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Marriages fail for many reasons. I am not advising women to do what does not work long term. And my experince does not discount my advice. Nice dig though. Try again.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 09:10 PM
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You stated that RP is a toolbox. Than you replied with IF RP is a tool box there is no such thing as red pill women. Which is it? The definition of a red pill woman is about behavior, not a type of person. And to advise women that non monogamy is a ok thing to consider for long term happiness is a disservice to this sub. It rarely does. RARELY does not make the norm. You do not know who you are talking to. These women need to be wisely advised, not made to feel like their bad decisions are ok be…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 06:03 PM
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Please tell me your definition of a red pill woman. As sexual strategy is it not monogamy? I am not talking about subjective, I am asking about black and white objective.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 02:34 PM
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We cannot base RedPillWomen on exceptions to the rule. Outliers exist and can take away good advice, but influencing those away from the path to long term happiness is detrimential to the point of this sub. Women are hive minded.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 02:29 PM
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A tool box full of excuses and excepptions help no one.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 02:20 PM
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We are giving modern day advise in present cultural norms. I also studied anthropology and sociology. This is not a 'a 1000 years ago it worked' platform. Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 02:19 PM
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Are you asking for a definition of what men truly want out of women?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 01:16 PM
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Things change...but most things related to biology and instincts do not.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 01:07 PM
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For the record. I was married 14 years, together 18. How long have you all, with your 3somes been married?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 11:35 AM
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Non-monogamy is not "red pill women". I receive messages wondering what is going on with this sub. Apparantly I am the only one not afraid to speak up. Also, my experiences wened 'bad', but I lived the LONG term marital consequences of them and saw many friends as well. This is not conjecture.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 11:29 AM
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Zoloft can be a great mood stabilizer and help with social anxiety. Have you considered trying any medications while you make changes in your life?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 10:09 PM
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It can get away from you fast, and culture won't shame it until you are 'out of control'. I know more functional alcoholics than I care to admit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 09:24 PM
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Good for you. I am mid 40's and found TRP after a 18yr marriage that collapsed under both our failures. I know what is par for the course today for most doesn't work long term. I try to not be seen or heard here out of respect for the forum, but I have turned what I have learned into a positive and life goes on. On topic, tanning moderately can help boost VitD, especially in winter.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 09:10 PM
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Not a good list. Left out being a great cook and how it is a powerful skill.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 08:51 PM
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Start damage control, contingency plan for at home. How you are going to deal with it. Get his resume in order, research new job options. Ask if he can get hired with the contractor.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:04 PM
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Sidenote - A working woman is less likely to take you to the cleaners and will split custody if the marriage does fail.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 01:13 PM
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If she wants to keep him that's exactly what she needs to do. And I agree, being a slut isn't classy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 04:19 PM
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Life experience.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/18 06:45 PM
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Keep in mind everyone wants to fuck you. Choose your man and stick with him. Keep his friends away.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/18 02:18 AM
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Do NOT tell him about past slutty behavior. NOTHING good will come out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/18 02:16 AM
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Threesomes are a deathnell for long term relationships. Do not do it. It devalues both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/18 02:12 AM
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Mothers and Fathers need to teach girls how to avoid these situations, just like they teach kids about 'stranger danger' when they are little. For boys, the conversation is different but the outcome is the same, self preservation including the prrotection of reputation and mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 04:19 PM
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Argued with a slut.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 04:15 PM
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I walked away from social media completely 2 years ago when I met my man. Zero regrets. Life is so much better.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 10:49 PM
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I feel this. My man wakes up at 4. I surfed snooze until the last minute. Since he moved in I wake up 2 hrs before work so we can workout together, I can make breakfast before getting ready for work. I used to stay up until 11-12 every night. Now we are in bed at 10, the latest. It has improved my life and mental clarity immensely. I even got a promotion at work.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 12:25 AM
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2 income households are a majority necessity these days. You can be a RPW, wife and mother and work. You simply have to behave appropriately.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 12:16 AM
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I do not think I have ever had one in my current relationship. We got to know one another very well before sex and serious dating and even more so before full committiment. Very eyes wide open. Perhaps it is our age and prior collective experience. We love one another deeply but the whole "starry eyed in love" was never a thing. I still do sweet things for him all the time and love enthusiastically, however it is my personality which I find sustainable for the long term. Relationships are work a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 09:01 PM
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What kind of trauma are we talking about?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 02:10 PM
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You must be fun at parties. #hatersgonnahate
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 10:45 PM
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Awesome! I made Turkish Delight for dessert.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:03 PM
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There are no earned upgrades for just sleeping with a man. If you want to be more, bring more to the table. Be more.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 01:59 AM
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Also, the Eagles won and the dude was likely drunk. Not an excuse, just sayin'.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 08:58 PM
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I live near Philly and my boyfriend is black. The only racism we get is from black women. Dirty looks, ignored or bad service from waitresses, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 08:57 PM
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TRP. Its for men, and most of the men there do not have real life interpretations of the meaning and applications. They parrot rhetoric.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 10:13 PM
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No. I wouldn't. If he is careless enough for me to find out that is not acceptable. It is not OK and never should be.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 10:12 PM
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You will go crazing overthinking this stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 12:49 AM
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Main chick = Girlfriend. If he is fucking other chicks I better not find the fuck out!!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 12:48 AM
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Absolutely not. "Lady in the streets, slut between the sheets" but its HIS slut not community propery "its my turn" slut. Don't microscope this stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 03:06 AM
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It is a known fact that an 'alpha' man will try to fuck you on the first date, or second. But the sooner you give it up the sooner you are eliminated from becoming a long term prospect. Men do not want sluts.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:49 PM
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Pretty enough to represent him well, takes care of herself but doesnt jave to be a 9 or 10. As long as she is attractive to HIM, thats what matters, and men can have nuanced tastes. Being good company, kind nature, anticipating his needs, doing that extra something for him, showing him you are his girl, cooking well, etc. Showing agency beyond sex, a ride or die partner. Submissive only to him. Men are simple creatures. Keep your legs crossed and place a high value on yourself. Sex is cheap, a m…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:47 PM
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He should get his testasterone levels tested. It could not only be affecting this but his overall quality of life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:41 PM
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There are many male centric podcasts that repeat this over and over. Men like to fuck pretty girls but they are brutally honest about what qualities they want in a "main chick" and that the true male hard wiring is to provide and protect.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:39 PM
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Good men, strong men, want a quality woman to settle down and have a family with ultimately. They just have little confidence many are out there. Be one, be choosey, and the right man will find you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:34 PM
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Sexual attention from men is cheap. Put a high value on yourself or no one else will.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 10:53 PM
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If you truly love a man you take his name. You missed the point.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:32 AM
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I'm sorry, who is bitter?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:24 AM
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Proof of false hope
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:23 AM
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If High Maintenance is taking care of your health and appearance no man will see that as a bad thing. Anyine that does is a lazy hater.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:38 PM
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You put his needs and happiness above your own.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:36 PM
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Majority or "RP men" won't tolerate a LTR or stay faithful if she thinks they are actually in one.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:35 PM
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She hyphenated her last name. She couldn't have loved him THAT much.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:33 PM
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With the exception of a trophy wife, most men prefer to LTR or marry a 7 or an 8. Women with agency raise their value when it comes to beyond a FB.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:30 PM
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Be reliable, emotionally stable, and rock solid for him. Outlet emotions you have away from him, your family and friends, NOT him. This is Very hard to get through and he should seek help.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 02:50 AM
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Prenups are trash and can be thrown out in court easily. Especially in a long term marriage or a children situation. Any man who depends on it is not basing his expectations in reality.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 02:48 AM
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News Flash, most men want a 10 physically, but not long term. 9's & 10's are known as "community property", unintelligent, and not LTR material.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 02:46 AM
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Is he struggling with the question of wanting a family or not? If when you do start a family, is it your intention to stop working? Does he earn enough to support that? Men tend to be logical. Pressure comes from everywhere. Time to discuss end game and what you both want. Ease his fears. Offer ways to reduce his stress or paranoia.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 09:39 PM
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Practice when there is no stress. Do not limit yourself to one cusine. Get a decent cookbook or try out HomeChef.com where you can select meals and get step by step directions.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 01:41 AM
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I do not understand your location reference.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 01:37 AM
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You are aloha widowed. Why did he dump you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 04:24 AM
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You have the wrong friends.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 04:22 AM
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Honestly, be a kind ear, dont ask questions too much, be consistent and just be reliable. Compassionate distraction goes a long way.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 04:21 AM
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Rollo did a long form podcast with Donovan Sharpe https://youtu.be/UobWTIULSi8 recently.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 10:05 PM
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The problem that RP attempts to grapple with is just the idea that women can't find men attractive over long term unless they're assertive, fit, have a mission, and control their lives (to a degree). This a short sighted and bad assumption of RP in reality. RP is about traditional roles in long term relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 11:01 PM
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Honestly, according to the theory, No. TRP is based off of biological principals with few allowances for anomalies. In a sense, it is like asking if homosexuals can be red pill. You can be red pill and accepting of alt lifestyles or sexual preferences, however calling such a relationship red pill is an oxymoron ti the principal. This does not mean you cant take pieces of this or other lifestyles to create your own. But if you are looking for a box to place yourself in and check, its not the same…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:58 PM
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You are being cold and calculated. If you want to see him again tell him, yes, I look forward to seeing you when you get home, I'm here if you want to call and catch up... Men want to know they are desired, they dont see it as desperate or weak, it is feminine. TRP male advise does not apply to women. Text "game" is for plates.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 12:56 AM
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I like notesfromaredpillgirl.com
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 12:44 AM
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I have to agree. This marriage is broken both by his participation and yours.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 12:18 AM
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Sex drive comes and goes. It really is mind over matter. Once things get going it usually is alright.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 02:30 AM
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I am on a tight budget this year. I went to dollar tree, got a bunch of glass jars. On amazon I got labels, coconut oil, essential oils, labels for the printer. Sugar. I am making sugar scrubs for most gifts. Add ribbon and wala!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 02:28 AM
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I don't.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 07:42 AM
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Anticipating his needs or wants, hands down. It makes him think you are a mind reader.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 10:06 PM
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Congrats on your hard work!
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 10:04 PM
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I see that, what got my attention was the qualifications. She obviously tried to make ammends but the tipping point was him not trying hard enough? It didn't add up.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 02:56 AM
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This is a one sided push pull point of view that is attempting to show appreciation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 12:33 AM
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The fact that you cut the most important person out of your life because they "seemed" to not "really" be anything is telling of yourself. Take a hard look in the mirror. Relationships with other men stem from this template. If your dad is a fuck up, own it. Draw a hard line. No wishy washy. DO NOT be compliant or submissive or 'check in' for a man who does not deserve your obedience or loyalty. You will get hurt. How do you know? He demands, he responds with kindness, and it progresses. All men…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 12:19 AM
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Stop making decisions or suggestions and see what he does. What he does next is your insight in his manhood. Give him the opportunity. Tell him you want him to decide if necessary and that it is attractive to you. Young guys may need a push.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:57 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being happy as an individual and following your dreams. Just dont be selfish. Do not sacrifice family and marriage for it. Being a developed individual can add to your overall value.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:47 PM
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Thanks My opinion is 100% RP, and wildly unpopular ironically.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:37 PM
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Look, a man simply wanting to see you is not an alpha man. Or a red pill one. A man telling you, we are going to X, we are doing Y and you are wearing Z, is. If he is faltering now, you are already wearing the pants.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:35 PM
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So choosing where to eat and what to do is not a red flag and this post is just about how happy you are?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:33 PM
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How do you go about meeting his family for the first time when you are another race?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:26 PM
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Is it a joint checking account? If so you can sign. If not, get a stamp. Problem solved.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:24 PM
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It sounds like you are fucking this guy at his place or yours and never go out. You are a plate. Accept it or move on. If he doesn't want to take you out to be seen with you by now the writing is on the wall.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:20 PM
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Sucessful relationships are more like buyouts: one with assertive value takes ownership of one with quality it can live without. Together, both are better, but only one name survives.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:17 PM
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There is no truth greater than this: a woman cannot be red pill unless lead by a red pill man. If you have red pill expectations, prepare to be disappointed until you find a man that shocks you, with pleasure.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:13 PM
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If you are 20 and own your own home, as a single young woman you are intimidating to men your own age. A great "career"?, at 20? Why would you even need a man? Reflect on what a man wants and needs, and align with the life stage of the quality man you are targeting. See through their eyes. An older man may be what is better for you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:11 PM
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Yay, downvotes. I miss those. Been awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:48 AM
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Is he usually moody?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:46 AM
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I wasnt ready until I saw a positive test.. together 8 yrs, married 4. Tried for a second 3 years later, Late miscarriages. No dice. Broken heart. No regrets. Love my almost 10yr old!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:38 AM
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"As a guy gets older, his "desire" for sex is not as overwhelming. ( That's relative, it's pretty overwhelming no matter your age) He begins to count the actual cost for regular sex. In many cases, he determines the juice is not worth the squeeze and decides it's not for him. Also his opportunities for good marriage situations has diminished. As he gets older, women in his age bracket often are single moms, have emotional baggage, maybe bad credit, a sordid past, family problems, etc, etc. Most …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:34 AM
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Ok. I did not read this. However, from life experience most men marry because... - Good pussy/attraction - Tolerable outside of sex - Represents him well - Great cook - Feminine with long hair - She is kind/good person - Not fat
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:24 AM
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Courts regularly ignore them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:21 AM
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It is my understanding that prenups rarely hold up in court when challenged, especially the longer the marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:20 AM
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Why have you had no experience with men at 20 years of age?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:17 AM
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Haha, well at 30 and one ovary down, after years of throwing caution to the wind it resulted in a one and only blessing, and no one is ever 'ready' for a kid. :) You never know what life will throw at you. Time is the enemy. It was too late for me for a second. I tried until my heart broke.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:14 AM
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We have come a long way and celebrate an anniversary tomorrow. Neither of us expected this to last this long and we see a future together. What is the deepest threat to this falling apart? We are both 40+.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:07 AM
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Aside thoughts .. Throw caution to the wind and have fun! Trying is stressful. Not trying and letting fate play out is exciting. Enjoy yourselves. Let nature take its course.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:04 AM
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Sorry, what is the family situation at home?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:02 AM
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Food ( home made ), a lovely outfit, and a small thoughtful gift.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:00 AM
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Are all of these exchanges via text?
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 11:58 PM
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Not only that but trust his solution enough to follow through...consistently.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 11:56 PM
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A man physically expressing desire and objectifying you is a high form of flattery. He is a MAN. You are being disingenuous and I guarantee it turns him off more than you being out of shape ever did.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 12:06 AM
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Yep. She has cornered him into a no-win situation, which makes him sick and tired. More than decision making needs to change here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 11:47 PM
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I agree, dating for a few weeks and alpha man expresses interest in marriage? Umm...
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 11:45 PM
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I understand. Casual sex is the norm these days, so dating with higher expectations is frustrating at best. Most women don't 'intend' to sleep around. Wish you luck.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 11:40 PM
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I'm good! Settled down after my ban for being too ... honest? Raw? Forward... here. :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 01:39 AM
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Do everything you can to heal your marriage. It is not pretty out there, for anyone. You will end up on the cock carousel having fun for a year and then on antidepressants dealing with the damage you caused. Divorce and split custody is ugly, expensive, and hard on kids. You can learn to love your husband again much easier than starting over. Take time apart if you need to sort yourself out. The grass is NOT greener on the other side unless you are one of the very lucky few. I got lucky, very lu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 01:16 AM
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He should YouTube or research Penis Health. Its a muscle he needs to exercise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 01:06 AM
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Momentum begetts momentum, just like entropy. You are in control of this. Make an effort if you want to go forward. Weeks? Is he seeing someone else? If it went more than 3 healthy days and no major roadblocks I would automatically assume my man was stepping out, because I know his drive/need. It does sound like you have one foot out the door. If you are done, go. A true 'Captain' however would not steer a ship into the rocks for lack of attention or laziness. He may be trying to let you down ea…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 01:03 AM
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Agree.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 12:57 AM
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He notices your progress. Did you complain about these parts or express desire to improve those areas prior? Congrats on your progress. Its hard work. He is trying to be nice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 12:56 AM
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He has done a few podcasts with Joe Rogan that are interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 12:52 AM
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To add, avoiding social media posting eliminates the akward diferences of opinion or issues with work, family and friends. Wheb in doubt, don't. Soon you wont be able to tolerate most people online. Keep it and you to yourself and develop your own opinions. No one elses but your mans will matter anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 12:49 AM
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A RP man will view all social media interactions, especially favoring the side of men's rights, as attention whoring or virtue signaling.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 12:46 AM
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Betty Crocker cook books are good for beginners with staple recipes. Also How to Cook Everything: 2,000 Simple Recipes for Great Food,10th Anniversary Edition https://www.amazon.com/dp/0764578650/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_aca5zbH4442FZ
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 12:43 AM
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My thoughts turn to never being attracted to him ever again. Same if he wanted a giant dildo up his ass. Attraction killer.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 12:00 AM
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Threads by [deleted] are the best.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 11:58 PM
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I was married at 22 and divorced at 38. Talk about feeling like wasted good years. Locked down a high quality man a year later and living happier and healthier than ever. You never know what life will throw at you. Keep your head up. There is not only one right way.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 09:54 PM
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I have been playing with coconut flour and unsweetened almond milk. The only carbs we do eat stem from panko and breadcrumbs .. i love making zucchini chips and cauliflower bites for snacks. I've replaced breakfast for a green juice but I may have to go lunch as well to get the results I want.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 10:08 PM
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A man is only as good as his word. Did he not have a male role model in his life? If you don't respect him, you can't love him wholely. I am sorry. :(
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 10:05 PM
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TRP is rhetoric. In reality, an 'Alpha' red pill man will be with a good woman regardless of semantics like age or Hb#, within reason. Most men want to settle down and rely on a solid, feminine woman who takes care of them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 01:41 PM
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All long term relationships ebb and flow regarding sexual energy. Both have to put in effort and attention, nothing is automatic. Men want to know it is there when they want it, and women want to know they are wanted. To avoid malaise just takes a little effort. If you care enough for it to upset you, than you have the energy to fix it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 01:26 PM
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I have to agree with this. Unless a hookup is all you want/attention.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 01:23 PM
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Don't ask, do. Asking means accepting and that means needing help. If it is obvious, just do it and say nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 12:15 PM
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You can have complex carbs on keto. Its simple carbs you cannot eat.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 12:12 PM
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Do you juice as well? For high absorption of micronutrients?
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 11:30 PM
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Core baby! I was a top 10 ranked in state gymnast and still gain from the body I built in my teens. A solid foundation is a lifetime reward.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 11:28 PM
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I do agree. Tye need to "classify" and project individual choices is a tell of insecurity.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 11:27 PM
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I would rather take a swift deliberate swat than mind games and second guessing what I did wrong. It works, when done correctly. And it is not abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 11:25 PM
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Calm, space, a meal, a stiff drink and a smile go a long way. Don't overdo it. Be a kind ear and anticipate his needs. Going down on him never hurts ;)
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 08:57 PM
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If you haven't been banned from r/twoxchromosomes you're doing it wrong lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 08:54 PM
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I hadn't heard of this but after reading, it simply sounds like a traditional-roles valued relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 11:13 PM
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I had some good results with an at home workout program. I'm thinking of doing it again and adding juicing for 1-2 meals for 6 weeks. 15mins of cardio a day isnt doing anything. The program I like is a bit old, Slim in 6 by Beachbody. Its not too intense to start and you do see results by week 3. If you want a workout buddy hit me up. I am sure you can fibd the videos free online or cheap on ebay.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 09:01 PM
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We would all be fat and those who can cook would rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 02:04 AM
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The only way to do it is to do it. You'll get over it, be playful, be serious, be sexy or silly. Just TRY. You often find you are never in the mood or comfortable until it actually starts feeling good. Let yourself go and show your affection and feminine side.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 09:10 PM
1

Don't ask, don't tell and LIE LIE LIE. If he will never find out don't trickle truth him. Stick to a story and leave nothing open ended. Do not talk about your sexual past as much as you can avoid it. Do not believe he woukd EVER be OK with the 'truth'. He does not need to know.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 09:07 PM
1

Is this a question? Insecure men want to boast what they "have" even when she is not with him. If he is attracted to you, other men are as well. A man putting you out there with his sensual expectations without his protection is reckless and asking for trouble...he doesnt know women and he is in denial about men.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 02:16 AM
1

Alphas are controlling and possessive and construed as abusive to sensitive souls. Most women dont have the backbone to handle how heavy a strong man can be.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 11:11 PM
1

I would relay that looking good for HIM is your priority. Looking good without him with you makes you a cock magnet, and attracts the wrong kind of attention from men and women. His desire for you to wear skirts and heels to work with children is irrational. I would suggest that you change before he comes gome to something he likes. You are his property and look good only for him. Your normal style is presentable enough to not embarass him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 11:08 PM
5

"I want a man who can match me in all respects".... it is a feminist mindset and a trap. I understand your hypergamous drive to be with a sucessful man, good luck finding one you will love forever. Most sucessful men choose women who were ride or die on their way up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 03:20 PM
1

My question exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 01:43 PM
1

Accomplished!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 12:01 AM
1

I go to a booth a few times a month. My man loves tan lines.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 09:53 PM
1

Workout 5 days this week. Make 5 new meals for my man (No repeats this month!). Tan twice. Knock my meetings out of the park this week at work.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 09:15 PM
14

I think by inviting you he is trying to say he woukd rather not party and hook up with random chicks or see strippers and spend the time and money with yoU. This is good but it is early. Turn it down, but do not turn down visiting him on his turf, suggest shopping and making dinner togethet and deflect the ' netflix and chill' connotation and make it an early date with an expected leave time. You are doing well.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 12:55 AM
2

Btw, it was a hit!!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 06:16 PM
0

It's you that has not lived it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 06:15 PM
1

Are those women going back to work doing the same jobs as men working the same hours with the same level of experience? No. Hence, no wage gap. I think you fail to understand what wage gap means.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 10:37 AM
3

Let us know how it goes. And I do sincerely mean congratulations. Understand that until 13 weeks, 1/3 of pregnancies fail so be prepared for any result.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 10:33 AM
1

I was not rude. I was honest. If you can't handle that keep your legs closed until you can.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 10:32 AM
1

Both equally. They are still teaching me and I am 40.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 10:30 AM
0

You aren't that attracted to him. This has a shelf life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 10:15 AM
8

Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to commitiment. When either gives it away too freely, they discount themselves and their value.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 10:14 AM
-1

Very untrue. Wow.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 01:25 AM
4

It is as much his baby as yours. Shame on you for even thinking you can kill his child and continue on with your relationship as if nothing happened. Seriously!? If you want that kind of advice go to r/twoxchromosomes You both took the risk of unprotected sex. The baby is both your responsibilities. TELL HIM RIGHT NOW! If you wait your relationship won't survive. If he sees this thread, you are DONE. You are an adult. Own your responsibility. And congratulations. This is a wonderful blessing. No…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 01:24 AM
7

What he said is true. As a woman who has worked in tech (and with Google) for 20 years, I agree with him. The "wage gap" is fiction.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 01:14 AM
2

Uh, no. The 'wage gap' has nothing to do with SAHM's.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 01:12 AM
1

My man likes to take good care of his skin so I am making him sugar scrubs for his birthday. Sugar, coconut oil, essential oils, jars from dollar tree, hand made labels.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 12:10 AM
2

You should never have to ask for it. Present yourself in.a manner where he can't say no.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 12:05 AM
2

Honestly, it depends what kind. While most light kinks are harmless fun, some can signal deeper issues or an outside influence amd actually make YOU lose respect for HIM.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 12:04 AM
4

Men do not become red pill overnight. It takes years. He is in the anger phase and might be for awhile. He needs to listen to podcasts of actual men talking about real world applications. Not everything ia black and white. Before he can ask you to change a damn thing HE needa to change and atart by taking responsibility. He is blaming you and demeaned by your earning power. This is stupid and Beta as it gets, its childish. He has a long way to go. Your are welcome to be here and learn about posi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 10:50 PM
2

Get a restraining order.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 06:54 PM
0

True. I go with my man who is responsible for me and guarding my interactions with men in that environment. Why? Because he knows men. He does not leave anything to chance. I am not special, a "10", or even young. But I am his and he protects his woman. Before I met him, I even knew better. If I needed help I waited for the first female at the help desk to get assistance. I only attended classes with a female instructor. I never fell for the 'personal trainer free time' that they bait you with. …
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 02:41 PM
2

Sounds like he could be addicted.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 02:31 PM
1

I am sorry, you are so right! God forbid someone gives advice on how to be a lady on this sub. Acknowledging that she could have sought help from a female and preferred to draw attention to herself is super wrong. My bad.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 02:28 PM
1

Entitled? All I said was do not lead men on. I do feel that 9 times out of 10, a man will take an opportunity if an attractive woman gives him one. OP is obviously trying to display how attractive she is ... "Men always look at me!". A gentlemen will respond to politeness or curtness evenly regardless of intent.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 12:46 PM
1

Why do you say that? Name calling is cheap. Make a counterpoint.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 12:39 PM
0

I <3 downvotes It means what I stated is true but hard to hear. No one has the stones to dispute. Says it all.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 08:49 AM
2

Tell her NO or you are in the wind. And mean it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 08:45 AM
5

So PROTECT her and deal with the outburst. Then find another way. Help her with her finances. Man up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:21 PM
2

Ok. First the company taking eggs from a woman who has never had (healthy) children before or donated is a red flag. Secondly, unless she is in financial dire straits there is no need to take this risk. Discuss financial alternatives. Also do not worry about 18 Yrs down the road. If a child finds her, and you are still together, the details wont matter. It wont be ideal but it wont be as akward as you think. What does her family think? If she is feeling altruistic, donate blood or plasma. Was sh…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:18 PM
1

Is she willing to choose you over a few thousand dollars?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:10 PM
1

Life almost never works they way you expect or want. God laughs at our plans. Live life smart. You never know what will be thrown at you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:55 PM
1

How much is she getting for said eggs? Is this for financial gain or is she donating to a family member or couple she knows?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:53 PM
4

No, we are saying you have no right unless you do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:51 PM
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I will put it plainly. She is sabotaging it because sharing a bed with other people than you alone makes her feel devalued. She is losing respect for you every time you mention it. You want truth? You're welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:49 PM
5

So she says. Watch what she does. Do not be dense. This is prime for self destruction. It is probably already over in her mind.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:47 PM
3

A phrase comes to mind "She is never really yours, it's just your turn". Men do not trust women and rightfully so. Women lie. When a truly devoted man gives his all, he is all in. Yet, when most women sniff weakness or boredom, this society tells them they 'deserve better' and that it is 'their right' to do whatever it is to make themselves happy and blame men for it. Sex is not power. Fidelity is.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:44 PM
2

I disagree with cooking regularly. Give something a man can't get without you. I draw the line at laundry haha.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:37 PM
-1

A conversation I had with a 25yr old the other day. She even took it so far as food choices and 'gluten free' with 'adhd' or whatever. This self identification crisis is outta control. Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:34 PM
1

Invite him to your place, mage him dinner and show him agency. Take care of him. Show you can relax and keep a nice home. Plan an after dinner walk or activity, end it at his car and go inside. Leave him wanting more.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:32 PM
1

I am sorry. But she is right.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:24 PM
4

Worst idea ever. Men have everything to lose in marriage. It's EASY for a woman with nothing to lose to propose.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:22 PM
2

They teach and reward this in my kids elementary school (public).
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:20 PM
0

All this is nonsense. It doesn't take a classification to see if you can work or not. I put this junk in the same category as pronouns, gender fluidity, and astrology.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:19 PM
4

If she is oozing for jealousey she isn't into it and just trying to make you happy. Fuck another woman in front of her or vice versa, I guarantee she loses all respect for you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:16 PM
1

Elderly are the exception :) sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:14 PM
-16

I am a cynic. While they didn't make it creepy or weird, there is always an undertone to male interaction with women. The key is to be a lady, thank them, and close the door of opportunity. There is nothing stopping you from seeking help from a female assistant instead of looking for a man to help. If you are taken, that is unacceptable. Hell, my man won't let me in a gym without him by my side because he KNOWS how men operate. Appreciate, great, but close any window of opportunity quickly or th…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:13 PM
10

A real man owns his responsibilities. A woman who tries to do it all is setting her self up for failure and unhappiness. You don't have to be a "10" to attract a high value male. There is more to a real woman than looks.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 02:10 AM
3

I understand that. Just look out for opportunities that won't remove you from your studies. Also keep a leger. Coupon and pinch pennies. He will recognize your efforts.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 04:20 PM
3

Find any way to make extra money. Work as a hand at a farmers market or craft sale. Offer to help a neighbor or clean a friends flat. Babysit, wash cars, tutor, walk dogs or pet sit, sell some things you no longer use like old text/books. Ask to do extra work at your internship. Find any way to fill the gap and get caught up.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 03:47 PM
2

What can you do? Gracefully tell him that you respect his goals and would like to stay in touch.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 09:55 PM
3

Being a human being and showing affection, love, caring is not a beta quality. A beta quality is sleeping on the couch cause the dog in bed crowds you. A beta quality is letting you hang out with other men without him around. A beta quality is blaming her for something he is realsponsible for. Alpha men are choosey and demanding, they can also be tender without relinquishing his dominance.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 07:12 PM
1

Yes. Men and women are not the same. Don't make the dire mistake of thinking such.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 04:46 PM
1

This response is why you have a problem here. move along sweetheart.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 04:44 PM
4

They don't expect you to be them. Its sounds like these are pseudo alphas that are projecting their own self expectations onto their women. Expect guidance and motivation to be better, but a real man knows women and men are different and driven by other motivating factors.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 04:16 PM
2

Yep. A true alpha is a softie at heart, loving and affectionate. You have to earn that trust and affection. His guard is always up but he can relax and be what his woman wants and needs.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 04:12 PM
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Cycle.and swim.or spin for cardio. 5x5 weight routine. Core and legs. Also, no more side boob outfits and torn jeans. Look like the woman you want men to believe you are.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 11:34 PM
1

Haha, yeah thats a given. A life without passion is a job.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 11:31 PM
8

A true alpha male owns his responsibilities and protects his woman. He does not have to resort to abuse or manipulation to gain her loyalty.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 06:49 PM
2

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3637620
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:43 PM
5

I am talking real deal, long term consistent, pure alpha. Took 40 years to find one and I aint ever letting him go. Wow.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:40 PM
46

"I'm too hot! How can I lower my SMV?"
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 01:56 PM
77

Said no one ever.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:59 PM
4

Cordial. Limited personal information. Dress is not at all revealing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:54 AM
1

Yes. Men ultimately want to find a quality woman they can mold and rely on.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:53 AM
4

No. Intelligence would enhance the dynamic.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:52 AM
4

Consistency.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:50 AM
0

You can't. It is different for every man/woman.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 05:03 AM
2

Translation: go out on more "dates".
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 05:02 AM
1

The more sex you have the more you want. You still absorb his hormones (T). Sex raises your drive. Go down on him more often. Once you start sex its hard to stop. Be open and dont just go through the paces. Be engaged.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 05:00 AM
1

Thank you for being honest with both yourself and us, and owning your part. Women easily set traps for men to fall into with shit tests. Trying it that way gives you a 1% chance of success. The key is to dress down, look naturally beautiful, appear hard to approach (non attention seeking) and you will find higher value men approaching you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 04:11 AM
2

Sex drive waxes and wanes in your 30's, Sometimes earlier often due to child rearing. Some think that relationship security is a death knell. From what I have learned, when a woman loses her deference to her man, her attraction drops. It means you are doing things outside of your role and unable to relax, enjoy taking care of your man, and then sex stresses you out and feels obliged over desired. Nip that in the bud. It will continually try to grow in todays culture. Keep it in check.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:56 AM
1

Board game olympics. Bike ride. Picnic. Themed movie nights (dollar store decoration or thrifty crafts + sexy outfit). Think "finding nemo" or anything free to watch. Have a fashion show with your naughtiest things. Shop for and Cook a new recipe together and eat at home. (Under 20$) Have an internet war game : cutest puppy pic, funniest gif, meme, etc. Theme it with whatever. Take a walk, stroll through a mall holding hands, get a sweet treat and people watch. Make fun of silly items. Don't sho…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:47 AM
3

Men need women for sex and offspring and other things they can't/won't do for themselves. Women want men for protection, dominance and fertility, and provider/take care instincts. Attraction is a balance of sexual attraction/compatability and agency - what you can offer one another. Manipulation is a short game approach to validation. Long term, you cannot manipulate a REAL man to your will. He will see right through it. Problem is, today most men enjoy any attention they don't call women out on…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:38 AM
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You are an adult. Stop blaming your parents and own your life. The fact they protected you can make you attractIve. Get off the computer and do things you enjoy. You will find friends along the way. If you have GAD, take something.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:28 AM
2

I call bull*hit too. Maybe 1/3 survive long term.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:23 AM
5

Add one more: You feel your partner does not value you enough to protect your intimacy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:22 AM
4

The quickest road to disaster. Feelings always get hurt regardless of the dynamic. Great way to sabotage a future marriage. They both need counseling to see if marriage is what they really want. Sex with other people only tears things down. He shouldn't be experimenting with the love of his life, goes for her too. Say, I know people who have had experiences and here is what they say....
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 03:17 AM
-2

In the US? Depends on age. Under 30 2%. Under 40 5%.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/17 05:57 PM
1

What's the difference between being submissive and being a doormat? Submissive is an active choice. A willingness to comply. A doormat is intimidated into the choice. What is defined as 'nagging'? Timing and tone is everything. A true man understands his responsibility is to keep her relaxed.enough to keep him happy fed and in bed. That often takes a team approach to life/chores. Why are women expected to do so much of the homemaking? He has his share of responsibilities. From yard work to manag…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/17 03:43 AM
-3

I blame the rise of feminism. It has told men they are worthless and women are equal without being such...entitlement. Simply put, women get away with what they do because most men allow them to. They allow it due to social pressure. Ask a woman to be accountable of her actions (like I did for a mod.at red pill wives) and you are ostracized/banned male or female.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/17 03:28 AM
2

Control your controllables. Dicipline is attractive to confident men. Wish you well!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 03:17 AM
15

A small place, adorable pets, a garden, a man who takes care of me and allows me to take care of him. A happy daughter with her own life not too far away. Growing old together, socializing as a couple, encouraging one anothers endeavors. Life beyond work.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 12:19 AM
7

If those are pics of you, get them off social media. Dress the part and work out until you feel confident. Focus on healthy and BMI, not numbers on a scale. Research "slut tells".
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 10:15 PM
0

I do not have a blog.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 09:38 PM
1

She sent it to my boyfriend last summer. I also know he wasn't the only one. Let's hear her deny it. And out of respect and the rules, I would never doxx anyone. I have nothing to gain. Her being a red pill mod or role model is false advertising, that is all.
/r/RedPillWives25/07/17 04:16 PM
0

Reminds me of this post which is a great read https://notesfromaredpillgirl.com/2017/07/11/the-games-never-end/
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 04:03 AM
1

Having a little one definitely makes exercise harder. I found living riom floor toning work and squats to be a happy medium. My child loves "working out" with me now that she is older. Overall, take care of your skin!
/r/RedPillWives25/07/17 03:56 AM
1

I was married for 17 years. While I was married I knew better than to send strange men pics of myself on twitter. "Baby daddy" lol more like exhusband who chose his addiction over his family. I have not called anyone names or lied. The truth, in this case, is unfortunate, and she knows it.
/r/RedPillWives24/07/17 10:20 PM
1

Wainting until 30 to have a baby was a regret of mine. We got together at 22 and married at 27. Recovery is easier as you are younger, so keep it up in your 30's and you are ahead! If you do plan for more children don't wait. My cut off was 35. I lost my 2nd unfortunately. Have a happy birthday and keep taking care!
/r/RedPillWives23/07/17 05:41 PM
1

It is not a lie.
/r/RedPillWives23/07/17 05:16 PM
2

I love this. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 11:58 AM
2

35 was my cut off. I had one. Tried for a second and lost the baby at 12 weeks. It broke my heart and I took it as a sign my body was done. I now have my tubes tied. I have many GenX friends who chose to be childless. Now in their 40's they have no regrets. It is a personal decision.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 11:53 AM
1

Sex life in marriage does wax and wane. Go down on him and expect nothing back. Do it 10 times. Then report back.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 11:14 AM
6

I disagree. Brutal honesty hurts. In the long run it does help. I would rather my man call me out on my bullshit or tell me if I am losing his attraction than it be too late to corecct the behavior. Relationships are not always sunshine and roses. Sometimes being told harshly is the only way for hard truths to stick.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 11:09 AM
2

It is different for everyone. Overall, uncontolled behavior and irresponsibility (lack of self control and dicipline) are red flags for me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 11:04 AM
7

At the core, you haven't changed at all. I believe you want to but it isn't an at will, overnight transformation. Start with small.goals, accomplish them, make them habits and move on to the next. As far as priortization, discuss with your man his top 3 ways he thinks you can improve. Discuss your own and keep it an open goal. He will notice your efforts and his praise will keep you motivated.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 02:46 PM
2

I have a few grays, started at 32. I get my hair done at a salon (balayage) and maintain it. The blend of colors really helps hide the grays. Plucking the noticable ones helps. As far as agin, I have no desire to look old. And men dont want their women to either.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 12:05 AM
2

I love https://www.lulus.com/categories/95_254/dresses-on-sale.html https://www.shabbyapple.com/
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 11:09 PM
11

I always notice when he is getting low on personal items and make sure he doesn't run out of anything he uses regularly. I "dress up" for sex (hair, makeup, heels etc) and find naughty little things to wear to keep it fresh. He loves barely there things and always responds with enthusiasm. I tan regularly because tan lines turn him on. I ask him what color he wants my nails before I get them done. Little "submissive" things like that is a turn on for him and its no skin off my back. I get him th…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 10:42 PM
4

How often do you go out on dates or make an effort to take care of one another or be romantic?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 11:01 AM
1

Men who want brash women are not red pill. There is a balance. My man loves both my submissiveness and my sense of humor. He enjoys my feminine qualities and agency as a woman. The type of women you describe are plate material at best if they are hot. But no RP man will commit to them.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 02:40 AM
6

Where are you expecting to be approached? General attitiude, eye contact, and looking approachable goes a long way.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 02:28 AM
3

8 months. He was a 'player' and red pill as hell, but I was able to secure a commitiment with all things stacked against me. I spent that time in 'monk mode' (no sex) as well, not dating anyone else. ETA: Spending a lot of time on the phone talking helped us both open up without the pressure of sex.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 12:45 AM
2

My favorite blog is NotesFromARedPillGirl.com She is in her early 40's, divorced, and obviously has a red pill man. She is fantastic.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 12:42 AM
3

To Sail Beyond the Sunset by Robert Heinlein. Has some off kilter moments but a great story told from a womans point of view.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 12:40 AM
2

If he has a "dirty job" just have him shower when he gets home. No big deal. He doesn't have to go to work fresh and clean.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 04:02 AM
1

Mama Metal keeps it real :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 03:59 AM
2

Honestly, my man expects the same of me (to be clean before bed) whether it is before or after sex or an office job. Small sacrifice. Especially showering together.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 03:57 AM
2

A low dose pill worked for me for 15 years, but emotional side effects and sadness was par. (I was put on it due to ovarly loss from torsion at 14.) Going off it while married helped drive at first but led to cysts and awful PMS (irritation, anxiety and anger). Non hormonal birth control, if you can stomach it, is best. Copper IUD, condoms, are your few options. Talk to your DR. I gave up and got my tubes tied, since after 39, not much is safe anymore. Edit to add: I tried nuvaring and depo. Nuv…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 03:50 AM
2

Example: She once stopped talking to me for 3 months bc I told her to consider it a step in self-sufficiency to make it to her own car without me walking her to it (it was 30m away) while she was visiting me (she wasn't exactly new to the area). I realize now it was a narcissistic injury to her. There is other evidence but you get the idea. Does anyone else have experiencing navigating these waters and how to keep these people at bay? 30 meters or miles? Also, is this my sister? Haha. She will s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 03:48 AM
3

YUP. That is all.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 03:23 AM
4

Mama Metal puts things in a constructive way. Glad you had some sensual fun. Do not burn that candle at both ends, let it last awhile before the next creative romantic interlude. My suggestion, allow him to give you direction, what to wear, etc. What you offered him was submission, and you both apparently enjoyed it. Build on it and do not assume too much control, rather open the door. Side note...no one is more downvoted than me lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 03:22 AM
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I disagree with much of this quote in that a man does not want his women to shoulder stress or 'protect' him when it comes to issues regarding his family. That is a recipe for resentment and disaster. Some issues need to be addressed before Sunday. Sure, do not nag and handle what you can, but never undermine his authority. Also, having a 'perfectly quiet' house with children is unrealistic. But I understand the premise.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 03:14 AM
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I am sure your boyfriend would you rather be healthy over skinny. There is a balance. We all could look better in our own eyes. But our men either help us be more of what they want or are happy with the way we are. Men go about it in a constructive way. Don't tear yourself down, it is more unattractive than being fat. Confidence is sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 03:09 AM
1

There is so much wrong with this post I do not even know where to begin.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 09:43 PM
0

Huh? A woman cannot be red pill unless led by a red pill man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 09:41 PM
1

Truth.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 09:40 PM
3

You are ready and just out thinking the room. No one tells you that trying for a baby is the most fun and intimate sex you can have. Plus it takes awhile for birth control to wear off.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:47 AM
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Good for you. Keep it up!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:36 AM
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We all get old. Fat is a choice and while my man is the right one, he will either force me to work out or leave. He cares about me and wants me to be healthy. How many fat 80 yr olds do you know? ... Right.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:35 AM
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I didnt say anything at all about delying childbirth. But not everyone is 21. Some women are dating and they are older and may still want to start a family or have more children. It would be less expensive as the people are more financially stable. The expense is the same regardless of youy financial situation. Need to save money on daycare? Use an in home care provider or family. Coupon and sell their clothes since they grow so fast (ebay was lucrative) and recycle your budget. Same with baby g…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:32 AM
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Anyone telling women it's a good idea to delay childbirth until they are in their mid-thirties is irresponsible and not giving RP advice. What??? God forbid there might be honesty and experience on the internet! I am only here for validation! LOL
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:23 AM
2

Statements like .. I understand how you feel, would you like me to...do you or prefer I.. or is there anything I can do.. Let him know you recognize his state and want to act accordingly. He may have an outburst but later he will acknowledge your effort to get through it. Just.be patient and do your best. My man has an anger problem he gets help for and it had done wonders. If your man is open to talking to someone, great. Remember, you are not his therapist, mom, or buddy...you are his woman. D…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 05:55 PM
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These are all normal fears and anxieties. Listen to me. No one is ready to be a mother until you see that positive test. And being told to start pushing was the scariest moment in my life. That said, A LOT comes naturally and a lot is learned. It takes something MAJOR to mess up a child. Raise him or her how you wished your parents raised you. Make life structured, fun, and be reliable. Kids don't need much, they just need their parents. Doctors are good these days. I am 5'6 130. I didnt even te…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 05:46 PM
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Let him take the lead. If things fall through the cracks, find a way to communicate and do not assume him in incapable. He may have a plan or order of things. Prioritization. If you work and are happy to pay things like the auto and phone bills, discuss doing so. He will appreciate less on his mind. Set up a financial calendar an budget together so there is open dialogue. Know what your free spending is and discuss purchases over an agreed dollar amount. Also, agree that new lines of credit will…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 05:26 PM
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I use any 2.5% variety. It is affordable. I apply in the mornings and after any time I was my face Pure Body Naturals Anti-Aging 2.5% Retinol Moisturizer for Face with Hyaluronic Acid, Shea Butter, Vitamin E and Green Tea, 1.7 Ounce https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018Q51KCC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fVKAzbP2P8SV1
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 05:08 PM
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This isn't a contest and I am not trying to win anything. I never said he WILL. I said his fidelity is under your control. You were rationalizing untruths. There is an expression for that. I used it. Get thick skin and see the point. Be accountable.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 03:15 PM
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Cocoa butter (palmers) on the rest of your body, especially neck, chest, and arms.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:51 PM
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Retinol face cream..start NOW.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:28 PM
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Notice when he is running low on personal items, clip coupons for them, buy them, and save money. "You didn't have to do that" "I had a coupon babe" schwing Try a new recipe. If you want to but arent a great cook, places like blue apron, home chef, and others can help make it easier until you decide to incorporate it into your repetoir. Basically, make a romantic dinner in a (flirtyapron.com) dressed like date night hair done, and let him drag you to the bedroom for dessert. Watch a movie or ord…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:21 PM
5

That pic grosses me out thinking about how many dirty diapers sat on that thing lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:09 PM
2

There have been a lot of deleted posts lately. I'm obviously not the only one who's sick of all the ugliness, poorly disguised as "Red Pill truths." Including yours? My advice was that you have control over fidelity through consistency and effort regardless of his notch count. There was no hate. I just speak bluntly. We are mature adults here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:05 PM
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I think that is the case when she gets the "feels" or wants to further the relationship. This double edged sword is why men have become less interested in a womans pleasure in bed. They (women) will either enjoy it, let themseves relax, or not. I also believe a womans desire and enjoyment is hinged directly to a man's.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:59 PM
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Anyone can do laundry. Not all women can cook.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:42 AM
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Rule #1 Do not shit where you eat. He enjoyed the chase with no interest in follow up. She needs to forget him and pretend it didnt happen. Aloof, no reference, and no more than necessary interaction.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:38 AM
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I find that sex alone is not the only oxytocin trigger. It is the love, build up, relationship. To say that the level of connection or ecstacy is the same when raped, one night standed, a new relationship or LTR is ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:35 AM
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I do not identify Adhd or anxiety (depression not severe) as mental illness. It is the modern day human condition. Lifestyle changes can help. The best answer is consistency and guidance or direction. Recognize, openly.acknowledge, and tell him that you know what he is feeling but he is in control of his actions. You are there to have his back when things get bad, but you need his charge.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:28 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/r0fXL4q.gif
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 01:19 AM
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Just as a really strong-headed woman may need this community to learn how to take a step back and follow, a high n count woman just needs to be aware of her flaws and how those flaws will manifest in her behavior. OMG! I am so triggered! LOL :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 01:00 AM
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All great suggestions! I love taking care of and snuggling my cavaliers. For me, cooking comfor foods relax me. Trying new recipes. Even making lists relaxes me. Couponing, finding best prices and planning grocery trips. Writing can also help. I like to write letters to my man and tell him how I feel and what I love about him periodically. Lastly, trainwreck TV... like Botched, Hoarders, 600lb life, always makes me feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:38 AM
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It is a red pill expression for being intellectually dishonest or rationalizing assumptions without truth. If you dislike my posts skip them. I do not think reassuring faulty thinking is a bad thing. I would rather get honest perspectives than shallow agreements. I am sorry that you feel that actually using red pill lingo on Red Pill Women is a bad thing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:26 AM
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The only "mystique" a man needs is a good meal, good head, and sexy attire by a woman who wants to please him. Men are simple. Women just forgot how to put in effort.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:20 AM
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Do you think women can recover from.a slutty past as they get older and also "change their behavior"?
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:17 AM
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The hamster is strong with this one. While I appreciate the optimism, his fidelity over time UP TO YOU. In 10 years if you get fat again after kids, become.bitch and lose interest in pleasing him, guess what? Those player instincts will kick back in, especially in a midlife crisis or when the 7 year itch hits. Men only get caught if they want to. This is a rare thing, as most sex isn't emotional for them. Keep his balls drained, never stop being pleasant, deferent, and sexy and you won't have to…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:12 AM
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If a cock has entered any hole of your body, it counts - any form of "sex". This is the answer men will give. Honestly I have only considered vaginal or anal sex to count. As you get older, it matters less. I am not looking to start a family or get married so the rule is - don't talk about your sexual past because men wont believe anything you tell them and looks and agency matters more than anything you did or didn't do 20 + years ago
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 11:02 AM
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See, I like the gregarious outspoken man who stands for me in any scenario. I do not have to ask him to step up, it is his nature. It relaxes me to focus on femine things/qualities. I love my man to take charge. It is sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 04:20 AM
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She refuses repeated requests regarding age and information. Selective disclosure. Her trickle down abuse claims are subjective. Hell, we all have suffered abuse in one form or another. I won't disclose my story because I don't use it as a scapegoat for anything. I am an adult.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 04:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/6mw8dx/im_so_happy_short_life_update/dk5hx6d
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 04:04 AM
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Do what you want and get better 'friends'.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 04:01 AM
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So, he is an asshole? LoL
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 04:00 AM
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She is lying. To herself and us. Nothing about her posts makes sense. Zero consistency. Look, a snowflake in July!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 03:59 AM
0

Ask the hamster.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 03:57 AM
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I have my life figured out, I'm rich, I'm happy, I come from a good family, I come from the upper class.. However, I come from poverty... The ... homelessness..poverty that I suffered taught me a great deal. So which is it? Are you rich from a good upper class family or from a homeless impoverish one?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 03:56 AM
1

Why won't you disclose your age or history?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 03:49 AM
1

INTJ?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 03:21 AM
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He kind of sounds like a jerk and doesnt care or want to know women or how to treat them. A true man will understand and respect female nature and not hold it against them, just handle it accordingly. My man is not all that expressive about feelings but he will let me know with no uncertainty how he feels, especially after a rough patch. He keeps my cycle on his calendar so he knows when I am just being a woman. By knowing female nature he can be both firm and understanding, and enjoy the positi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 12:36 AM
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He is a romantic beta. There isnt anything wrong with that, seems to work for you and sounds like a good thing. Are you still only a weekend girlfriend? (You mentioned only seeing one another on Saturdays.)
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 12:21 AM
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RPM do not settle. They expect, demand, or move on.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:40 AM
2

No.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:38 AM
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Red pill men rarely value things like wealth, social status, career, accomplishments, etc. They value looks, loyalty, kindness and feminity, cooking and homemaking, tolerability outside of sex, sometimes intelligence and other skills.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:36 AM
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"By the way just to clarify, the 8-9 woman also has wife material qualities, her status might just be higher (looks, finances, job position, social circle). But is she nice and non threatening and fun to be around? " If she is led by a red pill man than yes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:30 AM
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I was referring to the women she referenced. Given this sub, vetting a man to have red pill qualities is a given. Not all red pill men think 8-10's are relationship material. Conquests perhaps. The truth is, no woman can be red pill unless led by a red pill man. So if she is too strong and independant and emowered.by her looks, she becomes less attractive to men. Being a quality female does not alway mean being a 10.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:19 AM
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She is right. Its just hard to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:14 AM
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I agree. Makes the Gen X 'rebels' seem rational and middle road. Boomers lost hope when the economy tanked in 08 and millenials feel jaded and entitled. As someone who started at mcdonalds at 15, put herself through college, paid it off and has a career in tech making a living wage in an expensive part of the country, I do not feel bad for anyone. With no job security, pensions, healthcare, maternoty/paternity leave, etc...how is the traditional family model to survive in this country? Feminism …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:06 AM
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I dont even bother with 8,9,10s, i see it as a waste of time. if there happens to be one in a group situation or something then sure ill talk to her like i would anyone else out of common curtesy, but if she was single and i knew it i wouldnt bother trying to get her number for a date. Care to share why? Is it your own perception of worth, or not worth the flaky headache?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:58 AM
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If she is led by a red pill man, Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:55 AM
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This is great. I am all for.sharing recipes and pics here!
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:53 AM
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Standards = bad. Sad state. Women are praised for wanting the world in men, and men are shamed for expecting it in women. Unreal.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:47 AM
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Men are afraid of rejection. Fat, mousey, lonely, introverted, shy, etc women are easy marks. Watch any movie. A fact: men know that the lower on the scale the higher the chances of a faster, low energy lay, plate, or trawl (female orbiter). Same day lay with a 6 or 7 is much easier than a 9 or 10. Women will call anything a 'relationship' even if they have a 1 or 2x weekly interaction and few actual dates. Honestly, men aim for what they think they deserve. Occasionally they are taken by women …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:44 AM
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= recipe for resentment and failure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:37 AM
2

Make sure to use antibacterial soap like Defense after the Mudder! Have a blast!
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:23 AM
1

That is OK. Some days are harder than others. At least he has work. Do you think this is a phase of his career that will end at some point, or is he actively persuing these types of sexualized roles?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 01:07 AM
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Damn, you are on fire! Great reply.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 01:04 AM
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When you have a different opinion, based on fact or feeling, make sure to listen, not interrupt take a pause and phrase your response as a thoughtful question or statement with citations. The goal.is.to either contribute to or expand a conversation, not derail it, gaslight it, or come off as challenging. It takes practice but it works. It is great to hear your man say things like "Ah, you know I never thought of that..."
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 01:01 AM
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Do you normally get the 'birthday blues'? I swear I do, it may be missing family or that nothing aeems to be the way it should. He may be feeling like he couldnt reach YOU. Try a do over and make him a nice dinner, relax and wear something naughty and try to move on. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 11:53 PM
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Here is the parmesean encrusted chicken on an arugula balsamic salad I just made for dinner! http://imgur.com/a/cUzeI
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 11:05 PM
1

Thanks everyone! I am now considering wax for my legs and sugaring sensitive areas. This will be an adventure! I appreciate the tips!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:59 PM
1

Golden, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:57 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:56 PM
2

I know I come off as harsh sometimes, or blunt. I am working on it. Most people wont listen to harsh realities unless confronted with it. Coddling leads to hamstering. I am still recovering from being lied to my entire life and waking up. Luckily the whole journey has been a net positive regarding the red pill. I am not jaded, but I am also no SJW. I dont consider my marriage a failure, we got 17 years and a beautiful sweet child. But I know now why it didnt work. He was a bad husband and I was …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:52 PM
2

I have been there and its so good to have the worst behind you and a positive outlook. Happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:46 PM
2

Did you take any pics? Pasta is one thing I havent made yet. Very cool.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:45 PM
1

Never fails! Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:44 PM
2

When I tried for my second it took 3 years to catch...I was 35 and I miscarried at 12 weeks. It broke my heart. I am happy with my life but I often regret not being to provide a sibling for my daughter, being 1 of 4 myself. You never know what the future has in store. That saying about God laughing at our plans, y'know. shrug
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 09:40 PM
1

This is why it is important to cool the beef and mushroom mixture. Wrap it hot and your dough will get holes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 04:16 AM
1

I have questioned some trends as of late around here. I dont think she broke any rules. Honestly, true red pill statements are downvoted more than not. We can be supportive, but harsh truths are often a necessity. I have been called all kinds of names because of my age, with no respect to my experience or history. I have seen people flat out lie (especially to themselves) and be intellectually dishonest just for arguments sake. Good things can come out of questioning ourselves to be better.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 03:54 AM
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A tracker only tells you where he is IF he takes his phone. A root based keylogger will give you the fully story. Honestly, if a man is so sloppy and beta as to screw up multiple times, its just plain disrespectful. Imagine him picking up oral herpes and kissing your baby. If you keep him, get him screened for everything. Do it anyway. You can buy a test order online and do it at a local labcorp or quest and get results within a week. You should not have to babysit your man. You are being manipu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 03:49 AM
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You both lost a baby. It is traumatic and you are mourning. If I were you, break it off, your relationship will not survive abortion. Next get counseling and find a birth control method that works for you. Lastly, give yourself time, and lots of it before you date again. Avoid telling any man you are serious about, about your sexual past or procedure.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 03:40 AM
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My nails are brittle and thin. Between working on a computer, cooking and cleaning, I get with acrylic with gel polish. Lasts 2 weeks. Worth the money for me. https://m.imgur.com/a/2sidc
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 03:32 AM
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I find this to be terrible advice. Just talk to him. Don't behave like a petulant teenager.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 10:00 PM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.co.uk/2014/09/girl-game-encouraging-your-captain-to.html?m=1
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 09:58 PM
1

Awesome! What kind of photography do you enjoy?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 09:48 PM
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Cheers to your positive attitude, even though it wasn't the right fit. It takes a measure of bravery to put yourself out there.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 09:47 PM
2

Congrats! Hope you have a great time!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 09:46 PM
1

You are projecting that the expectations of men and women are equal. They are not. Agree to disagree. If a man who is the one for me has slept with 100 women but chooses ME, that is all that matters. A woman who sleeps with 100 men is unable to pair bond long term. A man that has only slept with 5 women is a desperate beta. If you are telling the truth, you are the 1% of 35+ yr old women who have only sucked and fucked a handful of cocks. At this point however, since you are not family material …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 06:21 PM
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You are trying to draw parallels between the sexes that do not exist. You will NEVER find an ALPHA male over 35 with an N-count under 10. And regardless of your sexual past, talking about it is a no-no. Men cannot be sluts. Women are. Your projection plays may be why you are single.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 05:23 PM
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Unmarried, 36, n-count of 5 makes me laugh. We are not that gullible. Maybe you had 5 LTRs. I am 40 and only had one...my 15+yr marriage. That does not mean my n-count is 1. This is a place to be brutally honest with yourself, not snowflake. No man will ever believe it is 5. My advice is to never talk about your sexual past. You are a grown woman post wall and advanced maternal age. If a man is interested in you, its not for your "virginal" history.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:39 PM
2

Finally, someone mature enough to understand.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:33 PM
2

Ok...why is this downvoted? This sub has gone to pieces. We are RED PILL. Not feminists. Every time I mention red pill lifestyle in action, I get downvoted. I must be in the wrong place.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:06 PM
1

True lol.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 11:45 AM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:10 AM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 01:42 AM
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Sweet! Lmk how it turns out!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 01:32 AM
2

I will concede I missed that context. We are all adults so I figured it was a given in this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:41 AM
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You cannot. A man is a leader or he is not. You can point him the direction of sites like illimitable man or rollo tomassi...buy him the rational male book. But it often takes hard times for men to wake up.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:39 AM
0

Haha yep. No spellcheck on this keyboard as its a logger. Yes my man monitors my phone activity.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:34 AM
2

Physical dicipline or correction is not necessarily abusive. It makes a statement of dominance and fortitude. Abusive men are beta men, they lose control. Measured actions to correct out of pocket behavior lend respect and hard to forget/repeat. I prefer a measured somewhat immediate response than built up resentment or outbursts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:31 AM
1

He may need to be doing penis exercises and health options. From the aquapump to kegels, there is lots of good advice for men out there. Zoloft actually increased my sex drive. Depo is not a great option. It can shut down your hormonal cycle completely. A low dose pill can be just as effective but not as convenient. If you are married natural family planning done correctly can work. Beyond that - new outfits (discountstripper.com has.affordable stuff) , enable him to take charge, and queue music…
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 10:59 PM
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Pot roast in a crock pot is a great option and hard to mess up. I have a recipe I wrote online if it's not too late.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 10:49 PM
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I got my 9yr old a hamster this week. She named it Snowflake. I had to cover my ironic giggles. You can't make this up. OMG lol
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 10:46 PM
1

What is your favorite?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 10:43 PM
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Men want you to be understanding. Men and women are not the same. He had a physical need. You are the whole package he wants. He cannot have you. Not habitual, but it may happen in LDRs. His is out of line telling you about it. Make it clear he needs to show you results of an std test before you get together again and that you find it disrespectful. If you love him, plan a future together or move on. Long term, LDRs are a mess waiting to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 10:41 PM
1

And...
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 10:18 PM
1

"Good luck respecting a man who is afraid to put you in your place. " This is what I said. You took it to abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 08:28 PM
1

Cool. I dont have a formal recipe, I just go from my head, taste, and experience :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 07:51 PM
1

Many prefer this. Its a good option, just not for my palette.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 07:50 PM
1

This is implying that the ONLY way for a man to put a woman in her place is to literally hit her. There are SO many ways in which this can be accomplished where a woman doesn't need to resign herself to being hit. The definition of "virtue signaling" does not match up at all with anything I said. This is conjecture. Not once did I imply abuse, your assumption or interpretaion is exactly virtue signaling. You don't actually think I would condone tolerating being beaten up. Careful jumping to conc…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 07:48 PM
1

When did I say striking or uncontrolled behavior or abuse? Stop virtue signaling.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 05:17 PM
1

You were in an uncommitted relationship? That is dating. Not a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 04:52 PM
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Feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 04:11 PM
2

Huh?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 04:10 PM
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LOL Good luck respecting a man who is afraid to put you in your place.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 04:04 PM
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Smack on the ass or formal spanking. I am sure he would he would put hands on me if I got truly disrespectful.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:59 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:37 PM
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Twoxchromosomes will virtue signal you into feeling better about bad decisions. "I'm seriously done with being used and played and dumped by guys, I wanna be alpha. My stats: I'm not ugly, not fat, not stupid, just too nice, or thats what everyone says Shit I had to endure: molestation, dumping through texts, bullying, used for sex etc etc" = jaded This sub is about owning your flaws and correcting the consequences. Avoiding them in the future. Trying to be an alpha woman goes against RPW. It do…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:34 PM
1

Men love women who make themselves available and honest in their interest.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:28 PM
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Clean out closets and make space for my man to move in on the 29th.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:19 PM
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Men want their women to be bitchy to other men who talk to them beyond necessity - throwing protective guard. This includes work, restaurants, any time. Always represent yourself as a taken woman. Submissiveness or defference is up to the couple. I decide what to make for dinner, he decides where we go out to eat. If I get bitchy or out of pocket, I can expect a reprimand, smack or spank. My tone and context is always measured with him. He allows me to be a woman, but not a bitch or allow bad be…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:07 PM
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Bad advice. Be kind. Don't be a slut. Learn the values of men you are willing to submit to.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:00 PM
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Welcome to life. We all have been through that and more and not jaded. Alpha women are feminists. Perhaps you need to go to r/twoxchromosomes
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 01:54 PM
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35 is "advanced maternal age" and your risk for Trisomy 13 (Downs) goes up. Just remember, it can take awhile to get pregnant plus you will have the better part of a year once you are. Please don't wait too long, especially if you may want more than one child. My advice - throw caution to the wind and have fun NOW.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 11:49 AM
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I recommend http://www.returnofkings.com/101527/11-tips-for-raising-your-daughter-on-the-red-pill and http://www.returnofkings.com/115168/6-more-tips-on-raising-your-daughters-on-the-red-pill
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 11:20 AM
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It kinda would be fun to see what we all look like.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 11:08 AM
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It is possible to have children and not let yourself go. Most of my friends are in the best shape of their lives post children and hitting the 'wall' at 40. Stuff your face all day and get fat, doesnt require childbearing. Most moms I know barely have time to eat and end up eating the kids leftovers. Healthy kids, healthy lifestyle, healthy you. Cocoa butter can help you avoid strech marks on breasts and abdomen. Mineral oil applied during delivery can help avoid getting cut down there - do not …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 11:00 AM
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Word of advice, the longer ypu wait.the tougher it is on you physically. I got married at 27 and had our daughter at 31, I wish i had her before 30. I had a.late miscarriage a few years later and was left with no opportunity for more children. Keep your options open.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 10:55 AM
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Honestly, watch Mad Men. Those women stay cool and feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 11:16 PM
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I never pick out my outfits when we go out. I ask him what he would like me to wear. This is something he likes. I never insist on plans. I suggest, he decides. I never have a confrontation. If there is a problem I tell him and he handles it. This goes for a problem of any size, from sending back food to finding me an attorney to handle a problem. I never fail to find ways to suprise him. From a special meal, to a thoughtful gift, to noticing he needs a new toothbrush. Anticipating his needs is …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 11:01 PM
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Date nights and allowing one another time to yourselves - maybe for him poker night with the boys, for you a mani pedi or gym time. Do something together on the regular - bowling league, cooking classes, something beyond dinner and a movie. Never cut your dates short and let.him plan them or take turns. Dress up for these dates. Never let the care of the child become ones responsibility, rather maintain a relistic shared mindset. Resist resentment in all forms. have a monthly sit down and talk a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 10:49 PM
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I can understand that. Pick a handle and stay awhile. We all have insecurities, no need for throwaway accounts.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 12:14 AM
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If Ms. Southern's notch count is below 5, I will eat my hat. The truth is- a true red pill woman is only led by a red pill man and not lecturing campus', riding the coat tails of red pill men, or making a name for herself online preaching "red pill women truth". We are posting in a place where men do not belong, therefore not attention whoring but sharing opinion and experience. Get lost.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 09:29 PM
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You're not correcting my assumptions because my assumptions are correct. We both know this. If I'm wrong, prove it. Maybe then we can have an honest conversation about what the real problem is (spoiler alert: its not flaky men).
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 12:01 AM
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She is single and an unmarried "consevative" attention whore. Grain of salt my dear. This video was more for men than women.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 10:14 PM
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"Another assumption" is your way of avoiding, yet, more details that puts the responsibility on you. You say I'm assuming things but you cant tell me why, nor will you correct my assumptions. Plus, you started a post about flaky men but you were the one who flaked for silly reasons. Again, you need to get serious about dating, otherwise men won't take you seriously. You seem to be the kind of woman who has the last word in every conversation (which, by the way, buys you no favors with attractive…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 10:05 PM
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You're not looking for the truth. You're looking for sympathy under the guise of asking for advice. Good luck to you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 09:55 PM
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If you knew he was there with another girl and that other girl was offended by him talking to you, why did you give him your number? You clearly knew the other girl was probably his girlfriend but you still gave up the digits...likely because he was good looking. You thought about it, and realized you shouldn't have given him your number in the first place and used a silly excuse to 'dismiss' him. So are you saying that had he not misspelled your name you'd have gone on a date with him knowing h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 09:28 PM
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Message me and give me the details. I really think I can help you out.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 06:21 PM
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Flaking on a guy for misspelling your name and not finalizing plans for a date until the day before are far from legit. Those 'infractions' aren't deal breakers. You're leaving something(s) out. Females today get off on rejecting guys for silly reasons because it validates our sexual attractiveness and our perceived selectiveness. Telling people about said rejections(s) further perpetuates your need for attention in this regard. When you're serious about dating, guys will be serious too. Misspel…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 05:58 PM
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Well said.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 05:47 PM
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Thanks! I am putting shelving and giving him half my closet. Clearing some space for his personal items/knick knacks is a good idea. He likes to track his workouts on a whiteboard so i may pick one up too. I have a full kitchen so he doesnt need much here. He is a minimalist like me. We are going to buy a desk setup together for our home office space once he gets settled in.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 09:48 PM
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The moment a man wilfully ghosts you mean. He is perfectly able to pick up the phone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 05:30 PM
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My man loves that I am still an honest sweetheart, not jaded by the world, that I make silly jokes and giggle, that I crush on him like a teenager, finding new ways to make him happy with little things. These are feminine qualities, not just childlike, but innocent and fun. It shows you are relaxed in his company. And that alone gives your man confidence and pleasure.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:21 AM
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Girl should buy drinks, men the food.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:16 AM
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Cooking, taking care and anticipating hIs needs. Being respectful, thoughtful and a good companion. Arm candy, representing him well. Care, compassion, a kind ear, a clean home, and on demand sex.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:13 AM
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Oh, and don't use Tinder or crappy dating "hook up" apps.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:09 AM
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Vette harder before agreeing to any sort of date. Phone calls, not texts, video chats for virtual dates. Get them invested in you and they will have more preselection confidence. The second they ask you for a nude or to show anything inappropriate, ghost. This gives you time to seek out intentions and measure compatibility. Plus conversation won't be akward when you do finally go out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:09 AM
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My boyfriend of 1.5 years is moving in with me in less than a month. I have only ever lived with my now ex-husband of 17 years. We divorced 3 years ago. These men are lightyears apart in personality and my man is red pill to the core. That said, we are both 40 and not looking to start a family so my relationship is atypical for rpw. I am his first commited relationship in 6 years. That stated, any advice to make him feel at home here, that this place is his with no reminders of my past? (Besides…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:02 AM
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Tomato, lightly salted, with fresh mozzarella slices, basil and balsalmic glaze is a go to snack, love it! I have a chicken dish take on it called chicken mahrgarita. I will post it next time I make it if you all like recipe sharing. Very good! http://imgur.com/a/aP20L I have challenged myself to make 6 different meals a week for August and Sept for my man. I can post his favorites of each week maybe.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 07:42 AM
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Preheat oven to 400. Half 6-8 cherry tomatoes. Cut (thawed) puff pastry sheet into 4in squares. Spray muffin pan, 4 with cooking spray. Line the 4 cups with pastry leaving some over the edges. Put in freezer. Blister (sautee) the halved cherry tomatoes in olive oil and salt, set aside 2-3 mins. Mix 2 eggs or 1/4c egg whites and some heavy whipping cream or milk. Grab muffin pan, put shredded mozz in the bottom, about a tablespoon. Then 3-4 cherry tomato halves, then fill with egg mixture. Season…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 06:42 PM
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Lol! I do dislike cleaning, however guests are welcome in our home - no slavery required.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 04:40 PM
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What happens when you try to reach him? Have you emailed or mailed him a letter?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 04:06 PM
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If I didnt hear from my SO in THREE weeks (and he is laid up) I would consider it over :(. There is nothing OK about that. I am sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 01:25 PM
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• Posessive and fiercely protective • Owns his responsibilities, actions and decisions • Takes care of himself physically and financially and demands you do as well (with guidance, motivation, accountability) • Has goals, friends, and hobbies outside of you • Supports your feminine endeavors • Accounts for your time and actions at all times, online.and off • Easily commands respect • Is unafraid to stand up for you • Communicates with your family and close friends when necessary - your contacts …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 12:22 AM
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Be kind, considerate, positive and respectful. Offer to help where possible (clear the table or help set it), but enjoy being a guest. Some of the best ways to get to know a mom is in the kitchen. Dress conservatively.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 12:18 AM
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Meal plan. Get food preferences and communicate your meal ideas ahead of time. Let your mom and siblings cook a meal so they feel like they are contributing. Get $ store toys for the kids and offer options for activities, movies, etc. Let mom help! Make them a part of your life and give up some control. Everything will not be "perfect". Clean but don't over stress about it. Depending on the age of the kids, provide a place they can chill, play or nap away from adults. Don't only get food and off…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 12:13 AM
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Why.not encourage him to look for more rewarding work? He is not stuck there. It is alot easier to find a new job when you already have one.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 10:33 PM
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Community college and live at home as long as you can. You can be educated and avoid the cock carousel.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 01:38 AM
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For real? Lol, why? Either way men triple that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 01:35 AM
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"A goal without a plan is a wish" - This. Women think they deserve a good man, and happiness, without being either good or happy themselves. Looking good does not equate being a good woman. Obese women are not good to themselves. Men and women are not measured equally-deal with it. Be the best, most pleasant, feminine, productive you. You do not have to TRY to attract a high quality man. They will know you when they see you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 01:33 AM
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If you want a man, throw yourself at him. Make it no doubt. Do nice things for him. Offer to cook for him. Make it in person or via phone calL. Do not stalk his social media. Make an effort to show your interest.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 03:12 AM
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I spent my early 30's child rearing. It didnt really hit me until 38. I have my tubes tied so I am chalking it up to finally being off birth control and not worried. IMO 40 is too old to have (more) children and my BF doesnt want any.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 03:08 AM
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The rule of thumb here, is men only hang out with women, they want to fuck, are fucking, or have fucked. He is playing the long game with no strings attached. This would be a dealbreaker for my man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 11:59 PM
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I posted that for someone who is a teenager.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 03:12 AM
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People move, they grow apart, they are in different stages of life and work and in general it is easier to make friends online than in person. Especially with support groups such as those for newlyweds and mothers. Mostly, it is a time thing. Many women focus kids and family (and or work) so much they forget to nurture their relationships and friendships beyone home/office.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 01:54 AM
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Do you have anxiety in general?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 01:51 AM
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It depends on the type of guy. If he knows you are not a virgin, you can explain the hurt and regret you feel after it not working out or whatever, and why you want you wait. Tell him you understand his urgency and the biology, but you value both yourself and him and want to be sure it is a worthwhile investment. Be honest, you do not want to be a person who sleeps around and these are your guidelines and if he isnt willing to wait, you understand, but you will not tolerate pressure or judgement…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 05:46 PM
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6 months until oral, one year until sex for anyone under 21.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 04:00 PM
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I am 11 and 12 years older than my brothers and it is the best sibling relationships I could imagine. They are amazing and I learn so much from them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 12:52 AM
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I will talk to my man and he will pm you some resouces from my account. I do not pm men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:43 PM
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As harsh as this is, I tend to agree. My man would never do something without a plan. If he was fired or let go, he would be up front and work on the next step. I would be supportive. Something isnt right here and your instincts created this post. It is time to have a talk. Create a plan for future happiness together. If he will not, it is time to start working and create an exit plan or just walk. No ultimatums. Action.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:41 PM
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There are a lot of rpm relationship advice and podcasts out there.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:27 PM
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BTDT...And it is possible and it can work.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:13 PM
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It is a requirement. If he is not posessive, he doesn't care anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:11 PM
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I have experience with is There are 2 types. Those who deny and self medicate. They blame. And those who recognize and get help and are better for it. They own it. The former is a red flag. The latter is acceptable. No one is perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:09 PM
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I also want to say that while the age gap is big now, as you grow older it becomes less important. One day you will need him, and he won't forget your absences.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:06 PM
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Family comes first. It is.one week out of your life. Take some study material with you and find ways to maximize down time. You will not regret it. You only have 1 family. Be a part of it while you can.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:05 PM
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My man rarely uses his phone when around me, and keeps it on silent. He has all my passwords and is welcomed to monitor my online activities (yes, key loggers on all devices). I do not expect him to do the same. With men, what they do and say are the key indicators of commitiment. With women, men watch what they do, not what they say. You cannot ask him for his password. You can tell him that it makes you feel X when he does Y. That it causes Z feelings. That will open dialogue. Then see what he…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 08:01 PM
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How long did he spend getting to know her online/phone vs. In person dating? Is the sum 2-3 months? How old is the woman he is dating?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 07:51 PM
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Day dates and fun outings for the 4th date. Great suggestions above as well.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 05:17 PM
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This. Long term, betas do not hold up.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 12:18 AM
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If only it was that. I am sorry OP. I would tell your SO about your habits so you do not run into this issue. My thoughts are he would rather you take, send, delete to remove all doubt, but it is a personal decision.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 12:16 AM
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I feel I have been cordial in handling the nasty insults thrown at me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:53 PM
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Haha. You're clearly rattled. The truth hurts hun. It's impossible for women to respect men who respect slutty behavior (i.e. nudes, fucking on the first date etc)
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:44 PM
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Now she inserts "unsolicited".
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:43 PM
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No matter what generation you're in men don't respect women who exhibit slutty behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:43 PM
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you: "We DONT agree bc I don't think a woman is automatically a slut just for sending a nude photo to a random guy. "
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:41 PM
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HVM don't share nudes because of a fight hun. Or maybe that's a generational thing lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:40 PM
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You might not think so, but HE does.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:35 PM
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"Sending nudes to men you are not in a relationship with is a slut tell. No matter their value, yours, or how many times he asks. If he gives you an ultimatem, walk. "
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:34 PM
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And that's where we part ways. Sending nudes to random men is slutty behavior. And you know it. If you want a guy to take you seriously you avoid acting like a slut.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:34 PM
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Haha and now the insults. Cute.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:33 PM
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I assumed you understood that I was talking about sending nudes to random men. Sending nudes to your SO isn't slutty.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:27 PM
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Again, I don't understand the problem. We agree to agree. If you are in a committed relationship you trust his judgement and do what he asks. I never said a word about anyones "generation". I just turned 40 for crying out loud, and an IT professional. I am on the ups, I am not an old lady with a flip phone. I am not passing judgement, I do it with my SO in my own life at his request, on demand all the time. Believe it or not, you don't get fat and sexless at 40.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:26 PM
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If you're telling the truth I stand corrected. But Sending nudes to men who aren't your husband or bf is a slut tell and you know it. Everybody does.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:26 PM
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I already have. Sending nudes to men other than your husband or bf is slutty behavior. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:25 PM
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All of that is a bunch of hamstering hun. Sending nudes to your bf or husband is fine. Sending nudes to men who are neither is slutty behavior. The word slut is what it is. It's a name for women who sleep with a lot of men and that's the only sexual identity it relates to. Sending nudes isnt 'ritualistic' or 'intimate' outside of a relationship. It's a guy trying to gauge how easy you are and you know it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:23 PM
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Didn't think so....if you're going to disagree or make assertions like 'that's not red pill lll' tell me why it's not or give a better solution. otherwise, keep empty opinions to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:03 PM
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As far as the guys in your generation go, they're as wary of slutty behavior (i.e. nudes) as any man. it's in their instincts regardless of age. just because they don't say it out loud doesn't mean they aren't putting you in the plate category. don't believe me? send a guy you really like a bunch of nudes and see how he treats you from then on. He'll sleep with you but he won't consider you for an ltr and if he does you'll know he's not for you because deep down you know sending nudes is slutty …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:02 PM
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You are an outdated alien trying to tell young women dealing with young sexually driven men that "oh HV men won't want that..." and it's bullshit. You CONTINUE to pretend that "men that get sex won't want pics or nudes or sexting" and it's NOT TRUE. It's as stupid as saying "well millionaires don't want more money." I never said that and you are out of line. Again. I said its a slut tell. I said not with men you are not in a relationship with.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:00 PM
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What second relationship failure are you referencing? 40-17= 23.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:57 PM
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That's what mirrors are for and a lame excuse. He cannot be trusted.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:47 PM
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So what's your red pill solution?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:34 PM
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I agree with that point. Sans insults. And my marriage failed because of his addiction problem and my need to protect my daughter. Sometimes things out of your control go south. I went through hell and swore not to make the same mistakes. I acknowleged my faults and mistakes, took a year to myself to heal, and found my man by accident in my research about the red pill. I have been groomed. I understand what men want and how they judge women even when they ask them to do something out of pocket. …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:31 PM
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My approach is red pill. That is why we are here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:23 PM
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Wait, you're telling me that a HVM will sit home and sext or ask for nudes when he has the ability to just come over and "Netflix and chill". If so that guy is a simp. Sending nudes to men you are not in a relationship with is a slut tell. No matter their value, yours, or how many times he asks. If he gives you an ultimatem, walk.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:50 PM
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I was married for over 15 years, relationship for 17. Trust me, I know what doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:44 PM
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I do what my man tells me to do.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:42 PM
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I said its ok if you are in a long distance relationship, which means you have already kissed, or "boned". Not sure why you do not understand. As for your intended insult, I have thick skin, and you showed some true colors.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:36 AM
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Sending nudes or sexting (with a man you are not in a relationship with) is a slut tell. If you do it for him he will wonder how many others. Edit: Clarity. I failed to assume context (we know better) since this is RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:32 AM
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A HVM will go get the pussy or have it come to him, not talk or sext about it. Hence the LDR reference of pics and vids. The day a "HVM" texts or says on the phone to me "I wanna eat your pussy" is the day I drop him like a rock. And lol @ puritanical. If you are going to hold the line, do it. You can't show him the goods or talk the talk and then in person be someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:27 AM
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He is a.branch swinger which a female/beta trait. Honestly, its up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:14 AM
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No high value man would.consent to phone sex. Sensual pics and videos sure, if its long distance. No need to be raunchy
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 03:05 AM
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Posessive and fiercely protective Owns his responsibilities, actions and decisions Takes care of himself physically and financially and demands you do as well (with guidance, motivation, accountability) Has goals, friends, and hobbies outside of you Supports your feminine endeavors Accounts for your time and actions at all times, online.and off Easily commands respect Is unafraid to stand up for you Communicates with your family and close friends when necessary - your contacts are his Reinforces…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:58 AM
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That is exactly what you inferred. Working mom = not a real parent. There is more than one right way to be a real parent.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:42 AM
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I have a tendency to get myself into situations without realizing it. He knows men are opportinists - he knows game well. He will advise me to go to a certain quick stop rather than the local "meat market" grocery store, for example. And i provide receipts with time stamps for proof. He has been burned by women to many times. He is looking out for OUR best interest and hasnt steered me wrong. And yes, I have a gps tracker on my phone so he knows where I am at all times and has access to all onli…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 04:48 PM
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Addiction.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 12:05 AM
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I have to ask to stop at a convenience store. No judgement here.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 11:48 PM
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Every marriage is successful...until its not. HVM arent attracted to your strength or grace under fire. He wants you to represent him well, sure, but this is a feminine quality. Perhaps i am of a much different generation and up bringing, but being "past the wall" has me more feminine and lovely than ever, not bitter and jaded. Now to go eat the chicken cordon bleu I just made :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 11:41 PM
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Uncalled for. I had to work. I used in home daycare. She was raised in 2 loving homes, day and night. My girl is perfectly well adjusted, going into 4th grade next year. She got excellent marks on her final report card and has no behavioral or emotional issues. You can work and still be an excellent mother. Your desires may also change post baby.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 11:55 PM
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Women have more romantic options than men...both temporary and long term.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 03:32 AM
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I have improved my SMV signifigantly over the past 2 years, under the guidance of a RP male I sought advice from. You have control over much more than you think you do. I am the typical toxic red flag woman... divorced, have a kid, past the wall, etc... However, my good outweighs the bad so much that I locked in interest and then an LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 08:26 PM
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Congrats on your pregnancy, I wish you health and happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 07:27 PM
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I would just fade out of her life. Do not call, be slow to respond, turn down invitations. If you are on social media then take a break for a bit. Its funny how weeding the laxidadical "friends" who only use SM to interact will improve your life, time, and mood. I am not on FB or IG and have an annonymous twitter account to chat with my man, follow his posts, and read news and feminine interests. I dont follow anyone without his prior approval. He also disallows me to spend time with toxic or sl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 05:27 PM
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I agree with this. It is healthy to give him space, blow off steam, and trust he wont make decisions that will put his job and familial well being at risk. Especially with a baby on the way.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 05:24 PM
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How tall are you OP?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 01:54 AM
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So you are basically saying "I am making bad choices but its not my fault, its social pressure". No one really cares what you choose to eat. It's banter.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 01:55 AM
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After 17 years I divorced an addict who refused to get help. When he almost died he blamed me. I asked for a divorce (he filed) and walked away with nothing but my job and 50/50 custody. It took losing me for him tonget help so he didnt lose his kid too. I walked with no furniture, no electronics, no retirement, no home equity. All the debt. No support, no alimony. I didn't divorce rape him. 2 years later and he is still trying to ruin my life to the point I have to use legal action to get him t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 01:10 AM
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Stay strong and give them witty comebacks. You can drink a vodka tonic or vodka diet coke that is under 100 calories if you want to partake. Either find witty ways to blow off the comments or find new friends that suppoelrt you. The "social pressure" is just other people trying to justify their own poor choices. Lead by example and don't let others make you feel ostracized by taking care of yourself. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:35 AM
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300 calories.of healthy fat and vitamins. I couldnt eat more than one anyway. Food is all about choices. When you dine out, follow a ketogenic diet. You can eat, be full, and not get fat. Don't drink calories or sugar.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:26 AM
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Romance by Ralph Lauren
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:12 AM
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Find another job. And don't stop looking until you find it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:11 AM
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It's what you eat, not how much. If he comments call yourself a 'grazer' or that you don't eat much (a femine quality). Choose healthy options and dig in.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:09 AM
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It is possible. My man waited seven. We are far from virgins, and our commitiment has only grown. A solid foundation to build a life together is more than just waiting to have sex.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:07 AM
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The red pill heavy hitters cover this topic extensively. Google for articles outside of reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:02 AM
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Sex. It is not complicated.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 10:07 PM
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These are reasons.why WOMEN step out in marriage/LTR. Not men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 04:02 AM
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Prior to kindergarten, my girl went to the same in-home caregiver, a wonderful woman and now a dear friend. She was raised in a loving home with kids her own age, a good change from only child home life. It was a perfect arrangement. There are options to typical "daycare".
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:55 PM
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Of course its possible. Finding good care providers and "building your village" is key. It is not easy, but neither is being a SAHM. In this economy surviving on 1 income with kids is the exception, not the rule.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:52 PM
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You are never ready to have kids until you see the positive test. Then the whole world changes. Don't take chances until you are married. I had my girl at 31 (I was married.for 5 years at the time. At 40 I know I am done and had my tubes tied last year. Man is it great to not have to worry or be on some hormonal chemical.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:49 PM
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No. Aim higher.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:45 PM
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Have feminine qualities beyond your looks and the world is your oyster. What good is being a 10 if you have a potty mouth and cannot cook? If you cannot have a solid conversation and a defferent nature? Don't get stuck in semantics. It is a waste of time and an esteem killer.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:43 PM
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I stay quiet. Respectfully respond when spoken to, and let it pass. I will do sweet little things and not be naggy and let him breathe. I don't let my feelings get in the way of moving past an outburst. Talking it out is for a calmer time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 11:19 PM
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How do RPW represent the concepts of remarriage, or choosing a life partner after child rearing is done?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 02:45 AM
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It sounds like he may have an issue with alcohol as a coping mechanism for depression and/or stress. The gaslighting sounds familiar to me. I would recommend treatment, counseling, medication or all 3.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 10:55 AM
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How do RPW represent the concepts of remarriage or choosing a life partner after child rearing is done with?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 03:40 PM
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I wanted to say, I am sorry for the circumstance. Do not say 'I do' if you can see an end in the future. Divorce is much more expensive than marriage and 10x's as hard and gutwrenching. Maybe ask for more time?
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 11:59 PM
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We should collaborate and give this sub some meals!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 06:53 PM
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I appreciate that, but it was.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:50 PM
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I shave before I see him or once a week. I am fairly hairless, but my pubes are his preference (bald). Everything else is gone. Pits, legs, asshole, I shave And being over 40 I use a hair removal lotion for any peach fuzz facial hair. I pluck my eyebrows once a month. I tan twice a week for the lines my man likes. For me it is a non issue. My man simply expects me to be reasonably presentable.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 01:16 PM
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Ok, here goes. Men who treat you like shit arent alpha. There has to be a balance, just as he would weigh it, more pros than cons. It sounds like the first guy plated you and the second was not ready to man up to commit. Let me state this very clearly: A true alpha male will never lead you on to thinking your relationship is more than what it is. He will not manipulate you to gain desire. He knows it is there or not, and if not, there is another chick in line who has it. He MIGHT manipulate you …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 12:47 PM
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I wish I knew. It was an unpopular opinion so maybe they thought I was trolling. I wasn't. I was hoping to have my mind changed. I did not get that opportunity. Not a big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 12:24 PM
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I disagree that those are.normal questions to ask ones self before a wedding. Maybe it is, but in my experience and those I know, you dont get near the dugout or step up to the plate.unless you know you can swing or knock it outta the park. I think her reservations are a sign that its not a good fit, as you also felt and acted upon. Marriage is not an obligation, its a commitment. I do think you and I are on the same page. As usual haha :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 12:15 PM
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I disagree. Marriage doesn't happen overnight in 99% cases. Decisions are made for different reasons. Convenience, family, logistics, money... but marriages of passion and complementing personalities tend to be more rewarding. Never commit due to social pressure or fear of missing out or some timetable.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 12:03 AM
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Either you desire him or you do not. I think if you marry him it will end up with cheating or resentment, both on your part. If he read this thread, would HE marry YOU? With my man, he reads everything I do or say online. It is all above board. Love is not magic. Desire and passion can't be faked or negotiated. Love can grow with consistency, but if he does not make you motivated to please and feel fulfilled, its not going to work. I am sorry, I did this for 15 years and when you do throw in the…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:58 PM
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Some peoole enjoy dissenting opinions to challenge their own point of view. Not everyone wants affirmations. Sometimes you are too close to the subject to see it for what it actually is.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:48 PM
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What if you submit a post and it is deleted without explaination? Even after you attend to replies?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 11:45 PM
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I love 'baby girl'.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 02:40 AM
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The less I know and he comes home to me clean day/night and does not disrespect me, fine. I don't want it in my face. It hurts. The less I know or am aware, the better. If he is going to do it, I do not want to know. Yes, ignorance is bliss. I have come to this through life experience. Imagine having a man 'blame' you that he hasn't has sex with anyone other than you in 20 years. Yeah... I will take the former sting. Your commitment makes you unhappy and I am not good enough? Pick your poison, l…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 02:06 AM
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The "wall" is just an expression of being past your peak SMV. It is when most women realize they cant rest on their looks/laurels and have to have qualities of value to be valuable. This is in the eye of the beholder, gay or straight. Some people want the youngest, hottest, freshesh they can reap. Others want someone to connect with, share house and home and tackle life with. You cant really apply RP to gay relationships as they are gender role dependant, but you can define those roles according…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 10:33 PM
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I called it last thread about her.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 09:34 PM
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I do not do social media. Any private group on a non mainstream format would be cool. How about Slack? (.com)
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 01:14 AM
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I want to note I have done all of the above plus the breadwinner most years, always at least equal. My ex never wanted to 'take care' of a family, he just wanted to work and drink and occasionally mow.the lawn on a rider. When one mate shoulders the bulk of stress and responsibility, from taxes to packing lunches and meetings at work, resentment breeds. At home equal distribution based on roles and being reliable is important. I cant do my job well if he isnt doing his and i have to do that too.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 01:04 AM
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Household budgeting, couponing, maximizing savings, meal planning and storing foods to stretch the dollar. Child care, in or out of the home, instincts and detexting red flags, oversight of child health and organizing caregivers. Often working full.time and contibuting equally if not more to the bottom line. Never running out of anything, anticipating needs before the need arises. Hosting social events, organizing, staying calm and resourceful when things go haywire. Many women go beyond cleanin…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:58 AM
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It's not as bad as you would think. But I guess it depends on the man.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 05:14 PM
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Congrats on your wedding!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 11:33 PM
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I am 40. Met my ex at work/online in 1999. We were the same age. Moved in together 6 months in. Married in 2003, I was 28. 1 baby at 31. Divorced at 39, unofficially the marriage had been over for 2 years (he had a addiction problem). We lived in Florida. My life is completely different now, I am with a man who is also my age but who is unlike anyone I've ever met. He brings out my best, and I love him for his consistency and reliance.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:21 PM
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You are obviously the kind of chick that has to have the last word, and I will give it to you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:26 AM
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Omg you are so right! I have no idea what I am doing and completely controlled by a man I have no reason to respect and love! Enough with the concern trolling. I am not 20 and I know exactly what I am doing. It works for me/us and the basis is rooted in life experience. I did not expect to be shamed for honoring my man's will here. 2xchromes sure.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 11:55 PM
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Clearly you're envious of women who belong to strong men who know what is best for their women. It's okay though....your secret's safe with me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 11:05 PM
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He sees a future with you. If he asks you about future plans, moving in, spends more nights with you than not, includes you in his decisions/life choices, its going in a long term direction.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 11:04 PM
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He is territorial. He would rather I not be trolling for male attention when we are not together. I have no problem dressing more casual if he wants me to. I can look as hot as I want when we go out together. There is no reason to be showing cleavage and leg above the knee at work, and I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 09:21 PM
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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 04:12 AM
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Haha, agree to disagree. No harm no foul. Have a great weekend and Mothers Day if applicable.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:12 AM
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Thank you for your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:06 AM
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Thanks, troll.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:55 AM
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If alternative points of view annoy you, I pity you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:54 AM
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Good post. Hate the analogy but I agree with the point. Perhaps it is semantics. But personally, if I got on a boat and the first mate was a woman, I would lose respect for the captain. I posted about this but I guess.it was removed as unpopular opinions here are.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:23 AM
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Have you ever seen Below Deck? The head Steward manages the entire ship. Captain commands and steers.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:16 AM
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I disagree. My point is that we have our roles and 'first mate' is not the proper analogy. My man does not need my opinion on how to manage our investments, do yard work, or manage his career goals (per a comment). He wants me to optimize our household budget, take care of daily needs, make him look good, plant flower beds to accentuate his work, make contributions to our family that improve upon the quality of life he provides. You all have missed my point completely, and I expected as much. Go…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:14 AM
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I have read your posts for a long while.now and I really like you. You are mature beyond your years and have a wonderful future ahead for you and your family. I mean that from the heart.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:02 AM
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I would shoot her a message, this happened with my cousins invite and I am family so it was a snafu.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:59 AM
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Great! I was with my ex for 4 years before we got married. People do change, so I am encouraging and can only relate from.a point of caution as hindsight is 20/20. Sounds like you both work well together and a learning curve is temporary. Lucky lady! Keep on.the great work and examples for us.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:57 AM
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I did this approach for the first 7 years of my daughters life. It took some hard realizations to see that it wasn't that he couldn't do it, he didn't want to and knew I'd take care of it all eventually. We both worked full time. (I was married for 15+ years). My point is, is that if things don't improve, don't shove it under the rug just to keep the peace. That will result in resentment. Continue to give him responsibility and angle situations where he suffers if protocol isn't followed. Let hi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:38 AM
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Yes and I do. He often picks what I wear and if I am going to work.or a place without him, it has to be approved. My job is to create a wardrobe both of us love. Also from your examples, the latter is most attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:15 AM
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The light at the end of the tunnel is, this is temporary and you will regain "freedoms" as they get older so don't lose yourself. Enjoy every phase, its once in a lifetime.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:05 AM
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It is opinion. The whole "first mate" dynamic is a false empowerment of women who pretend to supplicate to their men without actually doing so. It undermines their men.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 03:59 AM
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Right. It is not so complicated. Men externalize and women internalize. Objectification is simplification. Women want to be desired, men want to be appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 03:50 AM
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Conclusion agreed. The path there a bit muddied.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 02:36 AM
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Thank you. He is exactly what I need and was looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:36 AM
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TBI is rough. I hope the claims help both the kids and him get the support they need.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:30 AM
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I feel ya. The older you get the harder it is to make friends.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 01:21 AM
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I do not think you should ignore your own needs. Isolate them from your family sure. Your ex and is care has nothing to do with your needs. Comparmentalize. Find a solution for his care, implore the armys help or put him.in a home to heal. The kids can visit but he wont heal until he HAS to. If you choose to date make it so the kids.do not notice. Set a pattern. Every X night you have alone time and hire a sitter..so when you do have a date, they dont have to knOw. Go out with a friend or a movi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 01:19 AM
1

What about her ex?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 01:13 AM
1

What services can veterans affairs offer?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 01:12 AM
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Yes, these aren't friends. True friends advise and accept and support your decisions. Bitches gain info, give selfish advice, and dont care about the end result.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 01:00 AM
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Damn, Im sorry. We are doing our best. I was always the diciplinarian and nurturer. He was absent mostly when we were together. Since the divorce he stepped up got help and is actually acting like a parent, so I am glad she is getting daddy time instead of him being drunk 90% of the time before he went into detox. After 17 years it took divorce for him to wake up. For this, I am glad for her. She still has 2 parents who love her and put her first.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:55 AM
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This is so unhealthy, projecting the social media persona of everything is great, when we are all going through the same shit and won't admit it out loud.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:51 AM
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I have debated if I want one of those cookie cutter marriages (dating normally with a corporate guy and marrying before 30 because societal expectations and then buying a house and letting him work up the ladder and just buying more materialism throughout our lives). 90% of those people are unhappy and divorced within 10 years.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:49 AM
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Everyone has red flags. Don't decide your worth based on the projection of your faults.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:47 AM
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Points 1 and 2 are nonsense and your preference. Point 3 only matters where children are involved. And then it is between you and him alone. Few are the partnerships where anyone can afford to raise a child in a one worker home, but its good you are willing to give up your ambitions for the greater good. Just continue to invest in yourself in one way or another. How far apart is his job from yours? Since he is freelancing why doesnt he come to you and you power up until its time to go next level…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:43 AM
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My man is hardcore RP. He says as long as a woman "controls her controlables" like.behavior, choices, fitness, presentation, hair length, etc, he never holds thing against them like scars, an abnormal or odd feature or freckle/mole, age, etc. Being femine is not about being cultures ideal of femine beauty or perfection. It is big picture, compliance, obedience, being tolerable outside of the bedroom, being pleasant to be around, intelligent, introverted, and of course, knowing how to cook.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 11:56 PM
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I have 50/50 custody and its the best of both worlds for divorced parents and children. (I'm not.condoning divorce but it happens). Child is never neglected and has both parents, and parents gets downtime to reduce burnout.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 05:20 PM
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If a guy likes being around you and it isn't easy to game/lay you, you will be considered relationship material. If you give it up easy they will give YOU up easy. It can be hard to wrap your head around. If he asks you on a date, offer to cook him dinner and ask him how he would like you to dress. Go shop together and cook, show agency and good company outside of sex. By handling banter gracefully and not responding with every shit test on the planet, use the opportunities for engaging conversa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/17 10:50 AM
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Dress with an overcoat. Hose and heels.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 09:36 PM
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I found her to her nothing more than a "conserative" attention whore. If she practiced what she preaches she wouln't be on the radar and coattails of every red pill or alt right man in the manosphere. In fact, I found this to be true about almost all "red pill" chicks on twitter. The 2 legit bloggers I found are notesfromaredpillgirl.com and Judgybitch, neither of whom you will find attention whoring on social media. One red pill chick was hitting up every manosphere man claiming to be red pill …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 08:51 PM
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Required listening from Esther https://youtu.be/sa0RUmGTCYY
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 04:56 AM
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Her TED talk is very poignant. https://youtu.be/P2AUat93a8Q 6:15
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 04:39 AM
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I never said demand, or give an ultimatum, no one responds well to that. What is ok is having him acknowledge his comittment, which she said she needs. She is obviously unhappy. Shit tests exist for a reason. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 06:57 PM
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Good on you! Best wishes going forward with this healthy mindset. The road may be long but it can be quite a nice ride.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 02:52 PM
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Forced into acknowledging he married her? Into backing a decision he has already made? Regardless of the reason, he has the responsibility that comes with it. A red pill man makes a decision and owns the responsibility of it. And we all know that a woman cannot be red pill without a red pill man leading them.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 12:41 AM
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I am a web operations manager and he is self employed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 07:29 PM
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When a red pill aware man behaves as the red pill tells him to, you are a very happy woman. He knows your wants and needs. He understands your emotions and doesn't react to them with anger, but with understanding. This is truth. I think both being RP aware can make a relationship more symbiotic.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:19 PM
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A man who won't publically claim you as his wife, even after marriage, is a simp. I don't post for votes, the truth is rarely popular.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 01:17 PM
1

Do you have a better suggestion?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 01:14 PM
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Thank you. I think we have a real shot.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:01 AM
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You will outgrow this. True feminine power is drawing in a man who wants to be loyal to you. Not dominating them. Relinquish enough control and you are set free to be the feminine woman he truly desires.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 04:57 AM
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When he is mad or there is discourse I put on something sexy/slutty and cook him a meal and have him for dessert. Men are not complicated.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 04:54 AM
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So it is not fairytale. Life never is. Have him put up or shut up. Act like a man, a husband, or annull the marriage before your families get involved. If you go forward, do it out of love and comittment, not financial. Necessity often breeds resentment. Once family is involved and it doesnt work you are tarnished and may end up divorced. Put his feet to the fire for a real commitiment. Allow him to announce it and then throw a party, a celebration of love and reaffirmation of vows before family…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 04:51 AM
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It almost sounds like he using you as a cover to spend time with him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 12:01 AM
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This 95% describes my man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 06:25 PM
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How will you live.together if he can't manage to be alone with you for extended periods of time ? It.seems like a cop out. Is there a particular friend of his that is always around?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 09:57 AM
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What is an alpha woman? An unhappy one. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 01:29 PM
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As my man says, the only reason a man interacts with women outside of family and necessity, he either is, has, or wants to fuck her. And he is right.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 05:19 PM
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He is moving in Honey. He is moving to be with me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:38 AM
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I do not discuss his business online or with strangers.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 01:10 PM
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My marriage lasted 17 years and failed - he was a roll over man and it didnt work. I want to be the woman in the relationship, and if it takes a "tyrant" to keep me in line, I am a better woman for it. You do not have to tell me to "be careful" - every choice I make to comply is made with careful consideration and based in experience. It is funny how he is 100% red pill and how many "red pill women" try to warn me. He is not insecure or jealous, he is territorial and training me. I love it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 11:19 AM
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Lmao... My man wants what he wants and he trusts what he sees and not what he hears. And I am happy to give it to him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 03:27 AM
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Yep.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 03:16 AM
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I must declare that my man does not give 2 shits if I orgasm or not. In many ways, the lack of expectation relaxes me. Sometimes I do, sometimes I dont, but the fact that he can keep going and going multiple times turns me on.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 12:05 AM
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Would caffeine or a shower help prior to lovemaking?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 12:02 AM
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Perhaps find another gym?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:50 PM
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Lol, not first time I've been assumed male. I am properly owned by a true red pill to the core man. If I did what you did I'd get dropped too. Why not answer said questions? Awfully defensive.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:45 PM
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Tips to avoid unwanted male attention: Wear a "wedding ring" Wear earbuds Avoid eye contact Dress frumpy Appear busy or uninterested or hurried Never sit at a bar alone. Get a table. Be bitchy and short if approached. Pretend to be on your phone. Simply say "go away", no, or "I dont talk to strange men, goodbye". Ignore them. If they touch you, scream.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:38 PM
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Validation. Many share good life knowledge, but others are just looking to make themselves feel better. They "think" they have a captain, or alpha male, yet wonder why he won't call the cable company when the internet goes out or call them on their bullshit behavior, so they play victim here. Also, just cooking for a man isn't good enough. You have to cook WELL. Anyone can make shit food. Effort does not always* equal an "A".
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:28 PM
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I am thinking like a red pill man... and statements like "I didn't yell at him once" is not equivocal to "I have never spoken to him with disrespect" or could mean "I yelled at him 20 times". As another poster said, the devilish details are missing. Most women lie by omission and OP has holes in her story a semi could drive through.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:19 PM
1

Do you drink? Some women need a "relaxer" in order to let go.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:08 PM
1

Parafin wax, manicures and conair hand spa. Cocoa butter lotion (Palmers) or.creamy baby oil.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:03 PM
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This should be titled "My captain dumped me today". The fact that the title doesn't reflect the story is a red flag. "Never spoke with another man"? Generization expecting validation, but not true. What did you tell him about that he didnt want to hear? Details of your sexual past? Hence the distrust. Did you travel to a place where you knew people? Perhaps your old home town where some of those mistakes happened? I check in with my man approx. every half hour with pics even if I am at work. Som…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 11:00 PM
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My man is self employed and works from home. By no means is he a "stay at home" anything. I am actually seeking a remote position so I can be home as well and "limit my exposure to swinging dicks". Haha As far as breadwinning, we both contribute as we don't have young children. Also much of what I do (skills wise) contributes to his business.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 10:52 PM
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I was on HBC for ten years almost and when I stopped taking it to get pregnant I felt better, just in general. I told my husband I didn't want to go back on it after the baby was born and I haven't, we've started using NFP. It's nice to have my body operating on its own rhythms. This is why I got my tubes tied at 40.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 10:47 PM
1

Good suggestion.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 01:07 AM
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Just tell him. I've had my ovary and appendix removed in emergency surgery (huge absominal scar), tumor removed, thyroid removed, and my tubes tied. If you take care of yourself, dudes don't hold flaws outside of your control against you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 01:06 AM
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I was 31 when I had her. It was the right time (unplanned but not unwanted) for us. Truth is, you are never ready until you have no choice but to be.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:45 AM
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Popular culture. On TV the man is the idiot and the woman is the boss in the relationship. Everyone thinks this is an acceptable dynamic. Women are encouraged to experiment and find themselves through sex. I think volunteering and being a service to others is a much better way, but that's just me I guess. You are an old soul.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 12:06 AM
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Any advice for when he decides to commit and suggests moving in? We aren't looking to start a family, just be together all in...after 18 months. He is epitome red pill. While he has 100% control, any advice for keeping things fresh and fun in a feminine way would be great.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 11:59 PM
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A lot of us know what does not work long term. We do wish you well.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:46 AM
1

Pure Gold!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:15 AM
3

How many cats do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 11:29 PM
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This may not be helpful but I cant help it.. https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dd4e08_ed0aebccdcbd4d7aae39770c9511343b.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 08:20 PM
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No opinion, just experience here. We lived together for 4 years, then married for 13 more years. That ended 2 years ago in divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:52 AM
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Because I have seen first hand that non traditional relationships backfire. It doesn't work long term. Happiness isn't doing and being it all. It is relishing in the role you are genetically defined to do.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:48 AM
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Google and training forums.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:46 AM
1

It's the fountain of youth.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 11:46 PM
2

HGH is your best friend after 30.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 09:22 PM
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This. He sleeps closest to the door. He envelopes me when we cuddle and makes me feel small. When we hold hands his is always over mine. He opens my doors and orders for me. He embraces manly roles and allows me to relax so I can be feminine. I love being his woman.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 07:40 AM
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Point conceeded. Aiye. Joint shared custody of a pleasant young girl is wayyyyy less baggage, and can sometimes be a perk for a man who doesn't want kids of his own but has a lot to offer as a male role model.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 09:01 PM
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Wrong again. I have a child and was single at 40 and I landed a top shelf man a year younger than myself. Be quality, attract quality. Be good company, take care of him and yourself, house and home. Excel at cooking and have something to offer. My SMV may be a 7, but other qualities like being tolerable outside of sex, makes me more attractive than most 10's. Like I said, its relative.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 07:10 PM
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"I" edited. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 04:17 AM
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Yeah, appropriately edited. Good post, similar points.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 03:23 AM
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You can control your reaction. It is called being a diciplined adult and a kept woman. A lot of things in this world are out of your control. Your behavior and actions are not one of those things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 03:17 AM
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Feed him and fuck him. That's all you gotta do.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 02:05 AM
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If he has books or dvds, hiding.one.based on a clue about the title or theme could work
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 11:53 PM
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Before I landed my man I used to say that there should be red pill dating site.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 11:30 PM
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In my experience the difference is consistency. Same standards 100% of the time, confidence. Wishy washy based on mood, asshole.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 11:26 PM
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Men dont care if you are competitive and.a high notch count is unattractive. Are you overweight?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 11:47 PM
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I married in my 20's and it failed after 17 years. Now.Im.40 and landed the highest value, most alpha man I have ever met the same age. There is no recipe for success or hard rule, just be the best version of you possible.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 11:44 PM
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This is wrong. Its relative to.who you are and how you take care of yourself. Stay fit, world is yours.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 10:34 PM
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Perspective: Most men over 40 are not looking to start families. Many would rather have a 40 yr old with her tubes tied so he can cum in her till the sun comes up than worry about knocking up a 24yr old and retiring with a kid in college.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 10:33 PM
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Look... You don't have to be young, or perfect, or a "10" to attract a high value man. You do have to be submissive, thoughtful, feminine, know how to cook, care for house and home, be good company, be nurturing. As you get older, the better you are at caring for your man and home (family) and being STABLE, will extend your value post wall. And diet and exercise - You cannot care for others if you fail to take care of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 10:29 PM
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Top 5% are men confident enough to say and portray it and live it. They are insulted when chicks out of their league hit on them and equate it to being asked for change by bums.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 10:22 PM
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The solution here is obvious. Make an octopus costume with a dog head/mask. Tease him mercilously until you both laugh it off and get past this. :D
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 10:22 AM
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I do not think hypergamy is always a conscious thing. It is a natural gravitation to the highest value male, that is a dna ingrained survival tactic.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 12:12 PM
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It's great. It lets me know to not waste my time. Here is a shit test: "You are so beautiful!"..her "I've been told I'm not the best looking woman in the world". ...him.. "Whoever said that is an asshole!". Fail. Of course she is not and she doesn't need to be told so. Dummy white knight.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 11:42 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 01:55 PM
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Sold. What kind of brush do you use?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 01:49 PM
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I am in!
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 01:41 AM
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My take is that you only need to be submissive to HIM, not to her. Being strong in the face of het bad influence and rising above and behaving like you would at home is admirable. You cannot change people and you cannot let them hange you. Even with respect to age, lead by example, be the better person. She will.shit test you...ignore it without being disrespectful. If anyone lashes out at you for being a quality woman/wife, ask your DH to step in or for permission to stand up to the culprit You…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 01:26 AM
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Sounds to me like he is still leaving the door open. She will not stop, she will just change tactics. I'd demand a full cut off. There is no exception here. If you were talking to another man online in any sexual context would he be ok with it? Friend or stranger or family? If so, this is not a man worth your time. You should not stand for this. Especially IN YOUR FACE. Tell him to delete his snapchat account and both of you get off social media in all respects and reset focused on one another. …
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 01:39 AM
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I understand as well. Getting to know different people is great and it's good to know what you want and do not. However, don't sacrifice your heart or others to know a good thing when you find it. And don't make yourself the kind of girl that gives it up to just anyone, even a kiss, if you aren't sure there is something there. We all love the rush, but don't rush into being a slut because men are predatory too. Be smart. Know your worth. Value yourself. If you don't, no man will. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 01:28 AM
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I think it comes down to SMV vs. RMV. Men who reach maturity (i.e 38+) realize that they have nothing in common with women under 30 other than the fact that they want to fuck young and easy pussy. As women age, they tend to vett harder and it's more of a THING. However, just being older doesn't mean you are excluded from better. And while "older" women are easier to "game" they are also easier to get along with and offer more faculties to men they don't outwardly admit. Such as cooking, having a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 01:22 AM
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I'm not aware of your situation so I will not project judgement or opinion. I disagree that it's advantageous for women to "plate" men in hopes of finding someone they can love and get into a relationship with. This, in essence, is what this sub is about. So color me confused as to why you would recommend casual sex in this sub? Honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 01:03 AM
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I am not offended honey. I've been there, done that. The bill comes time to pay eventually. If you get to the core of what RPW stands for, you will understand. I wish I had at your age. I am not hating on you, I'm trying to say that if you aren't ready, don't add mileage to your value in any way. Just don't date.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 01:00 AM
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'female plating' = slut 'playing the field' = slut 'dating around' = slut 'hooking up'= slut We aren't fooling anyone. Be better. At least hide it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:56 AM
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"What's wrong with a female plating? Not all of us want to husband up ever guy we date." Why are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:53 AM
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Honey, I'm not a man. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:47 AM
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This entire concept is ridiculous and a symptom of youth. Every relationship is unique and on your head alone. How much can you take? You want the damage of being rejected or the the benefit of being loved? Whether it works out or not, how do you value yourself? This is a lesson only women can teach themselves. Discipline and self value cannot be taught. But it's what every man wants. It's never too late to make changes and curb your behavior. Getting sexual attention from men is as easy as brea…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:39 AM
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You make zero sense and contradict yourself at every turn. 1. You can't "hook up" with someone and it NOT mean sex. 2. You continue to reference "physical stuff" over intellect, connection or emotion. 3. "The above example has happened to me many, many, many times. " 4. " I don't want a relationship." 5. "What you are saying may be true for women who are ready to settle down and get married, but for those of us who really are not at that stage yet, I don't think we view the things we do with eac…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:30 AM
3

If you dont want a relationship why are you dating these poor guys? Free food and a cock tease make out session?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:13 AM
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My man thinks there are no 'red pill women'. Only women who are led by red pill men. There is no one without the other. If he hasn't swallowed it, he won't either expect it or recognize it. The question is, can YOU respect HIM for allowing you to get away with that bad behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 11:58 PM
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I wouldn't do anything until he has the balls to approach and directly ask you out. Then begin a dialogue and go slow from there. Dating people you work with is hard. I have seen that the older the guy the more possessive or butthurt they get when rejected. Be careful.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 11:52 PM
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I do these things because I want to and not because I'm oppressed. To finally not be fighting against nature in my relationship makes things so much easier and fighting minimal. If I said this to my friends, they'd ridicule me. You are lucky to figure this out so young. I am starting over and have found an amazing guy who is so red pill it's textbook. He has helped me recover a bad mindset/false truth and I have been eager to follow his direction. It is paying dividens. Funny how my friends are …
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 11:45 PM
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Get bloodwork done and make sure it's not a metabolic issue. Pregnancy can mess with your thyroid and insulin big time. Make sure there isnt an underlying medical issue. Try a ketogenic or paleo type diet. Do not eat processed foods, fast food, and avoid sugar at all costs. You need to reset your metabolism to burn fat rather than sugar. (If he is not cheating...) Focus on what you can control. Push up bras, flattering dresses, sexy lingerie. Be seductive again in your own way. Put in the effort…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:53 AM
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Pretty sure the When is whenever, the Why is a given. The How is what most chicks lack.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 01:57 AM
1

That is wonderful, good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 01:54 AM
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He's out of town right now so I sent him a honey baked ham to munch on for the week. He is in Heaven.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 01:47 AM
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You can't love a man you don't trust and respect.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 12:44 AM
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You dont have to be a "10", HB# can be mitigated by other factors like cooking ability, caringness or being thoughtful, submissiveness, you take care of yourself, etc. Hell, I'm a "post wall, divorced, single mom with 50/50 custody" and hit almost every red flag out there, however my feminity, responsibility and temperment has allowed me to find a high value male. Men want to fuck 10's, sure. But they are often less likely to be LTR material. We all pick our poison in a sense. Relax and be the b…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 02:43 AM
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So you have given up on polygamy I take it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 08:04 PM
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Chalk it up to perspective. Agree to agree :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 03:48 AM
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"Your spouse should always be your #1 priority. The minute they aren't, there's big marital trouble ahead." Hi. This is the part I was referencing. A child becomes the #1 priority of both parents. This can bring them closer or drive them apart over time
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 03:05 AM
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I will respectfully disagree. Every father I know will put the child first as well. I do agree the marriage/commitment is the foundation of family, but if push comes to shove both will consider the needs of the child above their own and their spouse. And rightfully so.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 02:19 AM
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What do you see as a long term situation?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 09:47 PM
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Spend the better part of 2 decades with a roll over man and you'll love every second of it. A man who knows what he wants and a woman willing to give him it makes for a great relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 06:41 AM
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If he admits to being lazy and not willing to man up and better his family, you are going to go into self preservation mode. It isnt your fault and akin to dealing with an addict. I'd suggest counseling ornat least writing down your feelings desires and expectations of him as a family leader and give it to him.with the goal of opening dialogue.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 06:32 AM
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I am sorry but a bunch of girls shaking their ass in front of male family members is never ok and has nothing to do with familial intimacy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 06:17 AM
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How is he around his other sisters? From what you describe it sounds like her sexualization is monkey see monkey do. Is he willing to man up and stand for the path of least resistance? If he sees nothing wrong you need to get out hard and fast. That is not relationship material.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 06:15 AM
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Enjoy your weekend! You got this.Being self aware is so important.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 01:40 AM
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As a mother of an 8 year old, my hackles are raised. This is not healthy for him or her. He needs to start treating her like a lady and not a kid, and show her what appropriate behavior is around men NOW. She is at an age when its not cute. If not now, when? When she is 10? 13? No. This is not ok and he needs to sit down with his parents and have them run interference. My girl does weird stuff around me and I discourage it and correct the behavior. If i snuggle her its limited to 5-10 mins, not …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 01:29 AM
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I could not disagree more. A true captain knows his woman best meets his needs when she is relaxed. This means taking care of navigation, destination, and expectation. A man makes the rules and you follow them. Once he stops caring about the little things, he has nexted you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 01:16 AM
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Thanks for your thoughts. I don't mind being downvoted. Everyone is different and hearing different points of view and applications is what this is all about. Best regards.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 12:49 AM
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If he lets you get away with bad behavior, hormones or not, it can turn into a habit and ruin your dynamic. Perhaps let him know it's not personal it's hormones and still needs to be checked and balanced. If you need to be emotional or irrational, a true man will understand and give you time and space to be such without taking it personally, and you can laugh.about it later. The positive news is that it won't last forever so long as you see it for what it is. Babies change a woman physically and…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 12:44 AM
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While it can be challenging at times, there is always.something new to learn. Webmastery is a useful skill, I do some design as well. I work in a low stress environment. Besides my bosses its all women, our network admin is in another state. My man is comfortable with my work setting and likes that I am in touch online all day with him. Edit: typos
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 11:15 PM
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Can confirm. Lived it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 11:11 PM
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My 17 year long relationship and 13 year marriage essentially failed because my husband was like this. At first it was just him being lazy and not wanting to deal with the stress of paying bills, doing taxes, making decisions about child care or even what to do on a date night. It got to the point where I didn't want that role, but someone had to do it and it wasn't about him being OK with me being "Captain". No. It was about not wanting to take responsibility for anything. I warn you, decide on…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:52 PM
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I think you are coming from a good place, but fundamentally out of touch. You mention you have had "romances and flings and fun" and that you are "I’m in no rush to marry. I like being single, but I wouldn’t mind a committed relationship with the guy I’ve been dating. I don’t want children." This means you are not ready for RPW. Simply put. Until you are ready to commit, raise a family, and be serious about being a quality woman, you will spinster into slut behavior at any given opportunity and …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 12:26 AM
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This is a beta male. He is either afraid of telling what he really wants or too shy to admit it. My advice is to send him a variety of links to racy stuff and ask him which he likes best. Men are conditioned to be subserviant to women these days and letting him know you want HIM to make a decision for HIS pleasure will turn on his attraction for you even more. Bring out his alpha nature. At every opportunity.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 11:40 PM
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My man knows I enjoy drinking on occasion and allows me to, and he looks out for me. I never take it too far, embarass or disrespect him nor myself. Social drinking should be fine as long as maintain control.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:24 PM
1

I agree. A straightening spray helps as well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:20 PM
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This should not be a priority or concern. Pay attention to your man and only him. They will be impressed by your attentiveness to his needs. Beyond casual polite conversation and being a good hostess, there is no need to try to impress his friends.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:18 PM
1

For superbowl Sunday I made beef wellingtons with roasted carrots. This week I have made taco nachos and chicken marsala. I plan to make chicken and dumplings for snow comfort food.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 09:58 PM
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Yes. He has demands and I am happy to comply to meet them. When we first met, I didnt even have my ears pierced. He told me to do it and I did. He tells me what to wear at home or when we go out and I love it. I used to eat alone at bars. Now if I go out to lunch alone, I get a table and send him a pic. I enjoy having a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to demand it. It's the least I can do. Every change of me physically, behavior wise, or whatever has been a net positive result for b…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 09:53 PM
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I have worked in IT for the better part of the past 20 years. I don't manage people, I code, build sites, do online marketing and am an overall jill of all webmastery. I work for a small company (10 yrs now) and I love not dealing with "people".
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 08:36 PM
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