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I keep repeating myself... we need good male role models. We need someone for the guys to look up to (and most have given up on looking up to God for example). We need men's groups where they can talk, relate, progress towards goals together, teach and learn, provide for their communities... Men must get together - not against women, but against the evil of the world.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 01:18 PM
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Hamza started losing me once he started mentioning Tate. I've been listening to Tate for a couple of weeks and decided he's not good for my mental health. It's easy for these guys to talk, because they're already THERE. But what they're preaching is not inspiring for us who still have a long road ahead of us (including myself at the age of 30 who started late). It's not inspiring. It's depressing. You might as well watch one or two videos, take the knowledge into mind and then stop watching imme…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 03:30 PM
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And how often do you initiate sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:31 AM
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Yep, far too many women are depressed despite being the most beautiful around, because they've been basically riding the beauty fame all this time instead of working on themselves and giving themselves and other people other reasons to value them. If your only value is looks, which fade, you're fragile. People will like you, for some time, and then they will stop. But if you did something to gain respect, that's more lasting. People should put more time in doing respectable things and put less v…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:03 PM
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I can understand what you're saying, but... It's a human need to be a part of a community, and to be a part of a community means to be accepted by them, acknowledged, recognized. If we should not care about other men's opinions, then there's two other options (if we're talking about the sexes): we should care about other women's opinions, or not care about anyone else's opinions at all. Neither of those by itself sounds like a good idea. What we SHOULD be caring about is the opinions of GOOD PEO…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:35 PM
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I'm afraid porn is here to stay, and will remain - just like sugar, alcohol or video games - unlimited. I don't like it, but I'm afraid they may be considered pacifiers to men and their testosterone-driven tendencies. It's easier to give a man a beer, some porn to masturbate to and some vidya to play (and to deal with the consequences of overuse) (and have their testosterone plummet) than it is to raise a decent and educated human being who knows what's good and how to be happy and who has the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:13 PM
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I love you and I'm happy you exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:38 PM
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You bond on a different level: on the Oxytocin level, instead of the Dopamine level. Orgasm gives you Dopamine - which we enjoy and crave very much - and when you get plenty of it and often, and then you go cold turkey, you can become very anxious and frustrated, just like a junkie would if he ran out of whatever he's taking. It's very destabilizing. You become each others source of pleasure, and may begin to treat each other like just that and nothing more. That may end up with him getting frus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:21 AM
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You go with that Chapter 4, OP! Because OF COURSE it's all men's fault. I agree with you 100%, no sarcasm here. All the stuff that's happening is because men allowed it. They were indifferent, ignorant, lazy, too busy satisfying their lower needs with artificial methods, and not taking care of themselves and their best interest (which - if he is virtuous - are effectively his woman's and his family's best interest, and the community's as well). If an immature guy got himself into marriage and ki…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 09:24 AM
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Isn't this counter intuitive? Telling every guy to spin plates for ~15 years and then expect to find women with low n-count? Or do our notches on their bed-posts not count?
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:31 AM
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Is she supposed to be OK with the fact that you've been spinning plates for the past 5 years?
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:18 AM
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You've gotta try things and only start narrowing down once you've experienced stuff. You don't start with your dream job, you end up in it. Learn what you tolerate and what you don't. Try stuff based on what you are drawn to. But also, for long term, when you analyze your experiences, don't think about what you WANT to do, but instead think about what struggles you're willing to go through every day. When I got into IT at first I wanted to do FrontEnd, but I quickly realised I don't have the pat…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:08 PM
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Don't LTR a person who you can't stand spending your free time with.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:08 PM
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I'll just say that my first 3-year LTR ended with her telling me I "wasn't man enough" for her. And I totally agree with her statement. Because it motivated me to learn what being a man is and it kickstarted my life. At twenty-fucking-seven. Finally, I started to live my life. I'm basically life-retarded, currently being where I could and should have been like ~6 years ago already, but I'm on my way. I'm far from success, but I'm doing something. Life gets better once you learn stuff. Just keep …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:19 PM
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Hey, just wanted to let you know we're all probably going through the exact same shit every now and then, I know I am right now. I strongly agree with the other commenters. I have this thing myself where I start becoming anxious and it usually means I need to regain control of my shit, meaning tidy up, reorganize my space a little, spend some time with myself. Also, I was exercising 3 times a week in January also, which I had to take a break from for health reasons... but looking back I must say…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:04 PM
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Read "The 48 Laws of Power". Might find something useful there.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 05:47 PM
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Nah, that's low interest. Not gonna happen.
/r/seduction20/09/19 08:46 AM
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You mean inexperience with sex? Just acknowledge the fact that you're young, inexperienced and that all you're doing right now doesn't really matter an awful lot (whether you're successful at what you're doing or not), because YOU ARE at an age where making mistakes and learning is NATURAL. The more you fuck up now, the smarter you'll be when it matters, which begins in your 20s. Besides, very little of this will be remembered given how much you'll grow because if it in the future. So go ahead, …
/r/seduction19/09/19 07:04 AM
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She's keeping an eye on how you grow to determine whether you're a convenient backup plan or not. She will contact you when convenient for her - the closer she is to her 30's, the higher the propability ;) Also depends on your competition. Apparently you've already been categorized as not a mating prospect for her, so trying to achieve that status with her by having a talk or trying to pull some moves on her is what repulsed her and made her do what she did. The longer you stay being the way you…
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:52 AM
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She just wants to keep you around. If it comes to you guys having sex again, be dominant, dirty talk her, leave early. Don't let her dictate the frame of the relationship. Your frame is you're just fucking and that's all. Don't you dare catch any "feels", cause that's not how it works. If she was the one who dumped you, you might not come around to having as enthusiastic of sex as you wish you would. If you do, great. Ride it while it lasts (it will last until you show some sort of commitment). …
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:30 AM
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Fuck her if you want, but don't expect exclusivity from her (hence, forgo your "feelz"). Next time don't kiss her until you're isolated somewhere where you can progress into sex.
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:17 AM
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Book of Pook for seduction 3% Man for relationship maintenance Way of the Superior Man for life Models for newbies Atomic Habits for progress
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:27 PM
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If she's following you on some social media, just continue doing you and posting your highlights every once in a while on your feed. Don't try to reconnect, she will reconnect once she sees the value which she's missing out on. Even better, get "snatched up" like she said, and then she'll suddenly become interested. Just live your best life and she will come around. Don't force things. If you're giving and she's not taking, you stop giving. Give to other women.
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:01 PM
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Book of Pook Models 3% Man
/r/seduction16/09/19 02:05 PM
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Just fucking do them.
/r/seduction10/09/19 09:28 AM
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Depends on your state of mind and how it ended with the girl. If you're watching a vid of you and your ex who dumped you and you miss her and are wasting your time longing for her, it's the same as fantasizing about her while masturbating - kind of pathetic. But if you're abundant and just doing it for fun... heck, might as well keep the trophy.
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:44 PM
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How would a woman go about this? She'd simply say she's busy, or sick, or whatever, in order to flake on a meeting, or to not respond for a longer period of time, even if it weren't true. No point in trying to be any better. It's basic. It's not nice, but it's a standard. You simply lower your enthusiasm in text, only give her a moment of your time when you unexpectedly meet each other in town. You're just living your life, and she's not a priority. Women do this to us all the time when we don't…
/r/seduction08/09/19 08:06 AM
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What porn does, I think, is it simply replaces sex for you. It lowers the urge to go out and approach women, because you have bombshells on your screen, moaning and dick worshipping for free, available 24/7. It's just an easy way out. It all changes when you realize you're watching SOME OTHER DUDE FUCK A GIRL. And you're just sitting there with your dick in your hand, watching someone get the pleasures of life. Instead of working towards having sex with those women yourself. It's simply wasted t…
/r/seduction08/09/19 07:59 AM
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One time when you drop her off, kiss her before she leaves the car. Tell her she has to wait if she wants more. Next time you drop her off, tell her you'd like to come inside. Then, come inside. Then, cum inside.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:54 PM
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If she's texting first, get a date set up within a couple of messages. DON'T set it up for Friday or Saturday - you have better things to do on those days! (I don't care if you don't) Don't be her texting buddy, offer a meetup, but make it feel low priority. If it happens, it happens, if not - you don't care.
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:27 PM
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Something silly that I did once and worked was I went like "Okay so since there's not much of a conversation going, lemme use this space as a notepad to make my checklists:" and then I wrote down like 10 things that I "have to do" for the next day, most of which were completely random and untrue, but definitely interesting. in response I got an equally large list from her of things that she has to or wants to do related to what I wrote down. And that's how we got a conversation going.
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:17 AM
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Poland
/r/seduction30/08/19 08:35 PM
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I think you got the wrong message from my post. I want be with her for a longer period of time. I don't want just her body, or just for a moment. I'm not objectifying her. I want to make her happier, for her to grow, but I also want her to be okay with the fact that some day I might leave. And I feel like with her insecurity and low self esteem, this might ruin her. I don't need her. I want good for her. I want to be a good man for her and show her the world. But I also desire other women. Maybe…
/r/seduction30/08/19 08:35 PM
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I'd jog next to her and go "I'm gonna jog myself out of here to get some food soon, wanna join me?" with a huge smile on my face. If she agrees, tell her you'll meet outside after you're done. If she says she's busy, ask her for her number and to do it another time maybe. If things get awkward, acknowledge verbally the fact that you guys go to the same gym and because of that you don't wanna make things awkward later on, so you want her to tell you up front if she's not interested (be cheerful a…
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:28 PM
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Yup, we just need experience. And perhaps some moderators, some content creation.
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:16 PM
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Don't take women to fancy restaurants on any of your first couple of dates. Forget about it. Unless you're both rich and in your thirties. Even then, it's not easy to progress with touch, and that's important. You'd need to find a casual place which has seats where you can sit to her side, and even then it's difficult to touch without making it seem forced. It will always feel slightly out of place. Take girls to activities where you can get physical, like snooker, minigolf, bowling, dancing. I …
/r/seduction28/08/19 07:03 PM
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Never should've reacted to the screen shots like that. Never be jealous. Bust he balls about it, but don't give a shit overall. She's yours, you're the prize, she's not going anywhere - that's should be your attitude. If she shows off the attention she gets, you just keep your game going and invite her out. Fuck her brains out and she'll stay. You don't have to worry about orbiters. What you did tells a lot about your confidence, or lack of. Keep working on yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:59 PM
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Clarifying: not necessarily pulling the exact same compliment back, but just giving her shit for something else. Example: "You look pretty cute with that hair color... too bad you remind me of my mom." (add: "and that's not the image I'd like to have in my mind in a certain situation.") It's a shitty example off the top of my head, but you get the jist. Another one: "Your hairstyle is such an adorable... mess" (put your hand on her hair and mess it up even more) (she thinks you're going for a co…
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:45 PM
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For me, an incredibly logical and analytical INTJ, being funny and having an upbeat conversational flow is very difficult. I watched some videos about improv comedy and applied the principles, of which the most important one is to have a "yes, and..." attitude when joking around. Whatever casual, funny conversation is going on, don't deny whatever is being said, but agree and go with it. stupid example off the top of my head: "You look suspiciously happy today, like you're on some drugs or somet…
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:23 PM
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Don't fucking sext. What are you, an over the phone sex worker? You're just feeding her all the feelings she needs, with you not getting anything in return. Respect your fucking self. You're being used as a tampon. My mistake for not asking: who broke up with whom? Because if he broke up with her, then yeah, that's a different situation. She'll use men to get him jealous. You can abuse that to get sex, but unless you truly rock her world, there's little chance she'll stick around.
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:59 AM
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Book of Pook. It started popping out of nowhere on /r/seduction recently and I have to admit it's one of the best ones. Goes well with Models by Mark Manson. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida and later on after you get some experience and your confidence up: How To Be A 3% Man by Corey Wayne
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:22 AM
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He's attractive because he's risky, but he's not gonna get anything of value outside of sex. Nothing to be jealous about. Don't look at what he gets, look at what he's accomplishing, look at what he represents. He doesn't represent shit (or, rather, that's all he represents - shit).
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:05 AM
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Let's clarify: didn't get a positive = got a negative. If she doesn't react to it at all, I'd say keep progressing. The thing is to progress and if you do something more bold and she reacts negatively, then take two steps back. I'd go as far as saying that if she reacts positively, take two steps FORWARD.
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:02 AM
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More touchiiiiing.
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:00 AM
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The furthest I'd go with announcing I wanna see her would be "Yeah, I'd like to see you before, but I don't have time".
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:46 AM
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Be more direct on your openers. Tell her she's your type and you wanna get to know her. This will weed out the ones who are genuinely not interested in what they see. It will make it actually EASIER for you in the beginning. If they're enthusiastic, that's great. Work on those. Practice. Meanwhile, work on yourself, on your body and appearance. The better you look, the lower possibility of outward rejection at the beginning after a direct opener. This is actually more important than anything. Ju…
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:39 AM
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If they broke up she propably has another one set up already and is focused on him, while enjoying the attention of her orbiters. Or she's actively searching and will be found in your nearest club on a Friday night flirting with the hottest guy she can afford with her own looks. Either way, if she's not enthusiastic about meeting you, if she's not giving you a "fuck yeah" response, then you're getting nowhere. You can try to be as funny and flirty as you can over text, but if it's not happening,…
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:23 AM
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Hahah, the chess thing is funny, and a funny perspective on the whole thing, but I have to make sure we understand - it's most importantly about outcome independence. She knows you want it, but you have to show that you don't need it.
/r/seduction25/08/19 03:26 PM
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Use the magical phrase "Babe, don't worry, we're not gonna do anything you wouldn't want to do" with a comforting smile, then put some distance between you too, become less affectionate for a while and go back to doing whatever you were doing (watching Netflix together or whatever). Watch her come at you with twice the force.
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:52 AM
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It never is an easy thing, especially for the dumpee, but you know it's something you wanted and felt like you needed to do. You should act on this. Going back to her now would be just going back to the feeling of "I need to explore". It it was there before, it will be there again if you come back now. Act upon your drive to explore. You don't have to drop her forever. Grow as a man, and if in the future you decide that you haven't met anyone better than her after exploring all the different opp…
/r/seduction24/08/19 06:24 AM
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Do it, it's a good decision. You need to grow, you need the experience. You know you want it.
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:29 AM
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I'd just say "Thank you". Or ask them if they like dick, if you feel particularly courageous :D
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:25 AM
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Don't take other people's pictures. I mean, don't be their photographer. Say that you suck at taking pictures, and if they insist, take a shitty picture, or a selfie instead of back camera, or take their picture, but include yourself in the shot. Have a stupid grin on your face when they check out the photos. Make them remember you and your stupid fun carefree attitude later on when they browse the photos. "He was silly. Maybe I should send him a text!" They don't fucking care and won't apprecia…
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:17 AM
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A girl may really loooove your eyes Look guys, this is a woman proving to us that eye contact is what gets them :) (Hi NormalFemale, allow me to translate your thoughts onto the male language :D )
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:09 PM
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If you approach with a smile, an attitude of giving, and you're not half-stepping, she will be at least positive about it.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:07 PM
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I think Models is more appropriate for socially awkward and anxious beginners who have little to no social life and social experience. It makes them get a hold of themselves and start opening up to people. It's a great jump-start. Wayne's attitude is more appropriate for someone who already is fairly confident, perhaps naturally alpha, somewhat popular. It's more of a guideline for those who have it, but don't know how to use it (and that they should, at all). The "Models" lifestyle gets you use…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:27 AM
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You don't want to know everything. You want to start DOING, trust me. Nevertheless, watch some Vinny Theory on YouTube. And read The Power of Now. But if you really wanna read more seduction related stuff, Models and 3% Man is priority.
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:55 AM
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No it was fine but I think she just agreed so that you stop pestering her. I don't feel like she's gonna show up.
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:38 AM
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I wish you all the best, although I'll be surprised if she doesn't flake.
/r/seduction18/08/19 07:53 PM
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And instant mood improvement and happiness when you fight it and get the interactions done despite your anxiety, right? Conquer this, socialise, DO STUFF, it's worth it! Future you will be grateful!
/r/seduction15/08/19 07:22 AM
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I agree and I've been pointing out the same thing to a lot of people recently, because most of them get it wrong. Social skills are just that: SKILLS. You practise them. You can master them. Being able (gaining the ABILITY - attainable) to hold a conversation and make it interesting are all things that can be learned and practiced. Me being an introvert only means that being social for the whole evening and night leaves me exhausted and I can't keep it up for a couple of days straight. I need so…
/r/seduction15/08/19 07:18 AM
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Try being you but adding more spontaneous fun to the dates, and more touch. Best when she's on an up, like during laughter. If touching a woman is not natural for you, if your level of "touchiness" is, say, 60%, then go 120% and dial down until you reach a sweet spot. No half steps though, commit to your actions. It can't be felt as if "I'm not sure i can touch you this way". She'll feel it. It needs to be "I think I can touch you in this and that way right now and it will be acceptable". It's b…
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:54 AM
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GFTOW. Go Fuck Ten Other Women Just like you didn't know this one would appear in your life, you don't know about the next ones, but they'll be there
/r/seduction08/08/19 08:13 AM
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Of course you should own them if they're pointed out perhaps in the form of a shit test. Act accordingly: agree and amplify, or assume attraction, or ignore... depends on the shit test. But yeah, it's not about opening up to the other person verbally, without being asked to. Even then, if someone were to ask you something that for you is a touchy subject, don't answer truthfully, unless it's a very personal, intimite conversation between two people who absolutely love each other to bits and you …
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:58 PM
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How I remembered Mason's vulnerability is that you make yourself vulnerable by approaching despite everything and opening yourself up for potential rejection. It's more about being brave by approaching. It's not about being verbally vulnerable. You don't do that shit until her attraction level is high and it's somewhat late into the relationship. And consider whether you really have to tell her the thing you want to tell her and think about the possible downfall of telling her that exact thing. …
/r/seduction07/08/19 01:51 PM
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I had this funny thing with this one girl recently... I was showing her my city and as we were walking around sightseeing, we most often made left turns. It became an inside joke of ours. When she asked "where now?", I'd answer "To the left, or course." (it really was always the direction I wanted to go next). But when we had to take a right turn, I'd grab her around her back and we'd swirl left until we were turned in the right direction. I'd comment it with something of sort" I'm a man of my w…
/r/seduction02/08/19 08:01 AM
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Which city in Poland? 😁
/r/seduction01/08/19 04:20 PM
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Batman
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:02 PM
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I don't give anything else to my new dates than my phone number. It's best to keep your life a mystery and feed her information over time, on your terms. This worked great especially when my life fucking sucked 😂 Now I traveled a bit and did some crazy things and I have things worth showing. But I'd still rather decide how much I want her to know about me.
/r/seduction10/07/19 05:28 PM
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Maybe she became attached because she sees herself low value, doesn't want to lose what she got (doesn't think she can get any better), and just wants a relationship with someone, anyone. That's not healthy, people need to search for the best thing if they're gonna be with each other for a long time. Otherwise we get so many divorces.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:23 PM
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Uhh... This seems as if her body already broke up with you. If she's not getting the tingles then it's done. That's, like, the absolute minimum. It's as if she's dragging it out, but there's no attraction, so what's the point. I feel like you don't need to do much breaking up, just say that you guys should stop seeing each other, because it's not working out.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:13 PM
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"Everything you want is coming to you at all times." Let's rephrase this: "Opportunities for everything you want come to you at all times." You still have to make use of the opportunities. Good post nevertheless!
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:53 AM
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That was not the worst outcome. The worst thing that can happen is you guys have unprotected sex, she gets pregnant, you have no money for abortion, you marry, you're completely incompatible, so you divorce, you have to pay alimony, but you're broke, she takes all that you have left, including the kid and you go to jail. In jail you get raped by your inmates, and so on, and so on. THAT'S the worst thing that can happen. And still, you got to have amazing, unprotected sex :) Rejection is a fuckin…
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:45 PM
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Read two books. No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover The Way of a Superior Man by David Deida and if you feel inspired, maybe Models by Mark Manson. They will explain it better than anyone here to you how to approach women and life in general. I'll just tell you that you're still super young and things will be great, but you have to make conscious decisions every day to do things to improve yourself. Gym, study, meditation, good food, no porn, less masturbation. Take care of your mind and body. …
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:57 PM
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Good way to go about it, interesting way to explain it. I feel like in effect it's kind of like just having abundance mentality. I think if a guy is abundant due to the way he is, he naturally pulls girls like a magnet. And he's outcome independent, because even if he doesn't succeed with another, he still has that One.
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:13 AM
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Well if you're gonna push for it with so many texts, it's not going to happen. You're too needy. You're scaring here away.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:22 PM
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Soon as in on first date, yes, I'd say so. You should establish a sexual premise and work towards making it happen. That does not mean making the whole date about it, but it does mean taking the necessary steps at appropriate time during the whole interaction. Even if it doesn't end in sex, you need to appear and stay in her mind as a "lover" type, not "boyfriend". She should know that you're fun first. Over time when you decide there's more to you two than just sex: that you have a lot of thing…
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:18 PM
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You feel comfortable when you're validated. You feel comfortable when you feel like she likes you. You're not outcome dependant. You're not on your own adventure, the quality of your adventure, your state of mind depends on other people's approval. When one knows he's the shit, he feels good no matter what - and when a conversation doesn't go his way no matter what he does, HE'S the one who leaves, because he wants something better for himself. You might be needy. When she doesn't reciprocate, y…
/r/seduction02/06/19 06:08 AM
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You don't have to unlearn anything. Use your planning to your advantage, for example in planning a date and the flow of the date. The spontaneous thing is something that comes With experience, which means not every date will be optimal, but every next will be better than the previous ones do to better calibration By living in the moment. Books like The Power of Now might help you with that. Meditating, being in the Now, mindfulness are things that help being spontaneous. For a socially inept per…
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:55 AM
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Sex being taboo means you don't walk around screaming about it, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist and you shouldn't talk about it the right way. The right way being sexual innuendos at the beginning and more direct as you progress in the interaction, as well as non verbal like touching ever now and then, increasingly with time. You need to understand that if a girl agrees to meet you, it means that among all the many men available to her, it feels like you might be the best bet. In her subconscio…
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:49 AM
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Great post, I really appreciate you writing this. The amount of things I've learned since getting into pickup, things about men, women, society, are immense and they are truly eye opening. You simply confirm what I've already learned, but what I feel that very few people really understand, hence my appreciation for you writing it. I honestly feel like becoming a part of or creating a movement dedicated to making men the kind of men they should be. It's for the greater good, both male and female.…
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:31 PM
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In the relationship phase, of course. The phase she gets to be in if she qualifies for it. If you're on your purpose and she supports you, it's important to find some dedicated "We" time for the two of you, where you give the two of you your undivided attention. This is how you reciprocate. When you're not 100% fucking the world by chasing your dreams, you're supposed to be 100% fucking your love. Passion and love, two of best fucks one can give. Dedicate yourself 100% to the moment: when you're…
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:03 PM
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Boys, this is good advice in the sense that if you're overall timid then it's better for you to become over the top opposite and with time dial it down, because you're so far back with your attitude that it's better to make a sharp turn, hit some bumps on the way and work it out than continue to go a smooth road and achieve nothing. His advice should not be taken as the only truth, but it's also not bad advice. Men these day really need to become less pussy and more dominant. I'm not telling you…
/r/seduction31/05/19 05:08 PM
1

Always assume a base level of attraction and if it's someone you don't know, act as if you've known her for years. These things don't need to be true. They just set you up for success when you initiate contact. The vibe that you will give will be favourable for the interaction to go well.
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:04 AM
1

Of course, we're just not in a scarcity mindset over here, which is why we don't settle for the first one we lay, we lay a lot, we screen them for girlfriend material, while giving them a lot of pleasure along the way. We practise and get ready for The One, so that when we find her, we're not poor schmucks who don't know their way around (or into) a woman. It's to everyone's benefit for men to know how to game. If a woman agrees to go out with you, trust me she's hoping really bad that you're co…
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:52 AM
1

At your age, focus on making as many mistakes and dumb decisions as possible. Be spontaneous. Learn from your mistakes. Learn about what you like by first trying out everything and learning what you don't like.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:42 AM
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That's why you don't tell her the truth, but say something silly instead. Facts don't matter in seduction, fun does. How does telling someone about your major spike their emotions? Telling someone about me studying CS usually gets something like "oh, okay". There's not much to follow up with. It'd literally be better to say something like "I went for a seduction class, I sat down and they told me to start writing a program - that's how I ended up at CS." Also, it could've been a shit test. You p…
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:39 AM
1

Tell her you don't do friendships and tell her to let you know whenever she wants to meet up for a drink or something, then you'll try to arrange something. After that never initiate contact, only respond to her when she writes and keep a time gap between responses. Try to arrange a meeting after a few quick texts. You apparently gave her a serious relationship vibe, you appeared needy. Freshly broken up girls don't have a problem with having sex with a new guy IF they're properly seduced. When …
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:24 AM
1

Stop answering so soon. Make her wonder. Don't engage in quick conversations. They're unnecessary and lead to nowhere. Keep texting for setting up dates only.
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:19 PM
2

How to hold conversation like a man. Nick Sparks gives great advice on "how to teach her how to have a conversation".
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:13 PM
1

Lemme guess, you've been meeting up with her quite a lot and dedicating most of you free time to her, being available, not having the willpower and discipline to be the one who ends the meeting because you need to get back to doing your stuff... ...because you have no "your stuff". You will automatically become less needy, when you get your shit together and work hard on something, like at work, your hobby, your passion. You simply WILL NOT HAVE THE TIME when you are focused on doing You. You wi…
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:08 PM
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That thing about spacing is sort of a fractionation technique. You confuse her in a good way, by switching from hot to cold and back to hot. It's like telling her you hate her with a cheeky smile and then kissing her right after. Or saying something like "I am charmed by your lack of empathy", not so seriously, too. It's polarising in the best way. The thing you're doing, I'd spice it up by saying something of this sort: "Bring your juicy lips over here" if the tension is high. Keep the tension …
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:49 PM
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Sounds cool, now that I think of it. He states his reason for approaching, while at the same time making it appear as if he doesn't care too much. Might get her to laugh about it as well :) Good one!
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:27 PM
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Sounds like you got stuck cuddling and didn't progress? Do you think she could've thought that you didn't have the balls to take her fully, then and there? Perhaps she wanted someone more aggressive, a solid fuck.
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:23 AM
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Because in terms of daygame there's not a whole lot you can do apart from making a sexual innuendo, I think. I feel like not much else can fit the situation. You establish a man-to-woman premise by either starting with a compliment (London Daygame style, easier for daygame and girls who are on their way who you're stopping, and for newbie seducers) or push/pulling (recommend watching some Todd Valentine). But the actual seducing is done by your vibe, your low tone, slow voice, your eyes, your to…
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:56 PM
3

If you are abundant by default, then that's great. It's just a state that it's good to be in. When to use it? When "the one" starts walking over you. You point out her behaviour and make her feel like you're gonna walk if she keeps it up. If she knows and feels your abundance, she will go to being more loving and caring. You have to flip the script in terms of what you think having abundance mentality is about. It's not about how you perceive women. It's about how women perceive you. It doesn't …
/r/seduction12/05/19 01:12 PM
2

Well it's up to you what you do on your dates. And yes, it should always be thought of as a date. A date that ends with getting physical, because that what you're suppose to be for her in your first couple of interactions: a regular source of pleasure and positivity. Sex is the strongest bond and gets her attached and stick around. You shouldn't be her buddy for long walks in the park in your off time between dates. Or worse, her emotional tampon. That's for later on once she falls in love and s…
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:42 PM
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Just remember that it's better to apologize for being too aggressive than it is to apologize for being a pussy. And often you won't have to apologize, just take a step back. Two steps forward, one step back. Find an excuse to say something quietly to her ear (like the fact that you're a secret agent, when she asks you about work). That's a reason to get close. Sign to her that you want to tell her something in secret. Then you can put your hand on the back of her head to subtly pull her closer t…
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:25 PM
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Todd Valentine on YouTube. He runs highly introverted game. Very logical gut as well. There's a torrent of his old videos on The Pirate Bay too, worth checking out.
/r/seduction12/05/19 11:37 AM
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How are you? She's trying to have fun. What's your name? It doesn't matter that much. Not that it's a bad question, but I'd go as far as saying it's kinda better to leave it for later. Where are you going? Not important. If it's important to her, she'll tell you. Don't ask questions. Make assumptions, even better when they're wrong! Sometimes even nonsensical! Polarize her with being wrong, make her react. The person who reacts more is the one who gets more engaged in the interaction and attache…
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:44 PM
1

Never explain a joke! Just change the subject. Which city in Poland are you approaching in? :)
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:38 PM
1

Arrrr, matey!
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:32 PM
2

I'll add that the worst thing to do is dissapoint a woman by not approaching at all. Especially if you catch eye contact and both smile at each other. She's thinking "Oh my, he's hot. I wish he'd approach. Come on, buddy, you can do it, I believe in you!... Oh well, I guess you're just another fucking pussy." and her attraction tanks. A P P R O A C H
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:23 PM
2

I have this little tidbit of knowledge for you that I learned recently from reading The Power of Now. Never demand. I mean, in your mind, in your approach, never demand. You can want things in your life, you can like things. But don't demand them. That will free you from the concept of disappointment. When you approach, don't demand a positive reaction. Know that you like it, and since you like it, you want it, but don't demand it. It will also free you from the anxiety of outcome dependance. Th…
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:08 PM
1

I'd err to the side of not answering and calling back later, but answering isn't bad in itself. You can answer, but keep it short, say you're busy and you'd love to catch up and make a date. Or tell her you'll write her back later when you're free and you'll make a date then. Never deep dive into the conversation via phone or text, only set up dates. Do your attraction building on the date. The only actions that matter are the ones done live and which lead towards the both of you ending in bed t…
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:00 PM
2

Cool! Corey is the Boss! BTW I read your conversation here with this girl. Remember that in terms of getting a girl back, it's not that much about actually Going and Fucking Ten Other Women, as about being surrounded by them, appearing as you can have any of those if you want, about showing abundance. That's how it's supposed to look like if she were to see you out in town or in a club one night. That's what gets her thinking again. In terms of You getting over your oneitis, actually fucking oth…
/r/seduction04/05/19 04:57 AM
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https://youtu.be/zpsJzX55JfQ Reminds me of Torrero's take on getting in bed with a foreigner :P She requested him teaching her English and he was like "fuck no, google translate exists for a reason".
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:24 AM
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inb4 you make a oneitis post about her losing attraction for you. Please read "How to be the 3% Man" by Corey Wayne to avoid that. Apply the dating rules. Don't meet with her every other day just because your dick craves that 10/10 pussy. Discipline yourself, you'll have her for life.
/r/seduction01/05/19 07:46 AM
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Date her as you normally would according to the book "How to be the 3% man" by Corey Wayne, so once a week, but keep the pre-sex and post-sex interactions shorter than you would with someone you love. Get her home, spike her emotions, have sex, talk for like 15 minutes, get her to leave, or drive her home. Sorry, this is just for the "keeping it as fuck buddies". Read the book though on how to get her home in the first place.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:21 AM
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Have your boundaries, don't be desperate, act like an abundant person. That's how you win. Tell her you'll maybe take her to dinner if she deserves it, with a smirk. Make her fight for it.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:14 AM
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GFTOW Go Fuck Ten Other Women
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:10 AM
0

Watch street improv by Tom Torrero on YT.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:02 AM
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"we made plans to keep seeing each other every day" That's your problem right there. It sounded good in your head and but bad in her heart. You should've made yourself scarce.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:01 AM
1

Ever heard of "Fake it till you make it"? Yeah, they were talking about abundance.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:56 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bhnqo0/strategies_to_getting_an_ex_back/ My comments there.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:53 AM
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Porn, sugar and social media. The main 3 reasons why men have become such pussies over the last couple of decades.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:52 AM
1

Read "Models" by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction28/04/19 06:05 PM
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The rule is that the more attraction a woman has for you, the less she tests and the easier the tests are, cause she cares about having you and doesn't want to (I say "want" although all of this is subconscious) make it harder for you. Or maybe in the situations you were in you were so in the zone, everything went so fluidly that you crushed through those tests without even realising they were tests... Maybe in your initial interaction you built enough value that she went straight to qualifying …
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:08 AM
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Of course, if you're getting shit tests, then you're on the right path. Shit tests are fun, it's like a quiz show, but instead of winning money, you win a woman going crazy for you. Shit tests during pickup mean "Okay, you seem cool, let's see what you got!". Shit tests in a relationship mean "Hey, you're slacking off, get your shit together! I need you to be on top of your game!". They're all in good spirit. They all intend to make you a better person. Every time you fuck up a shit test, you an…
/r/seduction27/04/19 04:53 PM
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Yo, Mark, dude, this video is gold! Keep it up and good luck with you channel!
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:01 PM
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Watch Tom Torrero on YouTube. He's perfect at daygame.
/r/seduction27/04/19 02:47 PM
1

If one has any empathy at all and can understand why women make it hard for us the way they do, he can love women for it. I personally think women are awesome, I love playing the game. Beautiful women are one of the best incentives for a man to grow as a person. Nothing in life that is valuable comes without hardship. For the best things you have to work hard. I respect them, I think they're amazing beings and that's why I approach them and attempt to seduce them. Because it's fun and rewarding,…
/r/seduction27/04/19 02:44 PM
1

VERY LITTLE of what most men think women want is true. Learning seduction, starting with learning how women think (or rather FEEL) is one of the biggest gamechangers for a man's life. By learning this you are so ahead of the curve, seriously, you have no clue! Study, practice, enjoy!
/r/seduction27/04/19 11:37 AM
1

We all found this shit later than we should have, don't kick yourself about it, just get to work :D YOUR PRIME STARTS NOW :)
/r/seduction27/04/19 11:34 AM
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As to not show that you don't have anything better to do on your weekend than going out with the first girl you get along well with. It's a part of leaving her curious and you remaining a mystery. It helps keep attraction high. Ideally you don't wanna tell her much about yourself within the first months, maybe in low doses. Her questions should get somewhat nonsensical answers. For attraction, it's better to be funny and lighthearted than to be true and factual. At some point she's gonna ask you…
/r/seduction27/04/19 06:34 AM
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You can download the ebook for free through Corey Wayne's website, tho he totally deserves the money. Check him out on YouTube, he helps people constantly, it's a goldmine for relationship management advice! I'd also recommend Models by Mark Manson. It's a different approach, but valuable in itself.
/r/seduction27/04/19 06:15 AM
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All the suggestions and help in this thread is great, but I'd like to point out one very basic and very important thing... Don't have sex with a drunk woman.
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:53 PM
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Heh, yeah, well, I assume so (not that he won't read it, but that he won't follow it immediately) because I'm speaking based on my own experience and my own mistakes :D There's nothing better than learning from mistakes. And boy do I know a thing or two on acting stupid as fuck when having a oneitis.
/r/seduction26/04/19 06:22 PM
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Read "How to become the 3% man" by Corey Wayne. (this is me predicting the future of you ignoring my and Corey Wayne's advice) You will try communicating with the girl over the next months and every time you do, you will be pushing her away more and more. You got too excited with having her and you let her run out of juice for you. You've seen each other too often for her to regrow attraction, for the absence to make the heart grow fonder. She realised you don't focus on much besides her and she…
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:32 PM
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When I catch eye contact with the right girl, I get this whoooomph feeling in my chest, this sudden heat going down towards my stomach. That's how I know there's NO fucking way I'm NOT gonna approach.
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:58 PM
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Well, I suffered exactly this. Got betaized over the weekend when we went abroad and all she had for me was immediately gone, and she was head over heels in love with me. She was disappointed to discover I wasn't who she thought I was (and its just that at that point I learned pickup, but not relationship maintenance). I think the only thing you can do in such situation is to "prove" you're alpha by being seen with other women. Because she thinks "Oh my, all this time I've been thinking I'm havi…
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:50 AM
2

Gdańsk in Poland, Długa Street during the day. Besides beautiful Polish women, lots of cute Norwegians and Ukrainians. Ulica Elektryków and 100cznia at night, outdoor party place. Sopot, Monte Casino Street at night. Sopot is the party place for most young people on weekends. All highly recommended. Tricity (Gdańsk, Sopot, Gdynia) is fucking awesome. EDIT: Honestly come over to 100cznia and Ulica Elektryków on a weekend night just to be blown away by the place and events themselves. It's my favo…
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:15 AM
1

Just stopping by to so say DON'T GET HER EXCITED UNLESS YOU'RE MEETING ON THE SAME DAY. Sext on the day of meeting only!
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:08 AM
2

Spoko, powodzenia i mokrych jajek! (I'm assuming you're Polish)
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:04 AM
1

You must make mistakes! To make mistakes, you have to take action! You don't need anything to take action - it's just something you DO, right then and there. Everything else will come with time.
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:02 AM
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It's just one in a milion of situations you're going to have. Make a short list of what you did right and give yourself a pat on the back, make a short list of what you could've done better (because we learn best on mistakes) and apply it in the future, but don't overanalyze it (in terms of time spent on analysing). Don't kick yourself in the gut for your mistakes - just come up with fixes and move on. Life is an endless learning experience and sometimes that's all you can do after things happen…
/r/seduction21/04/19 06:56 AM
1

"Fake it till you make it", you heard it before, but nobody really ever told you what it means. Fake having abundance of women until you truly have it. A man with abundance doesn't care about the outcome of an interaction with a new woman. That means he can be truly, unapologetically himself, he doesn't change his mind whenever she doesn't like what she hears from him. He has no fear of speaking his mind, because he's outcome independent. Being outcome dependant is being needy. "I don't need her…
/r/seduction21/04/19 06:49 AM
1

You can apologize for being too up front, but you can't apologize for being a wuss. Be more up front with your touch and with your words. If she dismisses your advances, go back to building comfort. Take two steps forward, one step back. It might be that right now you're taking one step forward and the other guy is taking two. Don't follow her, don't be there waiting for her, don't chase, let her be a part of your world, not the other way around. If she's at the point where she compliments you, …
/r/seduction21/04/19 06:28 AM
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Dude, it's not bad to set up a premise of you being attracted to her... What you gotta understand about this whole thing is that it's absolutely natural to desire a body, but it's crazy to fall in love with someone without getting to know them. That's what pushing and pulling is about. It's about the mind. It's about her character. You can make it obvious you like what you see, but you have to make her doubt whether you like her as a person. And it's not like this is a rule (although if we're go…
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:30 PM
1

The thing that you get stuck at in approaches. Maybe you go through opening, but get stuck at trying to keep up a conversation.
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:19 PM
2

Read "Models" by Mark Manson. It'll clear things up for you and help you fix your mindset. It talks a lot about these exact feelings you have.
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:56 AM
1

Watch RSD Max's videos on texting. Texting should be fun and silly, almost nonsense, and should lead to setting up a date. You accomplish nothing by running a relationship with a woman through text. ARRANGE MEETINGS. Do not tell your life story over text. Talk live. Make her enjoy your on-line presence by being fun, therefore increasing her buying temperature for going out with you.
/r/seduction14/04/19 06:23 PM
1

Google RSD Max's videos on text game. Text is all about fun, making as little sense as possible, creating a fun vibe and then going for a a date setup. You do not get logical over text. It is only a means of warming her up to you and setting a date. You have to stand out, so no "hey how's it going", but silly gifs instead. Also, don't be sexual over text early on. Sexting is only okay on the day you're supposed to meet. No point in getting her excited for another day - this shit doesn't last.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:12 AM
1

If you could be famous for having done something, what would you like to be famous for? What cool things have you done recently?
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:08 AM
2

Read Corey Wayne's 3% Man and apply it. You stay friends with benefits until she brings up the relationship thing. A relationship should be her idea in the first place. It is not for you to come up with it first. You just keep her attraction levels high. You should see her once a week, preferably on weekdays, leaving her to wonder what are you doing on your weekends. Just keep her curious, have some mystery. Be fleeting. Make her chase. That will bring her closer to you and keep her around. DO N…
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:58 AM
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3 second rule - you like what you see and you go in, no matter the circumstances (it's okay to interrupt her). Assume she likes you from the start and go in without any other expectations. Just start. Every next approach is a little bit easier. No matter the outcome, you will be happier for having tried. Fortune favors the brave.
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:43 AM
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Read "How to become the 3% man" by Corey Wayne (search for it, you can download the pdf or audiobook for free), read it a couple of times until it sinks in and this won't happen to you again. Trust me, you will be greatful for me introducing you to this book at this young of an age.
/r/seduction13/04/19 02:48 PM
1

Above all else she wants you to be your real self (and you need that self to be strong, to be constantly developed) and true to your self at all times. You are not to sway at the slightest wind. She wants you to be successful and to put your own interest first. That's what makes a woman go crazy for you: being a decisive, passionate man with a plan and with boundaries. You do not fix her and tell her how to live your life. She's a grownup and can decide for herself. If she starts, or keeps doing…
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:23 AM
1

Women don't care about your life progress at the stage of being seduced. You start the relationship with sex due to effective seduction and as long as you keep her unsure of whether you want anything more, you're safe. As soon as you in any shape or form start aiming towards something more serious with her, the testing will start and (if you fail) betaization will occur. That's when she loses attraction and it's over. So enjoy your sex and be ready to have your frame tested when you go for anyth…
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:16 PM
1

With your words, the tone of your voice, eye contact, with your touch, your attitude, your confidence, integrity, abundance mentality. If you have no clue, go watch some Todd V Dating on YouTube, as well as RSD Max. Throw in some RSD Tyler for some general life philosophy too. RSD Jeffy is cool too.
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:38 PM
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Every time a relationship fails for me I ask myself the same question. Did I expect to meet her when I met her? No. You can never predict the future and who you will meet next. Just like you had no idea you would one day bump into her, you have no idea about the next beaut you're gonna meet up with. Every next one just proves to you that there are more women waiting for you to approach. Think about your previous crush (your previous oneitis...). Did you expect to end up with the girl that you ju…
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:28 PM
1

You have to distinguish between a lover and a provider. To be her lover you only need to be able to seduce (and just take care of yourself, look decent). You can avoid answering any and all questions about things that could prove your potential as a provider and still get sex. She won't be bragging about you as her "boyfriend" to her friends, but as "this guy I'm seeing". And you can ride like that for a long time.
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:56 AM
1

I think you should always indicate interest in some form, flirt in some form, make the interaction a mam-to-woman interaction, instead of a friendly one. Dude, honestly, in general, just put yourself first. If you think this and this time is not the best to meet up, suggest the only time that is okay with you. If she's just like "nah", then don't suggest another one. Talk to her on another occasion later down the line (remember that you can't go straight into suggesting another date - the intera…
/r/seduction22/03/19 07:00 AM
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Because real game is somewhat dirty and there's plenty of white knights who still can't get over it. I could've phrased this more delicately, but oh well. There are plenty of guys who should've gone to /r/relationships with their problem and they're disturbed by the suggestions they get here.
/r/seduction21/03/19 09:26 AM
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You truly don't give a fuck once SHE asks you for YOUR number and YOU reply with "I'm not sure I know you well enough" (but you do end yo giving it away later on of course).
/r/seduction01/03/19 05:47 AM
3

Dude just wrote a fucking field report, as he should in order to improve his game and decided to share it, what's wrong about that? Besides not blurring out the photo and name.
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:12 PM
3

Of course they care. That's why I wrote "don't" in quotes. Game, at first, is all about pretending, until you actually get the abundance that you're supposed to have your mind set to. This is the real "fake it till you make it" that nobody ever explains properly. Fake abundance till you have it. "Oh I don't need you, I'm a confident guy who has options, I'm okay with you not being all over me - I will say whatever I think, because it's okay if you don't like it. There's plenty of fish in the sea…
/r/seduction16/01/19 04:30 PM
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It's about being unique and unpredictable. The higher x/10 a girl is, the more men she can have at the snap of a finger. She gets compliments and gets put on a pedestal all the time. She can have a nice guy any time she wants. But she's looking for things she can't have, and that's "bad boys" with their abundance mentality, who "don't" give a shit about the girls hotness and treat them like anybody else. Then the girl is like "wait, what the heck, this guy is immune to my hotness, why doesn't he…
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:35 PM
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As the guy who insisted on staying friends with his ex, I'm telling you... go No Contact. You are your priority right now. She is a separate entity from now on and you have no obligations to keep her in a good mood. And especially you're not supposed to be her fallback in case her upcoming adventures with other guys go poorly. She's gonna start going out and gauging her worth by what kind of guys she attracts and only if she ends up not getting any will she consider coming back. You do not live …
/r/seduction13/01/19 02:44 AM
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Attitude: If you approach with the assumption that she likes you, and she indeed likes you, will you behave correctly? Yes. If you approach with the assumption that she likes you, but she doesn't end up liking you, did you still behave in a favourable way? Yes. If you approach with the assumption that she doesn't like you, and she ends up liking you, are you behaving the right way to quickly and more smoothly push things forward? No. If you approach with the assumption that she doesn't like you …
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:29 AM
0

Well you're missing out on the best school. Good luck learning seduction.
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:02 AM
1

Your answer, the reason, is in your thread title.
/r/seduction04/01/19 08:33 PM
2

Just remember that as long as she's suggesting a different time, it's always a good sign.
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:56 PM
2

This exact feeling that I'm thinking about is fairly rare for me, and it lasts maybe one second. There's plenty of beautiful women in my city, but even with the 7/10s which I subjectively find attractive I can get this feeling. I think it's more about the way they look at you. It seriously feels like an "APPROACH ME" stare. "I LIKE WHAT I SEE". Sometimes I meet eyes with a 10 and there's nothing, but sometimes the way they look gets me that gut feeling. It's the physically the closest thing to "…
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:43 PM
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Let me just add that by "showing interest" as opposed to "fearing" is meant to be taken as "I'm interested in you showing me you're worth my while" - that should be a man's mentality in terms of seduction. I think I'm going through this exact same mania as you are right now. I came to some conclusions that made me the happiest man on Earth and I haven't even started seducing properly :D But it set my attitude and mentality to exactly where it's supposed to be for me to succeed. I just look at th…
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:39 AM
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Dude, the glycogen dump... I love you for this. Are you describing this thing you feel in your gut once you get in eye contact with a stranger whom you find attractive? Cause it's something I've experienced multiple times and never had a name for it. It's also associated with the sudden thoughts of "I should approach", which fits your fight or flight comparison. Have you made any research on this feeling? I tried describing it and googling it, but found nothing. BTW, after such eye contact with …
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:28 AM
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I recently approached a beautiful woman with whom I quickly chose to go for a platonic conversation (I got overwhelmed, but learned from it) and at one point she told me to never ask a girl about her passion or hobby, because they often just do things for some time and then drop it, never really considering it anything more than just an activity or a time killer and the ones who actually are passionate about something (first thought: artists) will make it quite obvious to you. Asking a woman abo…
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:20 AM
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Good for social interactions in general, almost pointless in terms of pickup.
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:43 AM
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You're not sparking her emotions with your texts. There is little time for logical conversation via text. It should be full of fun and emotion. And by emotion I don't mean you expressing feelings and being affectionate, I mean giving her emotional ups and downs by "pushing and pulling". Google it, preferably watch a Toddvdating video about it, he's the king. And stop with the "I want a woman to give me a chance". You're the one whose giving her a chance and she's the one who's supposed to qualif…
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:40 AM
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