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Ok then, exactly what charge would this hypothetical person get? Sexual harassment pertains to the workplace. So this person is going to get a sexual assault charge? With no bodily evidence whatsoever aside from hearsay? LOL. Show me case to back up your point please. Otherwise just stop.
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:12 PM
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That is the dumbest most contrived situation ever and I have NEVER in my life heard of that happening. Do I think a girl could lie to get a guys ass beat? Absolutely. Eyewitnesses saying they saw you sexually harass a girl? Where's the actual physical proof? This is like the most extreme example to try and scare someone. Sad that you can even ponder it.
/r/seduction05/09/18 09:53 PM
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Hes not normal apparently.
/r/seduction04/09/18 08:04 PM
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If you're getting a sexual harassment suit you aren't simply asking a girl out. Like that's the dumbest thing to be afraid of when approaching a woman. Smh
/r/seduction04/09/18 08:03 PM
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Cuz they'd rather chill with Palmela than take a chance..
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:24 AM
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Reminds me of Manson & Models. Awareness & vulnerability.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:44 AM
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As someone who has stopped drinking as well...Usually when I go to a club I'll order a water with lime. Nobody will ever ask, but if they do, it's a gin and tonic. I often go out with a group of friends and go off and do my own thing and am never asked about "being alone"...If it's a smaller bar, there's already some good responses in this thread, but one I use (depending on how long you're planning on being there) is: "I'm just waiting to meet up with some friends." You can chat as usual and if…
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:18 PM
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I'm a father, but I have an 8 year old girl....I imagine in 5 years (HOPEFULLY she lasts that long) when she starts getting into boys, I'll let her know guys and things to watch out for. At this point though, I don't even want to think about it.
/r/seduction15/03/13 10:33 PM
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Originally from NY/NJ....Dallas is very cheap in comparison and this area has some of the best looking women I've seen around the country (though to be fair, I haven't hit the west coast yet)
/r/seduction13/03/13 06:34 PM
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Saw him in Dallas and it looks like a lot of this was recorded there. He touched on most of this during the RSD Free Tour. If anyone gets a chance, I suggest checking it out. Free and an interesting couple of hours.
/r/seduction31/01/13 05:50 PM
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I agree with you. "All is fair in love and war." You want something, go get it. My last girlfriend had a bf when we started talking, then we went on to have a good 4 year relationship. The only line I'd never cross is a married woman.
/r/seduction31/01/13 05:26 PM
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I like your style.
/r/seduction17/08/12 10:20 PM
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Perhaps YOUR game just works better at this type of venue? I do think you should be more open-minded though otherwise you're limiting your playgrounds. I personally, love to go to the big loud clubs. But that's because I love to dance and all my friends do too. We go out to have fun and dance, the females flock around us. From there it's simple...
/r/seduction17/08/12 10:15 PM
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or something is wrong medically, they're talking out of their ass and putting dumb unnecessary thoughts in your head. It very easily could be a medical condition, are you in his body?? That's kind of an ignorant thing to say. However, I agree on the nervous part. OP, you don't even have to mention you're a virgin...Just say something like "It's been a couple months...." Now the pressures off should you have to bust fast. If you can't get it up, blowjob?? If you can't get viagra, they have herbal…
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:55 PM
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Like rmbarnes said, it gets easier with experience and success. One trick I used to do is simply: imagine they're a GUY. I'm sure you must have guy friends (if not you need social skills help,not woman advice)...After you've broken the ice, talk to her like you would one of your guy friends, albeit throw some kino flirtation in there.....
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:39 PM
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^ this is good.
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:00 PM
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Golddiggers, NEVER do it. Do THOUGHTFUL things to show you listen and care about her...things you've picked up through talking with her...does she like a particular actor? Rent a movie with him in it "for her". One girl I was talking to liked Hello Kitty so one evening I put Hello Kitty stickers all over her desk (we worked together)...small sentimental things mean more than constantly paying for dinner. If all she wants is your wallet, seriously, tell her to fuck off. You'll be much happier in …
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:59 PM
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If she asks for your money, directly or indirectly, tell her that she will be getting your time and attention Time IS money...use it wisely.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:54 PM
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If you are looking for a girl to fulfill you, you will never be fulfilled. I love this point. It seems like a lot of guys think once they get that girl, they're "complete." and the game is over. The game never stops, otherwise they'll get bored and leave you and that "fulfilled" feeling will be torn to shreds. Never set oneself up for failure.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:52 PM
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Bluehat9 nails it. They're openings for you to say "Ok let's get together/hangout." Go for that shit and never be embarassed.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:49 PM
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Ah it's alright. I find the hardest part is just getting the motivation to start; from there it feels GREAT though. If you can get yourself into a routine, it gets a lot easier.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:45 PM
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I cringed watching your video to think some guys need to be reminded to brush/shower daily. ಠ_ಠ Sad but true nonetheless...
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:43 PM
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What has your conversation consisted of?? Just regular getting to know somebody convo or flirty/fun/banter?? Would it be best to stay quiet and just send one text asking for a date? I'd say no, but more info might help...
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:19 PM
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"I'd rather fail being aggressive than being passive." -Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. Take rejection as merely a learning experience. You think you'll really care if girl A rejected you if you GET girl B??
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:16 PM
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I understand awkwardness when approaching but why as long as the interaction lasts?? Once you break the ice, they're just like any other human being...
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:15 PM
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I've been there before...I was in a relationship early on with a girl like this and I tell you, the negativity never changed and it begins to DRAIN the shit out of you. If you're looking for a relationship with her, you're gonna have a bad time. If you're just trying to get laid or have a FB, then go with something like tall_geek said.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:11 PM
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So workout at home?? Exercise makes your body look better, uplifts the mood, and is great for confidence.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:59 PM
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I view women the same as they view men: Looks merely open the door, your personality seals the deal.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:57 PM
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All things with time and experience young grasshopper!
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:51 PM
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See, I'm going to try this. I'm only on the train for 5 mins but I could at least do a quick opening etc. Good luck with that girl man!
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:27 PM
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Oh yeah as a military person I think you'll appreciate this,(I use it as motivation with women): Just as on the battlefield, the valiant warrior losing in battle is honorable. It is not the victory that defines the man, but the fight.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:26 PM
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No problem. I'm ex-Navy,good-looking, and went through a shy phase when I was younger so I totally identify. Just take baby steps and work from there. Eventually when your confidence is built up, you'll feel like you can say & do almost anything you want (and you usually will get away with it). At this point I wouldn't even worry about closing, just get some easy practice in...but I'll tell you, don't be surprised when you can get more and how easily it comes. Have fun and good luck out there!!
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:25 PM
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Dude, you're a marine whose served in combat aka "certified badass". You should have confidence in that off the bat. Plus you say you're good looking and obviously you're friends point out girls checking you out so feel good about that too. Read the instruction material on opening especially. You have friends which means it's obvious you know how to make personal connections, you're just worried about taking those first baby steps because they're women? Not sure where you're going with your budd…
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:07 PM
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Sunglasses? I honestly like the eyepatch suggestion. It's something different and a damned good conversation starter. I'd deal with being uncomfortable a little to improve my odds of getting laid. Sorry to hear about your eye though man, just don't let it hold you back. If you act like it's no big deal, they'll get over it quickly enough.
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:51 PM
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I think everyone is right but kid-vicious made the great point. It seems pretty obvious she's into you but probably doesn't want anything serious (yet?). I'd just play it cool and I've heard that "I don't want to have sex" thing plenty of times: anti-slut defense. And totally disregarding your "awkward hug" text is probably a good thing since she came back to you hours later for attention. she didn't reply to that message and I was pretty upset the whole afternoon and night until about 10pm Don'…
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:27 PM
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Ehhh, I'd go with some kind of lighthearted joke, nothing too serious. This is assuming you'll see her on your way home...then you'd have something to joke about with her while you're on the train. Also, props for train game, I ride it every day and it's one area where I've never opened...
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:17 PM
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How long ago did you get her #? Hours/days? I'd send a joke or some silly banter her way and just see how she follows up. As thewtfzone said, do NOT come off as clingy/needy. Just be cool, you said you see her twice a day on the train...
/r/seduction17/08/12 05:44 PM
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^ This exactly! When I get the "boyfriend" response, I usually counter with something like: "Wow we just started talking and you're already thinking about having sex with me? (her usually laughing and saying no) Why else would it be a big deal if you hung out with someone and got to know them? Maybe I wanted to be your friend and you could introduce me to one of your cute friends (if she's into you, the thought of you with one of her friends will probably give her a nudge) I view boyfriends as m…
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:25 PM
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I know the feeling, right there with ya buddy.
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:29 PM
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As a good-looking guy getting out of a relationship, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Fuck the haters if they don't get it...it's just a way of looking at things differently to alleviate AA and get in the proper mind frame.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:13 PM
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Keep your head up and continue being as social as possible. Perhaps try a different club. Also, with no $, dress nice and try some day game...
/r/seduction24/05/12 06:16 PM
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^ THIS! It's memorial day weekend, I'm sure the shore is going to be popping all weekend. I miss my home state. :(
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:09 PM
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Awesomeness.
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:16 PM
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That's right! It's Seth Rogen that says that I think.
/r/seduction28/06/11 10:23 PM
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Love the garden analogy.
/r/seduction28/06/11 06:04 PM
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First off, if you're looking for a relationship from this girl, I wouldn't do it at work. I've had several work relationships, and the one that actually turned into a LTR, when it was over, work was HELL. Now, if you're just looking for a friend or a FB, just keep it cool and don't let emotions get involved and even when it's over, you can come out fine. If you still want to pursue her, ask her if she's interested in grabbing a happy hour drink after work. I don't know what time you actually wor…
/r/seduction06/06/11 10:28 PM
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Armani Code is one of my faves. Aqua D' Gio is also good. D&G Light Blue, Pi Neo by Givenchy, Victoria's Secret Very Sexy all work for me. And I've been told Eau De Issey (Issey Miyake) smells like sex in a bottle.
/r/seduction03/06/11 06:37 PM
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Next to Weeds.... Best. Show. Ever.
/r/seduction30/03/11 10:46 PM
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Am actually into the show, but those guys were HORRIBLE. Yakov really did seem like he "was on something" and Chris had like NO emotion whatsoever....I think almost anybody could do better than the both of them. Can't believe they both failed round 2, that shit is simple.
/r/seduction28/03/11 08:39 PM
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Don't get one-itis and just go for it. If you fail, simply move on to the next one.
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:05 PM
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Mornings: A light workout, a big breakfast, protein shake. Gets my blood pumping, some food in my belly, and a smile on my face. Day: I don't do much for day game, I just sorta get into my natural groove. I do workout everyday on my lunch break, and it's great for uplifting my mood and making me feel confident about myself. Night: We usually pre-party at my crib before heading out to a bar/club. Loud music and a couple of drinks gets me charged up. Motivation: To continually progress, and to bec…
/r/seduction25/03/11 05:46 PM
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I've found if you tell a girl you're interested in, even if you're not to a level you're hanging out with her already, that you had a dream about her, it almost always peaks their interest. I've done this several times and about 90% of the time the response is "Oh really?" and then they always follow inferring sexual undertones. To start it off, I usually start with "I kindly ask you to stay the hell out of my dreams!" or something to that affect. They'll infer sexuality behind it, but you alway…
/r/seduction24/03/11 04:19 PM
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Thanks for posting this....I've actually been stuck in the dip for like 2-3 weeks now (and been wondering where this funk came from). Today I've been pushing myself to get out of it and progress. I feel better already.
/r/seduction23/03/11 08:37 PM
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Literally if you can.
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:44 PM
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Fuck Flakes.
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:44 PM
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Flip-Flip-Flip-a-delphia!
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:46 PM
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Have more than enough to drink. Nothing like a buzz kill if the alcohol runs out. I usually get a couple 30 packs, and maybe a big bottle of vodka and rum...some coke to mix with....whatever you don't finish, you just save for the future anyway. Snacks: popcorn,pretzels,chips, shit to munch on while getting ya buzz on. If the party is earlier in the night, I'd say get some pizza o something. But New Year's parties don't get bumpin til after 10 so I think you'll be ok with small stuff. GOOD music…
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:40 PM
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"2.) don't take other guy's girls! if she's touched another guy in any way during the last month, she's his for a while! don't make any moves!" I literally loled here at my desk. I break this rule often (however not with any of my guy friends' girls). If you do em good once, they'll forget about the other guy in a jiffy.
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:30 PM
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I have an incredibly hard time smoking and chatting up new girls. However, if I'm actually hanging out with a girl, getting high is a bonding experience for me and it almost always works to my advantage. As for drinking, jamba_juice said it: EXCESS. I've had to learn how to pace myself cuz no chick wants to talk to a sloppy drunk guy. (and vice versa, i don't really care to talk to sloppy drunk chicks)
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:16 PM
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I think the point about walking in and "owning the place" is the key if you can grasp it....when I'm home and we have females over, I'm just me to the fullest (because basically, if a chick got a problem, get the fuck out!). I don't know if you have your own place or not, but try to establish this energy within you, and then bounce out somewhere and USE that energy to fuel you. Guarantee if you use it and just say hi and start talking to people, you'll roll with the flow nicely. Happy New Year's…
/r/seduction31/12/10 06:03 PM
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I'm in Texas and STILL wouldn't say "howdy"
/r/seduction31/12/10 05:48 PM
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This is where I am...I just got out of a 2 year relationship about 2 months ago....the first month and a half I was just doing my thing, talking to and chilling with as many girls as possible... But I hit a point where a lot of it just seems like "fluff". I'm very good at making deep connections with people, but because I'm NOT looking for a relationship anytime soon, I feel I have to hold back a lot of myself. "Meeting someone like that is so much different than this, so much better. I find mys…
/r/seduction30/12/10 10:54 PM
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Seems like she's into you, she could've just been in a funk that night. Also, I've found that until you sleep with them (and sometimes after), each time you get together, you have to re-escalate the kino. Though, each subsequent time, it's usually easier and quicker to get to the level you left off at. Personally, I'd probably pull back a tad, and make her come to me more....tease with the kino, make her want me. And I hit the gym everday and would love to hear some gym game. I've opened one gir…
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:49 PM
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Party at my crib earlier in the night with a bunch of friends, bar bounce from probably between 11-1am, bring some newly acquired ladies back to my place for the after party. Sorry to hear everyone is sick, that's a night killer there.
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:41 PM
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Pick-up related: I will open at least one girl everyday and will f-close a new girl at least once a month. General: I will cut back on partying during the week, get my series 7 license, get a better position with a nice raise.
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:36 PM
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what friggin game is this from??? I remember it was for the NES!
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:45 PM
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Fuck yeah I'd go out if it was all girls and just me. Social proof my friend. You don't even have to focus on her friends, you can use the social proof of them being with you, to meet newer girls (with which you could also try bringing into the group....but then again, women are catty and might not like these new chicks) As far as her friends if you're interested....just be flirty and use kino. If they're interested, you should know, and just escalate from there. I'm more worried about your fema…
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:41 PM
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Great story man and I appreciate it. I NEVER even thought of the long term implications (money wise, i did health/body wise) Thanks again for the knowledge, you really did ease some pain in the back of my mind.
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:21 PM
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"Going after women already in relationships." I TRY to avoid it, but usually can't. If she's willing to cheat with me, then she'd be willing to cheat with someone else. She's not happy in her relationship, but doesn't want to break it off for fear of being "single and lonely". I read once, chicks are like monkeys, they won't leave one branch until they have a firm grasp on another branch. (men=branches) "Using pua lingo, most of which is military based and programs people to view women as enemie…
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:17 PM
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Cheddar is right dude....space out your texts. The more available you are for her, the less desireable (usually). I used to be the same way, text back as soon I get one.....but when you space it out and make it seem like you're busy (with work, with friends, WHATEVER) you give off the perception (and it should be true REGARDLESS) that your time is very important to you and you have a life that doesn't revolve around her. (which women in turn, find sexy)
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:38 PM
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This verse from the song "U ain't gotta go home" by Joe Budden reflects this thread well: [Verse 3] Ma - you real aggressive, catchin' me of balance It's a turn off, don't you know niggaz respect a challenge Move a lil' slow gettin' at me Treat the pussy like it's worth somethin', don't just go throwin' it at me Cuz - while you doin' it at the same time I'm thinkin' how many niggaz hit you wit that same line Or - how many other niggaz you ran game to How many niggaz you fucked or you gave brain …
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:15 PM
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Totally agree on everything in this thread! I like the chase, not to BE chased. When I was younger, I messed around with 2 different chicks that asked for MY number....one was a former heroin addict who was on parole...the other was kinda cool but NEEDY....since then, I've just had a bad perception of girls who try to seduce me. Express interest, just don't make it too easy!
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:15 PM
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Wow man! You sound like my clone or something, even back in the day you.(And also the on/off again LTR) "but the girls don't seem to want me for anything other than a good pounding" Exactly what I've been dealing with lately. This particular chick, I could see us being friends more than anything else (she's a 6 i'd say), but I don't want to corner myself into this one frame of mind, then when I'm ready to "settle down" in a LTR, I'll have framed everything wrong. I do think toning down the kino …
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:52 PM
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You have no idea how good that felt to read and it is SO true. No, I didn't realize it then, but looking back on it, it all fits. $20-$30 on wine everyday, FML! She's openly told me she can't help it...she has no "good" friends, though she is close with her fam (also alcoholics). I beat myself up for awhile immediately after we broke up, thinking I wasn't good enough...but over the past month, I've just been working out and studying and I realize SHE was the one with fcked up issues. Thanks agai…
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:46 PM
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Dude I'm in the same boat!! Most of the girls I fck around with already have boyfriends/engaged/married, or are just FWB. Sometimes I wonder if that's ALL I'm good for though is the quick fling....then I just say fck it and enjoy the sex for what it is. Got a question for you though: Do you tone it down or change the way you go about things, if you're interested in a woman beyond the sexual factor? I tire of chicks pretty easily, but I met a girl last week who I was actually enjoying talking to/…
/r/seduction28/12/10 07:07 PM
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You're perfectly right. LTR's work when there's prior EXPERIENCE. People that get married to their first sweetheart are naive to me. Trial and error. If she's NEVER been in a relationship, how on earth will she know how to act in one? What happens the first night he goes out, stays out late, and forgets to call her? All hell could break loose quite easily...
/r/seduction28/12/10 06:56 PM
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love this song. Gets me pumped to do just about anything.
/r/seduction28/12/10 06:18 PM
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Upvote for the hat thing. Girls LOVE to steal hats. My favorite reply: "You rock it well, but it definitely looks better on me" ;)
/r/seduction28/12/10 06:13 PM
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You made my day with the oncoming economic stability statement....I just lost a g/f of 2 years because I wasn't in the proper "economic situation" for her....I take it as I didn't make enough money to support her and her alcoholic lifestyle. Either way, I'm studying for my series 7 which will be a $10k raise and am going back to school. Five years from now, this'll all just be a memory.
/r/seduction28/12/10 05:49 PM
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Yeah man....love the bitches, hate the rednecks.
/r/seduction23/12/10 09:30 PM
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Like random guy said, it's all about balance. I've had several LTR, the first 2 I wound up ending because I lost interest. The third, I fell in love hard and tried to be overly nice. Shit just blew up in my face. We broke up, I went back into "single mode" and within 3 months she wanted me back. When she's good, reward her (start small...you start big, they expect bigger rewards). She does something bad, punish her.
/r/seduction22/12/10 04:40 PM
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I love to read (and love chicks that read also)... I"m SOOO gonna try this.
/r/seduction22/12/10 04:30 PM
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Congrats man!!! I had the SAME thing happen a couple of weeks ago....crushed on this girl (HB8) all 4 years of high school, but was always put in the "friend zone". Have left Jersey for 5 years, but her and I stayed in contact on facebook. When she found out I was coming back to visit, she was very adamant about us "going out to dinner" and "getting together". I even told her when I came back about how I view things differently and am not looking for anything besides a FWB. She agreed, I spent t…
/r/seduction22/12/10 04:23 PM
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"Talk is cheap - actions speak louder than words. Cheers!" Bingo.
/r/seduction20/12/10 04:34 AM
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Gotta get over that one-itis bro.....when you put all your eggs in one basket, if it doesn't work out, you're left with a bunch of crapped out eggs...not the way to be, it'll only make you feel worse. I'm in a similar situation where I feel connected to a particular "one", but you gotta get out there and entertain others and see what else is out there.....I've found that no matter how connected I am to a woman, I can always find someone else whose comparable, and quite easily actually....just ke…
/r/seduction20/12/10 04:32 AM
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Exactly. Use her as a prop for your story, helps with kino as well!
/r/seduction20/12/10 04:26 AM
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I'd expose it, gives you something to talk about and I'm sure chicks will wanna know "What happened?" You could put a fun interesting twist on it.
/r/seduction17/12/10 09:05 PM
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Just learn from your mistakes and move on to the next one. I've been cheated on twice in my early relationships and it sucks. I definitely know how it feels when it messes with your self-confidence. But you just gotta keep reminding yourself of your good qualities. Just because she fucked up, doesn't mean you're less of a person. I always tell myself, if a chick doesn't want me, there are millions more that will. Also, the quicker you find a new one, it will ease the pain of your last one. Just …
/r/seduction17/12/10 07:17 PM
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Upvote for the DBZ reference alone.
/r/seduction16/12/10 06:39 PM
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Agreed! Had this happen over a couple of years at my current job...Then I recently started hanging out with a newer girl and she says something to the effect of: Her: "I've been told you're a player here at work" Me: "How so? I'm a single guy and dated a couple people here briefly, that's all." Her: "Yeah but didn't you also have an affair with that married girl?" etc etc etc. I still fucked her and we're fuck buddies to this day, it was just kinda disheartening that my business is well known ar…
/r/seduction08/12/10 05:40 PM
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Upvote for your football point and your post in general...the precedents we set from day 1 carry through to the whole relationship. We can't be supplicating in the beginning, then after a year or so, just decide we wanna stand up for ourselves. Well, of course its possible, but it throws a whole new wrench into the machine, and I've found it just starts to go bad from there. Better to just set precedents (as far as LTR go) early on. If she has a problem with it, just find someone new. I've found…
/r/seduction03/12/10 06:49 PM
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Yeah don't beat yourself up man, just try next time and just use this experience as fuel for the fire!
/r/seduction03/12/10 06:37 PM
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The seduction/pick-up stuff for me is about becoming the MAN I knew I could be. I'm a good looking guy so I always had success with women, but I always felt like it was luck more than anything else...Now I'm in control of myself as well as my interactions with others, gained an incredible amount of self-respect, and learned how to dictate where I want my interactions with women to go (instead of just fumbling through everything) The first book I read was David DeAngelo's Double your Dating and I…
/r/seduction02/12/10 07:58 PM
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What good is having the cake when you can't eat it too?
/r/seduction19/11/10 08:08 PM
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"They'll just fuck guys like us on the side." Upvote.
/r/seduction19/11/10 06:47 PM
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If you already made out with her....call her, meet up for drinks, fuck her.
/r/seduction19/11/10 05:31 PM
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"Try this opener, but the girl in question isn't here tonight." Exactly!! Or she's been blowing up your phone trying to meet up with you.
/r/seduction19/11/10 05:24 PM
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Agreed. At this point, I show disinterest back. Sometimes it throws them off and they come back for more, other times they just didn't give a fck and we both move on with our lives. Not the end of the world.
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:40 PM
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Bitches love talkin' bout themselves AND smiley faces! =)
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:39 PM
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I'd simply go off of something she might've said in class "Hey I liked the point you made about...." or like Throwaway PUA said "I disagree with your comment about..." just try and get her juices flowing and the conversation started, then transition into asking her out for a drink after class. Either she will or won't, maybe she'll be busy but say another time. I tell myself this a lot: "You can't get a hit if you don't step up to the plate." or "You can't win if you don't play the game."
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:15 PM
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Congrats man, for your first time it went really well. Again, if you get rejected, I still wouldn't call an approach a failure. In that case, it's simply a learning experiment. Don't focus on the outcome as much as making it an enjoyable interaction for both parties. I'll bet you feel even better after your next one, use that energy and run with it!!!
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:09 PM
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Good post, sad to say but I'm sure a good portion of the guy population still hasn't learned this for themselves.
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:00 PM
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"Honestly, in my experience, a "crush" comes from feeling initial interest, then not doing anything about it for too long, leading to you putting the pussy on the pedestal." BINGO.
/r/seduction18/11/10 05:23 PM
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My point was this: Often times we see someone and crush on them without knowing a thing about them. I was crushing on this girl because she was hot, she was a singer and into music, and had great style...after being with her for 2 years, I realized she's an untrustworthy,manipulative, alcoholic. So yeah, after looking back on things, had I KNOWN then what I know now, I definitely do not think she was worth crushing on. There's lots of things we don't realize about women until we've been with the…
/r/seduction18/11/10 05:20 PM
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I'd get over that....I ask both stranger girls & guys "how's it going" all the time. One needs to say SOMETHING to open the door, sometimes the simplest route is the best route.
/r/seduction17/11/10 11:09 PM
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Agreed, just wait to pop it in there when the both of your are comfortable and having a good time.
/r/seduction17/11/10 11:07 PM
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I understand and can't even imagine your story....it seems like you just gotta accept what happened, happened. When life deals you lemons, make lemonade ya know? I'll say the same thing about this as I do approaching: Let the anxiety go and JUST DO IT. I promise you'll feel 100x better after you just get it out of you, and it only gets easier and easier from there.
/r/seduction17/11/10 10:57 PM
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Just flip your mindset, it seems to me your ashamed of your scars...embrace them! Some people (saw a post below as well) actually dig scars, I do because I always know there's a story to tell behind them. I have 2 nasty one's on my leg from when i was younger and had a staph infection. Whenever a chick would see them, I usually tell them with a deviant face that I was shot....listen to them say sorry/show some pity....then tell them i was just fucking with them, at which point they usually light…
/r/seduction17/11/10 10:38 PM
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If you feel that way, stay away from canned openers and stick to natural stuff. Shit, I opened a girl leaving the gym today with "Didn't you used to go to Wicker?" (different gym i used to go to that i saw her at) Didn't get her number or anything yet, but at least I said SOMETHING and found out about her and will see her again. "HI" works wonders for some people to.
/r/seduction17/11/10 10:12 PM
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Disagree. I was single for 2 1/2 years after my daughter's mother moved out...after about a year this cute redhead started working at my job...I had NO game at this point in my life, she entertained me for a lil bit but eventually we stopped talking. I got my game up and loved being single, but I still always had a crush on this girl....Eventually our paths crossed again, and with the help of my developed game/confidence, I had a 2 year relationship with her.....now after all is said and done, t…
/r/seduction17/11/10 10:10 PM
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"Alphas don't date...alphas penetrate!" My new slogan!
/r/seduction17/11/10 10:00 PM
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"Someone said just think about her fingering herself when your too tired to smile." Immediately puts a smile on my face, thank you man. Gonna use this again.
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:53 PM
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Not odd at all sir, I'm there with you. I guess due to past experiences, any girl that wants me to spend money on her comes off extremely golddigger-ish, which for me is an instant turn off and a waste of time. That being said, the FIRST date, I'm willing to let shit slide, I just can't see a continual habbit forming. Also, free dates are the best...I love to just walk and talk.
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:46 PM
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"Somewhere along the way, this almost completely stopped being an issue for me. Somehow, something about my behavior, attitude, whatever, makes it apparent that I'm not being exclusive." I had this SAME thing happen to me over the past 2 years...it basically becomes a non-issue that they just pick up on...where do you think that comes from? Agreed with everything you said, especially about being honest. I've found if they're that much into me, they respect my honesty and don't worry about the wh…
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:05 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:01 PM
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"Every time I make an approach or put myself out of my comfort zone I get stronger because I learn something every time. This is the frame you need to embody." So true. Even if a situation doesn't go as I imagined, I still get an incredible adrenaline rush from pushing myself regardless. Pretty soon it's gonna become like a drug to me and I do enough already!
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:58 PM
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I use this on women all the time. Sets the frame that my time is valuable and she should be lucky to have some of it. To quote Styles P: Time is money, use it wisely.
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:41 PM
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Agreed. When all I'm really looking for is to get laid, WTF do I care about a bitches feelings? I'm just trying to trigger responses in her to get her to bed.
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:35 PM
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And yes, "what is your ideal boyfriend" is bad.
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:21 PM
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Agreed with guys below Her passions, ambitions, hobbies,family,career, goals, etc. Get to KNOW her as a person, not just the physical aspect of her. I never initially let it be known I'm into a girl. If we're out together, obviously there's some attraction/reason already there, so I just base everything off of the type of person she is (plus, what exactly my penis wants out of a situation) She's wack or boring, but hot, I'm gonna try and fuck ASAP. She's cool and someone I like to spend time wit…
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:21 PM
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Agreed....what exactly is a "date"? Different things to different people.
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:13 PM
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"Can you sense the pussy tingling whe you say this?" There really is something about telling a girl you don't want to do something, then letting them seduce you into doing it. I think it gives them a sense of power, plus the rush of "being bad"
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:44 PM
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I've never had any problems bringing chicks home when i lived with my parents....I've found if you can get them to that point where they're just ready for you, location doesn't really matter. Don't beat yourself up about living with your parents, I used to do this and it's a waste of time. Devote your energy to finding ways around it (i.e. coming home late and just going to your room) Plus it helps if you're parents are cool. If you have to...a cheap motel works...if you've got a big enough car,…
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:38 PM
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I agree with brain_scratch, i think you're worrying about this internally too much. If you want to be a natural, just BE A NATURAL. A natural doesn't think there's anything wrong with talking to ANYBODY. Just cuz you're flirty or hitting on a chick, means nothing negative about you. I don't use canned material, but if someone does, I always recommend they try to make it as natural & streamlined as possible.
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:31 PM
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I've done the same thing when I first started improving my game...it mostly comes down to reading somebody...I've always been excellent at reading body language, so when I get red flags that I was a little harsh, I'll just give a small compliment or something to soften the blow. If they're really into you, they can get over things pretty quickly.
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:24 PM
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Exactly....I stupidly made this mistake and got into a LTR with a girl I met this way....aside from good memories and sex, waste of time. But hey, I learned a valuable lesson!!
/r/seduction17/11/10 05:14 PM
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From what I've seen, boyfriends mean nothing....it's the quality of their relationship that will either leave her open to entertaining you, or have her shutting the door (cuz she's happy with her man.) But I'd proceed full speed ahead until hitting a wall (if there would be one).
/r/seduction17/11/10 05:12 PM
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Always run game, never apologize for striving for something you want.
/r/seduction16/11/10 06:01 PM
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"This is about your reputation as the cockmaster general, you need to get in there and tear her shit up so that she tell her friends how fucking amazing you are." My hero.
/r/seduction16/11/10 05:49 PM
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Ah I missed that part, my bad, but yeah make it work for you and good luck!
/r/seduction16/11/10 05:39 PM
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Not sure how your office is set up and logistics...but I guess the simplest way would be getting away from your desk (i.e. coffee break, smoke break, breakroom, bathroom whatever) to give you more of an opportunity to bump into her. Also, if you're not a generally chatty guy at work, I'd start changing that now, this way if/when you bump into her, it'll seem more natural for you to talk as a co-worker...once bumping into her, just ask her to lunch or something. If she has a boyfriend, i usually …
/r/seduction16/11/10 05:25 PM
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Dude, I have this SAME friggin problem right now. I JUST broke up with my girl last week....granted we're still talking now...but the sex is too damn good! Last time we broke up for about 5 months, I had sex with like 3-4 girls, and I just did not enjoy it the same. Now I feel like I'm hooked on her and it SUCKS! To be fair, I can easily make a couple of phone calls and have sex if that's what I want, I just wanna have sex WITH HER. LOL Well, my advice for you is the same that i'm doing....keep …
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:41 PM
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Dallas (uptown area)
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:32 PM
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Texas
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:31 PM
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United states
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:31 PM
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Agreed. I'm very extroverted and generally just prefer to be around other people. CAN I be by myself and like it? Of course. It doesn't mean I WANT to though.
/r/seduction29/10/10 05:14 PM
1

I had this SAME thing happen to me...super-clingy after the first smash...calling me while at work just wanting to chat, even when I told her from the get-go I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship....I tried pushing her away but it didn't work....I think I just slept with her like 2 more times (i was busy/she was easy) and stopped calling her.
/r/seduction25/10/10 10:14 PM
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Sadly this reminds me of my sad excuse of a girlfriend.
/r/seduction22/10/10 05:29 PM
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It's obvious to them if you come up and talk to them, that you're hitting on them. I think this is like common sense woman knowledge. I agree with Philosarapter, that you should never start with a compliment though. Getting to talk with you is a compliment in and of itself initially...however after a brief discussion, it's ok to compliment, though I'd say something other than she has a nice ass or rack. Compliment her eyes, smile, clothes/style. Something more personal goes a long way further. A…
/r/seduction15/09/10 03:51 PM
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I have the same problem!! You know it may seem weird, but I've had some success meeting women in book stores (Barnes & Noble is good because most have a coffee area). I also think going out near a college/university, will up your odds at finding an educated hottie. Also, if you're into other things (yoga perhaps?), join a class.
/r/seduction10/08/10 04:44 PM
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I'll let you know how it goes, I'm working late and won't be taking the bus, so my work begins tomorrow.... also didn't realize you wrote both, my bad dude.
/r/seduction02/08/10 09:37 PM
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I actually ride the bus twice a day for about an hour total, I'll give something like this a try and see how I do.
/r/seduction02/08/10 08:32 PM
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Not bad, I'd condense the last paragraph (it's more than that..) into something quicker that you could bounce from afterwards. I like the follow-up that mnmnpau stated, not necessarily word for word, but the overall gist of it.
/r/seduction02/08/10 08:31 PM
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I've never read the Stylelife article, but I've always done the points thing very early on with a girl....it let's them know they gotta EARN YOU, not the other way around....chicks love that shit.
/r/seduction02/08/10 07:55 PM
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