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| 3 | Ex PUA/Red Pill guys — why do you think it’s toxic?He has the book The Laws of Human Nature. A psychologist recommended it to me, and it helped me a lot to understand people and how to relate to them. I’m including it because it really helped me with my social skills. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/25 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Ex PUA/Red Pill guys — why do you think it’s toxic?Thank you very much, I really enjoyed your analysis and yes, I agree with what you’re saying. Even for me, who’s interested in these topics, the truth is that most of the content I see lately is just misogynistic garbage. On the other hand, I see that you understand my point: those PUAs from the early 2000s helped me a lot—not so much with their techniques but more with the philosophy behind them. Thanks to a lot of their content and to putting it into practice, I no longer have social anxiety a… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/25 11:46 AM |
| 9 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approaching6 its depends of context | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:12 AM |
| 6 | The most successful guy you ever sawAn Indian guy, about 5’5, not really taking much care of his appearance, and missing a few bottom teeth. He had that kind of skinny-fat body, I’d say somewhere around 135–145 pounds, but he always dressed well. What really stood out was his charisma he worked as a resort entertainer. He was constantly surrounded by women who looked like they had stepped out of a magazine. I’ve met a few men who do well with women at that level, but I had never seen someone with his looks pull it off. It honestly… | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 09:42 PM |
| 3 | 130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It?Not having many lays this year is really something subjective, and the 1,000 mark is way underestimated. Likewise, I started to get results (minimal but good) after around 150–200 approaches, which happened in 1–2 months, so in the end it all depends. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 08:58 PM |
| 5 | 130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It?This is true. In general, those are my numbers doing daygame. Many times the rejections are due to external factors. Here where I am, many give me their phone number or Instagram, I’d say about 60–70%, but in the end I manage to get a date with only 5–10% of those who give me their number. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | 130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It?Where u do cold approach? | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | You need to read thisI deleted the post, but this is the last comment. Many people misunderstood it, so I deleted it. I won’t make another post in this Reddit. Everything was misinterpreted, and I think there’s a lot of hate in this sub towards women. You can see it in the comments. Btw Thank you very much for commenting. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 2 | You need to read thisIn general, people who actually learn to become more attractive work on themselves as a whole from their personality to their personal life. At least that’s been my experience. I used to think everyone was like that, but from what I’m seeing, this group is worse than I imagined lol. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | You need to read thisComment: Where are you from? Maybe we’re biased, but trust me, what I’m saying is real: If you want, you can look up studies showing that almost 45 % of Gen Z men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person for a date Also, research reveals that about 24 % of young adult males (ages 22–34) reported no sexual activity in the past year, up from just 9 % a decade earlier 1: https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/a-reaction-to-45-of-men-age-18-25-have-never-approached-a-woman-in-person-d3ee0680a… | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | You need to read thisLike I said in the post if you work on yourself, improve your physical appearance, set goals and go after them, and work on your personality (which I thought is what we’re all doing here on this subreddit), then you already have way more to offer than most men. And time is on your side. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | You need to read thisI think I’m going to take down the post because I didn’t explain well what I meant, and it’s doing more harm than good. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | You need to read thisTotally agree with you. I’d also add taking care of your physical presence. What I meant with the post is that, according to studies, most people are actually in a bad situation and the simple fact that you’re here reading this already means you’ve recognized that something’s wrong and you want to change. Most people either never realize it, don’t want to admit they need to improve, or just blame women for everything and act like it’s all their fault… kind of like some of the comments I’ve gotte… | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | You need to read thisLol | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:58 AM |
| 4 | You need to read thisI’ve seen a lot of posts and comment threads on this subreddit, and I feel like many of you are people who genuinely want to improve and who recognize that there are areas of life where you’re struggling. I don’t mean this in a condescending way I’m saying it because many of you here should actually feel proud of who you are. But of course, that pride should never stop you from moving forward. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:58 AM |
| 1 | You need to read thisNo doubt, we’re the minority. I posted some data in one of my comments, and if you see it, it’ll make your hair stand on end to realize how bad the world really is. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | You need to read thisAnd that’s just what they say. We know men often lie about these things to look more “macho.” If you look at who actually works on their attractiveness (hitting the gym, dressing well, having goals, and developing game), the number drops to around 5%—and that’s being super optimistic. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | You need to read thisWhere are you from? Maybe we’re biased, but trust me, what I’m saying is real: If you want, you can look up studies showing that almost 45 % of Gen Z men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person for a date Also, research reveals that about 24 % of young adult males (ages 22–34) reported no sexual activity in the past year, up from just 9 % a decade earlier 1: https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/a-reaction-to-45-of-men-age-18-25-have-never-approached-a-woman-in-person-d3ee0680a7a5 2: ht… | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:46 AM |
| 2 | You need to read thisIn my experience, they do, but it’s definitely a minority. Most guys only try on dating apps or after a couple of drinks. The number of people who can actually start a cold interaction properly is very small, at least from what I’ve seen. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 2 | You need to read thisWith woman’s | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to find a solid wingman?Thank you, can you expand more on how many naturals you’ve met? | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been doing daygame for a few monthsWhere u from? | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been doing daygame for a few monthsAnd have women ever told you that something similar to daygame has happened to them? | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 07:44 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been doing daygame for a few monthsUS Midwest | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been doing daygame for a few monthsWhere you from? | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain what “dating inflation” even is?You’re right. When I talk about “basic things,” I mean the basics in terms of social life and being attractive to women. I use “gym” as a synonym for sports. I think that obviously having a job, a place to live, and a car are things so basic that I don’t even consider them “basic things” it’s like saying, having food. But I get your point. What I’d really like to know is: do you think women have become more demanding, or is it that men in general just have less to offer? Because I feel like the … | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain what “dating inflation” even is?I wrote a comment that I’d like you to reply to if you can. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Can someone explain what “dating inflation” even is?When I talk about working on oneself, I mean basic things like going to the gym, having projects, future plans, dressing well, being presentable, and having social skills. What I mean and I think I didn’t explain it well in the post is that many of the women I’ve dated have shown me their suitors, and practically none of them had those things, which I consider the bare minimum. That’s why it makes me wonder: does “inflation” in dating really exist, or are men just getting worse and worse? | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Should I go back to nightgame or stick with daygameI stopped talking to my old friends because I moved to another city. Here I do have friends, but they’re people I usually share hobbies with rather than go out partying. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Best cities to meet womenWhat about Minneapolis? I’ve heard about that one | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approach does it work?Anywhere there are people — around a college campus, in a shopping mall, on a busy public street. I don’t know where you live or how old you are, but I live in a city where people my age (18–23 — I’m 20) are super horny, many of them. And when I say 20 in a single day, I obviously don’t mean doing that every day — that would be impossible. I mean doing it just once, so you can see that nothing bad happens. After doing it that day, every other day will feel way easier, and you’ll feel way better. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approach does it work?What do you mean by “success”? I don’t feel like I’ve ever failed — even when I get rejected, I learn something. How do you define success? Not getting her number? Not going on a date? Besides, 10 approaches are way too few to draw any real conclusions. Do 20 in a single day and then let me know. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Cold Approach does it work?I used to think the exact same thing. Right now I don’t really care about that anymore, but I can tell you something (for context, I’m 20M and pretty average in most things). I usually get the Instagram or phone number about 4 out of every 10 times. Most of those don’t go anywhere, even if we do end up talking — so roughly 2 to 3 out of every 10 numbers lead to a date. And from those, again about 3 or 4 out of 10 turn into something more… you know what I mean. But that’s not the important part. … | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Cold Approach does it work?Yes, it works — I’ve been doing it for months, and it’s an essential skill for any man. But could you be more specific with your question? Why are you asking yourself that in the first place? | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What does your daygame schedule and routine look like?Same here | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 09:30 PM |
| -2 | Building My Future, But Missing Out on LifeHi, yes — I took your advice into account. I just wanted to repost it so more people could see it and share their perspectives. As for the part where you said it seemed like I didn’t like your comment, I actually have to say you’re the one I’m considering the most — because of your experience. And about what you mentioned, that maybe I’m not putting in enough effort to schedule dates at that time — you’re right. I probably need to push myself more to make it happen. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Building My Future, But Missing Out on LifeYeah, I want to make it a priority, but the thing is I haven’t gone out with a girl in months, and honestly, I need to have some fun with them every now and then. I don’t want to go to the extreme either. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Building My Future, But Missing Out on Life20 y/o | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 02:18 AM |
| 3 | I have set a new goal for myselfI wish you the best. And if you’re open to a piece of advice—before August, focus on interacting. Just interacting. Say hi or ask a short question to at least one person a day (ideally attractive women). I did that when I first started, and I was surprised by how kind and receptive many women actually are. From there, it’s just about continuing to improve | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Second Shift = No Dates. What Would You Do?Digital marketing | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Second Shift = No Dates. What Would You Do?But what with dates? | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?I look at them, notice something that catches my attention, and tell them how it makes me feel and why — speaking from my subjective perspective. I don’t know who taught me that, but it always works to keep any conversation alive. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?Cold approaching | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?English is my second language, I have a really heavy accent, and sometimes I have to repeat things two or three times for people to understand me. When I get nervous, I just say it. I’ll tell her something I like about her and then say that it’s making me nervous. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?What do you mean you don’t know how to talk to women? Can you explain? | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?In real life, how many people have you actually approached to get to know? The last year | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 05:12 AM |
| 2 | I feel 40 at 20. How do I start living like someone my age?I’ve thought about it, but no way. I have skills and I’ve turned down many jobs where people with college degrees get rejected. Besides, if all goes well, I’m planning to quit my job in a month and focus on my business, so it doesn’t make sense to enroll in a university right now. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:31 AM |
| 7 | I feel 40 at 20. How do I start living like someone my age?Yes, but can you give me an example of an event? | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:25 AM |
| 7 | First night out doing cold approaches — it was way easier than I expectedVery true, that feeling of having ‘wasted time’ because I discovered something too late is exactly what I’m feeling right now. I’m 20 years old and I feel like if I had discovered all of this earlier in my teenage, my life would be so much better right now. How old are you? | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 09:13 PM |
| 3 | First night out doing cold approaches — it was way easier than I expectedThanks a lot, you clearly know what you’re talking about. I’m already feeling like going out this weekend. Honestly, I’m kind of introverted around people I don’t know, so approaching random girls is still a bit uncomfortable for me. By the way… so I can’t just walk around with my dick out chasing girls? What a letdown. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here done the Ultimate Man Project?Older stuff like mystery or something else? Which one do you recommend? | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 05:32 PM |
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