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😂 love it
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 11:25 PM
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I just want to be left alone 😂
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 10:50 PM
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This
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 10:50 PM
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You ready? I can’t control how my x decide to live her life carelessly. I wish those taillights was the only “unsafe “ thing she got going on. My point was I use to do all the maintenance. She knows she have broken tail lights and two months old expired tag. Her and her boyfriend share the car seem like . What I was saying is she claimed independent female and she didn’t need me . We have 50/50 . The kids are happy with me. I wish I had full custody i don’t even mind her coming see them whenever…
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 12:26 PM
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Pretty sure she’s aware. The point I was trying to make was I used to do all the car maintenance. But people just painting me the bad guy for not fixing her car her and her new guy are using.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 12:18 PM
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It is a relief . That’s why I’m enjoying been single . Less things to fix lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 12:16 PM
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Everything still my fault post divorce Jesus
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 06:21 PM
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I totally agree. What I meant instead of constantly trying to keep someone from leaving you, just accept the situation. I learned this not too long ago. Two years ago I begged her to stay . Bad mistake on my end
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 02:45 PM
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This
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 02:14 AM
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Don’t work. Either need lightbulb or a fuse
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:02 AM
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Look like that’s her problem buddy . You missing the point. I guess I should get her new tags and insurance as well uh
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:02 AM
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I’m sure she’s aware. It’s about fixing it
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 11:30 PM
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Why is that again?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 11:30 PM
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I don’t hate them. No negative post about them. No post about them periods. I saw my x mother in law when my x wife was giving me the key. I told her I was happy to see her. No communication after that I’m at peace
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 03:14 AM
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Yea my c can be stubborn as well . Her ego will destroy her
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 04:28 PM
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Yes
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 11:39 PM
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I don’t have time or care enough for that
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 10:28 PM
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I never checked her media. I know it’s bull shit and she’s most likely reaching. I agree with you
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 10:27 PM
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Damn. Pray and stay strong. The weaker you are the more happy she will be
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 03:22 PM
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I’m not following. What is a woman who sleeps with multiple men called? Yes she was like that before marriage it’s my fault. Before ya go saying she wasn’t alone when I married her
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 10:58 PM
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Yep . Some don’t see it now but will
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 12:46 AM
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There’s a flip side to that. It’s like saying you want your wife to still have friends as a backup plan. I’m content single . I feel like it’s meant to be like that. I trust no women no more.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 09:33 PM
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Dating is dead to me. I ain’t wasting my money on woman, I’m not looking for another wife, I trust no women after what I been through. I don’t have the time to invest in women and it’s a blessing. I’m bored on 4th swipe . I pay for no apps, I don’t have the time, energy.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 10:19 AM
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I don’t understand the downvote . I understand what you saying
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 10:04 AM
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😂 yes
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 09:52 AM
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Yes sir
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:00 PM
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I feel this way
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 07:17 PM
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Two months is actually a long time. It’s usually instant. All women knows who they gona fuck once they leave you if not already
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 08:25 AM
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I totally understand. When someone talked about their wife I look at it so different now. Not hating just hoping that wife don’t hurt them like mine did
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 10:05 PM
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Well said
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 09:21 PM
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Yea sir
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 03:53 PM
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She just wanted new dick. I don’t have time to spend on a relationship just to “grow apart “. I rather stay single
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 09:10 PM
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As he is . Hope you read the whole thing.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 05:45 PM
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I hear you . It’s kind of my business though. It’s my kids . My concern is why would a new guy want to be a part of that. Maybe it just me if I was a new guy I don’t think it would be my place to come along . It don’t bother me I just thought it was weird . But then again my x have no sense . Like some said I think she’s just reaching for reaction she have not done it again or maybe she on to a new guy. I wouldn’t know I don’t care enough to check.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 05:43 PM
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I disagree. You can select the perfect woman today. Tomorrow she becomes someone else. I’m sure all of us here was very happy and in love with the person we chose
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 01:36 PM
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lol nah shopping
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 07:53 AM
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Married for 11 years together 14 years I was 24 she was 22
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 10:51 PM
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This wasn’t always the case. I spent nights crying at first few months. Now I’m so busy doing things I want and I’m at peace. In a way I’m glad she left. You will get there. Find a hobby or something to keep you busy.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 10:21 PM
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I feel free happy . It’s an inspiration to others that yes you may be hurting now but you can over come the sadness/grief.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 03:07 PM
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Yes! On YouTube listen to “ Listen my son George Bruno” for a start. He helps men going through divorce etc.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 01:20 PM
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Well I’m at peace . I could never done right on her eyes. It was a huge burden walking on eggshells everyday and the goal is to make her happy. I’m simply at peace . I have no hate or love towards her. I was angry after so many years she betrayed me but I’m so busy now I feel the world is so huge. I honestly feel is she would have come back to day and been the person she was I would have feel it’s better with her stay gone. I watch many stoic videos also.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 03:01 AM
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All that plus TIME. Time heals at first I was devastating but now I’m happy she’s gone
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 04:37 PM
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That’s what I get from watching stoic videos lol
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 12:59 PM
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Yes. I had to learn this after many heart breaks
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 12:51 PM
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No excuse. If you married and she’s disrespectful to you don’t stay for the kids. I was a door mat for years because of the kids till I had enough and walk away. I have 50/50 custody. Walk away from any women take care of your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 12:48 PM
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“We had to stay at a friend’s house” I already knew where the story was heading
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:46 AM
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Time is what helped me
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:45 AM
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It easy said then done but divorce her. I too was married for 15 years and sometimes she will say things where I feel there’s hope of us doing together. But she constantly disrespect me and belittle me everyday. So yes your wife love you but she likes someone else. She not loyal and can’t be trusted. Next
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 02:32 PM
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So she’s not Gona cook and clean without you? Been single? Or even with a different guy? She just want to go back to the streetsssssss
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 04:09 AM
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Divorce is betrayal like many said. For me my wife leaving after 15 years mean she’s the last person on earth I will trust for anything. So no friendship she doesn’t deserve that from me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 12:33 AM
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I saw the title and shook my head. But the comments took care of it
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 09:45 PM
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Oh I understand
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 02:57 AM
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Hurt me?
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 02:56 AM
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I can go pick up the kids and drop them off for school on the days they are with her. For those who thinks the kids suffer
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 12:58 AM
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You think she would care if I had car problem or any problems?
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 11:52 PM
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If it wasn’t for the kids I would have left her long ago and would have never became a door mat for my two boys sake. When I cry it’s not just her or her . IT’s everything. I really wanted the same household for my boys
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 02:28 PM
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My wife of 10 years left 3 months ago. I was fine . As soon after we signed the uncontested divorce papers. Every now and then I do cry. I’m so hurt . I didn’t want this but my x wife didn’t want to be married no more
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 02:40 AM
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I’m sorry. I love the title. Basically what my wife wanted after 10 years of married
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 02:36 AM
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I’m happy this sub exists. I understand what op saying. We here are in a sad situation in our lives so op is not lying. We all in pain or was in pain . We all share similar stories of going through a rough divorce . I’m happy to be here to know I’m not alone and others not alone. Together we can help heal.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 03:15 AM
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Glad you know him
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 10:52 PM
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I did as soon i found out she started kissing other men on social media. That was 3 months after she moved out. I was gona wait until after Thanksgiving/Christmas but since she out there let me go head and make it official
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 07:40 PM
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I’m proud of you
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 04:32 PM
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