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Do you have any advice on how to do this or any material I can read to better understand this dynamic? As I mentioned in some answers here, one problem I have is that I come across as insecure. Could this, combined with being shy and quite reserved, hinder me in this area?
/r/seduction21/12/25 05:32 PM
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Practical advice on what to change and stop appearing insecure?
/r/seduction21/12/25 05:29 PM
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I think I might be perceived as a person of low value. I've noticed that I "exude" insecurity. Could this be a reason for the feedback I described in the post? If so, how can I stop appearing insecure?
/r/seduction21/12/25 05:28 PM
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You made some very good points! I think I might be seen as a person of low value. I've noticed that I "exude" insecurity. Could that be a reason for the feedback I mentioned in the post? I don't think I overestimated my attractiveness. I consider myself average, to be honest, but I frequently receive compliments from strangers, especially after improving my physique. For each of these observations you made, would you have any advice on how to overcome the limitation?
/r/seduction21/12/25 05:26 PM
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I've always heard people talk about firm posture, eye contact, and so on. I've always practiced that. That's why I was surprised too.
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:41 PM
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I don't know. I thought I was normal. I didn't radiate anything. I was just normal. I'm reserved and shy, but I don't think that has any implications. I know how to interact. I want to know what to change. This must be hurting me much more than I can imagine.
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:41 PM
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I don't know what that is. I think the answer is no then :s
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:38 PM
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I know that. The whole point is to figure out what my "problem" is and find the solution.
/r/seduction31/07/25 01:06 AM
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So... that’s an interesting point. I’ve never been an open person. Not even in childhood. I don’t know if it’s because of the way I was raised or my family environment, but I’ve always been closed off, reserved, and meticulous about what I share with others. A few years ago, when I was in therapy, my psychologist told me that in order to form bonds, it’s necessary to share — just as people offer something of themselves, I also need to offer something of myself. And that’s why I don’t connect wit…
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:02 PM
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In your opinion, what are the fundamental points of masculinity in this context?
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:29 PM
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I agree. I think in many of the interactions I have, I give “robotic” responses just to keep the conversation going and be polite. Most of the time, I don't actually feel interested in the topics. Do you have any advice on that? I also feel like I have a dull personality — like a blank sheet of paper. What could I do about that?
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:44 PM
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Exactly! What can I do to change that?
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:41 PM
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