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Partly agree, but certain stuff you can't do when you are older. We are all different people and have different definition of what fun is.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:55 AM
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Tbf there is no universal advice. The best you can do is to take it from someone who is similar to you by personality and especially physically cuz hot dude advice is not gonna work for below average guys. They need to seek advice from a physically below average dude who is good with woman
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:28 AM
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It's not waste of money if you are having fun and you like it. I can always earn money, but I'll not forever be in my 20s and having this kind of fun.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:22 AM
3

What makes them undesirable for you to date them?
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:40 PM
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I agree with you, but you are above average in looks and height. And that snowballing effect of good experience makes you even better in your inner game
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:14 PM
2

True, that's the mentality we all have to have
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:22 PM
2

That depends, in my city average height for girls is 5'7. So you will have a hard time here
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:27 PM
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You said a lot but you did not said what I think OP needs the most and that is inner game. You just wrote how to look good, but not how to feel good, and what mentality to have becouse he is concerned about age. I guess you are saying that his confidence should come from his job (And I agree with you).
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:40 AM
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I don't recommend friendship, feelings can come back. When you find a girlfriend, hang out with both of them and find out how you feel. But for now it's better for you to avoid her if you want your feeling to "go away"
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:12 AM
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Just delete her number and block her, you can't be with her, the sooner you accept that the better
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:57 AM
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Not really, I've been with a girl I don't find attractive when I was a wingman, and when she went for a kiss I moved my head and kissed her neck. So for someone kissing someones lips is more intimate than kiss on a neck, or even rubbing her/his pants.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:59 AM
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It's not about the bad breath. She is not comfortable with a kiss, or don't find you attractive.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:38 AM
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Easier said than done. Probably less that 2% of population is having fun and interesting life. People need to work and pay the bills
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:41 PM
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As a short ripped dude I can say it does help but only about 10-15%(for you mentally helps more). It's the same with having a nice car, it helps but not that much. What does help more is being leader. Girls assume just because you are short, you are not able to protect them, getting bigger helps, but getting respect of males helps more. So if you're leader of males and girls notice that, they will change their mind about you because guys who are taller than you are following. Ps. Advice for shor…
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:15 PM
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Why would you tell her your name if she didn't ask for, why she would care. IMO just tell her when she ask. You can ask for her name and if she ask yours, great, if not that usually means she is not interested. That's just my opinion.
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:04 PM
2

Only if you are looking for a girlfriend, otherwise it's awkward hooking up for sex
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:53 AM
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That term is in community 25+ years
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:29 PM
1

I agree with what you wrote here. Less is more when it comes to texting. But I don't agree with waiting 4 days to respond when someone text you. 1 day max is enough. I definitely would saw that as a rejection and move to the next one instead of waiting for her to find time for me.
/r/seduction12/08/21 02:52 PM
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You should not wait 3-4 days and play those mind games. If you both enjoyed the date why would you do that. That you not being genuine. If she was difficult on a date I can understand waiting, but on a longer run it's not gonna be successful relationship.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:52 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:32 AM
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Thanks for advice. Even though my best friend found his wife with tinder I'm not fan of online dating, can be confidence killer. Also it's not that much popular in my country. But I will try my luck on other places, maybe day approach can be good, I've never tried that way before.
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:22 AM
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I would like to know your thoughts on this. Recently I've been hooking up with girls in a bars and clubs (just making out, no sex). But I can't score a date with any of them. They would just ignore the text or tell me they're busy. It's the 5th time this happens to me in the period of 40 days. I'm also 5'6 but I don't think that's the issue. Maybe the problem are the clubs, not a good place for finding a girlfriend, just a place for validation🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:04 AM
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He should change the tactics then. Instead of inviting her, regular date near his place will be best option. If they have the sex after the date and than she decline second date I don't think the height is the issue.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:36 AM
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Why would they sleep with him in the first place than?
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:13 AM
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True
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:57 PM
4

Great perspective, but wouldn't you be frustrated if some gorgeous girl with whom you have chemistry and lots of things in common rejects you because of something you can't change. How mentally to deal with that?
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:43 PM
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Than on a same note, don't take advise from handsome guys if they were hit by a girls when they were teens. Cuz they don't understand the struggle and whatever they do or say will be successful. They are only natural cuz they didn't have to doubt themselves and they always assumed attraction. Find someone similar to you who is successful with woman, especially physically, and learn from him. Two guys who are different level of attractiveness can say same things and still have different results.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:57 AM
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I'm trying to live by a rule of Jordan Peterson: "Always tell the truth or at least don't lie". Since then people started to be more honest with me also. I understand it's more difficult for women but the guy was polite to her, so I don't think he was a threat.
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:10 AM
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I hope you are more mature now, people should have guts to say what they think.
/r/seduction08/06/21 12:08 AM
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Bad idea. What if some of his boys get hooked up with her, that would be even worse if he still cares for her.
/r/seduction18/05/21 09:17 AM
2

You seems like a cheerful person, this comment made me smile for some reason. Keep the good vibes.
/r/seduction10/05/21 02:15 AM
2

Would you marry (not date) unemployed man?
/r/seduction13/04/21 09:43 PM
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Most people can get pussy sometimes. But the goal is to find quality person and have great relationship. For me personally, I will not be with a girl if she is unemployed, and wasting her life on social media. I will have sex with her but not be in a relationship.
/r/seduction13/04/21 08:34 PM
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Dude I need 2 days to earn those 30$, Im not gonna spend it that much on date 😂
/r/seduction23/03/21 03:54 AM
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I would rather get rejected, then lose 100 dollars. It's much bigger investment to earn that money
/r/seduction03/02/21 01:17 PM
2

Good luck😊
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:29 PM
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1/1 good score. I would just quit now, while I'm still ahead /s
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:04 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:23 AM
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I think you should tell more about yourself, it is a nice motivational post but in order to be more than that you should put personal experience, you are 40+ years old, do you have wife, or kids, what is you goal/purpose in life etc. This is all true what you wrote but it's noting new tbh. I hope my scepticism didn't offend you, but some people are posting here theoretical staff and not applying them for themselves in the first place.
/r/seduction24/04/20 02:05 AM
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Well that works for you, have in mind that it will requires years for someone to make that kind of approach to work. Also I think you are hooking up mostly with same type of girls. Think about that
/r/seduction27/10/19 11:49 AM
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It works on confident woman as well, once she is attracted you can challenge her to spike that attraction, but it's not attraction builder in the beginning and if you used it too early it will not work.
/r/seduction26/02/19 11:13 AM
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Cuz sex isn't everything in a relationship
/r/seduction09/02/19 12:38 AM
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I was using MM when I was starting, it's not bad if you follow the "script", you can get the girl but the problem I had was keeping her. For starters imo is good at least for me cuz I knew how to combine routines witn normal talk and actually believed in those lines. Natural on a long run it's better but successful rate it's lower especially in the beginning and a lot of guys get frustrated and quit. My best advice is it's good to read the book but real progress is actually on the field so start…
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:41 PM
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7 for man, 2 for women at least that was average in 2004. That's just average, most people will have about 3-4 but there is specific group that will have 30+ and that is why average is 7. Same goes with women a lot of them will sleep with 1 partner, especially in conservative countries, but there is some of them that will have 10+. At the end, good looking girl with options will sleep with less partners than good looking guy.
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:01 AM
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Been there, even nowadays 1/3 sets i dont approach if i am not following the 3 sec rule. If you don't know how to open just use some canned lines. But don't take more than 30sec to approach you will just torture yourself. That helped me i hope you will find it useful
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:24 AM
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The best thing is to go in a countries where there are a lot of tourists, and hook up with them. If you are not needy you can do fine in almost every country. Girl knows what a (foreign) guy wants from them, so prove that you have value
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:45 PM
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Try to kiss her during the date, if you wait till the end you will pressure yourself to much. Try to feel the moment and go for it. It should be natural especially if you stare in each others eyes during some sort kino. She already likes you so I think you will do fine, just enjoy the process of seduction.
/r/seduction03/12/18 06:26 PM
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Considering that you didn't went for a kiss on the first date a don't think you will sex close on the second. You already set up a frame that you will go slowly but maybe you will get lucky. Ps. Kiss her already and good luck.
/r/seduction03/12/18 03:51 PM
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