| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 60 | What to do after getting fucked? | PNW_Uncle_Iroh | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 08:14 PM | |
| 20 | How did you survive/ recover? | PNW_Uncle_Iroh | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 12:04 AM | |
| 14 | Should I Appeal? | PNW_Uncle_Iroh | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 04:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | Would former incels/redpillers be interested in a study on incel ideology.No. The ideology is garbage. No reason to study it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/26 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Red pill correlation with cuck fetishI can say that I’ve never consumed any red pill content and I do not have a cuck or humiliation fetish. I guess that can be another data point for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/26 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Why is Andrew Tate considered "Red Pill"?If it walks like a duck… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/26 12:01 AM |
| 5 | Was my ex-boyfriend red pilled?Your last sentence said he watched a lot of red pill content. What do YOU think? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/26 12:32 AM |
| 31 | How to refute the redpill argument that adult men are having less sex?You don’t have to refute if you don’t consume. I’ve never had to have a conversation like this in my life. Get away from that garbage. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/26 07:26 PM |
| 11 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tYou’re still approaching this from a skills/competence perspective. You’ve just shifted from one skill to another. If you really want to build skills, focus on knowing yourself, authenticity, empathy, and care. These are the things women who are worth knowing really care about. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/26 06:06 AM |
| 7 | How do I recognize a real red pill guy?lol what? “Similar views but is not red pilled” = red pilled | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/26 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill gave me a lot of (wrong) answers on how to improve my dating life. Post-RP, what are the RIGHT answers?It’s only creepy and desperate if you are doing it constantly. It’s ok to talk to a woman you are genuinely interested in and start a conversation. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/26 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Being 100% redpill was good while it lasted, trying to make it more like 50/50 now.Yeah that’s not red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/26 12:51 AM |
| 13 | Did I mess up a one night stand?Gotta nail down the plans. Next time just say, “I’ll be there at 8. Does that work?” | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/26 07:11 AM |
| 3 | Do you know any women who love their stay-at-home husbands? I'm young, 17, and I'm coming off the red pill.Penelope Trunk has a recent blog post about how successful women need a SAHH. Here’s the link https://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2025/12/24/women-who-had-it-all-had-a-stay-at-home-husband/ | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/26 10:24 PM |
| 12 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.If you were in a male virgin shoes what would you do? I’d chill the fuck out and stop overthinking this. Go outside. Make friends. Live my life. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 05:05 PM |
| 11 | The wall and ageIt’s only thrown around a lot in toxic spaces. Get out of there. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/25 10:04 PM |
| 9 | Is there a non-redpill alternative to Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy"?No more Mr nice guy is basically just a book on codependency for men. There are some good takeaways but a lot of noise. Most books about codependency are written for women so any of those would be good for you. Also checkout CODA groups and literature. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/25 01:45 AM |
| 34 | Celebrities disprove the red pill ideologyYou don’t have to look at celebrities. Just look at any relationships and you’ll see RP is all BS | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | How often is it the case that a woman adores her man?r/girlsmirin | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/24 09:06 PM |
| 5 | My gf's past partner is messing with my head...You are overreacting a bit and need to work through your insecurity. That being said, it is a little weird that she shared with you that her ex had a bigger penis. How did that come up? Did you ask? Did she just mention it? I suspect that she may be communicating in an unhealthy way, but you haven’t really provided enough info. Everyone has a past but no one should be comparing you to past partners in this way. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/24 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Feminists have started spreading wrong factsStay off social media my dude. That stuff is a rage bait rabbit hole. You’re always going to find made up information shared to get clicks/views. Feminists aren’t the enemy. Most of them are advocating for equality for both women and men. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/08/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Cheating seems depressingly common now, is it really?Not really. I’ve never cheated or been cheated on and I don’t know of that happening with any of my friends. I think it depends on who you associate with. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | The way redpill guys chat and text is ridiculous lmaoHow do they chat and text? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/24 06:10 PM |
| 10 | Why are men who disapprove of Redpill considered feminists?Feminism is just advocating for men and women to be equal. Most reasonable people are cool with that. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 03:41 AM |
| 24 | What are signs of a Man's high body count?Probably not a good question for this sub. Better question might be, “how do I stop caring so much about the concept of ‘body count’?” | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 6 | How many of you dated cluster B women?I was married to someone with undiagnosed NPD. Literally checked every box in the DSM-5. Was completely unwilling to work with me on anything. The relationship was hell and the divorce was worse. Currently dating a woman with diagnosed BPD. She’s on medication and has been an amazing partner so far. My radar is up and I’m not going to put up with any shenanigans, but she hasn’t don’t anything to jeopardize the relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 06:33 AM |
| 13 | The irrelevant dudes from Fresh and FitNah. I’m not even remotely interested in watching for any reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/24 04:02 AM |
| 2 | How is Richard Cooper able to afford multi million dollars properties, exotic cars, millions in the bank, exc?I had never heard of him before. But a quick Google search shows him to be the pretty standard influencer/scammer. These guys make money off selling courses and “coaching”. They never provide much value and eventually fade away into obscurity. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Why aren’t men allowed room to grieveYes. I am a man and work for a fantastic employer. If something like this happened it would not be an issue to take off as much time as I needed. Very sorry to OP and her husband. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 06:37 PM |
| 6 | This shit is making me mentally ill and ruining my lifeYou realize none of that stuff is true right? It’s just controversial opinions people are spewing to generate views to make money. Just stop consuming toxic content and watch TED Talks instead. You’ll be fine. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/23 04:29 PM |
| 43 | I feel totally inadequate,and this fuels my manosphere bingeWhy are you watching that stuff if it makes you feel bad? You gotta get yourself busy with some more constructive activities. Get out of the house. Go to the library. Focus on consuming more long form content. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/23 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Can your negative attitude and mindset really seap off of you like body Oder?I wouldn’t say it comes off like an odor, but it’s pretty easy to tell after only a minute or two of conversation. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/23 08:22 PM |
| 6 | How bad is fresh n fit? Are they ruining masculinity?Never heard of it until just now. Probably not ruining masculinity. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/11/23 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Should I Appeal?Appreciate the reply. Here’s my last post for context: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/s/yG6bLPnRli In the final order the judge did not provide any reasoning for his decisions and they were pretty extreme. Minimal time with kids and max spousal support. My new attorney believes we have a good shot at getting more custody and reducing the duration of spousal support. But we all know attorneys are salespeople… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Biggest mistake?Trying to be amicable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | What to do after getting fucked?Washington state is rough. No abuse or substances or anything in my end. According to my attorney, got a traditional judge who thinks kids should be raised by women and men should pay for it. Based on my research, men rarely get primary here, and they sometimes get 50/50 but it’s rare at trial. Judges have a lot of discretion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What to do after getting fucked?Unfortunately the judge just saw me as a high income earner so after awarding primary custody to my ex he wanted to make sure she could take care of the kids and maintain her same quality of life. I’m hoping a different judge will feel differently during the appeal process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What to do after getting fucked?Washington State. Statistically, men get less time here. I’m on my third lawyer. She refused to work during the marriage even though the kids were in full time school and she had a masters degree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting fucked?Washington state | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 06:10 PM |
| 7 | What to do after getting fucked?Man. Getting more time with the kids is my dream. My ex fought hard for majority custody so she would get more money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 01:03 AM |
| 2 | What to do after getting fucked?Washington | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 01:01 AM |
| 9 | What to do after getting fucked?Yeah. I had no idea it was going to be like this. Thanks for sharing and good luck on your case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 12:08 AM |
| 11 | What to do after getting fucked?Oh man! Would you be willing to share more about what you specifically did after the ruling? My understanding is that appeals typically fail. Would love to hear what you did to make a change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 11:50 PM |
| 5 | What to do after getting fucked?Appreciate the support. Thank you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | What to do after getting fucked?Yeah. I’m hoping if I can get someone different to look at the case they would make a different decisions. I know my chances aren’t great but this judge was very biased. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 10:36 PM |
| 4 | What to do after getting fucked?That’s helpful. Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting fucked?Definitely worth considering | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 10:35 PM |
| 4 | What to do after getting fucked?Good idea | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 10:34 PM |
| 3 | What to do after getting fucked?Technically, alimony is fixed so I would need to file for a reduction, but it’s possible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 10:34 PM |
| 7 | What to do after getting fucked?I’m seriously considering it. I need to talk to an attorney first to make sure it’s all above board. My current job pays well but it’s a lot of stress and travel. It would be nice to get a break. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 09:43 PM |
| 3 | What to do after getting fucked?Absolutely. Older conservative white man who saw me as nothing more than a high income earner while viewing my ex as a caregiver because she’s a woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 09:41 PM |
| 9 | What to do after getting fucked?That’s what I’m leaning towards. I have 30 days to file. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 09:21 PM |
| 36 | What to do after getting fucked?Thailand seems like a good option at this point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 08:25 PM |
| 16 | What to do after getting fucked?Thank you. Appreciate you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | New Lady Friend?Con confirm. Filed this week and I am an absolute disaster. Even after two years speared. It hit way harder than I expected. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How did you survive/ recover?Oh man! That’s what I wanted to hear! Would you mind sharing how you ended up with full custody? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How did you survive/ recover?Alimony for 5 years and child support for 13 years. I have a long road ahead of me. I’m still young and the judge really only saw me as a “high income earner” not necessarily a parent, which was so frustrating because I was only asking for 50/50. I was at a huge disadvantage because my ex refused to work during the marriage and separation even though the kids were in full time school and day care. Things would have been very different with another judge. He just had this preference. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How did you survive/ recover?Yep. That’s the plan. Just more money out and feeling deflated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 03:44 AM |
| 8 | How did you survive/ recover?That’s encouraging. I did find out today that any money I make in addition to my FT job is mine to keep. It’s reported but not considered when calculating payments in my state. Time to set some big goals and get the side hustle going. Tip me well when I deliver your tacos! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 01:45 AM |
| 13 | How did you survive/ recover?It’s true. Washington state. The judge was a 70 year old man who couldn’t imagine a dad taking care of his kids more than the minimum. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I would love some insight of someone who has dealt with narcissistic behaviour. Does my ex displayed narcissistic behaviour/abuse? I feel like going crazy. After he started watching redpill content, it went downhill fast. I am so dumbfounded looking back.Who cares if he can be diagnosed with NPD. I couldn’t even finish your post. It’s obvious is he is an ass hole. Why spend any more time or energy on him? He sounds exhausting. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | “Tainted” by your exThank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | “Tainted” by your exWhat is IC? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 01:38 PM |
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