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yellowmonkeyzx93/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:59 PM
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yellowmonkeyzx93/r/ThankTRP20/08/16 02:46 PM
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You missed the part that aliens from beyond the milky way were involved.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/25 05:46 PM
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This is gold! Thank you for writing this.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/24 03:32 AM
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Male lions will kill or ward off other males that attempt to mate with their females. Happens with other species of animals too. You could let people walk over you if you like unless you care enough about your self esteem to walk away and have principles.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 03:40 PM
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Struggling with this, aye. No easy task, in the face of adversity and death.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 04:06 PM
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I think you feel like this from the lack of greater meaning in your life. Without a greater meaning to anchor your life and achievements on, your life would feel hallow and empty. To add on, what is your life's mission? What is your life's calling so great.. that you are the invisible summer in an endless winter? (to quote Camus). Once you find and align a meaning that resonates with you as an individual, some calling.. your emptiness will abide away. Stay strong!
/r/TheRedPill02/03/23 02:07 PM
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And when men ask women, women don't really tell the truth.. "Be more confident." Like how specifically? "Be more confident."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:21 PM
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In the way they know best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:40 PM
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There is a popular saying that is relevant: " Men conquer the world. Women conquer men." From looking at history, women want men who are men. And one thing interesting to note.. men don't ask women how to be a better man. Men ask men that. Similarly, women ask women how to be better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:05 PM
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The only positive outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:44 AM
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They have to improve themselves and be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:42 AM
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Suppose if I flip this to bitter men who are virgins? And, there.. we have our answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:41 AM
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By this implication of yohr words, it sounds as though people being born biologically have a choice into being born as the sex they want, when we don't really have an actual say in the matter. Granted, you're out of line, but you're right 🤣 (and yes, I am a man).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:47 AM
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Assuming you are the man, and can provide what women need but don't ever want to truly say.. but we men gotta figure it out.. oh yes, sweet baby Jesus.. women will do all sorts of things for their man. This is truth, and gonna preach it. Women desire to submit to a man that is utterly the ideal man. Seen it in action before. Been on both sides of aye and nay. Even if people don't agree with me or down vote me, I've seen it happen one too many times to discount it out of sheer isolated events.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:43 AM
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Rather than.. "ambition".. something that I've pondered. Given that I have the freedom to do anything in life, what would that be that fulfills me? With that in mind, I go out to achieve it. And if so doing so, I happen to climb the ladders of ambition and achieve success, then it will be in service to my fulfillment.. rather than yearning for the undeserved fruits of success. Essentially, aim at what fulfills you as an individual.. and the rest will fall into place through your efforts in achie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:40 AM
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To control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:17 AM
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It's not.. per say. I'm guessing women's attraction towards men is tempered and influenced by how she feels society would perceive. Getting an average guy that society back in yesteryears approves, pretty good. Now? Good luck. Still, we're all human beings with software that has remained relatively unchanged. Men will be men, and women will be women. Until that is allowed and encouraged, then society would be dooming.. all will suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:28 AM
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Honestly, attraction can't be negotiated. Yes, women should have empathy for sexless men but things aren't going to change just like that with a snap. Meaning, natural behaviour is what it is. It's as natural as breathing. Forcing one to breathe, over time.. we will resort back to a natural pace. Same with the desire for sex. If a person doesn't want it, they don't want it. Firstly, realize that sex is a want.. not a need. This is highly debatable, but considering the current situation, its bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:06 AM
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This is the most enlightening post I have read in years. It explains so much. (MUST ARCHIVE IT!!) Funny thing. When I was depressed years ago, I kept putting up brick walls.. obstacles.. excuses.. just to see who was strong enough.. People who cared enough to break down those walls to comfort me and get to me. Reading your article made me realise how eerily similar how women behave and some people with depression act, and you hit it with a perfect bullseye.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/22 01:12 AM
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If that's what you want, talk to people like men who know their craft. Expecting women to be divorced from their nature is like expecting summer in winter. It is not the default mode in which women operate. I am an not uninformed man, and I do understand your view. I do know as much as women seem to not make sense, it is their evolutionary nature that has ensured the survival of the human species. Like it or not, learning to master and talk with women is as much a life skill as handling your car…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 04:38 PM
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Women, like anything else in the world is to be mastered. It is like learning to be a better salesmen, to be a sportsman, to be a blacksmith, a programmer, an actor. All have rules and best practices. Being with women is no exception. The fact is we're getting freely given invaluable experience and advice from an experienced man. I was once told you can disregard experienced advice at your own painful expense. Would you?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 10:31 AM
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Outstanding post, OP. I'm relatively new to this. What's non-intentions or is there somewhere I can read up on it?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 04:08 AM
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"It is better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in war." ~ Eastern Asian proverb
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:39 AM
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I'd recommend the 48 Laws of Power.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 09:07 AM
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I enjoyed and appreciate your post. Solid observations, data and advice. And to those who have great women bosses, the exception doesn't invalidate the general norm. And great women bosses are still women in nature at the end of the day. Let's always remember that.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/21 04:42 AM
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Wow. Did your wife hurt you that badly? Jokes aside, I think you're projecting your less than desirable traits onto the mods. Sure they aren't perfect. The mods are amongst the best that I've seen.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 02:42 AM
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Totally agree with you, Whisper. While the existence and threat of Covid-19 is undeniable, the circumstances and how certain groups have reacted is suspicious. Big Pharma companies rushing vaccines in record time and saying its safe, but pulling all accountability by not assuming legal responsibility for the side effects of vaccines. The FDA, WHO and co banning, censoring and discrediting anything to do with non-vaccine treatments (eg: Ivermectin, Hydroxychloroquine, Common Sense etc.). Anything…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 02:53 AM
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I don't understand. Why do these women do what they do? Is their behaviour a mirror of their male equivalents or something dissimilar?
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 11:10 AM
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Then, you could open the floor ny starting to discuss about topics that matter to you for a change. To make it better, maybe frame it from his lenses. And if it doesn't work, at least you made it work. Peace out!
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 08:19 AM
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Then you need to grow up, friend. Yes, I used to believe the same as you do. Yet, you're being overly optimistic and naive, only setting yourself up for failure and disappointment in that department. (Although, I can admire and respect what you're going for). The real world doesn't work as you said. You yourself said you did that too. You didn't have to but you did. Wouldn't that mean you compromised on yourself? Plus, not everyone you meet shares your values. I know. I've been that.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 11:38 PM
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Learn to compartmentalize the people you have in your life. - Have people that you enjoy socializing with. - Have people that you enjoy doing interests or hobbies with. - Have friends or colleagues that help you level up.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 01:47 PM
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You have no purpose. That is why you are all over the place. Choose and forge your purpose, and you will make sure everything will fall in place. Else you will be forever like this till the end.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:01 AM
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For reading, there's "Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 03:23 PM
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The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. No other book I know touches on the eseence on what it means to be a man.
/r/MGTOW208/11/20 02:16 PM
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You don't have to have closure with the girl and for her. Have closure for yourself. Do it your own way that doesn't involve meeting, speaking or communicating with the girl. It'll save you plenty of headache.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:48 PM
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Put it this way: Its always better to be in a position of strength, than in a position of weakness.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:10 AM
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Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl. "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms— to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” ~ Viktor E. Frankl And another quote: "Each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible." ~ Viktor E. Frankl
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:40 PM
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Jeez, someone definitely has problems. Hope you have a nice day too!
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:17 PM
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Talking about in general. Like most men in general have higher sexual drives than women etc. That kind of jazz.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:08 PM
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I think so long as the modern lifestyle spreads, every woman will eventually go that way.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:29 AM
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My man, you've seen through the veil and went down the rabbit-hole. Things will get better, only if YOU make them better. Lift, read the sidebar, improve yourself, learn game, be financially independent, have a life mission and be outcome independent. There's billions of girls. Only one you. Do you want to be a king or be lumped in together with the other simps? You decide.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:14 AM
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Get a life mission and live it. When you're busy doing your own life's quest, you don't think about irrelevant stuff. There'll always be another woman. There's only one you.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:54 PM
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A friend once said that people are happy in misery. That applies.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 06:27 AM
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The man is solid. However, how is this book related?
/r/RedPillBooks24/06/20 12:13 AM
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Sounds quite uncanny like what Andrew Ryan believed from Bioshock.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 03:11 PM
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Her shyness is a reflection of your anxiety.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:40 PM
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You are the lighthouse, she is the ship at sea.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:35 AM
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Agreed. I wonder how did I ever missed out reading this book. There's an oath recited by an important individual part in the book that goes something like this: "I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man nor ask another man to live for mine." Its as TRP as it gets.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:35 PM
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Agreed. The events portrayed in the book reflects western countries uncannily and on point, its almost a scary read. Definitely by far a long Herculean read and worth it.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 12:46 PM
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Long story short, the red pill gives you the means and freedom to live your life on your own terms and choosing. Its up to you to decide for what raison d'etre. Remember, don't let your life revolve around women.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 08:18 AM
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TRP will emerge stronger than ever. We will build anew and better.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:01 PM
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You have a cynical way with words. Appreciate the pep talk. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:38 PM
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The purpose of life is a life of purpose, so someone wiser than us said. At least, that's what I'd like to believe. Perhaps you're right. Winning in life, and earning them, hope and being respected for who you are is such a wonderful feeling, I totally agree with you there. Yet, I don't want to be someone I am not. I don't want to do something I hate and lose myself, that gets people's respect. Yes, sometimes we have to do necessary things. That said, I don't want to live a lie of a life that I …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:41 PM
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Thanks man. I can relate to your experience. Thanks for sharing and kudos to you! You've been kind. Its not those things. I mean.. why live at all? If I wanted to live for those, I wouldn't be feeling like this. I'm grateful for what I do have.. nevertheless, I feel my life is empty. Sure, the red pill helped and I remember several members said somewhere that the red pill offered us the means to our own life's freedom. Yet, even if I'm there, somehow, life just feels empty. If at the end, we wil…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:03 PM
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Real men, when disillusioned with their society burn it to the ground and build a new fucking civilization in its place. You know.. as mad as it sounds, I'm beginning to think that makes some sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:54 PM
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I just started reading the first post itself and its gold I'm a fresh grad and I haven't started work yet as I wanted to know more what I was getting in before I did find a job. In all honesty, one of the best reads in a long time. Truly appreciate it. Seriously, you could write a book for this..
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:11 PM
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I get what you mean and agree. It's like a bad habit. A person just can't stop a bad habit immediately. A slow and sustainable progression away from her (through RP).. would be a better strategy.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 11:01 AM
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Demote her to plate status, at the very least. Go find other better prospects / go plate spinning. Not worth the disrespect from her. Worst case scenario, pull the plug.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:09 AM
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Who cares man? To quote All_Ads_Deceive.. Why are you focused on a pointless question rather than the fact you pussed out on fucking her? You had a low hanging fruit within easy reach and you didn't even TRY?? And to top it off, you're posing this question here?? I don't even know where to begin...
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:13 AM
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I think I first read about the Red Pill from Return of Kings. Was interested in the idea for a brief stint and googled it. Then left it for more than a year before I had some free time to explore the idea. Best move I ever did.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:26 AM
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One of them says she didn't mean to leave me and joins me in the pool. She asks "can I ask you a personal question," without hesitation, "sure". How often do you masturbate? An opportunity... I'm a little surprised, but acknowledge, "I do sometimes.".. That's it. We end up leaving, going out to eat, etc.. By the end of the night she bought me a drink at the bar and when we called it a night she kissed me on the cheek. ...that you blew. A girl you met two days suddenly asks you this topic and you…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:19 AM
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You don't coddle them. You give them the wings of independence and they will provide themselves with a better life.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:59 AM
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Yeah. Fucking hilarious. I mean, there are no silver magic bullets in life to problems. I don't understand why they don't understand that one very basic notion of life.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:14 PM
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Agree with you Dirkz. A friend told me.. make good mistakes.. not bad mistakes. It's the same with TRP or anything else in life.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 02:08 PM
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Yes, women do understand TRP innately. They just cannot and will not articulate it in words. I need a refresher. How come women "just cannot and will not articulate" TRP in words?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:28 PM
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There are drawbacks, practical and sentimental reasons. Firstly, you will have no one to rely on if should anything happen to you or you have an emergency. Secondly, having close friends or a circle of close friends is your social support, a net for you to bounce back from anything in life. Thirdly, there is no feeling like having a brotherhood with close male friends. Fourthly, you will have no stable friendships in your life. It's easier to retain rather than acquire new friends as new friends…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:24 PM
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I was curious and checked your account. It's about 2 years but not much activity. I'll safely assume you're new to the Red Pill. With that assumption, it makes clear sense why you've done over 100 cold approaches and you perceive it to be dystopian. It's not. Think of it the dating game as the ultimate free market. Visualize your basic supply and demand graph (read Rationale Male for more info). In that sense, whoever can meet that demand, wins, whether it be men or women. We're truly freer than…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 09:49 AM
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My question is, is my preference for female company and my lack of real male friendship down to me knowing what to expect from women and thus being more at ease around them, or the result of the fact that I've yet to find a solid core group of men to bond with? I think you haven't found a solid core group of men to bond with. On their part, women are more flaky when it comes to "loyalty" or "friendship".. Remember, you can't really have friendships with women. Simply because how we as men and ho…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 08:55 AM
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How do you pass comfort tests...?
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:29 AM
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Thanks for pointing the mistake. Appreciate it. Still new here.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:18 AM
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Agreed. When you believe you're worth it, you will have the courage to ask people favours. When you believe that, people believe you're worth helping and doing a favour for you. Overtime, keep doing it and people will be eager to help. Make the favours seem small (something that they can easily do) yet be very gracious when they've done it for you. Works for both men and women.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:09 PM
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Call cops and legal restraint. Don't stick your dick into crazy.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:07 PM
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Flip the script. Use silent treatment on her longer than she would. Then, go have fun with friends. Take pictures and be sure to post them somewhere she can see. Eventually, she'll stop her silent treatment. Then, continue to ignore her until she begs. She dares to do that to you because you have shown her she can do that. Show her that she has no power over you. Better yet, go plating.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:58 PM
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Quality men are a rare commodity and women have a limited window that they can bait them and modern women struggle because they have limited skills to keep them. This.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:45 PM
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I second this.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 07:04 AM
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Ignore and never give comfort. Or you can flip the script.. "You miss my cock, not me"
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:37 AM
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Thanks for reminding. Sometimes it slips.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:15 AM
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All women. Once you've gotten pass their inhibitions.. they are all the same. Trust me.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:22 AM
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Wow. You are one magnificent son of a gun. Nope. All women are potential nymphos. They just want the right man to bring that part out of them. Apparently, you are that right man (grins). Keep it up and enjoy the ride... literally.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:17 AM
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HARD FUCKING NEXT. She cheated on you. And you have to ask yourself.. why did she cheat on you? Simple. You were not worth it. You had little value. You gave her little tingles. You weren't alpha enough. So if I were you, I would start to improve myself again. There's a whole world of women waiting for you. Think towards the future and move on.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:23 AM
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Women are horribly intimidated by guys significantly more attractive than they are, which made picking up average chicks in my small area fucking awful. I'm just curious.. how come you're picking up average chicks? Just for fun or for the challenge because your SMV is relatively high for your area? Another thing, how do women respond when your SMV is way too high besides being intimidated? Does it make approaching easier or harder?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:36 PM
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Then deeper into the night I get hit with the "you used to be different, you used to care" while she is grinding on me to music she played She's probably shit-testing you and trying to drag you back to your old self. Secretly, she is unconsciously attracted to the new version of you. Plus, she probably regrets leaving you now she has seen how much you've improved. It's good news mate. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:28 PM
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Just pop your topic at Ask TRP. You'd be surprised. You won't get what you want if you don't ask or pursue it.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:23 PM
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It's a sign of submission and it shows your dominance.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:21 PM
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Yep. I second this, especially if your parents are pretty liberal.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:04 PM
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THIS
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:07 PM
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Ahh.. Sounds like he is a typical nice guy and you sound like you're either at the wall (about 30 years old) or post wall (31 years old and above). There could be many reasons why he didn't propose. Welcome.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:06 PM
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I think most of us were once in his shoes. So, I would be understanding in that sense and not laugh.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:04 PM
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The links have the books for download in pdf /epub form. Still, feel free to order Rollo's books. Exactly man. Glad you've seen the light. Usually, chicks will cheat and lie when you're weak for quite a duration. So, as long as you maintain your value consistently and giving your LTR the 3Ds (Dick, Direction and one more thing I can't remember right now..), women usually have little reason to cheat. If you falter a bit, it's alright. There are moments when everyone gets vulnerable and it is sexy…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:02 PM
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Then, you have to find your inner kid again. I was a natural leader, always energetic but eager to amuse myself and find fun shit to do. It was always about fun for me...just living in the moment, having groups of people with me just made it better THIS. You need to do this again. Always about your happiness, fulfillment, growth and fun.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:09 AM
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Alphas don't always have to be leaders. It is because of the characters of an alpha that make them suitable to be leaders. Just curious.. what made you a leader of different groups of people back then or why did you do it?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:52 AM
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Reminds me of Brune Wayne's ginger ale. Hahaha
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:48 AM
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Does culture affect game? Like.. would you game a women from the US the same way you would game a woman from Japan?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:43 AM
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Try watching.. "Who's Line Is It Anyway?.." Good stuff.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:41 AM
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Then a depression-esque phase hit. ..and.. What do I do? Your old outlook or world view is crumbling away. That's why, it's normal for you to feel what you're feeling. Somewhere I read or someone told me that.. "we think the world works this way, when how the world actually works is completely different." When you've internalized that knowledge and you've seen the light of day, there is no going back. When you've seen the Matrix for what it truly is.. lines of code beyond the illusions, you cann…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:32 AM
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I want to be a unicorn A unicorn is a perfect ideal. Perfection is subjective. Thus, perfection depends on a person's subjective preference, which changes over time. So, no.. there is no such thing as a unicorn, as there is no such thing as the perfect man for women.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:21 AM
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I love my man and I know he's happy, but it mentions a few times in the handbook that women can never love a man the way they expect. Why? If he is happy with you, he wouldn't have mentioned that women can never love a man the way they expect. In the Red Pill, we always have options. We expect the worst. We as men always make ourselves indispensable and valuable, not in the same way as women. As a result, we are always in high demand. There will always be beautiful women. However, to truly find …
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:11 AM
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Ah. I probably missed that. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:00 AM
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Sounds like the Coolidge Effect. You're not committed and not exclusive. So, go for it, man.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:43 AM
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Sounds like ASD blocks. I mean.. she did all that effort. You must be worth it.. maybe your escalation wasn't effective?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:39 AM
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She just asked if i work the sunday because... "I was gunna say lets go camp out ! I need my homie with me haha" Green flag. She invited you. Proceed to fuck her. You did great. You made yourself unavailable and showed that you had a life. I'd say you're seen by her as an alpha. Happy camping, you sly fox.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:54 AM
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Any advice for holding to my decision and not back tracking? It's a good call. Your education and career is way more important than your girlfriend. It'll definitely hurt. The best way is to break it off on your terms, quickly and with as little drama as possible. Don't ever give her the ammo to turn you into the bad guy. Just say... "I'm not feeling the love anymore.. etc."
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:33 AM
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I'll watch "Who's Line Is It Anyway" on Youtube.. It helps improve my Amused Mastery by learning to witty, improvise and "agree and amplify".. and for the laughs. Ryan and Wayne are damn good at that. Colin has his moments too.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:29 AM
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Yes OP. What MrBowlfish said is VERY IMPORTANT.. She is among 3.5 billion women (and growing).. you'll get more opportunities. She is not special at all. Trust us.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:26 AM
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I'll give you a headstart: Here is the Red Pill book collection which you can download for free. Enjoy.. https://www.reddit.com/r/redpillbooks/comments/3rk5zk/the_red_pill_mega_book_collection_v20/
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:25 AM
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she hasnt thrown out any and she seems pretty needy when I haven't done much yet Just want to add this. Might be a small red flag. When a woman is needy, means she could be little unstable emotionally (my own personal experience).. just proceed with caution and watch for other red flags. I suspect she'll drag you into the LTR very very soon to alleviate her own insecurity. For now, just continuing plating her and never be exclusive to her.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:21 AM
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I second this. You'll need to do stuff too like exercise, work, do your hobbies and meet your guy buddies. All the best. Always feel free to ask questions here if something really confuses you.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:17 AM
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Sweet.. I'll be sure to remember the idea. Still not used to Amused Mastery yet. Thank you for indulging me.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:09 AM
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Welcome. Your diagnosis is a classical case of Oneitis. Recommended to start Red Pill course. Take two times a day for 6 months (considering how severe your case is) and you'll see a speedy and full-recovery. (Btw, you're the classic nice guy... You must read "No More Mr. Nice Guy"..) I am just tired. Tired of being manipulated by women. Tired of giving my all to be just disappointed Then the Red Pill sounds just right for you. Many men here started out here and somehow or another, found their w…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:05 AM
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How did the girl(s) react when you said those lines...? Just really curious.. (especially... "You just want to get in my pants this weekend.")
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:56 AM
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Ah. I get it now. Thanks for explaining.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:46 AM
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Okay.. so if she has no impact on her emotions.. then what then? What does it mean? (I really want to understand this.)
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:34 AM
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I don't quite get it.. what's the reason for sending THAT.. ?? Would you explain?
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:03 AM
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Just say it's fine and pretend it didn't bother me If you say that.. she knows it bothered you. ..that it was uncalled for and ask why she thinks it was appropriated. Just call her out on her behaviour. And then move on to another topic. Show that you're above her nonsense.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:22 AM
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You go man (grins). Sometimes, it's so funny to see girls / women reaction when you troll to them. I tried one the other day. Like I told a girl I told a handsome man she likes, that she had 20 relationships. She flipped and went crazy. I laughed once she went away. Like someone once told me to compartmentalize my social circles. Let's say you have many social circles. The key is to talk the subjects you want to talk about with a particular social circle you know will respond best to that topic.…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:18 AM
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But having even a conversation with some women (if you even want to call it a conversation) is like talking to a child. It's not about your provider or sexual market value. Women are indeed approaching you.. which is a good thing. See.. your line of topics that you enjoy talking about could be politics, science, guns, cars, sports etc. All these topics are best talked with men. Try to find some topics that you can talk with women or find women that can talk at your level (not necessarily the sam…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:00 AM
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I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you're really really new. You could at least check. Sidebar has a lot of stuff (most of which you need to understand the Red Pill) in it.. one of which is the Red Pill handbook. Clear?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:21 PM
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Hence why this community exists. To provide that male solidarity.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:02 PM
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Hard next. She was being disrespectful to you. Why the fuck did you just let her do that fuck to you? You do not tell her. You just fucking hard next her and go find another woman. And don't do a mistake like that again. I don't even know where to begin pointing out your mistakes... I just checked your profile.. no wonder you're making obvious mistakes. Your account is new. Don't expect one size fits all answers from us. Right now.. just go read the sidebar material. Make good mistakes. Not bad …
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:28 AM
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I'm not sure myself. It's not to say most fathers don't give advice. There are things to consider like sons wanting to defy their own father and make their own mark in life. So, sometimes, fathers do give advice, but sons don't listen. However, I personally think this is bad if a father doesn't give advice to his sons. If a father doesn't give advice to his sons, then they'll end up listening to a woman (which turns them into nice guys in the first place.)
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:25 AM
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If he said it convincingly and there was a good reason to justify it.. then I would listen (especially since he was one hell of a successful man, which he is today. A natural alpha.. however a bad father).
/r/askTRP08/09/16 11:01 AM
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'Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.' — George Carlin Just acknowledge that person's opinion and stay the hell far away from them. You always have the right not to explain anything to a person you don't feel worthy of getting an explanation from you. "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a great book. However, it never teaches you how to kiss ass or be a sycophant. If that's what you're going to do, then you're doomed to fa…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:59 AM
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If I had a son.. the things I would tell him... I wouldn't say.. "Never love a woman with all your heart, it always ends badly.." If I say something, I'll have to justify why I said it.. so I'd rather just ease him into the Red Pill. In short, there is better advice to give to your future son.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:54 AM
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What do you mean by floated..? If you haven't read anything from the side bar at all.. whatever we're going to tell you to do will eventually fail. Your account is still very new btw. It's like you're imitating the actions of a great actor without understanding and possessing the skills and value needed. Come back after you've read through some material there, provided you're serious.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:51 AM
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I'll be frank.. if you're going for a 5/10 babe.. it's going to reflect on your value. The hotter women will think your value is 5/10.. So no.. Spend more time with higher status people and increase your SMV. Then you'll see women come to you like moths to the flame.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:48 AM
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a) Set S.M.A.R.T goals Specific: It must be something very specific and not vague. Ex: 40 laps in the swimming pool. Measurable: You must be able to measure progress of your habits or goals. Ex: Viewer counts for blogs / subscribers, how much money you're earning, how many sets you've done for lifting etc. Actionable: It must be something that you can take action. Realistic: Of course, you can't expect to make 1 million dollars in 1 minute. Time-based: You need to have time goals to promote a se…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:38 AM
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Thanks mate. Will do. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 08:29 AM
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The " life is short" people are the ones who stop trying I disagree. It makes you realize how little and precious life is. It makes you want to spend it all the more wiser and fuller. In that, this idea has helped me through life.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 08:29 AM
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I agree. We have no else but ourselves who will truly realize the sacrifices we ourselves make. I know we can duke it alone in life.. yet I know how much of a difference a father figure can make. I know how much of a difference asking the right people for help. So, I appreciate the words you've said to me. With you guys, no one here has to go through life unaided.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 08:28 AM
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Noted. I'll keep on fighting. There's saying I read in a book. It takes courage to stand alone. It takes even greater courage to ask for help. Everyone here helped me for a while when I needed it the most. Sometimes, I tell myself, strangers make better friends than real friends. I've read online how self-centered, selfish and negative Red Pillers are. However, here I see differently. The Red Pill is my brotherhood that I've yearn to find and join. Again, thank you and I'll repeat the sayings / …
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:16 AM
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Yup. I agree that less water makes people lethargic. I keep telling people, less coffee and sports drinks. More water, fruits and exercise. Another reason I drink water is because I know how damaging alcohol is. At least, when I drink that much water, I'll be fresh in the morning after I sleep. However, max is two bottles of water for me. I read somewhere that overdrinking water can induce "water intoxication".. think alcohol intoxication except much milder.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:12 AM
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I'm not OP.. I have a curious question though.. How does one train or prepare for that kind of marathon with that many women simultaneously?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:06 AM
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"There is only one woman in the world. One woman, with many faces." ~ Nikos Kazantzakis It's not clear cut btw. Generally speaking, you need to observe a woman's baseline. How does she behave (not talk), what she wears and who she hangs out with. That should give you a generally accurate picture. Rule of thumb, however.. you'd want to consider all women as potential sluts. Next, it depends on the situation. Women know how to use image. One moment she could look like the no-nonsense career woman …
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:04 AM
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"unconditionally" Translation.. "..with Terms and conditions applicable."
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:59 AM
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I found that the people around me cope with this idea of being alone with drugs and alcohol. Stay away from drugs and alcohol. It can destroy your body's health. People always want an escape from life. So they turn to drugs and booze, not wanting to fully confront reality. When you fully immerse yourself in reality and conquer it, that's when life begins to change for you. You do what you gotta do to make your life the way you want it to be.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:58 AM
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Thank you. Your comment was the most informative of them all. Appreciate your effort. I do have two life quotes.. so thanks for reminding me. ..Unbeatable Mind, I'm going to place this on my reading list. Again, thanks. Recognize that any challenge you have been presented with, even if the challenge is some bullshit hardship you shouldn't have to endure, is a chance for you to prove that you're better than everyone else and can handle it without letting it break you. Best thing I've heard in a l…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:53 AM
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Thanks man!! Heard it before though.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:49 AM
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Thanks buddy. I have the same view. Someone once told me.. if you have to make a decision.. choose the path that will give a story worth telling for a lifetime. Will do. I make my own luck in life.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:48 AM
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Thank you. This made my morning. Reminds me of that quote from Rocky.. "Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. Tha…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:44 AM
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Thanks, man. I'll keep that picture in mind.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:42 AM
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She's damaged goods. Best to find another woman. Don't ever waste your time dealing with her emotional or life baggage.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 05:05 PM
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a temporary detour, a hurdle, something to work through without losing sight of your goal. ..and No Zero Days This. I'll remember them for life. Thank you.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 05:02 PM
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Yes. It's a real struggle. My shitty friends were pulling me down in life. So, it's better I go off alone. Hurts like hell.. though I know it's for the better.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:50 PM
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It's pretty good actually. Just checked it out. Thanks. One way I cope is by getting a full bottle of water or two and drinking it (at night of course to end the day, if its really bad). It's really therapeutic for me.. for some strange reason. We all have ways to cope..
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:48 PM
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That's been tough for me. I've read the Red Pill and I now understand how important discipline is. I'll have another go again. Thanks mate for reminding. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:45 PM
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Ah. That sounds like good idea. Like today, I decided to ask you guys here at the Red Pill (or to vent). I embraced the Red Pill about 2 months now (how my life has changed...) Ever since then, I've cut out many people from my life (they were of little value.. and they weren't going anywhere in their own lives).. I usually vent to them. So nowadays, I'm usually duking out my problems on my own. Have handled them well.. till today. So, turning to you guys for a while for advice. Means a heck lot …
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:41 PM
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also, every day comes to an end. the next day is different from before. Thanks man. I think the same too. However, things in my life are been tougher on me. I can't afford to wait for the next day. I do like what you said about it being a bad hour and I can change it / make it better. Will try the 15 minutes mediation thing.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:35 PM
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Count to five and move, even if it seems an atrociously small step. Then repeat. Hell - count to 5 again and again if you need to. But you MUST keep moving. THIS. Thank you. Appreciate your advice. I'm gonna use it to keep going.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:33 PM
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Try this. Works for me. I think to myself.. life can be short and it passes fast without us realizing sometimes. I don't believe so much in living for the present. It's poorly worded advice. Rather, I believe in fully realizing our presence in the moments in our lives. Dance like this is the last dance you're going to have. Breathe like this is your last breathe. Live as though today is your last day. It helps when I saw people pass away in my life. It shook me out of my shell to not waste anymo…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:21 PM
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Thank you. I understand about changing up my routine. I mean.. what do you do on down days to get back up? I don't get it.. how does telling myself "how fucking awesome I am".. help?
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:14 PM
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You probably have to reset yourself. First, soft-next or ghost her for quite some time. Probably a few weeks or a month. Go do stuff and see other people. DO NOT EXPLAIN YOURSELF. Have options. You're having beta behaviour because you're putting her on a pedestal. Don't answer her calls or messages. Let her hamster work itself. You'll restore your status as an alpha in her mind. Maintain your frame by not getting overworked about what girls say or think. You are the world. You are the prize. Tha…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:44 PM
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But suddenly she told me that didn’t want a relationship right now but she would love to keep "dating" me, and we agreed on exclusivity. Never agree to exclusivity. Just say, things are good. We'll see how it goes. Then, continue like normal. The problem is that this week she has an important exam, and when she is stressed or unhappy she likes to be alone, so she is pushing me away. And I didn’t took it right. I think that was your mistake. Telling it frankly. If it's something like exams or urg…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:30 PM
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Ahhh.. Hahaha.. Aite. Good advice btw.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 03:11 PM
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Just curious.. did you purposely spell habits as "habbits"..? Is there a reason behind it?
/r/askTRP05/09/16 02:57 PM
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You have to live for yourself. First, foremost and always. You can start by asking yourself.. what do you want to do with your life? Live a life of purpose and meaning on your own terms by defining what you want from it and choosing to get it , no matter what (not even excuses from yourself.)
/r/askTRP05/09/16 02:54 PM
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Lifting Read and do things (interests or hobbies). It makes you an interesting person that people will be interested in knowing. Travel Have a great career Learn to dress with style Learn to manage your finances Build your social life and circles. Have a reason for living. Have the courage to pursue your life without fear because we all only have one life. Make it bloody count.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:35 AM
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The only constant in life is change. Heck, by applying the Red Pill, our personality has changed. So, it's pretty near the mark. How can I become the type of person that pretty girls like? Isn't that framing the claim to improve oneself by placing women on the pedestal? It doesn't. You can be your person and still be the type of person that people (including pretty girls) like. You go out and achieve success in all aspects in your life on your terms and people would respect you more rather than …
/r/askTRP05/09/16 09:31 AM
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She knows you'll be looking. Ignore her new photos. Let her contact you. Go live your life. If she doesn't call or text, then find a new girl.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 07:51 AM
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Always remember your time is more precious than women.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 02:12 AM
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One man's meat is another man's poison.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:56 AM
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Soft next for a while. While you're at it, go see your other plates. Wait till she replies. Do not contact her AT ALL. When you don't contact her, it lets her know you have options beyond her and whether she is in your life or not, doesn't matter one bit to you.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 01:53 AM
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Neither. The satisfying and rewarding life is the most superior.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:55 AM
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Why the hell do you want to live a mediocre life? Let me ask you a simple question. I assume you're constantly playing video games Would you buy a mediocre video game to play or would you rather buy a kick-ass fuck yeah hell yeah video game? So, same logic. Would you rather have a mediocre life or an excellent life? Nothing comes easy in life. Everything is hard. Things are only easy because of your relative competency towards those activities you perceive to be easy. Know that you will always h…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 07:07 PM
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'Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men' — John F. Kennedy. In short, do not want easy lives. Instead, become stronger men. Women's hypergamy is what has sustained humanity's survival from past till present. The best and strongest genes get passed down. It is a successful process of evolution. There is no way to stop something preserved as part of humanity's instincts. Ending hypergamy will be like stopping the Olympics because there are better athletes than you are. This stops comp…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 06:40 PM
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The end justifies the means.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:06 PM
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Everyone has bad days. The trick is to tell yourself that bad days happen and you'll get pass them. Stick with your routine. Do less if you have to. What matters is you continue with your routine. A teacher told me once.. "Success breeds success." If you know weed will screw you up.. then stay away from it. Better to go get some rest or do other healthier activities to relax. If whatever you do screws you and your next day, that is not a good activity.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:36 AM
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See your parents. Are they happier and healthier? See the rest of people who are married. Are they happier and healthier? Besides, people tend to lie when being interviews for such surveys.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:12 AM
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Introversion and extroversion are two extremes. Some people will incline to introversion. Others towards extroversion. Take myself for example. I value my time and I do not normally enjoy the company of people that I find is a waste of my time. Meanwhile, when I want to talk to people, I'll be legitimately having a good time enjoying myself. Then people tell me.. "Wow, you're an extrovert". The funny thing is people seldom know me as an introvert. The irony is.. the situation will determine the …
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:02 AM
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It doesn't. A man with game will always be a man with game. All women will know.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:53 AM
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Soft-next or ignore for a while. You want to be above her nonsense and you don't want to tolerate her behaviour. Why reward her with your attention for doing stupid stuff? Don't worry. If she's into you, she'll message again.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:51 AM
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Sounds good to me honestly. Dying single and uncommitted sounds like paradise. Either way, I get what I want in life.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:41 AM
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I'll answer a few questions.. (1) Fight Club is superb. A must watch. Not going to spoil it by telling. (3) This opinion reflects my personal view and not the group's. Trump is powerful for many reasons based on my own understanding. One is that he has no political background unlike Hilary. As I understand, people in America do not like politicians because of the negative image portrayed of being shifty and manipulative. Another reason is his political incorrectness. He is perceived to earnestly…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 02:20 PM
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Is it detrimental to have a mindset like this? Not at all. Women come and go. It's always a must to have options.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:27 AM
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My criteria for a wife.. Intelligent Sincere Beautiful, healthy and fit. Must be younger than me. Capable and hardworking Needs to grow herself as a person. Needs to have her own life. Has some similar interests with me. Similar personality with me (in some regards.)
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:10 AM
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Evolution. Only the best traits get passed down.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:21 AM
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She won't do anything for him anymore. Because he is not the alpha. If you ask a woman to do anything for him, it kills the desire and attraction she felt for him. Which is more genuine and desirable? A woman and alpha male fuck because they instinctively know they want each or because the man asks politely for her to be fucked.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:20 AM
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Introduce him to the Red Pill. He'll need it. Leave him. As much as you want to help him, he has to learn to help himself. It was a huge mistake on his part for letting you turn him into the former shell of a man. By leaving him, you will destroy him. From there, when he is at rock bottom, he will either sink or swim. This is that time for change that will shake him back to reality. He will rise again or fall for good.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:18 AM
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Any advice for pursuing this? Why settle for less? Why don't you lift and change your life for the better instead of pursuing fat women?
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:52 AM
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Firstly, welcome to the Red Pill. Glad that you want to start early. You'll be one hell of a man few years down the road. You can be RedPill without the sex. Being a man isn't about notching up how many times you've done it with women. It's more than that. It involves your entire life. The sex is just one tiny part of it. So, take the time to read the stuff at the sidebar. Then as you're reading, you can apply Red Pill knowledge when appropriate in your life.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:49 AM
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Completely agree. Besides Red Pill books, one book that changed my life's outlook was that book. It was really damn amazing.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:05 PM
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Good advice. Upvote.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:33 PM
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"The Old Man and the Sea" is indeed an amazing book. I highly recommend it. Completely agree. It's really an inspiring man's book. I wish I came across this book when I was younger though. I like how the old man fought on, even when the odds were grim.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:31 PM
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Suggest a better and more affordable alternative sushi joint (women don't think about cost, they just spend money like fish drinking water.) Safest is to go Dutch. Never pay for the girl. If she wants to pay for the both of you, sure, accept it (denotes your higher value relative to her)
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:13 PM
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Besides the side-bar, I recommend a few other books... (I've just started reading Psycho-Cybernetics, however it was highly recommended to me by someone I highly respect.) "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl "Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience" by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi "Lean Startup" by Eric Ries "Psycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz "The Old Man and the Sea" by Ernest Hemingway There are plenty of other books too, some not from the side bar. Give yourself the freedom to read m…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:12 PM
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You have time now. Don't worry about not being a giant success now. Success doesn't come instantly. It's like an avalanche. It starts small from a small rolling snowball and then grows incrementally larger till it becomes a force of nature. That will be you, someday. For the moment, you haven't reached the prime of your life.. here's what you can do. Lift and workout. Social skills / Game (as you've pointed out) Financial income Financial independence (freedom; you'll need some income to sustain…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:03 AM
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Makes sense when you explained it. How old are you? I could give relevant advice to you.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:49 AM
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The words and actions of either great or mediocre parents reflect themselves. Long story short.. the advice your parents gave you is a reflection of their life experiences and upbringing. It's their solipsism. It bears little understanding of what will actually benefit you. In my experience, take everything people say including parents with a pinch of salt. You need to learn and test what advice makes sense and what doesn't.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:26 AM
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Do not apologize. (It'll make you look weak). Go make new friends.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:04 PM
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Ahhh.. Thank you for explaining. I got it wrong all this time. So, besides ignoring.. what are my other options? Do I just say okay and move on to another topic?
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:57 PM
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It's a more polite way of saying shit test. I never liked say that word. So, I prefer using fitness test.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:24 PM
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I find it helps to pause for a few seconds. This gives you time to act and think of a suitable response rather than immediately reacting. Fitness tests are usually contextual. Therefore, there's no neutral or general answer. You'll have to think and prep for a few common scenarios. Another way is to learn from standup comedians, read a lot to improve your vocab and polish your conversational skills. There's no other way around it. It'll keep you on your toes and you'll be all the better for it.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:21 AM
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Try your local parks, gyms, bookstores, grocery stores, classes (martial arts, painting etc.) A lot of the women you meet in bars are a certain type. You'll be meeting different types of women in different areas or settings. Alternatively, you can try taking a degree. University will always be the best place to get women.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:56 PM
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Relatively, his height and the foreigner effect will multiply his attractiveness with women in those countries I mentioned. Just giving advice, it's ultimately his choice to listen to what we give. I don't understand what he is complaining about to be honest. He seems to have learned helplessness. I'm about 5'6. I'm not from the United States too (in Asia, yet I'm doing good too). I believe it's all about our frame of mind.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:46 PM
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Giving men false hope? We tell men the non-sugar coated hard truth. We tell them if you want to get anywhere in life, you have to workout, learn game and pursue your own life's goals. That's giving men false hope? I think you have a different idea of false hope than we do here. If your height is an issue, you can go to countries where women generally have shorter average height. You'll be relatively more successful. Honestly speaking.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:17 PM
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Try Google some topic then add Red Pill.. Here's a link. Enjoy: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ip3d0/breaking_up_is_easy_to_do/
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:18 AM
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Read 48 Laws of Power and How to Influence People and Win Friends.. good stuff there.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:17 AM
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What's the justification for it?
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:45 AM
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If you don't feel like you're up to your best game, just get some rest and plan for another day. We all have days like that. Give yourself some time to be by yourself and to do what you want do for a while.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:37 AM
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Say.. "I understand where you're coming from. I'll think about it." You acknowledge her and you give a vague answer (and don't give a bloody response btw Show it through your actions). Then you move on from that topic and continue as you usually do (hang-out and escalate as pointed out by Apexk9. I don't agree with just plain ignoring though..). Acknowledging something is not the same as accepting it. It's like you can acknowledge a political view you do not accept. Something like that. Usually.…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:38 PM
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Is she in your social media list? If she is.. that's your best bet of "showing" it to her that you're seeing other girls. Not really. Like you said, you weren't at the top of your game that day. So, give yourself more opportunities. Cheers.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:34 PM
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"Hey I had a really fun time on Wednesday and you're a great guy but I'm not really looking for anything serious right now. I don't want to lead you on so I don't think it would be a good idea to go out again." I'm not sure about this. I get the feeling that she didn't enjoy it. So, I think she's just being polite to you. If she enjoyed the time with you, she would have be excited to go with you the next round. There's no alternatives too (like, she can decline it this round and suggest another …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:24 PM
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While back.. someone wrote after Beta males.. there were two distinct types of males. One is the Alpha male. Another is the Sigma male. The Sigma male was known as the loner wolf. It did not play the same game as Alphas did (in that it seldom participated in it's local social scene proactively as Alphas did.) Moreover, it played the game by it's own rules. Sigmas reject certain rules in society they find detestable. In that sense, the Joker fits the bill very very closely. Meanwhile, Batman.. ca…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:12 PM
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What was your decision?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 10:29 AM
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That's an excellent start. Sometimes, we all need some encouragement to go forward. Remember.. if you want people to respect you, you have to respect yourself the most. Place more emphasis on your needs. I'm not saying be very selfish. Invest into yourself more. Invest into others a little that gets you high returns. For example, I can get certain stuff easily because I have sources. Then, if anyone needs anything, I can give it to them to those who really need it. Relatively, it was low effort …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 09:22 AM
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Women prefer experience. Don't worry. Young girls are alright with guys without experience as long as they are alpha material. Yup direpeltth said it better than I could ever phrase it.. They don't care about how many women you've fucked. They just care about how many women want to fuck you at any given time. Some tips. Never reveal the true number of women you've fucked. Be vague about it. Like a few, several, some, a lot. You've done way too many. Just smile and laugh like you've seen the worl…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 09:12 AM
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Be an example. People will gravitate towards you and wonder how you did it. When they ask, that's when you tell (or keep it a secret if you know they don't have the stuff for it). If not, don't bother spending your time convincing them. Always place yourself first before others at your discretion of course.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:13 AM
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Hey. Good for you for starting early. You'll be one hell of a catch later on in life (give it 4-5 years). The same rules generally apply (though for your age, I recommend getting more "experience" (if you know what I mean), raising your SMV, deciding what career you want to have and learning how to achieve financial freedom and more. Next, talk to people. Sharpen your speaking skills. Be sociable. Talk to everyone (doesn't matter who). Knowing how to talk with people in life will get you further…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:11 AM
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Not really. It's possible that some women like the idea of taking care of a real alpha. It brings out the mothering / nurturing instinct. Again.. for some women only. Things happen. Use Mark Manson's vulnerability idea by being honest. Just say you're hospitalized or resting and won't be able to do anything for a while. Then say, you're welcome to visit.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:34 AM
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It's a reflection of your insecurity of needing to be validated in getting a girl or not being alone. You have to work on your life first. When you have your life altogether, you won't feel this feeling. Women are just hobbies. They are not your priority in life. Your priority in life is to be the best man you can be while pursuing your life's mission. Take Batman for example (I know he is a fictional character so bear with me). He never made women his goal in life. He made his mission to defend…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:21 AM
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I don't hate politics. It is what it is. It is like money. It is what it is. Women are what they are. You have to understand.. the female imperative does what it takes to ensure that genes are passed down and the human species continues. It's not pretty and it's ruthless. However, that's what worked in the past and even today. However, we are not completely our biological imperatives. My point is.. learn the rules of the game and play it better. It can be a win-win situation for both men and wom…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 01:17 AM
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..some cleaver t shirts A cleaver is a bloody big butcher's knife that is sharp. Hahaha. I like to laugh when I can. I hope you see the joke now.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:14 PM
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HELL YEAH MAN. It just gave the Joker his uncanny character. He likes his laughs. And the clapping scene when he was jailed. That was improvised too. I like that both Batman and Joker lived for a greater purpose than women. Both were alphas in their own right (you might argue there were Sigmas.) My favourite will always be the interrogation scene where the Joker said.. "Don't talk like one of them. You're not! Even if you'd like to be. To them, you're just a freak, like me! They need you right n…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:11 PM
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Adding a personal room for your work and just for yourself is IMPORTANT. Highly recommended to OP too.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:04 PM
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I think you what you need is a challenge. It's not weakness you feel. It's boredom. Your harem are just too easy. On the other hand, tackling and managing your boss would be one heck of a challenge that might suit you. I think you're already crushing on her. It's a tough call, however. Red Pill guidelines say don't date or see women at work. She can use sexual harassment charges on you or who knows what else. Ultimately, choice is yours.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:00 PM
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DAMN MAN..!!! Those were some scars you got there.. Hahahahahaha. I'll be remembering your story for sure. I was watching because there are a lot of Red Pill lessons there (and because damn.. Heath Ledger knew out how to be The Joker)
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:54 PM
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I have some cleaver t shirts I often get complimented at, I should be using it asap. Those t-shirts probably have some sharp wit. Literally. Hahaha.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:41 PM
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Thanks. Spur of the moment thing actually. Was rewatching the scene where Batman was interrogating the Joker. If you watch, the Joker was keeping his cool while Batman actually lost his cool. It made the Joker seem even more.. attractive (and collected). He was actually enjoying himself.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:39 PM
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It's normal.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:20 PM
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Smile and laugh. (Think a bit like the Joker) Imagine him as a small boy. You see, when you smile and laugh, it's high value behaviour. First, you're enjoying yourself as his expense. Second, you're humouring him (it's like you know your little nephew or niece who does something and you laugh to give him or her approval?). Third, you're showing the people around you that you're not affected by his behaviour. In fact, you're actually enjoying yourself (strong social proof.) If the bastard decides…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:13 PM
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If it were me, I would stay with feet pointing out. Firstly, it makes you seem less invested into the conversation relative to the girl. In fact, when you talk, make your body face away from the woman while your face is facing towards her. See, relatively, she is placing more effort into you rather than what you seem to be giving to her. It's high value behaviour. You can then either: Continue with the conversation and see where it goes (this is pretty good if you want a challenge.) Hijack the c…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:05 PM
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Thank you. I learned it from somewhere I read. I wish I'd remember where. Corrected the spelling error.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:00 PM
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It's a fancy word that means to reflect or introspect in our lives. By reflecting.. it creates the self-awareness necessary for an individual to evaluate his life and thus take steps towards the right direction. If a person does not know what is wrong with one's life, how can one actually take the steps towards the right direction? Edit: Alternatively, you can do the actual act of mediation. It's good too. Take a few minutes to clear your mind. Kinda like you shutdown your laptop and restart. Ha…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:59 PM
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"Thank you. I like what I'm seeing too" (grins) "Is that what you always say to men you like? (tsk) Gotta try something better.." (grins) Edit: Spelling mistake. Corrected.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 11:22 AM
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Hmmm.. you probably have to tone down your oral game. Though you're excellent at oral, think about it this way. Oral should never be your main. Rather, it should complement good fucking skills. Furthermore, no matter how good you are at oral, you have to realize that you're doing the work and you're not getting any pleasure while your lady is. Try and experiment. See what works.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:39 AM
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I got it in my mind that i want my junk talked about too, or remembered at least. I think it's because you used too much oral game. Improve your actual bedsheet dancing skills, and women will talk more about your outstanding masculine attribute even more.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:06 AM
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Nope. Period.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:04 AM
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You're rock bottom now. That's something good. It can't get any worse. You have to ask yourself.. what do you want from life? Now imagine that reality. Give yourself that opportunity to really imagine. What if you had everything in your life? Now, come to back to reality. A friend told me that how we think the world should work and how the world actually works are two different things. We get upset because we think the world should work in our idealized way and thus, so we based the actions that…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:20 AM
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He has a strong point. Trust me. I've seen people with no social media with such a rich life and people want to know them. People will listen to people like that. Social media is for people who lack self esteem. It's simply a validation tool. True RP doesn't give a fuck about trying to get views or likes. It's better to casually share your life experiences over conversation today. Totally agree with dregofsociety. As much as it is a validation tool, it is nevertheless a useful tool for us to use…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:52 AM
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We are just individuals. In short, there is nothing we can truly do as individuals to stem this decline. It will take an aware and coherently united society to stop this decline. However, I'm a cynic (wasn't always like that.). The world is as it is because of the self-interests of each and every individual. On an individual level, all we can do is be aware of it. From there, three paths open. One path is to do as we like. Another path is to slow or turn back this decline. The other path is to r…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:18 AM
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I recommend you read the side bar, where there's a lot of information. I'm still new myself. I feel you have a long way to go. Still, doing good so far.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:54 AM
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No worries. Just that it's not so easy and understand to read. What country are you from? Just curious. I got enough now give me the redpill words to get more power over those manipulative bitches. You have to realize that the Red Pill is a way of life. You have to live it to be powerful, not over women. You'll be powerful in every part of your life. If you use it only for women, you will fail. So pretty much I lost encourage to continue although the first blonde next to me was interested in me,…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:31 AM
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Nope. Don't worry. However, if you could get or encourage those girls to post those videos and pics for you.. that would even be better. Thus, you won't be seen as bragging by posting those videos or pics.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:21 AM
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Before I answer, is English not your first language?
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:19 AM
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Don't. You barely know her. Take some time to know her. If you're young, you don't want to sell off your commitment so early yet.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:59 PM
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“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” ~ Bernard M. Baruch. I used to be soft-spoken too. My advice.. imagine you are expressing yourself as who you are. You're unapologetic of who you are. Imagine, even if you do or don't say anything, people will criticize you. So, who cares? Then just speak your mind, loud and proud.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:42 PM
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Sure. Thanks for the advice. Beats listening to people like you..
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:24 PM
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So, how does it help me?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:02 PM
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I'm aware of that. It killed himself with his shotgun. Even that, that takes some insane courage to do it. However, it was how he lived his life that admired, not the end. I do not want to be anyone's prize (as much as I understand Red Pill ideas). I like your suggestions though.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:02 PM
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Thank you. Appreciate what you've said. I tell myself, if men like that could handle what they handled in the past, then to me, I can do it too.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:49 PM
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I'm not so much interested in being a prize. I'm more interested in the mental fortitude that men like Ted Roosevelt, Ernest Shackleton, Ernest Hemingway, Clint Eastwood and more have.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:48 PM
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but being tired is only the physical manifestation of needing sleep We can be mentally fatigued and not physically tired, yet it manifests itself physically. We like to think it can (gives us a sense of control), but at the end of the day we are merely biological programs. We fuck, eat, shit, and the illusion of choice continues. Now, I say all that to say this: I don't think it is unreasonable to think a man who hasnt fulfilled the only observable purpose in life as a biological organism, could…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:14 AM
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You're welcome. I'm not saying we should deny our nature as the true romanticists completely. Think about it for a minute. We have something that women will never truly understand and yet crave for. That makes us far more valuable for our ability to instill emotions and feelings women want to feel. Thus, sometimes, we have to take a chance to be true romanticists. However, I don't think you should do it with the older woman. Just move on. Maybe I'm not used to the older, charismatic type of girl…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:08 AM
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It's normal to want to feel connected.. especially since men are the true romanticists. I mean, how good would it be if we could put all this nonsense aside and truly connect with women? The fact of the matter is.. women won't give a fuck about what really matters to us as men. So, we can never put our guard down for a moment. True connection will forever elude us. We have to remind ourselves, else we get knocked in the head by this cruel and heartless world. If you want to express yourself.. it…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:28 AM
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It's to test his frame and to know what kind of man he is. It's standard female behaviour. If he gets jealous, means he is of lower value, jealous and is actually emotionally affected by what she said. If he doesn't give a damn and just casually waves it off, then he is indirectly telling her he is of higher value and he has options.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:42 AM
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Him saying he would use his wife as a human shield was funny and priceless.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:36 AM
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Evolutionary, sex felt good. In short, yes for reproduction. However, it isn't as simple as that. As sex felt good, this encouraged living beings to continue doing the act of reproduction. Animals couldn't rationalize to the extent we humans can, so they just instinctively went along with it. Meanwhile, we human beings have some degree of control over our behaviour as we can rationalize things through. For instance, we understand sex feels good. However, ask yourself, why would you want to burde…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:33 AM
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No. They are not the same. Tell me. You want to have sex. Why? Because it feels good. It's that simple for men. Meanwhile, for women, it's an entirely different ballgame.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:18 AM
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We started hooking up (but no sex) and shit (she was bit awkward). She told me earlier that she had never even kissed a guy before and from what I feel I think it is the truth. I think you caved in a little too early there. She was putting up LMR and to test you. 'Remember that x guy from class, he invited me to this, etc, we have a lot in common' Seems like a shit test. She wants to see how you would react when she talks about the other guy. Recommended response.. play it cool. If she thinks yo…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:17 AM
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Get some interests or do activities. Do as many as possible as see what attracts you. A hobby is an interest that really captivates you for some strange reason. Some people like hiking, sports, painting, art, cars, swimming etc. To cultivate your hobby, you have to cultivate your love for it. Make your hobby important but not important enough till it becomes an obligation and then it makes un-enjoyable. You have to enjoy it.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:10 AM
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All Women Are Like That (AWALT) In short, ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT even your mom. Took you bloody long enough to realize it.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:07 AM
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I disagree because the desire of men to have sex is not the same thing as the desire to have children as women do.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:41 AM
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"I think, therefore I am" ~ Descartes We're always works in progress. For perfection to be achieved, it means to an end to improvement. In fact, perfection is subjective to individual interpretation. You need to have goals or reasons for your activities to mean something. I'm sure you're a much better man after 5 years. It's just that you have no reason to compare it to something. At least, those are my thoughts.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:39 AM
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Appearance wise.. that particular bodybuilder physique (in the pic) is ideal. Lean and muscular. However, the MMA fighter physique could work. For a woman to know that her male partner is an MMA fighter and could easily take down most men including dedicated bodybuilders would be damn attractive. Simply put physique is just one part of what makes a man attractive to women.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:35 AM
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I don't get it. How does realizing and internalizing this fact of life make me mentally strong?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:57 AM
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Nope. Men don't go nuts. Sure, we may wonder what's it like to have a family and children. However, we do not suffer from the same thing that women do. Reason why.. I'm not sure.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:41 AM
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Social media like Facebook or Twitter. LinkedIn for professional social proof. Being present at high valued social events is also one way to improve social proof. Another way is to associate yourself with socially important groups of people.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:03 AM
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I think at this point in your life, you have to learn to be financially independent while asking yourself.. what is your reason or purpose for living? (beyond that of having women in your life) Your life's goals must be larger and more important than any women in your life because women don't give a damn about your life goals. There are 3.5 billion girls and women but only one you.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:53 AM
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I sense that he was a good man, just didn't come back home because of your mother. Learn from him because he was a strong man. You can be better.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:01 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. At least now I have a better idea when to use them.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:49 AM
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Yup. It's good practice. For example, I hold eye contact with everybody nowadays. My secret. I tell myself.. they are only people (girls and women.) and not tigers. People won't bite you. Puts life into perspective. Hahaha. Another way is to look at the bridge of their noses. It helps because you're not looking directly at them (however, they will perceive that you are approximately making eye contact with them.)
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:02 AM
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Sounds like a plan. No problem if you have it under control. Think of sex with your plate as something better than masturbation. So, before your next round of sex with your plate, pause masturbation for the time being. Think of the anticipation and waiting for a great meal. It just makes everything feel better. Agree with you. I think, as long as you realize the bad effects, you're alright. Just have to gradually reduce.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:59 AM
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Also, if you are turning women off by mockery and arrogance (you definitely can, but it has to be extreme), the problem is not the mockery or the arrogance, it's a miscalibration of SMV. Wow. I didn't think of it that way before. Now it makes more sense. I couldn't understand why using condescension didn't work so well for me. Thank you, man!! Seriously.. why didn't I see it earlier..?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:53 AM
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You're welcome. I just broke up with my LTR of 3 years and 6 months, a few days ago. I'm only 23 years old (I met her before knowing about the Red Pill, though I was reading books along those lines before that.). It's my second relationship too. She didn't cheat. Just that I was being honest with myself and wanted to move on to meet new people and not be bounded by commitment. I tell myself, I did it as best as I could and there are greater people and things waiting for me in my future.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:50 AM
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I believe MMA and weight-lifting complement each other. It's like a sword and a shield together. Think MMA as the sword and weight-lifting as the shield. By themselves, they are good. Together, they become greater than just their individual parts.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:47 AM
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Good call you made. Firstly, anything you have of your ex, put it away for now. Pics, mementos, anything that reminds you of her. Secondly, go meet up with your male friends or talk with them. Have a great time with them to get it out of your system. Thirdly, what you said. Focus on yourself. Have a good time lifting and what you wanted to do. You have the time now. Rebuild your SMV. Lastly, remember.. there are 3.5 billions of girls but there is only one you. You're more important them. You can…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:44 AM
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Makes sense. Thanks for explaining. How would she know what behaviour she should change after I use Dread Game to get her to get my attention again? (Let's say it's not sex I want but something else.) Or would it normally be a package deal when she starts coming back to me?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:40 AM
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Here's the link: https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ I'll give this a shot. As I understand it, amused mastery is a way to maintain your own frame, appearing high-value (by being witty, intelligent and unpredictable) while having a good smile or laugh yourself. There are many ways to have amused mastery. Sarcasm alongside agree and amplify for instance (which are usually interrelated) are under amused mastery. However, I personally wouldn't recommend condescension unless you a…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:33 AM
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So, let's say I'm not getting enough sex from my girlfriend. Should I use Dread Game or Soft Next? I figure using "Dread Game" would the most effective and relatively beneficial approach rather than using "Soft Next".. What are your thoughts?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:24 AM
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It seems there is nothing in them that is able to genuinely wish good luck and goodbye without turning nasty out of nowhere. In other words, the common experience of girls turning uncharacteristically cold out of nowhere during a breakup. A little new. As I understand, when you break-up with a girl, her hamster goes on overdrive. Firstly, she's mad because she feel she was used. Secondly, if you read the book called "Sperm Wars.." (which explains sexual strategy mostly) men biologically want to …
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:21 AM
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Never ever go cold turkey. The backlash or relapse is immense. Reduce gradually and slowly till you're off smoking, drinking etc. Another way is to displace your habits with another habit (preferably something good). Like, when you have the urge to smoke, lift some dumb bells to drive the urge away.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:31 PM
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"Taking the bus huh? Yeah me too, ever since I wrecked my Ferarri.." Clear-cut pick up line if I ever saw one. She'll run far away... By the way, I noticed you haven't been on this sub-reddit long and from judging the advice you offered. You might want to read the side-bar more first.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:17 PM
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To be honest, I can't remember where I read this advice. I know I didn't read it from Day Bang (because I haven't read it yet.) I read it a long long time ago. Still, if it's the same or similar to Day Bang, then I'm glad this is sound advice.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:42 PM
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"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." The girl cheated once. She'll cheat again.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:24 PM
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Hmm.. that's insightful experience. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Always wondered how an experienced man uses Dread Game.. now I know.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:13 PM
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Trash the quirky openings. The best openers are the simplest and functional. Let's use the bus stop example. Simple question.. ask her.. "Excuse me, do you know which bus goes from where to where..?" You can also ask for directions.. pretend you're lost (better yet if you're actually lost.) If you're buying groceries, ask her for advice on something you're gonna buy.. "Excuse me, I'm having trouble picking between Product X and Product Y. What's your opinion on them?" These are excellent openers…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:08 PM
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I'm not the OP though I'm interested to understand.. in your situation, do you still use Dread Game at all? If it differs, how do you adapt it to your benefit?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:53 PM
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Are you fucking retarded or something?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:47 PM
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Ask yourself.. what do you want from life? Do you want to spent your entire life eating junk food, give yourself excuses, letting yourself being overweight and eventually dying from obesity related diseases? Or do you want to be a successful man in every aspect of your life so badly? I'll tell you what. Your choices you did not dare to do will haunt you forever. It will stab at your heart and mind day in and day out. It will never let you rest. It will torture you more than anything anyone here …
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:52 PM
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Yes. Just ignore her. The term best friend means she wants to turn you into an emotional punching bag for her to use.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:47 PM
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Getting girls is no problem, the problem is my commitment is expected to be given out, why is this the new norm? Women give sex. Men give commitment. Protect your commitment with your life and invest it preciously and wisely. Consider it your gold, diamonds and oil. There are billions of women but there is only one you. NEVER EVER FREELY GIVE YOUR COMMITMENT. How do i deal with my beta co-workers? Choosing another job or career is out of the question. Policing is my calling. Use this: Law 38 – T…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:22 PM
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Thanks you. I wasn't sure how to eloquently phrase it. Thanks for reminding me. Btw, it feels good that you and other people support the advice because it's good. It feels I'm going in the right direction.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:51 PM
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It seems so feminine to be in touch with emotions.. I disagree that to be in touch with one's emotion is to be considered feminine. Both men and women have emotions. However, it is in the expression of those emotions that define us as either men or women. The nonsense that women are emotional and men are not emotional is another trap that society and women use to control men. Women will never bloody monopolize how we men feel. Remember that. According to some study I read (please Google if you w…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:57 PM
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Good question.. it's good you asked about it. ..but all of the literature on here seems to warn against becoming emotional. That's too general. You think of it in binary. Either option A or option B. In life, it's never the case with either one extreme or the other (as I understand from your question.) Being too emotional will never work while suppressing our emotions will turn us into pressure bombs that will soon explode, We need a balance and to be adaptable. Emotions are just that. They are …
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:57 PM
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Good advice.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:37 PM
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Thanks for pointing it out. Appreciate it. I understand now.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:36 PM
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No disrespect towards you and your experience. I'd just like to point out what I see. Still new. With just a simple 'I love you. I missed you.'.. she got you like a dog hearing the bell (Pavlov's experiment).. She was probably baiting you. Moreover, she was setting everything. The date, time and place. It's putting everything on her terms. I come and she throws at me a mix of giving me zero attention and ignoring my presence (or even seeming bothered by it), to touching me lots, putting her hand…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:30 AM
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The best way is to have a one-on-one man to man talk. You have to understand. He still hasn't awakened yet. However, you can point him towards that realization or help him realize it himself. Tell him that you're seeing the same things you made when you were younger. Tell him, they didn't work. Tell him, you don't want to make the same mistakes you made. Tell him "we think the world should work this way, when the world actually works a completely different way." You could also advice him, that i…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:34 AM
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Good attempt. However, I'll be honest, you're making obvious mistakes you shouldn't be making. I'll point out the obvious ones. 4 days later invite her out. She's busy and doesn't offer an alternate night. Now I know it's over but would prefer being outright rejected since hey why not and out last interaction was sex. She's losing interest fast, despite you and her having sex. You're also pursuing her instead of you making her pursue you. You make yourself too available and like a beta would. Yo…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:23 AM
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Think of it as a greater challenge. True alphas let nothing deter them from getting the life they want. They change what they can change and accept what they can't change.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:14 AM
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When you feel jealousy, it is because deep inside.. you feel insecure about something. My advice is simple.. ask yourself what makes you jealous. Give it a name. Take steps to improve yourself on that matter. And before you know it, your jealousy will disappear.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:48 PM
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Did you read about SMP and SMV? Please read about that. I won't answer on that because I take it that people here should at least be familiar with this main and important idea. A man's thinking process when choosing a woman is simple-- is she hot or not? All other features are negotiable. How negotiable other features are depends on the standards of a man. If a man settles for less, he is going to get less. Besides, in my opinion, settling for a hot babe but she is a complete gold digger and slu…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:56 AM
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Any and every man, no matter who he is and who wants to be a self-actualized man is welcomed here.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:28 AM
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Friend, perception is overrated. If something is too good to be true, it probably is. Women are generally like pets. They don't do anything, and all they do is eat, sleep, play, have sex and do their business. That is why, we cannot treat women like pets. We cannot put them on a pedestal. If they want a good life, they gotta fucking earn it. Sure. That is if a woman can find a good captain in the first place. With most men being betas, she's just living a sad delusional fantasy of the time. Edit…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:20 AM
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It's so relaxing to know that I have no power over the situation. I can just kick back and enjoy the scenery. If something bad happens at least it's not my fault and I can blame someone else. That's going to bite you in the ass. Imagine if everyone is screwing up and you're paying for the mistakes others make, you being powerless to do anything about it? Isn't that silly? In my life, I never ever let anyone take away my control and freedom unless it is completely necessary. Even when necessary, …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:11 AM
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Well, since you're going stuck in your body as a man, you might as well learn to live as one. Besides, think of a car driver and passenger. Wouldn't you rather be the car driver who can drive as you please, rather than being stuck as a passenger who can do nothing but only suggest to the driver where to go?
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:58 AM
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Then go read then practice them.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:49 AM
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Simple. This is your life. If you're aren't going to make an effort to get out of your comfort zone, then you will never ever achieve anything that you want in life. Here lies an important cross-road in your life. Imagine that. You can choose the road to stay in your pathetic comfort zone for the rest of your miserable life and giving unlimited excuses to justify this retarded behaviour of yours. Then, when you're old, you will be forever haunted by the choices you were afraid to make, all becau…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:47 AM
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I am worried that I go full beta and forget everything I have learned these past 2 years. Please do not be bloody lazy. If you expect anyone here to give you a wonderful summary of what you asked, you can forget it. You're being lazy. If you feel you forgot something, read it again. The side bar is there. There are Red Pill books. Everything you need to know is all there. There is no point in us helping you if you're not willing to put in effort to remember the concepts you've learned. People ne…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:38 AM
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Firstly, you need to face your fears about friendships and being exploited. You need to stand up and set your boundaries, and be your own man. Not making any friendships or building your network is completely not an option. You have to build your network and clique of acquaintances or friends. You have nothing to lose, everything to gain. You started with no group of people you know in med school. Don't be so risk averse that you squander this golden opportunity. Knowing how to talk with people …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:40 AM
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Thanks for your input. When I was younger and even once in a a while nowadays, I use porn because it was more interesting and add a little variety than real women. However, after a while, I just got sick of it when I realize, it was mostly fake. I also remember doing NoFap for a while (This was way long before I found the Red Pill). Though many people here don't recommend it, I can attest that I felt like I had more energy and was more interested in women. Heck, just the thought of seeing and ju…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:32 AM
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.. I also want to be that guy but don't know how.. Read the bloody side bar. Don't be a lazy ass.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:17 PM
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Thanks for pointing it out. Makes sense. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:19 PM
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Thanks for your opinion. Appreciate it. I'm taking a break from my LTR too for now. I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality as a man. I also want to focus on being in monk-mode for a while (though if there are opportunities to meet girls or women, I'll take them when I can get them though not actively because they aren't my main objectives.)
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:04 PM
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The thing is.. religion is relatively new in human society compared to our instinctive and emotional behaviours that govern how we people behave in real life. My friend said.. how we think the world should work and how it actually works are too different things. Deep down, women instinctively want the kind of man that her predecessors successfully mated with that guaranteed strong survival for her offspring. Hence, what you're doing doesn't meet that imperative while men successful with women ar…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 02:06 PM
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It's nothing to do with your race. It's your self-image and the excuses you give yourself that is constraining you.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:54 AM
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..getting an arranged marriage is the safest way in my opinion of getting consistent sex (not always). There's nothing safe about arranged marriages. The moment your future wife is bored of you, she'll cheat and screw your marriage. Will you only then think how safe arranged marriages are? I want to prove a point to you. Yeah hell, divorce is taboo everywhere and yet people do it. Just know you will always have that freedom and so will your partner. Be careful. It's a safety net with a big hole …
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:35 AM
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You need to play your strengths to your advantages while shoring / plugging up your weaknesses or turn them to your strengths. Focus your energy and frustration on your career, life's purpose, hobbies and meeting new people. For a relative beginner, stick to areas like your local parks, classes for who knows what (yoga, gym, martial arts, art, languages etc.) or even the local grocery store. Places where you can do something which overlaps with where women tend to frequent. Don't go into bars ye…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:26 AM
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Red pill enlightenment. Amen..
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:21 AM
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Oh. They do have empathy. Just only when it serves their hypergamy and narcissistic self interest.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:20 AM
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I see only one way you can go about it: A man stands his ground. Tell the class, you'd like to play devil's advocate. That way, if things get heated, you said you were curious where this line of thought leads. You'll be able to use plausible deniability. However, talk and argue your points for real. This is indeed a class for social justice/equality. The point is not for you to win. The point is for your line of reasoning to win. Thus, if you have only erred, it is by being in the company of nar…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:06 AM
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I paraphased a few lines from an earlier comment I wrote.. Acting to be an alpha is like learning the lines of a great actor and saying them without learning to be a great actor. Being an alpha is learning to be a great actor who can say any lines to be great.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:37 PM
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You must be one. Never act like one. Wish you all the best.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:19 PM
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I'll give a simple example.. "You're an idiot.." Now, how did that make you feel? If you feel offended, just keep that feeling in view first. If you don't feel offended and actually pretty neutral, keep that in view too. When you feel offended, it relates to your self-worth. The more offended or agitated you become, the less self-worth you perceive yourself to have. In short, you're perceived as a very insecure person. Some people even lose their tempers. One member described it as a "pressure f…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 05:38 PM
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Progressive feminist = Blue Pill You're actually doing great. You'd be surprised that men are actually more friendly, helpful and understanding to another fellow man. You have to start building your clique / gang of male friends, those that can grow you. You may have to leave your group of blue pill friends behind (you can still be cordial, but you'll have to remember that sometimes it's for the better. My group of friends are starting to change now I'm into the Red Pill) Ahh.. then you have to …
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:48 PM
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You're doing quite good so far (let's say this is your first time.) What matters is you start it off, make mistakes and learn from them. Practice is key. She said she was looking for more than sex and that she felt like things were going to fast. I explained that I understood and backed off. You missed a good opportunity. You could have used the.. "we're having something great now. Let's enjoy the moment etc." explanation. However, you redeemed yourself by not being needy. You hard next-ed her, …
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:42 PM
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Just don't take her at face value is all , be aware of her actions. Yup. I agree. I've seen girls and women make u-turns, even if they firmly say something. It's always how they feel at the time.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:32 PM
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Check this earlier post. It was talking about the same issue as you: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4yjy7o/i_have_problems_making_male_friends/ I want to start it off with this quote.. 'If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period of time cease to react at all.' ~ Yogi Bhajan Then, here's what you said.. I'll highlig…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:18 PM
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You have to increase your SMV. No point to frame yourself as a sexual beast if you aren't high value. Instead, it'll make you seem perverted and desperate. You don't have the substance yet. Build your networks and talk with people. With where you're at, it's important to build yourself up and know or talk with people. Long story short, better to lie low for now while building up your strength and appearances before you can even think of pursuing women. If you're constantly lifting and doing what…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:06 PM
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She's still a woman, bar tender or not.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:41 PM
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Men who are successful with women actively approach women all the time. Remember. Men must make the first move. It's natural. And even the successful ones will lose some women. It's a numbers game from then on. So, actively approaching women is not a sign of neediness. The thing that makes or breaks it is HOW a man approaches women. I noticed something from what you said: I asked her if she had off tomorrow she told me she doesn't. I was going to try to give her my number or get hers. Being that…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:15 PM
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This is actually pretty curious and strange. Definitely an interesting read. Docbear64's explanation explains part of the reason, though I think it's a combination of several factors. (Long read) Edit 1: My thoughts on it. I think you were selling every woman's dream of dreams. There were three parts to it. 1. The fact that you were selling to them the ideal relationship. It helped you were a natural alpha to begin with. So, you were great merchandise to begin with and had a great emotional valu…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 12:29 PM
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OP.. I understand what you're going through. It's the genuine or authentic need to express emotions as a man that is surprisingly caged by society (and women) till the point we internalize it unconsciously. Someone told me that how we think people act.. and how people actually act are nearly or completely different. It's almost like we're actors on the stage of life. If you see the world today, we look up more towards actors than genuine people with real lives and emotions. Doesn't this reality …
/r/askTRP20/08/16 10:18 AM
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Just wanted to point out that mind and body is more like a closed system. Just as much as the state of one's body can influence or improved one's mind.. so can the state of one's mind influence one's body. Heck, if I hadn't came across the Red Pill, I wouldn't even be lifting and working out way more than I used to. That's one example of mind influencing body.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 10:00 AM
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Hey, I'm still new, I'd like to give it a shot though. Firstly, YES that was pretty smooth and funny. You're on your way to becoming an alpha male who doesn't give a fuck. Honestly, I think you did great so far.. considering she thought she could just use you as an emotional tampon or for solving exercises. Keeping it civil is a great idea as it reflects not only on your interaction with you and her but also what other people in your class will see. Remember.. Guard your reputation.. One of the …
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:56 AM
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Hahaha, that's pretty funny. Thanks for the advice. Ever since I started reading about the Red Pill, I realized I need to start talking and making real friendships with men since friendships with women are unreliable at best. Cheers.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:44 AM
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As long as you're indirectly doing it, and not showing that you're trying to impress her, I suppose a little effort could work. You should ask other experienced members here.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 01:52 AM
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It seems Javascript is highly in demand. Others would include Ruby and Python etc. I'm not too sure what else. I just code as an interest.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 01:51 AM
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Thank you. Appreciate your recommendation. My girlfriend too. I don't often sing, but she loves it when I do. I just sing on my own.. usually in the shower (seriously, no joke).. Hahaha
/r/askTRP20/08/16 01:49 AM
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Just say 6 inches. That's how tall you are. Hahaha. You know what I mean...
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:21 PM
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Ahhh.. Sweet. Thanks man for pointing me in the right direction. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:47 PM
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I agree. Go for it. I met a male friend of mine (who was absolutely fit like you wouldn't believe).. and I asked him.. you go gym? He said no. Everything he did was by buying his own weights and equipment, knowing effective workouts (Youtube and Internet) and yes.. outdoor exercise as you've mentioned. So, go for it man. Besides the sunlight and fresh air, you don't have to pay for a gym.. though you'll be missing out on the heavier equipment that gyms have. Pros and cons. Edit: Plus, if there a…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:50 PM
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Green flag.. It can't get any more obvious.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:18 PM
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I'm not clear about what you said. You mean, ask (playfully) them what kind of makeup I should be wearing?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:55 AM
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Not only do you want to befriend others, you have to grow them. Make them feel good about themselves. Make them have a good time. Rewarding others can be in different ways. Not by giving money. Buy them a drink.. some food. Something low investment but high reward value. Take me for example. If someone buys me my favourite snack.. I'll feel really good for that day. Something like that. You're like a sword. You need to hone and sharpen your sword till you're sharp. Keep polishing and sharpening …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:13 AM
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1) Get to meet as many people as possible. Build your network 2) Use people. You can't be the best at some subjects. So, associate yourself with people who know their stuff better than you. Help them when they help you. (Low investment, high returns / rewards). 3) GET an internship at the best place possible. Send as many applications as you can. I don't think you can afford to miss out on an internship. It'll help you in your career. 4) Best time to learn to game and converse with people. Conve…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:50 AM
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Normally, it's recommended by Red Pillers that if you're not part of the top 10% alpha males.. then you'd have no chance with online game such as on Tinder. It's better to improve your game in real life first. Tinder is just a supplement. Think of it as side-income. You'd have to ask other people for taking better pictures. I know one tip is not to use flash. It makes you look older.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:32 AM
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They're social acquaintances. I normally talk to them to just improve my game. I'm not plating them. They're quite physically beautiful, just not my type of women. Makes sense. So should I walk away from the conversation, listen to them, slowly change the topic or...? Yes, been reading the side-bar as much as I can. I'm at FAQ, the dating part.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:58 AM
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Makes sense. It's not that I feel anxious. If it's in conversation with two ladies and they suddenly talk about make-up, I feel like I'm being ostracized from the conversation. So, I let them talk about it till they are content? I've noticed when the conversation is about make-up, they just keep talking..on and on and it really bores me. So should I walk away from the conversation, listen to them, slowly change the topic or...?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:51 AM
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I just noticed your account was created about 2-3 days ago. I don't know if you know what this sub-reddit is actually for but I'm not interested in friendships. If you're not a Red-Piller, please do not offer sub-par advice and just leave. Friendship is about caring The moment I hear that, I cringe.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:47 AM
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When you have your life in order and you're successful.. you will feel a perfect moment... I had that once. It was an indescribable feeling. I did it without sex and drugs.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:43 AM
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I know a bit about this area. Yes, it's pretty legit. Some bootcamps teach the actual stuff. Others are to introduce people to coding. However, most people don't have the staying power or willpower to continue learning actual coding skills to get a job in tech. Where I'm from, coding is actually in high demand and pays very well (compared to other jobs in more common industries). I recommend Code Academy. It's free, you can learn on your own and there's forums where you can ask from help from tu…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:41 AM
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You and her have ended. Don't further degrade your reputation man. People will talk. They'll say what a wimp or loser you are for apologizing and readding her. It reeks of desperation. It's beta behaviour. Yes, you need to reinvent yourself. I know it's tough. It could be a good idea. Channel your energy towards improving your life as a man and improve your game with women. In that, noFap is a good idea.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:20 AM
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..that promotes spread of sexual disease. There's this thing we call protection. A huge part of the red pill is overcoming temptation Possible to agree with that. Red Pill returns or reawakens power to men in becoming the prizes or selectors, though it's still going to be screwing the most attractive women around. A truly religious society is a red pill society.. Impossible. It's incompatible. Red Pill ideal is for men to do as many attractive women as possible while say Christanity mandates mon…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:11 AM
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I'll give you an example. In my country, Malaysia.. the government uses religion to control the masses (the majority of which are Muslims.).. Heck, even they have a governmental institution for religion. (I'm not a Muslim btw). That it still happens (much of it currently in the Muslim world) is a testament to two things.. That people are sheep and can't think for themselves It is an effective tool for governments
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:01 AM
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Let me get this straight.... God has his own plans for us... but he gave us free will to do as we please. Isn't that contradictory? It's either one or the other. And no religious scriptures used to explain please.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:57 AM
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Because you put so much effort into her. That's why. It's called sunk cost. When we put so much effort into something, we want to continue to stick with it because we have already put so much effort, time and money into something (or someone). That's great man. Keep it some time and focus on your life. Sooner or later. You'll move on to greener pastures.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:49 PM
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You answered your own question. I know it's tough and it hurts. I've been down your road before. You have to improve yourself for the better for your own sake. Nobody is seriously going to care about improving you except you yourself. If not, just take a break from them.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:32 PM
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HARD NEXT
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:28 PM
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This is actually damn funny and straight on. Upvote.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:20 AM
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You need to be play the game better. Imagine yourself as a high-value man. I can understand using cold focus / what needs to be done. But.. Why the fuck would you use supplication? You're showing you're a low value man by having to ask politely. Of course nobody is showing you respect, especially women. Don't be the White Knight. Why the hell do you want to ease this lady "dinner out stress"...? That's her problem. If she doesn't ask, then don't bother. When she asks, that means she values your …
/r/askTRP18/08/16 08:31 AM
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I like to use the Batman and the Joker analogy. At the moment, I think you're mostly in Batman mode. You have to be like the Joker. If you think about it, the Joker is really trying to have a swell and fun time for himself because in the end, everyone dies. He truly lives in the moment. You have to enjoy life's moments from time to time. There's a saying.. "There's a time to play and there's a time to work." So, if it's time to play, then play hard. Have a good time for yourself and with others.…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 08:20 AM
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It's good to think about it. For instance, it's generally said among Christians and Catholics etc. that "God has a plan.." and that fate is predetermined. This will include meeting "the one".. However, I'm sure you realize that by understanding Red Pill ideas, you'll realize, there is no such thing as "the one" or "a unicorn".. They are just ideals we make up in our mind. Think of faith as a vase. When something doesn't make sense, it creates a crack on the vase. As you slowly come to grasp with…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 08:13 AM
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Thank you. I'm new to the red pill. I was thinking, the best way to learn something is to learn and teach.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:38 AM
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Hmm.. makes sense. Thanks for explaining.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:29 AM
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Friend, you are one fortunate son of a gun with your father and grandfather as great father figures / alpha or sigma male examples. I would say, you have to learn conversationalist skills. Your grandmother does have a good virtue of not speaking poorly of anyone, for it reflects back on the speaker (you), telling to others what sort of person you are. You can't always prevent yourself from offending everyone. You are only responsible for what you say while the other person (or people) are respon…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:24 AM
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Nope. No such thing as friendships with straight women especially if you are a man. Generally and mostly not worth your time. However, there are very rare exceptions. Have them entirely at your own risk.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:15 AM
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Does such a woman exist? I mean, women naturally and instructively want children. A woman that doesn't want children either is lying or she is a lone exception for a woman.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:10 AM
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Makes no sense. Why would a man resent child-free women?
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:56 AM
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Think of love as a reproductive mechanism. For thousand of years, humans evolved to feel love for one another so that they can stay together and raise off-spring. By understanding what you're experiencing, you can then have some control over it. Developing attraction is not a bad thing. In fact, falling in love is not bad thing at all. It's when you overdo it till you do stupid things, then it's bad. It helps us know which women we find attractive instinctively while it prompts us as a call to a…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:40 AM
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If you verbally tell them, you're bragging. That's a sign you want to show or prove your worth to women. Do not do that. Beta behaviour. Like SexySmexxy suggested.. indirectly implying that you are such as through Tinder or Whatapps sounds.. would signify your value. Heck, even cutting your meeting short with your plate once in a while, would be a great idea. Alpha behaviour.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:15 AM
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First, stop faking it till you make it. It'll drive you nuts. Second, you feel like hell because you're comparing yourself to your best friend. It's a reflection of how you feel about yourself. If I were you, I would actually admire your friend because he knows his stuff. Learn from him. Third, if you want to be fit.. lift and workout. If you want to look good.. learn personal grooming and learn to dress well. If you want to be good at talking with girls, learn game. No other ways around it. Las…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:09 AM
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There are various opinions here. So, consider which has the best pros and weight the cons. I'm not saying mine is the best though. I want to give it a shot. Firstly, you're doing great, buddy. Never let anyone bring you down ever again. You're on your way on being your own man. Not even your father. Don't bother about your old man. Remember, you're your own man that makes your own decisions. Secondly, it's time you learned to talk with everybody. Young and old. Men and women. Heck, even kids (pe…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:55 AM
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It's a little long. PM me.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:44 AM
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In that case, do you notice how dictators will label certain people as "terrorists" or "evil"..? Let's say these people are actually freedom fighters fighting to free a country from this dictator. These freedom fighters are actually doing the right thing but because they go against the interests of the dictator, then the dictator labels them as "monsters".. "terrorists".. or anything that paints a negative image of them. This serves two purposes: a) In their minds, they label these people as suc…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:42 AM
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You already know what to do, friend. For us to tell you anymore, it won't work till you accept that she is gone. You're still in denial. Friend, I honestly been through a similar situation. I can't help but wish there was someone there for me when this happened to me then. But there was no one. Life was much tougher for me. Did you think my ex called to ask how I was after I broke up? No. Not a single time. If you think she cares, wait for her to call. Wait like the damn fool you are. Like I was…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:38 AM
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You are not special. No one here is special. And that's the curse and beauty of it. Nobody is special. Everyone here can be who they choose to be, if only they desire and earn their way towards their aspirations with hard-work, determination and self-belief. She doesn't view you as a psycho. That's how you view this situation reflecting towards yourself.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:33 AM
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Sweet. Thank you!!
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:42 AM
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Thanks. Will give it a shot.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:41 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:41 AM
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Thank you, man. Appreciate the recommendations. I cannot agree with that. I just don't like rap. I'm alright with rock, heavy metal to a degree but just no rap for me. It just turns me off. It sounds just like noise. It's not even singing. For example, oldies like Frank Sinatra's "I Did It My Way.".. Now, that's a red pill classic song in my book. Beats today's rap music. You may not agree and many guys here won't agree. We agree to disagree on this point.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:41 AM
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Thank you. Sincerely appreciate it. Damn This will keep me busy for a while.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:36 AM
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I had a similar experience. I find that when I am proactive in my learning and I actually choose what to learn (besides learning what is necessary and important for your course).. I actually start to enjoy learning. When you start to enjoy learning, everything follows. So.. 1) Study as what is required for your course 2) Learn something that you can really enjoy (not only in that specific course, sometimes outside of it. Have variety in your learning 3) Study / Learn smart (besides hard work). U…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:13 AM
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You're kidding right? I don't see the dilemma. Obviously, getting rich is more important than getting laid. Time is gold or money in your case. Your prime years (if you follow SMV) would be starting in your 30s. Your goal now would be to ramp up your SMV, chalk up experience with the ladies and increase your financial independence.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 09:16 AM
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I'll check it out. Thanks, mate.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 09:03 AM
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Do you think girls are completely honest? They wear makeup to look better. They wear high heels to be taller. They use stuff to make them look better than they are. How do you call that honest? If I were to tell you that to attract girls and perhaps one day get a HB9 - HB10 girlfriend, you'd need to workout, have a great career or pursue financial freedom, pursue your own passions in life etc. That's basically what the red pill is about. It's self-improvement for men. A lot of people get negativ…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:53 AM
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TL; DR: You don't PUA tactics are like learning the lines of a great actor and saying them without learning to be a great actor. Game is learning to be a great actor who can say any lines to be great.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:10 AM
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I was in your shoes mate. Trust me. I became pathetic thinking how much effort, time and money I put into my ex. Why she didn't care? Because I was showing to her that she was more valuable than me. Women don't care how good you were to them in the past. My current girlfriend (and soon to be ex if she doesn't get her own act together) told me that women only care about the present and anything you've done for them in the past is worthless or meaningless. This was said slightly before I found out…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:01 AM
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Everything I'll say is not sugar-coated for your benefit. Think it this way. Your ex has moved on and is probably being fucked by other men. She has already forgotten you. You can have your choice of choosing which woman complements your life for the better. Why do you want to go back to a time when you were worse off? There's no turning back the past. There's only striding forward into the future. Make new memories rather than dwelling in old memories. It's your call what you do next from here.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:41 AM
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Yes, it will pay off. You're way ahead of the curve. While your friends are still stuck going nowhere in life, you're actually progressing way further ahead of them. You're getting the means to achieve your own freedom in life. In my book, you're succeeding. I imagine that as you're constantly doing this, by your late 20s or early 30s, you'll be one hell of a man that men want to be and women want to have. There was this saying I read somewhere that I can't recall completely.. It goes something …
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:16 AM
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I'm starting to agree with you on Alter Bridge. Starting to grow on me. Don't worry about your past. You've come this far. You're a stronger man today. I like Boulevard of Broken Dreams by Green Day and The Time has Come from Devil May Cry 4 especially if I need to make a comeback (sung by Shawn "Shootie HG" McPherson of Hostile Groove).
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:59 AM
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Doesn't jive with me. Thanks for the recommendation though.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:48 AM
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Wow man, I didn't realize you got so easily butt-hurt. I was asking for recommendations. Whether or not I like them or not, that's my prerogative. A man has to be true to himself.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:43 AM
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Damn. These are great recommendations. Thank you. Further than the Sun By Alter Bridge would be a challenge to sing, though it's mighty excellent.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:40 AM
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Not my kind of gig. Classy songs where singers need real singing skills to sing are attractive to me.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:35 AM
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Let me put it this way: Are video games bad? Is politics bad? Is the red pill bad? The answer to all of them is, they just simply are. My question to you.. is the one person playing the video games considered blue or red pill? You decide..
/r/askTRP13/08/16 05:10 PM
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Thank you. Believe it or not, I just join about a week ago. I've been reading, reflecting and understanding so much from the Red Pill. I had the dots.. the red pill was the pencil that allowed me to drawn the lines to connect those dots. I'm almost unplugged and I just realized like I got a second chance in life again. One of the best feelings in my life as a man.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:27 AM
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The "law of attraction" is nothing but pseudo self-help nonsense. Before I continue and explain why, let me give you a scenario. Imagine you have your favourite cake right before your eyes. Now imagine, there is a cherry on top of your cake. Which is more valuable to you? The entire cake or the tiny cherry? Anyone would of course choose the cake. What does the cake and cherry mean? The cake is your life. The cherry is either your relationship or relationships. Women are nothing more than complim…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:25 AM
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You're welcome, friend. Someone once told me long ago that the mark of a powerful man was not how he wielded his power or how skillful he was in wielding it, rather, it was what he did when he was in circumstances that made him completely or nearly powerless, that showed the world and to himself.. what kind of man he truly is. Though I may not completely understand your current situation, I know how difficult it is to see someone in such a state or to even perhaps lose that person forever. Take …
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:18 AM
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He accepts that life is indeed evermore so finite and precious, yet spends time ever so wisely on what matters in life. He accepts that that everyone will someday pass on, yet honours their memory by remembering them and continues to live. He accepts that death is eventually inevitable, yet defies it only by stoicism and living a life truly worth living through his own meaning. In the end, he must realize that he is but a living man. To deny grief is to deny his humanity and part of which that m…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:17 AM
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The instinct is there even if she has no desire for children Wow.. that part really hit me and made so much sense. Never thought it that way before.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 09:10 AM
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Hi.. I just saw your comment and I'm new here. I'm in disbelief.. so basically, as I understand from what you're saying.. the words we use to describe something to another person can influence one's reality and thus their behaviour of something or someone. So, it's something like the story of the Emperor's New Clothes? The link: http://www.worldstories.org.uk/stories/story/65-the-emperors-new-clothes In the story, if someone were to tell the public it was the Emperor and he was wearing magical c…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:55 AM
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I read your original post.. I have to say, I can understand it. It's like part of being alive. Not only is someone doing things, going places and being someone.. it's about savouring those moments that actually define us as being alive.. It's poetic. Thank you for sharing.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:07 AM
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I know it's going off topic a bit.. Let's say you were homeless, wouldn't going to a shelter be undignified for a human being? Heck, by the fact that you and other homeless people go to these shelters is like telling the world.. "I'm homeless, poor and hopeless." It just shuts down homeless people to just lose hope, respect and encouragement from other people of society. Then they do drugs and drink etc. It's just such a waste of human life. Anyhow, just wanted to point it out. At least think ab…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:52 PM
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That's almost exactly how I feel. Like for instance, I'm following topics like human biological immortality, science and technology. Heck, even how wars are being executed are more interesting. I mean, there are so much more interesting topics than women would ever be. Women and sex suddenly just got quite boring to me. I hope you get what I mean.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:41 PM
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Wow.. I'm new here and I did not expect someone of your caliber and status to answer my question. Feeling quite honoured. Thank you. Cause.. I used to think beyond mastering women, that the true end or reason of men doing something was freedom.. like everything men pursue.. money, fame, status, women, knowledge and more were all precursors to freedom. Also,.. after reading the "Rationale Male".. I was mind-blown by the potential of not only myself as a man, but the potential of every man. Women …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:37 PM
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Then, do you still enjoy it or it couldn't care if you did get it or not? I was wondering.. suppose the very reason that men embraced the Red Pill (primarily to have sex) actually dissuaded them. Wouldn't this dissuade someone, say like yourself (at your age) from self-improvement, keeping fit, socializing etc.. even if you're growing older? I'm really curious to understand and think about it. Curious to see where this question will lead too. "Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:23 PM
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I'll let its worth speak for itself.. “Watch your thoughts, they become words; Watch your words, they become actions; Watch your actions, they become habits; Watch your habits, they become character; Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:09 PM
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A simple and effective general way to differentiate is that thoughts are in your mind while feelings tend to be felt throughout your body (gut feelings etc.). Hear me out. There's usually a physiological response (or several) coinciding with you feeling that specific feeling concurrently or prior to it. Like, when you're angry, you feel your heart racing, adrenaline is pumping into you (fight-or-flight response innate in people). When you're sad, you feel slow (this is actually kinda true, your …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:07 PM
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Tips.. 1) Set a target.. which page you're going to read. 2) Bookmark your progress. 3) Take time to read the books. It's not about finishing them fast. It's about reading and understanding thoroughly, then reflecting on them. So, you must have a block of uninterrupted reading (or free) time. No point finishing them fast if you can't remember more than half of what you've read. 4) Set your own pace as you like by pages or chapters. 5) Lastly, enjoy reading. If you're enjoying the book without re…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:21 PM
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Be enough of a friend to convince him to stop insults or harassment. See things from his point of view. By turning him into someone friendly or a friend, he is destroying an enemy. There are other ways to diffuse a situation besides direct approaches. Sure.. OP could just call the cops. Problem solved the easy way. Anyone could just do that.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:12 PM
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You're assuming. Not every homeless man is hostile or mentally disturbed. It's like the story of the lion with the thorn in it's paw. The lion was in pain which changed to rage or anger.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:08 PM
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Not every homeless person is crazy or mentally ill. Some people were just unlucky or victims of bad circumstances (though, there are some crazy ones). It's about using intelligence and a little diplomacy. Not every solution involves intimidation, beating someone up or violence. From the 48 Laws of Power, Law 19.. "Know who you're dealing with - do not offend the wrong person." If you know who you're dealing with by understanding the person, you can talk him out of it.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:06 PM
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Thank you for the advice. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:50 PM
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If OP does the same thing as you suggested, and this guy doesn't flinch and actually reacts back, then OP is going to get screwed in his current state. I got a feeling intimidating this man with a bat is going to go south fast. I wouldn't recommend it at all. I'd say talk to the man, understand him and give him some modicum of respect and dignity (or help). The man is homeless. I would be angry if I was homeless too. Anyone can beat up another person to subdue him or her. It takes real grit to t…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:23 AM
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Hey r/nemo225 1) For a 16 year old to be here, I personally think you're going in the right direction and way ahead of your peers. You're going to be way ahead of the curve and contrary to what you may think, some of the guys probably had similar situations here. So, not everyone will understand your position. I suspect you may not have a good father figure. Myself too. Don't let that hinder you. Great obstacles will make us greater by us overcoming them, no matter what they may be. 2) You're do…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:42 AM
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Reminds me of the Joker and Harley Quinn in the Batman Animated Series. The Joker is always abusing her, yet she'll always return to him. For an animated series, there's so much real world stuff there if only someone takes the time to actually analyze it.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:27 AM
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Thank you. It feels great to be on the right path.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:24 AM
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Rather than ask about people from your own country, take the opportunity to learn more and talk with people from different countries or places.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:18 AM
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I'm new here. I'd like to try giving some advice. Take a break from her. Tell her. Firstly, you have to be dead honest with yourself. From my experience, it'll really set you free. Trust me on this. Secondly, it gives you the space and time you need to get back on your feet. Thirdly, it overstimulates her hamster and absence makes the heart grow fonder. Fourthly, you can go see other women. Never limit your freedom and independence especially since you're not committed to her in marriage yet. La…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:14 AM
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I'm new here. I see something I'm surprised you haven't see. If I were you, I would either be not active on Tinder or just be passively using it. From what I understand, you have the right stuff. Moreover, you have so much opportunity here. I'm surprised you're limiting yourself. Right now, here's what you must do.. 1) Increase your SMV. I need not say more. 2) Improve your Game. This is the place to chalk up experience. Your objective isn't to score homeruns. Heck, it's actually better not to s…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:04 AM
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I'm new here.. yet I think I see what's going on. If I were in your shoes.. here's what I would do.. a) You must lift. What's the use coming to AskTRP if you're not even going to lift? You have the height man. Make use of it by working out. If you don't, same situations like this are going to happen again. You said said it yourself man, you need to lift. b) What I'm going to say is gonna surprise you. You need to understand one thing first. The man is homeless yet he still shows he is not going …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:44 AM
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Hmmm.. you gave me something to think about. I'm learning about economics and this is really similar.. thank you for explaining.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:24 AM
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I'm 23 years old at the moment. You'd be shocked (I still am shocked) when I discovered John Alexander's book "How to Be An Alpha Male" way back in 2007. I was say 14 years old then. I got my first relationship when I was 17 years old (that was my new's year resolution and I actually did it). Then, things went downhill for a year or two (something really bad happened in my life) and I stumbled for a long time. Yet, I remembered that book and all the stuff I read about men that helped me pass tha…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:19 PM
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That's really interesting. When you refer to level of competition, you mean competition among men or competition among women? Next, when you cite the 80/20 rule, what are you referring to? (I haven't come across it yet, still new to this, though I grasp concepts fast). Could you explain? It's true that the nature of the game itself does not change. Rather, I'd like to think the game itself has changed, or at the least, the male players of the game have changed how the game is being changed. I me…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:12 PM
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That's really funny and good actually. There's a saying whereby.. we have to learn from the mistakes of others because we don't have the time to make and learn from all of them.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:50 PM
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That's a really nifty tip. Thanks for sharing man.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:57 PM
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Thank you, CopperFox. That was the exactly reasoning I was searching for that I couldn't quite get yet. You nailed it down hard.. Sincerely appreciate you explaining it to me.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:51 PM
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I totally disagree. You can always develop abundance mentality even without fucking. I just got an idea from that Tom Cruise movie I remembered reading about from an article (with the scene).. Can't remember the movie's name though. It was in the evening or night. His character escalated to the point he almost kissed the woman right when they are at her door.. then he just suddenly stopped and rode off on his bike, leaving her hanging or wondering what happened? Love that scene. The point is.. i…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:18 PM
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For the first question.. point noted. For the second question.. as I understand it, generally speaking, you mean to say that women must (or mostly) be subordinates to men's will and fulfill their feminine role as nature had design for them (or as they've evolved)..? I'm an advocate of a person creating their own freedom and meaning in life, both men and women. So, the thing that I can't reconcile is.. suppose there are very few women that can excel and survive in a man's world by merit and capab…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:05 PM
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I'm maybe new here.. Yet, I can see this so clearly. You're simply making a big deal about how she would respond. You're letting her set your frame of reality. You're suppose to be in control. You're not suppose to give a damn about what she thinks. It's what you think that matters. If it fails, move on. Abundance mentality, not scarcity mentality. EDIT: Wow.. I'm pretty surprised this comment was strongly upvoted. Thanks!! I feel like I'm really getting it now.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:44 PM
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When you put it that way.. Thanks. It puts my life into perspective (Thumbs up).
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:59 AM
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Thanks for the respond. Yup. Just started reading the "Rational Male" and I read about the abundance mentality. I agree. I can imagine it yet to actually live that kind of life is truly another story. I used to hate it. Yet, now I'm thinking of it as programme with codes or rules. It's like playing a game. Know the rules, Play the game better. Heck, now I understand women are actually predictable.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:49 AM
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Thanks for responding man. Suppose I'm currently in a relationship with one girl at the moment. Yet, I'm not deriving the satisfaction I want from it. This was before I read about the Red Pill. Now, I'm going into monk mode as I believe there's something or someone better for me. Yet, how does "love" fit into the red pill ideal? Considering when a man has everything (the abundance mentality and actual abundance of options).. is love just purely a reproductive mechanism, to cynically put it?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:43 AM
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