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I always ask women who either claim to be bisexual or are unsure if they are, if can see themselves in a long term relationship with women, getting married, getting old with them like they do with men, so far the answer has always been no. It's always just making out and maybe having sex, but nothing about love or romance and building a life together that they envision with men. Most of the bi girls I knew stopped being bi once they were old enough for serious relationships, they just liked kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:46 PM
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Don't befriend men, don't go to men's homes alone, don't get drunk in the middle of the day at said dudes home. He shouldn't even know that much about your sex life to know you are celibate. You need to have better boundaries. All men that try to be your friend do it with ulterior motives, male-female friendships were historically not the norm for a reason. It's a relatively recent development and a complete lie that puts women at risk. You were very naive throughout the whole thing and I unders…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:16 PM
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I'm so happy to hear you've finally had the courage to leave your abuser. Men like that always pray on young, naive girls with low self esteem, or destroy their self esteem during the relationship, the only way they can keep a woman is by destroying them so they will think that's the best they can do, just like you did. I've dealt with a similar situation when I was younger and I know how destructive it can be, don't be afraid to seek out a good therapist to help you deal with what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:08 AM
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Most of the time, you don't even have to ask. The vast majority of them manage to bring it up somehow early on. They don't have any shame and do not realise this is something they should be ashamed of, so they speak casually of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:55 PM
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Yeah, there is so many pick me's ready to run over that they know they don't have to try, but of course they don't value or respect them. I've seen so many tiktoks of girls putting on make up when they get a 3am text of "you up?" Pick me's acing like this ruins the already terrible dating scene for other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:05 AM
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When they all spend their time watching porn titled "barely legal" it's hardly surprising anymore. They love women, or in this case, girls that are too young and naive to see them for who they are. The males not only don't see a problem with it, but congratulate each other. How young would they all go if only it was legal? How many girls have stories of wearing primary school uniforms and getting cat called and harassed more than they do as adults?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:22 AM
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And they didn't even ask what she was wearing? What if her ankles were showing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:28 AM
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They make zero effort, just wait for a woman to come over and offer sex. They expect women to be free prostitutes now. And then they will still find reason to complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:17 AM
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It's not fair if I can't give you an STI but you let your boyfriend do it! What do you mean you didn't like chlamydia?? If you loved me you would do it :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:14 AM
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Don't STI shame! Some of us like having STI's don't you know?? And demanding people get tested is like... super bigoted. We're sex positive and positive for STIs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 08:40 AM
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Accidentally slipped it in her ass? This is so fucked up and disgusting. Drinking on a date is a horrible idea. Going home with a stranger is a horrible idea. "No red flags"... yeah except for the rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:52 AM
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I've struggled with depression for a long time but I think this is perfectly reasonable. I waited to date until I was well, so I didn't get into a relationship until I was in my 20s. Dealing with another persons depression, especially early in a relationship is too much. Supporting a struggling spouse is something else. People should aim to fix these issues as much as possible before looking to date. Depressed people are also at risk for other medical conditions. Results of logistic regressions …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:21 AM
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I'm eastern European too and in my experience the germans are no better. They don't want the german women and pick eastern european women because they think we will be more likely to cook and clean for them because we are "traditional" and not "ruined by feminism" so they only do 50/50 for german women. Men are shitty everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:28 AM
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JW's cant have sex outside of marriage and even then oral was or is still not allowed. You're discouraged from dating outside of the cult too so too bad for them lol. I hope they do try though and get all the way to marriage only to find out all they'll get is missionary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:31 AM
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They are working very hard to get pinkpill and FDS banned though, making dedicated subreddits to report people together. Even a tiny sub like pinkpill threatens them by pointing out the facts, so in the end it might be necessary to find another site anyway. Losers have a lot of free time to brigade and harass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:06 PM
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The creator of FDS is a mod on pinkpill, and the creator of pinkpill is a mod here. Sure seems like they agree with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:54 PM
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Purplepilldebate now going mad that MGTOW and TRP are quarantined but we aren't. Cause we're just as bad, obviously. Of course, the linked sub is now talking about getting FDS and pinkpill banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:30 PM
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You want a guy you met twice to be your bf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:32 PM
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I'm on the spectrum too and hate make up. I only wear it because I have to like you. It feels gross, is expensive and time consuming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:54 PM
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Same for irl. I always had friends and family come to me with their issues, I'd give them advice, they say how I'm right and then do absolutely nothing and come back whining again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:08 PM
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They're sex positive until it's women asserting their boundaries. Sex positivity is all about making it easier for men to sleep with women quicker, with zero investment, and allows them to act out their porn fantasies. No criticism allowed, no expectations, no boundaries, that would be sex negative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:51 AM
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Off topic but "music lover" wow he is so interesting and unique! I also like music. It's rare to find someone like this, I'm glad he included this info in his bio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:43 AM
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do it on pc/laptop, then you can keep the tab with his profile open after you unmatched. Could probably log in on your phone through the website instead of the app and do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:25 AM
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Yeah he wants a hook up. He's just changing his wording to try and make you think a relationship is possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:58 AM
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If he's already in his 30s, I would say no. The people closest to him encourage this behavior, it's all he knows. He's not going to listen to anyone telling him this is wrong, he'll just tell his parents you think it's wrong and they will tell them you're crazy and trying to turn their baby boy against them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:50 AM
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Yes cut your losses, or you'll just end up on /r/JUSTNOMIL. He's a mommy's boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:01 AM
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Probably not even his pictures, just some incel. They love doing that. And if it's a real person, at least he lets women know what a piece of shit he is right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:57 AM
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Women, always so melodramatic and making up symptoms for attention! She was his gf for 6 years already, this was going no where anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:56 AM
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You're unavailable for a relationship you're already emotionally involved with a man. Block him. Get female friends. Why are you even concerned about what he thinks about your dates? He's hanging around hoping you're lower your standards, he gets emotional labour out of you and an ego stroke because you still can't move on. Most likely he's fucking women on the side and goes to you for his emotional needs. You won't be able to date until you move on and get him out of your life, right now you're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:00 AM
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Five kids and they don't even have that amount of money saved for emergencies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:52 AM
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You're impressed with a guy being just kind of okay and not abusive because of your past. Anyone will seem great if you've been treated like shit before. He may treat you better, but he's still not treating you good enough. Set higher standards, you deserve better. You need to build this confidence in yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:50 AM
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Head back to his place? No. Btw, during our first date I told him that my issues with online dating is that most guys don't want to actually get to know me, and just want sex. I mentioned that I have to trust someone in order to have sex with them and he acknowledged this and said he'd be patient. Haha, he said I'd end up being the impatient one, but yeah. Don't tell men all that. Why would you tell him men just want to fuck you? Only tell him you've been treated well in the past, you're suppose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:46 AM
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Why the hell are you driving him around, picking him up, saying yes when you don't want to? Paying for his meals? You're not following FDS at all, you're following the pickme strategy. Just block this idiot already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:39 AM
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Why would you need to have sex often if he can just watch porn? Jerking off is so much less effort and offers a great variety. The first step should be quitting porn and seeing if that helps. People stay married for decades and continue to fuck, their dicks don't magically go limp for their partner after 3 years. He's just giving you bullshit excuses. Why is he suddenly anxious around you after years? Just all bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:34 AM
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My first bf studied psychology and neuroscience. He was a manipulative cry baby lol. He also used cherry picked articles in those fields to support his misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:28 AM
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He needs a more supportive bra, look at those sad titties on my boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:35 PM
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I hate the drinking culture. They all talk about metoo but think it's safe to drink around strange men. There's enough stories about men "accidentally" killing a woman during "kinky" sex, or good friends raping women when they've had too much too drink. Nothing worse than being sex negative though! Women are discouraged from taking any steps to protect themselves, and reckless behaviour like this is even encouraged. It's insane. They've completely forgotten that men are dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:07 AM
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Jesus what a loser. How are they so confident they think calling women hoes when speaking to a woman will be in any way okay?? Too many pickme's telling them it's cool? Brain damage from porn??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:52 AM
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He told me the timing in our relationship wasn't right and I was confused where the sudden change of heart came from. Oh yeah he really wants to marry her, there's always just reasons he can't. This won't end well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:41 AM
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You can hardly tell the difference in age for women in late teens to early thirties based on looks alone. They might get better with make up, hair and style with age, they look more polished, that's about it. It's really just delusional kids revenge fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:36 AM
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She'll be paying off his debt, but he doesn't want to "set the wrong precedent". Makes sense alright. She'll be spending more on him than he ever will on her. Valentines and birthday gifts will be bad too, can't spend on such frivolous things when she needs to be paying off his student debt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:39 AM
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Women shouldn't discriminate against anyone, access to women and sex is a human right. You should be having sex with everyone, no questions asked. What are you, a prude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:34 AM
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I don't know how any woman does ONS, you just know these guys are having sex indiscriminately and likely refuse to wear condoms. They're gross and don't worry about their health at all. They are so obsessed with their dicks you'd think they would be more protective of them. Never mind all the other risks women take by being alone with a stranger. How is it possible that this has become so normalized as to be expected when it's such a bad deal for women. I hate this dating culture, it favors men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:32 AM
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“For a while, I cheated on my college girlfriend like crazy. The only reason I even had a girlfriend was because I wanted a go-to date for frat formals. Anyway, she finally found out and confronted me about everything. I remember looking into her eyes as she listed all the evidence that I’d been a total jackass. I could see that she wasn’t angry or crazy jealous, necessarily. She was just hurt. She didn’t want to rant against me, or punish me. She wanted to understand. She won me over that night…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:55 PM
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Access to porn and women is a huMAN right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:32 PM
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lol he can't handle a HVW with self respect and a good relationship with her parents. They really need women with low self esteem and poor support network to succeeded. She's smart so she'll end up dumping him as soon as he tries his abusive TRP shit to regain "frame"(control).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:29 PM
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The poor old man can't access videos of the sexual abuse of women. Don't you have any empathy??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:24 PM
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Thanks for letting me know, you're exactly like all the other guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:12 PM
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They never see how boring and stupid they are. Trying to date and talk with the vast majority of men is painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:08 PM
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Because I am AlphaGod Lol right that's why he needs a strategy to get girls. Manipulative psycho prays on girls with low self esteem, that's TRP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:06 PM
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Right I was just going to say, drop the therapist. This isn't professional behavior, this is just him defending the interests of men, and not focusing on what helps her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:00 PM
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My mother is like that. She worked but still prepared every meal for my dad, after marriage he has never needed to cook for himself, and if food isn't placed in front of him he just won't eat. She's a pick me that takes pride in cooking, cleaning, looking beautiful, and being the good christian wife and people complimenting her on all those things. All the dudes now expect the same despite growing up with feminism. A life alone looks much better than trying to meet their expectations, when they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:19 PM
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Yep. They've lost their power in dating and women have their own money and the freedom to be as choosy and shallow as men now, they don't need them. They used to be able to be bums, they watched their fathers be bums but have the perfect servant wives because marriage was necessary to survive. They are mad they can't have that, that they are expected to offer something in a relationship. Porn is probably a big part of what fuels their hatred of women too. They see them having sex and are angry t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:52 PM
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I hate the drinking. That's all I see here. The only thing they look forward to is drinking staring friday once work ends. Sports and alcohol is the extent of their interests. I can't imagine what I would talk to any of these people about. There's the "intellectual" types, but that's all they got. They don't take care of their looks because they are "smart" and caring about that is stupid. And smart ones will just offer up their "intellectual" arguments for the inferiority of women too. They're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:12 PM
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Let him initiate texting even for an FBW. Don't let him think he can be lazy and have you do all the work here cause then he'll think you'll do all the work during sex too and he won't have to please you. If you make it easy for him, he'll just enjoy the ego stroke and get bored quickly. They don't want sex that easy even if it's FWB. Plan sex on your schedule not his. Keep the conversation topics light and don't get too invested in his day to day life, you'll just end up being his therapist and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:40 PM
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I deleted my accounts because I was starting to wonder if I'm even straight. Everyone looked like shit, and their bios were no better. No personality, no interests, nothing to offer. Talking to them is boring as hell and I imagine the sex would be terrible too. Dating apps attract all the lazy guys who just swipe on women in their free time between porn and video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:29 PM
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OkCupid? Oh yeah that's where you look for friends, not on the many apps that already exist for that purpose. Just looking for a woman to bitch about my mean gf about :( Won't you cheer me up, validate my feelings, have sex with me?? I'm just a poor man in a controlling and abusive relationship :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:23 PM
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You won't put up with my bullshit anymore, you've changed so much! I don't like it :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:12 PM
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lol yes black women should just accept his bullshit, otherwise they're just brainwashed by the white man. Nice manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:08 PM
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I looked at that sub too, and a few of the women in the stories were actually trans, they didn't mention that in their stories, just talk about their boyfriend and their shared "girl"friend, but when I checked the profile it was just three gay guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:49 PM
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Yes he doesn't know any of that, he only knows what you show him so from his point of view, it doesn't look good. Avoid drinking on dates in the future. Bars are a terrible location for first meet, lowering your inhibitions when you should be vetting someone is a bad idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 10:53 PM
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What the hell are you doing, you make out with strangers at bars, and give hand jobs after knowing someone for a few hours, and think he will consider you a HVW suitable for a relationship? You show you have no self control, he can safely assume this is what you normally do, and he has no reason to try and court you properly when he knows a few drinks at a bar will get you naked. He's not into you. No one is so busy that they take days to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:45 AM
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Why would she further embarrass her self and post that tweet, now every other dude that knows her won't respect her either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:47 AM
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Even if your sexual history is short, they still will shame you. Hell, my first boyfriend called me ruined and impure after. They hate female sexuality and any expression of it angers them. They'll shame you for having sex and they'll shame you for refusing sex and "being a prude". They'll use it against you no matter what, might as well lie, they lie about everything anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:06 AM
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I have already described, in discussing female sympathy, how easy it is for laughter or tears to be induced in females. How impressed she is by everything in the newspapers! What a martyr she is to the silliest superstitions! How eagerly she tries every remedy recommended by her friends! Women! So silly, so stupid! The great male insight into the female psyche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:59 AM
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Looked him up and the first quote I see "No men who really think deeply about women retain a high opinion of them; men either despise women or they have never thought seriously about them." What a great guy, no wonder he's recommended reading in the manosphere This quote “There are men who are willing to marry a woman they do not care about merely because she is admired by other men. Such a relation exists between many men and their thoughts.” is something that is said on fds already. Men care s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:57 AM
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I can't read those comments, they're all insane, I don't know how they manage to twist reality so much to fit their narrative. They are just delusional, and they have the same "debates" over and over again. They really live in some kind of alternate reality. Reading that place just makes me sick, they really hate women and don't see them as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:41 AM
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Great comment. If they try to argue about it, they will disregard your boundaries in other ways too. They are already showing they see no problem with you risking your health or you risking pregnancy just for their pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:28 PM
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I've thought the same. They look through a catalog of pictures, find the right girl and order one to their house. Except the service is free, or will cost a few drinks at most. Why would they pay for a prostitute when they can find some women with low self esteem that are willing to be disrespected like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:09 PM
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Women's standards are just too high, you're all going to be miserable spinsters if you don't accept these guys. Do you really want to risk being alone, when you could be washing a man's shit covered underwear, catering to all his needs and fulfilling his porn fantasies? Enjoy your boxed wine and cats losers! I'm off to cook dinner for my man while he plays video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:45 PM
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This place is full of fake posts, lots of creative writing. https://lolcow.farm/ot/res/476533.html#482542. I don't believe anything I read on the big relationship subs. Dudes on ExRedPill have admitted to posting fake stories too. They just love to get outraged by women, and we're not providing enough of that so they have to make it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:32 PM
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Oh no your poor daughter will miss out on worthless trash like this guy! She could have been a plate, she could be with this guy that expects her to have sex on first meeting! You are ruining her future. I don't know why these TRP idiots think we would want their advice, or that our target is low value trash like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:14 AM
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Teaching your kids to hate their own mother and any other woman, what a fantastic father. She's doing everything she's supposed to, according to them, but it's still not enough. They just hate women and all the reasons why women are bad that they come up with on MGTOW are justifications for what they already believed. Women aren't allowed to be human in their minds. Someone get these pathetic idiots their robots alredy and keep them away from women and children, let their shitty genes and shitty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:07 AM
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There's pretty much no point trying to talk with these guys, those who want to change, will. The others will keep denying that it does any harm and just destroy themselves in the process (and any women that are unfortunate enough to associate with them).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:32 AM
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I'm honestly sick of men. They just act like animals, they're only getting more and more confident talking about their disgusting behavior, mentioning porn in public, making pedophilia and rape jokes, drooling over teens. Then they get mad you "can't take a joke", "you're no fun" and the pick me's back them up and further normalize their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:12 PM
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I meet men in their 30s still talking about that one girl when they were 16 that totally cheated on them because she sucked their dick first and then another guy next week and they can't trust women anymore :'(. They all bring up their ex's right away. They all have so much unresolved baggage they throw at you. They never deal with it and expect the next woman to prove she's not like that and he can trust her and not to assume the worst about her. It's tiresome and a waste of time. If they haven…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 06:07 PM
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There's already plenty of evidence of corruption in the academic fields, plenty of fake research, especially in the pharmaceutical industry. The fields of psychology and sociology are great to manipulate public perception with fake studies, fake statistics etc. And all the elsagate stuff, youtube videos for kids with inappropriate adult themes aimed at kids, it's all messed up and it's all too much to be a coincidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:41 PM
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Pornhub is straight up posting memes on twitter that appeal to kids. They already deleted the tweet but it was baby yoda with the line "10 seconds after my parents leave the house". All these kids are watching hardcore porn before they even held a girl's hand. Every guy is so fucked up already trying to find someone with a healthy attitude towards women and sex is impossible. Lots of studies funded by them to push how healthy porn is, Psychology Today telling men to watch more porn, it's good fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:41 PM
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Women shouldn't have any self esteem. Look at all these compliments getting to your heard! Will you even want to fuck the first guy that is nice to you now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:06 PM
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You didn't make a mistake, you made a choice. He said a bunch of nice things but words mean absolutely nothing. Chances are low that he will want to court you now if he already knows all the effort it takes to get with you as a complete stranger is some nice words. If you were charmed this easily, it's fair to say he gets many other women the same way. Just forget this guy, work on sticking with your own principles, don't use alcohol as an excuse for poor decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:34 AM
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She's just a sex doll for this idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:13 PM
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He says this he says that. Look at his actions, words are cheap. If he makes you feel like he doesn't care, then he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:12 PM
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I was so confused reading them because I couldn't imagine the kind of women that would be cool with that shit. The "girl" and their "girlfriend" shared the one guy, turns out it was just three gay men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:27 PM
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When I checked the poly sub on here, read the stories then checked the profiles, the wast majority of posters that referred to themselves as women were transwomen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 01:21 PM
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I agree, it's a bad look, might be funny in the moment but if people know you act like that it won't leave them with a positive view of you and that might affect your life negatively. Best to just ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 01:12 PM
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He messaged me too. I don't get a lot of fans but the last one accidentally complimented me instead of insulting me because he was talking about the beauty and femininity of polish women lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:15 AM
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If male friends are good for anything it's to get insight into the tactics they use. That's honestly disgusting behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:52 PM
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Does the friendship benefit you? Or is it him just being an emotional drain, looking for attention and an ego boost? I don't think men are really capable of friendship with women. The relationship ended for a reason, no point carrying all the baggage from the past with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:58 PM
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And they don't even want to use condoms when they are with women so I honestly doubt they use them with other men when there is no risk of pregnancy. But women are supposed to fuck everyone now, even take dick as a lesbian or you're transphobic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:35 PM
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Right, like who's defending anything else as culture? Should we defend slavery as American culture? Should catholic priests raping children be defended as culture? It's culture only when it's another race. Calling people racist is just the go-to response to shut people up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:29 PM
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If he cares he will want to impress you, they only get mad when women they only want to fuck want to be treated to dinner or go out on dates. All these dudes ranting about feminism, equality and splitting the check wouldn't be doing that if they really like someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:21 PM
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He knows what he's doing. He has an emotional relationship with you so you fill that need and then he uses other women for sex. Stop being friends with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:16 PM
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He's not putting in any effort and you want to go to his house? You know he's going to expect sex and not just cuddling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:13 PM
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They either have to defend their men and it's all cool as long as it's someone else, or they are liberal feminists that believe in cultural relativism so criticizing a culture that condones pedophilia is wrong. They can say all the same happens in the west, but here it's criminalized, there are campaigns against rape, teaching consent at universities etc. This bullshit lets people defend child marriage and FGM as culture so it can't be criticized. Just call them evil white supremacists forcing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:54 PM
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Can't criticize it at all because you'll get called racist. Most of the migrants/refugees coming to europe are male, and an increase in the number of men relative to women won't end well. There is already many stories of rape from little children to the elderly, but people are afraid to say anything. It's not like white men who travel to asia treat the women there with respect, even the ones who are on their best behavior at home will be all too happy to use and abuse women there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:58 PM
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It's only ok to to criticize white men in liberal feminism. If you point out something men of another culture do, and they happen to be of another race, it's instantly racist. This is just excusing male behavior because of their race. Free pass to act like this because saying anything would be racist. I don't see how this post is irrelevant. They are men, this is the "culture" men create when they have all the power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:31 PM
56

They all cry that hair loss is genetic, completely out of their control, but please point me to all these men that were bald in their 20s or early 30s in the recent past? They are just aging more rapidly because they are not taking care of themselves. Research shows that people in their 20s and 30s are now getting diseases of "old age" at much higher rates. Some of that is due to a shitty environment and stress, but most men just don't take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:05 PM
52

They really are all like that. Good job getting rid of the trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:52 PM
55

32?? I could understand if it was a naive teenager but at this point, what the hell is she doing. Acting that way is so embarrassing. Zero self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:47 AM
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He already told us that he's out of shape, since he mentioned older women expect him to be fit. A dad with responsibilities is so much more fun than young guys though. The threesomes after 8 pm when he puts them to bed are so exciting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:33 PM
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He was totally on a date with two girls at once, because that's what we do, when we're young and FUN, and he didn't tell us but I bet they started fighting over him and lost their clothes in the process and then they had a threesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:28 PM
41

WhereAreAllTheGoodMen complain about women going for trash guys in their youth and then they think they are a great catch if young women go for them, not realizing that they are the women's youthful mistakes, the trash she will look back on. They are delusional. Single moms are bad because reasons, single dads are great, because they are men, and well men are great obviously, why wouldn't they be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:15 PM
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The whole sub is their revenge fantasy, the TRP guys are no different than the 1997 guy in the article that thinks young women will think a 40 year old man is cool but the woman a spinster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:56 PM
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This article is from 1997 they don't change. He isn't fazed by it: "I spent my 20s trying to figure out how to survive in the world and operate in relationships. Now that I've figured out some of this I don't feel in any rush." He hasn't been in a relationship for three years: "When I'm in a relationship I'm extremely monogamous. One of the big advantages of being single is casual sex. If you get lucky often enough, you don't feel the need for a relationship." He finds that single women of his o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:45 PM
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The comments are disgusting. Men are trash. I had a girl who I fucked a few times. I'm gonna be honest. Tits were nice. Pussy nice and clean. But, face was busted. So it was hard for me to fuck her and I only did it when I was extraordinarily horny and I didn't have any other girls at the moment. Well we started to fuck more frequently and with that I just kept noticing how unattractive she was to me. Could have just flipped her over. They still make paper grocery bags... just wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:51 PM
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Yes I would find it really insulting if he treats the Irish girls well, takes them out to dinner, but for me he thinks he doesn't need to make such an effort. They must believe some ridiculous stereotypes about poland and think we will be impressed by nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:03 PM
41

He has personality to offer but he didn't say that it was a good personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:34 AM
35

r/tinder is full of idiotic posts where a stupid pun gets a girl claiming she's down to hook up right away, but probably never speaks to the guy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:29 AM
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If someone is struggling, feeling sad and lonely after a break up etc a pet can help ward off depression. It's someone happy to see you, in bad cases, someone to live for. Someone to keep you going or even getting you out of the house, especially if you don't have friends or family around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:04 AM
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My sister dated a Ukrainian guy, he, his family and friends believe a woman over 50 kg (110 lb) is fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:49 PM
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Yes when they use it to put down one group of women to try and make you out as special and better than them. I don't mean that just noting differences is bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:39 PM
47

Yep it's just "you're not like other girls" the country edition. Avoid them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:29 PM
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The amount of times I have had guys insult Irish women to me is crazy. They think eastern European women will be more subservient and think I will be flattered by them insulting their own women. He is angry they expect him to reach out first and to pay for the date. The women are expecting respect and good treatment so they opt for women from more patriarchal countries. They won't respect you or treat you well, they just want a better servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:14 PM
9

I just checked out bumble and there is not a single attractive guy. Googled it and found the men in this country have been rated the ugliest lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:17 PM
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I haven't been to a lot of guys homes, but what I find most often is absolutely filthy toilets. I'm pretty sure they never clean them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:49 PM
8

I don't use any social media myself (except for this) so I wouldn't like someone using it either. What's the point of endlessly looking through pictures on snapchat or instagram. It's a waste of time. Yep, the more I read here and other places the more I have come to accept I was delusional and naive in hoping to have a romantic relationship with a man. They are very different to us. Best I can do is accept they are all like this and only have them as company knowing they are all capable of horr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:07 PM
7

Yep it's ridiculous, although men that won't push are incredibly rare so I can understand why they are so impressed that a man is willing to respect their boundaries for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:12 PM
8

when you are in a relationship with someone you're entitled to know about this person. Exactly! Mobile phones have become an extension of us. You can hide a completely different side to yourself online. What they do online is important. Wanting to know that is normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:09 PM
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I hear so many people call watching netflix a hobby too it's ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 12:58 PM
9

Oh no the rapists are frightened we can't have that! Those women's organizations are just terrible, it's their fault men are forced to murder after they rape. Better make things easier for them. Or how about men learn to control themselves? No, no, educate the women on how to get raped better. What a disgusting piece of shit. Maybe he should offer himself up to the rapists first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:44 AM
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I think it might be a red piller, they think women are attracted to dark triad personality types and that having a girlfriend or hot women around you makes other women more attracted to them through "pre-selection". So he's saying, I'm hot shit women want me so you should too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:44 AM
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I told a guy that I didn't enjoy it when he asked. He reacted by telling me that I'm wrong, that I did in fact enjoy it! I've never faked an orgasm or pretended to like anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 02:37 AM
5

Religious or not they all think that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:05 AM
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27 and still talks like an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:00 PM
6

Reddit also allows racism as long as it's your fetish https://i.imgur.com/XksxqUf.png that's from /r/Raceplay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 07:27 PM
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I can't even read that place, the mental gymnastics they do are insane. Lol at us being invited to discussions in PPD though, I don't know how some of you have the energy to argue with these guys, they never change their mind on anything and have the same arguments over and over again on every thread. Edit: Just saw that guy telling you to be a good girl, what a disgusting condescending asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 06:05 PM
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Good job! I don't trust guys with female best friends, they are never just friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 06:02 PM
45

You get banned for a comment like that wtf. But all the woman hating porn subs with their disgusting comments are okay. r/Rapekink r/deadeyes and r/painal, getting off to the women's pain is fine, don't question it! The wickr subs for pedophiles were around for years, no problem there either. I guess violence is fine as long as you call it BDSM, consent magically makes it okay and it's not a call to violence against women. You can punch, choke, slap or even cut her up as long as it's during sex.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:44 PM
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He seems manipulative, controlling and insecure. He needed to check up on you constantly to quench his insecurity, the control and trust issues would have only gotten worse. You're not responsible for his feelings. He's like one of these idiots that will threaten suicide if you don't do as he says. Don't feel guilty, you did nothing wrong, he's just manipulating you. And I agree with the other comment, trust your gut. Maybe read the Gift of Fear if you haven't already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:32 PM
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Almost all of the comments are pro porn here though. Porn is fine, research shows no addiction/ED problems so it's all good! (research probably funded by the porn industry but who cares it means I can keep watching) Ignore how fucked up the industry is and how it harms women. Feminist men or MRAs, they will all defend porn. They argue for amateur porn too, but a lot of that is posted without the woman's knowledge. There is plenty of "amateur" porn that is just studios making it look like that, o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:25 PM
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Here's a good guide https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d1mpsx/how_to_never_ever_pay_on_a_date/?st=k3nv5xr5&sh=45ba9809 But if that doesn't work, just don't see him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:20 AM
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He's just going to cheat and claim it's her fault for not meeting his needs. Sore, sleep deprived, taking care of a baby 24/7? No his dick needs servicing and he's the most important baby in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 02:32 AM
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You don't. Just move on to the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 02:29 AM
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It's horrifying that something this dangerous is being treated so lightly and even expected for women to like and want, like it's a normal part of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 02:16 AM
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They literally see women as objects. She's not moving, she's not responding, participating or enjoying it. But he has no problem getting hard and just using her like a doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:52 PM
25

This is what all the people on TRP say you should be doing. I doubt all their hookups like to be treated this way, I can guess a lot of them are just afraid to say something. How do they love something if it makes them cry? They just don't want to be murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:43 PM
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Obviously you're a b*tch for not jumping at this opportunity. They just expect women to be free wh*res now. They interpret sex positive culture as free sex, no effort needed from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:55 PM
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I'll try and make a proper post sometime but I don't know if people are interested in reading boring studies lol. Prolactin is bad for both men and women in excess, like postpartum hairloss happens in women since their prolactin is really high to feed the baby, and the progesterone during pregnancy was high making hair grow faster and giving women "the glow". Masturbation raises prolactin more than sex, not sure why. Prolactin and dopamine are inversely correlated, so when your prolactin is high…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:51 PM
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He takes no responsibility for his actions, talks about how hateful she is of a woman she never met, yet he makes no mention of how poorly he treated his wife of 8 years. Nothing is his fault, things just happen to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:52 PM
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Oh definitely, reddit is like that in general, and plenty of fake research is published on the effects of porn. I was just reading this post http://theviolenceofpornography.blogspot.com/2019/10/the-pro-porn-campaigners-are.html the other day, and it's disgusting how far they will go to deny and twist reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:18 PM
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I was with my first bf for a year before we had sex, he was sure he wanted to marry me. Once we had sex he said he felt like he ruined me, that I was impure now. They are seriously fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:57 AM
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I can already guess what the comments are like. She doesn't deserve to have her boundaries respected, it's unfair, she has to offer all the same to him as previous partners. They do that on PPD/TRP all the time. Had anal with one guy and hated it? Well now you have to do it with me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:54 AM
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Socially isolated, lonely, insecure girl with low self esteem in a relationship with an abusive, misogynistic and controlling asshole = perfect RPW captain. I saw a post on there before from a woman asking if BDSM while pregnant was okay, of course all the responses thought it was fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:09 PM
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He linked to an article about a shitty paper done by a man who obviously knows more about female sexuality than women know themselves. Another idiot male psych prof. I'm totally shocked. He's just confirming his porn fantasies for himself in some poorly done study. In another study he concludes that lesbians are more masculine and their arousal is like men's. In yet another one he claims bisexual women are sexual sensation and excitement seeking so same as men always calling bisexual women who*e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:22 PM
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I imagine no. 2 would be a super pretentious asshole talking about himself constantly and trying to sound deep. You're really missing out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:48 PM
42

I dated a professor of psychology and neuroscience, he argued with me about how harmless this shit is, I sent him all the studies I could find, it's his field so he should be able to clearly see how bad it is, but he wouldn't even look at them. He preferred to call me jealous and insecure. The 1000 fap stare is on point, chronic masturbation will raise their prolactin and that's associated with a bunch of nervous disorders (and hair loss). They do have a certain look they all share, and they are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:34 PM
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And then they rant on reddit how women are totally tricking them into fatherhood, they think BC is 100% and everyone desperately wants their babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:20 PM
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It doesn't matter what you do or say, they will always find a reason to put you down, call you one thing or another, there is no winning as a woman even if you try to play by their rules, so might as well do what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:16 PM
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The sad reality is that 99% of men refuse to acknowledge how porn fucks them up. Even in the comments in nofap and pornfree other men come to lecture them about how wrong they are for trying to quit. Gotta pull everyone down with you, can't have your choice stop being normalized. How are you going to force every girlfriend to accept it if there are other men saying it's not okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:13 PM
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I'm so glad there is a community where women recognise that the sexual revolution is a lie, the harm of porn and the nature of men. Denying the reality we experience feels like being gaslighted by all of society. You're made to feel crazy for thinking there is anything wrong with these things, and it seems like you're the only one that has a problem with the way things are. Don't accept porn? Controlling psycho. Think casual sex mostly hurts women? You're just a Prude. Your ability to perceive r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 01:42 PM
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But I'm getting this uncontrollable urge... right now... I must get naked! I think this guy is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:06 AM
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His other post is even better: Reasons women are sexist: men are desperate for sex. Men usually want to fuck with no strings attached and aren't looking for a relationship. Men are obnoxious and usually over talk and never listen. Men are inconsiderate and selfish. Men are shallow. Reasons men are sexist: women are privileged but always play the victim. Women are entitled. Women are b*tches. Women gossip. Women are fake. Women love drama. Women aren't funny. Women complain all the fucking time. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:57 AM
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I doubt anyone is making an appointment with this dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:50 AM
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That was definitely true in my case. Young girls are easier targets, they won't have the confidence to speak up. They seem to get off on making them uncomfortable and scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:33 PM
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I was so uncomfortable with being sexualised, I had seen porn at a young age and was afraid of being treated that way. Once I hit puberty I developed an eating disorder and started binding my breasts. The smaller I got the more creeps hit on me. Older men would cat call me when I could barely walk in a strong wind. Being very fragile and small was attractive to the worst kinds of men. I was depressed and if the trans idelology was popular 10 years ago I would have transitioned. I believed I coul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:41 PM
22

I had a dude lament how it's not okay to shout at women anymore, that someone might call him abusive. Poor guy can't even express his anger anymore, what has the world come to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:32 PM
9

libfems are just serving kids on a platter to predators. I wouldn't even know how to raise a girl in today's world, how to protect them from this. They don't get a childhood anymore. They all put themselves out there on instagram etc with adult men saying fucked up shit to them in the comments. Reminds me of the Desmond is Amazing kid, who was dancing on a stage for men, that got wild approval because "he's expressing himself" so it's all good. Or all these pageants for little girls and toddlers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:38 AM
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Reddit is just some kind of alternate reality, where the men are convinced they are the oppressed class, and women live life on easy mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:26 AM
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I know military guys are very unpopular here, but I don't have a bad experience of them, for most it's just a good paying job. I'm in europe though so the culture in the military might be different, and they haven't gone to war since WW2, so no anger and PTSD. No hipsters for me either though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 01:17 AM
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Thanks I'll check it out! I just downloaded whatever magazines I could find from archive.org but got pretty sick looking at it all. It was the early days of when I first started questioning the pro porn nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 01:11 AM
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It's mostly trash everywhere now. If I don't find anyone good I'm fine with being alone too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:58 AM
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If he hasn't learned by 35 I doubt you could anyway! Sorry to hear that, I hope you can recover from the abuse of that piece of shit with time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:39 AM
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As another commenter said on here, if he doesn't get hard from kissing he probably has problems. Edit: well maybe when they're at that age it doesn't happen easily. But being a bad kisser seems like a good sign they will suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:24 AM
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You just reminded me of all the middle school girls with their playboy pencil cases... lots of products with the playboy logo were aimed at kids, girls were wearing t-shirts with it. I downloaded some of the early porn magazines a few years ago to check out what they were showing/saying, and all these articles were disgusting. There were comic strips joking about rape. There was also a positive book review for a book that said sexual contact between a child and a trusted family member like an un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 11:59 PM
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They're all porn sick now. My mom has said before that men her age are freaked out by a lack of hair, that it makes them think of children. Porn likes to make them as young as possible, "barely legal". Guys who are repulsed by body hair should be shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 11:28 PM
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" it's honestly pretty funny and kind of endearing that he's comfortable enough around me to let 'er rip." Endearing, really? His lack of respect is sooo awesome omg guys I'm a great girl. This guy is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:31 PM
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I still play a little but I end up feeling bad for wasting my time on shit that doesn't benefit me. I never mention I do though cause you just get loser guys that spend all day playing and think I'll be cool with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:04 PM
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"Gentlemen" yeah, no thanks. How are these grandpas going to protect anyone? Just cause you beat your friends in video games doesn't mean you can do shit. Can't wait for that old man dick that doesn't work. Wwwee're th- the p-prize guys :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:00 PM
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Which pick me told these dumbasses they are funny? All their jokes are lowbrow toilet humour. I can't read these anymore, even trying to form arguments against their bullshit is a waste of time. "Men aren't given the same nurturing or support as women" yeah that's why they all end up spoiled babies looking for women to be the next mommy and do everything for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:54 PM
42

They shouldn't assume their male friends are safe to be around either. Someone close to me was raped by her childhood best friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:52 PM
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I had little experience with men as a teenager, I didn't want to make the same mistakes I saw other women doing, so I started reading some of the men's rights books and blogs and later TRP. This was like the only alternative I could find to libfem at the time... The books all talked about how men use sex as a show of affection and a way to get intimacy, and how much it hurts them to be turned down for sex. It is just their way of expressing their romantic feelings. Stupid me bought this and felt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:40 PM
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Taking a long time to respond sometimes might be a good way to find out how psycho they are. In some cases waiting a few minutes works I guess..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 05:32 PM
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I'm in my mid 20s and had my age range set all the way to 10 years older but plenty of guys even in their late 20s and early 30s looked so run down, unhealthy, no colour to skin/hair/eyes, wrinkly, balding and out of shape. They don't take care of themselves and if they don't have a woman to care for them they age really rapidly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:46 PM
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Disgusting men that can't get off without hurting, degrading and humiliating women. They just want to run through all the different acts in porn and can't be in the moment and enjoy sex like a normal person, there is a script to follow. I felt so disgusting when I had sex for the first time, it was like I was a prop or doll for him to act out all the porn shit on. Position yourself that way, arch your back more, squeeze your tits, moan this way. Then he has to run through all the different posit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:36 PM
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I live near a university so I rent out a room to students, I've had several girls talk to me about their girl friends pressuring them to have sex and lose their virginity already. Anyone that doesn't act like them makes them uncomfortable because they might have to question their own actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:01 PM
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they're full of fake posts to demonize women too, then they can use them as confirmation of their bullshit on MGTOW and TRP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:30 AM
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the guys in r/pussypassdenied, r/publicfreakout and similar are constantly jerking themselves off over violence against women, writing "equal rights and equal lefts" as they furiously masturbate. Poor pathetic idiots that are so weak the only way they can feel strong is to abuse women or just insult them online, since women IRL wouldn't even look twice at those guys. The retaliation is always so disproportionate too, girl is annoying or shoves a guy and gets punched hard. The better women do in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 01:53 AM
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Every girl I know that was depressed has concealed it. In one case I only found out because she flinched when I grabbed onto her arm. Most people don't go around announcing their depression to everyone, there is still a lot of stigma about it in society. Most older family members that knew about my depression just thought I was weak and spoiled. If they want to talk about it there is therapy. All the talking in the world won't help anyway, it often needs medication and lifestyle change. I'm not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:55 PM
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If she's not willing to listen to reason there's not much you can do. She will learn the hard way. He sounds manipulative so he will most likely try and interfere with your friend group to exclude you. I'm not sure how best to deal with that, I don't think you can say or do anything to make them change their mind if he charms them all, and what the best way is to navigate the situation so it doesn't impact your friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:41 PM
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Cut him off. For now you're a source of attention and validation, giving him an ego boost. Sometime when he's having a dry spell he's going to hit you up for sex. Just block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:36 PM
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He's going to pull the same shit with her since he is making up ridiculous reasons for why he can't commit. He'll be on to the next one soon. Your best friend is pretty shitty though, she put some random dude above the opinion of her best friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:32 PM
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redpillwomen is at 40k and they've been around for 5 years at least. All these evil women here are choosing fds instead of worshiping the captains from TRP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:27 PM
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Low value men hate FDS. This is another example of the kind of man we do not want. This classy gentleman is seeking his first deep throat experience on r/RandomActsofBlowJob Nothing more desirable than a man seeking complete strangers online for sex. I'm sure he makes such other good decisions in his life and his opinions should have value to us. Edit: posts on MGTOW, no complaints about that place though, funny how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:01 PM
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The idea that babies don't feel is just men's messed up understanding of life. They see everything as machines. They think circumcision is forgotten by babies but they are traumatized. They say animals don't feel, and are now shocked when research says otherwise, even fish have been shown to feel pain. They have proven rats have a theory of mind, so they can empathize with others, but they still manage to say women, children and animals don't have the same capacity to think or feel. Being away f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:32 PM
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The dressing up thing is so annoying, they get to wear comfortable, warm clothing but we're supposed to be running around in tight short dresses, constricting waistbands, uncomfortable bras etc. Spend time applying make up even on days we're not going out... just no thanks. If a guy wants me to put in all that effort then we better be going somewhere nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:08 PM
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I don't know if they are insane, extremely codependent, desperate for love and acceptance, or just buying completely into the redpill cult. How can someone sacrifice everything for another person that can leave you at any moment. You will have no friends, no money, no family. No one to speak to or seek help from. If issues arise you can only talk to your online cult friends who will tell you how everything is your fault and you need to do more for your "captain". They even discourage talking to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:44 PM
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As opposed to men, who make all the right decisions to negelct their health, act impulsively, beat their dick to death while obsessively masturbating to porn till they get ED before they're 30, fail to maintain basic hygiene, spend all their time watching superhero movies wishing that could be them, live vicariously through video games, often playing them all night and day, and feeling accomplished by beating another guy in said game, and drink beer full of phytoestrogens while screaming at the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:33 PM
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I have a friend from Nepal, he invited me to visit the country with him but followed up that I will get raped there if I dress how I like over there. He seems like a nice enough guy but didn't seem all that bothered by this, he just stated it all matter-of-fact. The guys in the west will get outraged by refugee rape stories in the news, raping "their" white women, but hardly react when it's a white guy, in those cases they will claim it's a false accusation. Men just don't see rape as a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:15 PM
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I'm in my mid 20's but the idea of living with a man has never appealed to me. I just know I'm going to be stuck cleaning up after them. Expected to cook, fuck on demand, look attractive at all times. Sorry I want to relax, be comfortable and live in a clean place. I want to read a book in peace, I don't want some guy around that's pissed because I'm not catering to him. He had a bad day at work? I'll have to put up with his moodiness. They don't take care of their health so it only gets worse a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:18 PM
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I think a pick me would be critical of women that don't have sex on a guys schedule. If you expect anything from him, expect a dinner date and don't have sex right away, then the pick me's will think you're in the wrong. The pick me is cool, she will do everything to please a guy. If she's a pick me trying to appeal to the redpill/trad/right wing guys then she willl be critical of women that have sex and don't serve their "captain".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:05 PM
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It matters to me. If they have a very high n count then they have a fundamanentally different attitude to sex than I do. If they had many ONS or FBWs in the past, it's unlikely they will be able to manange a LTR. They are more likely to jump ship if any conflict arises or get bored with just one person. I don't think they can have a sudden change of personality and be happy with one person. A lot of guys refuse to use condoms even with casual sex, so more risk for STDs. it's probably best if the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:47 PM
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If anyone here is unfamiliar with www.theviolenceofpornography.blogspot.com it is a great blog. Pretty upsetting to look at but it's better to be informed about this disgusting industry. Shame them for their porn use. Do not tolerate it. We need to make them aware we will not be the cool girl and put up with them getting off to the violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:17 PM
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He thinks women are princesses just for expecting a normal date and not running to his house right away. WTF. We should all fuck guys immediately based on what they say. Anything more is a high maintenance b**ch. They hate fds so much because it screens out disgusting guys like this. I don't care if you're into ONS, someone like that has zero respect for you, even a hookup should treat you with respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:50 PM
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Yours reeks of delusion. The data is male violence against women, because trans women are men :) Their crimes are justified because of poverty? You're literally defending men's violence in this sub. I didn't realise acknowledging biological reality made me a conservative, maybe you should call this sub conservative then since it excludes people with XY chromosomes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:44 AM
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"I'm going to do whatever I want! Don't have any expectations." They're getting really creative with saying they're only looking for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:22 PM
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of course there are comments about how bad she is for snooping. Your bf is jerking off to your sister? Who cares, you did a much worse thing by looking at his phone! All these idiots saying this is normal too and all guys do it... disgusting. Sooo many guys are defending it, their depravity has no limits. She's just "sex negative". Just accept your bf will be jerking off to your family, friends and whatever disgusting porn he likes! Don't be so controlling and insecure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:04 PM
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did you know they commit crimes at the same rates as other men, and their magical feelings of being a woman don't actually make them act like women? /r/thisneverhappens I guess we should allow them all in female spaces. Who cares about the attacks on women, it's biological women who experience the most violence at the hands of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:54 PM
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yeah they think you're really into them if you remember something small about them. I have a good memory and some guys really freak out if I remember something they said. Best to "forget" things otherwise they think they've won and you're more into them than you really are, even if they aren't fuckboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:22 AM
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Everytime I've dealt with a guy with a female BFF their relationship would be inappropriate in some way. They share intimate information from your relationship, to get "a woman's perspective", so there will be no secrets, everything that happens in your relationship she will know and give her opinion on. She may have her own motives to give bad advice. Sometimes they don't want to lose the attention or favours that come with a male friend to the new GF. Never met a guy that didn't have feelings …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 03:16 AM
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There was also this vice documentary about men raping donkeys and calling it a part of their culture. Denmark finally banned bestiality because of the increase in "animal sex tourism". Germany unbanned it and then banned it again after an increase in "erotic zoos". Plenty of examples but I don't recommend people look it up, so many graphic images...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:50 PM
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Yep, their sexual attention means absolutely nothing. They even talk about hate fucking. They have no respect for the women they have sex with. There are/were animal brothels in europe. There is plenty of stories from countries all over the world of animals being raped. A lot of effort has been made by animal groups and it has been banned for the most part, but the fact that there was demand for this is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:49 PM
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Oh no, no one has let him do it before, poor guy has to rape her :( She should have left the first time he refused to respect her boundaries. Communication is super important to him but he disregards everything she says. What a disgusting piece of shit. edit: just saw your post on r/sex, clearly this woman was just not communicating enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:03 AM
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There were probably always some rare men into it, but it's huge popularity is probably in part due to Pavlovian conditioning through porn. The previously (mostly) non sexualised body part is shown when they are very aroused and they learn to associate it with pleasure. There is probably a bunch of other reasons, like it being something every guy needs to achieve now at least once, or the fact that a lot of women don't want it so it's a win that they can convince a woman to do it. They often say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:59 AM
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It's widespread among the kind of guys you want to avoid anyway, so it's a good filter. You can always bring up your time abroad later when dating and watch their reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:55 AM
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The idea that women that travel have sex indiscriminately is pushed heavily on the red pill. Is your boyfriend showing other red flags? Because he sounds like a huge asshole right now. Everyone doesn't think that. He clearly does and is afraid that's what you're going to do. So that's his opinion of you. Edit: sorry missed the ex part. Fuck this dude's opinion anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:47 AM
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"Also i live in the middle-east, where physical altercations happen from time to time in all families and is accepted in our culture, no accusation will be made and police won't get involved." Oh he's not worried he knows as a man he will be protected there. He had mental issues because of poor parenting. Poor guy, not his fault. His sister? She's just a dumb whore. But it's ok he only beat her lightly anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:18 PM
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I feel so much more calm if I avoid all mainstream music. I can feel my adrenaline spiking when I hear it. The lyrics and ideas promoted are honestly terrible. Women as decorative objects dancing around almost nude while some dude insults them, simulated sex, promotion of materialism, hookup culture and degrading oneself for men's entertainment. Then you get all the little girls listening and dancing to it. Whenever I see a guy's online dating profile feature such artists or talk to one and they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:10 PM
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He puts his need to ogle other women above your need to feel respected in the relationship. It doesn't hurt him to stop looking. Your boundaries and feelings are less important to him than those instagram girls. The fact that they are local means they are potentially available to him, and by liking them he is trying to get noticed by them, he's probably DMing them too. You don't need to explain your boundaries, he's shown he's not willing to respect them, just leave. Find someone that will respe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:19 PM
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I've found a few websites discuss how dangerous it is and how easily it is to cause damage to the delicate tissue. The micro tears allow bacteria and fecal matter to enter the bloodstream. There is research showing that anal results in incontinence, so even if they had a healthy attitude towards it, it's just not a good idea. And these are just things that will go wrong when done correctly, never mind the extreme injuries that can result from it. But they just have to put their dicks into everyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:21 AM
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Reading the relationship subs is pointless anyway, there are so many obviously fake posts made to demonize women that make women sound exactly as the red pill describes them. Then they get discussed on TRP as proof of their ideas. This whole website is just full of fake posts and porn for men to hate on women and jerk off to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:51 PM
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r/deadeyes is still one of the worst ones for me. They're literally getting off to the trauma shown by the girls vacant eyes. Who the fuck gets hard seeing abuse. Red pill loves to call the 1000 yard stare a "1000 cock stare". Porn sick idiots are disgusting. Oh some other horrible ones I didn't know like r/painal... where do I sign up for the cats and wine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:59 PM
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This place scares them so much they can't stop making fake posts. Oh no these women are encouraging each other to not take shit and have standards. Please someone stop them! We need this place shut down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:46 PM
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As the amount of users increases the libfems will out number the original users so it seems inevitable, unless the moderation is really strict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:33 PM
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You're getting down voted for being against the exploitation and abuse of women here, of all places, really? This thread is full of pro porn and pro kink comments. The user base has changed..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:17 PM
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That sort of guy is high value according to the red pill but definitely not here. Women have to stop mistaking high status and money for high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 01:41 PM
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They seem to think eastern european women are submissive, but it's total bullshit. A lot of the people in EE have experienced hardship and poverty, they don't put up with any of that shit, they would destroy their ego's in seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:02 AM
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A lot of them see sex as degrading to the woman so once they are done they are disgusted with her. Porn probably made a lot of them see sex as degrading, because that's what they do in porn.. hurt, insult, mock. A woman had sex, now she is bad. I don't even want to have sex with men because their attitude towards sex and women just makes me feel disgusting and like bathing in bleach to wash off their sick perception. If I'm going to have sex with someone it means I like them a lot and care about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:13 AM
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He leeches off his mother, then calls her an idiot. Why wouldn't women jump at the opportunity to date this amazing 40 year old? He can call her an idiot then. He hates people, offers nothing, you better work and take care of him. Why are women so evil?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 01:56 AM
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Not even his penis. He sends some fake dick pic and gets hard after wtf this can't be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:13 AM
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They already encourage you to do all that. If it doesn't please him its gotta go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:43 AM
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Yeah she has been reading this place for months, when it had 2k members a few months ago. Next up, my friend has been following fds for YEARS now, and her life turned out horrible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:34 PM
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The side effects will obviously be great for both men and women, since hormones affect so many aspects of our biology. You would also have to trust that they are even taking it. I don't think a male pill is a good idea either, and I hate the normalisation of it for women where it is now expected, the side effects downplayed and pressure put on women to use it. Better the small inconvenience of physical contraception, and if someone wants to be extra safe they could use both female and male condo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:01 PM
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Gotta keep her insecure. Don't want her having too much self esteem now, that would be really bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:34 PM
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The pill is totally harmless so obviously we should all just take it so the poor man doesn't have to wear condoms. His pleasure is more important than the woman's health so stop being mean and hurting his feelings. And for the women who are willing to put up with his bullshit, I doubt he offers to get tested for STIs first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:27 PM
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They either want sex or attention and an ego boost because they're currently having a dry spell or someone else they're after isn't responding how they hoped. They might disappear as soon as they get some attention, proving to themselves they still have power over you to get a response. A guy messaged me like that so I installed tinder and found him on there complaining on his profile how women on tinder can't hold a conversation lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:54 AM
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Russia does not represent all of slavs, and I doubt all russians agree with the politician's stance. I don't know any politician in my country that has said any such thing. The wast majority of men have an attitude of "provide and protect" when it comes to women. The men would not tolerate a guy that hits women, they would think he is a pathetic, weak man, they definitely wouldn't glorify it. They would get hell from their mothers and siblings if they hit women. Saying that about a whole ethnic …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:47 PM
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Yeah I think that's what it is. You really do have to keep reminding yourself and convincing yourself because it's their own human nature that they're up against.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:26 PM
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No domestic violence is not glorified in slavic countries, they have their own isssues but wtf. I would be called racist if I said anything like that about blacks or latinos. You call latinos diverse but slavs are all wife beaters. It's western men calling it equality when women get punched in /r/PussPassDenied
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:31 PM
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I thought I wasn't a feminist for years because all I saw was the liberal bullshit. I was really happy when I found GC and saw women making good arguments against all the bullshit I was critical of. I actually found it looking for research against porn to convince my idiot ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 02:29 PM
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Don't date them if possible. And we should openly express disgust with it because liberal feminists keep saying all women are cool with it. Show them it's not. Maybe some of them will eventually learn to be ashamed of it or maybe not since the liberal feminists are much louder and keep screaming how it's great. Kick them out and shame them if they try to pull any of that porn shit in bed. At least there is a few communities online recognizing it's bad... not all for the right reasons but it's be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 02:15 PM
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Too bad that even the men in a lot of conspiracy subs/forums have accepted this brainwashing and will react negatively to women there too, even though we have so many views in common, all women are now the enemy. They can question everything and think critically until the topic is women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:20 PM
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I've discovered the same things as you through research. They aim to alienate the people from each other and are still working on diving the sexes and giving women "feminist" advice that aims to hurt them. I bet a lot of the men's movements on here didn't start organically either. It's clearly been a very successful psyOp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:57 PM
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Wasn't this sub at like 2k or less subscribers only a month or 2 ago? Funny how they manage to have "field reports" of applying the ideas and failing so fast. Only a small number of people have been around for a long time, and all these failure stories are appearing only now that it suddenly exploded in popularity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:56 PM
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This guy and Whisper are both constantly preaching to the little women how best to serve the interest of men. They both supposedly have partners but spend all their time on their virtual harem of women that are constantly applauding their wisdom. What kind of women are married to weirdos like that. I guess they make them feel special for not being like those other women, but being one of the chosen few by the cult leaders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:47 PM
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It's a dude. Several posts on PPD, MGTOW and RPW about this place in a matter of days. They're really freaking out about women asserting their boundaries and having standards and self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:23 PM
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I remember seeing 'Can I get your opinion on something as a female?' or similar in the old PUA books suggested as an opener so the dude was probably trying to game you. Found this so it is an admitted strategy https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f4laq/opinion_openers_doesnt_everyone_know_that_this_is/?st=k1skorah&sh=2e43fd1c
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 01:05 AM
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Following RPW advice wasn't good for me either, it just makes the men think they don't have to put in any effort themselves and just expect the woman to do everything they want. They see you as lower value than them when things come so easily and think they can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 04:12 PM
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Reminds me of a chapter in the book Ways of Seeing, the quote below has stayed in my mind for years now. “A woman must continually watch herself. She is almost continually accompanied by her own image of herself. Whilst she is walking across a room or whilst she is weeping at the death of her father, she can scarcely avoid envisaging herself walking or weeping. From earliest childhood she has been taught and persuaded to survey herself continually. And so she comes to consider the surveyor and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 02:29 AM
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TV and porn are both used to cause a division between men and women. When porn came out, 2nd wave Jewish feminists began writing how porn shows men's true feelings of women and that they truly hate them. But saying anything against porn anywhere on this site causes outrage... Divide the people and make them all more unhappy, get everyone hooked on pharmaceuticals that make them good obedient zombies and have them all fight among themselves. No need to form relationships, get a sex doll! It is th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 01:00 AM
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I'm the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 10:52 PM
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That's not how it works. Opiates make people feel great but they are still harmful. The adrenaline and stress from screaming and fighting is still going to have a hormonal impact on her. Self harm by cutting causes a release of endorphins, enkephalins and adrenaline, so is it not harmful because it makes the person feel good through the release of these compounds? The arguing, screaming, being forced down etc still causes a stress response, the body releases it's own opiate like compounds and ad…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 07:25 PM
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Sure give money to a disgusting rapist. If his advice is like what is here anyway, why pay for it? He probably just copied from here. The site to buy his book looks like any other scam site too, he's just a sales man jumping on the next big thing, he doesn't have anything new to offer. He only knows how to pick up women in night clubs, judging their value on their appearance only, he doesn't know how to have a long term relationship and what is important in one.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 01:16 AM
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I feel the same way. Only way I could live with someone is if we had separate rooms. I could avoid the other person when I am stressed or tired or just feel like being alone. If I'm forced to be around them when in a bad mood the relationship will turn bad quickly.
/r/MGTOW219/02/19 10:17 PM
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This is a fake post, check history. 38 years old and married in others.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 01:20 PM
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Psychological issues are often hormonal, have you had yours checked? How is your diet? It matters a lot more than you think - for example, in the minnesota starvation experiment, the people began acting crazy(like cutting off fingers) and unstable on too few calories. Pay attention to what you did the day before, or on the day that you feel better. There is reasearch showing that foods that irittate the intestine affect peoples behaviour. So you might try to opt for things that are easy for your…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/15 10:12 AM
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Perhaps then you can enquire about measuring both tissue and plasma estrogen levels, the numbers tend to differ significantly, though they are often reluctant to measure tissue levels. Progesterone and estrogen ratio matters more than the numbers themselves. Anyway, I wish you all the best! I hope your doctors are good and can help.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 09:07 PM
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Not sure if this sort of comment is allowed, but has your endocrinologist mentioned progesterone supplementation? If not maybe you would like to look into progest-e for pregnancy, a doctor named John R. Lee or a biologist named Ray Peat. I had extreme hormonal issues before, and didn't even menstruate for 2 years, but managed to fix the issues that way. Mods can delete this comment if it breaks any rules..
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 01:28 PM
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