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| 1 | Is your LTR partner being flirty with her friends something you'll just have to tolerate in 2022?It's not. "You're required/expected to do X if you want Y" is not the same as "you ought to do X". Asking "do companies in this field prefer applicants who come from bootcamps or applicants who come from Masters?" is not the same as "should I do a bootcamp or a Masters?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is your LTR partner being flirty with her friends something you'll just have to tolerate in 2022?Lol what part of the text in OP asks for advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Field report: the fuck happened here?How would have you passed? | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | TRP men have unicorn fallacy about Muslim girls and I am about to destroy it with realitySo they're more entitled and demand constant validation so they can feel like they have the upper hand? That might explain my experience with a Saudi ho a while ago. She was an atheist and a feminist tho. Fuck her rough 1st date, she sleeps over, acts real sweet. See her again few days later, fuck her rough again, she likes it and acts all cutesy for a while, she suddenly gets bitchy. I try getting in a "what's wrong sweetie" mode for a minute, doesn't work so I leave, she apologizes over text f… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How often is too often to see a new plate and why?Why | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:23 AM |
| – | Field report: the fuck happened here?Aight and what were the proper answers Cuz I don't think I fucked up in any of them | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Field report: the fuck happened here?Nah you're reading too much into how I narrated it. Yea after the spanking she acted all cutesy for a while and then acted bitchy again. The meal or movie thing wasn't a compensation for denying buying her something lol. I had just fucked her rough, she was chill for a minute, then got kinda distant, I said you wanna eat something or watch a movie, she said she had to go in a few minutes, we chilled for a while, she made the buying comment, I teased for it, she laughed, we chilled for 10 minutes… | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 06:03 PM |
| – | Field report: the fuck happened here?If that was the case, wouldn't it be enough with the spanking? What did she want me to do then, go all butthurt like "yo bitch why are you so serious, cheer up or I'll block you"? | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 0 | FWB shows massive disrespectNow mate guarding a fwb is alpha lol. The state of this fucking sub. Don't you realize she's just trying to maneuver the frame into him admitting jealousy and hence feelings and hence exclusivity? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:48 AM |
| -1 | IOIs from a bartender?Nah where I live you don't give tips at bars lol | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Why did she start acting more bitchy, entitled and bipolar after sex? ASD?But I actually liked her as a person tho | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Why did she start acting more bitchy, entitled and bipolar after sex? ASD?Hahahaha wtf. Playa you got a gf and a limp dick Plus verytime we met we watched a movie on the laptop, and the first time she came over (when she stayed the night) we cooked dinner. Don't think that was the issue | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | How to keep bratty/control freak girlsUPDATE: she blocked me for being late. This bitch just mental | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 07:41 PM |
| 0 | How to keep bratty/control freak girls"That's cute" shows I'm offended but freaking out and saying I'm not meeting with her bc she said 7 instead of 6 doesn't? I don't understand y'all | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Strategies for a certain type of UK womanObviously pump and dump lol What other use might an entitled vapid lass have | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | When did the idea of girl's night out actually start?Bout tree fiddy bc | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Is a Pimp a Alpha male or a Beta male?Stupid question | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Can off the charts level of shit tests after sex be a sign of ASD or what?Yessir | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Can off the charts level of shit tests after sex be a sign of ASD or what?Yea I'm not asking advice on what to do. I'm asking if that kind of behavior can stem from ASD. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Do you tell potential tinder hookups you’re looking for casual prior to meeting up?That may give her ASD so no | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Is being jacked ever counter productive?You spend too much time on this sub | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Is being jacked ever counter productive?Loooool. Nah plenty of meh looking losers with gfs. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | She walked back to my place, then leave?ASD | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Women have the easy part of the dating process and still make it difficult for themselves, why?Girls are just pussies man. Some will ghost a guy when they catch feelings | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Women have the easy part of the dating process and still make it difficult for themselves, why?Big tism energy here bossman | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Women have the easy part of the dating process and still make it difficult for themselves, why?What do you mean ballistic | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | How do you treat a tinder girl after hooking up 1st date if you wanna keep her around?Anti Slut Defence, ie regrets about giving it up too soon or seeming easy | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | What do if a girl you've hooked up with starts detaching due to ASD?The kind that comes with "I let myself get fucked, choked, bit, spanked and bossed around by a stranger just because he said the right words, and not only that, I was purring and acting like a happy giggly little girl all the time. How come, I'm a strong independent woman and I don't need no man". | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?How would have you passed the shit test then | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?So what do you mean, I gave off too fuckboyish vibes or what | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Will girls pull back if they realize you aren't looking to LTR?A lot of times it's the opposite lol | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?What do you think | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?Nah I don't think so. She was a shy foreign student, we hit it off well on the 1st date, she slept over, then over the next days she'd be a bit more shy than at the beginning. Also she'd go from really affectionate and cutesy to cold in a minute. I tried to give her some comfort and reassurance while still fucking her rough, being dominant and shit. My guess was she got afraid of engulfment, attachment, getting hurt or spending her year abroad tied to a guy. Still, I don't really know if that wo… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?Rarely replying to texts and not wanting to hang out. When we were fucking (matter of fact the day after the spanking) I told her I wanted to keep getting to know her and she said she felt the same way, but fuck do I know what was going on in her head. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?Pfff at this point it's too late, that was 2 months ago and since then I've tried to contact her a few times and she'd give me half assed responses and then ghost again. At the time I tried to give her some comfort but it didn't work. Which is a shame because I actually liked her as a person and we share some niche interests but whateva. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Are some girls so insecure that passing shit tests hurts your chances with them?But that's a different thing. It's one thing to feel ashamed of giving up the cooch too easy, but feeling afraid that they won't be able to control you is something different. Tried to give her a little comfort inbetween with texts, acting interested in her as a person and whatnot but it didn't work. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Should I go back to being a douchebag?What are some examples of douchebag things to do | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | LJBF Shit test?What do you mean, she's still interested but wants to feel like I like her more than her pussy? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | LJBF Shit test?She said "I think you know exactly what I mean" and I said "haha look I don't wanna control you or hurt you or lock you down but I like you more than platonically and that won't change". Reason why I said this is I think she ghosted bc she was afraid of being vulnerable or losing herself. One time she'd be acting like a literal 5yo (babyvoice, all giggly and lovey dovey, yelling "mommyyyyyyyy" when I did something that scared her) and switch from there to silent and distant in a minute. She resp… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | LJBF Shit test?But is it a good response | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | SteroidsHahahaha why the fuck is this getting downvoted. This fucking sub | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 23 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?Got ghosted by a saudi girl a month ago after fucking her 1st date and then a couple times more. Saw her again while swiping on Tinder. AWALT. Enjoy the decline. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider being a high value man?Some buzzword | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | is it a shit test?"Thank you for your company". Holy fuck. Do you talk to your guy friends like that? You're an orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?Yeah at the time I thought the answer was comfort, but maybe it was comfort what triggered her fear of emotional intimacy and made her ghost so I should have kept it more distant. But then there was the risk of buyer's remorse and some "oh shit, he's just a fuckboy, better ghost him before he ghosts me" type shit. But whatever, you can't really know so what you gonna do | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?Pfff I guess I'll text her in a few weeks or something. Wish I'd known how to act before she ghosted, but I still can't see if I should have given more comfort or more indifference. Whatever. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?The thing is we fucked 3 times and even on the same days we were fucking she'd be acting all lovey dovey for a while and then turn cold. After one of those days she apologized over text later, asked "so you don't hate me now?" I said nah don't worry about it and she said "I was joking, I know I'm unhateable, dislikable maybe". So I guessed she was insecure af and tried to add a little comfort but kept teasing her, bossing her around, fucking her rough and all that. But she kept going from hot to… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | FWB with a borderline girl. Is it possible?Yea just don't get attached and treat her with indifference. BPD girls are just dangerous if you're a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Does acting beta really kill attraction?Intermittent reinforcement | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Why some women are turned on when men are possesive and jealous, when it's a controlling beta trait?That's just some girls. Some other girls get turned on when their men cry or when they yell at her or when they argue. Makes em feel important. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | She withdrew sex after putting out - comfort test or shit test?So maybe she was tryna branchswing and I didn't seem like a good provider? I think she was throwing plenty of comfort tests but at the time I thought they were beta bait. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | She withdrew sex after putting out - comfort test or shit test?I think it was aight. 1st date she slept over and after the 2nd she was all lovey dovey, kissing me all over, saying "I missed you". Last one made her pussy hurt, had to give her an aspirin. I didn't cum on none of these occasions tho (I had been drinkin and not used to condoms) so maybe she got paranoid cus of that. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a plateYea but as I said depends on the girl. There's a reason why lovebombing works. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 11 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a plateIf you've been just dangling the carrot all the way but suddenly decide to give it up, at first she's gonna think "this is great", but when you keep feeding her more carrots just because, that's gonna seem weird: "what does this guy want from me now and why?" Or she was just dtf and not looking for love, just like she told him in her message. Girls have lives and preferences of their own too | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 9 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a platethis, can't extract general conclusions from an anecdote some girls dig the boyfriend stuff otherwise there wouldn't be girls with boyfriends | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes she enjoys being submissive on a "acting like a 5 year old" level, sometimes she gets scared of what she just did and needs to feel like she's in controlWould you recommend to add some extra comfort to get her ASD down? Once again, she comes from a culture where dating before marriage is a sin, even tho she's kinda rebelious and not religious herself. So that's the thing, she's gotta be convinced that giving up the cooch and being submissive doesn't put her below the man she's with. It's not like 2020 western feminists who think it's quirky and empowering to be open about having casual sex and being a sub, she's on a stage prior to that. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes she enjoys being submissive on a "acting like a 5 year old" level, sometimes she gets scared of what she just did and needs to feel like she's in controlI feel like u/vasiliyzaitzev 's take would be of interest here | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes she enjoys being submissive on a "acting like a 5 year old" level, sometimes she gets scared of what she just did and needs to feel like she's in controlNot necessarily | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes she enjoys being submissive on a "acting like a 5 year old" level, sometimes she gets scared of what she just did and needs to feel like she's in controlMaybe, but I've dealt with BPDs before and they didn't have all this ASD. They just trusted me and opened up from the very start and fear of engulfment or abandonment came later. This one I think is just fear about having exposed herself as vulnerable too early, but yea I'll proceed with caution. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of this?Lol never understood this bs. If a woman isn't interested in you, your grammatical decisions about using the imperative instead of interrogative in a single message aren't gonna get her wet. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Does the female hive mind (friends) override attraction?They also get jealous that the man has taken the bestie's place as the most important thing in the girl's life. A lot of times female friendships are fucking codependent and opportunistic, worst of both worlds. A girl will try to make her bestie need her harder than the most possessive of men would try, and she just does this because she sees her company as useful and she doesn't wanna be alone. Deep down they hate each other. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Is a plate "jokingly" slapping you an immediate hard next?Ok so don't be a girl and take a joking slap as abuse | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is a plate "jokingly" slapping you an immediate hard next?For fucks sake a mans punches hurt amd are humiliating and a remainder of who's boss. A girl jokingly slapping you or calling you an asshole ain't none of that and feeling offended by it is just ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Is a plate "jokingly" slapping you an immediate hard next?the right way to go is to not give a fuck and chuckle it off. it's just kiddie shit girls do, like calling you an asshole | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Is a plate "jokingly" slapping you an immediate hard next?you insecure af | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Dark Triad personality traits in relationships?Narcissist ain't confident tho. They're petty and have fragile egos. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 12 | Dark Triad personality traits in relationships?Nah the people I know with dark triad traits got their women hooked through lovebombing and intermittent reinforcement. I don't think they do it in a deliberate way tbh, they just shower her in attention from the start because they're infatuated with her, then she starts taking it for granted and expecting them to be her bellboy, they pull back and start treating her with resentment and that makes her mad. Repeat. Plus they involve the girl into their drama and get caught up in the girls drama, … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Like what just happened ?Should have done the same myself tbh. My friend's gf tried to pull the same shit on me, I rejected her and she told my friend that I tried to fuck her. My ex friend believed her lol | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you think will happen when GEN Z women hit the wall?Who cares | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Plate talks too much.LOL hit the gym get more plates amirite | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Plate talks too much.Smoke weed or drink something after sex | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is frame actually counterproductive long term?Thing is a lot of these guys rationalize their situation by saying she's just a fwb or whatever if she's fucking other people. But the difference with how I treat my fwbs is I keep it frivolous and kinda impersonal while they don't, and theirs last longer than mines. Of course, at the end of the day it's about what suits you better and whether you're willing to exchange some more talking and shouting and arguing for some more time of smashing it. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Is frame actually counterproductive long term?Yea and drama keeps a bitch spinning more than hard dick and bubblegum. That's my point. I'm saying unreactiveness, being calm and collected it's counterproductive if you want a long term something. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Potential LTROne of my flatmates had a bf and she used to bring home her gay bestie to bake pies and vibe to charli xcx. She ended up cheating on her bf with the gay lad, so I'm just sayin That being said, why do you care? Just enjoy the ride and be willing to walk away if things stop being enjoyable for you. That applies to plates and to LTRs. The way I see it you guys need to stop treating LTRs like a preliminary to marriage. If you enjoy spending non sexual time with this girl and wanna keep her for longe… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 03:41 PM |
| 4 | How to fuck flatmateI swear to god y'all autistic af sometimes | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 01:24 AM |
| 30 | How to fuck flatmateFuck you mean she rejected him. She's just ashamed and afraid of being judged. All OP gotta do is make sure she doesn't feel like a slut and make it happen again. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do chicks dig unordinary men while...they dig archetypical/normatively accepted unordinary men, not schizophrenics | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Gf sends a song to her ig story, i reply with oneHow's dread game beta | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do women go back to men that have physically and mentally abused them?man why you acting like you smacking hoes on a regular basis for strangers on the internet. you sound like an edgy teen who just found about nietzsche | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do women go back to men that have physically and mentally abused them?Do you scold plates too or do you reserve that for LTRs? If you do it with plates, doesn't it contribute to mixing things up and making her think of you as her bf? If you use it as a legit punishment for legit misdemeanors, don't you run the risk that she starts associating missbehaving with the feelz and tingles caused by the scolding, so she'll start acting out more often? Bishop Don Magic Juan used to say there's no use in smacking a hoe around and threatening her on a regular basis because s… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Why do women go back to men that have physically and mentally abused them?Contrary to what some guys seem to think, being abusive isn't attractive because it's some alpha IDGAF trait. I think it's usually the opposite. Some girls think that if you aren't possessive or you never get mad at them it's because you don't care about her (and sometimes they're right). So they associate abusive/possessive behavior with love and security. 9 times out of 10 they're right I think. Generally a guy who gets mad at a girl, beats on a girl or plays mind tricks to keep her by his sid… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Forced monk mode for lockdown?Moved to the UK in october and despite getting matches I can't for the life of me make something real happen. Dunno if it's me or the general environment, curious about how other UK lads doing. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | That BDSM brat thingthat was all she was getting | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | That BDSM brat thingBeing possessive when she wants you to counts as folding in my book tbh. She's tryna make you show that you care. I don't know if giving her that would make her feel entitled to keep demanding more relationshipy behavior from you. With a plate, I usually just don't wanna get into mind games and shit unless necessary, because I see it as opening the door for drama and a more LTR type of dynamics, but idk. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | That BDSM brat thingHow did you react to those kinda shit tests? Didn't you read into it as a means of getting you to prove your attachment to her, only disguised as assertive possessiveness? That's why I say they kinda look like comfort tests in disguise to me. I mean sometimes that shit stems from insecurity/anxiety over being "taken for granted". Not necessarily talking about girls explicitly into the BDSM lifestyle here, just insecure submissive plates who like it rough but are afraid of abandonment. I used amu… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 02:39 PM |
| 0 | ex plate reaches outRead again. I didn't say I want to LTR her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | ex plate reaches outI just told you in the comment you're responding to | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | ex plate reaches outFar as I know, she ain't cheated yet. Still, LTR is off the table. I don't think I'll be living in my hometown in the near future. It would be nice having someone to shag and cuddle with everytime I come back on vacation tho. Not that I'm sleepless about it, just curious what you guys think. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell my friend about his girlfriendOne day my ex best friend's girl (BPD) tried to get me to fuck her and play me against him, told me he hits her and all that. I shut her down and told my friend about it. He acts like he doesn't sweat it, bro I know she's crazy but she's just tryna make me jealous, nobody's gonna believe what she says, yada yada. I'm like you do you. 3 weeks later I find out he's been talking shit about me to common friends, he comes to me like "you got a nasty attitude and you always judging other peoples lives… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I am in a huge PUSSY DROUGHT. please give some advice if you can. 21 Mjust more competence in dating apps | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 7 | What Do Y'all Say When a Girl Says "You Can't Handle Me""That's cute" | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?“If you’re in this profession, which you got all this fame and notoriety, how you going to meet a good girl? You’re not. You’re going to meet her in the restaurant where you eat. Or you’re going to go to a club where you dance. Or you’re going to meet her at the arena. So I hate to tell ya, you’re going to meet a hoe… …You’re never going to meet a good woman. And the time you do, let’s say you hit 30, and then you meet a woman and she’s 30, you gotta wonder why she’s by herself at 30. So there’s… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Is mateguarding warranted sometimes?Idk about that. How do you know it's not the kind of disrespect that comes with being insecure and feeling mad at how little you care for her? I've had a plate do this after 1 month of spinning, I reacted with indifference, 2 months more of spinning, same situation, 1 month more of spinning and then she broke to start a relationship with some guy who had been orbiting her for the whole time. And I know she always felt insecure about where did she stand with me. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Is mateguarding warranted sometimes?So telling her "what the fuck were you doing?" or "I see what you're trying to do. Don't do that when I'm with you" when she pulls that shit counts as mateguarding or as setting boundaries? Because that's what I'm asking | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Reconnect with an old plate9 times outta 10 plates break because of too little beta behaviour tho, they feel insecure and all that. That's why so many of them jump into half baked relationships after breaking. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Is mateguarding warranted sometimes?Idk man. Plus sometimes it gets too close to disrespect, so it gets about setting boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | If lovebombing is beta, why is it so effective when used by Narcissists?This prolly only works in girls with low self esteem tbh | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | If lovebombing is beta, why is it so effective when used by Narcissists?When a narc love bombs it's because he's in control of the situation, he can see it from above and he can think strategically, because he doesn't mean it. He's thinking two steps ahead and knows how to handle what's coming next, ie. the girl demanding the carrot she's been promised. When an average simp love bombs, he means it and thus he isn't in control, and will let the girl just eat the carrot in hopes of making her happy. She will keep asking for more and he'll be forced to go around search… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 06:39 PM |
| -1 | Instagram bfWhat do you think playing it right would be? Amplifying plausible deniability like "just wanna see you as friends that's all, I have very good memories about those months" (which would be quite sincere tbh, I said I like her as a person)? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Instagram bfYeah she's trying to show off by quoting verbatim my "hope you're good". She actually thought about it, first it was just a heart emoji, then she changed it for "who wouldn't be happy like this?" and then she went for "who wouldn't be good like this?" | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Possible BPD FWB? Contingency Plan?I don't get all the people saying run away from BPDs. They're fun while they lovebomb you, but it's fairly easy seeing right through it and getting yourself in the mindset to treat it like a short, fun ride and recognize the early signs of slipping into darkness to get out of there before shit gets ugly. Matter of fact if you don't break and keep it light, fun and frivolous while not giving them narcissistic supply (they'd call it emotional support) or drama, which they crave, she might be the o… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | How come women stick around when you lose frame and treat them "badly"? Drama or subconsciously demonstrates higher value?Makes them feel important that's all. Read Madame Bovary. Or in your case it's just at some point she thought she could afford flaking on you (either she found a possible better prospect or she just had something else on her mind which was more important than you at that moment) but then she realized that she might really lose you for good and that she's not ready for that right now. It's not rocket science. The point of spinning plates is not having to worry about where do you exactly stand wit… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Cool and unreactive vs. Emotional rollercoasterYeah but to get there you gotta let it slide and get to a point where she dares pulling the kind of shit tests or manipulation tactics they pull when they're angry (eg personal attacks, fucked up jealousy games), which are usually more disrespectful and annoying than the garden variety shit tests of manipulation tactics they all pull once in a while just because (eg mentioning other guys, mild passive aggressiveness). I ain't got time for that and I feel like that has made me lose some hos. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | BP gets laid too?Trick | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | NarcissistsI don't know about that. The fact that a girl is a narcissist doesn't mean everyone will simp for her, it just means that she'll actively try to surround herself by people who will. You can't be all stick and no carrot. Shit can be a headache sometimes tho. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | This broad playing games or whatThat's how I saw him, and I fail to see how what you're saying is related to the situation I told. I mean I even treated him in a friendly way. I just don't feel comfortable escalating with some fat neckbeard sitting there and watching. Bitch was ignorig him and literally saying shit like "yea My Bestie You Used To Fuck told me you have a nice dick" and that motherfucker just stayed there sitting in silence like he doesn't have a place of his own or something. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | This broad playing games or whatSo you think I didn't pass the test? Are you saying the right option was staying there to entertain her? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | This broad playing games or whatwhat do you mean grasping for straws? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I give it one more try or next?I didn't even look at or mention the other guy lol, it was not a joke about him. They were just talking about the fact that I have Jewish descent and I said "yea but I'm not Jewish myself, I'm not circumcised or anything", looked at her and said "right?". Everybody on the table laughed except for her bf. It's agreeing to meet with your girlfriend and some guy whose dick she used to suck before you declared your love to her, and to do so by her initiative, what screams "I'm a loser" | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How to communicate “stop playing games”Just don't play. Ignore or stare at her silently for a couple secs, chuckle and change subject and she'll catch the drift. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had experience with an LTR with low self-esteem who ejected herself from the relationship for not feeling like she could live up to your expectations?She just wasn't feeling you. https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/amp/ | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Do you ever create false flag drama to keep them hooked?Like I said feel like the point is the opposite. They get off the idea that they can get you emotional and shit, it makes them feel in control. That's keeps their long relationships with BB from drying out of boredom I guess, and that's why they'll keep shit testing them, like they're checking how much they can stretch a rubber band. Now that's somehing they're missing if they're dealing with someone who doesn't give a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Does female dread mean loss of attraction or the opposite?I'm not asking what should I do here. Just wondering where you're likely to stand with whatever girl that pulls that shit, in general. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Does female dread mean loss of attraction or the opposite?Would she nag to Brad Pitt about only wanting her for sex or dare play jealousy games on him? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 08:25 PM |
| 15 | Went out solo last night. I hate the person I've become.What did you expect lol. They call it an empathogen for a reason. Also, google suicide tuesday. Next time don't use ecstasy unless you're with friends or somethig you dummy. No point on doing it alone. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Caught some feelings for a FWB. Can I backpedal?For the record I damn sure know working on abundance and learning how not to give a fuck or believe in unicorns is a must, but is there a way to find out whether she already fucked the guy or I'm just paranoid? I'm quite paranoid in general and of course I've been paranoid without a real reason with this and other girls before. Even tho as I said I already know what I need to learn is how to stop being paranoid. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Caught some feelings for a FWB. Can I backpedal?Yeah I kept that in my head but it didn't go all the way down to the guts I guess | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 10:49 PM |
| 0 | I struggle to find interesting girlsSocrates didn't write shit | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Broad claims to be pouty about how I tease her. Comfort or shit test?None of yall are responding to the question in the title tho | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 06:08 PM |
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