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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Where to meet womenMore precisely, /r/outside. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Biggest sticky point at the moment- I'm just fucking weird.I could be, I always had trouble reading social cues. I still do to be honest. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Biggest sticky point at the moment- I'm just fucking weird.Will try going out more often then! Actually it's really hard to meet new people outside and the ones you do meet? You tend to make so many mistakes, that you're the only one who calls everyone else in the end. It sucks. I have no problem being social but the one or two weird things I say make people not wanting to hang out with me anymore. It's like it enables some switch in them that I'm no longer worth hanging out with. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Biggest sticky point at the moment- I'm just fucking weird.Haha wish God blessed us with less weirdness | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Biggest sticky point at the moment- I'm just fucking weird.I have actually, I get along well with kids. Sometimes yes I get emotional too. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:50 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Photoshoot turned date per mutual sexual tension; then I botched itThis is EXACTLY what happened to me a week back. A girl I met after an year finally expressed some interest (she already had a crush) and while on a date I told her about RSD and how it has helped me a lot. I told her I have notes made on seduction (she referred to it as 'you have notes about how to seduce women?') I could see her face go from 'finally found the man of my dreams' to 'nahh another creep'. And I've never felt a more genuine connection with anyone else in my entire life. Now most o… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I turned down a girl who wanted to fuck meUsed NLP? | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Stuck at being a 'Dancing Monkey'My insecurity: If I don't make jokes and have them have a good time, they won't come and interact with me. and like most fears, this one turns into a self fulfilling prophecy too since im only jokes. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Stuck at being a 'Dancing Monkey'But then again-why would i ever interact with people? And why would they interact with me? That's the point. I've tried both approaches- trying to get to know someone better, and too much joking and teasing. Both of these bore the shit out of them, the second one a bit later. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | For some reason, still stuck on that insecurity that she has been with other experienced guys than me.I know, probably couldn't word the title better. The question is if I don't have the experience of other girls being my girlfriend, and I meet a girl I for some reason am still stuck in the story of 'The One' etc. where I met and connected with this woman for a reason, but she has had tons of guys approach her, pursue/try to pursue her and it breaks my heart that I can't get to the 'someone special for me' level in anyone's life. And yes this is a recurring insecurity where I compare myself with… | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | For some reason, still stuck on that insecurity that she has been with other experienced guys than me.I'm just asking because I've heard girls verbatim ask guys they like calling them out of the blue, to see how their day went. Same for long WhatsApp chats with these same guys. Ive just seen it happen is all. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Can't sleep for days over this experience: Don't know what to do, am stuck on so many levels.Man idk, I've had women chase me. I just cannot be with them afterwards. I might be seeking validation yes, but I still have to learn this. For that I need practice, I need the results. I do NOT want to end up in the 'I tried, I guess i'm not made for this' phase that many guys end up in. I'm a hard worker, and I want to work my way out of this. Or maybe its neediness. But how do I remove it? A major part of my happiness revolves around dating and intimacy. If I don't learn it and accept the way… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Can't sleep for days over this experience: Don't know what to do, am stuck on so many levels.Man idk, maybe the image I'm giving off is of a person who is cooking up stuff in their head but I can assure you they did. Either I'm mentally ill or they actually did want me. I saw it in their eyes, I saw it in the way they talked, the way they invited me, talked to me. The way they found every excuse to be near me. I have enough female friends to notice the difference between 'liking to have fun and talking to people' and wanting you. Please try to understand i'm not coming from the 'I canno… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Can't sleep for days over this experience: Don't know what to do, am stuck on so many levels.Apologies for the late reply, I wanted to set time off to read it all and take it in. I couldn't thank you enough for this! I'm taking therapy currently and its working fine as of now! Plus most of your advice seems spot on and I will definitely follow it word to word. I live in India, and here you have to make people comfortable before you can do anything. Some dudes just kill it and I just can't reach up to their level, that's why the anxiety. My biggest fear in life is not to be the loser who… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Can't sleep for days over this experience: Don't know what to do, am stuck on so many levels.One of the problems might be the neediness, but at times where I don't need the woman the biggest battle is knowing what to do! Even today what happened during an approach : I built comfort throughout, asked her questions about her day, but her reply was a simple 'bye'. No trying to know me, no exchanging numbers, nothing. I've have had friends say the cheesiest stuff and women hit them back. No idea how to engage a person. When it comes to one on one conversation I absolutely suck. I'm perfectl… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 02:35 PM |
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