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Just keep practicing. I have mild autism as well and it’s just an extra hurdle you have to learn to cope with and figure out yourself. I don’t think there’s a magic phrase I can tell you to settle the entire problem. If you’re getting aggravated by women give “how not to give a f” by Mark Manson a try
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:03 PM
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That's not gonna work. You can't just stare into her eyes and her panties will drop. Best way to do it is when shes passionately talking about something and thats when you look into her eyes. But REALLY look, don't think about her eye colour or some bullshit, if anything think about how much you want to fuck her and that'll show in your eyes.
/r/seduction27/08/18 12:20 PM
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Suggest something that isn't horror or movie that ur doing a different day
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:56 AM
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yup that's a fuck up for sure; not always the end of the world but wine stains like a bitch and they were materialistic. Better to just move on and save yourself some time.
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:54 AM
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rip them from her skull and scream about what you'd do to her body
/r/seduction24/08/18 03:54 PM
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No they deffinitly should be concerned about that if their end goal is a relationship/fwb type deal. If your not escalating you're falling into the friendzone and thats just how it is. Girls want guys that continuously make and improve their life in romantic ways.
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:00 AM
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She isn't wife material cause shes cheating on her bf emotionally and she'll do the same to you. But feel free to pump and dump clearly their relationship is over anyway.
/r/seduction24/08/18 10:20 AM
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Why are so many guys on this sub afarid to show girls they care? If you do let them know. Just don't care too much and seem needy. Other than that you to risk her not liking you in order to be more expressive.
/r/seduction24/08/18 10:16 AM
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Sounds good on paper but it won't work 99% of the time. 70% or the time it may lead to a one time hook up but thats only if you guys are good/best friends and you are naturaully flirty unlike how forced it sounds in your writing. It's never worth it to pursue a girl if she only sees you as a friend. Good post though, these are the type of questions newbies should be asking.
/r/seduction24/08/18 10:12 AM
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Very informative infield and good game. Feels a lot less scummy then a lot of these so called "pick up artists"
/r/seduction23/08/18 11:42 PM
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a good experience for sure, but ask yourself what do you think you did well? and what do you think you could of done better? Take that information on the next date and apply it
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:59 PM
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ya big time I love it👏
/r/seduction23/08/18 07:34 PM
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you're bringing value to a social circle why would you leave it..? It's not as though you have anything to lose by being friends and going out w them in fact that energy they are giving you will be felt in the entire room and raise everyones social perception of you. Just don't get attachted or over invest back. EDIT: And quit comparing yourself to others as much, compare yourself to the you from yesterday
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:50 PM
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why should you be worried if your just dating? If anything it shows you have options and you're high on the social hierarchy
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:45 PM
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I'm re-reading models by mark manson and a little piece of advice I came across is "Fuck yes or no" If she isnt enthusiast to be spending time with you then just move on to another girl who appreciates you
/r/seduction23/08/18 02:58 PM
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wtf she's clearly not intrested, make her invested in you before you ask her out. it has very little to do with how you ask her, ignore the other comments.
/r/seduction23/08/18 11:53 AM
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Just don't if you get them on the date and game them well enough it won't matter
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:12 PM
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Take the L and move on; pursue any harder and she might find you creepy
/r/seduction22/08/18 06:10 PM
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too much going on in your head, should of not only made small talk before asking for her number you also should of grabbed it when you called her cute. In her mind you lost all momentum when you didnt.
/r/seduction22/08/18 05:52 PM
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make a move? sounds like your friendzone tbh but you're not giving us all the details of your friendship I only talk about sex more than once with a girl like that only when we mutually friendzone each other and there's clearly no feelings.
/r/seduction22/08/18 03:55 PM
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don't develop oneits and over invest first of all and then either have sex casually, screen her for if she's good gf material, or just stay friends
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:24 PM
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Looking for a wingman as well
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:20 PM
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Wrong, self confidence comes from realizing it's okay to fail.
/r/seduction20/08/18 11:36 PM
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Text her when you have something important to say or ask her if she wants to hang out again soon. No need for small talk you already know each other.
/r/seduction20/08/18 07:52 PM
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Not when it's a class mate and the repercussions are it's someone you'll be working with for the next few years in your program. Plus you're in a learning/proffesional environment when you're in class (at least I hope so...) it's the equivalent of that creepy dude who asks girls from the office to go on dates with them even though they've never even spoken outside of small chitchat
/r/seduction20/08/18 07:45 PM
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Don't shit where you eat but if this is what you wanna do the best course of action is to build a connection as class mates and work your way up to friend and then ask her what shes doing after class one day and instant date or plan something in the near future to study or some bs You have to have a strong game to pull this off but once your out of a class room setting only then should you start escalating and really getting to know her and you'll have to be seriously on point with your body lan…
/r/seduction20/08/18 05:19 PM
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Next time... don't follow the girls... 😬 Just find a new girl to approach Be more confidant and keep approaching though and you'll be a god in no time
/r/seduction20/08/18 04:52 PM
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You hit the nail on the head and this is so extremelly important. I went through almost the exact same thing where, yeah I was getting laid but I wasn't doing anything else to enjoy my life. So I focused on myself and started actually fucking living and meeting people and getting to know them on a new level of understanding. I've made so many strong bonds with new people the last year and it really excites me for the future. I'm starting to get back into pickup again and reteaching myself some o…
/r/seduction20/08/18 04:41 PM
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I had this problem as well, best thing you can do is be more confident and talk about things more seriously instead of half ass contributing to the conversation cause your afraid you might say something that'll make her not like you
/r/seduction20/08/18 03:24 PM
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Your last date gave you your answer. You aren't being honest with yourself or genuine enough and its super obvious. You need to let loose, when you have them on a date your past the hardest part. The rest is just being confident and following your heart mixed with a little game. Think less about what you should say and just say it.
/r/seduction20/08/18 12:55 PM
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OP... I'll give you the benefit of the doubt since you're just getting your foot in the door to pickup. Shit like this doesn't slide. You demand respect or you break up with her. (Don't do this infront of people it's your problem not everyone elses) When it is just you 2 and she starts being happy and flirty again give her the cold shoulder and tell her you want some respect or she has to go. Make it clear your a high value man with many options you don't need to take her shit.
/r/seduction20/08/18 11:22 AM
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It's never really worked for me either and not something I'm worried about. Some people only get along as romantic partners and can't be friends, vice versa.
/r/seduction20/08/18 03:27 AM
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Ehh, It's the truth. There isn't a magic phrase or tactic to get a girl to like you back. She either does or she doesnt and you move on.
/r/seduction20/08/18 03:17 AM
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She's a rebel, she wants some resistance. Next time she invites you over to watch movies tell her your not looking to be just friends and have no interest in wasting your own time with her.
/r/seduction20/08/18 03:14 AM
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Dick-Butt shit 😂 You responded well, as long as you don't come off as needy. The only way to take it further would have been to escalate with a sexual remark. ie Wow, your ass is even bigger than I remember. 😍
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:55 AM
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Battle of the Century: Dark Arts PUA VS Edge Lord Who will win????? Find out tomorrow 😎
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:44 AM
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Girls literally break that rule all the time so I'm not sure what you are on about. I've had the most shy of girls admit to me in a very embarssed way that they fucked this dude on the first date even though she said she never would. Yeah, you got me I only play the long game and it has nothing to do with the chemistry me and each individual girl build that makes me decide when to fuck them. Sorry dude. Not everyone is as desperate to have sex as you are. I want to build meaningful bonds with th…
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:42 AM
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It's a basic concept. As long as you are investing more in yourself, and putting your goals and ambitions before hers, you can be as forward as you want.
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:28 AM
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I'd say most guys issues on here is they want sex TOO much and they shouldn't worry about having sex the first time they meet a girl. It's fucking desperate frankly. They should worry about creating a strong frame and game that makes girls WANT to have sex with him more than he does with her. Having that power is infinitly better than just fucking on the first date. Go on as many dates as you want if you enjoy being with a girl. If you don't like being with the girl why are you trying to fuck he…
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:21 AM
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This post is all over the place.. why wouldn't you want a girl to know your intrested in her..? Doesn't making any sense if you actually are. Girls love that shit even if they don't like you.
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:15 AM
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Thats clearly not the case here. His inexperience is plainly obvious to me and the girl he was with. I'm sure some people are too infatuated with porn so I'm not saying your wrong but most people just blame it for their sex problems and don't take any of the credit for how they are feeling themselves.
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:12 AM
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that's a fair question and you absolutely could take that approach. Thats why I don't watch videos like RSD. Some of the advice is good but it's a lot of what you are saying. Just be confident in who you are, have the balls to approach, and just do it. Your game will improve naturally.
/r/seduction19/08/18 10:41 PM
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r/askseddit "Hey, all my friends have different schedules than me this semster mind if I eat with you guys so I don't look like a loner hahaha My name is socialy awkward guy nice to meet you"
/r/seduction19/08/18 10:27 PM
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That's a more serious answer but sure. Glad I could help lol
/r/seduction19/08/18 10:08 PM
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r/askseddit What makes you so sure we arent soul mates? ;)
/r/seduction19/08/18 09:56 PM
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Good report. I would say you should work on your kino more. Clearly you weren't doing it in a way that felt natural and she kept telling you no. Like when you finally had a reason to touch her (massage) thats when it worked. There's something to be said about that. From the sounds of it you don't have sex very often and you were nervous. You should have verbalized this to her and been honest. Don't blame porn for your problems lol If you were honest you would of been less nervous and might of ev…
/r/seduction19/08/18 07:17 PM
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If you are friendly with her before isolating her its a non-issue most the time. I can't read your story but clearly he or his previous actions did something that made her feel as though she was in danger (even if she wasn't)
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:10 PM
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In theory, yeah you're not wrong but the way I percieve it is at any moment I was ready to leave and go out to another bar by myself. I needed to have sex but it didn't have to be with her and that showed through my actions.
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:07 PM
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It's an effective method at showing a girl you have confidence, that's about it. Should only be used when the conversation naturally dies out AND you actually do have the confidence to be comfortable in silence. It's not something you can easily fake.
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:01 PM
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If it's threatning your doing it wrong and unfortunately in my experience there isn't a sure fire way to isolate someone. It's mostly an in the moment thing. An example from another party is: Everyones in or near the hot tub, you notice everyone starting to go inside. My reaction would be to start, if I wasn't already, talking to my target again and get her engaged in conversation so we are the last two left out there. Boom. Isolated. Make your move. As far as leaving a lasting impression.. I th…
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:37 AM
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You're missing the point, I'm not you I can't tell you what to say or else it won't feel genuine. As an EXAMPLE: "Hey, it was nice meeting you on campus." and throw in a joke for good measure. "I hope to hold more doors open for you in the future."
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:23 AM
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Step 1. Have friends that know people you don't and go to their parties Step 2. Talk to everyone and make friends with people Step 3. Talk to girl and leave a lasting impression on her Step 4. Enjoy the party Step 5. Isolate her later or in this case at least talk to her one-on-one no distractions and when you feel you have her in a good spot grab her number and continue the conversation. (This is important don't make her feel like now that you have her number that you've some how accomplished y…
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:17 AM
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Be comfortable and confident in your decision not to drink and if somebody questions it: 1. Reflects badly on them for judging somebody superficially by whether they drink or not 2. Have a good story or reason as to why your abstaining For me it was because I partied too much and too often I ended up with a fever. No further questions; if anything they have more respect for me.
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:44 AM
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It's almost as if girls can have good and bad days and her making eye contact with you and smiling alone doesn't reflect how she feels about you. In less words. Yeah, when she smiled she had a good day; when she didn't she had more going on. Nothing to do with you 99% of the time.
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:39 AM
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A quick look at your profile tells me you put the pussy on the pedestal have no hobbies or interests outside of video games, and your username tells me that you think getting girls is luck. First of all you should work on making yourself someone who girls want to date (ie go to the gym, build some hobbies, dedicate yourself to something that's bigger than you, etc) with that you'll gain a better understanding of the world and confidence in yourself that your actually accomplishing something. Fro…
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:34 AM
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Your thinking about this too much man, send her a text in fewer words. I feel like you would really benefit from reading Models by Mark Manson and learn about investing in yourself more than you do in other girls.
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:18 AM
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Don't think of it as being too clingy or too distant. Give the girl however much attention you feel like and if she doesn't like it someone else will.
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:14 AM
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That means you aren't comfortable in silence lol I'd recommend taking up meditation first of all so you can be FULLY comfortable with silence by yourself. The key is I don't project that I'm comfortable. I just am. To answer your question though: It's about showing her your comfortable with who you are and that your not insecure enough to worry about things being awkward. And as a reaction she'll either try and fill the void if she's uncomfortable or she'll stay quiet wondering what she should s…
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:10 AM
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She didn't know whose wallet it was. She was just gonna keep and give the wallet to the bar. That was the deal breaker for me. I needed the hookup but I want nothing to do with someone like that.
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:58 AM
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If you don't think you have anything of value to give a woman by introducing yourself into her life you need focus on making youself more valuable and investing in yourself
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:37 PM
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It's important to make your intentions clear immediately. Good body language, good vocal annunciation, strong eye contact into physical contact, etc. It's a matter of acting quickly without rushing things. The sooner you can open yourself and herself up you can guide the conversation in a more sexual manner. Try to get her invested in you so she wants to see you again under more intimate circumstances. Even if that just means dinner or going to a bar.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:15 PM
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None of them
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:08 PM
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You could of F-closed this for sure. You didn't pass her last shit test. But overall well played! Glad you straightened her out I was getting frustrated just reading that.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:07 PM
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Couldn't give you a number. Totally depends on the girl, the location, and your confidence.
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:29 PM
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The trick is to invest in yourself more than the girl you are talking to and be confident. You don't necessarily have to be having sex all the time But having sex definitely helps :)
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:26 PM
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r/RelationshipAdvice But yeah she's just worried that by helping your friend you'll find someone better than her and dump her or cheat. Just play it cool and don't do anything till you can talk to her about it in person or even bring her along if she's cool with it
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:00 PM
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This Don't overthink it, if she doesn't respond you'll get em next time and you can study why you failed if you fail and learn from it. For now you're doing well!
/r/seduction18/08/18 06:50 PM
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I skipped out on all the naughty details ;)
/r/seduction18/08/18 06:45 PM
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