Depression phase is returning. Going back to Uni in a few weeks. What to do?

yellowmonkeyzx93 · 2016-09-10T10:32:01+00:00

Then a depression-esque phase hit.

..and..

What do I do?

Your old outlook or world view is crumbling away. That's why, it's normal for you to feel what you're feeling.

Somewhere I read or someone told me that.. "we think the world works this way, when how the world actually works is completely different." When you've internalized that knowledge and you've seen the light of day, there is no going back. When you've seen the Matrix for what it truly is.. lines of code beyond the illusions, you cannot live comfortably in your old reality knowing that much of what you believed and previously lived were lies.

You're going to either sink or swim. It's that simple. So, your choice.

It is like a game. From chess to our modern games, every game has its own rules and strategies. You cannot win if you do not understand the rules. It is the same. How can you be a better player and start winning when you don't get the premises in which the rules are based on?

Life is like that. It's divided into many many games. Getting women is another game too.

So, I'd suggest you learn the premise in which the rules are based on, learn the rules, learn to play better, practice and then start winning.

spurdosparade · 2016-09-10T16:41:40+00:00

Lift harder, there's no better medication for depression than the Brodin's Home.

PlansAndPlates · 2016-09-10T12:09:48+00:00

I've been there man. Sounds like you're insecure, and going off the story about you being fat and insecure for over a decade and especially during your years when you develop a sense of self, that'll hurt you.

I avoided uni because of it too.

The depression is your mind saying "nah, let's not do that, we're gonna be judged negatively, we're gonna fuck up"

Don't be afraid to get some expert help, like an overqualified clinical psychologist. Someone who went to a great school, got honours, did a PhD, the works.

If you're going to get help don't get helped by some random moron, get help from the smartest people who can really analyse you and assist.

randomimguracc · 2016-09-10T15:42:52+00:00

I used to get sad when I was LEAVING uni. Why? because its a magical fucking place. Girls are hornier than you, and they live just a few steps away. You're depressed because you're self conscious about something. Figure out what it is and fix it. If its physical, start working at it NOW. If it's mental, fake it until you make it.

Don't let these years pass you by. You'll regret it without a doubt. I missed the majority of one semester of fun freshman year because I was acting like a little bitch about a girl. Just one semester, and it still bothers me knowing how much poon and parties I missed out on.

MachiavelliTRP · 2016-09-10T23:07:03+00:00

Hey bro, going into second year too. I discovered TRP in June right after I finished uni and was back home. I was so excited to start the year again and start putting in practice everything that I had learned.

By the end of July this feeling of enthusiasm had subsided and I was back in the mental state of "what is the point" "I've already been categorised" "My friends won't accept my change"

When I realised I had fallen in this negative mental loop I went back and read the side-bar and my favourite posts in The Red Pill Handbook. I was reminded of what I wanted to change, why and most importantly how.

Go back to the basics and re-read the side-bar. Fuck your insecurities trying to take you back into your Beta comfort zone.

Title	Depression phase is returning. Going back to Uni in a few weeks. What to do?
Author	askerman97
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	September 10, 2016 10:19 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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