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Yeah sorry I guess I misinterpreted the OP question as unique issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:26 PM
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That's not a unique issue to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:12 PM
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Best response in the thread imo. It's also indicative that the sexlessness statistic probably doesn't paint the whole picture like you mentioned. I technically wouldnt fall into the 1/3rd bucket since I hooked up with someone, but I still struggle greatly with dating (never had a gf, no romantic experience). Men are falling behind in many other things as well, the big one being education. Men are being left behind in the modern world. It's no wonder we are turning to escapist video games and por…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:07 PM
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Okay? But you said SOCIETY has a stigma against women hooking up. Angry incels in this sub is not evidence to support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:18 PM
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So now men in this sub represent (let's assume we are both in the US) society as a whole? Sounds like you are doing quite a bit of extrapolating there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:02 PM
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Who is telling women are worthless for hooking up? Atleast in my area that stigma is largely gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:00 PM
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Lmao nice job victim blaming. You have to assume he's in the wrong huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:24 AM
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Yeah sure but that's not what I'm saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 09:14 AM
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Ok buddy not all of us are neckbeard incels. Dating is just fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:40 AM
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I dont browse incel subs (I dont consider ForerverAlone incel), so places like/r/depression or /r/lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:11 AM
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Browsing sad subs for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:08 AM
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There is much more expectation for men to adhere to these things compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:02 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:11 AM
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Hence my disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:10 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:39 AM
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I'm doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:22 AM
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Thank you for the positive words. I try every day, and I do hope dating isn't as bad when I reach my late 20s/30s. Though, we are polygynous, so I am not getting my hopes up!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:23 AM
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Hmm. I (22) guess from my perspective I would not mind hooking up with older women (30s) in the same way you would do with younger women. These are both only anecdotal though and don't accurately display the true picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:09 AM
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How does it not? Women are less reliant on relationships than men for happiness. Cannot consider this as a factor then Sure if you compare ugly women to attractive women, but when comparing ugly women to ugly men my previous statement holds. I do agree though that attractive men have the best of both worlds. I can understand that, however, wouldn't you agree that the best time for dating is when you are young? If you have to wait till your 40 for the dating game to be equalized then is it really…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:59 AM
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https://shareably.net/single-women-happier-than-married/ Can you share the data that suggests your claim? Women have the luxury of choosing between proactive and reactive, whereas men are forced to be proactive. Rigged = the game (dating) inherently favors one side over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:49 AM
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Yes I do. I try to challenge my own beliefs, and I really want to understand the other side. It is hard though because of personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:39 AM
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Could you add onto the heaps of other stuff? Any that are inherently challenging to women? Men get ghosted at a greater rate, can easily choose the wrong women, aren't even allowed to have feelings, and face rejection all the time. This does not convince me that women have it just as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:33 AM
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I should state that this is under the context of Western culture for young men. It is rigged because Men gain more from being in a relationship (and consequently lose more from being out of a relationship), whereas women are more content in either context. Thus women hold more power in dating as they are less reliant on partnership for happiness. In the United states, there are more young men than women (51% to 49%), thus there exists a surplus of men which allows women to be more selective (amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:31 AM
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I am not blaming women collectively or individually. They take advantage of the system that is placed. I am saying that the system (dating) is flawed. How do women struggle with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:22 AM
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Sorry but how is this a rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:19 AM
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The word "nerd" has mutated and changed over the years to the point that you have jocks being called "nerds" because they watch star wars. I'm talking about nerds in the traditional sense. There will always be less nerdy girls because girls will be more socially developed than men. I don't understand how you can conclude that most women do not care? I linked a source saying they do. I also do not see how you are disproving that women have no impact on toxic masculinity whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:44 PM
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If I may ask, how "objectively" attractive would you say your boyfriend is? Would most women find him attractive? If this is a stupid question then I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:09 AM
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I wish your view was more popular. From my experience as a college student, many women want just ONS. I tried very hard using OLD, but the women I talked to were either seeking validation or looking for some dudebro dick. Hopefully this doesn't persist in the real world and there are more women who hold your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:06 AM
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Roids have a shit ton of negative side effects. Plastic surgery won't fix men without glaringly bad facial features. There is nothing to make you taller or get a bigger dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:40 AM
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Sure they aren't as great, but they atleast have an option. For me at least, I wouldn't mind it at all and still find it attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:37 AM
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Ever heard of plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:35 AM
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Yes exactly. Too many people here are missing the point of my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:31 AM
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First, I would like to say that I am not only looking for nerdy girls. As I said in another post, I am open to all kinds of people. Second, women do not like emotional men. You may disagree on the reason why, but this is simply the case. If I am understanding your argument correctly, I am not saying that women are the cause of toxic masculinity, but rather they reinforce it. Nerdy topics are not traditionally masculine. Yes, there are outliers of women who like nerdy men. These arguments should …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:25 AM
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Try google
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 01:53 AM
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Needle in a haystack
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:48 PM
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Yeah I should specify my goal isn't to get laid but to simply find a meaningful relationship. I absolutely do think it is seen as negative in my experience (as a college kid in US). It is not attractive. Sure I could change myself, but I like who I am. My traits do not harm anyone and aren't toxic, so I do not see a need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:48 PM
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No it's not. I don't think EVERYONE should be forced to accept that and like me. I have an issue that it is seen as negative when it does not hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:36 PM
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Yes I suppose it is hard to quantify it. I should state this has only been in my experience. what do women perceive to he masculine that is toxic Lacking emotion is my main issue. There are some outliers, but at least talking with my female friends, they see emotional men as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:16 PM
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I can agree with that. My argument is based on experiences in the United States, and is probably completely different elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:29 PM
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A quick Google search will find lots of sources. Here is one Yes I am less masculine and I understand that it will be harder for me than typical masculine men (also I never said being more masculine is "toxic masculinity", rather what women PERCEIVE as masculine conforms to toxic masculinity). My argument is that feminists who spew the horseshit that men are the sole reason for typical toxic masculinity is completely false. I gave an anecdotal quip to corroborate that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:28 PM
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I don't? I have a good amount of friends and female friends. I tried tinder, etc. I made this based on my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:24 PM
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I never said it was 100%, simply that women perpetuate it more than men do, contrary to the typical narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:21 PM
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I have no expectations. I just want someone to accept my nerdy, awkward self. I do not care if that person is a social butterfly or awkward like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:20 PM
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But...why is a guy going on tinder for a girlfriend? Because it has become increasingly difficult to find relationships in real life. Some of us are socially awkward and introverted which is a death sentence nowadays. Then I see guys complain about how Instagram gives women too much male attention. Yes, just like tinder. The vast majority of women are on instagram and get hundreds of likes from thirsty dudes on their photos. It makes sense why their value has been inflated. I don't blame them, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:20 PM
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Exactly. It's not a natural instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:10 PM
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Ok so first off that is very degrading. Second, it disproves your claim that women being provided for is innately feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:18 AM
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That's actually incorrect and only applies to agricultural societies. In hunter gatherer societies that discrepancy doesn't exist, source. So no, it is not inherent to human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:02 AM
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Sure if you find a simp that pedalizes you then in his fairy tale land you are a magical fairy. There is nothing feminine about allowing a man pay for your bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:53 AM
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You aren't some magical fairy to be gloated over. What makes you think men should always foot the bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:46 AM
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I'm not restricting it to just beautiful women. I'd argue that the VAST majority of women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:15 AM
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Thanks for the advice man. My only issue is that I only seem to get matches on tinder. My luck on other apps are absolute shit. Any insight on this perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:11 AM
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Yeah I have some stuff like being extremely into music and looking for someone with a similar interest in music/art in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:07 AM
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Had a simple clear cut: "Not looking for hook ups" as the final line in my bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:48 AM
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If I may ask, what apps did you use? How was your profile tailored and how did you construct your conversations?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:45 AM
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Hinge is a dating app that is suppose to take a more thoughtful approach when it comes to matching and is marketed as a dating app for relationships. Same bullshit as tinder. I bet other apps are the same. Edit: in terms of my profile, I don't know how it could be offputting. I dont have any douchey shirtless pics (even though I do work out), I use normal photos with friends as well as some single headshots. Follow all the cookie cutter advice. Created a funny bio that prompts them to say my bio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:42 AM
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Respectable. Would you still hold those standards without having the aforementioned credentials?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:47 PM
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Do you own a higher level degree from a well accredited university?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:44 PM
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Women (atleast in college) looking for relationships on tinder is bullshit. They are mostly looking for validation or ONS as well. My entire time on Tinder, I didnt find ONE girl who was actually looking for a relationship. I don't know where this meme came from. Chart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:14 PM
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Nah I think it is moreso that normal, well adjusted people adopted some of the nerdy culture and deemed it socially acceptable. Anime is a great example of this. I was made fun of for watching anime in high school, but everyone seems to love it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:36 PM
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Being a nerd is more of how you act rather than what you are interested in. Nerds are socially awkward and introverted. They aren't a ladies man and lack charisma. Due to these factors, they gravitate towards stuff that favor these traits, activities that are usually solitary in nature like reading or math. Alot of it is escapism as well for who they are in real life. So yes, a man who watches anime and likes DnD but is socially extroverted, charismatic, and good with women is most certainly not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:34 PM
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You just disproved your own point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:24 PM
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I think there should be a distinction between having nerdy interests and being an actual nerd. I have a friend who is tall, buff, charismatic, gets tons of women, etc.. He likes anime, plays video games alot, and likes DnD. Would I call him a nerd though? No. I'd say he has interests that are nerdy, but he is not, in essence, a "nerd".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:22 PM
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I've seen a few popular tweets on Twitter stating that dad bods are better than athletic or muscular bodies. I think the argument the guys above were trying to make (albeit somewhat poorly worded) was that women lie about what body type they find the MOST attractive in order to not be seen as conceited.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:07 PM
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Yes, and the argument was that online dating isn't a viable measure for finding out if you are attractive. My stance is that if you are actually attractive then you will get matches on online dating, no matter how crummy your pictures are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:31 PM
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Photo quality only matters if you are in the 4 to 6 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:11 PM
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And what do YOU have to offer that warrants a man bending backwards to impress you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:40 PM
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You can if you have a good looking friend. I got around 80 matches after a few months of use on tinder. My attractive friend got over 100 in less than a week, being selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:30 PM
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I can see that but it is not true in general. Anecdotally, I have seen cases where the man was much more responsible, caring, and had the proper tools to raise a child, but the mother (who was trailer trash and partied and did drugs all the time) somehow won the custody. That may be true. Marriage should benefit both parties, not just one side. What steps do you think would lead to a mutually beneficial marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:22 PM
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So digesting both these sources, it does in fact appear that men benefit more from marriage. However, I still think that men overall lose out more on divorce. Per the first article, men are less likely to maintain custody of children. The second source also states that men experienced harsher short term consequences than women. The second source states that women have a greater economic loss from marriage and even enter poverty in some cases. I am not disputing this, but I think it comes from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:35 AM
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Can you link some sources for this claim as well as the one above? Genuinely curious about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:39 AM
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Could you detail some of these red flags?
/r/MGTOW223/10/19 11:24 PM
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Why do you believe that 99% of women are bad? I think you constructed your post here quit well, but that seems a bit veering into incel territory.
/r/MGTOW223/10/19 10:49 PM
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Do you have a source for this claim?
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 12:38 AM
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