aggressive.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 05:21 PM
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I wonder if stalking her for access to his children would have been seen as natural and not harassment. Or are dental problems more important than a child-father bond.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 05:47 PM
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Man gets brain cancer, girlfriend most affected.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 05:14 PM
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Your story sounds fantastic but after three allegations against me over my sixty years I think you are in a dangerous place and have to have your freedom as your top priority. Good luck, your going to need it.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 10:40 PM
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I agree. Both men and women had to work in the past. The way this article is framed is poor and ignores history before 1945. Even when mills in England were invented in beginning of the industrial revolution women worked in the garment trade amongst others. It is no aberration that women can and like to work. The aberration was the wealthy US in the 50's through 60's that allowed a one person earner to provide a good living and a household of four on a single wage.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 01:47 AM
3

JP is a tradcon.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:05 PM
5

Shitting the bed is called dropping an Amber Turd.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 03:05 AM
3

So many become polarized they don't realize the online world is skewed. Of course most people are nice with a small and loud subset that are hypersensitive.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 02:18 AM
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If there is a need for women only spaces then is there a need for men only spaces?
/r/MensRights09/04/23 01:48 AM
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Suicide rates rise 800% after divorce. The thinking is that men miss their children more than we thought. I guess they think we are all deadbeats, as they say.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 02:17 AM
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I was hard core pre professional school and studied all the time. At first I thought this might be a good way to meet someone doing something we had in common. But this was artistic dance. I started with Modern Dance. then I moved on to Ballet, took 3 semesters, then Jazz Dance and African Dance. I really got into it and ended up being invited to the university traveling dance company in senior year. I never did have a connection with a fellow dancer. I really loved artistic dance. I also took a…
/r/MensRights01/04/23 12:45 AM
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The way I looked at it at the age of 20 was that weight lifting class had 30 guys and 3 girls. But ballet had 3 guys and 30 girls. Really in shape athletic girls. I made the right choice. And I stayed with ballet even though graduate school. I even danced in a music video. It is a great way to keep in shape.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 05:16 AM
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They avoid the question when asked and say they are against forced conscription. In Ukraine there was forced conscription planned for females that have certain professions like nurses but I don't know if they followed through on it. For men, all men, even old men, are forced to be available for conscription and leaving the country is against the law.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:19 PM
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I took sewing in jr high school instead of shop, took extra nursing classes in high school, took ballet instead of weight lifting in college and raised my son alone from 9 months until 3 years when I shared custody 50/50 after that. There was a time I wished I had breasts. Maybe I should sign up as a certified qualified female.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:12 PM
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This is administrative abuse, a form of emotional abuse. Usually you have to wait until divorce to be falsely accused and made to have a restraining order due to false allegations. Now it happens on college campuses where the snow flakes don't want to have to see anyone they don't want to and they hold you degree, worth hundreds of thousands in student loans, hostage. Don't date women on campus guys.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:03 AM
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It is excellent news to hear legislators paying attention to the needs of men and boys on campus. Trump had a good start but what we need is legislation to protect due process for all college students.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 02:26 AM
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The death rates from prostate and breast cancer were similar. Now with improvements in breast cancer screening the mortality rate has come down significantly. Prostate cancer has a higher mortality in England where prostate cancer screening was discouraged. Even in the US there were questions. Not any more. The mortality rate for prostate cancer has gone up. The average age for diagnosis of breast cancer is 62 and for prostate cancer 66. Not much difference. Do some people get cancer early? Of c…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:24 PM
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The most common reason for divorce is that the wife is bored. I would never be with a woman that didn't have a career.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 02:32 AM
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Like an old coat, use him in winter to stay home with and dump him for the tingles. Boyfriend hibernation is over, so you can totally toss any extra baggage outside your gallerija for a summer of sexual prowess. Remember though, safe sex is the sexiest sex.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 06:23 PM
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Equity and Inclusion
/r/MensRights26/03/23 12:06 AM
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That's because it's common sense. Most of my 30 something nieces and nephews have spouses that have similar work ambitions as them. These two income earners are making for a nice lifestyle. That's what I had planned.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:48 PM
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Here here, both of my ex wives were college educated and had good jobs and high ambition when we married. Since I am a high earner, within two years both stopped working. That was a turn off for me as I like someone who is accomplished. But they both ended up rejecting me as the money I made wasn't enough to provide them with the lifestyle they expected.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:11 PM
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That is what Phyllis Schlafly thought and torpedoed the Equal Rights Amendment. But her sisters continued the push without it. As far as biological responsibility, in humans men have equal responsibility as women. That's why men, especially here, are fighting for default 50/50 equal shared parenting. If you mean pregnancy, that is something you have to take up with evolution that made organisms dimorphic 100's of million years ago.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 10:55 PM
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Men's happiness has improved both relative to women's and in absolute numbers.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 09:38 PM
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I would give you three upvotes. Women have been fooled into thinking that working was somehow fulfilling. Most jobs are dead end grunt work even if it's paperwork. I've seen some women describe their middle management jobs as being spreadsheet junkies. Men have known that work is work the whole time. Now men don't have to carry the full load and they are happier. Even alimony has been going down as women are now expected to work after divorce.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:34 AM
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Then why were women more happy than men before 1990?
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:57 AM
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Men are becoming worse citizens. Why is being a better cog in the machine a personal goal? Men see the reality that society is at war with heterosexual relationships and avoid them. Men are happier and women less happy since feminisms hegemony. Some interesting graphs that are unmistakable. Around 1987 woman's happiness sank below men's and has stayed that way. Graphs men vs women happiness
/r/MensRights23/03/23 12:39 AM
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Don't say anything. Just listen and after you leave go see a lawyer. Borrow money from your parents. Once you have the accusation listen to the lawyer on how to proceed. Your educational future is at stake.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 02:34 AM
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It seems our activism raising consciousness is starting to reach main stream media. We need to keep promoting the rights of men and boys.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 06:24 PM
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You completely ignore made to penetrate so I don't think you are arguing in good faith. I am done here.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 01:49 PM
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From your reference, same as mine. The new FBI rape definition states that rape is: "Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." So a woman who makes a man penetrate her against his will is not a rapist. Only if the man is penetrated is it rape. You are probably trying to mislead this board.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 12:17 PM
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The revised UCR definition of rape is: Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim. Attempts or assaults to commit rape are also included; however, statutory rape and incest are excluded. https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2013/crime-in-the-u.s.-2013/violent-crime/rape#:~:text=The%20revised%20UCR%20definition%20of,rape%20and%20incest%20are%20excluded. By definition…
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:07 AM
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lol...that was a good joke. Women can't rape a man by definition. Rape is defined as penetration and women lack the bad organ.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 03:58 PM
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Great way to teach young men that feminism means to give them a smaller portion than women get. They are teaching them the hate the feminist movement is guided by.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 07:10 AM
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It's great to see that justice is being applied equally. It's a step forward to see it covered in a serious news paper.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 05:35 PM
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This says it all. She wants the money and her affair. This week’s guest “Sabrina” didn’t initiate her affair because she wasn’t feeling fulfilled sexually – she was feeling neglected by her husband and lonely and friendless. The man she is having an affair with has since become her best friend and she can’t imagine her life without him. Now she worries about what will happen to her if he ever chooses to end their affair, or if her husband, who supports her financially, finds out about her infide…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:24 PM
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She's really the victim. He's abusing the system by making it look like she was the perp. Abusive men are tricky like that. /s
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:45 PM
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North America
/r/MensRights05/03/23 04:30 PM
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As there are things that both men and women do that are nasty, I guess we can call them toxic. Toxic masculinity seems to be anything that isn't feminine. I think this article hits the nail on the head. But I've been wondering about the things women tend to do more than men like social isolation...the cancel culture. So what is toxic femininity. This article gives this definition: If it’s more difficult to describe toxic femininity than toxic masculinity, this is simply because toxic femininity …
/r/MensRights05/03/23 03:19 PM
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Worst Patriarchy ever.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 07:57 PM
1

Your's was a common opinion in the 1930's.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 07:03 PM
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Since boredom is the most common cause of women divorcing men being "under control" is code for being boring and will just as likely lead to divorce and, because she doesn't respect you, false allegations when she doesn't get her way after divorce.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 03:19 PM
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I guess all the millions of women who have had abortions, abandon their children lives are also worth $0 dollars by your logic.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:55 PM
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It's a he said she said case. She said he said it, he denies he said it. Just a flogging for even being accused of questioning the femocracy.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 04:37 PM
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There seems to be no agreement on what toxic femininity is. To a feminist it's being a "good women" in our parlance. Lifestyle expert Karine Laudort explained: 'Toxic femininity refers to a set of negative behavioral traits associated with traditional gender roles and societal expectations placed on women.' Meanwhile Justin Donne, an Equality, Diversity, Inclusion Expert, said: 'Some of the behaviours or traits that may be associated with toxic femininity include manipulation, gossiping, cattine…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:42 PM
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Parental alienation is a severe form of emotional abuse that has long lasting affects on the children alienated. It should punishable like any other form of child abuse. Jail time. Petition signed.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:23 AM
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There needs to be a registry for false rape accusers. I guess, based on this law, cases where the rape charge is found to be unfounded should be included as well as those convicted by evidence of false accusation. To save men in the future from serial false accusers.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 03:43 PM
1

I saw it on FOX News, sorry no link.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 02:11 AM
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This is an article about a reddit post on TwoX. What a waste of 4 min of my life.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 10:00 PM
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True. The sexist responses it was giving made the national news and was a major embarrassment. They are now trying to hide the bias better. Wow, they called out "Kill All Men". What next? I'm sure it won't ever say that men and women are both responsible for most domestic DV.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 09:45 PM
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The biggest impediment to equal 50/50 shared parenting is the legal profession through their influence groups like the Bar Associations. Even feminists don't stand in our way like the family lawers. It's a real scam. Stirring up trouble to make more money in litigation.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 04:57 PM
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This is judicial violence by proxy, a form of emotional abuse that recklessly and maliciously led to a students death. She and the sexist Title IX coordinator should face charges and jail time. Only then will the feminist reign of terror on college campuses end. The cost of lawsuits will be passed on to new students.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 05:02 PM
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It doesn't matter if he leered or not. She felt like he leered at her and that's all that matters to the manager. Feelings beat facts in our new feminized world. Find a male only gym to work out at.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 07:54 PM
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Here is a great video showing how most women in a studio audience find castration hilarious. Sharon Osbourne on The Talk
/r/MensRights15/02/23 03:07 PM
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This report is not an overall comparative study of boys and girls, but a focus on countries and contexts where boys are struggling to access education and progress. While girls continue to face severe disadvantages and inequalities in education, the report shows that boys face similar and different challenges, that they are not a homogenous group and that certain boys need support. As this report shows, addressing boys’ disengagement from and disadvantage in education is not a zero-sum game. Sup…
/r/MensRights15/02/23 12:50 PM
2

The US has no official national language, FYI.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:39 AM
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Better title would be: "Only 50% of liberal women would date a male feminist, survey reveals."
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:26 AM
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What I see is a large Marge in charge getting to take out her misandry on captive students. The boy said the girl started it. Why not stop there and inquire what happened? I have a sister 18 months younger than me and this kind of thing happened all the time all during most of our childhood. It's a game boys and girls have. No it's your fault...no it's your fault. Adults, like my mom, tell us both to stop it. The false accusations start happening to boys at a young age. His father was accused of…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 07:48 PM
3

Yes men should not discuss these things and use such faulty measurements as statistics when everyone knows if the lived experience of the women is that she is unhappy then he, by definition, is emotionally abusive. That kind of thinking has lead to our divorce culture. I don't mind. If women want to make marriage a non-binding contract but custody laws have to be changed and give each party 50/50 custody because divorce is hurting the children.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:25 PM
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Jailing men for being poor shows that the US is no more civilized than societies who still have debtors prison and is a form of slavery. Poor mothers get financial help. Poor fathers go to jail.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 01:15 PM
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I think you are missing the point. You will be co-parents. That's what 50/50 equal shared parenting means. You have to get along. You have to make decisions together as if you were still married. It's best for the kids to have the input of two loving parents. If she will not grant you 50/50 then take her to court. No need to outspend her. It seems like she is not seeking good legal council. You should. For your daughters sake. But if she loses her flat that affects your daughter. I hope you valu…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 06:19 AM
2

You mean Chinese AI. Because men are being drummed out of academia in the West, and talent in men is a target for dismissal with prejudice. The biggest impediment to feminist hegemony is smart men.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:43 PM
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Andrew Yang was a Democratic presidential candidate in the US and he is coming out strongly supporting men and boys and the problems we discuss here. Andrew Yang interview with Warren Farrell
/r/MensRights10/02/23 04:44 PM
1

Is that Toxic Femininity? I'm trying to find the definition.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 02:28 AM
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Is the toxic femininity? I thought that was being nice to your husband.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 01:35 AM
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"Where is is safe to do so". That is always the case so why change the law? Sorry but I believe Bettina over someone who admits this is about supporting a woman's right to feel safe over the best interests of the child.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 12:32 AM
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Now the new family law will be all about safety. The first consideration under the proposed legislation is what orders are best to promote safety for the child or carers. That’s hardly a surprise. Feminists have been using the violence card to undermine father’s contact with their children since the 2006 laws were first introduced, with constant claims about violent dads putting children at risk, and legal efforts to beef up safety considerations working very effectively to shut fathers out of c…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 12:13 AM
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Maybe in their reverse sharia movement they will make men driving illegal for safety sake.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 05:10 PM
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This article was posted on the notoriously woke magazine Medium. It got only 2 upvotes when feminist articles get hundreds. Here are the only two comments from the Medium article: I wholly sympathize with the boy here- he has been subjected to sexism for so long, of course he rejects to it. If the genders were reversed, nobody would blame a girl for standing up for herself. So this piece really justifies the mens rights movement, which btw, has NOTHING to do with the alt right. You're creating a…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 02:50 PM
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More and more States are bringing this legislation forward in the State legislatures. In this past June 2022 DeSantis veto'd default 50/50 shared parenting in Florida.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 02:24 PM
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Female supremacism is a thing.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:30 PM
4

I'm interested in AI and it was clear from the beginning that bias could be baked into the output. Feminist scientists have been fighting hard in major online journals to make AI a form of social force for change. But AI is too important to make it just another tool of the social justice warrior. Just as twitter is becoming more balanced, so will the essential tools based on AI. IMO.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 04:35 PM
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No matter how hard the feminists fight against it, eventually AI will be relatively free of sexual bias. Most people believe in sexual equality. That's why we have laws defending this equality.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 04:16 PM
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Feminist professors are creating a hostile environment for men and boys on campus. It's good to see men and women standing up to this form of sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 01:44 PM
4

I just knew if I googled "woman becomes pregnant from anal sex" I would find a hit...lol.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 11:20 PM
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Even anal sex comes with the risk of pregnancy. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/pregnant-from-anal-sex-cloacal-malformation-a7041371.html /s
/r/MensRights04/02/23 11:15 PM
3

About half of marriages stay together, so of course. Even the half of marriages that end in divorce don't end because of cheating. They end because of boredom.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:49 PM
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I recommend to young men to buy and house and invest in real estate especially before marrying. Many on here disagree with me. Young men need to be advised to learn to live on their own.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:44 PM
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That's why they don't want to make gender based hate speech illegal. It would send too many feminists to jail.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 12:53 PM
5

In California once you're separated you're legally separated and responsible for your own bills and things like getting pregnant. Are you legally separated? Have you filed for divorce yet?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 05:09 AM
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A child has a right to a mother and a father, even an imperfect mother or father and lack of having two loving biological parents is a wound that never heals. That's why I fought, lost my house, lost my job and suffered emotionally in a 14 year custody fight to maintain 50/50 custody. When my son started using drugs in his teens I was able to show him some tough love and that I wouldn't tolerate that behavior. He's now in his twenties and doing well, drug and depression free, and he and I have a…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 04:08 PM
8

I'm a classic liberal and think Progressives are thieves.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 07:10 AM
2

I think there are men failing and society should reach out with help. Instead of jailing poor fathers and creating fatherless children we should provide support like we do for single moms because single dads exist too. With the movement to 50/50 custody there will be about as many single dads as single moms.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:35 AM
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I think most women find the radical feminist subs toxic. Feminists have never been the majority but on controlled social media it appears they control the conversation. Its advocacy social media and may someday be replaced by a more balanced conversation about the situation of women and men.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 04:42 AM
1

She agreed and married him. But it's not in the spirit of a partnership to ask your partner to use their inheritance to pay their student loans instead of saying let's use your inheritance to buy the house as a couple and then share your debts as that is what happens to most people with college debt. He never told her he intended to buy the house in his name until a few months before the wedding putting her on the spot. When I re-married I wanted a child and discussed 50/50 custody before we agr…
/r/MensRights26/01/23 03:37 AM
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My niece recently married and her now husband made sure she paid off her 170K student loans and, with the money he saved living with her in a small apartment for four years bought a house six months before the marriage and put it in his name only. Now all she can get is the appreciation on the house during marriage. When I heard what he had done, before the marriage, I told her what he was doing was a big red flag as he was preparing for divorce. She married him anyway. He's an engineer and she'…
/r/MensRights25/01/23 11:31 PM
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Boys are learning fast to distrust feminism as schools have boys as a captive audience forced to be there. Consider transferring to a private school where they risk losing your tuition if you make a complaint.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:11 PM
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She wasn't working, who else would pay? I got full custody on the spot.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 05:42 PM
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You seem like an intelligent feminist. Why do you troll here? Wouldn't you be happier at TwoX?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 05:36 PM
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I don't think people would judge a wife who leaves her husband if he willfully stopped working. The marriage is over when this happens so better get ready for divorce. I have a very feminist friend who's husband stopped working two years before they filed for divorce. He got the house, alimony, custody of their sons and hefty child support. It goes both ways.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 09:57 PM
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Because I hired a nanny from when my son was 1 month due to my ex's post partum. When she left me she took the nanny with her. She told the judge she could care for our son only with the nanny. Incredibly entitled.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 09:02 PM
9

Your typical feminist.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 08:43 PM
11

My question is why don't men marry better? The best way to reduce alimony is to marry a woman who makes as much as or more than you do.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 08:41 PM
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The only and final straw was when my ex kidnapped our son without warning or discussion. Even then my attorney said that he couldn't count the number of men in his experience this happens to that still won't file for divorce. I received full custody as she had post partum depression and admitted to the judge she couldn't care for our child. If I hadn't I would not have been in my sons life. She moved 8 hrs away and was going to stay there. I now have a great relationship with my now adult son an…
/r/MensRights23/01/23 04:33 PM
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These boys will learn to reject feminism all the more for their humiliation.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:23 PM
1

This is true of anyone that is being manipulated. It is passive aggressive hostility and seems to be the specialty of the feminist method but I think it was always the case even before feminism and men and women both do it in roughly equal numbers.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 04:17 PM
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Discrimination by sex is illegal. This is very regressive. Back to the bad old days of laws applied differently based on sex.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:03 AM
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Ketanji Brown Jackson famously couldn't define what a woman is during her Supreme Court approval process. How can I define what a man is?
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:00 AM
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No.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 02:55 AM
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What the son now thinks of his mother. And all the sons kept from their fathers feel eventually: "I don't know how she took it to the grave," he said. "She was my mother, so I loved her, but she was a selfish, hateful person."
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:34 PM
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The only reason I read for the student to "learn" that men bad women good is that the teacher knows better because they are the teacher. No attempt to teach critical thinking.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 03:21 PM
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You're lucky in your close encounter with the dangerous person. I'm sure the punishment for not wanting to sleep with her an a date is a false rape accusation.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:53 AM
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When my ex left and I had full custody she married a very wealthy man. The only stipulation was that they wouldn't contribute to private school and my son had a learning disability and had been in private school for 5 years. Why do men have to send children to private school? There is nothing wrong with public school...at least according to my ex.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 06:35 PM
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Nice. Dave nailed it. Interestingly our own Supreme Court Justice can't define what a woman is.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 04:00 PM
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Be very careful. Women who want transactional relationships are suspect at best. Never let one into your life.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 01:30 PM
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I used to have much success at meeting girls who worked in retail. Like the video store and stuff like that. You don't get to define what a creep is. If they like you they are open to talking with you and going out with you. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 01:24 PM
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The custody evaluator has all the power. No one can deny them without a serious appeal and further custody evaluations. Mine cut a deal with my ex to take me to court when our son was 12 and she promised my ex she would be given full custody. My ex bragged about this to me when my son was 3. She filed again at 12. She lost.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 10:27 PM
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I think most people are egalitarian. Feminists are extreme and so rejected by most people except those in power.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:10 PM
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The judge doesn't actually favor one over the other. They farm out this responsibility to custody evaluators who are psychologists. They determine who the child is best off with. They cost 20K for the evaluation 20 years ago. The judge adopts what the custody evaluator decides. The choice of evaluator is important as most are tremendously biased. In California one attorney chooses three and the other attorney makes the final choice.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:00 PM
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Men are 8 times more likely to suicide than women after divorce. Women have no increase in suicide after divorce. The original reference that discovered this hypothesized that maybe men miss their children more than society thinks. That is a big reason men commit suicide.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 05:00 PM
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I thought men and women were equal and that all this stuff is learned behavior. This kind of thinking leads to men not being seen as equally qualified to be single parents during 50/50 arrangements.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 04:37 PM
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If anything is culturally learned it is this. I don't do housework because it's boring. I just avoid making a mess and have a housekeeper, 100/wk, that helps with the dusting and stuff. Always have. It's less expensive than going on a date. If the car is broken who is expected to fix it in our society. My elderly mother still calls me instead of my sister when her drain gets clogged. Is my sister any worse at calling the plumber? More sexist bullshit from "philosophers" that brought us Patriarch…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 03:34 PM
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Another apocalyptic vision of the future with feminism was done by Frederico Fellini in the 1980 film "City of Women" where men live in enclaves and women patrol the city like the Purity Police of the Taliban and Iranians.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 04:02 AM
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https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php I just posted a reference showing that it is 67.2/32.8 in California. That's an average. They say "best interest of the child". That's whats written. What is practiced is what is average. Notice all the States with 50/50. Only one has it written, Kentucky. Florida does it but DeSantis veto'd default 50/50 just this past June 2022.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 03:03 AM
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Custody laws go by State. Get involved in Fathers Rights groups fighting for default 50/50 custody in all states like the National Parents Organization.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:56 AM
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Maybe this will be what future will be like on Mars.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 11:44 PM
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You are correct. Here is a nice map of the usual custody arrangements in the US. https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-2018.php
/r/MensRights09/01/23 11:21 PM
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Being proud of being a man is male supremacy (according to the SPLC). Because women are a historically systematically discriminated upon group.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:31 PM
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I asked my 90 year old mom, married in the golden age of marriage, the 1950's. She said that of the people that rarely got divorced in her generation only about 25% were happily married. With 75% of people trapped in unhappy marriages. I saw it as a kid. A lot of unengaged couples. I think that's why women fought for and men did not disagree with no fault divorce. But the future of marriage is bright. With women earning the majority of college degrees and with college meaning a significant incre…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 04:22 PM
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Reference?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:05 PM
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Excellent article. The conclusion was that the MRM is part of the current Zeitgeist and that it continues to be controversial.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:49 AM
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Her the best. /s
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:46 PM
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Even our newest Supreme Court Justice can't define what a woman is.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:04 PM
1

You should consider accepting people who hate you into your close friend group. She hates men and you, sir, I assume, are a man.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:37 PM
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You still don't seem to understand whats going on. Maybe when you return to town and she gets you thrown in jail by making something up you'll learn. Danger Will Robinson.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:25 AM
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I wouldn't have slapped her back. I just would have left her.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 03:31 AM
4

Further evidence of a need for a false accuser registry to allow law enforcement to find serial false accusers.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 11:32 PM
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You know who's in power by who you can't criticize or joke about.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:37 PM
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The Fathers Rights Movement is a part of the MRM and is more socially acceptable as almost everyone thinks children need their fathers and fathers need their children.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 04:46 AM
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There should be a false accuser registry so that future accusations can screen the registry to see those that are serial false accusers.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 03:32 AM
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This is Munchausen by Proxy syndrome. The mother reports the child needs transitioning to gain attention for herself and to alienate the child from his father. This is a form of child abuse and the courts support it. There have been many times that the authorities have turned their backs on citizens.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 03:08 AM
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What's important is what's best for your children. And that is having a loving caring father in their lives. I think men who can't afford court will benefit when default 50/50 custody becomes more common. As far as fathers who make too little to pay child support and live, we have social benefit programs for women and children, why are men not deserving of social benefits? In Northern Europe men and women both can apply for social benefits. Our system is antiquated and punishes men for having se…
/r/MensRights31/12/22 04:19 PM
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I have been an MRA for over 25 years and have traveled all over, South America, Asia, Eastern Europe and think women are the same all over. If you stay with them in their village and their family forces them to be traditional then you'd better be a traditional husband and take care of their family. Times have changed and women all over the world learn about feminism and want that kind of life. Or this funny skit from Eddy Murphy about marrying an African wife could happen to you Unfufu.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:23 PM
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Is that a bug or a feature? /s
/r/MensRights31/12/22 01:50 AM
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The only resolution to men's right's issues will be in the Supreme Court. How many men's lives will be ruined before it gets that far?
/r/MensRights30/12/22 02:28 PM
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Maybe the entire field of psychology, 80% female, is not a place men can turn to for help anymore.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 12:02 PM
2

Questioning the status quo is dangerous and being an MRA is very dangerous.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:46 AM
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Wait until your loving wife has children then sues you to support her in the way she was accustomed to in the marriage. I would never risk not having my wife be able to support herself should the marriage fail. But, of course your young and think that can't happen to you. Also, a lot of women feel bored after staying home for a while. Something to consider.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 01:33 PM
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Police and CPS's are an arm of the feminist machine used to abuse men. Abuse by proxy. How many women in your life threatened to ruin you out of anger?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:21 PM
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You can't predict who will be crazy at the end. That's when they start to fall out of love and hate can crawl in.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:38 PM
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She's a hormonal pregnant woman. One day she loves you the next no. Your relationship with your daughter is not dependent on your relationship with your fiancee. It is your daughters right to have her father in her life. You are an important influence on her and your fiancee will hate that because it means she has to deal with you because you share a child. Get a lawyer and make sure you do the things a supportive new father should do according to the attorney. You may not file now but you'll be…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:24 AM
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And they do. But the children don't do as well as those with two parents, gay or straight. It's too much for one person in my experience.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 03:05 AM
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Most sex workers are very nice and understanding. Paying a little extra makes for a better experience. Tell her about your inexperience and I bet she's very understanding.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 07:15 PM
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I don't care what anyone's standards are. I believe in un-coerced consent. I don't believe in love anymore but would never be with someone who didn't choose to be with me on her own. You can't legislate attraction. That's a pretty basic instinct I believe.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:32 PM
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Women control procreation and even the act of determining the father of a child is an infringement on female bodily autonomy? I think each child has the right to know who their biological father is so mandatory DNA testing in this day of casual sex I would support.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 05:49 AM
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Logic is a male socialized trait and use of it is itself misogynistic. /s
/r/MensRights26/12/22 05:45 AM
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Feminist academics worry that all girls college attendance will make college a sort of finishing school for girls and irrelevant in the job market.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 01:33 AM
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Women were already the majority in college in the 1980's. They changed school from grade school not to increase girls grades and academic success rates but to address a crisis in confidence girls feel during puberty, They continue to believe this is a crisis. From 2018: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/09/puberty-girls-confidence/563804/
/r/MensRights25/12/22 06:25 PM
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They are saying they want to discriminate between men and women and give women more advantage because they are systematically discriminated in the current system and it needs to be changed. They just forget there are two sexes and paying attention to one doesn't mean you have to punish the other as feminists have sold the idea.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 05:52 PM
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Women have been the majority of college students since the 1980's from programs enacted in the early 1970's to make things like presentation and teachers opinion more important than standardized test scores. I went to school in the 1960's and your class grade consisted of your test scores. Then a separate behavior grade was given and not counted toward your overall grade but meant to help parents know their children were behaving. They simply merged the scores greatly advantaging girls over boys…
/r/MensRights25/12/22 05:17 PM
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Reddit's corporate policy is that women are a marginalized group and can't be criticized but can criticize the groups that are systematically discriminating against them...men. Despite women being the majority voters and 60% of all college students and men being 75% of suicide victims especially after losing legal contact with their children after divorce.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 04:00 PM
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This is interesting: "The causal arrow goes both ways," says Peter Gray of the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, whose own work shows that marriage and fatherhood lower testosterone levels. "There's evidence in humans that, just as in animals, testosterone is responsive to male-male competition."
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:28 PM
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Yet 50% of marriages end in divorce and in 80% of the cases the husband does not initiate or even agree to getting divorced. As a matter of fact the divorce rate is going down because people have realized what you're saying is correct. Marriage rates are as low as during the Great Depression. https://www.jec.senate.gov/public/index.cfm/republicans/2020/4/marriage-rate-blog-test
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:48 PM
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Once 50/50 default shared custody becomes more common there will be even less reasons for making false accusations. Here is the experience in Kentucky, which enacted default 50/50 in 2019. https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/2019/08/30/kentuckys-joint-custody-law-leads-decline-family-court-cases/2158216001/
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:29 PM
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As the veteran of two bad marriages I think this is a great thing. Just a web site where you sign up and check divorce. I don't understand how assets will be separated and custody will be decided. But in Northern Europe divorce is this easy. The US has had no fault divorce in most States since Ronald Reagan introduced it in California many years ago. No reason to make false abuse allegations to justify divorce may lead to a reduction in such accusations and that's a good thing.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 03:02 PM
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We can have a rational discussion based on objective facts but, according to these professors, we are being misogynistic. Science itself is misogynistic according to these professors. There is no way to have a logical discussion without being misogynistic. Feelings replace facts and logic.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 07:40 PM
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This is the 21rst century. He does his laundry and I do mine. He's a better cook than me and likes things neater than me. /s
/r/MensRights22/12/22 11:23 PM
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Do you get a massage for that? I have to pay an extra 100 dollars and I have to tip Fabio. Then lunch with the girls so I can get home and order in dinner before the hubby and kids get home. Yes/S for those who still have a sense of humor.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 10:01 PM
1

Sounds like every long term relationship I ever had. I get with strong women and once they have secured me they started staying home. The relationships don't last long after that.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:58 PM
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It's both. If they experienced abuse they are a victim. If they survive the abuse they are a victim and a survivor.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 04:29 AM
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No parents are perfect and we all make mistakes. Get a good lawyer and learn from this. You'll get your kids back eventually. Have hope. It sounds like your ex is trying to cut you out though. Try for 50/50 equal shared parenting eventually so she can't alienate you further. Let your children get to know you without her as a filter.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 01:48 AM
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Yes, she treated men and women equally badly. I have a very out feminist friend who was all glad that she finally landed a job as an administrative assistant under a female. Surely this would be great working for a fellow woman. Inside I laughed. Two weeks ago she went over her bosses head and complained to upper management about being mistreated. Not only did they not listen, they had her manager there who said she was doing a terrible job and she was terminated. I've had female and male manage…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 08:08 PM
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She's a fruit cake and not representative of anything other than pure hatred of men. She'll probably reproduce and I fear for the emotional abuse she'll do to her son's.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:50 PM
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Society is made up of people. Men and women. It is women who shed the shackles of societal expectations but still require men to adhere to them. It is women who mainly enforce the strong breadwinner model or they just ignore you. Men learn this at an early age. Enshrined by the Janet Jackson in the immensely popular song "What have you done for me lately".
/r/MensRights21/12/22 06:31 PM
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About 50% of people in the US are anti-abortion. Most posters on that thread are pro-abortion. They just want to be able to opt out of child support a totally different issue. From your example I would say MRA's support abortion for the most part.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 06:05 PM
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They should search their social media accounts because this looks like a hate crime against this man organized on the internet.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:03 PM
2

Dating is always dangerous. Half of people that get to the point of making a lifetime commitment cannot fulfill that commitment. Make sure she's worth the risk. You can't predict the future and the girl that you get with is not the girl that you break up with. Someday you'll understand this.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:18 PM
9

I read an article that suggested that she would have received an even easier sentence had she admitted her obvious sexual assault and not put him through a trial.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:14 PM
1

That's why I advise young men that question feminism to never bring it up at work. It is none of their business and could hold you back in the company.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:56 PM
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Nice, real progress being made here.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 02:48 PM
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They met each other through social media," he said. "We don't know how or why they met that evening and why the destination was downtown Toronto."While he did not call the group a gang, Browne said that what the girls allegedly did could be described as "swarming." They were an online gang that decided to commit murder. They probably won't serve even juvi detention because of the famous pass women get. This should be considered a hate crime by feminists against an older "creep" straight white ma…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 10:31 PM
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Fox news quickly passed over this case calling it a mutual defamation ruling with a settlement of Heard paying Depp 1 million. That's the men friendly station.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 10:01 PM
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Most people believe in equality of opportunity for the sexes. We have many laws enshrining this. So feminism has an uphill battle in the long run to justify it's sexual discrimination policies. Eventually they will fail. It has already started.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 03:03 AM
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Feminism fuels women's baser nature by stoking their anger and hate. Justifying it as a response to the "Patriarchy". Hate only makes you old and bitter. Feminism is not serving women well. I suppose thats why women are less happy than in the past. It's hard to be happy when you're told to hate everything.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 01:59 AM
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Bingo, we have a winner: False accusations are a form of domestic violence, another tool in an abuser’s “toolbox.” They are a way for abusers to further manipulate, control, and maintain power over their partners. This has been my experience. It's administrative and legal abuse.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 03:58 PM
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What a pile of misandric bullshit.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:12 AM
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Don't get intimate with someone who disagrees with you about abortion. Accidents happen.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:04 AM
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50/50 equal shared parenting is a national trend. It is seen that ongoing long term relationships with both parents is best for the children in many family courts. Florida passed default 50/50 in the State Senate and House before Ron DeSantis vetoed it in June of 2022. Many countries like Brazil have national default 50/50 and Kentucky recently passed default 50/50. I got and raised my son 50/50 in California against his moms wishes 25 years ago. https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/201…
/r/MensRights18/12/22 03:51 PM
3

There are no early signs of prostate cancer. Enlargement of the prostate happens to nearly all men as they get older. Digital rectal exam finds only advanced cancers. Early prostate cancer screening is the PSA test and newer technology like MRI and CT scans. But prostate thin needle biopsy is the most definitive way to find early prostate cancer if PSA is elevated.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 01:09 PM
12

How can you judge his interest in his child when he was told it was likely aborted without his consent? Wasn't abortion legal and strictly her choice? You can't judge what he would have done had she informed him she was taking the pregnancy to term.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 12:57 PM
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With women being the primary earner and with default 50/50 equal custody it may be safe enough to marry and have children.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:47 AM
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I traveled the world and read up on marrying internationally and my conclusion is that women are all the same and it's the laws of the country that matter. Once in the US a foreign bride quickly becomes Americanized. This was the topic of that great Eddie Murphy performance about going to Africa and marrying Unfufu. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=epRAmfM0tts
/r/MensRights18/12/22 01:58 AM
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I went through a similarly difficult custody situation and am convinced I have a form of post traumatic stress disorder. I would never expose myself to my ex again for fear of the damage it would cause me. Just today I was thinking I would take my son and his new wife out for dinner if they get married but there is no force on the planet that would get me into the same room with my son's mom.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 10:10 PM
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In 2003 a group of online MRA's under the leadership of Glenn Sacks got those "Boys are Stupid, Throw Rocks at Them" T-shirts removed from children's departments in big Mall stores. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Boys_are_stupid,_throw_rocks_at_them!_controversy
/r/MensRights17/12/22 08:43 PM
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It's the law now in Kentucky. Florida tried to pass a default 50/50 law and it passed the state house and senate. But it was veto'd by Ron DeSantis just this past June 2022. But 50/50 is becoming very common these days. 25 years ago it was just an ideal. I considered myself a progressive guy at the time and thought it would be easy to get 50/50. Was I wrong. But 25 years of hard work by fathers rights activists has lead to 50/50 becoming considered by the family courts as the most beneficial arr…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 04:19 PM
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I asked my attorney if I could sue for child support but her new husband was so wealthy my attorney told me that his money would be all tied up in trusts. I'm talking old old money. They bulked up the bill as much as possible trying to out spend me. They had depositions of all my witnesses paying her attorney and my attorney by the hour. Mine was 500/hr and hers was probably 1000/hr. In the elevator with my attorney, her attorney and me her attorney thanked me for paying for his new BMW. While I…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 03:24 PM
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And it never stops. Each time she wants a change in the custody situation new accusations of abuse occur and then parental alienation occurs due to constant nagging of the children to get mom to have her way. It happened to me. We got divorced when our son was 9 months. I had full custody for 3 years and gladly gave 50/50 when my ex got over her post partum depression. When our son was 12 my ex decided to move with her soon to be husband three states away. I said no, we'll have to settle this in…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 01:05 AM
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You can tell who is in power by who you can't criticize, even in a joke.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:27 PM
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For most of modern history being homosexual was illegal and punishable by chemical castration like what happened to Alan Turing. Turing was prosecuted in 1952 for homosexual acts. He accepted hormone treatment with DES, a procedure commonly referred to as chemical castration, as an alternative to prison. Turing died on 7 June 1954, 16 days before his 42nd birthday, from cyanide poisoning. An inquest determined his death as a suicide, but it has been noted that the known evidence is also consiste…
/r/MensRights16/12/22 04:48 PM
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In this survey of 2,407 people in the US they found that 11% of men and 6% of women have been falsely accused of abuse. If extrapolated to the US population thats about 20 million people who have been falsely accused at some point in their lives of abuse. I don't think rape is any different. It's common to be falsely accused. http://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/
/r/MensRights16/12/22 12:33 PM
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My parents were landlords and agree with the poster that women were far more messy at home. My parents preferred to rent to single men.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:27 PM
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For now. With default 50/50 custody laws coming down the pipe we will see more equality in custody cases. Women can walk away from a pregnancy by aborting, walk away from children by putting up for adoption and all the other ways talked about in this thread.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:09 PM
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When you hate it damages your soul. These misandrists will pay the price in the long run.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 03:48 AM
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This is a false accusation waiting to happen. Do what us straight men do, be very afraid and avoid her altogether. She'll get the message. If it takes walking the long way then do that. She can get you kicked out of college if she decides to and she knows it.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:40 AM
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They give the mother welfare and TANF. They don't take children away because of lack of money. Lack of food is not really a thing in the US. We have food banks. It is negligent mothers and fathers that have their children taken and these are frequently drug addicts. We are a rich first world nation and should be able to extend public benefits to both mothers and fathers.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:23 AM
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The best comment in my opinion is "The east is rising."
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:29 PM
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While men should be able to walk away like women do there should also be support for men who want to stay in their child's life but don't have the means. Children need fathers more than they need money. Who would ever say a child needs money more than their mother?
/r/MensRights14/12/22 04:06 AM
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I once spent an afternoon lurking on one of the biggest incel sites and I saw a lot of depression. They are the depressed wing of the manosphere.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:31 PM
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When ad agencies try to judge public opinion they do focus groups. This focus group found that DV against men is very funny. This you cannot deny.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:21 PM
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Great work. We, as MRA's, need to engage with other human rights organizations to broaden their perspective which it sounds like happened with you.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:13 PM
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The prosecutors think it's their mandate to punish men who don't pay to poor women. Be careful putting yourself under their jurisdiction by having a child.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 04:00 AM
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Should we remove TANF and welfare from single mom's? Or maybe the poor shouldn't have children or should give them up to the rich? Will you decided who is fit to be a parent based on income level? Some men don't have the means to support themselves. Just like there is aid to women and dependent children, those benefits should extend to men who can't work and especially fathers. This is a very Northern European way of looking at things but that's how I feel.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:01 AM
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They are not talking about not being there for their children. They just don't think they should pay child support if a woman wants to keep a child the man didn't. But the bond exists and most men will honor that bond. Why does it come with a price tag? Maybe there is more a father can bring other than money. Women rarely pay child support no matter what. Why are men so special? We need to support parenthood and extend public benefits to mothers and fathers who are too poor to raise their own ch…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:13 PM
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By this logic men should have a parallel health system because women aren't qualified to help men. Indeed psychology is now 85% female and many males here feel they are not help for men.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:46 PM
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The biological bond between a father and his biological child can't be ignored. If it didn't matter this woman wouldn't be so upset at not having a relationship with him and angry at her mom for causing it. It changes everything.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:42 PM
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Most men would love having a child. A child is a blessing. A friend of mine found out at age 70 he was a father through the state child support agency tracking him down. The mother never told him. He never had any other children and is thrilled about having a new daughter and grandchildren. 87K is less than college tuition these days. Having a child in your life is much more valuable. My friend has to pay 700 a month and it's worth every dime to him.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:01 PM
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How about custodial time?
/r/MensRights10/12/22 12:08 AM
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How many attorneys did you visit before you and your step children's mother decided not to try to cut a perfectly good father out of his family?
/r/MensRights08/12/22 10:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/zg284b/a\_feminist\_response\_to\_men\_wanting\_5050\_equal/
/r/MensRights08/12/22 06:16 PM
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Please provide a reference rather than talking points from Two X. I don't know anyone who is anything like your saying.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:29 PM
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Never break up with a woman. Just stop kissing her ass and soon she'll be out the door. Women expect special treatment and know when it stops.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 03:32 AM
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If she didn't know for sure she should have told all the possible fathers to get a DNA test. She picked the best "dad figure" and is not apologizing about it. I do feel some ways about women. It is enshrined in law that a woman cannot be questioned about the fatherhood of their children when testing shows between 10% and 30% of children have a father that was misnamed. It is a massive problem and we rarely hear the fathers side. Still you defend fraud.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 02:44 PM
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Paternity fraud is a serious crime similar to fraud. It's interesting that he raised his son to age 20 but the biological bond is still important. This gives lie to the idea that a man who holds himself out to be the father should have the same bond as someone who is truly the biological father. Biological fathers matter. Not just a "good dad".
/r/MensRights07/12/22 02:24 PM
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A very positive article in a main stream publication. Progress, slow and steady.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 02:02 PM
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This is a very specific kind of crime. When men rape their record is available. But when women accuse a man of rape she is the victim. But in the case of false accusations of rape, these are used by a small minority of women and tend to occur multiple times. A secret registry only to be checked in case of an accusation of rape and there has to be a pattern, like #metoo.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 04:44 PM
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If she hasn't forgiven you in 5 years, 5 years more is unlikely to help. Put your kids first. They are seeing this very clearly. They need stability and calm and peace.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 02:51 PM
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The sex offender is different than what I have in mind. The sex offender registry is open to everyone and they even have maps to see the sex offenders. As false allegation is different than being a sexual predator the registry should only be checked every time a woman makes an allegation of rape to see if this is a pattern. But otherwise not discoverable because it could be abused.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:53 AM
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Activist journalism documenting the 132 year feminist plan. The US is notably absent. Looking at other nations, Iceland remained the most gender-equal country, topping the list for 13 consecutive years, with a general score of 0.908. It was followed by Finland at 0.860, Norway at 0.845, New Zealand at 0.841 and Sweden at 0.822. In Asia, the Philippines was the best-performing country on the index in 19th place, while Japan ranked 116th and China 102nd. Globally overall, the WEF said that the wor…
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:49 AM
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How is the new guy to discover she had a record? Believe all women. A registry is an easy way to check about a proven crime, proven in court with due process and evidence proving the allegation false.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:11 AM
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As false allegations of rape tend to be serial, one person may make many accusations of different people over time, I think a false accuser registry would be a good idea. It can only be searched when a new allegation of sexual offenses is made to find serial false accusers.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:43 PM
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"Susan" only had a problem because the suicide victim was trans. If she was a straight male there would be no retort. Male victims of suicide are ignored.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 03:49 PM
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The most prominent one is the Duluth Model and is used the world over and in UN treaties on domestic violence. It is ubiquitous and men are always the abuser and never the victim. False accusations don't exist.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:24 PM
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Don't ever admit to authorities, like the headmaster, that you even looked at a girl no less talked to one. Just say it never happened. Is she filing a complaint or did you bring it up to the headmaster? Are you being disciplined or just a talking to? Learn your lesson and stay away from girls. If they don't like you even talking to them is sexual harassment they are being taught.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:54 AM
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It never stops. My son is 25 and I sent him 2000 dollars last month because he needed it. Being a helpful father never stops.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 03:40 AM
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Check the NCFM.org website. They have been involved in many removals of women only scholarships and programs that discriminate against men. There was a recent post about a feminist author that was very concerned and admitted these programs are illegal under the sex discrimination act and addressed by title IX. Women’s Scholarships And Programs Became Illegal Title IX hasn’t only changed the gender makeup of college coaching, but it has recently also hindered programs aimed at attracting women in…
/r/MensRights03/12/22 07:51 PM
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In fact these cases have been very successful because they are blatant sexual discrimination. The problem is finding people in academics willing to lose their careers to stop this discrimination against boys and men.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 06:13 PM
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No. A guy should also consider their relationship over and start planning is exit. You can't defend yourself or you will be accused. A woman yelling is abuse and a big red flag. Men need to learn this lesson too.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:30 PM
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What should a woman do if their husband yells at them: Call the police. File DV allegations, get a restraining order and make sure he can't ever see his children because he has a history of abuse.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:17 PM
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Anybody could be put into this situation if you're out drinking and you're at a bar and you meet a girl. This could happen to anybody and you think every single weekend people are out and guys are going home with girls. It's bound to happen more and more and I believe the laws need to be looked at.' Is the lesson he learned. And he no longer trusts women and is not seeking a relationship. And it cost him 200,000 dollars, 3 years contemplating jail and hurt his job to learn this lesson.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 01:29 PM
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No, I had to pay her child support for the visitation hours our child was with her. Women do occasionally pay child support. I know one woman who does.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:07 PM
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Feminists theorize that men as part of a patriarchy have systematically kept women down and forming all female clicks and policies is just fair turn around. Until they reach 100% diversity which is an all woman staff.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:01 PM
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Some mothers don't love their children. It's something we are not supposed to say but that's how I got full custody when my son was 9 months and retained 50/50 after age 3. Everybody could tell and testified.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 01:10 PM
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A woman scorned is as dangerous as dynamite. You are learning your lesson the easy way. A rape charge is very easily believed now days. Be very careful around women especially when you're drunk.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 01:02 PM
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My point is not to complain to HR. If you do they think you're going legal on them and you will be marked for termination. Just casually mention it verbally to a their manager. Nothing in writing. This way it can be handled quietly. Companies appreciate that. If things escalate to go HR. When things escalated for me about something else I still didn't go to HR. I went to see an attorney and got to retire early on a nice pension,
/r/MensRights02/12/22 12:52 PM
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Well you should live near each other in the same school district if you expect to co-parent. Even if it's inconvenient. Otherwise the child will have a hard time spending time with friends from school in the future. Sorry.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 04:41 AM
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I didn't send my son to pre-K and I regret it. My ex wouldn't talk to me so it was easier to keep him in daycare. He was behind in Kindergarten as many children to pre-K now. It took until 3rd grade for my son to get up to the reading level of the other kids with tutoring. I don't think kids mind an early schedule. As long as there is stability the child will thrive. Especially with both loving parents in their lives. Good on you guys fighting to have dad stay in his child's life.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 04:02 AM
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Since affirmative action is discrimination based on race and sex then of course it will help men if the Supreme Court rules it illegal. That's why the progressives and feminists hate that we have learned from Martin Luther King that discrimination is bad and people should be judged by the content of their character not their sex or the color of their skin. And passed anti-discrimination laws.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 03:57 AM
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Women entered the workforce and demanded men change. Because they are perfect and men are bad at picking gifts, obviously/s, they feel no need to change and be sensitive to how they insult the men at work. I once casually complained to our boss, not HR, about a woman that man hated all day long. It took years but it got to me. They asked her to stop. She did.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:15 PM
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1.Women are equal to men! 2.Men are trash! Women are trash! 3 is TRUE using logic if statements 1 and 2 are true. It's FALSE because statement 2 is false, obviously.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:08 PM
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I thought men and women were equal. That men and boys don't have any needs in learning different than women. Standard feminist double standards.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 08:26 PM
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Said the feminists. It cost me 300,000 dollars to retain 50/50 of my son. It is very difficult to get 50/50 and laws are being passed making 50/50 the default. When men try to attain equal custody the are accused of domestic abuse and child abuse. It happened to a few of my friends and myself. So men don't love their children? Not the ones I know. Please provide a reference. Men here and in the state houses are fighting for default 50/50. In Brazil with default 50/50 men get about 36% custody in…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 07:27 PM
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That's not true and most divorce agreements are made without a judge. There are standards but the parties can agree on what they like. If the mother wants more child support either the father has to agree or they have to go to court. She won't be granted back child support .
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:42 PM
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About the author: I cover women’s issues at work—including the wage gap, sexual harassment and female leadership. My prior careers include developing a quantitative hedge fund for Morgan Stanley and teaching about gender at UCLA. I hold a Ph.D. in Psychology from UCLA and two graduate degrees (management and operations research) from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT), and an undergrad degree in mathematics and computer science from Vassar College So she admits that it is likely ill…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:14 PM
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She never filed for child support. She filed for welfare. The State paid her and now the State is going after him to payback the welfare they gave her as he should have been paying child support. No doubt the child's mother is a strong do it on your own kind of feminist living off the public dole. I say this because my nieces, who are in their thirties with jobs and young children have their kids in daycare because they need two salaries to survive.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 12:46 PM
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You got lucky. No ignored the red "feminist" flag and got out. Good thing you didn't have a child together. My ex beat me about the head emotionally with her feminism when we co-parented our son. He's over 18 and I have no contact with her. She did you a favor.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 11:28 PM
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European feminists hate it that circumcision and FGM are actually both genital mutilation. It takes an Israeli politician to say the truth.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 11:15 PM
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No, he had a child at some point in his younger life and the mom never told him she was pregnant. She cut him out of his daughters life. But mom collected welfare. It took many years for the State to find my friend as he moved a few times and lived many states away. He's actually happy about it. He never had children and felt very much like he missed out on having a family. He is now close with his new found daughter and grandchildren. The crime here was keeping a loving father from his loving c…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 10:06 PM
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Politics and the court are the only place men will receive justice. In the US you are not allowed to be discriminated by sex and the feminists are doing just that. There will be an ongoing trend of men filing lawsuits and things will change. Title IX complaints are often settled in favor of equality. Our laws are working. It's just expensive and socially unacceptable to question some kinds of discrimination.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 02:50 PM
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How about lifetime alimony? Men are still paying alimony into their 80's. About child support, I know a 70 year old that just learned last year that he has a child he was never told about in another state. It took that state 15 years to find him and serve him to payback welfare payments the mom received. He pays 700/month.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 02:47 PM
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I don't think she'll let you and you will have a hard time retro-actively having her served for paying you alimony. But get a consult with a good attorney.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:46 AM
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Facts are useless to ideologues.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 12:52 PM
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Yeah, not being able to see your children is a little upsetting to fathers.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:26 AM
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The suicide rate for men following divorce rises 8 times the rate for non-married men. The thinking is they miss their children more than everyone thought. But no public policy is resulting. No one cares. Divorce is hell for men and I have PTSD from a 14 year custody fight. There is no increase in the rate of female suicides following divorce.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:18 PM
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Women want casual sex then change their mind if things don't go perfectly. Avoid casual sex as it is too risky. You never know when you put your dick in a crazy until they start acting crazy. Work that out before you dip your dick.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:16 PM
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This was my experience with a stay at home girlfriend. Idle hands are the devils hands and women who stay home get bored. Plus, if you're married you have to pay alimony for years after divorce, in some places lifetime alimony. Best to break up with your woman if she decides to stay home.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:48 PM
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I'm an egalitarian. I took half of the night feedings, half of the diaper changes and bonded strongly with my son. Good thing to because his mom tried to kidnap him when he was 9 months and I could prove to the court that even at that age I was an involved father. Become a father if you want to be. Then be involved because if your not your soon to be ex can cut you out of the family very easily.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:11 AM
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You get to co-parent your child? Isn't that what you wanted? Lucky man. In the US you would be unlikely to get any custody.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 11:04 PM
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Be very careful who you share your politics with at school and at work.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 07:54 PM
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I'm saying being strong and independent is not something invented by feminism. Eliminating fathers from the family is.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 07:48 PM
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And our great grandmothers great grandfathers didn't have the right to vote. Your attention to history is incomplete as you are a social justice warrior and only care about indoctrination. My 91 year old mother ran a large company until she was 85. Never suffered from sex discrimination and was the CEO. Stop being a victim and teaching victimology for women. Women are strong and capable.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:02 PM
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All throughout history women have been strong and empowered. It is our current brand of social justice warrior that paints women as victims of the patriarchy they invented.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:08 AM
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Many people suffer from depression. Some say 20% of people have depression. But using threats of suicide is emotional manipulation and close to coercive behavior. It's not your fault she's depressed and you can't fix her depression. Time to move on and find a mentally healthy woman to form a relationship with.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 04:31 PM
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When I married in professional school in the 1980's my ex first wife told me in her opinion she owned half my future earnings for life. I very much feared that she was right. No fault marriage was new and life long alimony was common. When we actually divorced I had my attorney show me the law. It said that if someone is in professional school and the earning party is paying tuition, on divorce you owe back the amount of tuition you paid. My ex wouldn't even work so I took student loans to suppo…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 04:22 PM
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Men that don't realize that marriage is very much a transaction, that's why they have you sign a contract with the government, are going in blind and liable to be screwed in the end. That's why I married two college degree'd women with good jobs who both marriage retired within three years of marriage. From a business perspective for men, as this article is for women, the longer you stay married the worse your alimony payments will be. That means if you see the writing on the wall better to divo…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:15 PM
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The most successful relationship I see among my 30's-40's nieces and nephews is my nephews. They have 3 children and care more about raising them than money. They rarely go on vacations that cost money instead camping. Their monthly nut is 1800 dollars and neither one work full time. They own a house with a 500/month payment. She continues to shop at good will and depend on government assistance for health care. They are very happy and their children are thriving.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:09 PM
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Men who go to war know that PTSD is part of the mission. Divorce on the other hand is thought to be nothing severe. But many men are forcibly separated from their children by court order. The suicide rate rises 8 times in men after divorce. Women have no change in suicide rates. Think about that before marrying and get help as soon as she files. Like the article says, many men manifest depression in different ways than modern feminist psychology says it does. I am certain I suffer from PTSD afte…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 12:36 PM
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5,000 dollars is a lot for a screw. Use reliable birth control guys. I got a vasectomy after my son was born. Best decision ever.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 12:29 PM
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The woman you marry is not the woman you divorce.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 12:37 PM
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Being always the victim is a privilege that women don't seem to want to give up.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:42 PM
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The modern queen wishes to be rid of the men dancing to her tune altogether. Hence the 50% divorce rate with the vast majority initiated by women who can rely on their own salary to pay their way because they get the majority of higher education and thus are more qualified for high paying jobs. The support of men seems to be something women don't want to do, even emotionally. Men should learn this lesson and stand on their own even in relationships. Because in the modern world lifelong marriage …
/r/MensRights22/11/22 02:54 PM
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In this environment you are better off with the extra protection of a female emotionally superior, to your supervisors and parents, in the room with you. I once had this choice and choose to be alone. As times have changed I wouldn't do it again.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 12:15 PM
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Young men see the writing on the wall. It's everywhere. Feminists are creating a generation of boys who resent them.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 12:12 PM
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Tell that to the feminist groomers in elementary school. They start the feminist indoctrination in Disney movies way before kids go to school.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 12:09 PM
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I think if a father wants to raise a child and the mother wants to adopt the child out I think the father should have the opportunity and help to do that. I support abortion up to a limit like 14 weeks. States will make the laws and men will have a vote.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:42 AM
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Those numbers seem pretty accurate. If you can't afford that you can't afford to keep a woman. I have a housekeeper 600/month, order in every day at 600/month, groceries 300/month. 5300-1500= 3800 dollars saved per month. Anything else can be outsourced cheaper than keeping a woman.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:32 AM
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You get an upvote for pointing out the worse of feminisms evils. Removing fathers from children's lives.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:01 AM
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Talking to women is the key to meeting women. My son turned 21 a few years ago and we went on a pub crawl through Northern Europe. I taught him that single women go to bars for the most part to meet guys and that means just talking. Most men who talk to women the women don't find attractive yet 65% of women want to be approached more. Fear of being labelled a "creep" is too common.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:46 PM
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It sounds like they are creating a hostile work environment for you. Seriously consider changing jobs. They are after you and the hens will peck at you until you're very unhappy at that job. Start looking for work else where.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 12:08 PM
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It's just a clip from "The Talk" featuring Sharon Osbourne.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:10 AM
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A better answer is: nobody deserves to be yelled at, time to reconsider your commitment to this relationship.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 08:13 PM
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If men got together to howl at the victims they are by society in general they would be labelled a male supremacist terrorist rally and would be banned. Just as they label this site officially.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:53 PM
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Men did get together and howl at the disparities between the sexes and it was shut down on reddit.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:32 PM
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People hate it when men scream and call them abusive. “Women want to scream,” Miller explains. “There are plenty of spaces for men to yell [but] we don’t often get to raise our voices [and] when we do we’re met with disapproval.” It's an all women group. I wonder why? Don't men need emotional outlets or is this just another fem power group?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:04 PM
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Well, in the early 1980's only 17 med students were women in a med school I know out of a class of 150. Now women are about 50% of med students. I think as many young women as young men like the medical field and it shows in the numbers. But things are bad for boys and we have to pay attention now. That doesn't mean we can't celebrate equality of opportunity. But I bet more than 10% of male med students want to be ob-gyn's. It's a great field. I think I smell some discrimination. If your argumen…
/r/MensRights20/11/22 05:40 PM
1

Gynecology is primarily a surgical specialty and is now 90% female. There are many female surgeons.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 02:31 PM
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Women in general think the idea of castrating men is all in good fun. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6\_klWFzzgw
/r/MensRights20/11/22 04:30 AM
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It is disgusting these scholarships and programs for women only with men failing school and not doing well in college. Good for some men of honor to take a stand.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 02:57 AM
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In a self reported survey 11% of men and 6% of women report being accused of abuse falsely. Even the false accusations make up a small percentage of the nearly 50% of marriages in which by far the most, 80%, are filed by women. Women were unhappy with marriage and passed no fault. Then they all went to work so they could leave their marriages if they fail. Good for them. Women and men should have choices. It's just that you insinuate that men bad/women good.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 09:37 PM
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She admits that "Therapy" is not for men and that the current feminist therapy model doesn't allow for men to express their real emotions.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 12:44 PM
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Baller.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 05:59 AM
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You are an elder role model. Not a father. Who inherits your shit? That's what being a father means on the most basic level. Then there is giving up everything to take care of your child even until death. You don't do that for your mentees. What about love? What about caring? A child who lost their mother we feel badly for. When a father is removed from a child we say, well, he must have done something. And any man that wanders into the child's life we say "OK, he has a role model". The experime…
/r/MensRights18/11/22 04:13 PM
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We fight for the importance of love and support from a biological father. We are not father figures. We are simply fathers. And can't be replaced.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 02:47 PM
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www.ncfm.org
/r/MensRights17/11/22 10:05 PM
2

When I went to court ex-parte with my ex wife when she kidnapped our child we had to show attempts to contact her and we did. She had an attorney at the ex-parte hearing. I think NY may be the most backward state and most difficult to get a fair custody arrangement in, in my experience. I think NY is the feminist capital of the world.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:53 PM
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As you know, you are being the subject of parental alienation. Find an expert witness that is an expert in parental alienation. My ex did that to my son. At age 14 he decided he wanted to move to his mom's full time because I insisted he do his homework and at his mom's homework was optional. He barely graduated high school and failed out of college. His mother wouldn't let him speak to me or exchange letters for three years. The most difficult three years of my life. But I hung in there keeping…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 02:37 PM
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You nailed it precisely. I also didn't read the article after it used the dog whistle word "patriarchy".
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:38 PM
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There will always be a market for women to learn how to screw over men for fun and profit.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:32 PM
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When it comes to leadership women are just as bad as men.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 03:51 AM
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I hope you're not representing yourself. You should know that a good family law attorney knows the judges and has a relationship with them. Get the best attorney you can afford. It cost me 300,000 dollars and I lost my house and almost went to jail. But I won every time and now have a very good relationship with my son.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 03:31 AM
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Asked the only man on r/MRA who hasn't been through a divorce and custody fight. Reference: The world around you.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:29 PM
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I was making over 100K and she was off work for 9 months, so was working. I got full, 100% custody and still had to pay her 700 dollars/month in child support. If I hadn't retained custody I would have had to pay 2,000 dollars a month from 9 months until 18 years. Or about 408,000 dollars. It cost me 300,000 dollars to retain 50/50 in a 14 year custody fight, so I still came out ahead financially and am in my son's life.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:29 PM
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They say in the article that the sexual harassment wasn't sufficient to fire her. It was her false allegations that lead to her release. I wonder if a man who sexually harassed three women would get off with just a talking to?
/r/MensRights16/11/22 12:39 PM
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And were is her picture? If it were a man he'd be Harvey Wienstien'd.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 12:12 PM
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And the scope of the problem is huge. A recent survey found that around 20 million in the US have been the subject of false allegations of abuse. Some sexual some not, but it is a huge problem.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 12:11 PM
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In your opinion. Even most non-feminist women love the changes feminism has brought. It is men that need to adjust. Marriage is dead and men lament it's passing. It's really a gift as someone who was married under marriage 1.0 in the 70's.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 11:59 AM
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It's been almost 200 years and feminists cry from the roof tops: We hate men and are at war with the so called patriarchy...which is all men.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 11:51 AM
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Men will never get help in the educational system which is run by anti-male ideologues from University to the teachers Union.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:39 AM
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Who in the Patriarchy home office should we complain to? Don't we run the world? /s
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:57 AM
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Or you could just whine and complain about other posters comments. Men never ruled the world and patriarchy is a political invention to put men down in contradistinction to women.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:53 AM
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Most contested custody cases in the US are decided by psychologists of whom 85% are female and 100% have had feminist indoctrination. My custody evaluator was an obvious feminist who broke the law and conspired with my ex. My ex admitted it to me.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 12:03 PM
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When my son turned 3 my ex, without consulting me and we had 50/50, put him in daycare. He screamed and cried when I took him there. Maybe my ex should have lost custody by these standards. If you take a young child from it's parent for long enough they will forget. Over a short period of time they adjust. Children deserve both parents and parental alienation has happened to three families in my circle and that is 3 too many.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:59 AM
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When MRA's attacked women only scholarships they are withdrawn. Then whoever made the complaint is permanently cancelled. I believe it will take the Supreme Court to decide about this gender discrimination.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 04:05 AM
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Only men are violent.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 02:59 AM
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Men aren't told from birth that marriage is a trap. They are shamed for not manning up and marrying and having children. That is a crap shoot today. I raised my son 50/50. He knows it was the best thing I ever did but saw the cruelty of his mother in trying to alienate him so he doesn't ever want children. I think his mother realizes the mistakes she made in not cooperatively co-parent.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 07:18 PM
1

Working out is said to help fight depression as well.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:22 PM
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You have witnesses, family members. For me I had a full time nanny who saw both me and my ex take care of our son. She testified to the custody evaluator that I was a very active father.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:20 PM
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If your boss says have sex or lose your job and you choose to have sex then it's your decision. You can decide not to have sex. A job is just a job. Sue and make millions. That's the law.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 12:34 PM
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Well, when it comes to sharing custody a lot of women think because they do most of the child care they deserve full custody. The custody evaluator takes these things into account. If you are a man, do half the childcare if you hope to stay in your children's lives post divorce. Plus it's the right thing to do. One person in a relationship shouldn't do all the child care and, in our modern world, still work.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 12:30 PM
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Peterson doesn't speak to the modern man. He is stuck in trad-con tradition. Women have left the marriage market and even half that get married want a divorce eventually. Marriage is a dead end in the Western world.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 06:02 AM
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There was an article posted here that said 36% of custody arrangements now are 50/50 with no child support transferred. In 2014, joint custody became the default arrangement in Brazil in most cases. If you can’t agree arrangements for your child, the court will award joint custody unless one of the parents declares that they do not want custody, or in other exceptional circumstances.The law also says that your child should enjoy a ‘balanced division’ of contact time with each parent. This doesn’…
/r/MensRights13/11/22 05:22 AM
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That's sexual harassment and punished with financial settlements. Having sex to get ahead at work is as old as work itself. I once heard a survey that said 80% of women would have sex with their boss to get ahead. Transactional sex is not rape. Non-consensual sex is rape.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:32 AM
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The UN should support universal default 50/50 custody, the law in Brazil. The UN is the lead feminist org in the world and all they do is with a feminist perspective. They hate men.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:10 AM
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I was married before so went in with no illusions. I made sure I did half the night feedings, changed half the diapers and was very bonded with my son. When my ex left when our son was 9months old, I had a very good case for 50/50 custody.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 11:05 PM
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"Research" funded by the 100's of millions of dollars from the Violence Against Women Act out to prove men bad, women good.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 10:56 PM
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I don't see the sentence but I imagine it will be one month community service and a sincere apology.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 08:21 PM
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California but 50/50 is the national trend. Here is a new Kentucky law that enshrines 50/50 default equal shared custody. https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/2019/08/30/kentuckys-joint-custody-law-leads-decline-family-court-cases/2158216001/ And here is a wikipedia page, I'm sure how accurate it is, of shared custody laws by state. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/List\_of\_shared\_parenting\_legislation
/r/MensRights12/11/22 05:07 PM
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Hire a good lawyer. Borrow money from family if you have to. I got 50/50 above the objections of my ex. It was very hard and very expensive and my son paid the price.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:25 PM
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Soon the US Supreme Court will rule on racial quotas. I bet the ruling will apply to sex based quotas. There are anti-discrimination acts that don't allow discrimination on the basis of sex.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:16 AM
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Because natural facts, like human dimorphism, is an anathema to those who want more than equality.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 10:20 PM
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That was a great read. Sorry, the train has left the station and women have bought the idea that men are toxic for too long. Men are finding their own way and finding it quite a lot easier and retiring early. Thanks feminism.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 11:58 AM
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I mean on divorce, unless there is a problem, parents will share custody 50/50 equally. They generally live in the same school district and it is saving children from parental loss. Kentucky passed the most comprehensive 50/50 default custody law and it's very popular. https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/2019/08/30/kentuckys-joint-custody-law-leads-decline-family-court-cases/2158216001/
/r/MensRights10/11/22 09:27 PM
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It's a mutually bad idea but with me my ex's both marriage retired within 2 years of marriage. I had the potential to make a lot but didn't because I worked in academics. So it was not my decision, I married career women, but it was divorce or live with it. I believed in marriage so I stayed in. The main reason I think it's a bad idea for anyone to stay home is that you get bored and feel like your life is all about other people. Boredom is the main reason for divorce in my opinion.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:56 PM
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It's especially a windfall for the party that doesn't work and does the majority of child care. I know a couple where the man was out of work for two years and took care of their two boys at home. The mother worked. When she left him they gave him the house, alimony, custody and child support. So the system is at least symmetrical. Men need to choose better in terms of income equality and we need default 50/50 equal shared parenting like many first world countries like Australia and Brazil have.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:34 PM
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Biden announced tonight that studies say children do 57% better in school overall if they start school at age 3. He said not daycare, real school. This is the future as our leaders see it. Who is the stay at home mom taking care of?
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:59 AM
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When you ask yourself, what sort of job would a women's studies major get, it's for enacting policies like this.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:48 AM
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Whether because of a missing role model, the emotional loss, money woes, the instability in the home that follows a breakup, or all of the above, fatherlessness takes a toll on boys’ school achievement, with lifelong repercussions. ^^^This. Notice emotional loss is in a list. How long would the list be for taking children away from their mother? Children deserve both parents.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:45 AM
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It is better for men to stay single today as well. That's what they've got wrong.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:22 AM
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The younger women I know, my nieces, enjoyed being single in their 20's. Married and had children in their 30's and love working. They laugh when I point out that it makes divorce a lot easier. But I know my sister, their mother, taught them this. Women file 80% of divorces. They are not happy in relationships half the time. It is good to have options. Women want the option to leave a marriage. If that sounds unfair, it's been the law for 40 years.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:19 AM
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Feminists would say she's treating herself like chattel. I couldn't care less. It's just the risk that comes with one part of a marriage completely dependent on the other in the US, the one who is dependent, man or woman, wins out in divorce...50% of the things we're talking about...marriages. I would marry again but not to someone financially dependent on me. They can make that kind of relationship permanent, like it still is in Florida. I know someone still getting alimony 30 years after a 12 …
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:55 AM
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This sums up my opinion who is someone who went through two divorces and a 14 year contested custody fight and got 50/50. In todays world you can't afford a stay at home wife, especially if you love your children. In 1976, the French feminist icon Simone de Beauvoir said, “No woman should be authorized to stay home to raise her children. Women should not have that choice, because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.” https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/should-it-be-illegal-t…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:34 AM
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almost 32% of all cases, but I'm inclined to think that's the case because it is now, by law, the default option in child custody Achieving default 50/50 rebuttable equal shared custody is why I'm here. It's a very enlightened country in many ways in Brazil. In the US it's winner take all and women get 90% of sole custody.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:06 PM
2

It sounds like a horror film. She said.....
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:58 PM
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He went to a mixed elementary school but high school would have been better if it were all boys. Boys are different than girls as educational needs show. Boys are facing a hostile environment starting in earnest in high school.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:29 PM
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I remember when these changes came about in the 1980's. It was a conscious decision to push girls ahead of boys because they said girls suffered a crisis in adolecense that makes them needing of education reform. Now boys are failing. Where is the out cry. Why not reduce the reforms that make presentation more important than content and teachers opinions of students more important than test scores? I wish I could afford to send my son to an all boys high school.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:28 PM
3

What about the US? It's always at war and our leader is no saint.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:11 PM
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I give the same advice to my son.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 02:49 AM
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Then that's your answer. All that matters is you stay on good terms so you can co-parent your children effectively. I did it, my son is now 25, and when we didn't get along, he suffered.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:06 AM
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This is not that complicated a case. It's all numbers. Get a lawyer and she'll get one and you'll have a settlement meeting and come to an agreement. It shouldn't cost more than 5K.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:56 AM
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Take female affirmative action case before the Supreme Court? Because this will happen and discrimination on the basis of sex will be struck down. Maybe when men are 10% of the college population and women are still given special scholarships.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:03 AM
2

Do you mean get him high? Or is that to cannabisilize?
/r/MensRights07/11/22 02:01 PM
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try r title IX for all. I can't link the subreddit but it deals with issues like yours. If someone has the direct link please post it.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 01:11 PM
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A BuzzFeed News investigation has found that UK authorities are exceptionally aggressive in pursuing women for lying about rape, prosecuting hundreds over the past decade. That's 10's convicted per year. I wonder how many men are falsely accused when in the US the rate is 11% of men have been falsely accused of abuse.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 11:34 AM
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Paywall. Please archive.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 01:10 AM
8

And loss of employment and affection for stating a men's point of view.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:45 PM
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Great work. Keep us informed. Many here feel afraid of coming out with men's issues. It's great to hear you're bringing these issues forward.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:43 PM
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From the article. Thinking a marriage will work is an "irrational expectation". So why when men talk about how unlikely marriage is to work and that the cost, especially in loss of love of children, has to be weighed when considering marriage, people call us misogynists?
/r/MensRights04/11/22 11:49 AM
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Why did you get downvoted. It says "feminist analysis". Basically it says nothing other than men bad, women good. Just like every other feminist message.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:16 PM
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How Google treats it: Nicholas B. Corwin was an eight-year-old boy murdered by Laurie Dann, a mentally ill woman, in a Winnetka, Illinois elementary school on May 20, 1988. Dann also shot several other students, all of whom survived, then took a family hostage and set a fire in their house before committing suicide.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 12:51 PM
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There is nothing illegal about what they are doing. They are creating what they thought men had, an old boys network. There never was, men are dog eat dog. Women conspire. Remember that at work.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 02:20 AM
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Women have been given the ability and now serve in every combat position in the military. Two female helicopter pilots are battling it out for office this year.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 04:12 PM
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This used to happen to people of color in the 1960's. Men are the new dangerous class.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 01:58 PM
2

A better analogy is trying to give therapy to a bomb technician who had two bombs blow off four fingers so he can get over his PTSD and go out and defuse another bomb. It's not an unreasonable fear and the more a man is accused the more they believe he is guilty because where there is smoke there is fire and this is enshrined in law with the #metoo movement. If they find out you've been accused before they are much more likely to believe the new false accuser. And, to give you an idea of the sco…
/r/MensRights02/11/22 01:26 PM
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Now if they just admit they need one for men and boys.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 01:44 AM
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Thanks for the update and all the hard work.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 08:50 PM
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I've been through a contested custody case and was accused and exonerated for years. Then a girlfriend got mad at me for breaking up and followed her threat and called the cops. Luckily her father told her to tell the truth. I now have PTSD and don't trust being alone with a woman. Sharing my experiences here is one way I deal with my PTSD. About three years ago a lovely woman came into my life and we decided to live together. She stayed over one night and all I could think about was what if she…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 03:49 PM
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The "patriarchy" is a conspiracy theory to justify hating men and special privileges for women. Like the "Jewish Banker Cabal" was a justification for hating Jews.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 03:17 PM
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I know a guy who saw the writing on the wall that divorce was inevitable. He stopped working and waited two years. She left him and he got the house, the kids and child support and alimony. He's a member of Mensa. Super high IQ.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 02:19 PM
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It's a big step forward and a small step backwards. I'm encouraged that they celebrate men's day.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 01:23 PM
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Once you marry, if she wants to stop having sex you're screwed. And pre-marital sex is not the same as post baby sex. Think about that before you tie the knot.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:07 AM
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And people here are giving it 20 upvotes. My ex re-married and we had 50/50. When she tried to move her case was based on her raising him with a man and woman married in the same house versus raised 50/50. The judge laughed her out of court. Maybe the 40% of women raising children alone in the US should be forced to give their children to intact married couples by these posters logic.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:30 AM
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How horrible these people are who prey on young men and women: "There are plenty of people, who prey, I think, on these specifically young men trying to lure them in to a community where they feel better, where they can feel some strength," Della Volpe said. How dare anyone attempt to make men feel anything other than bad about being men.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:11 AM
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Try telling her no. lol.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:03 AM
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No true Scotsman. Conservative = Trad cons = The plantation. I am a modern man and raised my son alone and have no need of a relationship with women. I have been married and have no reason to return to that state. Society doesn't need men they need good people and women are, in general good people. The female representatives have made it clear the nuclear family is a thing of the past. We need a new model for the family with default equal 50/50 parenting being the corner stone. Men don't need wo…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 02:26 PM
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Lynndie England, our feminist icon for sexually torturing prisoners of war was given 17 months and her male superior 10 years. Here is the visual proof: https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Lynndie\_England
/r/MensRights30/10/22 11:40 AM
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The only relief men will get is in the law and in courts. When push comes to shove and it's her benefit versus yours society will side with her through law and custom. Only when the Supreme Court finds that something like the family court is unconstitutional will things change. Like the case against Harvards discrimination based on race coming up soon.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 11:30 AM
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Even looking at a woman the wrong way can get you arrested in the London subway.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 11:14 AM
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I took my infant son to mommy and me swim class. It was great. They should allow men in. Many modern men do half the childcare and maybe they want to take the child alone.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 01:59 AM
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It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for something you are pretending to be or forced to subjugate to. You get one upvote.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:22 AM
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What he is saying is obvious but telling the truth is a radical act these days.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 02:04 PM
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Judges don't decide. They farm that out to "custody evaluators" who are psychologists and, as psychology is 85% female, the custody evaluators are feminists and biased to the core. The judge then follow the result of the 25K dollar custody evaluation paid for by the father avoiding responsibility for the decision while putting the matter in the hands of rabid feminists.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 01:23 PM
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They were and rs/MGTOW got shuttered because of it.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:37 AM
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Everyone who is thinking about having children or loves the children they have should watch this video in horror. This is what it means to have children after divorce today in the US.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:35 AM
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The bias is so severe that I would send a boy to an all boys high school and college if I had to do it again.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 09:51 PM
1

I'm single and I'm not lonely. I think missing out on having children is worse than being lonely, but that's IMO.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 02:03 PM
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If you love your child and mothers are alienating the children, having children brings great unhappiness. The suicide rate for men kept from their children is 8 times the usual rate of suicide.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 02:02 PM
2

And default 50/50 equal shared parenting for both married and non-married parents and their children.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:50 PM
2

We are gaining a population of 2.5 million per year on the border. Why do you think the group that supports feminism is pushing for open borders? They see the trends and like it.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:24 PM
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Divorce Corp
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:03 PM
1

I would give you 100 upvotes for this ^^^.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:01 PM
1

The biggest justification for abortion on demand is the mother not having enough money to care for a child. But when me consider finances we are anti-society. No thanks.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:58 PM
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I've saved enough from being divorced that I can afford home health care until I die. I don't rely on my son because he was trained to disrespect his elders. I, however, care for my 91 year old mother with failing health because I was raised in a non-feminist world where family is most important.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:37 PM
2

Nicely done. Carlin is a trad-con at his heart. I'll never listen to his comedy the same. I believe in equality.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:30 AM
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This is exactly how my ex wife thought and she was coached by feminists. Just not very sophisticated ones. She lost in court trying to cut me out of my son's life.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:22 AM
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Whether he is the biological father is immaterial. He acted as father and shared custody. Just get a good lawyer and you shouldn't have problems getting shared custody. I did 25 years ago and things have improved since then. But it will cost you. It's worth it just in child support payments saved.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:23 AM
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He might not have Giselle but he has football fame and money, and that is a lot less fickle than a woman's affections.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 11:13 AM
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If male rape was recognized. As it is there is no proof this was non-consensual and they were in a long term relationship. If a woman had become pregnant because her boyfriend raped her everyone would support her right to abort the child.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:27 PM
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You just think you have input. She's playing you. She planned this, you said so yourself. What do you think she thinks your going to do? Settle that's what. If you want to be with someone who you distrust stay with her. I advise going to the doctor appointments if you have any hope of getting to see this child as you will want to in the future whether you do now or not.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:20 PM
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I don't know if he wants to stay with a con-artist but maybe going for 50/50 custody and leaving her maybe a good option. If 50/50 was the default. As it is he's at her mercy. Women don't have much mercy for men.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 12:54 PM
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Bars and restaurants are public places. If they want to attract women they can't make men pay extra for the women to come, which, with a half off discount is whats happening.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 11:24 AM
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Having drinks that make a woman feel oozy and then going in the hot tub followed by sex is a pattern of predation to be used in court to indicate rape, if you have more than one female testifying to the pattern.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:55 PM
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The post has been taken down by the mods. So u/potential_love is complaining that mainly men message her on a board to promote chatting. She seems open to the idea but half the men are twice her age. Sad panda.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 02:24 PM
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A feminist icon said women shouldn't be given the option to stay home because to many women would take it. I've seen the shoe on the other foot. Man out of work for two years. She leaves, he get's full custody, the house and alimony. He sent his son to Miami University and even though she only has visitation she had to pay half on an assistant salary. Women wanted to work and thats a benefit to men. Women that don't want to work don't want to be partners.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 08:08 PM
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The case began in 1994, with a two-week affair between the boy and the unmarried woman, listed in court records as Ricci Jones. Pedo's describe their relationships with children as affairs and sharing love and permission. This case is truly disgusting.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 02:50 PM
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There are many groups that hate white men. They do indeed join the feminists in their hate fest.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 02:20 PM
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She turned her alcoholic husband in for 632,000 rubles owed in child support. That's about 10,000 dollars. That's how much the father of her children's life is worth for her. I hope the children hear the story of how their mother sent their father to die for 10K.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:23 PM
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If you want to know who's in power, ask yourself who you can't criticize.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 11:23 AM
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Women in the US use administrative abuse by making it so difficult in family court that men are afraid to fight to see their children.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:33 AM
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I've played the same mmporg game for many years and never met a female player. I can't say I care.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 12:53 AM
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The only thing that has changed is that women now have to go to work. I would never get with a woman that didn't have a good job and would divorce if my wife started staying home. I kinda did with my ex-wife. It definitely contributed. In marriage the rules are you have to pay the person alimony to make up for the lifestyle they were accustomed to. I want a partner not a parasite. Before second wave feminism most women leached off their husbands directly.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 12:32 AM
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One time I mentioned that it is silly that they don't allow kindergarten children to line up by girl and boy. You're not allowed to say those words. She got insulted. The other one I mentioned that women use health care a lot more than men so it seems fair they should pay more. She caught on to me and the date was over. I don't date anymore as they mainly are feminists in my part of the country.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:47 PM
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This is all part of a plan. They started pushing girls in grade school ahead of boys 50 years ago hoping this future would happen. Of course they don't want to address this problem. It's not a problem to them, it's equity, it is their goal.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 01:32 PM
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You have to ask yourself, is the juice worth the squeeze?
/r/MensRights22/10/22 11:39 AM
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50/50 is the default. That doesn't mean other arrangements can't be made. It is always situational. But what happened before divorce doesn't necessarily hold after divorce. Things are different.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 09:40 PM
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I would never get with a woman with a record. Big red flag. Next you'll have a record.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:42 AM
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Nice video. I heard a word I had not heard of before, Administrative Abuse. That's what I went through with my ex who kept taking me back to court to fight over custody 4 times in 12 years. I lost my job, my house and eventually my son. That's what family court is, a tool of Administrative abuse.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:34 AM
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these I liked your post but did you have to expose us to "these"??? I haven't heard feminist logic in years and yet there it was in my face: "I'm over 30 and am dating well, who would want to date a man who dates women under 30?" The manipulation is astounding. I'm glad I forgot what that's like.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 01:39 PM
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You're a bored feminist who comes over here painting MRA's as anti-gay because it's fun for you. And who is the bully with a keyboard?
/r/MensRights20/10/22 11:14 AM
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We had 50/50 custody and she wanted to move three states away. So she told all our friends from school I was mean and she was afraid of me. To prove it she brought along two big burly bodyguards to the school cookie sale and soccer games. It was desperate and stupid but thats what you can expect in a contested custody case.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 01:12 AM
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81% of sanitation workers are men. I bet there is a large percentage of women who are clerks and supervisors.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 09:39 PM
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The one thing all teachers have in common: They are mainly female and they have been through woke teachers college and have to follow woke teachers policies in school. They should have schools for boys separate from girls. Female teachers are incapable or unwilling to grade fairly knowing the long term effects on male students.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 01:42 PM
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This is what NY looked like when sanitation workers went on strike for a week in 1968. I was a child but remember it. It stank and stopped NYC completely. https://janos.nyc/history/today-in-nyc-history/february-12-the-great-garbage-strike-of-1968/
/r/MensRights19/10/22 11:05 AM
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My ex's campaign against me to prove she was afraid of me so she could move our so three states away included her hiring body guards to go to school functions with her so our son's friends parents would believe I'm a threatening person. I'm lucky I didn't go to prison. If you are being abused mentally or physically, leave. She will accuse you if you don't.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 11:02 AM
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I'd been married before and had no illusions that divorce was impossible. We exchanged vows promising to share 50/50 equal custody of children should we divorce. Her first move was to secretly take the children 8 hours away stymying 50/50. I took her to court ex-parte the next morning and eventually got 50/50. I got it right away but she fought it for 14 years going to court 5 times and costing me 300,000 dollars and when my son turned 14 he rebelled stopped doing homework and moved to his moms …
/r/MensRights18/10/22 05:31 PM
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The only state in which it is safe to have children is Kentucky which enacted default 50/50 equal shared custody. They have to prove your unfit to remove your rights as a father. https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/2019/08/30/kentuckys-joint-custody-law-leads-decline-family-court-cases/2158216001/
/r/MensRights18/10/22 05:26 PM
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And when men try to organize themselves to provide services for men they are shut down by feminist organizations. Like the ones fighting 50/50 custody in Florida recently.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 04:40 PM
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This is what the custody evaluator said when my ex wanted me to pay a nanny to raise our son at her house because she wouldn't do it but still wanted custody. It is a different style of parenting and no better or worse than staying home. It is the way aristocrats and the wealthy raise their kids and they turn out fine. I, like you would have been happy to support my wife at home until school years. But I never thought of putting a woman in the home as they would get bored. That's why I married e…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 04:23 PM
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I have nieces that recently had children and they want a great lifestyle. So they did maternity and paternity leave and put the children in day care at age 6 months. These are couples that are partners. Don't ever agree to let your spouse stay home long term unless you like paying alimony.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 02:32 PM
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Just because they could. I earned enough so they thought there was extra money. After they stopped working I got a second job to keep them in the lifestyle they were accustomed. Lunch dates with the girls. Buying a lot of clothes to keep in style. Fancy vacations. Until they dumped me for brighter pastures. One found them and remarried up and the other did not and begged me to come back for years. Neither one went to a real job again. They both went into modeling and, as I said, one remarried qu…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:49 PM
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Until your married two years and they decide to stay home. It happened to me twice and I'm not exceptional. Married two college educated and self proclaimed career women and neither wanted to work if they didn't have to. Why do you think women marry up?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:00 PM
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They are financing the railroading of men off campus with billions of dollars in grants it seems. It's very expensive to chase men off campus. But to our woke feminist government it's worth every dime.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 11:57 AM
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Get a second job with your time off and hire the best attorney you can. Think of it as in proportion to home much you value your son.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:56 AM
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That's why I got married the second time. Unless you're married you have no parental rights. Just responsibilities.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 10:00 PM
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I think your thinking you might have been downvoted on r/MensLib. Here we deal with the reality of life and men are only allowed to cry at weddings and funerals. And if they don't everyone thinks they are cold and unfeeling.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:56 PM
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They make movies glorifying this like Eat, Pray, Love. Men do the same thing. Divorce is now no fault and women are out about their feelings and they are not feeling marriage. It's not just men that aren't marrying.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:50 PM
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It's not an anomaly. It's the result of well funded lobbying efforts of forces out to help women and, because there are limited resources, disenfranchise men. They don't want equality and it shows in breast cancer versus prostate cancer funding.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:23 AM
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It shows in a greater life expectancy and rates of heart disease and cancer. Men should suffer so much.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:21 AM
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Men were experimented on. As soon as enough data was available women were included fully over 50 years ago. Why is it that today men receive a fraction of the funding for prostate cancer screening, prevention and research than breast cancer? Gynocentrism at it's best. I'm surprised you didn't say...but but but childbirth!
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:19 AM
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Their solutions are clear. They need to encourage less discrimination against men going into minimum wage jobs like: The research found that men were least likely to get a call-back when applying for the role of clerk/administrative worker, sales assistant, receptionist or cleaner.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 11:34 PM
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The leaders will be college graduates. Politicians, judges, lawyers, CEO's, managers. All indoctrinated that men don't need due process when it is her word against his.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:39 PM
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Men don't fight because the cost is too great. I had a great job, lived clean, took care of my son and won in court the four separate times she tried to win full custody with her new husbands money. It cost me 300,000 dollars, I lost my house, my job and my sanity. All I was asking for and won was 50/50 custody. She was a good mother and I never said differently in court or in person. All we ask for here is default 50/50 custody so that we don't have to end up in court just to be fathers. But th…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:16 PM
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Don't feed the trolls. Just downvote and ignore.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:21 PM
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In our current society advocating for men is seen as male superiority and is misogynistic. Keep such talk to our little ghetto in r/MRA.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:15 PM
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Never wrestle a pig, you'll get dirty and they'll enjoy it. And never argue with a feminist and they are mainly the females online.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 09:49 AM
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Google is your friend. A: If we go by the child-custody case statistics, about 79.9% of custodial parents in the United States are mothers. https://www.google.com/search?q=what+percent+of+divorces+do+women+get+sole+custody+us&oq=what+percent+of+divorces+do+women+get+sole+custody+us&aqs=chrome..69i57.12922j1j15&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
/r/MensRights16/10/22 09:45 AM
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The most common reason women file for divorce is boredom. With no fault divorce there is no reason to stay together and women win custody so there is no down side for them. With default 50/50 custody men may feel it is safe to reproduce in our society. Trailer for Eat Pray Love
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:05 AM
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Listen to this and then tell me that there is not an organized and well funded campaign to benefit women to the exclusion of men. When 60% of elected parlament are women is seen as a "start that is not moving fast enough". It is a form of cultural colonization again, very well funded by the likes of Melinda Gates.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:42 AM
2

The article says the men who were shot were volunteers. This sounds like Ukrainian special ops at work.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:42 PM
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They are creating a dangerous and hostile environment for men on campus. It's no wonder boys are skipping college. The future is female no matter who they have to hurt to get there.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 10:33 PM
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The comments look like all are taking this crime seriously and want to call her what she is, a rapist. This comment got 144 upvotes: Remember when the second wave feminists essentially got rid of male secondary teachers to stop this exploitation. Seeing more and more stories like this Female Teacher young boy - girl 12+ Difference being now that they get a slap on the wrist
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:27 AM
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The idea is gaining public attention.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 01:05 AM
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Don't ever live with a female today. It's dangerous to your safety, mental health and staying out of jail. Learn from this.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 11:29 AM
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Nice. Now if they can include made to penetrate as rape we could see more men getting services. It's nice they didn't denigrate men in the article and listed resources for raped men at the end.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 11:23 AM
3

Thanks for that. It really puts things in perspective. I'm going fishing.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 11:20 AM
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Anti-discrimination laws apply equally to men and women.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 02:54 AM
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She's being charged with sexual assault but she should also be charged with making a false police report because she accused him of raping her and the evidence showed she lied.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 02:39 AM
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A homeless man came into some money. He donated a large part to the homeless shelter of Saint Vincent De Paul in Los Angeles. I donate every year 100 dollars. It's a start and will definitely go to help the truly homeless, mostly male.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 09:23 PM
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You are seeing a light into relationships with the superior sex. I took care of my superior mother for the last two years and now my superior sister decided she was going to take over. Getting away from both of them is the best thing I ever did. Women have been raised to think men questioning them are abusive. They even have a name for it: Mansplaining.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 01:59 PM
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Intolerance to any competing opinion about feminism. Cancel culture and #metoo.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 01:14 PM
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When women do it for themselves they end up raising their babies by themselves and live in poverty. Changes of the last 50 years have been about who's going to pay for the babies to not grow up poor. Forget about fathers and father involvement which would help the children directly. They think of men as only walking ATM's. It's all from feminist perspective.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 11:24 AM
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Parental Alienation is a form of child abuse and leads to Parental Alienation Syndrome which can have serious affects on the child's future relationship with the alienated parent. Custody should be removed from these child abusers.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 12:46 AM
4

In college in the 1970's they had us use uni-sex bathrooms in the dorms. There was no problem. This is a TERF issue. Let the woke fight the woke.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 08:56 AM
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Don't kid yourself. The FBI is seriously investigating us as potential domestic terrorists. This is from Europe: https://icct.nl/publication/male-supremacist-terrorism-as-a-rising-threat/
/r/MensRights12/10/22 12:37 AM
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Abstract The manosphere network is a dispersed collection of online spaces that proliferate an anti-feminist ideology that in some cases has been associated with violence. This thesis aims to observe the manosphere network structure as it exists on Reddit by using a mixed method research design of digital ethnography and social network analysis (SNA). This research identified a unifying anti-feminist framework and found that informal social divisions within the network faded over time, which ind…
/r/MensRights12/10/22 12:33 AM
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We need a false accuser registry and when someone makes a claim of sexual assault the registry should be looked at for serial false accusers.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 10:02 AM
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I went through the full court press. I fought for and won 50/50 four times in court. She kept taking me back. Her new husband paid when they wanted to move. It cost me 300,000 dollars and I lost my job and, eventually, when my son was 14 he decided he wanted to move in with his mom. Don't fight over little things. Soon your child will be able to make up their own mind.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 09:58 AM
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If it's 100% women then it's 100% diverse. Quota achieved, move the goal posts.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:09 PM
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Most women don't support feminism and this woman sounds like she listened to you and learned something. It's a shame she didn't say "How can I be involved?". But, she listened to you and raising consciousness about men's issues is the first step. Good job.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:07 PM
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I play this game https://www.eveonline.com/ and find it's a great way to have fun with men average age 40. It's hard to find a place to hang out with men my age. There is even an r/Eve. Everyone watches each others speech in voice coms and are always respectful. Women just don't come up in conversation. We talk about the game. We have young, old, white, black, European, American, Australian, Russian, Asian, straight, gay, religious, city, country all playing together with no friction. I liken it…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 06:02 AM
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Women commit more child abuse than men: Data: https://www.statista.com/statistics/418470/number-of-perpetrators-in-child-abuse-cases-in-the-us-by-sex/
/r/MensRights09/10/22 01:08 AM
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No, it's mothers that are the most abusive but thanks for that little slice of hate.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 12:26 AM
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Then why do women and their boyfriends cause the majority of child abuse? The presence of a biological father is the safest place for a child, statistically.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 09:15 PM
23

Didn't a famous feminist say that "Women shouldn't be given the option to not work because too many would take it."? I would never get into or stay in a relationship with a spouse that didn't work. It's too much risk in divorce for long term alimony.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 09:12 PM
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I think you mean prostate cancer not testicular cancer. Funding for most cancer research is federal grant money and breast cancer gets four times the funding. I'm all for fighting breast cancer by funding more screening but am aware that prostate cancer screening is seen as competing with breast cancer screening for limited federal funding.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 08:52 PM
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You should determine what's best for your children, not in your favor.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 07:43 PM
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There are all kinds of men and traits stereotypically defined as feminine and masculine have a lot of overlap. Being a man is being a male human. Not many other stereotypes apply.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 12:45 PM
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It's great we have organized opposition to these kangaroo courts creating a hostile environment for men on campus. Keep updating us and if comments are required let us know how to participate.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 12:34 AM
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I cant' believe my ears. He actually says he supports paper abortion for men. The MRM is making great strides in getting our message out and becoming included in the national dialogue.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 02:02 AM
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As 50/50 equal shared custody becomes the norm, men can certainly benefit from these types of services. Especially legal services. In the US there are many orgs like universities that offer cheap or free legal advice for women but not for men. That needs to change.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 01:28 AM
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Moving out of the country is the most blatant form of parental alienation there is. Judges frown on that in the US these days. Good luck, you'll need a good attorney and they are expensive. Hire one. Before she moves and you have to fight this in the international court.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 12:56 AM
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It's nice to see people interested in real equality.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 02:59 PM
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Femininity isn't toxic and neither is masculinity. Feminism is a political movement that has toxic elements. Followers can be said to say and do toxic things.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 02:56 PM
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This is their motus operandi. They are trying to teach young college women that women need special courts to rule on sex based offenses. Their logic extends to greater society. Just like they taught women to hate men on college for the last 50 years, so they are saying to young educated men and women that when it comes to sex the woman is always to be believed because women don't lie about sex crimes. Despite the extremely low rate of convictions. Those that assume the same innocent until proven…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 02:38 PM
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Are we so immune to reality that we don't see that younger people are more attractive? That's why we have laws to protect them. Today 18 is a teen and considered a child. But they can enroll to die in war.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 02:31 PM
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I'm sure they grew apart, she wants the feelings of a new relationship and the money calculus definitely figured into her timing. Women file 80% of divorces and figure in these things.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 02:09 PM
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I think the women of my generation, the mothers of the millenial fourth wave feminists were the worst. Even then it is a small minority of women that are strident man hating feminists. Of my sisters four friends only one, or 20%, was a strident feminist and still is. She pays child support, lost custody and only get's to see her children every other weekend. Thanks for the equality. But ask her about abortion and she goes off.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 12:56 PM
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I think that women have had to put up with this behavior from men forever. If a man likes a woman he sits next to her and tries to engage in conversation. Women find this abusive but without a definite sexual advance that keeps coming up there is nothing women can do. Same with you. I hate office politics and retired early. Avoid, avoid but don't antagonize. I feel bad for her. She's clearly attracted to you. Give her no reason to think your snubbing her or she will go to HR. It sucks but that's…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 12:13 PM
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If your relatives are racists then telling them they are will only get you hated by them. Best to ignore them and keep your opinions to yourself. I never discuss this stuff in front of family. They, as do most people, don't like it when men complain and definitely don't want equality of the sexes.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:21 AM
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Men and women were treated equally even 400 years ago. We live in a delusion sold to us by feminism offering free sex as a reward. "Women were quite often equal partners, and daughters were named as executors alongside sons. Widows would keep on their husband’s businesses and many were running inns. They were also prominent moneylenders in an early local banking system, and one of the richest women we found had a massive amount loaned out in bonds.”
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:18 AM
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