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Ahh but here, you post a comment. Next to the Comment you click "..." and uncheck "send me reply notifications". Pure bliss. No lectures or feedback to listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:24 PM
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I can't believe I'm reading this on this sub. She chose not to fight him, that is NOT consent. 13 year olds cannot consent to sex. She was a 13 year old girl in an arranged marriage, she was not given a choice to say "no". They aged her up to 16 in the show, and had her played by an adult woman, so it doesn't seem so bad - but she was 13 years old in the book. 13. Even if she'd been 25, it still would have been rape. The only choice she had was to go along with what she was told to do, or try an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:00 PM
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I highly recommend Andrea Dworkin's, Right Wing Women: The political Right in the United States today makes certain meta­physical and material promises to women that both exploit and quiet some of women’s deepest fears. These fears originate in the perception that m ale violence against women is uncontrollable and unpredictable. Dependent on and subservient to men, women are always subject to this violence. The Right promises to put enforce­able restraints on male aggression, thus simplifying su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:47 PM
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As long as they don't go the UK route of recording non-violent talk on twitter as "hate incidents" - basically, if someone reports you for saying something they find offensive, it's a hate incident. Make fun of a Goth? That's a hate incident. They specifically list "name calling and jokes" as hate incidents. I'm not kidding. Threats of violence and rape should be taken more seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:17 PM
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This was my problem with it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:33 PM
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As a survivor whose abuser went to jail around the time I was 8 or 9 - I agree. Don't use pedophile for people who go after 18 year olds. But I take it a step further - my abuser wasn't a pedophile (as in having a paraphillia for children) - he was a sexist abuser who sees women and children as objects that exist to service him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:30 AM
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Can confirm: My first and middle names are girls my father was interested in and never dated. One was a girl who "went to visit an aunt" - because she'd been knocked up by someone else. So it's not just people they sleep with, but yeah, former crushes/love interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:12 PM
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Read the first bit "Beware of someone who never stops talking about their ex..." sounds like a personal experience. Response "but in my relationship we talked about our past relationships"... Not the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:45 PM
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No, that is NOT normal behavior. YES men can control themselves. Abusive men LOVE the lie that they can't control themselves. "I was so angry I couldn't help it, forgive me". Same thing happening here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:32 PM
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So - he believes a woman's place in life is to rescue men? This post just screams "I have no self esteem but still feel entitled to own a woman".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:26 AM
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This is the "boys will be boys" argument. "Men can't help but be horrible, therefore, you should accept horrible men". Uh, no. Better to be single honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:14 PM
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At my work place, women have received flowers from their husbands or fiances. Obviously, that doesn't represent every work place, but it would be weird if someone had been on a few dates and sent someone flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:30 AM
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The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:33 PM
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There is a whole chapter from "How to Win Friends and Influence People" about using names - people love hearing their name used. I never got this, because I don't care... until I was working at a company, the CEO dropped by my desk, and say hi Palgary - she knew who I was. I was shocked. Not surprisingly, she was raised upper class and knew the power of naming. Want to sign a business deal? Let them put their name on the deal. Put their name on the building. AKA - Trump Tower. There is power in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:43 PM
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Objectification: Seeing women as an object, as a product, as something you can buy or consume, not as a human being. Guy: Posts picture where women are literally products on a shelf he can buy. RUN, run far away from this one. He is not a keeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:25 PM
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If someone punches you, I'd definitely count that as "trying to hurt others".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:23 PM
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Important one to add I struggled with: You are not responsible for other people's emotions. This goes against everything we are taught as women. We need to carefully tip toe around other feelings, and constantly be on guard to use the right word choice, avoid using offensive language, etc - to avoid provoking an emotional response (especially anger) in others. No - it's not your responsibility when someone emotionally reacts to what you do or say - especially when you aren't trying to hurt other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:52 PM
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Wow. In the United States - you can't disinherit your spouse. There are over rides - even if you're excluded from the will. (Unless there is a pre-nup).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:47 PM
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When it comes to domestic violence, men to report "she shoved me" when women report "he broke my arm". So the meaning of what men vs women report as "violence" isn't the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:16 AM
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This was my thought too. Woman had sex with multiple men at a party? That's not "sex" that's "rape".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:55 AM
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This is how someone becomes a prostitute. First, a girl's parents divorce and she is raised by her Dad... because her Mom is mentally ill. Her Dad dies, and the government places her in custody of her Mother, who can't take care of herself, let alone a teenager. A 'kind' person takes her in... gives her a home, lets her go to school... ... but she just has to do some "work" to support it. She's 15. She eventually gets out of it, but she's horribly traumatized. That's just one true story. You can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:43 AM
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We all know the answer is sexism right? Men have the right to choose women. Men's needs should be considered. Men are the ones with the power. Therefore - women should not talk about what they want, they should shut up and and listen to men tell them what they should be like. Women's desires don't matter. Yeah - not going along with that, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:22 PM
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I know way too many women who have either lived with or married men who decided they didn't need to work. It's not much to ask a partner (male or female) to be a... PARTNER. Not a dependent. This is definitely something I'm considering when dating someone, because I've seen it happen too many times now. Now - I've seen couples who chose to have one stay home and watch young children, because their income vs cost of child care meant that going to work didn't make sense. My friends with the stay-a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:30 PM
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I didn't listen to this with sound. First thing I see is the guy with his camera below him, so he's talking down at the person watching the video. This is a psychological trick. But - he looks like a condescending jerk throughout. The look on his face, his eyes - just saying "I am better than you, listen to me" - that sense of superiority is oozing out of every shot. Generally, this means the person making the video doesn't have a very convincing argument. Based on the commenters here, that seem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:15 PM
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You are correct about what sex positive means. It's a reaction to religious groups - I mean, I know someone whose father watched him shower to make sure he didn't masturbate. That's abusive and unhealthy, and that's the kind of thing sex positive is meant to change. It doesn't mean "I support exploitation and abuse of others" - which is abusers taking the language and twisting it to support their abusive behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:09 PM
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When I was a child, I considered my mother all powerful - because she was all powerful over me. I started to see in high school - how my brothers were treated differently (encouraged in activities that would lead to careers, while i was encouraged to do things like art and music). I thought things were more fair - but then I got into the working world and really saw all the discrimination against women there. I think a lot of boys see their mothers as all powerful, have all female teachers, etc …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:01 PM
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My dad definitely had the "it's the woman's job to raise the children" mindset. I've talked to this to my brother - about he was neglected by my father, but he doesn't see it, and instead feels neglected by our mother - who was stuck focusing her time an energy on our disabled younger brother with no cleaning, chore, or parenting help from our father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:01 PM
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Borderline (usually diagnosed in women) and NPD (usually diagnosed in men) are similar. It's good to recognize both of them: https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-differences-between-abusers-with-narcissistic-personality-disorder-vs-borderline-personality-disorder/ Learning about borderline made me understand an unusual online friendship I had that broke down - especially when she went to our mutual friends and made them "pick between" us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:22 PM
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The "behavioral revolution" is important, but I don't like the positive pscyhology spin - I find it damaging and a lot of people do. They've also debunked a huge underlying argument for it, the ' critical positivity ratio'. https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-losada-ratio-4691023 Biggest things I found that helped me were "radical acceptance", non-judemental thinking, and mindfulness parts of DBT. https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/radical_acceptance_text.html The idea is you start out by lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:08 PM
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Average health website: " The clitoris is a nub of spongy tissue at the front of the vagina. " No, health website, that is not what the clitoris us. The clitoris is an internal organ, and it's huge - what you see is only a small part of it. It's almost like medicine has seen men as the default, and focused on male bodies rather than female ones...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:41 PM
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I've met people with a bitchy attitude before. I don't like them, I don't hang out with them, simple. I find people I get along with. ... that's it. Find the people worth spending your time with. The screenshot leaves me feeling "maybe it's not them, maybe it's you..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:46 AM
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Red flag 1: describing ex as crazy. I know people with legitimately crazy exes and they don't describe them that way. Red flag 2: Dating for two years and not sharing news this big. Red Flag 3: She is 24, he has 10 year olds. Either he was 14 - 16, or... I suspect he's much older than her, especially since he has children from two different relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:13 PM
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In the United States, calling 800.656.HOPE now routes you to your local RAINN organization for assistance. They offer crisis counseling, and sometimes, that includes legal advice as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:03 PM
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Men define attraction as "I look at someone and become aroused". That's not what attraction is like for me, nor any women I know. Closest is women looking at men and thinking they are "good looking" - but I'm not looking to shag strangers I don't know. I can tell a man or a woman is good looking. That doesn't mean I'd date them. Think of all the things that immediately would make you not want to see someone again - that's part of attraction. Most men I know wouldn't define "attraction" this way,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:05 PM
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So, here is the link: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/ Survey of college students, most likely, respondents at a single college. This is not applicable to the general population. Science 101: A single study simply provides a foundation for further inquiry. All science is repeatable. If it's not repeatable - something is wrong with the study. A linked article says other studies have found a response from 31 to 57% depending on who they sample. Most likely college students. Another linked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:46 PM
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All female feminists are the enemies, all male feminists are awesome? Does she realize this is an example of "internalized" hate - hating one's own group because you wish you didn't belong to it, and feeling you're "not like" the rest of the group? Hint: You're not the exception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:27 AM
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You've described "men approaching women for sex" which is not the same as "approaching a woman in order to start a relationship". They are not the same thing. I've never approached a woman for sex, but I've had sex with women. If my partner had approached me for sex, they would have been rejected. Neither of us want that. Side effect of a relationship is lots of sex - but it's only with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:42 PM
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