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Yes, I imagine so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:42 PM
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Same, it only becomes a problem when the girl escalates it into one and then it's generally easier to just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:23 PM
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What you going to do when a girl gropes you in a pub? Slap her? Call her out? Make a scene? Do you even care she did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:08 PM
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Plus we tend to be really starved for attention anyway so we don't mind it unless it's really toxic behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:19 AM
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You never seen girls start to feel up the tits of the girl with the serving tray full of drinks once they're a bit sloshed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:16 AM
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You've never encountered it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:15 AM
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I never come. My gf hates that I don't, but we were at a brothel together recently and the girls there were intrigued and thought she'd won the lottery. Makes sex a bit different, which is part of what my gf doesn't like about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:10 PM
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And my female friend made fun of me for getting a van as my first vehicle and said I'd never get girls with it. It's good for work as well as play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:12 PM
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Back of my van. Just let me clear the gardening equipment out first and put down some sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:23 PM
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When she's up for everything and browses pornhub looking for inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:41 AM
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As far as we can tell, yes. We're the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:09 PM
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The industrial revolution lifted us out of the trap of primitive agriculture and was a painful but necessary step in becoming a technological civilisation that will reach out across the cosmos and bring life to inanimate rock and gas in a grand cosmic awakening as we ascend the Kardishev scale. TikTok is our downfall into degeneracy and will eventually give birth to Slaanesh and doom us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:14 AM
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Social media is where we sinned as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:05 PM
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IDK, you talk like I should be upset about it or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:37 AM
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Dude, I would wake up and she would still be wanking her bean next to me in a pool of sweat to lesbian porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:23 AM
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You wish. Many times I woke up the next morning and she was lying in a pool of sweat still going at it trying for that one last cum before she got up for work that had been eluding her for hours. The main limiting factor was that her bits would get raw and sore to touch. What can I say, I turned her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:49 PM
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Drugs were involved, they made her horny and got rid of her refractory period. It was awesome, but it ended up taking her over an hour to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:14 AM
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I'm glad I could clear that up for you; yeah, it's not about masturbation bad, it's entirely about a social obligation to take care of his brother's widow. No social security back in those days, so this is how they did it and why they attached a lot of importance to doing it. Enough importance to write a story about it where a guy gets struck down by God for not doing it. So much of what's in the Bible requires knowledge of ancient cultures and customs to understand properly. This is also why in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:50 AM
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As soon as the rest of them were gone, Paul was like 'aight, here's my thoughts on why women are dirty and gays are bad and shit like that', and his views caught on because of course they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:49 PM
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Happened to my last gf, she used a mains-powered Hitachi for hours and hours at a time and ended up with neuropathy from damaging the nerve endings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:38 PM
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The sin of Onan wasn't spilling his seed, it was not knocking up his brother's wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:35 PM
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Are you surprised? Some women love to objectify the shit out of other women, and she liked seeing the Asian girls gets used and pounded and humiliated. She watched a good amount of lesbian porn too, and liked how women were rougher with and more degrading towards other women than the guys were. It's just something that she got off on, it's not even unusual, I've known other girls with similar preferences/fantasies/kinks. She got off on a lot of things, and seeing Asian girls get used like toys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:01 PM
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My last gf preferred porn with Asian women because they were easier to objectify.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:25 PM
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It's called being a ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:49 PM
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But would marry someone who did appeal to their fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:48 PM
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I'm not obsessively into them, but I notice them the way I notice boobs, some people have good boobs or bad boobs, good feet or bad feet. Good boobs turn me on, good feet turn me on, good pussy turns me on. It's just one thing out of many that I like, and there's no deep and weirdly Freudian psychological reason for it, it's just neurology, like an extra switch installed in a house, one of many switches, there's just an extra one that does this. Growing a brain is an imprecise science, getting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:34 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if people ever talked to a woman. Like really talked. Or just looked at Deviantart, Tumblr before they removed the porn or read anything on Literotica or even just browsed the categories and read the titles of the smut that horny women have been typing with one hand. I don't even know what Waffle transformation from male to female means, and based on the other equine-related titles from author AmethystMare, I have my suspicions that Lads on the stable yard find new pleasures..…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:46 PM
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Or found a woman with whom there was a mutual meeting of fetishes. Damn, best relationship I ever had, there was a lot wrong with it but the sex held things together for 3 years because it was so good for both of us. I didn't even go into it planning on having a relationship, you just fuck someone enough and at some point you're a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:33 PM
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being obssesed with feet looks weird and cringe Nobody wants to be the short balding overweight obsessive compulsive guy with impulse control problems desperately slobbering on a woman's foot, but slipping her toes into your mouth while fucking her like a mentally stable adult tends to go down quite well. It's like saying it's cringe to be into boobs because you saw a weird Japanese porn where the models with GG tits were squirting milk over an overexcited nerdy guy in glasses while he sat in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:17 PM
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Not at all, but have you ever gone on Deviantart or Tumblr before they banned the porn? Lots of women are kinky as fuck and have the dirtiest fantasies. And there's plenty of white bread, dead bedroom guys out there; some people are kinky, some aren't, it's not a gendered thing. It becomes a gendered thing when women deny it and say it's only men who are dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:09 PM
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It is though, and you'd be devastated if guys didn't get turned on by your tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:02 PM
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I'm just gonna go with saying 'mommy issues' when a guy does it and 'daddy issues' when a girl wants to dominated by a big tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:56 PM
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It's almost all couples at every fetish/kink meetup ever. Whole marriages are built on solid foundations of two people with compatible fetishes getting their rocks off with each other. Good marriages, not some r/deadbedrooms shit where they mutually loathe each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:54 PM
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He wants to be dominated by them, preferably in a dark alley against a dumpster, is it a fetish now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:40 PM
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Be as kinky as you want to be, I won't stop you or judge you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:38 PM
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What about height? My mate Gerry is into big amazon girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:29 PM
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Nice feet correlate with good health, therefore it's not a fetish when a guy is interested in a woman's feet, he's just evaluating her because he wants a reproductively fit woman. /s All these things that turn people on, do so by tickling the part of the brain that's supposed to distinguish reproductively fit partners from unfit ones. Of course, being supposed to do something and actually doing it are entirely separate things. It's not even so much supposed to do it, as it just happens to do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:20 PM
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It's what you're into, isn't it? You don't need to wear latex while doing it for it to be a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:12 PM
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Back in my day, a fetish was a supposedly divine or magical bit of tat that people worshipped. My anthropological studies were all fetish this, fetish that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:11 PM
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I'd call it more illustrative of the concept of multiplying probabilities than a rigorous attempt at arriving at a statistical analysis; the real value might be 30%, 40%, something like that thanks to covariance, but you really do reach small numbers fast as you add more requirements, and that's the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:55 PM
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It's one banana, Michael. What could it cost, $10?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:38 PM
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If we give each possibility a generous 50% chance, then the combined probability of meeting the minimum standard of every category is 0.5 x 0.5 x 0.5 x 0.5 x 0.5 x 0.5 = 1.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:33 PM
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We're not, that's why we don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:36 AM
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I think we all just thought he was being metaphorical until we realised he wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:32 PM
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It covers such a wide range of behaviours that it's about as indicative of anything as the sex offenders registry where someone could be on it for serial child rape or for public urination after the pubs closed because a cop had a ticket quota to meet. If you've been sexually harassed in a serious serial-child-rape way, then my condolences. But I'm betting most of that 81% was not a guy ramming his hand up their skirt on the train to finger them, and a lot of it was more I felt uncomfortable whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:13 PM
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You get groped, I get groped, but if we ask you, you'll say you were sexually harassed, if you ask me, I'll give you a funny anecdote about a wee old granny on a train feeling my arm up. Sexual harassment is just a really vague term and I think the more surprising thing is that 100% of men and women don't report having been sexually harassed when asked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:40 PM
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I just really understand it as someone who's been through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:25 PM
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I've experienced sexual harassment; a wee old granny on the train felt up my bicep without my consent. I just felt her hand squeezing it and I turned around and there she was. She said something about it being nice. I was flattered and went on with my day, no trauma, didn't file charges, but I could have made a statistic out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:08 PM
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81% of women experience sexual harassment Maybe they got asked on a date by an ugly guy and they count that as sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:58 PM
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You can approach, but only when she wants you to. It's up to you to be a psychic and know when she wants you to approach her and when she doesn't want you to approach her. If you're lucky, she might throw out some bizzarro mind-screw plausible-deniability hints that you're supposed to decode with a team of psychologists and cryptographers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:56 PM
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The whole of dating is a big mind game where you try to get the girl past her insecurities that are stopping her from fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:32 PM
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Yeah, the healthy ones just invite you to their place to fuck, no mind games shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:21 PM
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If only it was a schizophrenia thing, no it's just the typical neuroses that women suffer from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:14 PM
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When the crazy starts leaking out and the shit in her head is telling her she mustn't but her bits are tingling but she remembers something her gran said about gentlemen, but she's also thinking about the last porn she saw where the girl was being gorilla fucked, but she doesn't want to be a slut, and it comes across as the most random-ass behavioural swings while she battles with her headspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:03 PM
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Generally, if you go around doing this to women, you're doing it to women with boyfriends and husbands who're just trying to buy some oranges and GTFO. There aren't really a whole lot of single women just out there being single, at least not ones who would like a guy coming up and hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:00 PM
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That's when the 'don't shit where you eat' crowd will tell you why they never date at work, even though half of them are married to someone they met at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:57 PM
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I've no experience of them, but other atheist communities that I've been part of were nothing of the sort. But then that was a different generation. Hopefully it's just a reddit thing, it would disappointing if the whole community went the way of cringe. In my day, you'd wait for the crazies to make wild claims and then you'd rip them apart. That was the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:15 PM
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They have been infected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:08 PM
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Even women hate r/askwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:50 PM
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Maybe it's an old reddit/new reddit thing, it's not showing for me and I can't find the setting to switch modes. That's sad though if Reddit's atheist community has gone in that direction, 10/20 years ago any online atheist community was pretty much a 24/7 debating group between atheists and theists. It was the whole point. Like a college debate club.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:49 PM
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Could you help me find where on the sidebar it says that? All I can find is these rules: 1 - No Trolling. 2 - No personal attacks or flaming. 3 - Posts must be on topic. 4 - All Images must be in a Self/Text post. 5 - Do not post Spam. 6 - No Low-Effort Posts 7 - Follow reddit's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:37 PM
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Yes, that's the reasoning given by those subs. Yet other subs like r/askmen have no problem with it, go on whatever tangents you want there, derail all you want, there aren't any rails to begin with. It's a particular type of sub that engages in on-rails discourse, and I'm not a fan of those types of subs or the closed thinking that goes on in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:34 PM
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Where does it say that? I ctrl-f'd and couldn't find that line anywhere on the page. Online atheism communities have traditionally been extremely tolerant of theistic perspectives, and have a long and deep tradition of debating rather than censoring. They do have a section on how to criticise r/atheism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:25 PM
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I don't say anything in feminist subs, I just pop in occasionally, see the comments graveyards and nope out again. Trying to post on those subs is like trying to post on rails, any deviation gets you 'this comment was removed for derailing'. It's like they don't allow people to have an original thought. There are other subs like that; r/conservative is notorious for it. But go to r/askmen and everyone is chill and you can talk about what you want. It's no accident that subs like r/AskWomenNoCens…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:21 PM
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Comment removed: Derailing, invalidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:51 PM
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Feminists have no chill and are allergic to criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:11 PM
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If you go to an atheist sub, they're happy to have a conversation with Christians. Like when feminists go to men's subs, they get heard out, not kicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:09 PM
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Feminist subs are full of comment graveyards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:07 PM
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And then only rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:25 PM
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As an attractive male with a brooding brow and who's jaw line could cut marble and who women tend to describe as having a high-T kind of look, you wouldn't believe how threatened guys get. I can't sit minding my own business in a pub without risking some drunk getting offended at my existence and trying to start something. The alcohol erases the patina of civilisation and reveals the animal instincts underneath. They'll just come over and threaten me with violence when I've never laid eyes on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:33 PM
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They were just making the alter boys holier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:20 PM
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Hitler killed Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:18 PM
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They used to be called bastards and were shunned along with their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:16 PM
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It's just being recognised and diagnosed more now. I was diagnosed 20 years ago when I was 20, there wasn't the awareness of it before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:32 PM
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Think about the last time that cooch got washed, the grooming habits of the day and the lack of pharmacies stocking Vagisil and maybe it's not so strange that ancient cultures sometimes had a thing about it. I bet there were women who would knock a guy out by opening her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:54 AM
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I'm a hot mentally ill socially stunted man, so I at least get laid sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:51 AM
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Inexperienced women suck so bad in bed. It's like the beach at low tide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:50 AM
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I was born ready. 16 years old, virgin, but my first sex act had my face between her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:42 AM
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For me, or for historical cultures? If you go back to ancient Rome, vaginas were dirty things that engulfed and ensnared poor innocent pure cocks. Like Pac Man. Wakka Wakka.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:16 AM
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I'm not into octogenarians yet, but I do know a 96 year old. She's still independent, used to talk to her when she was walking her dog, but sadly it passed away this year at 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:02 PM
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My biggest regret is getting older myself; I'll need to go even older now to find a woman who'll call me good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:56 PM
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You misunderstand me. That's the appeal of older women, they're at their peak, they're horny, they're experienced and they got a list of things they want to try. Young women tend to be a bit shit in bed because they're so insecure they end up starfishing. I won't say it was a healthy relationship or that she was a healthy person, she was in fact a neurotic mess, but she was 9 years older than me and the sex was awesome. I won't judge her for where she found her inspiration from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:44 PM
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In my experience, fat girls and older women looooove muscular guys, but the rest of them don't care too much. To them, it's like heated seats in a car, nice to have, but not really a deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:32 PM
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I sucked her tits until she got addicted to it. Worked a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:25 PM
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That's the appeal. You get to be the hot sexy one who gets the attention. She's not frigid like a lot of younger women, she devours you like you're the last man on Earth and you're Brad Pitt with a giant dong. An older woman will browse pornhub looking for stuff to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:21 PM
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Do you ever feel tempted to tell them to stop being so basic and boring and go draw some clop porn or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:03 PM
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Stress gives me an increased libido. I'm weird like that. And I think that, statistically, I've known a lot of weird women who must be statistical outliers. But then I've known a lot of neurodivergent women, being autistic myself, so I've been out there exploring the fringes of outer space and I'm back to report that some weird shit goes on out there. Not in a bad way, no judgement, I'm just saying a lot of women are freaks, god bless their kinky libidinous hearts. Tumblr/Deviantart levels of fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:21 PM
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I'm just replying to one small part of what you said, don't take it as a detailed critique of the entirety of what you said. Maybe that's the source of the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:57 PM
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No, I'm right where I mean to be, replying to what I mean to reply to. It's just not sinking in. Every time a woman complains that women don't get to come during sex, I think 'me too', but nobody cares. Because man. I got a dick and nobody gives a shit if you got a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:55 PM
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See, this is what I'm talking about right here. I ain't never got no girl pregnant but here you are making assumptions about me. It's in your head, you're projecting your imagination onto the guys around you like you're some kind of psychic who knows what they're thinking but you're not, you're just imagining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:51 PM
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My point is that women aren't the only ones with fabulous and diverse sexualities, but the way they tell it, they are, and men, at least the ones that count, are all the same, are just interested in one thing, and are disgusting for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:50 PM
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I'm not saying straight women don't orgasm less, although if you ask me it's because they're too prissy to put a hand down there and help themselves out while the action is going on, so it's an own-goal. Girls who want to cum will find a way. I'm just saying that it's a big leap to discount all the sexually non-normative males without discounting all the non-normative females too, which is most of them because you guys have all kinds of shit going on. My last gf bled constantly because of her ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:42 PM
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That's what I mean, we wanna bang and you take your brain on a trip and come back with a whole story about why we wanna bang and how we feel and think about you and what it says about us as a person, when you just made all that up because you're neurotic. It's in your head. We don't necessarily feel or think how you imagine we do. Wanting to bang you doesn't have to mean what you, in your own head, imagine it to mean. It's like when a girl gets mad at you because she had a dream where you banged…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:34 PM
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Nah, a normative woman is everything from the blushing virgin to the nymphomaniac street whore. Stick them in a blender and you've got a statistical average, but the distribution is so much more than just the mean, median or mode of the distribution. Meet 10 women, 1 of them might be close to average and the other 9 have significant divergence from it. I find it hard to believe that a statistically average man is sexually unaffected by stress. Just on basic physiological principles, stress will …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:32 PM
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We get it, you're neurotic about it. We just wanna bang, you got to make it complicated and overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:24 PM
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Masculine behaviour in men is punished too. Society just doesn't like men much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:17 PM
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I have a high libido too, there's something up with the chemistry or whatever. Sometimes feels like having bad reception on your phone; the signal cuts in and out, gets attenuated, you can't quite hear what's being said, if it gets really bad it starts sounding like a dial-up modem/the sensations come in the nervous system equivalent where you're not feeling waves of sensation, you're feeling individual nerve firing events like your dick went digital with bad interference. And then a few rare ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:54 PM
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That's the point though. Is there even such a thing as a sexually normative woman? You guys are all over the place with which bits are sensitive, how your junk looks, what your hormones are doing on a particular day, what it takes to get you off etc, but is it really that rare for guys to break the mold and not all be identical units from the same assembly line? Or is it just as common but less accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:35 PM
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Yes, and no, but I swear it's gotten bigger over the years from it. It's not like I feel awesome for a couple of hours either, I don't really feel much for the first 1hr 50min, then I start getting pre-orgasm tingles and think 'finally getting somewhere'. I don't feel nothing, but it's like when a girl is getting fucked and her clit isn't part of the party and it feels kind of nice but she's not dancing with joy either. These days I use toys exclusively to try to improve my sensitivity with more…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:27 PM
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The fathers who worry about this are the ones who were bastards when they were young and dating and assume that their daughters will date men like them, and they're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:04 PM
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And you call yourself truth seeker. Do it for science, for truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:57 PM
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It extends to shit like clothing too. Woman wearing a suit? Fine. Man wearing a dress? Suddenly people have problems with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:55 PM
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Men are pressured to be sexually successful and sexually performant. Men can't just be men either; if you're a man with a low libido, ED, micropenis or anything else affecting your ability to pleasure women and be desired by them, you're looked down upon by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:54 PM
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Stick a vibrator up your butt and you'll find out the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:51 PM
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Wasn't always that way. Used to be women who were viewed as the dirty ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:51 PM
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Yep, that's the truth right there. Female sexuality is desired and valued, male sexuality is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:50 PM
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I'm more difficult than most women; you really do need to get me in the mood and friction on the dick won't get you far by itself. Takes me a couple of hours to get myself off, god help anyone else who tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:48 PM
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Or hormones, or alcohol, or cannabis, or what you ate that day, or any number of things. Like you know when you get dry mouth? Yeah, same thing that causes that will fuck up your erection. Basically male version of vaginal dryness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:45 PM
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You vibe something enough, you're going to get neuropathy from damage to the nerve endings. It's why you got to wear anti-vibration gloves for certain industrial equipment, and it's why my last gf found it harder and harder to get off with her 250v AC mains-powered wand. Poor thing would start losing power from the motor overheating between her thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:43 PM
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if he has a normative sexual response That's a big assumption. Partners are generally unable to make me come.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:39 PM
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You ever seen those posts from women screaming that they haven't had sex in 3 months since they split up and it's driving them absolutely up the wall? The ones with all the upvotes and supportive comments. Because woman, not greasy dirty nasty dangerous sex-fiend man creature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:30 PM
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I dated a hot girl and another girl tried to pick her up on the first date while she was sitting at a table with me. She then flew to the US, met a top 20% guy there within 12 hours on Tinder, ended up marrying him ASAP and was sorely disappointed that he had no libido and wouldn't do anything kinky. She missed my fingers inside her and wanted him to fuck her ass and he wouldn't. I wonder how she's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:13 PM
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Sometimes it do be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:09 AM
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I'm not sure OP has too much going on in his head. Older women grabbed a walking ejaculating dildo and made use of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:43 AM
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Slip cop $20, cop take care of kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:41 AM
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Glorious. Don't forget the comfort women either; sometimes you need a living flesh light to nut in when you're on duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:34 AM
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It's the online dating market; it's a ghost town for men, so when you find someone inhabiting an abandoned shack at the edge of town, for all you know that's the only other human being you're going to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:02 AM
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A girl 4, maybe 5 times my weight (she was really wide) tried to drag me out of the student union one time. I mean actually drag me out. I had to hold onto a hand rail. The bouncers were all standing there watching too. She never once indicated any interest before that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:18 AM
1

Why is why the men tend to be unsympathetic. They already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:14 AM
5

That's quite a roll of the dice though. Imagine flipping a coin and on tails your dick gets chopped off, but on heads you get $10k. Would that appeal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:53 PM
3

Good to know someone else has field-tested this technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:46 AM
1

The autism makes me interesting. I also make people laugh and they tell me I'm funny when I'm not even making jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:01 AM
1

Oldboy: "Can imaginary training be put to use? It can."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:15 AM
1

Yeah, feet make my dick hard, just not because of the crazy reason Freud came up with on coke about the toes looking like dicks. Maybe that was just Freud who wanted 10 dicks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:17 AM
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No, I know all about how weird people are. Freud was just wrong about all the reasons why they're weird. I mean foot fetish being because toes look like dicks? Nah bro, I ain't gay and I ain't never looked at a foot and thought the toes look like dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:03 AM
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I was hoping he just never noticed the resemblance, people can be funny like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:43 PM
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I think it is every man's right to get high on coke as much as he wants. I just don't trust the opinions of coke heads, they crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:31 PM
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I don't know, didn't want to ask him. My mum and my other sister had a giggle about it though. I mean it was a striking resemblance, right down to the thick glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:29 PM
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It helps if she's a single mum 10 or so years older than you with an empty nest and a few cats and an air of desperation and biological urgency. But not in a bad way, in a good way. Hopefully the cool type that smokes weed. Don't worry about looks too much, you don't need a hottie for this, actually it works better if you're hotter because then she's more turned on by you. This may sound like insane heretical advice that runs counter to every value and moral you hold dear, but there's a reason t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:22 PM
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I haven't come in 2 weeks and the doc is trying to figure out why, but who needs to come anyway, we can have tantric sex for hours while I recite feminist poetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:55 PM
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I'm flexible. I can choke you while you call me daddy if that's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:43 PM
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Yes, we should work to socially normalise this. Would solve a lot of problems. Old men with low libidos can shag the young frigid girls and young men with high libidos can shag old women with raging libidos who want to leap crotch-first onto young cock for some rejuvenating seed. Everyone would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:40 PM
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The opposite is not. That's what makes it hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:36 PM
6

Damn, can't you just fuck without making it political?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:30 PM
8

That's my kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:29 PM
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My sister married someone who looks like our dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:58 PM
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Freud was high on coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:57 PM
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That's probably why it turned her on so much when I called her that. More transgressive. She had that shocked, surprised new fetish unlocked look after she came. Got to lay the groundwork though, not just spring it on a girl out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:55 PM
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I just let my dick do the thinking and don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:41 AM
1

Besides an ego boost and constant sex Wait, there's more than that? Just greet me pussy-first at the door, tell me how much I turn you on and we'll get on great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:36 AM
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I'm intelligent enough to understand her emotions, they're just a bundle of crazy and she should sort them out. I'll be here as a shoulder to cry on, but when she starts getting abusive towards me I stop caring. I'll make a deal, I won't get angry and shout at you or or manipulate you or accuse you of cheating and you don't do that shit either. Lets be adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:19 AM
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Talk him into doing drugs and getting a motorbike. Tell him all the cool kids are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:13 PM
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I bypassed this by sucking her boobs until she felt protective and caring towards me and also really horny. True story. Hormones are powerful stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:13 PM
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Want a girlfriend to hang out with and have sex and fun and fun sex and sexy fun with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:07 PM
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I find that when there's chemistry, the autism adds some spice. Like nutmeg or cinnamon, it's not to everyone's taste but some people really enjoy it. It's like being foreign, makes me a little bit exotic and it works for some people. It kind of depends on looking good though; you're exotic or eccentric when you're good looking and a sperg when you're not. My last relationship was wild, she felt she could do all the stuff with me that she'd been too shy to do before with guys and liked being the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:55 PM
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She had some trauma from a guy who left her for a Thai bride and took it out on me. Thing with me is that I'm not stubborn or reluctant to change my mind on a topic; simply present the information, be right, and my mind is changed. The problem is that my mind is very logical and you can argue until you're purple and I won't change my mind if you're wrong. Emotion just doesn't factor into it for me, so emotional arguments fall flat. It's like dating Data from Star Trek. Being pissed off at Data a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:44 PM
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Find an older woman who will be caring and maternal and will use his face like a harmonica for her pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:31 PM
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If there's attraction there's attraction. That's how it's worked for me. The autism comes along for the ride but they're with me because I turn them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:29 PM
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In my last relationship, I was the one who just relaxed and enjoyed myself and she was the one being abusive with the shit going on in her head. What made her mad was that I didn't take her crazy shit seriously and it was like being crazy at a brick wall because autism, and she would look up blogs from other crazy people saying that their autistic boyfriends were psychopaths. Damn, must be hell to date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:27 PM
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Lets just fuck and not think so hard about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:23 PM
3

Good hygiene. Bad hygiene is one of the quickest turn offs for (many) women. And yes, with sensory issues that can be a real struggle. Wish I'd discovered shaving earlier. Getting rid of all the hair in the smelly places did wonders for my BO, used to smell of it when I was fresh out the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:21 PM
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Running worked great for me as a kid. I'm high-T too, so I was always the strongest among my peers even before puberty, but I was at the young end of my year group and always smaller than most of the other kids, I just packed a lot into a small package and had the strength of the biggest kids in class. But never wanted to actually fight, and being the strongest also makes you the fastest so I never had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:10 PM
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I'm a man who's had things up his ass, does that count? I can tell you what it felt like when my gf shoved something too big too fast up there. I can also tell you about my other gf who absolutely terrified me with how she was bouncing up and down on me and after slipping out a couple of times and nearly staving in my dick with her body, I just never let her get on top again after that. It's a seriously scary thing for a man, like having your dick on a chopping block. If a guy is hurting you wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:53 PM
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Thank you for reminding us that we're carrying a loaded weapon in our pants. Makes me feel manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:40 PM
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If I engage in violence I'm taking out the knee and ankle joints, personally. Most people hold their balance horribly and it doesn't take a lot of force to pop out a joint and ir wouldn't fall under the "excessive force" laws and it makes it so I or whoever was attacked can get away. Best bet is to not engage in volence; I never do. But especially as a woman, you should be aware of the overwhelming strength difference between men and women. A lot of women get over-confident and don't realise mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:05 PM
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You been playing too much D&D, men don't power scale like wizards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:29 AM
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Yeah, makes us feel awesome and manly. Testosterone is amazing stuff. I'm due to get my testosterone checked on Tuesday after I saw the doc today and told her I'm feeling sheer hormonal anger and rage and feel really strong and have sore balls. Getting the balls groped on Monday, didn't want to subject the pretty young thing to it, it's a man's job. Testosterone and dicks and balls, hell yeah! Truly the greatest gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:02 AM
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Everything is a game to some of those girls after their second drink. Sometimes they give themselves away by being the girl who's shrieking cackling laughter is 10dB louder than everyone else put together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:08 PM
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If you watch women when men are fighting too, like any cctv footage of Saturday night in a rough town centre where people are running on alcohol and instinct and blokes are punching other blokes and they have their girlfriends with them, they take on this skirmisher support role where they hold back and do harassment/interference and look for an opening to score a crit while their guy is the front line muscle in the fight taking the blows and making sure the other guy doesn't get a chance to eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:12 PM
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My last gf's daughter had the sweetest teacup chihuahua that got bullied by the cats and was just cared and wanted held and protected all the time. The thing about women and physical violence is that they're not all-or-nothing front line troops, they're skirmishers. They peck away. Throw something at you. Pull your hair then back off. Slap you. All while verbally abusing you. They're not trying to end you, they're trying to get under your skin. Occasionally it results in injury, sometimes fatal …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:20 PM
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We're better at it, but not worse people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:24 PM
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Oh yeah. Thus the psychiatrist. She wrote a letter saying I was delusional and was furious when the psychiatrist disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:19 PM
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I agree, displays of aggression are treated differently with men vs women, particularly in family/relationship settings. My mum chases me around the house having a shrieking fit at me? perfectly acceptable. Plus she rarely remembers doing it, must get some kind of convenient amnesia. I gently and calmly usher her into the hall and close the door in her face when she's having a go at me? My brother in law convinces her to tell me he's coming to kick me out, she sends me to the psychiatrist and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:14 PM
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Because we're bigger and stronger and can absolutely wreck you. A woman only does damage if she scores a crit. It's chihuahua vs Rottweiler. But chihuahuas aren't better natured, they just get away more with being pissy little shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:05 PM
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Maybe they have brain damage from a pissy woman who hit them in the head with her heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:02 PM
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Yeah, used to go them when I was 20 years younger, had a few successes but I'd basically need to live in the pubs to pull regularly and it's really not worth it. And in the quieter, more social pubs, everyone is with their friends in their own little groups and there's not really social mixing happening outside of everyone's groups. It's like there's a facade of social atmosphere but it's not actually social at all. Like a restaurant, where you don't go talking to people sitting at other tables …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:38 PM
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In Glasgow, there's old fogey pubs where old men go to get fat and die of a heart attack and there's bars and bar/club hybrids where the young people are where the music comes in various flavours of loud and painfully loud and the girls come in groups of 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:17 PM
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Star Trek solved this problem decades ago; we just need to carry a horga'hn about with us to announce that we're seeking jamaharon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:19 PM
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Rejection is fine. It's when the woman takes it as an insult and now her and her entire group of friends are messing with you, flicking drinks at you, pulling your hair from behind, just being a bundle of catty bitches about it because you dared try to talk to one of them. Not all women are like this, but some of them are awful and have some hive mind mob mentality stuff going on. So you don't approach women because you don't know which ones are the nice safe ones and which are the landmines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:14 PM
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I cut through the ambiguity by channelling my inner primate and pointing my erection at her to let her know I like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:17 AM
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I'm the latter. Had so many girls approach me when I was younger and I didn't realise because my self-esteem was in the garbage and my first thought was usually 'she's making fun of me' or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:16 AM
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Pubs became impossible to socialise in, at least around here, when they figured out they could make more money by cranking the music up to 11 so that nobody can talk to each other and they just buy drinks instead. Literally can't hear someone screaming in your ear next to you. There's also the girl-gang problem. Girls aren't hanging out being approachable, they're in big gangs and Stacy has had too many drinks and is a mean drunk and will cockblock her friend who's talking to you, get angry at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:53 AM
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Girls go out in gangs and wonder why nobody wants to have a one on one conversation with her and her 8 friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:02 AM
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Same. Gets drilled into us pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:00 AM
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Can't even talk to my mum because she wears headphones all the time to hear the TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:58 AM
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That's what sticks in my mind the most, meeting her mum and her mum telling me she was glad her daughter had me. Didn't want to hurt anyone. But it's what you said, can't be managing someone else's feelings and she was try to get the full marriage and stepdad deal and I wasn't ready for that besides all the toxic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:45 PM
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Glad it worked out. I agree sex gets better over time with people, but so many people are just bad at it or not very interested in it and I'd find it a huge gamble. I knew a girl who jumped at an opportunity to get out of Hungarian Eurobumming around and marry a guy in New York, but she was kinky and high libido and he was anything but and left her very frustrated. Dude knew it too, said he was sorry he couldn't do the stuff she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:36 PM
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I feel bad for leaving my last gf; it started with casual sex, but we both had feelings for each other soon enough, just she had toxic possessive paranoid levels of feelings where she got abusive accusing me of cheating on her all the time and stuff like that, but she loved me all the same and I had to leave because multiple reasons and I know how badly that would have hurt her. Just can't do anything about it but be another traumatic loss for her. Oh, and she got all toxic about it because the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:29 PM
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Annnnddd that’s why I’ve never slept with someone before entering an actual, established relationship. Isn't that a bit risky? How do you know if he's any good then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:21 PM
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That's why guys with small dicks are insecure about it; they know that, statistically speaking, approximately zero women are actually into their small dick and don't wish it was a bit bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:08 PM
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Oh, it happened. Guy was high on roast beef memes and bailed on someone I knew when she got her panties off. Told her she should be ashamed to show it like that. There are some weird guys out there and social media rots your brain, but I'd bet it's a very rare event compared to the opposite when a guy has a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:07 PM
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Donkey dong never goes out of fashion. Except that one time in Greece...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:04 PM
2

I drive a white van from 2014 with a dashboard that rattles to warn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:59 PM
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We have also made it a status symbol. And women often calibrate their own self-worth by the status of the man they can get. So even if a bigger penis doesn't feel better to a particular woman, some woman don't like the idea that all they could get was a small-dick man. What does that say about her value? Clearly she deserves the best, and that includes a bigger dick. In the era of tik tok, facebook and all the other social media shite where people get their brain slugs from, I think this is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:56 PM
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You'd expect there to be a bunch of women who like it for aesthetic/kink/reasons if men and their extremely diverse fetishes and preferences are anything to go by, but it seems almost universal across women that they don't care for small dicks, the individual variation is all in 'how big' in the average-big range. Not a lot of women after 3" cocks because it turns her on like a guy who's into mosquito bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:33 PM
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How would I afford a princess? I'm talking about ordinary women, lonely single mums and stuff. When dating an older woman, the important thing is to be a hot younger guy who turns her on and doesn't know any of her friends so won't tell on her. Brings out the inner freak nobody knew was there as she starts trying out porn categories on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:08 PM
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Which I find weird, because you'd think there would be enough women with a fetish for it to warrant a few porn categories and you'd see them shyly admit on places like Reddit to liking the little ones best, but nope, it's just silence on those frequencies. Like femdom, you'd think that would be fertile ground for it, but the only girls interacting with small dicks are being paid to do it, while enthusiastic hobbyists doing it for their own enjoyment are locking big shlongs away in chastity cages…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:28 PM
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Or about sex in general except in the most abstract ways. Guys don't do details, the other guys don't want to hear details. And if you know the dick size of your friends, it's by accident or you're gay or bi. Like that time a couple of friends were looking at a photo of not-my-dick on my phone and decided to start flipping through all my photos before I could stop them and came across yes-my-dick and suddenly decided they'd seen enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:18 PM
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I knew a woman who had a roast beef guy shame her for her large dark labia and bolt from the hotel room, but roast beef is just a 4chan meme or wherever it came from and the guys who think like that are young, stupid and a bullet best dodged. I mean, /r/LabiaGW , /r/LabiaDangling and /r/MeatyLabia exist, there are guys who love labia. I'm one of them, I like pussy to, you know, look like pussy. Pale pink neat and tidy little slits aren't as visually stimulating as something that's wet and messy …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:14 PM
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Men are the ones who try to stigmatise having a small dick, for example by making self deprecating penis jokes (for example "I can give you 3 inches tonight baby") I think you mean de-stigmatise. Owning the hate. Like that word black people call each other by in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:56 AM
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Greece, 700 BCE is mostly populated by time-travellers with small dicks who heard that they're culturally accepted there. This was the first discovered grandfather paradox time loop in which time travel itself caused the phenomena that resulted in time travel, although as with all time loops, nobody knows how it began. See also, Crucifixion of Jesus and Sound of Thunder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:42 AM
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It seems like it's mostly women who do it, and it's not the guys making small-dicked guys insecure about it, it's the women. Maybe you haven't seen it, but they get super toxic about it and nobody says anything, and you know some guys are reading that/seeing it/hearing it and it's destroying their self-esteem. And it's not like fat girls where men and women come out of the woodwork reassuring them that curves are sexy and all that and just fawn all over them, guys with small dicks are basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:33 AM
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Uncivilised, uncultured, unrefined, not quite dumb. Like clean shaven Romans vs bearded barbarians or snipped Jews vs unclean gentiles. Must have been hell for big-dicked Greeks, those poor men. Imagine the teasing at the Olympics when they all had to compete naked (no Jews allowed because having the glans uncovered was dirty).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:28 AM
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Socially awkward Casanova just has a lot of awesome wanks. Can't tell anyone he's Casanova or he's now Cassandra and nobody believes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:21 AM
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I stock up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:25 AM
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If you show them that kind of contempt, your male friends might not value you. Maybe they just want a hate fuck or something, probably not romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:56 AM
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That's ok, I'll date them. They horny, know what they doing and what they want and do all the things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:20 AM
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I did, can confirm, the sex was much better than with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:19 AM
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What if they're older too though. Old people still date, bingo night at the retirement home gets steamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:11 AM
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Yes, it's dirty and you're a bad girl for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:04 AM
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Men are starved for intimacy, their dick comes along for the ride. It's ok that you don't value the attention, but they just like you and want to connect in the most intimate way they know how. Maybe you can teach them to value your friendship just as much as they would value you whispering sweet nothings in their ear while cuddling in hormonal happiness, but I think you'd better bring your A game to that friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:04 AM
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That's a good point. I should put in my bio that I'm the only hot 40 year old man left who isn't divorced with kids and is actually a bit inexperienced with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:51 AM
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Yes, if he's immature about it then it's pretty cringe and off putting, and there's plenty of men lacking in the emotional intelligence department. I can well envision many scenarios in which women would be various types of irritated or even horrified by the development. But even if he's pitching a fit like a toddler, I'd give even odds of his motivations being similarly childish and innocent. Men aren't big thinkers in this area, the smooth manipulating ones who nefariously plot and scheme abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:38 AM
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That's understandable. I imagine it would be embarrassing and awkward for both of them after a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:49 PM
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Yeah, because women assume the worst about his motivations when he's just wanting a human connection. Is it dirty when a woman wants to have sex with a male friend, or is it only dirty when a man wants to have sex with a female friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:38 PM
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Men get a bad rap when their motivations can be remarkably simple and innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:01 PM
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Sometimes it does. Thank god a few women out there just say what they want or I'd never get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:08 PM
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Autistic here, you gotta be straightforward with me or you not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:00 PM
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Women actively punish guys who advertise, like they're encroaching on their territory. You put your dick size on Tinder, deleted. Tell women you're a good lover, mocked, deleted, downvoted and women come out of the woodwork saying that guys who say that are terrible in bed. Do the male equivalent of getting your tits out, they blow a fuse. So women force guys into a salesman role where the customer is skittish and you have to hint sideways at everything to not scare them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:58 PM
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Guys don't acknowledge because women's hints are crazy subtle and guys are trained not to read things into what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:54 PM
1

That's the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:06 PM
0

Well, based on my own sampling of women I've had my hand down the pants of, they all seemed to find it enjoyable and stimulating and it got their juices going. I'm not saying you should go around sticking your hand down people's pants, but when you're in a position for them to allow you to do so, it's quite effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:45 AM
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Mostly they just need a hand down their pants to stimulate them and it's go time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:29 AM
1

Oh, I guess I'll sit on the fence then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:00 PM
1

Um... 3 dates is fine, that's long enough to loosen up together, but I'm not sure I understand the question. It's obvious when she desires you, she gets wet and stuff and wants to try out everything. And it's infinitely better than being tolerated, why would you even stay with someone who just tolerates you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:10 PM
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True, they appreciate eye-candy like an 80 year old man with a declining libido rather than like a horndog 18 year old man. Usually. There's exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:22 PM
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Shave it off and grow a goatee.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:14 PM
8

If you look good naked, they quite like seeing you naked. Depends on her mood though, and her relationship to you. Hot boyfriend? Good naked. Random guy online? Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:12 PM
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I drive a white van from 2014 so that women know I don't have a lot of money but do have a big dick that I sling out the window and use as an anchor when I want to brake while trying to keep the foreskin from getting caught in the rear wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:48 AM
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If we only had to worry about common problems, it would make life a lot easier. I think this is more a rebound from low-T over the preceding months though, body adjusts by upregulating receptors in response to a deficiency in signalling molecules, so if levels rise there's a period of over-sensitivity to the hormone, the signal sounds louder because the body has it's ear up against the door listening carefully for it. It's why you get caffeine rebound, drug resistance, balls shrink when taking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:47 AM
2

I just hit 40 and can tell you how low-T, normal-T and high-T feel thanks to the mysteries of ageing balls or whatever. Low-T feels social anxiety, it's leave-me-the-fuck-alone kind of irritability, shyness, not wanting to go out. Cornered animal lashing out. Normal-T is just normal, guys need to be in this range to feel ok. High-T is roid rage, risk taking, short fuse, I-got-to-kill-something, violence-because-it's-fun-and-rewarding, get-me-a-woman-now feeling. High-T isn't a good feeling for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:30 AM
2

How would anti-diuretic hormone help?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:19 AM
7

Oh god no, he would get turned on by her and would be frustrated as hell if he didn't get some simultaneous sexual stimulation. It would be like someone getting your bits all wet and tingly and throbbing and then not touching them or doing anything with them. But what he needs is the human connection, there's just this sexual machinery that gets activated along the way, he can't help it any more than you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:00 AM
8

Classic confusion. Nutting is easy. He needs some no-barriers human contact with someone who makes him feel nice inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:50 AM
3

With high testosterone, you feel strong, really strong (and it's not your imagination), and invincible, and fighty and angry and horny. You know when bull elk start putting on muscle and gaining condition and getting really bad tempered in preparation for the rutting season? Testosterone is what does that. Works kind of the same way across mammals in general. It's the classic anabolic steroid, does anabolic steroid stuff affecting most things going on in your mind and body. Orgasms are just orga…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:47 AM
1

Nah, men everywhere for centuries murdered the fuck out of each other in testosterone-driven fits of homicidal rage that evolved to thin out the competition for pussy when men ain't getting any. Any time there's an excess of young men not getting pussy, there's a war on the way. Usually countries would send these men to go do the war somewhere else, get it out of their system abroad instead of having a civil war. Like the conquistadors; don't want them hanging around in Spain causing trouble, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:38 AM
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Yeah, we're all just people. A lot of the 'truths' bandied about on here are just statistical trends at a population level combined with examples of individual behaviour. Not necessarily entirely wrong, but exaggerated and over-generalised. Most people are just people, not stereotypes. Some people though are giant walking stereotypes, and those people stick in your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:33 AM
1

Damn, dudes be dropping a month's rent on getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:23 PM
2

Yep, my dating app just runs out of people after a while, says there's nobody left, like the apocalypse happened and they're all dead. It's great for my self-esteem because I don't get rejected when there's nobody there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:01 PM
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If I had money for hookers, I wouldn't need hookers. Also, I prefer to be the only one doing stuff to her, don't feel like sticking my tongue places another guy has been recently. Monogamous relationships have a lot going for them if you get the sex right, exclusivity is a big perk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:16 PM
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I just got back from 7 years away and can only speak for myself, don't have much experience shagging guys, but what's wrong with them? They don't have personalities or something? This is news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:22 PM
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If he’s totally bald, exactly my height, and has a micropenis I'm not a rich man, but every day I count my blessings. Just one of those would hurt so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:09 PM
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Oh, there are women out there. The trouble is finding them. Matchmaking is anything but, it's a painfully random and capricious process that makes it nearly impossible to find what you're looking for or what you need. This is where women's advantage comes in; because they have 1-2 orders of magnitude more suitors to choose from than men, they have something like log(x) times the chance of finding a good personal match, where x is how many times more suitors they have. If the small dick guys coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:58 PM
2

No, I'm saying if you eat anything, you won't go hungry. And don't go shaming cockroaches either; they're admirable organisms that don't take no shit unless they eating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:00 PM
2

A cockroach never goes hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:08 PM
2

Online it's just a douche posing next to a tiger on holiday. Hits different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:06 PM
3

Huh. That seems so dull. Like, that's missing out most of the benefits of having a relationship. That stuff is what I think about when I think 'I need a gf'. What else even is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:09 PM
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I think he's saying that finding someone who ticks the boxes but doesn't make $100k is a lot easier than finding someone who ticks all the boxes and makes >$100k. Maybe all those corporate executives and stuff tend to a bit cold and impersonal and don't want to stick around the way the guy who works at the grocery store would while adoring her as a person and being thankful as fuck to be in a relationship. My last girlfriend made $10k, I didn't care. If I told people I was looking for a girl mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:28 PM
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Shit, I got 4/5. The PDA's might get a bit sexual but my last gf loved it. The atheism never comes up where I live though, it's just standard. Is it really that hard finding guys who'll listen, be touchy, hold a conversation and are up for all your kinks? Like, what are guys even doing? They surely can't all be one-dimensional walking cocks without a thought in their head beyond smashing? That's just basic having a relationship stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:23 PM
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I open up better when she plays with my dick though. Edit: I'm serious. Tell me you don't open up better when he takes you out for dinner or has his fingers down in your bits and is romancing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:40 AM
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Maybe a lack of male friends to compare with? I mainly had female friends to compare with, and they couldn't understand why I wasn't much more successful. To them it was easy, they get on an app and their inbox is full. They also all married with kids now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:38 PM
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Yeah, some people have it bad regardless. It's just that it hits in a special place when you're a young man and you see young women who are, objectively, less desirable than you on a level playing field, being nevertheless wildly more successful than you are. Like, when I'm autistic and she's autistic and I'm fit and she's fat and she's an ex-prostitute and I'm not and we're the same age and she's getting a date every few days and I'm getting one every 2 months, it's not due to personal, individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:30 PM
1

Thanks, I know what to set my age filter for now. Lonely women here I come.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:40 PM
4

I had a local Muslim girl almost-proposition me, but it wouldn't have been my thing, whole cultural bag of potatoes that I don't want to peel. I say almost-proposition me because she didn't even tell me she fancied me until she told me she'd decided she wanted a Muslim husband and was letting me know. It was a strange interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:36 PM
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I'm glad it worked out. I take it you both have low libidos? Or is it the culture there? I don't think it works that way around here outside religious/ethnic communities with more traditional dating styles. Even then, when in Rome...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:25 PM
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How do you establish emotional intimacy without physical intimacy? The two tend to go together in my experience. I'm not into that spiritual bond stuff, there's actual hormonal bonding mechanisms in humans, powerful ones, biochemical mechanisms for pair bonding that get activated when you're doing each other. Just like the ones that stimulate nesting behaviour when you're pregnant and all that stuff. Humans be animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:15 PM
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Harder to get emotional intimacy too. One tends to go with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:05 PM
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Yeah, that helps me. The thing that gets me isn't when women have it better in dating, it's just a fact of life in 2023, wasn't always this way but it is now, got to live with it. It's when women have all the options and all the advantages, complain about it and then talk down to men for struggling in a game that's stacked against them. A bit of empathy goes a long way, and it's rare for women to be sympathetic about this particular issue men face. I think that's where a lot of the misogyny arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:47 PM
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Lol, to be fair, gangbangs and group sex were a couple of her favourite porn genres, behind lesbian. She was just too shy to realise her genetic destiny. That, and I pushed the right buttons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:10 AM
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I mean, if it's not for you then it's not for you, I loved it. Might have ended up marrying her based on the quality of the sex alone if it hadn't been for everything else. It made her a 10 in my eyes; I didn't care about the wrinkles or anything because it was the hottest sex and she was really into me, with points left over to make up for being allergic to the cats and the daughter moving back in with her and having to travel 2 hours to get there. Wasn't until the daughter got scabies and gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:59 PM
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I don't disagree. But I think we're using different definitions of horny. Your definition is the external expression of horniness, how it manifests in terms of promiscuity. I'm thinking of the subjective feeling from the woman's perspective, the itch in her bits, her breadth, scope and intensity of fantasies and fetishes, the time factors like sex drive increasing with age and around ovulation, based on an admittedly biased sampling of women I've had discussions with over the years about these k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:46 PM
4

Yeah, I get jealous of the sexual potential women have. A lot of them just never realise their potential, but when they do it's like some David Attenborough stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:39 PM
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No, she was early 40's, single mum with cats. She wasn't out shagging everything in sight or anything like that, she was the monogamous relationship type, she just got turned on and like a runaway freight train it would gather momentum and each orgasm just made her bits throb and tingle more. She blamed it on me, said it wasn't like that with previous partners. It was the result of a bunch of factors; increasing sex drive as she got older, me being a decade younger fit guy, the kinky (very very …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:32 PM
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Can confirm, girls tell me their secrets and they horny and kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:47 PM
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My last girlfriend would get herself into a state where she just wanted to cum over and over and over again. I'm a high libido guy but she would be stuffing my sore exhausted dick into herself by the end of the night. Maybe there's some men out there who can keep up with that, but some women have a libido like a runaway freight train. Not that she was just horny all the time, but when she was horny, she was horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:18 PM
5

Yeah, love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:11 PM
4

It's normal. Super suuuuuuper common for girls to ask for a bit of light spanking or hand around her neck or something. Not like beat her up and put her in hospital, just spice things up a bit, help her feel dominated and submissive, that sort of thing. She knows it gets her off, that's why she wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:41 PM
2

Maybe you're right; maybe I'm unusual and men don't typically like seeing close-ups of pussy. Any other men want to chip in? Am I the weird one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:37 PM
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I didn't say that you watch porn or that you like looking at genitals. You understand that people can have different preferences from you, right? That everyone isn't some mirror copy of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:28 PM
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You know when a girl is still masturbating next to you when you wake up in the morning? Like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:27 PM
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No, they mean when she wakes up with bloodshot eyes and a foul mood like she just fell out the wrong side of the bed and it's go time from the minute you wake up because her hormones are making her rage. Got a friend who rages from her hormones, had a girlfriend who literally did the waking up with bloodshot eyes and a raging temper thing after she went off her pills and got an IUD fitted, and just lately I've had the wonderful but rare first-time-in-40-years-need-to-ask-the-doc-about-it experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:26 PM
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In my experience, women get cranky because their hormones are fluctuating and that turns into abusive behaviour. It's an endogenous cause, she ain't cranky because of a man, he just gets the shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:22 PM
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Maybe you're projecting your own preferences onto everyone else? It's certainly not unusual for men to enjoy the more gynaecological genres of porn. I was interested in seeing women's genitals since I was 12 and puberty hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:13 PM
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Women can be horny as all hell and it doesn't translate into hookups because that's scary and she's a woman, a horny woman still has inhibitions and fears and doesn't act like a horny man. I think that's the source of the confusion here; some women will toy themselves for hours, have the most 'creative' sexual fantasies etc, but don't have the male feeling of invincibility that lets us go out on the pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:06 PM
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I had a friend, she was a bit weird but I'm friends with weird people more than normal people, and she sent me unsolicited feet pics and asked for my nudes 'for a friend'. Sent her a full-body shower pic and it seemed to do the trick. She wasn't a sex-friend, in fact she was rather sex-averse, which is why she was so roundabout about it. She had BPD or something. Ended up disappearing eventually and I didn't hear from her again. Good artist too, makes little artisan teddy bears, I have one she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:02 PM
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Are you sure? I could look at disembodied pictures of pussy all day. I find it quite arousing. All sorts of pussies. Big ones, small ones, gaping ones, tight ones, dark ones, light ones, grooly ones, big clit ones, all the pussy. I just like it. Some guys don't like how pussy looks and I always wondered about those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:57 PM
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I enjoy looking at genitals. There's whole subs of people posting their genitals and I'm subbed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:53 PM
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Yeah, women aren't less horny, they just act differently about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:50 PM
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Thing is, you ever seen two lesbians try to hook up? It's painful. It's two people throwing subtle hints at each other waiting for the other person to make the first move. I've been in text-you-how-it-goes contact with lesbians in this situation and they go to bed alone at the end, even when they already slept with the girl before. Guys just be like 'wanna bang?' 'That's what I'm here for'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:49 PM
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Yeah, that was my experience; she was 42, 9 years older and so horny she'd be stuffing my limp exhausted dick inside her and I'd wake up in the morning to find her in a pool of sweat still going at it next to me. I always liked older women for their forwardness and sexual aggressiveness and had better experiences with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:17 PM
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Men think they want a lot of sex until they meet a woman who wants a lot of sex. In terms of averages, men are hornier, but there are woman who will blow away any man. I can say from experience that some women can be horny nearly continuously in the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:39 PM
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Yep. I've had a lot of women express interest in me but they scare off quickly when they pick up on the autism. If I wasn't fairly good looking, I'd never have had a relationship and might still be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:09 PM
1

Well now you'll need to explain it to me, because I haven't learned this trick yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:33 PM
1

Oh, I can help here. There's a cheat code for this that I used with my last girlfriend so you don't need to read all those long words. Suck her boobs. Suck them until she's lactating and keep going. Sigh, was good for both of us. Releases all those bonding hormones and she ended up just crazy attached to me and loved up. She got withdrawal when I went back to mine, legit withdrawal from the oxytocin. Became just about her favourite thing to do too. Got her horny as hell too, and would either lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:19 PM
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First proper relationship so it was all new to me, I didn't have anything to compare it to and was learning as I went. I'd say it was a positive experience on the whole, and I think it also unintentionally made me more satisfied with other partners, who by contrast are a lot hotter. Because your brain works a lot of the time by contrasting things against other things, and I may have accidentally hacked my brain to find it really hot when a woman has just a normal body type. Like, you could say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:29 PM
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When you put it like that, it's really a blessing isn't it? And I know what you mean, I couldn't do a big fat girl again, but I think the experience of it affected my preferences and made me appreciate women more. Like getting your flu shot, it sucks a bit at the time and the benefits are subtle and easily missed, but they're there and they're actually quite powerful. I hope she found someone who's into big fat girls, there's guys who just love that and would give her a better time than I was wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:25 PM
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I mean, I have porn of myself somewhere on my profile, you can look it up if you want. Don't think it's hard to find. My last relationship, the one with a woman 9 years older than me, worked mainly on the basis of how much she was turned on by me. I can hook up with women, have done so, have been essentially pounced on a few precious times at clubs and stuff and dragged home by girls, have aged really well and look 25-30 at 40, but I'm autistic, not wealthy, no high status (although somewhat of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:00 PM
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My last 5 girlfriends have been silicone. They need to make those last longer. Tricky to discretely and securely dispose of busted out fleshlights. Aren't there a lot of guys with low sensitivity like me? Takes me an hour or two even to get myself off, and I started using fleshlights to try to improve my sensitivity with something more vagina-like, but I don't know if it's worked, haven't taken my dick for a spin on the track in 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:31 PM
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It's not a flex and it's not advice to anyone else either. I'm just saying that applying selection criteria is what people with a lot of choices do, it's not a viable strategy when you lack choices. And women, with their boatload of choices in their inboxes, are a wee bit spoiled by it and have forgotten how to make lemonade out of lemons and no longer feel any need to stoop to doing so, and indeed in fact have no need to stoop to doing so because, as mentioned, they're spoiled for choice. But u…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:24 PM
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It can go either way. Fucking a girl is stage 1 of any relationship, and if was a good fuck, you fuck again and before you know it you're coming over every weekend and taking her out places. At least that's how it seems to work in Scotland, maybe the culture is different elsewhere. But a fuck isn't just a fuck, it's the jumping off point for building a genuine connection. And because guys don't have an abundance of options these days, it's an absolute graveyard on the dating apps if you're a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:16 PM
1

Goes for me too, only a few partners have succeeded in getting me off, and I've failed to get women off at times. But if you need a job done properly, do it yourself. I'd consider it an exquisite and unnecessary luxury for other people to be the ones getting me off. Would be nice, but not going to hold out for it, I know I'm tricky. Just getting to be intimate is fine and hormonal relief can be sought elsewhere or I can give myself a hand during the act, like I encourage her to do if she's havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:59 PM
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Aww thanks, I'm really just trying to make the best out of things. It's the grim reality of 2023, she could have dingleberries and I would even be surprised anymore, I've put a hand back there and found the Congo jungle before. I did... let one girl know. After she came back to me after a bunch of guys dumped her to ask what she was doing wrong. She cried. I felt bad, but she was also a fat not very attractive autistic ex-prostitute living with her parents and traumatised from a miscarriage with…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:42 PM
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Sure you can be with them, you'll just itch and have to hoover a lot and change the bed regularly and have a word with the cats about how you don't like them rubbing up against you because your skin feels like it's on fire 5 minutes later. I built her an outdoor cat-shittery on her veranda with a cat flap which dramatically improved the situation since there wasn't a constant trail of cat litter going down the stairs and into every room and cats stinking out the hall with smelly shits. When face…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:44 PM
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I can only imagine the horrors. A solid one quarter of girls I've dated have had stank-ass when you parted their cheeks, so women aren't innocent either. It really don't smell of roses sometimes. But these are things you find out later, got to actually get with them first to know if they keep clean between their cheeks. Some of them were attractive girls too, you wouldn't expect it from them. And you know what? It's not a dealbreaker, not even close, because if it was a dealbreaker there just wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:09 PM
0

Why would you reject someone just because you're allergic to their pets?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:02 PM
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Men are less fussy, more willing to make it work. I wasn't attracted to a girl and it wasn't until I was having to put her uggs out in the hall at night because I couldn't sleep from the smell that I called it a day and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:12 AM
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Things would have gone better with my last gf if she wasn't 3 cats into the lonely single mum lifestyle when I met her. I'm allergic to cats, and it became 4 cats when the daughter moved back in. House cats that never go out and shit and piss every 5 minutes indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:09 AM
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My last girlfriend compared me favourably to the short balding guy who was obsessed with anal, and compared me neutrally or slightly dis-favourably to the well-off guy who took her places but left her for an actual honest to god mail order Thai bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:07 AM
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Not a problem when you're a dude. Might not work long-term, but those ugly girls at least still get to smash because dudes are dudes, we're brave and determined and willing to push the envelope and experience new things. I mean you get a bunch of guys bored enough and it'll be Jackass with one of them hitting another guy's balls with a 2x4 just to experience something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:04 AM
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Worked for me. It's so hot now when a woman just... isn't obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:01 AM
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What makes you think I have any standards at all? I certainly don't spend my nights going through a mental checklist of what standards a partner should meet, it's just catch-as-catch-can, hoist the jolly roger and ho ho away we go. Don't think too deeply about it. She Myspace posed me with her pics, and dating being what it is for me, a big fat girl was the best I could get for an actual relationship and not just a date or a one-night-stand, so I chose her on the basis of personality I suppose y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:49 AM
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I dated a girl 2-3x my weight with a FUPA for 6 months. Lovely girl, grossed me out though. We played a lot of Borderlands. I met a slim but wrinkly older woman after that and my god, I was so turned on and would have stayed with her forever if things had worked out. I had such an appreciation for the simple fact that she had a slim body and didn't have funky smells in places. I didn't care that she had literally melted her face with too much sunbathing while ginger and looked 20 years older tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:35 AM
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Another problem is that this is in Scotland and at 200m/600ft above sea level, the weather is often painfully shite and it's genuinely uncomfortable standing around talking to someone in public because it's a windy hillside they built houses on after running out of space elsewhere and the weather is kind of shite wherever you go. I only ever saw her swaddled up head to toe in a big puffy jacket and hood, in the dark because it gets dark at 4:30pm in winter here, that made it hard to even tell wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:37 PM
1

It's just then you end up second-guessing yourself rather than assuming that every friendly girl is coming onto you. I mean usually it turns out they're married and they're just a friendly person, especially around here where there's way more families than singles, so it's not an assumption I like to lead with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:23 PM
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I wouldn't have turned her down for a date, but Muslim is a whole cultural bag of potatoes that I have no idea how to peel and little interest in peeling. It's about 2/3rds Muslim/Hindu/Buddhist around this neighbourhood. It never became an issue though, because she was having these thoughts to herself, in her head, not out loud where I could be party to them and actually know she was thinking about me that way. To me, she was just a girl who had expressed an interest in my flower beds a few tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:17 PM
1

I became a minor local celebrity after doing a bunch of guerrilla public works and everyone around here knows my face. I'm an attractive guy, it could even be said that this has been effective in some measure. I did, after all, get approached by a funny muslim girl who talked to me a few times and then informed me that she'd decided she needed to find a muslim man. Which was a surprise since I didn't know she fancied me, much less was sizing me up for a husband role. Maybe if it wasn't an absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:04 PM
1

Because women don't have the testosterone levels of men; sexually frustrated men get cranky and fighty and, just like women get this biological clock feeling of 'must breed', men get this homicidal rage feeling of 'must wipe out all the men in the next village over and take their women'. Which gets culturally translated to 'blow themselves up for the promise of 72 virgins', but the instinct is the instinct to go raid the other camp from the caveman days when that's how you'd get women if you did…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:15 AM
2

For 100k a year, I'd happily let you pick the objects for me to shove up my ass on webcam. It would beat scrubbing someone else's shit off the back of a toilet for minimum wage, and shoving things up my ass and making myself cum is actually rather enjoyable. It's just the lack of demand for a dude doing it that holds me back from a sudden career change. People here are weird for thinking women are being victimised in this rather than making bank doing something fun. Loads of men and women even d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:22 PM
1

We're not paying just for the one for you though, the special one that leads to a second date, we're also paying for dinner for the 9 other girls who ghosted us straight after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 02:05 PM
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I'll take Biden's amiable senility over Trump's arseshitcockmouth any day of the week. Everyone gets old, not everyone is an asshole.
/r/MensRights06/05/20 01:13 PM
-1

Biden displays a full gamut of human emotions and can forge genuine friendships while Trump is the guy you don't invite to your BBQ because he can't interact with people without everyone realising he's a loud-mouthed, self-aggrandising douche and noticing that his own family are awkwardly standing around with a look of disgust at being associated with the man.
/r/MensRights06/05/20 10:31 AM
5

Women have more effective immune systems than men; just one of these biological facts. Testosterone is an immune system suppressant and men sacrifice some disease-fighting ability in order to be naturally jacked on steroids and invest biological resources into being stronger, faster and better able to compete with other men. So there's some biological truth to the idea of 'man flu', and men tend to fare worse when they get sick and suffer higher mortality rates from disease.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 03:59 PM
6

It's a shame because the sex was really, really good at the start, and I got her into kinks that she absolutely loved and it was a lot of fun, but it all just kind of went to shit for a whole bunch of reasons that were basically just life going 'fuck you'.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:05 AM
8

It's exhausting having the entire sexual experience of both of us resting on my shoulders. In this case though, she used to be a lot better, but then her daughter fell out with the father and stepmother and moved back in with my ex, and then started getting in trouble with the police, and my ex has issues at work and she went on a hormonal IUD that made her dry up and less interested in sex, and stuff just kept happening and she became too distracted by life to keep up the good sex, but was stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:44 AM
8

It just sounds like the let down men get when a woman rejects them, but women experience it after a guy stops seeing them instead of when they get turned down. So men and women both get to feel crappy, but the women get happy sexy times first while the men get to make time with their hand alone at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:40 AM
10

I have; I stopped seeing her because I was fed up of getting her off repeatedly while she didn't bother giving anything back. If she'd been giving me money, that might have been a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:36 AM
20

They can also not work for it though, which turns out to be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:34 AM
1

He was very wrong to just assume you'd be cool with him slapping you. The right approach is to talk to a girl about stuff, get her to open up about what she likes and doesn't like, and tailor the sex so it suits her preferences. Very few girls want to be slapped, but the majority of girls want a certain something; they want to be held down, or they want to be spanked, or they want to be used, or, sometimes, they want to be slapped, and sometimes they just want tender, loving, vanilla sex, and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:36 PM
1

I don't particularly like or dislike the spitting, but my gf asks for it to get her over the edge when she's trying to cum. She likes feeling dirty and degraded when she's really turned on, and I oblige. I'm more into holding her down and spreading her holes open and that kind of thing, but if she wants spit, I'm ok with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:56 PM
2

"Spit in my mouth and make me feel dirty." - My gf when she wants to cum. I also know the difficulty of trying to bend my wrist at an awkward angle to spank her small ass while I fuck her from behind because she likes that too. Do you (or any women you know) like it rough? How common is this behavior? Yes, and veerrry common. Is this a biological thing or a cultural thing? Do women like it rough because that's their natural instinct or because they see it in magazines and porn and want to try it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:34 PM
1

Meat swipe, the optimal male Tinder strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:38 PM
1

I made you aware of the dark desires that always lurked in your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:19 AM
1

It's hard finding well-cut simple clothes, especially t-shirts. Everything's cut for fat guys, or else has logos and stuff all over it because it's 'sporty'. When I find simple black t-shirts that are form-fitting, I buy a bunch of them so I don't have to go searching for more for years. I can't stand wearing something that feels and looks like a baggy sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:32 AM
2

Some do; I don't though. I find it very attractive when a woman is into me and treats me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:52 AM
2

I like when they've slept around, learned that sex sucks, meet me and suddenly discover that sex doesn't suck after all and omg he's actually licking my bits for more than 5 minutes and he's talking dirty to me and introduced me to 5 different kinks this week that all turn me on super hard and he lets me do that thing I always wanted to try. My gf says I ruined her for sex; she didn't like anal when I met her because her previous fuckbuddy had insisted on it every single time to finish and he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:48 AM
1

The way it goes in my experience is if I see her naked, I want to touch her naked bits, which gets her horny again and then we're having sex again, so she gets dressed to discourage me from molesting her and getting her worked up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:24 PM
2

You ever have a girl go 'don't touch me' because she knows if you touch her, she'll get horny again and want it and then it'll be another round of making her cum, and she needs to sleep/go to work/things hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:03 PM
1

For me, it's not about trying to play her, it's just that if a girl doesn't sleep with me within 3 dates, I feel shitty and that she doesn't like me that much and I want to find someone who's really into me, even if that means going back to square one and starting the search over again, because I definitely don't have 20 other women I can call up. I'm really attracted to girls being attracted to me, and playing hard to get doesn't work at all on me, but it's hard for me to resist a girl who's re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:50 AM
1

Sex gets better when you stick with the same person too; you learn what each other likes and explore new things together. I figured out a whole bunch of stuff about what I liked with her, stuff that I'd never have gotten to try out with just a string of random hookups. She straight up offered me casual sex at first, when we were still just talking online on OkCupid, and it was one of our in-jokes that she sexed me into being in a relationship with her. It never bothered me in the slightest that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:10 PM
11

The longest relationship I've had was with someone I fucked within a couple of hours of meeting up with + a few days of talking online before that. She gave me good sex and I stuck around and kept having good sex and eventually it was a relationship. Maybe I'm weird in that I don't pump and dump? If the pump is a good one, why not stick around for more? That's my philosophy at least. It's entirely possible to sex me into being in a relationship with you. And you'll get good sex out of it too; it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:56 PM
1

I can't speak for other guys, but personality is hugely important to me; a girl can be really hot, but if her personality sucks I just can't be attracted to her and she might as well be wearing skunk spray. On the other hand, a girl can be a bit chubby or not have great skin or just generally not be the best looker but if she's got a really good personality it can make her so cute and attractive in my eyes. Sometimes a girl is really friendly and warm and engaging and it makes me really attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:48 PM
1

It's not just men who suffer from this problem. It constantly annoys me that my gf's place is a complete state every time I go over, with crumbs and residue all over the kitchen, cat hair everywhere, cat kibble, dried cat meat, cat puke and cat litter about the place downstairs (she has 4 cats, which is too many cats), her inability to make even a light snack without turning the kitchen into a disaster zone and generating an entire sink full of dishes, the way she just leaves clothes, shoes, hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:32 PM
1

Some guys go out with the price tag on? Are these special price tags that are designed so they can survive going through the wash, or just the normal cardboard type of price tags? I wear my clothes until they start falling off me, and I sew them to keep them going longer. I just sewed up the zipper for the second time on my goretex jacket that I've had for 18 years and I recently had to retire a pair of boots because the soles had worn down until they were sucking in water. It's not like I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:19 PM
2

Definitely. I love when my gf randomly grabs me and starts eating or fingering my ass; it's kind of embarrassing but it also makes me feel good that she's so attracted to me and wants to do those things to me. It makes feel sexy and more attracted to her when I know that she's so attracted to me. I guess I've got a thing for that; I kind of lean a bit towards older women because I can be their hot younger guy that they're really into and want to do dirty things with. And that V is a popular one;…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:54 PM
1

For me, the anger came from seeing girls, mostly ones I was friends with but sometimes ones I was involved with, break up with someone and then be in bed with someone else 2 weeks later, or see them hopping onto Tinder and getting 5 dates a week out of it and being completely unable to understand or empathise with my situation where I'd get one date every 1-2 months. I had a fuckbuddy who went on holiday to the US and literally within 24 hours of landing in New York, she'd hooked up with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:28 PM
1

It's crazy how many unadventurous men there are out there. The stereotype is of men all being horndogs, but there are a tonne of low libido men who rarely want sex or men with sexual hangups who don't even want to look at a pussy let alone get their face in one, and then there's the selfish men who don't care if their partner gets off or not as long as the guy gets off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:12 PM
2

It's quite rare for a girl to be into male feet; it happens, but lets be honest, male feet aren't very attractive, so it's totally normal that you, as a straight girl, don't get the foot thing. But there are a lot of women out there who're bemused by their partners attraction to their feet while being very happy about the attention their feet get out of the deal and who enjoy having another way to be sexy and turn on their partners and be admired. Some also find it more genuine when their feet g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:49 PM
3

You love that we're weird though. Feet can be very seductive and flirty; you can dangle your shoe around the guy you like, put your feet in a guy's lap and 'accidentally' brush it against his cock, ask for a foot rub, wear all kinds of sexy footwear, put your feet up on the dashboard, step out of sandals and scrunch your toes, get creative with nail polish and some women with 'foot awareness' like to watch out for which guys notice their feet and take glances at them and then foot-flirt with and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:23 PM
5

It's like when you look at a manly man and his manly manhands and get excited thinking about his hands on you. Female feet can be incredibly feminine, just like male hands can be very masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:39 AM
0

I know a kinky high-libido girl who married a white-bread low libido guy because he was tall, good looking and had a sweet job, but she can't even bring herself to tell him that she desperately wants him to do her in the ass because he's too much the nice guy, whereas when she was my fuckbuddy, I had her opened up with a speculum while I fucked her and indulged her rape and incest fantasies that she had no problem telling me about. This guy she married only wants to fuck her for 5-15 minutes onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:48 AM
4

Turn a girl on and she'll open up to you literally and figuratively. I'm the same way with girls; the ones I'm really attracted to get the full treatment and the ones I'm not so into just get the reduced menu because there's stuff I don't want to do with them that I'd do with someone I'm more into. Lots of guys out there are just getting a basic fuck because the girls aren't that into them or don't feel like opening up to them. I've had girls be incredibly excited to find out that they could peg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:41 AM
2

The right guy will give you the best of both worlds; be nice to you outside of the bedroom and be bad to you inside the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:28 AM
8

And less into kinks involving body parts and anatomical sex acts, which are more popular with guys. Women like a scenario, a backstory, something with roleplay. A bit of dirty talk to get them into the right frame of mind can get them wetter than an hour of foreplay, and a few choice phrases that push her buttons can turn a dry, mechanical fuck into a squelchy wet cumming mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:26 AM
1

Have you ever looked up Brazilian facesitting? It's where an older girl pins a younger, smaller girl down and rapes her face with her cunt until she cums in the girl's mouth. Girls tend to get way more rough and hardcore with other girls than guys do, and those girls get super into the face raping and bullying the other girl to open her mouth and lick and suck and to swallow spit and piss, with the victim being smothered and struggling to breathe through a face full of cum. I like also how older…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:14 AM
1

No, I mean a lot of guys are literally scared of vagina; they don't want to look at it, touch it, taste it or have anything much to do with it besides stick their dick in it. It's shockingly common. I talked to one girl who was slightly traumatised after she got pantsless with a guy at her place and he shamed her for having pigmented labia, asked her how she could stand to show herself like that, told her she needed surgery and walked out on her instead of having sex with the extremely attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:47 AM
2

You're thinking about it in the wrong terms, it's not specific sex acts or anatomical focus, it's sexual scenarios; free-use party where a girl gets used by all the men and women in the room, naughty schoolgirl gets punished by teacher, daughter rides daddy, bride fucks bridegroom's brother before wedding, that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:02 PM
2

I love seeing a pretty young thing being degraded and used by an older man/woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:59 PM
2

I've heard from a lot of girls, both friends and people on Reddit and places like that, who've had the worst time getting guys to get nasty with them. They're thinking 'what does a girl need to do to get fucked in the ass and called a whore around here?', and are discovering that guys aren't all horny beasts and a lot of them don't even really like sex that much, much to the girl's disappointment. There are so many guys who're actually scared and grossed out by pussy, and I don't know if it's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:54 PM
6

As someone else said, tracking, but also, if you actually talk to women, like really talk to them where you get to know them and they open up to you, you'll find out that they really are into all sorts of kinky depraved stuff, and have been since they were 10 or something and started fantasising about being kidnapped and kept as a sex toy in a basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:44 PM
5

They are, but they're also for everyone else too. Lots of people have rape fantasies; way more than have ever actually been raped. Lots of people who've been raped and lots and lots of people who've never been raped are fantasising about rape, both as victims and perpetrators, and sometimes either or both depending on their mood that night. Roughly half the women you've been involved with have probably had rape fantasies and if they never told you, it's only because they were too embarrassed to,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:38 PM
8

Are you surprised by this? My gf likes watching porn where the girl is being used by a room full of people and doesn't look like she's enjoying it too much, particularly porn with Asian girls because they sound like they're in pain and suffering. She likes being tied up, calling me daddy and having me spit in her mouth while I fuck her. She's also completely normal; women think about dirty, depraved shit all the time, rape, abuse, incest, humiliation, degradation, tonnes of women are into that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:05 PM
3

It's sickening and I don't know what was going through people's heads to think that a screaming baby in intense distress was somehow immune to pain. It's like when they were using paralytic agents instead of anaesthetics for major invasive surgeries in humans and vivisection of animals, thinking that the kids/animals they were cutting up weren't feeling anything, except worse because in circumcisions the kids were obviously screaming their heads off so there was no excuse for the dumbfuck belief…
/r/MensRights22/12/19 08:01 AM
6

Are you a young guy? And living in a place where circumcision is very common? You'll find as you get older and date older and more mature women, that their attitudes will change. What you're experiencing is just a local cultural aversion to intact cocks from inexperienced women who haven't known anything different. It's like men freaking out about labia because the women where they're from all have their labia cut off; it's not a good reason to run out and get surgery on your genitals. Travel to…
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:31 AM
6

"This won't hurt" and other lies doctors tell.
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:24 AM
11

It's also the circumcised women in these places who perform the procedure on young girls and who perpetuate the custom, having them done just like they were. It's an excellent mirror of the arguments circumcised men make about wanting their sons to look the same as them.
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:23 AM
9

There's not an ethical argument to be made for performing a cosmetic surgery with the concomitant risks (around 0.5% rate of complications) on individuals who are too young to consent to the procedure. If a person wants to get circumcised later in life, that's fine; it's no different from getting a boob job or dermal implants or a tattoo or whatever they fancy, but the key is that only medically necessary procedures should be performed on individuals who are unable to consent due to age or incap…
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:17 AM
13

If you cut the foreskin off, there's a not insignificant chance that you'll cut too much, perforate the urethra, cause excessive scar tissue formation that causes pain later in life, the wound will get infected and the kid could die or have to have his penis amputated, basically it's a surgical procedure and as with any surgical procedure, stuff can and does go wrong with life-altering and life-ending results. A baby's penis is really tiny, so it's easy to muck up the procedure on something so s…
/r/MensRights22/12/19 12:51 AM
1

Ftm people have female-typical testosterone receptors instead of male-typical testosterone receptors since they're biologically female. Everyone has testosterone receptors, but in different quantities and concentrated in different places. Here's a mouse study where they used a chemical tracer to identify androgen receptor locations in male and female mice. You can see the obvious differences in this pic, although it's more just illustrative of the fact that differences exist rather than being es…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:19 AM
2

It's not just about the concentration of hormone in the bloodstream, it's also about how many receptors you have for those hormones and how those receptors are distributed in your body. Women have fewer testosterone receptors in their muscles, so even if they juice up with testosterone, they still experience less muscle growth than men because their muscle cells are less responsive to testosterone, like a diabetic with insulin resistance. I don't know particularly about testosterone receptors in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:05 AM
2

And stab-proof vests. And balls. You can get a lot done with a stab-proof vest, a stick and some balls.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/19 04:37 AM
2

I've got 3 doctors in the family; an uncle, sister and brother in law. My uncle is nuts, like total religious wacko with really bad Asperger's and the social skills and self-awareness of a turnip that makes him intolerably obnoxious. My sister and her husband both have toxic type-A personalities, typical over-achievers who always think they're right and thus are always fighting with each other as well as yelling at their kids over the most minor things and booking their kids into a gruelling reg…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/19 04:33 AM
8

Have you ever seen a vectored thrust nozzle on an airplane? Well, during especially bad shits, the anus extends from the body and rotates to direct the blast horizontally up the back of the toilet seat like a damn F-35 transitioning from VTOL to cruise.
/r/MensRights07/11/19 03:04 AM
9

Oh yeah, botched circumcisions have been a thing since they started doing circumcisions. They used to tell parents to raise the boy as a girl if they accidentally sliced their cock off or if it was lost to a post-circumcision infection or any number of other complications, with disastrous consequences and sky high suicide rates in later life. A baby's penis is a tiny and delicate thing and it doesn't take much for the surgery to go wrong. This case is only notable because the doctor tried to hid…
/r/MensRights03/11/19 04:51 AM
17

That girl was a self-absorbed bitch and your female friends are tripping balls on wokeness and bullshit, you did nothing wrong and the girl and your friends are completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:05 PM
4

I'm an attractive guy and my gf will claw the eyes out of anyone trying to steal me from her, but my time on Tinder was dire, averaging about a match every couple of days and a date every couple of months. Meanwhile my overweight, unattractive, ex-prostitute female friend with an obsession with getting pregnant again after a miscarriage was getting as many dates a week as she had free nights for them and all the sex her high libido desired. Getting a guy to stick around and get her pregnant and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:47 PM
1

Testosterone is also an immune-suppressant, so it makes sense to have a mechanism for down-regulation when you keep needing to fight off infections.
/r/becomeaman20/09/19 07:35 PM
3

Sex is rarely rational, it's passionate and wild and illogical. Well, the good stuff is at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:55 PM
5

You're doing it wrong, you're not supposed to think of your actual dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:59 PM
2

The female equivalent for that is some catty gossipy judgemental cow who's afraid of everyone. He sounds like a douche with major insecurities. I've had a little old granny randomly feel up my exposed upper arm from behind me while I was standing on the train waiting to get off, and it's just fine, she had a squeeze at my arm, commented on it and it was flattering and a bit amusing and I felt happy to have gotten the attention even though she must have been 80. Same deal when gay guys hit on me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:34 AM
3

He's the male equivalent of women who get incredibly butthurt about some guy they're not interested in hitting on them. It's not healthy to get a huge bug up your ass about it, just accept the compliment and move on. When gay guys have hit on me, I've been flattered and even let them cop a feel on some occasions, because why not? Some people just take things too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:16 AM
2

She doesn't look at it that way, her take on it is that he was just crap in bed and if she doesn't have a problem with it, it's not my place to make it one. She introduced me to him one time when we were getting the train back to her place and he was working in the ticket office, just to show me off to him and make him jealous, but she doesn't hate him or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:54 PM
4

I mean that's one way of looking at it, but it's like the story of her last ex who set himself on fire trying to refill a lighter; I like how it contrasts with my ability to competently and safely fix things around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:25 PM
11

I enjoy hearing stories of the guy who didn't make her come but insisted on anal every time to finish off so he could come, and who sucked at that too. She didn't know anal could actually feel good and not hurt until she met me. The only stories that make me insecure are of the guy with the nice job and good income who left her (for a Thai bride, because he was a knob); I'm poor and she doesn't love me for my money but I know she misses being with someone better off, however the sexual stories a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 03:03 PM
2

Plus boyfriends don't mark their territory by leaving hair pins and ties everywhere, so there's less clues to pick up on that she's not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:36 AM
5

You can dance with your friends at home. When you're dancing with your friends in a loud crowded sweaty expensive nightclub while glammed up in your smallest dress, you're looking for attention and validation. Getting noticed, maybe hit on and having the option to accept or reject the attention is an integral part of the experience. It's fine to want to feel attractive and desirable; if I go out, I certainly hope that people notice me and check me out, but be honest to yourself about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 07:04 PM
4

If you are not there to be hit on, you shouldn't be at a meat market. She's just there to dance with her friends. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:34 PM
-6

For me, sex tends to happen on the first date, sometimes second or third date, or not at all and we go our separate ways because we're not a good match for each other. It's going to depend on your cultural context and on what you're looking for, but what I was looking for was someone who wanted a lot of sex and who was good in bed, and I found someone who fit the bill and stuck with them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 04:38 PM
-13

I don't know, I've been with my gf for 3 years and it started when she threw an offer of casual sex at me when we were talking on OkCupid before we'd met in person. I tend to view sex as a way to judge compatibility with someone prior to investing in getting more deeply involved with them, and if someone doesn't want sex early on, I take it to mean she's not that interested in me or has a low libido or is reserved or something and isn't a good match for me. Sometimes I've had relationships start…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 02:44 PM
3

America is a pioneering individualist culture, that’s in everything including love. Mormons, pioneers of love finding exciting new relationship styles in the New World.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:35 PM
5

Catcalling is a very regional/cultural thing too; here in Glasgow I've never seen it happen outside of pub closing time when there's crowds of drunk people milling around town, and even then it's rare for guys to do it and it's most often girls doing it, but there are other places where catcalling is far more commonplace and, if not quite socially accepted, at least a thing that certain guys feel comfortable doing. I remember seeing a bit more of it coming from guys 15 years ago but it's really …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:43 PM
7

If I hit on a few women, my experience would most likely be that women don't like being hit on. Obviously some love it, but pick 3 random women and hit on them and you're probably going to get a negative reaction from all 3 unless you're 10 shades of smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:28 PM
4

On average, women have lower sex drives, but how does the saying go, 'a man who thinks he wants a lot of sex hasn't met a woman who wants a lot of sex'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 09:41 PM
2

My gf doesn't even try to fix me, she just accepts my faults because I make her bits tingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:53 AM
1

Just look at r/pizzadare; there's a reason why you only see women doing it. Guys who do it are at much higher risk of being slapped with a charge of indecent exposure for doing the same thing these women do, because male sexuality is perceived as predatory and threatening and women are far more likely to make a complaint when on the recieving end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:39 PM
3

It sounds stupid to you because you're a guy and you like to be direct and to the point and you don't like bullshit. Women love bullshit and saying things in roundabout ways that are so laden with layer upon layer of misdirection that even they themselves don't understand the truth behind the fiction they've concocted and wrapped around themselves. It's a bit like those experiments they do with people who've had a corpus callosotomy that splits their brain into two hemispheres that don't communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 10:59 PM
14

Techs deserved a punch in the face from a girl for that shit. Might have gotten the point across.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/18 05:38 PM
1

Seems like I'm doing it right then by molesting my gf without worrying if it turns into sex or not. She loves me molesting her and will make huffy sounds if I don't put my hand down her pants often enough, but she's kind enough to recognise when I need a break because my arm is going to drop off. I don't come from sex so although we have a lot of it, we do a lot more casual molestation and foreplay stuff than actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 06:37 AM
2

She likes taller men because taller men make her wet and she rationalises this preference as being rooted in fashion as though the guy is an accessory to her shoes, because that's better for her self-image than admitting to herself that she likes them because it's what turns her on because of thousands of generations of bigger men hitting smaller men over the head with rocks and leaving their evolutionary legacy imprinted in female partner preferences. Her pussy knows what she wants better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 06:19 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it, your bf is just getting insecure over the thought of you masturbating to guys who're more attractive than he is and is being hypocritical and unreasonable about it just because he feels threatened by you looking at muscular hunks who put his masculinity to shame. My gf often puts on porn when we're having sex and she puts on porn that she thinks will appeal to both of us, so often lesbian porn because we both like that and it's what she most often gets off to when …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:21 AM
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The rules seem fine to me, or at least the mod team seems fine to me because they let people get on with arguing with each other and don't go around like little Hitlers banning people for wrongthink, invalidation, derailing and all the kinds of bullshit that'll get you banned from r/askwomen and similar safe-space subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:55 PM
2

and not see the same false rape post being posted for the 100th time. Have you seen all of those ones I posted 100 times or are they new to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:46 PM
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Here's 8 cases that I posted and another 5 cases that another user posted. I could dig this stuff up all day if I didn't have other things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:37 PM
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Not so satisfying is the journalists weeping over the poor women and the unfairness of them being prosecuted for their false accusations. Vulnerable Women Are Routinely Prosecuted – And Imprisoned – For False Rape Claims In The UK Well boo hoo, cry me a river. Of course vulnerable women are being prosecuted, it's the nutcases who make these accusations and the nutcases are vulnerable women by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:10 PM
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How come you're getting raped so often?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:28 AM
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We can look at individual cases for insight into the motivations of the women making these accusations. Jemma Beale A fantasist who invented rape and sexual assault allegations against 15 men to get attention from her girlfriend has been jailed for ten years. Beale’s first victim, Mahad Cassim, served two years and nine months in jail, while she received £11,000 in criminal injuries compensation following the alleged rape. The court heard that she went on to make a string of false allegations th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 03:25 AM
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At least 200 women have been prosecuted in the UK for false rape allegations in the past decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:44 AM
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My gf loses the fucking plot every few months; I've talked to her about getting counselling for it and she's aware that it's a thing that keeps happening but she just can't control herself and sometimes she wakes up with red bloodshot eyes and a sour lemon-sucking face for no reason besides her raging hormones and then she's looking to pick a fight all day and will oscillate between shouting and screaming at me and begging me to stay. She threw a vibrator at me one time and it smashed against th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:33 AM
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My gf recently told me she'd taken a whole packet of diazepam in a suicide attempt; I rushed over to her place 2 hours away and found her grumping about in bed and eventually she admitted she'd just been angry and had over-reacted and had only taken 4 diazepam and had lied about taking a whole packet, but not before I'd agonised about whether to call 999 or call her daughter to go and check up on her and not before I blunted all her kitchen knives because she was threatening to slit her wrists. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:36 AM
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They should try dating older women; I feel like a hot young girl with an older guy in the amount of sexual attention I get from her and she doesn't have expectations or demands of me other than being myself. Sometimes I'll be lying there and I'll be soft because I can't be aroused all the time and sometimes it gets a bit tender and spongy from overuse, but she'll still be playing with me or be firmly grasping my bits just to emphasize the fact I'm her's, and sometimes it turns out it's time to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 10:06 AM
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I'd never heard of that rule, but that's pretty much been my experience. If a girl hasn't fucked me after matching, some back and forth messaging between us and a first date, the odds of anything happening just go down from there. My personal limit is 3, maybe 4 dates at a stretch because if it's not happened by then it's not going to happen. I dated a Chinese student doing her masters at a nearby university and she was traditional Chinese from some middle-upper class family in Manchuria, who wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 02:24 AM
1

Dirty 40's in her case, it's a bit crazy sometimes and she's been up all night masturbating after I've fallen asleep on a fair number of occasions. She likes to tell me the story of how about 9 months before she met me, she went to a fortune teller for a card reading; she got the devil card and the fortune teller told her she'd meet someone she'd have an intensely sexual relationship with. In her mind at least, my coming was foretold. She was also pretty vanilla when she met me, but I corrupted …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 02:01 AM
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Of course they do. My gf's nuts about me and I'm barely earning anything and hardly ever take her places, she just adores me and gets really turned on by me. I guess it helps that I can fix stuff too. She's got a nearly-adult kid who doesn't really impact the relationship beyond being a mild inconvenience sometimes and I never feel like it's a competition for affection. She's not looking for anyone else and I have no fear of her cheating on me or branch swinging. She's 9 years older than me so I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 10:15 AM
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Sometimes you're so mentally and emotionally exhausted by the time you get to the finish line that you just have no fight left in you and you want to put the whole thing behind you and move on instead of starting another battle. These guys are probably all kinds of depressed and mentally messed up from the experience and not in a good state of mind to pursue justice against their false accusers.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/18 06:13 AM
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My gf of the past 2 years threw an offer of casual sex at me after we matched on OKCupid and talked for a few hours, maybe less, and we fucked at her place a few days later, maybe an hour after meeting for the first time. I'm a sucker for women that get straight to the point and don't faff around and play bullshit mind games and I've generally ended up with direct women who're honest about what they want, and who want my cock inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:25 AM
2

6 feet under a dead dog. When the sniffer dogs find the scent and they find the disturbed soil, the police will dig up the dead dog and figure it was a false alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:20 AM
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Obese girls can be really strong; it's like those wearable weights you strap to your arms and legs, except they wear them 24/7 and every motion they make is a form of low-grade resistance training. They build up extra muscle to carry the extra weight and I'd say that fat girls tend to be stronger than most girls who actually go to the gym and work out. This is also why you should always think twice about getting into a fight with a fat guy; he may be fat, but he's also probably a lot stronger th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:14 PM
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I've experienced it quite a lot and I think there might be a lot of regional/cultural variation to it. I almost never see guys here in Scotland cat-calling women unless it's pub closing time and everyone's drunk and milling around on the street with their party vibe still going, and I've probably seen more instances of women cat-calling guys from the emboldening safety of a group of intoxicated girls. A local cultural quirk is that girls view a guy in a kilt as a valid target for molestation; ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:57 PM
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I had a morbidly obese girl 3x my size try to physically drag me out of a building to have sex with me, then started a rumour that I was gay when I declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:23 PM
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Cases of men who've been murdered due to false rape accusations: Teenager falsely accused of rape beaten to death by gang Five killers carried out the 'extraordinarily callous, violent and brutal' murder of a teenager after the sister of one wrongly claimed he had raped her, a court heard today. Poole man stabbed 32 times 'over false rape claim' Mr Merna then made a 999 call, in which he said: "Someone is coming at me with a knife, I need help." Police found his body at the base of communal stai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 01:49 PM
1

Someone who's incredible in bed. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:24 AM
1

I can make friends easily enough, though I'm not great at keeping them since I tend to fall out of touch with people just because I'm not overly social and keep to myself a lot and I'm not overly interested in having many friends, plus I've got a girlfriend and haven't had much trouble attracting people, so I don't think it's a case of people pitying me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:16 AM
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I've got Asperger's and despite my best efforts to blend in, people can always tell straight away that I have it, but I don't seem to give off a creep vibe since people are overwhelmingly friendly towards me. I can go up to a group of neds/chavs and even they'll treat me with respect. Maybe it's the local culture (Glasgow, stabbing capital of Europe but also a quite friendly city), or maybe it's because I look pretty good and have a nice body so my interactions get interpreted positively as a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:55 PM
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I think it's acceptable in these cases to demonstrate your committment to your job by kicking them off the train.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:42 PM
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No, would have been funny if it was. She'd recently gotten a hormonal IUD fitted and was getting crazy mood swings from it. She woke up that morning with a sour face, bloodshot eyes and giving me the silent treatment and just went downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:58 PM
1

I've had a vibrator thrown at me with enough force to break when it smacked into the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:39 PM
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I get told to smile all the time because I don't smile much. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar but people who go looking for innuendo are going to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:55 PM
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This. I'm an objectively bad catch with mental health issues and chronic under-employment but I'm quite attractive and to my 9 years older gf I'm the hottest thing on two legs, who turns her on more than anyone in the world and gets her off, and that makes her overlook everything else and makes her determined to hold onto me forever, because I give her the right feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 08:10 AM
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The game I run is broke but attractive and really good at sex and dating an older woman who's also broke but happy as shit to have a hot younger guy who turns her on like nobody else, ticks her emotional boxes and licks her box.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:10 AM
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In the future online dating apps will be the only sjw-sanctioned place to meet. You're not wrong. Even in bars these days it's a whole lot of 'I just want to drink with my girlfriends' like it's an inappropriate place to approach now, along with the street, bus, grocery shop, gym, work and everything else on that long and constantly growing list of places where you shouldn't approach women. Shit, even on dating apps there's a lot of 'I'm not here to date, I'm just here for a nosey' or some varia…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 12:32 AM
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The rule only applies on film sets for Netflix original programming, not for all Netflix employees everywhere. Thank god for that; for a moment there I thought they were being unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 10:20 PM
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I think /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin is spot on and that breaking the rules of the game is often how the most successful people manage to be so successful. That doesn't mean being wantonly reckless, just doing your mental calculus on the risk/reward ratio of your actions and maybe taking a shot at someone when it meets your personal criteria of being worth it, and I wouldn't be overly critical of someone who's mental calculus arrives at different answers than my own if they know what they're getting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 08:23 PM
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We hear "don't shit where you eat" from a lot of Red Pills because their strategies almost always involve emotional abuse/neglect. Can't really ghost someone very well if they work a few cubicles over. This is a great point. If someone's version of dating actually resembles taking a shit, that's not going to work out well in the workplace, but my exes often stay friends with me and unjealously give me dating advice and I could see someone like that having a much better time with it (I'm not look…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 07:48 PM
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I love this thought experiment you've come up with, it's brilliant. I don't know what unimaginative buggers with twigs up their arses are downvoting it, but some people really don't like thinking about things in new and interesting ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 09:15 PM
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Can confirm, I have an outrageously promiscuous n>100 female friend who's a 4/10 at best. Overweight, heavy drinker, used to do coke and would do it again if she could afford it, loves nights out on the town, has very low standards and cheerfully fucks guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 08:35 PM
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Because of the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:41 PM
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Yes, I'd be all over that. I even tried getting into that kind of stuff a little bit when I was 18-ish, only to discover that it doesn't really work when you're a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:57 AM
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An excellent reminder to stick to my policy of never buying people drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:06 PM
2

Feminist journalists literally have a profit motive behind their outrage. Selling outrage is how they make a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:45 AM
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These kinds of feminists are my gf PMSing but 24/7; everything you do is wrong, will be interpreted in the worst possible way and will provoke them into a fit of rage and tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:43 AM
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Oh that blog's funny. I got to the bottom of the page and found "Why you should date someone with genital herpes" by Ella Dawson, who has genital herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:40 AM
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In other words, Bumble IRL; there's a reason why that dating app is total shite. Women are absolutely horrendous at initiating and if we were all waiting for women to initiate most of us would die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:26 AM
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You need to factor in that a lot of girls are total bitches and do the whole 'ugh I just want to drink with my girlfriends' thing everywhere. You approach in a bar or club? You never know if you'll meet some nice friendly girl or some complete bitchface where she'll start flicking her drink at you and slapping you in the back of the head and her and her entire friend group will all henpeck you for having the audacity to approach and try to introduce yourself. So there's no safe, agreed upon, soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:21 AM
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Did you just assume my material composition? I sexually identify as an interstellar dust grain, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:43 PM
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Men who slut shame online are just salty about not being the ones getting that slut-affection. They change their tune in a heartbeat as soon as a girl is coming onto them personally. Girls on the other hand will cheer on slutty behaviour online because it's fun and importantly, it's far away and not affecting them, but as soon as it starts distracting men they're interested in from being interested in them, it's a big issue and they're unhappy about it and start slut shaming because now they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:39 PM
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There are traits that remain pretty consistent and traits that have a lot of variability. Males are nature's wildcards; the risk takers that either succeed in glory or fail in ignominy, so as a population they explore a wider range of strategies so that a few of them will hit the jackpot and father 100 kids before some other guy bashes their head in with a rock. Women are the safe bet, they're almost guaranteed to reproduce (in the wild, anyway) if they're healthy and capable of it, but they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:53 AM
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The only men who really have enough sexual capital to indulging their innate tendencies as wantonly as women are probably chad-level guys. Even the most chadly chad is an order of magnitude behind a girl in sexual opportunities. Not even a hot girl, just any girl who throws that pussy out there. I've observed it in action, unattractive girls who fucked multiple guys a week because pussy is pussy and men turn it down the way a dog turns down food. One could almost say it's reflected in our biolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:39 AM
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It's a demonstrable biological fact, but that's never stopped people from getting offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:31 PM
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Nah, that's probably haram or something. I don't think they're allowed to do fun stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 05:00 PM
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We are basically all brainwashed by the media and school through goverment because there is no free speech. Sounds wonderful, where do I sign up? And I think that's great. Sounds like hell to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 01:51 PM
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Show him this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:55 PM
1

The good old 'I'm in a bad mood and I'm going to pick a fight with you today'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:09 AM
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I'm a crude and graphic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 09:04 PM
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Oh, that's bad. You're bad, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:40 PM
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Sometimes they wake up looking to pick a fight and then it's tears and shouting all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:36 PM
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Oooooh, now I get it. Actually, quite often I just kind of wait and hope until one flops straight into the boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:34 PM
2

I can imagine saying 'I like your eyes' to an asian girl could be interpreted in the worst possible way if she were in the mood to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:30 PM
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Are we still talking in sexual euphemisms here? I think I might be lost now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:18 PM
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I think it's the kind that doesn't have eunuchs guarding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:11 PM
1

Definitely; I just hate fishing, it's stressful and not fun at all for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:09 PM
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but, ..., the fun is in the catch, not the eating. Especially if you're not hungry. I much prefer eating the fish pie to catching it, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:31 PM
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Fetish is definitely one of those words that's taken on so many different meanings that it becomes hard to use in a conversation without people talking past each other because they're using different definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:28 PM
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and women aren’t going to like when they’re offered EVEN MORE dick that they don’t want "No more dick please, I'm full."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:26 PM
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this thing with girls wanting to fuck guys with unusual accents is not really the same thing as when a white dude with yellow fever starts fetishing asian girls. those guys specifically seek out asian girls to fulfill their asian fetish and usually end up going to asia to find one. I guess I've never encountered that level of fetishisation of asians. There's a sizeable population of Pakistanis here but they tend to date within their own community and aren't typically seen as particularly attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:24 PM
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You asked, I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:12 PM
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Oof, careful with those accusations. Scots are stereotyped so much that our entire capital city is one big stereotype for the benefit of tourists and stuff like this plays on TV without anyone blinking an eye. We think it's hilarious and come up with things like wild haggis. Bonus video: How to attract/court a Scottish person Also oh god, the subtitles on that first link reminds me of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:09 PM
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I'm not sure why they think that women like being treated like a wet hole. What if she's into that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:27 PM
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I don't see the distinction though between women having a strong affinity for the Scottish thing, and some of the things that women strongly object to men being into. Why am I fine with women being super into my Scottishness when women say stuff like this: I’ve had Asian friends who broke up with their boyfriends when they found out the guys tended to date only Asian girls. It says a lot about what kind of man he is. I bet some of those Scottophile women would totally date only Scottish guys if …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:21 PM
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What is so great about being in a relationship with a very insecure person? The sex is amazing; fucking and fingering and sucking and toying and kinky shit all weekend long for hours each day. Incredible sex makes up for a lot. Yes. She sounds emotionally abusive. Yep, I get pretty pissed off at her for it, but then she gets me good and stoned and sticks her tongue up my ass and spends an hour enthusiastically gargling my cock and balls while I sit on her face and masturbate her, and then she ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:09 PM
1

I'm more than happy to humour women who want to see me in my kilt doing the whole-9-yards highlander thing. I'd wear a kilt during sex if she was into that. A Swedish gf once asked me to bring my kilt with me when I visited her in Sweden and I did so and it was fun and I've got pictures of myself in a kilt hanging out with her and her friends. I look the part, sound the part and can dress the part and I've never felt like that's the only thing women were interested in, I've always felt that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:03 PM
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Do YOU enjoy the thought of some dude jerking off while thinking of you? I do. I still fondly remember the time a gay guy asked if he could feel my ass and his friend grabbed my pecks and the one with his hands on my ass looked like he was feeling the best ass he'd ever come across, and I liked the time a little old lady on the train randomly started feeling up my arm and complimenting me on my muscles as I waited for the train to pull into the station and for the doors to open. It's validating …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:53 PM
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That's the great thing about British accents; there are so many of them. Even within a single city you get multiple accents. Different languages too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:41 PM
1

If being yourself got you anywhere in life, women would have no need for makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:14 PM
1

But lots of people only or predominately date older guys or younger girls or black girls or asian men or blond girls or hispanics or girls with size 5 feet or smaller or tall men or petite girls or guys with >7" cocks. As far as your gf goes...sounds like she’s bossing you around. Sounds like you take orders from her. Good thing she’s at least a little “jealous” or your relationship would be over by now. She's very insecure and I try to make the relationship work; is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:57 PM
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I’ve had Asian friends who broke up with their boyfriends when they found out the guys tended to date only Asian girls. It says a lot about what kind of man he is. So if saying 'I love that you're a redhead' can be a disastrous relationship-ender that marks you as a shitbag-tier male, what's a safe way to give compliments without just sounding like you're trying to friendzone her? This sounds awfully like trying to dance around women's neuroses and avoiding damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:37 PM
2

What do you mean by sculpting? Like, actively exercising to achieve a specific result?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:12 AM
2

To be fair, most women are bad in bed too; women have a terrible tendency to starfish and to be too shy to use their hands or take any initiative and it can start to feel like manoeuvring a RealDoll around the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 09:12 PM
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Prop myself up on my arms or rest some of my weight on her in a dominant 'you're trapped now' kind of way or hold her by the shoulders or put a hand around the back of her neck to push her down into a face-down-ass-up position or something along those lines. Depends on the exact position and how we're both feeling; prone bone vs doggie and that kind of thing. I also feel like if a girl has a big ass, it's like a pair of bumpers on her keeping me from penetrating her deeply; it gets in the way an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 09:08 PM
2

Never underestimate the ability of guys to have unusual tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:31 PM
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I had to look her up, never heard of her. She seems nice and everything and I can't fault her on anything, but she doesn't really do it for me. I guess the female equivalent is a hot guy who doesn't give you the tingles. You know they're hot on a technical level but your bits don't really respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:29 PM
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I think that's an awfully pessimistic view. What about the man who loves his wife and adores that she has the perfect 50J breasts he always fantasised about? He doesn't like her just for her 50J breasts, but they sure are the cherry on top. My gf's really into my long hair and I never worry that I could be replaced by any random long-haired guy. If I went to the US where there seem to be a substantial population of women who fetishise Scottish men, well, that's like a reason in itself to go the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 07:59 PM
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You need to leverage what you've got. I've got Asperger's and I'm pretty unsocial and most girls don't like that, but the minority that think Benedict Cumberbacht as Sherlock or Data from TNG are the hottest things ever? I clean up with those girls. Go for the ethnic-fetishists who find your ethnicity hot. I'm always amused at Asian girls who're disgusted and repulsed by guys who're into Asians because 'eww yellowfever, so gross' instead of being 'yay he's into me'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:53 PM
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It might be because you're immigrant; you know there's some truth to the saying 'they all look the same to me', since it's harder to judge appearance and attractiveness of people from different ethnic groups from your own, i.e. is that Chinese girl hot or not? I don't know, she looks Chinese, lets go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:16 PM
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I'm a sucker for a woman who's really nice to me, genuinely attracted to me and fucks me passionately and frequently. That's how my gf overcame her SMV handicap of being 9 years older with a kid and 3 (now 4) cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:08 PM
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I'd tell her to take it easy and stop trying to cross the finish line before the race has even started. I don't start LTR's with people I haven't even fucked yet; that's how dead bedroom clusterfuck relationships happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 05:05 PM
1

Well, there's many ways to be stunningly beautiful, just like there are many different types of equally good but radically different music and art. I like raspberries and vanilla ice cream and pancakes drizzled in honey and chocolate cake and toprib roast beef and haggis and fish suppers and I'd be really hard-pressed to pick one over the others because they're all great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:58 PM
1

How does it destroy them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:53 PM
1

What kind of porn are you watching where the girls are destroying themselves? Queensnake? (NSFW/NSFL)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:40 PM
1

Yep, I like a small, tight ass; big hips and asses put me off and don't appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:35 PM
1

Who wants to bet that one of these 'serial killers and rapists and stuff are so hot' women solves his incel problem for him now he's in the public limelight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:28 PM
1

Mild disgust because they're jealous? Usually I get a look of mild interest from them to go along with the embarrassment, vs the only-embarrassment 'oh sorry mate' sort of look I get from guys. Sometimes I see people I went to school or university with and I'm amazed at how poorly they've aged and how they look a decade or two older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:13 PM
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UK here too; I always enjoy being asked for ID and seeing the surprise and mild embarrassment on their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:00 PM
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Probably why she's posted on r/adorableporn. I like cute girls with petite body types. Too many people see a cute petite girl and jump straight to the conclusion that she's underage and plenty of cute petite women complain about people assuming they're underage well into their late 20's/early 30's. Hell, I'm 33 and I get asked for ID about half the time I go to the shops for tobacco because I age well, haven't put on weight and haven't started balding or going grey. It's always a hoot when the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:28 PM
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There’s an iffy ethical aspect to it - are the women emotionally damaged and being exploited and degraded? My gf is into the idea of doing porn with me as long as she gets to wear a mask for privacy (can't have the parents of the kids she looks after finding out). She's keener on it than I am. A lot of girls have the absolute most awesome time doing porn, and get paid a lot for it in the process. Some girls, sure, they're doing it to get through college, but other people have to work in McDonald…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:09 PM
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just didn’t think men were capable of giving that same feeling From what I've heard, most men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 12:57 PM
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Is she pre-op or post-op? Check out that bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 12:47 PM
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When did you find out that there were a million vibrators and dildos and jiggly toys for women and what did you make of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:41 AM
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He's just being an asshole and doing the 'omg she doesn't have tits down to her elbows and an ass that gets stuck in doorways, wtf you like 12 year old boys or something?' thing that people always do if you're not into 'real women with curves'. Besides, she isn't even naked, you can just see nips through her top. And that girl has more curves and bigger boobs than my own girlfriend and my girlfriend is 42 and has a kid. Edit: My point is perfectly made by his own submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:26 AM
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Is that something you weren't taught, or is it more a case of something you were taught that happened to be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:16 AM
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Probably wouldn't kick her out of bed unless she farted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:08 AM
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I don't get the big ass thing, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:34 AM
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I value a woman who fucks me until I'm sore and who's nice to me. Good fucks and being nice to me make me happy and content and not overly bothered about her looks as long as she's not actually repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:15 AM
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I wasn't really taught anything at all about women and I've never felt like that was a problem because I just figured it all out on my own without much bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:11 AM
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Everyone's an individual; the shallow shitty people are welcome to hook up with the other shallow shitty people and dump each other for shallow shitty reasons, hopefully leaving those of us with slightly deeper perspectives to get on with it. Of course, shallow shitty people hook up with non-shitty people and we know how that goes. This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 02:31 AM
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This man is maybe just a big idiot mouth. The last big idiot mouth got elected to POTUS, this guy's going places.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 02:25 AM
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Truly bipartisan support on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 02:24 AM
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Chad is in the eye of the beholder, and some beholders are into weird shit and get damn moist at the sight of the biggest pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 02:23 AM
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You're misinterpreting the meaning of 'who she is'; it's not some deep appreciation of her soul, it's an appreciation of her tits and ass; if they go, it's like a guy who gets fired from his job. To quote, in order to illustrate the concept (not necessarily to agree with it): http://www.elfriedejelinek.com/fjackie-ny.htm A woman gains value on account of her youth and beauty (both had it! But Marilyn was a creature of light, who defined herself through her exterior, the body, and you can’t objec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 02:04 AM
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Nope, though it does seem to be a slightly old saying, so maybe it's not used too much these days. https://www.cbeinternational.org/resources/article/priscilla-papers/gift-nobody-wants A variation of that false notion “form defines function for women” is the saying: “A man is what he does; a woman is what she is.” I suggest that some conservative circles have expanded that to: “A woman is whom she marries, and if she does not marry, she is in danger of becoming a nonperson.” https://www.nytimes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 01:54 AM
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Masculine forms of sexual expression are demonised IRL too. I recently replied to a guy who was asking what would happen if he wore a t-shirt that said 'if you want sex, just grab my crotch'; I told him that he would not get the result he was hoping for and was likely to be ostracised, insulted, assaulted, denied entry to establishments and generally find himself treated in a very hostile and negative manner, and that t-shirts with 'fuck me' type messages on them only work for girls, because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 01:29 AM
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Have you heard the saying "a woman is what she is, a man is what he does"? Basically it means women need to be pretty and men need to be doctors and lawyers. A woman's worth is defined by her physical appearance and a man's worth is defined by his income and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 01:15 AM
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The promiscuous one; she'll want my dick, she'll need my dick, she'll make enthusiastic noises as she sucks drops of come from it. The chaste one will need encouragement to even touch my dick. The promiscuous one will be much harder to satisfy sexually; she'll want it for hours, in every kinky way possible, daily, whereas the chaste one will want it for 15 minutes once a week in the same position each time. Any guy with a pulse could satisfy the chaste one and my skills are wasted, but the promi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 01:29 PM
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Giving yourself up for nothing That's a strange way to describe getting laid. evolutionary aversion to investing in the village bicycle This is gold though, well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:01 AM
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You know those documentaries about weird people like the guy with an ass for a face or whatever the hell they can dig up to amuse and titillate audiences? It's like that. People want a gawk and a giggle at the incels and to find out what's going on with them and why they're like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:43 PM
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Problematic is a term that's overused in SJW discourse to the point that it becomes a hilarious target of parody, and I'm making fun of the term by pitting it against another overused and awful SJW term, triggered. You know how everything comes with a trigger warning these days and everything is problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 07:35 PM
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problematic Please don't use the p-word, it is my trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:43 PM
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Incapacitating them is the goal though? A guy might need a followup punch to complete the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:07 PM
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Women seem to be doing just fine in higher education. If they're suffering from some cognitive deficit compared to men, isn't it strange that they outnumber men at universities these days? There may indeed be a 1.8 IQ point advantage to men, but it doesn't seem to have much real world impact and cultural, behavioural and personal preference factors seem far more important. 1.8 IQ points is a very small difference that's probably not even reliably measurable at the level of individuals, only when…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:22 PM
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My female friends tell me I need time alone which to me sounds absolutely retarded It is retarded; they're advising you do something that's only going to work for women. A woman can take time to find herself and fuck her yoga instructor and then jump back into dating as and when she pleases and have 10 people willing to date her by the end of the week. If she mopes around for a few months her girlfriends will start setting her up with guys, and guys will hit on her when she's out and about. A gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:49 AM
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The missing women problem isn't actually as bad as it was once thought to be; it turns out a great many of the women weren't abandoned to die but were raised by their families and simply never registered with the government, and now that they're adults they're popping up in official records again as they seek employment and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:34 AM
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The entire article just seems incoherent to me. I can't figure out what sort of point they're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:51 AM
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Yes, I'm not some alphachadly ultra dominant guy who keeps frame and all that shit; I'm quiet and socially awkward and poor but I look good and have a nice body and god-tier long hair that makes women jealous and I'm good at making women come and I'm able to leverage that to make up for my deficits and the result is that my girlfriend grabs me and eats my ass because I just turn her on that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:06 AM
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I get it so easy in my relationship because I'm younger than my partner and she thinks I'm the hottest thing ever. Everything's just easy mode all the time. Doesn't matter that I've got no money and I'm socially awkward and don't like going out, she still wants to fuck my brains out and take care of me. Also I make her come a lot. Like, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 08:51 AM
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And thank god for that; just last night she fed my narcissism by sending me a message saying "Think your [sic] hot". What guy isn't going love having a girl who tells them they're hot? Especially a girl who then follows up with "I should do more to you". Such a girl is a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 08:41 AM
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Disappointment when you compare your gains to what men get from the same amount of effort, I mean. Improving your strength is great, but it's the comparison with men that's going to eat at you. It's a bit like men comparing their dating success with women and seeing that after moving mountains they've still only gotten laid a tenth as much as some girl who threw her pussy out there and said 'come get it boys'; it's going to breed a certain degree of frustration and resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:10 AM
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Who's shaming the daddy play girls? That's a third of the girls I've done stuff with. My current girlfriend likes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:19 AM
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What? Who says that? I mean, a lot of them do like to be abused, but who's saying they're sick and twisted because of it? My own observations have been that women are free and encouraged to be open about their sexuality and kinks, but that if a man expresses his sexuality and especially if he expresses his kinks, it's perceived as threatening and makes people uncomfortable and he gets shut down and possibly called a creep. I'm sure it varies a bit depending on location and culture, but it's cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:17 AM
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Aren't you setting yourself up for disappointment by focusing on your strength? If you focussed on flexibility you'd be the one with the gender advantage over the guys. I haven't been in a gym for many years, but I'm still walking around with good muscle definition and a 6ft tall girl (2 inches taller than me) who works out loads and cycles everywhere was amazed at my ability to effortlessly overpower her and by my unbudgeable steel grip. She thought she was strong, but there was no comparison t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:10 AM
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For every guy that likes big tits there's a guy who thinks small tits are gorgeous. I like small tits for example; they're lovely and I like the overall slim petite look rather than the big buxom babe look. I also wouldn't kick someone out of bed for being buxom; I'm happy either way, just a bit happier one way than the other way. It's rare though to find a woman who likes short men; that's like finding a man who's into really hairy women, and women in general treat short men the way men in gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:04 PM
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I'm just thinking of how much fun could be had with that by playing it up, hidden-camera-show-style. Imagine if you were both in on the joke and she'd flinch when you came near her and stuff like that. But yes, also terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:55 PM
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I definitely lean on my looks and enjoy the advantages of being regarded as hot. It's not really that helpful when dating, but once in a relationship women have in some cases been eager to please and more forgiving of my deficits in the money/status departments because they find me attractive. It doesn't get me any traction with your typical average-to-hot 20-something, but my girlfriend is 9 years older than me and the hot playboy factor is quite prominent in the relationship dynamic and I like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:48 PM
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What's the question here? Some people have a lot more partners than other people; you're just confusing the issue by bringing gender into it. It doesn't matter if they're male or female; it's still a fact that some of them will have lots of partners, some of them will have no partners and most of them will be somewhere in-between. If they get insecure about that, well, what about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:39 PM
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How's a man supposed to live up to a studly standard when at most he'll probably sleep with like 6 women? That number includes all the guys who never have an interest in sex or who marry their highschool sweetheart and are only ever with the one woman, and the guys with severe disabilities and the guys with a face that looks like a pepperoni pizza that got run over by a garbage truck and so on, so the number for guys-who-actively-seek-partners-and-who-don't-have-issues-that-largely-exclude-them-…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:01 PM
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It's really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:34 PM
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People on r/relationships would tell you to leave him; that's the standard line on that sub to any and all problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:23 PM
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You must be really afraid of pregnancy if the fear of it is enough to stop you from hooking up with women you're attracted to. Couldn't you just take precautions? There's no rule saying you even have to stick your dick in a girl's pussy when you hook up; there's a tonne of other stuff you can do that would be fun and carry no pregnancy risk. Well, sometimes even a blowjob can get someone pregnant, but those are some long odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:15 AM
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Are you attracted to them or do they not arouse any feelings in you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 01:53 AM
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i wanna ask for advice how can i make him happy without having sex Oh, I was about to give you advice on sexing him often and sexing him well since that works great for my girlfriend, but nevermind, I'm out of ideas now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 01:34 AM
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And here I am fondly remembering the time an old lady on the train randomly started feeling up my bicept and commented on my physique as we were pulling into the station and I was standing at the doors waiting to get off, not because I had any sexual interest in her, but just because it was flattering to be noticed like that. Or the several times gay guys have commented on my ass, including when I let 2 gay guys I was friends with sandwich me between them (fully clothed) for an extra good feel o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 12:13 AM
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What part do you find hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:46 PM
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I'm 33 and dating a 42 year old woman who's got a teenage kid and 4 cats. She's delighted to have me as her boyfriend and she puts a tonne of effort into keeping me boyfriended, thus making me delighted to have her as a girlfriend. She doesn't let any wall hold her back or doom her to misery and loneliness. Instead she fucks my brains out at every opportunity and in every way I could want and makes me pancakes afterwards. She knows she's not some 20 year old piece of hot ass who can zero-effort …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:16 PM
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Social media has so much to answer for. My girlfriend nags me to go places just so she has a picture of something to post on Facebook so her friends and family think she has a life and she gets distraught if I merely made her come 60 times over an 11 day period because that's not something she can post for her mum to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:36 PM
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I have a friend who worked as an escort in London; she loved it, had a list of regular clients, made a few hundred pounds a night and enjoyed a party lifestyle with lots of alcohol and coke, which I suspect were provided for free by the guys she associated with. She was young but fat and not at all attractive and still had absolutely no problems getting work and finding clients she was happy to have sex with. One of her clients ended up becoming her boyfriend and she only stopped escorting becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:17 PM
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Don't forget that you get the rest of the month off if you want because you made £3k from that gangbang, or you can work the rest of the month and retire in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:02 PM
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Yes, it would solve many problems for me and I'd be good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:56 PM
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A better comparison might be a homeless guy vs a woman who would be homeless except she shacks up with a guy and lives rent free while having sex with him a few times a week. Technically the guy could do the same, but realistically a homeless guy is going to have a vastly more difficult time finding someone who's up for a formerly homeless dude sucking their dick for rent, so he doesn't have the same level of opportunity as the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:28 AM
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It certainly is sensitive, and covered in little bumps around each follicle that are easy to nick. I use an electric shaver and when doing my balls I use the trimmer on it and kind of hover over my balls with it without touching the skin, just shaving the ball-hairs down to a few mm in length. If I want a more thorough job than that I use hair removal cream to get rid of the remainder; some guys describe it like applying flaming napalm to their bits, but it doesn't bother me at all and it means …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:26 PM
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How are they getting these blood blisters? I don't think I've ever had a blood blister on my bits and I'm having a hard time imagining how men end up with what could be described as tons of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:44 PM
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I don't think men typically marry for the purpose of securing a future supply of sex; if any do, they're naiive or dumb or both. I expect the men that get married do so for other reasons and sex is tangential to their decision to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:29 PM
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This is exactly why; it's the responsive desire vs spontaneous desire thing. Many women just aren't going to think about it much without something to remind them that sex exists and is enjoyable and without someone or something to get them into the mood and worked up for it, whereas with men their biology will just randomly scream at them 'SEX! You should do it. Go on, do it. Doooooo it. I'm going to nag you about this non-stop until you come, you feel that erection and how it really wants to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:38 PM
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If my gf didn't enjoy me going down on her it would get pretty boring for me and I'd do it less and probably not for 30-60 minutes at a time, but I'd still find it hot sometimes to have her wet pussy in my face and my tongue inside her tasting and exploring her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:06 PM
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I'll answer for my gf here and say that she likes me fully shaved, sometimes I use hair removal cream on my bits too to make it even nicer for her (I'm one of those guys who doesn't feel any pain from slathering that stuff all over my balls, taint and asshole). She likes sticking her tongue up my ass and having me sit on her face and sucking my dick and balls while I get her off, so I do my best to keep things meticulously groomed and clean, and having it hairless is generally better for her and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 07:52 PM
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India, home of the creepily inappropriate and sexually clueless dudes who get way too excited way too easily and make everything harder for the rest of us by creeping on women like a bunch of 8 year olds with adult libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:02 PM
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I can't say how well it works as a strategy for boyfriending the average male; I might be a special case and a woman employing the strategy might just get pumped and dumped by some asshole 99% of the time, I don't know. It worked in this one case, with this one girl with this one guy. My girlfriend isn't your typical high-libido girl; her libido is pretty average in normal circumstances (i.e, when I'm not around to get her worked up). She's not the sort of girl to seek out sex for the sake of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 08:49 PM
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Then you'll need to romance someone over dinner or whatever it is the normies do; seems overly complicated to me, but each to their own. I just eat a girl out rather than taking them out to eat and that's worked pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 07:31 PM
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Glasgow, Scotland. I'm not looking to pick up people in bars these days, but it's still disconcerting to be in a bar with friends and there's all these guys who look like they work out or at least take care of themselves or at the very least know when to put down a cheeseburger and then a group of 12 girls come traipsing in and every one of them is either overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 06:03 PM
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There seems to be a bit of an assumption that high-libido girls don't exist and that sex is necessarily a transactional affair in which the woman provides sex in exchange for a relationship and that a woman is thus being unfairly treated if she has sex and doesn't receive x,y,z benefits in payment for her bodily sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:06 PM
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I was nice from the start, that's why she wanted to keep seeing me. Obviously I'm not going to spend all day re-flooring the house of someone I didn't even know yesterday unless they're paying me to do it, but I'll be cuddly and affectionate with them right from the start if we're physically intimate (if the girl hates that as some do, well, it's not going to work out between us) and I'll have long conversations with them about all kinds of things as we get to know each other. This isn't someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:25 PM
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I just made it and you haven't disproved it, just like you claimed that I only care because it's easy and I haven't disproved that. It's easy to throw baseless accusations around; I could keep it up all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:35 PM
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Those stains are hard to get out, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:57 PM
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You haven't disproved that you beat your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:52 PM
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Ouch, the judgement from someone who knows nothing about me. There are reasons why I was invited back again and again and why she was keen on boyfriending me and is fiercely territorial and deeply concerned that other women will steal me. Things just don't start off as bf/gf from day 1; my relationships typically begin with casual sex and then if we like each other and we're compatible it develops from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:30 PM
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I feel like I can walk into a random bar and be surrounded by dudes who look like they work out and "looks-max" as some call it. Bars around here are awful. They're full of good-looking fit guys but the good looking fit girls are a small minority; most of the girls are fat and you end up wondering what the hell happened to fit girls and if the fat girls ate them all. It's better away from bars; the bars just seem to attract all the fat girls, who probably get fat from slurping down sugary cockta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:07 PM
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My gf started off with 'ok lets meet for casual sex', but I'm not a one-time kind of guy and I like to go back for seconds, thirds etc if the first time went well, so she had the opportunity to sex me repeatedly and she did it well and often and followed it up with post-coital pancakes and I stopped being her fuckular associate and became her boyfriend who does boyfriend stuff like cuddle her, install laminate flooring for her and evict spiders from the bathroom. Affection and commitment blossom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 05:17 AM
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I've got an official pickle tickler.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:16 AM
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You're doing a public service and should be commended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:13 AM
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Sometimes, it depends on the girl, and the guy, and the other guys. Girls can be horny and monogamous and only want their bits done by their boyfriend. It's not even uncommon. Or girls can be horny and want their bits done by half the male population on a first-come comes-first basis. If you do a girls bits well enough, she might decide that you're her official bit-doer from now on, and you'll get the experience of having to supply a lot of sex to a girl who wants a lot of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:02 AM
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With time, the lying is lazy replacement for foreplay. Damn, all those sore arms and sore tongues from foreplay when I could just have lied and told them I'm a stockbroker. I've been doing stuff the hard way all this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:47 PM
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No, the 0 confidence ones won't have sex with guys because they think they're already balancing on the knife edge of driving the guy away and that if they take their clothes off he'll see what a disgusting mess she is and that if they have sex he'll realise how pathetic she is in bed and the end result is that he'll flee and she'll die alone with her 12 cats. You want the high-libido girls who'll want sex for the sake of sex, and who'll be good at it because they think about it a lot and do it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:43 PM
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I doubt I was her favourite person in the BPD FP sense of the term; she had other friends she saw a lot more often than me (non-sexually, as far as I know). There was never a sense of her trying to fuse with me, she enjoyed my company when she had it and was fine with not having it when she didn't have it. She did find herself able to talk to me about things she couldn't talk to other people about, so besides sex, I became a source of advice to her and a way for her to unload, and she's continue…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:26 PM
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How does lying to get sex work? What do they lie about and why does this help them get laid? Do they promise the extravagant white wedding of your dreams if you'll just drop your panties for them? My experience has been of girls wanting to drop those panties for the sake of getting laid, not because they wanted something besides sex from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:14 PM
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Yes, you're being a massive pussy. BPD girls, if she even is one, aren't monsters. They're just a bit crazier than usual, and most girls are pretty crazy to begin with, so you'd better get used to a certain level of crazy. It's not like she's a psychopath who's going to eat your eyeballs. Enjoy the attention and repay her by making her happy or picking her up from the hospital after she cuts her wrists or whatever, don't slap her in the face with 'you're nice to me so you must be a fucking nutca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:51 PM
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Even a woman who sleeps with a lot of guys isn't going to be a 24/7 sex machine that's always up for it, and it certainly wouldn't be the first time she'd not been in the mood with someone, so it wouldn't bother me at all, just like a guy not being in the mood isn't a reason for a girl to freak out that she's ugly and nobody will ever love or want her. If they're consistently not in the mood, that's a problem, and that's why I'd be suspicious of the virgin and to a lesser degree the inexperience…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:14 PM
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This could be rephrased as 'do you think splashing acid in your daughter's face will improve her quality of life?'. Of course I'd want my daughter to be beautiful, and if she enjoyed getting nailed 6 ways to Sunday, I'd be glad she's living life to the fullest and that she had the looks to allow her to do that with alpha studs and not the greasy bloke down the local bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:05 PM
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The daughters question is easier to answer; I'd want beautiful perverted daughters because they'll probably have more fun and happier lives than some sour-faced biddy with a dried up vag, and I'd want my kids to be happy. For a relationship, I've never fucked a virgin, so that's got novelty value, but for a relationship it's probably not ideal to have someone who's that sexually inexperienced. If she's a virgin past her mid 20's, I'd want to know why. If she's religious or conservative or low-li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:52 PM
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I don't like a vagina to be too tight. My partner has an issue where the closer she gets to coming, the more her vaginal muscles clench shut like a steel trap, pushing me out and preventing reentry. Sometimes I can barely get a finger in her and it's frustrating, other times she's relaxed and I can fuck her as I please and can get most of my hand in her. She's in her 40's and has had a kid and she can still crush my knuckles together hard enough to be painful when I finger her. It can be fun whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:42 PM
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Yes, because it's hot and fun and gets them off and makes them think I'm the best thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:28 PM
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It's also the great filter that separates the bicurious-when-drunk women from the women who're actually bi or gay; the ones who'll make out with a woman but make excuses to leave when confronted with the prospect of clamping their mouth around another woman's box just aren't that into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:25 PM
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I bring sex, long hair and good looks. It's the main thing I've got going for me. I don't have money or status but I do stuff to my gf's bits and she'll claw the eyes out of anyone who tries to steal me. I'm also handy for fixing things. Like her pipes. But also other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:54 PM
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Except that men are a lot less likely than women to read sex advice columns, so what might seem obvious and 'everyone knows' to most women could be a revelation to a guy who's kept his mind on typical guy stuff. Not much sex advice in Cars Monthly or suchlike, and some guys would be embarrassed and ashamed to read the kind of stuff where sex advice tends to be found. Not all guys, but enough to account for a whole lot of totally confused and sexually ignorant men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:58 PM
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Yes, he wasn't some kinky sex god who lost his edge once they got married, she just always hoped he'd get better and everything else apart from the sex was great so she hung on. He's a good catch apart from the sex, and the sex isn't awful, just very vanilla and a lot shorter and less frequent than she'd like. I was her fuck buddy once upon a time, so I get to hear about it when she's feeling frustrated and nostalgic and she hits me up for advice from a guy's perspective on how to improve things…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:47 PM
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Yes, she's too embarrassed to communicate these things to him and wants stuff done to her without needing to ask for it. After 1 year of trying the telepathic method the most she's gotten is his hands around her throat for a bit and a lot of frustration. There's another friend who's bf is offended by the idea of using toys and even gets offended at using lube and thinks she should always be gushing wet all by herself during sex and takes it personally if she's not, but that's a whole other probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:59 PM
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you need to open your damn mouth to whoever you're screwing and actually communicate. This. A friend keeps bringing up how her low-libido and inhibited husband won't do all the kinky things she wants in bed, but she won't talk to him about it. She keeps trying to fix the issue via telepathy, or giving subtle hints of the sort girls give off, which basically amounts to expecting telepathy from the guy. A simple 'please stick it in my ass' could work wonders for their marriage, but nope, it's all …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:33 PM
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You should see the train wreck that results when those types marry each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:46 PM
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You know how there are differences* between male and female brains? Well, turns out differences cause differences. *Insert caveats about 'on average' and 'yes I know your friend Suzanne is a car mechanic but that's an outlier'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:27 PM
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Very much depends on the guy. Some guys will be unfazed and give no fucks about what happened, some will be scarred for life. It goes for girls too, some girls will just shrug it off, others will be all kinds of messed up by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:22 PM
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Only social deviants like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:03 PM
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Not going to bars alone is one strategy; it can be dangerous to go to bars alone as a guy because other guys will pick fights with you for sitting near them and their girlfriend or for looking at their girlfriend or for having your phone out because 'you must be taking pictures of me' or for talking to their mate's girlfriend or ex or receiving attention from a girl you're not 'allowed' to recieve attention from or any one of numerous other reasons. A lot of people both male and female absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:36 PM
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I've encountered this; I know someone who goes through guys on a monthly basis. She's not attractive but she throws that pussy out there and the guys go for it, then they run for the hills a few weeks later when they find out about her baby fever and her obsession with getting pregnant from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:46 PM
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You really haven't seen women enjoying sex and seeking it out? What's up with the thousands of different dildos and buttplugs and vibrators that women buy and the porn that women watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:09 PM
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Try minecraft. I think e-girls must be behind about half the drama on the server I play on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:11 PM
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My personal experiences of women who've kind of pounced on me from time to time and dragged me to their lairs for snoosnoo when I have no wealth or social status to give them ulterior motives. Also my observations that women really, really enjoy sex (or good sex, at least), much more than men do. They have amazing orgasms that go on for ages, and their build-up to orgasm looks and sounds awesome too. Plus all the girls I've known with kinky, dirty minds who thought about sex plenty and get off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:00 AM
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If you ever want to see brutal female-female interactions, try online games where there's an 80:20 male to female ratio. You get girls (referred to as e-girls) who lap up the male attention and get into big catfights with other e-girls that are obviously the result of 'there can be only one' type thinking where a girl enjoys being the only girl in a group and the centre of attention and hates the competition from the other girl. It doesn't really happen with the girls who don't play up the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:39 AM
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What experiences have brought you to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:26 AM
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Girls get a million times more handsy and gropey than guys do, both with guys and with other girls. Guys are taught not to touch and if they don't learn that lesson the easy way, someone will teach it to them the hard way, but girls aren't taught that and once they've got a few drinks in them they're cupping the boobs of the girl going around with the drinks tray, grabbing guy's asses, feeling up the well-built dude's arms without asking, doing all sorts of stuff that would never be tolerated fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:51 PM
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"Oooh, nice car." Translation: "Look at the size of the wallet on that one!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:02 PM
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A woman loves you until you fail in some way, or someone better comes along, at which point her vagina shrivels up when she's around you. Women are far less forgiving of a partner's faults and weaknesses than men are; a woman can be a mess in all kinds of ways, but it's ok as long as she's attractive and spreads her legs, and even the attractive part isn't that important and can be compensated by wider and more frequent leg spreading. In other words, a woman who loves you will likely continue to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:57 PM
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There's neediness and there's neediness; being fawned over is great, but having someone blow up your phone while you're taking a shower because they're mortally terrified that you're cheating on them isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:58 PM
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They feel it more. They're more driven by their desire to satisfy what's throbbing in their pants than women will ever be. Give them the right... substances... and they can get that same distracting throbbing in their pants. Sometimes my gf's been up all night masturbating because she had a clitoral erection that wouldn't go away and it drove her to distraction and she couldn't keep herself from touching and playing with it and trying to get herself off repeatedly. It's fun to see her trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:50 PM
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And the wolves too; white patriarchy got to them and taught them the same lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 01:06 AM
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Maybe I benefited from the fact that porn at that time, for me, was pictures (often censored) and potato-resolution 30 second clips downloaded over dialup, so I started with wikipedia and expanded my reading from there, getting the very core fundamentals of sex in place from the start; I already had a keen scientific curiosity, and expanding my research to include human sexuality was easy. I'd also spend many hours imagining it in my head (being a horny boy in the throes of puberty was ample mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 10:29 PM
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The thing I keep struggling with though is why so many men suck so badly at this when it's really not so terribly difficult when you get down to it, but I guess the answer to that is that most men don't give a shit if they're good or not as long as they themselves get off, and women are too shy to speak up about it and possibly just kind of accept that sex is usually bad and unsatisfying and that it's normal for it to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:54 PM
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I said I wasn't great initially; I meant in the literal sense of not-yet-reached-greatness, not in the implied sense of kind-of-sucked. I was still decent and had a solid grounding in the theory behind what I was doing, allowing me to swiftly adapt to the specifics of the woman I was with. Licking a pussy isn't really that difficult to do at least a reasonable job at, and you quickly figure out how to home in on her sweet spots by monitoring her reactions and adjusting appropriately. If a guy ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:46 PM
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The inability to orgasm from PIV alone thing shouldn't be a problem because they should be having lots more than just PIV. Are most guys really just banging away at a girl until the guy comes and calling it sex? My gf rarely comes from PIV alone, but sure comes from all the other stuff I do to her, or she'll masturbate while I fuck/lick/suck her various bits, sometimes holding my head right where she wants it until she's done or that kind of thing. It can take a while; sometimes my face and tong…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:17 PM
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They take not being an idiot and having some god damned pride in your work. Google gives men all the sexual advice they could ever need at their fingertips. I was using it when I was 14 to figure out female sexual anatomy so that I'd know how to properly finger and go down on girls when the time came, and when I had sex for the first time 2 years later I knew what I was doing and had her legs twitching and had her asking for more. I wasn't great at it back then, but I did my research and hit the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:39 PM
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Only if they've got good jobs; women can get away with waitressing until they become a stay-at-home mum who does her mothering job in her pyjamas, but that doesn't work with guys, who have to keep slogging it up those steps in order to be attractive and don't get to use the escalator, and know that if they slip and fall (get fired/sick/whatever), the chances of her leaving him are excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:27 PM
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It's also much higher for them every other step of the way, not just for that first step. Those high steps get tiring, and then you look over your shoulder and see the women riding the escalator and hear them complaining about how slow it is, and that's when the bitterness sets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:17 PM
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I really want to know what's wrong with all these guys. I can accept there being a few idiots who never get it, but for it to be the case that the overwhelming majority of men just never figure out how to satisfy women or never have the desire to do so is a bit baffling. Are most guys not horny enough to want to play with a girl and experiment with ways to get her all wet and moaning and flushed from head to toe and covered in sweat? Do they have poor observational skills and fail to notice the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:02 PM
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Women also used to get stoned for adultery and had their sexuality heavily controlled by society. Now men have the same anti-rape and anti-violence restrictions, but in ever more effectively enforced and stringent forms, while women are ever more sexually free with their sexuality being embraced and celebrated by society and having access to abortions and many different forms of highly effective birth control (men are still shamed for expressing their sexuality, male sexuality being perceived as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 07:39 PM
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I've never seen this POV before, but it rather nicely explains why so many men these days feel like they're getting a raw deal. Men's baser strategies are outlawed and rightfully so, but women are absolutely free to engage in their own baser strategies without consequence or restriction, and men perceive this as having the playing field heavily tilted against them, which leads to movements to reintroduce male counters to female sexual strategies in more morally acceptable forms than rape, like g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 07:31 PM
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I used to study this stuff at university years ago. I think it was somewhere in the Amazon basin or at least a tropical riparian environment of that nature where each tribe along the river thought that they were the only tribe with souls, and would kill any members of the tribes up or downstream without any conscience, since they viewed them all as soulless demons who came and raided and killed them. I've no idea what was done with the women, but certainly the men were killed whenever the opport…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 06:24 PM
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Because you thought you fucked the best, then you met a better best the next day. Then a better better best. Reminds me of some bpd women I've known. They can't say 'no' when a better best comes knocking, and no matter how awesome a guy is, there's always a guy who's taller, stronger, better looking, wealthier and/or has a bigger cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 05:57 PM
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Management executive? I already want to bring back the death penalty on the basis of that alone. The picture of him does nothing to dissuade me from this. He seems like a complete cock and a danger to his next gf who needs to be given a time out in prison to appreciate the seriousness of his actions, but I'm not familiar with the case beyond what I read in 5 minutes of googling. Stabbing and burning someone is no light matter, so the sentence is rather surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 05:06 PM
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The difficulty is that you can't always psychologise your way out of problems. If I get a harsh rejection, I'm not thinking 'what's wrong with me?'; what's happening is that the rejection gives my amygdala a really good tickle, and then my vagal nerve gets in on the action, so now I'm feeling physically sick with that stomach-dropping sensation, I've got a bit of a cold sweat going, my adrenaline's pumping at the same time as my body is trying to shut down and I feel absolutely awful in the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:50 PM
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Oh well, I haven't heard of that one either; I don't keep up to date on new films since I don't go to the cinema and just catch them a year or two down the line, or whenever I'm bored and google 'films 2016' or something and look for something that appeals. Everyone's been talking lately about A Handmaid's Tale and I know there was a movie for it too, so I figured it was about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:12 PM
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Ugly woman; my ugly female friends can get all the dick they want, all day every day. I'm a reasonably attractive guy and pussy is a scarce and valuable resource to me when I'm not in a relationship; I can't just throw my dick out there like my friends throw their pussy out there and expect people of the opposite gender to leap onto it crotch-first. Also women have such an amazing capacity to feel pleasure that it makes me really jealous and I wish I could experience that; even if I was so ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:06 PM
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I probably wouldn't have heard about TRP if it wasn't for seeing men being denounced as redpillers for their views. Eventually, you start to want to check out what this red pill stuff is that everyone's always on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:46 PM
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I haven't seen it and only heard about the book/film/series last week, but I was much amused by this thread about it and how the strong, independent wymen of TrollX were taking it surprisingly seriously as a plausible future possibility: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrollXChromosomes/comments/6apnr2/watching_the_handmaids_tale_is_throwing_me_into/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:43 PM
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I don't care how ugly she is; I'll still see it as at least mildly positive that she's hitting on me. Having an ugly person hitting on me is better than having nobody hitting on me; I don't get hit on enough to go 'ugh, how dare they, can't they see I'm better than that?'. Instead, I'll just be flattered and let her down as gently as possible, and it's not like I'm really that picky anyway, so depending on beer goggles/thirst/her charming personality/whatever other factors are in play, I might g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:14 PM
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It kind of guarantees that the guys who'll be approaching are mainly the douchebro types who don't give a fuck about the girl's opinions of them and are immune to the harsh rejections since they're emotionally stunted anyway and lack self-reflection and aren't going to spiral into depression and self-doubt from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:42 PM
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fainting couch feminism This is a great description for what we're seeing more and more of these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:54 PM
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Yeah, it just doesn't take too many of those hostile experiences to put you right off of approaching people altogether, especially when you then come online and there's all these girls talking about how much they hate being approached and it's rare to see a girl who's not joined at the hip to a friend or 7, and in these defensive circle formations on the dance floor and that kind of thing. Sometimes a girl will be on her own, but she'll be sitting next to a seat that's obviously occupied and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:28 PM
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Eh, girls are not really very approachable in bars and clubs either. They're typically with their 7 other girlfriends and turn into complete bitches if you approach them, then collectively harass you for the rest of the night to punish you for your impudence. It's better if it's a girl with just 1 or 2 friends, but then you've sometimes got the jealous ex-bf or the friend of the ex-bf coming up and threatening you, or the 1 or 2 friends give you the death-stare or some shit like that, and some b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 11:14 AM
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Indeed I am, my scion of mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 10:35 AM
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The study I cited with a 41% false accusation rate had very strict criteria for determining an accusation to be false; only a recantation by the woman herself qualified a rape accusation as false. I also dug up the full text of the paper: https://archive.org/stream/FalseRapeAllegations/false-rape-allegations-archive_djvu.txt With the cooperation of the police agency of a small metropolitan community, 45 consecutive, disposed, false rape allegations covering a 9 year period were studied. These fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:19 AM
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I'd genetically engineer myself if I could. Of course I'd want superior kids, if I was going to have kids; the better the better. Maybe I could have 20 genetically engineered transhuman kids exhibiting archetypal traits and being prime examples of the human form and intellect. I could call them, I dunno... primarchs, possibly. Then I could start wearing lots of bling and get really into skull and eagle motifs. Maybe have a flaming sword or something. I'd probably need it for resolving family squ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 02:07 AM
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It's at least being increasingly recognised as a real problem, even as feminists try to spin it as practically non-existent. The actual numbers are fucking shocking when you dig into it: The purpose of this paper is to report the findings on the incidence of false rape allegations from a long-term study of one city’s police agency. This investigation is a case study of one police agency in a small metropolitan area in the Midwestern United States. This city was picked because it offered an almos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:06 PM
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My bpd fuckbuddy had to face serious assault charges for breaking her then-bf's pinky during some kind of argument. She got off with a fine, but it was hanging over her head for 2 years and cost her a lot between fines, court fees and plane tickets to fly home multiple times to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:35 PM
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By far the biggest thing that would concern me regarding race and dating is this kind of thing: https://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/Newsroom/images/STD-Surveillance/2010/gonorrhea-chart-4.jpg https://www.childtrends.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/108_fig3.jpg http://slideplayer.com/slide/5176194/16/images/19/Chlamydia+Reported+Rates+by+Race+and+Gender:+United+States,+2004.jpg https://www.cdc.gov/STD/stats12/figs/l.gif I'd just be way, way less comfortable dating someone who was at such a massively incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:44 PM
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A female friend of mine kept arguing with me about Tinder because she was getting loads of guys on it while I was getting a truly miniscule fraction as many women and she couldn't accept that I wasn't somehow doing it wrong, so I set up a new tinder account with my details for her to use as she saw fit. Didn't take her long to give up and never mention it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:15 PM
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I think you're right; the relationship wall is probably far more of a real thing than the sexual wall. I have fun with my older gf, but I don't want to commit to her. I'm still young and want to be playing the field for many years to come, and if I was going to commit to someone, which I don't​ think will happen, I'd be much more inclined to do it with a younger woman, who I could hopefully relate to better and have more in common with. My mum, though, was able to get a new partner at 45 after h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:23 PM
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You being so grossed out by women does not bode well for your abilities in bed. You've got to get right down there in the mess, son; if you're horrified by women's bodies, you're going to lose out to a guy like me who'll have his tongue in every orifice, isn't phased in the slightest by periods, still thinks she's awesome on her bad days, discretely handles any whoopsie moments without embarrassing her and generally isn't an obnoxious twat about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:46 PM
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Moss is the finest toilet paper there is; it's like a cool, wet sponge for wiping your ass with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:28 PM
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Can anyone explain this to me? https://onlinedoctor.superdrug.com/uploads/images/prevalence/stds-europe-vs-us.png What the hell is going on in the US that there's such a massive problem with chlamydia and gonorrhoea relative to Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:58 PM
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I get where you're coming from here, but I think you're missing another part of the equation; men have to work harder in general because women are less interested in us than we are in them. If all guys were Brad Pitt (no better or worse, just an even field of Pitts), there would be lots of frustrated Brads because 1/3rd of the women would be choosing to be single, most wouldn't want casual sex etc, so every Brad would be competing for a much smaller pool of willing-to-sleep-with-Brads women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:18 PM
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The problem with that chart is that men are women are scaled identically. To be more realistic, men's peak SMV should be some small fraction of women's peak SMV; maybe as low as 1/5th.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:59 PM
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I'm coming for your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:56 PM
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My gf's had a kid and had her vagina stitched up, and sometimes I have to tell her to relax her kegels a bit because my cock's going numb from being squeezed so hard, plus sometimes her vagina kind of tightens up involuntarily and it's hard to even get a finger in her, and then other times I can get most of my hand inside her. I can feel where she was stitched when my fingers are inside her, but it doesn't make it any better or worse, just very slightly different. Some vaginas feel a lot better …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:37 PM
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Yeah, I'm 33 and dating a 41 year old woman, and she wants more committent from me and says that I'm basically her last, best chance at happiness since if things don't work out with me, she'll be too old to start over and she'd never find anyone she's so attracted to ever again (her previous bf's have all been munters). She really seems to think that if I leave her, she might as well just pack up shop and sew it shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:14 PM
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I definitely get approached by older women; sometimes they make eyes at me until their girlfriend shoves them in my direction and I start a conversation with them. It helps a lot that older women tend to go out with just one or two friends, and not do the huge group of girls thing that younger girls do, which totally kills any potential for having a one-to-one with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:08 PM
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You realise that a 30 year old pussy, a 20 year old pussy and a 40 year old pussy look, smell and feel almost identical, right? Even after a kid, where the woman's had her torn vagina stitched up afterwards, there's barely any difference. The main differences are just natural variation from woman to woman that have little to do with age or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:02 PM
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Do you know Florida man? I hear he's a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:56 PM
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Many girls these days never learn to be 'handy' because they're never expected to fix things, assemble things, dig holes, chop trees, use tools etc, and sewing and knitting and stuff isn't taught as much, but they have really good coordination and can be excellent at these things if they put the time into learning it. Remember when you were in school and the girls were making those paper finger games and origami swans and had awesome handwriting and the best drawings? They might struggle a bit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:28 PM
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Not saying your non-whites aren't even scarier, just that your whites are also scary. You're a bunch of scary people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:15 PM
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It's overstated; women can, if they want, and sometimes do, get all the sex and attention that men desperately wish they could get, but which is disallowed to them by virtue of their gender being on the wrong side of the dating equation. Even when men start moving into their prime in their 30's and women are declining, women still have a massive advantage, and pretty much never lose it. The only wall is that women start struggling relative to other women who're younger and hotter than them; they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:18 AM
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When I find a t-shirt or trousers or underwear or whatever that I like, I buy 6+ of them so that I can wear them every day. After all, if I look good in it on Monday, I'm going to look good in the same outfit on Friday. Guess I have average sexual success. Sometimes get hit on by older women and gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:11 AM
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Sexual reproduction becomes necessary once organisms are large and complex enough that horizontal gene transfer becomes an inefficient mechanism of genetic exchange with other cell lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:30 AM
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It probably also helps that I quickly establish with them that I'm not going to judge them for stuff, no matter how kinky it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:18 PM
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Aww, so romantic. My Tenga is crying tears of joy right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:13 PM
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I buy my Tenga dinner and flowers and take it for long moon-lit strolls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:11 PM
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It's one of these things though where I don't understand why other people are so bad at it. I just talk to them; it doesn't seem like I'm doing anything that special. Am I just super open and honest and uninhibited, so women end up sharing their deepest fantasies with me or allowing me to explore their nascent fantasies with them and develop them together? Maybe it's something to do with the Asperger's and being a bit prone to talking about inappropriate things that other people wouldn't talk ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:52 PM
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I feel more and more like I should be running a class on how to talk to women and find out what they're into. Even when women have had no idea what they're into, I've been able to talk it out of them and open up new realms of sexual experience for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:37 PM
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That's fair enough. I often don't try to make a woman come on the first encounter either; it's nice if it happens, but I won't force the issue. I generally hook up with people multiple times, so orgasms aren't an immediate priority; I just try to make her feel good generally and see how it goes and try to learn a bit about what she enjoys. The first time I have sex with someone is pretty much a trial run; the good sex comes later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:29 PM
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In my experience, most women are all about their own pleasure in the bedroom too; it's rare to find one who reciprocates and doesn't just want to lie there and be pleasured in a multitude of ways. I want to be touched, dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:22 PM
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Eh, it sounds more like you're too rough with them. I've stopped girls plenty of times because they were hurting me by yanking at it in all the wrong ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:12 PM
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I'm blessed/cursed by an inability to come, or to even feel any kind of sexual pleasure, in most circumstances (I'm sure some of the women here can relate). It's sometimes an issue in relationships since women get insecure about not being able to get me off and I have to exaggerate what I'm feeling to keep them happy, but at least it means I've always been a selfless lover. Come on guys, step your game up; women assume I'm as shit in bed as you lot and often won't give me the chance to prove oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:06 PM
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my boyfriend has been stopped carrying me home before... whoops That kind of thing happens to the best of us. I've had a bouncer threatening to call the police on me and a girl I was with because neither of us could stand and she was puking in the gutter. In our defence, it was her work night out and there was unlimited free vodka in the booth for some strange reason, with a pour-it-yourself bottle in a hamper that kept being refilled by the staff, and she's a heavy drinker who's a bad influence…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:05 PM
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Even your white people are scary as fuck half the time, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:41 PM
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I googled around a bit and didn't come up with anything regarding prisoner-guard sex scandals in Norwegian prisons. If it happens, it's rare enough that it would take some digging to find. I saw this recently though; it gives you an idea of what it's like in a Norwegian prison: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j72OTvfduBk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:40 PM
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That's true; the US has some really fucked up issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:12 PM
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The harpies even get together to laugh Reminds me of the time a group of women were doing that shrieking laughter thing in a cafe, and a friend said "Ah, the middle-aged-woman cackle. It's not even a laugh; it's very definitely a cackle."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:08 PM
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I wonder if there's a warm climate/cold climate divide in attitudes towards sex and alcohol, with people in California and the like being behind the whole 'consent is impossible if she's had a few drinks, you filthy rapist' thing, and more northern types being used to alcohol being such an integral part of even just going out that mixing sex and alcohol is the most natural thing in the world to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:03 PM
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Norway's had good results with 40% female guards in male prisons; apparently it makes the prisoners dramatically better behaved and less violent when there's women around. You can even see this in a typical workplace; if it's a sausage shop, you get all kinds of crudeness going on. Add a sprinkling of the fairer sex and the guys shape up and cut it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:44 PM
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Being bpd just made it inevitable and resulted in it happening shockingly fast (literally within a day of her plane landing; thanks Tinder); it would still have been hugely probable if she hadn't been bpd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:08 PM
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In other words, be Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:05 PM
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Some of the foreign girls I've dated here in Scotland have expressed to me their shock and disbelief at how the local girls are able to survive the weather when they're out on the town in tiny tight dresses and heels. One said she'd looked up close at those girls for signs of shivering and hadn't detected any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:13 PM
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My gf's unusual in that she's got a 14 year old kid, but the kid lives nearby with the father and visits the mum and stays over when she feels like it. She's got her own room and her stuff at her mum's place, but she's at the dad's place 80% of the time. The dad's got a gf living with him and 3 younger kids he had with the current gf, so the daughter probably finds it more of a family environment there. It's also interesting that my gf said her daughter was an accident and that she never liked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:57 PM
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I dress in stuff that I think looks good on me because I want to be noticed, but I also do it because I just enjoy looking good, even if I'm not leaving the house and nobody's going to see me. I still like catching myself in the mirror and seeing that I'm not an ugly piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:49 PM
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I've never been social enough to have a sphere of friends I could date from, so I don't really have much experience with or input to give on that particular subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:24 PM
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Mostly they're asking "how do we get men to approach less?".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:05 PM
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Maybe you're not cool and refreshing enough, but those single moms and fat girls can get plenty thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:49 PM
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Every time bar twice that I've hooked up with a girl at a party/bar/club, it's the woman who's made the move on me. This means I haven't hooked up very often, and it's usually with an older woman who's got the confidence/thirst/lack-of-give-a-fuck-about-social-implications to approach the hot younger guy. When I try to approach women, I get such hostile and bitchy reactions that it just destroys my confidence and makes me feel ashamed and shitty and puts me off ever doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:45 PM
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Do people really not tend to talk much beforehand? I have detailed conversations before I ever meet someone, and already know a good deal about them before I set eyes on them. How else am I going to make her come unless I know what gets her off? No wonder women think men are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:36 PM
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y'all ain't slick. I am, but it's just the cream the doctor gave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:18 PM
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Sometimes directness works pretty well. With my current gf, I talked to her for a while on OKCupid to get to know her and she was complaining about her dating difficulties and how she'd even offered the last guy casual sex and it hadn't worked out, and thus I asked if she wanted to meet up for casual sex, and that weekend I turned up at her door and we fucked, and much to her surprise I came back the next weekend, and the next, and so on, thus continuing my pattern of beginning relationships wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:09 PM
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I have sex with humans and objects. Really need to get a new Tenga at some point; my old one has had miles of cock through it and my gf says it looks deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:57 AM
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Yeah, never underestimate the ability of Eastern European countries to go full neo-Nazi on immigrants. They don't put up with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:42 AM
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The best women are the ones I don't even need to take on a date; I just talk to them online, charm them and get invited straight to their place or invite them to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:31 AM
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Never taken them, wouldn't know where to get them. My dealer only sells hash. Never personally known anyone who I knew to have taken them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:18 AM
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Science also has this to say. Women get objectified in the sense that they're perceived as a collection of objects rather than a person, but they're perceived this way by both men and women, so it's not just an evil-men thing. It's not like women never notice another woman's tits. The results showed a clear schism between the images of men and women. When viewing female images, participants were better at recognizing individual parts than they were matching whole-body photographs to the original…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:16 AM
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The first thing I do after defeating another man in combat and taking his wife, is I kill his children so that I'm only raising my own offspring. Lions got shit right, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:05 AM
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How did Iraq turn out? You remember Freedom Fries? History sure showed the froggies, didn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:41 AM
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Well, the age of consent in France is 15, so the only issue is her being his teacher. Us Europeans grow up fast; we don't stay kids until we're 21 like people in the US increasingly seem to do. Some of the stuff we do and the ages we do it at would be absolutely shocking to certain segments of American society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:38 AM
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I always wondered if Jezebel was some kind of elaborate trolling effort; some of the shit on that site is breathtaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:25 AM
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If you want a really Wild Wild West porn experience, my favourite site is Motherless (deliberately not posting a link, I'm sure you'll find it); I checked some top porn sites lists and didn't see it mentioned, but it's a true gem of the internet. A sticky, dirty gem, but a gem all the same. Also, if you want highly female-oriented porn, tumblr is great for that. It's where women go to post pics and gifs of all their kinky fantasies; not just a den of SJW's, but also home to all manner of kinkste…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:05 AM
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The greatest injustice is when they have the gall to enjoy the sex too. Why am I buying you stuff when you enjoy the sex anyway? How about I give you sex and you give me sex and we call it even?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:30 PM
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I find it's better to look for good videos when I'm alone and bookmark them for later; all the good videos seem to go and hide whenever I'm under time-pressure to find something. Also, when you're scanning your eyes over page after page of thumbnails, look for the ones with shitty lighting, pixelation, vertical video, motion blur etc, then mouse over them for the preview and see if there's anything good happening in them. The beautiful looking thumbnails are the professional, boring porn videos.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:06 PM
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My gf often pulls up porn on her laptop when we're doing stuff, but I find it a bit of a nuisance; it's distracting, the laptop physically gets in the way, and she turns me on a lot more than the porn does. She likes it though, and she likes it a lot more since I taught her how to find the real stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:00 PM
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Yeah, choking, pain, incest/rape roleplay, bondage, degradation, fun things like that. He seems to be weirded out by even the mild stuff, and she's afraid to bring up the harder stuff in case he freaks. There's also other stuff, like wanting him to do nice things with his fingers, stuff with his tongue, normal things that are just part of being generally good in bed, but which she's too shy to ask him for and he's too clueless to initiate. She doesn't like asking for things; she likes a guy who …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:28 PM
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Eh, how many people want to do any job? Sucks to clean toilets, but it's a living. I can think of vastly worse occupations than being a porn star, and I really do think that most porn stars enjoy their jobs more than they dislike their jobs. Maybe it's not always perfect; they're doing a job and being paid after all. They could quit and go be a waitress, but seems they're content to be porn stars. It's definitely hotter though when it's some amateur couple who're having fun and enjoying themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:17 PM
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It's supposed to that getting together with a fat girl who turns into a cute thin girl is pretty much the ultimate win in terms of relationships, since the formerly fat girl never really shakes her self-image of being someone who's not terribly attractive, and thus you have a cute girlfriend who continues to treat you like she won the jackpot by getting together with you. You could be in for a very rosy future with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:35 PM
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Yeah, she was lovely, she just needs to find someone who's a better match for her physically. Maybe a chubby-chaser, or a shy dude with a low libido who's thrilled to have a fun gf he can play computer games with and hang out with and who doesn't care much about the sex, and will be happy with a romp under the covers and not want to do all the dirty, kinky things that I find so appealing. It was a couple of years ago, so hopefully she's found someone by now. I didn't keep in touch because she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:22 PM
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I get a trper to jack me off in the general direction of the claimant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:56 PM
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Good, as a man who likes thin women and worries about you guys becoming an endangered species.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:52 PM
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That's fair enough; my objections only come into play when it stops being about fashionable clothing options, and instead is about thin-shaming and erasing the existence of thin girls to soothe fat girl's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:49 PM
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That's a perfectly valid thing to be concerned about. There's a wider push though to have plus-sized models (not necessarily runway models) as part of the whole fat-acceptance movement, where it's about fat women wanting to feel better about themselves, and not about young girls starving themselves to death, although the young girls starving argument certainly gets inappropriately used to justify a need for plus sized models.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:40 PM
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If the glove fits?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:36 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:34 PM
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The skinny models thing is easy; they get outraged by those because they themselves are fat and it's the old crab bucket mentality. I might as well get outraged at 6'4" ripped dudes with 10 inch cocks in porn. For the muslim stuff, it's just that it's not something that affects most Western women, so why would they care? I wouldn't care overly much either. Sure, it's terrible and everything, but people are entitled to fight their own fights and leave other people's fights to those other people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:25 PM
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Some women see shit porn and don't get inspired enough by it to delve deeper and find the good porn, so they go through their lives thinking that porn in general is shitty. There's a lot of shit porn; finding the good stuff can take horny-man levels of determination.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:08 PM
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Yeah, if a guy has unrealistic expectations from porn, he's kind of an idiot and you shouldn't be dating him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:56 PM
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Don't worry; a lot of guys don't like that kind of mainstream porn either, and prefer amateur porn with girls who're enjoying it. Some girls also can take a whole lot of fucking before it starts hurting, and are horny enough that they enjoy it and want more even when it does start to hurt. My gf can go for hours and hours, and rubs herself raw from masturbating and keeps on going, putting on barrier cream and laying a layer of fabric on her pubic mound where the rawness is so that she can keep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:52 PM
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I'm not pissy; just trying to help you realise through humour and sarcasm and some gentle ribbing that not everyone's out to get you. I doubt anyone's out to get you. Nobody's out to get me; why would they be? What's happened to you in your life that's made you so suspicious of people? What bad intentions would I even have, and why would I have them? You're just text on a computer screen to me; I probably won't even remember you 3 months from now. I'm just trying to extract some greater understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:20 PM
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I'm not entirely convinced that American politics isn't really just a reality TV show with producers trying to stir up drama for ratings and hiring the most outrageous personalities to go in front of the camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:05 PM
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Yes, it's also vastly more socially acceptable for a woman to publicly display her sexuality than it is for a man to do so. Even a fat, ugly woman can wear revealing clothing and talk about her sex toy collection and her fetishes and it's fine; sexual liberation and all that. A guy doing the same thing is gross and inappropriate and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:01 PM
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Cabergoline, you say? My gf doesn't let me come in her mouth because she says I'm a one-man bukkake show and it's too much for her. I completely understand her not wanting to swallow it; it smells like floor cleaner and has the consistency of snot, and there's usually enough of it to cover her head-to-toe if I spread it around afterwards. Dear God, why did you make me this way? Will it never end? Did I miss my calling in the adult entertainment industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:45 PM
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Most people I know would regard it as a positive thing. Nobody wants to date or even be friends with some anti-porn zealot, and a woman who watches porn is someone you can relax around, crack jokes with, and likely have more satisfying sex with if you end up dating. I'm not saying you should tell complete strangers all about your sex habits, but in a group of friends, it's only the anti-porn girl who's going to judge the porn-liking girl for liking porn. Everyone else will be totally cool with i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:30 PM
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It wouldn't bother me and I'd regard it as utterly inappropriate to ask a person to get rid of such a thing. I don't own someone's past and their memories. I have no rights to it, and it would be a truly shitty thing to pressure them to get rid of something with deep sentimental value to them, and which they would probably wish to have with them long after we've stopped seeing each other, as is the impermanent nature of most relationships. If someone asked me to get rid of such a keepsake, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:23 AM
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Just taking the piss, dude. It's what happens when you meet people's honest and well-intentioned attempts to understand you with evasiveness, hostility and accusations of duplicity. You know the saying, 'if you smell shit everywhere you go'?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:31 AM
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Not really; I've dated women from 5'0" to 6'0", but I have a slight preference for women at the shorter end of the scale because they're cute and sex is better with someone petite who I can easily manoeuvre around. If the woman's taller and heavier, I need her to be more of an active participant in position changes; being able to just put a girl exactly where I want, when I want is better. It's not a big deal, just a detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 11:59 PM
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Of course I'm being borderline creepy; I'm a 'sperg dude. Creepy is our natural state of existence. If I was a non-'spergy girl, this wouldn't be creepy at all, so you're really being sexist and ableist by saying that. God, you can't just go around calling 'spergs creepy. That's terrible; you're bad and you should feel bad. I can say it because I am one. Well done on getting laid though; hope you got right up there. You retired from the incel community now or what? Is there a golden foreskin awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 11:47 PM
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It was a really good video as well because of how clear and sudden the behavioural shift was as soon as the female saw that silhouette of pedipalps with tufts of hair on them, and it's nicely analogous to what you said about hairy, muscular forearms. I went looking for that video again and didn't find it, but I found related things: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/hairy-legs-are-sexier-especially-for-spiders-1302802.html http://www.grupoa.com.br/uploads/imagensExtra/legado/A/ALCOCK_Joh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 10:19 PM
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Ouch, good thing she wasn't actually able to attract him. If she'd been invited to hang out with him at his favourite bar down the street and started spending time around him and he became available to her, you might have had a different story on your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:56 PM
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Oh man; that's wonderful. I'm going to keep that bookmarked for future use and bring it out whenever one of my female friends tries to argue that dating is hard for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:40 PM
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I wonder if this explains monkey-branching in women. Men see a woman as either acceptable or not, more or less; they want to bang all the acceptable ones, but they don't really have much idea of which direction is 'up', so they're not as interested in trying to trade up. Women see a well-defined scale than men lie along, and can readily compare men and decide which one is superior, and become discontent if they're with one that's inferior to a new one they've met. Men might want to bang a new gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:34 PM
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These structures are not wholly, and I'd argue barely even partially, culturally set. People who struggle to understand that there are such neurological structures, and that they're not cultural, really need to pay more attention to the natural world and to what's going on in other species of animals. I wish I could find it now, but I remember a video of a female spider being shown the silhouettes of cardboard male spiders. The female spider didn't respond to a silhouette of a male spider raisin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:15 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if you get a testosterone boost too while you're boning her with her ankles over your shoulders and admiring yourself in the mirror. I've really noticed a good bit of increased definition lately, and the only exercise I've been getting is the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:49 PM
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Yeah, even a woman has to actually put herself out there for stuff to happen, especially these days when men have all been trained since childhood that women hate being approached and that it's practically a capital offence to hit on a woman in a public place if she doesn't already have her hand down your pants to give you the green light. If you start swiping on Tinder though, are there plenty of guys who match with you and would be fine with ploughing you that same night, or at least meeting f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:20 PM
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Agreed. It's so much not about what the feminists think it's about. It's all about those deep, dark, manly evopsych reasons that feminists spend a lot of time denying even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:06 PM
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Sexual market value. Like when someone says a girl is a 7/10, that's her SMV. There's also RMV, which is relationship market value. Here's a terminology guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2k8zk0/terms_acronyms/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:33 PM
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I'm too needy for that; I need the validation of a woman who wants me to fuck her. It's like those snooty-nosed obnoxious bitches in clubs; doesn't matter how physically attractive they are, if they treat me like I'm a creep who's bothering them, my dick loses all interest in them and I'll be more attracted to their fat friend in the corner who treats me like a person. Of course, it can still be hot to use a woman in a pseudo-predatory way where she's not getting physical pleasure from it and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:12 PM
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It's really difficult though; it can be difficult getting my dick inserted when the woman's cooperating, like when my gf's vagina tenses up and it's hard even getting a finger inside her, but if she's struggling, clenching her legs shut, the lube's too far away to reach without letting go of her and I'm working up a sweat just trying to hold her down, it's 100 times harder. Basically, the woman would need to give up and 'let it happen' at some point or I'm going to lose my erection from the effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:57 PM
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Sex makes me think that a woman is awesome and makes me all warm and fuzzy and happy and willing to do nice things for the woman, but that feeling only lasts a few days, so if the sex isn't regular, I start feeling more 'yeah, but what have you done for me lately?'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:38 PM
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I don't know; I think plenty of women understand or at least will understand when they think about it that a low SMV woman can hold onto a high SMV man by fucking the living daylights out of him and making him breakfast in bed. I mean, that philosophy can be traced right back to the saying that the route to a man's heart is through his stomach. It's the same idea of getting a good man by being a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:01 PM
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She wears the pants in the relationship and he's the most beta guy you'll ever meet, so she wields a lot of control. I mean, fuck, the guy has a well-paying job in the tax office, he's starting to bald a bit in his late 20's, he's skinny as fuck and he wears women's tops with sheer fabric and frilly bits in public, and I think this is the only relationship he's ever been in. She supposedly thinks the women's clothing thing is hot, but I think she mostly just likes completely owning his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:58 PM
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Have you ever considered that you don't get laid because you're needlessly argumentative and mistrustful of people's intentions? I can't imagine a woman talking to you and thinking 'I want this person inside me' if this is how you act around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:51 PM
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I knew a couple where the woman badly wanted kids and the man didn't. One time, she denied him sex for 2 years straight to try to make him change his mind. Another time, she was riding him and he told her he was about to come and to get off of him, but instead she clamped her legs around him (and he's a really skinny, weak guy, and she's short but obese) and rode him and tried her best to force him to come inside her. It took him a while to get over that. They're one of these couples who've alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:45 PM
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Once you're in swamp donkey territory, an LTR won't work because you just won't have the necessary attraction to the girl to have a robust sex life with her. Been there, got the t-shirt. The woman I'm with now has a face that's a bit on the worn and wrinkly side and people have made comments to me about it, but she's slim, hot, clean, well-groomed and sexy with no moles or deformities or anything like that, and I don't mind the wrinkly face, and I've no reservations about doing the dirtiest sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 10:10 PM
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It's called seeing her inner beauty, like her gynaecologist does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:54 PM
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Yeah, porn doesn't suck my dick for me while I tongue it's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:52 PM
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The best part is that it's not even hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:48 PM
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Maybe this will catch on once more people realise what an awesome idea it is. I think at the moment it's the stigma to it as much as anything that discourages guys from it. I know I've been shamed by friends and ex's for getting with low SMV girls, and don't exactly feel comfortable plastering my current relationship all over social media, however amazing the sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:47 PM
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I've also seen some uses of hyperandry for flowers with multiple stamens, and hypergyny used for animals with more than a single pair of ovaries, so any men with an extra testicle could describe themselves as hyperandrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:17 PM
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There's a lot of truth to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:07 PM
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I know; I was just make a joke based on obese people shifting/tipping scales. This is my serious answer to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:43 PM
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We would just end up shifting the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:27 PM
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Yeah, some of us have shit game. Yeah, some of us are desperate for sexual attention. It's easy. She could have other good things about her. You get to be Chad. The woman treats you like you're a 10/10. She doesn't just let you fuck her, she eagerly and passionately gobbles up your cock like it's the last cock she'll ever see up close and the finest specimen of cockitude that she's ever witnessed. You, a guy, get to have your toes and nipples sucked and your ass tongued for a change. You can get…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:22 PM
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My female friends never understood this point when I tried to explain it to them. They just didn't get that you could literally have zero people willing to date you, because for them, it was always a matter of, at worst, having zero people they were interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:09 PM
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Damn, they must have nerfed it. Maybe they'll remove it altogether in a future update; can't see why anyone would pick it these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:59 PM
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Yeah, that one's a really risky pick; if the RNG god is kind, you might unlock ghost of Richard Feynman, which turns the -50% charisma buff into a +50% charisma buff and you'll slay pussy all night long, but usually it's just trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:52 PM
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I think this was explained really well here, especially this bit: And the need to dumb that down for the morons by saying "Just act like it's the truth for fuck sake, I know you've never seen a Gaussian curve in your life so I know I can't explain this to you numbnuts. Just pretend it's DEFININATELY TRUE get in there, initiate, assume shes the statistical norm and adjust to her actions rather than her words." Most people are hopeless when it comes to statistics. Like how there's always someone o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:31 PM
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Actually, my usage might have been correct after all, if you take as analogous to this: http://grammarist.com/usage/polygamy-polygyny-polyandry/ That way, you've got hypergamy (marrying up), hypogamy (marrying down), hypergyny/hypogyny (women marrying up/down) and hyperandry/hypoandry (men marrying up/down).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:23 PM
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This applies to a lot of things, sadly. Sometimes it's hard to investigate reality because people get upset when you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:57 PM
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My mate Gerry's white and goes for big asses on girls, but it's not my thing. Small asses all the way for me; this pic that was posted is pretty much my ideal body type for a girl, but this girl is still perfectly acceptable to me. The pink girl doesn't look like any species of woman I've ever seen before; I'd wonder if she'd had plastic surgery or something because of how out of proportion her bottom half is to her top half, and whether those thunder-thighs had cellulite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 05:00 PM
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In competitive online games like League of Legends, EVE or World of Warcraft, players make decisions on what buffs and bonuses to pick for a given situation and strategy, using items and abilities purchased with in-game points they get from playing the game. They might pick something that gives them +10% magic resistance or 2 seconds of invulnerability with a 5 minute cooldown, or +5% damage per consecutive attack up to a maximum stack size of 10 for +50% damage if you can manage to keep up your…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:37 PM
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They screwed up too, because it only stacks up to a maximum of 5 times, and you need to refresh it with another kino every 30 seconds or less otherwise your stack is reset to 0 and you lose the buff. It wouldn't make sense to have unlimited stacking; it would be totally unbalanced. Personally, I prefer AOE buffs that improve my chances with all women within the area of effect, like long hair, which gives me a passive +5% to all women within 5 metres who have LOS to me, or antiperspirant for -50%…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:19 PM
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Why else would women complain so vehemently about the overwhelming number of men who approach them IRL and online? Anyone who's been shopping with a woman knows that more choice isn't necessarily conducive to happiness, and sure as shit won't help them get back home in time for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:59 PM
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I'm trying to understand what kinds of unattractiveness we're talking about in the incel community. I totally get that it can make it nigh-on impossible to attract a partner, but I don't know what incels typically look like and thus how sensitive male dating success is to male physical attractiveness at that extreme end of the scale. I know women can be pretty bad and still get laid by someone if they they throw it out there that they're dtf, and that it's much harder for guys because of how muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:06 PM
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I've been groped a tonne of times by women; some women are awful for it when they're drunk and start groping men for a giggle and a laugh with their girlfriends. Some do it maliciously to try and sexually humiliate men, especially a man who's tried to hit on them and been shot down. I'm also Scottish, and if you're wearing a kilt, women will absolutely lift it up when they're standing behind you. Men just put up with it; even if it bothers us, complaining won't do us a bit of good. I think most …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:56 PM
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I think it's partly just that men and women both want skilled and attentive lovers to give them awesome sex, and sometimes need to pay to get that. Most people aren't good lovers; we want someone who's going to do x, y and z to us, and do it well, and usually a partner is too shy or won't take the hint or doesn't have the skills and refuses to learn them or is lazy or whatever. Another factor is that women in particular have a tendency to be pillow princesses who want to lie back and have nice t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 01:22 PM
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Pink woman looks so weird; I'd be totally put off by that. I get that ginormous booty and thick thighs is something that's really popular in black culture, but I'm a white guy in Scotland and don't want any of that. I'd be more attracted to the second girl, since she's at least got normal proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:34 AM
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But I want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:17 AM
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Weight is an issue when it comes to people being attracted to each other and deciding who to hook up with, but it's also a massive issue in the bedroom in terms of sexual satisfaction, which impacts LTRs, and I've broken up with a girl because of it when I just couldn't bear it anymore, when I was starting to make excuses not to see her because her weight was grossing me out. When I'm with an overweight girl, there are lots of things I just won't have any interest in doing with her. She'll get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:11 AM
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Damn, you're right; got my gyny mixed up with my gamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 12:02 AM
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Just realised I completely misinterpreted your question as being directed towards my reasons when you were actually asking about my location. I've not gotten a decent sleep in days thanks to a cold that has me coughing through the night; I'm feeling a bit fuzzy around the edges as a result. I'm in Glasgow; if you're out on the town at night, there's rather an overabundance of overweight women on display relative to the men. I think it's because the women socialise via food and drink with their g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:59 PM
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I'm just giving him a truthful account of the situation, not trying to win a debate. Truth and reality are more important than winning, and I'm not on any particular side anyway. And yeah, I'd break up with her in a heartbeat if it was that or marrying her. I've already established with her that I have a limited tolerance for her bullshit and emotional baggage and have no qualms about ignoring her for weeks or walking out on her if she doesn't keep the crazy under control to an acceptable degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:43 PM
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We would just end up shifting the scale. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:19 PM
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Nah, just a 'sperg who'd taken a 9 year break from dating and getting laid, principally due to mental health reasons. I look good, but you can probably imagine that the majority of women don't look at my various issues and get all moist for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:17 PM
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Coining them. Never be afraid to make up new words by extrapolating from words you've seen before. If women marrying up is hypergamy, men marrying down is logically hypoandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:02 PM
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First of all, men are not hypergamous. Look up marriage data and it clearly shows women prefer to marry up, men generally marry down. Hypoandrous?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 10:36 PM
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It's definitely something that varies heavily based on location. Some of us just live in god-forsaken places.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 10:26 PM
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It would help. I'm not proud of it, but I dated a girl with a fupa. She was a sweet girl who was lovely to me and fun to hang out with, but I honestly not-even-exaggerating just shuddered there thinking about the physical aspect of that relationship. There's a terrible shortage of non-overweight girls here and really intense competition for the dwindling number of them. If you go out to the clubs, you'll see lots of fit, in-shape guys and lots of overweight girls who're bulging and overflowing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 10:23 PM
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When it gets kinky as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 09:56 PM
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It's not seen as a great thing here in Scotland, but it's also not treated as harshly and with such intense suspicion here as it seems to be in the US. People are more willing to give people the benefit of the doubt here, I think. Kids are expected to be able to walk themselves to school from an early age, use public transport on their own, you see young kids playing outside unsupervised, and they aren't coddled nearly as much as seems to be the case in the US. When I was a kid (long before mobi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:57 PM
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No, he's never had a romantic relationship and has never aspired to have one; he just has these asexual infatuations. He had one with a teen boy once that got him in trouble with rumours that started circulating and caused him to move away from the area he'd been living in; he completely fails to realise how incredibly inappropriate these relationships are, and how it looks to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 07:23 PM
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Nope, poor as fuck, and nope, not into marriage. She's got a 14 year old kid who lives nearby with the father, so she's not wanting marriage and/or kids from me; just companionship and lots and lots of sex. Also not giving her a pump and dump; I've been with her for 8 months and see her ever second weekend (she lives 2 hours away), bought her bedside cabinets and assembled them, planning to take her on a holiday, couple stuff like that, and she thinks I'm the hottest thing ever and gets me stone…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 06:10 PM
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Here's another anecdotal statement for you; I'm a pretty cute 33 year old guy with a nice body and I'm dating a 41 year old woman. Why? Best fucking sex of my life for a start. What does this mean? I dunno; I've kind of lost track of the point you're trying to make in this thread. Rich guys get to fuck pretty much whoever they want or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 05:50 PM
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I wonder if the nth marriage asymptotes to 100% divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 05:34 PM
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Does that have anything to do with rich men? How many of these women ever realistically aspired to get with a rich man even in their prime? I don't personally know a single woman who's ever even pursued a rich man, since there need to actually be some rich men around the place for them to pursue, and I don't live in a rich-people area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 05:28 PM
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Curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:03 PM
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To start with, just focus on being with a woman. Don't be so concerned with with what SMV you think you should be getting, just be glad to get any at all. Even an unattractive girl can be fun to play around with; shit, it feels good even if it's a guy playing with your cock. You've got to vent some of this desperation and you've got to chill out a bit about it or you won't get anywhere. Getting a hot girl can be a long-term goal; you need to work your way up to it by starting on the ground floor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:44 PM
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Yes, and it is glorious. What do you look like? If you don't want to post a pic, can you give a description of what the issues are, appearance-wise? You short, got pizza face, weird proportions, fat, what's the deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:28 PM
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There aren't enough rich men for it to matter for the 99% of the rest of us, just like I don't give a flying fuck about what's going on in the Hollywood real-estate market.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:21 PM
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Intelligence is a highly attractive trait though. I'm dating an older woman who's not terribly well endowed intellectually, and her intellect is as much of a put-off to me as the wrinkles on her face. She's not stupid, she's just not someone you can have truly stimulating and challenging conversations with, and it makes me wince internally when things go over her head and I need to find simpler and more pedagogical ways to explain something to her. She works with young kids and I had to explain …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 02:00 PM
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I used to play on Civcraft; a minecraft server that was a microcosm of different political ideologies. There was a city named Carson that was home to the hardcore libertarians, and dear god, if anyone's activities impacted their own in the slightest way, they'd throw a fit over it in a kind of cynical, disingenuous way that was really just an excuse to go fuck with other players to the war-cry of 'muh NAP!'. There were so many commies too on that server, and they were hopeless, pretty much like …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 01:12 PM
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You guys must have it pretty rough. I'm a 'sperg with an official diagnosis and everything, and I don't have as bad as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:39 PM
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What's the Randian position on the NAP with regards to activities with negative externalities? In theory, I'd think that negative externalities would clearly violate the NAP, but libertarians as a group aren't exactly known for being overly concerned with the effects of their own pollution and things of that nature. Is this a deviation from Rand, or a position she shared?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:36 PM
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Well, off to a good start; first salient point I've reached is one I completely agree with: Objectivism argues that; 1) There is something. 2) That it exists independently of your consciousness and you can't simply think it into non-existence. The solipsist crowd really bug me and it's encouraging that she's not in that camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:04 PM
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He said himself that he's not ugly, and he's also expressed (perfectly understandable) hang-ups about dating fat girls that could very well be holding him back, but beggars can't be choosers. If you're ugly and have pizza face or something, sucks for you. For all the socially awkward incels who've hit the gym, look decent but still aren't pulling, fat girls could be your saviour. Or older women. Or foreign girls (<3 foreign girls).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:25 AM
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Have you read the Koran? Do you have an opinion on Muhammad and Islam? Now's your chance to convince me of the value of Ayn Rand by giving me a counterpoint to those other secondary sources. I don't have time to read the original sources for everything out there, but if you think it's important enough for me to read and you can convince me that this is the case, I might very well delve into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:17 AM
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I've lived it, dude. I'm talking from my own personal experiences as someone's who's dated fat girls and found them to be generally quite lovely people. He mentioned he's in good shape, and my experience is that fat girls tend to go for well-muscled guys, while girls at his age who're a normal weight find it more intimidating or gross or whatever. Maybe that's just a weird local thing, but I've had fat girls literally trying to drag me out of a building to take me home, while repeatedly being to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:08 AM
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No, I believe that in some specific cases, the destructive tendencies of certain leaders was greatly magnified by those leaders being divorced from reality and having bizarre and unworkable ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 10:51 AM
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But why? Where does this urge for murderous pyromania come from? I've known utterly broken and pathetic women who complained bitterly about their undeniably sucky lot in life, and only felt sympathy for them and hoped they'd eventually find some happiness in life, with no desire for them to come to harm, not even the especially annoying ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:01 AM
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I know; it sucks hard. A bisexual Hungarian girl I'm friends with and hooked up with in the past and who lived here until recently has also commented on how so many of the girls here are fat; she'd have liked to date girls while she was here, but she's not into fat girls at all and complained about the situation and confirmed that it wasn't just my imagination. Apparently Hungarian girls are much better; they live in a country where fat-shaming is still a thing and parents will shame the shit ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 02:33 AM
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Are you literally not able to get any girls at all, whatsoever? Have you tried hitting on some really fat girls? They need love too, and nothing wrong with mutually solving each other's problem. A lot of them can be rather jovial, good natured and way more sexually forward and comfortable with their bodies than you might expect, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:24 AM
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Those regimes had their own ideological tenets they conformed to and which informed their actions and made them believe and do fucked up things; if they'd been more grounded in reality and less up their own asses, I doubt they'd have been nearly as wantonly self-destructive. Stalin, sure, he was just a paranoid, fearful and terribly brutal man, but there are so many people through history who wouldn't have been nearly as terrible if they hadn't been driven by whatever philosophy they adhered to,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:56 PM
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I've yet to be convinced that philosophy is of enough value to invest much of my time into it, but I can immediately appreciate the utility and value of cancer genomics. I know some philosophy; I'm not completely unfamiliar with the subject. I just never got that 'hey, this stuff makes sense and has practical applications' vibe from it, and have always gotten a 'now you're just pulling it out of your ass' vibe from the vast majority of it. Come on Pythagoras; beans, really? Where the fuck did yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:40 PM
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Have you never seen people just completely disappear up their own arses with over-philosophising until they sound like they're tripping balls while completely sober?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:12 PM
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Here's a good example: http://prntscr.com/f4yb5u Dagnart in particular is a fucker for removing anything that goes against their feminist ideology. Makes it barely worth even visiting r/sex because any thread in which there's potentially interesting controversy and debate gets pounded into a paragon of feminist idealogical conformity by moderator action. And also this bullshit right here. I strategically bowed out to avoid a ban; pretty sure the person was trying to lure me into admitting to try…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:07 PM
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I often browse them in ceddit so that I can see the removed comments, and I often see that comments have been removed to bolster a specific feminist narrative. If you've never used ceddit before, you just replace the r in reddit.com in the address bar with c, so it's ceddit.com. You'll get a security warning since their certificate is out of date, but it's safe and you can just add an exception for it. Slightly annoying, but it's been like that for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:47 PM
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Eh, at least I sourced my complaints with specific examples. I also readily admit to not having a firm grounding in philosophy and having little patience or respect for it, regarding it instead as a subject that's the downfall of many an intelligent mind, leading brilliant people to tie themselves up in knots of mental contortion and disappear down solipsist rabbit holes that end up with them doubting reality and thinking they're in the matrix or going all Jaden 'how can mirrors be real if our e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 10:36 PM
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You'll have to pry the NHS from my cold, dead socialist hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:57 PM
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I just think she was a bitter and crazy shrew of a woman who's been a pox upon the world by spreading her psychopathic ideology to other psychopaths who eagerly lapped it up in the name of having an excuse for being complete self-serving and self-satisfied cunts and who had little or nothing to offer but a vile hatred of humanity, and thus I regard her opinions with the utmost irrelevance, but what would I know; it's not like I'm ever going to actually read her books, which I fully expect to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:46 PM
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That's like saying that reading the bible will tell you about Christians. What the book says and what the people do are two very different things, and I judge a movement on what it does, not what it claims it's values are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:36 PM
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So many excellent points here that I wish I'd had the time and energy to make myself, and all of them are spot-on. I'm saving this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:23 PM
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Thing is, I see the majority of people who're actively contributing to these communities toeing the party line and pushing each other into increasingly radical positions while isolating themselves from outside opinions by declaring their communities to be safe spaces and aggressively enforcing that isolation until the common consensus opinions reach ridiculous extremes and there are only a precious few voices of reason left. It's the same shit you see in extreme right wing communities, but even …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 09:14 PM
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I often read things on Jezebel, r/twoxchromosomes, r/askwomen, keep up on drama going on with youtube feminists, notable events like the elevator incident with Richard Dawkins etc, and a huge amount of it is just not a world view that I find myself agreeing with. Campaigns to ban sex robots? Laci Green saying you should always believe the woman when she accuses someone of rape? Bat-shit insane stuff about all PIV being rape? Public shaming for dongle jokes? The fact that any feminist-oriented su…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:13 PM
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That's a good argument; there's definitely a valid point there. Certainty there are billions of people with shitty standards of living who'd very much like to have better standards of living, and an attitude of 'fuck you tigers, fuck you forest, I'm gonna build a palm oil plantation and stop living like a scrub in a mud hut' is perfectly understandable, if incredibly tragic for those people like myself who think there's an inherent and irreplaceable value to the natural world. Like you, I have o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 06:56 PM
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That's the thing though; it doesn't make economic sense to extract CO2 from the atmosphere until you've virtually completely stopped adding it to the atmosphere, because extraction is always vastly more difficult and expensive than not adding it in the first place. The cost to burn a tonne of coal, then extract it from the atmosphere with crops, pyrolyse the crops and bury the resultant biochar can't be less than the cost of producing a tonne of biochar and just burning that and leaving the coal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 06:07 PM
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Thing is, humans put cockroaches to shame when it comes to adaptability and the ability to survive extreme conditions thanks to our large brains and technological capabilities. This means that climate change is absolutely not an existential threat to the human species; even if it kills off a billion or two of us, the rest will endure. There's no shortage of humans and while some of us will drop like flies, there will always be enough resilient holdouts to repopulate. It also means that by the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:52 PM
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Yeah, there's going to be assortive mating based on intelligence and economic success, but there will be enough gene-flow between the high and low ends of the scale via the middle that the high end will be dragged down on multi-generational timescales by the over-abundance of genetic material diffusing from the low side with it's larger and faster growing population.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:21 PM
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Dysgenics and a slide towards Idiocracy, sadly. Having more stupid people and less smart people is quite a toxic situation for society, but hopefully genetic engineering will be able to artificially counteract the dysgenic trend within a few generations, before it becomes a significant problem. The trend will be fairly small; we'll have time to address it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:09 PM
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Dude, that catalytic converter isn't about climate change, it's about asthma and lung disease and you're directly damaging other people's health by removing it, which is an asshole thing to do. It's as much of a dick move as exposing people to second-hand smoking. Also, how do you reconcile 'global warming is fake; the Earth is fine' and 'fuck the Earth'? One looks an awful lot like a convenient and disingenuous position you've taken to excuse the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 04:48 PM
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Grow tons of fast growing stuff like bamboo, make coals out of them, use the released methane to create energy and put the coals in empty coal mines/under fields and farm those field for more bamboo. The problem with this idea is that it's enormously more expensive than just not digging up the equivalent weight of coal in the first place. It's always harder to get the genie back into the bottle. CO2 draw-down by capture and storage is a far-future tech for when we're running on 5th generation fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 04:30 PM
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It's without doubt the greatest challenge of our age. It's frustrating as hell to see so much denial, politicisation (on both sides) and opportunistic commercialism of a rather straight-forward physical phenomenon. We're talking about something the basic physics of which was settled over a century ago, but there's this absolutely massive libertarian don't-tread-on-me political and cultural backlash against something that should be a neutral scientific matter. At least China isn't politicising it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 02:43 PM
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And then string theory, where the strings are harmonic oscillators in 10 dimensions which can vary their lengths, so not completely unlike 10-dimensional variable length guitar strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 02:03 PM
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But if I (inhales glorious scent of individualism) start pumping sulphate aerosols into the stratosphere to cool the planet, the question is not 'who will let me', but 'who will stop me'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 01:35 PM
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They sure hate negative post-selection, where a guy they've previously been with subsequently fails to meet their expectations for how many and what quality of women he should be attracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 01:21 PM
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One thing that I used to get jealous about (and still do a little) is that most of my peers had been in one LTR or another since their mid-teens and had very often cohabited with partners for multi-year periods, while I'd never had an LTR until a couple of years ago, and thus they'd gotten hundreds of times more sex than I'd had by virtue of getting it on the regular over the years, even though we were roughly similar in our total number of partners and didn't differ in our n-count by multiple o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 01:11 PM
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No not really. Being "proactive" isn't a thing. Everyone has Tinder and If a woman likes you she'll make it pretty obvious. Every man has asked a woman out at some point and every man knows his chances. Proactive is sometimes synonymous with thirsty; none of my female friends could make their minds up about whether I'd be more successful in dating if I tried harder or if I stopped trying. Meanwhile I was getting increasingly bitter at how they effortlessly hopped from one guy to the next on a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 12:29 PM
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It's a great failing of mine; I'm too compassionate and good-natured to use people. All I can manage is the pretence of using them for a short period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:59 PM
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I'm talking about when she asks me to spit in her mouth and use her like the whore she is. It's only polite to give her aftercare when she's been good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:55 PM
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When I degrade a woman down to a set of wet holes, I always cuddle her afterwards. Sometimes I bring her tea and snacks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:49 PM
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I don't have a lot of friends, I'm not social enough to make new friends easily and I don't retain friends very well and tend to lose contact over the years and replace them with new friends, but my closest friends are always women, sometimes women I've slept with in the past, sometimes just women I talk to online. I find women good to talk with about life and love and serious matters requiring deep conversations. With the men I know or have known, it's been difficult to get them to stop joking …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:35 PM
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Even the actor who played him hated the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:21 PM
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I've always done pretty well in my lack of desire for material things beyond what makes a significant difference to my quality of life, but this same material contentment is awful for helping to be ambitious and strive for greatness and financial success, and the lack of greatness and financial success doesn't get women all wet and ready for me. LTRs only work with partners who can tolerate my deficits, but in a post-scarcity society, there would probably be a lot more people who'd be happy with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 01:33 PM
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When you say it's a failure of imagination, does that mean you've thought of a solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:49 PM
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There are a lot of romantically-inclined men out there. Unfortunately, they get romantically inclined towards women who're too high SMV for them to attract or at least retain, so they end up with women who they don't have those intense romantic feelings towards, either settling for a relationship with someone who's acceptable and will have them, or having casual sex and maybe hoping that they'll meet the right one at some point, or just giving up on the idea of romantic satisfaction and going fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:25 PM
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What a terrible thing to say about your mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:19 PM
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Different strokes, but it's true that there's a new-partner excitement that goes away after the first time with someone. I have a really, really hard time coming and there's only a handful of times when someone else has been able to get me off, but the first time I fucked my current gf, I had to slow down and stop several times to keep from coming, and since then she's had zero success in making me come despite getting massively better at sexing me overall and trying everything short of putting …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:14 PM
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No kids for me; one of the good things about her is that she's got a 14 year old kid who lives nearby with the father and just stays over occasionally, so she's gotten the desire to have kids completely out of her system and isn't pressuring me for that. Sometimes the daughter brings the dad's chihuahua over with her and it's a sweet little dog who's scared of the cats and gets bullied by the male cat. My gf also looked after a friend's shih tzu for a while, and it was big enough relative to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 11:15 AM
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There's definitely stuff that works well; we get on, I appreciate how nicely she treats me and the sex is by far the best I've ever had, but there are also deep and serious problems in the relationship. The cats aren't really ideal, and give me much greater reservations about the long term prospects than I'd otherwise have; it's hard being with someone when actually physically being with them means continually fighting allergies, and I'm not a fan of cat hair in food, cats scratching in litter t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:16 AM
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She has 3 cats and she insists on dealing with the litter trays herself, and she deals with vacuuming since I'm allergic to cats and the dust goes for me (I start rashing in various places after a few days at her place and I'm always stuffy when I'm there), but doing the dishes has the added benefit that it turns her on to see me do it; according to her, I'll get the best sex of my life if I ever clean her bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:49 AM
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I often clean my gf's kitchen because it bothers me more when it's dirty than it bothers her. I often wash the dishes for the same reason; I hate the sink being full of dirty dishes and not being able to use the sink properly as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:36 AM
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The sex gets way better too when you keep having it with the same person and learn how to please each other. ONS sex is rarely particularly high quality since everyone's different and you don't have enough experience with that partner yet to skilfully flip their various switches. It's fine and everything, but it drastically improves from that starting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 01:22 AM
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I remember that. Someone claiming a 'sexual emergency' is disturbing, but I've also seen people from certain cultures talking with a straight face about how men just can't control themselves, and this myth of the impossibility of male self-control is some kind of widely accepted and believed cultural truth for them, and guys just, you know, not raping someone is an alien concept to them. Like, jesus dude, it'll be ok; just put it away. Go take a cold shower if you really have to, but get a fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:46 PM
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Gf likes to play with my ass, which feels great, but I'm always a bit sad for her that it kills my erection. I hate to disappoint even in minor details.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:35 PM
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I've done voluntary celibacy for a 9 year stretch. I've also been given a massage and jacked off by a guy (for free, and in fact, the only other person who ever successfully jacked me off), unrelated to the 9 years of celibacy. I'm not interested in doing stuff to guys, unlike girls who'll be anally penetrated by my tongue and all sorts of dirtiness, but if a guy wants to do things to me that feel good? Sure, maybe, depending on the guy and how I feel at the time and the specific things they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:32 PM
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You hope they'd change; you might be disappointed and disgusted by the male gender instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:53 PM
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Not often; 3 times in my life so far. I was thrilled each time. Once at my student union at University with a couple of gay guys I was friends with who were horsing around and one of them noticed my pecs and ass and asked if he could feel them, so I let him, and ended up kind of sandwiched between him and his other gay friend while he felt me. Once when a different gay friend was walking behind me with my then-gf (he was really her gay friend) and my gf shouted ahead to me that he liked my butt …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:49 PM
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So don't tell anyone; I'll keep it a secret if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:30 PM
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A lack of male friends active in the local dating scene to compare myself to. None of my male friends date, so I can't get any useful information from them for comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:07 PM
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It's especially difficult to relate when I, as a straight man, am 100% comfortable with and happy to receive compliments from gay men and to even have them touch my body. I enjoy compliments coming from gay men, gay women, old grannies, straight men, neckbeards, whatever; it's all good to me. You don't need to be a great artist to appreciate great art, so I don't discount people's opinions just because they're not attractive to me. The female perspective is very different with the whole thing of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 03:21 PM
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It's also a bit like complaining that someone gave you cake and didn't give you £5 afterwards. Sex isn't some onerous activity that the woman should be compensated for; sex is it's own reward, so if the woman gets sex, she's already winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 03:05 PM
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it's a come-on posted on a picture of headphones, which she and lots of women are ridiculing and expressing their disgust over. sorry, but i really don't know how you can miss that. That's what it is on the surface, but there are deeper layers. The public display of righteous indignation doesn't tell us anything about what's going on in those women's minds, which is what I'm interested in, and what's going on in their minds is complicated too, since there can be a conscious component, the women'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:16 PM
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Is that your wallet in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:56 PM
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If I assumed, it wouldn't occur to me to ask. I'm asking because I'm aware that I don't know the answer. Thanks to your input, and the input of others, I now have a clearer idea of how women regard the issue and have discovered interesting points which have enriched my understanding, if not completely convinced me on all issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:49 PM
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edit: given that she said she's a lesbian, i'm extra sure that this isn't something she'll miss. I'm straight, but when a gay man compliments my ass, generally at the most random and unexpected time, I graciously accept the compliment and feel good about myself. I don't deem them unworthy of complimenting me and shit all over them for daring to do so. Hell, I even let them feel it if they ask; they get a thrill and it's harmless to me and gives me additional validation when their eyes widen in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:09 PM
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That's what I mean though; she can get her bluster up about it and get attention and validation. It's a bit like getting asked for ID when buying alcohol; is it inherently a bit annoying to deal with? Yes. Is it also like mana from heaven when you're 33 and still getting asked for ID from time to time, thus reassuring you that your looks are holding and giving you something to humble-brag about or just plain brag about later? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:48 PM
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You're the one making assumptions here. Seriously: men with this same mindset make the same mistake all the time; you're very recognizable now. Already this thread has attracted a mixture of opinions on the issue, but you're presenting your own opinion as though it's the one inevitable and instantly recognisable truth, and that failure to recognise it is some kind of moral or mental failure on my part. If you think women genuinely hate this stuff on all levels, that's fine, your opinion is welco…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:38 PM
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I'm not assuming, I'm asking. Thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:00 PM
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When you're at bars on the weekend, do you notice other men picking women up? Where I am, I very seldom see men doing cold approaches, but I don't know if it's just too subtle for me to notice, or if it's a comparatively rare thing here due to some quirk of local culture. People come with their friends and leave with their friends or come with their dates and leave with their dates, and while in-bar or in-club hookups happen sometimes between random strangers (it's happened to me a bunch of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 11:11 AM
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What counts as failing though? I can get casual sex, but I can't get it anywhere near as easily as my female friends, the more promiscuous of which are just absolutely off the charts from my perspective and can basically have as much sex as they desire just by throwing it out there and being about as discerning as a typical guy would be regarding casual sex partners. It might take me 6 months to hook up with 1 woman, while a female friend is hooking up with 3 men a week. I don't really have any …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:33 AM
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Please don't go the way of some other subs where you can't express an original idea or anything that goes against the groupthink without your post being removed and/or the mods banning you. I'm looking at you, r/askwomen, r/sex and /r/TwoXChromosomes , you piece of shit echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:08 AM
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Same goes for all the women I've been with who were into it (or who I introduced to it); none of them were into their actual fathers, they just found it super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:56 AM
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I've got good news for you; find someone to breastfeed on a regular basis and your breasts will look amazing. I'm dating an older women with a nearly adult kid, and her breasts were a bit flat and the nipples were sunken into them when I first met her. Not so promising, right? A few months of breastfeeding at weekends later and they're round, firm, perky-nippled and look like they belong to a woman a fraction of her age. She really looks good braless in tight fitting tops now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:58 AM
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Ah, so what's going on is that you get to the bar or wherever and she's about twice the weight her photos suggested, but you're horny, you've had a couple of drinks, you've made it this far and you're locked on target and go for it, and then the next morning once you've been sexually satiated you start feeling a bit disgusted with yourself and nope out of there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:47 AM
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I have pursued women for the expressed purpose of a one night stand. But have you pursued them for a one night stand and only a one night stand, where you've decided ahead of time that there's not going to be a second night stand, not counting for logistical reasons like this is her last night in the city/country and a second night at a future date is impractical? I've never done that; I'm always open to second, third, forth... nth night stands with someone, at least going in initially. How many…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:41 AM
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Pump and dump never entirely made sense to me as a concept. I mean, if if they're good enough to sleep with at least once, why would your game plan going into that situation be to sleep with them once and only once? A more sensible game plan is to sleep with them and see how it goes and whether you both agree afterwards that it was good enough to warrant a second go-around. Sometimes it's not good. Sometimes there's size issues or libido mismatches or personality clashes or differences in sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:33 AM
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Oh my sweet summer child; I do both with my gf depending on the mood we're in, it's great, intimate, sexy and it turns her on and gets her off so damn hard. She's emphatic that she absolutely does not want me ever to stop the breastfeeding stuff since it's so satisfying to her, both from the physical pleasure aspect, the kinky roleplay aspects and the emotional aspect (all that oxytocin flooding her system). I mean, she's seriously into it in a big way and absolutely loves it, and I swear it mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:02 AM
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Same. I have sex with someone to see if we're compatible, and if so, and if she agrees, we then have more sex on some kind of ongoing basis. If not, we go our separate ways. I wouldn't even have a relationship talk with someone I haven't slept with yet because it would be premature. That stuff comes after we've had sex at least a few times on separate occasions and gotten comfortable with each other. All my relationships start off as casual sex where we find we like each other enough to keep hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:08 AM
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Mine is fairly mild and I'm able to function pretty much normally in most respects, and I didn't really have anything in the way of behavioural issues growing up. People who know the signs generally recognise immediately that I have it though, often within seconds of meeting me, but that's not really a problem in itself, just slightly disconcerting how they know somehow even if I haven't said a word in some cases. They must be reading it from my body language and facial expressions or lack there…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:39 AM
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My mum always knew that something was wrong, but there wasn't the awareness or support back then that there is now (I'm in my early 30's), and since I wasn't causing trouble at school, nobody cared to investigate whatever might be going on with me, and I wasn't very verbal or assertive as a kid, so I didn't push for anything to be done. I was acutely aware that I was different, right from my first days at school, even though I didn't fully understand the nature of the difference and didn't reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:54 AM
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I was diagnosed when I was 20 and things were falling apart for me at university because of my various undiagnosed mental health issues that were coming to a head in response to the pressure I was under. It helps if there's useful resources that a diagnosis would let you access; I got into a work preparation program for graduates with Asperger's that was run by the National Autistic Society and covered things like lessons on interview techniques. There were other things too, but most of the stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:23 AM
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The good news is that there's no medical treatment for it and you're fucked for life like the rest of us autists, and a diagnosis is of limited use in that respect, so yay, you're probably not missing out on anything by not being diagnosed as long as you personally have an awareness of this aspect of yourself and can research it and find strategies that help. Really though, I hope you're ok. You don't sound ok in some of your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:55 PM
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Source? Its actually interesting because not to long ago I actually looked up the gender population in my state and there were actually about 1% more women than men. Obviously, most of that difference is in the older population due to women on average living longer than men. Found this for you: at birth: NA 0-14 years: 1.04 male(s)/female 15-24 years: 1.05 male(s)/female 25-54 years: 1 male(s)/female 55-64 years: 0.93 male(s)/female 65 years and over: 0.79 male(s)/female total population: 0.97 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:44 PM
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Very, very true. I've got a not exactly attractive female friend with Asperger's, and she's got guys hitting her up left and right for the simple fact that she's DTF; everything else is irrelevant to the guys, at least until she starts wanting committent and babies from them, at which time they run for the motherfucking hills and don't look back. A small number of women with Asperger's are ridiculously sexually successful because they just don't give a crap about social norms and are happy to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:03 PM
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Genetically determined and hormonally driven neuronal growth patterns? When you have Asperger's, there are physical differences in the brain going down to the cellular level, affecting how individual neurons wire themselves up to their neighbours and how they form long-distance connections, and between men and women, whether normal men and women or men and women with Asperger's, there are gross structural differences in how brain regions are organised and in the relative over or under developmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:42 PM
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It's hard to say, because they all had their own individual personalities and situations. Some were obnoxious and lacking in any degree of self-awareness and were fundamentally broken people who could never be fixed or even helped to a significant degree, but that was only the bottom 5%; some struggled deeply with social norms and expectations, some owned their weirdness and had a laugh with it, some were able to adapt enough to at least live independently, albeit not in great situations or with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:24 PM
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I've known a few invisible basement-dweller women, but they had other serious issues besides just the Asperger's, whereas Asperger's alone was enough to consign a good number of men to the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:59 PM
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I'm a Chad by this definition in my current relationship. Perks of dating a woman who's older and well, well past the wall. She's got a nearly adult kid, so she's not looking to me for that, just my ongoing presence in her life and lots of sex. We have frequent fights over her desire for commitment and my desire to not commit to anything, and she's extremely insecure about me leaving her, which ironically is one of the main reasons why I'm not entirely comfortable with the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:52 PM
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I think this is the most concise summary of it that I could find in a quick google search: Behavioral and preliminary neuroimaging findings suggest autism manifests differently in girls. Notably, females with autism may be closer to typically developing males in their social abilities than typical girls or boys with autism. So, a woman with Asperger's just gets dropped down to the social functioning level of a typical man, while a man with Asperger's gets dropped down to 'tarded levels of social…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:24 PM
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Man, I just realised that my parents didn't tell me a damn thing about girls, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:53 PM
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I've got Asperger's, so that's my excuse. It's interesting to note though that among people who have Asperger's, women still tend to socially outperform men and lead more normal lives. Having Asperger's just isn't such a hindrance to women for whatever reason when it comes to relationships and life in general. It's still a factor, it's just a less severe one for women as far as life outcomes go. I've known plenty of men and women with it, and the men had a fairly even distribution along the spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:48 PM
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Thanks for the explanation; I'd never heard the term before, but I've experienced the phenomenon at times and it puts me right off of someone when they treat me or anyone else like that. How did it pan out with the woman defending you against her friend, and what was the setup like? Was it just the two women? I find that can be manageable, but beyond three women, the tipsy girl hive mind kicks in, they get bold and it gets ugly when they all decide as a group that they're going to mess with a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:46 PM
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One of the hottest girls I ever knew personally was also really sweet and lovely and works as a teacher now and is probably the kids' favourite. Same for the prom queen at my high school; great looks, family money, super popular, but also a really sweet and nice girl who even reached out to me a few times, the super unpopular outcast with a schoolboy crush on her, when she noticed me being particularly outcasty. They were both insecure about their own looks, and they both had a certain humblenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:59 PM
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I feel like this could be abused to comic effect and simultaneously be quickly corrected by simply naming members of the legislature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:24 PM
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My severely socially impaired but wealthy doctor uncle does this with the married secretary in his surgery; he's got a whole weird thing going on where he's obsessed with this married woman, goes to the house, thinks he's pals with the husband, all the while the woman is manipulating him into buying her cars, giving her loans, gifts etc to the tune of tens of thousands of £ because of some childish infatuation. He's not getting sex, he's just being bled for money because his severe Asperger's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:58 PM
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Yeah, bars are awful. I only go to them these days because it's where I meet with a former colleague and ongoing professional contact and the loose group of friends I've met through him on Fridays, but they're a group of people who're a decade or two older than me, which is good from a social stress perspective since they're quite mellow, but not good from a social introductions perspective. I'll have a think about hobby groups and see if I can figure out something that might ease open my social…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:57 PM
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I've been under the care of quite a selection of mental health professionals at various points in my life, but I'm at the point now where they've done all they can do for me and my GP just keeps my prescriptions going and calls me in for a checkup once a year. I just do much, much better in one-to-one social situations than in group situations, so groups and clubs have always been quite daunting to me, but I totally get your point. It's just a point I've heard from people for years and then when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:43 PM
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Incredibly stressful, and the rejection is devastating and can send me into fortnight-long depressions because I'm just really hypersensitive to that kind of thing and can't help having a deep, visceral response to it that I try my best to keep hidden from the outside world, but boy does it suck badly. I can only safely do it when my mood is high enough that I've got some mental buffering and I'm not going to be absolutely crushed by it, but either you man up about these things or you die alone …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:32 PM
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It's sound advice for most people, but perhaps that's why guys who're less socially inclined get so frustrated and vent online and end up in MGTOW and TRP; the sound advice doesn't really work for them, and there's not much of an alternative except what they can find in these communities. I've got Asperger's and am unusually asocial even for someone with Asperger's (I wouldn't even go to the social clubs specifically for people with Asperger's), so I'd have to put myself through unpleasant and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:24 PM
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or have asperger's or some similar social issue that repels women but isn't apparent to themselves I've got Asperger's, but the Asperger's itself tends to be quite attractive to women, or at least to a large enough subset of women that if it was just the appeal or lack thereof of the Asperger's then I'd be gaining more than I lost from it. It's other stuff that goes along with it that hinders my dating success, like having difficulty building and maintaining a social circle of friends, which cut…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:45 PM
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I've got an obese friend with a big pimple scar right on the tip of her nose, and she was able to work as an escort in London, and she was going through a new boyfriend every month and shagging people on the side for the past couple of years and just the past month she's been paying the £10 single female admission to a swinger's club (£40 single male admission) and getting fucked 10 ways to Sunday there anytime she wants. Men don't care that she's obese; she has wet holes for them to stick their…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:27 PM
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I'm already boning in a relationship, but relationships are rarely forever and I'm acutely aware of what it's like to not have access to the on-demand sex spigot, and of how difficult it is to obtain access to it even as a reasonably physically attractive if not socially adept or economically successful guy. I once went 9 years without sex or even really any kind of intimate affection from other people because I was depressed, asocial (aspergers), figured that nobody wanted me because of my ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:18 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by social violation? I've been there, with groups of tipsy girls taking a massive collective dump on me for having the audacity to approach someone I was attracted to, but I'd like to hear your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:14 AM
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Which makes things very confusing and difficult for men. We're expected to be the ones to approach women, and women very seldom approach us, yet we're told that women just want to socialise or shop or whatever and not be hit on in pretty much any situation where they're out in public, so when exactly are we supposed to approach women? Can't approach in bars because they're hanging with their friends in these big groups and will, as a group, absolutely brutally shit all over any man who approache…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:46 AM
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