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One-Wait-8383/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 05:09 PM
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2

Do the math. If you sell the house and split it 50-50. Does the process exceeds 50% of your retirement? If yes, obviously sell the house!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 07:38 PM
1

It will only prolong your suffering.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 07:34 PM
24

Remember LinkedIn is your professional life. She might tag you and post something unsavory about you. Block her
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 12:31 AM
1

Is there a court order against you to prevent you from seeing your youngest? What about the oldest one (I read your blog)?
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 10:16 PM
1

Did she spend as much as you spent? I mean her lawyer was as expensive as yours?
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/24 08:48 PM
5

Dude why didn’t you walk out when she was arrested first time for assault. You would have gotten better custody as well…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 03:30 PM
1

I will say do what would be good for your mental and physical health. If moving away helps you, do it. Get a fresh start.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 07:54 PM
1

I have 0 sympathy for you. You saw your stepdaughter getting abused . Yet, you didn’t do anything.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 07:01 PM
4

Attorney is going to sue her if she can’t pay the bills later. Unless she’s sleeping with the attorney
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 04:05 AM
4

Time to be selfish. Your health , your life matters. You have any family friends or family to lean on to? Start the divorce process ASAP. She’s ready to jump ship. Help her do it. Cut her off as soon as you can. God forbid if you don’t make it, she will get everything and enjoy rest of her life. Get the divorce. Secure your asset, then will it to (family friends ) or to a charity.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 03:46 AM
1

The work husband is divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 03:24 AM
1

Hilarious or candy from strip club.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 08:15 AM
2

I hope you blocked her completely. Also, cut off her family even if they are nice to you. You deserve a clean break
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 08:13 AM
1

After multiple accusations, you still went over to talk to her and got arrested. At what point do you learn!!
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 07:03 AM
1

Also change you phone passcode..man!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 10:44 PM
1

Also change you phone passcode..man!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 10:44 PM
3

What about your x wife? Did she find out about your success?
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 01:56 AM
0

Stop smoking weed and develop some self respect
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 01:04 AM
1

Never be the second choice. He’s just using you
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 12:52 AM
2

What’s free spirit doing now? Raising fatherless kids in a hippie commune??
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 12:23 AM
1

You don’t get alimony? What about the 50/50 asset division?
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 04:15 PM
8

I am confused. Why did you accept such a crappy deal???
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 03:59 PM
4

Dude with all due respect , please don’t send that poem and goodbye msg. She would use that to make fun of you in future. That only gives her more power over you. Just block her and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/24 11:05 PM
1

File for divorce man!! You have no other choice.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 11:10 PM
1

Get a divorce and then think about buying a house.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 10:52 PM
3

That’s a punishment of life time. Does anyone visit her in rehab? Does she try to contact you?
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 01:54 AM
5

This is one of the most evil thing I ever heard. I hope you have cut this horrible person completely from your life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 01:52 AM
5

Word of advice. Just take what you inherited. Leave those overpriced furnitures. Let her deal with those shit. There is no better feeling than being able to let go. It’s a feeling of euphoria. You will feel it when you do that.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 01:42 AM
1

Most likely, she has someone on the side. Either way, if she’s apartment hunting, she’s far ahead in divorce process mentally. If you act now and file for divorce, I would say go through it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 06:13 PM
1

Hand is the king!!.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 03:26 AM
1

Buying her out can be a bad idea. Say you agree for 10 years alimony. She might expire early or gets remarried. You no longer have to pay alimony. But, if you pay her out, that’s entire lump sum gone.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 03:25 AM
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I don’t want to pick on you. But, why are you in touch with her if you don’t share kids. Also, when she asked about your dating life you should have responded something “I will rather not discuss that with you”.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:31 AM
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Also, be prepared to drag out the divorce if you sense that they are in hurry to make their relationship official. Then she might give up kore in favor of divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 05:14 AM
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Your advice is brilliant but sadly wasted on this guy!!
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 05:04 AM
1

If you live in a no fault state, this doesn’t matter. Do you even have a lawyer? I bet you don’t.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 03:24 AM
1

How did you dump her?
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 11:34 PM
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My friend you are plan B. She is keeping you as back up . Her other guy probably didn’t work out for now. So you are a fill in until she find the next guy.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 11:32 PM
1

Yeah, those friends took sides. Most likely your wife’s side. That’s why it’s very important to have your own friend circle, not mutual friends. But, your side of family should support you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 11:21 PM
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Is there a court decree that you have to visit this therapist or do you go on your own?
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 11:11 PM
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At one point, think about your well being. Stop talking to your daughters if you can.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 10:55 PM
1

Just don’t make the situation worse than it already is. Unless the recording is really damning for ex: “I am going to kill you” or “I am doing drugs” , it’s useless.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 05:30 PM
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Your concern about the guy moving in is a moot point. She can move whoever she wants to be with her. Also, your daughter is almost adult. Even if you are amicable, you will still have to file for divorce. The longer you wait more painful it would be.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 05:28 PM
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So, let me get this. You want to stay married and at the same time you wife is living her life with her boyfriend. What is it exactly you are gaining from this? Unless you get some secret pleasure seeing you wife with another guy!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 05:08 PM
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Tell her to give up her settlement from the house and then you will consider taking her back. Let me know how she reacts to it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 04:48 PM
1

You are a success story? Did you know what happened to your ex? Did she try to reach out?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 07:13 PM
1

Oh, she already has another guy?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 07:09 PM
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Just file for divorce , get your fair share and move on. She most likely already got another dude on side.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 07:08 PM
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Consider yourself lucky. Once divorce is final, interact with her through apps. Also, get prepared mentally for some new dude being in the picture.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 07:01 PM
5

If possible borrow from your friend and family. Also, be very careful about fake DV charges.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 06:56 PM
2

She already got another guy. Move on. You can’t force her to stay in a relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 02:39 AM
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Definitely get divorced first. If you both want to reconcile you can do that after divorce. Under no circumstances, postpone the divorce. Because once you cross that 10 year mark you are stuck with lifetime alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 01:30 AM
1

Oregon?
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 06:22 AM
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I think it’s time to be selfish and look after yourself. Politely, tell your daughters you are going no contact with them and request them to respect your privacy.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 06:03 AM
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Even if she doesn’t have a job during divorce her earning potential would be considered. Pretend you are very sad about divorce . Does she care about her reputation? I mean how would she react if family memebers kids find out about her cheating?
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 10:48 PM
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You have a govt job. That means she would go after your pension. Hire a good lawyer. Let the lawyer fight for you . Don’t talk to her under any circumstances
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 10:26 PM
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Absolutely not if adultery is not a factor in term of alimony/property division in your state. Save those proofs. Try to get it done amicably. She asked for divorce means she’s in affair fog. Use that to your advantage. Then once the divorce is done drop the hammer. Go scorched earth. Cali means lifetime alimony. Does she work? Try to see if you can pursue her to give up alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 10:17 PM
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Maybe stop talking to her about her dating life!!! Focus on yourself and kids.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/23 04:54 PM
3

Yeah, should have moved out the first time she hit you. If you did, you won’t be in this situation today.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/23 04:40 PM
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If you say yes, the attorney is going to use it as a precedent to take away your full rights. Absolutely, do not agree to this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/23 04:39 PM
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Great to hear it. Ex like yours doesn’t deserve a single minute of thought. I hope you made sure everyone around you knows full extent of her cheating including your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 04:52 PM
1

Why is she still your wife?!!! Make her ex. So, she can live happily ever after with her lover.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 08:06 PM
1

I would still stay keep the distance. Your daughter is moved out. You don’t need your ex to keep contact with your daughter. Your ex might try to be “friends”. Don’t fall for that trap.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 02:58 AM
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You clearly knew you were going to leave her when you had sex with her. Yet, you did it without protection. You do you. Good luck!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 01:49 AM
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You are truly out of your mind if you give up alimony and assets. Trust me you won’t be able to take care of your kids if you’re poor. Your wife will take advantage of that to manipulate your kids against you. So , get a goddamn lawyer and sue for what you deserve. You got a transplant and I am assuming you body has accepted the transplant well. So, start your new life free from that wife.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 01:40 AM
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Yeah. No way woman would be okay with their significant other moving on with another woman unless she got some kind of guilt. Assuming, your kids are already adult, don’t fall for let’s stay friends trap. Full and complete detachment is way forward.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 07:18 PM
1

Maybe she already has someone on the side you just don’t know about it. Keep being nice and finish the divorce
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:53 AM
4

Yeah good luck. What’s her incentive to sell the house. She gets to live in the house for free. You already left the house which is bad for your custody case. That’s why one should get a lawyer and listen to their advice.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:37 AM
1

Is is decreed by court or mutual agreement?
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:20 AM
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You are not getting any sympathy because you are drowning in your own sorrow. At this rate, you will probably loose custody rights permanently. How did you manage to become homeless despite owning the house? Let’s start with that. Your entire post is an emotional rant. If you gave all the specific details like how you lost your house maybe we would have something useful advice to give.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 01:31 AM
2

Get your act together. Acting like a victim won’t get you out of this mess.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 01:00 AM
1

How the heck you end up losing the house in the divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 12:56 AM
6

Just block her completely.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 11:31 PM
1

The problem is you are a poor judge of character. You should’ve known long back that she’s a POS. Stop interacting with her except it’s related to kid.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 02:18 AM
3

A significant number of therapists are actually come from failed relationships/cheaters/abusers.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 07:07 PM
2

TBH, if your daughter lied about hitting her, you are at risk of getting arrested. It can happen again in future. I would just give full custody to ex wife, have visitation rights only. It will definitely hurt but your career/reputation would be protected. Once your daughter grows up , hopefully she would realize and probably would want to come stay with you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 04:35 PM
4

Nice. It’s a one party consent state. Show your lawyer the recording and make sure it’s usable in court.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 04:21 PM
3

If the evidence you have dates prior to your forgiveness it won’t be counted as proof of adultery. You need most recent proof of affair. Only then it would be counted and you won’t have to pay alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 04:10 PM
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If you get married, get an airtight prenup. Remember, you are in California!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 08:04 PM
2

You are in California. You are stuck with lifetime alimony. Find her a boyfriend soon and help them move in together
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 07:40 PM
5

If she signed the prenup 16 years back, her claiming duress may not hold much water now. Contact a very good attorney (I am assuming you got money). At least hear the attorney out.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 05:27 PM
1

What you don’t understand is the OP already decided to give her another chance. He’s just looking for validation here.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 03:16 AM
1

You seem to be very sure and have high opinion of yourself. She’s has been **cling her work colleague for long time.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 03:17 AM
1

It won’t happen if you put your foot down. You are letting yourself get abused
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 03:07 AM
3

I say you give her another chance because next time you won’t be so confused again about what to do. Some people learn their lesson in one go, some people need multiple lessons.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 02:52 AM
1

Have you ever considered that your wife might have someone on the side and for some reason other side has not greenlit her. So, she doesn’t want the divorce until she gets a all clear from other side?? She’s just stringing you along.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 06:55 PM
1

Haha you are a sucker. Sorry but it’s true. Didn’t you think for once she might do that before sending her that check. And, please don’t try to sue her for 3K. You would end up spending time and money which is worth more than 3k. Tell her to choke on that 3k and block her permanently.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 06:08 PM
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Lol. Living glamor life in mobile home. Your writing is very entertaining 😂
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 04:52 PM
2

It’s a lesson for future. Learn to say no. So t so something at expense of your own peace or sanity. For your ex wife or any future relationship. Limit communication with your ex strictly related to kids only.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 04:37 PM
1

So the rape accusation off the table? May be it would be great to have that in writing from your wife as a sign of cooperation
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 03:54 PM
2

Grass cutting costs no more than $50. Very small price to pay and also, you probably avoided catching who knows what (assuming you didn’t sleep with her)
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 02:40 PM
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why can’t you talk through a coparenting app? Just cut face to face conversations totally. I understand you love your kids but start saying no if it’s on your time.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 03:07 PM
1

Affair, previous divorce, lying on tax form won’t count. Get her on record that she lied about your DB accusation
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/23 01:42 PM
1

My advise take out everything in your name and just move to some other country. Paying alimony until 70!!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 04:07 PM
1

You are already screwed. Most likely you would loose custody of your daughter. It’s pretty much out of your hands.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 03:46 PM
1

Please go complete no contact after divorce. She only used you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 09:26 PM
1

Man, why are you being so submissive. I can bet if you are dying on the street, she won’t even turn back to help you. Do you like to be degraded/insulted? Just send her a text that you filled and be done with it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 08:53 PM
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Please get a divorce before she does more damage. Don’t be anywhere near her without someone present. Don’t respond to her text or calls. Every communication goes through lawyer only.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 08:45 PM
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Even if dna test proves you are not the father, you are still on hook for child support. It’s going to very difficult to relinquish parenthood
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 08:22 PM
1

How exactly were you coerced?
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 06:55 PM
1

Check with your lawyer about if she decides to give up pension, if she still would be eligible for your pension?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 06:05 AM
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And don’t forget all the cucks in the comment section who cheerleads for them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 06:02 AM
1

Dude, she played you. You should have divorced her long time back. You can get a someone to follow her and get the evidence. It’s a no fault state but you can use it to your advantage during divorce negotiations
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 06:01 AM
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I don’t understand why the downvote. What he said is reality. Family courts don’t really take away custody from mother unless mother does something which warrants going to jail.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 08:22 PM
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She wants to work it out because she knows she won’t get any alimony. Divorce her and provide her child support. Don’t be a 2nd choice.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 03:14 AM
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Please keep us updated on David and your ex. Did he kick her out yet? ( assuming he’s telling the truth)
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 08:24 PM
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Stop receiving calls from fake numbers. If she asks just tell her you don’t take spam calls. Get a coparenting app and communicate through that.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 08:18 PM
1

Hilarious. I am stealing it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 09:33 PM
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Wow holy grail!!!
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 04:20 PM
1

You give her another chance and few years down the line she does it again. You would end up wasting more than 17 years. Get divorced and work on new relationship. The only reason she wants back because her bf dumped her. Don’t be someone’s backup plan!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 03:04 AM
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From you post history, your wife had an affair and you have been doing pick me dance. Why opine for someone who doesn’t give a shit about you!!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 01:46 AM
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Great. Whenever there is situation which may escalate, take a deep breath and walk away.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 07:56 AM
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I understand there is no advantage in filing first. But, the quicker you file quicker you get out of this situation.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 07:00 AM
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What’s stopping you from hiring your own lawyer? You realize that she has to pay you alimony and a portion of her retirement? Why are you so defensive? Don’t talk to your stbxw. Whenever she comes to discuss about assets tell her to talk to your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 06:57 AM
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Don’t be a sucker. Also, I want to be as polite as I can. She already has been seeing other people and having fun. Get the divorce done!
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 08:29 PM
1

Is your friend a divorce lawyer?
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/22 06:16 AM
1

There is a thing called prenup. Also, marriage duration is 1 year.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/22 02:02 AM
3

Second husband is just a go between. Probably, got blown away by a simple man ( science teacher). Once, the novelty wore off she filed.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/22 02:01 AM
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What do you mean? If his parents attend a Republican church, they are free to do so. His wife has no business dictating what they can or can’t do. If that’s the reason for asking divorce he better get one. On second thought go to divorce forum. They have lots of like minded submissive cu**s like you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 09:19 AM
1

You know what cherry on top would be … you banging the …..
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/22 05:37 AM
1

I didn’t see any mention of lawyer in your post. Well, good luck to get that PFA thrown out and I hope you would be able to get in touch with your child.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 12:44 AM
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There are 2 ways to approach. If you leave in a no-fault divorce state, having proof of adultery doesn’t matter. But, you can keep it in back pocket to better negotiate asset division and alimony. When divorce is done, use the proof to blow up both of their worlds.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 12:39 AM
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Hey the way I see it she cheated on you for a limp dick. Most likely she’s getting plowed by another side guy. You should be grateful 😀
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 12:36 AM
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The problem is you allowed it to happen to yourself. When she brought fake allegations to your command you should have lawyered up and you won’t be dealing with court order now. Now, you have to hire an expensive lawyer to prove those allegations are fake. In the end, you would still loose custody because you are active duty. So, in a nutshell, you will loose tons of money for same outcome.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 12:34 AM
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Why are you entertaining this troll??
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 12:28 AM
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is she still with limp dick?
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 12:23 AM
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Do you share kids with her? If not just block her on every channel and get rid of everything related to her like yesterday’s trash.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/22 05:25 AM
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You are a LEO. So, you probably know better. Still, consult a lawyer and protect your pension. Protect yourself against possible fake abuse claim. I don’t know about your professional record. She might use that in a court. Also, try to find out if she’s having an affair. Good luck!!
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/22 07:50 AM
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Please don’t withdraw the money. There is a thing called account statement.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 06:01 PM
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Her plan is going to fall apart. First run a background check on her AP. Kids are close to an age where they can make their own decision. Also, your alimony would be smaller because she has earning potential because of her degree. So, get the divorce sooner than later. Hire a good lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 04:20 PM
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How old are the kids?
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 12:20 PM
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Why did you keep her number in your cell? The first thing you should do delete her number.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/22 01:19 AM
1

“Barracuda for mens rights”- hilarious 😆
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/22 06:37 PM
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What’s stopping you from going zero contact/blocking her completely? Do you like getting abused by her??
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/22 11:15 PM
1

BTW, your wife cheated on you. You said the reason of divorce is mystery to you. There is no mystery. You just didn’t know where to look. Also, if you are still hoping she would be moving closer to you, you are truly a naive person my friend!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/22 09:59 PM
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She ruined her own life, not you. If you had pressed charges, you would have gotten a favorable divorce and she would have been on her best behavior. Now, she’s going to divorce r**e you. Good luck!! More, importantly you need to work on yourself. Look like you like to be abused. That’s horrible!!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 03:34 AM
1

Even more lol. She needs to take a break. Is she the type who can never live alone, always need someone for mental support.?
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 04:33 AM
1

6 months part was hilarious!! Did she get a new bf?
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 04:24 AM
1

She is setting you up false abuse and domestic violence case. If I were you, I would get a lawyer. Also, get a secret recording device/camera to protect myself.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 04:18 AM
2

Given your kids’ age, can’t they decide for themselves who they want to live with?
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 04:05 AM
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Word of advice. Get a good lawyer and get as much money as you can. She is unstable and in affair fog. People tend to give up easily when they are in fog.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 04:04 AM
1

Start divorce process immediately. List to the advices people are giving you. She voluntarily left the house. You have an upper hand.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/22 07:40 PM
1

Shortlist female lawyers. Check their review and consult them only.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/22 06:27 AM
1

Most likely, she has found someone else. If you don’t have kids, just sign the papers, completely cut her out of your life. Never look back.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 09:16 PM
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This is not the time to be cheap. You are holding so many leverages over her. Hire a female lawyer with good reviews and go all out. Also, carry a hidden recording device with yourself to safeguard against false accusations.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 09:04 PM
1

Don’t hide. You haven’t done anything wrong. Expose her affair to everyone around you and go no contact with her. You are only 28!!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 08:59 PM
1

It’s a great scenario for you. She voluntarily moved out means she initiated a separation which is a perfect precursor to go for a divorce. Get her to admit to voluntary separation. For example, write her a email/ or text : now that you decided to move out of the house let’s discuss kids visitation plan. If she replies, that means she acknowledged the separation.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 10:59 PM
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What’s stopping you from getting a lawyer? More importantly, are you sure the child is yours?
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 10:43 PM
1

Did you get lawyer yet?
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 06:38 AM
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Most important question did you ever tell his wife? If not, why not? Also, block your ex on LinkedIn.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 08:06 PM
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That’s what happens when you don’t get a representation. Can’t believe people can be so naive!!
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 07:59 PM
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Get out before she gets pregnant. You are in for a ride if you decide to stay. You are already seeing the red flags. Don’t ignore it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 07:57 PM
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What was her reaction after filing for divorce? How is she behaving now?
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 07:05 PM
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Good! Please keep us posted
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 03:16 PM
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Get the divorce asap. Trust me, that house of cards won’t last long enough. Get out ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:57 PM
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Are you sure she was not already having an affair with the guy? BTW, as long as she is riding the cock carousel, get the divorce done asap. It gets surprisingly easier while other side is in the fog. If her boyfriend dumps her, then she is going to make the divorce difficult.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 07:15 AM
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How far is your divorce? You keep asking same question about manliness in different forums. Everyone in different forums answered pretty much same.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 01:43 AM
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Wow!! So, the custody fight is still ongoing for your husband? Your husband is lucky to have found you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 01:12 AM
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Then go for it by all means. Do not confront her. Just file with evidence.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 11:23 PM
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Are you sure you can get alimony waived off on basis of adultery in GA? I might be wrong though.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 11:22 PM
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Thank you for saying the truth. Although, it’s a mens’ sub, advice coming from someone like you would help lot of souls here. Please don’t hesitate to call out if you see any unnecessary misogynistic comments in this forum.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 11:19 PM
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Then do that if you have means available. Talk to your son and try to give him the whole scenario.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 10:20 PM
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If you can’t respect yourself how can your expect your ex to treat you nicely!
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 09:36 PM
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If he is 15 years old doesn’t the court let him decide who he wants to stay with?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 09:33 PM
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If it was a woman asking this the reply would be to choose her own path. Whatever makers her feel empowered. About the beta simps, if someone wants to indulge themselves in cuckoldry by all means do that. Free country after all!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 12:37 AM
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Then you can see how that person just jumped on me without any reason. Overzealous!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 10:32 PM
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Yeah exactly!!! I must have touched a nerve. They moved swiftly to delete the comments.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 07:56 PM
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The funny thing is if anyone scans my posting history, you won’t find a single comment which points to hatred towards a certain section/community.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 06:21 PM
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Wow, only I can see it then. Basically they don’t want others to see it. If they were in the right, they won’t have removed it. I will see if I can post a screenshot.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 05:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/u0lm54/i_found_a_package_with_toddler_clothes/i479gw6/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 05:29 PM
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Just go down to comment section. You will find it. There are only few comments there.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 05:22 PM
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Here is the link https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/u0lm54/i_found_a_package_with_toddler_clothes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 05:15 PM
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Ignore all those idiots. Read another reply where the person said waiting 20 years could make the alimony permanent. I think it’s time for your brother to make a move.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:49 PM
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Yeah you would be stuck with lifetime alimony in some states if you r married for 10 years.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 08:26 PM
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Why are you letting this petty attacks bother you? Just stick to court schedule. Whenever she does something just smile.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 08:01 PM
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The longer you wait the more the liability. How long is the marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 07:46 PM
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Get a dna test of your kids. And, I hope you took pics of the journal. Run to a lawyer dude!
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 10:02 PM
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Here is the thing: your wife doesn’t give a f*** about your well being (mental health). If she did, she would have left you alone. She is a selfish person who is going to use you again and again until she gets tired of you and then dump you. So, be decisive and follow through with divorce for your own well being.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 09:59 PM
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Lawyer up and formalize move our date. Protect yourself against fake DV charges, keep your cell phone with you. Do not get drawn into emotional argument in person or I’ve r the text. Don’t give her anything which can be used against you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 09:18 PM
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Celebrate the fact that you don’t have any kids with her. Also, is it possible the get the link of her post on relationship sub?
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/22 10:13 PM
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Please describe her reaction after hearing that.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 05:31 AM
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You are being given solid advice. Whether you choose to act on it or not, totally up to you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 12:43 AM
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Get the divorce done ASAP while she’s in the fog. Don’t delay and be nice to her as much as you can.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 10:51 PM
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Good man!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 03:30 PM
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I am sorry to say this but if keep making small talk with you ex/ bumping into your ex/ vacationing with ex, your happiness would be short lived. It would also impact your new relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/22 12:46 AM
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Safety and stability. Can’t beat Costa Rica.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 09:37 PM
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I will keep it short. Buy a property in Costa Rica.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 05:23 PM
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She asks you a favor because she knows you will oblige her even if she treats you like shit. Nothing odd about that.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/22 03:58 AM
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Why are you being so nice? Just go to a lawyer. You also qualify for alimony. If she was in your place she would do same thing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 05:02 AM
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Why do even entertain these type of conversation with your ex. Just talk only about your son. How little respect she has got you to send you a job application for Alaska!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/22 03:33 AM
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Dude you need to get your act together. She can marry someone in Antarctica and move there but without your permission she can’t take your son. You should initiate a conversation with her over email and save those. Then take those to a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/22 03:32 AM
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Truly astonishing. She didn’t even get your assets/ retirement?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 10:32 PM
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LOL @ EBT lifestyle. How old is she BTW? Any kids between you?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 03:25 PM
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Did she just give up on alimony expecting to marry the new guy? What happened after she got dumped by WP? Did she try to come back to you or asking for money?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 02:48 PM
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Let this post be an example for all future victims why they should immediately run away whenever there is abuse.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 03:32 AM
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Well, you have an advanced stem degree and a good career. You will bounce back over the time. Eat the shit sandwich now. Focus on your career and kid. You will be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 08:57 PM
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Get out as soon as you can. You are merely a sperm donor for her. She would eventually dump you for some other spineless guy ( I am sorry if either spouse stays in marriage despite not being priority he or she is spineless)
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 08:46 PM
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I hope you included the clause of not bringing other men in the house in your lease agreement.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/21 06:00 PM
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Then why are you venting here? Everyone around you knew what your wife as doing except you. I am sorry to say this but you can’t be helped. You pretty much dug your own grave by inviting her back to the house.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/21 05:23 PM
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You really need to detach from your ex wife. Why do you need to talk to her on a daily basis? Did you get permission to date other people from your ex wife!!!
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/21 09:53 PM
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