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The best way you can convey that you are nexting a girl is to stop texting her.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 10:21 PM
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oh god i'm way too high for this right now
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:28 AM
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$600 fine dude
/r/PussyPass13/10/14 02:52 AM
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You mean a teenager? She'll grow out of it either way I'm sure.
/r/PussyPass13/10/14 02:08 AM
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A lawyer is like $1500 just to spend one day in court. It doesn't make sense to get representation when it's her first ticket and there is no way the fine could be worth the cost of the lawyer. Whatever dude. I hope you're able to address the underlying issues that make you a mysogynist and live a happy, productive life.
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 10:13 PM
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"Someone like her"? This was her first speeding ticket. You seem to in truth just be a mysogynist bro. There's a difference between recognizing that sometimes women get the pussypass, and seeing that kind of thing where it isn't and advocating extreme punishments that seem to come from malice, rather than justice. I think it would positively benefit your life to ask, "Why do you hate women?" Because while you can keep on taking your anger out on them, you will never fix the issue causing that an…
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 07:42 PM
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$600 dude. $ 6 0 0
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 07:13 PM
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She got a $600 ticket. The sentence was not lenient, and she didnt get a pass.
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 06:56 PM
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No they do not. Source, I got a ticket going that much over and I paid $120. Three times in ten years actually and it was about that each time (I waited till the previous fell off my record before going that fast again). There is nothing short of a dui that would cost that much in the states. There is no pussypass here.
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 06:47 PM
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She paid over $600. I wouldnt say the judge was lenient at all.
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 08:43 AM
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Stuff that isnt pussy pass gets put on here all the time. This seems like a completely normal handling of that kind of speed. He fined her FAR FAR more money than youd get for the same ticket here in the states.
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 08:43 AM
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$600 FINE THO HOLY SHIT
/r/PussyPass10/10/14 08:41 AM
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That's just a hook to catch someone's attention. You're reading way too much into it
/r/seduction27/09/14 03:32 PM
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Let me get this straight....Backing up your own personality, which is all he says he put after the hook line, would be hard to back up?
/r/seduction27/09/14 06:40 AM
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Gelled hair and leather gets chicks though. Source, that exact thing has gotten me hot chicks. I don't dress that way anymore, but when I did, it worked. Douchey stuff works a pretty large percentage of the time dude. It's lame and annoying but it does work. That's why a lot of naturals are douches.
/r/seduction27/09/14 06:39 AM
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Let me get this straight, by having a unique hook and then just describing his personality you find him pretentious? Sounds like you're trolling.
/r/seduction27/09/14 06:36 AM
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This motherfucker deserves a nobel
/r/seduction27/09/14 06:34 AM
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Again, go actually see a therapist, because everything you just said is wrong
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:20 PM
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If toy think therapists and lawyers are on the same level of honesty and ethical behaviour then you are very deluded. Go see a therapist
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:23 AM
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Yeah. It makes me sad cuz it's misogynists like them who give pickup a bad name.
/r/seduction17/09/14 02:26 PM
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Yes, you are. You're a member of a misogynist cult and I hope for her sake no woman ever marries you.
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:50 PM
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A cult is a group of people that close mindedly adhere to a particular orthodox and do not permit the discussion of things they disagree with. Redpill is misogynist and conservative in the extreme. They sound like society pre women's suffrage. Example: they frequently talk about how as a guy you should sleep around before you settle down but they act like any woman who isn't a virgin is subhuman and should never be married. The double standards are disgusting. And I have tried for a long time to…
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:48 PM
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Really? You're self esteem is so low that you have to pick on socially deficient nerds on the internet? I hope you get hemorrhoids.
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:36 PM
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Then gtfo
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:35 PM
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Except for the redpill. Goddamn that cult is nutty.
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:35 PM
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Your advice is not helpful at all
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:34 PM
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Well, pretty much all of seduction except rsd is cheesy bullshit. I mean we call it seduction for chrissake. Could you pick a cheesier word!?
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:32 PM
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therapists are frauds Okay L. Ron Hubbard. I think we're done here.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:33 AM
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Again, you clearly don't understand how biology works. You also clearly don't even understand your own psychology. Go see a therapist. Trust me. I'm not being mean btw, I see a therapist too. It's not bad to admit you don't know what you're talking about. It's good. Keeping yourself in a state of knowing that you know nothing is how you truly learn and become wise.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:35 AM
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I don't think you understand how biology works
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:54 PM
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That's not really how it works. Criminal charges are always the government vs the defendant. You could sue in a civil suit, but it would be very hard to win.
/r/PussyPass16/09/14 06:45 AM
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What am I a lawyer? Nah dude, I have just seen a lot of cases both in real life and on the internet where people were doing art that had nudity and zero fucks were given. On my own college campus some chick put herself in a glass box fully nude while on her period and people didn't care. But I've also seen a piece of art at another college campus where two dudes had sex on the stage. Zero fucks. Then again I do live in san francisco. But in this case, it was in paris. Parisians are super cavalie…
/r/PussyPass16/09/14 04:52 AM
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No, it's what people say to vacuous morons. If you are part of the art exhibit yourself then the law applies differently than if you are a patron who walks in to an art exhibit and exposes himself. Please, drown yourself in your tub.
/r/PussyPass16/09/14 12:07 AM
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You're a fucking idiot dude. I'm not even gonna dignify this stupid shit with an answer.
/r/PussyPass15/09/14 07:17 PM
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Yeah, it can be really hard to get over the "what will my friends think" hump. It could also be an escalation problem. With how isolated you had that girl you'd want to not just be making out but have fingers in her vagina by that point. If possible.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:57 PM
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The other comment here is great advice. I'd add to this though that you should try to win over and befriend her friend. If her friend comes to like you she'll just stop cock blocking. And it's a lot easier to befriend her friend than it is to persuade this girl you just met to see her friend as jealous and not bail due to slut shaming/judgment of her friends. Win over the friend and promise her you'll take care of her friend then the next time she leaves take your girl as far away as possible.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:52 AM
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You can. You can because science does. In order to have a scientific test you have to be able to isolate variables. You can't do that with sociological experiments, so they experiments never render data that is accurate. We have the same problem with economics. It doesn't mean that you can't come to conclusions about sociology, it just means that you can't use the same kinds of studies you would to test whether a drug worked, for example.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:57 AM
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So I just gave you a fictitious example. But the point is that we have enough evidence to establish that it was not just some people. Before a certain point many religions were centered around feminine icons and society was a lot more polyamorous. Marriage does predate christianity, but marriage is not the first form of sociological organization within humanity. It is likely that neither was a more feminine oriented set of things either. Most likely we started off in social groups that are simil…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:30 PM
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She probably didn't get charged because it was in an art exhibit and there is legal precedent for art exhibits that have nudity not falling under the same laws as regular nudity. The cops aren't going to waste money pressing charges on a case that will likely get thrown out. Especially since the exhibit got taken down anyways. I'm a pussypass subscriber, girls do get preferential treatment, but this seems like a flimsy case at best.
/r/PussyPass14/09/14 10:13 PM
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Again, I have. I've been around the block more than half of this sub combined. That's exactly why I have the opinions I do.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:03 PM
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It is, but what we know about how societies worked in the past isn't sociology. It's just history. It's based on writings and records that we find. The difference is that with sociology you have someone taking an incredibly complex system and doing an overly simplistic experiment with no control group. But with the history stuff what we have is the equivalent of some greek farmer's journal talking about how at last weeks congregation of the sacred feminine he and his buddy banged four chicks but…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:53 PM
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She got arrested for indecent exposure. Not sure how this is a pussypass
/r/PussyPass14/09/14 07:46 PM
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They're closer to proven fact than baseless theories from the records we have. But what you are saying has a logical hole. You are saying that if they were better then we would have them now, that's not necessarily true. Sociological norms don't work the same way that darwinian biological evolution does. Sociological norms have a lot more to do with how the alphas of society decide to shape it than it does with what is objectively better. Marriage can be a very useful tool for society because it…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:26 PM
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I've been reading this sub for like 4 years dude. You guys put way too much stock in studies and too little stock in your own real world experience. Sociological studies are bullshit by definition because it's impossible to account for all of the variables.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:16 PM
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Except that this is a false duality. This is what the brainwashing of society wants the situation to be. But sans puritanial christian bullshit humans, in their natural habitat, never commit. Marriage doesn't exist. People live in polyamorous communities and the kids are raised mostly by the women, but everyone is provided for by the men, who work together for food. Nobody gives a fuck who's kid is who's, because the kids still need to be raised well regardless of who's they are. Of course, the …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:02 PM
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Your misundersanding. I am saying that sluttiness has nothing to do with maturity or responsibility or fun in bed. Because of how our society works a lot of those variables occur in the same place, but that's just because of societal brainwashing. Girls get the fun girl beat out of them by a judgemental society, and the fun girls get sucked up to by all the losers so their personalities are not always as great. But not everyone is controlled by that. It's possible to find a fun girl who is also …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:00 PM
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What you need is not a good girl. You just need a fun girl who is ready to settle down. Or, you could be true to your human biology and just have an open relationship when you do settle down.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 06:58 PM
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You're not understanding. I would rather marry a slut. I don't want anything to do with judgemental boring good girls. You're still just bought into the idea that sexual promiscuity is inversely correlated to responsibility and maturity. That's not the case in the real world, they are independent variables. Girls don't like nice guys because nice guys are losers. It's not a societal brainwashing thing, they really are losers, objectively. But sluts are just on the wrong side of a lot of puritani…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 06:57 PM
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But this isn't true. Girls don't want the nice guy because the "nice guy" thing has nothing to do with niceness and everything to do with being submissive and not assertive. Girls want a leader usually. But the slut. Lots of guys want the slut. I actually prefer slutty girls because they are way more fun even when you aren't having sex. They're just more adventurous. But many people still cling to older more puritanical views about sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 03:55 PM
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Not if you do it right
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:45 AM
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Because every comment on reddit is 100% serious And don't be so hard on yourself, you're not the stupidest poster of the whole day.
/r/PussyPass07/09/14 10:46 PM
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I get what you're complaining about, but personally I don't think we should do anything that disincentivizes women from taking their clothes off.
/r/PussyPass07/09/14 08:15 PM
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Pretty minimalist, and needs more sexual tension, but I'd say it's a good guide for newbs.
/r/seduction25/08/14 08:06 AM
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"Securing justice" I see no justice here. Only asshole parents trying to destroy a boys life because they are too overly controlling of their daughter.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 01:15 AM
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I disagree. I turned out just fine and I don't have a father.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:08 AM
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Well it's just annoying when someone makes a generalized statement about why something sucks for everyone when the reasons that it sucks for him are not reasons that apply to everyone. Basically, his entire argument is retarded at that point.
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:11 PM
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Nah. It's just being excited. You don't have to be as high energy as the environment is. Just be little higher energy than she is.
/r/seduction07/06/14 01:31 PM
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Just stop trying super hard and just trust in yourself, trust in your opinions and your values, and go out to have fun. When you see a hot girl, go for her! But don't let yourself get attached. When youre going for it but not too attached you will respond to rejection with humor and nonchalance, which will rope her back in a lot of the time.
/r/seduction07/06/14 07:55 AM
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Waayyyyy less effort. And less time consuming. And most importantly: There are far less potential negative social side effects of the fucking.
/r/seduction07/06/14 07:54 AM
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This guy missed one very crucial point: Women primarily go to bars/clubs to meet guys This makes all of the stuff he said pretty irrelevant. All of that stuff is true, but only in your head. The club is designed to make you THINK all that pressure and difficulty is the reality. But the real truth is that the same pressures are bearing down on everyone in the club, which betas out most guys, and if you can just be the guy who maintains his confidence despite all of that, you will find it very eas…
/r/seduction07/06/14 07:52 AM
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Huh? Stop living in the middle of nowhere then lmfao
/r/seduction07/06/14 07:51 AM
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Ratchet ass bitch
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:27 AM
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Eh. If there hanging out with you regularly they probably just want to fuck. A lot of girls dont feel comfortable making the first move, so letting conversation die out is a way for them to try to force you to make a move on them, so they can get laid.
/r/seduction03/06/14 10:56 PM
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I think I see your confusion and I feel I understand where you're coming from. You seem to be thinking a shit test is where a guy tests a girl. In reality it's the opposite. A shit test is when a girl out of nowhere acts bitchy or mean to a guy and it's actually considered to just be a normal part of female psychology. Shit tests generally happen within the first few seconds/minutes of an interaction, or can happen later if the girl starts to doubt your value. It serves to do kind of what you we…
/r/seduction03/06/14 10:42 PM
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It's not about what you say, it's about holding your frame and making it clear that it's no big deal to you, therefore it wont be to her. All shit tests are just about holding your frame.
/r/seduction02/06/14 07:15 AM
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I think that the most important take away is that redpill men don't feel entitled because they know it's the alphas who get the chicks. Blue pillers on the other hand, chodes, they tend to feel much more entitled. They're the ones who get mad and yell at girls for not liking them after they've been the nice guy who's always been there for them.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 02:40 PM
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If done properly it works on everyone the same.
/r/seduction24/05/14 03:48 PM
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Increasingly I'm coming to have thoughts like this about a lot of things. It used to be one of the most important things to me to help others. Then the real world taught me that most people don't want your help and that often the ones who do will take it and then turn around and screw you over for it. Then I learned that almost nobody out there gives enough of a shit to really help me when the chips are down for me. Now I just feel like, I'm willing to help those who are good people who're willi…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:42 AM
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How it should go: "There's no scientific evidence" Rp: "well I have a dick but it sounds to me like you might have a vagina. In you're case you're probably right, maybe there isn't a difference."
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:38 AM
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Sounds like a self esteem problem honestly. As soon as you realize the girl likes you, because you think you're a loser, you give her negative social proof in your own mind and you think that if she's this into you then she can't be that great. Boom, you lose attraction. Sounds like you're doing a good job taking action and getting shit done, but it might be time for you to work on your inner game more. Improve your self esteem.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:32 PM
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Lol. Ironically I've been subbed there for a long time I just never noticed it was shortened to mrm. I spend a lot more time on /r/redpill and /r/seduction..though so that's probably why
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:29 PM
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Yeah my only consolation is that it seems society is stumbling in the right directions if you look at a long enough scale. Taking it's sweet ass time doing it though
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:28 PM
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Goddamn did you read anything I said at all? You fucking troll piece of shit. Someone ban this stupid fuck already. I said that you need to pay attention to nonverbal communication when a girl says "no" because it could mean almost anything. From your hard line on this issue and inability to grasp what I'm saying id be pretty confident in betting that you're a fucking keyboard jockey who doesn't actually go out and get laid much. Take it from a seasoned veteran, you need to shut the fuck up righ…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:59 AM
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Mrm? The fuck is that?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:56 AM
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Good lord. I wasn't talking about his situation at all. I was only talking about what you said. You weren't only talking about his situation. You issued a blanket statement saying that you shouldn't listen to when girls say no. I'm only responding to you stupid statement. A better statement would've been, "in this case it sounds like when she said no she was just testing you."
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:30 AM
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Oh my god that's terrible I'm so sorry for you, and for those kids! Your ex belongs in prison. Yeah trp, I think he belongs in prison. I think that anyone who uses children to manipulate other people is a worthless piece of scum whether he's a dude or a chick. Fuck all the women you want, but for chrissake please don't fuck over any children's lives.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 07:37 AM
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You fail to understand the breadth of people reading this sub. You can't say to a newbie, "No really means yes guhyuk!" Furthermore, saying that no means yes makes it incredibly easy for other subs like SRS to misquote us elsewhere on Reddit and make us look bad, which causes us to lose potential subscribers and creates more bluepill dumbasses in the world. It's not white knighting, it's properly explaining shit and not looking like a fucking misogynist douche clown. Red pill theory is too impor…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 07:34 AM
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when a woman says "don't try anything" what they mean is "fuck the shit out of me" just an FYI. Yeeaahhhh..... Don't listen to this guy unless you want to go to jail. No can mean several things. No can mean NO. No can mean "not yet", no can mean, "not in this situation" no can mean, "I don't trust you" no can mean, "Im worried you wont respect me tomorrow" no can mean "I'm fucking scared shitless right now because I am so far out of my comfort zone" no can mean "I'm playing with you, making you …
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:57 AM
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These answers are all hilarious.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:55 AM
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It depends. The FIRST kiss needs to happen rather quickly and you need to move fast in my opinion. But once you've established that you are a guy who goes for what he wants when he wants it, you're good. After that point, where I've already pushed through some protesting, and made sure to make out with them in an adrenaline inducing situation, like randomly pushing them up against a wall somewhere. After the point of establishing my character, I have turned down women for sex and had it get them…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:52 AM
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Lol. Only a sucker would straight give her the money for it. Hell no. I'll go with her to the clinic and pay the doctor directly.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:49 AM
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That's fucking retarded. So I can be held liable for something that I did not agree to. And there is legal precedence for sex not being consent to have a kid. That's a big part of the legal justification allowing women to get an abortion regardless of how the man feels. So we just apply rules to women and not to men? There should be a legally binding document that I can sign during the period where abortion is possible where I can state that I don't want a kid and will not be liable if the woman…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:48 AM
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Do you know that or are you just maybe a little bit paranoid?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:27 AM
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I do but shit can happen dude. And I'm pretty sure in the us if you document that you did everything to try to get an abortion and she has the kid anyways you're not liable.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:03 AM
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That was awesome. He handled that perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 11:03 PM
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Ya sounded to me like he was making for a good television exchange. It was funny and whimsical and interesting. He was angry........but was he really?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 11:00 PM
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I'd just tell her to fuck off. I'm very open with women when I start having sex with them. I let them know that if they get pregnant, I'll pay for an abortion (I figure, if they're going through the pain and trauma of it, the least I can do is pay for all of it), but otherwise they're on their own. I'll do everything I can to prevent it, but if they purposefully try to screw me over (and the child too!) that's their decision, and they are the asshole ruining a kids life, not me. There are too ma…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 10:42 PM
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You could take it that way. When I've said it it works really well. The way it comes across is actually like I'm 100% owning that that is what I'm doing and also being dismissive of her complaint because I know it's just a test and I'm completely confident that what I am doing is ok, and that she will like it. "Yup I am, and you like it. Here let's go check out the bar!" (grabs her). What you said, to me, sounds more risky because you're making the situation more serious and you're giving her an…
/r/askTRP08/05/14 10:30 PM
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You're saying the exact same thing as me.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 08:17 PM
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I disagree. I have girls call me out all the time for spitting game at them, I just say "Yeah, and you like it." Girls know when someone is attracted to them. They're girls, not chimpanzees.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 07:59 PM
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I'd like to add that there's nothing wrong with fucking a girl who's in a relationship with someone else. Her relationship is her business. You don't know how that relationship is going, nor was it you who made the commitment. It's her business to stay faithful, and your job to take care of yourself.
/r/seduction05/05/14 07:49 AM
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If she gave you any more signals she'd be visible from Russia.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 10:16 PM
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I didn't see that before. Now I understand. I agree.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:51 AM
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I get it now.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:50 AM
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Real talk here: I have never once in my life met parents who actually provided for their child's best interests solely for their child's sake. They rationalize their behavior by pretending that's their motive. But in my experience it never is.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:49 AM
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I think /u/illimitablemen is conflating socialism with communism. It's a common rookie mistake. Doubly so when you realize that there are somewhat more born and bred ultra conservatives in this sub than you'd tend to find elsewhere on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:46 AM
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Sudden Clarity Clarence: this is why I obsessively use reddit, but deleted my Facebook!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:44 AM
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I must be. Huh. Oh well. Carry on sir
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 10:09 PM
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That I agree with. No need to attention whore. Whether you're a girl or a guy what you say stands on it's feet because it's either a good argument or it isn't. I fully support banning girls who constantly attention whore and don't stop after being warned, but demanding nudies is a bit far. It also violated the principles of red pillism a bit because abundant alphas don't demand sexual things from girls. Betas demand that kind of thing and whine when they don't get it. We don't need to demand, no…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 10:07 PM
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If people agree with us why should we subject them to blackmail in order to be a member of the community? I don't recall them ever once demanding to see my dick to stay in this sub. There are TONS of reasons to not want pics of yourself online that have nothing to do with red pillism or feminism. Edit: removed statement about OP. His comment below changed my mind.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 09:59 PM
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Name was Raven
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 06:29 PM
1

Snow Crash actually, but yeah. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:16 AM
4

You say that like it'd be a bad thing
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:02 AM
1

I agree. Sounds like we're making the same point with different words.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:05 AM
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? I know a lot of guys married to women who make more money than them. Just because you have no game doesn't mean nobody else does either.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:04 AM
4

Lol. For all you know I'm john Mayer.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:03 AM
1

Actually, if the chick was wealthy and the dude poor, and he had partial custody, which he'd get as long as he's not a total shit head, she'd be the one paying him.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 10:07 PM
5

False. I'd drop off an anchor baby in Taylor Swift faster than a black mamba could kill a furbee.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 10:05 PM
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It's not actually the opposite of misogyny as we typically understand it (though it is the reverse gender equivalent of the textbook definition of misogyny). Under traditional gender roles men do not, and never have hated women. There have been true misogynists, but they were about as common as they are today. The "patriarchy" as it's called, merely relegated women to a more subservient role, which, evolutionarily was the only viable option at the time, because physical violence and the threat o…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 10:03 PM
1

lol. You'll have paid through the nose in legal fees long before the paternity test ever proves anything. Plus, if she stuffed your seed you'll still test as the father.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 09:54 PM
1

Being mimicked is a great sign she's into you. Mirroring, or you unconsciously mimicking her could be slightly positive if it makes her feel like she has a better connection to you, but if you do it too much or it's coming from a place of neediness it could also kill attraction, so I think it depends. I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you keep the proper high self worth unattached to outcome mindset this kinda stuff will fall into place automatically. There isn't really that much of a need …
/r/askTRP16/03/14 06:32 PM
2

To make an omelet you have to break a few eggs
/r/askTRP16/03/14 08:22 AM
1

It's not necessarily a bad thing, I've caught myself mimicking girls way of texting and I still fucked them. It doesn't really matter as long as you still come across with your own personality. For example, with girls who use lots of emojis I tend to use emojis similarly without thinking. But otherwise, I never use them. I never even go into the emoji keyboard normally, but if a girl sends me a lot of them I just, without thinking, sort of automatically, start using them like her. In other words…
/r/askTRP16/03/14 08:20 AM
15

People always mimic those they are attracted to. It's an approval seeking instinct. When you want someone to like you, you tend to change your behavior to be something you are sure they will like, hence imitation. Usually it is very subtle, but texting is such a blunt instrument that it can make such things appear far more obvious.
/r/askTRP16/03/14 07:52 AM
2

AIDS?
/r/seduction15/03/14 05:38 AM
3

No men are dropping out because modern society teaches them they don't have to excel to get by. Life is to easy to subsist, so most men become pussies. It has nothing to do with women.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 05:38 AM
3

Except that it's not. The choice is between not working on yourself and living a shitty life so those are your only two options, or becoming one of the guys who can get exactly what he wants without copping out to some cup is half empty bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 02:25 AM
1

I mostly agree, but disagree on a couple points: A clean shaven, decent smelling homeless man who possessed sufficient confidence and charisma could absolutely get more girls than a shy, awkward billionaire. Of course he'd have to be relatively clean, but beyond that, charisma would do the rest. A girl wouldn't marry him, but women don't marry for reasons of sexual attraction. But trust me, the hotties would fuck him, I've seen it happen. I know beach bums who literally live on beaches and have …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 10:01 PM
12

Sure. What's worst is that most of the mistakes are about things that are accepted red pill theory. This isn't all of them, but enough to destroy the articles credibility: The assertion in the article that today's young men are ambitionless because even with years of hard work they can't land a hottie. Well the 80/20 rule makes that obviously false. The guys with their shit together are getting laid as much as they ever were, if not more from the lack of competition from the majority of males. T…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 04:48 PM
3

What about second vagina? (/s)
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:36 PM
1

There are a lot of invalid assertions in this article. I'm disappointed such a poorly thought out piece is coming from a website I so admire.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:35 PM
1

As far as a shit test goes, it's a lot in how she says it. I'll give you that it could have been either way. Maybe it wasn't a shit test. But consider this, being nice and helpful to girls is pretty much never a turn on. In this case it could potentially be a douchey thing for him not to get her keys, but it is undeniably better to risk being douchey than to risk being too nice. Girls almost always sleep with douches, they don't always (and in fact frequently don't) sleep with nice guys. And as …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 01:19 AM
1

? There was definitely a shit test, and there was some great solipsistic bitchy behavior on show. I quite enjoyed the story. I don't understand why you dislike it so much...
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:20 AM
2

Tithing is possibly the furthest kind of donation from giving charity that exists. In exactly zero cases does tithing ever go to helping the less fortunate. Furthermore, it's not an altruistic act. It's a fee you pay to make the unprovable fantasy you base your life on seem more real, and thus keep you further from having to live in reality and deal with the fact that you know nothing about the nature of existence, and most likely, just like everyone who has ever lived, you will live your entire…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:11 AM
1

Not only that but there's a pretty good argument that she's getting more out of it than she's giving. Giving a meaningless amount of money to a beggar makes her feel good, and the money was easy come, easy go anyways.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:03 AM
1

Very likely
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:35 AM
1

But the story wasn't the point f the post. The story was just the medium to talk about a bullshit tendency many women have. He wasn't bragging it was just a useful story.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:24 AM
1

I can see what you're saying, it's just an oversimplification. Women don't set out to sleep with the top percentage of guys. Women are attracted to guys with certain qualities. These same qualities are the ones that also cause those men to be at the top of the status pyramid amongst men. The most important key here is that assertiveness and competitiveness are two of the most Important features that make you that kind of guy. Most men don't have those features in abundance. Furthermore, long, lo…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:21 AM
1

Not really though. Guys just want some pussy. Whereas girls are competing to get the best guys.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 09:43 PM
43

men get into more conflict with each other Hahahaha nooooo not by a long shot. I think it's that when men get into conflict it's fuckin serious business. So guys don't start issues over small shit. If it's not something worth going to war over it's much easier to just talk it out. Women on the other hand are programmed to constantly shit test and they are in a position where they have to be a lot more competitive with each other. There's a million hoes but not that many alphas. The develop much …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 06:22 PM
2

It's not for no reason. It's an evolutionary thing. Women are weaker than men physically, and psychologically they seek out and tend to get put in situations where they are the more submissive or less in control party compared to the male. To help mitigate and balance the situation women stick together around men. It makes perfect sense. Now this bitch is just being crazy, principally because your sister didn't ask for her help and more importantly because usually the in group of family trumps t…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 06:17 PM
1

Plenty of room, but not enough dick. Hence the problem :P
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:21 AM
1

Actually, from my own personal experience in college I totally buy this story. This isn't even that big a deal. I know for a fact of crazier shit that has most definitely gone down that makes this little soirée seem like a fuckin rom com. I am actually good friends with a girl who lost her virginity in a four way in the shower. It was her another girl, and two dudes, and none of them were even dating. They just all hooked up at a party and fucked in a shower. After losing her virginity she proce…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:20 AM
3

I think the big problem is that girls pretend like sex is a bad thing or something they don't want. OF COURSE Angela wanted to fuck. Who goes over to a dude's house to drink late at night if they aren't trying to get laid?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:11 PM
7

I'm willing to bet big money that if the slut chick had been left out she wouldn't have complained at all. Abundant people dgaf.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:09 PM
2

This is why dances and parties are not typically the best place to do pick up imo. The positive of it is that there are a ton of sets around, so more opportunities for you to step up to the plate, but the downside is that the market is over-saturated with cock. It's definitely manageable, you just have to be on point.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:07 PM
8

The things I've sent....shudder
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:54 PM
6

try and get someone to fight you over it. That is so pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 04:23 AM
1

They can stop talking and make me a fucking sandwich. I'm sorry...the joke was right there. I'll show myself out..
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 08:22 AM
1

Well than, it's rather funny you were joking. Because I have no problem with people being gay, in fact some of my best friends are gay (which is a big reason why I meet a lot of gay people) it bothers me that I have to give them clues that I'm not gay, because saying anything can be construed as rude because people don't want to be caught thinking something that is erroneous. It makes sense that it's a dicey situation, but it's kind of annoying. Not nearly as annoying as the anxiety inducing sit…
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:34 AM
5

Which is pretty annoying as I've had several guys seem like they just wanted to be friends with me and then all of a sudden they want to hook up. So much hassle could be avoided if you just asked me if I was gay when we met so I could say, "no, but we can be buds!"
/r/seduction24/01/14 01:51 AM
-16

You gay?
/r/seduction23/01/14 10:56 PM
-6

Man man man man manly man man man
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 08:08 PM
1

The first time I saw it I was pretty dissapointed. Not by the lack of intensity in her reaction, cuz she went apeshit and claimed that no guy had ever turned her down before, but because I finally saw, in stark relief the lack of humility, the incredible egos that women have. To think that you could get any guy to have sex with you at any moment is disgustingly egotistical to me. What is more sad is that for the most part its a pretty correct assumption. I was also really disappointed in my fell…
/r/askTRP21/01/14 05:33 PM
2

That is very true as it does produce very intense reactions, I guess you are right that this should be labelled a strategy that is best reserved for experienced guys, or very brave newbies.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 05:23 PM
2

True, but as long as you hold your ground in a chill way you'll always win.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 04:51 PM
1

If you eat right, exercise, and don't do risky shit you can get to be pretty old and still have a frat quality of life.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 04:17 PM
2

This is good though because it means we can always be alphas.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 05:01 AM
6

If you're trying to claim it from a woman you cant get it. If you want control just make it obvious you are less invested in the relationship than her. Don't give a fuck, and you will have all the power. A good shortcut though to start you off would be to wait till she's in heat and then when she's really all over you for a good fucking, tell her you're not in the mood, and stick to that. Straight turn her down for sex. Most women cannot handle this and they will lose all their cards.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 04:52 AM
2

You know, his guitar? It just gets her so wet
/r/askTRP21/01/14 04:49 AM
2

Idk if I'd call it hypergamy, just an extreme case of beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 04:42 AM
2

Mind educating us?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 04:41 AM
0

I think you have us confused with /r/gay
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:43 AM
-2

I agree. As it is it seems the sub is pretty much completely dedicated to preaching the message it already has.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 02:27 AM
0

Honestly I feel like the rsdnation forum is a better place than here because there is more of this and less betas acting jealous and white knighting.
/r/seduction17/01/14 09:52 PM
1

I don't mean to sound unsympathetic, because I've been in your shoes, but the hardest, but most important thing for you to learn is that if a girl cheats on you it is primarily your fault, not hers or the other guys. Girls don't cheat on guys who are fulfilling their needs. Plain and simple.
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:15 PM
0

Girls say they have a bf as resistance all the time. In my experience, when she's that flirty otherwise, the boyfriend line is usually a lie. Besides that...see my other comments on here.
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:13 PM
1

As long as that phrase remains downvoted I will know that the majority of guys in this sub are still white knights and are still not getting laid.
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:12 PM
35

Let's get real here guys: Girls say they have a bf as resistance all the time and it's not necessarily true, in fact it's often not true. If she had a boyfriend and was in a good relationship with him she would never have held OPs hand on the bus nor allowed him to come into her home while being so obviously flirty. She knew the whole time what was going down. If she had a boyfriend and it wasn't a good relationship then it was doomed anyways. If she had a boyfriend and it was a good relationshi…
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:10 PM
-3

I started out that way and then realized it would actually be a good idea to have some channel for the community to submit and vote by up voting on potential changes. I also do tend to hate the mod system of reddit in general as I think it causes places to be more close minded and less able to fulfill their potential than we could achieve with a more democratic situation. Also I'm worried about this sub departing from truth and becoming too extremist. Which is what tends to happen when you isola…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 08:45 AM
-3

Isn't that basically what OP is doing right now? Only it's ok cuz he's a mod...? I actually agree with most of what he wrote and I think it'll make the sub stronger..but at the very least we should create a sub that is dedicated to fielding ideas of how to improve Trp. We need some sort of feedback mechanism or eventually we will stagnate at some point.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 07:49 AM
5

Yeah I think the occurrence of unnecessary machismo is something OP should've also addressed because that can often be annoying in this sub. You're a dick slinging TRPer we get it. So are we. But then OP did sound like a drill Sargent himself so...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 07:46 AM
3

I think you're conflating so society's stereotypes with reality. I'm one of the alpha males who mates with tons of women and I'm also a computer programmer who hates sports. Real masculinity is a lot more subtle than people realize. In fact a lot of the pussywhipped idiots I know who are in loveless marriages are dudes who love football and were jocks in high school. Sure being physically fit is an attractive quality, but what makes an alpha is a lot more than that, and it's mostly psychological…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:39 PM
0

But society hasn't really suffered that much. I'm not so sure we ever really needed monogamy to have a functioning society. In fact, since the losers passed on their genes I think humanity is actually weaker as a result. Especially cuz the losers tend to have like 7 kid families in their stupid religions whereas the real men are busy running shit, so we have fewer kids. Over time the idiots have taken over.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:08 PM
2

Yes but which men is it benefitting? As a gut who has gotten very good with women, most girls I pursue fall pretty hard for me and dont want anyone but me while were dating. Only betas have to worry about their wife fucking someone else, alphas are the ones who do said fucking. So it benefits the weak men who don't work on themselves and it just makes my life harder because society isn't accepting of how I want to live.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:06 PM
10

Here's the real mindfuck: what if it's the husband who's wrong for believing in monogamy, not the woman for following her instincts? I'm of the opinion that monogamy was created to benefit the men who in a true instinct based society wouldn't get any pussy at all and that everyone else: the women and the alpha males, are inconvenienced by it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 07:45 AM
19

But walla walla is the destination Edit: looks like exactly 0% of you understood my reference :/
/r/seduction12/01/14 06:06 PM
0

Also there's documented proof of people like Jeffy from RSD using way more fucked up pickup lines than "why haven't we had sex yet?" And having a ton of success. While we should, in the professional sense, consider it fake until proven otherwise simply because the original OP posted no proof, it's hard to say whether it's a likely story or not. What is easy to emphatically state is that using this line, assuming you didn't get banned, that some girls in a given number would want to sleep with yo…
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:12 PM
9

DAE get turned on by the idea of vigorously fucking a young mom from behind while she moans in pleasure with her eyes closed. Then, through the cracked open door her son sees you, and you just look him dead in the eye as you pump away with a fistful of his moms hair in your hand and as you stare think, "that's right, I'm six inches deep into everything you hold dear and I am pounding it like an animal. And you just smile at him."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:43 PM
16

I think his biggest mistake was using Facebook. Seriously, what a fucking waste if time that place is.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:52 PM
0

I never understood the idea that a loose girl is lower quality than a non loose girl. Everything about loose women is more fun than annoying prude chicks. I can't fucking stand religious girls who whine about purity and judge you for saying the word ass. Fuck that
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:14 PM
7

The guys who are truly better can do both. Those are the guys who teach.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:38 AM
3

You mean he was good at killing tens of millions of his own countrymen and bankrupting the fuck out of his country?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 06:47 AM
0

I'm pretty sure those were Stalin's exact words.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:14 AM
2

You do realize that silencing the less extreme members of a movement is the first step towards fascism right?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 10:00 PM
10

Well I guess you might be different but I'm not a very happy person without sex. Sex is one of the things that most fulfills me in life. When I'm having regular sex I'm calmer, happier, more content, less irritable. I'm not particularly disagreeable without it, but it's like a psychological lubricant for my. If I'm getting laid on the reg no problem phases me much. I didn't realize this though until I got good with women. For the first long while pickup was nothing but torture for me. It didn't …
/r/seduction05/01/14 04:50 PM
16

Learned behavior. The body resists new things till they become your new habit. /thread. Sorry, there is no easy way to get per ring an introvert, just like there is no easy way to get over going to the gym. You can ease yourself into it though. Get involved in a group of people who have similar interests as you and force yourself to socialize with them as often as possible. This will get your social muscles growing and it will be easier than cold approach. Once you're a more social person push y…
/r/seduction05/01/14 04:09 PM
1

I'm not saying the system isn't biased against men, I'm saying it's not quite as bad as people in this sub seem to think.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 04:06 PM
1

To be fair if a man is stay at home and a woman works and they divorce he can fuck her over just as bad. But yes I agree. Alimony beyond a certain point becomes insanity and many women are basically just blood sucking vampire bitches.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:16 AM
1

When you incentivize behavior you get more of it sure. But that is a silly argument in this case because you can just write the law to only benefit the mother as long as she makes good choices. You can both take care of kids and incentivize responsible behavior. That's what annoys me about my fellow libertarians. They don't understand that welfare isn't inherently disincentivizing. It depends on the rules and requirements to get that welfare. It incentivizes shitty living in this country cuz the…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 08:58 PM
1

What does that have to do with what were telling about? Ghetto culture doesn't mean we should just say "fuck find children!" And get rid of child support laws.....
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 09:45 AM
2

I see your point. I agree. Both parties do sacrifice something do both should get something back.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 09:44 AM
2

Actually if a man is the stay at home parent then in a divorce he is the one that gets child support from the woman. Which is as it should be. It's not about gender, it's about the kid and about what the stay at home parent has to sacrifice to care for that kid.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 05:10 PM
2

While you are right, it is also true that all opportunity costs are not equal, and some are more threatening than others. The fact of the matter is that without some provisions for alimony and child support we would have homeless mothers and children and kids who would grow up in very fucked homes. While feminism goes too far, we do still need to take care of the stay at home parent. Hell, if its the man who decides to stay home and the woman who works it still makes sense to subsidize the stay …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 05:09 PM
6

I see your point. What I saw that made sense is the hidden opportunity cost for the wife of her career growth. By being a stay at home mom she is forgoing career growth that she cannot get back. And in addition to that, there is a period of time where she must devote herself to raising the kid, and truly cannot work. I think it is fair to say that she can bear the brunt of her lack of career growth so long as the man is 100% liable for the economic sustenance of a woman for around four to six ye…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:29 AM
-2

I dunno this one kinda makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 05:17 AM
1

Which isn't even technically equality
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 10:50 PM
11

I don't think that's an accurate descriptor for me. Id rather cut my manhood off and sacrifice it to Loki than bang my mom or someone like her.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 08:35 PM
1

feel the terror, and do it anyway
/r/seduction16/12/13 09:36 AM
1

Women have been informed, it's just that you can't reprogram the reptilian brain. The reptilian brain is part of the patriarchy man.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 08:57 AM
14

I'm a dirty player who might never call a girl again, and has done so many times. But I still care deeply about each and every one of those girls. If they were broke down on a highway somewhere and called me and needed help, and if I was able to give it, I would without question. Just because I don't want to keep hanging out with you or fucking you doesn't mean I'm an asshole, and it doesn't mean I don't care about you, it just means that I dont feel enough attraction to you. You aren't entitled…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 08:56 AM
1

Very, very, very true. Some pie tastes rank as hell
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 03:04 AM
3

It's for the same reason that Asians stay hot. Their diets are usually very good.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 03:01 AM
-5

I only feel contempt towards them.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:03 PM
1

I agree. I think that what makes them able to accept polyamory over more traditional arrangements is that they are very liberal, this tends, unfortunately though to carry some neo-feministic ideas with it. Feminism is great, but it's just gone too far, to the point of making these men be very weak in a lot of ways. So it's not polyamory per se that causes them to be chodes, it's the other beliefs they have that enable their polyamory. The polyamorous alphas tend to come at it from a different di…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:02 PM
21

Fucking and dating are two different things
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:53 PM
17

Who would date this bitch? On top of being solipsistic she's clearly an alcoholic...
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:53 PM
-9

This is how the ethnic cleansing starts...
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:50 PM
0

Not all polyamory. Such chicks are incredibly easy to create a harem out of. It's really not a bad gig as long as you are an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:48 PM
5

Yeah man, fuck this beta chode. I'm happy for the alpha dude and I hope he keeps banging her
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:47 PM
1

You should though. Step it up, anything is possible. (see my other reply to this thread)
/r/seduction05/12/13 09:13 AM
1

False. You will almost never get slapped by doing anything to any girl in any environment ever. Girls rarely slap, and I can honestly say that I have never in my life been slapped, nor seen a guy get slapped by a girl. (though I did see a dude get kicked in the nuts and lose a testicle...but that was during street hockey and that chick was crazy as fuck) On top of that, you could make this work in any environment. You would just have to match the environment. In day game you would just have to a…
/r/seduction05/12/13 09:09 AM
1

Cool. Sounds like you know what you're doing. It doesn't even have to be subtle though. You can be completely overt with it too. Just up and say "look if we don't have sex im leaving." I don't know much about nlp. It could very well be what I was talking about idk. I just know from personal experience that the stuff I said works. As to the pen pal, personally I love the quote: "if you're wasting your time doing what you enjoy, then the time is not wasted." Personally I think I would dislike such…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 05:34 PM
15

A good alternative to this is to just keep getting girls numbers and keep a revolving set of possible hook ups, but don't act on any of them. Or, the easiest solution, and the one I like best is that you can achieve the same positive outcome by doing nothing more than talking to your girl in the right way. Make jokes about only wanting her for sex and leaving her for a hotter girl. Don't say it seriously, just every once in a while make a joke. Even though it's a joke, subconsciously it has teet…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:49 AM
3

Why do you feel guilty for any of this? Couple things here: Firstly, you communicated the right thing. Secondly, "snapping" is a sign that you suck balls at communication. If it takes you getting to the point of snapping to communicate that you will leave behind a sexless relationship then you need to learn to communicate sooner and to be more upfront and honest. Be your true self. From the very beginning, when she started saying she didn't want to have sex anymore, while she was still pregnant,…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:36 AM
1

Don't be like that. The way it works for everyone is that if someone who isn't attractive to you comes on to you you shut them down, sure. But if Ryan Gosling came up to you in a club and tapped your ass you would overlook it, don't even pretend. You say now that you would freak out, but I would be willing to bet my life savings that when it actually happened you wouldn't behave at all like you say you would. And as to your question about whether your opinion counts, of course your opinion count…
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:05 AM
-4

Dude it sounds to me like you are just way too uptight. It's not impinging on someone's dignity to be sexual with them. The fuck does "dignity" even mean? It's like the word purity or chastity. That shit was just made up by religious people to keep dudes from wanting to have sex with tons of girls before condoms existed. Get over it bro. If a chick smacks your ass you should be happy and grateful and take it in the happy, fun, playful spirit it was meant and stop being so prude.
/r/seduction28/11/13 06:05 PM
1

In this case it's not a matter of majority rule because what works on girls isn't determined by the opinions of dudes on a forum. My statements come from real world experience. If dudes want to white knight and talk bullshit when they themselves have slept with very few girls that's their prerogative. Shoot the messenger trying to help you out of your lonely hell for all I care. Fact is what I said is demonstrably the truth. If you want to prove it get off your ass and stop talking about theory …
/r/seduction28/11/13 10:24 AM
-1

Dude! The most important mindset to have in pickup or sales or making friends is to assume success. That is why it's not only ok to do that, it's what you have to do if you want to reach high levels of success. Edit: the reason that mindset works is that in human psychology there is almost no principle more important in convincing someone than confidence. It's more important than facts. Especially with girls, because girls are attracted to confident, ballsy, courageous guys. It's the taking of t…
/r/seduction27/11/13 09:46 PM
-5

The point is it's not a crime. If a girl did it repeatedly after you told her to stop it would be a crime. But once? A guy could grab a girls ass, any girls ass anywhere and if he only did it once it wouldn't be a crime.
/r/seduction27/11/13 05:29 PM
-4

Ok now you're just trying to be stupid.
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:33 AM
-2

Exactly, so stop being so picky and get yo dick sucked nigga!
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:29 AM
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I don't see how they are shitting on your dignity.... It sounds to me like you are reacting emotionally to the fact that it's socially acceptable for a girl to grab your ass but not for you to grab hers. Look at it this way: in a similar situation, it is ok for a child to punch you in the chest, but if an adult does it it's lawsuit time. That is because of the level of biological threat that is posed. Most girls cannot, and are not programmed biologically to forcibly rape men. On the other hand,…
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:21 AM
-11

So, I have extremely high standards for who I will date. 99% of girls can't make the cut. I am pickier than anyone I know. But despite that I have found that the most effective way to approach dating is this: Initial meet: Do I want to fuck her? First date or later in first meet: Get her hooked on me. This is easiest and most effectively done by getting her to the point where you can give her an orgasm. After you have given a girl an orgasm she is yours. So the second goal is to fuck her and mak…
/r/seduction27/11/13 02:26 AM
11

Who cares if she's a catch? Are you trying to get laid or what?
/r/seduction26/11/13 11:21 PM
1

During the night I usually just focus on scoring with her, then at home or the next day I'll do more to learn if she is someone I'll actually keep around. Or if she's a day two and not an f close I'll just text her about stuff I'm interested in and see how she responds to it. There's also Facebook for before a day two if you want.. Fact is though it is hard the first time you meet someone to learn very much about them. Certainly not enough to know if they're really your type personality wise. An…
/r/seduction24/11/13 11:02 PM
1

That's not true. You can find any sort of girl in a club, some types are just more common than others. Plus, focus on finding what you want after you have the skills to get it. Before that just focus on gettin those skills. Where is the easiest place to get them? Bars and clubs.
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:29 PM
4

This advice is silly. You can become comfortable with any environment you just have to practice a lot in it. Furthermore, it is only pushing your bond arose and doing why makes you uncomfortable that will help you grow.
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:28 PM
1

You're welcome to your opinion, but from what I can tell is my greater breadth of life experience than yours, I can tell you that with the attitude you have it will be exceedingly hard for you to find a good wife. You might be able to convince some naive chick that you aren't an intolerant dick, but any seasoned girl is going to avoid you as long as you are so judgmental and severe. And regardless of who you do marry, with the attitude you have you are most likely going to have a pretty dysfunct…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 01:27 AM
0

Oh boy I'm experiencing some serious Poe's law here. If you are serious I feel very sorry for you because you will have a higher probability of having a terrible marriage. Virginity is not nearly as important as whether a woman will be a good wife and a good mother. And virginity definitely does not denote that she will be either. I grew up in a very conservative family and I know a ton of girls who got married as virgins, I also know, from the path I took afterwards, a lot of girls who are not …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 07:50 AM
0

I don't think you understand. It's not that she isn't satisfied with their relationship, it is that she has never experienced what else is out there. It is a very common thing for both sexes to want to experience that before they settle down. As to the question of whether that would happen in marriage, well, that is why it is a stupid idea for anyone to get married to the first person they date, because it is inevitable that they will feel that way. Just because you feel a certain way does not m…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 07:43 AM
-1

Because I am rational instead of jumping to blame women for everything? I thought red pillism was about realizing that feminism has created a power imbalance. Many women are solipsistic. In society women have the powers and rights of a traditional woman, but also those of a man. So nowadays a woman could have a great job and collect child support. Which is bullshit. Women are rarely held responsible for anything and instead men get blamed for everything. It's ok for a woman to manipulate a man i…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 01:56 PM
2

Oh did not know that. Thank you. I was on mobile at the time as well...and I have RES..but I did not know I could save comments.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 07:32 PM
2

Commenting so I can come back to this
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 06:25 PM
1

Definitely man! You have such a great attitude about it! That is exactly the attitude you need to have!! It's not that people don't care about your issues, it's that the time and place to be negative and deal with serious issues is not in a bar at night. People are trying to get away from the bullshit in those places. Most people would be sympathetic, but only your real friends will be able to invest time to actually help you much. But even your friends are gonna get annoyed with you if you star…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 08:19 PM
1

More likely she was just in a cheerful mood and didn't want to talk to someone who was going to ruin that mood. Never be negative in social situations, it is never to your benefit. People don't really care about your problems, they just want to have fun. Sounds harsh, but that's reality.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 05:17 PM
3

Why not?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 06:58 AM
1

I don't assume that hot chicks are stuck up bitches. In my experience the stuck up ones are either not actually that hot, but think they are. Or sometimes they are that hot, but have some other thing causing them to have either low self esteem or weird religious morals. Or it's often the daddy's girls who are really stuck up. But those daddy's girls just happen to often also be hot, but the daddy's girls that are not hot are just as much of bitches. So it comes down to insecurity, religion, and …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 06:56 AM
1

Not necessarily, you just have to know how to deal with them. There is always a way to communicate properly, you just have to find it. I mean, yeah, many girls like that do assume that every guy is into them, but you just have to act in a way that makes it very clear they ain't shit. Also, in my experience, personally knowing quite a few bartender chicks, usually they actually are NOT like that except when they are bartending, because when they are bartending they constantly have to put up with …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 05:10 AM
1

I agree. I think it's not that girls are bitches, it's just that most guys act like chodes around them. When I act normal around hot girls (when I'm not trying to game them at all), they treat me completely normal, like a good friend. When I'm trying to game them they are often chill too, unless I'm not on my game, then I get the bitchy behavior. My rule is, if a chick is being a bitch it's most likely because you're coming across as a love struck chode. But I am by no means an expert.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:17 AM
4

Depends on the chick. Some are chill, some are stuck up. You forget there's a lot of Southey guys out there too who think they're hot shit for whatever reason. I know that ain't the answer y'all want to hear but that's my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:13 AM
-4

Nice try feminist
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 11:26 PM
-1

How easy a girl is doesn't factor into my judgements of her. That kind of thinking is a relic from the old days. Imo it's meant to actually keep you from marrying the good ones. See a girl who can be free sexually has way more confidence. She knows what she wants. She is more social. I find looser girls cooler all around...but maybe that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 11:26 PM
3

Why are all the chicks in the ads ugly as hell? "My dress is not a yes." And your ass is definitely a nope.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 11:21 PM
0

So you do support it then. Please explain to me then how it is possible to both claim that you respect the sanctity of Hunan life but still support the mass genocide of life forms that are genetically human.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 09:05 PM
-1

Every culture puts high value on being beta. Also, the fuck? Sounds like you're calling abortion a good thing. I'm as liberal as they come but I have never been able to understand how you could see abortion as anything but murder. Once the egg is fertilized there is no question whatsoever. Genetically speaking it is a human being. Genetics determine identity. It isn't some amorphous mass of random, it's genetically a human being. Period. It's either an XX or an XY and that means its a human fuck…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 05:49 AM
1

But there are still plenty of alphas available Dude no there are definitely not. The US is like 99% beta males.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 05:43 AM
1

You got me there.
/r/seduction15/10/13 12:01 AM
1

I agree. So IMO it's best not to advise people to do kino, just advise them to be normal and they'll naturally touch the girl as often as necessary. The only thing that stops people from kinoing enough is fear. If you focus on kino they'll just be fearful creeps, but if you focus on conquering the fear they'll become normal. And you don't have to be awesome to fuck hot chicks, just normal.
/r/seduction14/10/13 11:45 PM
1

I watched their DVDs sure, then went on a live program with Tyler himself, then got several years worth of actual experience. So sure I did learn from a DVD. But I'm speaking from experience, extensive experience.
/r/seduction14/10/13 11:43 PM
1

What the hell are you talking about? Your problem was too many women wanted you huh? Good lord do you have any idea how much of a douche you sound like? And accusing me of making assumptions about you, while you assume that my only experience is watching a DVD......hypocritical much? I don't even know why I bothered to respond.
/r/seduction14/10/13 07:57 PM
1

It's not "my way" it's the way human beings have been doing it for millennia. I didn't invent it I learned it (from RSD if anyone cares). I'm not trolling I'm trying to help you out of your self imposed prison. But if you want to keep thinking that tactics and strategies are the way to get laid, go for it man. I doubt that you will get as much action by trying to simulate the behavior of a natural instead of just learning to follow your instincts regardless of how scared you feel and BE a natura…
/r/seduction12/10/13 05:51 AM
0

Hahaha ad hominem, nice. Are you trying to win an argument here or are you trying to find the truth of the matter with me? I have no desire to argue bro I'm just sharing my experience. You can call me a virgin or whatever without having any knowledge whatsoever about me but itll be your loss. I could honestly give a fuck what you think about me. If you think what I said is crazy you have probably never done a bootcamp with RSD. Jeffy had a period where he would regularly have girls he just met g…
/r/seduction12/10/13 12:58 AM
0

You need to learn to fucking LISTEN. fuck. It is counterproductive to do what you FIRST said that athletes do, which is to visualize themselves acting as better athletes than they are. That is useless and is what you said this kid should do with his game. What athletes ACTUALLY DO is useful, and it is not really visualizations so much as it is actually practicing a given movement that they have already done thousands of times, only without moving their body. That is useful, but that isnt what yo…
/r/seduction12/10/13 12:45 AM
0

such visualizations are actually quite popular among professional athletes. That's the keyword. Athletes. Athletes; 1.) deal with something that isn't that complicated, so it is easy to visualize properly. 2.) PROFESSIONAL athletes visualize their muscles doing something in the proper way they have already learned. They don't visualize themselves acting like some other successful athlete. It's less like "the Secret" more like establishing better muscle memory, because your nervous system doesn't…
/r/seduction11/10/13 09:27 PM
0

You're making a lot of assumptions here. Firstly I've hooked up with somewhere more than 20 women (I don't really count). Many of those used a lot of kino. Lately I have used a lot less of it, not because I'm scared of it, but just because I realized that it was simply not something you need to focus on. I don't intentionally avoid kino. I just act normally and let it happen whenever my instinctual brain decides to do it. I no longer have any conscious thought about when I do or don't touch a gi…
/r/seduction11/10/13 09:14 PM
0

I know that this is a popular rationalization for pretending you're a hot guy or visualizing it or whatever. But it's actually a counterproductive thing to do because of it's implications on your opinion of your self. For example, if Michael Jordan felt like he had to visualize what a good basketball player would be like that would carry with it the implication that he does not consider himself to be a good basketball player in the first place. When in a game the fact that he doesnt think he's a…
/r/seduction11/10/13 08:52 PM
1

No there are some things that are always creepy regardless. You can be both creepy and attractive though. That's what's really happening when you do crazy shit like making them grab your dick in the club. It's still creepy, it's just that you also have enough charisma to make it funny. But it's always creepy.
/r/seduction11/10/13 08:35 PM
10

In my experience, I've only ever been friendzoned by not closing fast enough. Ask her out soon after you meet her and you avoid being friendzoned. Furthermore, the friendzone is technically easy to leave. Its just hard to leave because it is hard to change your behavior, not because she wont let you out of it. Sure you will get denied at first coming out of the friendzone, but that is because you have to build back up the attraction momentum you lost by being a pussy. But it can be gotten back, …
/r/seduction11/10/13 01:42 AM
10

I disagree with imagining what someone else would do. Don't worry. What will sink you or make you fly is confidence, and if you are trying to act like some imagined super attractive super sexy ideal then you will not come across as genuine or congruent. Why? Because acting like some ideal of someone else is not what sexy men do. Sexy men do not give a fuck what anyone thinks, they do what they think is cool. Women really, truly value guys who can just be themselves 100%, be totally authentic and…
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:57 AM
1

The naked man works 2 out of 3 times. Seriously though, just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, get her number, meet her for coffee, and on the way back home grab her and kiss her. If she isn't down she will object at some point. If she is down she will probably still object, but if she doesn't end the interaction or give you a serious talking to, shrug it off, keep going on with the interaction as if it's not a big deal, and try to kiss her again later on. There is no need to run any ga…
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:46 AM
4

I agree, but it's important to emphasize that it is not being her friend that screws you over. It is showing that you don't follow through with your desires and intentions. If she is just your friend because you just want to be friends then it's easy to hook up with her. If she is your friend because you don't have the balls to close her then you're hosed.
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:41 AM
11

Just stare at her with your pedo eyes and creepily paw her shoulder. Works every time. /s Seriously though, why is there so much emphasis on kino around here? Most of the girls I've banged I've engaged in almost no kino before kissing them the first time. It's not bad to use, but it's not really that necessary either. The problem with it is that it is way easier to come off as creepy than it is to actually turn her on with kino. It's just not necessary, as long as you are being confident, leadin…
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:38 AM
9

Oh is that what you English call a penis?
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:34 AM
-1

Practically speaking I know you're right, but philosophically I think that it is very unhealthy for women to care what other women think. Especially their "friends". People need to realize the difference between friends and "friends". If they would judge you for doing what you want to do, they are not your friends.
/r/seduction03/10/13 12:29 AM
4

The cost of pussy isn't really that high though, just learn the rules of the game, like 2pac says: Once a motherfucker get an understanding on the game and what the levels and the rules of the game is Then the world ain't no trick no more The world is a game to be played So now we lookin at the world, from like, behind us Niggaz know what we gotta do, just gotta put our mind to it and do it It's all about the papers, money rule the world Bitches make the world go round Real niggaz do what they w…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 10:41 PM
0

I've concluded that most 20-something females would rather be sexually frustrated than fuck some guy who's not super-alpha. Women are biologically programmed to only let the choice sperm inside them. They are the opposite of men in that. Men are programmed to spread their seed as widely as possible. Sure it sucks for the girls to be sexually frustrated, but their instincts dont give a shit about their happiness, their instincts only care about natural selection. You've been trying to game girls …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 10:36 PM
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I'm not an asshole, I just don't take shit from people. I would be very nice and friendly to the girls to start with, and I would continue to stay nice to them for most of the night. But if I had already gone several places with them, and if it was as clearly obvious that their friend really wanted to go home with me as it was to those girls, and if they continued to cock block her, they would be showing that they have no respect for her, and that they have no consideration for her feelings, wan…
/r/seduction02/10/13 10:26 PM
0

You're right. That's why I said I don't know if I would've closed the girl...but sometimes man, fuck whether I get the girl, I'm not taking shit from these bitches. What I'm supposed to be all sunshine and rainbows and pretend we're all friends when they are intentionally fucking over their friends chance at scoring with a hot dude? The fuck kind of friends are those? If my buddy tried to cock block a chick who was trying to get in my pants I'd tell him to fuck right off and it annoys me that gi…
/r/seduction02/10/13 09:57 PM
2

Being a closer beats everything.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:36 PM
1

Looks matter in the same way that condiments matter. Not necessary, just a nice plus. Plus you can always learn to dress stylishly.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:36 PM
1

I agree with how annoying it is, but banning is for close minded nazis, not for compassionate people like us. Eventually this goober will learn. Let's just put up with him till then and care about him in his idiocy. Let's guide him out of it. Whether he comes willingly or we have to struggle, in the end the fight is worth making one less beta in the world.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:35 PM
2

Ok then, look at Neil Strauss or mystery they're ug as fuck too and they were successful without natural game, using only gimmicky lines and gay ass pea cocking shit. It's not that hard to get with girls, looks don't matter that much. They can make it easier sure, but they aren't necessary, and anyway if you just dress stylishly the rest of your looks become literally irrelevant.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:32 PM
-2

Aaacccttuuuaaalllyyy. None if those things matter so long as you dress stylishly. Dress we'll and the rest of your looks are completely, 100% irrelevant.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:29 PM
2

This kinda stuff happens to me too ever since I started dressing stylishly. I'm skinny as a twig so normally I wouldn't be that attractive, but them clothes work wonders. And no it's not just a confidence thing. I can pick girls up in a swimming suit despite my insecurities. The clothes actually change the way they react to me prior to my even doing anything. I highly recommend making sure that wherever you go you always look fly as hell. It makes getting laid like ten times easier.
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:27 PM
1

The first time I woulda reacted like he did, but at the very end when they were still cock blocking I would've called them out on it and told them to think of their friend's wants and needs instead of their own jealousy, told them to buzz off, then physically picked up my girl and left those hos behind. Not sure if I would've lost the girl or not, but I don't think I could let some catty bitches dictate what's going down to me. Fuck them, I'm taking their friend and they can fucking deal with it…
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:22 PM
1

They aren't at odds at all. Progressivism is about moving towards a more egalitarian society. Treating men like shit is not egalitarian. When the feminist movement started it was a progressive movement. It is no longer a progressive movement but an oppressive and destructive cancer. We can't create a utopia if we are oppressing our men into being weaklings.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 04:17 AM
1

As long as there are forces actively spreading feminism and blue pill behavior, and no equal and opposite effort from us, red pill knowledge will not spread very much. Look at what's spread it already. The active propagation of the pickup community. If we just sit around its not going to change, we have to take drastic steps.
/r/askTRP18/08/13 01:48 PM
1

If the history of humanity can teach us one thing its that you shouldn't expect people to wake up from the lies they believe without a hell of a lot of outside influence. Social evolution doesn't just happen, you have to push it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 01:44 PM
3

If MLKJr and Ghandi can create social chnge through complaining than so can we.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 01:29 AM
13

Villains? They're the biggest victims. They're picking up the tab for her and the alphas who banged her through her youth. How could you look at the person getting the shortest end of the stick, the one getting the most screwed over, and say he's the villain?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 08:44 PM
3

And we want to put these stupid emotionally reactive, unstable, irresponsible creatures in positions of power? Ha. Haha. Hahahahaha. How anyone falls for feminism is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 05:15 AM
6

Most chicks I know rate themselves a lot higher than one rung up. But then, most chicks I know are like 19-20. It's both funny and sad to watch them get almost no sex for being too picky.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 05:12 AM
8

Actually she already reincarnated as Rihanna.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:27 PM
1

Oh gotcha. Ya I agree
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 01:58 PM
2

My dad's not a famous actor and he's 60 married to a 30 year old. Anybody can do it, just go learn how to be better with women on /r/seddit
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 07:02 AM
0

That's true, Hispanics are more family oriented. It's cuz they're all super catholic for the most part.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 08:05 PM
1

Well, two things: One is that as amazing as it sounds, infidelity is the standard. My source? I lived in Brazil for two years and I speak Portuguese about as fluently as I speak English. Two is that Latin girls are in fact more attracted to you because you are white. They culturally all look up to America as the force that dominates the world. That association gives you a lot of status in their minds and does in fact make you inherently more attractive than their own men. You belong to the alpha…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 07:26 PM
-1

Wow that sucks. It's really sad how black culture has come to a point where despite being treated with much more dignity by the white majority around it (though there are still some problems with racism amongst whites), it can't seem to escape the destructive gravity of its own poverty culture. On the positive side, if you look at the evolution of rap music, there is hope! The role models to young blacks are becoming much less hood and much more civilized. Gangs are much less of a problem than t…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 05:16 PM
1

What you said is partially true. It's partially because of not being able to provide that those ethnicities of women cheat, but at least for Latin culture I can say that the women cheat because the men cheat. It's just Latin culture, everybody cheats, and the guys who don't are stupid suckers, cuz their wives almost certainly won't be faithful to them unless they are very alpha. But then, the alpha males are the ones that cheat the most anyways.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 05:07 PM
2

Wow. It's funny, after hearing that I'd kinda prefer the American way. Sure the chicks can be mean as hell and you have to deal with some hard ass rejection sometimes, but at least the poorest guy here could easily bag the hottest girl as long as he had sufficient game. I guess the plus side to feminism is that for most girls its just a bullshit front and if you ignore it when they start being bitches and demand good behavior they'll usually straighten out and act like a normal girl pretty quick…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 04:22 PM
0

Ah got ya.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 03:27 PM
11

Wow, I feel for ya man. Having lived in Oakland I have an idea of what you're talking about, but I didn't realize it was that bad. I can totally believe it though. Many black women do seem to have one hell of an attitude. Not all obviously, in fact, one of the chillest, and most sexually adventurous girls I've ever known was African American, but the majority do seem to be hard to deal with. They make white feminist women seem submissive in comparison. I think its cool though that you guys have …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 03:26 PM
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Well feminism makes women weak, not strong. It causes them to abandon all of the things that actually give them power over men in this world and causes them to compete with men on their own turf. So of course women in those countries are stronger, they're actually women!
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 03:08 PM
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I don't think they're the most masculine on earth. I think that crown goes either to Latin men or black men, or maybe middle eastern men. In fact, all three of those cultures are so heavily masculine dominated that even a redpiller like me thinks that they could probably do with being a little more fair to their women. Honestly though, from my personal experience Chinese men specifically of all asians can be truly chauvinistic as well. It sounds like from what OP said that Korean men have a pret…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 03:03 PM
2

I hate how people lump a ton of things into "Liberalism". If you look at it logically, feminism is technically anti liberal because its not about egalitarianism or making women equal. It's about making women superior. Furthermore, that's again assuming that diversity and egalitarianism are a liberal thing, which they aren't. I have the unique opportunity to have grown up in and around San Francisco, but I've also spent a lot of time in Texas, Utah, and Colorado. Both democrats and republicans ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 03:03 PM
1

Glad I could help
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:00 PM
0

Your voice will automatically communicate the status you think you have. Until you feel like you are worthy of sex from a really hot girl, your voice will always communicate lower status. Fix your self perception and self esteem and your voice will fix itself. Trying to fix your voice, or really most things in your outer game, without changing your inner game is like trying to paddle a canoe upstream. It's far easier in the long run to just change the direction the river flows. Edit: you say you…
/r/seduction20/06/13 09:53 PM
1

Guys, GUYS!!! You need to actually hook up with some 9s before you talk about this. There are WONDERFUL girls out there who will be amazing girlfriends to you, who will shit test you like little bitches when they first meet you. its just part of their screen. Its not part of their overall personality nor does it mean they are a mean person. Also, There are total fucking asshole bitches who will never shit test you at first and will be super nice and sweet to you at first, till you are in a relat…
/r/seduction11/03/13 01:00 PM
1

omg whoever did this is not very smart. This is something you do after the person already wants you to get their number. And honestly the best thing to do is set up something where you will see them again before you even get the number.
/r/seduction28/02/13 08:43 AM
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Watch this dvd set. It will change your life and solidly set you on the path towards becoming truly abundant with women. It's the best dvd set for pick up ever made, and one of the best pieces of self help media that I've ever seen. Edit: Oh, you weren't asking how to crush shitty beliefs, you were telling us. LOL, well, anyways, the linked video is still life changing and amazing.
/r/seduction28/02/13 07:58 AM
2

I'm not saying that a simple, few word explanation isn't good. I am saying that that particular few word explanation isn't good because it is incomplete. Because being funny and confident wont get you laid. You're missing a few ingredients there. For example, a gay guy is funny and confident around girls, but he gets no pussy. In addition to humor and confidence you need other things, like intent, and leadership, and escalation. But more than that, confidence and humor are both derivatives of th…
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:00 AM
5

Ew. That's like saying, after Einstein just finished explaining the theory of relativity. tl;dr - shit moves around. Its such an oversimplification that it loses all its educative properties.
/r/seduction21/02/13 08:49 AM
1

I thought all of it was great! The only thing I don't think I'd probably say to a woman is the necklace thing, not cuz it wouldn't work, just because if it didn't happen naturally I think it could easily come across as planned and gamey. But then, I'm of the opinion that you should never use any canned lines ever. Just get yourself in an abundant state of mind and let the words happen.
/r/seduction21/02/13 08:47 AM
1

The best thing you can do is set up two other dates with two other girls on other days of the week before you even go on a date with this one girl. The reason I say that is that the only thing you need to do to have a good date is not feel neediness within yourself. Just treat her like any other girl. Having a few other dates already lined up kind of forces your mind into that state.
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:20 AM
2

Also: She laughed that's a pretty good sign that she would do it. You just went for it wrong. DO IT, don't ask. Kiss the 7 on the couch, then tell the 5 to come over. Kiss the 5. Then kiss the 7 again. Then take off your pants. Done.
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:01 PM
0

most girls are jealous bitches Yes and no. Girls only act jealous when they are either crazy, or they know they can get away with it. In other words, they are only jealous with chodes. A girl knows that if she acts jealous around an Alpha, he'll just leave her, so they don't act that way though they might feel the urge to.
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:07 AM
-1

I tried. Lol you call trying to kiss her ONCE trying? Plow through man. Just cuz she didnt kiss you then doesnt mean she doesnt want to kiss you. It just means that her roommate was annoying the fuck out of her, and so she saw a way to get her roommate laid to get her to shut the fuck up about it. She wants to bang you too now that her annoying situation is taken care of. Go for it.
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:06 AM
13

You can still bang the 7 easily. She wants you, she just ran out of time, and isn't the jealous type. And she was probably tired of hearing her friend complain about how infrequently she gets laid. She knows you are a guy, so you will likely bang the 5 anyway, and still bang her later, cuz thats what guys do. So, just bang her later.
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:02 AM
8

You don't offer a threesome, you just do it. If you "offer" it, they will usually say no.
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:01 AM
0

Damn... I wish I could explain. Unfortunately, it's ineffable, and by that, I mean it's actually very effable, I just can't explain why I want to eff it. Edit: I figured it out! It is because asian girls look exotic to white men. Exotic things always carry with them a sense of mystique and sexiness. Edit 2: Also, it's because asian women are very good at looking both innocent and sexy. The appearance of innocence is very sexy to many men. Contrast that with most white girls, who look the furthes…
/r/seduction05/02/13 05:50 PM
3

Agreed
/r/seduction05/02/13 04:05 PM
2

Alright, lets rephrase that, the best sex I've ever had, as far as the girls level of involvement and skill and enthusiasm was with a chubby black 5. But the sex I most enjoyed was with a hot asian 8 who was invested and involved and enthused, just not nearly as much as the black girl, and she didnt have nearly as much skill as the black girl either. But it didnt matter, skill and enthusiasm only count for so much. They can turn a 5 into a 6 or an 8 into a 9, but it cant turn a 5 into a 10, at l…
/r/seduction05/02/13 02:49 PM
0

idk man, for me, if she isn't really fucking hot, penis no workie. At least not very well.... But people are different.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:29 AM
-2

Go fuck a really hot one and you will understand.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:28 AM
-5

Dude, you're supposed to rub off on the girl's back, not on my face. Edit: Downvotes guys? Seriously? It was just a funny joke...
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:27 AM
6

Go bang a 10 who has even a moderate amount of engagement in the sex and come back and see if you say that again.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:26 AM
-5

I hear you, but I disagree. No girl who is a 5 could win me over. At best I would friendzone them, normally, I would be kind and friendly to them, but mostly ignore them. It really depends on the guy, some guys need physical beauty more than others. Sadly for charismatic 5s, my dick is just like a french restaurant critic when it comes to girls.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:26 AM
1

What's wrong with considering her to be inferior? Women want you to be the dominant, leading one. A leader cannot lead his superiors.
/r/seduction01/02/13 09:26 PM
2

You can still get laid if you are nice. The piont is being a dbag isnt necessarily a bad thing when it comes to that.
/r/seduction01/02/13 08:59 PM
-1

Who said I was out only to get laid?
/r/seduction01/02/13 01:18 AM
2

This works for various reasons. It shows that you are assuming attraction. It shows that you are confident. You are telling her what to do (any time you want to close a woman, it is better to tell her than to ask her, and if she doesnt want it she'll say no.) Telling means that you are leading her, and that you are dominant. It also shows that you have value. A guy who is getting lots of girls numbers isnt going to want to put all those numbers in himself, so he makes the girls do it. Finally it…
/r/seduction01/02/13 12:08 AM
5

Bro, come here, let me tell you a secret; douche bags get laid more than nice guys.
/r/seduction01/02/13 12:06 AM
2

The point is not the number, it is sealing the deal. That being said, THE BEST thing like this I have ever seen is the following: Pick a random girl, anywhere. Get a napkin and write on it: "Kiss me? To respond yes: Smile To respond no: Do a backflip :)" (the smiley face is supposed to be a big smiley face.) Confidently, in breaking rapport tonality, get her attention and have someone in between you pass her the napkin. (like the waitress) Approach and just introduce yourself, because it is so o…
/r/seduction31/01/13 11:58 PM
2

Buick. The best time I ever had with a girl. Those grandma-ass cars have a lot of room and real cushy seats. Also, they have seats that go all the way across instead of bucket seats. Never thought my sister's shitty buick would help me score, but boy was I wrong. Also, another proof of confidence. Logic tells you you can't pick up a hot chick in a shitty old buick, but confidence says you can do whatever the fuck you want. Confidence is right my friends, fuck logic.
/r/seduction31/01/13 09:28 AM
2

You need to learn that nothing external matters. All that matters is what you believe about yourself. Also, for real cheap you can buy the Evolutions program from RSD, that will shoot your skills through the roof very quickly. I think its like $50 or something. It's worth hundreds though.
/r/seduction30/01/13 06:30 AM
3

WELL, scientifically speaking, the sun being out makes you 100% more likely to get a number, because if it wasn't shining on the earth we would all die. What now irrelevant news paper?!?!? WHAT!?
/r/seduction29/01/13 11:00 PM
1

if you are serious about your flirting and hope to get that all important phone number That's my goal when I'm flirting. Getting that number, who cares about sex when you can get digits!!
/r/seduction29/01/13 10:58 PM
1

This might sound harsh, but it is truth. There is no reason for you to not have a job. Yes, in this economy, finding a job might be difficult, but if you buckle down and really learn how to sell yourself to potential employers it is impossible for you to not get a job. It might not be in the same industry you are used to, but it is possible. Stop letting excuses control your life.
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:34 PM
0

Is this book worth taking the time for me to read? Let me rephrase that, how much skimming and skipping would I have to do if I was just reading it for the understanding and learning? (also, note, I am pretty good at the game already, so reading more seddit stuff wouldn't help a whole lot. Reading an application of it in story form might open up opportunities I hadn't though of or reinforce things in my mind in a new way though.)
/r/seduction16/01/13 12:49 AM
2

I have. Every woman is attracted to it if it is used in the right way. But it has to be in combination with all the more important stuff.
/r/seduction14/01/13 02:34 AM
1

Why are there so many deleted comments on this thread?
/r/seduction13/01/13 05:06 AM
18

intelligent, considerate, intelligent men I lol'd
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:42 AM
4

Being tall is just one factor, it's not like it's 100% necessary. For example, a girl with a great ass is really hot. So is a girl with great tits. To be considered pretty damn hot she doesn't need to have amazing tits and ass, just amazing one or the other is often enough.
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:41 AM
1

Serious props
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:30 AM
-4

Why would you make a throwaway PUA subreddit? Reddit is already anonymous...
/r/seduction10/01/13 03:25 AM
1

K thanks, I posted it there.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:40 AM
1

I agree, here on /r/seduction there is a larger amount of the other type. I think that the reason for that is that there is one really big company that teaches the method that I subscribe to. Numerically they are now like the biggest part of the community. But they have their own website called rsdnation.com. So very few of them ever come over here because their forum is a lot more effective for their purposes than the forum Reddit offers. And also, there is a lot of bad blood between the two si…
/r/seduction02/01/13 09:39 PM
1

There are different types of guys here. There are really two separate communities. One is the "Pick Up Artist" Community, and the other is the "Natural" community. The Pick Up Artist community can sometimes come across as mysogenistic. One thing I don't understand, what is wrong with a guy having sex with 50 different women? There are a lot of women who like having no strings attached sex. You don't have to lead anyone on to have sex with that many women. Personally, I let girls know exactly wha…
/r/seduction02/01/13 07:28 AM
2

What are you even talking about? I have been a member of the seduction community for 7 years. (though not this subreddit, since I only started using reddit like 6 months ago). I have been to seminars where I have met not only other men like me, but I have met some of the foremost experts in this field. And I can tell you from experience that while there are a lot of mysogenistic assholes who do "pick up", the principles behind modern pick up theory are not mysogenistic at all and those guys are …
/r/seduction02/01/13 05:46 AM
1

That is such an amazing and inspiring interpretation! Thank you!
/r/seduction02/01/13 05:22 AM
0

Hey, don't insult animals like that.
/r/seduction02/01/13 12:13 AM
4

You really haven't been here that long have you? This subreddit does not dehumanize women, it teaches men how to act so that women will be more attracted to them. This subreddit is ultimately doing women a favor by training men to be what they want. There are men who are sexist here, and men who objectify women, but if you got to know us you would find that most of us are eventually looking to marry the perfect girl and settle down permanently, and that we are currently at a stage where we are t…
/r/seduction02/01/13 12:09 AM
1

Caring about what other people think is bad. Caring about other people is good.
/r/seduction31/12/12 06:28 AM
1

IMO Barney is the person who cares the most in the show, both about his own life, and about other people. Barney does all sorts of elaborate things for the people he loves. He flew all the way to SF for Lily and Marshall. He has done awesome stuff for Ted countless times. He faked having a family to make his mom happy. Barney is a good guy. He just knows that women don't want Ted's sappy bullshit and he comes across as a jerk because the writers of the show know that most of their viewers are Te…
/r/seduction29/12/12 08:38 AM
0

That's why Robin marries Ted in the end right? Oh, wait...
/r/seduction29/12/12 08:37 AM
5

I promise you, the best thing that you can do if you are over 18 and living in your parents house, is MOVE OUT!! As an adult, it is better to live in a shithole apartment than in your parents house, even if they have a mansion, because there are all sorts of ways in which doing so keeps you from becoming a successful person.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:30 AM
1

....or you could only hook up with relationship material girls in the first place, and be genuinely good friends with them, and have benefits, but not be exclusive with them. Just because a girl is an awesome girl doesn't mean that she is so awesome as to deserve monogamy from you. If she is the one girl that you could devote the rest of your life to, then do that, if not, then having a committed relationship with her might be counterproductive. Edit: Just thought I would quote this reply to my …
/r/seduction24/12/12 09:17 AM
2

You can go the buddhist route like you just said. But you will find that that path doesn't actually lead to happiness, it leads to apathy. Not the sort of apathy a depressed person has, because that isn't really apathy but depression, but literal apathy. Literally, down that road, you stop caring about anything. Life loses it's suffering, but it also loses its joy. From what I have found in real life, the only way to be "happy" is to take care of all of your own personal needs. That includes soc…
/r/seduction18/12/12 03:23 AM
1

Yeah, those numbers are really sad for a guy who is supposed to be as good as Barney allegedly is.
/r/seduction17/12/12 12:45 AM
5

This might really shock you, but women really enjoy exposed penises. Of course, if you are creepy about it it will be creepy. But if you whip it out in the right situation, when she's already into you there is pretty much a 0% chance of it bothering her.
/r/seduction17/12/12 12:43 AM
29

That is actually not true at all. Barney's stuff works because he has rock solid fundamentals. 1. He's supremely confident. 2. He assumes attraction, always. 3. He's leading. 4. He's fun. 5. He gives exactly 0 fucks what anyone thinks of him. 6. He communicates sexually often enough. 7. He is one hell of a closer. Basically, Barney lords the pub 100% of the time and he is always in state. When you have solid fundamentals, you can bring a girl chocolates and roses and read her a poem and it will …
/r/seduction17/12/12 12:33 AM
12

Just thought I'd point something out: she mentiones the naked man move from how i met your mother and says that it might work then we made out on her couch for what felt like forever. she kept resisting all my attempts to undress her, but still acted horney as fuck. then she got up to use the bathroom. = she was trying to get you to do the naked man the whole time.
/r/seduction17/12/12 12:28 AM
1

Which is why I wouldn't use it. If you are blatantly obvious about being attracted it is incredibly easy to come on too strong and put her off. You can get all of the good things that come from saying a line like that, without any of the risk, by just being a little more subtle and discreet.
/r/seduction15/12/12 12:24 AM
1

No problem man. Take what works for you and discard what doesn't. If having her over for a movie night with friends isn't a possibility you can always just invite her to come over and watch a movie with only you. It's just that doing that takes a lot more congruence, game, and experience then inviting her to something that is less overtly leading to sex.
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:46 PM
1

Yeah you are definitely right. You need to be congruent to who you are. Being yourself is rule #1.
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:42 PM
5

Now kiss
/r/seduction14/12/12 10:09 PM
1

I'd like to register my polite disagreement. Saying, "I'm not hitting on you." Basically just communicates, "I'm hitting on you, but trying to be smooth about it." Which is better than hitting on her and not being smooth at all. But it is not as good as just being a confident man who knows what he wants and doesn't compliment people unless they really earn it first. If you are a compliment whore, your compliments will mean nothing. Also, women are creatures of subtlety, if you directly say stuff…
/r/seduction14/12/12 10:08 PM
53

I would say the biggest things you need to work on are these: 1. You actually don't want her to know you are that into her, that early on. You want the conversation to be sexual, and you want to make it pretty clear that you are into her, but in general it is bad to compliment her on stuff. 2. You don't want to come across as if you are too attached to needing to hook up with her. A guy who is good with girls has lots of options, so he's not really sweating the reaction of one girl. The fact tha…
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:52 PM
-5

Whenever a girl claims to be a virgin, unless she's religious, I don't believe her. Also, once a girl has touched your penis, sex is never impossible, it just might take some pretty slick game.
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:32 PM
16

She might have just been on her period.
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:03 PM
1

I think OP is a new redditor. Only 1 month as a user. He may not be back soon....
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:25 AM
1

That's why it's my name. :)
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:29 PM
1

no prob :)
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:27 PM
1

Good point
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:26 PM
1

Having a dick makes you a man. What sort of dog you have is irrelevant. If you like it, fuck what other people think.
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:23 AM
-1

No. Next question.
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:21 AM
1

I think that you can have a lot of passion without games. You just have to really key in to what it is exactly that turns a girl on, and just do that. You can be the nicest guy in the world, and still turn her on. Because it's being needy that kills it, not being honest. But that's just my opinion.
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:21 AM
3

Nothing is a turn off unless you let it be.
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:15 AM
1

You likely just have to turn her on more. Some things you can do: Start making out super heavy, where she is really into it, then pull away right at tat moment, she will chase you with her mouth. Then go back to kissing her. Pull away, and start kissing her cheeks or her neck, getting closer and closer to her lips, make her anticipate it, and want it. Also, you should always escalate to the breasts first. If you can get her bra off, with a lot of girls, when you start sucking on their breasts, t…
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:13 AM
1

When you just "get a girls number" you can expect results like this. It is better to invite her to something there in person, and then exchange numbers to help things go down smoother. You always want to set up the date on a high note. If you just get the number, with no date set up, you are usually going to have to have pretty solid text game to pump her into a receptive state via text before you can invite her. Also, when you ask in person, always make sure that your behavior is not communicat…
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:50 AM
1

This is great, but actually, you should exchange numbers as the majority of girls will never call you, but if you don't put your number in their phone you are just, "some dude who got her number" and you mean nothing. I don't think you should ever get a girls number, without giving her yours as well. Also, if your ratio is 1/20, you need to work on both your game in person, and your text game. Edit: Actually, I just realized, it depends on the style game you run. If you are approaching 20 girls …
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:48 AM
2

It is most likely this.
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:45 AM
1

Examples would help a lot. You shouldn't really be texting her all that much though if you haven't hung out yet. Invite her to do something, if she shows, assume she wants the dick, if she flakes, she doesn't and you can move on. Simple. I find that a good rule is to not invest a lot of time talking to a girl before I have kissed her at least once. I mean, until you know that shit is gonna go down, you are really just wasting your time. Pre-action talking really serves only two purposes: To get …
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:44 AM
2

Just don't talk about careers with them, that's boring stuff anyways.
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:40 AM
4

I wouldn't necessarily recommend that. Girls can get away with that because guys will pursue a girl just because she is hot. But if you start just blowing girls off, they are going to start telling other girls that you are a dick, and when you then later meet those girls, you will already have zero chance with them regardless of how much game you have. If you only dated her once, the best thing to do is just send her a text saying this: "Thank you for your time, I really enjoyed your company, bu…
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:38 AM
24

When you are really new to the game it is really hard to do this, because if you think that someone has something that is incredibly valuable, and you don't think that you already have more value than they have to offer, you cannot really avoid feeling this (without alcohol). The permanent solution is to become a dude who is that sexy, and just gets all the girls, but that is obviously your end goal, and if you could do that in a day, you would have already done it. Talk about a catch 22 right? …
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:29 AM
2

There are short term and temporary solutions, but I believe that the only real permanent solution is this: Write down what YOU'RE definition of what attributes you would have to possess for you, when you think about yourself, to think that you are the coolest person alive. In other words, figure out what it is that would most fulfills you in life. Then take steps towards becoming that person. Measure your life, not based on the mistakes you make, but how much closer you are to your goal. Every d…
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:07 AM
7

I'd say that it's one of these: A.) she takes a little longer before she has sex, but she still does. B.) She didn't have sex with the guy you heard about. C.) It was just LMR and you handled it wrong. D.) There was something off about your game and she didn't want to have sex with you, not because she is religious, but because you were only hot enough to make out with, not hot enough to hump like a weasel. Personally, without knowing anything about the situation, but speaking from personal expe…
/r/seduction09/12/12 07:59 AM
2

Dude, being sexually promiscuous does not make you a sociopath, or even a bad person. Lying makes you a bad person. A guy who is honest with girls from the start about only wanting sex is not hurting anyone. Many girls want that exact same thing. He is, in fact, filling an important need for a pretty large subset of women. Now, a guy who pretends that he really cares about a woman, dates her for a long time, then finally has sex with her, when all he cared about from the beginning was sex in the…
/r/seduction09/12/12 07:56 AM
0

I'm sorry to hear that, and thank you, but I got off pretty easy because I was already intending to split up with her. From the beginning we knew we were going to break up pretty soon since neither of us is looking for a serious long term relationship. Honestly, I think that I could have just maintained a friends with benefits relationship with her, but when she told me that we had to be "dating" to keep doing what we were doing I caved. I'm starting to think that was just a test honestly, to se…
/r/seduction09/12/12 07:40 AM
9

I agree, personally I've been around the seduction community for years, and guys who say HB may get girls, but they lose a lot of respect in my eyes. It's really unnecessary to use such lame vocabulary, just talk normally.
/r/seduction09/12/12 12:54 AM
12

Thank you for that rant, I am actually kicking myself for doing this very thing recently. It's kind of funny now though, because since she's dumped me I just moved on, and she is starting to realize that I've moved on, so she's starting to want me to date her again. I kind of feel bad for her, because I won't go back to her, and she's gonna feel like, "man I lost something so good because I forgot how cool he was for a minute" When in reality, I just forgot to bring my A game for a while and I w…
/r/seduction08/12/12 11:45 PM
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