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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget thatI disagree. Women don't want to be blindly pawed at on the first day. The second date though, gravitate things in a sexual direction. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 12:16 AM |
| -1 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:I was honestly surprised how many women from Hinge / Bumble were down to just come over for wine and board games on the first date. I would just simply ask and they would come over lol. I never did bone any of them on the first date, but we did kiss a lot and the dates all went super well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:52 PM |
| – | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?No. This is one of the biggest fallacies on this subreddit that you need to build sexual tension on the first date. The first date is mostly a vibe check. She gets to see what you look like in person, see if there's any deal breakers, and see how convo flows well. I build comfort on the first date. I don't blindly paw away at the woman because would you want to be pawed away at? That would probably make you feel uncomfortable. I just hug hello and goodbye and treat her like a person who has thei… | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting stopped when things get physical, foreplay tips?When things are getting heated ask if she wants to go to the bedroom. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What advice, quote, lesson or move made you level up the most in life/game?Women who like you want two things: 1) Comfort: safety, security, knowing you're a good guy that they can trust. 2) Sexual tension: Kissing them well, getting them tingly and wet. Comfort typically comes before the sexual tension. On the first date I just hug hello and goodbye. 2nd I end with a nice kiss. From there on out I'm building both comfort and tension. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 06:35 PM |
| – | Are women aware of what they sexually respond to?Thank you. You get it. My whole life I fell into the "kind guy" nice trap which always left me rejected and confused. Then I saw hoe maths chart and it just clicked hard for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 03:27 PM |
| – | 4th date and grabbed her butt deeply while we were kissing goodbye. I hope I didn't creep her out?I feel like the bad thing was my fingers were essentially in the crack of her ass. It's not like my hand was just resting on a cheek. That's where I think I crossed a line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:01 PM |
| – | 4th date and grabbed her butt deeply while we were kissing goodbye. I hope I didn't creep her out?I feel like the bad thing was my fingers were essentially in the crack of her ass. It's not like my hand was just resting on a cheek. That's where I think I crossed a line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:01 PM |
| -1 | Men should stop asking women for adviceWhat things has she told you that helped? I need wisdom over here too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience?These hit pretty hard. The first one is true. Now that I think about it, I never once had a woman text after giving her my number. They just don't do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Need help understanding why this woman broke up with me after 3 datesWas the 3rd date the first time you mentioned wanting casual? If that's the case, it may have scared her off if she wasn't looking for casual. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:01 AM |
| 11 | Are muscles over rated?But what if attracting women and getting them is good for your mental health and well being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I think some people here undermine the fact that attraction can grow on an individualLet's see the photos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I think some people here undermine the fact that attraction can grow on an individualHow long did you two date? I've been on the receiving end of this. It had me super confused when she left. It's like I felt betrayed or something it was weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 03:27 PM |
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