Saying something like "so be it" before nexting a flaky girl?

bobbybluepill · 2014-10-24T21:26:31+00:00

By saying something like "so be it" after no response from her end I feel i conveyed I was disappointed but, well, whatever.

You sound like a bitch who's butthurt. Just remain silent and delete her number. Move on to the next one, it happens to all of us. There are plenty more of them out there, go find them!

Kiwikeeper · 2014-10-24T21:23:45+00:00

just go on with your life, don't even bother

Archwinger · 2014-10-24T22:36:47+00:00

Passive aggression is stupid and needy. And you're lying to us and to yourself.

If you're really done with a flaky girl and don't care, you just quit communicating.

But you care. You're hurt. You're hoping to make her regret ignoring you. Deep down, you're hoping she'll respond to your passive aggression in some way that validates you, whether that's expressing hurt or anger or trying to apologize and salvage things with you.

I don't like being lied to. I expect that shit from women. Are you a woman?

mooseman44 · 2014-10-24T22:17:04+00:00

Ask yourself what you're trying to achieve by texting that back to her. Are you trying to get her back? If so, that won't work. Are you letting her know you're annoyed? What's the point? She still won't respect you for it. Move on. Don't behave like a woman, leave that to them.

[deleted] · 2014-10-25T00:38:15+00:00

Say nothing. She's not worth the energy it takes to type the text

POOR_IMPULSE_CONTR0L · 2014-10-24T22:21:59+00:00

The best way you can convey that you are nexting a girl is to stop texting her.

drallcom3 · 2014-10-25T00:38:38+00:00

Don't even bother. Take it as a test of your willpower. You have to resist interacting any further with her. Feels good if you succeed and it gets easier every time.

Matsew · 2014-10-25T20:51:55+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOR6Z6X_VI4

I say sht like that when she's acting all bitchy and I'm done

forgeror · 2014-10-24T22:56:03+00:00

Yeh.. Thanks guys. I had a huge doubt about sending an SMS saying "so be it". It felt kinda off. Something told me to refer here before actually texting. Glad I did.

Title	Saying something like "so be it" before nexting a flaky girl?
Author	forgeror
Upvotes	11
Comments	9
Date	October 24, 2014 8:57 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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