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What do young Christian men need to learn about intersexual dynamics? All of it. I’m writing a book on masculinity and intersexual dynamics for young Christian men (ages 15-25). What topics and ideas are most needed in your opinion? Where are young Christian men most lacking? Not to be negative, but if you are writing a book on this that has any kind of authority, clout, and believability,...shouldn't you already have your own answer to that and be completely confident in it?
/r/RPChristians27/09/24 04:26 PM
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It was interesting that God mentioned that eating the fruit was the second thing he did wrong rather than the first. But even before that, he also just sat there and did nothing while she was talking to the snake, so he failed to be the leader and was the first "beta male", while Eve was the first you-go-girl!-feminist that wanted to "have it all" (be as God).
/r/RPChristians26/09/24 02:10 PM
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There is no insulation against being pathetic. Faith does not give anyone a pass to be naive although it feels as if the church promotes this. Biblical Christianity (the minority) understand the pro-masculine role. But Popular Christianity (the majority) is totally given over to BP and is corrupted by feminism. If you want to see the train wreck as it happens daily just go over to the subs ChristianDating or ChristianDatingAdivice right here on Reddit.
/r/RPChristians02/07/24 07:00 PM
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To masturbate in and of itself is not clear as to whether it is or it is not a sin. As I mentioned in a comment above, the body naturally releases itself during sleep so there’s really no problem in nofap. No, I am not making moral judgments on it. I am claiming that the releasing of masturbation is believed by the medical community to reduce the chance of prostate cancer. No, the body does not release it during sleep. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYhZMsvBWSU Leaving the old fluid in the pros…
/r/RPChristians27/06/24 01:43 PM
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When Christ mentioned committing "adultery in your heart" He was not "inventing" a new sin that no one knew about that they now had to avoid committing. He was demonstrating the impossiblity of sinlessness by human will power. He mentioned it to demonstrate the falicy of the Pharasees that sin is simply external. Christ was demonstrating that sin comes from within and and it means the corruption is part of us internally going all the way back to The Fall in Eden. The fact that it is impossible t…
/r/RPChristians26/06/24 01:14 PM
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Very good point. And thanks for stepping into the conversation.
/r/RPChristians26/06/24 01:14 PM
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As far as anecdotal experience,...NoReddit for a day had far more benefits mentally emotionally physically and spiritually than No-fap.
/r/RPChristians25/06/24 08:40 PM
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None of those is proven to result from no-fap. It is all pop-culture sudo science. One thing that medical science has demonstrated is that the flushing out of old sperm and fluid reduced the risk of prostate cancer. The old stuff decaying in there over time may contribute to prostate cancer (the prostate produces the fluid). Retaining sperm and retaining testosterone are not the same thing. Sperm is not testosterone and testosterone is not sperm. But testosterone can be involved in replacing the…
/r/RPChristians25/06/24 08:35 PM
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How to be socially apt? I used to consume secular red pill material back when I was in the world and it helped a ton. Then if it helped a ton then you are "cured". So did it help or not? RP is just an awareness of truth. It doesn't tell you to "do" anything. It is "description", not "prescription". If someone waving the RP banner is telling you to "do" something, then it is not RP,...it is just their opinion of what to do based on their knowledge and understanding of RP (which may be good advice…
/r/RPChristians06/03/24 02:46 PM
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Yea. We'll call it that. Let's call it that. :-)
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 04:11 PM
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A good read, and on point. The Most Alpha of Bunnies that ever did Alpha upon the fields of Don Juan. Is that a reference to the old SoSuave message board?
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 02:12 PM
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If you don't want to defend your claims, don't make them. I don't owe you a defense and don't need to justify anything to you. I wrote to the OP who didn't have any problems with it, not you who just jumped into middle of it to get attention and validation for your nit-picking. I'm familiar with Red Curious and had been a subscriber to to the podcast he was part of and I use his writing to clarify the Plate Spinning idea,...which most in this sub want to argue with even him about. I don't disagr…
/r/RPChristians04/03/24 04:27 PM
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This is wrong. No it isn't. But I think your are. My heart is not to be contrarian. But you are. What you said is unhelpful and just flat out wrong. It was helpful and correct. If you don't see that, I simply hope thsose who read your comment will. And I hope they see your are the problem. I'm really done with you. This isn't the first time I'd had to deal with you.
/r/RPChristians29/02/24 01:50 PM
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There is nothing wrong with my first comment to the OP. I think you just want attention and want to be "heard". If there was anything meaningful to say to the OP that varied from what I said your could have just told him yourself. If I seem impatient with you, sorry, but I have run into you before. You may not remember me, but I remember you. You are a contrarian that just wants to argue with everything and nitpick with everything anyone else says.
/r/RPChristians28/02/24 04:17 PM
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A Christian that is "biblical" is going to be Calvinist because Biblical Christianity (emphasis Biblical) is a Calvinist belief system. God thought of it long before John Calvin did. It goes all the way back to Genesis. It is Sovereignty driven. The Arminian element of Christianity today is the result of the perversion of Christianity over the decades of feminism and such infiltrating the church. Yes. It's true, Calvinism (in it's non-extreme form) is biblical. You see what I did? You've basical…
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 10:46 PM
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I think I fully understand the reasoning behind the rule. Rollo Tomassi's explanation of the observer effect, the fact that she'll probably think the whole thing is condescending, etc. etc. Cool. I won't red pill my future wife. No,... you do Red Pill her,...you just don't "call" it Red Pill. It's the label they flip out on. You can normalize the principles with her without giving her the sermon. A Christian that is "biblical" is going to be RP because Biblical Christianity (emphasis on "Biblica…
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 02:04 PM
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This got me thinking: If a man marries a promiscuous woman, is he not essentially a whoremonger? No. Stop creating ideas that don't exist. If a family member robs a bank are you a bank robber because there is a relationship between you and them?
/r/RPChristians02/02/24 02:24 PM
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Buddism is a false religious system,...don't know what JBP is.
/r/RPChristians30/10/23 04:53 PM
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How do I understand my role and mission as a man and patriarch of my family in relation to the Holy Trinity? None of it has anything to do with the Trinity. The relation of the Trinity to man is that man was made in the image of God. God is a triune being,...Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,...yet one God. Man is Body, Soul, and Spirit,...yet one man. Man is unique, animals are not made in the image of God, they are only body & soul (a dichotomy, rather than trichotomy).
/r/RPChristians30/10/23 04:50 PM
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This is a completely ad hominem attack and again bad argumentation. You know nothing about my desires, my marital status, my sex life, or anything else. All your assumptions are wrong and misguided. Your pushing of heresy and the willful blindness to clear statements from scripture tell me all I need to know. You are wasting my time and you are blocked.
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 08:50 PM
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You made 3 replies to me this time around. There is nothing new in any of them. You intentionally avoid the true point being made in all cases and try to redirect. There is no point in me, as Christ said,...casting pearls before swine to just be trampled. You are not biblical, more like heretical. You desperately cling to polygamy. You must clearly want to "bang chicks" as much as possible and desperately need polygamy to be "ok" in order to justify your desired goals and lust for sex. There is …
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 06:38 PM
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I don't care about spinning plates. I just dislike people dis-interpreting Bible - the end doesn't justify the means. You've got a whole thread of people doing that, and it isn't me.
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 02:45 PM
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God never told anyone not to marry multiple women. He never rebukes or corrects anyone for marrying multiple women per se. Funny thing with that...your own user ID,...Proverbs 31:2-3. The second half of verse 3 after saying to not give your strength to women (putting women in the immediate context),...says, "[Do not give your strength..] Nor to ways which destroys kings." which is a cross reference to Deut 17:17 telling kings to "not multiply wives". Your own user ID contradicts you.
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 02:18 PM
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From the sidebar: Posted by u/Red-Curious 6 years ago Christian Plate Spinning ... Seriously? Sure. Let's do this. This comes up a lot, so let me finally address it somewhat officially. Nothing here is necessarily new from what I've said in comments of other threads, but I'll spell it out in more detail anyway. DEFINING THE TERM I always have to quote Rollo on this one because the secular guys like to take this concept further than it has to go. In Rational Male Year One > Plate Theory II > 2nd …
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 02:06 PM
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You left out 1 daughter. It doesn't change my premise that Christianity does not promote Polygamy. Jacob did end up with two wives out of lust. Wife #1: Leah Wife #2: Rachel Concubines: Bilhah, Zilpah Legally according to Chaldean tradition the oldest daughter had to be given away first which is why Laban tricked Jacob with Leah and Laban explained it as such so that is not speculation (Genesis 29:26). Jacob should have stopped there and God could have formed the 12 tribes from him and Leah. But…
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 01:25 PM
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Or they can just read the Bible for what it says and not import Greco-Roman mores into them. Greeks and Romans loved poly, incest, and everything else that came along. If I was importing that I would be pushing poly. Augustine, much closer to the NT period than we are, recorded that Scripture never called polygyny a sin, Prove it. And even if he did it would just add to the collection of Augustine's other theological errors. This is just both an "argument from silence" and an "appeal to authorit…
/r/RPChristians16/10/23 01:28 AM
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As a Christian you just need to do it in a way that is appropriate and should consider at what point are you wasting your time, leading girls on in an ungodly way, doing it to just stoke your ego/feel proud, lusting after them etc... I'm not "DOING" anything. I'm a 60yo guy about to retire who has formal biblical training under a Pastoral major with an emphasis on Biblical history and the history of Israel and Middleastern history (with 30 years of life experience since then) who is explaining w…
/r/RPChristians14/10/23 11:19 PM
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Deuteronomy 17:17? And he shall not acquire many wives for himself, so that his heart does not turn away; nor shall he greatly increase silver and gold for himself. That's not a prohibition against more than one wife And a Stop Sign doesn't really mean stop when you are driving I suppose. Now there are some who call themselves Christian and say poly is allowed. They are all CULTS with an agenda.
/r/RPChristians14/10/23 11:08 PM
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Technically you're right. However, as I said people have different definitions of it and draw the line in different places. When they say "spinning plates" means having sex with multiple people, then they are just wrong.
/r/RPChristians14/10/23 11:06 PM
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Read and use your head. That has to be the stupidest interpretation of what I said that I could imagine. I'm talking about the definition of "spinning plates". Spinning plate is non-exclusive dating and dating doesn't require sex.
/r/RPChristians14/10/23 11:01 PM
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He never rebukes or corrects anyone for marrying multiple women per se. It does and I gave the reference for it. Deuteronomy 17:17 There's also Ezekiel 23 where God describes himself as a polygynous husband with two wives (Juah and Israel). Juda and Israel are the same country. It split in a civil war due to Solomon's corrupt son which God previously told Solomon in advance it would happen as a judgment on him for allowing his MULTIPLE wives leading him away from God earlier. God used the analog…
/r/RPChristians13/10/23 09:53 PM
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It does and I indicated where it did. It is only obscure to those who want it to be obscure. And there is absolutely nowhere is it endorsed.
/r/RPChristians13/10/23 09:46 PM
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Probably worth defining plate spinning. Usually it’s defined as having multiple non-committed sexual relationships with girls (though others have other definitions). No it isn't. My history with Tomassi goes all the way back to the first book. It is multiple simultaneous dating activities. They are dates. Dates are not relationships. They are not relationships until you STOP spinning, and there is no requirement for sex being part of it. You "spin" UNTIL you are in a relationship. You are no lon…
/r/RPChristians13/10/23 09:40 PM
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I don't believe the act of premarital sex itself a sin. It isn't a matter of opinion. Scripture forbids it,...period.
/r/RPChristians13/10/23 09:20 PM
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You could also enter into covenant marriages with several women like Abraham, Jacob, David, etc. Although it's a biblical option, you may encounter complications legally or in your church community. The characters in the Bible did it in-spite of Gods recommendations. They didn't do it with Gods blessing. So it isn't "biblical". Deuteronomy 17:17 Adam was told that "man" after him was to leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife and the TWO shall become one flesh. It doesn't say the 4 …
/r/RPChristians13/10/23 09:19 PM
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Every chick had a BF before the current one. They usually have no "downtime" of gaps in between. it is usually an overlap. The exceptions would be the less attractive ones who struggle more to get the attention.
/r/RPChristians05/01/23 08:37 PM
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The good looking ones want to "party party party", they don't want to be hampered and restricted by "religion".
/r/RPChristians24/10/22 03:11 PM
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This guy is a prisoner to his hormones and his obsession with women and being validated by them. People look at what is commonly called SIMPs and the stupid desperate things they do to get laid and fail. But all this is SIMPing. It isn't "failing" that makes it SIMPing,...what makes it SIMPing is all the obsessive crap a guy does to get laid no matter if he gets laid or not. You can get laid and still be a SIMP,...it's all about the obsessiveness of the process.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 06:10 PM
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Other have given good advice. Beyond that, stop blaming Covid for everything. It is just a flu,...just a flu,...not a "fun" one, but just a flu...it is a Corona Catagory flu virus just like dozens of others. You are over it in a few days or a few weeks in some cases,...and then it is gone,...gone.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 01:09 PM
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It is just like back before the Apps when it was done with websites (Match, OKQ, POF, whatever). You would see the same people on all of them. They may change the screenname, re-arrange the profile a little,...but the same people. Online "Dating" is a train wreck,...being labeled "Christian" doesn't matter. It multiplies your competition,...and creates the "paralysis of choice" with the women where they think the grass is always greener on the next swipe and it never ends. While the guy crosses …
/r/RPChristians29/06/22 02:12 AM
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They all suck equally. Just because a different company invents a different App doesn't change the people using the App. It is all the same bunch of people using all the Apps.
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 04:05 PM
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Anyway, what can I expect in the dating scene, especially the online dating scene? (Time constraints prevent me from getting heavily involved in singles groups.) Is there anyone out there for me, if I cast a large enough net? Any recommendations on dating sites? Same as everyone else similar to you. You aren't unique. What you "look like" and how much "stuff" you have only gets your foot in the door. Everything after that comes down to your mentality, your behavor, and your understanding of fema…
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 04:01 PM
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What do you think of this? Have you personally seen this play out in church? Who cares what anyone thinks? At least in a practical sense. Nothing that anyone thinks is going to change anything. We can all think about it all day or argue about it all day (probably will) and nothing will change. As the stats show there is a majority of women in the church. So if all these women are finding God at 30 and coming into the church what did all the men do at 30?,...clearly they didn't find God. So at le…
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 03:44 PM
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Early 20's still works for women. If they choose to forego family in favor of chasing degrees and money it is "on them". But the problem is that men have been so feminized, timid, and weakened by society's feminism that they are still children at that point. But keep in mind that RedPill is "knowing" not "doing". As Tomassi always says, it is Description, not Prescription. So if someone is telling you to "do" (or "not do") something, ...makes some kind of imperative statement,...then by definiti…
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 03:26 PM
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Pretty much. Nothing else has worked.
/r/RPChristians22/06/22 06:42 PM
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When we first dated and married, I couldn’t keep her off me. Back then, I was weak, more feminine, and didn’t have any career, so I imagined adding muscle, money, and sex appeal would have helped by now. So, I’m bewildered because it apparently hasn’t helped at all. The mold has already been cast over the last 10 years. The changes won't seem genuine to her. She will see you as a poser. It will take a long time for her to see it as genuine and any flaws that you didn't cover will be glaring to h…
/r/RPChristians22/06/22 05:35 PM
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The RedPill is a perscription Not it is not. Red Pills is "description",...not "prescription". (taken right out of Tomassi's videos - BTW) Red Pill is the scientific facts and observations from Sociology, Biology, Psychology, Praxeology. It is "knowing" no "doing". The "doing" or the "prescription" is just someone's "opinion" that they derived from Red Pill truthes,...but it doesn't make their opinion "true".
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 04:30 PM
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Sounds like you lost at every turn in every situation (some just lasted a little longer than others). Go through life always looking for and waiting for that reason to "get out". No family, no children, no passing on yourself to the next generation. No children to take care of you when you are old. No grand kids. No nothing. Just banging chicks and meaningless orgasms,...then you die,...alone,...forgotten,...nothing to carry on.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 04:24 PM
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This attitude is killing your ability to be fun and engaging which is self defeating. Yea. The Myers-Briggs thing doesn't help either. It is nonsense and certainly not biblical by any stretch. It's like most of the lies of the world,...contains just a little truth, just enough to set the hook and reel you in. BTW - Got your book. Haven't got to it yet. Working my way through another before I get to it.
/r/RPChristians02/06/22 07:13 PM
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Thank you. Upvoted Yes, The wife is about to crash. I think it is inevitable. I see all the signs. When a woman starts telling friends, family, or anyone who will listen that she is afraid to go home with her husband there is really no coming back from that. She'll be taking the kids with her when she goes. If she is smart she should also get with a recovery group for victims of spouses with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Victims of Narcissists can be heavily damaged and spend much of their …
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 06:10 PM
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No faster on the trigger then the enablers enabling him. Actually they were faster, they posted before me. You do realize this is a Christian sub and that our wives were divinely created as HELPERS and are commanded by God to submit and obey their husband's? At least I have formal training with a pastoral major and know the WHOLE story. You forget the part about "Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself it." This guy wouldn't sacrifice and inch for her. Her and the ki…
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 02:55 PM
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Worse yet, I see a lot of "enabling" assurances given to guys who sound like sociapaths as they tell him,..."Yea dude, you're doing a great job of holding frame!"
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 02:39 PM
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I think my response is going to be different. And you probably won't like it. Actually, I know you won't like it. You are robotic in your first paragraph. You describe more passion in your business of marketing then you do in your relationship. You make you wife seem like a "Baby Production Mechanism". Here's a list of your statements that sound narcissistic to me and even a little bit scary if I put myself in the position of a woman on the receiving end of it. but she has PMDD (which is basical…
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 02:31 PM
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Okay, what if instead I turn the tables and ask her, “what are we”? Before she asks first? Just for the sake of a direct answer to the specific question in the title,...it does this: You are not turning any tables, you are going over and sitting at her table. Puts you in her frame. She is the one who "knows" and is in control of "Where are we?",...instead of you. She is the leader You are the one who does not know the "Sit-Rep", ...she does,..or so you assume. You should be the one who knows the…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/22 02:19 PM
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It is a great blog post,...and subsequent book. He is the first Christian author that "gets it".
/r/RPChristians12/05/22 08:48 PM
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One answer. This book... But the blog post makes a pretty good point all by itself. https://www.thomasumstattd.com/2014/08/courtship-fundamentally-flawed/
/r/RPChristians11/05/22 07:13 PM
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It will be a while. It's waiting in line behind another. I'll DM you when I do. If I post in the sub it will just get lost in the mix.
/r/RPChristians01/05/22 02:20 AM
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Have the book in my hands.
/r/RPChristians01/05/22 01:44 AM
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Arguments come from frustrations. Frustrations come from other problems. A wise man once said, "Any man who argues with a woman,...doesn't understand women". Reading your post I felt frustration toward you coming up in myself, but it was more intangible, emotional,...not something that one can point at a specific thing. That is exactly what she as a woman would experience. The difference with me is that as a man who is driven by logic and reason above emotion I remain in control,...but a women w…
/r/RPChristians28/04/22 07:18 PM
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I would rather ask for individual stats from an OP if I thought I needed them and they were particularly relevant. I would rather have that than the whole list. If I were in the position of an OP I just wouldn't post the question because some of those stats are "no body's business" unless I deem them such in a more private discrete conversation. The Spiritual one you will never get the truth because no one really knows their own spiritual position from God's viewpoint and usually it is just a li…
/r/RPChristians28/04/22 06:40 PM
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Hadn't known of you (by your real name and the book). DM me,...you should be able to do that by clicking on my user id. We should chat. I went ahead and ordered a copy.
/r/RPChristians28/04/22 01:51 PM
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Tuesday morning I asked the Lord for a sign and got this scripture. The Lord said to me, “Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another man and is an adulteress. Love her as the Lord loves the Israelites, though they turn to other gods and love the sacred raisin cakes.” So I bought her for fifteen shekels of silver and about a homer and a lethek of barley. Then I told her, “You are to live with me many days; you must not be a prostitute or be intimate with any man, and I …
/r/RPChristians27/04/22 02:53 PM
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I kinda support the idea of spinning dates, but theres a catch, you need to be ready to resist the temptation of scalating into sexuality, You need to do that anyway. It doesn't matter what dating method you use. Refusing to Casually Date (the correct term for the analogy "spinning plates") is a cause of more intense temptation. It is easy to avoid giving in to temptation with the woman you are out with tonight when you know that next week you will be potentially out with a different one next we…
/r/RPChristians15/04/22 12:14 PM
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The "suggestions" of "popular proponents" is the problem. They are the ones who pervert and twist the meaning of terms so that no one understands what anything means. The term Red Pill was put on the map by Tomassi,...you want to know what a term means,...read Tomassi. Not to imply Tomassi is inspired,...he's not,...but he is the author of what Red Pill is from 20+ years ago. It is a similar concept of if you want to know what a biblical term or concept means then you turn to the scripture,...no…
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 05:13 PM
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Sounds like you are looking for a business partner rather than a wife. King Solomon had 700 wives. Do you think he wrung his hands over it and wondered if they were as emotionally mature as he was? Yea, yea,...extreme example, but important to make a point. He was the King, his leadership and maturity is what mattered,...not hers,...his frame & context,...not hers. You need to be attracted to her. That should be an easy one to figure out. Don't care if she is attracted to you because if she isn'…
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 04:36 PM
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Just stick with what scripture actually says. Truth is usually way way simpler than the non-sense out there.
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 04:08 PM
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It is Reddit,...what did you expect? There is no final authority for anything. The Mods have no hope of keeping up with every thread and every post. Anyone can create an anonymous account, hide behind their fake screen name, their phone, their PC, and post a comment any way they like. If you want something better stick with people in your church in face-to-face interactions.
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 04:03 PM
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Both are effected but the intensity and specific effect is different. With women it effects the ability to bond but with men if effects their ability to respect women,...they just become objects to him,...just hoes. It also take much longer for it to effect men. In the Bible having multiple wives was discouraged but God still let it happen,...so men who had the means (Kings and the Elite) had multiple wives,...but you see nowhere where women had multiple husbands. Men were capable of pulling off…
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 03:53 PM
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move as one fluid entity all the time What does that mean? Sounds like "Wu Wu Magic" cult speak?
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 03:44 PM
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The "normal" redpill requires people to dwelve into premarital sex No,...it doesn't. RP doesn't tell you to "do" anything. It is sudo-science, not an ideology or a lifestyle. RP is description, not prescription. As soon as you bring "doing" into it then it becomes prescription, a lifestyle, an ideology,...not RP. Most all the "YouTube Red Pill" is an ideology or a lifestyle pushed by the presenter that may be derived from RP,...but it does not define what RP is. RP is the Biology, Praxeology & P…
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 03:44 PM
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"I can't care less about hair" ......doesn't jive with...... "I’m struggling heavily to combine the situation I’m dealing with, with the faith, and red pill." Which is it? Can't be both. "Faith" and "Red Pill" have nothing to do with hair. As far as Red Pill, Red Pill is Description, not Prescription. RP is "knowing" not "doing". It is sudo-science, not a behavor, a lifestyle, an ideology, or a regimen. You might "do" based on what you "know", but that is just you and your own conclusion or inte…
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 03:01 PM
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Frankly, if someones not getting upset, you're doing it wrong: I must be a Reddit hero then.
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 01:12 PM
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Yea,...electric hair clippers. Buzzzzz. Problem solved. Chicks dig it when you are rockin' Chris Daughtry & Jason Statham.
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 01:08 PM
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You said Christian "version". That implies you think the "regular version" is equal to "having sex". There are not multiple versions, there is only what it really means. The PUA community can pervert it all they want, it doesn't change what it really means. Anyway,...looked back at the top post. You said, "What I ended up getting were 2 women who were actually attempting to cheat on their long distance boyfriends, some other strange stuff with other women". There is nothing, absolutely nothing a…
/r/RPChristians13/04/22 01:03 PM
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I don't think you will ever get a woman worth being with by plate spinning. In my view, this sort of thing (Like a lot of PUA tricks) That is because you keep interpreting the term "plate spinning" as "having sex". You are letting the ones who have perverted the term, be the ones to define it. I'm sure PUA's drive cars too,...so we should not drive cars because PUAs do it? This guy at the following link never uses the term "plates" never uses the term "red pill",...probably doesn't know what it …
/r/RPChristians10/04/22 11:57 PM
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Already found it. No it isn't. Direct quote from Tomassi: ------------------------ Spinning Plates doesn't necessarily mean you're f------ all of your plates. It's more of a spreading out of your efforts across a wider pool of subjects. ----------------------- Then you have the post "Plate Theory and/v. Christianity" in this sub in the Side-Bar near the bottom under the section "Singles" that was posted by one of the Mods here (u/Red-Curious). I expect to have this debate with the Hedonists who …
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 04:02 PM
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Found the reference. The link is right here in THIS sub in the right-hand column. It is father down the page and I just missed it when I looked before. https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/7nq6zv/christian_plate_spinning_seriously_sure_lets_do/ It also gives the exact location in Rollo's book and it does it right in the first paragraph at the beginning of the post. It was written by one of the primary Mods of this sub, u/Red-Curious. Here is the quote I was looking for... This comes up…
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 01:50 PM
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Found the reference. The link is right here in THIS sub in the right-hand column. It is father down the page and I just missed it when I looked before. https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/7nq6zv/christian_plate_spinning_seriously_sure_lets_do/ It also gives the exact location in Rollo's book and it does it right in the first paragraph at the beginning of the post. It was written by one of the primary Mods of this sub, u/Red-Curious Here is the quote I was looking for... This comes up …
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 01:46 PM
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I'll just have to dig for it. The part about it "not" meaning sex was not iterated very often, so it may be in the 2nd or 3rd book. The fact that he didn't state it often enough is why the hedonists were able to glom onto the idea and co-opt it to mean what they wanted it to mean.
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 01:31 PM
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Rollo clearly stated in his book that plate spinning does not mean sex. Since no one knows the location I'll just dig for it myself. Was just trying to save some leg work.
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 01:25 PM
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And as an extra, you don't need to follow what X or Y author says by the book, many will tell you to sleep with as much women as you can, but we know that such thing is a sin, and the act of not falling prey to our desires (with the help of God) is proof of our christian goal. Thanks for the reference to the sub post link. But that is not the one. The one I am looking for was not written by Rollo or anyone outside the Christian sub. It was written by someone (probably a MOD) from this sub. It ex…
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 01:20 PM
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Then you missed the whole point.
/r/RPChristians23/03/22 12:50 PM
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And those same people use Tomassi and their authority,...hence why I need the reference to show that their own authority doesn't support that. I could just keep flipping through the book till I find it, but if someone already knows where it i that would help.
/r/RPChristians22/03/22 06:36 PM
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There are different levels and situations though. That is what people who keep failing and keep getting into the drama keep telling themselves to keep justifying it. I used to be the King of having women friends and even bragged about it thinking it gave me an advantage over other guys. Once I finally figured out that it was a weakness and not a strength, and that it was damaging me and getting in the way of my progress,... it STILL took me about 5 years to fix it in my behavor and approach to l…
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:21 PM
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People, particularly younger ones, can't seem to comprehend the difference between Friends and Acquaintances. Having women as Acquaintances is fine,...but even then if you spend too much time around them, interact with them too much,...you are going to get burned. You make them your "best-bud" you will really get burned.
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:18 PM
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Cue the downvotes. Nah, I'll upvote.
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:14 PM
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Shows in your work. Your post, if presented as "chick porn" fiction, would work. It was pretty well written if you were using it for that. The skill is there. So go write some chick porn romance stuff. I think they will eat it up. You might make some money. For promotion get some artist to draw up a promo with some guy that looks like Fabio.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 08:04 PM
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Who is begging to be a mod?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 07:59 PM
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Sounds like a fabricated BS story to me. Self indulgent, totally cliche, like it was plagiarized from a romance novel. Guys who really live like that consistently and have the social skills and manipuability don't hang out on Reddit to brag about it on a RP sub.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 02:04 PM
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Best reply, and worth upvoting. Scripture even warns women about withholding from their husband,....and I think we already know the practical problems with women using sex as a weapon of manipulation and withholding it. The woman doing this and succeeding is demonstrating that the guy is completely in her frame and subservient to her.
/r/RPChristians21/02/22 02:56 PM
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I know it's probably my fault for putting up with all this BS in the first place Yes, you kind of "made the bed" sort of speak. You are in and probably have always been in her frame.
/r/RPChristians21/02/22 02:52 PM
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Obey God Eat meat. Genesis 9: 2-3
/r/RPChristians21/02/22 02:50 PM
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Just seems odd sometimes when there are days or weeks that go by and its not even a thought. So it must be a norm thing then? It is still a bad sign. I'm not defining anything as "normal" or justifying it. I'm just explaining "the way things work". Read Tomassi's second book The Rational Male: Preventative Medicine and the part of it on Hypergamy,... Micro-Hypergamy in particular, ...is what I am talking about with regard to the monthly cycle. Another book I don't recommend often but can greatly…
/r/RPChristians07/01/22 02:13 PM
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Yep, I understand. Thanks. Well, after being married over time men's masculinity tends to soften. It is slow, like the frog in the boiling water thing. Then you combine that with the fact that over time the women "gets used" to you causing you to make less impact on her. So, I can't claim to have any specific solutions, but I can point to these two things to keep in mind. So maybe more self-analysis while keeping the context of those two things in mind. She might have issues of her own that aren…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 08:08 PM
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With my drive being very high, it is becoming tough to figure out how to explain to her my needs with my love language being physicality. Knock off the "Love Language" nonsense, because that is what it is,...nonsense. It is neither biblical, natural, nor scientific. Women are attracted to, and aroused by, masculinity. If she is lacking in that then it is a pretty good bet that you aren't projecting masculinity as much as you think. In spite of the "stats" that "rule 2" asks you to include to not…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 06:51 PM
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When I give it a fresh buzz down to the nubs I get the most attention. The more it grows back out the less attention I get. I'm only 5'5". One of the women who gives me the most attention is maybe 6'0" and over 10 years younger than me.
/r/RPChristians30/11/21 03:52 PM
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So what is the intent? Boost female attendance in the church,...or find a woman for yourself? You aren't clear. Lot of churches won't hire a Youth Pastor if he isn't married so that he doesn't start dipping into the women under him in the youth group. Some view the Pastor the same way. I know one guy who got out of "The Ministry" until he found a woman and got married,...then got back in "The Ministry". As far as I know they are doing fine now. Anyway, as far as Christian dudes meeting Christian…
/r/RPChristians12/11/21 02:22 PM
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The 144k are Jews. 12k from each tribe. They will also be during the Tribulation when the church is gone. However you have a good point overall in that find 144k virgins might not be that difficult.
/r/RPChristians12/11/21 02:10 PM
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This picture tweet from Jeff Bezos (his reaction to some minor interaction his GF had with Leo de Caprio) is a cautionary tale for men: Never react to your biatch flirting. Don't overvalue her. Bezos and de Caprio are friends and know each other. They "joke" about it. Bezo's response with him leaning on that sign was a joke between them. If anything he was saying, "She trouble, watch out for her". Yes, it was clear she thinks de Caprio is hot, but de Caprio isn't interested in a woman her age an…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 03:08 PM
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Is it a Double-Standard to Sleep with Other Girls, While Wanting a Monogamous Girlfriend? Yes. It is the big Red Pill cognitive dissonance. But many seem to confuse "actions" with Red Pill as if RP tells you to "do" something. As Tomassi always says, RP is description not prescription. RP just describes the "lay of the land",...what you choose to do about the situation is up to you. Understanding that is how you can have both Christian RP that doesn't accept premarital sex, and non-Christian RP …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 02:19 PM
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Take away birth control of any form. One Lay = one baby to raise Now how do you answer the question? The natural purpose of sex is to make babies and continue the human race,...rather than it being an Evening Sport. Getting laid isn't "The Meaning of Life". I wonder how many will get "triggered" by that?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 03:51 PM
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For reading, some books I recommend are How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne, and the first 2 or 3 of the Rational Male series by Rollo Tomassi. They don't cover the exact same things the same way but seeing the perspectives of both author's is good.
/r/RPChristians20/10/21 02:44 PM
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Well, she ain't your future wife just because you offered her a date. But it is up to you, that has to be your decision.
/r/RPChristians19/10/21 07:08 PM
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Pursuing is feminine behavor. Offering opportunities to a woman is masculine behavor. But if she doesn't take the offer you move on.
/r/RPChristians18/10/21 06:16 PM
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I know he says that he started out BP like most people, but haven't heard him say that about Alpha/Beta. He doesn't view Alpha & Beta as a demographic and uses the terms as just placeholder terms. There is another term he describes them as too but I'm having one of those brain moments right now. They are behavioral characteristics that are moment by moment and situation by situation.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 02:22 PM
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Never heard him say anything like that,...and I follow him pretty closely.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 01:23 PM
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According to Tomassi, 80% of men are Beta. That does not change by being Red Pilled. Being Red Pilled just means you are Red Pilled. You can be a Blue Pilled Alpha,...or a Red Pilled Beta. So even if the entire population of the planet suddenly became 100% RP,...there would still be the same ratio of alpha/beta. But hopefully over time the RP truths would get some of them to lean more toward the alpha spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 08:36 PM
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Well that is the standard PUA "teaching". I don't believe it works, don't believe it is really very feasible (100 girls in 10 days?,...nope). Getting beat up by rejection just makes you emotionally numb,...doesn't make you "good" at anything and does not really make you confident other than being confident that you will most likely get rejected. The right approach is to study and learn. Know how human behavor works. Know what body language and facial expressions actually communicate. Don't wast …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 09:22 PM
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Keep in mind that approaching women is an emotional thing, not a logical thing. That is the problem. Men need to learn to take the emotion out of it and stop wringing their hands over it like a woman. They need to start seeing themselves and the prize instead of the woman being the prize,...that she has to measure up to his standards instead of handwringing in over measuring up to hers.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 09:11 PM
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When Approaching Women The Only Fail Is Not Approaching The Women You Want To Approach No. There are way way way more fails than that. The number of fails when they do approach is astronomical, and they can be very damaging to the guy coming from the constant rejection resulting from the fails. There are 100's of self-help books on the market trying to fix guy's bad approaches.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 02:34 PM
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Awful lot of over thinking, over theologizing, and over speculating over "Oneitis". It has nothing to do with the Fall of Man in the Garden and the cursing of the Universe. "The One" is a myth. Find a good one, and don't screw up the relationship,...you're good. That is pretty much it. If the guy has his act together the woman is going to follow his lead and that by itself will correct or adjust any minor "flaws" she might have.
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 03:36 PM
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Day 1 cold approach | got a number! So what? I get a number almost every time I try. Thinking back, I was only refused a number once,...just once,...ever. The real test is: "What are you going to do with it?" But I also don't waste my time with Cold Approach. It isn't productive or efficient. Yea, you might "get one" on occasion like you might "win" once in a while at a Casino, but you can't move your life forward with it. My method now is to get the date first,...then she gives me the number be…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:49 PM
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No, you are wrong. With a church setting you can't just yell at the pastor "Hey everyone, it says in this verse here we should stone people like this pastor to death, he is an enemy of God!" If you did that they would be in the right to have the police haul you out of there, or have some very large friendly usurs show you where the door is. The proper way for that to be done would be for the church to have biblical board of Elders (or Deacons in some churches) have a meeting and fire the guy. Th…
/r/RPChristians11/08/21 06:05 PM
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The ones I know of as the "It's OK to be gay" churches are in fact "bucking" the system with the centralized denomination they are part of,...so being "centralized" isn't causing it,...they are doing it independently in spite of it,...meaning they are doing it independently and against the wishes of the government above them. The rest of them are from Hybrid systems where they are playing "follow the leader" of a larger church led by a "popular" pastor. But there is no centralized governmental s…
/r/RPChristians11/08/21 05:49 PM
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It's about 50/50 with men/women doing what I described above, when I have found myself in such situations. But when I was in Bible college isn't wasn't as bad there, however that was more organized and controlled.
/r/RPChristians11/08/21 05:35 PM
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We already know what is going to happen. It will all get worse and worse (in the church and outside the church) until the Tribulation where it comes to a head toward the end,...then God cleans house after the Tribulation. Anything other than that is going to only be a temporary local isolated event
/r/RPChristians10/08/21 09:14 PM
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People with bad theology are going to wreck things no matter what the context. It doesn't matter if it is centralized, decentralized, Mega church, small country church, big "bible study", small "bible study", or arguing at the kitchen table,...people with bad theology are the real problem. Bad theology is bad theology, stupid ideas are stupid ideas,...no matter where you find them. Every cult started out with one individual in a small group. They didn't get big or organized/centralized till year…
/r/RPChristians10/08/21 09:06 PM
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Centralized churches should be destroyed. Their systems are all bad & unbiblical. Decentralized Christian gatherings have much more skin in the game (such as small Bible studies). No that isn't better. Decentralized just becomes a free-for-all theologically because there is no skilled authoritative teacher to keep it on track. It just becomes a pooling of opinions, a pooling of ignorance. It becomes a big "This is what this verse "means to me"" session,...instead of "this is what God meant by it…
/r/RPChristians10/08/21 07:33 PM
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Almost every single example of teaching scripture in the Bible consists of an exchange between the teacher and the students. Ever sit in a "class" that was open for "questions & suggestions"??? It just gets bogged down by non-sense questions, side-tracks, and comments from people who just want to get noticed, sound smart, and show how spiritual they think they are. So,...no,...this isn't the solution either. I would much prefer the monologue style. If you want the floor open to "questions & comm…
/r/RPChristians10/08/21 07:20 PM
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Gotcha. I wasn't thinking of it that way. I was thinking more of being afraid to say it on Reddit.
/r/RPChristians05/08/21 08:37 PM
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G-d????? Ashamed of the name? It is spelled God.
/r/RPChristians05/08/21 06:21 PM
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On one occasion I have sat at a table one evening with a group. The guys next to me were talking about having to have sex with someone to know if they are "compatible" before going further. The woman across the table from them was a Christian, I knew where she went to church, have sat in the same services with her before,...she was nodding and verbally agreeing with them. So what do you think she is doing on all (or at least some) her dates?
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 03:11 PM
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Most women have a far sluttier past than they will ever admit. Women are the ones who have far far more sexual opportunities than men do. Thinking most of them aren't going to fall for some of those opportunities and then lie about it is a way too "Pollyanna" view of the world to have. It is better to assume that they have been that way and then be pleasantly surprised if it didn't happen,...than the other way around.
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 03:07 PM
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Just wear a condom and stop worrying about it beyond that. That would be suicidal. You life hanging by a thin piece of rubber that tears or comes off easily. Some STDs are for life, no cure. Some you die from. Don't go down on a girl you don't trust. That would be,....none. So it doesn't seem very Disney-like.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 08:04 PM
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How high is the STD count in Brazil?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 03:24 PM
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Disagree. Jesus did not endorse any political stances nor tell His followers to get involved with them. Look. I'm not going down your rabbit hole any further. I didn't have "politics" in the thread in the first place: You responded to this,.. with this: ------------------------------------------------- Red Pill = Conservative Blue Pill = Liberal Disagree. Jesus did not endorse any political stances nor tell His followers to get involved with them. ------------------------------------------------…
/r/RPChristians10/05/21 02:37 PM
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When Paul was a victim of the riots caused by the Jewish leaders he was arrested by Roman soldiers. What was his response??? He claimed his rights as a Roman Citizen and the restrictions on how he could be arrested. Then he appealed to the Roman Emperor. A large part of the events in book of Acts occurred as Paul was being transported to Rome for that purpose. Paul wrote a lot of the New Testament while in a Roman Prison waiting for his turn to get to talk to the Emperor,...and he stood before a…
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 03:15 PM
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There is nothing political,...aside from the fact that the Left has made everything political. Are you against abortion,....do you take any position on it at all?? Well congratulations,...you are political, and Christianity is political.
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 02:55 PM
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With "RPChristians" the RP is Red Pill,...BP is Blue Pill (analogy is from the old Matrix Movie). If you don't have a background knowledge of them it is loosely similar to: Red Pill = Conservative Blue Pill = Liberal Red Pill = Against Feminism Blue Pill = Influenced by Feminism Red Pill = Real World Blue Pill = False Mainstream "Narrative" But it is also way more complicated than that. The SideBar has more information at the bottom right
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 06:56 PM
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main problem is me: I don’t know how to be brave and lead well. What should I do? I’m so scared. I'm really skeptical of this being a true post and that it isn't "bait" trying to stir up the RP Christians to see what they will say and see what big speeches they will go on. Why would a guy so BP come to an RP group (and even know it exists) and post such a short clearly blatant BluePill message in such a timid way? ....and not be a long rant on top of that? It is like it is specifically targeting…
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 05:18 PM
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By the by, I returned the following year and earned my back belt. How many years of training (not counting the gaps) did it take to get that?
/r/RPChristians30/04/21 02:45 PM
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It isn't Red Pilled women,...it is Blue Pill women trying to capitalize on Red Pill concepts to their own advantage. It's like someone calling themselves a Christian Athiest. Simply acknowledging that a certain grocery list of Red Pill ideas are "true" doesn't make you Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 02:55 PM
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There is nothing wrong seeking marriage at least in part to satisfy sexual desire No but it is a problem to be obsessed about it to where it negatively effects your life and happiness.
/r/RPChristians09/04/21 02:45 PM
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It's a Red Pill sub, not a Black Pill sub.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 01:59 PM
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I want marriage badly, but I feel it would divert me from things I need to do for God. Should I marry? ​ Stop being obsessed with women (wanting marriage so you can get laid without getting into trouble) Stop thinking you know what God will do with you for the rest of your life Then, now, that you aren't obsessed with anything and aren't thinking anything,...life will actually just "work out".
/r/RPChristians09/04/21 01:57 PM
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There are so few of them globally that you may have to "make" one. Grab a poor innocent oblivious Blue Pilled Christian guy and shove Rollo Tomassis's book "The Rational Male: Religion" into is hand and see if he survives it. Tell him there will be a quiz afterwards. If he survives intact then you may have a winner.
/r/RPChristians09/04/21 01:52 PM
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Then the guys aren't "ready",...they haven't worked on themselves well enough yet. They are getting into a dating situation they cannot handle. They would be just "setup to fail".
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 09:35 PM
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I think if they need a list of questions it is already too late (or too early) for them. The date becomes a job interview, the conversation becomes scripted, the guy becomes robotic, the girl becomes creeped out,...the offer for the 2nd dates becomes "Let's just be friends". It all implies that the guy has to do a lot of "talking",...that the guy has to keep the conversation going,...and that somehow periods of silence are bad. RP-101 has always known that women do way more talking than men, so …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 09:14 PM
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Gotcha... :-)
/r/askRPC30/03/21 06:49 PM
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Just to reveal the more personal side... My posts seemed to limit you quite a bit if you didn't consider them in their entire context with all the details I gave. But as a single guy, I would not reject you due to the divorce that you had.
/r/askRPC30/03/21 06:37 PM
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I don't doubt that. But I am referring to the Scripture itself that the Baptist use as the official doctrinal position. I'm not considering how an individual church may handle something because a church can make an unscriptural choice as well as a scriptural one. If I tried to list all the things that students argued about (even against the Professors) back in Bible College,...it would be a book. Many would have graduated and went on to pastor churches and still might have some unbiblical ideas …
/r/askRPC30/03/21 06:02 PM
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Interpret tongue in cheek comments for what they are. Of course there are more than 5 on the planet. But you can't trust statistics like that either. People don't tell the truth in those surveys. The reality is probably 10%-20% but it depends on location as well. You'll find more virgins in the hills of Tennessee then in midtown Manhattan or Hollywood, Ca. You also have to factor in the ugly unpleasant truth that some people (men & women alike) that aren't desirable to the opposite sex and may s…
/r/askRPC30/03/21 05:51 PM
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A clearly abusive guy is probably already cheating or will cheat as soon as she leaves him (scripture doesn't forbid her leaving for safety). Once he cheats she can be freed from him. So the problem kind of takes care of itself. As far as the churches, churches allow all kinds of things that they shouldn't, so you can't use that to justify something no matter if it is true or not. Scripture is the authority, not churches (which usually comes down to one person,...the pastor).
/r/askRPC30/03/21 05:42 PM
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20 “But if this charge is true, and they did not find the girl to have evidence of virginity, 21 then they shall bring the girl out to the doorway of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death, because she has committed a disgraceful sin in Israel by playing the prostitute in her father’s house; so you shall eliminate the evil from among you. That would leave about 5 women left on the planet afterwards.
/r/askRPC30/03/21 04:50 PM
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In my formal education I am Baptist trained. The allowances for remarriage is not that extensive. There are three: Adultery Unbeliever leaves Former spouse died There is nothing in there about abuse or unequally yoked.
/r/askRPC30/03/21 04:47 PM
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If you Ex remarries or gets sexually involved with someone then you should be "free" based on the infidelity clause because your ex is having sex with another. If he is an unbeliever and leaves and wants no reconciliation then you are free on the clause about the unbeliever leaving a marriage. I went though this years ago. My ex was probably an unbeliever in spite of her claims, she was the one who left and got the divorce, I did not attend the divorce court proceedings, she likely had sex with …
/r/askRPC30/03/21 04:39 PM
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Every time someone denounces the Red Pill they redefine (misdefine) it to make it an easy whipping boy.
/r/askRPC29/03/21 03:22 PM
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If you are not in a leadership position at the church, and have authority,...you can't. If it gets bad enough you just have to leave the church. Feminism goes hand in had with Cancel Culture. You make a stink they will just ask you to leave the church. Churches already tend to be that way even without feminism. Even Pastors have been "fired" over standing against what the "masses" are bent on doing or accepting. Anyway it is the church's staff that are responsible to keep "bad things" out of the…
/r/askRPC29/03/21 03:19 PM
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I know this is a dumb question, but if the girl was telling the truth and she saw the baby when it came out in the bathroom, is she supposed to show it to the guy first? Go to the hospital emergency room. Secondly is she supposed to flush it down the toilet (which seems highly disrespectful) or bury it some place where it can be laid to rest? It isn't the family cat after a car ran over it that you bury it under a bush,...or the dead goldfish you flush down the drain. Take it to the hospital as …
/r/RPChristians25/03/21 09:38 PM
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That's why I take the arrows,...so you don't have to :-)
/r/RPChristians25/03/21 03:35 PM
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So you're 25, and she's 28 with a 3-year old kid, and she wanted to have an abortion. That brings up a good point with the 25 -vs- 28. Hypergamy. Hypergamy is not evil, it is a survival mechanism for women as is a "good" thing as long as it is balanced by other things in society. Had this woman been following her Hypergamy properly she would be with a guy in his 30's who had his life in order and had made something useful of himself. They would be in his "Frame",...their lives would be functioni…
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 06:28 PM
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Yesterday, she told me that she lost the baby due to a lot of bleeding. I don't want to get into a lot of detail but she saw the baby when it came out in the bathroom. "She saw...?" Then what??? You didn't see it?? She flushed it down the toilet, cleaned up, and told you later?? Sounds like she had an abortion in secret and came up with a story to cover it up. Or she wasn't really pregnant and made it up to "lock you in" (yes, I personally know of such cases).
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 06:18 PM
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Prov 31:30 (Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain) They probably use the "Charm is deceitful" to say that Game is a sin too. So don't point it out to the chicks. :-)
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 09:47 PM
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Notice also: it doesn't say "For bodily exercise profiteth not at all..." Not claiming it did.
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 09:42 PM
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I don’t think that’s Paul’s way of saying “don’t exercise.” Not saying it did. I think it’s Paul’s way of making it clear how important godliness is. Correct. I think it could easily be argued that exercise is an expression of godliness. A lot of things can be argued. You can barely get two Christians locked in a room together to fully agree on the deity of Christ or the Trinity. Arguing is all most ever do over Scripture. I just have an issue with trying to force Scripture to promote the Red Pi…
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 09:41 PM
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You picked the English translation that makes it sound the most like exercise is possibly a bad thing. Did a quick Google to find a quick copy to create the post. It came up near the top and was convenient. That's all. There is nothing in that scripture that says it is "bad".
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 09:22 PM
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Most Christian men today are physically weak, pathetic, and lazy. When such a man reads those passages commanding he be strong, he should feel the weight of conviction that comes from his weakness. I do believe that. Modern Christian men are certainly that. So don't take my counter to what the OP claimed to imply otherwise.
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 08:28 PM
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You left out 1st Timothy 4:8 which portrays the opposite... 1 Timothy 4:8 For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come. I'm not pointing it out because I don't believe in being healthy,...going to the gym is great,...but myself as someone who has had formal bible college training under a Pastoral Major you are cherry picking scripture. God doesn't care if you are buff and He doesn't care if…
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 08:25 PM
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No. It is not Jerusalem. Babylon, broadly defined, is the unbelieving world system. More narrowly defined, is the false religious system during the Tribulation. It is also called the Harlot Church (true church is a bride, false church is a harlot). It is depicted as a woman riding on an animal and she is drunk on the blood of the saints because the false religious system murders those who won't go along with it. Jerusalem is where many events are centered out of, but Jerusalem is not Babylon,...…
/r/RPChristians11/03/21 09:12 PM
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There is nothing new here. The degradation began heavily in Western Society after the late 1800's when Evolution hit the scene from Darwin and Liberal Higher Textual Critizism out of Germany attacked the authenticity of scripture manuscripts. This gave a big boost to overall theological liberalism and the belief of Theistic Evolution. Then the next wave hit in the 1960's with the Hippy Free-Love movement (Sexual Revolution) alongside its "companion" we affectionately call Feminism. Now you have …
/r/askRPC01/03/21 02:19 PM
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I don't wear one in a gas station, I won't wear one in church either. Tell him you don't want to promote a lie in church.
/r/RPChristians15/02/21 02:16 PM
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Also, I went to a church years ago that was exactly the kind of place that told guys to “man up” and start asking out more women. As in, it would say it that explicitly, which I respected a bit more for being upfront about it. Yea, and I have mixed feelings about it. If they mean to man up and be more masculine and take charge than I agree. That is how I mean it when I say it. But many churches are very Blue Pilled and they mean it the way the feminist mean it. When the feminists say it they mea…
/r/askRPC09/02/21 02:26 PM
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It is all of the above. Many of these women are alone because guys just are not attracted to them. Many of the women are also self-righteous and judgmental toward the guys. The guys need to be the reincarnate Apostle Paul and look like a Hollywood actor or they just "don't count". But at the same time the pool of men is small and within that small group the men aren't looking so great either and then add to that, they are weak and blue pilled and won't ask anyone out. If they do ask a woman out …
/r/askRPC08/02/21 09:00 PM
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Denominations are a specific thing. They have organizational structure and some form of a governing body. There were no denominations at that time as I said. Yes obviously there were heretics scattered here and there. But there were no organized different "sects" of Christianity that we would call a Denomination until after Catholicism split during the reformation. Martin Luther (the Lutherans) may have been the first but I am not positive on the timing. Judaism at the time had three. Pharisees,…
/r/RPChristians02/02/21 03:20 PM
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Yea. If you "are", then there is nothing to "keep up".
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 04:16 PM
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I like the "gotta find a wife" mode. It is a good way to describe it. I'll have to reuse that one.
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 04:14 PM
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Well you are choosing an extreme example with two groups who at one time in history in England,...one side was killing the other in persecution. Pick an example that is less extreme. Baptist and Evangelical are nearly identical. Some Presbyterian and Lutheran are fairly close,...depends on the Pastor and the branch within the denomination they are from. But then at the same time I can come up with variations of Baptist who would be at each other's throats. In the end the woman will usually adjus…
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 04:09 PM
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but as Christian thought and opinion becomes increasingly striated, will this mean finding that special person moves from difficult to impossible? Yes. Difficult to impossible. It is almost difficult to impossible on the secular side of things to begin with,...then add on top of that all the Christian filtering,.... The unequally yoked thing gets twisted all the time. Biblically it just means that both are "saved". There were no denominations or differences in beliefs at that time. Although the …
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 04:00 PM
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You can't do anything about it. It is a gyno-centric society. Women get what they want, no matter what it is,...at the guy's expense. Her dad doesn't want you around. Telling him anything isn't going to matter. He will probably encourage her to get the abortion. But if he doesn't, then yea, he will encourage her to squeeze you for every dime she can.
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 03:48 PM
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I'm a high school teacher, she's a cna. I bought my first house last year in cash (at 25yo) That says a lot about "poor" teachers and how invalid it is that they keep wanting more taxes from me to "save" the schools. Sorry,...off topic.
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 03:47 PM
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Christians date in the most needy desperate ways. Two dates and they think they are on the way to marital bliss,...then it blows up in their face and they can't understand why. Much of the secular world does the same thing. The only difference being that one side wants sex NOW without marriage,...while the other sides wants marriage NOW so they can get to the sex. Very few handle it in a well balanced way, and most of them aren't Christians.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 09:01 PM
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Dating is dating. Christians desire to wait for marriage before sex,...other than that,...there is no difference. Women are still just women. They are still looking for the same thing, just in a different context.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:22 PM
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Stop messing with on-line and using it as a buffer to hide from the risk of rejection. Women are women. You approach them the same way. The difference is in what you do about it afterwards.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:20 PM
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By "you" in this post I mean the metaphorical "you",...not the OP. A Remedy for Serial Oneitisism The short answer is: You still lack abundance. Chicken or egg. Do you have Oneitis because you lack abundance,....or do you lack abundance because you have Oneitis? Maybe you lack abundance because you lack competence with the opposite sex,...and Oneitis is either the result, or it could just be an accompanying characteristic that is complementary to the condition.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:13 PM
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Start listing those sins Billy_King! Right now! Let's hear it all! Don't leave anything out!
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:05 PM
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You don't tell them anything. They are kids. They are only asking so that they can use your past behavor to justify their own future behavor. "You can't tell me to not do that Mom! You did it too! You're being a hypocrite to tell me I can't!". You are undermining your own authority as a parent. Mother walks away saying, "I don't get it. They won't listen to anything. Where did I go wrong?"
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:03 PM
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If your in jail, she’s most likely going to cheat. So will you, willingly or not.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 09:34 PM
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Scan through his videos. I'm sure there is something there.
/r/RPChristians09/11/20 04:48 PM
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When should I expect wife to follow me? When you lead. You start going somewhere and the cat will follow to see what is going on. But if you call the cat it looks at you blankly, turns and goes the other way.
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 05:22 PM
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You can't "deal" with delusional Christians. You just have to minimize your time around them or stay away from them completely. I sometimes just openly tell them that I don't think God did what they say he did. I don't give it a lot of explanation to why I don't believe it because I am not under a burden to do so. I am well within my right to not believe something if I don't think it is true. In fact it is better to not go into detail. Because as soon as you do try to explain then it is you that…
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 05:16 PM
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Contact Rich Cooper. The name of the YouTube channel is: Entrepreneurs in Cars Don't be fooled by the name of it,...there is a history to that name. You should be able to find contact infor, link to his site, etc,...and be able to contact him from there. He specialized in helping men keep from getting legally destroyed by this stuff.
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 04:17 PM
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Read the Rational Male book series. Particularly the first book. You'll figure it out.
/r/askRPC23/10/20 02:31 PM
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Very well presented.
/r/RPChristians21/09/20 02:58 PM
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Amazing on a RedPill based forum you get downvoted for giving a true and accurate RedPill response to what is essentially a BluePill slanted question.
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 05:19 PM
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Ditto!
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 05:15 PM
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should I take more time as a single man or stay committed to someone I really enjoy Time doesn't "do" anything other than make you both older. Don't think that "time" is going to magically have you wake up one morning and the world is going to be different. It is either going to work, or it isn't. You either have your act together enough to handle it or you don't. If you don't,...then stop making excuses and "get there",..."time" isn't going to do it for you. Time just made you 30 when you used …
/r/RPChristians16/09/20 03:57 PM
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You keep your mouth shut about it. That is what you do. It is between you and the Lord,...not you and her. She is never going to tell you her true "notch count" if there is one. She might say "once or twice" when it was probably 10x that. If she asks for yours,...you say, "You first" since she asked. But she probably isn't going to tell you the truth or the whole truth at least. Christian women are not that much different than secular women,...don't be fooled. I had one that seemed all "prim & p…
/r/RPChristians16/09/20 02:26 PM
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Yes I know this, and actually misused the term I agree but that's how it's usually called on secular RP forums. That is how it is usually misused on the RP forums. The RP forums are built on Tomassi's work. Anyway, when terms are misused, people miscommunicate, and when people miscommunicate, arguments ensue,...of which Redit is saturated with. A person can't say "the sky is blue" on Reddit without being attacked for it. So answering your original question as I understand you meant it.... You do…
/r/askRPC28/08/20 12:26 PM
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Spinning plates is not sex. Even Tomassi who made the phrase recently in his books will tell you that. Spinning plates is nothing more than a stupid term for just non-exclusive dating.
/r/askRPC27/08/20 11:33 AM
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I’ll be honest, I’m trying my best to work on my mission, hit the gym, make money, increase my skill set. This is where "popular" RP misses the boat. Those are all external things. To the Christian these are part of the desires of the flesh and the "pride of life" that Scripture does not speak positively of. They've become cliche. None of them change the quality who you are. "Real" RP knows this. You have to change yourself internally in how you think and function,...then,...continue with those …
/r/askRPC12/08/20 12:09 PM
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You get a free wall of text! Seriously though, I should have worded it better. Are we as believers under an obligation to listen to preaching or will studying the Bible on our own suffice? Some people do try to just post questions to stir things up,..but anyway. Don't know if I have much an answer to that. Heb 10 does say that Christians should assemble and historically it was groups meeting in houses or where ever they could. But churches have fallen a long way. They are weak and diluted on bib…
/r/askRPC11/08/20 06:14 PM
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Hebrews 10:24-25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching. Kind of a no-brainer. The early churches had no "building" to go to. They met where ever they could,...often at someone's house. Since a lot of the time Christrianity was illegal or at least persecuted so they also met in secret to avoid being captured or possibly murdered. Eventually as they gained more freedoms they built…
/r/askRPC31/07/20 07:17 PM
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If it will help you to figure out the vaccine, here are the two pneumococcal vaccines PCV13 or Prevnar 13. It protects against 13 of the most common bacteria that cause pneumonia PPSV23 or Pneumovax23. It protects against 23 other remaining ones. The way it works is that when you catch a flu virus it prevents it from progressing into pneumonia which is what normally kills. As far as doctors wearing the mask till their skin peels, that makes me wonder what level of healthcare worker you are. The …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 03:35 PM
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had pneumonia and was out of work for a month Then you almost died of pneumonia, not Covid. Then be responsible as a healthcare worker and get the pneumonia vaccination as I have,...there are two of them. They last 10 years. It's an anonymous forum,..for all you know I'm a doctor and out-rank you.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 03:08 PM
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If she agrees then have fun with it.... "So what you're saying is that even if I go crazy and get an apartment across town and smash hoes all day you still wouldn't divorce me?! You would follow the Lord and wait for God to bring me to repentance?!?" If she won't agree then you're already boned. No woman is ever going to accept that. It is foolish hyperboly. Biblicaly if you did that, by old testament law, you would be dead since you would be an adulterer and the penalty for that was death. Sinc…
/r/RPChristians23/07/20 01:57 PM
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America is open for business. It is just local city/county authorities getting in the way,...and some business run by larger Corp entities run by paranoid Execs. Most of us think it is all BS and just do what we want. Except for the mega-cities (that many people are trying to escape from) all the bars, clubs, outdoor concerts are open and chugging along. In one area I hang out in all I have to do is cross to the other side of the river (county border) and everything is fine. Businesses that try …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 12:42 PM
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Rollo is probably taking a broader historical approach. I'm sure he is very aware of the current modern perversions in the remakes and re-boots. If they make another modern James Bond movie,...it will probably be a blue pilled weak James Bond character,...the movie would never even get produced if not so.
/r/askRPC12/07/20 12:29 AM
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"After discussion with the rest of the mod team, the plan is that our YouTube channel will be the place to go. If any of our subs get banned we will announce the next step in a video format. So if you haven't subscribed yet, now would be a good time to do so. " Don't you realize that YouTube has banned and banished RP and Conservative voices faster than Reddit ever has. It is hardly a safe place to turn to. Build your own message board that isn't "owned & operated" by someone else. Use Bitchute …
/r/askRPC08/07/20 04:10 PM
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I'm Illinois as well. I escape to Missouri almost every weekend,...and sometimes at least once during the week.
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 07:51 PM
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I’m a 21 year old small little white girl. They just don’t take me seriously Side issue, but I think I should mention it,...this a Blue Pill presentation of that. It plays the victim card, plays the gender card, and the racial card. But no worry,...at your age you just came out of school that pounded that way of thinking into you head for the last 12+ years. Keep your head screwed on straight and you will come out of that in a few years,...unless you go to college or Uni,...they will make you wo…
/r/RPChristians02/07/20 04:49 PM
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Dump these churches. Be sure to tell them why.
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 01:42 PM
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Most of Christianity after the 1990's has become Blue-Pilled,....so is there really any surprise they are duped by the BLM media narrative? Early in the Trump Admin BLM was declared a Terrorist Organization. No one seems to remember that. When he recently declared ANTIFA a Terrorist Organization,...I was pretty sure that this had already been done 3 years ago as well. Maybe there are some good researchers in this sub that can dig into that. I'm pretty sure that both ANTIFA and BLM were declared …
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 01:40 PM
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that are actually Christian based on their character and actions and have an active prayer life. Character and actions don't make someone a Christian. They can be indicators, but nothing more. A Christian is someone who has been redeemed by the work of Christ through faith and indwelt by the Holy Spirit. A non-Christian is someone who has not been. A non-christian can walk the walk, talk the talk, and even actually believe themselves they are a Christian when they aren't. A real Christian can li…
/r/askRPC27/06/20 03:43 PM
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The scripture says (a loose quote) "if the unbeliever leaves, then let them leave". So it is the unbeliever that leaves, not the believer. To the believer,...they aren't supposed to marry an unbeliever in the first place. Scripture says nothing about theological differences where both claim to be "christian". It becomes a debate as to if one side or the other is so aberrant that they would not actually be "christian",...and hence, be unwittingly, an unbeliever. But then the unbeliever has to be …
/r/askRPC25/06/20 07:39 PM
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I'm on thin ice, too Same here. Different "Christian" sub, but same situation. I think what helps me is that the Mods aren't very active, or they aren't as BP as the members who dominate it.
/r/askRPC14/06/20 12:12 AM
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Wait! I didn't write this?? Well I could have. Thanks, u/coachdad8. seems like we are in the same place in our thinking.
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 09:47 PM
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The first thing I noticed was that the elder talked about that bullet point list as if it came from the guy writing the post. He missed the point that the OP (OP of the post the elder was commenting on) said he had read a book and that the bullet points came from the book. The OP did say much on the list "hit home" but never claimed they were his words or that he accepted every single word of them. Many of those complaint in the bullet points and from the original OP himself,.... I used to hear …
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 09:41 PM
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I was wondering why I didn't see my reply, then I realized I posted it in "christiandatingadvice", where the same question was posted. That sub is heavily BluePilled (for the same reasons Rollo is writing his 4th book). Needless you say it wasn't accepted well by the bystanders and only "so-so" by the OP. I said similar things to what everyone said here. But I'd like to repeat it here and would be interested in everyone's thoughts on it. ----begin----- PRW63 You being younger than her is your bi…
/r/RPChristians10/06/20 07:56 PM
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How to create sexual tension/make conversations man-to-woman as a Christian? You do it the same way that non-Christians do it. Biology doesn't change because you are a Christian. But you just do it with more class and less vulgarity and have boundaries on how far it goes.
/r/askRPC09/06/20 10:58 PM
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I can accept that. But if they ask,...I don't need to lie,...but I can also tell them "You first",...or,..."My past is none of your business", or "Why are you asking?". There are many ways to deal with it besides spilling your guts to someone who hasn't earned it and who may just dump you next week or next month,...and what is to stop them from repeating what you told them to all their friends after they dump you, no longer "like you" and have no reason to keep it a secret.
/r/askRPC06/06/20 10:39 PM
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Pointing out a thought isn't that useful if you just stick a label on it and don't explain why it deserves it. I've done plenty of explaining. I think you just want to argue. Some RP content is quite "pie in the sky" though. Most TRP content ends up putting women as the prize since getting laid matters so much to them. So you have a very incorrect view of RP and what it means. You are defining it the way the "haters" of RP define it instead of the way those who truly know it and understand it de…
/r/askRPC06/06/20 10:34 PM
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Now, in closing, why do I think porn is detrimental to a relationship? I'm short on time myself right now,...but a quick response.... There probably no serious disagreement between us for the most part. Porn is detrimental. What I am going on about is the imbalance between how men are expected to "fess up" about any of their dark past, even when it is just thoughts and fantasies in the mind activated by porn. But then the women,... (who can find real sex much more readily),...can get it on with …
/r/askRPC06/06/20 12:34 PM
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So if I'm into romance that is blue pilled, but if I just lust over sex and find romance lacking I'm black pill. Whatever dude, I'm only into marriage because of what the bible says of burning with lust. Never said that. You're putting words in my mouth. I said what I said and didn't say what I didn't say. I'm pointing out thoughts, not people. You've stated some Blue Pill thoughts, Black Pill thoughts, and Red Pill thoughts...I'm doing nothing more than pointing them out. You came here to organ…
/r/askRPC06/06/20 12:20 PM
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Men are wise to avoid a woman with a high notch-count and a Gold-digger entitlement indicators when they hit their late 20's or early 30's and "find God" after her party years where she was having the "real thing" while that same guy she now judges was only having it in his imagination while watching porn. So what is worse,... a guy doing it privately in his imagination using porn as a catalyst a woman doing it for real in her "party years" with the "hawt guys" then keeping it all a secret and l…
/r/askRPC05/06/20 08:13 PM
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It's why I mostly thought romance is repulsive. That is a Black Pill viewpoint. Women assume men are on porn and might feel the need to bring the whole sexual history topic up. That's their problem. They think differently about it when the guy wants to do the same,...wants her accurate "notch-count", and all of her sexual history. The guy needs to tell her, "You brought it up,...you go first".
/r/askRPC05/06/20 07:58 PM
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Christian men seeking to marry What exactly it that? If the guy isn't even engaged,...or close to it,...he isn't a "man seeking to marry" yet. He is just a guy hoping to get a date. This sounds to me like a little bit BPC (Black Pill Christian). if they aren't truly sexually pure by masturbation or porn This is full of Legalism which gets you no where. This idea of having to confess "all" to a woman you are seeing (now, even your past "thoughts" apearantly?) is a Blue Pill idea,...it submits you…
/r/askRPC01/06/20 01:02 AM
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and recently seems to have genuinely converted to Christianity. Overall I think Elliot Hulse is on the same path and in a similar spot as Rooshv. Hope you are right. I like RooshV. Just finished "The Best of Roosh vol 2" a few days ago. Haven't watch Elliot's latest stuff, but what I have seen says he is an eastern mystical "new ager",...not Christian. But I hope you're right about the changes happening. Him as a person, I like Elliot. I first watched him years back when he was pretty much just …
/r/askRPC30/05/20 04:16 PM
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From what I can recall from him,...he is into eastern mysticism, characteristics of Hinduism, the Yin/Yang stuff. All of it opposed to Biblical Christianity. Just because Christianity and those things might overlap on a "point" here and there does not mean the beliefs systems agree. Bottom line he is not going around saying that God used the supernatural virgin birth to come to us as a man, die for the sins of mankind, resurrected bodily on the 3rd day, ascended to heaven, and that only those wh…
/r/askRPC30/05/20 04:09 PM
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It sounds like you are letting her lead on everything. Everything is her idea or what she wants. When does she want to get married. Where does she want to get married. How does she want to get married. Who does she want to attend the wedding. You are just along for the ride and leaving it up to her to tell you what you are doing. Very BluePill. It is weak and unattractive behavor to a woman. All the reasons she gave in the bullet points are just pointless excuses. The truth is likely that she ju…
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 03:54 PM
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Where am I going wrong? Definitions,...that's where,...defintions. For example: "Meek" does not mean "weak". They only rhyme, they don't mean the same thing. "Meek" means "Strength under control". In other words self control blended with power. Self-examination of sin = Recognizing truth, knowing yourself, and facing reality. There is nothing that isn't RP about that. Emphasis is on poverty = Depends on "what" poverty. If you look at it from a Leftist viewpoint like you are some kind of amateur …
/r/RPChristians26/05/20 08:28 PM
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now i am just picking the one's with high value. How do you know that??? If you think they are HV,...so does every other guy. The ones that are HV get the most opportunity, the more opportunity the more they will go for it,...the HV ones are the ones with the higher notch count,...because they CAN. So everyone of them could be cheating on you.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:54 PM
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If you mean gain experience from the exposure in order to make the calibration more precise?,...yes. I feel like learning to read and interpret women's behavors in response to my actions is the greatest tool coming to reality has given me, and I keep trying to get better at it. Not every Chess opponent makes the same moves, but it is the same game and if you are good enough at the game it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:28 PM
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They aren't robots. Some will, some won't. Lot's of variables. Principles are just principles. You have to adjust the details to the individual situation.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:33 PM
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You are kind of being a walking cliche. You've learned a bunch of words and phrases from the Rational Male book and can toss them around a lot. You seemed to have tried to put it on as a veneer,...but under the veneer you are still behaving the same old way. I’m an extremely confident guy, No, this post portrays you as not being that at all. but this is next level disparity in SMV, and I’ve had to admit that to myself (~15 years older, 8 figure net worth etc, taller etc) Comes across as if you a…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:57 PM
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If so how do you get over it? Stop screwing them. Stop destroying someone for you own personal pleasure.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:44 PM
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"Spinning Plates" isn't "Screwing Plates". It is two separate things. Rollo Tamassi who made the term famous makes that clear in all his books and videos. Some of his clients are people who don't believe in pre-marital sex, yet the concept of "Spinning Plates" still applies to them as well. If you are screwing multiple women,...the women are probably doing the same with other guys,... then you are obviously raising your risk of STDs. Dealing with it is kind of a common sense thing.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:39 PM
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Can you tell me how to make this my mindset? No I can't. I'm an anonymous guy on Reddit communicating with Reddit messages in a sea of people who will never agree with each other on anything. It is up to you to make it happen.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:23 PM
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The term and the way it is used comes across to me as a "lite" version of "Success Porn". I am kind or tired and annoyed at hearing it that way. I like the way Rich Cooper says it,...and it makes more sense to me. He says, "A Woman should be a compliment to your life,...not the focus of it". So if you think you are doing it to "ensure your supply",...or even considering it a "supply" that must be "ensured" then you still have it all screwed up. If you want to see how messed up your view is from …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:10 PM
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Is frame really just about... Frame is nothing more than Context and who is the "lead character" in the context. If so, how are some people able to keep frame for so long without breaking it? Because they are not faking it.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:10 PM
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So you are just figuring this out now? Yes, that is all true, and has been moving like that for a long time.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:07 PM
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Ideally you need to be the Alpha Provider (both worlds) and stay that way the rest of your life. The reason women recently have been looking to one or the other is because they have given up finding both in the same guy. Today's "Alpha" won't take responsibility while the Betas take responsibility but disgust her in other ways. If you are only one or the other you get dumped either way. She gives up on the Alpha in favor of the provisioning of the Beta Provider when she needs it,... and then dum…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:07 PM
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What professions boost your Alpha Fucks SMV? It doesn't work like that Alpha Seed is not an "SMV". It was coined by Rollo Tamassi and refers to the woman's shift in focus during a particular part of the Menstrual Cycle (in Micro-Hypergamy). It can also be the womans's focus based on her age such as the early 20's (party years) and the mid-to-late 40's (empty-nest years) where she is less concerned with financial security for her and her children.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:28 PM
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Respect is earned. If you aren't getting any then you aren't doing anything (or doing the something wrong) to earn it.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:21 PM
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You need to set boundaries, people treat you this way because you allow them to. It sounds like you radiate Omega male energy. It would be Beta or Gamma energy. Other than that I agree with your post. Good post, and an upvote. MGTOW's influence on the internet have messed up the definitions of those terms. Any MGTOW material or material influenced by MGTOW has misapplied the Gamma definition to the Omega. The Omega is actually just the Introverted version of an Alpha. They have also in some case…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:16 PM
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There is no test here. It is just teasing, nothing more. No one is "testing" you. Frame means "controlled context and confidence". In other words,...Who is in control of the context and how confident are they about it. This has nothing to do with guys teasing a bald guy. They are not teasing you for any top secret purpose other than they enjoy doing it,...it is fun for them. It reminds them they have something you don't,...hair,...and it makes them feel good. The term "solid frame" has become ju…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:15 PM
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Hey, is that a virus in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:51 PM
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Admitting guilt = guilty Defending yourself = guilty Not defending yourself = guilty Deflecting = guilty So just defend yourself, have limits on how far you will go with it, and let her think what she wants. I will try and defend myself, though I know I shouldn’t (beta conditioning). Nonsense,...don't confuse defending yourself with "being defensive",...not the same thing.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:44 PM
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What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over? Get an old Dog Catcher truck. Use it to collect insane Journalists and take them to the asylum. I hear it pays you by the pound, so grab fat ones first.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:24 PM
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What is the biggest mistake(s) rookies make when going on Tinder? Going on Tinder.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:36 PM
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No one here "knows what she is". There is next to no information here for anyone to "know" anything. Your text, although was not extreme, did sound a little butt-hurt. You will know what your result is by how she responds,...if she responds. There is no "Frame" in this conversation. You haven't even met her in person yet. Although frame is important in general it is being used as more of a "buzzword" here than anything else. Frame is simply the context and who is in control of that context. It i…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:17 PM
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If you didn't fight there wouldn't have been anything to ignore.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:11 PM
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How do y’all think I handled it? Like a beginner I kept frame really well What is usually said by a guy, who actually didn't maintain it well. was just unbothered by her bitchiness What is said when the guy really was bothered by it [She said] “do you still want this relationship?” Women say that when they have lost confidence in you and don't think you know what you are doing. If your behavor gave them confidence they would not doubt you and would never ask that. And other comfort tests. I see …
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:09 PM
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The human race requires babies to survive Women are required to make babies Families are required to raise babies into properly functioning humans (the State (the Viilage)) can't do that.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:53 PM
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RooshV was one of the Kings of PUA. So if it didn't work for you then you did it wrong. But he has left PUA. He has converted to Christianity and is currently restructuring his beliefs, skills, and practices to that context. It is a tall task, but I respect him for trying to do it. I just recently ordered a copy of his Best of Roosh vol 2.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:32 PM
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Is this guy being cucked ? No. No other guy is doing her. She is monogamous with him right now. is he being duped like a beta? Yes, he is. I don think anyone in the royal family is beta I would expect them all to be. If not beta, then at least Blue-Pill conditioned. It isn't exactly the same as beta but there are a lot of crossover characteristics with beta.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:12 PM
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Get the book series Rational Male. Read at least the first one. You are clearly an AFC here,...as many of us have been in the past at some point. But you aren't going to learn from Reddit posts, you will have to put in the effort and those books are a great place to start.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:06 PM
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I’m able to identify them without an issue. Doesn't look like it to me. You seem paranoid and seeing "tests under every rock" when there is none there.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:00 PM
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Well, I don't know. It is kind of a funny story really. Actions have consequences. You are living the consequences I guess. BUT what I'm not okay with is her fucking some guy 6 feet away from me. Well, I guess you are going to have to learn to be Ok with it now. Her name is on her lease, she has as much right to be there as you. The more painful the experience to more you won't be likely to do it again. Should I threaten to fight him? That will help you get quarantined in a new place,...with bar…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:55 PM
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No. There is no test. Stop seeing "tests" under every rock and around every corner. It is just women doing women crap. They are emotionally driven and are seeking emotional affirmation because they aren't getting it from you (hence the upcoming ghosting).
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:39 PM
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There is no central authority for what TRP is. Tomassi's work is probably the closest thing to authority, but even Tomassi himself will say there is no central authority.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:32 PM
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Well, Rollo Tomassi, who is considered the Godfather of TRP, strongly believes in having kids and believes that a solid strong nuclear traditional family is the best way to raise them (3rd book Rational Male: Positive Masculinity),...it kind of says it all. The book has sections titled, Red Pill Parent, Red Pill Father, Red Pill Parenting, Raising Daughters, for a reason. It is also kind of hard to have adults if no one has kids.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:30 PM
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You have a small core who know what is going on and what TRP is about. You have the rest of the masses that either do not,...or have an incomplete view,...or a view that hasn't matured yet.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:27 PM
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Get the 3-book series Rational Male,...like the rest of us who understand have done. The Rational Male series does not teach game, although it supports it and encourages the learning of it. The book "How to be a 3% Man" is pretty good for that but it isn't the only one out there.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:19 PM
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You don't have to. Treat it like the crying doesn't change things no matter if fake or real. Then you never have to deal with if it is fake or not.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:16 PM
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You either live with it or leave. That is the reality of it. You are never going to win playing the victim even if you legitimately are one. You are male, you don't count, only women, and others who intersectionally fit into a protected victim group, can play the victim. The feminine primary social order (partnered with political correctness) is bigger than you are you are going to have to smartly choose your battles and have the foresight to place yourself in a proper context/environment and th…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:15 PM
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If one of the core tenets of TRP is to be muscular as fuck No, the main tenets is understanding and navigating gender dynamics. Think of Rollo Tamassi's work as somewhat the Bible on it. Being fit is a goal and makes you more attractive to women which helps with gender dynamics, but the goal is not to be "muscular as f\*k*". why are some figures of this community out of shape Not every one who comes here even really knows what TRP is about or has been here very long. If a guy is badly out of sha…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:21 PM
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Infatuated with a colleague and I'm in a relationship. Am I being stupid? Yea
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:01 PM
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She is not interested.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:13 PM
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No interest,...at all,...in either case.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:12 PM
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Ive heard alot of alphas speak of pulling back supposedly itll drive a girl crazy and make them want to chase Yea, if you are an Alpha and the women really wants you in the first place. How do i use this effectively? If you are not an Alpha and the women doesn't really want you in the first place,....you don't.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:11 PM
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She already has 3 Ultra-cucked omega best friends. Actually that would be Beta or Gamma Omega is an introverted Alpha. Unless you listen to MGTOW who have the definitions all screwed up. Alpha/Omega are the Extroverted/Introverted versions of each other. Here's the non-MGTOW versions of the definitions those three. Alpha: You are confident and your own man. You do your own thing and have complete confidence in everything you do. You have your self doubts, but you don't let it cloud your judgment…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:08 PM
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asks if I don’t like her and what the reason is for ignoring her snaps Don't ignore people. Just because you respond to a "snap" from someone doesn't mean you are needy or are trying to marry them by the end of the week. When you ignore you look bad,...not good. What makes you look needy,...is being needy,...so don't be needy,...,and don't ignore people when they reach out to you as if you are following some "evil plan" from some PUA. Probably keep trying to don’t giving a .... If you are trying…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:01 PM
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Awesome. Love it. Back it 100% Upvote
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:36 PM
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J & J are broken women. And you are kind of broken too. "why am I here, I fucked an 8 last week and..." Yeah,...sure you were. If that were true you would not be confused by this and you wouldn't even be here asking this.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:30 PM
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Thinking they are beta is your mistake. Beside it being a relative term and a situational term,...not a demographic,...if they are doing this to you it is because they perceive you more beta than they are. A far as cops and airport staff,...as soon as you come into their sphere you are in their frame. Your frame is gone until you leave that area. Anytime you are in the presence of anyone who in any way has authority over you in any context, you are in their frame. Get over it.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:57 PM
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Yea,...right,..."tested your frame". By asking "What?". Clearly you failed it. You are so paranoid and insecure that you actually think this is a test.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:46 PM
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What’s the best way to handle plate during quarantine season? Always wash your plates by hand, which also washes your hands at the same time. If not then at least put them in the dishwasher and wash your hands separately.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:35 PM
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Someone said she's afraid I'm going to fuck her other beautiful friends so she tries to cockblock me, this Is not good. I live in a small town and if this spreads as a rumor it will fuck with my SMV? What to do? If she is doing that (so easily) then you don't have any SMV. In the end you will do it to yourself anyway. If you are in a small town,... than after about the 3rd girl the rest are going to know because everyone knows what everyone else is doing. If you think you are going to go around …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:12 PM
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although the crash of financial markets and erasure of business is not in the elite’s interest Actually that isn't true. The "elite" protect and shelter their assets (because they can). They let the market spiral down and when others fail they buy the stocks and assets at pennies on the dollar then when the market recovers (it always recovers) they make out like a bandit. I'm just small fish and only have a few thousand invested, but what I do is stop putting any more in as it spirals down and j…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:06 PM
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You've already lost.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:11 PM
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Still confused on when being an asshole is attractive plz read It isn't attractive. Being masculine and confident is attractive. Some women just have a hard time telling the difference between the two when the two may look similar in a "first impression".
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:08 PM
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Exactly!
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:53 PM
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The government is testing the populace to see how far they can push them, restrict them, curfew them, prevent them from forming groups,...and see if they will do it willingly. It is a test to see how they can curtail an uprising.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:50 PM
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Where's the red pill mindset?"If she wants to tolerate you longer she will"Where's your fram mate? Appearently you think I should act in her frame... A huge part of RP is in understanding the woman's thinking (Rollo's 2nd book) and having yourself in the right position to deal with it the way you want (in your "frame" if you want to use the term). In this case it isn't complicated. She wants exclusivity. You either do or you don't,...sounds like you don't. She says she will stay (for now) but it…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:43 PM
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You are about a decade away to anything permanent. You are going to have a half a dozen more of these between now and then. Learn from the experiences.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:20 PM
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Ok, I gotta upvote this one!
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:09 PM
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Plate? Maintaining the plate? What do you do, change the change the oil and check tire pressure? If you want to go see the chick then go see the chick,...if you don't then don't. If you handle it wrong the walking-talking-sexual-maintainence-and-validation-device will dump you and the problem is solved. Now for the record I am perfectly aware of the Spinning Plate analogy and yes I accept it and agree with it. What grates with me is the robotic dehumanization from guys, particularly the young mo…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:06 PM
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How old are the two of you? This sounds like school kids to me, so just checking.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:50 PM
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So you are basically being a robot. The Walking-Sex-Toy initiates "The Talk",...beep, beep The official doctrine says I am supposed to respond with the Standard Talk Answers (STA's),... beep, beep. The Walking-Sex-Toy gives an invalid response,...error, error, beep beep Turns out the Walking-sex-toy is human and can think and decide for herself what she wants or doesn't want. Don't worry about what to do. If she wants to tolerate you longer she will,...or she will dump you,...problem solved. Pro…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:47 PM
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The original meaning was Family and Extended Family.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:12 PM
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I was always under the impression that women are more emotional than men. They are. They are driven by emotion. Make decisions by emotion. So why do they lie, cheat, and use men without any remorse whatsoever? Hypergamy. Hypergamy always asks "Is this guy the best I can do?" If the answer is "no" then they keep an eye out for a replacement but stay with the current one until then (monkey branch). It is the way it is, live with it. Because they do what they "feel" in the moment. If a new guy ente…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:49 PM
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Chicks dig bald. I buzz mine down with a #1 or #0.5. They love running their palms across the "bristles" and squealing. They get off on it or something.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:35 PM
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Also, grow that facial hair out. It will help with your overall look I agree. But keep it short too,...basically match the hair length from above. No "face bushes",...the effeminate have seemed to taken over that niche. Beards used to always be considered masculine, but now, not so much,...depends on the look.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:35 PM
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He is being the beta chump, the "nice guy". She lost the attraction for him. Everything else is just the typical BS excuses. According to your description he went from FWB directly to proposing marriage. Horribly bad thing to do.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:28 PM
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Why do guy friends (not acquaintances) do this? Do WHAT? You never said what was said, what he "did". Have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:11 PM
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I like it
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:05 AM
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Yes, but a cat makes a better analogy.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:58 AM
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I feel coffee dates are too formal and then it's the issue again, where do you go after? What?!?! Coffee date are too lame, too "friend zone", too lazy. They aren't "formal" enough.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:57 AM
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If you had a proper abundance mentality you probably wouldn't be breaking up in the first place. Or if you did break up it would not be traumatic or "bad". So if you are breaking up, and it is a "bad one" then the abundance mentality isn't or hasn't been on the table in the first place.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:56 PM
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This is the most sensible view of it
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:09 PM
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Is this accurate to a degree? No
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:09 PM
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I started practicing TRP both in theory and practice, I don't think anyone who really understand TRP would even say it this way. You might be looking like a "poser",...a "faker" to them. You are even giving me that impression just by the written words. This sounds like a bunch of childish "school boys" on all sides.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:07 PM
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Sounds like covert bragging while trying to act humble. Just because you may have got laid by "easy" women doesn't make you RP'ed or a "god". If you were truly RP'ed you still would be,...there is no going back. RP'ed is about self improvement, not getting laid. Being attractive to women is just a natural side effect of self improvement. What the RP guy does with that improvement & attraction (LTR, monogamy, marriage, casual dating, whatever) is up to him because he has the power to decide what …
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:23 PM
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I am a Chad without social skills By definition a Chad has social skills, and very good ones, with a reasonable alpha personna. It is not a "look".
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:12 PM
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LTR wanted to rent out her room to fat beta martial arts instructor Steven Segal? He's still around?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:08 PM
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Protect implies threatened. You aren't threatened, except from yourself and your emotional attachment. You can't block, and go "NC" on yourself. I hate using terms like "grow up" or "be a man", because of the way the feminine imperative uses them for other meanings against men...but for lack of better terms that about sums it up what I have to say. For the record I have never deleted or blocked any woman in my life,...ever,...and I'm 57yo and had plenty of time to find one to do it to. Blocking …
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:04 PM
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& By drop I mean hard next. No contact and deletion. I understand. But why? She hasn't done anything wrong technically. The very fact you even think about "no contact" and "deleting" means you are over-invested and over-interested,...and doing such is a "get even with her" or a "punish her" mentality. Why I'll show you, woman! Boom! There! You're done! You are blocked and deleted! How do you like them apples! So there! Don't behave or act the way I want you (as a meaningless FWB) to act, that is…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:54 PM
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Good job. Although I don't like "listening to him". I wish he would have gotten a professional narrator. I went for the paperback book. But anyway, you have the information.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:00 PM
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It has. For years. "How to be a 3% Man" is the first book I read it in and it has been around for years.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:45 PM
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You sound like a child,...or your look at dating as relationships as some kind of math formula.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:34 PM
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she's been acting like my slave since I met her and I love having that kind of girl around. But how can I definitely assert my dominance over her so she stops listening to her parents and only me? LOL You live in a cartoon world.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:31 PM
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My gf sometimes annoys me and steals my phone and post on social media for no other reason, but to make me angry or piss me off. She sees you as weak and not worth respect. in terms of the evolutionary terms? There is no evolution here.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:28 PM
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It means you're a complete bitch. Yes. Exactly. Upvote
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:28 PM
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She is a FWB. She doesn't owe you anything and doesn't owe you any explanations,...by the very definition of a FWB (meaningless sex without responsibility). The problem is that you are over invested and over interested in what a FWB does, thinks, feels, reacts, etc. Edit: I think all I can do now is drop her ass which would suck You can't "drop" someone that you don't have in the first place.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:24 PM
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And I can't tell her that she can't get mad at me over saying yes because she does the same but worse, because she claims I always save things to later throw in her face to win the argument. According to her, its like me saying 'remember how in 2018 you left the lights on when we were out?' And it's like, no no no, what I'm telling you is that you do the exact same shit all the time and I don't react like you do! But THEN she claims I'm "raising my voice" and the argument is about that" The guy …
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:19 PM
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The women is supposed to be the one to let you know when she wants exclusivity. You are supposed to be detached from the idea until she does. So if she "agreed" that means you brought it up first and probably did so out of fear because you want to "lock her down" before competition gets in the way,...because you don't think you can compete. So you already screwed the pouche and got her to agree to something that you are not ready for and have no idea how to deliver on.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:45 PM
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If you get all that,...then you wouldn't be confused about these things, so I don't think you really quite get it yet. That is not a slam, you are doing good, you are getting there,...but you aren't there yet,...you may be "getting it", but you haven't "got it" [past tense]. Keep working on it,...keep moving forward. Otherwise, you would look around at this stuff and say, "I know exactly why this is happening". These guys are totally Blue-Pill indoctrinated from kindergarten up, and are totally …
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:29 PM
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I don't think so, people are well educated to a basic level at least in 2020. Well indoctrinated,...not educated. Is it testosterone, that does that to guys and they can't control themselves It has nothing to do with it. Most of these guy barely have any. It is just the screwed up mess a feminine centric society has left men in. Get the book series Rational Male,...then it will all make perfect sense. It is a 3 volume set.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:27 PM
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How to be an Alpha when you're naturally a sensitive guy? I dont mean naturally beta. "Sensitive" is not the opposite of alpha. Beta is the opposite of alpha. I'm an infp(if you believe in that shit). No. It is just people coming up with creative excuses for what they think they are so that they have a reason to convince themselves they don't have to,...or "can't",...change. Get the book series Rational Male (at least the 1st one, but preferably the whole set).
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:19 PM
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None the less what are your views on religion, dating and the bedroom? Well I can describe the actual beliefs and doctrines if that is what you are asking. It is pretty straight forward and easy to understand. You can understand it even if you don't believe it. At least you will know what they believe and where they are coming from. The primary difference between Christians dating and the non-Christians dating is: When is sex allowed to happen? Scripture outlines that people ideally,... are supp…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:30 PM
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Yea, they are kind of stuck where they are due to having to finish school. The sweet spot for the woman's process I described is 23-27. They are freaking out about having kids by 30 and in a total meltdown panic a couple years into their 30's. That is when they will grab to first "hot" Alpha "bad-boy" with the good genetics even though they know he won't stay with her. It then follows the rest of the process I describe. Granted there are other circumstances such as family upbringing, personal po…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:08 PM
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Most of us have been there. Best wishes.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:55 PM
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The day isn't over yet. Also my first 3 words were "In 2 years...". I didn't say "today".
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:53 PM
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No worries I tell her as I put my jacket on and walk out, cue the your an asshole messages and nasty. Fuck them...maybe I fucked up somewhere, who knows. There’s other women a dime a dozen No way to know from here,...without being there and observing.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:52 PM
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Nor will she love me the way I want her to That tells me you are still Blue-Pilled. Men love "idealistically" and expect to be loved the same way. Women cannot do that. Women love "pragmatically" (or "opportunistically" as Rollo Tamassi phrases it). Women almost always show all their "colors" all the time. The problem is that so many men are color blind.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:49 PM
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In 2 years she is going to have baby rabies and be hunting guys in their 30s that can afford the babies. If she can't find one that suits her she may chase a series of young Alphas for the genes,...get one or two babies from them, maybe not even from the same guy. Then she will aim a little older for a beta guy in his mid to late 30's to support raising the other Alphas kids as she tells him she has sown her wild oats, learned her lesson, and wants to do the right thing now. Once the kids hit co…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:42 PM
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Ive had some past experiences that make me believe trying to find a religious woman while young could pay out, like the whole you attract what you put out there kinda deal? Nope. You aren't a believer. A true believer doesn't call a fellow female believer a "religious woman". If she is a believer she will see right through you because you knows what she believes and will be able to tell that you actually don't,... and she will kick you to the curb saying that you are "unequally yoked". The excep…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:15 PM
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"I think your friend already left." In other words "Please leave me alone"?! What should I do? Leave her alone Why do girls act that way like first everything is cool and then she is cold and aloof. She hoped for the best when she first met you,...but determined after a bit that you "aren't it" Shittest? Rejection? Rejection.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:07 PM
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She texted me the following night asking if we could meet up again, so clearly I did something right. Sex was good, made her cum multiple times, yada yada. However, as she was leaving the following morning, I said the stupidest thing to her: “is this gonna become a regular thing?” No. It could just mean she was slutty & easy and you were the Beta in the right place at the right time. It could have been a "drive by". My gut tells me that I killed anything we had. Is there any way to recover? You …
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:02 PM
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I don't think you know what Dread is then. It is similar to Competition Anxiety. It means she is afraid you are going to dump her or leave her for another option for some reason, and you are the one with the most power,...so what would be the logic in "nexting" her at that point????? What do you gain from "nexting" when you aren't in any kind of current "loss" at the moment??,...Nexting results in you had her, ...and now you don't,...so what do you gain? That doesn't make logical sense. If she w…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 07:41 PM
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I already told you what I suggest you do.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:50 PM
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Is she using me for validation? Or is she reinterested? Who cares? She contacts you,...offer a date. She either accepts or she doesn't. 14 hours isn't crap. I go for days.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:48 PM
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While it does seem childish, Yes, it is I did not appreciate being ignored like that and felt it disrespectful. Knock it off. Sounds entitled (from you). Should I apply dread here / confront her about it? Dread isn't something that you "apply" it is similar to Competition Anxiety and she needs to feel it naturally on her own. Confronting never gets you anywhere but dumped. A masculine centered man doesn't "confront" because he never feels he needs to,...at least not in this narrow context that w…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:10 PM
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After 6 dates your probably ok. Around 7-8 dates is usually where the woman start pestering you about being exclusive.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:38 PM
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Oh. It is too big a subject to cover. People write whole books on that. One good one is "How to be a 3% Man". They may be better ones out there, but that is the one that comes to mind for me.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:33 PM
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No I can't. As a principle I don't "teach sex" on Reddit. I only focus on the overall interaction of people with each other (bigger picture). People are responsible for their own morals, and I also can not define what morals and culture should be appropriate in some other country/culture.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:29 PM
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Is there any purpose to tinder at all? Yes,...to make money for Tinder.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:09 PM
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If it hurts your shoulders you are doing it wrong. Push ups work the same way. Visit the YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/ScottHermanFitness/videos Point out how people do things wrong is his specialty.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:08 PM
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Feet first. I've done it head first maybe twice,...but feet work much better.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:05 PM
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3rd world country, when to go for the kiss ? You go for the kiss when she wants it. It is your job to observe her behavior and body language well enough to know what she is expecting or hoping for. It is just part of your dating skills. Sex is a big taboo here Kissing isn't sex.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:02 PM
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It depends on the characteristic of the "smile/laugh".
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:53 PM
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The White Knights: Ignore them Be a little more tackful so that they aren't as easily aware of what you are doing. You just don't do stuff right in front of the their face. It is called being strategic. [she] throws a cup of water at my face ......Now, I go after her to make her explain herself, Stupid thing to do. You're asking for it. You never "confront" a chick and ask her to explain herself,...that is just stupid. If she throws water in your face then your game sucks,...if your game is good…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:27 PM
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First it was "I don't need no man!" Now it is "I don't need no kids" ....then they hit 28yo
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:36 PM
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Anytime a guy tells a woman, "I don't think it's appropriate behavior" the war is over and he lost. It sounds whiny, cry baby-ish, and parental. Give her a better offer. She is doing it because,...currently,... they are more fun and exciting than coming home to you. If you can't make yourself the better option then it is probably over. The guy pushing the drugs is the Alpha,...the women are going to flock around him by nature. The drugs are only one attribute of him,...not the only attribute. I …
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:51 PM
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Women are not men. Men make a decision it usually stands. But with women the decision is something that is often "in the moment" according to her emotional state at the time. If her emotional state changes then "what is true" changes. So if she is reaching out to spend time with you then she is desiring to be with you. So take her up on if and treat the LJBF as if it never happened and go back to going for what you want.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:14 PM
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If you offer her a REAL date that is no question a date,...and she says "yes",...then it is a branch swing in action. If she says "no" to the offer of a REAL date,...then you are just an orbiter, and the "so-called" friendship would also be over at that point. If you do nothing at all, then you are an orbiter as well. So you have 2 ways to still be an orbiter and 1 way to not be one.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:07 PM
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Unrelated side question: Do you find it common for girls to only talk about themselves and not ask you any questions. Just seems weird that they don't really care to ask questions back. It is often just nervous-talk and they don't know enough about you to focus on you. So they talk about what the "know",...which is themselves. On the other stuff: Being Unaware of Your Dating Mistakes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJvWM8Lu7e0
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:01 PM
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He was just weak and insecure. If he was secure with his girl he wouldn't have considered you a threat. Since he thought you were a threat you could have told him "Thanks for the compliment". You stand your ground and he goes away,...which is what he did. Most girls have a "boyfriend" before they get a new one. You didn't do anything wrong. If I am with a woman and she gets approached by a guy I smile and take it as a compliment that other guys find my girl attractive enough to "try". I also tre…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:42 PM
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It means she doesn't kiss on the first date. That doesn't make it a rejection. She may just have a list of "rules". You might still be rejected, and you might not be, but the kiss doesn't prove it either way. She could have kissed you and then ghosted you the next day. I never go for a kiss on the first date so I never worry about it. I look for other things to judge to them on to determine if I want a second date with them. I turn the whole thing around,...I'm not worried if they are going to g…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:53 PM
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Should have offered a date instead of asking for her number. If she agreed to the date to you would get her number naturally without having to make excuses or lie and say it for socializing (when we all know it wasn't for that). If she did not agree to the date you have been declined and none of it matters. I started making all my date offers face-to-face so I can see/hear their reaction. I am looking for a happy/excited reaction to it (body language always tells you more than words on a text sc…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:16 PM
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I thought about it a bit more. I'm not going to be active in groups that I don't feel interested in (TRP, MRP) so that I can satisfy someone else. My focus is more on dating issues and I answer those issues from a Red Pill perspective when dealing with people. So you are welcome to look over my history all you like in /r/dating. There is plenty there to demonstrate who I am and what I believe in and stand for. But I'm not going to jump through hoops to convince people I am worthy. It goes both w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 03:20 PM
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This post was unnecessary. I'm sure you have not read the guidines for men that are accessed through the rules page. Your need to call attention to your maleness, as though it alone is a qualification, is a problem. I will look into TRP and MRP. I read the rules and was responding to #9 of the Community rules and just saying hello. Apologies, if that was not a good move. I'll post only if I think I have something relevant to say. I've only been on Reddit less than a month and have not got caught…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 12:34 PM
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I spend most of my time helping men. But there is only so much I can take. The MGTOW and FA/Incel segments just want to complain and refuse any advice they are given. They tend to be found in "red pill" locations. So it depends on the personality and "population" of whatever particular men's red pill environment you are looking at. I am currently waiting to get into some of the Red Pill Reddits,...the Mods have to respond and "allow" you in. However I would like to see more just plain ol' Red Pi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 12:08 PM
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To get into /r/RedPillMen you have to be accepted by the Mods. I have a message into them but don't know when I will hear anything. So I don't even know what it "looks" like in that group or if I'll be interested. If it is just a bunch of guys complaining about how the rest of the world doesn't understand them, I'll lose interest. But if it has substance then I'll stick around I don't know about the male RP subs,...I've been on Reddit less than a month. I have just always been on "the right" sin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 06:38 PM
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Well said. Stefan is excellent. I've even met him in person in St Louis, Mo once. But what is SMV? There are just too many acronyms to keep up with.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 05:22 PM
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....and everyone is like 35+ Yea, I hate that. I'm 56. All those kids {sigh}! Well it does vary with the area you are in. I'm in a "singles" Meetup Group that has 4600 members with between 20-80 showing up at each event. Yea, the age range seems to be 40-60. We have one that is 28 but we get her home before dark :-)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 05:08 PM
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Well me being an PRM guy,...there's my place or course,...but there is only one guy there, and I can only do so much :-) But another good option is to build a social life using Meetup.com, then you meet the guys via your social life. You find groups that fit your interest, then there is a chance that a guy, because he got in the same group, has similar interests to you. Just join groups that aren't overly female centric otherwise you just meet guys like those 2 creepy guys you see come to Yoga c…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 04:11 PM
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