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Love the enthusiasm. I hope this turns out as big as you're hoping for. I'm tentatively planning a trip to Vegas in April, so I'll subscribe.
/r/seduction23/03/15 05:52 PM
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I'm not an expert in pickup or psychology, so I don't know if my answer is correct, but here's what I think. Rather than thinking, "this girl could be the one", you start to think "this girl is just one of the handful of women who I'm talking to right now." Because you have multiple options, no one girl occupies a significant portion of your thoughts until you find one who stands out above the others. In the past, I would find a girl who would pay me a little bit of attention and then I would fa…
/r/seduction23/03/15 01:35 AM
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Make your own challenge. Something like 100 sets in X days. Just make sure it's a challenging, but realistic goal. I'm interested in a training partner. Where do you live?
/r/seduction22/03/15 11:57 PM
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The quality of the content has definitely diminished in the last year. I think a big reason for that is that subscribers either (a) aren't making approaches in bulk, or (b) they're losing sight of the process. They both feed off of each other, but I'll expand on what I mean. There are a lot if posts from guys in the former group. They don't regularly go out and approach girls. They happen to be in a situation where there is a girl they like or a girl is finally paying attention to them and their…
/r/seduction22/03/15 11:17 PM
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It's short for kinesthetic, which basically means touching the girl you're talking to. I recommend doing a keyword search for Kino within r/seduction, because it's a very useful skill to learn.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:35 PM
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You're probably either not creating enough attraction during the initial interaction or you're coming across as needy on Whatsapp.
/r/seduction22/03/15 01:56 AM
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I'm 22 and never had a gf. When people ask me why, I tell them that being in a relationship is a big commitment both in terms of time and emotion and I just haven't been in a position to be able to give that much to another person. I enjoy being single because there are a lot of things that I want to do and work on that I couldn't do if I was in a serious relationship. This at least frames it so that it comes across as your own decision to not have a gf.
/r/seduction21/03/15 08:30 PM
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I used to do the same exact thing. Having an abundance mentality will take care of it though. Go out and talk to dozens of girls and any specific one won't seem so important all of a sudden.
/r/seduction21/03/15 08:07 PM
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We can't really give you a good answer, we can't know what she thinks of you. Only she knows that and the person with the best guess is you. All you can do is ask her and hope for the best.
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:27 AM
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Let's not forget the man who introduced a lot of us to the game
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:01 AM
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How can a girl reject you when she just met you? She knows nothing about you. You have no idea what's going on in her life. She could have just gotten out of a relationship. She could have been abused by a guy who looked similar to her. She could have just started a new relationship. All I can tell you is you don't look like a serial killer. I'm sure plenty of women find you attractive. Worst case scenario is your body language is bad or you don't come across as confident or you just use a shitt…
/r/seduction18/03/15 07:06 PM
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Is it possible your standard for success has increased subconsciously? Maybe five months ago you felt satisfied just holding a conversation with a girl, but that doesn't cut it for you anymore.
/r/seduction18/03/15 02:51 AM
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Curious how those of you who do this pitch it to the girl. "Want to go on a date with me? I have some errands to do. You can tag along." Seems like a hard sell.
/r/seduction17/03/15 05:11 AM
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No.
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:47 PM
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Met her at a bar though, not while she was working, but it still looks like she won't respond.
/r/seduction16/03/15 05:52 AM
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For me, it took hitting rock bottom to get the motivation to go out. I never want to feel as low as I felt a month ago. My advice is to think about the life you want to live and the person you want to be. Does the image in your head involve sitting at home reading about other guys picking up girls? You're going to die one day and everything you have ever done will be forgotten, so you might as well live it up.
/r/seduction16/03/15 02:41 AM
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Direct for daygame. Indirect for night game. During the day, I want her to know that I'm hitting on her and I'm not just having a friendly conversation. I do this by flat out telling her I wanted to meet her because I thought she was cute. I also think this demonstrates confidence because most guys don't have the balls to walk up to a girl in the middle of the day and tell her that she's cute. At night, she knows that I'm hitting on her, so I don't have to say it. It's just the nature of the bar…
/r/seduction16/03/15 12:58 AM
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TL;DR Ask people what they're up to.
/r/seduction15/03/15 10:41 PM
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Right when she sits down, you put your hand under her butt like Mark does to Sophie in the first episode. But seriously, if she's on your bed AND has sent you nudes, she wants you. Just pick a moment when her attention is focused on you and kiss her. There's no perfect way to do it, just nut up and go for it.
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:59 AM
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Interesting. I tried daygame for the first time today and 5/6 girls I approached told me they had boyfriends, meaning for one reason or another they weren't interested in me. I may have let the conversation get stale with a few of those girls. Maybe I would be better off keeping it short.
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:13 AM
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/r/seduction09/03/15 03:40 PM
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This is a problem I'm running into as well. Everyone says just don't show sexual intent, but that seems indistinguishable from nice guy behavior. I want to know how to get female friends without them thinking I'm just too afraid to make a move.
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:25 PM
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I went and watch most of your videos and I'm surprised how short a lot of your interactions are. What percentage of girls that you film end up going out with you later?
/r/seduction09/03/15 06:43 AM
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When you call, what percentage of girls don't answer?
/r/seduction02/03/15 06:04 AM
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It depends on what aspects of your life need the most improvement. It seems like you have some good hobbies. At 16 years old, you could try getting a job. That will give you some spending money and more structure in your life. Be the best employee you can be and use your employer for a reference later. Expand your interests. Listen to new types of music, read different genres of books and watch new movies. Also, kick ass in school.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:03 PM
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Why are you out of the game? Are you in a relationship?
/r/seduction25/02/15 09:15 PM
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My advice, and take it with a grain of salt because I'm new at this: Every time you go out, pick one or two aspects of seduction that you want to work on. Maybe vocal projection and strong posture. Once you feel like you are strong in those areas, pick two more things to improve, maybe kino and building attraction, and work on those. If you have too much information cluttering your brain, it's going to hurt you. The only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.
/r/seduction25/02/15 08:09 PM
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I asked her on Monday if she wanted to do taco Tuesday and she seemed really enthusiastic about it. Almost too enthusiastic. I wasn't getting excited because I expected her to flake. About 2 hours before our plans yesterday she texted and said she already ate and wouldn't be hungry later, which I took to mean she was cancelling. I asked if she was still down to meet for a drink and she agreed. We met at a cool dive bar and just sat on a couch and talked for close to 5 hours. Little bit of kissin…
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:34 PM
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It's pickup-tainment for sure, but what makes you think it's faked? Because they try to be gimmicky (pick up girls using rap lyrics, etc) I wouldn't say they're the best instructional out there, but I learned a lot about confidence, body language, speaking clearly and other aspects of pickup that can't be as successfully taught in a book.
/r/seduction23/02/15 08:36 PM
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Yeah. When I decided to ask for her number, I was thinking I hadn't talked to her for long enough, but thought I might as well do it for the practice. Since I have nothing to lose, I'll try to get her on a date this week.
/r/seduction22/02/15 06:51 PM
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"I like anal sex. Let's just leave it there." Say it in a deadpan, joking way and she'll get the idea.
/r/seduction22/02/15 06:13 PM
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