Hey everyone, I’m 26, and I’ve been hearing quite often that people see me as insecure. Even those who don’t have much contact with me — people I’ve just met. Of course, the main goal is to change my mindset and actually become confident and secure, but I keep wondering what needs to be changed physically, mentally, and behaviorally to stop radiating insecurity and looking like some kind of pitiful, incapable fool.

I've made a post here once about aura, and many of the comments helped me realize that even though people often see me as physically attractive, the thing that hurts me the most — and actually makes me look “ugly” — is my insecurity.