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| 17 | Testosterone and female attractionIm playing the same game everyone else on this planet is playing my friend. They're not. You're shoehorninc relationships/sex into a very constrictive game logic. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/25 08:20 PM |
| 13 | Approaching 30 and scared of the modern woman’s body countAlso where is he getting "women have 35+ sexual partners on average" from? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/24 08:21 AM |
| 7 | Why is there always so much pushback to young men who claim that the reason they can’t get a date is 100% the way they look?Because a lot of people have seen many examples of guys who looked like they were dropped on their face when they were born be popular with girls. And no, the ones I've seen have not been rich either. They've just had ✨something✨ which is hard to pinpoint. And I guess this is what drives so many guys insane: the fact that it's so hard to figure out why it's not working for you in particular. But one thing I can recommend to teenage guys is learn music. Seriously. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/24 04:29 PM |
| 3 | A different questionIt's funny, I also had the same idea as OP when I was 20 that everyone (and women in particular) were hooking up left and right. When I was in my mid 20s I realized that several socially well adjusted and attractive people around me – men and women – were completely inexperienced for a wide variety of fairly mundane reasons. It's easy to get blinded by those around you who are sexually active because I think a part of one's brain forces you to see only them and no one else. I don't know what it … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 06:07 AM |
| 8 | I keep seeing the sentiment on this subreddit that "women are taught they have inherent value, men are taught they must earn their value." This is bullshit.I think often because men find women desirable, they confuse the value they are assigning on their own to women with the value women are taught they have As a guy, I also subscribe to this. When I was younger I would fear judgement from women. I thought attractive women were all judging me and looking down on me. However, after a few relationships and more female friendships and acquaintances I realized to my surprise that women I deemed attractive and "high status" often viewed themselves in a … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/24 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Explain me thisSo during my whole life I've never experienced what you're giving me. I don't know where you're from but lately I've realized that these things you describe can vary wildly from culture to culture. I'm from a northern European country where A) feminism has been fairly strong for a fairly long time and B) people are extremely suspicious towards anything that can be considered "a social game", so I've seen guys trying to use red pill tactics here and fail miserably. However. My wife is Turkish. Af… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/24 12:33 PM |
| 4 | How can a man be sexually attractive if he has an ugly face?Bro I've seen men who look like they were stomped in the face at birth getting laid. Don't get me wrong, it's difficult getting laid, but it's not about your face or your money or shit like that, and it's exactly the vagueness and difficulty to get everything 'right' that makes it so damn close to impossible. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/21 07:09 AM |
| 12 | Do older men really like younger women that much?Most men date closer in age. Men like younger but its not usually 20 years younger. Just like women like older but its not 20 years older. Its usually 2-5 years. Also there's usually not a full 1:1 relation between "finding attractive" and "actually dating". God knows I've found people way beyond my age bracket - on both sides - attractive but I will only date people close to my age. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | I want to thank my parents, and my friends for preventing me from radicalization.Wait, so you're 14 years old? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | I see myself with low “smv”.Very true, and it's easy to slip into during Covid. Do you work? What kind of town do you live in? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How I feel about the “wall” as a girl.I didn't mean it as a refutal, I just wanted to elaborate on what you were saying. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/21 12:26 PM |
| 4 | How I feel about the “wall” as a girl.I don't think it's uncommon though. Women have to deal with a completely different stress when it comes to their ability to have children than men. Lots of articles about how fertility drops off past a certain age, yadda yadda. The pressure to become a mother is also ime much higher than the pressure on men to become fathers is. I have many friends who are 7 years younger than me (making them early 20's) and it's INSANE to me when I notice that many of these women have tangible anxiety over "not… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/21 11:26 AM |
| 12 | Why do redpillers hate single moms but not hate men who also have children from past relationshipsThey don't blame them as much as they use something they had no power over to label and identify them. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 76 | Why do redpillers hate single moms but not hate men who also have children from past relationshipsBecause a broken relationship is always the woman's fault in their world. Single dad? Victim of some whore who fucked him over. Single mom? Fucked over some poor dad. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 8 | Ex-red sick of the LARP.The thing you gotta radiate is "I don't see all women who get close to me as potential lays", but to do that, you gotta actually get away from that mentality in the first place. If you're too impatient about getting laid you'll lower your chances. The point is that when you have female friends and acquaintances, their friends and acquaintances will see you in better light as a result of you being a chill dude-friend, that's where your chances improve. Plus, your female friends and acquaintances … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 6 | Ex-red sick of the LARP.The latter very often follows from the first in my experience. It's insane how impressive women think you are simply because you're not being a problematic dude. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/21 09:21 AM |
| 10 | Ex-red sick of the LARP.And a decent human who is capable of treating people like people. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/21 08:58 AM |
| 15 | Ex-red sick of the LARP.Yeah maybe I'm just talking from my own experience but one thing that was absolutely crucial for me to get me started in dating was having female friends and acquaintances to begin with. If a guy is respected by female acquaintances and appreciated by female friends, it's usually a pretty good stamp of approval. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/21 08:33 AM |
| 3 | AppreciationI have a hard time seeing that due to the many times I have seen boisterous overt narcissism be rewarded(typical alpha male illusion). I've come to believe that men are usually in leading positions because of biological reasons. NOT because they're biologically better leaders (they're not), but because they're biologically more likely to be acting in their self-interest. Men have less to lose (or are less able to perceive or predict losing anything) by provoking conflict. So many times have I se… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulativeI was wondering myself if OP has self-diagnosed or is accepting someone else's opinion rather than having been professionally diagnosed. I'm wondering that myself too, because honestly, OP's post reads like my own thoughts during periods when I'm really down and wracked with guilt. It sounds like the kind of self-depreciating hyperbole it's easy to fall into when going through rough times. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulativeOkay I have become more and more convinced that "narcissism" and "manipulative behavior" is actually a natural part of the human emotional "toolbox". We are, after all, a species of opportunists designed to survive all kinds of terrible situations. What I want to say by this is NOT that I think manipulative behavior is nice or morally good (it's not), theft, or the desire to take things that doesn't belong to you, is also a common thing that most people don't want to admit, but you shouldn't bea… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/21 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Is all people do is have sex?Is all people do is have sex? Oh God no, but I understand definitely how you're feeling. It's a persistent thought in my head too whenever I have dry spells, and I think everyone is feeling like that during dry spells. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Brene Brown about men's gender role and shame about showing any weakness/vulnerability/being humanIt's amazing that some men appear to genuinely believe that their wife and children would rather have them die than loose masculine status. They're projecting their own feelings upon their family. THEY THEMSELVES feel insecure and vulnerable and bad when they show weakness, but they cannot possibly understand it as something that comes from themselves/or they see it as something so obvious, so natural, that a man cannot show weakness, that they just assume that their family also feels that way. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Husband redpilled, or at least he thinks he is...help?What is it concretely that he's unhappy about? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/21 06:01 AM |
| 11 | (NSFW) Hope this isn't off topic. How prevalent is the view that it's men's job to be good in bed and please their partner?It's my impression that it's seen as related to the thought that the man's sexual needs are - per default - satisfied as long as sexual intercourse with ejaculation occurs. A man therefore has to "do something extra" to "deserve" his woman's loyalty. Also, I'm a little saddened that so many commentors took your question literally. I know exactly which view you're talking about: In an old-school sexist world-view, women's passive attributes make them pleasing to their men - their looks, fertility… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Random thought: Where did all the good men go?But if they ever hear a woman say it you'll get shouted down by men whose divine penile connection to The Way Things Actually Are who explain what you really feel. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | The Redpill has two doctrines that make ppl stay there: Blame yourself for EVERYTHING, and tha you can control others ppeopl's minds with your actions. That is insane and stressful. And since it make your fail, you come back. It's a cycle scam.It could be described as having an internal locus of control, as opposed to external. As with all things, a sensible moderation between the two extremes is really the best option. I can definitely see how overestimating the control you have over things around you can be just as destructive as pure fatalism. It will either lead to gross delusions or immense stress from the copious amounts of perceived failures you have to endure. There are many things you can't control, some things that you can, … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/21 02:02 PM |
| 17 | 25F: Baffled for years about mens’ dating approaches finally explainedSeeing female friends' screenshots of all the shenanigans some of my fellow men get up to on the dating scene is both terrifying and hilarious, ngl. I'm glad I always had a reasonable sense of shame in me that kept me from doing that shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/21 06:52 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone personally know these Red Pill personalities?But chad is fairly arbitrary too because many attributes are associated with the stereotype, like a vapid shallowness and lack of intelligence, which in the case of someone like Clooney is pretty ridiculous. What you're saying is basically "physically attractive men exist" and I guess that's right though. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | I'm ex red pill but the silent treatment really does test meThis. It can be difficult to do, but once you've successfully counter-silent treatmented a silent treatmenter, it gets easier to do it again because you now know what the "victory" will feel like. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers often contradict oneself's" she kept him [some guy] at arms distance using the standard filibuster techniques women classically use – “I’m not ready for a relationship”, “I’m not looking for a boyfriend”, “We’re good friends”, etc. She did however keep him in her ‘attention web’ with little carrots of affection for him to pull her cart for about 3 or 4 months. [...] One night she had to do some work with Aaron Lewis (yes, from Staind) while he was doing his solo acoustic act at our casino. To make a long story short, the… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 23 | redpill hypocrisy about women being shallowRelevant username. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 02:31 PM |
| 9 | Only having friends the same sex as you are is boringMembers of the opposite sex can never have a genuine friendship until they are both not attracted to each other. Usually that is never the case. Usually at least one person is sexual attracted to the other. I wouldn't say "usually", I also wouldn't say that finding someone attractive makes a friendship less a friendship. Shit like that happens, one shouldn't put too much stock into who your hormones and brain suddenly decided is physically attractive. It depends on how you deal with those emotio… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 07:35 AM |
| 22 | Red Pill men and their HATRED for voluntarily single womenI don't know any women who obsess over their singleness the way manosphere guys do. In my experience, they do, only they are less likely to form a rabid semi-religion around it. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/21 02:41 PM |
| 68 | Who are these women with all these unrealistic expectations that these red pill guys are mad at ?It seems to be that most of these guys have underlying trauma and have no idea on how to manage negative emotions so they just jump to extremes. I honestly think many of them suffer from 'pre-emptive trauma', that is trauma brought on from things yet to happen (but which they're convinced they've avoided with their red pill shenanigans) | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 9 | What an alpha male acctually isI always thought it was funny. Humans are The most empathetically advanced animal on the planet. The least brawny hominin Yet the formula to be "alpha" is to fly in the face of all social convention and be big and strong? Apparently, to generations of our forebears, it was the ones with more social skill and less muscle who had the most offspring. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.I mean it happens, but they are - in my experience - quite much rarer? Or maybe I'm just more lax when it comes to women. It's funny, when I grew up, my mom would say these weird misogynistic things to me that I would never understand. Now when I'm older, I've started wondering if I'm maybe doing the same, but with a slightly misandric mindset... | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.It's really disgusting, and I'm getting sick and tired of the old "I was insecure" excuses as well. Lots of people are insecure, but not all of them find expression through ideologies which deliberately sets out to exploit other people and just be generally destructive and anti-social. In fact, that last part is a thing in particular that I have an issue with when it comes to my own gender: Why the fuck is it that whenever men are feeling down, that it has to come out as some kind of fucking des… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.I was never a redpiller either, I was just so sick and tired of hearing of incels and redpill rhetoric (I hear a lot of echoes of it from my brothers) that I joined this group to regain some faith in humanity. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Should we be worried?Lol no I thought that you you read the post and were like "oH sO mARryINg fOrEIgnErS iS wROnG nOw!!?!?!1?!??" and expressed that sentiment through sarcasm:P | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Should we be worried?Oh fuck I just completely misread your comment. Yeah I see your point. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Should we be worried?Well you omitted the important shit: The problem is not men dating foreign women, it's about men looking to date women specifically from war backgrounds, for the explicit reason that their desperate straits will make them docile. You can't just shave off 2/3 of what the dude says and argue against the remaining 1/3 of his argument. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Should we be worried?Are you Syrian yourself? Your username means "Bint of Syria" right? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/21 10:26 AM |
| 6 | Should we be worried?Uh, if you're from a war torn country you can definitely be desperate to secure a safer life, which can severly alter your outlook on things like these. And what the fuck are you gonna do once you're in a new country, your only connection to that new country and its culture is the asshole husband you married in a desperate attempt to get away from the depression of the refugee tent cities in the Middle East? You're not really in a great position to exercise your desire for self-respect. Men have… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Power strugglesMy confirmation priest(!) taught us that all relationships are power struggles, and I honestly believe that to this very day. I don't think there's any difference in this regard between women and men. We all are different and we have different goals and desires at times, which will lead to conflicts, during which we of course will try to further our own agendas. Always accusing others of this is usually indicative of an inability to see or understand one's own desire to dominate. This last part … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about guys referring to women as pussy?As a general rule: Shitty behavior. But am I the only one who's from a context where referring to women as "pussy" and men as "dick" is okay if the circumstances are right? Like, it has to be done in a kind of jokey atmosphere, for instance; if someone is complaining about their lack of "action" recently, they can say "well it's not like I'm swimming in dick/pussy". | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/21 09:20 AM |
| 3 | People will sometimes hurt you in relationships, and it isn't always anyone's "fault" no matter how much it hurtsTo expand on many incel's own ideas about "sexual economy", this has to be the equivalent of sexual communism: Everyone gets one (1) guaranteed sexual partner for their lifetime. Everyone is guaranteed a sexual partner, but having more than one is selfish, greedy, and disrupts the harmony. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | People will sometimes hurt you in relationships, and it isn't always anyone's "fault" no matter how much it hurtsIt's normal for men and women to want to protect their interests when entering a relationship, and this is healthy. [...] But sometimes people will also leave because they changed their life path, goals, external circumstances, etc. Preach! I want to create a new dating subreddit based on this kind of thinking. Maybe "dating buddhism" or something like that. inb4 it gets hijacked by van couples with dreads and harem pants. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Red/blackpilled induced obsession and depression, stop before you go too far. (Rant)im done drudging through and speculating Brother, do I know that feeling... I wish you the best of luck, because having to deal with what you're dealing with sounds incredibly exhausting, I really hope it will be taken seriously. Also, please update us with how things are going, I for one would love to hear about how you're doing in the future! | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/20 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Red/blackpilled induced obsession and depression, stop before you go too far. (Rant)Then I definitely think you should check yourself for OCD or body dysmorphia or both. I think you might have OCD/BDM only or OCD/BDM and autism. I don't think this can be due to autism alone. OCD and similar disorders (like body dysmorphia) are things that are pretty difficult to pin on one point of origin in one's lifetime. If this hypothesis is right, then you just have a biological/neurological predisposition to such thought patterns, and it just so happened that your looks is what this disor… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Red/blackpilled induced obsession and depression, stop before you go too far. (Rant)Hey, I might be waaay out in deep water, but I'm wondering: Have you had issues with intrusive thoughts, compulsions and other obsessions? The reason I ask is because I get this vibe I've gotten from women with eating disorders: They get fixated on their looks (and 'imperfections') and no matter how rational they are, they just can not let the obsession go. Btw, you use the words "autistic" and "autist" a lot. Are you autistic? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/20 11:47 AM |
| 5 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.I'm constantly baffled by redpillers who think that empathy and reliability are features that would be beneficial within a species of - I dunno - the most social animal on the planet!? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | It is not surprising or alarming that we see a lot of radicalizationWell try to imagine those same people as right-wingers. The same shallowness would have permeated their worldview, no doubt, but they'd talk about individual sacrifice when they're from a sheltered and pampered background, Christian values when thinking that homeless people ought to be removed from the city centre, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/20 01:30 PM |
| 5 | It is not surprising or alarming that we see a lot of radicalizationAnecdotal bullshit: I'm European and I had an exchange semester during which I hung around a group of Canadian/American exchange students who were very far-left and it struck me how... Unsympathetic their views were. I'm left-wing too, but I just felt that most things out of their mouths were such inane "I am smarter/woker than thou" bullshit that I thought people dropped sometime when they were 16-17. Don't get me wrong, I'd heard all that jazz before, only from teenagers, not grown-ass fucking… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/20 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Are Redpillers on the rise? Has it completely gone mainstream?What age group are you in? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/20 07:34 AM |
| 4 | disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in generalThere's nothing wrong with being a little prude and having different sexual boundaries than your partner. Know that a lot of women are also struggling with this, with partners who want to have threesomes, domination, etc. I'd say be upfront about you being insecure about this. It should be okay to be insecure. I don't think she should force her fantasies upon you if you really don't feel like doing it. However, if this feeling of disgust towards your girlfriend persists solely for her having fan… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Isolation deteriorating my mental health in my early 20'sWhat you're going through is serious, and it's a good thing that you're expressing your concern - many people (too many IMO) deal with such times by suppressing their feelings, isolating even more, pretend like nothing bad is going on, and just keeps on suffering in silence (which they often even won't let themselves do). I went through a similar and long phase in my early 20's that nearly broke me, and it went on for a long while. Self-blame is common, you will experience it (if you aren't alre… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/20 11:35 AM |
| 15 | Discouraged about dating in collegeI go to an SEC school and it seems like if you either aren't a cute frat boy or an athlete, you are basically invisible to women. I know this isn't necessarily true, but people act like it is. If I see any atteactive girl on campus she is usually with a frat guy and probably just because he has "social status" and can get her and her friends into bars and parties. Girls at my school are obsessed with the frat lots and act like its the vip club or something. I'm really sorry you're in such a toxi… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/20 12:32 PM |
| 5 | You all need to watch/rewatch Disney's Hunchback of Notre Dame.Frollo the entire time is losing his own battle with his demons. He wants power and control. He's losing the battle against lust and sin. He takes it out on Quasimodo. What strikes me the most about red/black pillers is their insatiable thirst for sexual validation. Their entire ideology orbits their need to get that part of their personality either under control or satisfied. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/20 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Promiscuity and pair bondingWhy doesn't redpillers talk about how promiscuity affects the male brain? If anything, it seems to me (anecdotally) that men are far more open for temporary sexual liaisons whereas women tend towards more permanent arrangements (FWB, boyfriend, etc.) | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why am I listening to what red pill guys have to say when I've never even had a girlfriend? LOLDude, start with Tinder, see what happens. I know how frustrating it can be, trust me, there are a lot of guys here who have been struggling with these things. At 22 I was convinced I was going to die a virgin. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/20 07:06 AM |
| 6 | Why am I listening to what red pill guys have to say when I've never even had a girlfriend? LOLTinder, yes, but it can also be frustrating. It's seen much less activity in recent years, I used to get lots of matches 3 years ago but now, I get only a few. I also notice there are fewer girls I'm interested in, so... Otherwise, clubbing. Especially if it's with a group of people from school/uni. It's much easier to get that kind of attention if you're in a mixed group - people won't assume you're just another "pack" of thirsty guys, there will be natural openings for getting to know other pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 15 | Do red pillers ever have any female friends?Also I’m very uncomfortable around women and maybe that makes them uncomfortable. This is probably it. People will sense that something is 'off' (and surprisingly often, they'll assume it's something about them that you don't like). It's a frustrating moment 22. You cannot get more comfortable until you make more female friends, but you can't get more female friends because you're uncomfortable. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 53 | 80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they doI definitely do think there's a certain attraction with someone who is high up on the social hierarchy, it's just that the social hierarchy is a) not perfectly linear, b) the only (or even the dominant) deciding factor, and c) not at all about being a brawny "chad". The part of my life when I have gotten the most attention from women was when I was in a amateur comedy theatre group in University. I was one of the scriptwriters, actors, and occasional director, so there was naturally a lot of att… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/20 09:24 AM |
| 6 | Was I too harsh or she's overreacting?One thing does not have to exclude the other. A constant for women is that they usually have a shitton of guys chasing them, no matter what. So if some of them get a little addicted to the kick of getting validated, well... As a late bloomer guy I feel like I can't judge her too harshly, I was doing the same shit myself with a lot of girls for a while. Attention can get addictive. It's good though that you identify her immature behaviour and see it for what it is and distance yourself from her. … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 01:08 PM |
| 15 | Was I too harsh or she's overreacting?At first I believed and even complimented her and tried to make her feel better. Then I was tired of hearing the same for such a long time and started to think it's just excuses to string me along giving her attention/validation Important, that was just a suspicion you had. What if that suspicion was baseless? What if it was wrong? Anyway, you know it's alright to also just decide that you can't put up with someone like that for the moment, and that it doesn't have to be her or your fault. I can… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 12:19 PM |
| 4 | They are so predictable..I'm not big on celebrity gossip, what did he do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 7 | What are some actual good advice that the red pill gives?See, back when I was in red pill rage, what I couldn't accept was that women weren't goddesses. I thought women who partied were trashy. I think this tendency has a name, it's called "whore-madonna complex", in which heterosexual men compulsively see women as either infallible saints or disgusting and immoral creatures, with no in-betweens. These men's relationships with women are often characterized by initial unrealistic expectations that sooner or later will crumble because of just how unreal… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/19 08:27 AM |
| 6 | Prove that "not a bad boy = not wet" and "relationships doesnt work" ideas are wrongWhy should we prove you wrong? Why can't you prove your hypothesis right? You just said a bunch of stuff that I frankly cannot understand how you think it's true. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What made you realize that trp wasn’t exactly telling the truth?What's hypergamy and what's smv? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What made you realize that trp wasn’t exactly telling the truth?Like what? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/19 08:36 AM |
| 38 | Women yelled "Yes" when I told her I was a virgin.They're probably being sarcastic as fuck because you've already crossed so many social boundaries and "no-go" zones that they have no issues laughing you in the face. From reading your post, you have a tendency to turn conversations with these women sexual or about their looks very fast, and I don't think you fully understand (a) how blatantly obvious it is that your sexual assessment of these women take up a large part of your brain activity regarding them, and (b) how many social bounds you cr… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/18 07:21 AM |
| 4 | i thought i had exed the redpill but..... is a BuzzFeed article about a cartoon movie is enough to make you lose all faith in humanity? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 4 | i thought i had exed the redpill but..What happened while you were a freedom loving hippie that made you turn cynical? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/18 09:27 AM |
| 16 | i thought i had exed the redpill but..Honestly? You remind me of my mom. Growing up she would constantly caution me about trusting people, how people don't really care for you, how they backstab you, and how that's especially true for women. I had to be real careful about women. It's just that when I grew up I couldn't really find anything to support her views. In general, people were far more sympathetic than I would expect. I could give you anecdotes but it's early morning here and I don't wanna make you a wall of text. I just hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/18 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Having problems keeping a neutral perspective on women and marriage.It's just hard when your environment is full of men. I feel ya. That's why I think kids and teenagers should be encouraged to socialize in mixed groups as much as possible. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/18 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Having problems keeping a neutral perspective on women and marriage.Basically almost every man I met had an issue with their marriage and complained about how much money their wife spends, how controlling their wife is and how women only want to hear what they themselves have to say. Listen to a bunch of women talk about their husbands and you'll start thinking all men are childish, aggressive, emotionally extortive, or what have you. If you only listen to men complaining about their wives, of course this is what you'll end up believing. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/18 10:50 AM |
| 22 | If I don’t want the red pill, how can I stop myself from growing into a pussy?First of all, I got a problem with the physically strong "defender" being the only masculine ideal. I think it's an ideal that became popular by catering specifically to working class males who felt that they might be at a disadvantage at many areas of life, except physical strength, handiness, and being the only provider of the family. Think about it. We're a species who are, pound by pound, waay weaker than our closest primate relatives. Sometime, long, long ago, being physically big, muscular… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/18 01:03 PM |
| 36 | Am I getting this right?It's not stupid or evil to want to have a period of promiscuity and just enjoy yourself, I actually think it's mostly rather healthy, if you're responsible about it. The problem with TRP is that they go straight to objectifying women and turning them into "achievements", not to mention at the same time severely downplaying women's own sexuality. The goal to me is to find casual relations with people who are down to it, that means I have to do quite a little appeasing myself to be attractive and … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If someone has stopped being "loser" now (later in life), but he had been like that until now - does the past still matter?about them? You mean, what would they see as a dealbreaker about someone like you with a job and a degree? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/18 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: If someone has stopped being "loser" now (later in life), but he had been like that until now - does the past still matter?Not a woman, but a man who has struggled with depression and been an all-round "loser": My experience is that most women I've been around are understanding of depression, etc. It might be partly because women tend to have a much more open attitude towards sharing personal problems with their friends, so many will readily admit that they've been through shit, or they have friends who have done that. Those same women seem to detest certain male stereotypes like unreasonable pride and inability to … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Women losing sexual desire in a relationshipthere's a part of me that takes this evidence of women losing interest in LTR as women being less inclined to monogamy and more to "sleeping around" or whatever Wow. I (M) felt exactly the opposite during my last relationship. I lost interest and I did start fantisizing about other girls and longing for flirting etc. It made me low-key convinced that men are biologically more prone to infidelity. (It also makes more sense evolutionary but now I'm toeing the line to TRP itself here.) But to move … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/18 08:31 PM |
| 5 | The psychoanalysis behind the red pill - "his view of women is a projection." - Sam Vaknin (X-post from Blue Pill)This sounds like my brother. Only that he pathologises everything and everyone he doesn't like. Social democrats want a society which he sees as harmful - ergo: Social democrats are a cult of sociopaths deliberately bent on destroying our society for their own gain. Rinse and repeat on every group except extremely nationalistic white men. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/17 10:02 PM |
| 38 | I forgot how to be a humanHow can I un-learn the shit I've read there? I feel like it will still have a lot of influence on how I think, as I've followed it from age 16-19, when majority of people learn how to form healthy relationship in real life, while all I have was a handful of happy accidents and theredpill "knowledge". Dude, you're still just a kid. And seeing that you have the capability of self-criticism and self-analysis without giving in to convoluted mental gymnastics and "ideologies" whose sole purpose is to… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/17 10:22 PM |
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