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Do you do all this shit? Are you in shape? Can you say you put the effort in? Yeah. Very ugly face though lol
/r/seduction28/11/19 11:53 PM
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100 lays or so from online apps means this guys is likely handsome as fuck!! Good job though, I guess? Don't expect to be able to do the same though, unless you're also a good looking devil ;)
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:27 AM
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Like are people really saying "I thought you were cute and wanted to invite you out for coffee" as the first thing to a stranger? More, ''I thought you were cute and so wanted to say hi'', but yes. That's what people who think direct game is superior to indirect game do I have gotten some conversations going doing indirect approach, but I have never felt like I could turn the conversation flirty Sounds like this is your problem. And I know it can be super tough - especially in the sets where you…
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:41 PM
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I don't know whether it's location dependent at all, but I'm in a few whatsapp groups for UK daygamers, and from what I see there, I think your time is better spent doing night game! It's makes pretty brutal reading. It seems to be like; Hundreds and hundreds of opens. Mainly all insta blowouts or just fast sets that never really 'hook'. 5 numbers/girls that seem somewhat keen. 3 of whom actually reply. All of whom you can't actually get to meet you! Nightgame results seem more positive. For a f…
/r/seduction27/11/19 06:43 PM
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thanks. Your post actually makes sense versus lots of other replies tbh. Yeah, I think it's simple and she was definitely attracted to him! They all were to be fair. (but one was married and said despite thinking he's gorgeous, she'd never ever cheat) I wouldn't say she was 'super excited' about talking about him, but I do think it's unlikely she was 'toying with me'. And yeah, you might learn something from your friend, so much I do agree, if he has anything to teach you, of course. Yeah, i'm r…
/r/seduction27/11/19 01:28 PM
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It doesn't make sense to go out with this guy again True. To be honest, I often choose not to go with him as I know full well that no matter how boring or uncharismatic he might be, the girls will throw themselves at him and it messes with me. Can't lie. But I do it occasionally on nights where he's my only available wing and i'd rather go with SOMEONE than game solo in my 'cliquey' small town where you look a bit off being out by yourself Your "getting investment" skills need to increase. Your …
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:22 AM
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Read Jeffy's book, 9 ball. The chapter is called "What Would a Tyler Do?" It's a much tougher scenario than yours, and JLAIX comes out on top. Think i've read it (definitely own it) but i'll look at it again. Thanks You can choose to learn from this experience or not. Up to you Always trying to learn. I applied as much game theory as I could remember in that set tbh although certainly never felt 'attraction' from her, but if I go out with him again I'll try to remember to use some AMOG tactics a…
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:02 AM
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yeah, in America when you say that, they tend to reply like 'Hi Tom, I'm kelly!''. In Scotland, France, England etc, if you open like that, they look at you like ''Err.....OK? Am I supposed to care? Did we have a metting that i've forgotten about?!!'' haha
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:55 AM
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where is her investing? Where is your isolation? Where is your leading? Yeah, she didn't invest much. I did isolate her though (mention it in the OP). Which is why you AMOG him Not sure how that would have looked. I mean, after I approached and we were all chatting, he was just being quiet like he always is. Do I still need to 'amog' him in that situation? (tease him for not saying much maybe?) And after i'd isolated her, he was at the other end of the bar on his own playing thr fruit machines? …
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:40 AM
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I don't think there's many game books I haven't read so not sure it's possible to 'level up' my game any more, tbh lol. Cheers
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:30 AM
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He’s definitely doing things and behaving in a way that is attractive. I've tried doing what he does before, but it doesn't work tbh. Results are worse when I act kind of shy and quiet and convos end SUPER fast because it's different. Girls TRY to keep the convo going with him because they are physically attracted to him. If I do what he does and girls just walk away lol ps- thread has gone too much about him lol. I was only asking if this was likely a 'test' from her or not.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:28 AM
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I felt I was running good game. Teasing. Dhv'ing. being fun. Deep diving. SLowly escalating etc. But it was clear that she was into him (even though he hadn't really spoken) and not me, tbh. Like others here have answered, I think this was her way of hinting she wasn't into me/I wasn't her type In terms of 'game', I would say he has none, tbh; If a girl WAS to throw a shit test at him and say something like accusing him of having a shit job or something, he'd 'fail' that test by reacting and try…
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:21 AM
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you obviously have insecurities about your looks compared to your friend. If you had good game you'd probably do better. True I guess. But it's hard not too. I've known him for years and girls have always jumped on him when we're out together without him speaking lol. I do have good game, though. I apply everything i've read. I've read tonnes of books and know 'game' very well indeed I'd be curious to know what you call game, by the looks of it it sounds like your friend has better game than you…
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:14 AM
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He didn't want her.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:12 AM
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Yeah, I think so too. I kind of felt I wasn't her physical type very early on, tbh
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:10 AM
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I wasn't being thirsty! haha. This is a sub about hitting on girls, though! But yeah, I probably won't hit on girls when he's out with me again, tbh So I don't think it's any kind of test, she just wants to fuck your friend Agree. That's the obvious answer and what I think too. I only asked the question as some other people told me it was a 'test' lol
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:08 AM
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Yeah. Like I didn't flip out or anything lol. I carried on talking to her and being friendly, but stopped any kind of flirting as I felt she'd made it clear she wanted my friend and not me, ya know? (there was only one hot single girl in the group. The one that I isolated) thanks
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:05 AM
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This is quite awesome and I completely agree. She needs to think you are good looking in order for her to ever be sexually attracted, but 'game' certainly still plays a role and isn't to be dismissed
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:20 PM
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A few things - Firstly, if infields have taught me anything, it's that there's no 'one-size-fits-all' when it comes to 'game' In fact, people can do hings DRASTICALLY different in every singe way possibly imaginable, and both get girls. There's seemingly no rules in 'game'. How can there be when, as I say, each PUA breaks each others rules so much. What will 'work' (not that I think even the best game in the world will increase your chances with any particular girl by more than maybe 2%) depends…
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:52 AM
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lol
/r/seduction29/10/19 08:49 AM
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my bro is late 30's and is banging an 18 year old he met through some community college course lol
/r/seduction28/10/19 10:05 PM
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British women in England have been my most difficult. British girls in other countries much easier (but then, everyone is easier when they're 'travelling' and in party mode. Lose their bitch shields and aren't glued to their social circle where they like to act like Rhianna and shoot you down for saying 'hi' etc lol)
/r/seduction28/10/19 03:13 PM
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In terms of being instantly shot down without even being given a chance to 'game' the girl, I think the hardest is England! literally ignore you unless they think you're hot lol) US - People are way way friendlier. like this girl at 2:45 lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixGgcf47U50 Hungary - Had my best results here personally
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:27 PM
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It's kind of not. That's why every professional PUA does basically everything completely different but proclaim that their way is the only way and is the correct way (so mystery will say be indirect, do this do that, don't show intent until x etc etc. RSD will say be direct don't worry about x and x, show intent straight away, a different PUA will do it completely different agian in terms of verbals and rules etc) It's basically a way for people to make money from you. Seduction in the true sens…
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:20 AM
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Correct. A lot of guys think that once they develop a certain level of skill, they'll be getting all the women they hit on. Hilariously untrue couldn't put it better myself.
/r/seduction21/10/19 08:48 PM
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As you elude too, It's all a numbers game. You can't 'learn game' and then have some special skill to be able to whisper magic poetry in girls ears to make them attracted to you lol Most 'game' PUA etc is pure marketing BS. If you've ever spoke to people who have been on bootcamps, you'll find out that the 'pro' instructors pretty much get rejected as much as the next guy! Difference is, they have the balls to open, and are better at escalating (witht girls that are attracted and thus allow you …
/r/seduction21/10/19 08:43 PM
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If she's looking away, kind of nodding her head looking at you kinda sarcastically as if to say ''OK then! You can go now?'', giving shortest answers possible, actively trying to cut it short and get away (''Anyway! It was nice meeting you!'') etc it means that for whatever reason, she isn't interested (is just someone who doesn't talk to random dudes, maybe thinks you're not her type physically and so isn't interested, is a lesbian) whatever. It doesn't matter. You can't 'turn' a 'no girl'. Jus…
/r/seduction21/10/19 07:51 AM
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It's almost like they're depending on girls not being enough of a native speaker to know what natural English sounds like. Exactly!! This is something I picked up on instantly when I first started watching infields a good few years ago. The lines sounded so cringey, but they kind of 'worked' on foreign girls, who maybe just assume that that's how British guys speak! It's strange. And when they try on UK girls, it usually doens't work half as well.
/r/seduction20/10/19 06:10 PM
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But does Gunwitches example in the OP not sounds laughably cheesy to you? I don't know how someone could deliver that line without wanting the ground to swallow them lol I actually heard one of his students in an infield deliver a very similar 'cold read' type thing on the open and the response he got was exactly the response that i'd expect. She was like ''You can tell all that from looking at me? Is this your pickup line?'' kind of thing. In fairness the student kind of recovered the set from …
/r/seduction20/10/19 06:07 PM
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Would be similar to the stuff we read, tbh. Lots of little theories like 'men like women who are funny', 'qualify the man', ' remember you are the prize and be outcome independant' etc etc. But truth is, just 'cos she's funny, we don't wanna bang her if we don't think she's hot lol! And it's the same for girls. We can 'game her' and show her we're fun and confident and funny etc, but she still won't want to bang us if she's not attracted
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:21 PM
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?In my life I have had 40 sexual relationships The average american guy has 6 sexual partners per lifetime. You are a stud! And since they're all from tinder, you're obviously very handsome. This should be like shelling peas for you!! Happy hunting ps - using twitter is a great idea for a format/journal for FR's.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:28 PM
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Do you roid aswell? I work out 4 days per week and am in decent shape but maybe to compensate for my ugly face I need to get like SERIOUSLY ripped to the point that I'll obviously need to inject in order for girls to wnat me. Do you? thanks
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:12 PM
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your soul, your body, and your dress style. I promise you you can get any girl if you handle all 3 of those I got them 3 things handled, but it's still super rough out there for me lol. I think it's a facial issue. You do even better than this dude? Like you never get rejected now and can bang ANY girl?? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54Xy8JSKmL8
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:05 PM
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I'm always interested in people who think they can MAKE a girl attracted, even if he's not her type. There's 1 or 2 on this sub. 1st reply https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/brcqbu/logic_vs_emotion/
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:08 PM
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Use it early on to ''amplify existing'' attraction. Same as all 'attraction material'. However, know that 'game' isn't some sort of magic where you can just make girls attracted to you by using various techniques. (or knowing 'game') If you're not her type, nothing you say or do will make her want to have sex with you/become sexually attracted, tbh. That's why all game material now seems to have moved more towards 'screening game'. You could hammer away at every game concept known to man (push p…
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:46 PM
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no. Someone actually posted a megalink to juliens manifesto lol. I saw it. But people weren't paying attention and now the poster deleted it
/r/seduction21/05/19 09:39 AM
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yes. It was posted in this very thread lol.
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:45 AM
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I think someone posted the link to that video in this very thread! But people STILL kept asking for it in here without, I guess, reading all the comments lol Looks like he's deleted his post now
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:43 AM
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not gonna happen, bro. you ain't gonna get laid if she doesn't think you're good looking lol
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:27 AM
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Girls don't care about looks! hahha! JUST KIDDING ;)
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:10 AM
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lol!
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:57 AM
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Maybe we're on cross-purposes, but 'double figures' is anything from 10 to 99. So 10 (for example) one-night-stands isn't exactly that many, is it? But yes, actual sex
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:29 AM
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Is seddit against direct game again now? So funny how it alternates every few months!! I guess it's about an ever changing user base and so the consensus changes all the time
/r/seduction25/03/19 08:48 PM
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seddit usually advises direct opening, and certainly no gambits, routines, planned DHV stories etc, so I don't think mysterymethod is promoted here much lol.
/r/seduction08/11/18 03:51 PM
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thanks. Yeah, i'm just looking for advice. I wasn't there so don't know whether the op did something 'wrong', but don't you think that sometimes girls will ignore you no matter what you say or how strong you are in your approach (especially alone at 3am)? Some girls just don't want to be bothered by random dudes in some countries. I worry that he'll never make an 'observational opener' again now because he thinks there's million of rules and that it's 'wrong' to do what he done! But yeah, I agre…
/r/seduction08/11/18 10:13 AM
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''"hi I'm the next idiot of the evening" - Is that the line you always open with during night game? If not, can you share some of your openers? I don't get the sense that you're calibrated at all., These girls have had to deal with 50 dudes tonight and you're commenting on ear rings I don't see anything wrong or weird about the OP's opener personally. observational openers (that are about her) are usually highly recommended in the PUA world. But your reply makes me think since I think it's a 'fi…
/r/seduction07/11/18 11:35 PM
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I think the problem is that it's easy to say that, but it doesn't mean it can be done. Some people genuinely believe that you could be 1/10 in looks, 95 years old, broke, 4ft tall, and be able to bang any 10/10, 18 year old teen you want if you have good enough 'game'. But just believing in something doesn't make it true. Just because these people believe it (because that's what the books told them) they still can't do it themselves (obviously!! Just imagine that above scenario!!)
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:54 AM
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With lots of hot, young girls, there's nothing you can say or do to change their mind. It's hilarious to think that some people believe that you can bang any girl you want with 'game' lol. All of your teases and cold reads and DHV stories and palm reading etc isn't gonna cut any ice and make her sexually attracted to you if you are totally NOT her type, lookswise. And more likely, you won't even get a chance to do any of you DHV routines etc, because she would have walked away after you opened h…
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:29 AM
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Max doesn't actually bang any of them 'no girls', though (I have the premium infield). Similarly, Julien has a video with a 'no girl' and he doesn't bang her either. (both were able to get the girls to talk back which was a success of sorts, but it's still a waste of time, really). I think it's like never ever been done, personally lol Deflowering virgins is another true example of no-to-yes Not necessarily. Virgins are often 'yes girls' if shes thinks the dude is hot! It's more of an LMR issue …
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:23 PM
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Well, what are the laws in your country?! Where I am, 16 is legal even if you are 150 years old, so i'd go for it! If it's legal, do it
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:57 AM
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I like to believe that it's possible, but i've never heard of anyone do it, never got close to doing it myself in person, and never even seen it out of the thousands of infields on youtube! (never seen someone bang a hard 'no girl') So what are your tangible tips in order to do this. What things do you say to get these 'no girls' to respond ''emotionally/erotically'' and force them to be attracted to you? Examples etc. cheers
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:51 AM
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I find it's kind of irrelevant, personally. If she's 'into me' then interview mode works. If she's not, it doesn't. If she's into me, telling stories and making 'assumptions' and cold reads (attraction material) works. If she's not into me, it doesn't! For what it's worth, JulienRSD (anda few others) reccommend 'interview mode' after the open Out of interest, though, what are your 'go too' lines and methods in order to 'build attraction'?. You mentioned DHV stories etc (don't tend to work how th…
/r/seduction15/10/18 09:05 PM
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yeah, I'm not saying he shouldn't go for it! I'm just saying that the IOI's 'might' not be as reliable as they would be in other situations.
/r/seduction15/10/18 10:37 AM
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you can't really trust 'IOI's from girls that are working, tbh. They give everyone IOI's
/r/seduction15/10/18 10:04 AM
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lol, it sounds like something out of 'There's something about Mary'!. If I got rejected, i'd keep it light and playful and be like ''I just wanted to fit in with the rest of the guys, so thought i'd ask!''
/r/seduction15/10/18 07:58 AM
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Pressure's kind of off if your mates have been rejected too. I'd probably prefer that situation, to be honest. They couldn't give you any shit for one! haha. plus, 3rd times a charm!
/r/seduction14/10/18 10:08 PM
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Literally 95% of guys couldn't do that (approach a 10. Sober. In the day time!) So pat yourself on the back.
/r/seduction14/10/18 09:11 PM
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Could I use it to get super powers? Like, If I write down ''i'm really excited that the universe is going to give me heat vision soon'' will I get heat vision!!? That'd be neat!
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:36 PM
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you mean things like negging and stuff? I feel like people can 'learn' game in about 5 minutes. Especially since most no longer promote canned/mystery method style game where you have to learn/memorize routines and lines etc. So all we have to 'learn' now is things like good eye contact, remembering to neg/tease and to show intent.
/r/seduction13/10/18 10:28 AM
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work on your conversations. THEN learn game Are they the same thing?
/r/seduction12/10/18 08:44 AM
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"Hey! My name is.." Maybe it's a US thing, but just introducing yourself too a stanger like that as a way to start a convo, especially in the day time, would be considered very odd over here in the UK. It would get a hostile/confused reaction from a girl. But I know US people are super social and talkative with strangers, so maybe it's fine there
/r/seduction10/10/18 04:20 PM
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I think when people say 'what do I say', they already know to say 'hi' lol. They want to know how to actually start a conversation
/r/seduction10/10/18 04:18 PM
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Lots of people say 'Negging is bad because it's assuming you're coming from a place beneath her and you're trying to bring her down in value, so don't do it'' kind of thing. Personally, I don't care about that so much, but I don't do it because it doesn't work! I've feld tested just about every 'PUA' trick Some hot girl doesn't give a shit about your neg and won't try to qualify herself etc. You can throw an early, harmless 'tease' at her, and depening on what kind of girl she is, she might gigg…
/r/seduction10/10/18 12:47 PM
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lol. He's talking about the GIRLS being 10'S, 9'S, and 8'S!!
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:57 AM
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Negging is also a surefire way of taking down an incredibly hot girl's ego, inciting in her a desire to qualify herself to you. She won't qualify herself to you unless she thinks you're hot, tbh
/r/seduction10/10/18 08:22 AM
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Yeah, I know I messed up, although it wasn't quite as straight forward as it could have been. I've gone home with girls from bars before (who were by themselves) and basically always got laid, but this was going back with her, AND her friends, AND that tattoo'd dude i'd met that night, and it became a kind of mini gathering in the lounge where we were all drinking, and it didn't seem obvious for me how to escalate. I didn't want to start trying to make out with her in front of all of her friends…
/r/seduction09/10/18 09:20 PM
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He's restaring the 'Project hollywood' thing I think! With a different group of PUA's. He's still teaching bootcamps and stuff
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:00 PM
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Yes, some anxiety, especially when cold approach girls. I always feel like the convo is In danger of dying out because girls typically want you to do all of the talking unless they are attracted to you. Mind certainly goes blank a lot. Often i'm also trying to NOT say certain things like ask 'boring' questions etc, but then often I then realise I can't think of a single question to ask (that doesn't sound weird and overfamiliar to ask someone in the first few minutes) or any interesting statemen…
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:34 AM
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Do you think getting good at small talk is practice or more about 'learning'. People always say 'practice', but with 'practice', I always feel like one will just continually make the same errors or not be able to come up with something 'good' to say. Not a good analogy, but a bit like telling someone who only knows how to count to 4 to 'practice' counting to 10? lol. Makes me think of often in conversation, I might ask a pretty girl what she does for work, and she'll tell me, and then, assuming …
/r/seduction07/09/18 09:47 AM
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Well all PUA coaches disagree on basically everything, so really I guess it's down to each individual to find what works best for them It's just too hard too apply the scientific method to this stuff. Too many variables. ''Hello, pig face!'' might consistently work for one guy as an opener, but is it because he's handsome so anything will work? Is it because he thinks it's a funny line to use so the 'state transference effect' is taking place? (which might suggest different 'methods' to pickup w…
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:20 PM
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I had a decent run last year, but this years been ROUGH!! It's always a numbers game. I don't believe that 'game' can make a girl attracted/want to have sex with you. I DO however believe that a complete lack of game can kill off attraction. Approach in numbers (assuming you're lucky enough to not have approach Anxiety) and I believe most guys can find the odd fairly hot girl who is receptive to them. I get rejected like 99% of the time, although I was still able to bang some smoking hot teenage…
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:59 PM
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then you're me! :)
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:29 PM
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Whilst i'm a huge believer in 'looks' being by far the most important thing when it comes to cold approach success, I've always found that height isn't as important as things like having a handsome face. I've recently had my confidence knocked a bit by girls rejecting me for being short so i'm not QUITE as confident in my belief as I was before, but I still see enough evidence to suggest that height isn't as important as having a handsome face. Good looking manlets seem to do well, basically My …
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:08 PM
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I always thought this was lame and kinda cringed at how literally every YouTube guy uses it, but it usually goes over very well. lol, this is partly my issue. There's lots of PUA things that I don't implement, but that's largely because it just sounds so cringey to me! Like, I can barely bring myself to use the old ''You look like you do something creative!' that every PUA uses, but maybe it 'works'. I'm guilty of not implementing lots of what I read for this reason. Maybe I should be braver and…
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:52 PM
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this was one of the first things I learnt infield when I started going out lol. It's so true it's not even funny
/r/seduction23/08/18 08:09 AM
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you rarely get past the open in a cold approach in a bar if you are ugly tbh
/r/seduction22/08/18 07:21 PM
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No... They will not make the first move in my experience. they DO! I think this is where we are disagreeing? I have 2 friends (out of hundreds, so the minority) who get approached lots! They are both ridiculously handsome and both have girls approaching them, sometimes indirectly, sometimes very directly(compliments), sometimes with touching (rubbing their chests at the bar etc) One of them was propositioned for sex once in front of my eyes by a hot girl when she realised it was his truck who wa…
/r/seduction22/08/18 05:30 PM
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Good looks is still way down there when it comes to bringing HBs home. I couldn't disagree more in my experience (i'm kinda ugly) but we're all entitled too an opinion :)
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:48 PM
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seddit has zero consensus and operates massively on hindsight bias. It simply confuses people who post FR's. They are always given the 'reasons' for why they were rejected based on that persons personal idea of 'game'. If someone opens direct he is told that he was rejected because he should always open 'indirect' (because that's what mystery tells him) If he opens a giril indirect and gets rejected, the mytery poster will never comment, but now the 'pro direct'/'mark manson fan' tells him he fa…
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:37 PM
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field reports are pointless on seddit, to be honest
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:19 PM
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Ahh, is it really a woman posting?! That makes sense now!! haha
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:16 PM
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completely agree!! Even in person on a cold approach, if you are completely her physical ideal, it can be verr hard to mess it up! Everything you do becomes 'attractive' when it's going through the filter of you being her idea of physical perfection! You're being shy? "It's cute!!" (would be 'creepy' if you were ugly, though) You're being quiet and boring? It's 'sexy and mysterious!''. You're being loud and obnoxious? It's 'confident'!!. You're not showing any intent? She sees you as a prize and…
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:08 PM
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I don't think it was 'text game' so much as simple screening which anyone can do. It's literally a matter of saying ''Hey! I'm here to hook up. If you are interested, we can meet at this address at 8pm and fuck'' kind of thing. If you are super handsome some girls will still unmatch you as they don't just want a bang, but lots of girls will still be interested. I don't see it as 'game'. He wouldn't(couldn't?) try to convince girl who wasn't interested. It's just screening if you see what I mean …
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:07 PM
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If you are super handsome, you can just tinder and get girls to meet you in a hotel room or something and have sex. You don't even need to talk to them so being awkward and stuff doesn't matter. I used to know a guy who done this a few times. Arrangedd everything through the app and set it up as a 'sex meet' and it was literally a case of her walking through the door and then kissing and sex. Similarly, in clubs when it's very late (won't work in the early part of the night) often almost zero 'g…
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:41 PM
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everyone thinks they're an expert in bed to be honest. Old girls can fake it too by the way. And I think if your cock is big and you can last a long time, they always enjoy it! It's pretty easy for any guy
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:06 PM
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From what I've seen and heard, yeah. Other than being short he's a very good looking dude. In 'the natural' he was literally getting opened by girls or at least getting mad IOI's in lots of sets. Although even Max will still get rejected a fair bit. It's just the nature of 'cold approach pickup'. There's no getting around it unless you are legit Male model good looking, or are famous or something lol.
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:16 AM
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How are you defining rejected? Do you mean just a failure to get laid with a girl who you've been talking too for 30 mins? Or like a kind of instant rejection where you say 'hi' and she says 'go away' kind of thing? But either way, I'd say I get rejected like 95% of the time lol. But i'm not good looking at all and I hit on pretty girls so it's to be expected. I open a mix of direct and indirect, but usually she'll just not really talk to me or will just tell me i'm not her type kind of thing. B…
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:08 AM
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where do you live out of interest?
/r/seduction09/08/18 09:12 AM
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Don't know. Maybe i'm masochistic, because getting told like ''go away, you're not handsome enough for me'' kind of thing when you open a pretty young girl at the bar can certainly sting lol. But then, there's been some fun times too, which came about 100% as a result of me having the balls top approach. It's a numbers game. Nothing more
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:01 PM
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Need to be careful. I know people who have lost girls who thought the guy was either not interested or was a pussy because he played the 'aloof' / no attention game. It's a balancing act. Needs to be timed right. Also, it's not really an 'attraction builder' like some people claim it to be. If you approach a girl and she isn't interested, she isn't going to start chasing you because you ignore her lol. but if she's already attracted, you can certainly get her chasing lots (initially) by being al…
/r/seduction08/08/18 06:56 PM
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could be confidence, could be coincidence where you went through a patch of opening women who thought you were good looking, and so they were receptive to your approach. The more I approach, the more I realise it's really NOT in your control at all. Mark Manson was right. Mystery was wrong
/r/seduction08/08/18 02:41 PM
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it would crush me for years probably. Nah, a few weeks at worst! :) All it takes is one 'good' reaction/interaction with a cute girl, and it kind of deletes the memory!
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:02 AM
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It doesn't have the power to be manipulative! It's not as though there's some magic sentences that, if used, make a girl sleep with you. I almost feel that 'manipulation' is a word that PUA coaches themselves came up with in relation to describe pickup as a clever market ploy lol. The closest thing to 'manipulation' in my eyes would be things that were used in old school game like 'negs', but they don't even actually 'work' in practice anyway! (in my experience. Maybe they were in LA girls) so g…
/r/seduction07/08/18 07:01 PM
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I get heart breaking rejections most weeks lol. Usually along the lines of ''can you leave me/us alone please, I like good looking guys!''. I also find the rejections where they basically flat out ignore you kinda painful! What hurts maybe more than the rejection itself from these sorts of replies is the realisation that i've been sold a bit of a lie from the PUA world, and all the 'game' in the world wouldn't be able to turn that particular ship around! For some girls, you really need to be her…
/r/seduction07/08/18 09:14 AM
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I looked at my dad and he raised his eyebrows up and down and said 'hubba hubba hubba.' Then my dad starts doing this super dramatic walk and like rolls up his sleeves and says "hey I'm Andrew dice clay, whoa! I turned and walked back to my dad for some comfort and he was showing me thumbs up and thumbs down signs as if to ask 'did you score? I desperately wanna go out and hit on girls with your dad to be honest.
/r/seduction07/08/18 08:59 AM
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this was like 4 years ago lol
/r/seduction06/08/18 08:02 PM
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out of interest, where do you live and how old are you? I've never met a girl who gives a single shit if you can dance or not lol. They just want a good looking dude who isn't a complete bore, ideally
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:14 PM
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Yeah, it's always the same. And yeah, there's a massive UK nightgame gap in the infield market!! I'd like to see that. A UK PUA going around bars in the UK hitting on UK girls.
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:46 PM
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he does have a point in fairness. Someone who has basic social skills will mix in statements with questions naturally, will relate to their answers with something, tease when appropriate or when the chance comes up etc. PUA's want you to believe that they are doing something special when really it's just having the guts too approach, plus managing to NOT crumble (which I will admit IS a skill in a sense as most guys will go completely BLANK when talking too a stunning girl in a high pressure sit…
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:44 PM
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Got it in one! Girls must love his far-left views.
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:14 PM
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lol
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:24 AM
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I think the type of rejection matters. I've had a few where a girl said something like ''You seem cool but i've got a boyfriend, sorry'' kind of thing, and I don't feel bad at all, really! If anything I felt energised, say ''no worries, have a nice day'' and walked off feeling fine But when a girl ignores you after you open (say in a bar), you try to 'plow' a little and ask some questions make statements etc and she's still semi-ignoring (one word answers at best and hostile body langauge) or wh…
/r/seduction05/08/18 09:26 AM
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Quite interesting, actually. I have a friend who is in the RAF, and he's been one of the most successful guys when it comes to getting laid, that i've ever met. I guess it's more to do with the personality of people who go into these sort of jobs are also the same personalities that get women? I don't know. He is very persistent (i've seen him just wear girls down before in bars who I thought he had no chance of getting!) and also quite loud and talkative and social. He would never ever suffer t…
/r/seduction04/08/18 10:18 PM
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I might have to steal your bio. I haven't had a match in maybe 3 months and I use up all my swipes each day. Handsome face FTW!! lol
/r/seduction04/08/18 04:29 PM
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Matched with this girl on Tinder. :(
/r/seduction04/08/18 04:16 PM
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You're not going to really know if you're learning anything until you start converting the hostile. I've basically never seen this happen, either in real life or infields. (closest I saw was Julien made a girl who ignored him smile and talk a little bit in a infield and so did Max, but neither was able to close the deal or even get close in fact) But yes, for those who believe that 'game' can actually make a girl want you (who was 100% not into you when you approached) that's the dream!
/r/seduction04/08/18 02:50 PM
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For hookups and sex - it's just about looks For relationships etc - status and money comes into it
/r/seduction04/08/18 01:10 PM
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I've felt a fairly strong shift in the general PUA community (not just RSD). It's actually super interesting. Take the rooshV forums. Used to be 'looks don't mean a THING Stop making excuses'' and people would actually get banned for starting threads about looks etc, and now there are threads by long standing well respected posters who are talking about how important looks are and how to get better pics and look better, get ripped, tattoo game etc etc. And they certainly aren't banned! They're m…
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:20 AM
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