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ConversationPickuupp/r/seduction24/03/20 06:48 PM
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You seem to say that as if it’s a bad thing. But in reality, it’s normal and healthy. No one is completely open with a stranger in the initial stages of dating about their life, history, traumas, deepest fears, wishes and secrets. There is no obligation to share sexual history with a partner, and that goes both ways. It is a mostly superficial data point compared to other factors, and doesn’t say that much about a person as is. The reasons and motivations for people’s actions tell you a lot more…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:52 AM
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That’s mostly a Reddit fantasy. When it comes to actual love and attachment, people fall in love with a person, not with a checklist or a history. Thank God we humans are more complex and evolved than what people here seem to think. Every day there are people with a history who enter committed relationships, because of the personal intimate connection they have with their SO is strong and they want to build a future together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:46 AM
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Nope. Because people fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 12:45 AM
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And same goes for “men don’t want to commit to a slut.” I read this all the time here and it’s just not a reflection of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:49 AM
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Again, assumptions and accusations. -I was saved by a man but I’m not grateful for it.- Where did you get that idea? And please, don’t take credit for this discussion not spinning into an emotional argument. Read your replies and read mine, if anyone here is being emotional, irrational and disrespectful it’s you (when you have nothing to bring to the discussion, frankly, you’re just being accusatory when this is a topic you have no experience with and apparently no desire to talk about anyway). …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:44 AM
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This isn’t feminist dogma, it’s reality and just because you’re not exposed to it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Looking at replies on this specific thread has nothing to do with male shaming. Mindless circlejerking is counter productive when it comes to growth and self-improvement, take that however you please. Edit: actually I really think you need to step off the internet. Leave Reddit, go out, interact with human beings, expose your mind to real life and try to apply personal growth theorie…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:08 AM
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When did I shame men? Or come with feminist dogma? Why do I need to provide solutions for rape? My point is that the reason why a lot of people talk about their experiences with sexual assault is because they likely happened. It’s not a theory or putting a blame on anyone, it’s just the reality we live in. Sexual assault is very common, especially towards women and you mentioned if you have a daughter you’ll look out for her, good for you.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:39 AM
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I really struggle to understand what you write. I’m not a native speaker but at least I try. But simple answer is if you don’t want to waste time talking about rape then don’t! Of course I’m going to want to talk about it since it has affected me personally, but you go ahead and live your life, just don’t come and be disrespectful to people for no reason. Also I’m unsure how you got the ideathat I’m a feminist and a sub (lol if you knew), I’m not shitting on the red pill either, why do you think…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:26 AM
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I didn’t respond to everything you wrote because your posts lack punctuation, they are extremely hard to read, I’m not a native English speaker and I don’t have the mental energy to go through all this. The fact that you think my “opinion” is worthless because of my gender is very disturbing. I never talked about arguments, I shared actual life experience, mine, my mother’s, and other people I’m close to who haven’t spoken up publicly. You need to realize that you’re now asking me “how the fuck …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:31 AM
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You know, that guy was high status and could have all the consensual sex he would have wanted. I don’t believe people rape because they’re horny, it’s because they have no respect for the woman who’s in front of them and don’t see her as a human. Even if you can’t find someone to have sex with, rape shouldn’t be an option. Masturbate, go to a sex worker, work on becoming more attractive, just don’t rape someone.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:33 AM
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When they are already hurting, trying to recover from a traumatic event and they know they have a lot to lose and almost nothing to gain, it makes sense that a lot of people choose to focus on healing rather than go down that path. It’s unfair to put the blame on them when the system is what is broken.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:48 AM
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I hope you’re never in that situation
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:46 AM
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He was a high status man (local celebrity) and was respected in her community. Someone tried to rape her when she was 14 and when she spoke up about it she was told to not mention it, so when it happened again she stayed quiet. And I mean, just look at all the replies here and you’ll understand why a 16 yo victim of rape who’s been traumatized might just want to forget about it and pretend it never happened.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:44 AM
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The replies here are exactly why people need to speak up more. Rape is real and the numbers are indeed shocking. As a teenager I’ve managed to get out of 2 situations, one of them violent with an older family member. My drink was spiked too when I was 18 and fortunately someone looked out for me. My mother was raped by a grown man when she was 16 and a virgin, some of my friends were raped, some of their mothers were too. I never knew about what happened to my mother until the me too movement wh…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:17 PM
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Both, so I’d rather choose the one I find most attractive as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:39 PM
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Sugar dating and occasionally domination
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:25 PM
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No his message was awful, I would have unmatched. Who sets a date that way? He’s ordering her around, assuming she’ll be free and doesn’t even care to ask whether the place and time works for her. He sounds rude and entitled.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:24 PM
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You can take control and suggest you’ll make a reservation at a specific place at a specific time, but don’t be a douche and ask for confirmation that it works for her. That message was terrible.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:16 AM
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Exactly, I would have declined or ghosted him too. Can’t believe this is not top comment.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:13 AM
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A lot of guys who pay are actually young and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:00 AM
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Please post about it! I think SW is very relevant to the conversation, I’ve been meaning to post about some things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 09:55 AM
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No, not if they approach respectfully. It’s when guys insist or are inappropriate that it’s a problem. I can’t be mad at a guy for trying, I’d probably do the same if I were them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:34 AM
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Am I sexist? That depends if you think writing down womens behaviour you observed is sexism. Woman thinks men only care about looks she will make a comment like "oh whatever. Men only care about looks! Women actually look for more than that" so her sexism front gets exposed when she slips up and shows her true feelings. Could you just say the same? They’re just writing down male behavior they’ve observed and aren’t sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:38 AM
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For me it’s entrepreneurs / business owners. Anyone self-made who didn’t follow a traditional path and has demonstrated ambition, drive and good leadership is instantly more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 03:30 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:47 AM
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Why would you expect people to care? Rejection is part of life, and if you’re rejected by someone you don’t really like, it’s perfectly normal not to care. Also being rejected doesn’t mean you have a “problem”, it means the other person does not want you. If you think that someone rejecting you means you have a problem, you should re-evaluate the way you think and stop looking for validation in other people. It’s strange that you want people to care about being rejected so much. I turn down guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:24 AM
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I mentioned loss of interest, as in they no longer are interested in me... That’s fine, not everyone needs to want me. I don’t understand why I should care. Even if they didn’t like a trait of my character, it doesn’t mean I need to change to please them, it just means we weren’t compatible, that’s life. I find your whole question strange, people don’t need to care that you rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:58 PM
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"Pursuing" as in flirting, communicating interest, trying to meet up with you, possibly wanting something long-term, etc. In that case if we haven’t really started dating then I wouldn’t really wonder why we stopped talking. It happens, people lose interest of find other options, it’s really not that big of a deal imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:20 PM
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I meant blocked on the messaging platform we use to talk. It’s happened a couple of times and I wondered if they were ok, but that’s basically it. I’m not sure what you mean by a guy “pursuing”, but if we didn’t really know each other, I can’t say it ever really mattered if they stopped talking, let alone why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:51 PM
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Well if I’m blocked I can’t obviously lol Edit: but if they react in an extreme way I just move on anyway, I can’t deal with drama
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:31 PM
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I honestly don’t think about it. Unless they do something that seems extreme like blocking me, then I wonder what happened, out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:32 PM
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Women aren’t lying either, most of what they ask for is genuine, but if you are desperate and try to bend over backwards and do everything to get someone to like you, then you become unattractive. There are also things that both genders don’t ask for but they are attracted to, sometimes because they might not even be aware of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:28 AM
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Pick-me girls are desperate and have low self-worth. It’s not about self-improvement at all, their strategy is to be low-maintenance, agree with anything a man says in hopes to appeal to him, and to put other women down in order to seem more desirable. Just like simps, they listen to what the opposite gender claim to want in a partner and try to become just that, when in reality it’s pointless. No matter what people say, everyone (male or female) wants someone with a good level of confidence and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:42 AM
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Pick-mes are girls who promote themselves by claiming they’re low-maintenance. They don’t see what they have to offer, so their marketing strategy is “at least I won’t ask for much.” A lot of them also have a “not like the other girls” syndrome, where they feel the need to put all women down and claim that they are different from “females these days”. “Women are so entitled, I prefer to spoil my man and I pay on dates” -> translates to “date me, promise I’ll take good care of you, come on you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:22 AM
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I didn’t say TRP hates women, I said there’s a clear disdain and lack of respect towards women (which is a definition of misogyny) and that it clearly shows even in the original vocabulary, not just the followers. You don’t need to use negative terms like “females” “plates” “sluts riding the dick carousel” to make your point. So many phrases have an degrading undertone to them, and it adds nothing to the theory, but it conditions men to talk about women in a way that promotes misogyny. If TRP wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:57 AM
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Misogyny (/mɪˈsɒdʒɪni/) is the hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls. TRP is definitely misogynistic. Everything could be worded in a different way to not sound so disrespectful and degrading, but it is, and there’s really no need for that. Most men outgrow TRP. The people with the strongest and most narrow-minded opinions are those who have recently heard of TRP. It’s not only true for TRP, it’s the same with any life philosophy or ideology. As you get older, wiser and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:32 AM
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Sure, and if I cared about what random strangers think is “cringe”, I wouldn’t be doing what I’m doing. But believe it or not, I also care about my own bank account, and I have a good enough head on my shoulders to make my own life decisions. You probably know that blindly following what society says is acceptable is not the smartest idea anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:41 AM
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So you watched a documentary on MTV about sugar dating once, and now you know more about it than I do. And you also know more about money, currency and investments than the multimillionaires I’m dealing with. With that attitude I know that whatever I say to you I’ll be wasting my time. But FYI I see some usernames on TRP, and I’m talking veterans of the sub, who I know for a fact are sugar daddies. Just know that your views on sugar dating might change when (if) you become successful one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:04 PM
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🙄 I’m a SB so what, that doesn’t mean that’s what all my relationships have been. And for the record, sugar arrangements are clear and honest. No games, no lies, no manipulation, and no “using”. We all know the deal and we agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:21 PM
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TRP is better than a lot of ideologies out there because it contains actionable advice and encourages men to try and improve their lives. It makes a lot of good points, but ultimately, most of it is just common sense + basic human psychology + PUA tactics, but very simplified and packaged as an absolute truth. It’s good for a start, but eventually you have to grow out of it. Here are a few issues with TRP: It claims to not be misogynistic but the vocabulary shows otherwise: “spinning plates” “ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:09 PM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:55 AM
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I’m not telling you what you should do with your life and like I said I don’t see anything wrong with casually dating multiple people at once, I’m saying that just because you have no guarantee a relationship will last forever it doesn’t mean that there aren’t benefits to being in one. How is it that even when I’m agreeing you’re downvoting me...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:39 AM
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She didn’t bad mouth him, in fact she didn’t even mention him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:30 AM
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From what I understand, spinning plates is dating multiple partners at once without ever forming a deep connection. Different from having a girlfriend for a couple of years for instance. Or is it also a different form of spinning plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:13 AM
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I’m not against “spinning plates” although again I don’t like the terminology, but you can also just be with someone and form a relationship, without the expectation that it will last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:20 AM
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She’s not yours fellas That statement alone should be enough. Like most RP truths, this is just common sense with a provocative tone. You might be in a relationship with someone, but they don’t ever belong to you and there’s no guarantee they’ll be with you forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:47 AM
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She thought he couldn’t hear her so why would she be trying to spare his feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:30 AM
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I’m not saying she will cheat or she won’t, I’m not saying I know what he should do at all! Although I know how I’d feel if I were him, not good. I’m saying that all this “you need to leave because she’s going to cheat” talk is based on almost nothing. We don’t have enough information to be making any of those conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:26 AM
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Oh I’d be upset, actually hurt is the word. But she didn’t talk him down like that commented above implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:24 AM
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This is exactly what I’m saying, we know nothing about their relationship apart from that one detail! Everyone here is extrapolating based on one conversation and relating it to their own experiences when in reality the relationships could be completely different. But that’s Reddit anyway, you post anything online about your partner and you’ll get the inevitable “dump him/dump her” comments from people who know close to nothing about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:20 AM
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That’s exactly my point... Edit: I’m saying that just because she talked about how her ex was good in bed, it doesn’t mean she’s not satisfied in her current relationship and will go out to cheat. She even told him she was happy. People who are commenting how she’s going to cheat and this is unacceptable have to realize that their partners won’t find them amazing in every possible way, and that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:09 AM
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I agree that it’s very important to men’s egos, that’s what I think this whole thread is about. But definitely the dick size is NOT a top reason to cheat lol. He could be doing a lot of things to satisfy her more with his average sized penis anyway. You can just say that it hurts too much to think that your girl preferred sex with her ex, I know I’d be hurt to hear that. No need to extrapolate and make it about her going to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:07 AM
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She said that he was huge and he could "take her breath away when he fucked her." And that she liked the feeling of being pounded deeply. ​ I get that it hurts to hear that from your partner, but she didn’t talk him down or even mention him. It just sounds like her ex was great at sex. She shouldn’t have let him her boyfriend hear it though, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:03 AM
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Sure, if it’s a dealbreaker for you and you can’t deal with knowing that information that’s your right. But don’t go around making it seem like it’s a universal truth that she will cheat or all that BS. Everyone misses something in their partner, even virgins have ideals they created from culture and society for what their partner should be like, and no one can fulfill that completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:59 AM
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Reality check: in every relationship there are some aspects of your partner that you don’t find ideal, and they can’t fulfill you in every possible way. Yes that hurts but it’s also going to be true in every single relationship so you’d better get over it now if you’re planning on committing to someone one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:52 AM
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She didn’t talk trash about his current bf, she just said she missed some elements of the sex she used to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:44 AM
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...Do you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:42 AM
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How do you talk to your friends about sex? Men and their fragile egos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:24 AM
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You want to internalize trust issues?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:05 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:07 PM
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Women don't experience that same anger while dealing with the same reality because men are upfront with it. We must not live on the same planet. There are tons of women out there who are angry at men claiming they’re liars, cheaters and manipulators. Don’t believe me check out subs like FDS. Naive women get played (most men aren’t upfront with their true intentions and pretend to care about personality when all they want is to fuck) and they end up resenting all men too, it’s just as irrational …
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:42 AM
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What does this have to do with the OP? The guy is complaining that now that he’s hot, women are paying attention to him. I’m saying it’s human nature, everyone including guys does this, get over it.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:28 AM
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Women want the full package, that’s no news. If most women claimed they didn’t like hot guys then it would be hypocritical. They admit to liking them, there’s no hypocrisy.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:17 AM
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What hypocrisy? All women are open about liking hot guys lol
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:28 AM
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Still, what OP is describing is daily life for pretty women: getting free stuff and attention. Men do exactly the same thing to women because it’s human nature. Mosts posts now are just twisting any common behavior to link it to “female nature” as if for it to be TRP you need to include an unnecessary “yeah fuck females” moment. I’ve never met a girl who said she didn’t like a handsome guy. In fact, looks are always a top criterion for the “ideal man”. I’d be willing to bet all girls who gave OP…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:49 PM
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It’s in everyone’s biology. Let’s not pretend you approach ugly girls the same way you’d approach a beautiful girl. Being mad at women only as if this is a female thing is ridiculous. Men do exactly the same.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:17 PM
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Have you ever had an influencer who wanted to be in a LTR with you?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:39 PM
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Of course a lot of things can make a man attractive other than looks. Confidence, humor, status just off the top of my head. And when it comes to looks, you can go to the gym, get a haircut and get clothes that suit you to at least help yourself. The only women you could date are obese and ugly? Sounds like you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:34 PM
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Looks are just 1 aspect of being attractive. Edit: or I repeat, lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:40 AM
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If anything there are more horny guys than ever reaching out during lockdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:42 AM
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Where is this from? Sounds extremely specific to a certain population, not about sex workers in general
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:38 AM
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😒 do better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:26 AM
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Yes you get hurt by an entire system. Not only are you a victim, you also get accused of lying and shamed by everyone, as if getting raped wasn’t enough. As a woman I hate women who throw false accusations, they make things a lot worse for actual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:24 AM
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Then just be better or lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:21 AM
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Ok you maybe you just take yourself a bit too seriously? A good sense of humor and enough confidence to sometimes laugh at yourself is attractive
/r/seduction11/05/20 05:52 AM
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They’re rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:48 AM
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I think you’re preaching to the wrong crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:41 AM
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You could say the same about the meme above.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:16 AM
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You need therapy to work on your anger issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:39 AM
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That’s not the point, it’s about honesty. If you want sex and she wants money, make it clear and get an escort or a sugar baby. Don’t manipulate people, there’s no need for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:37 AM
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The question is why does he want that? If it’s still out of fear because he feels inadequate it’s the same imo. Except at least he’s honest about it, instead of pretending it’s because there’s something wrong if a woman doesn’t fit that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:33 AM
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Are you... talking about your SBs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:49 AM
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Meh... This is about the unrealistic and irrational expectations men have for their women, if you were going to talk about the opposite you could have done a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:38 AM
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You completely missed my point. There’s no problem with being a virgin or being shy. What I find amusing is these guys who rely on a girl being chaste and not having a social circle because they fear that if she had life experience she’d realize she can do a lot better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:25 AM
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Don’t forget you should be a shy virgin who has no social life, so that he can be your world. Not because he’s great, because you don’t know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:27 AM
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Oh I just realized you’re also the same person who commented Ed is dumb for being with someone who doesn’t find him attractive. Yes clearly it’s important for you to be desired for your looks, and that’s your preference. At the end of the day it’s just another superficial reason for someone to be attracted to you. If you’re self-made, part of what makes you attractive is the drive and personal qualities you had to display to get to where you are. Kind of like how part of the attractiveness of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:13 AM
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With that logic what are your options when you’re that ugly? When you look like he does, you pretty much have to give up on finding a woman who finds you physically attractive and focus on other qualities you bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:03 AM
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TIL you have to be broke to be an Alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:00 AM
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Would you decline a 6-figure income and validation? No need to be a dopamine whore to think that’s a sweet deal.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:15 AM
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I don’t know what this guy is on about. Obviously people are not similar to a car , most people keep a stable foundation of people their whole lives, it’s called a family. I’m sorry to read you were an orphan, it’s normal to need people who are close to you and you can rely on, and that can last for a lifetime. Now if someone in your “family” is toxic it’s good to cut them off, just like you did.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:11 AM
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Let him be sad if he needs to. Let him be angry, nostalgic, confused, grateful and just experience grief and emotions like a human being.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:52 AM
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This exactly, redpill is not a religion. OP process your grief and don’t worry about being human. Life is more complicated than what most people here post about
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:49 AM
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Try countering my only point, which was a direct response to your initial comment. No, a sex worker will not necessarily end up doing whatever it was you said because she does sex work. You might have been exposed to a few examples but they are not representative, because a lot of women who do sex work do it in private and you’d never know about it. You can theoretically argue about anything g, I’m talking based on experiences, based on what I see. What you’re saying simply isn’t true, and I’m i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:31 AM
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I’m sure deep down somewhere you know what I mean, although you’re pretending like you don’t and just go back to personal attacks and judgement instead of the actual point. You don’t know what you’re talking about, and you’ll never allow yourself to believe sex workers, who are in a better position to tell you what’s up, because you’ve decided they’re not trustworthy. By definition you’re going to stay ignorant, because you have some internal motivations that make you feel good about holding ont…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:21 AM
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I’m not going to endlessly debate with you because as I said, nothing I can say will convince you. There wasn’t any anger in my comment (read it again?) but you obviously choose to read it that way because if it goes against what you believe then I’m a liar. You also went back to my very first post on Reddit, which was a meme posted for fun, to make points about my “clients”. Marriage isn’t everyone’s end goal, and commitment and loyalty don’t equal monogamy. I absolutely believe you can love so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:05 AM
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I’m not angry at all, amused is the word. Don’t worry, I don’t want you either and that’s absolutely fine. I’m surprised you managed to have sex with strippers, good for you. They’re usually very picky and will only go for high paying clients. But back to the point: a lot of sex work is hidden because of the stigma, you’d never even know. Onlyfans, escorting, amateur porn, sugar dating, stripping... A lot of people who engage in this also have other activities and keep this private. I have two l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:28 AM
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Resentment, resentment, and revenge fantasy... What you’re saying is simply not true but there’s no convincing you anyway. Maybe one day you’ll realize this is what you’re hoping to be true because it would piss you off to realize that “hoes” can have a better life than you ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:01 AM
1

Even in relationships with an emotional connection and even with manual stimulation, a lot of women still never orgasm during intercourse, and most women don’t systematically orgasm anyway. Getting a woman to edge requires a lot of practice and communication. But in this case, just for the sake of the argument let me just quote the OP explaining what he does: Verbally instructing them not to cum while going hard. Sometimes fingering them. Basically they have to hold it in. Sounds like pure PIV a…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:33 PM
61

Seduction is a form of manipulation, so is marketing, advertisement, selling yourself in a job interview, and basically anything where you are hoping to persuade someone. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with using basic human psychology to your advantage and I agree that a lot of PUA tactics are actionable and work. I completely understand the bad reputation though, because many PUA are deceptive and lack any form of basic respect.
/r/seduction05/05/20 12:02 PM
2

In order to deny orgasms you have to be able to give them in the first place. The majority of women fake. The majority of women don’t orgasm during casual hookups (vs in relationships). And let’s not start about how rare it is for women to reach orgasm with penis-in-vagina action only. These stats should be enough, but add that most guys on this sub are in their early 20s, don’t have that much sexual experience (although I’m sure they think they do), and they clearly like to feel like “the man” …
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:25 AM
6

I’d be willing to bet none of these men have ever made a woman cum
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:53 AM
2

I see. I think (and that’s the point of the post) that a lot of men hold onto a false idea about how hard it is for women to find options, because it makes them feel good to believe that these women’s lives will inevitably be miserable if they don’t conform to what they believe is right. plaything for a while and then dropped hard. Come on. You’re dealing with each other and being intimate. They’re interested in your status, you’re interested in their looks. It’s a fair exchange, no need for dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:17 PM
2

Men are allowed to have standards and so are women, if men want a hot girl why can’t women want a successful man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:42 PM
1

Can you point me to a study showing that with all things equal (religious views, socioeconomic status age etc.) men are less likely to cheat on a wife with a low n-count than a wife with lots of sexual experience? I’m honestly curious. I don’t doubt men say that’s valuable, that’s very clear with the replies here. I’m arguing that in reality their actions don’t reflect that. Women claim that they want good men the same way men claim they want a good woman. To some extend both are true because we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 10:20 AM
1

I agree with your first statement, my argument is that the woman being a virgin/ prude is valuable on paper, but in reality it doesn’t change much when it comes to the man being faithful. Kind of like how being a sweet man doesn’t mean you won’t get cheated on. I’m sure you know men who treat women horribly but have them all at his feet, and nice guys who are being used or cheated on...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 10:04 AM
1

That hasn’t been my observation at ALL. And I’m not even saying that as a “good woman”. When I was in committed relationships I never caught my exes cheating, but now that I’m single again I wouldn’t be surprised to learn they did. In the past year I’ve been approached by so many men who claimed to be single and weren’t, and others who didn’t hide the fact that they were married. None of them hahah any complaints though. Their wives are at home acting like a “good wife”, in love and idolizing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:45 AM
1

What are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:31 AM
1

Most men cheat, even on “good girls” who are innocent and faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:12 AM
1

Because they choose to retire
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:10 AM
0

Who do people forget that the main motivation for starting an onlyfans is money? Same for ig models, they actually monetize their following and a lot of them make a good living. It’s girls who make $0 for their posts who could be called attention seekers or narcissists, not the ones who make more than the average income my doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:07 AM
1

I find that men 30s+ who are successful don’t care as much about a partner’s sex life, since they’ve had a lot of experience themselves. They also value good sex more than someone who isn’t really experienced. Also there are lots of different preferences, some people have voyeur / exhibitionist / cuckold kinks, some people want an open marriage, others are swingers...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:03 AM
3

"No! Women cannot do this without a major negative price to be paid!" Envy / resentment. So many people find comfort in the idea that a woman who benefits from her sexuality and is more successful than them now will inevitably have to suffer later for things to be “fair”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 03:57 AM
1

Use critical thinking and discernment. Everyone lies to make themselves look better, but also not everyone does. TRP is a mix of PUA techniques and self-improvement advice but for many people it is based on the idea that you have to protect yourself from ever getting hurt by a woman and they use AWALT out of fear. TRP is not a religion, check out other life theories and educate yourself. Take the best from different sources and forge your own opinion.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:37 AM
1

What the guy you just replied to posted was an example of a misogynistic statement. At no point does TRP claim that women are “evil”. You need to be able to separate the theory that men and women usually have different goals and tend to use different means to achieve them with plain anger and contempt towards women.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:35 AM
1

Is there any scientific data to back up this “pair bonding” theory? Everything I’ve seen can easily be explained by correlation rather than causation.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 03:20 AM
1

What do cold approaches have to do with this?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 07:34 PM
1

Female close friend, sister, however you want to put it. The point is the best person to let you know what women talk about and how they think is a woman, as long as she wants to help you out.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 04:47 PM
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I understand why you’d think this is ironic, but reality is the best person to give you insight about female intentions is a female best friend who’s looking out for you.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 12:41 PM
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That’s the strangest part of the story to me.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 12:37 PM
3

Yes saying that in front of your brother is definitely going to stir up some resentment. And possibly worries about you not being fair and deciding to keep the money if it’s in your name. I’d say catch your brother and tell him that although this was probably drunk talk, if it happens you’ll make sure the money is divided evenly and there’s no point in talking about it anymore. That way things are clear and there’s no reason to try and get on anyone’s good side.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:37 AM
5

That’s the case for men and women alike.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 09:02 AM
36

Seriously some of you need to stop looking for evil female intentions everywhere. In this case your theory is way less likely than the narrator simply feeling pity towards a painfully shy guy and wanting to positively reinforce the fact that he was trying. It’s really not that deep.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 08:59 AM
1

TRP is based on a lot of facts but the tone doesn’t have to be so disrespectful towards women. Just take the practical advice but don’t pay too much attention to the reasoning (women are X, they are incapable of Y...)
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:36 AM
4

It’s tough because if you’re at that point thinking every single woman on this earth is trash you’re probably already in mgtow/incel territory. Every single day I see good people, men and women, especially now with all the nurses and doctors putting their lives on the line for others. I may not want to date them, but that doesn’t make them trash.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 05:11 AM
1

My question is do YOU have your shit together in the first place?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:13 PM
8

You sound like all the girls who complain that “men are trash, where did all the good men go?” and refuse to look at their own shortcomings. I swear all of these “women are trash these days how will I ever find a good girl” posts have one simple answer: would your ideal girl even want to date you if you met her?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:17 AM
1

I’m really sorry to read this. One thing that gets to me is how much you are still fighting, even though you claim you don’t want to do shit. You are doing everything you can and are even reaching out for help here. You mention how you’re a go-getter, how driven you are, and I think I see exactly the type of person you are. People like you are a rock and an inspiration for others. I saw in your comments that you mentioned how support fades away when people see you act “normal”. I really get that…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:32 AM
1

I explained several times You repeat yourself, fail to answer questions and act like you don’t understand. Rest of your comment: that’s just resentment lol. It’s OK. If I have a good life you can still have one too.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:02 AM
1

Ok. I see the type of guy you are. Edit: not answering my questions, following up with personal attacks. Desperately holding on to the idea that I won’t be happy. Figure out where that comes from. Me? I’m good. Good luck to you 🍀
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:16 PM
1

See, you say you respect me yet your message is disrespectful, condescending and judgmental, and I’m not about that. You’re stuck in your theory and are bending everything I say to fit this image, because it seems to satisfy you to think that my life isn’t/ won’t be good. Point by point: You call me a whore and say I’m delusional for calling myself responsible. How much sex do you have? Are you irresponsible for it? How does me getting money for my dating life makes it any less responsible (what…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:56 PM
6

This cannot be real! I’m dying
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:31 AM
1

Yes that’s right.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:30 AM
1

Everything you wrote here is what you assume about me and that’s the reason why I’m telling you this theory sounds wrong. Like you said, I have myself as an example, I know my own past, present and how I feel about dating. You mentioned my “weapon of choice” is lying and at this point I know that whatever I say, you will distrust. But here it goes, if it doesn’t make a point to a stranger than at least it’ll help me organize my own thoughts. Over 30 partners: nope, that might happen but I’m not …
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:12 AM
0

I mean I disagree with the idea that the number of partners itself is what makes anyone more or less likely to cheat. I said that someone who is actively dating multiple people does not want a committed relationship and is therefore likely to cheat. For instance I’m not currently in the mindset to find a serious partner at all, and when a guy wants to be exclusive with me I just stop seeing him. Cheating isn’t worth it in my opinion, but if I agreed to a relationship it would not last long, that…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:21 PM
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By your definition I’m a whore (and I’m perfectly fine with that btw). I like TRP, I think the seduction techniques are spot on and find it funny to see that it’s a discovery for so many men. I’m working on better understanding human relationships myself too, and I try to be as self-aware as I can. TRP theories are great but sometimes, especially when it comes to understanding female underlying motivations and thought processes, it’s just way off or overcomplicated. I can agree with a few of the…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:09 PM
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It’s not mental gymnastics, it’s giving an answer you think will be more acceptable to the person who asked. Aka a white lie. If she had sex with n guys she’s obviously ok with it, but since OP asked and she guessed that he would get insecure if the number was high, she gave a lower number. Girls are not as dumb as some of you think...
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:02 PM
2

How is it important? Honest question.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:56 AM
0

She chooses to disclose a lower count specifically because you guys get so insecure about it. It’s really not that complicated. If most guys didn’t care, most girls wouldn’t downplay things.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:42 AM
0

It’s your right to be turned off. And if it’s a dealbreaker then it is what it is. Why does it bother you so much though? Every single post from guys complaining about body count seems to have an element of insecurity. “I’ve only been with 9 girls”. Do you feel threatened by the fact that she’s more experienced? Most guys here would dream of sleeping with 40-50 girls by age 25, they just don’t manage to achieve that. Yet if a girl is a sexual as they’d like to be it is a problem. Finally keep in…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:26 AM
1

Why do you care and why did you ask?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:05 AM
2

Are you insecure about your sex skills?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:24 AM
1

Why is that a problem if you’ve really accepted TRP? Shy does body count matter to you?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:17 PM
3

If you want a female opinion pm me too
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:46 PM
2

Do you guys think all men are the same too? Honest question not trolling
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:41 PM
1

Lol honestly I can relate to so many of these qualities (some not, fortunately) that I’m not sure how reliable it is, or maybe I’m the sociopath 😅
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:18 AM
1

For some men, its about collecting two trophies.. named sex and love. They purchased the sex trophy through sugar, so the 'love' trophy is the only one left. Once they have it, they dump you. Yes, maybe that’s just what it is. Thanks ..or perhaps they were demonstrating.. or attempting to demonstrate higher value That’s a great point, you’re definitely right about that (demonstrating higher value), but I’ve also witnessed drama in some cases so I know there is some truth to what they’re saying.
/r/seduction25/03/20 08:31 AM
1

I’m pretty sure of them was a narcissist, but I hadn’t considered sociopathic behavior to be honest. I hope that’s not what it is but I’ll look into it. Thanks Edit: they treat people well (huge tips to waiters, jokes with staff etc.) but they also cheat (and almost all of them lied to me at first about being single) and I’ve seen some of them lie to family and friends.
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:52 AM
3

I have in the past (even supported my ex financially while he stayed at my place), not anymore. This works better for me at the moment. I can’t speak for other women though.
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:16 AM
1

Those are valid questions. These men are all pretty rich (at least a few million usd) and yes there was/is a clear financial exchange in our relationship, in addition to gifts, experiences etc. For the misogyny aspect, you are completely right. I’m a sexually active woman who makes it clear I’m interested in material gain, which puts me in the “whores who deserve whatever’s coming for them” category for some men. And that’s a good enough justification for them to want to hurt me. I’m always on m…
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:12 AM
1

So it’s about the chase, interesting and thanks for your reply
/r/seduction25/03/20 05:25 AM
1

Classic, I can understand that
/r/seduction25/03/20 02:15 AM
1

Interesting, one guy was a true narcissist indeed. The biggest ego I’ve ever seen.
/r/seduction25/03/20 02:13 AM
1

That makes sense to me, it’s different from what the guys I’m talking about are doing. You’re not trying to get girls to fall in love with you, it just happens as you get closer. It doesn’t sound like you’re being deceptive about your intentions either.
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:01 PM
1

Thank you for sharing this, it’s very helpful to read that insight.
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:26 PM
1

Asia now, lived on other continents before. In Western Europe interracial dating is so common it’s not really a thing.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:55 PM
1

Such an interesting read. As a Heaux I can relate to so many of TRP ideas, and I always thought that you guys have a lot more in common with us than you think you do. The hate against prostitutes and gold diggers never made any sense to me. Fortunately I observed that with time men get less judgmental and most of my “boyfriends” are clear Alphas, who are just older (30-40s) successful, and only care about what works for them instead of what people think is OK. I always thought that in a few year…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 10:58 AM
1

Are you in the US? It looks like over there people date similar races / looks. Whenever there’s an interracial couple people make a huge deal out of it. I just think these girls are drawn to what they’re familiar with.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:07 AM
2

Gotta protect the Aryan race? Smh
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:05 AM
2

Just tell her you’re not interested, block and move on.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:55 AM
2

Great advice, starting this today. My home workouts don’t compensate for eating and laying in bed 23/24h and I’m starting to feel it.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:58 AM
4

Girl here. Everyone is bored, scared and horny. Tough times.
/r/seduction22/03/20 06:44 AM
1

Dude... you’re embarrassing yourself. Read that top comment again, and lay off the keyboard for a while. I’m out now, good luck.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:34 AM
1

And you just proved my point
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:31 AM
1

You know what the top struggle for female service staff is? They’re friendly to all customers including some male clients who immediately take it as flirting (wishful thinking). When they notice, they enforce boundaries and get called bitches. I’m not even making this up, just look up any meme page geared towards service staff and it’s the top recurring theme along with “let me speak to your manager” clients. I don’t know why girls act bitchy but in this case I’m pretty sure I know why.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:20 AM
1

I’m glad this is top comment. Seriously people need to grow tf up
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:48 AM
4

Exactly, no shit test. That’s wishful thinking on the guys part.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:46 AM
4

I think you’re reading too much into it. If she’s not replying to you it’s because she’s not interested, therefore she doesn’t care if you view her stories or not. If you really notice a trend here’s something more likely: she might have met someone else she’s now focusing on, and posting for him to view. But even that.. I’m not sure.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:45 AM
2

This, exactly. OP cares way too much. I’m sure that’s the only reason some people keep teasing him.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:01 AM
1

I told her she's got 2 more good years until it's gonna sag. She always starts but she doesn’t say consistent. Telling someone to correct some possible negative consequences that might arise in the future isn’t going to be effective to motivate them. If you want her to start lifting now, she needs to see the benefit now. People get motivated by things that bring results quickly because they can see the change and remember why they’re doing what they’re doing. Instead of telling her she’ll look u…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:45 AM
1

You actually sound smart.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:38 AM
1

Red pill doesn’t mean you’re not a human. Of course it’s normal to feel bad about hurting someone who’s been nothing but good to you. If you didn’t feel that way it would be worrying. Since you’re ready to move on, there’s another thread here from today or yesterday about how to end a LTR that could be helpful.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 12:13 PM
20

Until you’ve met in person assume she could be a catfish and don’t send compromising pics unless you’re Ok with a 40 yo man potentially seeing them. It’s so rare to find women who actually like them that this almost sounds like a red flag.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:06 AM
1

You don’t show symptoms in the beginning for up to 2 weeks, but you’re still contagious and potentially spreading it to people around you who don’t have the same chances of surviving as you do.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 07:18 AM
3

Great points. Just wanted to add that women don’t even get validation from men they’re not attracted to (or barely any). Guys think comments and likes blow up a woman’s ego but all of us know that thirsty beta men are everywhere, and even the dustiest girl has guys sliding in her DMs. OP if you’ve been messaging a girl who didn’t even like you and think you made her feel good about herself, you’re giving yourself way too much credit. Just stop wasting your time. Delete your apps and go read some…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:57 PM
2

Ok, let me put it this way: you say you’re not a red piller and it looks like you could benefit from reading RP material and adjusting your behavior to get better results.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 08:56 AM
1

That’s the problem with a lot of the posts / advice here, it’s black or white as if there are only 2 options. Either I’m a nice guy aka pushover, either I’m an asshole. That’s just not how it works. Be more self-centered if you think you have to, that doesn’t mean you have to go and “hurt people”.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:46 AM
3

How do you get money anyway, if not by being successful and therefore working hard towards your goals?
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:03 AM
1

Any insecure boy can be a cocky asshole, what’s attractive is true confidence.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:31 PM
1

Why are the only options discussed here a pussy care package or ignoring her? She’s a FWB and someone you have great chemistry with, she still gave you a hj & bj while injured and yes ghosting her will make you look like too much of an asshole. It’s not either go 0 or 100.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:15 AM
1

Oh wow, then you’re right to be working on it. Having sex with a guy who’s legitimately only interested in your vagina but isn’t able to seduce and has “bleh” conversations sounds like something that’s not going to happen, unless you’re offering something more. Maybe try finding something you like about the person you have in front of you, and enjoy the process a little?
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:43 AM
1

I addressed both already
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:13 AM
1

👍 I’ve been there too, both ends. It’s common
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:05 PM
1

It sounds like your motivation to reach out to her is to show her how well you’ve done and subconsciously ask for her approval. It’s an ego thing, you want to correct the image that she has of you. Realize that it doesn’t matter, you’re doing good now and that’s what matters.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:38 PM
1

It’s a lot better to be that way, I also prefer not talking online for ages before setting up a first meeting since chemistry is only really measured in person IMO. And thanks for the encouragement! Fortunately some dates also go well (most do, as I usually meet people when I’m out). I guess the quarantine and social isolation have me feeling a bit frustrated less patient. A “meh” first date isn’t that bad after all.
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:43 PM
1

And yet my chat is now blowing up with insults and “suck a big black C*CK”. So much for not caring 😏
/r/seduction16/03/20 11:40 AM
6

“Fits you in all the right places” no no no not coming from a stranger please don’t
/r/seduction16/03/20 06:46 AM
1

Probably, what can I say it came from the heart
/r/seduction16/03/20 06:13 AM
1

Yes, and it’s based on a number of assumptions, which I think are wrong to begin with. Women would be against sex bots and only “pathetic men” would use them. If “most women” were against the idea of sexbots, that would be important (didn’t you also question this?)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:22 AM
1

Yep, meeting people in person is usually more fun anyway. With the quarantine in my country, going out has been a no-go recently and I’m back to meeting online. So here I am, ranting on Reddit about insta-catfishing...
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:40 AM
1

I get it and it’s OK to be a bit different in person but when it sounds like 2 different people it’s a turn-off. Now you’re confident in person too though, good for you!
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:29 AM
1

Isn’t OP a man? Sounds like that’s not a “women think” issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:16 AM
2

I’m a woman. I’d totally try a sexbot if they came out and I know which friends I can safely discuss my kinks with. Women talk and you know we don’t talk about everything with everyone. Friends who are vanilla and judgmental can still be my friends but they’re not going to hear the fulll extent of my sex life. You sound like one of those people, no shade!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:12 AM
2

Words of a true beta posing as something he’s not. Found another personality catfish!
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:03 AM
3

Are you sure you know what sex toys women around you own, let alone would want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:26 PM
2

Come on, admit it, you’d at least want to try it wouldn’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:40 PM
2

🤣 why do you have to do us like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:27 PM
1

I’d totally use a life-sized sex toy, if toys in general are OK why would this be reserved for “pathetic losers”? I don’t think it would replace actual humans though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:17 PM
2

Let’s hope not! Even the world’s oldest profession is now threatened by technology. They took ‘er jobs!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:10 PM
1

I need to know how to get my wife to swallow every time as a proper wife should. That’s entitlement and it won’t get you anywhere. Isn’t a huge part of RP recognizing that women have a sex drive and that they’ll want to please you in every sexual way as long as they find you attractive enough? You should be focusing on ways to work on yourself and make her beg for your cum. She shouldn’t be blowing you because you think she “should” as a “proper wife”.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:44 PM
48

That’s disrespectful AF. Not only is she showing you that she’s actively looking and talking to other guys, she’s setting up tinder dates and telling you about it while on a trip with you that you paid for. Wtf Guys here can probably explain how that is a shit test or some kind of theory behind it but all I know is that she’s disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:35 AM
1

And she’s probably getting money for it too.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:22 AM
2

Could be that she wants a LTR but it could also be that she just wants to feel respected and valued a bit more. I don’t know any girl who’ll be ok in the long run to keep going to a guy’s house for free hookups.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:11 AM
1

Women have sexual desires but most guys aren’t capable of satisfying them. Especially guys in their early 20s. As a woman it feels better to handle things on your own rather than have sex with an average guy from a strictly physical point of view, so unless there’s something more (attraction, connection or any other need being met) it’s not worth it.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:51 AM
1

Have you ever had that happen to you?
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:24 AM
15

You don’t have to treat her like shit to get the same results these men get. Amen to that.
/r/seduction14/03/20 08:52 PM
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When a guy tries too hard to seem alpha and confident, it translates as a sign of insecurity and that’s unattractive to almost any woman. Unless you made it obvious you were teasing her, then yeah you were too arrogant, and that’s not a good thing. It actually makes you look weak, especially if you don’t have any tangible to back up your attitude. Side note and I don’t mean to attack you but that’s also the vibe I’m getting from your post. Since when is being an arrogant asshole a good thing? If…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:53 PM
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Does that even count as a rejection?
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:05 PM
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Sugar lifestyle. Discretion and no-drama comes at a price.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:57 PM
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What subs are those? Curious
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:49 PM
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Just post something like "today I finally said hi to my crush" and you'll get approximately 400 orange arrows. Damnnn you really went there
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:26 PM
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Like he said the movement has gone overboard many times to the point that many women don’t relate to it anymore.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:11 PM
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Are you seriously considering it? Yes people pay a lot for sex and sexual content. 2k for nudes is most likely a scam though. If you want to exploit her assets to make money make sure you educate yourself before you do anything.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:40 PM
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Dating coach? Now you made my day :-) glad I could help!
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:29 PM
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My female opinion: she probably found you cute at first but the constant staring and smiling + nervous approach + following her off the bus probably changed her mind. I see good news in this anecdote: Seems like a hot girl saw you and was interested. Congrats boy, you’re cute. Even though you were nervous you had the courage to go to her and give her your number. Well done. Just keep doing what you’re doing, it’ll get more comfortable the more you speak to strangers and I’m sure you’ll have succ…
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:09 PM
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If that happens regularly to you you should consider the possibility that you’re doing something wrong in your approach. Or that you’re seeing signals that aren’t there.
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:01 PM
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There should be no way to gain your appreciation? I mean agree with a lot of info in this sub but some people take this way too far...
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:12 AM
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Not sure I’m understanding this correctly, are you surprised that good women are nice to you in order to gain your appreciation?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:46 AM
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Amen
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:42 AM
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Men become more attractive when they are successful, which is usually in their 30s. By then they’re also more experienced and secure, more interesting and overall just more attractive IMO.
/r/seduction14/03/20 09:24 AM
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I agree with a lot of the theories on here about sociology/ human behavior and I don’t get how this point isn’t addressed. It may not sound “alpha” but we are still social animals with a need to create genuine connections. Suppressing that altogether doesn’t sound healthy. I’m not trying to troll, honestly curious how durable that attitude is in the long term if one’s main goal is to be happy.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:44 PM
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Not a blue piller, worse.... I agree none of you should be looking for happiness and self worth through a woman. Is acknowledging that having sex with someone who actually likes you as a person feels different from a random hookup a problem? That’s how I read OP’s “meaning” statement.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:48 PM
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Obviously they probably respect you more when you don’t pay them Respect you more when you don’t pay? lol absolutely not. That’s a male insecurity, a woman who’s used to getting money for company won’t respect you less for paying, it’s normal to her.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:34 PM
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That’s a pretty sad statement
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:27 PM
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Wise words
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:58 PM
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A hot, sexually open girl who is OK with being one of many / not being in a serious relationship but doesn’t need you for validation won’t stick around unless it’s beneficial to her somehow. I’m pretty sure that’s one of the reasons sugar dating exists.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:47 PM
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If you’re a virgin definitely get an experienced girl! The more experienced the better.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:38 AM
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Hotel is an option
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:52 AM
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Increase your social status
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:43 AM
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If you’re not sure you like them enough it doesn’t cost much to interact with them for a bit and figure that out. That way you also get to practice your social skills. That sounds more like an excuse to cover up fear to me.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:18 AM
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