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ConversationOldSoulBiz/r/seduction24/02/20 03:52 PM
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That's a terrible way to get into conversations. Conversations inherently are random and unpredictable. Learning specific lines and topics to use in an interaction will make things feel artificial and fake. What will you do if the conversation goes into a direction you're not prepared for? You're screwed. What you want to do is grow yourself. Get into hobbies and interests of yours and find other like-minded people and mingle with them. That way you'll naturally gain more experience and knowledg…
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:05 PM
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Wear clothes that fit you. Keep a clean haircut & trimmed facial hair (if you have any). Get your teeth fixed if they're not. And finally, correct your fucking head and back posture; As in stand up straight with your shoulders back. Hold your head up straight without any side tilting or forward neck posturing. If you have any of those and can't correct them, go see a doctor/chiropractor.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:31 PM
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You want to avoid saying "I don't want to take up much of your time". It makes it seem like you're already demanding stuff from her. Avoid that kind of line in any situation when you're opening a conversation. When closing a conversation, say something like "Thank you for your time."
/r/seduction02/03/20 03:59 PM
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There's another topic going on in this sub that helps with your question. You may have already gone through it, but here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f9ts6v/how_to_be_more_interesting/ I totally agree with what is being said on there; I am proof of it because I have no interests or hobbies I'm passionate about. It makes it hard for me to get engaged or attached to anything, so I ended up not doing anything with most my life - I'm slowly trying to change that, but I'm strugg…
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:18 PM
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Remember there are a lot of "nice guys" who would blow up on a girl after she ignores them for a while. So it could have been their way of shit-testing you. The best you can do in that situation is wait a couple of days, then ping them with a weird/funny/interesting comment, statement, or picture with a caption and see if they respond again. Do NOT ask a question otherwise you might appear needy even if you aren't. If they don't respond, then something caused her to cut you off. It's possible yo…
/r/seduction26/02/20 07:37 PM
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I see what you're saying. My drive has always been that whatever it is I do, I want to do it right and be actually good at it, but nothing more than that. Do you have of any personal examples of yours where your drive has propelled you to advance and overachieve? Maybe give me a more visceral meaning of what you mean by "drive."
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:39 PM
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Wasn't that obvious? That's the whole point of my main post. I mentioned that my lack of passion for anything is stopping me from improving even further. I'm looking for thoughts, advice, and opinions.
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:09 PM
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What do you mean it was just bullshit? As in I made it all up?
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:50 PM
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Yeah man, you got it. Don't get me wrong, the attitude you have about thinking the best in people is a good trait to have in general, but you don't want to be too naive or it'll come back and bite you in the ass.
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:25 PM
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The lack of pre-marital sex is one of the reasons why muslim couples last long in a marriage, but there are other cultural and familial pressures that play into it as well. Divorce in general is just not a good look on the couple in question and their families in certain cultures. Here's one random article I pulled: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440 You can find a ton more of stuff like that.
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:18 PM
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It's happened to me as well. My 20s were just ass. Now that I'm 35, I make close to 6 figures, learned more skills, working on advancing my career even further, picked up a new hobby. I definitely feel way more confident than I was in my 20s. I can sit and lament the years I've wasted in my 20s, because if I did work hard in my 20s, I would've definitely been in an even better position today. But it's always better later than never.
/r/seduction12/02/20 08:10 PM
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I haven't been to MOA in over 5 years. Holy crap. It's true though, there are a ton of women there. Be careful not to land an under-aged one. Lots of them tend to hang out there. haha
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:46 PM
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I disagree; the number of partners a woman has had is a big indicator whether a LTR with her will last or not. There is data that suggests that the more partners a woman has had before settling down, the more volatile her LTRs are. You can get past it in the short-term, but it does play a big factor in the long-term.
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:43 PM
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"Interpreted" the personality or not, the point is that the personality displeased the people that interacted with it. Which means it needs to be worked on. The part you said where they "become wiser" is basically the person would wise up & grow up and realize their personality was shit, and so they worked on refining it.
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:20 PM
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You're kidding, right? There are absolutely obnoxious and repulsive personalities, and it has nothing to do with mental illness nor "complexion," whatever that means.
/r/seduction12/02/20 04:16 PM
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Don't listen to asdf_8954. Unpleasant or unappealing personalities DO exist. Don't feed the OP bullshit statements like that one.
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:43 PM
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I am going to be blunt here, so don't take any offense. The position you're currently in is not appealing to high-quality women, and the older you are, the worse position you're in. How old are you? If you REALLY want to date and find a woman in your current situation, you're very likely to attract a low-quality woman. And you don't want that. Have you heard of the "Men are islands. Women are boats." metaphor? If not, give this video a watch: https://youtu.be/WoDIDuexS74 So, after watching that …
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:33 PM
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Improving yourself improves your game. The game you learn has to be backed up by your experience and self worth. You can learn all the pick-up skills you want, but if you don't believe in yourself, you won't be 100% confident. What are your hobbies? How much have you advanced in your career? What are some side things you're interested in? Let me know so I can tailor my advice to you.
/r/seduction11/02/20 06:10 PM
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I am indeed in the US, and my average body temperature is around 99 degrees, so I'd say I'm pretty hot. Now if you'll excuse me so I can be a creeper and PM you. Hope my creeping is not a DEAL BREAKER for you. ha
/r/seduction07/02/20 09:04 PM
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I guess it really depends on where you live. I've seen women who happen to be tall in their country where normally tall people aren't common there. Like Japan for instance. There are Japanese girls that can be 5'10 tall and the average height of men in Japan is less than 5'8... I guess it might suck for those women? What country are you in? And since you said you date guys that are your height without a prob, you're saying I have a chance? haha
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:51 PM
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I once was approached by a girl that was 6'3 and during our conversation I asked her how come she approached a 5'10 guy like me, and she said it's because her choices are pretty slim if she sticks to guys taller than her. So she had no choice but to include guys shorter than her into her dating pool to have better chances of finding someone. I felt bad for her to be honest. Do you have a tough time finding eligible guys to date?
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:36 PM
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Is height a complete deal breaker? Like do you see yourself ignoring the height of the dude if let's say he's just as tall as you if he happens to tick off your other boxes? How tall are you?
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:16 PM
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The people who are mentioning "working out" are omitting the fact that it's MUCH easier said than done. Working out entails you keep a strict workout and diet regimen, along with getting the right amount of sleep. If you fuck up any one of those 3, you won't see progress. I am by no means scaring you away from it. I'm just laying out facts you need to know if you want results. Because at some point you might either get bored or lose motivation. You need to set goals, and it ain't easy.
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:30 PM
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I'm not the creative type, but coming up with jokes or funny stories (they don't have to be true stories) about your ear will both boost your confidence and enables you to show people that you're a funny guy that doesn't let anything keep you down. How your ear looks like won't matter in the end. Like think of a quick funny one-liner to say when you notice people are looking at it whilst walking past. You can leave the more intricate funny stories for when you're hanging out with people you don'…
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:15 PM
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Women are weaker than men emotionally. Yes, there are strong women who endure tough emotional situations, but some of them tend to cry afterwards in secret. Happens all the time. I've seen it personally. Just because women are good at tormenting someone mentally and emotionally, it doesn't mean they're better at controlling their own emotions themselves. It's just that that's the most optimal way a woman can deal damage without physical altercations.
/r/seduction07/02/20 01:32 AM
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There are people who have a natural knack for this sort of thing where they're just naturally charismatic, funny, or interesting. When it comes to you and I for example, we have to work for it. Be a social person and interact with people as much as you can. Watch what others do in certain situations and take them as examples and lessons and learn from them to see what works and what doesn't. Obviously you can also test the waters by saying and doing things yourself and see how it plays out. If y…
/r/seduction07/02/20 01:20 AM
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Yeah, until the one that says it is an older lady. Then you wish it was a younger one. Then it's a young ugly lady that says it. Then you wish it was a young, beautiful lady. Then when it's a young, beautiful lady that says it, you'll get nervous and blow it anyways. Back to square one. hahaha
/r/seduction06/02/20 10:23 PM
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I think she just liked the quick ego boost. lmao
/r/seduction06/02/20 09:25 PM
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Yeah I got you. No harm in talking to a girl you saw and liked. Just keep in mind that we were also talking about stopping a girl who's walking somewhere, and that is a hard ask. Here's one trick you can try: Stop her and say you're lost and need directions. What is it that you're looking for? Use your creativity. Oh, she doesn't know where that place is? No problem, now that you've stopped her, you can throw in something else you've noticed about her and ask her an open ended question. Another …
/r/seduction06/02/20 09:08 PM
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One thing at a time my man. Also, force yourself to eat food normally, don't blend 'em. Here's a fun youtube channel that shows you how to cook your own food: https://www.youtube.com/user/thesamlivecast/videos He makes it easy. You'll learn how to eat healthy delicious food, AND teach you how to cook. A man who knows how to cook is extremely attractive to a woman. Start there and maybe make a post with an update on this subreddit about how it's going. DO IT!!!
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:58 PM
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Like I said, there are ones who are not worth it, but your attitude of "I don't take no shit from no one" is what might put a girl off. You'll come off extremely defensive and insecure. You need to play off their rude comments and be confident and not someone who gets pissed off or gets aggravated easily. Women love men who can take heat and stay in control of the situation. Remember this, and maybe try it the next time you come into a similar scenario where a girl demeans you in any way. That i…
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:42 PM
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That kind of thinking is what makes men make rash decisions because of "What if she's the one??" or "She's my type and I may not find anyone like her again! I don't wanna blow it!" Bullshit. Why is it that people always find someone to have a relationship with no matter where you put them? Almost everyone who's in a relationship has found their partner locally. You know what that means? That means if you yourself moved to a completely different country, you'll run into the same scenario you were…
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:36 PM
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Sounds like you have it under control. Start with what you can fix and go from there. Maybe after eating well and bulking up, it might fix some of your skin issues. I'm hoping you're not a vegan. Meat is a necessary part of our diet. Good luck my friend.
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:30 PM
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I agree that sometimes their comments can border on being rude or be just plain rude. The way I see it is: The more rude her comment is, the more likely it means that she thinks you're way below her standards. At the same time, if you overcome her comment and spin it into something positive, you would shatter her initial impressions/judgement of you and probably deeply impress her. Obviously there are women who are indeed just fucking nasty, but I say don't make an immediate judgement just from …
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:07 PM
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Having good looks makes it so that women drop their guards much faster than if you're not good looking. Being good looking definitely makes things easier, but it's not everything. So when you say that said girls would take you out for ball games and offer to pay for food means you're doing something else that's keeping them interested. That's what most men need to learn because you can't just rely on good looks. I agree with your comment regarding online dating. It's not in favor of men. I tried…
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:54 PM
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Have you looked at your faults one-by-one and saw what options you have at fixing them?
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:47 PM
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Do you want help? Real help? Try approaching women again when you get the chance, but turn on the voice recorder on your phone to record your interaction. Post it online somewhere and link it on this subreddit asking for feedback. I'm sure the guys on here will happily dissect it for you. That way they can tell you what you did wrong or what you can do better. This is not a joke.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:45 PM
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To be fair, stopping and getting the attention of a girl walking somewhere is not a "please approach me" situation. You want to approach women who are standing/sitting/lounging around. Study them from afar and find something about them (either something they're wearing or something they're doing or something they're looking at) and bring it up with either an interesting question or a funny joke/comment.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:38 PM
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Why would you even want to date women who from the start tell you this? That's how women check to see if a man is a pussy or not. If little ol' her can just SAY something that'll hurt your ego and get an emotional reaction out of you, how will she trust that you can stand up to life's difficulties? I do concede that the girls that do have such remarks will indeed sting and hurt you, but she wants a man that can take verbal abuse and turn it around into a strength.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:13 PM
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You have to understand that girls are generally weaker than men physically and emotionally. Their shit tests are their defense mechanism. It's their way of weeding out terrible partners.
/r/seduction06/02/20 06:10 PM
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Not just catch it, but do something unexpectedly pleasant/impressive/humorous with it after catching it.
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:58 PM
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