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| 2 | “He’s just not into you”Fear is the new love. Control is the new love. No self respect is the new love. No sense is the new love. Love is the new black. It's the source of all pain. Why? Because we are doing it all wrong. We make our own reality with our thoughts. If we are seeking true love, we will change and work towards it. Our hearts will guide us. And we will then find someone who is guided by his heart and has done similar work as you have been. That is the only way love can be found. If it's not based on mutual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:12 AM |
| 4 | If I hadn’t discovered FDS I would still be believing crap like this *cringes*Victim material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Commitment phobiaIt’s very true sadly. I am sorry you had to go through that. There are many evil men out there. And there are many men who are OK and “just” emotionally unavailable... but oh boy will they pull a plot twist and make your life a living hell. Take care! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are there SO MANY LVM?True, its saying like all women are pickmeishas yet here we are (fds) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Invaluable resource... It's like 300 pages. Naivete will get you fucked overThank you for sharing!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:55 AM |
| 8 | Commitment phobiaI think there is deep hurt and fears in them, it’s true. But that should never affect you in any way, shape or form. Once your intuition goes off, leave. For them deep hurt, insecurities and traumas result in playing games. And by deep I mean DEEP. This is not about what women are told all the time. Communicate and let him open up to you lol. No. Its so deep, it’s ingrained in them, that’s who they are, what you see is what you get. They have decided to never acknowledge anything. Imagine living… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:51 AM |
| 2 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.Preach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:33 PM |
| 27 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.I don’t doubt this happening at all. I go to a prestigious law school. And have been working in law. 90% of male law students and lawyers are disgusting beings. The other 10% are incredibly wise and down to earth with family. 1.) There is no inbetween. 2.) The 90% have an awful, awful image of women they choose to believe in 3.) stay away from cunning law / medicine / business people, vet vet vet 4.) so obvious it happened by the language he is using, so over the top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why you have to be extremely careful about the company you keepThat is true. Thank you for your message. It’s wise to face ones own traumas. With pain we move forward and evolve. They don’t. They will always keep on playing their games. They don’t know any other way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:06 PM |
| 8 | I think don’t think there are many HVM out there (it’s a numbers game)Very very true. Also, college educated people really are = more educated. It does make a difference. It automatically puts you into a different category whether you want it to or not. There are wave lengths that just don’t mix. Neither good/better or bad, it really just is reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 132 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedHonestly don’t think it’s a 100% brigade. I think pick me culture is alive, real and not only breathing but SEETHING. They show the same aggressiveness like their male counterparts. All we can do is be compassionate but protect our environment too. Sometimes people just don’t want to listen. I hope the women who are having to digest such a terrible inhumane act can see through pick mes and scrotes not wanting well for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 14 | Why you have to be extremely careful about the company you keepSame here! I went through big trauma in my first year of law school. I didn’t hide my misery, I told people I wasn’t feeling well and that it wasn’t about them when they came up to me to ask “why I had been so off”. You’d think when someone is clearly not feeling well you’d be left alone or handled with more empathy. What I got out of that was so much bullshit and I attracted “friends” who’d twist the narrative and make it my reality. People pick up on fear and weakness. So they went all the way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.Me too! It not only traumatized me but I couldn’t identify what was so traumatizing. I’d repeat the same mistakes with men over and over again until I learned the hard way. Yes, let children be children, but you’ve got to give them some opportunity to understand that not everyone is nice. I entered society so innocent and pure. A lot of unneccessary hurt trying to understand and fix people. I was a sheep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:59 AM |
| 19 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.This fits to a post I made some days ago. I agree, keep away from experienced OLDers, “players”, if you can’t formulate healthy boundaries for yourself yet. There are “games” not made for you and you need to realize that as soon as possible. They smell every weakness even when you think you’re going through life with a poker face. You’re probably not. Wish us women understood this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 04:40 PM |
| 30 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.So true. They’re always testing the waters with a woman. And women believe their testing to be them being picked and therefore more special than the other. If only we were taught that women in general are attractive to men. And that is why they have to cope and not us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 11:08 AM |
| 13 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.It’s very provocative I agree. But giving it a “nicer” word that turned around means the same can’t make anyone think. Just gets you to agree, digest and forget | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 10:02 AM |
| 26 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.Very true. I wish more could see the true nature of what men are and what this world is. We need more provocative voices to get people to use their minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:55 AM |
| 17 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.I think this is meant to be applied on what is happening now and not what women have had to go through. It’s specifically about pickme culture. I think we need to be given tough love as the ultimate intention behind this is someone who is trying to get you to think. And not believe what you’re told about the world and men. There is truth in what she is saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | A Word on Shallon LesterI’ve been wondering about the awards. Makes sense now. How is a child of this caliber going to react to the bluntness of the real world. Big ouch and a failure of parents. And the wishy washy acceptance!! shame free!!! pickme!! social media world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 5 | A Word on Shallon LesterYou brought it to the point. We are raising a generation of easily manipulatable people. Of course they’re going to throw a fit every time there is a questionable tweet. These claims have no grounds, in law we say “unworkable and unreasonable”. If I had children, they’d probably throw these types of big words and phrases at each others heads. One can critizise CONSTRUCTIVELY. Even then why? She’s a gossiping youtuber. Who gives a crap? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:11 PM |
| 6 | A Word on Shallon LesterThis shit storm against her is by children. They still believe in this idealized everybody has their positives and negatives world view. Which is good for their age. But as we grow we understand there are many things outside of our control and some people really just are bad and manipulatitive. Basta. She makes accurate points about celebrities that everybody is free to believe in OR not. Simple. I read the tweets and videos and had a laugh. If anyone is offended by her tweets, you should see wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 4 | A Word on Shallon LesterI find the claims against her totally overblown. If Shallon was sued... the case would be dismissed as quickly. On what grounds are these claims being made? The tweets are harmless. It’s not like there is video and picture evidence of her molesting Justin Bieber and co. “Pedophile”, as a word, means “person fond of kids”. In order to fulfill any civil/criminal sexual assault act you need to fulfill more criteria than your interpretation of what hypothetical “prospective” sexual abuse is. If anyo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Women want quality; (some) men want quantityI’m responding to OP and you! I don’t mean this in any offensive way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Women want quality; (some) men want quantityIt’s never about beauty. LVM see a pump and dump in all women. Beauty makes them more determined to “conquer” you. After that you’re dust. And superstars like cherry, beyoncé etc are very naive pickmes who believe in struggle love. I wouldnt mention them in any comparison | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Women want quality; (some) men want quantityTheir men are LVM. They’ve shown that from the beginning on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Women want quality; (some) men want quantityYes there is, drop them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Women want quality; (some) men want quantityI don’t really agree with this. Women are socialized to want quality, men are socialized to want quantity. In essence we are all human. Therefore we all have the same want to be seen, heard and touched by another. Now it’s up to you what you want that to look like. When they sleep around much, both genders meant, something is off. There is no one reason for it. To each their on. But there is something off. If you’re looking for someone who is not brainwashed himself and mature enough for a deep … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Women before us have called this. It has happened so many times in history. Do not play into mens games. Some people were born to be brave, some people were born to be idiotic.https://libcom.org/files/Caliban%20and%20the%20Witch.pdf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 04:50 PM |
| 5 | “If I can’t control a woman’s body, then I want that body to die.” 100% Genuine... Yikes 👀Love has turned into resentment. Current world of dating in a nutshell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Saw this on FB today...I won’t be that woman again 🤦♀️It hurt me too, you’re not alone. Love to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. People who undermine you have a motive. Especially men. The most obvious motive out of them all.Def was! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:43 PM |
| 28 | Why Amazing Women get Rejected by Men Who Can’t Match ThemLVM THROUGH AND THROUGH. Never change, “refine” yourself for these cowards. They will always find something to resent about you and justify to themselves as “she must be the __ one, not me”. When you spend a lifetime refining yourself all you will attract is LVM. It will hurt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Guy is struggling to crush on girls, gets the advice to go for “higher quality girls”Modern day life brought to a point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. People who undermine you have a motive. Especially men. The most obvious motive out of them all.I’m seeing this quote as just an abstract metaphor. To give me more meaning to my life. I’m not reading too much into the sperm / egg race. If anyone wants to write a poem and change it up to modern knowledge and research, take the chance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:58 AM |
| 43 | Saw this on FB today...I won’t be that woman again 🤦♀️Do you know why? I had to go within myself and realize I was doing this to people too. I wasn’t mean or shamed anyone but I’d feel .. almost disgusted? It was because I hated whatever character trait I was seeing. I’d tell myself it was SO WEAK and so ICK. I would never let myself feel that, why is she? Why can’t she be as “strong” as me? All the while I was a lying fuck to myself not realizing I was the one being weak and condescending. Like seeing someone go into panic or crying would make me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | “I think he is intimidated by me”I 100% agree with this. Your first sentence is enlightening. It’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:57 AM |
| 9 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.So right. I’m afraid they are so deep in illusion, it’d take a natural catastrophe or war to humble them. Men of that type not only hide but never acknowledge the pain they are living with. Just imagine never dealing with an unpleasant thought or feeling. What a wreck I would be. And that is them. No way out of that either. Their misery and fears run so deep they’d rather light themselves on fire than acknowledge them. Add in how men are terrible beings, negging each other on to bullshit. Groupt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. People who undermine you have a motive. Especially men. The most obvious motive out of them all.Fair point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:23 AM |
| 3 | What to look out for in men and women alike. Have high standards and don’t look back.Likewise, thank you. Love to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | “He’s just not into you”Thank you for feedback, appreciate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 17 | Guy is struggling to crush on girls, gets the advice to go for “higher quality girls”I feel like some are not getting this exact message. Like it’s about playing “hard to get” for LVM........ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:22 PM |
| 27 | “He’s just not into you”This is what I’ve picked up on when dating, it helped me a lot too. I go into it with the same mentality now. I sniff your cards. Character to me is the person behind the cards. I can only understand and analyze character when I see consistent moves. Any inconsisteny means there is no character behind those cards. It’s just cards. He is being the sum of his cards. Trying to figure out what the smartest move is. Only players who want to win think of what the smartest move is.. therefore he must h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 01:55 PM |
| 9 | Social media imageI’m making this my own law right now. It’s indeed true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 01:14 PM |
| 26 | “He’s just not into you”SPOT ON. I hate how popular these types of “he’s just not into you” posts get on here. “Someone will see you for who you are” etc well no shit sherlock. It ain’t going to be him though. Ever. With anyone. That’s how he DECIDES to see his world. It’s literally his perspective. Why would you ever want such a delusional being in your life?? Like see it for what it is We all sometimes just don’t like someone. For whatever reason. You as a woman could also be lying to yourself when rejecting someone … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 12:49 PM |
| 15 | The first time I saw the Narc Prayer - I was blown awayI see it every day. I think where research is lacking is statitics about narc-related coping mechanisms. Many have them by default, whether taught or ego-related. These inherently narcissistic coping mechanisms are everywhere. To me it’s a disease no one is acknowledging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 12:22 PM |
| 47 | “He’s just not into you”On the dot. I am tired of this “he’s just not into you” narrative. It romaticizes their ego-oriented decision making. You can also just not be into someone. With whatever reason you want to twist the narrative to yourself. It’s universal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”This sub has been so much fun for me to share my thoughts to. And actually have people agree. I love gaining new perspectives on this sub and I hope I can do that for many women myself. Knowledge is power | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:09 AM |
| 5 | I wish my parents had given me a short talk about sex and what kind of guy I should dateYes unless she meant the ship has sailed as in she doesn’t have the want to date anymore? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:21 AM |
| 41 | The first time I saw the Narc Prayer - I was blown awayWhen I got in contact with my first narcs I was devastated. I could not figure them out and I played right into their games because I actually took them seriously.... Narcs are children. They throw tantrums. They don’t know what they want. They want attention. They want one big shiny thing but get bored with it within a second. They have so many feelings they can’t identify so they let them out on you. They can’t fight the world on their own. They are children. Now when I have to talk to one and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:10 AM |
| 12 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Yeah for sure it’s culturally induced as well. There is no way back from this mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:00 AM |
| 36 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.I can’t for the life of me figure it out either.. I believe narcs are taking over the world right now. Just narcs. They’re thriving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:52 PM |
| 5 | I'm 18, pretty, horrifically naive and a little scared. Advice?I agree strongly. It takes a strong mind at 18 not to fall for abuse and manipulation. I don’t think it’s possible not to be gaslit at that age. Definitely no OLD. Make friends at uni and when you date, date within your age bracket. But then also just don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 22 | Doctors and LawyersBecause they are narcs. Big narcissts. You’re just a prize and that not for very long. They will play games with you and the people in their lives. Horrible to live with. They are children who need to be disciplined once you figure out how narcs think. Just stay away from high status folks if you’re looking to stay sane. If you’re looking for $$ and mental health issues go for doctors and lawyers. Of course there are exceptions but they’re not going to be on OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 12 | Sharing this for the queens who need to read this as much as I do. 💛This. And then also if they are not necessarily LVM but just OK and struggling with something, it’s still not your place to bend over backwards for them. They will see you as easy, naive, gulible. And why would you want to be with someone incapable of dealing with their shit anyways? Stop romanticizing these waste of beings. These types of men don’t know what they want. They don’t care. They just want whats between your legs. Thats the truth. This post makes it seem like there is some magical bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreWhilst it’s a very common excuse, it can also just be the truth for some people. But it should never matter to us whether or not it’s an excuse. Who cares? Just remove yourself knowing what you know. These types of situations always lead to chaos. Because you give away your power to someone who can’t handle it. Keep your power and move on. It is bitter sweet and there is beauty in that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Pussy is Power. The only thing standing between you, a high value woman, and an inbox full of blue check marks begging to pay your bills is the low value man in your life convincing you that you aren't worth it.Thank you for your comment love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 06:49 AM |
| 2 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”Not propspectively but retrospectively you can’t know. I am sure there are HVM who have always been HVM. I am sure there are HVM who have had some background in hurting and degrading women before “maturing”. Or those who have had forever girlfriends.. just the act of stringing someone along for YEARS and not giving a damn.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreIt really doesn’t matter. I think to see him as not inherently bad will make you see non-pathological humans as what they are. Human. And the sooner you confront reality, like you said it’s a two-way street, the better. Love to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”Deleted my point. That is very accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:30 PM |
| 5 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreNo, not at all. I’ve come around to enjoy it though and I’ve been writing for myself. Your feedback is very encouraging thank you - looks like I’m not wasting my time in quarantine.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:22 PM |
| 4 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”But I am saying that, no? It’s their projection onto us and it’s our duty to understand how many think in order to protect ourselves. Until you get to strategy thinking you have one HELL of a way. Strategy happens for fully leveled up women. We are talking about maybe 10% of women who take no shit. And usually 5% of them are outcasts so other women can’t bond with them. These are my pseudo percentages though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:18 PM |
| 3 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”Very true. They always test you for this too. You really can’t be around LVMs or extreme low value people in general. They will never stop undermining and testing. It’s their coping mechanism and it runs on automatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:14 PM |
| 10 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreYou lady are a goddess. It is the truth. That’s what I meant by if I hadn’t decided not to play in he would have without a doubt used me. Regardless, I hope my perspective is getting across. He is not a bad person. He is just a person. You need to protect yourself from such a person who has things to deal with. No romance, no ideals, no expectations. It just is what it is. Just have it be a moment. You’re living life for you. Not anyone else. If you’re feeling, let it out. If you’re eccentric, b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:12 PM |
| 9 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”No no no I do not mean this is the womans fault and she should orient herself around it. To the contrary: to recognise that this is the dichotomy many men think in and thus just stay away from these types of men! Its important to understand how LVM think to not engage with them!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:09 PM |
| 8 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”Very true if you let them have that kind of power over you like OP said. Its very unfortunate how many women this knowledge is denied to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:56 PM |
| 11 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”Its not neccessarily advice. It just is. They can’t do middle ground like us. That’s why they say if he’s not into you, he just isnt. You’re a woman he’d only fuck. This is to protect women. And not to shame a woman. Not to fit in or adapt. But to NOT fit in, stand above and understand how simple minded LVM are. You are never going to reach his whatever reasons you are a woman he’d only fuck. And you’re not supposed to. Why would you bend over like that for actual low IQ dirt? This is definitely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreThank you for kind feedback, love to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:13 PM |
| 23 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”I mean: porn. Look at porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:32 PM |
| 18 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”This post is gold. It’s truly insane. Some men I know whom I deem to be, LVM who are aware they are LVM and choose to stay LVM, tell me this: there is no point in a males life and we know it. They need the woman to feel like there is a point. But they can’t recognize the need or don’t want to admit to themselves they are not “whole”. And they are never going to change that. Ever. One has to stay away from such deeply hurt people who are set on destroying and not growing. This type is evil and do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:28 PM |
| 6 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”I mean you’re right.. I am discrediting him. But all he is known for is literally not based on any empirical or little empirical data.. he was a storyteller first and foremost. I was shook when I read about his reputation. Nobody in the scientific community took him seriously even in his time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:19 PM |
| 12 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”Freud was a joke in the high IQ knowledge community, he was discredited fast. I wouldn’t be surprised if he just projected his own shortcomings onto the world. Count in how he made people act for his psychoanalysis stuff LVM ego driven and of low IQ himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:37 PM |
| 13 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”If this is not low IQ in action, I don’t know what is..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:23 PM |
| 10 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreYou totally nailed it. When you concentrate on humans as just humans you immediately sort out all the faksters. Because they can’t for the life of them connect to someone. It’s just an ugly facade. I get so turned off by people with masks. They are the most boring, useless, selfish, vapid beings ever. And you can’t change them at all. It’s wasted energy and why would you waste it on someone so cunning anyway? They choose to be arseholes. They drop away quickly as they need something to feed of o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:21 PM |
| 20 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”There is no one man behind this. I’ve seen this in many men, even in “HVM” with families. They just know better than to treat a woman like trash because of their own lack of reasoning. Probably intelligence. Probably why they are very protective of their daughters too, they just know males too well, they are one themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:30 AM |
| 31 | “Women you marry, women you fuck”They are indeed the weak who have manipulated us into thinking we are. We are conditioned to believe we are the weaker sex. We buy into this thinking pattern.. I have stopped caring myself. But most women do care. It’s dictating our society. And that is why FDS even exists😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:11 AM |
| 10 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreHaha😃no worries, this made me laugh! I don’t feel bad about him. I felt bad that he was feeling bad. Sort of when you have a friend you just know is going through a tough time. But he is not a friend. I didn’t see the point in engaging in more back and forth when I knew it was not going to lead to anything that served me. And I think we could all see the beauty in just deciding for oneself? As you said, it’s so not worth it to dilute dating into only relationship and sex. We could all just live … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:07 AM |
| 13 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreWe were in contact the entire time. We talked a lot. He’d message me every day and set up plans. If anything, I ghosted him... in a friendly manner! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:59 AM |
| 11 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreI don’t care about him not wanting me enough. To me that is emotional labor. Does he like me? Why not? Why is he not chasing me? I didn’t give any thought to it. My letter wasnt corny or sweet. It was just my truth. Thats what I mean by human connection.. sometimes its just an experience.. like meeting strangers, having a great convo and them popping up in your mind years later. Thats it. I think sometimes when we meet someone so “fitting” we delude ourselves: He is it! He is hvm! I need him!.. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:21 AM |
| 15 | Pussy is power but so is knowledgeYour reply is super helpful. The key probably is to plant a seed and not “force” the whole plant down someone’s throat. But more often than not you really do have to remove yourself when they start making you feel bad for being you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 17 | Pussy is power but so is knowledgeHow do you go against that when women have internailized it so well? They do all the work on their own.. we have normalized the trauma as being part of female identity.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 16 | Pussy is Power. The only thing standing between you, a high value woman, and an inbox full of blue check marks begging to pay your bills is the low value man in your life convincing you that you aren't worth it.This is the absolute truth and should be applied to ALL areas of life. Legitimately!! I could never figure out why I was getting more attention than say the women in my life who'd resent me for it. Friendship gone. I have always known it was never about the appearance. They think it is. I've observed it for such a long time now. The secret is: A hot, desirable woman decides she is a hot, desirable woman!! You explore yourself first and foremost. You know yourself. You radiate that so clearly bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 7 | Treat me like a humanThank you for this post, truly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 26 | Treat me like a humanSo many who are so up their arses like they are the prize and the woman has to stop being both woman+human in order for them to be able to bREATHE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 05:47 PM |
| 24 | Treat me like a humanGod why was I born onto this planet you call earth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 05:45 PM |
| 19 | Treat me like a humanThat is a strange concept to me!1!1!1!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding me?I don’t think I can grasp yet how good of a play that was. I am very in awe. There was no need to fake it to this extent either. And they say women are illogical and complicated. Lol. Thank you for your messages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding me?I’m not like that at all. I’ve said this a few times now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:57 PM |
| 5 | OLD is a nightmareI think thats when they were the dumbest and it was OK, everybody expected them to be dumb and act accordingly. At school, all the attention can be on you if you play the game right. Life doesn't work that way. Nobody cares and if you're still dumb at 20, 25, 30, 35 you're going to reap what you sow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding me?Nope you’re twisting this to fit your own narrative. I said beautiful women were initmidating when first meeting. Do you not believe its true? It is. It obviously doesn’t matter in the long run. That goes without saying... I could FEEL and SEE him being nervous. Im not projecting anything onto him then chasing him and making a fool out of myself thANK YOU. This happened exactly how I am describing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 9 | “I think he is intimidated by me”They are so used to women bending over for them. Or being “less” than them because that is how some women choose to live their lives.. not in a competition. Once they smell someone likes to use their mind and is good at what they do, they get alarmed. You immediately fall from the “crushing on you” into the “must destroy” category. It doesn’t have anything to do with women. It’s their egos. If I let my ego run its course like that of course Id feel threatened by everything everybody says and doe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 05:33 AM |
| 8 | “I think he is intimidated by me”This. I think that’s when some even project onto you.. instead of recognizing ahh this woman is making me feel like I need to hold her level (whether thats looks or a leveled up female) and that is why I am flustered.. some think: she is the one who is being so friendly and throwing herself at me! That is why I am uncomfortable! I think they gaslight themselves more often than not too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding me?I’ve opened a discussion about this if you want to cross post. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g02y5r/i_think_he_is_intimidated_by_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf You make a good point and it has to do with their fixation on looks. In the beginning, their behaviour is different with a very attractive woman. Its not a myth. Then after a few minutes, hours, days, weeks it just doesn’t matter anymore. And the next very attractive woman gets the same pu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 12 | “I think he is intimidated by me”Yes I believe this is true to some extent as well. Plays in how they view women as objects and gifts on a spectrum from 1-10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding me?I guess that is true as well. It’s funny you don’t realize you’re making excuses.... when you abhor making them.. thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding me?Thank you for this. Truly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 03:08 PM |
| 7 | This sub is right about men!Oh my god I saw that post on here too. Thats effed up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Avoiding me?Of course the world is much bigger than me. And bigger than his. That goes without saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Avoiding me?I am not chasing him.. if you read my post you’d know. I am not throwing myself at him thinking I am too pretty. Lol. That would be a lot more messy than someone asking the world, hey, could it be that he is indeed just ____? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 01:17 PM |
| -1 | Avoiding me?I am not defending him. I want accurate advice on reality and not to what someone is adding to my post. Granted I could have worded this a lot differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Avoiding me?I will hold this dear to my heart still, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding me?Some of them are insulting. It is what it is. I think I wrote this post naively. I was trying to find out if anyone experienced someone shy / intimidated who turned out to be just that. And not manipulatitive. I gained a ton of you think you’re special, he’s manipulatitive comments. I get it. But sometimes life is more than cluster bs too. Alas it’s definitely helping me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:19 PM |
| 0 | Avoiding me?I mentioned modeling to counteract that he can’t be initmidated by a woman, to say beautiful women and men can be intimidating. It’s not a myth for first impressions. I think it’s getting out of context here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:14 PM |
| -4 | Avoiding me?Nope I’m not at all in the light you’re trying to paint me in. Again, I mentioned it for the users each specifically, then edited it into the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding me?I like this, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding me?The possibility is definitely there, that is true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:06 PM |
| -1 | Avoiding me?He really wasnt like this at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Avoiding me?Thank you for commenting, you’re absolutely right. But what I am struggling with; this sub is amazing when it comes to dealing with narcissists, cluster b folks, users, abusers, manipulators and so on. I’ve met many men who fall into that category. I’ve also met many respectable men with dignity and empathy and a love for women and their families. The average healthy person will never chase anyone though, its always a balanced give-and-take. You’re still scared as a healthily bonding person. How… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:36 AM |
| 8 | Avoiding me?Thank you for your comments, they are very helpful. No its has not happened to me before. You’re right, I’ve barely entered society. I’ll take this as a nice date and a fond memory and will mourn the loss of a fantasy piece by piece in silence😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Avoiding me?Heard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:23 AM |
| -3 | Avoiding me?Because each comment is by a different user. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Avoiding me?Thank you for commenting!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:29 AM |
| -6 | Avoiding me?I have a smell for narcisstic and manipulatitve men. Its a huge turn off for me. He did not share intimate and vulnerable details and neither did i. It just felt like natural back and forth. With silences. Different topics. Superficial yet not so superficial itd get boring. We had many laughs. I mean maybe thats his schtick but I’d be really surprised someone was that good in acting. I don’t think this is one of those cases. But you’re right! Gave him a chance and he didn’t take it. I deleted hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:27 AM |
| -7 | Avoiding me?I obviously don’t think I am the only “cute girl”. How did you read that into it? I mean yeah maybe it’s that and hes this grandiose actor. I’ve had many shitty men in my life and he seemed to be the opposite without even trying. Thats what i liked and barely see in this world. Its hard to fake authenticity. You just know. But that obviously doesnt mean anything. Im not chasing him and I don’t believe I am special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:19 AM |
| -20 | Avoiding me?I have a smell for this. I’m just wondering why I could not smell anything with him. Either he is a great actor or he really is fearful. Regardless, being so distant and harsh is a turn off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:14 AM |
| -17 | Avoiding me?Message heard. I model part time and have had people intidimated by me. It’s pretty common in my life, maybe I should have mentioned it. I don’t even mean it in a romcom way. Sometimes you’re just in awe with someone and it drains you? Not my problem but this post was for the women who were with a “HVM” who had something similiar happen? I am obviously not going to chase him good lord no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Avoiding me?Maybe I phrased this post like the typical im-being-ignored post. I am not going to chase him! I am okay if this doesn’t work out. He told me a lot about him. And I didn’t at all. We had a great back and forth. It came very natural. No domineering or I’m-listening-so-that-I-can-gather-weapons-against-you which would usually be the case. Just so odd to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:02 AM |
| -11 | Avoiding me?I don’t believe it’s entirely a myth. There are women men are severly intimidated by, I’ve seen it with friends and family. I model part time. Women get intimidated too. It’s pretty common. You are definitely right about chasing. I am not chasing. I have removed myself from any conversation. I will not bend over for him even when I “like” him. I just want to make sense of it for myself. It doesn’t add up at all. Because of the industry I work in, I know how narcissts move and breathe. He is not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Another clueless virgin reduxI am 21F and feel similar. I am very sexual but haven't gotten active with anyone. Similar reasons. I have met guys who were really shitty about it. Would undermine and insult me (those backhanded compliments) to "extract the truth". I've met up with guys who'd tell me "even the shyest girls would turn into whores for the right man", as in powerful with money. What they do is put their insecurities and distorted experiences on us. Huge red flag. They are full of issues and make horrible partners… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:28 AM |
| 9 | I think all men are the same, tbhThe shittiness manifests in different ways for both genders. Women are not hardwired to be aggressive. Doesn’t mean they are “generally” selfless. The ego is universal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:09 AM |
| 1 | After watching Love is Blind... I have a few thoughts...To me it seems like he’s acting... he seems very manipulative. At his age it’s just not normal to cry after talking to a blind date about basic stuff. And she knew it wasn’t normal. She’s still unsure about him. He’s a psycho. I can’t believe so many are falling for his act. She isnt even falling for it fully. But then again I might just be wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | After watching Love is Blind... I have a few thoughts...How am I the only one who would never trust Cameron... something is off about him and the fact that Lauren seemed to be wishy washy up until the wedding is her inuition telling her something’s off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | How he responds to praise is just as important as how he responds to "no."Wow, you really do have to turn everything around with these people.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with central european men?Yeah Ive made the same experiences with German and Austrian men. Austrian men are described as shy and orderly. They’re not. They’re very manipulative and that reputation just helps them out. You’ll be the crazy girl if you notice. And Germans are very complicated. I’ve never had one German guy without massive red flags and a I’ve got 10 other girls following me around, what do you have to offer personality. So backwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | I cannot stress this enough, young ladiesThank you so much for replying! Such good info! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.This sub is not what about guys like. Fuck a guy and his likes. I like a good guy. that's what should count | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:22 PM |
| 16 | I cannot stress this enough, young ladiesCan you share a little about what she has taught you? Im having difficulties working in a male-dominated industry, it’s so dog-eat-dog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:44 PM |
| 11 | New relationship goals! 😁💛💛Pretty sure a romantic person is being insinuated here. Unless you have sex with your friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Talking on the phone with a man for hours100% agree with this. Also it’s natural not to care about strangers from a certain age on as you learn to water the relationships you already have in your life. So wanting to pull a teenage 5 hour talk on the phone is just so unrealistic for the average adult. Nobody cares? More action, less talk? And if you care 1.) there must be something you’re running away from 2.) or you’re easy prey/codependent.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Was I a HVW?Oh maybe because you were taking away all the attention from her as the gf. Could be. But honestly all of this was so not worth it for such a trash guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 45 | Very few good men to go around rather be single but feel lonely/cravingThis is the biggest lie women are fed. Beautiful women are the loneliest. Women hate you. Men want to fuck you. Look at the life of an average model and you’ll want to run the other way. Unless they’re having fun playing the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:19 PM |
| -7 | Was I a HVW?Wait you didn’t want him around his sister? Whilst its very clear he was just stringing you along, I don’t think being jealous of a family member is healthy for you. If they were actually fucking you should know best and leave. Rich people folk have had incest going on for ages I wouldnt be surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 7 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedThis guy said to me on the phone “Ask me questions and I will have answers ready for you the next time” Every single person in his family was a character with a big story outline.. then when it was ready for my turn he’d let me talk once and take what I said and pretend it was his idea during the next phone call.. even though it was only over the phone I could feel him being very calculated. Whenever I was talking he’d have his brother or dad or friend or whatnot interrupt too, like sorry had to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 23 | Common LVM online dating phrases, translatedI’d cut my finger and sign this with my blood if I had to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Advice for any immigrants when dating a localYes I am. When a man treats you like you're not important, you are not. Pickme belonging men won't even try like OPs boyfriend. You can figure it out by the way he talks to you. It's pretty normal to put on your mans personality here so he will expect it from you too. They'll never put up dating plans after the first date, suddenly you have to push him to meet etc. Don't get emotionally invested and you're fine. You'll literally be trash to him anyway. And they don't change. They will marry the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:20 AM |
| 12 | Advice for any immigrants when dating a localI think you’re struggling with the fact that not only the men are questionable but also the entire German dating culture. German culture is filled with pickmes who allow this behavior and run after the guys. I barely see any guy in Germany having to do the work. It’s almost always the woman chasing and calming his ego. And when you’re not, they just drop you. I have never seen so many pickmes as here :/ There’s no cultural significance made on friends and family but very much so on finding a par… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 31 | I think my mum is a FDS Queen before FDS existed haha.A legend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 19 | Do not take him to your favorite restuarant/dessert place/park..etcI think the big difference when it comes to those two types of mirroring is the very obvious imitation to get information out of you.. once you realize how many people use this tactic, you will be able to tell from harmless mirroring to calculated mirroring. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENNot at all! It’s not meant in a rude way either. It’s just what it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 13 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENDoing that is nothing special. That is what every woman naturally does. And that is why this sub is here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.Thank you, I feel the same. I’ve gotten better but I always feel like I need to reaffirm I’m not alone in this and that other people go through this too. I surpressed my gut instincts for such a long time, “you’re just being crazy” “everybody is getting along, why cant you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:37 AM |
| 2 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.Curse and blessing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.Where is the difference between seeing red flags everywhere and actually seeing red flags? If you get what I mean? I am always scared I am just projecting my feelings onto situations that another “normal” person would not interpret as I would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 5 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.I once read about the hunter gatherer mindset and how individuals had to develop intelligence to outsmart the big wild groups. Makes me wonder if some of us were born as natural preys. With time and awareness of being aware it becomes manageable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:22 AM |
| 2 | If your gut is telling you something might be off with him, something is off.What would you recommend starting with when you feel like you’ve become a little jaded? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | When HVM senses you won’t give out and suddenly morphs into a “fuck yea” “dope” and insulting LVMNo clue, out of nowhere. Never even met the guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeHmph good one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 4 | When HVM senses you won’t give out and suddenly morphs into a “fuck yea” “dope” and insulting LVMI obviously blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeI can sense what you are trying to say here. This is not about outgrowing. Just didn’t fit the doormat role I was assigned to anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:09 AM |
| 8 | I just realised that best looking guy I was ever with never negged me...It makes total sense! I can see where you’re coming from! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 18 | I just realised that best looking guy I was ever with never negged me...I’d be careful with linking negging to the appearance of a guy. You’re not so wrong. But good looking guys have a different set of manipulation skills, not none. Maybe you weren’t aware or you did have a HVM by your side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 3 | When HVM senses you won’t give out and suddenly morphs into a “fuck yea” “dope” and insulting LVMYeah but did you read the insult as well? As rough as that may be? And my reply? I hope the irony is shining through. What a waste of a guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:20 PM |
| 8 | When HVM senses you won’t give out and suddenly morphs into a “fuck yea” “dope” and insulting LVMObviously blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifePreach sister!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeI feel this. I feel like I cheapened myself for so many years pursuing and “leading” with extrovert qualities. Because that’s what every single “friend” that I chased for would make me feel like. Cheap. Always the second option. Everybody was always much better than me. And then when I had something good going on, they’d not be happy about it. I think chasing people is only good if you’re looking for superficial connections and can be emotionally detached too. What’s really bothering me right no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeSuch a tricky one! So many people hide from their feelings and will ALWAYS project it onto you. And make you feel crazy and like you’re the bad guy. They’d rather do that than have to confront themselves. The more disconnected you are from yourself, the more bitter you get about other peoples boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeI told my best friend how I felt about her seeing me as less as her other friends. She’d make me feel bad and dumb but then take what I was saying / doing and say / do it herself. She couldn’t understand where I was coming from, said I was accusing her for no reason, that I was being a bitch but then also questioning why I’d even care....... we ended on her “needing time until she could talk to me again”. Yeah right. This time I didn’t chase after her like I used to. Never heard from her again. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeThe key to this life is: Be your own person. Everything else will follow. Once you know who you are, you will have strength and insight. There is barely anyone out there who lives by this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:15 PM |
| 5 | When LVM drag women down & pickmeisha’s enable them....they drag all of society down with it: nothing improves for us or these kids. We must keep our standards high & weed out these fools...the future of society depends on it & we owe it to our forgotten sisters who didn’t get that chance.Tell this to the average dating woman and they will look at you like you’re mental. I hate how we allow men to “be men” ++ the whole “that is just what they do” shebang. It’s a tragedy not many recognize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?Just spilled my tea laughing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Men get a 'free pass' of being abusive and not putting in effort due to an ex they hadYou’re right. But there’s also this “at least I am not alone, at least I am not like her, at least..” rush they get out of it. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t stay with them so long | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Whenever I come across a Pickmeisha in denial, I just think of this.100% true, the flip side to this is the huge waste of time and energy. And for anyone who believes in karma, it will get you back. Glad to see you doing such amazing things, you truly rock | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:16 PM |
| 13 | Columnist (MA in sexual studies) answers this question by stating lack of sexual equity “isn’t men’s fault” & cites male biological limits as a reason to leave your female partner unsatisfied as though all men are incapable of any action post-orgasmWhat did I just read I don't understand what feminism has turned into. Sleeping freely is great but then actually wanting to be satisfied is not???? Seems like access to women is being made easier and that's it. So ironic for such a woke movement. What a waste | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 14 | Man negging the woman for two slices of bread.I was drinking a cappuccino from a to go cup, sitting outside of a café. This 45 year old man stopped and said, "You know you could have just asked for a cappuccino in a regular cup" Me: *looks weirded out* Him: "You know we serve outside too, right? Why drink in a to go cup when we serve outside?" Me: "Because I'm leaving in a few" Him: *looks at me like I'm the weirdest person alive* Me: "Well thanks" *turns to her phone* Him: *keeps on standing at the door, looking at me drinking my cappuccin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Whenever I come across a Pickmeisha in denial, I just think of this.Uff so bitter! So so bitter.. Maybe you could use this to your advantage too. You could decide to keep your naivety as a way for you to have fun. But never to actually believe in it. Making that difference is very hard. The best of us get tricked. I think with time and experience this will come naturally. Enjoy the dating game as what it is: a game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 36 | Scrotation ObservationI've been trying out cancelling the first date a few days in advance to see how they react. I let them reschedule for a date within the next 4-5 days. I figure if someone on any dating app finds me that interesting, they'd not want to lose touch so fast. At least I wouldn't. But then suddenly they can only do nighttime. Or you're so much work already.. and they drop their niceness. Some get passive aggressive. Some stay the same and turn out to be shit bags nonetheless. I do this to observe and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 24 | You’re not boring, so why would you date boring LVM? 🤷🏽♀️No, you're not at all. It's like food. Shouldn't be a hobby for many either. When we're bored, we obsess. So it's a sign someone's obsessing. Anything in excess is not sustainable nor healty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 30 | Men get a 'free pass' of being abusive and not putting in effort due to an ex they hadIt feels good to be a pick me up until you're 60 and you realize you were just a pawn in someones big chess game. If all women were as tight as men are, we'd see through so much bullshit together. Competition is in no ones favor, it's a lie. I can't believe we're taught to hate each other in the name of a mans gaze...... they're attracted to every woman, hole, anything resembling a woman or a hole.. even couch cushions.. their attention will always be on all of us. If only pick me behavior would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 3 | This was on a beauty sub of all places 🙄 the op was asking how to get over a breakupso dangerous to society to "know", always has been and always will be xoxo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 13 | I realized that giving a man ANY emotional support is infinitely more valuable than the money he spends on youOh my god. This "HVM" Italian guy that I met through OLD fits this so well. I saw right through his tactics. I decided to lead him on and see what was going to happen. The minute he realized I was playing as much as he was he told every single female friend (that I had also met) about me and my audacity. This so classy!11!1! "HVM", I shit you not, 28 and grown, so surface nice and "empathetic", posted the following phrase onto his instagram story with his best female friend tagged: "I guess I kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 13 | I realized that giving a man ANY emotional support is infinitely more valuable than the money he spends on youSo tricky.. I agree masks always slip.. even in the beginning. I had a phone conversation with this "HVM" I had met and literally all the I'm-trash-manipulation-tactics were there. Bombarding me with his life, his friends, his personal beliefs and philosophy. Asking one question but then going back to himself. When I said one thing, he'd take it and make it into his own thought and add to it. You know, to seem like he is one of your tribe and oh so familiar. Then came the gaslighting, no you did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 9 | This was on a beauty sub of all places 🙄 the op was asking how to get over a breakupI love how your comment literally represents what this sub is about.... To be capable of reacting with insight and own assessment.. to be able to listen to your gut and choose your own right and wrong... I don't see any FDSlers spamming, insulting, enraging and gaslighting critics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:11 PM |
| 81 | I realized that giving a man ANY emotional support is infinitely more valuable than the money he spends on youThis is so true... I can't take men seriously who offer emotional support from the get go. It is 99.9% manipulation. Sort of finding weapons to use against you. If you're very picky with men, you have to be extra cautious. Sounds contradicting but the malignant types play at the top. They feel no empathy yet hide it so well it's fucked up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Is there a sub similar to this one for friendships with other HVWNo, but this ones good too u/mycatpukesglitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Is there a sub similar to this one for friendships with other HVWSadly I don't :/ It wasn't very known and I can't find it. I will get back to you as soon as I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Is there a sub similar to this one for friendships with other HVWIt comes out as resentment for me too. I think we hold ourselves to high standards and expect that from everyone else too (whether we're aware of this or not). Truth is most people don't have any standards. If it serves them or makes them feel better, they will trample on you. Also, so many never sit down and actually think about what they want from life. Especially women. We are not taught to be reflective. Then when a woman comes along who seems to have it together it creates all sorts of conf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:24 AM |
| 14 | Is there a sub similar to this one for friendships with other HVWPlease! Someone make a sub for HVW wanting to find other HVW!! I am in the exact same situation. I have never in my life seen other people as competition. Not because I am better. But because I was never taught to see people like that. I was taught to concentrate on myself and improve every day. When I see other women growing and achieving, I get happy for them. I admire strength. I once read a book about 5 coping mechanisms for jealousy. Maybe this is mine and I never realized that I was feelin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:31 PM |
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