Hi everyone, I'm gonna make this story as short as possible, but I really want some advice about what I should do.

3 weeks ago I attended a Christmas party with my mom, and noticed this really cute guy, we were exchanging some looks at eachother but I didn't think anything of it. A couple of days later he ended up matching with me on Hinge, and we hit it off and met up in person. Everything was great when we met up! We went out for coffee, and food. We ended the night making out, it was amazing.

We arranged to meet the following Friday, and on the night of he asked me if I was ready to go out, and asked me of spots we should check out, I named a few, and then he said he wasn't picky, so I suggested one bar, and he never responded or confirmed with meeting me at this bar.

We agreed to meet for 7:30pm; I didn't end up hearing from him until 8:30pm and then he told me he got into a car accident, he said a drunk driver hit the back of his car and that his car was ruined. He apologized and said, "I'm so sorry my dear, I really wanted to see you. I'm so sorry for getting back to you so late, this was the only time I could get a hold of you."

Anyway.. I figured he was lying, and wanted to get out of seeing me, so I deleted his number and moved on.

He texts me today, saying that he's had a stressful week because he doesn't have his car because its in repair. He asked me if I'd be available to meet on Saturday if he got his car back tomorrow and if I'd be interested in going out for drinks & dinner on Saturday evening, and then to head back to his place after.

What should I do? Should I give him the benefit of the doubt, or is he lying to me and just trying to get sex out of me?

Btw, during our first date I told him that my issues with online dating is that most guys don't want to actually get to know me, and just want sex. I mentioned that I have to trust someone in order to have sex with them and he acknowledged this and said he'd be patient. Haha, he said I'd end up being the impatient one, but yeah.

Idk, maybe I'm overreacting and overthinking this..

Sorry this was so long.