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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 167 | Accept that you will never feel ready | Inner Game | Practising_Stoic | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 42 | Stop lowering yourself to get women | Inner Game | Practising_Stoic | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:59 PM |
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| 1 | Stop lowering yourself to get womenThat's pretty much what I said? it's ideal to have a girl pursue you and should be the goal but more often she will just respond or reply with enthusiasm. She won't make things happen but she also won't give any indication that she doesn't want things to happen. So you keep pursuing. But if she is avoidant of meeting up, fails to agree to re-arrange then it's time to go talk to more women. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | That feeling before the approachWhy view this feeling as a negative thing? One thing that changed approach anxiety for me was to totally re-frame it and start viewing it as a positive thing. Enjoy it, seriously this is what makes interactions fun and exciting. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Most of the advice here is either too broad or too specificBecause all advice fails in the face of reality. There is a saying in war, "No plan survives contact with the enemy". The dark truth about seduction is that nothing learned online will ever reflect a real interaction, it's almost entirely based on your personal character and your ability to learn from your own mistakes. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.Most guys use this sub as a place to listen to their own echoes, they complain and another guy will reply reaffirming their inaction and idleness. I've literally been doing this for over 10 years, I've offered roadmaps for men to follow and advice that would have accelerated my journey had I known it at the start and guys on here reject it. Like the mod said it's the Dunning-Kruger effect, these guys don't realize how little they know and communicating with them is all but impossible. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?When I'm out during the day I'm in work mode, I'm busy and have lots to do and approaching women doesn't enter my mind, I'm mainly focused on my work. When I'm out at night it's because I specifically want to have fun and approaching women is part of that. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Being true to yourself VS trying to stand outWhat if being unique to yourself makes you stand out? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | 3 days to respond, left on read. What should I do?Forget her brother, move on to a woman who actually does respond in time. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Why people match with you, even write to you just to send you only one message a day? I usually text a lot, ask questions, bring up serious and silly topics. Yet I feel I do all the talking. People just answer usually. I even give them space. Not a single question about me. Why is this happening?Because your value is literally zero on a dating app, there is no emotional investment in pixels on a screen. Delete dating apps, game women face to face. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Dating App trick for seemingly low interest girlsDating apps are a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Texting girls!Let me give you a little nugget of advice that will make you go far. You set the context of your relationships early on primarily through modes of communication. You want the context of your relationship with her to be physical. Texting her will only further serve to ingrain that this is not a physical relationship. Reserve texting for when you have firmly established a physically based relationship, texting should then be mostly about setting up the logistics of getting together. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How to get a cute girl in 2022 (quick and easy)Most people wishfully think that the things they want will fall onto their lap. Their actions don't support any kind of notion that they will actually achieve those things. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Is thinning/balding hair a turn off in the dating world?Buzz it off, you are fighting nature itself and you won't win. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:28 PM |
| 8 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?Competition, the fact that they have to compete with other women for the stud guy, makes him scarce and more valuable. Women want to be selected from other women, they want to be chosen by a higher value male. How can a man do that when he has no other women to be choosing from? | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Who is the greatest seducer you've seen in person and what was his methods?I've had two co-workers who were unbelievably good with women and total naturals, my workplace is 90% attractive women so I got the pleasure of observing these guys chatting up women on a daily basis. The number one thing I have noticed is these guys just create their own happiness and women absolutely love it, like I've seen one of them just straight up vibing on his own, dancing to music eating some chips looking ecstatic whilst we were getting shafted on hour 10 of a brutal shift. If a shift … | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How do you want to react? It's really not that big of a deal, if you want to try again go for it, if not ignore her or be polite and platonic.. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?This is flawed logic, you are assuming that hooking up is dependent on venue. Humans are horny, people hookup everywhere, like literally anywhere and everywhere people are probably fucking. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 09:59 PM |
| 0 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?By going to a place for the sole purpose of approaching women, you become creepy. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.Clearly a glass half empty kind of guy, I'll take those 1 in 10 odds. Also, women don't think this logically, your image in her eyes is much more based on how you make her feel. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Everyone does, a man who has low self-esteem or confidence will struggle in all areas of life. Men are measured on their drive and determination to over-come obstacles and carve their own path. Without self-esteem or confidence you can't do any of that. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | The Best Dating Advice I've Ever ReceivedCouldn't agree more | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 11:30 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]This sub is pointless, it's an echo chamber for lazy people. You won't learn some technique and pull girls. It requires so much more work than that. It doesn't happen overnight and will likely require years of consistent intentional effort to change. There is absolutely nothing stopping anyone in this sub from making that change though, there are bars, nightclubs, hobby clubs, coffee shops, any number of places where attractive single women hangout. All you have to do is go talk to them. 90% of … | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 06:14 PM |
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