Ok. It’s over. Got the ruling today after 2 long years of fighting and over 100k in attorney fees. I did everything I could and lost on all fronts. I only get so see the kids about 30% of the time, she got the house, and I’m paying half my paycheck in alimony and child support. It feels hopeless. Men who survived, how did you make it through this? It’s all fresh right now, but I need some hope.