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| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?If you want to be technical, sure. But I'm making distinction on aesthetic appeal and frame. Someone with fat rolls has more body fat % than someone without. Especially when most of the body fat in men concentrates in their abdomen. A taller person can naturally "carry" more body fat than a shorter person without gaining fat rolls (love handles). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?My username is literally from childhood. WW1 video games were popular. My dog was named Panzer (he was a German shepherd) and I liked tanks. So yeah that's what I came up with. I wasn't the most creative at 14 I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Looks are in totally different tier though. Both men and women care about looks since they inform actual attraction , so trying to negotiate with traits that don’t have a similar impact on attraction mostly doesn’t work, or ends badly The type of person that wants to be a housewife, cares more about a man's wallet than his looks. But outside of church, modern culture has all but killed the SAHM archetype (I personally think thanks to feminism's influence but let's not go there). Look at all thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I never learned how to cold approach in real life. Wasn't a bar-goer in my 20s and still don't really do that now. I've only used online dating. How do I do it in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Lol apparently you only read the headline. I never said I wanted a supermodel. I just wanted a girl I'm attracted to. For me that's 5s and above, not overweight, whom take care of their health (including dental and mental). Literally just the basics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Under your logic: I guess when I lose the weight I should demand she have lots of money then if she wants to date me? Dating isn't a 1:1 comparison of standards. I think of it more like a stats sheet in an RPG. You go high on one stat you might be low on another. Oftentimes real life is actually that way too. People who spend all their energy on their careers end up being terrible parents, people who put all their energy into being the best parents are less successful in their careers: the gym r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Well this should inform you. https://imgur.com/a/SV3oYZW And I live in Seattle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?sounds like a lot of calorie heavy stuff to me, like lots of butter, cheese, plus you are apparently making large portions to get to 800 calories for a single serving. Yes, but keep in mind I'm doing keto here. Calorie for calorie fat is more filling than carbs. Carbs might take up more volume but the pass through your system so much faster than fat, and you become hungry quicker. This is well known science. The amount of butter and cheese are necessary because: plain riced cauliflower: even mas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?You can learn to cook healthy food all by yourself, I did. Yep. My problem now is less the healthiness of the food, but the number of calories. My go-to healthy meal would be salmon steak (8-12oz) with mashed cauliflower (cheddar cheese, butter, riced cauliflower, mashed...resembles and tastes like mashed potatoes but low carb), and steamed asparagus (with butter). I have that for supper about twice a week. But the whole portion I grab ends up being 800 or so calories (mostly in the mashed cauli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I was in a similar situation as you, and if you can get rid of the excess weight and get fit, then by all means do it. It will significantly raise your attractiveness. How did it work out for you before and after losing the weight? I could use some inspiration. Be detailed and specific if you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I’m a fit woman and my across the room type is bigger guys. I have a masters and teach at a university. If you are in Seattle, DM me. I didn't intend to write this post to get dates...but if it happens I'm not going to go against the current. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Do you express yourself like this? Because the issue might not be your high standards but your uncomfortable self expression. I don't. What you see on Reddit is not how I act in real life. And often if I find someone I like I may find one of these checkboxes less important or dismiss it entirely. Preferences are a guide for planning. But real life changes planning. Understand that. I'm not shallow. I am merely saying I don't find most overweight women attractive. I can't force myself to be attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I don't have a me me me attitude. That's probably the reddit effect you're seeing. Honestly you probably live in a shitty area for dating. Having a me me me attitude doesn’t help either but you seem smart enough and introspective enough to shake it off. Yes Seattle is notoriously bad for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?The median household income in Seattle-Bellevue-Tacoma metropolitan area is around $100,000. You can do the math from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?A lot of people on Reddit will state things in USD by default to avoid confusion. USD is the exchange currency many countries use to do international trade. Many scientific studies default to being in USD even if studying another country. So yes I ask that question. 270k CAD is 214,933.50 USD so that makes a little more sense now. Still though I'm willing to bet there's some fat to trim in your budget. You should be putting at least 10% post-tax income into retirement. Maybe a little less in Can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Have you done either? I've heard of all of those. Read "how to win friends and influence people" and plan to read "Models". I'm currently reading "the game" but I find pick-up artists disgusting, just trying to understand their applied NLP stuff. What happens in toastmasters? I don't know much honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?$1500 a week? Are we talking USD or Canadian dollars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?This is in my post. Not the exact amount but the relative amount. I live in Seattle-Bellevue-Tacoma metropolitan area. You can figure it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Yes I said I don't care about her income. But I do care about her physical attractiveness. Are we having a communication breakdown here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I actually don't mind brutal honesty as long as it's truthful and the intent is to provide helpful criticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I actually don't. I care she has a good education in a field I respect. Not the same thing as earning a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Any good roadmap that has worked for you on building charisma? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Where are you living? I'm in Seattle and my mortgage isn't even that high. That's living above your means in my opinion. I technically could afford a house that is up to 1.5 million, but I would be house poor. I right now have 3 bedroom townhouse that I pay $3,200/mo for. That's with $148/mo PMI. The townhouse was $715k when I bought it last year (2.8% interest rate), and I put 5% down. Still where are the rest of your expenses going? Living paycheck to paycheck on $290k household income, should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I'm not so overweight that I have fat rolls: again only 40 lbs overweight on a 6'2" frame: it distributes better. And my face is actually pretty attractive. I'm on a keto diet, and I'm not shitting you: my face is actually quite handsome when I'm on keto: like 7 or 8 ( on keto you lose fat and water in your face and it better defines your jawline), off keto my face is a 5 or so. My eyes are green (which is kinda rare), and hygiene/grooming I take a lot of care of that: recently even a good night… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Just FYI my husband makes $200K a year, I make $70K. We have three teens and still go into overdraft every month. I'd like to know more. What are your expenses? This shouldn't be. Exactly how are you going to fund children on 50% of your income? Are you going to give up on retiring early? Obviously if I had a kid my retirement goals would change and I would probably work longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?And your attitude about women’s education choices is a huge turnoff. Perhaps. But hearing people's raw truth about their preferences is hardly an easy pill to swallow. I prefer to state my opinion rather than coloring it for others. Obviously if I was trying to court you however you probably would never know the raw truth about all my dating preferences, nor would I know yours. You’re 34, how did you let it get to that to begin with, and how come you didn’t try to change sooner? This is more per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?That's a balanced and realistic perspective. Thanks. Yes, I've contemplated rather I would be happy single forever, and you know what? It isn't that bad. Sex I can get through escorts if need be. And friendship doesn't care about looks anyways. I might want to have kids someday but it isn't necessarily a bad life if I don't. I figure I'll do this: if I can't find the girl for me by the time I'm 40 I'll lower my standards incrementally. But only within reason. I'd rather be single forever than da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:38 PM |
| 0 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Woohoo want a cookie? Why don't you talk about the topic at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Then should I also require my partner to be as financially successful as me too? This is what I'm getting at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?If I had no job or made like $20 an hour, but expected a man to have a career and be a professional I’d be in the wrong in my opinion. Most men don't care what a girl makes. They care more about how attractive she is physically. There's lawyers that ask out McDonald's workers for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?I like your perspective. And I'm the same. I have a lifestyle that's more in line with someone earning a third of what I do. I save roughly 50% of my post-tax income, as my goal is to retire early in 10 years. The point about money is I could be a decent provider for a SAHM. So if I'm going to provide the income, less emphasis should be on my looks. After all if I'm going to have good looks and good income I'd look for someone of way higher caliber in looks and personality. I'm looking at averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 6 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?Even in that "league" majority of overweight women I've met haven't done shit with their lives. They have nothing I desire. I haven't met an overweight girl who's a successful scientist or doctor for example. Most (not all) overweight girls I've met have poor externalizing personalities (externalizing: someone who thinks external circumstances are the cause of their problems and doesn't try to improve themselves from within), and if they have a degree: it's in something I don't care for: like co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.Literally none of that had anything to do with the conversation at hand. Disregarded. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.Scenario 1 both the woman never agrees to have sex with the man abdicating responsibility and if she did, there's no proof. Red herring. In scenario 2 the man never agreed to Parenthood. You seem to imply that parenthood is a foregone conclusion of the circumstances. It isn't. Abortion (a pill) is a choice, not abortion is also a choice. You could very well agree to these circumstances (to get an abortion) before having sex and she could then change her mind. I would also advocate that if the ma… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | girl ignores the "nice guy" in high school, spends her 20s slutting around and has 3 kids, then comes to the "nice guy" in her 30s to marry himWhy though? We're you just that desperate to nut? I mean why not pay Wendy down the street for that? | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | girl ignores the "nice guy" in high school, spends her 20s slutting around and has 3 kids, then comes to the "nice guy" in her 30s to marry himFuck that I'd rather be a eunich. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.Why don't you go to school and literally take a "critical thinking 101" class? Seriously it will do you a lot of good to actually be able to tell non arguments from well crafted logic. You don't have an argument. So you attempt to throw random insults or red herrings at me to try and distract from your lack of a sound argument. Not gonna work. Come back to me with a real argument or admit defeat. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.You didn't answer the question as asked, or even at all. I asked how the two situations are different. You don't get to insert arbitrary extra hypotheticals. That wasn't the situation as presented. Answer the question or admit you don't have an argument. Anytime someone can't answer the question as asked, I consider the rest of what they have to say pointless. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.My parents taught me shit honey. I learn from going to college, taking philosophy courses, critical thinking and logic. Look. Here are the absolute facts: A. Woman gets pregnant by having sex with man. B. Abortion is an option, and only a pill for the first 15 weeks. C. Man says he doesn't want to be a father. D. Man requests she get an abortion. E. Woman knows man wants abortion, she knows than an abortion is just a pill (not a surgical procedure), she knows that it is available to her, but she… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.You can, for a few minutes of a lawyer's time, legally become a sperm donor for your friend. You don't need to go to a sperm bank: turkey baster works just fine. There is no sex involved What the hell does that have to do with it? Contracts are signed beforehand with the concept of pregnancy on the table , it's entire reason for being right? No FWB accidents , no condoms slips. It's a well known procedure with pregnancy as the intended outcome. This doesn't matter. The outcome is the same regard… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I brought up the topic of financial abortion. feminists are going crazy: "if you didn't want to get her pregnant you shouldn't have had sex" They're literally using conservative talking points.Then under your logic sperm banks should not be able to take single women as clients. But they do, frequently in fact. So long as sperm banks have single female clients your argument is completely invalid. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/05/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesPolyamory sucks. Never be in one of those situations. It's just sugar coating on being a swinger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 06:54 PM |
| – | why are pretty much all above 30 Asian women so attracted to me?I've got like 4 just this week bud. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/05/22 10:03 PM |
| – | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenBro I would trade with you any day. Income you can improve much much more easily than looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | TikTok collection of women reacting to splitting the bill.Also: news flash, some people date their friends | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/05/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | TikTok collection of women reacting to splitting the bill.Ok but how is that different? Just because you don't know someone you should pay for them? That's bullcrap. And why should I pay and not her? She doesn't know me either. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/05/22 04:45 PM |
| 0 | TikTok collection of women reacting to splitting the bill.To be fair Russia is still far far more traditional than the US is. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/05/22 08:37 AM |
| 5 | TikTok collection of women reacting to splitting the bill.Yeah no. Do your friends expect you to pay for their food just because you asked to get lunch with them? I don't think so. So why, why should it be any different on a date? If I wanted to pay for a girl to talk to me I'd see an escort or a therapist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/05/22 01:39 AM |
| 7 | TikTok collection of women reacting to splitting the bill.Nah. That's for the birds. Dude there's plenty of quality women who will actually be offended if you offer to pay. Anyhow it's a good test to see if she's actually interested in you or at the very least is a respectful and not entitled person. Let me ask you this: if you knew ahead of time that she expects you to pay, would you go out with her? Probably not because you would find that behavior selfish and entitled. If you knew ahead of time that she would not give you a second date if you didn't… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/05/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenEven if I only made $150k (which I make more than that,). Tech workers, let's say there are 100,000 of them. Out of a population of around 4 million people in Seattle-Tacoma-Bellevue metro area . That's barely a tiny percentage of people: 2.5% So, yes that's actually still a higher income than most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Suspended from PurplePillDebate for...er...asking why men die for women...Wow PPD is actually hard to get banned from if you're not deliberately trying to. Their mods are much more lax and they encourage debating as long as it doesn't turn into personal attacks. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | TikTok collection: women react to splitting the bill.Let's discuss their reactions and how you all feel about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenMedian household income even in Seattle is something like $115k. That's household income, not per capita income. Median per Capita income is $50k. I make far above median household income, and even further above the median per Capita income. It's quite literally not average. It's average per tech worker. But considering Seattle and surrounding area population size, it's not the "average Joe" salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenYeah normie face. But I'm overweight. So that's likely most of it. If you really want to lead with your wallet, date down the socio-economic ladder and look for someone close to your level in looks. Eew I wouldn't date a lower socio-economic female version of me. If I'm going to go for ugly she would have to have money. But I would rather be single than date a female version of me lol. 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenFuturama, classic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenThere's a reason the tech bro stereotype is so prevalent and also so disliked. I never quite understood what the stereotype is and why it's disliked. Maybe I'm out of the loop: can you explain the stereotype? . People who decide to build their life in the city/region do infinitely better than those who are a bit more transient and treat it as a temporary stop, since they make a better effort to integrate with the overall culture. I've only been here about 2 years. So maybe I'm still in "transien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenAlready purchased a home. I'm 34 that's not that young. I don't want a truck or a motorcycle. Wastes of money. I just have a Chevy volt and I keep it nice. I like the other ideas though. Yes online shopping is halfway an addiction (men shop online too). Some necessities I buy there, but I honestly probably spend $500/mo on just shit I don't need. Yeah I like your thought process though. I don't just need to have money I need to use it to enjoy life. Unfortunately many of us software engineers ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenIt's how Jack Bogle (the creator of vanguard) lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenIt was an experiment. I don't normally put my salary on my profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenLol isn't the universe funny? I just received a wrong number text from some girl in new York looking for her friend. I played along for a bit. And then revealed she had the wrong number. She's an even higher income lady than me and pretty hot. This sounds like a scam I know. So I'm cautious. But she's actually interested. We swapped pictures and are chatting. We talked about incomes and all too. Compared to her, I might as well be working at McDonald's 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenYes this is Seattle. Yeah I only invest my money (unfortunately all in the stock market which umm recently is really really down: lost $20k recently last month on a dumb call option on TSLA). I live frugally. The only things I splurge on are random Amazon purchases (I spend about $1,500 a month on Amazon, I need to cut down lol). I also spend a decent amount on getting food delivered (about $600-800 a month). Other than that I don't buy expensive things. My hobbies are already cheap. But if I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenI invest it all. I live off of 30% of my income. I invest the rest. I own a house and a car. But I buy clothes from target, my car isn't fancy, and I love somewhat frugally. I will be fully financially independent in 10 years. (Also called Lean-fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenIt was more of a social experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Sex is actually a key milestone in life that helps guys see girls as more than sexual objectsMaybe you do. I don't. And no I'm not successful with women either. But I don't put them on a pedestal. I always found it hilarious how people talk to celebrities btw. At my old workplace: a large well known company: the CEO of the company was coming to visit our specific office and talk to our team. So many people were freaking out fangirl style others were really nervous to make a good impression. I wasn't that. I literally just talked to the CEO like anyone else. And this isn't some tiny star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Sex is actually a key milestone in life that helps guys see girls as more than sexual objectsLol what the heck are you smoking? This is just utter backwards. You don't need sex to see women as human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I got 3 so far. how many you all got?You all might be interested in this post https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/uncdqy/how_can_i_moderate_a_mens_space_better/ | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | I got 3 so far. how many you all got?Haha yep. Hey I created a new community: /r/rants_without_censors Post whatever rant you want (texts only). There's no mods, just me. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | should men start settling?Ok tell me more about the dates. How did the first date go? And so forth? | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | should men start settling?It's always refreshing when I run across women who don't drink from the feminist tit. That milk went sour in the 90s. Have you ever went on a date with a woman yourself, just to experience it? Not saying you're a lesbian but it would be an interesting experiment for you to try first dates with girls just to see. You could write a book about it. Call it "50 first dates with feminists". | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | should men start settling?I use first dates as shit tests too. If she offers to pay her half, I let her do it I don't fight to pay. Why? If she pays without fuss or microexpressions I would know she views me as an equal. If she pays but has a snarl or a look of surprise that I accepted, then I know she doesn't view me as an equal. And obviously if she doesn't pay her half at all, or it has to be asked: then I know she doesn't see me as an equal. The only time I pay the full amount (her part and mine) is if I have a lot o… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | should men start settling?The way you write I can't tell if you're a dude or a chick. Maybe that's on purpose. In either respect, if a girl showed up 30 mins late I would probably be texting her at 7 mins in. If I didn't hear anything I'd text once more at 15 mins in. After that I'd probably be pretty pissed. At 20 mins in past me would have been worried something happened to her. But now I'd just order a meal or drink for myself, and then when she gets here, pass by her on her way out: "sorry, but you missed the date. I… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | should men start settling?What does "appearing desperate" look like? Some everyday (not extreme) examples would be great. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I never knew my father because my mother brainwashed me to hate him.Men's rights. It's literally right there in the tag. My dad had no custody at all because my mom was able to use the family courts to take away all parenting rights. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/05/22 06:20 AM |
| 14 | Do I get a trophy? someone literally reported me to reddit itself because I posted a list of anti free speech moderators. I'm saying "hey these users are harassing people" and I get reported. like what the hell?The dumb thing is that reddit just never looks into anything. They just let automatic bans happen based on karma farming. And you all know how much karma these guys have farmed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 10:53 PM |
| 9 | Do I get a trophy? someone literally reported me to reddit itself because I posted a list of anti free speech moderators. I'm saying "hey these users are harassing people" and I get reported. like what the hell?Screenshot of post. Yess I blurred the usernames, but you all KNOW who they are. https://imgur.com/a/JsFPYT2 | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Oh man the hypocrisy and one sided view of some of these ladies. The mental gymnastics as well 🤦♀️I'd love to hear the highlights of what everyone has learned or laughed about in that post. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 20 | Oh man the hypocrisy and one sided view of some of these ladies. The mental gymnastics as well 🤦♀️What I find funny. They would probably be offended if in reply to "I would never date a man that had sex with a prostitute", is I said "I would never date a woman that had sex with anyone outside a committed relationship" they would be absolutely offended even though it's almost the same thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 07:21 AM |
| 6 | Oh man the hypocrisy and one sided view of some of these ladies. The mental gymnastics as well 🤦♀️There's some conversations deeper in the threads. One example: there's a conversation from a feminist saying she doesn't respect a guy who uses an escort, even if there is no exploitation et cetera. Read that thread. Far more interesting. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Oh man the hypocrisy and one sided view of some of these ladies. The mental gymnastics as well 🤦♀️You need to order the comments differently. You're looking at the upvoted ones. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 04:32 AM |
| 47 | Oh man the hypocrisy and one sided view of some of these ladies. The mental gymnastics as well 🤦♀️If you ask me, I think ladies are afraid if sex becomes a commodity even for unattractive guys, they will lose their ability to manipulate men. Because then it really does become a question of "what do you bring to the table?". I'm already halfway towards seeing sex as a commodity: I got my own toys that get me pretty much there anyways. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I follow r/feminism just to see what's going on there, sometimes it makes my brain hurtThis is the way I see it: When it comes to what you and your family do: use your religion to justify your decisions. But when it comes to policymaking: your religion can't have any bearing or weight on what laws exist. Otherwise you enforcing your religion on the rest of us. So make a secular argument towards policy making. Save the religious argument for church. That includes speech such as "life begins at conception". To secular minds and scientists there can't be anything resembling a thinkin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Your religious freedom DOES NOT override consent and agency.Ok sure. But we're talking colloquial understanding. The purpose of language is to communicate thoughts and ideas, not necessarily to use exacting definitions especially when crafting a figurative analogy. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Your religious freedom DOES NOT override consent and agency.Clearly you understand I'm speaking figuratively. The colloquial understanding a of a parasite. It's something that uses up resources. A cancerous growth is a parasite in this understanding. Obviously it's not a foreign object. That's not what I was insinuating, and I hope you're not that dense. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Your religious freedom DOES NOT override consent and agency.Unborn fetus that is not viable is a parasite it doesn't have agency. Are you really this dense? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?Medical agency is a different thing than non-medical agency. It is generally accepted that a caretaker has a right to make medical decisions for their child. Circumcision is not a medical decision unless the doctor legally recommends it as medical advice. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?So under your belief, it's perfectly ok for pediophile parents to sexually assault their children? Are you listening to yourself? Under your belief, a parent can chop off any body part they don't like in the child. Don't like your child having two arms? Off it goes. Don't like your child having a penis? Give them gender transformation surgery. Seriously what the fuck is wrong with you? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 08:15 PM |
| 3 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?The right to religious freedom stops absolutely when you effect other people directly with your actions due to your religion. A child is not a possession that you can do whatever you want with. You're their caretaker only. You don't get to make permanent non-medical decisions for them just because your religion says so. Religious freedom is freedom for you, to not be limited in your beliefs and rituals upon and within yourself and upon and within other consenting members of your religion. Regard… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?Seriously wtf? Do you not believe children have rights to bodily autonomy? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?I don't like to be the word police. But I believe Jewish people regard "the Jews" as a derogatory term. Probably good to say "the Jewish people" or "Jewish person" or "Jewish community". | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I follow r/feminism just to see what's going on there, sometimes it makes my brain hurtI personally do not think abortion is a problem. Especially if you know the science. Throughout the first trimester (when the majority of abortions are done) an abortion is merely taking a pill. That pill makes the uterine lining inhospitable to hosting a fetus (which is barely the size of a walnut at this point) and you just dispose of it like a normal period with some extra heavy flow. What I don't understand is those who are wishy washy about their stance on abortion. Either it is a life that… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/05/22 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Now is the perfect time to bring up paper abortions. Watch them writhe and be sexist while making prolife arguments against men.At this point, abortion should be the default, legally speaking and you should have to engage in an active choice to keep the child. Being that abortion isn't even a procedure but just a pill now, it's hard to pretend that women are any different in their legal stance than men. You want to impregnate yourself with random sperm donor? Go right ahead, but why should it be my problem? That's the way I view it. It's not "she's choosing to keep the baby" no, she's choosing to have a baby. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?Honestly if we just made giant billboards of this. https://forum.xnxx.com/attachments/circumcision-intact-jpg.2260098/ But then all the puritan sex hating people would get a hissy fit for showing medical imagery in public | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?You're not a "person" until you're 18. Would probably be the argument. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 0 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?Here's a good list of known anti free speech mods and automods: /u/hero0fwar /u/ManWithoutModem /u/awkwardtheturtle /u/maybesaydie /u/N8theGr8 /u/command3r_ISA /u/natezomby /u/RalphiesBoogers /u/NSYK /u/HappyModsBot /u/GabbiKat /u/Blank-Cheque /u/BaphometsDaughter /u/SafestBot /u/GodOfAtheism /u/TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK /u/metastasis_d /u/awkward_the_turtle /u/Gaywallet /u/stoppage_time /u/ArchangelleN8theGr8 /u/ghostgoddess7 | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 04:43 PM |
| 6 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?Yeah you need to block some of the overpowered mods so they can't see what other subreddits you're a member of or see your post history outside of their subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 04:27 PM |
| 7 | we need actionable steps: what can we do politically to outlaw circumcision?Call it antisemitism if you want. I don't give a shit about "cry-bullies". (Cry-bullies are ones who use emotional manipulation to get what they want: often sometimes using fake crying to manipulate others). It's just a word. I have nothing against Jewish people. But if their religion requires body mutilation than yes I'm against Jewish people on their religious practices. If that's antisemitism than so be it. Circumcision is wrong. You can't hide behind religion to make it somehow ok. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | men good when men lift heavy stuffWhat I absolutely love about this commercial: the kids weren't actors, just regular kids and this situation was presented to them without prior knowledge. So their reactions are real. So that little girl's face of jealousy and dead stare are real. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | two lesbians on a date or two gay guys on a date. who pays?The "extremists" as you call them are the bulk of the feminists we see on main stream media. Maybe that's what sells, but it's not a tiny minority that think that way. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 02:27 PM |
| 7 | men good when men lift heavy stuffLol reminds me of this cute commercial: https://youtu.be/xlwmgj6KNOk | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 01:36 AM |
| 0 | men good when men lift heavy stuffWhat forum is this from? I'd like to remind this person of all the "men" that make society work. I'd absolutely love to see her even attempt to learn how to do electrical work, fix her own plumbing, or even get her internet connection working. Like what is she on about? Meanwhile she probably does nothing but meme all day. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | two lesbians on a date or two gay guys on a date. who pays?This is great. I wish all feminists had this attitude. But unfortunately many of them are very much not this way. Many who use the label feminist, only use it when it benefits them or gives them an excuse to blame men for their problems. I don't meet many level headed feminists. Maybe you can spread it: call out your fake feminists on Reddit (that is if they don't banhammer you first). When feminism was just starting out it's third wave it was mostly agreeable. Men and women should have equal pa… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/22 04:05 PM |
| 26 | guy sends itemized bill for her half of first date after being ghosted.Guy should show up to his next date with a shirt that says "If you expect me to pay, I expect you to put out! Don't like it? Then go dutch" | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | two lesbians on a date or two gay guys on a date. who pays?I'd love to be a fly on the wall for that conversation. What was his justification? | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | two lesbians on a date or two gay guys on a date. who pays?You serious? | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | two lesbians on a date or two gay guys on a date. who pays?Does that mean the male waiter should pay for the lesbians dinner? | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/22 01:28 AM |
| 2 | GANG RAPE HORROR Three women ‘raped man, 23, for THREE days’ after kidnapping man in a taxi and force-feeding him energy drinks in South AfricaAlso this from 2014 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2013870/Robber-broke-hair-salon-beaten-black-belt-owner-kept-sex-slave-days-fed-Viagra.html | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/05/22 09:28 PM |
| 4 | I almost preferred FDS being thereUnpopular opinion: yes you have the freedom to speak. But we don't have to give you a way to reach other people when you speak. You want to be heard by other people and have radicalized discussions? Make your own damn platform and let your hate filled rhetoric fester there. I'm glad FDS is gone. Maybe just maybe people might start listening to their own sense of self rather than the bullshit from FDS. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/04/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.Don't be disengenous. You knew what you were saying. Just fucking own it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.She left you when you were engaged? Ugh that enrages me to no end. It's one thing to leave someone you've only been with a few months, but when you're engaged? Fuck. If she ever comes crawling back make sure you spit on the dirt and tell her to date that. People like that are worse than dirt. At least dirt can be made into something useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.That's amazing. Yes in your case I would say her attitude hasn't been tainted by the likes of FDS or anything from modern "feminism". So you got lucky in that you got a girl that was still "mint" in that her mind wasn't yet corrupted. I don't think that's possible with most women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.Programmers get paid and then they spend the money however they like. Same as anyone else working for a living. Ain't anything special about that No, but you called us out specifically. Saying we've never touched a boob. My goodness. And yes someone who has a career is far more valuable than someone that tweets all day from their job as a fry cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.Can you elaborate on how it was crystal clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.Why you making fun of programmers? We built the modern world you know? We (as a class of people) have been a large provider for so many women that just want to tweet all day instead of being productive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.I see that as strange. I would be scared to lose a million dollars. That doesn't make me low value because I care about keeping the million dollars. And why should it be a power struggle? Why not just be a partnership? Shouldn't she value him just as much as he values her? Why would she want to date someone that thinks very little of her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | take action, and move fast or you lose her. there is no long game. she either likes you or she doesn't.Women's logic is strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 06:38 PM |
| 6 | disabled wife requested divorce, father gets custody of kids with disabilities, wife doesn't have to pay child supportI also posted this in /r/MensRights Please tell your story there too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 18 | wife asks for divorce, custody given to father of disabiled children, no child support required from wife.It's not about rather he's rich or not. You forget, she in essence is rich too, once he sells any of the properties or businesses she gets 50%, and after one of the youngest child is 23 she can sell her shares herself. She's rich too buddy. There's a schedule: if you make this amount, you pay y% of your income per child. There's no stipulations in that schedule for rather the custodial parent is well off or not. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 19 | wife asks for divorce, custody given to father of disabiled children, no child support required from wife.What about my post is wrong? She didn't have to pay child support. A man in the exact same position would. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Moral dilemmasHow old are you? If you're a minor this is by definition a sexual assault case. With regards to minors the courts don't even consider consent, a minor cannot consent to sexual contact by definition (with a few exceptions in some states where they have different laws for 16 - 20 year olds). If you're a minor, Tell your father what happened or if no father figure tell a trusted adult such as a teacher or principal or counselor. This woman should be put in prison. Also, if you're under 21, she gave… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 23 | wife asks for divorce, custody given to father of disabiled children, no child support required from wife.He got a decent deal. But nevertheless, child support is supposed to be afforded by the non-custodial parent, regardless of if the custodial parent needs the money. I'm saying, had it been a man in the woman's situation, he would of been required to pay child support. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 09:25 PM |
| 25 | disabled wife requested divorce, father gets custody of kids with disabilities, wife doesn't have to pay child supportThis is why you never get married. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Tell people you've been neutered without telling them you've been neutered.I will NEVER let anyone control me except for my boss. If you ain't paying me money you don't have authority over me. I've dated girls that tried even small stuff like this: "we're going on a vegan diet" no "you're going on a vegan diet, I will eat whatever I please." Never ever ever let a woman control you, treat you like a child, or disrespect your authority. Especially don't let her think she has the right to see your phone. Don't share finances with a woman except for shared expenses. If you… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.I've learned so much that I need to take energy that I previously put into women I was trying to court, and put that energy into self love and self admiration. I've started to put myself on a pedestal. Hopefully I can maintain that, as I've got a couple of first dates this weekend. (My nature is do whatever I can to make them happy.....not anymore. I will treat them like I treat a friend, no extra treatment, but still respect and trust until they violate it. And if they're disrespectful, I leave… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.Lol I know this is in jest, but a lot of inmates on death row are actually resentful and accept their punishment as what they feel they deserve. (For the record I don't think anyone deserves to be killed by the state regardless of crime, but that's what they felt: the underlying guilt of their crimes eats away at them. Some of them basically get to the point to where if the state didn't do it, they would) | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.(and yes I enjoy the alliteration: always fun to sneak that in) | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 07:01 PM |
| 3 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.It's a lot less common for women to think rationally about the implications of their actions when they feel vindicated in a vendetta against men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.I'll take that. Yonk | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.I like this. Good point. Where did you take that from? Buddism? | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 04:25 PM |
| 0 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.Maybe. But maybe a year from now this sits in the back of her mind, and she realizes he endless pursuit of empty hedonism is starting to actually make her unhappy. Or maybe she has a glimpse of how she can feel fulfilled. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 03:46 PM |
| 0 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.I myself am not any particular pilled. I still believe there's plenty of good women (like 30% at least) that don't act to bluepill blackpill or red pill ideology, especially those that were raised by single dads (p.s. if you find her dad is most dominant in her decisions, find out what her dad is like, if he's cool...wife her up) . I've found more tomboy girls or girls in STEM careers to be less crazy and more grounded. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 03:21 PM |
| 4 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.Perhaps. I think connecting the dots in her behavior to a group of women she despises is probably the best way. If you can convince a woman she's acting exactly like the women that disgust her, or if you can convince her that others see her in that light, she'll want to change her behavior faster than she changes clothes at a 80% off sale. (That was in jest, but funny still) | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.I took it more to mean a common ground where blue pillers and red pillers can chat. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're being disengenous. I said emotional abuse. That is a much bigger thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 11:35 AM |
| 5 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.She upvoted the comment, and the 🥲 emoji would seem odd if she was sarcastic | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 10:34 AM |
| 5 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.I think I'm learning, with women you have to learn how to talk with her emotional brain and group identity brain, not logical. Give emotional arguments and we'll all be more successful. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 5 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.There was a lot more similar stories in this thread. She likely read those too and this was her turning point. I also think my simple metaphor of her syphoning self esteem from others might have clicked in her. She knows it's wrong to steal. Connecting that part of her moral identity to how she treats men, could of been a lightbulb moment. And then the other part, how I specifically mentioned a mother hitting her kid because she was stressed at work: i think she very very much did not want to be… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | out of the loop: why was /r/redpill banned but /r/femaledatingstrategy isn't?Being opposed to far left does not equate to being in alignment with the far right | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | out of the loop: why was /r/redpill banned but /r/femaledatingstrategy isn't?Should we start a campaign to take down FDS? How can we do that? What was the feminists playbook? | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | out of the loop: why was /r/redpill banned but /r/femaledatingstrategy isn't?Redpill isn't right wing | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.I don't want to say I'm no longer a "nice guy". But I see many of these traits (aside from insulting women, I never did that) in my past. Accepting rejection has always been hard for me and it beats me up. I have since been through enough rejections that a new one no longer surprises me, but if I've hyped myself up enough about the date (if I don't give myself a pep talk and hype up, I'll be expecting a rejection, and also act accordingly), then I still feel the extreme emotional pain when no se… | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 08:06 PM |
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