| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 228 | PSA: When you start closing consistently, remember to protect yourself. | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 12:16 PM | |
| 174 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence? | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 02:36 PM | |
| 21 | [FR] First approach without anxiety. | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 03:47 PM | |
| 15 | It's still gonna suck sometimes. | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 01:16 PM | |
| 13 | [Meta] Proposition for a weekly/bi-weekly homework thread | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 01:55 PM | |
| 13 | Those who have sought therapy and worked through your insecurities: what was it like, and how did it work? | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 03:16 PM | |
| 6 | [FR] Excuses | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 05:19 PM | |
| 2 | Hey guys! Today I started a Dating/Lifestyle Coaching side gig. What are some things you would want an in-person coach to help you with? | PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 02:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Friends say im insecure because I sleep with/try to sleep with a lot of girlsWho cares as long as you’re having fun?! | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Friends say im insecure because I sleep with/try to sleep with a lot of girlsNot that I disagree, but what makes just trying to get laid insecure? If you gotta fuck something you gotta fuck. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?Well that’s the whole point of breaking through expectations and being outcome dependent. I’m still learning to do this myself, but once you do, you become a lot more perceptible and confident. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 10:50 AM |
| 11 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!It’s so nice to have a walking around date! You never really get bored and get to have a lot of interesting conversations. Also, it’s very engaging so physical escalation goes so much smoother. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I turned down a girl who wanted to fuck meMic dropping is fasting growing trend. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet womenThe food truck idea is awesome! Never thought of that - it’s going to already be in an area with high energy, and still be a casual setting. Plus it could easily segue into an insta-date. Also, food trucks always have amazing food | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 4 | Pickup as a couple?I'd say have her take the lead and flirt to start off, then have her introduce you and begin flirting also. They'll pretty soon get the hint and either play along or deny it. Try a gay bar or ladies nights. | /r/seduction | 01/07/17 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Any of you have infields?Disclaimer: I don't pull every weekend or anything like that, but I have good quality relationships with great girls. I think it's a wasted effort unless you're trying to get paid from it. It takes too much setting up and, unless you're trying to start a pickup YouTube, it's not worth it. I know I certainly won't do it because I think it's retarded lol. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | It's still gonna suck sometimes.The point was that even with casual flings emotions still get involved. It's up to you to deal with how you react to them. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 08:15 PM |
| 21 | How do you tease girls?I never realized it, but you're absolutely right lol | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 07:36 PM |
| 1 | It's still gonna suck sometimes.Just flat out tell them what you're looking for either before or right after you hook up. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Is the goal of having sex with a girl you approach and getting her number a healthy mindset?Your assumptions are what lead you to a generalization like what you have. The fact that you assume girls fling with "tall, physically-attractive" guys is why you are in this predicament. From my own experience, girls want to fling with men who are emotionally secure and sexually present- which you obviously are not. I know that sounds dickish, and it might be, but it's the truth. Take some time to research this sub, and find out exactly what makes a girl open up sexually to a man, and apply it … | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 05:31 AM |
| 4 | Is the goal of having sex with a girl you approach and getting her number a healthy mindset?The problem is, women only want LTR Because you know the desires of every women on the planet. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 12:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Pub last nightI don't find asking if they're single a problem. Not only does it show interest, it steers the conversation into a more intimate one (i.e. talking about boundries, sex, desires.) Try to be more interested in her (not interested in if she's single) when you ask. | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Don't get hung up on approachingI don't know anything about this guy but if you actually listen to what he says, he is right. I've seen dudes at bars go around to every single fucking woman and it looks desperate. Of course, they probably don't care, but that's not the image I want to portray. If I see a woman I absolutely have to talk to, I will. Don't game just game. Game for a purpose. You don't have to be a horn-dog to get good at social skills. | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What are some good brands of cologne?Girls go nuts over Invictus by Paco Rabanne and Aqua Di Gio. Those two have gotten me a lot of compliments even though I'm not a fan of either. My personal favorites are Aventus by Creed, Legend by Marco Blanca, and The One by D&G. When I go out to a bar or club, I wear either Invictus or La Male. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Guide To Going Out Solo - Freedom To Going Out aloneYou can still have fun afterwards with friends even if you go out alone! That's what being social is about. Find new friends when your sets bomb. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 07:21 AM |
| 43 | Go to your base line as soon as possible.I think the problem a lot of people have is finding "the real you." We have a perception of ourselves, but we also have the way we behave and those may not align. The person I want to be and the person I am now are not the same. If I build up habits to be the person I want to be, is it still "the real me" once I get there? | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 06:26 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Proposition for a weekly/bi-weekly homework threadYour mindset is similar to mine in the way you express yourself, especially your edit. Seem like a cool dude. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Proposition for a weekly/bi-weekly homework threadYou're not wrong whatsoever. Honestly, I made the example a little over-complicated being zealous. I think one challenge weekly could work though, with an explanation on why it's being brought to the table and how it can help someone new. I know that I needed guidance when I started, so I'll probably just obligate myself to shitpost once every week lol. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Proposition for a weekly/bi-weekly homework threadI like you lol. But yes, it is completely understandable, and I probably made it way too complicated. Honestly, I would moderate if given the opportunity as long as I didn't have an obligation to other parts of the sub. I think a weekly challenge would be good for all of us - sort of like an online coach. I know that when I did MMA, I wouldn't have been 1/4th of the fighter I am today if I didn't have a team challenging me the way there, and I think that's what we could provide with a idea like … | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Proposition for a weekly/bi-weekly homework threadWhy does it fail? | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Expressing sexually submissive tendencies/fantasies; vulnerability or weakness/turn off?I disagree with your point about perceiving someone in a certain light. My ex wore the pants, and I was intimidated. I was far more emotionally involved with her than she was with me. But when we fucked, I made her my damn toy. My inner animal would come out and she could only let me have absolute control. However, after we were done, the regular dynamic started again and I was back to being needy. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Expressing sexually submissive tendencies/fantasies; vulnerability or weakness/turn off?First off, if you end up deciding it is a bad thing, I'd seek therapy or counseling. That being said, sexuality is subjective. I have experiences from childhood that influenced my sexuality, but I'm okay with it. Being ashamed of what you enjoy, especially when it's on such a deep level, fucking sucks. I'm not ashamed of what I like, and I'm just now realizing I shouldn't be ashamed of the things that happened either; it was out of my control. However, if you truly believe that your kinks stem f… | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Finding wingmenAn app would be killer lol. Tinder but for wingmen. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 02:35 PM |
| 2 | What made you confident? AnalyzedThank you for this. The whole reason I made that post was for the insecure to read and communicate uninhibited with people who were able to develop a confident mindset. I hope even more people see your summary because confidence (not arrogance) is really the key to growing as a person in all aspects of life. It is absolutely something attainable. P.s. I'll PM you about bartending in a minute because I really want to try it out. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl want to bring our friend to a date, how do I respond?Dude, just go for it. If it ends up not being a "date," you're still having fun with two other people. Not only that, but the fact that you are comfortable pursuing her in the presense of another man could turn her on even more. | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 01:53 PM |
| 3 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?Then I'm proud of you. I know exactly what you mean, and I think it's honestly just because of brain chemistry. Sometimes I wake up not wanting to get out of bed, so fuck it. But baseline has definitely risen since my "epiphany." We're all in this together. | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?It's all in your head, man. Literally. It's a mindset, and unless you decide to be that way then it more than likely won't happen. I mean this in the most literal sense: just fucking do it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 01:00 AM |
| 5 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?A lot of SEALs, Ranger, MARSOC, etc. practice Stoicism. Tells you how influential it is. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 10:48 PM |
| 2 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?Good job, man. You happy to be alive? | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 10:36 PM |
| 5 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?The irony is pretty serious. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 10:36 PM |
| 1 | 7 Things Girls Do Before Responding To Your TextA lot, meaning three or four? Either you talk to a lot of insecure girls or you are making this up. Trust me, dude. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 10:02 PM |
| 6 | 7 Things Girls Do Before Responding To Your TextEither you have been asking a bunch of crazy people, or this is the most retarded thing in the world. Guys, most girls don't do this, so you shouldn't worry about it. If they do (unlikely,) they aren't worth your time because they'll twist every word you say around and are overall insanely insecure. I have been close with so many girls and this is by far the weirdest generalization I have ever seen. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach without anxiety.I know what they are, I just don't care enough to play along lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 01:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach without anxiety.I guess so - minus the fact that reading what was she was writing would be a little intrusive, I didn't really think about the approach or I might have made something funny of it. I just sort of did it though. It's my honest belief of they say that, whether it's a lie or not, they aren't receptive. If they have to lie to get you away then I'm not going to fuck with them, and if they legitimately have a boyfriend, it's a douchebag move of me to keep pressing. I definitely see what you're saying t… | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 12:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First approach without anxiety.To be blunt, I don't want to build a connection with someone who will make excuses like that (i.e. Lying about having a boyfriend,) even if it will benefit me. I realized during my last relationship that an attribute I value highly is honesty, and if your natural instinct is to lie than I don't want you. Sounds cold, but whatever. If it would have been any other excuse, my natural tendency is to make a humorous remark like the one you suggested lol. Besides, even if she honestly had a boyfriend … | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 12:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First approach without anxiety.Thanks man. I definitely have a lot to learn since I'm just starting off but as long as I see it as no big deal I should be alright. This sub is gold, though. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Have you asked a famous person out as a fan?Hell, this applies to anyone you end up putting on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it strange to lose libido after masturbating once a day?/r/sex | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I was reading a post about how maintaining constant eye contact is one of the best things you can do. Can someone with strabismus on his right eye still achieve this?If they are weirded out by it, then fuck it. It's a part of who you are currently, so if they don't accept it you shouldn't give a damn. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is inner game the first thing you wanna work onYeah I'm not into today lol. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Five years in the Game and Yes, it ALL comes down to ConfidenceI never correlated listening to music to emotional regulation, but you're absolutely right. I'm gonna put a twist on it and say you could use a song that puts you in a good mood and listen to it moderately to habitually build a good mindset. Something like "Smooth" by Santana - sexually charged, fun, and vibrant. After you have the feeling observed, start looking for it without having to listen to it. Eventually you could just be in that mindset naturally. Edit: Oh btw, great fucking post. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 10:54 PM |
| 3 | A summary of my 14 years of experience in and out of the game.No man, it's definitely a good topic. I've been brainstorming "role models" lately and people like John Mayer and Daniel Craig have been on my mind. Bold confident and sexy. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | What books do you recommend for general self-improvement?Thanks for the list | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 03:27 AM |
| 6 | What's your opinion of girls who put themselves down?They either have a problem with the way they view themselves, or are looking for compliments. Either way it's unattractive | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 03:52 AM |
| 6 | What to say when girl on my bed says, "I don't netflix and chill?"Honestly dude, you want something that she's not willing to give so I'd just drop her for someone that will. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Still. I can't find any studies (besides bro-science fitness articles) that relate kidney problems and a ketogenic diet. Do you have anything I could read on that - especially something peer-reviewed? | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Can I get a legit source for the liver statement? | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How to harness the power of subtext in your textsYeah, that's why they're examples lol. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 11:31 PM |
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