I’m just getting started with this. Last night was my first time ever doing cold approaches, and honestly, it went way better than I imagined. I walked up to an attractive girl and asked, “Did you see the fight?” She said “What fight?” —so I made up a fake story about an imaginary fight. It made her laugh and the conversation just flowed from there.

After a while, I complimented her sense of style (she was really well-dressed), and she appreciated it. Then I started talking with her three friends too. We got into topics like horoscopes and magic — stuff I actually know a lot about. I even run a website that’s ranked as one of the top esotericism sites online. It felt super natural. Eventually, I asked for her number, she gave it to me, and we went back to her group.

I’m planning to text her on Monday (I can’t go out this weekend anyway), but honestly, that’s not even the main takeaway.

What really shocked me was how easy it felt. After that, I approached 5–10 more girls, and only 2 rejected me. The rest all gave me their numbers. And again — this was my very first night doing cold approaches. I broke so many limiting beliefs. Before this, I wouldn’t have even dared to start a conversation like that. But after a few interactions, I hit this flow state where I didn’t care about rejection, looking weird, or anything like that. I was just having fun, flirting, and being myself. No alcohol, no substances — just pure natural vibe.

So here’s my question to the more experienced guys: Is it really this easy? Or did I just get lucky as a beginner?

For context: I’m 20 years old. I’ve never gone out at night in my life before this. I’ve always met people through social circles. Since I was 13, I’ve been hyper-focused on boxing and studying. But now that my “house is in order,” I decided to start going out more — starting last night. I’ve gone deep down the rabbit hole: read tons of content on game and seduction, and even spent a few hundred bucks on courses.

To the beginners reading this who feel nervous or unsure — My honest experience is that women actually want us to approach them and give them a good vibe. It’s not about pickup lines — it’s about your energy, intent, and having fun.

I’m going out again tonight and all weekend. I’ll probably update in the comments.

A few questions for the advanced guys: 1. Should I try daygame? I live in one of the most progressive cities in America, and I’m kinda worried people might think I’m creepy or weird for stopping women on the street. 2. What’s the ideal amount of time to invest in game per week? 3. Is it okay to just focus on volume? I set a goal of 50 approaches per week for the next 2–3 months to build experience. After that, I plan to dial it down and focus on other areas of life — I just want this part of my life to feel solid.

Thanks for reading — any advice or feedback is welcome.