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They sexually objectify themselves by presenting nothing but sex to men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/24 12:34 AM
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The women who sleep around and have bastard kids irresponsibly aren't exactly bright nor academically-inclined. Even if they work hard they inevitably work in shitty low paying jobs. Also you'll be surprised to know, that promiscuous women are mostly from the conservative spectrum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/24 12:33 AM
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Catch-22. Women only are keen on being friends with a guy they are already interested in. Otherwise, he's just an acquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:18 PM
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Sure, be nothing but a walking vagina and don't get surprised a man walks out from you once he gets bored of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:34 AM
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Let's also consider this, that when men cold approach they cold approach the hot ones first. Take your 1% result, and multiply this with the ratio of healthy vs obese in a country. If you are in USA....well tough luck dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:22 AM
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A reasonable answer. I agree. Also take into account the extreme ease for women to get dates via social media which pretty much disincentivizes them from touching grass while single, and the paranoia against men that is very prevalent in conservative societies like USA (compared to more liberal Europe) as well as in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:20 AM
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And the moment the population of men starts hitting a certain critical mass, say, 25%, the social shaming of men starts happening. ie "This is not Tinder! Do not use this space to hit on women!!" Meanwhile women use these exact same spaces with the intent to get hit on by Chads. "Just don't be a creep while doing it, dude". Creep = ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:17 AM
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Ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:15 AM
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I don't need to say, just take a look at actual bars today. They are not mostly filled with single women, but women with partners and cockblockers. The ones mostly trying to hook up are guys. Why waste one's time going to the bar when a girl can just stay at home and swipe? It's much cheaper, much easier and much safer for her to do so. With the exception of being venues for Afro-Latin social night dances where actual approaches happen, cold approaches at bars is a trend that is dying very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:14 AM
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And the occasional male orbiter who is either completely asexual/uninterested or interested but kept on the leash by a cautious peppering of friendzoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:11 AM
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Because women only go there with a boyfriend or a personal army of cockblockers, not when single. They stay at home and swipe if they are single because 'oh noes stranger danger' and 'attraction is important.'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:11 AM
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Women do NOT like to go out while single. They would much rather stay home and swipe if they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:55 PM
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Yeah, but counterarguments: 1 - Low end hookers aren't really that good at sex. You have to blow your wallet to get actual good sex from hookers. 2 - STDs. No matter how much you bathe, use condoms, refrain from kissing, not doing oral sex, etc, you will stand at a high risk of getting STDs from hookers. Granted, there are research that says casual sex is even risker than hookers, but keep in mind low end hookers tend to work in less sanitary conditions and pressured by their pimps to maintain a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:37 AM
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Take dating advice from people who do not have a vested interest in grifting and selling courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:27 AM
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"Top 10 signs it is time to move on from your relationship" Lists 10 signs that are extremely petty and amounts to 'I'm bored' or 'no roller coaster'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:24 AM
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"You're the prize, so there is no need to showcase to men just how much of a prize you are. Just your face is enough. Then scold men for objectifying you while you are objectifying and sexualizing yourself. Go girl yasss queeen!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:24 AM
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Also a list of how many pump and dumps she's had. The longer the list, the more she gets dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:23 AM
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The female equivalent of the redpill grift. Gotta grift money from the Chad-chasing women, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:22 AM
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Exactly!! This will not deter dumbos and creepos from messaging a woman because they just don't care, and they prescribe to the amateur belief of 'just shooting their shot', mass messaging every pretty face on the social media space.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:21 AM
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Look I can showcase numerous hugely conservative Asian countries where looks are at an extreme premium, and how men who excel in those places tend to be of the handsome, playa types - ie Japan, China, South Korea, India, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore. They are not havens for your typical potbellied agreeable invisible beta who is only good for his money to thrive in. In fact, the converse is actually true that these are exactly the places you hear the most about 'herbivores' from. We ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:08 PM
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From where I am, in a conservative country where casual sex is frowned upon and patriarchal values runs high, women become very guarded against men and ironically as a result become even more picky and only choosing men who are better looking and/or richer than them. The less willing they want to have casual sex, the MORE they actually want to be with the alpha guys, because otherwise due to their innate distrust for men they would much rather stay single. One overlooks the fact that alpha guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:48 PM
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So attraction is determined at the start but can also change later on? Ie a guy becomes fat or acts like an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:02 AM
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Why not take precautions against the worst case scenarios in your life, but no, let's not take precautions at all when it comes to someone you marry? Oh no, we have to have a hotline for domestic abuse, ya know, just in case your husband or wife beats you up or humiliates you, even though you are supposed to TRUST your partner not to do those, but noooooooo for having sex with other people until she gets pregnant / he gets others pregnant, we can't have safeguards against that? Oh no, that's so …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:42 AM
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Oh but I definitely want to know if the baby isn't mine because if my wife is audacious enough to dog it raw with another guy, WITHOUT PROTECTION, MULTIPLE TIMES, until she gets pregnant, and never tells me about it, oh boy oh boy, the number of skeletons I would uncover from her closet just how many more transgressions in our marriage she had committed or planning to commit further down the road. Also STDs, I ain't gonna stick in to a wife if it turns out the guy is a playa with AIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:24 AM
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Women who moan 'but muh trust!" When confronted with paternity testing should leave their front doors unlocked. What, can you not trust burglars and serial killers to not invade your home?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:22 AM
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No. If she has to bring it up, that means she is not over it, has never been, and it will continue to haunt her for as long as she keeps bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:37 PM
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The same with all the Afro-Latin dance communities I've been to. As usual, Chad types get the exception on approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:49 AM
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Exactly. I don't hate them, I pity them. I hope they can be at a place where they can freely express themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:31 AM
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It actually means a good looking man whose awful traits women tolerate because hot. Ugly bad boys get treated like scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:53 PM
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Men don't approach because of the fact that women who want to approach don't really want to be outside to be approached. Those who are outside tend to already have boyfriends - hence that's why they are outside in the first place. No shame among their peers, no need to feel envious seeing other girls couple up. The rate of failure in approaching is insane and not to mention the various risks of exaggerated claims of 'harassment' that can ensue if he fails. I have female friends with no boyfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:18 PM
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While a handsome man gets exempted from the same exact criticism even if he is doing a lousy job approaching. He succeeds = 'god, he is sooo confident and brave!', he fails = 'it's harmless, no biggie'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:16 PM
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"Same here. Bump into me at a grocery store, help me pickup my oranges and overly expensive avocados, tell me I have pretty eyes with a cheeky smile while you're done putting them back in my basket." Just be extremely handsome while at it! Otherwise you are 'creepy' and 'desperate'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:15 PM
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Cold approaching is becoming increasingly criminalized for non-Chad men yet increasingly rewarded for Chad men. That is why we see the oversaturation of males on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:11 PM
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Something about the hiring criteria attracts the kind of people who cheat. Yes, the kind of people who treat each other not as human beings, but as machines to extract value from in a negative-sum relationship. If you don't want something from an employee you don't talk to him/her. A reward for working for 50 years is a cake. Can't have actual negative value coming out from you, you. It's about the profits! People who see each other from the value they can get from them and only take and relucta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:29 PM
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Although many women argue that it’s the right way to date and it’s the way to prevent being attached… It's not, and it's never. They'll soon find ways to apply the same exact thinking to a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:39 PM
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Somebody made toadfishing experiments - ie making a profile of an extremely ugly woman on Tinder and holy fucking lord, the utter simping from even 10/10 men. Granted many of them use auto-swipe browser extensions, but still!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:01 PM
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As a citizen of the fattest country in southeast Asia (google it), yes, a 'normal average woman' is obese and any woman who isn't fat is already 'queens of their year at school' type and gets a disgusting amount of attention from men, very little incentive to develop an substantial amount of personality that would have otherwise allowed her to have a hook to connect in a deeper level with a man. She gets bored of 'trying to get to know a guy' very quickly as texts become dry and she defaults qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:45 PM
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women conflate who they can sleep with with who they can get a relationship with, especially in this day and age of dating. They also conflate probability with possibility - there is a very small chance she could sleep her way to a relationship a top man by charming him with sex like a succubus, therefore very small chance = certainty. It's like the mentality of a compulsive gambler. the type of men most women want are not on dating apps looking for their mrs. right. what remains are the attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:23 PM
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The level of disrespect and contempt women have for plain Jakes (?) are staggering. So many "no harassment plz" and "This place is not tinder okay!?" rules enforced at social circles entirely to shame normal guys from even attempting to befriend women while Chads freely use these same spaces to get laid. "I met my boyfriend at work. He hit on me for 6 whole months!" Yeah, and an average guy will get reported to HR for attempting to do that for a single day. 'Salsamaxxing' is a thing, but average…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:12 PM
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Because hypergamy - only being attracted to the MOST ATTRACTIVE men out there instead of one who already acceptably decent enough for a relationship - and that attractiveness is most of the time purely physical rather than holistic. Anything less is 'muh settling', and you beat yourself up and self-sabotage relationships after a few months with the toxic thought 'is this the best I can do?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:05 PM
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You're attracted to Chad men who go after what they want. If it's any other guy, it's 'creepy' and will get him banned from every single social circle for 'harassment'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:43 PM
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Exactly this. Women always assume the worst in men. The more misogynistic the place's culture, the worse it gets. And this also ironically is why hypergamy is so horribly bad in those same places because of how women avoid men like the plague but give cautious exceptions to the very rich / handsome ones, the rare types they won't ever get to meet on an every day basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:41 PM
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"Yeah, do you think I should go on the date or??? I don't want to end up being just another hole" And she still goes for that shirt-allergic guy. Because shit - there is that small chance he is a prince beneath a man-slut so let's jump on that small chance! Better that than entertaining the sub-Chads and dry texting them out of boredom. She would try to at least 'be friends' with a sub-Chad but realizes she's a prolific dry texter due to her close to zero personality out of a whole life of upbri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:14 PM
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2 almost never happens as I observe. It's the opposite - women cherry pick the apex top then try to tolerate red flags downward. It's not holistic, it's superficial at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:11 PM
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Pick the guy who is allergic to shirts, with square pecs and abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:50 AM
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Given the large number of options naturally they choose the top (you have to select somehow, after all). Sorry but no. Even if they have no option they will only choose the top. Because 'muh independence' and 'AtRaCtIoN iS iMpOrTaNt". If only the most attractive gets them to consider, then there is the deeper crux of the problem at play - women hate men. They simpy wont be with men unless if that man is a very rare super high quality men they can't afford to pass up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:49 AM
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Women are expecting guys who look like playas to want to be serious. Hey, I remember when my female friend showed me tinder guys who look like strippers and the women swipe at them hoping to find a husband, lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:46 AM
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An 'asshole' is simply a very good looking guy that gets misinterpreted as being contrarian, rebellious and brave, because girls are simping and hamstering in his presence. They much rather lie to themselves than accept that the guy is indeed an asshole and as a result miss out on getting some with a rare, good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:23 AM
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Actually a more nuanced explanation IMO is that alphas ie sexually attractive men can do anything barring glaringly obvious red flags and they'll still be attractive. Just be physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:22 AM
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Women only see Chads and can say what Chads can do to become attractive, not baseline men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:02 AM
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I can already see the typical rebuttal to OP from a mile away... Want to ask out that cute girl you see at the library? Don't do that you weirdo, she's there to study and doesn't want to be bothered! "But you inshul! My <EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE> boyfriend tailed me non-stop for six whole months and disturbed me every single time at the library. See? Your theory is invalid! My <EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE> boyfriend did it, therefore ALL men in the entire planet should do it too! <Yes, even the ugly ones, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:49 AM
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Good theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:45 AM
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he won’t help will kids or housework Okay get a maid. "Oh no, how dare he suggests hiring a maid. I am a stay at home wife!" Says the stay at home wife who doesn't actually use her abundant free time to do house work. Also in before tradcon. I am in an actually traditional country, and families hire maids all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:21 AM
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Oh wow, sooooo abusive verbally and emotionally that nobody saw them coming. It's like every guy in the planet is a Lex Luthor genius at manipulation hiding everything until the fucking/marrying is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:20 AM
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Exactly! Relationships, especially -married- relationships, are a compromise. You have to put up to make it work. If you are not willing to put up and make personal sacrifices, stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:18 AM
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When you marry your partner because "aTraCtIon Is ImPoRtAnT" instead of a deeper, more emotional, more spiritual reason such as you wanting a deeply bonded companionship that only grows deeper with age, and to provide a pillar for your children to grow up, of course you will end up hating your husband/wife eventually in a few years. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Relationships are a -compromise-, a compromise you have to make in return for greater rewards in the future. If you want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:17 AM
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Yes, thank you for correcting me. Indeed you are correct that pursuing is a more proper word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:56 PM
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Chasing is actually necessary in the process of courtship. What's not okay is you being the one chasing all the time. A guy needs to actually stop once in a while and let the girl chase. If she does not do any chasing at all and you have to constantly pester her to keep the connection going, well just lick your wounds and move on, bro. That's a tell tale sign that in spite of the veneer of openness she is not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:23 PM
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Or if they get married, these thirst-magnets are always divorcing early due to 'irreconcilable differences' often with a very attractive male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:41 AM
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No wonder those typical "I wanna be with you because you are a hot guy and literally nothing else!?!?!??" high school and college relationships don't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:47 AM
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Also because sex inevitably plummets after commitment phase, and this holds even more true ESPECIALLY for women who are shallow, the same exact shallow women who gravitate towards player guys to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:44 AM
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Chad chasing runs eternal. It actually gets worse as one gets older because of how a woman raises her standards based on the super hot guys she dated previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:39 PM
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All people are more accurately microeconomics problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:38 PM
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I agree. Imagine that all you need to do is open some stupid app on your phone and you get casual sex lined up. Your main concern is just filtering for red flags - which is easy peasy. You may NOT actually want super duper chad model giant dicks guys but hey, men way above your minimum attractiveness treshhold text you all the time and you have the pick of the litter, and you can entertain only one guy at a time, so why not pick the top %1 of them all. Welcome to the winner takes all effect of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:33 PM
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And tiktoking herself instead of actually training her butt off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:18 PM
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They want Chads to approach them, not the people of lesser birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:18 PM
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I blame Disneyfied tropes ie friending a woman long enough that REGARDLESS of her attraction, she falls for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:54 PM
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Yet they still can and will get laid using OLD, regardless of their complaints. It's not that they actually -can't-, unlike most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:48 AM
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they're only talking about stacies It's not just stacies. Even a girl who is just -acceptably attractive- ie not obese, immediately either has a boyfriend or is in a deep rebound of breaking up from a past boyfriend. The competition is extremely stiff in campus circles. but i thought 80% of women go for 20% of men? Again, winner takes all effect. There are huge numbers of participants in the campus market and regardless of the ratio, inevitably a narrow range of men dominates. While men also hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:47 AM
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The more damaged they are, the more traddy they become.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 01:53 AM
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That's why dating was so much easier in college College is as 'I got a boyfriend' as it gets for women. Look at the numerous rants by men on campus forums that every girl has a boyfriend. Girls get paired up horribly, horribly fast and due to the winner takes all effect of the large number of participants in the scene Chad-types ie the cool musicians, conversationalists, athletes, or just handsome dudes, inevitably dominate. It's easy of course, for you as a woman. Plus the barrier of men=scary …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:49 AM
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"The best way to meet people are situations where you are exposed to the opposite sex in no pressure situations and you see the same people over and over again over time so relationships can organically happen. That doesnt happen alot now." Yes but actually no. In this current age women are so inundated with choices from just their phones (ie OLD and social media) that they can get boyfriends just from swiping right. So they go out mainly when they have either wing girls or boyfriends. Women bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:46 AM
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Barring red flags, everything goes if a man is attractive. Even someone who does not bend over backwards to appease beautiful women - which is what people say is now chivalry rather than the original Frankish code of conduct for nobility classes in the late medieval era (by the way, Book of Chivalry warns AGAINST sucking up to pretty women), will be interpreted as someone 'cool' and 'confident'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:11 AM
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Absolutely. A person's height is a measure of a good man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/23 01:58 AM
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Absolutely. Rules get broken if someone is good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:53 AM
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They are hoping for that one low chance of actually sleeping their way to a marriage with Mr Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:53 AM
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On date one if she reels away when you hold her hand or kiss her cheek, it's a hard pass. She's not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:52 AM
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I'm pretty sure the women rapid swiping left on Tinder are filtering for personality. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 02:05 PM
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Because nerds are abusive guys too, just ugly. <- I don't say this. Women proudly say this in r/niceguys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 11:45 AM
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A woman is fully justified that 'Attraction is Important! (tm)' demanding height in men, but woe be to men to demand the far more achievable requirement of not being obese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:22 AM
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In my experience women like to be diplomatic when rejecting someone, and that is from inventing a Schrodinger's Boyfriend to telling someone he is too much like a brother to him or that the friendship will be ruined. Which is stupid bollocks. What is a boyfriend if not also a friend? Better say those than say a guy is not attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:20 AM
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They love the toxicity from a VERY ATTRACTIVE man. If any other man does it, it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:18 AM
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Remember, tall is important. Because 'AtTrAcTioN'!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 11:04 PM
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If you are bitching so much that it takes soooooooooooooo long and it's soooooooooooooooooo hard to do domestic chores, maybe you are not so good at it to begin with? You know, just like the slob you claim to hate but still let him fuck you anyways?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 08:51 AM
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Pump and dump Push and Flush Wham and Slam
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 04:11 AM
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Absolutely true. They like to gaslight their baby daddies with "He's suck a jerk and an asshole! So toxic! So manipulative!" But often times in the relationship with the unfortunate guy they exhibit the exact same traits as the guy they split from. Women are who they fuck. Don't delude yourself into thinking (barring actual rape) women 'accidentally' fuck people they are not parallel with personality-wise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 04:10 AM
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"Stahlp ObJectiFyinG Meh!" Proceeds to post nude pics online entirely on her own will.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 04:06 AM
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I bet she goes full max Chad chasing out of insecurity of her own appearance. The more good looking the man, the bigger her ego boost, the more she can forget about thinking of her own body.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 04:03 AM
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"But AtTracTiOn Is iMpoRtAnT you incsul! /s" proceeds to only swipe right on the MOST ATTRACTIVE ones instead of anyone attractive enough, get wasted, then cry about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 03:58 AM
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It gets so bad that apparently every guy is a 200 IQ super mastermind manipulator that would make Lex Luthor blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:21 PM
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This. Stuck up, insufferable behavior transcend age or appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:03 AM
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I know at the very least everybody uses the term alpha and beta ie in sales. You gotta be an 'alpha' in order to chase leads and close deals, for example. Or in grindset talks where being a beta shmuck will make you lose opportunities and so you gotta stop being a spineless shy little shit in doing business. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:19 AM
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Don't forget gaslight her boyfriend too the moment she gets caught "Hurrrr it's because you don't trust me that I slept with him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:33 AM
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I can confirm, I know a woman who is obsessed with looks and has a serious personality flaw, like a penchant for racist bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:45 AM
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Save expensive dates for those who are already your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife. Otherwise, stay cheap and stay cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:43 AM
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There are very fulfilling things in life a man can do. Chasing women isn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:42 AM
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Yea a lot of women's Tinder profiles are atrocious yet men swipe on them anyways. Thirsty and desperate, no self-pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:20 AM
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They're not looking for easy casual sex, they would be happy just to have a loving girlfriend. Go to r/niceguys and see how incels actually act beyond what they say. They always want to talk about sex and speedrun-lovebomb the hell out of the women they talk to, all the while also saying they refuse to be friends with women. What is a relationship with a girlfriend then if not also a friendship? Isn't a girlfriend also a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:20 AM
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Or you guys can stop using OLD and have a social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:18 AM
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the college ratio is now around 60% women/40% men and growing. Let us not see this and say this is an advantageous situation for men. In STEM majors men still hugely dominate, and the more M of the STEM majors (ie pure math, data science, software engineering) involved, the more men dominate. Even in college men will find themselves having a scarcity of women to meet unless they take the extra initiative to step outside of their default social circles and mingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:46 AM
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Any platform that is filled with men looking for romance and simultanously saying that they are not interested in friendship with women, are bound to be filled with perverts and assholes. Perverts and assholes discourage women from using those platforms. Besides, women feel very much pressured if a man tries to speedrun a relationship and skip the friendship part of a relationship, further discouraging women from using these apps. They much prefer to meet in person and find partners in a warm ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:37 AM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Win over a woman that plays hard to get only to get a woman who is just all that, so not worth the annoyance and bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:32 AM
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Being a racist bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:37 PM
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Honestly, if your only attraction factor to a man is your looks, you can easily get replaced. As the Chinese saying goes, there is always someone out there better than you. A man who can bag hot girls is super hot shit to the eyes of other girls who will also tempt him non-stop. Also normalizing to someone's looks is a thing, though often not discussed. It's like lootboxes - you can never get enough of just one shiny bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:40 AM
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looksmax and make friends, then you will never suffer from this situation. Everything an unattractive person does works against him. Cold or warm approach, same outcome. He will always be branded as creepy and desperate. Hence be attractive, don't be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:05 AM
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I just watched the video, and I just started thinking.....do you guys actually -want- to date those trashy women messaging that guy? Really? Seriously? Where's your self-respect and dignity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:11 AM
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A person on Tinder can brag about 'date a lot' but he is only meeting the type of woman who flock to such apps. Woman of higher quality do not flock to Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:54 AM
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Oh really, nice like what? Taking care of orphanages? Caring for the elderly? Or just 'nice guy' nice? Because that is not what I observe right here. Women with a good moral character do NOT get turned on by assholes. Not even once. Dumb and trashy women do, on the other hand. Like I said, if she is only happy if you abuse her and treat her like crap, that's not the wife you want to have, that's not the mother you want to have for your kids. She will treat your kids like crap because what would …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:52 AM
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I think there needs to be a strong highlight that many guys overlook, that women who are into assholes are also assholes. So yes, you are sticking dick into crazy with that strategy. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:45 AM
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I'd be embarrassed to introduce a woman who is into assholes, jerks, criminals, murderers and rapists to my friends and parents. If that's the kind of woman you want to build your life with and marry, be my guest. I hope you are happy with your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:31 AM
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https://igotstandardsbro.com/ Even if such a mythical man exists, is that woman a goddess in flesh to match up with this person? Far from it, in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 05:45 AM
1

At the pub I'm going at Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur the old timers are the best dancers. Hardly anyone drinks and even if they do order something alcoholic it's cheap beer and they drink just a bit without getting inebriated. On Sundays most of them actually order coffee. Pubs centered around providing a place for ballroom dance socials and classes are not places where people get drunk, do PUA cold approach and for girls to form cockblocking cliques stopping others from mingling. I know it's a whole d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:48 AM
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Absolutely terrific for making friends, first and foremost. Ballroom dance works wonders to melt the ice between men and women, and it helps to shatter the common perception that you need to only dance with those you are attracted to - once again, the example of the old guys actually being the best and most enjoyable dancing partners. It's a humbling experience too that makes one really qualify someone beyond just looks. That 5/10 guy suddenly looks like a 10/10 when he smoothly dances even just…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:38 PM
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True. A lot of inexperienced guys assume the girl is just shy. Nope, she's just not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:31 PM
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Not bars, but I am thinking something like certain pubs where the atmosphere is more chill, and people are there to mingle by doing Latin dance. Guys have a better chance there at meeting girls. The people there both guys and girls are very, very decent folks. High socio-economic status folks who all agree to ditch OLD in favor of mingling in person. They are friendly and approachable. Hardly anyone drinks with the intent of getting drunk. There is little pressure in cold approaching. Just be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:25 PM
1

I'm gonna say no, don't rely on her being a bitch to know she isn't into you. Women are extremely good at faking it. Women don't want to be labeled as 'That Girl' so they would go to great lengths to smile and make eye contact at guys who approach them, even pretend to give numbers before ghosting and not replying as they make excuses of being busy. A better indicator is if she refuses to talk to you if uninitiated and does things by herself. Don't chase her. Make her try to reach out to you or …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:16 PM
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Not only he got her at her worst but she sure as hell won't act at her best with him. It's gonna be vanilla starfish sex with little foreplay with him and she'll blame him for 'not exciting her enough' to not agree to do any kinky thing that she would freely do with the other guys she genuinely likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:54 PM
1

Imagine that even with lookism + affirmative action hiring being so blatant in STEM for women they still don't want to be a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:50 AM
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True, and in the context of STEM jobs, my coding school has a super-wide open door policy for welcoming female students. They even have a dirty secret of lowering admission standards for women and admitting those with pretty faces. And still no, 95% of the students here are male. And sure, they wanna keep on harping about 'muh sexism' in the workplace and education. No, women discriminate themselves. That is the brutal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:41 AM
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There are actually women who think men get sex and spin plates easily, and that they are douchebags, lie to women, keep secrets, refuse to reveal their feelings and and are distant from everyone else except when it comes to fucking. And try to guess where these women meet men from. Yes, that is apex fallacy at its finest. When the only men that women notice are the top 20 percent Chads and Gigachads who can get casual sex just from posting a single shirtless photo on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:38 AM
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Modern women also romanticize the past and conveniently forget that jobs beyond menial labor are pretty much unavailable for 99% of both men and women, and wealth inequality and lack of freedom of speech are chronic, and everyone had to work back-breaking menial labor far beyond comfortable hours and still have to somehow, some way, make time to do all the crazy long hours of doing something as inane as fetching water - because no, you can't even have pipes. You gotta queue a long line to fetch …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:40 PM
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The whole study is a big nothing burger if you ask me. Omagerd, girls enjoy sex more with guys they genuinely like. Omagerd, foreplay makes orgasms more achievable and satisfying! Quick, pen that to Nature! Get that shit peer reviewed! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:28 AM
4

Curtseying intensifies, for the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:58 AM
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I knew a Stacy that told me she hated all men except a few. Big fucking surprise, misandrists will only attract men who will give them negative experiences. It's like the same old scenario of how women bemoan men only want to befriend them to get in their pants, but they actively discourage men from even befriending them, so men with genuine intentions of wanting to be friends will just go away and befriend other men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:57 AM
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In my experience women are the only ones who give this advice. It’s because they’re privileged with value for simply being a woman It's apex fallacy thinking at its finest. Women date on tutorial mode, so they assume that the elite 10% of men they allow to fuck them are also dating on tutorial mode, hence all men date on tutorial mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:31 AM
1

And crabs are incredibly persistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:22 AM
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Jack Black is the rare chubby yet handsome guy. A Chubby Chad with a great sense of humor to boot. But I get your point regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:33 PM
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Are we talking pre-industrial revolution / medieval ages traditional life? Because that life's depressing as fuck. A traditional life means backbreaking physical labor for pittances in wages due to unscrupulous middlemen and landlords. Means having to walk over a mile just to fetch water. Means not having your own bathroom because that's a luxury for the nobles. Means marrying within your caste and not having delusions of being a non-contributing stay at home wife of a prince or merchant lord. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:42 PM
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For women, not for men. It's easy mode for women to find partners at workplaces because not only they have a buffet of men, but they can even bat above and seduce the bosses too. And if they find undesirable men hitting on them? The HR is a phonecall away. It's like OLD with brutal mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:02 AM
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The downside is if you piss a woman off she can exaggerate every thing you did with her as sexual harassment and make you lose your job. Yes, even over a Dongle joke shared between dudes at a tech convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:01 AM
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Most workplaces are sausage fests, so good luck trying to compete to win a girl's attention when Chad gets all the ladies in sausage fest places. Women are spoiled for choice, and given their natural inclination to prioritize looks Chad wins, and you lose. Also every thing you do outside of idle acquaintance chatter as a non-Chad is sexual harrassment and a woman can easily report you to the HR if she loses her patience. So be patient, play the long game, be friends with her months and months...…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:00 AM
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If I notice a woman with better personality and go for her instead of a more attractive woman, as men always do when they have the choice, then that makes me not a shallow person. The problem is women simply do NOT have good personalities, nor do they care to cultivate good personalities. So men have to then qualify women based on the secondary trait which is looks. If I want a room that is under my budget, and all the rooms are beyond my budget of course I will then pick a room that is based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:50 AM
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Well, most of these guys aren't even dealing with these career women to begin with to know whether or not she has "masculine traits." Instead, they just go for a young woman due to her youth & beauty. Because approaching and having relationships with career women are becoming increasingly criminalized that men simply do not bother, why should they when they can risk losing their own jobs. They can mainly approach the former at workplaces, and when they do connect alternatively on OLD these women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:41 AM
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Those career women often have excessively masculine traits that men find off-putting like hot temper, impatience, competitiveness, stubbornness and selfishness. So a man has to choose between a dead personality old hag, and a dead personality young beauty, he would go with the latter, use her, and then chuck her once she has aged out and go for another young beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:14 AM
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4 -- Don't be a useless bitch. That is mandatory too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:03 AM
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Perhaps. I do see a lot of cases where men stay loyal to a fat wife when she is being a very pleasant and supportive companion. Men are very forgiving on looks, beyond non-fat. Men even are more willing to date outside of their own race. Women on the other hand tend to be very, very particular of appearances, and not even on tangible attributes but on non-tangible ones like height, skin color, hair color, race and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:02 AM
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FYI, men are the ones that came up with the term simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:48 AM
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It is what it is, women simply do not like those. But if you ask me to try to rationalize, it's probably because intensity and passion are masculine traits and if go unchecked will lead to men becoming thirsty, lovebombing simps. This is in contrast to the feminine traits of modesty and restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:44 AM
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Men are not the shallower gender. Men value personality more in themselves and in the women they want to attract. They may get charmed by a woman's looks at first, but the personality is going to be the real deal-breaker that is going to make a guy stick around. Marriages are broken and infidelity occurs often times because the man simply gets bored of his mate once he has been normalized to her beauty. Women conversely place huge importance on appearances and very little on personality. See how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:37 AM
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That is the normal way to go with things. Act normal and reserved to those who are not a part of your exclusive inner circle, and this goes even to acts of courtship. Show a bit of interest, but act respectful and cordial for the most part. Don't act like you are a husband to a girl who is not even your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:29 AM
5

Simping and love bombing are a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:27 AM
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But if a man you are not interested in does this, you shame him to oblivion and lobby to have this to be a criminal act. Chads of course get the free pass every time. What really works as I observe is just act normal with a girl and cautiously flirt to probe for interest in a relationship in the meantime. It is only when I get in a relationship with a girl that I act like that. Or again, be a Chad. Rules are broken if a guy is a Chad. Good looks are such a rarity that a woman is willing to break…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:26 AM
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Women have far, far more men using OLD and they can't find prime years Brad Pitt who is not an asshole! They should be able to just swipe-a-husband and let him do all the talking and planning while they go about being perpetually busy in their low-end careers while the man then one day at a convenient time of their own choosing marry them and then SAHM them afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:29 PM
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Anybodyoutthere, but that website has long been closed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:05 PM
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Saying hi is so difficult omageeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerd!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:04 PM
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Agree, odor is an often overlooked attractiveness criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:55 AM
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It's like a lot of these reddit guys set their compasses to attract specifically women who do not value loyalty and make all these insane theories about ovulation, warm homes and whatever the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:13 AM
3

There are two orbiters - meteorites and moons. Meteorites get to touch ground and fuck her. Moons stay forever in orbit and only provide one-sided benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:08 AM
2

Women who complain that men only want to get in their pants subconsciously reject men who sincerely want to be friends with them. Also they live their lives mostly in environments where cold approaching is strongly criminalized like in professional workplaces, and rarely mingle in physical social meets where people gather and make friends. If I want to make friends with you and notice this extremely negative vibe, lack of trust, paranoia, even misandry coming from you, I just don't even bother. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:52 AM
1

Novel idea: go make friends in places where women actually have intentions to find friends, like social meetup events.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:07 AM
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And how evil stepmothers are such a common trope in fairy tales of all cultures throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:12 AM
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Oh he would, she would just have to FDS enough and be a demanding bitch, the more bitchy she is the more men want to marry her /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:13 AM
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Internet women are not normies, of course they go for non-normie men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:12 AM
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She even implies that 'once every two weeks' is going to be a lot, meaning the normal volume is gonna be like once every two months. And if she feels moody, say goodbye to having sex like ever. Even the most vanilla acts like fondling genitals would be too disgusting for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 12:13 AM
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Funny how when they enact their dual mating strategy they always wanna SAHM and be a useless parasite when in their Chad chasing phase they are all saying they wanna be stronk and independent and all that shit. They want men to respect them when they are chasing Chads and now they want to be treated like children when they are 'settling down'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 12:07 AM
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LOL 'pressured', we all know what is pressuring her - the chiseled jaw and abs and dick of a Chad. It's not like her exes are threatening to slice her or anything like that. Either she does all the things she hates, or Chad nexts her. Which makes it even more of a compelling reason for the engagement to be broken of. If she makes rules for man B but breaks rules for man A, clearly she likes man A more. It makes complete logical sense. And what's gonna stop her from breaking her own rules and fuc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 12:05 AM
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I agree. Jestermaxx is absolute nightmare fuel cringe. Guys who do that attract women who are passive princesses with a huge ego. Sure, you might be the funniest person on the planet. But why are you not going for a woman who can be funny like you too? Why go for a Queeeeeenz who wants guys to amuse her and entertain her at her every little beckon? Jesters are also called 'Fools' for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:44 AM
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Indeed, thus my stance to not to pay but instead to share. Besides, women who are serious about meeting men who are not going to be needy and feel owed something will insist on not be paid anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:21 AM
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He doesn't want to pay = he wants you, but is not simping for you. And ultimately girls prefer guys who do not simp. Hence Chads who don't pay but get to fuck for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:34 AM
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man who can pay for dates is superior to a man who expects a woman to contribute to dates, as he provides better provisioning capabilities compared to a man who can't afford it. Naaaaaa, it doesn't take a whole lot to buy a plate of rice for some girl. What does it cost, 5 bucks? Look at meh I'm superior to all the other men in existence! A man who expects a woman to pay her half until a relationship is fully formed is the strongest of all other men because he is in a position of strength, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:33 AM
1

Absolutely. Only pay the bill when she's already your girlfriend. She won't object.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:30 AM
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I always go dutch because I believe in egalitarism and it's also a great way to filter out gold diggers and time wasters. Even if I pay it's only for coffees or at restaurants that serve cheap yet tasty foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:27 AM
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Settling is valid if one is still happy with their choice. It's when someone is merely putting up, pretending, forcing themselves to and then starting to hate who they are settling for, that is what I have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:40 PM
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I think it's also true that if a man is in a superior position to a woman he is more likely to be treated well in terms of having housework done for him (e.g. dishes, laundry) Debatable. I personally believe it comes down to the woman's discipline. One should take a good look at her house and how she lives her daily life while single. Does she keeps her room sparkly clean? How often does she cook her own meals? And also work. Some may disagree with me on this, but I always found that women who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:35 PM
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I see, maybe like with Match.com I can set hobbies and interests that are niche/high investment to filter out the fake profiles along with the minimum-effort ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:17 PM
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I doubt that the novelty of the 'magic' would hold any weight in the long term. Because I know that people with low n-counts and at younger ages actually feel stronger compulsions to break relationships just to be able to get into new ones while they are still young - the FOMO tingles, as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:13 PM
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I think it comes down to vetting that a woman is genuinely in love with a man and not just putting up just to get married - aka 'settling' with a 'second choice'. The attraction has to be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:07 AM
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Hmm, sounds promising. I'll check it out. Maybe Malaysian girls would be less 'shy' (more like lazy) when they go on Hinge. That's the one thing I dislike about Tinder, on how it tends to attract users (of both sides) who are minimum-effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:53 AM
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I haven't had the chance to use Hinge, but given what OP describes, it seems to be just the same - a hot or not swipe app. But I will reserve my judgement that maybe the quality of users there would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:42 AM
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When I use Tinder the female profiles tend to be mediocre for the most part. 90% are profiles with not a single alphabet, and when they do write something it's mostly to complain about shitty exes or saying "no hookups" or acting like an insufferable queen "make me laugh" So yes, I do believe that men tend to have better profiles on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:27 AM
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When a woman complains it's always about them looksmax-matching on someone and then bitching about why the uber-ultra-super-mega-Chad they matched with is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:21 AM
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Trying to be a Chad is an exercise of futility. You can always be out-Chadded by someone else and physical attraction is ultimately subjective. But a deeper attraction that goes beyond superficiality is very difficult to be supplanted and actually grows stronger the longer a relationship lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:06 AM
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I think it's crucial for a man to distinguish whether he is a woman's second love or a woman's second choice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:05 AM
4

I bet we will see a reversal of the gender wage gap in our lifetime. Never, as long as women refuse by their own will to do highly paid and high in demand jobs. Coding schools are notorious ultra sausage fests even today with all the initiatives to increase female enrolment. Even if they go to STEM they typically almost never go beyond to senior level where the pay increases substantially. And this goes even to all fields as well. The highly paid specialists in any given field are and always wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:51 AM
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Yes, if the woman is in settling mode. If she marries you for money. If she has no appreciation for saving money for a rainy day. If what you did during marriage ticked her off and earning money gives her the exit ticket to break the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:50 AM
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And a whole lot more as surplus for trust funds, vacations, higher education, marriage for children. Marriages with two highly educated working professionals tend to be the most stable and the happiest. And yes like sushii said leave the house sometimes. I know that incels and dateless men like to fantasize having a bangamaid cattle-wife to cope with being unlikeable as a man but I am telling ya'll that such marriages tend to be lopsided and unstable. There needs to be an equilibrium in attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:00 AM
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What's missing from modern dating is the willingness to be present in person and mingle. Texting is a horrible medium for creating attraction and building rapport. You get to know a person a whole lot more and really feel him/her through meeting in person and talking rather than hiding behind screens and words. Dating is a social activity and requires physical participation. "Too busy" is an excuse that doesn't fly with me. Just like with everything else, participation is the absolute base prere…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:55 AM
2

My friend who is Malaysian who works in Japan tells me that the work life balance is better in Japan and people actually find time to meet up and socialize. But maybe he is biased, because one has to be a very highly skilled professional emigrate to Japan, and higher paid / high in demand jobs tend to have better working conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:07 AM
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I think in simpler terms...regardless of a woman's background, she wants a man who is able to complement them and 'fill in their gaps'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:04 AM
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Extroversion or introversion is not the main issue. The main issue is people simply not giving a shit about human relationships beyond intrinsic value ie wanting sex, money or favors. And also not culivating social skills. I just find it pathetic that one uses careers and some stupid Myer's Briggs personality chart as excuses not to get good even at something as basic as making friends. "Ooooh I'm an introvert so I'm not gonna make friends anyways so why bother, right, right?" It's a defeatist, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:27 PM
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Viewing interactions as something purely for money and business is what pisses me off. I feel like a whore working in a workaholic environment. If they don't want money or work from me, they refuse to even want to say hi and talk to me. Co-workers treat each other even like nuisances or distractions, or at the very best, acquaintances, talking just enough that they don't get labeled as an antisocial creep. You wanna work till you drop and alienate everyone, cool. Then be at the top of the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:10 AM
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Dating is as much a quality as it is a quantity game. Don't be in a situation where you play stupid games just to win stupid prizes. I love it when guys keep suggesting on working on looks, just to win over women who are shallow and hollow. Yeah, keep try and get on top of the looks rat race and beat hypergamy. Then you'll get bored of shallow women and go MGTOW afterward. Being a Chad sounds so good until you become one. Tons of male celebrities and models now refuse to have long-term relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:08 AM
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Because approaching women is becoming criminalized, and you can thank superficial, choosy and shallow women for that. They are too spoiled for choice that they become disgusted at the audacity of sub-Chads even having a romantic interest in them. So flirting with women, except for Chads, is outlawed, and men don't even want to just converse with the intent of making friends. They don't want to risk their jobs and get #metoo'ed by a paranoid woman. So men with genuine intentions of making friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:05 AM
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I work hard enough in a stressful job thank you. I rather spend my free time relaxing then stressing out about socializing and rejections. Exactly. That's the kind of a life I refuse to have. Live to work and work hard so you can get a job that forces you to work even harder and be even more stressed out, to what end? Suicide in two decades? A life filled with cats, junk food, wine and video games? Alienating your own friends, parents, children and family? Workaholics are some of the most depres…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:00 AM
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I am in Malaysia and by default the people here are antisocial and perpetually busy - not busy with work, mind you, but busy with games and watching TV. We are a country that has one of the worst work life balances in the world, yet one of the least productive work per hour. We have a crap ton of holidays up the ass, even for something as inane as a royal's birthday, winning a football match, and people actually alienate themselves from each other even more during the holidays. Men spend so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:54 AM
1

So what if it is luck? You play stupid games, win stupid prizes if you rely on sausage fest venues to meet women. You have to be a Chad Thundercock just to score with a Becky, and like many Chads who arrive in the same situation they then spin plates because these Beckies are average to below average women just not worth committing to. And even spinning plates gets old really quick because such a waste of time could be invested in doing things that would genuinely make a man feel happy, hence MG…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:48 AM
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So what if it is luck? You play stupid games, win stupid prizes if you rely on sausage fest venues to meet women. You have to be a Chad Thundercock just to score with a Becky, and like many Chads who arrive in the same situation they then spin plates because these Beckies are average to below average women just not worth committing to. Highly desirable women do NOT like going to sausage fest venues. Actually women in general do not like places with an imbalanced male to female gender ratio excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:48 AM
2

It's not the penis count that bothers me, it's the bearers of such penises that do. What are the types of men that she genuinely gets butterflies for? That she starts catching feelings for? That she gets wet for? That she is willing to go beyond passive starfish vanilla sex for? If I am nothing like those guys, I ghost. Clearly she is in settling mode and is just pretending to like me so she can marry me and get my resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:03 PM
5

go to social events and talk to people, etc No. Guys who follow this advice will typically go to sausage fest venues and see one lone Chad Thundercock out of the dozens and hundreds of men getting all the girls. Women when they are spoiled for choice become INSANELY picky over looks,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:01 AM
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Recently I used Joseph Gordon Levitt as an example of "average" Holy shit, yeah I feel like giving up now. That guy is considered a Chad already by us men - someone who is already incredibly handsome. Yet women call him average!?, really? https://i0.wp.com/tim.blog/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/tfs_joseph-gordon-levitt_headshot.jpg?fit=731%2C1024&ssl=1&resize=1200,1680 This guy is just 'average' in looks? Are you fucking kidding me? No wonder men complain so much about hypergamy. There is just lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:46 AM
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Yes, because there is a high chance that a dead bedroom will soon follow. A woman's libido tanks, hard, when she gains weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:13 AM
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https://assets.booklocker.com/pdfs/2359s.pdf this author stresses just how women decides in a short period of meeting if a man is of sex / relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:06 AM
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12, 7, 3, doesn't matter. These are catchy numbers that are arbitrarily thrown by the seduction community. 12 and 7 are numbers most often used because they are the prettiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:02 AM
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Let's not forget also "Karen", the newest insult that is now trending, again hardly directed at a woman's appearance (other than the haircut) but mostly at a woman's demeanor and behavior (being impatient, masculine, demanding, insufferable, irrational, etc). My point still remains that women value and judge men by their appearances and assets, men value and judge women by their behavior and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:44 PM
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It IS a marketplace because there is a supply and there is a demand. There is a value of everyone participating in it, and there is an 'invisible hand' inevitably guiding everyone to meet their value matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:27 AM
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Anedote#1, I personally have NEVER, EVER, EVER, E-V-E-R came across an alpha widow whose ex wasn't a Chad. The guy these widows are pinning over and ruining their whole lives by becoming anti-social recluses are handsome men who are absolutely nothing else in the inside. Minus their looks and the men are just mundane men, immature men even. So yes, women blindly throw themselves at Chad and then cry foul when they meet men who are shallow and hollow, just like them. Anecdote #2. I have heard guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:19 AM
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Exactly. She has had casual sex with far hotter men than her boyfriend. AF / BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:57 AM
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Women get pumped and dumped by physically attractive men and then settle for less attractive men that they passed on earlier but came to like because of their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:56 AM
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Exactly. Women are super picky as hell over looks on OLD. Hence for guys, lay off the OLD and meet women on physical venues. Plus, a guy actually talking to a girl rather than texting already makes him more confident than most other guys anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:57 PM
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This goes beyond physicality too, IMHO. We men are conditioned to become focused and invested in something we want to achieve. This is the reason men are the best in every single field that has a specialization, even in activities that are predominantly done by women like cooking and fashion design. But this male instinct backfires horribly when we apply this to dating. Women hate it when we invest and focus on pursuing them. We use a computer and load up a web version of a chat app and type ful…
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:04 AM
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Yeah, which planet are these women from? From where I am, on planet Earth, in the city of Kuala Lumpur, most men are NOT fat, smelly, stinky men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:46 AM
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It's easy to break that perception tbh. Just get good at dance. Or just be Chad. Chad can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:40 AM
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Also if you got the moment, do read up Bruce Lee's bio. Prior to his career as an actor and martial artist he was a champion ballroom dancer, and he was drowning in pussy. Hell, the very moment he moved to the US his first dance partner was Miss Chinatown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:31 AM
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And that's why like in the OP, most guys are in the situation they are now. IMHO just taking up dance makes a guy really stand out from the majority of the other guys in a girl's social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:30 AM
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Yes, if you love ballroom dance. Guys who do ballroom dance are rare. Guys who are pros at it, even rarer. They often end up having a harem of dance partners to rotate and orbiters of partners and fans alike. There are also other hobby groups that are filled with stunningly beautiful and very sociable women, like yoga, tabata and HIIT. Book reading, painting and cooking are also possible choices, but I tend to omit those because I feel that the hobbies must have a physical exercise component to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:25 AM
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Easier said than done, apparently, for most people. The signs are subtle that they never really get over something in the past, but it is crucial to spot them so that one does not waste time trying to pursue them. It's an exercise in frustration trying to make things work with such people because they often yo-yo in his/her attraction or you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:16 AM
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A person who never gets over an ex. Don't ever believe what they say when they say they are 'over it' already or 'the past is in the past'. Look at what they do, don't listen to what they say. The moment you even see a mention of an ex on social media or on an OLD bio, fucking next that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:46 PM
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Also as an addendum to my post: The masculinization of the workplace also comes with a price of men becoming socially stunted at their skills at interacting with women. They become simps thirsting for sex. OLD just magnifies and enables their simping like no tomorrow. It gets so bad that nowadays even when presented with plenty of opportunities to join activities that enable them to meet plenty of women like dance, cooking and charity drives, many make excuses and would rather hide behind screen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:08 AM
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I blame this on the masculinization of the workforce. Back then men and women worked similar jobs when most of the jobs that could be found involved manufacturing or agriculture. Dating wasn't that much of a problem back then. But at this age, viable work is becoming increasingly complex and requires increasingly deeper investments in training and education. The gender that tends to focus on training and education the more is men. Women on the other hand tend to be content working lower-paid job…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:05 AM
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By orbiters do you mean women who like you but stuck at being friends? That's an interesting reversal to the situation that many guys end up in, especially in those who are stuck in sausage fest environments like me.
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:42 AM
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Fair enough, I will reserve my judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:35 AM
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And her hobby is eating, which tells you volumes that she is a boring person with no real hobbies. Also, a landwhale in the making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:23 AM
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Any bitching about being hurt or breaking up in the bio. Alpha widows are dime a dozen, but admitting that part just makes it very easy for me to spot them and then swipe left at them. There is no winning with Alpha Widows. They are the flakiest, most fickle women they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:22 AM
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Precisely. Ballroom dancing helps immensely to cure my simping instinct.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:43 AM
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Nice, it's glad to hear an opposing argument. I'll check them out too.
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:42 AM
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I see, the main hurdle is to not look gay then? Maybe flirt just a little bit in a teasing manner while being friends with them? Don't dress effeminately? Drop some remarks about me having been seeing some girls previously or liking someone?
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:30 AM
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Hence, warm approach. I will let my social proof and attractiveness draw in women. I know that guys who can kill it with dance routines are rare, and hugely popular with women. Especially guys with a prior background in weightlifting too, I suppose? Because certain very advanced Latin dance routines require the male partner to be muscular and strong, like performing lifts.
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:26 AM
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Yes, what first started off as a crazy idea to quickly nurse my twisted ankles back to prime condition became an obsession. I just want to be a really good dancer, and to have the ideal muscular yet lean dance sport physique, and unlike gym now with the super-loud noise and everyone plugging their ears, I appreciate the social components too that come with dance and yoga. Once the schedule at my dance studio is fixed I will arrange my own personal schedule around it and do shadow dance 1 hour pe…
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:19 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FeminismStopsWhen/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:12 AM
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If you are ugly everything you do is creepy, dude. Even if you do get a girl's number you'll just end up getting friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:37 AM
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Except Chads. Feminism stops in the presence of Chad. There is even a sub for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:36 AM
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I agree with that. I argued with a woman on reddit that a guy, who is approaching me politely while I'm shopping is definitely not harrassing me. She was adamant that he was. If the guy looks like prime years Fabio Lanzoni, then it's not harassment, it's a romantic encounter just like in the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:29 AM
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OLD is cold approach is at its most raw form. To make cold approaches work one has to be a Chad. The real problem isn't that women aren't open to cold approaches, it's that women are not open to warm approaches. A man wanting to be friends with women is automatically labelled as creepy and having ulterior motives followed by ghosting and put on acquaintance zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:28 AM
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Their profiles don't even have to be good to begin with. Their profiles can be empty and they message women with 'penis' and they will still get hookups. That shit's creepy and stupid, but if a Chad with square jawline and symmetrical face does it it's the funniest shit ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:24 AM
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To the more genuine guys, is there anything you think you could do to change this situation and discourage other men from this behavior? Basically focus on personality to attract women? Oh wait. OP you will still swipe primarily on looks as usual and instantly ignore the guys who potentially have good personality. There is no helping it. Guys who pass the STRINGENT looks-filter of women on OLD apps tend to be assholes because they can get away with it. They know they are hot stuff. They know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:21 AM
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K-pop is marketed towards teenage girls. Teenage girls prefer the androgynous skinny-tall look. Example, look at how guys are drawn in shojo mangas. There are Korean actors and singers with a broad, muscular body, with squarish jaws, beards, and they are marketed towards the older female populace. I don't watch much Korean movies, but I can name a few like Jin-Roh Brigade and Squid Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:04 AM
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Yeah, history was weird back then. Men were expected to be skinny while women were expected to be chubby, both being symbols of the bourgeoise luxury. Oh look, a man who can actually afford to eat healthy foods and wear luxurious dresses! Oh look, a woman who actually does not have to toil at the factories and farms all day and can eat cake 3 times a day!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:02 AM
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If you think that's bad, try a teacher married to a surgeon. They will have the audacity to equate performing brain surgery with babysitting kids at kindergarten, or worse - washing dishes and performing brain surgery as both tasks with the same value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:59 AM
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Yes. A non-contributing wife will get nexted very quickly in marriage. She will be traded over for a younger / newer wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:56 AM
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And personality do not really get a chance to shine in texts and profile bios either. Men always have a better chance in real life social interactions and warm approaches. It's a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:53 AM
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To me the 80/20 applies not on looks, but on personality. Most women are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:52 AM
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Exactly what I have suspected. There is no winning for hypergamy. Attraction based on superficiality + assets is fickle and fleeting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 02:26 AM
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If the attraction is physical and sexual, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:25 AM
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And that's why she is a high school graduate too. The lack of accountability and deflecting personal responsibly permeates to her personal life as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 10:15 AM
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Is it just me, or single mothers are very likely to also be high school graduates, lowly educated, faux-religious (showing boobs, fornicating, divorcing, lying, cheating, etc). I wonder what is the connection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 10:13 AM
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The filled in collarbones and spare tire called. They said this claim is bullshit. All those wrinkles kind take the fun out of fun-sized. Do men really want to see sexy wrinkles on some jiggly fat? I doubt it. Dwarfmode is the most typical body for WAATGM women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:34 AM
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The typical, very peculiar low-pedigree look of these women featured on this sub that I also noticed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:34 AM
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Why it's always the dumb and ugly ones that have this problem thou? Just like the lady shown in the OP. Dumb, poor, ugly, lazy,...it's like our forefathers are extremely forthright in urging us men to marry within our caste. Do not ever be a captain savahoe / white knight to underclass women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:31 AM
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A vow made to God in his House, under the Christian prayer, even. Imagine breaking a sacred oath to God and still calling oneself a Christian.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:28 AM
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Is your ex the shallow type? You know, where pretty much the only anchor holding the relationship together was either you being hot, or her being hot, or the sex was good, or there was money to be had getting married, etc? These are traits that can never be satisfied because hypergamy knows no satiation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:01 AM
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Muscles are heavier than fat, that's why women end up gaining weight (though slimming down) when they do serious resistance training.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:16 AM
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Shoe size too if you want to be a bit more polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:14 AM
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And good riddance if they do that. Shallow people are never worth dating. Shallow people are often also hollow too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:13 AM
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Fuckable friends don't stay friends for long, and more regularly than not, the girl makes it known to the guy that she wants to go out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:55 PM
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Those men with options tend to fuck less attractive women most of the time anyways, less than their own ideal standard. If a woman fits their standard, she wouldn't be one of the plates to spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:48 PM
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Be friends with women. You can never have a girlfriend without being a girl's friend. Well you technically can, if you looksmax, but girls who are shallow are never worth your time, and they don't tend to stick around for long too anyways. Either they get bored of your looks and dump you, or you get bored of their looks and dump them. Like a girl first in the inside, then you stop getting bothered about her looks. No, anything involving computers or the internet is not a valid hobby. And metaver…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:53 AM
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That's true. The recourse then is to either shift the market or change the standards. For instance one would have trouble finding atheists and agnostics in a religious community. If one favors good physical health and low bodyfat, then don't get oneself involved in communities involving eating, but instead go to places where people get fit and soak their shirts wet with exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:34 AM
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Anything involving height is too high, pun intended. Believe me, when it comes to being happily married and braving through the storms once the sunshines and rainbows fade, height is the very last thing one needs to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:31 AM
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And as arranged by the invisible guiding hand of the dating marketplace, men who are looks focused will be matched with women who are also looks focused and be in a marriage based on tingles and sparkles rather than embers. Cue 7 year itch and cue the men or women itching for FOMO. The slightest friction is used as a justification to divorce. I have talked to people in long-lasting marriages and they could go on and on describing the qualities of their partners, yet for those who crashed and bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:30 AM
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Potentially unpopular opinion but...it depends on what grounds a woman is worshipping you on. If it's looks, forget it. You're disposable and temporary. A woman will get bored of a guy's looks quickly and will hop on to the next guy to chase the next new butterflies, sparks and tingles. Hypergamy can NEVER be satisfied. Even if you are Gigachad. Don't bother trying. Maintaining the tingle level in a girl is just waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much effort, and defeats the goal of focusing on one's education…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:57 AM
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As a man, I'll just say, if she doesn't like me I won't put a ring to her finger, and I can tell if she is just faking liking me just so that she can get married. I am not Christian but I believe there is a verse in the Bible that has a nugget of truth. It is better to be alone in the wilderness than to be with an insufferable wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:38 AM
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Indeed, we are simply biologically wired to find healthy bodies sexually enticing. Unnatural bodybuilding is an unhealthy practice, but natural bodybuilding though the progress is much, much slower and won't gain really that much muscularity even for males, results in a very healthy body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:58 PM
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In my observation girls prefer the natty bodybuilder look. The biggest they want is like is early 20s Jean Claude Van Damme, slim when wearing clothes, bulging muscles when naked and oiled, but most importantly, no excess flab. Muscles + low bodyfat + natural look = win with women physically. But still you are right, muscles are appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:31 PM
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I do it for myself. I plan to get to an even better shape than I do 10 years ago, but back then I was doing it was primarily to score with chicks. Suffice to say, that plan backfired horribly. I was in good shape, got guns for biceps, I can do handstand pushups without relying on a wall for support, I can do interval runs for 60 minutes. Sure, I got tons of matches on OLD, but they are just that, matches, basically by looks. I learned the hard way just how horrible shallow women were. They were …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:18 PM
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You just have to train yourself not to be shallow, it is absolutely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:13 AM
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And they are so easy to spot and avoid putting a marriage ring to. You don't want to marry a woman who settles for you? Don't marry one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:39 AM
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Lowering standards of what? Looks? You are treating the symptoms rather than the disease. Stop being attracted to looks. Be attracted to someone for their personality first. And it's not hard to find someone who you really like to be with and who is not ugly. He doesn't have to be Chad, and it's extremely doable for a man to stay not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:36 AM
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This is what I have been reading all the time, and what many men are not comfortable with knowing. The most stable, most loving marriages tend to be partnerships as opposed to dictatorships. And this ties as well with the statistical finding, again one that many men are not comfortable with knowing, that the marriages with the lowest chances of divorces are marriages between working professionals who have also completed their tertiary level education. And they say stuff like career women being b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:14 AM
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One more thing worth mentioning, sometimes flaws get overlooked also because of the flaw that the person also has. Like begets like. A person is what he/she attracts. If a person lacks the willingness to introspect, his/her partner will be the same and the person won't even care if the partner is the same in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:03 AM
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I agree to what you said. People simply don't vet hard enough. A lot of vetting criteria gets ignored even considering that most go with the outside-inside vetting - choose by looks, and then wealth, and then status, and then finally personality. The former keeps canceling the latter right to the end. There are definitely seeds and early hints prior to a relationship that one can see - which is why it's paramount that A - relationships should start as friendships so one can see a person in the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:39 AM
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Marryzone and fuckzone. This is especially prevalent in conservative societies like in my country Malaysia, btw. Conservative Chads have it strong. They have a buffet of fuckzoned girls often in a harem, and then have marryzoned girls conveniently arranged by their parents to marry in reserve whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:02 AM
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Your standards are centered upon attractiveness or lack thereof, that is the crux of your problem. I am telling you guys (and even girls who are reading this sub), stop obsessing over looks. Go with someone you like in the inside, someone you are very happy and comfortable being with - someone you want to be with even when you are not feeling happy. And you can find out girls around you who are like that by getting to know them and being friends with them, not swiping 'hot or not' on apps or col…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:16 AM
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This. Inside-outside vetting. Go with someone you actually like and his/her looks stop mattering so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:15 AM
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.if you think the apps are terrible stop being a moron...stop using them. But stop using dating apps would mean men would have to step out of their rooms and start talking to people and making friends -- oops scratch that, ewww making friends and getting to know women. They much rather read PUA guides and then hit all the pretty faces they could find without even vetting the woman first for personality or personal issues. Bottom line: Men are just HORRIBLE at finding and vetting partners, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 AM
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I am from Malaysia, and the Muslim men who are handsome tend to sleep around. If they are married, they would soon cheat, polygamize and have affairs. If they are still in the dating phase, they have fuckzoned girls and marryzoned girls, two separate lanes with the former being forever girlfriends kept on a leash for years while the latter is a wife typically arranged by the parents and marry within weeks. Simply put, men with options will simply exercise those options. Also, most men are not ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:40 AM
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Put little effort in their base attractiveness - their muscularity and body fat percentage do not match Zyzz and Bruce Lee.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:44 AM
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Thank hypergamy. Women have Chads slobbering over them so much that they develop contempt for guys they would have no problems going out with if it wasn't for the Chad buffet they are having. It's not even undesirable men that gets treated like garbage, it's normal everyday men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:04 PM
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And we all know what first impressions are on OLD. The symmetry of one's face and the absence of excess bodyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:06 AM
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It's the halo effect. Beautiful people are seen as having better personalities because people always upplay their mediocrity and overlook red flags. A handsome man will be seen as 'confident' and 'self-assured' when all he does is just enter a coffee shop and drink his coffee, alone, without looking or talking to anyone. Meanwhile Billy is a 'try-hard' and is 'overcompensating for his small penis, beer gut and short stature' when he stands on stage and kills it with his zero prep improv comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:05 AM
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I know this short guy, just 6'2'' tall, so short that he had to bow his head when he enters through the doorway LMAO. Women couldn't stop saying how he is such a confident gentleman for entering the bar and not saying anything while the 5'0'' ones are just 'pathetic' and 'soooooooo insecure about their heights that they have to overcompensate' when they are participating so much and dancing their rocks off at the bar!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:25 AM
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What red flags? All I see are flags. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avdtyhyq01M
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:22 AM
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Hookups are for love, marriages are for money. Money gained in marriage isn't meant to be saved for a rainy day, but to be used to break marriage, make your children's lives miserable so that one can go back to hooking up for love. Love isn't for the husband, love isn't for the kid, but love is for some Chad or Tyrone who doesn't even care about remembering her name. Welcome to clown world dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 09:19 AM
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Yes, sociable attractive people are only sociable in spite of being attractive. In my country, beautiful people are often mocked as being wallflowers. They tend to be the most stared at yet the last to stand up and speak in social events.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:49 AM
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But pussy...too hard to resist. Euuuuuuuuuuuugh. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:45 AM
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A guy wants to manipulate his way into a relationship with a fake friendship and get surprised he got manipulated by a fake friendship! News at 10!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:43 AM
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Exactly. These guys did it to themselves. The worst is they know they are in it because they hungry for pussy too much to even do anything about it. A lack of self-respect is a turn off for all women. BTW. That's why staying as a girl's orbiter is going to forever be a losing situation for a guy. The more he stays in the girls' orbit, the more the girl will disrespect, belittle and make fun of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:43 AM
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Why blame the woman though? The man chooses to put himself in such an abusive situation. It's on him to recognize he has been bullied and taken advantage of -so it's on him to get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:40 AM
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Friends don't take advantage of each other. The guys may think they are being a girl's friend, but they are really being the girl's lapdogs, emotional tampons, orbiters, useful idiots, simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:39 AM
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Amazing crazy ass idea: Don't try to be a boyfriend of someone who refuses to act like a friend to you. Vents her problems to you, but never lets you vent your problems to her? Next her. Don't put your dick in her. Stay as friends and nothing else. Actually no, don't even be a friend. Find another woman who can actually act like a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:36 AM
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Racial differences stop being a factor if a person is good-looking. FACT. Women are more shallow than men. This is also a FACT. You can thank hypergamy and sausage-festy venues that men go to to find women for that. Combine the two and you get women who are racist and prejudiced because of their shallowness over looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:54 AM
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TRP men are horrible at vetting women. TRP is all about maintaining relationships with horrible women, because they really don't know how or where to find quality women for relationships. Heck, they balk at the very notion of quality either. They think it's better to spin plates with shitty women than to be with one you really, really like for the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:31 AM
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Let me answer this as a man: Most men use money to attract women for marriage even though they always say they want women to marry them for love. Hence they tend to attract the wrong kind of women - women who also are very cunning at pretending they love the men they are about to marry just to secure money. Hence when things go south financially and these women so typically break the marriage - men then come to a conclusion that women can only indeed love men for what they provide. No, there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:19 PM
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Financial reasons are the number one reason for divorce Whataddaya expect, dear men? If a woman marries you because of money, she will definitely leave you because of money too. Hence make sure that she marries you because she loves you, and you know that she will stay during the harsher times. It's easy to say, even pretend, to love someone during the best of times. But it is during the harsh times that true feelings are tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:10 PM
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Men get their dating advice from women with husbands or LTRs (most commonly, their own mothers), then try to apply their advice to single women. Stuff like working on your personality and money is good for married life, but most women out there who are single are not LTR women. Otherwise they wouldn't be single for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:37 AM
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From my personal experience - every 100 gramms of fat lost, every 50 grams of muscle gained and every extra minute spent dressing up or making a haircut actually gives more female attention. They call it personality, but I was the same person, I just got leaner and more muscular, started dressing better and I have girls touching me, adding me on apps, talking about me, telling me nice things, etc. Hell, in Henry Cavil's example, personality is even ignored altogether. W40K? Cricket chirp. Hot bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:33 AM
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Fool-proof one? Easy. Is he devout? Not an absolute fool-proof one, but those who are serious about their religions will have a greater sense of honor and self-restraint. You will have to wait until marriage to have sex with a pious man though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:16 AM
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Yes, I am insecure that she gets wet with men who are not husband material, and then says to my face that she wants men who are husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:11 AM
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Just saying, sex now or sex later is not a fool-proof vetting metric. Far from being fool-proof in fact, due to as I mentioned how easy promiscuous men can sleep around with other women in the meantime while keeping you on the waiting list. One of many, yes. I agree on that. Just don't assume a man isn't fucking or messaging other girls while he's waiting for his turn with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:09 AM
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I have a problem because high n-count women are often trickle-truthers. They likely hide more than just a history of having sex with plenty of partners. Those partners are often men undesirable for a long-term relationship - which begs then the question, what qualified them to be fucked in the first place? If those men make her moist then that tells me volumes of her preference. I don't listen to what she says, but observe what she does. I observe that like begets like. Highly educated women lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:02 AM
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Genius idea, though. That's a better vetting metric than just wait or no wait. "Hey, I am not feeling it. Wanna fuck?" Yeah, no. He doesn't treasure you as a long-term partner. Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:56 AM
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Definitely yes. One IRL example - a woman showed me her boobs and openly talked to me about how her boobs got bigger due to her taking too much pills - and we weren't even fucking. We were friends but she on numerous occasions expressed her desire to have sex with me, though we couldn't due to distance. This made me wonder if there’s a difference for a woman (or maybe a man as well) in what activities they might be ok with when they are with someone that. I’m wondering if sex for them is limited…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:25 AM
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There is an income and attractiveness threshold. If she makes money to support herself, and is responsible with her spending, that's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:49 AM
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Women look for attractiveness, and much, much more than men. I see their behavior on OLD and in the streets. Don't listen to what they say, look at what they do. Women date men who are more attractive (most of the time), equally attractive, or slightly less attractive. 99% of women do NOT go for shorter men, unless the shorter man is like really hot or cute and the woman is very pleasant in personality that she likewise sees personality as a priority in her partner. In married relationships in M…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:46 AM
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No, they don't look best in their late-20s. They tend to hit the wall and degrade in looks at an accelerating rate. Well at least, in particular here in Malaysia, a country with one of the worst work-life balance in the world. If you are not going to work at 6:30 and coming back home at 9, you are not working hard enough. Women have a naturally lower testosterone, and their bones and muscles atrophy quicker than men if not maintained through exercise, and the average Malaysian working profession…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:42 AM
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Indeed, I agree. One should actually pay attention and can tell if she's fucking a bunch of other dudes at the same time, without the whole waiting or not waiting for sex thing. It's the same though for guys, I will argue here. A lady should also be able to tell if a guy is sleeping around and treating her as a plate on a waiting list without having to rely on the 'wait for sex' test.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:30 AM
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Nope, I also say this as a man. So what if a man waits for him to have sex with you? He can always have sex with other ladies in the meantime. You think he has no access to OLD? What makes you think if you swiped right on him so quickly based on looks the other ladies wouldn't as well? What makes you think that like you the other girls who fancied him also don't feel like going for a quick hookup? You need a much better vetting metric than waiting or not waiting for sex to qualify a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:27 AM
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Breaking promises and disrespecting the House of God - it's okay, God will forgive me. Also don't remind them that the act of breaking promises by itself is already a grave sin in Christianity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 09:28 AM
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Canon Christianity has a lot of eye-opening facts like how Jesus is ugly (he is often described as darker-skinned and appears utterly forgettable) while the Devil / Satan / Lucifer / Deceiver / etc is a creature of unmeasurable beauty. Those who penned the Abrahamic religions way, way back knew about this shit - about how men who are virtuous and kind-hearted get passed over because they not Chad, and how the most evil of men / beings get to sway the hearts of untold numbers because they are bea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 09:26 AM
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Traditional wives - again, historical traditional wives, not American Dream traditional wives - typically still work, they just try to balance housekeeping and working. More working hands, more income, the more better off the family, the more likely the wife gets to enjoy a leisurely life. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:14 AM
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I would never be a SAHM because that stress full, kid are needy and difficult. That is why there is a division of labor. You hire someone to lighten the load for you. Get a maid, nanny, cook, tutor, coach, etc. Or in the case of larger families in actual traditional times - let us not conflate with the 'American Dream' fetish here - the older siblings sub for the mother in taking care of the younger ones. SAHMs always talk big about wanting to do all the house chores and children rearing but alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:09 AM
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Yes, all a man has to do is 'go to work'. You are belittling the difficulty and skill of many jobs that a man has to do to afford having a stay-at-home wife. There is a reason housekeepers are paid far, far, far lower than software engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:58 AM
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The very fact that SAHMs say they are weaker than men thus have no need to work already is evident that they have no self-respect. I tell you what I feel when I was in that situation. I feel like shit. I feel like a child in the inside, and an old person on the outside. My only outlet of being happy was playing video games and caring for nephews. Because that is what happened here in Malaysia, amongst single-income families that ya'll revere so much. It doesn't matter if the husband is an engine…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:54 AM
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That's not true. Upper class families always push their daughters to study and work. I am saying this from the standpoint of being a local Asian in an Asian country. They are as traditional and conservative as they can get. Stay-at-home wifing or husbanding is mostly the ideal of lower-class men/women who want to marry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:39 AM
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I want to be a housewife/ stay at home mom but people( mainly women) look down on this and act as if you can’t be content being a SAHM. To me that is the ideal lifestyle. I also want to leech off my parents and my girlfriend for life and I'll be content pretending to watch over my kids while I just watch TV, shop and eat most of the time, while also letting my brain cells atrophy and die prematurely from lack of use, being a grown adult but having to be dependent on someone else, acting like a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:37 AM
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So Christian and traditional that she divorces and deprives her children from happiness like it's an outing at the park. Need these Christians be reminded that A - they made a vow to God at Church, and B - divorce is a sin? Atheist seed, Christian need.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 04:31 AM
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Fuck yeah, I love match.com. Pick any hobby that requires serious investment like dance, rock climbing or riding and boof, these single mothers are invisible. Also set body preferences to slim while at it. You won't have to deal with women who say they are average, but are actually morbidly obese but "working on it"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 04:29 AM
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I wonder if it has to do with marriage. Married women in modern day marriages are all about SAHMing, treating their husbands like their daddies, except daddies they have to duty sex once every few years if the daddy complains too much. Just like how they were back in their teenage years constantly disobeying their daddies, they rebel against their husbands fornicating with others under the ruse of alcohol, drugs and girls nights
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:51 AM
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Funny how back in my day experiencing different things mean experiencing positive things like studying for university, going on a pilgrimage, taking courses in dance, etc. Now experiencing different things simply mean experiencing different penises - preferably from different races and in different countries too. These are the times when debauchery and hedonism are equated with enlightenment. After all, you can't call yourself a gentleman / lady until after you snorted a coke or two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:48 AM
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Let them learn the hard way that in total opposite of media depictions, hookup sex is actually more boring and more draining than relationship sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:12 AM
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There are two guys in the orbits - friendzoned guys, and friendwithbenefitszoned guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:11 AM
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If her friends are hos, she's a ho too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:10 AM
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You heard it gents. Living one's life to the fullest involves being a slut. It's more fulfilling to have boring hookup sex with randos than exciting relationship sex with a man who genuinely cares about you. No, don't explode your brains trying to rationalize that bullshit. Only sluts can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:09 AM
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She's an SJW - hence, problem glasses. All men are wretched subhumans except for minorities and Chads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 11:50 PM
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She could offer love. But modern women are just incapable of loving anyone anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 11:49 PM
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Women like her are also hardcore SJWs who demonize Caucasians and Jews. Racist to the core.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 11:47 PM
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Problem glasses - dealbreaker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 11:46 PM
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When each guy is the one...every exception is thrown out of the window and every red flag is forgiven. When a woman doesn't respect her boundaries and shows she is a hypocrite in the face of a visible bone structure and low bodyfat of a male, why would any man respect her enough to commit to her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 02:02 PM
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Edit 1, Edit 2, Edit 2, Edit 3: Blah blah blah, I can't believe you guys are misogynists, incels, blah blah blah blah...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 01:48 PM
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Women never lie about having bastard kids. Imagine having to depend on a man to try new things - and not just any man either but a looksmaxxed ultra-Chad coz it's Bumble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 01:26 PM
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To add to a addendum to this: the younger and dumber a girl, the more she places an emphasis on looks, and yes, the less interested the man in having a relationship with her, but distance himself from her instead and turn her into a FWB booty call.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:34 PM
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ppppppft, lol, this, so much this! Women get hornier than their boyfriends when they are with someone they genuinely like. This is not even an exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:31 PM
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swiped right on looksmaxed guys only OMG why they only want hookups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 10:00 AM
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Marrying down is strongly frowned upon in traditional times. Royals marry royals, commoners marry commoners, and nobody allows anyone to marry whores. Parents actively vet prospective wives to make sure they are pure and aren't piece of wrecks. But now marrying down is considered a noble thing to do because 'love'....lawl, as if a woman who marries a man because of money genuinely loves a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 09:33 AM
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Hookups are for love, marriage is for money. I'll say this again, and I'll keep saying it. Hookups are for love, marriage is for money Stop deluding yourself when your woman says she loves you. If you didn't wave your wallet in front of her or talked to her about your job she wouldn't even entertain the idea of marrying you. It happens every single time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 09:31 AM
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What women say : Women don't care about appearance. What I observe: Women ALWAYS date up appearance-wise. Thin guys get swiped/approached by fat ladies, and only supermodel / looksmaxed / bodybuilder guys get thin ladies attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:16 AM
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But I do think there is a merit in looksmaxing for those who already got the other bases covered. They are pleasant personality-wise and have interesting hobbies, but they get passed over due to their looks. So lookmaxing will help here, and will also cover for the other gaps like age and racial differences as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:22 PM
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I still believe this whole ONS supermodel handsome only thing is just....theorythink. I mean, would you get turned on by having sex with someone you don't like? ONS's goal is above all else is to have as good sex as possible. Banter, humor, playfulness, etc are a part of foreplay too. Do correct me if I am wrong, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:00 PM
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Men suck horribly bad at vetting women they get into a relationship with, even though they are the gatekeepers of relationships. They don't notice women who are only offering sex in a relationship while expecting a transaction, those who are only pretending to like a guy so they can get something out from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:02 PM
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They demonize and dehumanize men who are not rich, handsome nor have a high pussy count. When they say men only think women as a pair of boobs and only worth if they are hot and young, they are projecting, projecting really hard. Yes, they do hate men, except men they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:40 PM
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The fact that FDSers refuse to look at themselves as the source of their dating problems ie being fat, bitchy and materialistic makes the sub a toxic one to go to. At least TRP still has a sense of self-reflection ie telling men to looksmax instead of just devising all sorts of manipulative strategies to somehow make women overlook ugliness and creepy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:38 PM
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You don't have to do that, really. Just don't suggest a dinner date, but a meet up at a cafe on split bill. Have the balls to go Dutch. Trust me, you will never want to date girls who want guys to pay everything, and expensively too, on the first date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 04:08 AM
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But she does go to the gym. Look at those beefy arms dude. Respeccccccccct
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:53 AM
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Imagine being part of the underclass that you need someone to fight for you. Because you can't be arsed to fight for yourself and provide for yourself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:52 AM
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Says she desires intelligence, but goes right down to wearing a flannelette shirt being a dealbreaker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:48 AM
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I think if we go by cultural and historical tradition, marrying down is very much frowned upon. Our forefathers knew what they were doing when they warned both men and women not to marry down. Royals were required to marry other royals or those at least from a nobility class, because of the prestige, the diplomatic ties, connections to influential families, and because higher class women tend to also be of higher education and thus be capable administrators in the King's absence or moments of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:18 AM
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Asian, actually. Asian software engineers have an especially miserable romantic life. There is even one news about a an SE from China who got into a marriage scam and blackmailed billions before he committed suicide. But I believe it's the same problem in America as well. They all have the same denominator: they married down and the prime reason their wives married them was because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:52 AM
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Playing stupid games will not get you laid if you are not hot either. Being hot - as in to be more precise, being an attractive prospect as a partner, is a default given. Then the other piece that needs to fall into place is to be firm on boundaries and find partners that share the same values with you as well. Obviously for instance, you would have a huge difficulty finding those who are devout and chaste on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:46 AM
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But when do you find someone, that someone will be a very awesome partner for you. Quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:44 AM
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Unless you can show me the stats on educated white collar guys marrying waitresses with GEDs. I know a lot of software engineers who marry down, often also following the mantra by their peers to study hard, work hard and use their money to attract women. Suffice to say, their marriages tend to be anything but happy. Software engineers notoriously have some of the highest divorce rates compared to other professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:38 AM
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Have a good look at yourself at what you are - then go to places or join groups that are filled with people who are just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:13 AM
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You guys are fucking paranoid. Just shoot your shot. Girls talk and spread bad word about you if you are being inappropriate or creepy about it. Plus, they tend to spread word to other girls who are also not going to go out with you anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:12 AM
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Yeah, this is often overlooked. Lowly educated and low-income men are often sexist. It's like they are projecting hard that women should not study or work hard and mind their manners when they are the ones who are hardly studying nor working, nor that they tend to show good mannerisms either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:11 AM
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It doesn't even mean cooking, or enjoying someone else's home cooking. It means going on dinner dates 100% paid by the man in expensive restaurants only for her to then ghost in text because she's 'busy' and comes back after a moment of silence saying she's "not feeling it anymore" but wishes him good luck, because of something that is only 99% out of 100% perfect that he wrote on text that she immediately deemed as a gigantic red flag that he's creepy and pushy and thus nice guy sub worthy. Mea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 05:31 AM
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Sex is something that is used as a weapon in a relationship. Hell, women who are pumped and dumped even start to have this crazy wrong idea that sex breaks relationships. "He had sex with me, now he's gonna ghost me and leave me."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:42 AM
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Men also should be aware that such argumentative, competitive, materialistic and self centered, me-me-me-me-me behaviors are because the women are not genuinely in love with the men they married with. Men take these behaviors as simply the cultural norm as how a woman would behave, but they don't get the hint. Women do not act like this at all in the presence of Chad Thundercock. They are super-submissive and even willingly let themselves be abused in their presence. Hell, when Chad uses a cotto…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:40 AM
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It was only hard if they don't want to do it. Housewives back then did not think housekeeping was hard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:37 AM
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That's why they also have the term Spring Break. For students in schools and universities to return home and help their parents with harvest. Right now Spring Break is going to beaches and fornicating on their parents' dime - burdening them rather than helping them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:36 AM
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Asian, as well. SAHM is just a fetishization of the 50s American Dream, a fluke in history where single-income households where the husband did simple shop / factory jobs and still enjoyed a high standard of living with strong worker unions backing him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:35 AM
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This reminds of how starting army cadets are drilled mercilessly on housekeeping tasks, but those are just the -foundation-, the -minimum- they have to do to function as a military unit. They don't mean squat in comparison to the actual things they have to do as soldiers. But SAHMs think housekeeping makes them as significant as a primary breadwinner husband who still has to do housekeeping once he gets home from a double-shift job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:25 AM
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Stupid mates with stupid. Stupid breeds more, that's why we see more of them around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:14 AM
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I wonder if we also bring up very photogenic formations of asteroids, trojans cometoids, vulkans, greeks, hildas, and objects of the Oort Cloud we would have to assign astrological fate-weavers for each lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:10 AM
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She was forced to have his children too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:08 AM
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I'm pretty damned sure in canon Christianity astrology is forbidden. God is the one that decides your fate, not some fucking star formation in the Milky Way Galaxy. And even then, God helps those who help themselves, not morons who live life on autopilot depending on star charts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:06 AM
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Definitely Betabucks security when she wants to keep things as vanilla as possible with him. Not to say that vanilla sex is bad, but her unwillingness to get kinky or naughty is very telling. She wants to get kinky and be forced to do humiliating shit with Chad but not with him. She likes Chad enough that she puts up with that but not with him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:54 AM
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Exactly. Those who say their pasts don't matter do not lie about their pasts. The fact that she hides her past shows that she is embarrassed and shows no indication of wanting to learn and change from the past. If another Master Chad wants her to rub shit on her face and 'force' her to do it, she would do it again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:52 AM
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Casual lying is a huge red flag in business, I will say even bigger. Hell, working in a team for coding projects, lying? No, no, no. Thus I will also extrapolate from here that she is a habitual liar for everything else other than relationships and thus she doesn't work on any serious career and is looking for an AF/BB relationship as she SAHMs herself in the presence of a prudish husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:50 AM
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Or in the context of Islam's history - since I am familiar with the subject, "Sex when I got caught red handed by my husband who was out for work beta-buxxing in the hot scorching desert while I am chilling with my best friend Chad in my cool hovel" The epidemic of false rape accusations was so rampant that Muhammad got sick of handling them and passed a mandate that women who report getting raped get punished - and oh, they better bring 4 other witnesses to prove they were rightfully raped beca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:45 AM
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She only regretted it because she is no longer in a relationship with Alpha Chad Thundercock who was so hot she would lick a toilet bowl just to keep getting fucked by him. Yes, she was 'forced' and 'threatened' to lick a toilet bowl. That's the 'cool story bro' that she tells everyone and convinced herself what actually happened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:43 AM
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Like so many women are being 'forced' and 'coerced' to do things they don't want to, like geez....it's not like they can just call 911 if they are facing sexual harassments or threats of violence of anything like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:40 AM
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LOL, 'coerced' is the new word, now? Like what, did he put a gun to her forehead and tell her to have sex with 3 other men or die? Also lol rape. Yeah, like she was entirely powerless to put herself in a position away from getting raped. Most rape accusations aren't rape but just regret sex with retroactively withdrawn consent - just like how they retroactively changed the exciting bad boy Chad into an asshole the moment their relationships broke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 03:39 AM
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Coming from a middle / upper middle class society in Asia, this is really a non-issue to begin with. Get a maid, and stop caring about a fair share of housekeeping work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:36 AM
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Go to ballroom dance or yoga classes. Then there will be no sausage fests. Though both genders will peter off to 50-50 when you go up the higher levels for both activities - and that is a good thing. Dedicated and passionate folks are very fun to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:25 PM
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Your post reminds me of Barbara of Cilli. That's the kind of a woman any King would want to have. No, not the Queeenzzzzz slaaaaaaaaaay memetic archetype the FDSers want to to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:33 PM
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If she says she is not looking for a hookup, she totally wants to hookup. If she says she is not looking for a sugar daddy, she is definitely looking for a sugar daddy. Also, that thousand cock stare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 12:19 PM
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With an increase in IQ she loses suitors but gains those from a higher intelligence. She needs to simply find men who appreciate women with higher intelligence, because most other men prefer women with lower intelligence because they themselves are of a lower intelligence. Like attracts like. It goes without mention that most people aren't intelligent. Highly intelligent people are a minority. Now, I am actually not an advocate that a woman should 'lower her standards'. She should make a very co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:10 AM
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You can't win with men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:01 AM
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For me, the more intelligent a woman, the more attractive she is when combined with her physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:59 AM
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Remember, redpill guys resent women and fall easily to the narrative that women should be despised and agree easily to the conclusion that follows hence that female intelligence should be abhorred.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:58 AM
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Yes, it is hypocritical. I believe a man should also hold in high regard women who strive to better themselves and be proud and dignified grownups who don't have to rely on anyone else for a piece of bread. What, they say? That women who have careers are assholes? Guess what genius, people who are assholes don't last long in the workplace, man or woman. And they think men are excused from developing sociopathic traits while having a career? Hell, I've read far more stories than I can count of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:53 AM
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lol no. Girls who insist on guys paying for the dates - in particular first dates, are either A - gold diggers B - pumped and dumped alpha widows upping her 'standards' or C - simply from a culture that encourages guys paying for the dates like in the Anglosphere. If he is genuinely invested in the girl, he wouldn't bring her to restaurants and pay for dinners. He would invite her home and cook her dinner. That's the real way to melt her heart and moisten her pussy with food.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:00 AM
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Anything with a large gap is creepy. That's why historically people marry only slight up or down from their social standing. No, kings are not the exception. They don't make commoners as queens but as consorts or concubines at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:50 AM
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Halo effect to the max.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:13 AM
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And they are usually underclass women, women that apparently TRP men aim so much to score with, especially considering that they too tend to disparage higher class women who work and have jobs and don't lurk in night clubs to be hit on by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:05 PM
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Drug mules aren't hot. Drug lords on the other hand....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:03 PM
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Western Christianity went to great lengths curbing toxic feminism and uncontrolled hypergamy in medieval times. The strong warnings by the priest and the mandatory wows before God in his House are among the measures to make sure they don't follow their tingles and husband-hop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 12:01 PM
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These women really are like Drukhari / Pre-Slaneesh Aeldari. Normal vanilla sex just feels numb to them because they've been violating their orifices way too much and they have to seek the increasingly kinkier of sensations. This also combines with them gaining weight and further numbing their senses with high alcohol intake which tanks their libido even more. They typically get to the point that they can't even have sober sex anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:59 AM
9

Because you are A, B, C, D, E, ..., X, Y, ooooooooooooooh not Z. How dare you are a slight bit less than perfect! Now she is not feeling "teh sparkzzzz!" Meanwhile Chad Thundercock drug addict and abusive asshole gets free pass at banging her on the first date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:55 AM
12

"It's the alcohol, teehee."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:53 AM
9

"How dare you talk about gender equality! Don't you know I am a traditional lady!?" A traditional lady who would balk at the idea of rolling up her sleeves and toiling at the farms, like in actual traditional times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:52 AM
6

SAHMs are lazy bums, that's why menial housekeeping is considered a lot of work for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:51 AM
7

If she doesn't bring sustenance to herself before your presence, she sure as hell won't bring sustenance to the household while together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:49 AM
5

She didn't care either about relationship or romance with Dennis the Penis and Chad the Thundercock. All she wanted was casual sex, hawt, no condoms and pretend to take pills when she wants to trap them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 11:47 AM
2

I agree. As a man I can tell if a woman is going to be a non-contributor (or even a negative contributor) by spending time with her and getting to know her background. There is no need to ask such a confrontational question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:45 AM
1

Indeed, I have read about stories of how men always end up doing most of the responsibilities in the household, doing housekeeping and working at the same time while the wife barely does anything. But that is just reddit stories from the Anglopshere. Maybe it's the same in Malaysia or maybe not, because SAHMing really isn't a cultural thing in Malaysia at all except for the very, very low class. It's impossible for a woman to not find work here, at least she can set up a stall and sell rice. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:16 AM
4

However, what I see more of is trying to correct stereotypes of non-western women as magically having none of the issues that western women supposedly have. Non-western women are also women. They are not from a different species. There also seems to be a strange tendency to not understand that tradcon women from those cultures generally opt to marry men from said culture. Define tradcon. If tradcon you mean low income lower class non-Westerners where only one member of the family works due to jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:02 AM
4

But the men who sign up for these matchmakers or frequent subs/sites dedicated to marrying non-Western women are inevitably going to meet women looking to take advantage of these guys. On these matchmakers often like 99% of the time the only selling point of the men is money. If they have something else of substance ie like a passion for rock climbing they would join a rock climbing group instead, or if they like tabletop gaming they go and join a D&D group. And no, single girls are not actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:59 AM
3

Many of you hold that foreign women fit the stereotype of the poor woman in tattered, raggedy or gaudy clothes who preys on western men as their potential meal ticket that will fly them away from their dysentery-plagued homeland where they can live in luxury and siphon off his money to send back to their family, or move their family in with him while he provides for all of them. This is the impression I get from Western men in this sub when they talk about Asian women, that they assume that Asia…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:57 AM
1

Seen? Hmm, a lot of inappropriate touching. I remember seeing a college-mate always goes her whole way in touching my friend's cheek and back, and obsessively follows him around wherever he walked. He made it clear, verbally, that he was not interested in her, which actually caused her to double up her efforts in 'kino'ing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:53 AM
9

That too. A guy should take the hint when a girl doesn't want to get naughty while sober. Sober sex feels the best too, btw.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 11:32 PM
9

The error as well is in letting her drink in dates. She is now going to associate drinking with gaining sexual attraction for him ("I only fucked him because I was tipsy")
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 05:20 PM
13

Obligatory "He is, A, B, C, D, E...Z, BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTT...." Meanwhile she is a big fat (pun intended) zero. No redeemable qualities to be compared to him. And she thinks she deserves Superman. Lesson for guys: Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. If you are sub-Chad you will be demonized for even just having one teeny little flaw.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 05:12 PM
1

Picture this: Most people nowadays source their dating prospects on OLD. OLD is dominated by men. Thus women get far more matches on OLD than men. Women get tempted more. And when they signal their desire to FOMO and slut around they get more people on reddit empathetic to her cause and they go "you go gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:01 PM
1

There is no drinking too in pair dancing - except for dance socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:52 PM
1

Alcohol is sugary and ruins the body. You cannot be fit and in shape while being a heavy drinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:48 PM
2

Alcohol is also the fuel of regret rape and retroactively withdrawn consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:46 PM
2

I never once find the 'traditional' family structure appealing. By the way, I come from an actual traditional culture, and back in the day the wife, kids, grandkids, grandparents ALL worked and contributed. The whole husband being a total wage slave while the wife becomes a pampered overgrown daughter is most commonly found in the lowest classes in Asia, where jobs are so scarce that only one member of the family gets to work, even if at all. Likewise, the "take care me" 'Asian brides' that West…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:33 PM
3

Funny how she values honesty and loyalty by attempting to baby trap a Chad out of wedlock.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 04:30 PM
2

Yes, better still if you pose with your yacht. Items of luxury that OLD women will always swipe right for are yachts, cars, apartments, golf, in that order.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 12:52 PM
1

What are some things that women say on here that are completely different to what women are like in real life? Reddit ladies, particularly on one sub I also frequent, always say stuff about men having to pay for 100 percent of everything and 'treat a woman right' - as in not actually showing good behavior as what the phrase means but to spend lavishly on women even on the first date. Women I meet IRL always want to split bills, even after the first date. They don't even want to spend lavishly ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:48 PM
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This isn’t practical unless he’s filthy rich Emphasis on being very, very rich, and also very strict with his finances and not willing to budge in response to his wife's incessant demands. Because even if a man makes a lot of money a woman will simply start asking for more than what is necessary in the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:57 AM
12

Not hiring a maid while your wife is SAHMing is also abuse, don't forget.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 03:40 PM
19

The moment she SAHMs herself is the moment you're gonna be fucked hard and painful when the inevitable divorce rape comes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 08:52 AM
14

21 going on 50.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 08:51 AM
15

Focus on breasts = fat. Nice, flexing her height first and foremost. Shallow and superficial. Nope. Funny all of her hobbies require no effort at all too. Walking is the most she is going to do in her whole life. Also believing in astrology shit =! intelligent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 12:11 PM
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I wager that she was the one who initiated the divorce, simply because he is 'abusive'. So is all the other guys she met post-divorce - a mirror image of her husband. All with glaring red flags that she overlooked because Chad, because hot. Instead of avoiding them, she fucked them first, then complained about the red flags afterward.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 02:09 AM
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I've said it and I'll say it again. Women treat OLD as sugar daddy apps. They hook up outside, and look for guys with money inside. Most of the time, it's not about you. It's about your wallet. When they say they are "not looking for a hookup" they are not looking for a relationship either - unless that relationship enables a siphoning of money to her bank account. Try posing with a sports car in your main photo. You will get far more matches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 01:19 AM
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Before she let herself go because she was never that attracted to the guy and knew that the guy would never give her up, which tanks her libido, which leads to dead bedroom, then she starts cheating and then divorce raping.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 04:06 PM
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She's as brutal as a Terminator when it comes to laser-analysing the flaws of other men, but when it comes to Chadimus Maximus all flaws are forgiven. Disgusting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 04:05 PM
6

This is the irony of FDS bullshits like playing games, going all maybe and deliberately not replying to texts in a timely manner on an app. Yeah, a woman who is working an internship is even busier than a CEO, can't be arsed to reply to texts after working hours. Turns out they aren't busy at all, but just playing games because they want to vet out the pumpers and dumpers. But jokes on them, they'll just get pumped and dumped even more by the guys they want to commit to. The guys who put up with…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:17 PM
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Yea, essentially it boils down to the fatter a woman is, the more money she has to demand from her partner. It's that bad. Coz undesirable women get pumped and dumped more so to avoid getting pumped and dumped they have to demand men to invest in them more so that they know they are serious. Like WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:42 AM
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FDS is a bunch of fat bitchy ladies that think to get high value men they have to manipulate, play games, cheat and steal instead of them stop being fat and bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:34 AM
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And the next fated response: Oh shit the real baby daddy is here! And obligatory staying at home while the wife goes out with the baby daddy for 'closure' - but you know her legs are going to be anything but closed in his presence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:17 AM
5

I'm just gonna associate all nursing students with sluts if I ever stay in the US. The correlation is just so uncanny it's crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:15 AM
3

Astrology is also another flag. It takes a whole level of dumb (and shirking of personal responsibility) to actually believe that the formation of stars in the Milky Way galaxy controls someone's life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 02:16 PM
2

The worst is, women are given all these opportunities and still they don't want to take up on them. My programming school has a very active female preferences admission in place and yet still less than 10 percent of students are women. Women purposely refuse to move up in society, they discourage each other from moving up in society and then they blame it all on the Patrie Archie. They don't want gender equality - they just want gender equity - being paid the same as a brain surgeon while workin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 10:30 AM
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Wine is not only intoxicating, but very sugary and ruins a woman's body.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 10:28 AM
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Also as an added context: I am from Malaysia. I observe on an everyday basis Malays. They are as religious and conservative as they can get. The higher income Malays always have women who study and have jobs. ALWAYS. THERE IS NO EXCEPTION.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:28 AM
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She wants to fornicate her way to a relationship. By the way, lurking in one of the other subs (I won't say which because rules), someone said that this is actually a cultural norm in Scandinavia, where they hook up while drunk and stupid and then see if they click with the guy after drunken stupid hookup sex and then go on dates after. Imagine that. Determining compatibility with a person as a partner by how hard he fucks while one is in the worst state of mind. Anyhow...So it worked well in co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 09:24 AM
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Poor people are the ones that have 'traditional conservative' gender roles, if you are referring to single-income households belonging to the lowest income groups that are often the slowest to embrace innovation in this ever-changing world. Of course they want to marry rich men, because poor people marry for money. Because poor people know of no other way to earn more money than to get someone else's money. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. No, the American Dream is just a fluke. The moment where low…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:39 AM
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And retroactively says that she has been raped if Chad refuses to commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 08:31 AM
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Welcome to the underclass. She knows her worth - in the ghettos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 08:08 AM
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She'll be the type of woman who always tries to bring strongly alcoholic drinks to a date in hoping that his Chadness would get himself drunk and her drunk as well and smash her without shame.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 08:01 AM
3

This confirms my suspicion all along that heightists are ugly, shitty and just awful people in general.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 07:59 AM
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I believe a man will be an embarrassment even to other men when he becomes a monitor-staring troglodyte.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:49 AM
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That is because men with lower income tend to also have traits that high income women do not desire ie looking down on women who work and study. This mentality is especially prevalent amongst low-income men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:34 AM
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Romance exists, but people MASSIVELY suck at finding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:01 AM
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Yeah that's why women past their prime are the least desirable. They are damaged and wasted. I even recall an old aunty telling me that she is "too old for love anymore", yea like when she would grow older and older the last thing she wants is to have someone to love her. Just go outside bro is a dumb advice, I agree. It depends on what kind of outside activities you do. Is it gender-segregated (ie lifting weights) or gender-mixed (ie paired dancing)? If you are facing objects, animals or fellow…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:59 AM
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LOL this. So what if you can take rejection. Is the girl gonna change her mind and fuck you later? Still no. But hey, at least you won't make it to the front page of the nice guys sub if you lose your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:43 AM
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"Just live your life" Sure, if your life involves sitting in front of your computer all day to the point that you get pot bellies, shoulder slouches and double chins. You will get hot girls that way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:42 AM
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Now, that is a valid reason. If I am in a rural area I would drive a car. It's actually pleasant to drive a car in rural areas, with the breeze as I lower my windows, enjoying the view of the forests left and right, the foggy mists in the early morning, free air-conditioning at night... But the urban areas, no no no. Parking space woes, road rage, traffic jams, and the government passing one incentive after another to keep discouraging people to use cars in the big cities with stuff like no-car …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 06:47 AM
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Pizza is too generous. I'm thinking gym membership and salsa classes where she then proceeds to get into affair with Chad trainer because hubby doesn't make her happy and he is always away from home - well fucking duh, because he's fucking had to work twice as hard to cover for 2 person in a single household!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 05:59 AM
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Naaaa, carless all the way for me. I'm an urban man. I live and die for public transportation and saving the planet. I much rather carpool or use a cab than drive my own car. Besides trying to impress some chick online is one of the worst reasons ever for someone to own a car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 05:55 AM
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And conversely focusing on selling oneself using height, funny, stable job and income will land him shitty gold digging landwhales like the one in the OP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 05:54 AM
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A man who has all that would never pick someone like her over all the much hotter, much younger, much more intelligent women he could be with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 05:52 AM
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I also mirror your sentiment. I am a software developer, and I will go to great lengths not selling myself as a software developer. I will sell myself instead for being funny, charming, confident man and a good kisser, witty banter, etc. If a woman wants me because of my job and not because of me, that's an absolute big no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:24 AM
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I'll redistribute the infinity stones and decide to do nothing. The dating marketplace works fine as it is. The invisible guiding hand of the marketplace does an excellent job at driving the undesirable men and women away from the desirable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:11 AM
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Those are actually hermits. Monks live in close-knit communities in temples / monasteries and interact regularly with the surrounding people, and they go out and meet people as they do charity work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:34 AM
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Take the height difference and add to her body weight, that's how you know how fat she is. I'm saying for reals. The fatter they are, the taller they want their men to be so they'll appear less fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:03 AM
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The uglier and fatter they are, the more they are obsessed with height, penis size, muscles, tattoos, jawlines and the like. No, they are not being shallow. It's called finger quotes "Having preferences"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:01 AM
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He has a perfect wallet. That's what it really is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:00 AM
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They'll also say stuff like "Oh these guys love bombed and manipulated their way so I can never say no". Still nope, a non-Chad will never even get the chance to love bomb / manipulate in the first place. They chose to overlook obvious red flags because hot. They chose not to resist because hot. Because the alternative is to have a dry spell and meet a non-Chad. Also mistakes are done once or twice, not hundreds of times. That's a CHOICE.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 12:59 AM
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You can never satisfy hypergamy. I agree on that. Thus I believe it is best that you know your spouse is together with you because of love. Love cannot be supplanted. No one else can love you better than your spouse does, especially since love (is supposed to) grow stronger the longer you are in a relationship. How can you tell if your spouse genuinely loves you and not just wants to fuck you / have your money / pressured by peers to be together with you? That's up to you to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:52 AM
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I am from Asia and I just find it amusing that there are some here who fetishize that the women here are basically bang-a-maids waiting for Captain-save-a-hoe with dollar bills from across the Pacific Ocean. I will tell you all this, and you guys won't like what I say to you. Girls here in Asia who chase dollars are prostitutes, gold diggers and scammers. And no, they are not compelled by culture to stay at home and forgo study and work. That's lower class shit. Middle and upper class Asian ladi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:03 PM
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Do what the monks do, worldwide: 1 - Eat healthy food 2 - Be physically active 3 - Meditate / pray every single day. 4 - Engage in philanthropy. 5 - Stay chaste. 6 - Refrain from using drugs, alcohol, smokes, hashish and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:31 AM
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I think it's pretty much one of the most relatable red pill stuff if you say you are not into single moms or high count girls. It's pretty much agreed upon by most men and women will also agree on that too (ie, those who has had bad experiences dealing with a man's angry bitter ex wife who divorced him).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:55 AM
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I agree with your points. I am fortunate enough to find a dance school that is actually situated in the middle of the city and close to a public transportation hub. The fees are affordable enough too, and dance is actually a non-gender segregated (though women outnumber men for now) activity. But still, the same factors remain. You still have to pay your dues with time and/or money to get good and thus become influential in the social group. I also believe the old saying holds true here, that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:31 AM
1

A huge percentage of female users in dating apps actually treat dating apps like sugar daddy sites. That's why most men get left swiped on. They can see if a guy doesn't have a lot of money in the profiles and don't bother. They don't outright say "Cashapp me before we can talk" or "I need a man to pay my bills" or "Subscribe to my OF" because it's bannable but the intentions are there. Most men treat OLD as hookup apps - they also know from a glance that women are the 'not looking for a hookup'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:22 AM
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Insecurity is the top one libido killer for women, so if she is insecure about her appearance you will probably end up almost never having sex. An interesting observation! Is this the reason why in marriages a woman's sex drive plummets coinciding with her gaining weight and not bothering with grooming anymore? I think it's the same with men too. I get hornier when I lose weight, exercise and groom myself. I recall meeting a girl who had strong desires to have sex (she was the first to say she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:15 PM
0

Does influence in a social circle count? Example being a really good and passionate dancer in a bachata school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:11 PM
2

Yes, and no. If you are a low value male, it doesn't matter where you go, so the answer is no. But at the same time the answer can also be yes. People in different countries / cultures tend to like certain things. Here in Malaysia they love everything about K-pop but not so much about Jazz, for instance. It helps to be around people you have more in common with in the inside than just you hot, her hot, then you bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:28 PM
2

It just disgusts me that women fantasize meeting The One by doing literally nothing. Yea enjoy your cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 02:15 AM
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Better still, don't think you can substitute attraction with money as this guy is clearly doing. It does not work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 02:13 AM
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I will say this on a serious note. Do you actually -want- to fuck a woman who plays hard to get, who is dishonest with you, who plays games with you, who is never forward about what she wants? I personally don't care if a woman doesn't want to fuck, or -kinda- wants to fuck but wants to play games because she reads too much FDS, either way I'm noping and getting the fuck out of there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 01:40 AM
1

Most likely Asian immigrant, got the 'pussy pass' and 'trad priviledge' of marrying whites by just being a SAHM. Asians are so good at selling the SAHM trad image especially if they act dumb and lazy and all that. But as I presume always happens in the West she got old and got traded over for a younger wife by Alpha Bucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:21 AM
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She is 'buseeeeeeh' and 'not often on', yet wants online dating to work. Just like a moron who wants to only come to gym twice a week but wants results. ....not to say that weekend workout routines can't get results, but let's face it. Those who show up rarely also tend to put very little effort every time they show up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:15 AM
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Be bucks, yes, be beta, no. As the primary income earner of the household you should be having the most say, not the wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:10 AM
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Date a male stripper - oh wait. They hate their own kind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 09:23 AM
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Physical wise she's got that Karen face, also evil eyebrows. Nope, boner killer. Never gonna bang her in a thousand years. That's just me, brutally analyzing her for her physicalities because I already detest what she has in the inside. Because she is awful in the inside all her physical imperfections stand out like a sore thumb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 05:44 AM
9

A woman only acknowledges a man as smart if he is a brain surgeon. A woman only acknowledges a woman as smart if she is not a drooling village idiot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 05:43 AM
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Smart people do not spread word they are smart. The truly smart ones, like Grigori Perelman, actually refuse to receive recognition for how smart they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 05:42 AM
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She's got them evil eyebrows, just short of an evil goatee to match. Omagerd she is so smert in scoring in a fucking high school test in an American public school system, and now thinks she is peers with those who publish in Nature as a college professor. Oh wait, she has zero repositories in github as well. She is so damn smert she doesn't have to contribute. So smart, she thinks she can bullshit her way to having kids outside of marriage, divorcing, separating, keeping her children away from a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 05:38 AM
1

Ya go gurll slay kween slaaaaaaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:33 AM
1

It takes love to stay married for 40 years when a couple has every reason in the world not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:21 PM
1

Mental illness + actively working on overcoming it while staying positive = I'm okay with it. Mental illness + making excuses + playing the victim + complaining = hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:20 PM
1

dating apps suck. If I must go online though, I would recommend online social groups rather than "hot or not" apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:10 PM
2

Well MGTOW does teaches a man to focus on himself and do things that would genuinely make him feel confident and happy - and that actually makes him more attractive to women. I can see that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:08 PM
1

Look for people to talk to, not just girls. People can see that you are girl-hunting and will try to avoid you. Don't look that desperate for female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:05 PM
1

If they are truly devout they should know that it is better not to sin in the first place than to sin and then ask for forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:37 PM
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Thanks for showing a counter-example. This sheds an interesting light, actually. The trend is reversed for those who are genuinely devoted to their faith, and I agree that frequent church attendance (ie, not attending occasionally just because one wants to find a Catholic Stacy / Chad during a dry spell) can be a good metric for filtering the serious away from the posers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:36 PM
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I have observed that physically unattractive people tend to also be unattractive in the inside, more than the attractive ones. I am not sure what your definition of personal attractiveness is, but mine includes discipline and self-awareness. A person who is disciplined and self-aware will make the effort to stay healthy and groom him/herself. Also, the self-loathing that unattractive people have are simply infectious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:49 AM
3

Masculine women and feminine boys. But no, not really. I am from Southeast Asia and shitty women too are everywhere. You guys are wishing for a unicorn if you think you can find a woman who is lowly educated aka with low intelligence and self-conscience but somehow has the wisdom to stay chaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:11 AM
0

As a general rule though, men and women who work tend to have cleaner houses. Success starts from within. As all the rich businessmen tell you, if you want to make money you start from cleaning your room - or to be even more extreme, scrubbing your toilet. A guy who voluntarily chooses to be unemployed is going to have dirty rooms and dirty clothes while engaging in acts of laziness. No I am not talking about those who are unfortunately laid off for reasons beyond their control. They would make …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:05 AM
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The bullshit about traditional women not working is also so fucking laughable. https://theaseanpost.com/article/empowering-indonesias-women-farmers Oh noes these are not real women, these are robots! /s But hey, if it helps you all sleep at night thinking that until 50 years ago women in all 1 million years of human history and evolution just sit at home and scratch their butts why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:51 AM
2

Is it just me, or I see stating alcohol consumption as a hobby is a red flag? No, she's not a connoisseur of delicious wine, drinking for small sips for the taste, but someone who chugs cheap alcohol like water and get wasted and fat - and to make herself drunk and stupid to make irresponsible decisions. That's her mode of finding partners - getting drunk and getting railed, not finding someone with similar interests (except interests also in getting wasted, stupid and drunk, that is!)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 07:44 AM
0

1 date is only possible if they have been going out together already plenty, as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:40 AM
5

Yes, adding more fuel into the fire in marriage. Being pressured into marrying means that the man does not genuinely love the woman, lack of maturity that is only brought through getting older and venturing far from the house - which religious and conservative families are loathe of having their children do because gasp they might get corrupted oh noes - thus depriving them from realizing that marriage is full of setbacks and one should patiently go through with their partners instead of flaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:32 AM
7

Funny isn't it? When a woman presents herself in a very nasty way in the inside, she gets called out all sorts of nasty names from the outside. The flaws of her physicality that would be negated if she is pleasant are now strongly magnified.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 07:12 AM
-1

Nah, they would much rather tame a liberal promiscuous Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:04 AM
30

Correct me if I am wrong, but aren't divorces the highest in the Bible Belt? The less educated, the more ahem cross-fingers "religious", the more likely they hooked up and have past relationships, and the less stable their marriages are. They are not religious - just in name only. Their knowledge of religion is shallow, even shallower than those with no religion but have the knowledge to make informed opinions about it. Most of the time they sit down at church and listen to sermons rather than s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:03 AM
29

I think it's deeper than that. It's a game where even if you win you win shitty prizes. Don't even play the game even if you are Chad/Tyrone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 06:56 AM
22

If the utility belt guy stops thirsting for women he gets shamed all over the place. He gets called all sorts of horrible names like "not wanting to step up" or "being manchildren". Ironically a grown up child is one who focuses on friendship, family and self-responsibility like these utility belt guys, while a real woman is one who wastes her entire youth getting pumped and dumped while working a bottom of the barrel job or even not at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 06:55 AM
1

Does it thou? I attempted relationships with women I just don't have anything in common at all. I just want to bang only and nothing else. If those women are men I would have no intention of even saying hi at all. It just feels lame and I feel like I was simping and wasting my time. On the other hand I hit it off very, very well with one who was into roleplaying games, Sci-fi stuff and ancient Asian history like me. She actually came on to me first saying she liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:43 AM
1

I can tho, I have girls who rejected me who I am still friends with. I don't see them as just hot girls I wanna bang, but also friends. My friendships with them don't change even after I find out my attraction for them aren't reciprocated. Well I did when I was younger, when I was a kid with strong simping tendencies, when I just see girls as banging targets while having zero friends. Edit: nevermind I get what you mean lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:39 AM
34

You aren't captain save a bitch. Your job isn't to pull women out the hole they dug themselves in. Men marry those in the same, slightly above or slightly lower social circle. Kings do not marry tavern wenches. They may fancy those in the lower classes as consorts and concubines, but never as queens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 05:55 AM
21

If she didn't want you before you got 30 and before you started making some money you're probably beta bux. If she goes ewww nerd when you tell her you're into coding but wow when you say you make over 100K a year, you are beta bux.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 05:54 AM
17

"I have no college degree, IQ lower than 100, 3 bastard kids from different fathers each, have debt touching 100K, have STDs and my pussy still drips syphillis" "I know what I'm worth!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 05:53 AM
5

And she's not his friend either. Just taking advantage of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:44 AM
-3

Well I mean, that works too. For hookups one can skip the friendship part. You just hit it and quit it and not see each other again, or keep seeing each other intermittently in a FWB arrangement. But it's just not my cup of tea though. Maybe I am the oddity as a male, but I just don't want to fuck anyone I don't like even if I lust for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:59 AM
5

Indeed. It's like in RPG terms, you need to level up in Friendship first before you can level up Lovers, but you don't need to max out Friendship to level 99. Just level 50 at least should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:55 AM
0

Indeed, I imagine it would be absolutely disastrous to lead with dirty talk, flirting, touching, even showing penis pics simply because a man is too afraid that becoming friends and showing traits of good friendship is going to kill a girl's attraction for him. If a girl likes a man, being a friend first isn't going to change her attraction for him. she'll end up liking him much, much more That is my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:39 AM
0

That is what I think though... Not all women you are friends with want to be your girlfriend...but every girl who is your girlfriend is also your friend. It's the foundation. It is the absolute necessary base for a relationship going forward. One can skip the 'friendship' phase or just be a fake friend but the relationship stages going further up are going to be shaky, like pillars holding a building up. But this is my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:26 AM
3

Yes, that is what I think too. A friendship is a foundation for being lovers. You cannot move up if you lack the foundation, and if the relationship doesn't work out you can always scale back down to the foundation and being friends. As a guy I actually cringe at the thought of being a boyfriend to a girl I don't feel like being friends with - maybe because she is insufferable, or has a terrible attitude, or she has a history of taking advantage of those around her, but I want to be her boyfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:23 AM
1

Lots of "Busy" excuses from modern child-free women. But they always make time for Chads who fuck them within a day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 01:01 PM
1

You have to pay denarii and buy indulgence in the medieval times. Now all you have to do is like certain posts on social media to buy indulgence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 01:00 PM
2

If she is Christian that means God has the highest authority over everything. Yet we all know her fee-fees and Satan's whispers come first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 12:58 PM
2

They think the world of their children indeed, that's why they decide to give their children the most miserable life growing up - in a dysfunctional family with the lack of a father, just a mother rotating one abusive boyfriend after another, often fucking in front of the kid with the kid threatened with violence if he ever intrudes or speaks out. And yes, domestic violence is actually the highest in single parent households.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 12:58 PM
1

It's called facebook where they lurk at single mom posts and like random inspirational posters. They all echo the same exact words like NPCs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 12:56 PM
1

She can't even be loyal to The Lord in keeping her legs shut and refraining from fornicating, having bastard kids and separating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 12:54 PM
1

Monies will be used to substitute for the lack of Chad appeal. That's marriage in a nutshell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:19 PM
2

Romantic = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and woman-centered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:18 PM
1

No, it has to be a trip to Paris, minimum, or to Manhattan, New York City for the first date!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:18 PM
2

Remember, the only difference between Mr. Settle and Mr. Perfect is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:14 PM
2

"He sets rules for me because I am SAHM with no jobs or life aspirations. I just stay at home and watch TV like an overgrown sheltered daughter! He makes all the money and thus he makes all the rules in the household and I hate that! Bawww he's abusive!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:36 AM
1

She managed to baby trap, but Chad escaped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:33 AM
1

Because she knows to make a better bio she needs to elaborate more about herself - but because she is shit instead of selling how fascinating she is she sells just how bullshitty her life is, cause that's all she has.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:32 AM
2

You know a woman's got no personality when she needs to have hobbies fucked into her by Chads she wants to chameleon and seduce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:30 AM
5

She just wants to be spoiled. She deserves it after all of that “abuse” she had to put up with over the last few years! The majority of female users in OLD want to be spoiled. That's what they really want. Just as male users see OLD as hookup apps, female user see OLD as sugar daddy apps. The genuine ones both male and female quit using OLD out of disgust seeing the gold diggers and casual sex players concentrating in the apps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:29 AM
2

Better still in my observation. "I can't exercise because I have a health problem", because what better to fix having a health problem than not doing what will fix it in the first place?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:25 AM
2

Nothing says shirking one's responsibility more than accepting that one's fate is determined by the formation of stars in the Milky Way Galaxy - though strangely not stars of other galaxies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:19 AM
18

If a woman's dumb enough to go into drunken alcoholic stupor with strange men online and get knocked up, do you trust her to have the wisdom to plan her life, get an education, acquire useful work skills and take care of herself and her child? Forget marriage - if she is married she's just going to be an insufferable SAHM, a stay at home overgrown daughter in fact with the husband still having to shoulder housekeeping duties on top of working.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:29 AM
11

Come off strong -> bitchy, clingy, possessive, nice girl vibes. Heart of gold -> BS because guys would stick around if that is the case. Also notice that she has absolutely nothing to say except that she has someone else's bastard child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:26 AM
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That quirky thing gets easily dismissed as creepy shit if a non-Chad does it. Lookism maximum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 09:24 AM
11

I've said this and I'll say it again. Men do not objectify women. Women objectify themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 05:28 AM
3

With low intelligence too, perpetuating a whole class of one welfare sucker after another welfare sucker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 05:19 AM
4

Stop clowning yourself with makeup and look at yourself in the mirror. You are not as hot as you think. And add that to your repulsively shallow personality and you come across as a superficial, bitchy, stuck up bitch. Very unattractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 11:53 PM
9

What the bloody shit, so young and she is already making a whole thesis on boys, penises and sex. Just like a really bad caricature of dumb bimbos in a high school drama movie. Imagine if she spent her passion and dedication instead on things that would actually make her feel happy, like GASP, exercising! Getting a bicycle! Read books on philosophy! Learn math! Cook healthy food!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 04:28 AM
15

I'll split my checks no matter what, thank you very much. The only exception is if we are married. I always will treat my family. You mad I refuse to take you to an expensive restaurant and pay for everything? You mad that I am concerned about your budget and mine? You mad that I envision a life of responsible spending and frugality? Good riddance, I don't want to have anything to do with you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 04:18 AM
67

And also a penis size requirement to satisfy Her Ugliness. Superficial, bitchy and materialistic. Sign me up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 04:16 AM
18

She wants to be a a stay at home wife with zero responsibility in the household and money flowing constantly into her wallet. That's the ideal. That's why she flexes so much about her partner's earnings. Not because she loves him or anything like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:15 AM
18

That is also why feminists often metamorphosize into tradcons - different appearance, same shit. Benefits for her at the expense of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:14 AM
6

Yup, software dev. One of the highest breakup and divorce rates. This is what happens when you use money to attract women, guys. And no, women will not feel grateful if you make more money than them. It's going to be a downhill slope from here - she'll demand him to pay for meals, then demand him to pay for rent, then demand him to pay for everything else, then conveniently decides OH, she reaches an epiphany and wants to quit her job, be a lazy homebody and be a 'traditional lady'. Then cue ing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:11 AM
4

Dwarfmode body, minimum, because she is 'too busy' to stop stuffing processed foods, cake and wine down her throat. Has been a Karen throughout all her career. Got promoted not by excelling at her job, but by bitching her way up. Gets work done only by being a 'leader' - aka getting men beneath her to do the job for her and then taking the credit for it. Openly boasts herself as being brainy and intelligent and that she is far above interacting with the common man while her actual job has nothin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 06:26 AM
6

They make fun of nice guys for wanting to do nice stuff for hot chicks. But these women...they don't want to do nice stuff for anyone at all, PERIOD, not even their own parents, because they are the queen and they deserve the best.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 06:19 AM
5

Not so strict when sugar is involved. The looks are just there so that they don't feel disgusted having to offer transactional sex, just like with prostitutes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 05:39 AM
7

And pretending to be busy isn't too. If she is genuinely busy, as in being productive, she wouldn't be in her current predicament now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:26 AM
5

They want to selfie their way to an ATM machine. No, they don't want a marriage. If they can siphon money from men without even marrying, they would.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:25 AM
5

So her bio is absolutely nothing interesting, just a bunch of demands, and she wants guys to say more than "Hello", really? What do you want me to say? "Hey your car is nice? What's the brand?" Or should I be a desperate tryhard with a excessively quirky humorous line to flatter her Fat Majesty just to make myself look like a disposable jester in a royal court? And yeah she is suuuuuuuuuuuuuper busy. Busy, busy, busy. B-word is the favorite word for people who are lazy and don't want to commit t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:24 AM
6

Times 1.5 because promiscuous women often go for group sex and swinger parties too. Think of them like Slaneeshi cultists / Emperor's Children. Just vanilla sex is boring because they've had way too much sex, so they go for the most extreme of sensations, and still feel empty afterward.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:14 AM
10

Don't worry, the men who are 'insecure wussies' will refrain from messaging her. That's what she wants. The real men will then message her - you know, the men who will continue to pump and dump her and raise her dick count further.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:13 AM
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Fat girl angle shot. Makeup. Ruined pussy. Ugly brain. She's that girl you'll fuck and be filled with disgust once post-nut clarity sets in, just like how the past 60 guys felt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:11 AM
20

There will be no sex in marriage except for bribery and kids, because sex breaks a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:10 AM
22

Dumb and boring chicks like in the OP get plenty of attention from men and thus have huge dick counts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:09 AM
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It has to do with the fact that these women are often enabled by their peers ("You go gurrrl", "fuck the patriarchy, literally", "explore find yerself", "Ignore the haterzzzz", "Queen slaaayyy") Sluts always have other sluts as friends. Also as a collolary, the best way to uncover a slut's past is to ask her friends. A slut's friends tend to have incredibly loose lips.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:08 AM
10

Frogpill. Those damned amphibiophiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:05 AM
3

This one has been posted in this sub, and also posted enough in the Tinder sub as well that it's become a minor meme ("I need love motherfuckers")
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:05 AM
3

Thanks for the insight. It goes to show that at the end of the day that is what these women look for. Dating is just dishonest prostitution for the most part. A man typically ends up spending more money and not actually get sex than going for a sugar daddy or one-time escort arrangement. I reckon that on OLD these bailout-seekers have nothing to say because they want to hide their true intentions and want to mask themselves as being 'good girls'. They can futively mask themselves to be modern da…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 02:01 AM
12

Hey thanks!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 03:26 PM
7

Do those girls have empty bio too by any chance? Coming across as utterly boring and insufferable?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 03:25 PM
11

"Hey look I'm shit, HERE ARE MY DEMANDS!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 07:12 AM
48

OLD in a nutshell. Men treat them like hookup apps, women treat them like sugar daddy sites.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 07:11 AM
67

Sure you do, then once you find that man you will go to reddit and make stupid posts with the first line like "I met this guy, he is sweet, charming, hardworking, gentle, nice, BUUUUUUUTT.....!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 07:10 AM
23

I have more money than he is. He does not BAWWWWWWWWWWW I CAN'T AFFORD TO LIVE THE LIFESTYLE I WANT Because in marriage she doesn't want to use her money. She only wants to use his money. His money is her money, her money, is her money. Gold digger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 12:05 AM
17

The more they get pumped and dumped the higher they mark themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 02:58 PM
25

lol therapy. The therapists in 'Merica sure are making huge dough consoling post-wall sloots and telling them feel-good advice that won't help them anyways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 02:53 PM
4

She was shit back then (given her life choices), she is still shit now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 10:13 AM
9

Be a shit person with a shit profile, you attract shit men to your orbit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:58 AM
8

7'0'' minimum, dude, and must have bigger muscles than Mr Olympia.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:47 AM
10

Pious men don't peg their piety on a location, but in their hearts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 11:50 PM
10

Definitely overweight and unattractive. That's why guys only seem to want to fuck her after meeting her at bars and after drinking enough alcohol to damage the liver, and have regretful post-nut clarity after fucking her that the guys decide not to see her again. Of course they have to drive her home after that, because if they act mean to her post-sex they would risk having her claiming it was rape - rape simply because she regretted it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 11:48 PM
2

Indeed. I agree with you on that one. Fat lady knows that Fit guy will reject her eventually so she'll reject him first, or say stupid stuff like 6-6-6.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 04:00 AM
1

This woman has poor self control (cannot lose weight) which ensures she will be poor and not be of much value for a husband. Indeed, fat ladies also have poor self-restraint, hence their high dick count. She even admits that in the OP. Not only that, she is used to getting dicked by Chads that she loses appetite for anything other than a 10/10 male. I'm sure ya'll seen a fat lady on an OLD swiping right for literally everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:56 AM
3

Romance novels for women are like 90% smut, less about love (ie struggling and staying loyal to each other even in the harshest of times), and more about sexies (omg his jawline, omg his tummy, a whole page describing his body! Him sucking her nipples, licking her pussy, fucking her with her face down on the bed, yessh yess)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:53 AM
5

Each time I doubt myself in my belief that fat / ugly women have high dick counts in the hook up world, I will read this thread. The lower worth they are, the more easily they get juggernauted by Chads looking to pump and dump. No wonder they loathe their value-matches - she got pumped by men several leagues her own looks class so much that she got numb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:51 AM
4

She has to fuck him first to know that he has bad sexual habits. And no, she would let herself be choked instead of saying No. She can't say no to a hunk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:45 AM
3

Any other dude would get ditched at an instance, but because Mister Strangler is hawt, all is forgiven. I wish there is a sub that exposes how women pretty much ignores and forgives men being jackasses and assholes when they are handsome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:43 AM
8

Because he has a chiseled jawline and a huge penis, that talk isn't necessary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:42 AM
2

gets love-bombed. "I have decided to fuck him first instead of ignore him"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 03:41 AM
5

Emulating male roles and characteristics Nah, they emulate Karen in the worst ultra-feminine manner and bitch their way up the corporate ladder. It's even worse than emulating a man. She got up from demanding special privileges for herself. It's the reason why they always have a super strong ego thinking that they are standing toe to toe with the likes of software engineers while having jobs as lame as HR or marketing. Ladies who actually do software engineering are humble by the way. They don't…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 01:24 AM
11

A link to https://igotstandardsbro.com/ on the front page
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 01:16 AM
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10 huge black cocks could possibly be inside my wife. The worst thing is worrying that there will be 10 more other cocks AFTER you wifed her up. Promiscuous women are disloyal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 01:15 AM
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Yes. It's unfortunately the trend I've observed, that the lowest-tier of white women would hook up with blacks, but not even regular blacks, but low-tier blacks too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 01:13 AM
9

You have a ton of images and this is what you go for? Making a face like Uncle Popeye? Yeah, I get it, you are ugly. That's why you cashed in your ugliness by being an easy piece of ass to Tyrones from the 'hood and getting knocked up. Because screw upping your value by staying chaste and cultivating good personality traits, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 01:12 AM
7

They weren't frogs when she is still fucking them. But after the dumping is done the Chads turn from Princes to Frogs. Retroactive revisionism of their pasts. "B-b-but it was forced and I didn't enjoy it!" Said the thot who recorded not one but several videos of herself getting gangbanged, moaning, getting wet, being assertive in the sex videos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 02:44 PM
7

I'm pretty sure that 'frogs' is just an euphemism for Chads who won't commit. She not only kissed them but fucked them too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 02:33 PM
12

Or getting juggernauted by a 10/10 Chaddasaurus Rex just looking to end his dry spell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:05 AM
29

You know what's more pathetic? That she takes love-bombing attempts by men on OLD seeking a pump and dump as genuine compliments that she is attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:05 AM
10

She isn't feeling teh sparklezz with guy Guy isn't feeling it too. "HOW DARE YOU DO THAT! YOU CANT DO THAT!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:02 AM
1

It felt so hot and so awesome, But once it's done and Chad dumps her, it felt dark and she needed healing and therapy. Imagine that, women getting PTSDs from giving blowjobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 01:53 PM
2

Imagine women being brought up to thinking tingles from first time encounters are more fulfilling than a forever burning cinder of a long-term relationship, stronger and hotter the longer the relationship goes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 02:25 AM
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If the man turns out to be a shitbag, it was her choice. But women refuse to acknowledge their failures and bad choices by blaming the man they choose as the problem. Go to the nice guys sub and you see the number one excuse they make is that they couldn't tell if a man is abusive until after 1 year of into the relationship (read : having sex) with him. Yeah, I agree, when a woman uses height, jawline, muscles and penis size as an indicator whether or not a man is going to be abusive. Just like …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 02:21 AM
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Older cultures do not frown upon sex before marriage - just sex with prostitutes at a brothel. When with women men want to have serious relationships sex before marriage is a no no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 02:18 AM
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Poor, uneducated folks make dumb life decisions. Now you know why religion traditionally has always been strongly imposed upon the poor masses. In fact, the poorer the countries, the more religious the communities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 12:39 AM
9

I get migraine reading that bio. It even has the audio of a ghetto hood underclass Lakeesha that I just couldn't get rid of from my head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 12:38 AM
10

Dumb chicks are slutty and prone to making bad life decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 12:36 AM
6

Somewhere, sometime in her upbringing, she has been taught by her parents and peers that being a maladjusted sociopath is amusing. "You go girl!" "Just love yourself for who you are!" "Good work!" "Good job!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 12:35 AM
3

She shouldn't waste her time on Tinder and get a real job instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 08:44 AM
5

They came in her raw, but don't you dare try to have raw sex with her. Condoms only! Eww! She doesn't want no kids with you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 08:43 AM
12

Imagine talking to your parents and friends you met your wife while she's doing stuff like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 08:42 AM
3

Report. Soliciting for money is not allowed on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 08:40 AM
9

"Have been chatting to a few people via OLD" Yeah no, just stopped there. Socialcel seeking sparks. Has it ever dawned into anyone that she couldn't find sparks because she is unable to make friends? If she has friends she wouldn't be dependent on OLD apps to even talk to people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 02:05 AM
1

joining social groups in real life is a no-go either, she much prefers to talk behind screens just like a Shy(tm) person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 03:32 AM
1

And being Catholic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 03:19 AM
4

She's shy because she doesn't want to talk or think anything and expects a Super-Chad to bulldoze through and lead the conversation towards fucking 100 percent. Hypergamy maximum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 02:53 AM
11

Fornicates, has bastard kids, never uses condoms. "Shy"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 01:47 PM
2

Imagine scowling because one cannot smile and expose the fat face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 04:05 AM
1

Only liked by black dudes, as bottom-tier whites inevitably find, living in the lowest income urban communities in the US surrounded by ghetto blacks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 04:04 AM
3

True, and they go HOLY SHIT when they see a fat guy losing weight after a while going to the gym, with smiles and congratulatory pats given even from the veterans.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 03:52 AM
1

She not only dated a guy who did cocaine and snorted cocaine herself, but also slept with him, several times, that when the dumping happened she got hurt so bad she added an 'X' to her list.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 03:47 AM
1

A love seeker who markets herself as a sex seeker. Yes, height must be mentioned first, because love is important, not physical attributes. And good luck with not exercising. You wanna bet your genes will carry you through to old age? add one 'x' for every 10 Chads pumping and dumping her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 03:46 AM
4

Imagine having nothing appealing or interesting to say that you just go right down to business and list demands. Imagine that the only thing you can offer is your body, that which hookers can do much better, at a much lower cost, with much fewer headaches, with even a lesser risk of catching STDs too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 10:26 AM
8

And begs to the Internet why men don't treat her like a chaste lady fit to be wifed up for life when the very first impression she makes of herself is that of a promiscuous woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 10:06 PM
3

Okay, culturally speaking, is this a Latino thing? For women to always express themselves in a very immodest manner? I have noticed that Latin dances also often feature women in skimpy clothing dancing paired with men in a provocative manner (or maybe that's just in the shitty dance studios I've visited).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 10:05 PM
5

Chad doesn't need to be interesting. Hence this topic 'Chasing Chad'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 10:01 PM
25

Nah, it's because he's abusive and a cheater. That's the best copout excuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 09:59 PM
16

basically spent her entire 20’s married and now wants out in her 30’s? Why? You know why. The carousel was calling, she thought she’d be able to call all the shots and she can’t but she won’t admit that. That's what happens when women marry for money, hook up for love. The women are not genuinely attracted to the men they marry coz settling down, want to be taken cared of and that shit. Also while they are married they get spoiled which actually reduces their attraction for their men as they dev…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 09:57 PM
11

Boring people are never mentally stimulated at anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 09:55 PM
8

It makes perfect sense too why these women with zero effort always become single moms. They never attract men, except for pump and dumps / FWBs. So they try to baby trap the men and of course still fail anyways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 02:25 AM
7

Actually also say "Sorry no single moms and divorcees."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 02:24 AM
56

They really never grow out of their slut phase. Always with the skimpy clothing, always with the provocative clothing, always with the non-smiling bitch face. Of course she loves tattoos and coloring her hair too while at it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 11:27 AM
2

It's both because we all know that single mothers have an amazing track record of initiating divorce after marrying. Like begets like. She is just like the baby daddy who left a bastard kid in her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 07:14 AM
1

Imagine that the only thing they can offer is something you can Google for free.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 07:13 AM
2

They only want to marry childless virgin men but never want to have kids with them either. It's that bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 06:44 AM
3

Why is every single thing she likes has to do with introversion, calorie intake and sedentarism? No wonder she's fucking fat as hell. An you can look forward to her ballooning even more if you put a finger to her ring (and resent you for it)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 06:35 AM
8

They want to work AND claim the man's money while at it. Her money is her money, his money is her money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 06:02 AM
10

They also see marriage as simply a siphoning of money rather than a union of love. Love is for hookups. That's when they find themselves, enjoy lives to the fullest, experience, have fun, and all that shit. Marriage is for 'settling down' and being a boring homebody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 06:01 AM
11

Women who bring zero will always throw a hissy fit when prenups are mentioned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 06:00 AM
6

Women like her are wary of being cheated on, to be cast aside in favor of a younger wife and then divorced. But even with this argument in mind, the way out of this is to marry someone loyal and actively do the best they can to not let that scenario happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 05:59 AM
6

They seriously think 'no sex on the nth date' rule is going to stop them from being pumped and dumped? Chad has a roster of girls to message. He messages one, gets told to wait, no problem, he messages other girls and sleeps with them in the meantime. When he gets to sleep with one, he ghosts her and adds more girls to his roster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 04:26 PM
6

It runs in the family, believe it or not. Sluts have parents who are also sluts, and they start to even have the same general low-pedigree appearance as they mate with their male counterparts and concentrate their traits from generation to generation. Also, decreasing social mobility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 12:05 PM
4

I am from a Muslim community - usually parents do this when they see their daughters suspiciously not having boyfriends after their 25th year, and their daughters make excuses like education or career while they are staying away from their parents and living in the big cities. It's a common tactic for born-again tradthots in conservative commmunities. Sleep around, find themselves under the ballsacks of Atheist Chads, get damaged enough that Chads don't even want to hook up with them anymore, TH…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 02:54 AM
2

She wasted her prime years getting wasted, then going into epiphany phase, then therapy phase. And sitting at home playing video games, yum yum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 02:50 AM
4

They much rather show tits than get good at playing a game.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 02:47 AM
1

These post-squirt clarity after-action-reports never fail to amuse me. If you hate these guys so much, why do you sleep with them in the first place? And you complain after you sleep with them? Pathetic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 02:32 AM
3

Exactly, just like how these women use the exact same words in their profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 01:35 AM
1

Ugly women get targeted for hookups the most (though marriage the least) These ugly women get juggernauted by getting their asses kissed about how pretty they are just so that hopefully they get ass-kissed enough to spread their legs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 04:26 PM
1

True virgins don't make vows of celibacy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 04:22 PM
3

Indeed, in Fatmerica all a woman has to do to stand out from 90% of the other women is to not be fat. That's literally it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 04:17 PM
2

Ah, yes, the supreme irony of a pious man who checks himself from sinning but doesn't mind that his wife is a sinner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 04:15 PM
2

And God forgives sins, but still does not spare the consequences. I know this even though I am not Christian.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 04:14 PM
17

Exactly. She is exactly the type of person she complains about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 05:07 AM
18

Back off, she's mine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 05:06 AM
47

The CC degrades women real fast, so we don't even have to wait five years for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 04:51 AM
15

I can only imagine the kind of high profile job that a tattooed, pieced single mom does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 04:50 AM
8

And the only difference is the facial bone structure of his face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 02:55 AM
3

It's easy to avoid. Don't go for sloppy seconds. The guy in the OP targeted her just when she is on the rebounds - not just a rebound, but MULTIPLE rebounds. Remember, she is the common denominator in all the times she got dumped. There is something about her that the other guys find unappealing that they decide to leave her, and you wouldn't want to find out what that is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 02:53 AM
24

Then gets pumped and dumped before going into epiphany phase followed by therapist / finding herself phase, before throwing herself right back in being Chad's side bitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 04:23 PM
8

Don't be a woman's butler. Notice in the OP that she never does anything for her boyfriend, except reciprocation with sex. "Oooh you're being a good servant, here's a reward kiss kiss". The moment the woman becomes a practical prostitute exchanging favors with sex with you, is the moment she loses respect for you. Relationships have to be a two-way street.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 04:22 PM
16

The FOMO is calling. FOMO is the Ring of Power, compelling women to ride the cock carousel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 04:19 PM
139

She is too damaged to exhibit love. Read the end of the first page. "Growing up I didn't have the highest self esteem. I settled with people because.." She settled with people. Not one guy, not guys, PEOPLE. She is damaged goods.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 04:17 PM
15

Golden rule: If a woman says "He is ..." she is not attracted to the man. But if a woman starts her sentence with "I feel ..." She likes, loves, WANTS the man. Just read the OP. She straight out starts her essay with "I'm not physically attracted" describing her feels rather than describing the man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 04:15 PM
1

With the most ghetto names imaginable for each too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 12:58 AM
3

The more vulgar, the better to compensate for being fat and ugly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 12:54 AM
3

And telling herself "I know what I am worth" when all her life she has been selling herself as a whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 12:53 AM
0

Ahh my bad, my memory of the actual movie is getting faint.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 05:29 AM
3

She probably relates the most with Jasmine, the Disney Princess who is a literal princess, is black, doesn't do anything to warrant Aladdin's affection other than hawt, and that Aladdin has to steal a cursed magical artifact and wish himself to become a prince just to have a chance at fucking her, and she agrees because 'love' when she would never even give him attention prior to the whole Prince Ali shebang. We all know she wants to fuck him because the Genie is still around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 11:45 PM
4

That's right. What can you do for each other? So what do you have to offer? Nothing. So you GTFO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 11:43 PM
22

In the past people see if they have chemistry by working together, being friends, having conversations over tea, with the greatest amount of 'kino' being holding hands. Yes, for millennia this had worked terribly well as an indicator that a person is going to be compatible with you. But now the test is by fucking, on the first date, with alcohol included. And women like in the OP article wonder why her Husband Detector test is failing miserably.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 11:40 PM
6

Super duper clingy, and controlling, and always use sex as a weapon. They so obviously want sex not because they like it but because they want to charm you like a succubus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 11:33 PM
2

And a lot shorter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 11:31 PM
4

Word has it that Henry Cavill is playing Warhammer 40,000, and he would much rather play tabletop games than be with women again. He is joining the MGTOW celebrity crowd like Keanu Reeves, Leo Decaprio and Tom Cruise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 11:30 PM
5

A pumped and dumped CC rider always puts 'friends'. Because 'friends' don't hit it and quit it. It's just lingo for beta bucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 04:28 AM
23

They want sugar daddies because they are lazy. They are lazy, that's why they are fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 04:27 AM
12

You get to see a single photo with her face occupying 90% of the screen, and a dwarfmode body having spawned several half-Tyrone bastards, and tons of sagging skin, bad oral odor, rotting yellow teeth, fetal alcohol syndrome face, and a body that goes limp and autopilot when its time for sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 04:26 AM
3

Look, it's either the Lakeeshas and Shaneequas, or dwarfmode Stasies and Betties. Black guys in the hood who want to have a hypergamous escapism will go for the latter. Likewise the dwarfmode white girls don't exactly get attention from their white guys in their hoods so it's a match made in heaven.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 01:29 AM
4

No wonder women like her always get interracial kids. I think it's because statistically in America blacks predominantly occupy the lower social strata. Also, dwarfmode body. You know women like her with that body is gonna end up like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 01:25 AM
5

Yep. They are lazy, dumb and impulsive. That's why their jobs suck even if they work at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:19 AM
18

Remember, the Papacy had to intervene because divorces were especially rampant in medieval Catholic society and often done for the most frivolous of reasons. Prior to that the Papacy also had to actively lobby against and eventually enforce a ban on polygamy. Divorces and polygamy happened because of, you guessed it, hypergamy. Flocks of women gather towards the top 5% of hyper-Chads and they get rotated and cast aside at a moment's whim. The shittier the women / in the lower social stratum the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:14 AM
18

And use her hair to cover her cheeks too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:06 AM
8

Modern day sober = not drinking rum for the last 24 hours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:04 AM
8

It's almost like you can tell how likely a woman gonna be racking a lot of fornication partners and have bastard children by her job or even lack thereof. Wasting time and sleeping around instead of cultivating the self.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:03 AM
29

Homebody = no job, no hobbies, no social skills, no discipline.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:02 AM
6

Pumped and dumped by Liam McCock
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 11:12 AM
7

Single mom Old school morals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 05:45 AM
2

I get up, play with my cats, watch TV, play games on my phone, go to bed, repeat. How about taking up meaningful hobbies instead? One that involves you stepping out of the house (GASP!), mingle with others who are not your family (GASP!) and contribute to the community (HOLY SHIT!)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 04:00 AM
12

"Who came inside you?" - that's a better ridicule to throw at them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 04:27 AM
1

What kind of crazy clown world does she live in if she thinks women in the traditional past are unpaid maids, who just sit at home otherwise with zero economic contribution and spread their legs on command? The farms here were overwhelmingly tended to by women and if it wasn't for their contributions generation to generation we wouldn't have rice on the table. Same goes for healthcare and weavery. Take a hint: fat women except for those in the elite aristocratic classes were almost entirely none…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 04:13 AM
6

It's only cheating if the guys do it. A cock carousel rider is as disloyal as they come. She hops from one guy to the other, because 'adventuring', 'finding herself' and all that shit. But when her male value-matches do it she cries foul.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 10:43 PM
10

Indeed, every Chad was a toxic motherfucker when relationships end. Just like how they always say what they've always wanted since born was to be a mother in a stable loving family while going ewwww marriage in their 20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 03:28 AM
6

They all turn into redneck racist conservatards when it comes to finding bailouts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 01:57 AM
19

Imagine only advertising your body and then demanding that guys don't treat you like a disposable cum hole. "MEN TREAT WOMEN LIKE SEX OBJECTS" Nope, the truth is women objectify themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 01:56 AM
21

"I deeply loved them" "relationships were toxic" It's only toxic when those relationships end. Otherwise they are hawt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 01:51 AM
7

Too generous. I'd say 500 lbs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 11:44 PM
7

Funny how when it comes to love they all become racists. Whites only, Asians only, Blacks only, Jews only, etc. Doesn't love transcend racial differences? Oh, wait, it only transcends when it comes to hooking up and getting trashed. Clown world relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 11:43 PM
15

Most religion adherents are brought up to think that they can do anything and God will be with them - the opposite of the canonical teaching that God helps those who help themselves. Thus don't expect them to have a greater sense of self-restraint than atheists or those who honestly admit they are not pious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:53 AM
14

If they go to the House of God to find penises they have no right to call themselves Christians
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:18 AM
6

Apparently being a slave for someone and enabling a loser's past mistakes are considered a gentlemanly pursuit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 12:27 AM
1

Lifting heavy weights will slim down a woman, if they go fully natural (no steroids). If a woman slims down she will get thinner legs, perkier breasts and tighter bums.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 12:26 AM
12

Because it really is. Ruining yourself just because your friends tell you to, and you actually follow your friends or even worse, some stranger off reddit than your own husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 02:45 AM
9

Fear Of Missing Out. Basically when people are influenced to do something degenerate and would only make themselves feel miserable in the end, just because their peers pressured them to. You'll see a lot of couples being encouraged to divorce and break up just to FOMO shifting from happy relationship sex to mediocre hook up sex, but they can't miss it. They just wanna do it for the sake of doing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 01:42 AM
16

Their whole life revolves around sex - but more precisely fornication sex and hookups as opposed to actual relationship sex. They celebrate having multiple partners and hopping from one to the other instead of staying loyal to just one because FOMO and all that shit. So they think other people would take it as an insult if they are called 'virgins', 'incels' or whatnot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 11:55 PM
9

A virgin is a degenerate in today's society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 11:54 PM
2

Uh, whatever you put in to sterilize the sperm inside a condom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 08:34 AM
12

Free pussy is always bad pussy too. I donno about you guys, man, to work oneself to become a Chad thundercock only to cash in to fuck shitty psycho single mother trash, having to use condoms and then spraying tabasco all over your spunk, then lying, bullshitting, manipulating a woman to leave you alone afterward? What about just relationship sex with a stable, normal person instead?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 07:31 AM
14

They all pretend to be virgins and pious saintesses when getting fornicated (lol) by The One.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 06:15 AM
5

How to know she is daddy-baiting you? She plays house with you - stays in your house or you in hers, fornicates with you, relegates you to responsibilities regarding taking care of her kids. How to prevent getting daddy-baited? Don't fornicate with single moms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 06:14 AM
4

It's like the fatter they are, the more horrible they live. It's absolutely mind-boggling, like their propensity for making bad decisions in dieting also applies to everything else in their lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 01:36 AM
3

Muslim = eat pork, drink alcohol, fornicate, cheat, but you won't be able to tell since I wear the hijab and pretend to be pious so good! Tee hee!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 01:35 AM
3

"I am a sapiosexual. High school graduate education and stay at home mother"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 01:33 AM
5

The face should occupy at least 80% of the screen, with doggy filters and sparkles too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 01:32 AM
10

Pay for play on an OLD. I bet all she shows are her tits and ass, and that's it. "You wanna fornicate with me! Yeaaaaaa I know you do, you want some of this? Love my tits? Uh huh uh huh? Not so fast, buster. Here are my demands."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 12:37 AM
3

The truth is, what many guys don't realize, that if a girl genuinely likes you, she doesn't mind not paying to play. She doesn't mind going dutch. Thus insisting on splitting bills is a great way to filter out the timewasters who just want to be spoiled foodies, and also filters out the FDS inspins who had been pumped and dumped and decided that being a selfish cunt is going to get them men who want to commit to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 03:19 AM
7

Ah, another 'shy' single mother who is never too shy to fornicate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:54 AM
3

Fat and damaged chicks are easy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 11:19 PM
13

It's never worth risking to gain access to 'free' fornication sex with a single mother. It's never free and you get much better sex with fewer bullshit with hookers instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 09:29 AM
40

Same ol same ol, be baited with fornication sex. This woman is employing the strategy of many others, seeking commitment not through demonstration of value of a woman worth committing, but by offering fornication sex and sex-bombing a man enough to manipulate him into giving her the ring - putting fornication sex coins in until a traditional marriage comes out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 09:27 AM
3

They reward men who have a stable of women to sleep around with, and who can go back to their 'HS sweethearts' or whoever the fuck whenever they want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 03:07 AM
9

Confirm fat since she is alcoholic and her hobbies revolve around staying at home. Also fat -> lots of sexual partners, and she even specifically selects men who are promiscuous and don't really bother bonding and staying loyal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 03:05 AM
2

TLDR; Woman is promiscuous and disloyal. She mates with her counterparts who are also promiscuous and disloyal. Surprise pikachu face she is an inspin. Decides to have a child alone while living the yolo cock carousel rider lifestyle thus depriving her of a real job and stability to raise said child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 03:02 AM
4

"I love him so much but <insert excuse>" Yolo yolo time to cheat and sleep around!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 12:18 AM
5

And that's the catch-22 of the situation, that if a woman sets boundaries for herself and a man obeys, she loses attraction for that man. Listen to a woman and she will start listening to you less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 12:15 AM
19

This is absolutely correct. When a woman says "This is why I hate men! Men are such pigs! They only think about sex!" Just swap 'men' with 'Chads' and it makes more sense. Men as in every day normie men are invisible to women. Heck they are lower than human and are not even worth mentioning except being creeps and 'nice guys' in their world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 12:12 AM
5

It also means she would be constantly fatigued and worn out, thus having Netflix as a secondary interest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 05:16 PM
6

The only moral thing I see about this arrangement is actual adoption where the biological parent is absolutely not allowed to to be involved in the child's life anymore. That's how it's done traditionally when you are raising someone else's kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:16 PM
4

Same BS about women who say they love you but bail as soon as you have setbacks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:03 PM
4

Netflix + Nightlife = no hobbies = no personality. And you know what women who are just bland inside but fornicate freely with no protection end up becoming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:02 PM
3

Yup, just like how she is trying to convince the readers that she truly is an independent mother but lists 'mother' as an occupation. Either she is too embarrassed to list her actual job or she doesn't even have a job at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:01 PM
8

It is a window to their soul. She has always been like that even before the kid came to the picture. That's why her baby daddy left her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 02:59 PM
8

We used to call women who sleep around, divorce, cheat and have bastard children harlots. Now they are ladies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:35 AM
2

"Please read bio" Demands instead of bio.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:34 AM
1

Coding schools are filled with hot single ladies too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:10 AM
5

The 1 percent with stable families and a largely respected institution of marriage and the 99 percent of fornicators and bastard children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:09 AM
3

There is also a negative correlation between intelligence / occupation and dick count. The higher her penis count the worse her job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:07 AM
5

Calling them sex workers is an insult to actual sex workers. They don't ask for money and they offer the lamest kind of sex ,just starfishing while drunk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:05 AM
6

When she says she likes motorcross but doesn't ride bikes tells me one thing, that she got that hobby fucked into her by Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:03 AM
3

My personality is a 12 proceeds to describe herself as literally a bitch. Aka fat girl on OLD syndrome. The fatter, the bitchier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 03:01 AM
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It comes to this point that whenever I see a crappy job coming from someone who is a feminist I can tell the rest. She is sooo strong and independent that she cashed in her strength and independence at being even worse than traditional women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 02:17 AM
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The second marriage is especially relevant too, I believe. The chances of divorce increases with each time a woman divorces. Even if a divorcee doesn't separate again she is sure to remain bitchy, selfish and disloyal to her new husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 01:10 PM
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And decent women sure as hell aren't found congregating at alcohol-laden parties either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:45 PM
13

Plus, if she refuses to respect marriage for her to fornicate and birth bastard children, she sure as hell won't respect marriage enough to stay loyal if she gets married. I can't pull any stats yet, but I'm pretty sure single mothers are extremely likely to cheat and/or seek divorce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:43 PM
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Primary school teacher - typical cock carousel rider job too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:41 PM
21

Has bastard children, fornicates, spits on the traditional and legal institution of marriage, and dares call men boys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:40 PM
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I've met chubby women who were surprisingly self-aware, open minded and just fun to hang out with. Rule of OLD fatty. The fattier and uglier they are on a dating app, they more terrible their attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:35 PM
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"I prefer a woman who isn't a prostitute working for a pimp, who doesn't smuggle drugs through the border using her vagina, who isn't hung up on cheating with her ex-boyfriends, who isn't a sugar baby leeching off perverted fat CEOs..." If I have to actually specify these that tells volumes about my own dating history, isn't it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:33 PM
4

Nah, makeups, filters, young pic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:31 PM
5

They are damaged, shitty and trashy, that's why they end up being single moms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:31 PM
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Excessive drinking is mostly associated with the lower classes, and single moms are lower class by definition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:29 PM
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Plot twist: She never had a 'About me', just demands, ultimatums and bitching. Pretty much the whole 'starter pack' of single moms: [ ] Low-income slum neighborhood [ ] Bastard children [ ] Alcohol [ ] Makeup [ ] No smile [ ] filters [ ] Bitchy attitude [ ] Lazy [ ] No job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 12:28 PM
4

She loves holing herself up in her house. That pretty much already an indication that she has zero social life. Her only interaction involves fucking. She has no hobbies and no friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 11:42 PM
4

Chadimus Prime has just left for Cybertron. Same ol' same ol, whining that the attention she gets isn't even because of who she is, but still advertises herself on online dating apps based on her vagina and tits. Gee, how about going to places where she gets to show herself for who she is inside? Oh wait, she won't. Coz she is just dumb, boring and repulsive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 11:37 PM
12

The uglier a woman on OLD, the worse the attitude, the opposite of real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:43 PM
10

Biggest red flag of them all: social worker Yup, the dumbest of dumb jobs for women who wasted their time sleeping around when they could have studied or upskilled. But hey, at least it's not as bad as being a stripper or a prostitute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 03:57 AM
4

We need a Gallic name for Chad. What would it be I wonder? William? Arthur?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 03:56 AM
1

Tramp tattoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 01:19 AM
7

Suddenly 'vibes' are important huh after you got a bastard kid? Of course flexing that you are Christian is important too while at it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:45 AM
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Exactly, but I will also add that these women are over-represented on online dating, penpal sites as well as other venues where all they are required to do is to be present.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:43 AM
7

No time for self-improvement when most of their productive time in their prime years spent sleeping around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 04:54 PM
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If they are pressed to write something on their Tinder bio, most of the time it's about complaining about jerks or getting dumped. Yeah, no. Tinder is just trash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 12:15 AM
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I never talk first...mainly idiotic women do that. The girls in my coding school are very chatty and always initiate conversation. I guess they are idiots huh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 04:42 AM
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It's always the fat and ugly ones that have obscene superficial requirements, obviously because they loathe their looksmatches, her fellow obese guys so much. Also related, another fat one with a height fetish https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/pe7nml/late_30s_careeroriented_womyn_sues_dating_agency/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:55 AM
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"But muh career!" Pfft, no. She's shallow and superficial. And that's why she is undesirable, from the beginning to the end. She can't even smile properly and she thinks she deserves an Adonis? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 08:14 AM
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If a guy is good with kids and reliable, then she shouldn't care if he's a midget and humorless IF she really puts her kids first, like she says. Don't you know? A man's a good father for children if he is over 7 foot tall, the taller the better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 07:21 AM
7

Thick used to mean Marilyn Monroe on her off-modelling days. Chubby but very fuckable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 07:19 AM
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She is neither decent, nor low key, nor awesome, nor funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 07:18 AM
10

Yes, after getting pumped and dumped, or angered by chatting with a sub-quality man that she consciously chose. Remember, it's fucking Bumble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 07:01 AM
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All my matches so far have been absolute weiners Just like you. And there's so little I can do Sure there is. Quit using Bumble. Join hobby groups instead. Had they been offensive on a face to face confrontation, wouldn't have left my sight without a broken jaw or a dysfunctional dick Sure thing MMA champion. I'm sure you can kick McGregor's ass blindfolded too while at it. Problem? Go left. I am absolutely intimidated by a 168 cm shortie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 06:56 AM
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Indeed, but do consider the fact that women rarely only use Tinder. They got Bumble, Okcupid, Plentyoffish, Facebook, Instagram, Telegram, Whisper, and a whole lot of other venues for swiping and chatting, not to mention off-line dating as well ie some of her friends introduced her to a (newly single) Chad and they go for dinner- I mean hooking up at his place. That's a HUGE chunk of a woman's most productive time wasted on what would only make her feel miserable in the end, and I'm not even tal…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 05:11 AM
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Yes, and actually it's not that hard to find a cool, pretty chick with very few partners. Coding bootcamps and schools are one of those places, and serious hobby groups as well, even scripture theology groups for the religious ones - no, not attending modern-day Churches where one has to just sit on their asses listening to sermons. Women who are focused and passionate about life do not have a high dick count. Actually it's impossible to work on one's hobby or occupation to the point of becoming…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 05:02 AM
5

Imagine that your selling point to men is literally just your vagina and how many cocks has been put inside it. And you say that men treat you like sex objects.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 04:34 AM
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Allow me to shed further light, that one has to sit down and use Tinder for a looooooooooooooooong time to swipe 93294 times. So many hours in a day, often most productive hours of the day, wasted swiping when she could have upskilled or studied. Who wants to bet that the remainder of her non-swiping hours were spent working a bottom-of-the-barrel job that she could never escape from due to the lack of upskilling / studying? Behold, a cock carousel rider who only works for bare sustenance while …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 08:22 AM
4

The face should occupy even more of the screen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 10:50 AM
5

Wrong, that stranger is the future husband of her life. Her friend said so. Her friend found a husband from Bumble waving his penis online.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 01:25 AM
5

Yes, filters out the normies and attract the dumb sluts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 01:23 AM
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It works for trashy slutty women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 01:16 AM
9

She is expecting a manslut found on a dating app online to be a philanthropist billionaire saint. Also following the call of the sisterhood she wants to find a husband among men who show their penises online.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 01:16 AM
5

BREAKING! Promiscuous men who openly show their genitals online do not have a decent personality. News at 10!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 01:13 AM
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The addiction to penis can't be held back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 06:41 AM
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When a guy reveals he is a jobless slob, fat, riddled with comorbities, lives with his parents, has STDs, he get shamed to hell, but if a woman does the same it's empowarrrrment. Strooooooooonk independent womyn need no meeeeeeen!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 04:48 AM
1

Imagine having to depend on others to laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:24 AM
5

Fat, guaranteed. Especially since the face is greatly filtered/photoshopped too. Oh, she's honest and open alright seeing how deceptive her photo is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 11:57 PM
5

I remember there was a huge awareness campaign about using condoms for sex when I was growing up in the 90s and 00s, and now it's gone, nada, just like the wind. It's like society has regressed backward in women being expected to dog it raw while only relying on birth control pills. No wonder bastardy and STDs are spreading like crazy right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:00 AM
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But cannot, shy(tm) except when it comes to spreading the legs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 01:56 AM
21

A party girl who is used to receiving tons of penises and attention wants to play the friendzone game and lead men on with mixed messages and false hopes. News at 10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 01:55 AM
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She is just as horrible as the horrible men she gets wet to. I guarantee it. Introversion and intimacy issues, yet penis count in the double digits minimum. Same old, same old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 01:51 AM
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I removed it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 11:19 AM
2

Typical of women self-sabotaging their own relationships (ie shutting down sex because huur sex means he'll leave me thus making him lose interest in her), she assumes not responding a text means instant dump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 07:30 AM
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This post is exactly why I am looking back at my own approaches in relationships... A girl who goes full bitch mode passive aggressive nice girl the moment there is friction? Nope, so much nope. That's really her true nature when she senses the relationship is off. The whole sweetness and agreeability are all just a facade, ironically just like the female version of niceguys This leads me to think, if I can't stand to be a friend with a girl why should I even want to be her boyfriend?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 05:39 AM
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Funny how it's often these women who have all these extreme convoluted expressions of desire like "I love him but I am not in love with him" or "Our chemistry is off the charts but we are not compatible" like what the fuck? Either you want to be with him or you don't. Full stop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 02:16 AM
1

And the larger the list, the emptier she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 02:03 AM
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THE only chance you have of finding a guy like that is if he recently got divorced and even that is going to be rare because most of those guys are not interested in getting married again and likely already have kids. Or like many women like her conclude, they just try to be a homewrecker and try to steal a man away from his family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 01:53 AM
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he wants a guy who's driven to succeed in business who also has prominent tattoos, which are "bad boy" tells. I'll let you guys know if I ever come across a senior software engineer with a tattoo on his belly that says "I love them big ass titties!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 01:50 AM
2

Of course she doesn't. When she is pressed to describe something about herself nothing interesting comes out, I guarantee it. And obviously hollow types like her are gonna be shallow as hell too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 01:49 AM
1

A woman who makes demands is demanding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 01:47 AM
1

Help gaiz I'm shallow. Please don't ask for help when you already know the answer to your problem. You are shallow and boring. Full stop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 01:45 AM
1

That is true, being good at a hobby takes serious effort and commitment, even in something like D&D. But think of this in another way. If you do put in the effort to be so good at something that no one can ignore you like Steve Martin said, automatically that leads to charisma and confidence and girls find that sexy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:58 PM
1

Interview dates are the worst. Heck, starting off with dates is a bad idea overall. You get better results if you meet people through hobby groups instead. Make friends first, and see if you meet a girl who likes you while doing hobbies together, then go on dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:47 PM
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Don't you know? Her entire life she felt miserable and unhappy. Not because she didn't have access to food. Not because she had to life her live without a proper shelter. Not because she had to survive on scraps in a warzone. It's because the guys are short.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:35 PM
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Of course height is important for you in a relationship. That's why you are in this mess now - separated and childless. No, being self-sufficient isn't something to brag about. That's like the minimum qualification of being an adult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:33 PM
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Possibly after a brief period of posting "men are trash" on twitter after hooking up with a guy in the club to feel better about herself. "Men are trash so I'll act like a trashy whore to validate my opinion"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:28 PM
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For sure. FDS strategy. Fuck other guys at the same time while making him wait.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:23 PM
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Like Chad MDs. Chads who have cool jobs that women in response try to slut themselves to in hoping they can charm them like succubi. It never works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:09 PM
12

So that's why I always see single mothers being very unattractive in and out. They resort to baby-trapping and anonymously getting IVF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 10:21 PM
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She likely chose to snag a Chadimus Prime charged full of Energon, one who has options and thus tossed her to the curb the moment she ages out and her bitchiness could no longer be overlooked by her deteriorating appearance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 07:42 AM
2

When I think of fantasy I always think of DnD, Dune, Wheel of Time, The Dark Tower. Novels and board games are where the imagination runs really wild. Video games and movies only offer a very diluted version compared to the former.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 07:41 AM
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I bet she trains her dogs to become predators rather than companions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:16 AM
5

Literally every single word is a red flag holy shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:14 AM
6

Imagine that instead of caring for an orphanage, or going on a religious pilgrimage, or graduating from university, or performing a cultural dance, women think what makes them complete adults is sleeping around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:53 AM
10

I remember that the rite of passage growing up involves going on a pilgrimage. Now it's about being a whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:51 AM
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Imagine growing up eating a very healthy vegetarian diet and staying clean but hey you decide to do drugs and destroy your body on purpose, because FOMO. FOMO = catch-all excuse to be a degenerate without a valid reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:50 AM
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This is a really dark pill to swallow. The outside influences will corrupt a woman, eventually, no matter if she is young and virgin. In fact the purer she is the more she wants to ho. Do not make your female partner stay in a place where degeneracy is normalized. Remember, hoes always have friends who are hoes as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:49 AM
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Sounds like what my pals who are doctors do. They know they are hot shit because of their jobs and they get girls acting like sluts before them, so they just fuckzone them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:16 AM
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They attract men who are attracted to sex. Women who are promiscuous attract men who are promiscuous. She lacks loyalty, so does he.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:16 AM
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Of course there were omitted parts - the parts that involve her being repulsive beyond her vagina, being a slob, offering nothing to the table except being the table, taking but never giving, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:14 AM
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Possibly pinning on the hopes that by sex-bombing the man and cohabiting with him long enough he'll put a marriage ring on her finger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:12 AM
12

And when they do get their butts off to study or write something serious, it's always about sex. And they say men think with their dicks all the time. Pure projection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:10 AM
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If fucking her way to marriage doesn't work, fuck harder. That's how cock carousel riders think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:09 AM
6

Cafeteria Catholic, because showing unnecessary skin is very much in line with the canon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:10 PM
3

While the modern woman lifts a couple of boxes and says she is too tired, men should step up and stop being overgrown boys playing with xboxes and be chivalrous, etc. The reality is women were much more physically involved in the past than in the present, and in the medieval times when chivalry originated, even more so. Fat, slothful women were almost entirely nonexistent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:03 PM
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Asian software developers always have that same fate. Divorces divorces everywhere. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmONbYqYaRk Use money to attract a woman and the woman will use money to leave you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 10:30 AM
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"Amuse me! Entertain me! Make me laugh! Dance monkey dance!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 10:27 AM
5

How amazing that the hookup sex that she so addictively goes into without questioning suddenly feels stale now that she's getting old? It's like she's a superheroine with an ability to change the past or some shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 03:42 AM
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Imagine eating shit for 8 years and then only realizing after 8 years that eating shit is no good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 01:18 AM
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It says 'sex strategy' though. And this author in her excellent thesis on cocks (again, imagine if she actually focused her life on more productive things like studying or upskilling), inferred that sex is bad which resonates well with the FDS crowd. They all fantasize having a relationship of a one-way siphoning of resources with sex given only when they feel love aka never.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:40 AM
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It has never been the case historically. Men are primary providers sure, but only because men normally do the more dangerous jobs that economically in return pay more. But women also provide for the family traditionally because widowhood was a very real scenario back then. Also marriages required the bride's family to provide dowries. Farms were tended to by women, and the moment Industrial Revolution kicked in they started working at the factories. And during wars they filled in the role as med…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:27 AM
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Most likely unattractive, because it's OLD. Fat girls have worse attitudes than skinny ones - as a preemptive barrier against rejection. Also, if she's too lazy to work and move out of the house she's going to be too lazy to take care of herself. That alone is going to turn people off even if she is hot physically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:15 AM
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They want to be taken care of and they will find a guy in S.T.E.M, construction jobs where it’s predominantly men and jobs where men work long hours. Who could never date her in her prime and these girls will finesse these men who have Little to no experience in talking with pretty women. I am currently in a coding school and this is what I fear the most. I already had girls avoiding me at the very mention of me doing coding because neeeeeeeeeeeeeerd, but these same ones will start crawling back…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:12 AM
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Oh god, is this taken from the cesspool of FDS? You know, there used to be a meme about men pioneering the futuristic Golden Age of Humanity if only we have permanent post-nut clarity. Imagine if women like her channel her focus on more productive things than penises and the consequences of hopping from one penis to the other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:05 AM
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If he does pay for a stranger's meal he is a real man. A real man does acts of charity, but only for charity's sake, not for getting pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:01 AM
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Women use online dating as an escapism fantasy, so... Take all her demands and reverse them. That's what she is. Yes, she's filled with debt, yes, she's a shortie, yes, she can't hold a conversation, yes she works a dead end job and yes she either stays at a shitty home or lives with her parents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 05:06 PM
1

She got Jesus fucked into her in the middle of fornication sex with an atheist unbeliever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 07:02 AM
1

Two words - make up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:31 AM
0

Have some decency you tramps. Are bras not a thing anymore?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:31 AM
1

Alterative view point here: The 9 was most likely not that attracted to you, and in her mind she wished she could be with a Fabio Prime Gigachad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:27 AM
0

In practice though the strategy of getting nice things by getting a man to give it to a woman is a failing one. Men in reality mostly see women beneath their standing as fuckzoned targets. They always in reality marry those within the same social standing as themselves, or slightly lower. I do care if a woman is poor. That tells me that she is most likely lazy, unintelligent and has a habit of making bad life decisions. Also, poor people have dirty houses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:26 AM
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Seriously though there are many female viewers in this sub, and they truly do lurk here to see examples as a reminder for themselves not to swoop that low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:20 AM
3

Another hypergamous sub 5/10 bites the dust. She thinks she can fuck her way up and win marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:40 AM
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Imagine as a black person a non-black woman wants to date you while expecting the very worst of your race's stereotype. Like they think all blacks act like in The Boondocks cartoon or some shit like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 04:07 AM
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This really confirms my suspicion that these slutty single mothers indeed are a part of the lower class 'hoods. No wonder I don't see much of them since I live in a different bubble altogether.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 04:05 AM
1

Marilyn looks super fuckable even when she is chubby. These women got nothing on her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:10 AM
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Soulmate = men with bucks. Good lord, it's like men who focus on their jobs instead of doing cool bad boy stuff day in day out actually are financially stable. Oh how she wishes she could turn back time and go love - ahem, marry him, put up with not being attracted to him, close her eyes and drink herself stupid before starfishing so that she can then put his atm card in her wallet in return!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:08 AM
1

This is why I step away from using dating apps now. Women's profiles are like literally nothing except for some pictures, then demands, then ultimatums. And they wonder why men just want to pump and dump them. No, "Get to know me" doesn't work that way. If you have something deep and substantial to say about yourself you would have done so already. And of course these women will only swipe right for Mr Universe looker types, because they are as shallow as their personalities are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 03:00 AM
1

Gynocentric societal conditioning has also brainwashed modern men into believing that men should do everything and be everything in a relationship while women just has to have a pretty face and be willing to fuck (after enough bribing and nagging.) When a guy gets a woman who wants to marry him when he does all that, he gets this crazy impression that she likes him, when the truth is the opposite. If she likes him even if he does none of the above she will still fuck him nonetheless. Watch when …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:54 AM
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Yes, that's what I have been saying all along. Relationships become strangely egalitarian when a women GENUINELY and I mean GENUINELY loves a man. She goes out of his way to become the Yin to his Yang, contributes however she can, physical differences of the two genders be damned. To those guys doing all the work in a relationship while a girl does nothing but plays with her phone, get the damned hint. She's not into you. You've been played.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:51 AM
1

Chivalry then: Men becoming knights Chivalry now: Men becoming serfs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 03:49 AM
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When did chivalry die? "Treat me like a lady please! BTW here are my tits"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 03:46 AM
5

Zero published papers in peer reviewed journals and she's soooooooooooo smert. Complete lack of honesty and humbleness right there. Hell, those who do publish papers in peer reviewed journals don't even call themselves smart or educated either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 01:14 PM
3

The fuck is that face? Is that the new duckface now?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 01:12 PM
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And Christianity too. Barring exceptions Christian girls are sluts. They regard their religion as a safety net for them to chameleon into wholesome tradcon girls (who still show tits, drink, do drugs, lie, cheat, by the way, just not into fornication stuff) later when they couldn't hook up with Mister Big Shots anymore in their prime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 03:24 AM
2

Her stares got more cocks than dollars in Bezos' bank account.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 03:21 AM
2

Ask her friends. A slut's friends always have loose lips. Crazy but true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 09:19 PM
13

Yes, the fantasy of waiting only at the finish line and stealing a man's success by sleeping with him. Thots gonna thot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 09:11 PM
3

Yes, those who are in abusive relationships very likely had abusive childhoods.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 11:07 AM
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More like she was never attracted to him, but married because money aka 'settling down', gave duty sex, but stopped the moment she could get away with not having sex with him and live the quintessential SAHM lifestyle, then gets mad he found sex with another woman, calls him 'abusive'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 11:06 AM
1

And living with huge conveniences of technology, yet never seemingly having the time to clean the house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 11:03 AM
2

Yes, the very hot men becomes an exception, because she much rather want some attention from them rather than no attention at all, and she wants to have that teeeny weeny chance of charming the man through sex, like that's ever gonna happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 10:59 AM
6

And are you insinuating that letting your son see yourself dressed like a prostitute is not an exemplary behavior as a parent?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 10:58 AM
4

That worked in getting men to pump and dump her, and now all she needs to do the same thing, but with FDS strategies and ultimatums added in her bio.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 10:57 AM
3

Hey let me exhibit myself as a prostitute so a man can come and take me as his wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 10:55 AM
2

It's exactly because you have to do most of the work during the courtship that you should get the hint that she's not into you. Ghost her. Don't text first. If she doesn't text you, move on. You just got duped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 09:02 AM
2

Speaking from an older guy: Women respond with only one or two-worded sentences when they are not attracted to a guy. They also keep their hands to themselves. They become very chatty and lively with a guy they like, maintain strong eye contact, always eager to hold a guy's arms, hold hands in public. Also relationships don't become a one-way "dom" and "sub" with the man doing everything. Women actually put effort in a relationship with men they genuinely like. Also air-headed girls are bimbos, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:59 AM
1

Look guys, let's just see spark as what it really is - compatibility. She's a broken, damaged girl, and she only feels it with her value matches - broken, damaged guys. She tries to chameleon herself as a wholesome lady so she could get marriage-minded men to pay attention to her, but her natural affinity for broken, damaged guys stops her from pulling the con. That's what it really is. No don't feel angry about her inability to feel spark. Trash begets trash. Good riddance and lucky the men tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:52 AM
2

Chivalry exists today, for dames and ladies, not the tavern wenches and prostitutes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:27 AM
9

Acts like a whore, wants to be treated like a princess in a medieval society. Does she know what knights do to whores in an actual medieval society?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:23 AM
10

A woman whose social activity revolves around dinner and drinks is always a walking red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:22 AM
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That's why I always say, women who are single get targeted all the time, but men who are married get targeted all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:19 AM
3

"Why would I want you at your worst when I vomit seeing you at your best"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 08:17 AM
3

For sure. Marriage is risky, but marrying a promiscuous slut pretty much is a death sentence for your marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 11:07 AM
3

Imagine being so bitchy, undesirable, troublesome, with so many baggage, even before you had bastard kids, that the only way you get men to look your way is to be a hoe. And of course it has to be men's fault that they don't want to commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 02:55 AM
8

Unless if they have money, then suddenly it's so cool that they are learning about math and software engineering.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:27 AM
2

A repentant who still sins is not a repentant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:20 AM
2

They just say they look great because they get pumped and dumped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:20 AM
4

Those who do age gracefully don't live their lives as hoes. Hoeing is a very unhealthy lifestyle practice. Drinking alcohol, partying, skipping sleep, doing drugs, constant birth control pill consumption, stress from getting into relationships with abusive assholes, getting tattoos, they all add up to making women age disgracefully.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:18 AM
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"I'm a Christian woman here are my tits" Every single time. Just the avatar of her choosing alone tells me she has no genuine intention to be pious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:15 AM
1

Indeed I agree, the lower-classes like the one featured in OP are the ones that engage in this degenerate behavior the most.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:07 AM
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Promiscuous women who do not respect the traditional institutions of relationship and marriage will DEFINTELY, ABSOLUTELY be disloyal. They will cheat on your ass, disobey you, lie to you, break your trust. I guarantee it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:05 AM
3

"I enjoy tending to my houseplants and spending time with my various pets. Love sci-fi, fiction, conspiracies." All she has to do is to remove everything else on her profile and expand on this paragraph. Then her bio will be a good quality bio. But nope, she just have to parade her bastard child growing in her belly while demanding a traditional marriage. Of course she has to reveal tidbits of her being a triggertard and a criminal sympathizer too. Trash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 01:03 AM
8

Quality women bring things to the table. Trashy women are the table.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 07:05 AM
2

I don't save my games when my game campaign isn't running well. Dating a single mother is like retrieving some other player's save game file from the recycling bin, loaded it back up, and see that the campaign is shit all over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 12:04 AM
18

Free from abusive ex-boyfriends who are horrible human beings but they still fuck because hawt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 12:03 AM
30

Tradthottery is just feminism in a nicer veil.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 12:02 AM
79

"I always dream of becoming a bride, that's why I lived my life as a whore"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 12:00 AM
5

A prostitute is always cheaper than a hoe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 02:01 AM
4

Women shame other women from taking high paying jobs. They follow their sisterhood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 11:35 PM
1

Because sex is for hookups, sex destroys relationships according to sluts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 06:58 PM
16

They are still harping about 50-50 pay, in the modern day period where work has been so greatly leveraged by technology that the human physiology is no longer relevant? Really? Are they dating Spec Ops Marines or Olympic athletes where the human body is required to operate at its extreme limits?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 06:37 PM
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it's the kind of world where women are raised to believe that sex destroys rather than strengthens relationships. Yeah, don't try to figure out how that conclusion is even possible. Your brain may explode.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 10:53 AM
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Sex strengthens relationships. But for hoes, sex ends relationships. I wonder why?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 10:44 AM
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A girl doesn't have to be hot to be a short ride. In fact the trashier she is the easier she can find guys to pump and dump her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:19 AM
16

Her fellow sluts are in the picture. You can literally see them at the edges.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:18 AM
3

Nice try, using a pre-wall pic. Still even then, not that hot. Even her bio is just meh, ugly as hell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:17 AM
3

in Malaysia most profiles are empty or have the words "Not looking for FWBs / hookups", or they purposely insult themselves and issue ultimatums. "I'm fat and ugly, swipe left if you want skinny bitches" FYI, Malaysia has amongst the highest rate of obesity in Asia. Hypergamy is thus in massive overdrive here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:44 PM
3

But those girls are less likely to be actual active members or involved in any bible study groups That holds true for any groups. You tell apart the posers by how they only make a very token, minimal approach to becoming a part of the group.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:36 PM
2

No holding or drinking alcoholic drinks in picture. It's not classy and never has been.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:33 PM
2

Bro, it's like the song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0sRcGu61xI Quality women aren't found on dating apps. Maybe they can be found, but if they do their profiles would show a lot of effort, with elaborate bios, and actual interesting and deep hobbies ie not saying she wants to learn Korean because BTS and not a single Hangul alphabet written to show how much she wants to learn it. The shallower they are in the inside, they shallower they are on the outside, and vice versa. It's indeed a wast…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:29 PM
2

And crazy girls go for crazy guys, so don't seethe with envy when you hear a girl say how such loves bad boys. Trust me, you wouldn't actually want to fuck someone like her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 05:18 AM
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These women are just as bad as the guys they date. There is no mystery there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 05:12 AM
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Translation: I'm a broken, damaged girl who likes broken, damaged guys, but broken, damaged guys are assholes - just like me! Le Gasp! Asshole traits are not conducive for forming friendships and relationships. Who would have thought? Gaiz, how do I pretend to be a good girl so I can attract good guys but still have my cake and fuck bad boys too?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 05:11 AM
1

The classic two-hair trick to cover fat. Not fooling anyone. And no, your redemption as a single mother is to raise your kid to be a champ, not continue to be a loser and hook up some more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:33 AM
1

Usually they will start invading your house and cohabiting first before they pop that question. They're getting cunning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:29 AM
1

Those thirsty guys aren't getting her attention. Those who get her attention just pump and dump her because they know better not to commit to someone like her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:28 AM
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It already left from the very beginning. No high value man wants to marry a drag of a woman who just wants to leech money, time and attention, no matter how young or pretty she is. The most she got are just hookups and no much else than that, even in her prime
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:28 AM
1

Or a Crypto cultist aka butter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:27 AM
1

She doesn't even have a capacity for a good conversation. If she could she would have filled her bio with interesting tidbits, not demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 04:25 AM
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Oh and here's a picture of her smiling like Pops from Terminator Genisys too. What charm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:06 AM
7

Oh, they are calling themselves 'boy mom' now? XD
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 01:05 AM
1

This is an accurate answer. I doubt that she is sleeping around for validation, but she like many others conflate interest in hookup with interest in marriage. "He wants to fuck me (while drunk or on drugs), that must mean he wants to marry me!" Note that hookups are typically with the inclusion of intoxicants, so the male would suppress his biological instinct not to have sex with anyone he isn't attracted to. But using intoxicants also on the other hand dampens the sensations, so the hook up s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:46 AM
1

She says she deserves a relationship because looks. That alone tells you that she is shallow. And we all know that shallow people don't get into meaningful relationships. Of course those guys abused her or showed terrible behavior. They only have looks and nothing else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:39 AM
1

Since 16 I want a husband-quality man Seeks abusive men IT'S GOD FAULT BAWWWWW
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:35 AM
4

1950s-style shaming is still here in Malaysia, but same thing unfortunately. Go to Tinder and you see ladies, mostly Muslim Malays, complaining that they don't want FWBs and hookups. They ones saying that phrase the most are also the ones who are the most unattractive, boring and shallow. It's like saying on your dating bio "No drug addicts, serial killers and terrorists." No normal person attracts those types IRL. The fact that one has to specifically say no hookups and FWBs, speaks volumes of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:26 AM
1

Fucking raw is more fun than with protection. Dumb and ugly sluts can't make guys look their way unless they bargain the offer way down. Marry before you fuck me? No. Date before you fuck me? No. Hookup? No. Hookup with no condom? Maybe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:21 AM
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Because dumb and unattractive women are easy, that's why.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:20 AM
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IRL sluts aren't hot. There are a few exceptional hot ones but universally they are dumb and boring in the inside.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:20 AM
1

She cooks for the man's breakfast too, and covers up for the damage being done by being quiet about it as an excellent after-service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:17 AM
1

Sluts have no friends. There is always a connection between having no boyfriends and having no friends. A friendship is a prerequisite to an LTR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:16 AM
1

She's a vampire also because women like her will typically try to cohabit with a man, without a man's permission, and proceed to leech from him and control his daily life activities, turning him covertly into becoming her thrall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:14 AM
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The thing is, men don't even want to look at her unless she degrades herself to that low level, because she is really that unattractive and unappealing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:13 AM
2

Women instinctively hate each other. See videos of a subway experiment of a woman acting like she is exhausted and falls asleep while in the train ride, accidentally sliding head against someone's shoulder. The female passengers typically shoo away the experimenter, but the men try not to act. You'd think the women would be more accommodating since you know, women on women, less perversion, but no. That's not the case at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:10 AM
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How to make a guy love me? I know. Act like a whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:06 AM
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The dumb ones become single mothers, that's why. Also take note that they also typically work very bottom-of-the-barrel jobs that they wouldn't even work in if it wasn't for their welfare checks getting terminated otherwise - hence, teaching and nursing assistants. Dumb and ugly chicks don't become single mothers. They can't find partners without resorting to ho'ing around and letting guys come in them raw. They decide to degrade themselves immensely because otherwise guys wouldn't even want to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:03 AM
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That's an easy way to spot a fake repentant. They usually claim to repent in one just sin while sinning in everything else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 12:18 PM
2

Amy Herpeston
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 12:17 PM
3

I am a Christian woman here are my tits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 12:14 PM
2

I can already tell from just the forehead. LOL. Am I becoming an expert?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 11:56 AM
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"I'm ugly and boring. What should I do? A - improve myself B - Be a hoe "
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 11:49 AM
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I feel like a raging hypocrite, since I'm not exactly good-looking. Straight from the horse's mouth. Ugly and boring women are shallow AF. When you think hypergamy, think trashy women with impossible standards. I can't afford to physically change my appearance. Yes, because exercising and buying soap requires a lot of money, hell it's more expensive to do those than buying a computer to post on Reddit! /s Also lol, have I mentioned being shallow? Looks are the ONLY thing she cares about. Looks, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 11:48 AM
1

That's true, but for me...when I just see a cute pic and nothing in their bio, or if the bio has something really lazy like "My hobby is walking at the beach" or "I like Korea because BTS", I'm dealing with a shallow gal and I just move on. Hell, Interpals actually makes your life easier. If you come across a profile with filters, yup. Shallow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 09:43 AM
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And this is why they keep getting angry that guys are "perverts who only lust after young pussy" Girls who only lust for penises get perverts who only lust after young pussy. Like begets like. Ever had a conversation with a typical shallow thot on a dating app? It's just a nerve-numbing experience. They never talk about anything interesting. Things keep going back to your dick, your face, your abs, your legs, your back, your butt, and sex. Ask them to improve themselves to attract better males a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:21 AM
3

Ladies who could only be sandwich makers and house keepers don't become sandwich makers and house keepers. They become hoes and single mothers instead. That's hookup culture for ya. The boring and forgettable ones accumulate dick counts and thus disqualify themselves from even becoming sandwich makers and house keepers in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:15 AM
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my profile is very sexual but it is very misleading No, not really. You are boring, lazy and insufferable but men only want you to get their rocks off. That's why you like many other ladies chose the path of hoing yourself up because otherwise men will completely ignore you. It's the easier way out instead of actually cultivating good qualities as a person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:11 AM
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It is almost tragic how many quite cute single moms I see looking for a relationship on tinder. I beg to differ that single moms are cute. To me they are boring and unattractive from the outside and from the inside. If a woman is beautiful and interesting, again from both the outside and inside, she wouldn't pursue the path of being a cum hole and a bastard child bearing single mother. I mean looking for one on tinder even without kids is kind of a long shot. Tinder is not the good place to do i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:33 AM
3

This reminds me of my experience using Tinder in Malaysia. The ugly, plain, boring and, uninteresting ones always put on their profiles "not looking for a hookup or FWB", and surprise surprise, those who are the same also put "Looking for a hookup". It's always the fat, ugly ones wanting some free sex. And of course they are as shallow in the outside as they are in the inside. They will only swipe right for the maximum 10/10 males and no one else. Go to another social networking sites like Inter…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:26 AM
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Fortunately for us men, there are plenty of telltale signs to indicate that a woman's a slut without asking about her penis count (she lies anyways so don't even bother asking). Or even more effectively, just ask her friends about her history. Sluts always flock together, and they love bragging about their friends' sexcapades to outsiders. Hell, you don't even have to ask her friends. Take a look at who she chooses to associate with. If her friends are sluts, she is too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 02:11 PM
1

Star constellations are small shit. One should use the Hercules-Corona Borealis Great Wall as their destiny totem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 03:07 AM
3

It's the greeting call for the shitty underclass. The only person who does that and gets away with it is Albert Einstein, and he's already established enough during his prime that he gets to do fuck all during his elder years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 03:03 AM
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Dayum, do share with us if you can. If you got a Tinder auto filter that'll be great, because these profiles fortunately use all the same exact words. "Not looking" "Partner in crime" "Hell and back" "my world" "Mom" "Mother" "Tired" "Swipe" you know the rest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 03:02 AM
6

That's the consequence of hookup culture. Chads get all the girls, and Ugly Betties get all the guys. The nastier, the uglier, the fatter, the dirtier, the higher her penis count. It's insane. She's like the first target for Chads to pump and dump and forget because they know trash girls are easy. And on the other hand trash girls just can't resist getting catfished and juggernauted for the sake of validation, even though they know the sex is gonna suck and they're gonna be abused, cheated on an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 02:48 AM
3

That is what I've observed. Rich men either marry self-sufficient career ladies or non-golddiggers. In spite of popular depictions rich men who marry gold-digging trophy wives are the minority and they are actually sensationalized by their subsequent failures to maintain said marriages with these women in the long term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:49 AM
1

"I love you, now gimme your credit card."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:47 AM
2

She is also ahem, very intelligent and very highly educated in spite of having published zero papers for peer review in the top scientific and mathematical journals. Oh, and she's got zero repositories in Github under her name too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:47 AM
2

I'm pretty sure rich people don't have rich people hangouts except for the purpose of networking. I mean sure, there are lounges, horse stables, golf clubs and the likes, but never they go to those places to find women. They more likely downplay their assets and keep their money to themselves as they do normal lower / middle class hobbies instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:44 AM
3

I truthfully never recall in memory about Shariah courts here in Malaysia where divorced husbands don't need to pay child support and alimony. Also the reverse dowry is paid immediately in marriage. Divorce later or not the money is already hers to spend the moment she is married, and then the husband still has to pay alimony + child support later during divorce. I could be wrong, however.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:41 AM
1

That is why women should bring love rather than looks to the table. But she is clearly not looking to marry for love. And rich men can see that, as clear as day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:33 AM
2

Good man = a man with a big wallet, and is just tolerable enough for her to not vomit duty-fucking him every few weeks to keep him charmed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:30 AM
1

Has a bastard kid. Not a whore. Not like that anymore. Still makes pictures like a whore though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:29 AM
1

No fwbs or hookups Imagine that rationally if someone desires a serious relationship, one thus has to advertise herself as a candidate for a serious relationship. Yet each and every time these ladies got nothing to show off. No personality, no good history, no education, no ability to charm, no ability to make good conversation, no intelligence, nothing. So in sheer irony they show their skin, advertising themselves as sluts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:28 AM
1

I think it's the same case as that other woman who is now 40 something and has a whole wallpaper of herself in various costumes. Forgot her name. Essentially she moved in without her ex's permission, ate his food, paid zero rent, used his car, and became increasingly intrusive to the point that instead of the man putting a ring to her finger due to her increased involvement in his private life, he kicked her out. And like every woman who attempts this BS, she blames her ex for being commitment-p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:12 AM
2

I believe she is more like a succubus or a vampiress, sucking a man's life dry. Her strategy for winning commitment isn't by cultivating character of a commitment-worthy person, but to invade, interfere and control's a man's life, manipulating him into giving her the ring.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:11 AM
1

being thrown out of your ex-boyfriend's flat leave your crush's flat Listen, parasite. Nobody likes a woman who cohabits and drains a man's time, resources and money. You very much deserve it. A cohabiting woman is worse than a SAHM. While SAHMs do occasionally fork money to contribute to the household, cohabitors do not. Hell, their aim isn't even to leech from the man, but to be intrusive in his life as much as possible in hoping they could control and manipulate the man. SAHMs ultimately want…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 10:04 AM
2

Most of these women who had unhappy sex are unmarried women. I could be wrong but...nontheless, most unmarried women go for Chads. Chad doesn't give a shit about them, Chad doesn't even genuinely like them, so he just pumps it and dumps it, not caring if he made the women come. Also sex with Chads are mainly rushed hookups under the influence of alcohol and drugs. While intoxicants make one horny (as in, removing one's absolutely natural inhibition not to fuck ugly, crazy and stupid) it makes se…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 09:56 AM
2

Men value wisdom in women far more than intelligence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 04:54 AM
2

There are also old and childless women who are happy. We call them hermits and nuns. Does a spinster dare to embrace the hermit / nun lifestyle and denounce all acts of hedonism to focus on spirituality and inner peace? Not a chance. At her age she still drinks, she still watches stupid soap operas, she still eats junk food, she doesn't read books, she doesn't make friends, she doesn't live in seclusion. I bet you on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 04:51 AM
2

That's why I say that churches are not where you find the pious. Monasteries, maybe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 04:00 AM
5

They don't even consider dating as dating either, only dating with guys with money count.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 03:59 AM
2

Feminist single mother too, no doubt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 12:04 AM
9

It's the same as an Asian who only wants to mate outside of her own race. A major red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 11:32 PM
3

And top it off with that god-awful problem glasses. Seriously, there are more aesthetically pleasing glasses sold at stores, and she has to pick those?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 11:31 PM
2

I pity black people, because they are always targeted for mating by the unattractive ladies of the other races. Black people are never selected for being the person they are, but rather for their blackness. It's the same thing as Asians and Hispanics going for whites.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 11:29 PM
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And that's the origin of the evil stepmother trope. These mothers marry single Dads and then deeply resent the children who are not hers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 01:39 AM
3

You do know that leg days are the MOST important days of a given training week, right? That you burn the most calories doing leg workouts? That if you hypothetically have to choose one and just one exercise for yourself and your entire life, it has to be running (Or if you can't choose cardio either, squats)? Yeah, sure, I'll totally skip leg days, your Fat Highness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:27 PM
1

A woman just needs to look feminine, not be fat and have a decent personality, and she will have men lining up around the block. I used to think that but no, not really. A woman who is only good on the surface gets men who are only good on the surface. Seriously, read her story. The men she got involved with were horrible beneath their super-uber good looks that penetrated her hypergamous body check.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 01:42 PM
2

What the fuck did I just read. Fucking yikes. I am 36 too and my body doesn't look like that, not even close. I'm so glad that I eat mangoes and bananas for breakfast. I'm glad that I never go clubbing and I exercise regularly. I'm glad that I stayed away from alcoholic drinks knowing well that they damage the body in the long-term. Now I might be wrong, but her prematurely aging skin that is tearing and stretching could be a strong indicator of a very unhealthy lifestyle. A second look and yup.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 01:39 PM
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Then there’s the people who say “I don’t understand how you are single“, She's another of those delusional woman who think she's hot -- no, she's female, therefore she shouldn't be single. Like having a vagina is all she needs and she doesn't need to be proactive about anything in life and she can be as lazy and debauched as she wants, including ding ding ding - clubbing, fornicating and getting wasted. Gee, no surprise, her ex boyfriends were habitual cheaters. Fucking obvious, that promiscuous…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 01:29 PM
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For sure. Those profiles usually have nothing but demands. "I want, I need, Do not message me if..." or if they do describe themselves they say something very basic and asinine "I am a single mother and my kids are my world" These women are shallow and likewise they are shallow in their preferences for men - either they want good looks or they want money, preferably both, but they are not interested and unable to connect with people and form actual relationships. Meh, forget relationships. They …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 01:24 PM
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You know what's even more yucky? MLM boss babes and Ponzi scheme cultists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 01:02 PM
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Who wants to bet that her whole life is a mess? That he has to have his whole shit together so she doesn't have to? That she habitually chases men who are a piece of mess before she met him?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 03:54 AM
2

She's a trucker but like a strong independent wymyn who don't need no man, she needs a man to get a truck for her instead of getting a job and buying one for herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 06:08 PM
4

I have pics of myself, here are my demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 06:07 PM
2

Single mothers are horrible parents. If they are decent parents they would long be wifed up. Men can inherently tell if a woman is a decent candidate to be a mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:59 PM
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Nah, she doesn't even have friends, except fellow inspins. If no man is willing to girlfriend / wife her up, sure as hell there is no one wanting to befriend her either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:57 PM
3

I'm also not really ready to settle for someone I don't see myself growing old with and sacrifice my own happiness to have them Ewwww! The audacity of accepting that committed relationships are about making compromises and giving! It has to be like her yolo yolo teenage girl days where her mommy and daddy and teacher suck up her ass all day long!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:55 PM
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Churches are not where pious women gather. It's where repentant women gather. You carry your piety inside you, not peg it to a certain place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:51 PM
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Oh, now I am angry, needy, hungry, creepy for wanting what I want! So negative! Much fail! Keep the negative adjectives coming! Sorry bub, you are the one being a blue pretender if you feel you still need to appease a bluepiller in spite of claiming to be a red pill. You don't say stuff like... Still living by their rules. Blue piller.
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