I see a lot of posts that clearly indicate having low standards or self-esteem. Just because you are pursuing women and seeking to create sexual relationships doesn't mean you should lower yourself to do so.

  • You shouldn't accept waiting for responses or bargaining to go on dates. You should expect her to at the bare minimum respond with excitement and enthusiasm when you give her your attention whether that be a text, call or in person meeting. Even better is to expect her to actually play an active role in seducing you, is she asking you questions? is she trying to get you out on a date? is she putting in effort to convince you that you should date her?
  • Stop getting so invested, match your investment level to the actual stage of the relationship. I see lots of you getting hung up about the outcome after a single date or even after just getting her number. Remember that you just met this girl and have barely spent any time with her, you could literally lose this girls number and you'd probably forget about her within a week. Your life will continue unaffected whether she replies or goes on a date with you or not.