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In what way do I sound boring? I guess I kinda "settled" in on the LTR... how do I fix this and work my charm?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:58 AM
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Yes. I agree. Sometimes I just want to be left alone, to get off the grid, so I could focus on LIVING MY FUCKING LIFE. Thanks for your input. Basically I just reply to her texts whenever I feel like it (i.e. when I'm free and alone). That's not enough for her though, but I always hold frame. She told me she spent the entire day, with her friends, at a theme park, and wasn't able to enjoy it because she was checking her phone even on the roller coaster to see if I replied back. It's clear I have …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:22 AM
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I always have this mentality though. Abundance mentality still exists when I am in a relationship -- I make an effort to still talk to girls, to still talk to people, to still better myself. I'm still growing as a person, and I choose to see my girlfriend as a means of ENHANCING/SUPPLEMENTING my life. I could survive without her, I don't need her.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:19 AM
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What do you mean A&A away? I wanted to work lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:52 AM
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Obviously I could draw the difference. When it's playful I shrug it off and A&A, but whenever it's serious and personal I tell them straight up that I will not accept it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:43 AM
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Do you mind elaborating on that control panel analogy? I'm not sure I follow.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:42 AM
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Not really sure what you mean, but I simply don't like being called those names. Depends on the tone, if they mean it seriously then I tell them that I will not accept this behaviour like a teacher to a student or a dad to his daughter.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:42 AM
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But if she keeps pouty the entire day, stand your ground. Don't be manipulated. I'm not manipulated. But at one point, I did comfort her and in the end I gave up because she WAS pouty the entire day and continuously whining. I just decided to give up on trying to cheer her up and gave her closed body language. She's trying hard to make you her bitch. Do you have the proper frame where you don't do other things when you're focusing on one thing? As in not texting while you're out? Be firm here. I…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:50 AM
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I don't really understand your analogy. It's not necessarily that I'm insecure -- I doubt that I show that. But whenever they call me a douchebag/asshole, I make it VERY CLEAR that it's unacceptable behavior. Sometimes I'd offer an explanation that the word means more to me than just "Asshole/douchebag". Realistically, I simply don't like this word because whenever I hear it, it makes it sound like being a TRP man is going to make me selfish or pretentious, when really it's just making me a bett…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:18 AM
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Yes, I acknowledge this, and I always do the carrot-and-stick thing on girls. Whenever they're in a good mood and do something worthy, I naturally reward them by being more touchy, flirtatious, and affectionate. Whenever they're in a bad mood (closed body language, not smiling) or do something unworthy (calling me an asshole, trying to start an argument, or treating me like her boytoy), I immediately close off all kino, and go as far as to walk in front of her, ignoring her and expecting her to …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:13 AM
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The thing is, I don't. I used to be a bully -- that's why the word bugs me. That was the word that triggered me into a downward spiral of depression, where I thought I hurt people, where I cut all ties with close friends to hurt less people (thinking that solves the problem), where I became a fat slob with no direction in life, that doesn't go after what he wants, etc. Now, I recovered from depression, I value myself and my time, and while I don't treat women like objects, I'm also naturally not…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:50 AM
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Thanks. I thought so too, but at the same time, I felt like it's important to have boundaries on what sort of behavior to accept. It's hard to draw a line. I still feel like douchebag/asshole is something that should never be said to me, and I make an effort to assert that.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:48 AM
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See, that's a problem. Where do you draw the line between maintaining a strong frame, and taking something too seriously? To me, the word "asshole" and "douchebag" kinda brings up bad childhood memories, so I never hear it. I make it clear to all my girls that they should never say it, and when they accidentally do, I demand an apology or punish them. I don't get reactive, but I do make it absolutely clear that I will not tolerate that behavior. Is that taking it too far?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:47 AM
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Yeah, I always keep frame. That pisses a lot of girls, as they rarely get what they want (time, attention). Some girls are positive, in that they see it more as a reason/purpose to spend time with me. Other girls are very negative, in that even when I make an effort to meet up with them, they're just sad, depressed, and cry because I don't spend enough time with them. It seems like no matter what I say to console them, it doesn't work. So at one point I just stopped trying and to them it makes m…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:44 AM
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How do you practice TRP in LTRs? Any links
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 12:15 AM
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Haha, maybe you misunderstood. I'm not waiting for anything. I take my chances and I say things to her that'd make a whore blush. I degrade her. I enjoy it. She enjoys it. It works out! :)
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:09 AM
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Agreed. Current plate that I'm spinning wants me to "Go all Christian Gray" on her. I like it rough, so it works out.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:49 PM
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Thanks for the distinction. I understand. Basically it's a balance between persistence (dominance) and comfort (emotion). I just read Sex God Method and I'm trying to piece this all together.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:38 PM
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In that case, I have achieved both persistence and comfort with my current plate. I persisted (ignored her LMRs and excuses of PDA, and fingered her in the public park), and when we got to her place, she was comfortable enough to tell me she liked it rough and she was a kinky little slut. How does one build up that comfort? I can't really pinpoint exactly what I did -- other than isolating her. In a situation where you can't isolate her, how could one build comfort and reassurance? I feel like i…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:43 AM
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Persistence and comfort. Yes! Any ways/strategies to persist comfortably?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:28 AM
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I don't take it personally. Any ways I could improve, though?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 12:30 AM
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Thanks. Very detailed answer! What I basically said was "well, I guess I'll have to feed my protein to someone else", and she was like "NO!". That falls under the invoked preselection I believe. :) The point is to remind her that she's fungible, you're desirable, and you are aware of your own worth. Words of wisdom. Will remember this. I think specific to my situation, what you said might be an exaggeration (completely ignoring her). She's definitely willing to have sex with me, but a matter of …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 12:28 AM
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Thanks. This is the type of answer I was looking for. Very insightful I must say. She is a really dirty and horny girl in bed (asks me to call her names, be rough, spank her and pull her hair, twist her nipples until they're bruised, etc). But on the outside, when we're hanging out in the mall/park, she's more hesitant. I still grope her boobs discretely, finger her in the park, and spank her ass in public (she tells me to "stop" but smiles every time and comes closer). I'm quite nonjudgemental …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 12:22 AM
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Okay. Any materials I should read (i've went through the sidebar already) to internalize TRP? Also, to me, it doesn't make sense "dread" a girl if she resists sex from you, especially if she's doing it in a playful/teasing way, or if she's simply insecure with her sexuality in public... I reserve "dreads" to things she does if she really pissed me off and goes against my boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:37 AM
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Sure. Her most likely response would be like "oh so you just use girls for sex?", or something to that nature to sex-shame me. Doesn't really solve the problem. She knows I'm a sexually-forward person already.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:47 AM
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Very insightful. This is actually good advice. Game face when you're out. Hustle when you're in. So people think you just get what you want effortlessly, since you never complain, whine, about how busy you are. You project positivity and confidence.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:37 AM
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Amen to this. I came from /r/seduction, and this applies there as well. I've been so caught on improving my skill with women (the game), and critically and brutally judge and analyze myself, because I was determined to improve. When the other day, I had an epiphany that when YOU'RE having fun, when you're IN the moment, that's when you get in the zone, that's when you get the best positive reactions. It's easy to forget this sometimes. Sure, we're all here for self-improvement, and judging/analy…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 07:41 AM
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Funny story. I treat my girlfriend like a dog (whistle for her to get here, give her polite orders to test her compliance, and make sounds that I generally do to my dog). She doesn't like it, and has confronted me about it. I just shrugged it off, didn't get defensive, and was like "Sure" and stopped doing it anymore. Didn't give her the benefit of me arguing with her, cuz that's what girls want: drama. Now I just tackle her.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:48 AM
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Ahh, but most of the clinginess is through texting. Hence I can't really do gestures and all that. That drama thing is quite insightful. Be the supplier instead. Thing is it always feels awkward when I do it -- like "oh my god are you checking that guy out" seems unnatural for me to say. Could you give me a few more examples?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 12:16 AM
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Problem is once you respond to one... you gotta respond to everything else.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 11:24 PM
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Is she loyal? Does she meet your needs, without you having to say anything but rather because she wants to? Do you trust her? Do you guys have amazing sex? I don't know, but I have no reason to believe otherwise. Yes she meets my needs, and does things for me. I have no reason not to trust her. Sex is not amazing, but we're both inexperienced and her enthusiasm and eagerness to improve chalks her up a few points. She is a worthy partner. My only gripe is that she is very negative. She realizes a…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:55 AM
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Trust me, I know that. I know for a fact that if I did what she wanted -- gave her more attention and time at my own expense -- that it'd turn out for the worse. But what should I do in this situation? It's fine making a girl hungry and crave more, but when she's being negative it really draws the fun out of everything. The only reason I haven't nexted her is because I've seen her when she's positive, and I know she has the potential to be positive... She just chooses to play the negative card o…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:27 AM
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How do you suggest I do this
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:08 AM
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Thanks. Just not extreme interest like she is. Also I think there should be a clear line -- otherwise I'll be nexting every single girl and would use that as an excuse to never leave my comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:07 AM
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That's a frame I already have, however, I believe I should assert it more often to remind girls. Any you and her time is 100% you and her time and both of you don't send texts, read emails and the like during it. I told her to get off her phone whenever we're out. She usually gives me a reason and apologizes afterward, but sometimes she just takes it out perhaps instinctively. How do I assert myself and make it clear that phones are off-bounds?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 12:57 AM
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Are there any guides on LTR game?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 12:22 AM
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I complete agree. Always lacked a father figure, and reading Models, hitting the gym, developing beneficial habits and removing poor habits over the past year made me a better person overall. One year ago I struggled to wake up in the morning, and every night, I wouldn't even bother brushing my teeth. This year, I've developed beneficial habits like meditating, lifting, dieting, etc. Though I still have a lot to improve on when it comes to being social!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 01:43 PM
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