should men start settling?

CallOfRedditNSFW · 2022-05-11T06:52:08+00:00

Lmaoooooo the daily beast saying this shit

Soontir_Fel · 2022-05-11T12:56:53+00:00

Take away is that men have realistic standards in dating and women for the most part do not.

reevelainen · 2022-05-11T15:04:54+00:00

I think getting a companion from someone just because one needs a companion is weakness. Why would anyone give hope of love to someone one definitely doesn't love?

A man who doesn't handle his life on his own is weak. Love should be treated a like a lottery win, it's great if it happens, but surely we can't live our life so that eventually we'll win in the lottery and it'll save us from miserable life. No.

We should aim for good life without a partneri, and, if we're lucky enough, we could find love on top of that. Never so that my life would be good if only I had wife. It's stupid attitude and would lead into miserable rest of your life.

We have so many things to be thankful about, nothing is more pathetic than being bitter just because a lottery win, or love didn't happen.

Naru4odo · 2022-05-11T15:49:28+00:00

Don't men do that already? Don't we get together with women who are dumber, weaker, earn less...I could go on but you get the message, because most women generally want men that are better than themselves. So we as men tend to be with women who are.... Get it?

Impressive-Pop1134 · 2022-05-11T15:38:16+00:00

Instead of settling down for a woman he doesn't desire, a man should constantly strive to improve himself. And it isn't just money. Money will only attract women, but at the end it's your behaviour that will keep them. There is a difference. Said man should hit the gym, work towards finding a better job/and/or a promotion at his current one. Style and hygiene is also very crucial, so dear men, wash/bathe/shave regularly, apply quality deodorant and so on. As for style, ask your female relatives/friends/shop assistants for advice and check out the various subreddits dedicated to male fashion and dressing style. Finally, work on improving your personality, DO NOT appear desparate- it shows us you have few/no options and therefore are an undesirable "mate". If you weren't, someone would have gone out with you already. It probably won't be true, but that's just how we are programmed to think by nature. Experienced men don't go with whatever they find. Improving yourself= more confidence = better character/behaviour = bigger dating pool = having the opportunity to settle down with a woman you actually like.

I know it seems obvious. But around 60% of men I see everyday are too lazy or have given up on working on themselves. Since they aren't millionaires, they can't do anything but keep on complaining and in the process going red-pilled. Excuses, excuses, excuses. Every man has two options: Accept that life is unfair and women are the ones choosing the best genes from the big list of desirable partners, therefore work on improving and actually having success, or keep complaining and staying single and bitter forever.

buried_alive0 · 2022-05-11T16:34:58+00:00

Men already do that. It's why never dating down works well for women. It's women who should start settling.

SamaelET · 2022-05-11T19:49:54+00:00

“Marriage is challenging,” says Matlack, of the Good Men Project. “Are you always madly in love with your spouse? No. But being a good husband and a good father is about trusting the other person, about being willing to deal with difficult stuff. I think it’s a sign of maturity on the part of men to admit that."

Feminists are just tradcons. They define men as tools for women, they think men only exist to be good husband and father. They see men settling as men finally mature enough to be a good little tool.

casra888 · 2022-05-11T18:55:36+00:00

Never ever settle. I don't know of any man who has settled whose life isn't a living hell.

PM_ME_YOUR_MUSIC4FB · 2022-05-13T00:50:18+00:00

I keep trying to talk to "just attractive enough" women only to find out they're personalities kinda suck too. How much more settling should I do? Lol I've been with women that don't value me as a person, it's worse than being single. Men shouldn't ever settled.

SnooJokes1401 · 2022-05-13T04:15:27+00:00

I'd rather die a virgin then have sex with a bitch.

drivenmadnow · 2022-05-15T11:19:08+00:00

The only time you should settle is when you're in a coffin

PM_ME_YOUR_MUSIC4FB · 2022-05-13T00:50:18+00:00

I keep trying to talk to "just attractive enough" women only to find out they're personalities kinda suck too. How much more settling should I do? Lol I've been with women that don't value me as a person, it's worse than being single. Men shouldn't ever settled.

Title	should men start settling?
Author	Panzercannon03
Upvotes	16
Comments	26
Date	May 11, 2022 3:09 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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