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Lie and deny. I had almost exactly the same thing happen to me when I was young. My manager was female, she'd banter with me, she'd give me shit, I called her a bitch, she laughed it off. Few days later it was a big deal and I got fired (by her) The big boss doesn't want to deal with any shit, and he doesn't want any problems, so don't give him an excuse by saying "Yeah I'm the type of worker who says inappropriate shit at work, still want to keep me when you can replace me?" Lie and deny. In th…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 12:15 PM
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Don't let someone hit you first they might knock you out. They might break your nose. They might keep hitting you before you can react. In street fights the first person who hits usually wins. The unprepared guy is now at a disadvantage and the hitter has the momentum, the victim is now experiencing shock while the attacker knows what he's doing.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:02 AM
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Don't say a thing. You wanna get into a fight with some retard over some shit that doesn't matter? What do you win by arguing back? Pride? You give a shit what some retard thinks of you? What do you lose by arguing back? Get into a fight, might win, might lose, might die, might goto jail. Anyone who thinks confrontation with some random retard is the right answer hasn't been in any street fights. You never know who is fucked in the head and will go from swearing to pulling a weapon, do you? Do y…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 08:59 AM
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You're probably new to this whole thing, and there's an overwhelming amount of information. I'll try to think of the shortest key points I can think of that relate to your situation that might be helpful. It was just your turn. You were just the guy she was spending time on at that moment, but women aren't loyal (you should recognise this doubley given she's a cheater) and won't stick forever. You had your window, and I hope you enjoyed it, there's millions of more windows (women). Get lifting w…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:08 PM
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I hit rock bottom and took a year off. It made me disciplined, hungry, motivated, healthier. Use your time off wisely and you really can launch into your next semester.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:45 PM
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You hooked up over 700 days ago. You're in the friend zone (unless you're hooking up now but left that out) She wants you to give her attention and help her with her work and whatever else you can do that isn't sticking your dick in her By not doing her work and not being overtly nice to her you've taken away the 2 things she wants from you She wants those things back, who wouldn't want a validation machine who also did your homework? Keep her around as a friend for social-proof to get other gir…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:28 AM
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We're just animals who have ~2000 year old social contracts of marriage and shaming adulterers. But once divorce and cheating became acceptable ~50 years ago that social contract was rendered null and void. The marriage contract has no purpose now with the monetary benefits of divorce and relaxation on shaming divorcees/adulterers. You're certainly 'brave' to enter into a marriage contract when the divorce downside (social stigma) is eradicated and the divorce upside (alimony, cock carousel) is …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 06:13 AM
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What you said was brilliant. Whether you should say anything is a different matter. Where is this a high school? I've literally never seen anyone give a small/fat guy shit at a gym (to his face anyway) since becoming an adult
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:04 AM
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It's natural for people to notice when your behaviour changes. Obviously it's unusual for you to not help her and be forward, and shes decided that doing so makes you an asshole You agree and amplify or ignore, either one will work fine. People underestimate the power of 'ignore', is she going to keep asking you over and over if you ignore her? Nah, she'll forget it, you never gave her a straight answer, she can hamster what the reason is, and the intrigue and mystery that the hamster will creat…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:02 AM
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From my experience, and this is anecdotal and I'm happy to be proven wrong: People think of you as you were forever. If someone you knew became a billionaire tomorrow would you forget how they were? No. Your friends will change their opinion of you, and mostly they will dislike your improvements because you're changed your rank in the social pack and you've moved up and they've moved down. I'll google Psychocybernetics. You can certainly improve as I said, but there are some thoughts we don't re…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:32 PM
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You made a difficult and correct decision, I am proud of you.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:23 PM
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I attempted to 'be a man' and get through it myself, and that didn't work. I read everything about psychology and any book I thought could help me, it didn't work. I tried to apply CBT to myself, I couldn't. I got lucky and got referred to the best university in my state who were doing a clinical trial and needed a control group, I am that control group, and they're treating me for free and giving me the best assistance, better than money could pay for I believe. I suggest you try to find a very…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:15 PM
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I've been there man. Sounds like you're insecure, and going off the story about you being fat and insecure for over a decade and especially during your years when you develop a sense of self, that'll hurt you. I avoided uni because of it too. The depression is your mind saying "nah, let's not do that, we're gonna be judged negatively, we're gonna fuck up" Don't be afraid to get some expert help, like an overqualified clinical psychologist. Someone who went to a great school, got honours, did a P…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:01 PM
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Nothing wrong with ending your interactions, I probably recommend it. Sex is cheap, you can get it from someone who doesn't actively steal from you/disrespect you. I am a big, huge, massive believer in only choosing to spend time with people who respect you. If you choose to spend time with people who disrepect you, how can you respect yourself? And if you can't respect yourself, how can you do anything? That's my logic and why I do not associate with people who are disrespectful.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:15 PM
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How can you even try to compare lifting/exercise with sitting down and pushing buttons? You have a finite amount of time in your life, in your youth, when you're healthy, try to at least make the most of it. Enjoy your down time sure, if that's gaming cool, but you better be earning that down time by putting in work in other areas of your life.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:38 AM
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I smoked for about 10 years off and on. What made me quit for 2 years now was I started exercising, then I was doing HIIT and I was absolutely dying from the cardio work. I accepted that if I wanted to improve my health (my body and mind) that I was stopping my improvement by smoking, which was actively working against me. So I just stopped smoking, smoked 2 cigarettes since then and both time it's made me feel sick and queezy. For a while I'd have a craving after an orgasm because I'd pavlovian…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:32 AM
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I think you're right but you're ignoring the power of alcohol on making people/her unable to follow a train of thought. Out of sight out of mind when you're drinking. As soon as you left her vision she forgot you existed. I'd blame alcohol here more than social proof, she'd have gotten with anyone who looked at her.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 01:38 PM
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Yeah I'll go with this. "OP doesn't seem to give a fuck about me enough to change from special plate to girlfriend so I'm going to try and make him jealous" good luck with that, special plate
/r/askTRP04/09/16 01:27 PM
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There's a really good post on trp (somewhere) about how they know their behaviour is wrong. They don't need you to tell them how to behave like respectful human beings. If you have to call her out and tell her what to do, it's because she's acting like a cunt on purpose. Like a dog you don't sit it down and explain why it's being a fuckwit, you withhold affection and ignore it until it realises negative action is responded to by negative feedback. Positive action is responded to by positive feed…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 09:50 AM
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Don't 'prod' with a 2nd/nth text after the first. She ignored you, and you need to be willing to accept that. If you prod, you're saying "I give a fuck about you (not replying/as a person/whatever)" and that is not good, why do you give a fuck about a plate? Worse still, why do you give a fuck about a plate who ignores you? So don't ever do that ever again. It's a good lesson to learn before you do something stupid like I've done before. Never send more than 1 text. If they "totally fell asleep"…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 09:44 AM
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Dont apologise for shit, you didn't do anything wrong and her problems are her problems. When I was young I was in a similar situation, I let the female managers walk all over me and eventually they fired me. Be a man, work like a man, they'll shit test you and you just keep making sales until they can't say anything to you anymore. After that they'll be less testing you and more threatened of you taking their job so they'll do anything to buddy up with you.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:35 AM
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Tell me about it. Is there a 'Men raised by feminists' place to unlearn this shit? Like sons weren't taken on vacations, sisters were, sisters were regarded as smarter (despite evidence), sisters were regarded as better, sisters given anything they wanted (that sons were not allowed.) Getting yelled at when you're sick, no dinner because Dad is late home from work. Just terrible. Bitch acts like nothing was wrong and we're meant to be cordial now and forever.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:09 AM
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Cool thread You find strength in knowing nothing matters Alphabrain finds strength in trying to leave a legacy Both aiming for the same result, gaining perspective to give you the energy to live by what you think is right Dont really think its necessary either of you bring the other to your side so long as youre happy with where youre at
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:54 AM
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I appreciate the effort but is there a simpler instruction set? Formatting on reddit sucks so it's not helping with a wall of numbered text.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 02:25 PM
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It's stupid how good this advice is. Confident. Good vibes. Carefree. You require attractive qualities (looks/status) to go with these but they'll get you where you want to go. And if you're a good TRP boy you'll be working on increasing your looks/status. I think a lot of things once you master all the theory can become mentally overwhelming until you figure out a simple process that you can follow that caters to all the theory.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 11:36 AM
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I have a thing for women who are in a good mood almost all the time. They're usually kind of airy fairy about some things, not all, but I enjoy spending time with them. That optimism they seem to carry is really magnetic. They also need to be attractive to me, not rude, take care of their health, and at least somewhat funny and intelligent. It depends whether you want a LTR or not, if you do want a LTR she would need to come with a good family - I realized you don't just marry the girl, you marr…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:00 PM
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You just made me realize probably the biggest accomplishment, what women hang their hat on, the most famous and beautiful women build their confidence off, is that they can get loads of cum inside them. Like I'm meant to be jealous of that and by extension jealous of them.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:37 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy. You invest X months or Y years and it becomes harder to walk away. Until you take the pill and practice it and realize how easy it is.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 11:23 PM
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If you were in a position of total power would you want to teach men to be competitive with you or good employees who follow orders gladly?
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:50 AM
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People would contact me with stupid shit far more than I would contact them. It's like an answering machine. Instead of telling everyone to go fuck themselves I just deleted it and let nature take its course.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 03:15 AM
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I know one girl like that, though Daddy turned off the free money when she had a job and moved out with her fiance and she got so petty and angry. She's only concerned with money and image and despite being pleasant face to face I know she's petty and cattish behind closed doors. Not a great person, not a bad person, but a person who wants lots of material things, holidays, cocktails, that sort of thing.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:37 AM
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Is this fucking serious? I want to be sick
/r/askTRP09/06/16 03:06 PM
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I like this. OP I and I think most people struggle with this problem. Sometimes ill slip for weeks. Sorry for you and your dad.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 04:11 PM
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Your dumb brain decided that bonding chemicals should form between you two since you spent a few days together fucking. For some reason you think your fuckbuddy is your girlfriend and you're jealous that she's getting other cock. You don't have any other options so you're putting all your eggs in her vaginabasket and it's making you act like a little bitch. If you don't want to be a little bitch, do some reading but also remember these points You wouldn't care about 1 girl if you had 15 more on …
/r/askTRP07/06/16 10:09 AM
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The fact this is -4 tells me this place has gone to shit
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:00 AM
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I don't know why you're contacting a person with drug and alcohol problems. Everything beyond that is unncessary words because you've already fucked up there. As for what she wants, who cares? Avoid her. Avoid the unlucky and unhappy.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:56 AM
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Now are you sure these women on bc are IN the sexual marketplace? and not just looking to settle down with betas? Youre saying they prefer feminem men for sex or FOR COMFORT AND SECURITY? That changes this whole post They wouldn't be on the pill if they weren't in the SMP. They're not looking for betas before they go on the pill, but they are when they start taking it, as a side-effect of the pill.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 11:10 PM
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Seems to have gotten a pretty hostile response, I think you're right that people don't like the idea that what they're doing might not 'work'. I like TRP because it's about truth. If the truth is that 6/10 women will dislike you because they're on the pill that's fine, I want to know that so I can understand why some women are cool towards me and some are not.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:15 PM
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TRP was integral on cutting my phone usage. Constantly texting, reading emails, social media, all of that had been normalized over the past decade or so. Now my phone is on silent unless I'm waiting for a call or text or email to come through and 3 important people in my family have ringers that bypass silent mode. I will give my full availability to the people who I love in my family. Other than that I check reddit while I take a dump.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 05:10 PM
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There is such a thing as analysing too much... She's not hungry, she doesn't like the taste, she wants to share it, who knows? If this is some test I'm going to call it quits with women. I don't need to be analysing every single mundane action for the rest of my life.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:30 PM
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Feel shit until you don't want to feel shit anymore. Start going to sleep and waking up on routine. Start exercising everyday, light cardio on the non-lifting days to keep yourself active. Get your vitamin d/sunlight. Socialize, go for a walk in the morning and say hello to people. Meditate. Eat good food, lots of that garbage makes you feel garbage. Align your thoughts with the here and now, the past is useless, all the lessons you think you'll learn from the past by focusing on it don't outwei…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 12:37 PM
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I've had this happen from girls who knew me back when. They think I'm the same shoulder to cry on. I escalate and if they rebuff I go radio silent. They want a beta orbitter, that's all. You don't have to pursue them for them to want you to be a beta orbitter. If you're not trying to game her you're probably not interested and can safely ignore until she wanders to another beta bob.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:48 PM
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Never let anyone guilt you into doing something you don't want to do. That is a truism for all of your life. You sound like you don't want to, so don't. If you do, hair grows back fast and it's not a big deal. You'll deal with comments for a while and you get to practice laughing and ignoring and holding frame by demonstrating confidence.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:46 PM
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I doubt anyone knows, it's all theoretical. I'll toss an opinion in the mix. If she's a slut you don't know you'll be the father. It's not passing on your genetics where doubt exists. When she acts submissive and goes to church and signals she's virtuous you see signals that you would be the father of the child. Additionally if you know she's a slut your mind anticipates the risk of disease which could lead to death in extreme circumstances, highly undesirable strategy for mating. Another would …
/r/askTRP30/05/16 01:49 PM
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Saying something = Entering her frame, showing her you think that's worthy of a response Saying nothing = She is not worthy of a response or attention I don't know the circumstances but I can't see how ignoring her is submissive unless you actually hurry up as per her instructions. An instructional response can set the tone you're not listening to orders but are giving them, e.g. "Relax" or "Shh", but I prefer just ignoring them if it's a text. Any reply gives them feels/validation/approval, the…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 02:36 PM
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I had two 28 year old women get visibly distressed hearing about a 28 year old man dating a 19 year old woman. It was the first time I'd witnessed it, and I know it won't be the last. It was embarrassing. I didn't argue it because what do I care? I said "If you say so" and let it be. It was really sad though. They were both 'happily' married and attractive women too.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 04:42 PM
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I noticed how a significant number of problems in my life, and the men in my families lives, were directly caused by women. I realised by minimizing dealing with them you Minimize their drama bullshit. I discovered that by minimizing time on them your value increased (power law of absence applied.) I discovered that there's nothing more important than your own health and goals, and that if you have them other people want to be around you - they will more often than not be unable to contribute to…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:00 PM
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After you cum tell her to get out of your place. If she's really into it, she'll love that degradation. But this is a very serious caveat: I find they don't really want to feel that bad, they just THINK THEY DO. Once they really experience feeling bad they relate feeling bad to you and they drop off cause you made them feel bad - even though they demanded it. The solution is to slowly introduce new words/behaviours one at a time, over different fuck sessions. If you do it slowly you'll discover …
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:42 AM
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This is not some Hollywood cliché. There is not one advantage to people knowing you have money or have come into more money. There's a number of disadvantages. It is a no brainer.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:31 AM
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Bail. Get her to dump you by you acting like a beta. Start crying infront of her asap. Seriously getting dumped by a loser is better than dumping then. She'll lose attraction to you if you start crying. I wish I'd known this in my past relationships I'd wanted to bail on.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:29 AM
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Same here. My first LTR was my best friend, we were gonna love each other forever I remember us both saying. I think we last spoke ten years ago. Words don't mean a Fucking thing. Ironically these are words. It's a bitter pill to swallow that words mean nothing cause beta boy innocent me truly believed in eternal love and all that Disney movie shit. Poor fuck. Now I sound bitter but it's just realistic.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:24 AM
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I went from skinnyfat to ottermode and suddenly I was funny and interesting and getting laid. I went from broke to having money and suddenly I was charming and interesting. It does fuck with your head because you remember the way they treated 'you' (the 'you' you identified with for so long) and that they've only started treating you better because you provide them with social proof because you're a better person to be seen with/to be with. I still havn't really come to terms with it. I prefer g…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 09:54 AM
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it's alright, I made other plans You did really well, passed with flying colours. She might cut communication because she wanted you to orbit her and you won't, but she'll come back if she's into you.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 09:48 AM
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The red pill is a metaphor for the truth. The truth is something you need to read about and digest over a period of time. Noone can tell you because it can't be summed up in a few short words. Reading might not be your thing, that's not good, cause all the information is written down. There's probably some youtube videos that delve into it, I'd google that if you prefer.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 09:39 AM
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I'd metitate. Chill out. Laugh and amplify next time it happens. It's not going to stop randomly, but it'll happen less if you just laugh and ignore it. They bully you because you let them bully you and/or acted beta when they first met. It'll take a long time to recalibrate with them, and the best method is to just laugh at them and not take them seriously. Don't get all agressive, that's beta as fuck.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 09:31 AM
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You need to read a lot and figure out what you want from her/from women. then she started sending me snaps of her with dumb snapchat filters. I took that as a win. What did you win though? Her attention? I want her to be thinking about me. I want her to still want my attention and want to please me. Ok yes. What did attention bring you? Validation? Why do you want or need validation? But if it's necessary to keep her around long term, I can force myself to basically ignore her. A long term frien…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 03:17 PM
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There's studies that show this right? I remember reading they begin with X% pair bonding power and X reduces with every subsequent mate, i.e. she feels the strongest for the first partner and it becomes less 'feels' for every subsequent partner. I can't find the source if anyone knows it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 03:00 PM
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Being lean in my experience
/r/askTRP22/05/16 12:15 AM
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Dude I feel weak and useless when I'm lifting 200kg deadlifts. I don't know how common that is, but there's never a point where I'm satisfied because I always believe I can do better/be stronger/focus more. It probably isn't the most healthy mindset but I'm just telling you how it is for me.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:54 AM
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Free social proof Fantastic result
/r/askTRP16/05/16 12:44 PM
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Combinations of; women are wonderful fallacy, tribalism, lack of critical thinking, inability to entertain thoughts they disagree with on merit, ad hominem fallacies. Even if you disagree with every thing you read here, you should be able to coherently articulate why and evidence it where necessary. This place isn't just a big opinion based on emotion, it's a combination of data and thousands of (hopefully) accurate case studies. If you're unwilling to engage with the cases that's fine, they're …
/r/askTRP12/05/16 04:44 AM
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Great post yo.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 04:23 AM
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How to win friends and influence people: Smile and ask questions. You don't actually have to give a shit, it's a means to an end. Combine that with the 48 laws and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 02:15 PM
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Ignoring them helps.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:24 PM
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those of us who choose to love these women later in life it's crazy this is real and not some trp satire/parody.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 08:29 AM
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Meditation is to your mind as exercise is to your body. When I stop doing it out of complacency there's not an immediate loss but over time my mind degrades. Then I pick up the mental weights and go for mental runs (so to speak) and it quickly improves things again. It's like being able to silence everything, sort out problems and plan solutions, be more objective, order things in importance. It's all very useful. I've still got this part of me that says "loll hurr that's for hippies what dumb s…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 12:00 PM
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Tattoos tell me she's going to be a problem. Took a while to figure that out, it came after reading TRP. Before then I just overlooked it "Oh you've got a tattoo? wow tell me about it thats super interesting..." ive said that a lot but more believably
/r/askTRP07/04/16 12:49 PM
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It's crazy how similar we all are. We adapt and then this situation arises where girls chase us down, they'll throw some compliments and shit tests your way, but ultimately they see you as how they knew you. I had one girl I orbited introduce me to her friend after I'd 'changed' and the friend was all over me and I could tell the planet I used to orbit couldn't understand it At one point she started calling me benjamin button because "i'd gone from old to some cool young guy" yeah thanks.... Any…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 12:32 PM
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those girls want to shove their mind cocks in your juicy, pink brain this is great, and accurate. Patrice Oneal said something like he doesn't do casual conversation if she doesn't do casual sex. That stuck with me so much.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 12:28 PM
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Birds of a feather dude. People are much like their friends.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 10:27 PM
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Yeah no baby and no more STD. Shell shocked though. My friend's got a kid to a slut now by accident. It happens frequently, it's not guaranteed but it can happen and over a long enough timespan if your sperm is good you'll knock someone up and question whether the sex was worth it.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:50 AM
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I liked sluts right up until I got an STD and a pregnancy. Now I don't like sluts.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:32 AM
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Population should be fine. Women still throw themselves at the top men and have their kids. If the top men don't want kids they'll change the laws that men don't have to pay for children anymore, the beta males will pay taxes to pay for the alphas women. Very similar to the circumstances now except if the alpha's opt-out they'll be incentivized to opt back in with risk-free paternity. Sweden's begun this approach and they're usually about 20 years 'ahead' of the West so it won't be too far off.
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 06:35 AM
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You're her beta orbiter puppy dog. You might get thrown a pity fuck one day, but a lot of the time you won't. Read and work out and stop with the oneitis. Ask yourself what she brings to your life for you to consider her your friend.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:18 AM
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I had a girl message me out of the blue the other day and I replied when I got around to it, maybe 12 hours later. She replied that it was obnoxious how long I took to reply to messages. I didn't reply again.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 06:05 AM
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They've all got a past man. From what you've given us she's a hot girl in a shitty country who still has traditional values, or at least values acting like she has traditional values. But shes done nothing wrong and you're going well so keep on doing what you're doing and as above said don't develop oneitis and remember it's just your turn and if she leaves you'll be better off without someone who doesn't worship you. But that hasn't happened so focus on the positive that you've got a good girl …
/r/askTRP20/03/16 10:10 AM
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Haha, What? I don't know what you're talking about. i.e. brush it off. what the fuck is this crazy person on? I don't deal with crazies. Then if she continues as you said she did Seriously back away. I'm going over there, stay away from me. If she follows I just leave cause there's no way I'm gonna win an argument against a womanlet when everyone is going to default to taking her side. If a womanlet is threatening you, you need to get bigger and establish a stronger identity, go lift. I guarante…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:54 PM
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I'm telling you from my own fuck ups. I didn't kiss close once and the attraction faded instantly. I can see you've had different experiences, but I still prefer my logic. If she's on a date with you, and she's attracted to you, she wants you to kiss her and touch her and make her feel wanted/sexy. There's no need to be some noble honourable guy who waits till the 2nd date or whatever you're thinking. Regarding the bus thing, in the past I probably would've done what you did and been like "Oh ca…
/r/askTRP13/03/16 01:37 PM
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Kiss close on the first date. If you don't you're basically screwed because she will think you're a pussy and/or you're not attracted to her. And yeah that's 2 girls, when you get to a sample size that's not effectively 0 you can start to worry. Also chill out man. Everybody has been rejected, every single guy, Elon Musk, Brad Pitt, whoever you can think of. It's meaningless. It's the guys who let it bother them that get stuck. And ease up (and by that I mean stop) contacting them after 2 non-re…
/r/askTRP13/03/16 01:01 PM
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I've got a theory. We evolved in small tribes so mate abundance was the exception, not the norm. If you lost your girl, that might be the only girl you'd ever have. It happens today, men get one girl or no girls their entire life, and we live in 'tribes' where there is abundance. So imagine how much worse it was with <100 person tribes. Rejection also signals to other women you're undesirable, causing a negative feedback loop that makes you more undesirable. This could be because of a number of …
/r/askTRP13/03/16 06:08 AM
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Great post man. Recently I've been in a productive routine, working hard, working out, but my confidence and direction has been clouded. I found myself concerned about what other people thought about me, and didn't think I'd reached their expectations of what they may have for me (and what I have on myself.) After a few days of feeling down I realised that I could spend my entire life trying to reach what I think people think, or what people do think, I should be. I could spend my whole life try…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 01:08 PM
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Since developing myself I can't think of anyone I've met and ghosted, except for women after a platenship has run its course, but I'm hardly going to continue orbiting after that well is tapped dry. All the people were from my past. Current people treat me well and I reciprocate that.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:46 PM
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That is weird as hell. I guess someone hates Chads. Also women (and men) notice when you shame a guy for exercising or eating healthy, and they think you're a complete bitch for doing it, and it makes the other guy look better cause now they know he makes other men jealous little bitches. Do not under any circumstance ever bitch about another guys exercise or diet, just ignore him and if someone actually wants you to comment on it just say 'good on him' and leave it at that.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:21 AM
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Gotta admit I'm a bit surprised that intelligence doesn't factor in at all. I thought that'd identify you as potential beta bux. Maybe only flaunting wealth identifies that. It's good to know I can say dumber and dumber things. Thinking is exhausting after a long day. I'm going pure neanderthal mode for a while.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:58 AM
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I like this theory. Keep you on your toes all the time and if you think everything is a shit test you can let go of everything.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:39 AM
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I get you didn't get laid, but I still think you won that war and got laid in the future. You didn't play into her bullshit or beg or plead, you did your thing and she lost her mind cause she couldn't control you.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:59 PM
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Got any examples? I might try that so long as I don't blow them off too hard that there's a chance of blow back.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:41 PM
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I hate phone calls because of this he said she said bullshit world. I love getting in writing what people are thinking. That shit is irrefutable. This guy has lost a lot really, and 'winning' won't even bring him back to even. No matter what he does he's lost status, money, time, sleep, lack of stress, respect. Having lots of plates sounds great but there are negative consequences. I think a lot of people overlook that and assume it won't happen to them. Then they're a baby daddy, or they've got…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:02 PM
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You have a lot to learn... I'll just list some things The 1% of you that wasn't convinced she fucked a guy on his boat overseas in 1 of the 14 days with him needs to change You didn't need to ask her because you knew or should have known You should not have asked her because it makes you look jealous and you will lose the free pussytap/pussywell you're extracting pussyjuice from
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:53 PM
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I just went grocery shopping and got IOI's from a few women despite just coming back from gardening covered in dirt and leaves. Valentines day makes them thirsty.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:09 AM
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I've had the same experience. They say "You're betraying her trust" ish things, I tell them she's sexually open and doesn't care, then they fuck me asap. It's like clockwork.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 12:38 PM
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I didn't specify whether the male reaction would be psychological or biological or a combination of. It would probably be psychological if something did happen, as the reactions to being a father or infertile are. It's also just a theory and because it's never been studied it'll remain that way, just something to think about.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 12:01 PM
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You ever wonder what it does to the male mind to cum inside a girl and not have her get pregnant? The first time it might write it off. The tenth time your mind has probably accepted you're infertile/inferior. Maybe the girl is barren. So you do the same to another girl, and another, and after having sex hundreds of times with a number of women, cumming inside them, and having no pregnancies, does the male mind change? Does it stop giving a shit about things because hey, you're obviously inferti…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:04 AM
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I'm definitely a nihilist. My frame is down, I used to be a supplicating beta who would think it was honorable to say yes to any request to any person I considered a friend/family. All of those "yes" answers got me into bullshit drama over and over again. I didn't change until discovering trp, about a year afterwards. It's hard to change who you've always been. I was that sure that it was some kind of code of honour (white knight programmed) to help anyone in need and do whatever was (and wasn't…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 01:17 PM
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Does an app or service exist that texts you from a chosen name? My anecdote is the same, a girl will notice your phone because they are always up in your shit, they'll notice it's from Rebecca or Lisa, and they instantly realize you have social proof.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 03:34 AM
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Girls if your guy is working out and having fun you need to TREAD CAREFULLY. That's really funny in a twisted way. Good luck to them. Mention that you are thinking about making a drastic change to your hair (ie getting a pixie cut or dying it crazy colors) . Actually pretty clever. I wouldn't disagree though, what do I care? If that's who you are that's cool, but I can't ignore the red flag.
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who said she needs to orgasm to get pregnant and give birth to a healthy child?
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Just say something like 'plans can change' and leave it at that. You don't have to tell her you're not interested in a relationship, even if she asks you a yes or no question you can avoid answering it. In the end it's likely she wants a relationship and she will hard next you now or in the future unless you can make her happy enough being a plate.
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Hinting at meeting her parents =/= escalating. I don't know what else wrong you did, but that's a big one. That's needy as fuck. Chad just fucks her and he actively tells her he will never meet her parents. Don't get angry when someone acts like a moron, just cut them from your life. Swearing and carrying on and apologising is very feminine. Never speak to her again and start becoming more stoic, control your emotions, read the sidebar.
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What are your thoughts about the different types of single moms and which are LTR material? I don't have any. If you have kids that's your choice, and I choose to avoid you. None are LTR material because of the first sentence. Obviously, not all single mothers are created equal. There is a world of difference between a never married woman with multiple kids (none of which have known paternity), and a widow who had children exclusively with her late husband. There's differences, but the same thin…
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"you are such a fucking pussy. I bet if someone tried to hit me you would just watch like a little girl. I'm sorry, but it's true. You are a total fucking bitch. You're weak, you're girly and you're not at a man at all." Do you next her? Yes if you respect yourself and value your time and don't want to associate with loser who will threaten your safety with trashy behaviour. That is so offensive, how could you ever forgive that or hope to be in the same vicinity as her? That is feral.
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