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Yeah, if you can remember the exact conversation it might be more help. It would have to be REALLY REALLY bad and creepy for them to tell the police, that's for sure.
/r/seduction30/05/15 04:48 PM
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Same, I went once and it was young girls with partners who they dragged along, or older women who must have just got divorced. Not what people here make it out to be as some mecca of hot and desperate young babes.
/r/seduction30/05/15 04:47 PM
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All I can think of is I have resting bitch face or maybe it comes across as resting serial killer face. I don't know, I had better luck 3-4 years ago when I was a useless drunk.
/r/seduction30/05/15 04:01 PM
2

Doesn't sound that bad to be honest. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:55 PM
11

If anything, giving a girl flowers is the most awkward beta part of the story.. never do that
/r/seduction25/04/15 06:50 PM
2

In my city, pof is for single mothers, nurses, teachers, and other women who can't meet men due to either their job or whatever mental illness they have. Tinder is instead for girls who are actually looking to get laid, even if they are apparently all out my league.
/r/seduction25/04/15 06:47 PM
2

Sounds like you need to take them upstairs to the spare bedroom man.
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:53 PM
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Sounds like you're overthinking things a bit. I used to be the same though, thinking about a text and editing it for an hour even, before I sent it, terrified. But eventually I came to realise, "I've done my best / done what I can, and it's out of my control now". Then move on and do something else. It sounds like she's into you, however I would think about escalating physically next time otherwise she might be thinking it's a 'friends only' sort of thing. The way I do it is by getting comfortab…
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:51 PM
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Yeah, I agree that dinner is very 'intense' and it comes across as creepy to a lot of girls these days. Plus you don't want to get what I call 'dinner zoned', where you're just there for dinner dates and not getting laid out of it, leave that to her friends (and it's even worse if you are the one paying!). You can get much more intimate by having a coffee date and walk in the park or something similar, sitting face to face over a meal is just awkward and you can't even touch her.
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:20 PM
3

She probably got rejected by the guy she was actually into, and wants some attention/cock to make her feel better. I'd definitely advise against it, been there done that and it was just like sticking a fish hook back into the wound for another few months.
/r/seduction18/04/15 03:16 PM
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Pretty much. Swipe for days, get 1 match, she's either 400 pounds, a bot, or doesn't respond. GG.
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:07 PM
2

Essentially. Even a quick proofread would be an idea..
/r/seduction02/04/15 12:53 PM
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Depends where. Here in Melbourne nearly all clubs that ive ever been to will take a photo of you and your ID to check some database to see if you're banned.
/r/seduction22/03/15 06:45 PM
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Yes, every guy swipes right on every girl. Before the limits I could swipe thousands for days to get 1 match.
/r/seduction22/03/15 01:18 PM
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Wow, I was actually thinking it was that based on 'video game bar' and 'city square'.
/r/seduction22/03/15 01:05 PM
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I think you do need external help, even if it's just meeting up with someone off here in real life who is at least semi-successful. They'll be able to tell you quickly what the problem is. You're probably coming off as outcome dependant with the focus on 'game'. The truly successful people improve themselves so that they have natural conversation and connections. If you treat every step of an interaction as something you have to escalate and calculate then you'll fail. If you go into an interact…
/r/seduction20/03/15 02:12 PM
0

Shave your head and forget about it. How much major discussion is really needed?
/r/seduction20/03/15 01:59 PM
1

Nobody knows anything about where you live, where you will be going and how much drugs you take or drinks you buy.
/r/seduction19/03/15 01:45 PM
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1 call only maybe. Anything more and you're creep zoning yourself.
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:49 PM
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It sounds pretty successful and it probably is just inexperience on her part. Most girls would easily kiss at that point. You're best off fading away yourself.. let her get back to you. If she's blowing you off with excuses then you're done for anyway 90% of the time. If she's interested, she might hit you up in a few weeks. But every further message you send now is digging your chances further into the whole.
/r/seduction17/03/15 01:39 PM
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Work on your health if there's anything lacking there. It is sometimes hard to notice the difference day to day, but a month of getting great sleep, gym and having fun will have you glowing and wanting to be social with guys and girls. Go back to slacking off, staying up late and eating mcdonalds and you'll be a sluggish piece of shit in comparison.
/r/seduction16/03/15 01:16 PM
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I will have an update shortly. Typing as we speak.
/r/seduction15/03/15 11:22 PM
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Hmm, doing that usually makes you appear butthurt and like you were sitting there waiting for a response. If she actually meets up with you after that it may be DESPITE how you acted rather than because of it.
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:22 AM
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Most of my friends who are in long term relationships are real AFCs about it. They drop everything, they ask for permission to do anything, and they get dragged along to stuff like engagement parties and shit like that for their GF's friends who they don't particularly know or like. Then good luck getting them to go out for a few drinks! But meh, it's their choice. There are plenty of girls I could have been in a relationshit like that with, but I'd be ready to top myself knowing I was locked aw…
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:18 AM
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Almost all girls will shit test in some way or another. Its basically testing to see of you're really as high value and non needy as you're making out. Some girls will throw out one or 2 small ones, others will give lot more. A common one is 'hold my purse while I go to the bathroom'. Why? You're left there standing there like a doormat if you do. I suspect in my case if I said 'oh yes, any day is fine with me, I'm free every night this week', I'd never see her again. since i flipped it around a…
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:52 AM
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While it doesn't mean anything in every case, I think of it as an expression of interest or a test of attraction. If she makes any excuse or says 'add me on Facebook' like some guys seem to get here, then you know you're drawing dead.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:32 PM
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Use meetup.com assuming it has a presence there. There are groups for every sort of hobby and just general pub crawl / socialising ones.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:20 PM
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Don't bring it up. Never go meta. Stay in the moment and she won't have to think about how cringey you used to be. Start from scratch like you just met her.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:17 PM
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I'm not in America, and I'm not trying to be racist or judgemental, its just reality that this particular suburb is primarily Chinese and Indian people who only recently moved here.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:03 PM
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Probably a week or 2 ago in nofap Edit: maybe as advice to someone else in this sub actually
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:02 PM
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Yeah, these aren't shit tests. She just legitimately doesn't know anything about you so she's asking. But in case you didn't screw it up, what did you actually say back in response?
/r/seduction14/03/15 02:23 PM
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Beat me to it. She asked about your life because she knows basically nothing about you now...
/r/seduction14/03/15 02:23 PM
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Not everyone has $3k for a stranger to force them to approach women, however.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:46 AM
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They can probably sense who your target is. And yes, they will often stick around to keep an eye out for their friend and check that you aren't some rapist freak. I have had it before, was meeting a tinder girl at a pub and her friend was there. Thought I was in for a cringey night, but after not too long they gave each other a subtle nod and the friend gave an excuse and left. Took the girl home an hour later.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:44 AM
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I found this out last night. I went out with a friend but we basically went into a few pubs, nothing 'exciting' was happening, so we got bored and left without doing much or talking to anyone. After a few rounds of that it was time to go home and wonder if we are too old for this shit or what our problem was. Then I realised, we should have just barged our way into 5 groups of people in each pub, started talking, and something awesome would have eventuated, awkward moments or not.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:42 AM
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Who are these people exactly? All the people I've ever met who did that barely left the house, let alone spoke to a female.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:33 AM
1

You can install just the app on your phone, or use kindle cloud reader (read it via the amazon web site without installing anything)
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:59 AM
2

Much harder imo. Once I start that's it personally..
/r/seduction07/03/15 11:08 PM
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Why do you think it wasn't for you? How far did you get? Im on day 52, and I find girls start talking to me sometimes, or I just start talking to them, even though I don't do much outside of work, it seems natural to start talking to them in the cafe or on the train. Even if you don't think it helps, it probably does..its hard at first but after you get past the initial urges say 1-3 weeks its actually very easy and you don't think about it. My story was just that I used to play video games, not…
/r/seduction07/03/15 10:58 PM
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Look, girls don't 'expect' you to talk to them, but it's fine to do it. You might wierd them out, or you might make best friends with them. And you can't know until you try. Even the bitchiest looking girl might be having a bad day but want to talk to you. The friendliest looking girl might be a horrible person. Here's an example of an awkward interaction and a good one. I was at the train station tonight, and it was delayed by probably 30 minutes. I was standing there aimlessly, there was a cut…
/r/seduction07/03/15 03:12 PM
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Well, all your points can be refuted as insignificant. It is up to you to get out of your house and make something of yourself. Keep on the nofap (yes its a life changer once you take it seriously, and removes depression, creepy feeling and helps confidence in meeting people massively). Get to the gym, google Stronglifts 5x5 and start that. Come back when you can squat 100kg and complain again, chances are you won't have to. Get to a doctor and get help as well, there is medicine that fixes you …
/r/seduction07/03/15 02:37 PM
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Ditch her now, otherwise you can't even start the healing process and she's using every bit of power she thinks she has to screw you over.
/r/seduction06/03/15 03:39 AM
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They love attention it seems. But you've got to realise the point where they're just making a fool of you and stop before it happens.
/r/seduction05/03/15 03:47 AM
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I'm trying the same with a girl who was always keen to text but as soon as I tried hanging out she would take a full 24 hours to respond. Will see if anything happens there..
/r/seduction04/03/15 02:03 PM
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Well, I think it depends what YOU want. Do you actually like her enough to wait until (IF) she wants to do it? Are you content without sex or not? If you just want sex then you should dump her so you don't hurt her more. She might not change her mind, so you might have to be the one who decides what happens next. Also, you never agree to be 'in a relationship' if you're not having sex, wow. The answer is next time you're just 'hanging out', 'seeing what happens', and having sex if you want to. T…
/r/seduction01/03/15 01:44 PM
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Try and fix your issues. Join some social hobbies or groups like sports. Even if this guy is into you, it can't hurt to improve yourself constantly. Anyone can get 'lucky' now and then with someone they really like, but the results will be much more consistent if you maximise your own value.
/r/seduction28/02/15 01:19 PM
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Well, don't look for someone to blame necessarily. It's just not always anything to do with you how they react.
/r/seduction25/02/15 03:46 PM
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Some combination of skill (experience + confidence to try), and natural chemistry. All you can do is improve yourself and the more experience you gain, the more the numbers are in your favour. It's also very agonizing at times to watch when it's not you, but I guess as long as you eventually get to where that happens and you're the other guy, all good.
/r/seduction25/02/15 03:05 PM
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I don't know your entire situation, but basically, you have to make time and make it happen if you want the results! As a 28 year old I struggle, especially with working usually 50 hours a week lately. You've got to just chat to everyone, guys or girls, be it in the hallways at work, at the copier, at the cafe, and on the bus home. Or whatever applies. Then use every moment of your spare time constructively so either improving yourself with a sport/hobby or being social. I've found with hardly a…
/r/seduction25/02/15 03:00 PM
1

This is 'nice guy' and cringey at the same time, sorry. She was probably being sarcastic.
/r/seduction25/02/15 02:11 PM
1

Tinder girls. Pfft. They lose interest in about 3 days, guaranteed. You have to try to arrange a meet within that time. Just realise how many other guys they are talking to = basically as many as they want since if they are above 5/10 every single guy will match with them.
/r/seduction25/02/15 02:09 PM
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People tell me I'm good looking in real life, but I have to use an app that autoswipes thousands of girls before I get 1 match. Then even the fat ones won't respond or meet. Grats on being 8-10/10 cos that's what it takes for tinder. Girls don't need to settle for any less.
/r/seduction17/02/15 03:02 PM
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This guy is so pathetically awkward I couldn't watch past half way. I can't tell for sure whether this is real or satire. Anyone else?
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:15 AM
1

We've all had a situation like it though, don't worry. Eventually you learn not to be so afraid of doing anything when you get the signs. Think of it this way, they don't stare at guys if they are creeped out, because they don't want the creepy guys to look at them or talk to them.
/r/seduction12/02/15 10:13 PM
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I'm really not an expert. All I can say is you need to have more girls on the go, keep meeting more even if you have a couple that are pretty keen. Its much harder to be lame and start 'caring' about any single one or wasting too much time pining over them. And in most cases, this will make them more attractive as you're being far less needy.
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:31 PM
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She's definitely not interested based on those replies. You'll know when a girl is actually keen. They'll offer a time or date rather than weakly agreeing to you because it stops the awkwardness of a direct rejection (which is really what you've been given). Please be aware that all girls like texting because it's risk-free attention that they get off on. You are seeking her approval and your texts give off a needy bitch vibe.. If you're trying to meet a girl you don't use the wording you did, w…
/r/seduction12/02/15 01:12 PM
1

Are you autistic? No offence but I don't think there is much doubt you could have banged both separately if not had a threesome. I've stuffed up some easy opportunities in my day, but Jesus. If you even think it might be a sign then just go over and say hi... I'm almost weeping on behalf of you because you had it so fucking easy.
/r/seduction12/02/15 11:28 AM
2

It is supposedly a real sign, but yeah pretty hard to actually notice.
/r/seduction12/02/15 02:34 AM
2

I don't really understand the things people say about this. If someone makes eye contact with you it can be by accident. Then we have people saying that if they look away they're attracted, and others saying that if they maintain it they're attracted. So basically anyone who looks at you at all is attracted?
/r/seduction12/02/15 02:33 AM
1

I have had several instances where I've been chatting with a girl on a dating site and for whatever reason I added her on facebook before meeting. And, you guess it, the meet never happened. After adding, I guess my online persona became so boring or maybe my average picture there made me look too ugly. I don't know exactly what it was, but you could almost feel the interest sapping away instantly. I have a friend who found exactly the same. If they try to add you, you can make a game of it to i…
/r/seduction12/02/15 02:16 AM
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Unless you are a tanned, ripped, god.. this is the creepiest thing ever.
/r/seduction12/02/15 02:12 AM
2

This is true. I got the number of this girl who I actually wasn't quite sure was that interested at the time. By just texting her 'lets go to the zoo on Friday' I got an instant response ('I'd love to!') and my question answered. Easy.
/r/seduction12/02/15 02:10 AM
1

Well, try online dating maybe. I don't recommend it if you have no success as its a time sink and a bit like looking at porn (endless novelty of hot girls etc) but at least you're cushioning the blow of rejection I suppose. Give it a quick try for a week or 2, see if anything happens. If you aren't 7+/10 you're not going to have much luck though, trust me. Failing that, work on hobbies etc where girls will be, salsa, crossfit, team sports. You'll start to realise that its easy to interact with t…
/r/seduction02/02/15 12:16 PM
1

Search for 'good looking loser', a lot of the site is about red pill / roids / penis enhancement shit but there is also a very good free approach anxiety course. It starts off easy like 'ask 5 women for the time, then leave' and gets harder but very gradually so its hard not to make progress.
/r/seduction31/01/15 02:51 AM
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Sounds like you got a bit excited about a one night stand to me. As long as you don't get too hung up on her I suppose. And err, this sounds exactly like a girl I know who lives near khao San road and would have been out partying with her friend for her birthday last night..... Was her friend a lot taller?
/r/seduction31/01/15 02:30 AM
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