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DISCUSSIONPrincessaRusalka/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 02:42 PM
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DATING ADVICEPrincessaRusalka/r/RedPillWomen22/07/21 03:30 AM
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She's lovely!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 10:48 PM
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My observations and examinations of relationships that scaled and those that did not. One or both of the parties become unsatisfied as demands change, to put in terms you'd say are reasonable. There were times when I thought I would "lock him down" as you put it. I thought-hey why not wait a little? Let's say these are high value guys with attitudes toward relationships. This did not go well-even for the women that did the "locking" as the man in question had no ceiling for his demands, if I can…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/21 10:34 PM
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Transactional relationships don't work. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 11:54 PM
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Yeah I'm very religious and guilty of sending nudes. NSA probably have it somewhere. Luckily he didn't share it, but I felt so much shame at the end of that relationship. I don't feel comfortable exposing my body ever since I broke up with that person, he treated me like an object and it just felt horrible. My Dad and I talked about it-there's a fine line between art and pornography. I'm European so it's a touchy subject, nudity is okay only in a certain context.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:27 AM
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Poor Woman, we'll miss her kids. Italian orphanages are a long way these days...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 12:15 AM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 08:09 PM
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Be honest with your problems but firm in your stance. Men like honesty, really it's not a bad thing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 08:02 PM
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No, you have to decide. He won't get worse if you put limits but if you don't...
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 03:53 PM
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Ex didn’t have the perfect face, definitely hairy but the low deep voice is my number 1, just sayin.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 11:30 PM
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Sounds hopeless. He doesn’t want to change. You’re going to have to decide if you will put up with this if it gets worse…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 06:05 PM
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Is anyone attractive an fboy now? I feel like this is the case in MGTOW circles.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 08:20 AM
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I had this guy fall for me, and eventually I returned the feeling. He wasn't ideal, far from it, but we had this sense of destiny-like I had no choice in the matter. Sadly, he was not ready for any later commitment. Well, he was not the wonderful person that he tried so hard and went so far to be for me, which I really appreciated him being. It's like getting a disabled person to walk (I'm disabled, don't come at me). Honesty, sincerity, all of that stuff was foreign to him, commitment, he was w…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 08:16 AM
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I'm sorry. You will be discarded.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 08:59 PM
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It's simple, if you say you are a good person, you're most likely not. Embody your values, don't talk about them. Everyone can grow. But that's too hard, it requires introspection and change. She thinks she's perfect and everyone else needs to catch up. "Why does no one see how perfect I am?" -most women, cue wah repeat until "self-love"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 08:16 PM
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Depends on how mentally stable you are to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:50 PM
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I have her snaps and she is depressing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 01:46 AM
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As woman, can confirm. This is why I don't have it (yet)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 01:38 AM
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too cruel!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 04:33 AM
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Too much therapy actually does this. It's run by feminists who encourage this behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 03:54 AM
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I decided to konmari my closet this year and just became honest with myself. I went through a lot of stress trying to be trendy and unique from school ("mean girls" is accurate) and I didn't need to do that anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 10:26 PM
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#1 Wear what you look good in not what looks good. #2 Have statement pieces that "wow" each time you wear them (see above) #3 Don't spend money on anything you only wear once Pretty much it. Don't waste money on trends. Take your time trying on clothes. Be picky!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 07:41 PM
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I want to be a stylist some day just for stories like these. I'm the 'stylist' to my whole family and take my wardrobe way too seriously. I binged "What Not to Wear" ages ago. After I started modeling I realized what a skill I had to attract clients. It was my presentation, not just my youth or beauty that attracted them. You bet your image is important! I wore this one outfit to the job fair (think Carrie Underwood from House of Cards). Fitted blouse with a skirt and heels. Minimal jewelry. Tot…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 07:35 PM
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not married white at least 5' 10" tall not obese earning at least $70,000 per year 1.2% of men The criteria are all met in my dating profile. Pretty much all of them have no kids either, maybe give or take the tall aspect. I've met a few in real life too, give or take the race aspect. They approached me. I had over 5000 likes on Tinder, and at least 1000 of them met this criteria. Mostly in my city. I couldn't filter them out so I deleted Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:45 PM
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I can smell the feminists... *sniff sniff* misandry...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:50 PM
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Promiscuity is bad, period. Sounds like you want sex and not a relationship. Work on your emotional maturity and take both off the hot girl pedestal you put them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:33 PM
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Not surprised, most guys don't bother. My popular friend didn't go even though she wanted to because her bf didn't want to and he just made her miserable. They took pictures though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 03:29 PM
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You missed crappy music and bad food!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 03:27 PM
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It seems that way! I'm not sure what a relationship is anymore. Guys just show interest and then duck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:26 PM
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I sometimes like making food to feed other people and everything you listed but piano, that's my friend that's married. No kids. I make art instead. I had to delete some dating apps because I just got too many responses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 03:19 AM
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I went to prom alone. I thought the whole thing was overblown.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 02:45 AM
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I admire her resolve!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 01:48 AM
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Hot black men WHERE YA AT? *whistles*
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 12:39 AM
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I unsubbed a long time ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 12:28 AM
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I will pray for you dear! I'm so proud of your progress. Stay on course, okay?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:24 PM
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No such thing as empaths or narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:21 PM
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Even shy guys have standards! I had not idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 07:13 PM
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Artistic performer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 11:33 PM
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Thank you! I am glad that you found my words helpful. My brother is an expert on male behavior and has enlightened me more times than I can count, hence my warning. I wade through these guys on dating apps, it gets boring. lol Your prospect sounds very good, I really can't tell you if anyone is genuine BUT I can offer advice. I advise you to not lose sight of your prospects, you're a very worthy young woman and you won't be in short supply of men to offer you marriage-but you don't know who is w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 11:32 PM
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Orthodox here- pray on it! God has the answer for you :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 10:59 PM
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Well-it's just sad that we all sink so low to 'meet our needs'. :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 10:54 PM
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She could hook a church guy who's never had a woman... but she'd have to pleasant to pull that off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 08:54 PM
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Amazing men even have sex with her. If I were in her place I would be a nun, or at least a schoolteacher.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 08:51 PM
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I have a friend like this. The last time we talked I felt nothing but pity for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 06:53 PM
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I'm on OLD and I'm not telling you I am a virgin on my profile. I hide as much personal info as possible. Not telling you I am red pill either, I like my privacy. Not holding a martini in my photos. Don't be nosy. I also go out and play certain sports, volleyball, tennis, and farmer's markets in my city. Meetup groups with different cultures. Parks. I don't go to church. Just be nice and gentle. I can't tell you how repulsed I am by cocky, disrespectful guys. No I don't like that PUA stuff, just…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 09:40 PM
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This is completely unrelated to my point.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 04:43 PM
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Thank you. I feel sad this is so controversial.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 04:00 PM
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I'm not your Mom telling you not to have a job. I'm telling you not to brag about your job.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 04:00 PM
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bu but but nobody else gets consequences! Daddy! DO SOMETHING! And Daddy is ashamed of her... oops. :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 03:57 PM
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Suzanne Venker rails against it. It just lowers the value of marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 01:08 PM
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Yeah pack up and go. 😾 isn't going to change anything.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 07:04 PM
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I know the kind of man I want, and I focus on being his kind of woman. It's all on your behavior, not him. Read my guide and weed out the pretenders. It seems like you are flooded with attention now but it won't be that way forever. Men are very good at coming on strong and leaving you in the dust if they don't get what they want. So you have to figure them out from there without giving out desperate vibes. Sure they're sweet now, but you haven't shown them your true self. Nor should you, you're…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 06:59 PM
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Still a human being with value.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 06:10 PM
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You should talk to your father. My dad has helped me a lot on this!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 03:15 AM
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oh gosh. Well there's lots of hurt feelings, because women can't take advice from even other women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 02:55 AM
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Not what I mean. You want to feel desirable.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 02:53 AM
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You're too young to be thinking about marriage. Think about being a good daughter to your parents, first. I know that's not what you wanted to hear, but the apprentice cleans the dojo first before he can practice the sword. You need to figure out how to be good in relationships period. Obedience, submissiveness, love, kindness, you need to show that to your parents. Then you can focus on giving that to a good man. All the best!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 02:51 AM
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This is really sweet. I hope more people keep their standards this high. As a woman, however, I want to say it’s going to be hard to do this while working full time. We need more time to recharge, self care and support to stay calm and feminine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 03:17 PM
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I remember how girls loved their beauty products. I never had anything by them. European lingerie is so much sexier and cheaper, take me back!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 02:33 PM
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I read that as "I live with three of them"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 02:57 AM
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Thanks, I always see that phrase and just feel the danger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 02:16 AM
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Ask a stewardess to help you with your bag, and get those empty eyes. I was sick and they just pretended like I could lift my heavy bag. Barely alive from puking my guts out. Yeah clearly not part of your job to actually help people who need it on your flight. I had to beg one of the flight crew (of course a guy) to get down those stairs from the plane. Apart from those few heroes, I don't like anyone working on an airplane. Land in that water and let's see you get rescued!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 02:14 AM
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Don't judge me! Why is that phrase a red flag?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 01:51 AM
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Lots of women like this who think they are 'in charge' until they are left cold and sticky.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 12:31 AM
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Oh it's that ego again...
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 11:46 PM
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I focus on being the best person I can possibly be. The details of my life are irrelevant. I'm not a robot, I am a person. I used to think the same way- My career, my goals, my happiness... me, me, me. If you trot this out on a lovely man, he's not going to be interested in you. He can't compete with your career. Reality is harsh for career women. You may become disabled, what then? What if you have a child? Nothing is forever, and you may be pining for a man after your career is gone.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 11:44 PM
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I'm in the US, hence my writing this guide! Retaliation is a tricky thing. You don't want to control people. I just can't bear to stand in a relationship if I have to improve him. I don't date below me and I'm not about to waste my time on proving a point to somebody. It's stupid. I tell him my wants, expectations and needs, he opens up to me about his. It's a negotiation between us, not silent expectations no one can ever meet. Not everyone is perfect for everybody.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 11:07 PM
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If you're not getting interested looks or complimented you aren't sending out the right energy. Sorry boys it's you too.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 11:03 PM
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Do you want the man to do the work?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 11:02 PM
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Why do people like to catch things that are fast and hard to find?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 11:02 PM
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Exactly. Gold Star!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:59 PM
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на здоровие ))
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:58 PM
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You want to be sweet and friendly but let the man approach you. Who likes to kill wild game?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:58 PM
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"She always knows her place" is my favorite line ;)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:50 PM
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Thank you sir! *salutes*
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:47 PM
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Thank you dear! So lovely to hear such kind words. I love children and want to raise them in a safe, loving home. I've always wanted them, someday I hope I will give them a good life from a loving family that is big and strong! Mother is the hardest job out there, no?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:46 PM
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Don't have to. Just don't wear them on a date.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:45 PM
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You're going to have to sell your skills and not your career. Men want a partner, not a competitor, dear. All the best to you, keep swerving those duckboys!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:44 PM
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Thank you dear. It's here
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:42 PM
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Men sure know how to massage your ego Miss. B$ that's part of the game.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:39 PM
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Nothing wrong with a dominatrix
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:03 PM
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Same here sweetheart! I have to take care of my skin.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 09:59 PM
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This is only dating advice, not relationship rehab. If he's wrong for you, then it's a take it or leave it scenario. You don't want him to be your only source of emotional support. Read that twice. Boyfriends are not girlfriends. Women will bulldoze a guy with their opinion and it's unbearably stressful. Men don't talk nearly as much as women do. He's not your bff who constantly tells you that you are hot, he can only pretend to do that. He wants to be the man, not the butler. This is part of th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 09:57 PM
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I think we agree on a lot more than you believe. Anger is not exactly conducive to relationships. Do you want to date an angry person? Do you want to be with someone who retaliates when you make a mistake? Do you want to love someone who constantly tells you how to improve? This is what men have to put up with. They work, they toil and then they are expected to be perfect to women! I don't want to control what you believe, but this is what works for me. Personal growth means sacrificing parts of…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 09:24 PM
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Y'all don't know geisha. "Second life" is the life after her life of a geisha. Geisha aregirls who dance and entertain men for money and are basically worshipped in Japan. Not officially prostitutes but historically for sale to the right bidder. They are 'funded' by sugar daddies wealthy danna who finance their costumes, house, and food. As far as I know they are independent and don't get married or become single moms after they hit 30.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 08:14 PM
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Money. Lots of money. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:53 PM
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I can’t say I’m either pill but here goes: Why? Ask yourself that question and you will know. Keep asking over and over and be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:45 PM
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I think it's awful to see that good men aren't appreciated enough and they're all painted as rapists, this and that bad thing, etc. Exactly!! Men are heroes ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 10:17 PM
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Love it! It’s dress season 🤗
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 10:15 PM
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Stupid chicks dig jerks. Respectable women love gentlemen. Stupid chicks love getting played. Real women are the clever ones. Stupid chicks love getting railed and bailed. Ladies wait for insemination. It's not men's fault, it's Hollywood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 02:11 AM
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Crazy how many quacks you need in you to stop liking male attention from a normal fricking guy. He's not paraplegic or gay with AIDs. He's just average and actually growing in his career. Many could go be alphas if they just stopped trying so damn hard to be likeable. My count is 0 so I actually feel attraction for a beta. He can be sexy if he turns on his masculinity. It's cute. Perfect husbands for a narcissistic female! If only she could reverse the damage..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 02:08 AM
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That's hilarious and sad? Not surprising though. Feminine doesn't have to be clothes. A feminine woman walks in her feminine energy and not her masculine anger. She shows her emotions. She is sweet and kind but isn't afraid of her own delicate nature. Feminine women don't have to wear makeup. I'm trying to say just be vulnerable, elegant, and a little less sexy. I think a lot of sexy women exude a masculine vibe they aren't aware of. Ya know?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 01:10 AM
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This is so important. Everyone paints men as the aggressors but men are often the heroes we need. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 01:05 AM
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Humbled? Perhaps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 01:04 AM
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Why is a hoe phase a 'good thing'? Why does anyone need one? There's a lot of projecting here, no one benefits from this 'hoe phase'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:13 PM
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Foolish women promote this idea in their social circle. Being a slut is empowering and the more 'experience' she has, the 'wiser' she will be. I don't have a lot of female friends for this reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 10:12 PM
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"pretty privilege" first I heard of that! It's less pretty and more 'feminine' privilege imo
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/21 06:45 PM
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This read exactly like a man's personal. FAKE!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 07:25 PM
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This reply is really sweet! Yay.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/21 07:13 PM
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evidence, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:04 PM
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I don't know what woman wanted this. Gloria Steinem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:58 PM
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Hello from a fellow Russkie here. :D I forgave him. It's been painful for us lately.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 05:33 PM
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Big bear hugs from little bear :))
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 05:29 PM
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It’s not a battle and there’s no winner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 01:11 AM
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Hugs 😔
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 11:53 PM
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Divorced 🚩 no appreciation 🚩 no plans 🚩 You’ve sunk enough time into him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 07:06 PM
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We do. I was passed up for cuter, hotter girls in high school. My crush looked at me in the pool with disdain. I was a smart aleck and just pretty, not "perfect" like I am now. (Before you jump down my throat I only use that word because guys actually tell me I'm perfect) I was so unpopular that the guys that did like me wouldn't admit to it. I was not ugly or fat, just average. I didn't have the social status to be accepted in my school by either men or women. Men have really high standards! Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:52 PM
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It was a glass panel so I was really quite scared! Thankfully I got it home safe and my Dad installed it properly. >.< I've gotten help in the airport, hardware stores, grocery stores, parks, and in other countries by good men without asking, of all ages. Men are good. Never hurts to be a lady. <3
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 08:10 PM
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Lots of Christians on dating apps. Hinge and bumble and you will be fine. I was very religious for a while and my priest told me “you won’t find what you’re looking for online”. 😆 I’m assuming you’re American? Wear a skirt or a dress. I wear them a lot in the summer. It’s a nice feminine vibe. I am from Russia and we take our femininity seriously. I don’t go all out but I do emphasize my natural beauty. Men love classy women. And I mean marriageable men. I went to a hardware store in my flowy dr…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 05:00 PM
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Oh man. My mom is a Karen and my whole life is filled with Jennies. I pretend to agree with them on everything, it's the only way they leave you alone. Here is the song I would play for you. Read the backstory if you want.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/07/21 08:08 PM
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I totally agree with you. People don't usually change, you can either accept their behavior or leave. The problem is when you think or expect them to change when they aren't willing to. I think it's the problem with most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:54 PM
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Foreign guys are like that. I was almost the other woman a week ago lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 11:07 PM
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Sex is not a bargaining chip. She doesn’t understand that...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 11:01 PM
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Virgin, my friends are aghast I did not ride the carousel! 😱
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/07/21 08:38 PM
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Responsibility is not for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:53 PM
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How can you expect loyalty before making any serious commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:51 PM
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They can’t get a guy to pay for dates, so why should you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 06:04 PM
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Men don't want to be dumped/cheated on if she finds another guy. That's scary to all men. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:42 PM
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I can relate. My ex had these “crazy” ex gfs he kept talking about so he was not over them. They all did drugs, were disloyal or had extreme behaviors like cutting (I can’t bring myself to cut even if I am in a spiral). He did in fact see me as “one of them” after he thought of me as a “good girl” at first(I am a virgin). Men like this need a lot of female affection so I would be wary. I would not marry someone like that as they will leave at a moment’s notice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 05:30 PM
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I want to hear the men’s perspective on this. I know men WANT the hottest but they are too scared and will settle with Average Betty if she doesn’t leave them. You don’t know how fragile a man’s heart is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:20 PM
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Americans are liars, just straight up manipulation is considered being 'kind' because you 'don't have the heart' to tell the truth. No matter what they will deny any wrongdoing, it's kind of a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:15 PM
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I think it's just a complaint that a lot of men are unpleasant to date. Which is true. It's hard because you don't want to change the person but you do expect them to change for you. Yes men are angry and kind of rude, but I am only annoyed at the fact they try to deny it. It's okay to admit it but don't deflect it, be a man and own your emotions. I think everyone watches porn of some sort (if you include smut and regular hollywood movies for girls). I think it is a big problem for teenagers tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:07 AM
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Yes. European guys are way ahead of the game. Please, Westerners, step up!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:43 AM
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Yep. I have always wished to go back in time to the 70's or something. Every guy that I had a crush on seemed to be so damaged in some way and they would never forgive me if I pointed it out to them. The ones I don't have a crush on are weird too, dealbreakers as well or I would date them. It's America... I guess?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/21 11:22 PM
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None that I know of. I had a friend in college who did casual and needed an abortion? but she killed herself because of revenge porn and that was the only person I really talked to and she wouldn't talk to me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:08 PM
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It’s a sign that he can provide. I’m not the provider, again it’s basic gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:38 AM
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I thought of myself as a HVW forever. I don’t think all men want the same things though. Virgin, no tattoos, no debt, no shopping addiction, no drugs, no smoking, college degree. High IQ, hourglass figure, and a “perfect” face, my career is not high powered at all and my dad and I are on good speaking terms. I’m a hippie and don’t tell anyone irl I am a virgin, it just makes people think I am crazy. I could be, but I just want the right relationship. I’m not a prude either. I learned through dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:23 AM
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5’8” is my cutoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:04 AM
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They underestimate the personal connection I feel. That is above looks and money in a relationship. I date people based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:02 AM
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I won’t be attracted to someone that can’t pay for his own food. I can pay pay for my own food but I don’t do charity work for guys. Not the kind of relationship I want to have. Instant friendzone. If it were a a girlfriend or a child (and obviously not a date) then it’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:08 PM
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Charm. Making a lady feel wanted is pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:58 PM
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That expecting a man to pay for anything is a red flag. I come from a culture where the man should make the first move, pay for the food, and show interest more than the woman. I can see how the guy would feel like an ATM but paying for one plate of food shows you are genuinely interested. So I am undecided on this one...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:51 PM
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I think it’s complicated in the West. I’m down to be a “house slave” but I have to worship you as a man before we get there. It’s been pretty rare that I wanted to do that. I’m super picky! I wouldn’t say it’s an ideal scenario, outside of immigrant/tradcon circles it’s rare. It only works if both parties are dedicated to each other & have no interest in dating or leveling up. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know women who complain about this do it voluntarily and have zero boundaries or communication skills. You can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:52 AM
2

Can be your online friend! Lol but meetup isn’t great and so is fb stuff. I personally go dancing and that is easier than talking about politics. Seeing as you’re in the country I have lived there and it’s not easy. Sometimes I’d go to tourist attractions or local businesses and just talk to people. Seriously just be like, “isn’t this delicious? Isn’t that great? Hi I’m Princessa.“ the more “outgoing” I am the more friends I get. Also people will just gravitate towards me. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 07:25 AM
1

Coming from a Russian background over there it’s the opposite. Men want kids. No kids-no marriage! America it is like a strange thing to want kids. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:43 PM
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This is my parents’ relationship. They met at 17, married early 20’s, then kids. Still together, oddly complementary to each other. Mind you they had no sex ed or porn so it’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:44 PM
2

Not gossiping. Even if someone genuinely hurts you. Just not saying anything bad about anyone even if you think they deserve it. Just say something you like about them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/21 03:21 PM
2

Until my brother told me that I didn’t realize it! The resentment is real.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/21 01:40 PM
15

Oof. I remember how I got yelled at by a female grad student for not having a job! That really stuck with me, all my teachers in school were very pro “women working” as well. Red pill made me see that for the first time actually. Work is a personal choice. I don’t know how so many women work for so long and then live to 80, it’s just not in my DNA. I also quit my job due to the work environment and it just wasn’t worth it health wise. In America you are worked over while other countries may give…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/21 06:31 PM
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Yes it was an eye opener! You’re so welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 11:47 PM
5

Do you want kids? I would prioritize that. I recently got a boyfriend and he is quite set on kids, said that’s very high on the list for him. I’m getting into the healthiest state possible for their well-being even if it years away. I visualize what I want our life to be like. Maybe learning some housewife skills like cooking? Just be thinking of what you want from marriage/LTR. Reading Suzanne Venker helped me a lot. The alpha wife’s guide to marriage or something like that, all of her books ar…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 11:12 PM
1

Ah some of these I don’t know but I’m familiar with most of them. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 01:33 AM
1

Yeah! I really adopted some of her habits and it’s devastating actually. Hamster started going?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 11:45 AM
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Not trying to prove I am right. Not being like my mother 😅she has narcissistic traits I really don’t want to adopt. Her way of relating to my Dad is very toxic, well she is toxic overall but that’s one thing I really don’t need.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 01:53 AM
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Well I don’t want to be needy. Plus it’s not like I sought them out, they just noticed me. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 08:06 PM
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I’m a model, that’s why the guys hit on me in the first place. Hourglass figure, long hair, no tattoos. No surgery or injections btw. I’ve been told to not wear makeup because I am naturally beautiful. I get hit on by both men and women (not everyday but it happens lol). I’m not perfect but my boyfriend thinks I am close! 😉 These guys are attracted to my looks but don’t want a relationship. I’ve had it happen all my life, players were attracted to me but just wanted sex, I am very withholding in…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 07:11 PM
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I used to think that I would but now it doesn’t seem possible. Why would a guy like that even want a relationship? They probably don’t. At most I am another notch on the belt and they move on. I have been hit on by very high value guys that I do assume have a lot of experience but it doesn’t last, since they don’t really care to maintain any communication after I start to expect some kind of connection.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 04:36 PM
2

Reminds me of Suzanne Venker’s work.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/21 02:04 PM
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Find a housewife-y activity you like to do. Maybe you cook, maybe you clean, maybe garden or decorate the house, maybe you do some craft like sewing or knitting, it doesn’t have to be pink. Certain activities can raise your estrogen, too, like caring for children(not sure if that’s scientifically accurate). For me that’s what feminine nature is, tenderness and taking care of something. It should be in a loving manner. My mom was very sweet to me as a child and that taught me femininity. My grand…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 02:08 PM
1

I totally understand. Ask him what you can do to make it better. Ask him what bothers him the most, try to work on that. I don’t want to sound harsh but it’s usually a two way street if someone decides not to stay in a relationship. I’m guilty of pushing people away so I’m not trying to blame you. I’m not saying it’s exclusively your fault either. What is pushing them away?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/21 03:50 PM
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Invest in yourself. Work out, try on clothes, do your makeup. Depends on what you want to change really. Ask yourself and your peers about your faults and work on those. Be brutally honest. I’ve been doing that the past few years and I like myself more. Self awareness is key.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/21 01:42 AM
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I read Donald Robertson’s work on Stoicism, very straight to the point and beginner friendly. I also like Thich nhat hanh, Buddhism focuses on the present instead of what we want it to be, we can accept what it is and be truly happy. A lot of depression is just anger at the past or regret of the present. What do you regret? How can you change that or accept it? I realized my illusions are killing the real joy I already have. The more we break out of our deluded anger the better we feel. The more…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 12:14 AM
1

Thanks! Difficult people are the best teachers.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/21 09:56 PM
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Yeah my mom is a Karen and that has rubbed off on me. Catching myself when I want to complain is the best strategy. Just don’t do it. Not every thought has to be said. Not every feeling needs to be shared. Listen to your man when he talks and just wait until he finishes, then ask yourself if it’s important to talk about it at all. If it is try to put it in a neutral way, no emotional manipulation. This is rare but so important if you want him to feel like a man not a mouse. Men don’t like to be …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 07:11 PM
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We haven’t met yet but he’s moving to my city soon and gives me compliments every day ♥️ Long phone calls that end with “love talking to you” 🥰 Appreciation like that goes a long way. Just good communication overall 👌
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 05:20 PM
1

For me, the guys that are interested for the right reasons will stick around while the others will drop off right away. It’s a simple process. Wait and see and don’t give in.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 06:34 PM
3

Keto, weightlifting. Advanced-> Carnivore, cardio and fasting. Just don’t eat sugar in any form and that’s basically it. When you have the urge to eat sugar drink some bone broth or eat a fat bomb. Drink salt water. That’s it. Most athletic women exercise enough to keep the fat off even if they do eat carbs. But most people don’t go that hard so better eat at a defecit and avoid carbs like the plague. Oh and cook your own food...
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 12:39 AM
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This is why I sew my own clothes. Not a lot but still more fun to do than shopping. I love vintage style and patterns are easy to find. Highly recommend burda my mom learned from that magazine and they have free patterns online.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 11:36 PM
1

Highly recommend reading the Tao Te Ching. 👌
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 08:59 PM
4

Chronic illness really has made me embrace my feminine/“weak” side. It’s made me embrace Taoism too. The quote that really opened my eyes “water is the softest material yet wears away hard stone.” Hope this helps <3
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 01:33 AM
1

Well the guys tend to be interesting but not handsome and handsome but not interesting or just a washed up old narcissist looking for a mommy/girlie to play with!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 01:12 AM
1

Thank you! That’s reassuring. I am always afraid I pick the wrong guys. Bullets have been dodged to say the least. Yes I need to tell the guy! Very important. I’m super into stoicism right now and meditation. Unfortunately the condition I live with has me disconnected from my rational mind in moments of high stress. That’s my issue. I now realize I have little control in life and that’s okay. I thought I had more control over the world but nope haha!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 01:10 AM
1

I feel like this is the most balanced reply. I’m not obsessed about the virgin part. I’m just waiting you know?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 02:15 AM
1

Not sure how to go about “loving myself” but thanks for the reply. It seems everyone tells me that lately. I don’t want to spend money on myself too much. I’m picky, afraid that I am too picky...
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 12:44 AM
1

I have a bachelors degree in art I was an excellent student in school. I didn’t mention that but it’s true. I have disabilities that prevent me from working and that drive me into manic states and depression. Please read about chronic fatigue and related issues before judging me. Anyone would go crazy/ attempt suicide in my situation. Years of being bed bound and home too much. I have worked but could not keep up with it. I am not consistently rejected. I don’t pursue these men. I tend to have c…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 12:39 AM
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How hard it is to project the right image. I’m a virgin but people (men) just assume I sleep around because I’m beautiful! I dress pretty modestly too. People can be nasty for no reason.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 12:56 AM
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