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He will learn. It takes time. Being encouraging isn't condescending unless that was your original intent / you were feeling sassy / uninterested. You should be encouraging. Attempt to get him to share positive stories that he has in regards to work. Help him see that he is learning and that he is helpful. Make home-life awesome! Do the laundry, cook him his favorite meal, have a beer (or lemonade!) for him when he walks through the door and give him time to unwind. Everything will be ok, if not,…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:36 AM
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The best way to deal with this is to calmly and politely reiterate what she just said. "My understanding was ______________ because you said _________". This will give her 2 options; 1. She will be able to further explain what she meant or 2. she will change the subject. Sometimes there are misunderstandings and having a neutral take on it can help ensure that nobody starts getting fired up. If she is truly a nut, there isn't really anything you can do besides smile, nod, and never engage her wh…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 03:30 AM
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It all boils down if you feel you have time. Option 1: Move on. Option 2: Be understanding and considerate of the fact that he has had negative past experiences. You can girl game him and display that not all women are nasty shrews! There is no real answer here. There are both positive and negatives to each of the possible solutions and it will really boil down to if you consider this man good enough material to stick around with during the 'transitional' phase. He could get on board quickly and…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 07:16 PM
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Oi, holidays are always a ton of fun. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 07:11 PM
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This week, I had the "ah-ha!" moment that a good relationship is actually a skill. Kind of like reading, writing, cooking or cleaning. Having a good, loving relationship is an actual learned behavior that takes discipline and patience. :-) Amen, sister. Also, while shopping today, he made sure to open the car door for me, a habit that died once we got more comfortable with one another. Funny how when you are nice and agreeable how he just 'naturally' steps up to the plate huh? ;-) we just had se…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 03:58 AM
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This is cute. :-) My dad always taught my brother and I to "be the change you wish to see in the world" while my interesting character of a mother says 'if you cant duct it, F it!' Even with my mother's saying being a bit unusual, it still reminds me that sometimes you just need to let things go. Definitely not the classiest thing in the world, but she walks to the beat of her own drum.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 03:44 AM
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This is nice. Call my parents. I haven't heard from them in a while! Spend more 1v1 time with the man. We're on two separate schedules entirely so it is difficult, but I will make it work. Finish knitting the various swatches for my little sister's blanket. Finally pick up that sewing machine from my mother's house that has been taking up space. Work on being more patient with the more interesting characters in my life. Run more. Honestly, it's time to push the limit a bit. Start baking again! I…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 11:07 PM
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You really have to think about if the guy in question is worth your time. Sure, you could girl game the heck out of some guy who previously stated he had no interested in a relationship or marriage if you really wanted to. My question would be why? Some guys just genuinely do not have an interest in a relationship. Some basic girl game would be to be interesting and have a hobby or two. You can learn a new language or pick up a new skill such as knitting, archery, sewing, or a sport. You should …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 09:29 AM
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In regards to unwanted attention, she needs to stop validating the guy in question's behavior. She should be polite, but she needs to express the fact that she does not appreciate what he is doing and remain consistent in establishing boundaries for unacceptable behavior. If she doesnt enjoy one's company, there is nothing wrong with not hanging out with them. Obviously with teenagers they are still learning and figuring things out, but like adults, them 'hanging out' and spending time together …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 05:03 PM
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Freaking thank you! That post the other day really didnt belong here. We all know the one.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:45 PM
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Yes, thank you! Very detailed response. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 04:58 PM
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Same. What is RMV /u/Aerobus?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 05:02 AM
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It was an elaboration for emphasis. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:23 PM
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Ok, fair. Shaving aside, you can be feminine in personality and actions. No need to start hackin' up lougies and picking your nose. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:52 PM
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Uh, well, if you actually respected and liked this guy having relations would be the best way to unwind after studies. It shouldnt be stressful to want to have sex. You cant negotiate desire. You dont respect or like this guy, dont be a b-word. Let him go. I feel as if you are staying with him only to have companionship and access to resources. If you DO love him, then go bang his brains out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:50 PM
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I think this post doesnt belong bere, to be honest. You shouldnt be asking a fish how to fish.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:45 PM
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How would an interest in the great outdoors be a deterrent to anyone other than an overweight neckbeard? Seriously, enjoy yourself. The problem occurs when you start acting like a man. As /u/copperfox3c said, dont not shave your legs. Also, please dont pick up cursing, spitting, or extremely aggressve forms of communication. It isnt feminine. You just have to find a balance! :-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:42 PM
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You really kind of have to train yourself to stop cursing. A good way to implement it is to use words/sayinga that are funny. "Nobody gives an elephant's ear!" "Son of a Biscuit!" "Holy guacamole!" "Poo on you." Or whatever else you can think of that would be relevant to your situation. Some people may poke fun at you....c'est la vie. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 11:03 PM
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I have not met Anna or any of his friends 5 months in and you haven't met any friends? A few weeks ago, Anna suggested that they travel together in his big trip at the end of the year.... That should be a "no". he's since warmed up to the idea and they have been talking more about the trip and have narrowed down the trip down to a few destinations in Europe or Japan. It would be approximately a three week vacation. So they have been really planning this out, the hotel, the destination, the cab, …
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/15 02:54 AM
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Bingo. She wasn't invited because that would put a damper on that pootang he's going be getting.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/15 02:45 AM
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Pale (thin) girl with a few vericose veins checking in; exercise. They really arent a big deal. The only thing you should be worried about is your health and figure. V-veins happen, and unfortunately, they are slightly more noticeable on a girl with pale skin. On that note, tanning is dreadful for your skin. Surely a lot of women do it but it is dangerous. Be sure to wear some sunscreen. Along with condoms there are IUDs, shots, female condoms (eh), sponges, spermicide, surgical procedures (tube…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 08:01 AM
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Something went wrong after we labelled us as lovers She plated herself. Either way, the relationship is over and she needs to move on. Her wanting to resurrect something after 3 months is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 06:12 AM
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Look, he broke up with you. This might not be what you want to hear but you need to move on. The fact he was so HONEST with what he didn't like is respectable, as you can improve certain points on you to make yourself a better lady for the next man. Do go to the gym, do develop hobbies, do work on your confidence, and do meditate. But do NOT attempt to get back with this man. If (and this is a HUGE if) he were to be interested, let him peruse you. He broke it off, he's done, he's over it, and he…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 10:29 PM
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Dedication, cupcake. Dedication.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 09:21 PM
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We each have our own accounts with designated responsibilities towards the household. He pays the rent and bills while I pay for the groceries, cleaning products, and the like. I do, however, tend to give my boyfriend my debit card when I don't need it because I tend to shop whenever there is nothing else to do. As usual, voice your concerns with the SO and find something that works for ya'll. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:29 PM
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Ooh, a fun thread! In the morning I wash my face, use a gentle toner, moisturize, and apply sunscreen. I then use a BB cream (as /u/FaunaFauna said, it is very light. Perfect for little touch ups!), a little bit of rouge, and chapstick. If the man and I are going out I will put on a bit of eyeshadow and mascara.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 08:15 PM
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In case you need to return something you can get cash (or it returned back on to your card) instead of store credit. Because if I had store credit at Dillards nothing would ever get done. It also shows you exactly what you are purchasing and where... it can help keep you on track if you realize that maybe you don't need 62 bras and snakeskin pumps.... ahem.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/15 06:03 AM
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Yay! Congratulations on ya'lls schooling. Many positive vibes are being sent yall's way. Keep all receipts. Stay organized. Buy in bulk (when it makes sense). Consider every item as a "need" or "want"; act accordingly. Create, and stick to, a monthly budget. Have a separate jar, pile, stash, or account for fun money. Check out Groupon/LivingSocial/Facebook for deals. Have a binder that contains all of your coupons....organized to your liking. Be sure to throw away the expired ones. Use your coup…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/15 05:25 AM
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It's about finding a balance. As a lady, you don't want to seem too eager or do all of the initiating because that could indicate that 1. you will be a plate or 2. he is a beta. Dating is tricky.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 05:20 AM
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This....is just so adorable. He is initiating kino! Sure, people are encouraged to be friendly, but come on! Stealing glances, smiling across the way, kino. Do you get an awesome yet overwhelming sense of magic when he enters your personal space?hehe! Anywho, there is nothing wrong with returning some kino. Obviously you dont want too be touchy/feely, but you dont want to be an icequeen either. In a more casual frame, flash him a huge smile and offer a high-5. You can mention that he looked grea…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 04:52 AM
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Bonus points for no TV in the bedroom. There are 2 things the bedroom is good for and one of them has to be sex.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 05:06 AM
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So somehow in 1 year the only thing that changed is his libido. If this is the case we can not help you. The man needs to see a doctor immediately to rule out anything serious or life threatening.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 05:03 AM
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So it started off right, then was hot, heavy, and frequent. Then one day he was ok with it not happened anymore and you think that he isnt getting some from anywhere else. Alright. People dont just naturally maintain a body frame. Garbage or clean foods, it is all about calories in / calories out. It is good to know he is maintaining a good physical appearance, though! Have you chaged at all during his transition? Be it physically, emotionally, or mentally? A sudden drop in libido from "every ch…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 12:55 AM
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Has he always been uninterested in sex? Have either of yall gained weight recently or made a sudden change in schedule/stressful life events?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 11:04 PM
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Maybe this should be the main point of the thread. Put a little more background into your post and be sure to answer the questions in the sidebar! If he isnt initiating without a medical or emotional reason its obviously due to a dwindling lack of interest or something far worse!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 09:03 PM
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Well, men like to initiate. With that being said, men also like it when we initiate. When my man comes home from work he is given a few minutes to relax. I make him some food and he picks a tv show or plays some video games.....then I pounce on him. This can include risque flirting, literally pouncing on him and sitting on his lap, kissing, roaming hands...you get the deal. Just roll with it. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 07:38 PM
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Step 3 is always the most fun!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 07:36 PM
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Step number 1. Be interesting. Step number 2. Show interest. Step number 3. Ask questions (as the other girls have said). You will shouldnt be surprised at how many bp women are on dating sites. They have no interests, hobbies, or conversational skills. The worst part being is that that have 0 interest in improving on these skills because if when a man stops talking with them due to boredorm or narcissism they will rationalize a negative personaloty trait on the man's behalf. In regards to your …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 04:38 AM
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Truthfully, you are overthinking it. As /u/a-promise said, be sure to speak with people and not at them. Just relax and let the conversation flow naturally; do not try and force a specific agenda. Do, however, make an attempt to filter anything unnecessary or unappropriate. What that would be depends on both you and your audience. It takes practice, but how else will one gain experience?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 05:42 AM
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It starts out as asking about work and evolves from there. You know it, he knows it, and we know it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 07:51 PM
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Don't worry sweetie it'll all be okay, youll find the perfect woman, just wait! ...but until then do you want to be my emotional tampon?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 04:49 AM
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Wow. Ok, op, you need TheRedPill. First of all, you had clear oneitus for the first hair salon girl. The way you speak about her even after the horrible things she has done to you indicates that you lowered yourself so low while simultaneously lifting her on a pedestal. She cheated due to hypergamy and projected her cheating on to you as a worry. It was pure manipulation. She cheated on you with a man she thought was high value, left you, and started a family. Her little plan backfired and now s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 04:34 AM
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Sorry, I have to ask. Are canadians really uber friendly?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 08:12 PM
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I don't think marriage is the ultimate proof of a great relationship or whatever. Great point. It is also definitely more than a piece of paper. Personally, I want the wedding, as does my SO. I am perfectly OK not signing the certificate. If something, god forbid, were to happen down the line we are both logical and rational beings. It would be sorted properly. The certificate now is generally used as a backup plan.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 08:06 PM
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Lol. All relationships are a "transaction", by definition. You are trading your goods and services (time, money, attention) for someone elses goods and services (time, money, attention). If you are friends with somebody who is always mooching lunch and talking about herself you would consider the friendship one sided and move on. Why? They are not offering enough to the friendship. Why is it so crazy to think that the same goes for relationships? Why oh why do they honestly feel that you can hav…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 06:00 PM
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We are smart ladies, surely something can be figured out...especially if it is planned in advance. Or, we can divide and conquor! Where are the southern belle's at?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 12:12 AM
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I usually just take my knitting to a coffee shop and see where that leads me. Or strike up a conversation first! You can compliment their handbag or nails and just continue chatting. Be the type of person you want to attract. Remember, quality over quantity. Or we could have a RPW meet up one day? Eh? Eh? We'd be the hottest B's in the building!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 12:08 AM
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Science dont reals, only big boobs and feels!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:31 PM
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OP said she gained weight due to alcohol and her post history indicates excessive snacking. I doubt very highly that she is uber thin with huge knockers. Even so, there is no way she would be "obese" because of her humongous jugs! That is asinine. Literally her breasts would be 1/4th of her entire weight. Literally. Do enlighten us on your methods, though. Curious minds are waiting!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:29 PM
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This is a new obe I havent heard. /u/EatPlayCrush, you werent kidding! This is freakin gold. Love it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:26 PM
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LOL, oh my gosh. Too bad many people dont understand that beerbelly =/= curves.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:20 PM
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At 5'3" and 150 lbs that would place her well into the overweight category bordering obese. How attractive. Can somebody hold my hair while I hurl? Edit: even at 130, OP still was at the very upper end of what is considered acceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:14 PM
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Eh, surely 30lbs is a bit more than "a few"....and this is just what she is admitting! Without including a very important factor - height!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 07:16 PM
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Pffft, shitlass. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 07:15 PM
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Bingo! You are getting it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 06:04 PM
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Im sure most men would prefer to teach an inexperienced girl some tricks than to be taught by an 'experienced' woman. ;-) It isnt the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean. 2. What guy goes around stating that they are a virgin? That would make most women lose at least some attraction. 3. The technique is only poor if you lack attraction and respect...one would start nitpicking and become unaroused quite quickly. Any man you plan on dating should give you the tingles. There is no "especia…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 04:01 PM
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Yeah, fair enough. Well, I have. A lot of ladies today seem to be rather...whats the word, insightful and open in regards to their feelings. Its just that they have little to no control over the hamster and try and rationalize the most ridiculous things. My SO's bestfriend's sister: *"but...I cant break up with him. I dont want to be alone! He provides companionship...It is just that the intimacy is lacking" Poor thing. She has noooo idea what she is in for.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 05:19 AM
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All of the advice here in regards to this topic is going to be quite similar. With the exception of your male family members, SO's friends, and co-workers to a degree, a taken woman shouldnt be, chatting with, flirting with, having lunch with, or trying to be with another man. Its tacky, low, and shows an obvious lack of recpect for both yourself and your current boyfriend. Perhaps you need time, alone, to 'mourn' the relationship you had with Jack. You are 19 and have plenty of time to find ano…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 05:15 AM
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I think we scared her.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 03:40 AM
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We got lunch and even though everything was friendly and appropriate and Adam was perfectly fine with it (of course I asked first). Sorry, asking or not, this was disrespectful towards your current courter. You knew that Jack still lit a fire under your ass and going to lunch on "friendly terms" is your way at attempting to rationalize your behavior. You need to do some soul searching. How can you possibly say that you will be 'happy with Adam in the long run' when you are already ditching him t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 02:59 AM
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Hi friend. Dread game her. Attraction is non-negotiable but you will be surprised about how quickly she changes her tune if she feels that she is losing you. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 01:53 AM
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rather than simply jumping ship and finding someone you click sexually with automatically. None of that. Its tacky and we are ladies! We may want the d while entering an extremely new relationship but it is not going down like that. Exclusivity first. Why oh why would you enter a relationship with somebody who doesnt give you butterflies? That would indicate that the man is a BB - he's 'great' in any and all aspects except for sex. Why? Lack of attraction. Why? Lack of respect. Sex isnt difficul…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 01:50 AM
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It is what the definition should mean, yes. Nobody here is disagreeing that what you are saying. Its the right thing to do for the child. What I am saying is an unfortunate BP reality of what 'priority' means to them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 03:16 AM
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I think that by saying "kids arent a priority" she means that while kids are important and you must invest in their emotional wellbeing, you cant be a fully functioning and proper parent if you never have your own time. It also helps foster some independence in the children if they learn to do things on their own...which helps them out immensely im the long run. Especially since many children these days are babied to the point of delayed development. My sister is 4 years old, not potty trained, …
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 02:34 AM
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Are you single? Interested? Flirt back. Innocently. Do not be crude or blunt. Twirl your hair, engage in conversation, tease him a bit, playfully push his shoulder. C'mon, you know the drill! Taken? Uninterested? SNIP - smile, nod, ignore, proceed. There is no need to be rude at somebody who was complimenting you if it was in a respectful manor. Acknowledge their existence with a smile and continue on with your life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 04:39 PM
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Tsk tsk. If it got to the point that he actually had to say something you may have lost more than attractiveness points. Some respect dwindled as well. Its ok, girlfriend. Make more magic happen!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 04:36 PM
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I think that a woman's count should be under 5. I dont care aboit a man's. My personal "score" is 2. :-) Girls at work and even some family members are like, "but...butbut...you need to have FUN!". I do have fun. Just not their kind of fun. Sigh. So many crabs...
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 04:17 AM
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Yeah. Morning poop/shit test. I dont know how my comment was irrelevant. :/ Elaboration: its nice to visit him at work with the girls who like him yet he thinks they are gross. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/15 02:27 PM
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This is very adorable and raises a good point; is he ready to commit? Most of us nay-sayers are only saying so on the premise that you have only been together for 7 months on top of a lack of long-term-marital-commitment. Its tricky territory, just like any relationship. Being a bit young has its added disadvantages and advantages. Good luck, OP!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 07:42 PM
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He hasnt expressed wanting to get married because both of yall have only seen high school! You two, sorry, are jumping the gun a bit early. Please, do not ruin your opportunity for a good education with a man you have 1. Been together with for only 7 months and 2. Doesnt show interest in marrying you and 3. Even considers this a solid idea. Long-term-relationships can work and are the ultimate test of loyalty and respect. You have to get creative in order for things to pan out. If this relations…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 04:48 PM
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I have "nexted" myself as well as never spoken to someone again based on the premise that they gave off the vibe that they only wanted a hookup. No regrets. As RPW, we are trying to find that 'balance'. Some men are just absolutely not interested in a relationship no matter how awesome you are; and thats fine. But we need not waste our youth and vitality. Sometimes the best bet is to let go. It isnt neceasarily one red flag that causes a next. Its just a "is this worth my time and attention peru…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 06:49 AM
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I 2nd this!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 05:46 AM
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That... is kind of adorable! My Nanny (grandmother) always excuses herself to the restroom to pass wind. One day when us grandkids were younger one accidentally slipped out. She was so mortified we didnt see her for about 3 hours. Poor thing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 05:18 AM
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There is no need to be curt; you had asked me a question and I answered you...all while addressing your point of prudishness in regards to the bedroom. :-) Men dont want a lame, quiet boring person. I fail to see how that is correlated to bodily functions (unless that is what floats your boat. In that case, enjoy your playtime!)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 05:08 AM
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Well, both my so and I agree that magic needs to be keot alive. I more than he. We have been together for over 5 years and I dont think that having a bit of privacy or not farting/burping/acting like one of his guy friends is "micromanaging". Then again, this is my opinion as is my post. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 04:05 AM
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Woman*
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 03:38 AM
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I am a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 03:37 AM
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Yes, which he passes. He is a very active member of TRP and visiting him at work to drop off lunch is always fun... ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 08:39 PM
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Unnecessarily inconvenient? Eh, not so much. It may be fine for you now and it may bite you in the butt sometime later. Men love mystery...and if he has complete transparency with you one day he may seek out someone with a bit more sparkle. Ive never peed or used the restroom while my SO was in the shower. I usually just join in! Its never been a problem to wait 5 minutes until his shower is done, especially if we both ask eachother out of politeness if the other needs to go before it is monopol…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:42 PM
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You dont care about a woman's sexual past and are willing to settle for low-hanging-fruit; your comment does not surprise me. Judging by your post history your standards are exceptionally low.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:21 PM
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Exactly! Great point. We want to look our very best at all times!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:18 PM
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:-) that is cute way of putting it. "Boys fart and girls puff!" is one I heard growing up. Of course they exist, but we need not acknowledge them. Its good to hear that your boys are growing up strong and have a lack of interest in low-hanging-fruit! Its gross and no matter how 'normal' the function is, coming from a woman to a man just doesnt translate the same as a man's words or actions would. At work, some girls were (attempting) to tell him all about their morning poop. He nope'd the f out …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:14 PM
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As long as you don't shove your degree into someone else's face and act superior things will be hunky dory. Would you like to pass that along to my feminazi mother who refuses to talk to her nephew because he addressed her as Ms. X instead of "Dr. X" due to her Ph.D? She wonders why she has been single for the past 15 years. If you snap back at strangers that your name is Dr. x, people are going to look at you like you are nuts; especially in a small town. That poor CVS clerk!MyGod! Btw. She isn…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 03:46 AM
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There seems to be some sort of misconception floating around here on RPW; women can enjoy any educational topic, sport, or traditionally masculine activity in the world! That isnt the issue. The issue only really arises when the woman in question adopts masculine personality traits such as swearing, being abrasive, too forward, rude, outspoken, and the like. You know, when they try to be 'one of the boys'. Surely any man will be impressed that a smart, beautiful lady has a deep interest in math …
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 03:01 AM
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He...slapped you? What a little beta. Who strikes a woman? That is unforgiveable. Anyway, darling, you will find that by taking a supportive, kind, and demure role that men will generally step up to the plate. Let him lead and trust his deicions from the start. Not with THIS guy, obviously! He is a turd who should have been reported. He completely violated your trust, space, respect, and body. He deserves to have the feas of 1,000 camels infect his crotch.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 04:04 AM
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You need to be your own motivation! The pretty years are short and you need to be able to offer a partner much more than your looks. If YOU want something, you need to do it. You need to kick your own self in the butt and get moving. Tips for learning how to cook: Buy fresh ingredients weekly. Google recipes/raid your family recipe book. Practice. Tips for getting in shape: Put on running shoes Hit the pavement Hair tips: Grow it out Buy some hair accessories Be sure to start up a hobby or two, …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 04:26 PM
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If you want to know what a man would have done you should ask a few men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 02:28 AM
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If yall broke up this thread isnt relevent. If you want children at 35, court a young lady a few years your junior. That way she can better provide you with the healthiest children.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 01:59 AM
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Well, anyone would be offended if their spouse did nothing. Fair enough.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 01:57 AM
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You should not ask a fish how to fish. If you arent wanting to commit to her during a time when it is healthier for her to have children then perhaps this is a prime example of two people wanting something radically different. Maybe this isnt a good match for either of you. Also, what? You are offended by having the mother of your children stay home and take care of them? Cook you dinner? Do your laundry? Ensure that the child is growing up with the right ideals? Go grocery shopping? I fail to s…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 01:08 AM
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Well, think of the general type of male redditor. They are overweight, eager to please, and socially immature. If/when they get a girlfriend obviously the female will only be using him for resources, thus promoting the slutty stacey mentality. She needs her AF. Consider the average female on reddit. She is a raging feminist, has no hobbies, is too outspoken, masculine, and has a very "what will you do for me"? Attitude. Of course a guy wont commit to her and only uses her for night of fun. She c…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 05:45 PM
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Nothing wrong with reading or sports. Reading is gender neutral and sports help keep you fit and promote teamwork! But why, I am curious, wouldnt you want to create something? How about wood whittling, wood burning, or soap carving?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 03:36 AM
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Your attitude. You may be frustrated, sad, mad, or whatever. Maintain a positive, friendly, and upbeat tone. Express your feelings logically and with a smile. Remember, men process female speech in the same region as music. A little positivity goes a long way! Of course be sure to eat clean, watch your portions, workout, and learn a new hobby! You can start cross stitch, knitting, sewing, soap making, candle creating, whatever. When a man asks you what your hobbies are you should have much more …
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 09:39 PM
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TRP is NOT gender neutral. You are coming on a bit aggressive. You are obviously seeking male validation by coming here. No offensive to the boys, but only a lady can offer lady advide. This is the boy's space, hun. Please join us at RedPillWomen.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:57 AM
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Hi there! You should check out r/RedpPillWomen. :-) We can help you work on improving yourself, girl game, patience, skincare, makeup, attitude, and the like. Dont be shy!
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:55 AM
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Oh, congratulations! Some tips: Be patient. Wake up an hour early and do some light cleaning in the morning. Spot clean at night. Deep clean weekly. Homework comes FIRST, housework second. The man and I have lived together for 4+ years now and he is very messy. The trash never quite makes it to the can and socks are strewn about. One day, I jokingly went on strike and didnt give him a plate to eat off of. He started eating off of a newspaper! It was hilarious. The point being is that men can gen…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:16 AM
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Lube up your whole body if you wish Sometimes, I like to cover myself in vaseline lube, roll around, and pretend I'm a slug. Your comment gave me hilarious visuals! If all else fails, yes, OP, please lube up your whole body and do a FR!
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 02:19 AM
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Be sure to gently remind him that you are a bit sore and offer to please him in other ways. Suck his member in the morning and have sex at night! Win win.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 10:33 PM
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How can it not be about gender? There are biological differences between men and women. There is a huge difference between a master key and a crappy lock.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:16 PM
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Hi. I think you would fit in better with us over at RedPillWomen. :-) The boys dont really care about ... this. If they are so inclined, they come over to RPW and give their opinion. Smoking is a personal choice. Just remember what it does to your skin, scent, and overall health. Anyway. That is the point of TRP; generalizations. Like it or not, AWALT. Perhaps one of the guys can link that post I am about to describe: 1 woman is disgusted by her husband and shuts him out, one woman finds an AF, …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:44 PM
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They will "benefit" from it until they realized they were nothing more than a sex toy, have zero life skills, and no personality.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 02:56 AM
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Hehe, other people flirting with your man is part of the life we chose to live. We are with very handsome and admirable men; the type that ladies swoon over and other men model themselves after. Unless it gets out of hand, smile, and appreciate the fact that others are so interested in him! I enjoy seeing women flirt with my man. Its funny because we all know who he is coming home with. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 11:56 PM
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Im agreeing with what the other ladies said; being cute! Remember, men and women "fall" for different things. Us being cute is scoring points while they having control and playing off unimportant tidbits scores points.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 01:01 AM
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I'll bite. You arent getting any responses / upvotes because we have 0 interest in the "BP" lifestyle. Some of us were born and raised traditional who never experienced that way of life (if it isnt broken, dont fix it!) while many of us are former feminists/BPers who understand whats being said and simply do not agree. Being a former BP makes me realize that many, if not all, of the individuals that identify as "BP" will simply not understand. They are just at a different point in their life and…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 02:16 AM
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That is cute! All of the sassy workout shirts that are floating around are so super fun.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 04:25 PM
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There is a difference between a master key and a shitty lock.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 06:40 AM
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Well, you are certainly entitled to your feelings. Just keep in mind that if she had sex with you on a first night, you probably aren't the first, nor the last. If you're ok with that, fine. Its your life. I feel girls that withhold sex in order to lure men into commitment have less self-esteem that they have to resort to such manipulative tactics. It's about how much of 'x' is worth 'y'. I, personally, would be 12 levels of offended if somebody I went on a first date with expected sex. Then aga…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 02:23 AM
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I advice women that if they want to keep their dream man around. Fuck his brains out. yeah, if you are already in a committed relationship. None of the girls here are going to play fast and loose with our bodies for some random Joe. I have however dated the occasional girl that doesn't use her pussy and feels the need to withhold it for me. These girls get nexted Then you are obviously not looking for a committed relationship, and that is fine. Enjoy yourself with girls who are willing to do tha…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 01:38 AM
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I realize that when TRP says to state your intentions from the beginning, they don't mean to say "hey baby you wanna fuck" to every girl a man meets, but to enter an interaction with a sexual frame, and to display sexual interest through verbal and non-verbal ques, as in be seductive essentially. Yes! This is exactly right. Men and women are hardwired differently and they are playing the game to yield their desired results. Is there analog to that for women? Is there a way to enter an interactio…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 01:34 AM
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I've unfortunately read the book. If the words "foil" and "packet" ever make it back into my life I will scream. Also, the girl was OK with her relationship, dreampt about it, willingly signed a contract, and was totally into it. Moving forward! Generally speaking, most of the feminists are into that hardcore bondage/sm/flogging/multiple knots/extreme sensory deprivation. My reasoning being is that their man is so low value that he really needs to exert a lot of force and 'dominance' over her to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 06:23 PM
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Luckily the MIL lives in the same town as us. We go over to visit frequently and I help her clean up after meals or cook, I hang out with her and the ladies while the guys are in the garage, I snag my 13yo SIL and take her out to lunch, we text, hangout, Ive taken the MIL to dinner. Dont get me wrong, we have had our ups and downs with eachother over the past 5 years. The thing being is that she is family now...and that sometimes means irritating you. Just try and show interest in her life. Call…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/15 10:13 PM
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How did you ladies remind yourself in the moment or to stay in this frame for longer than just sitting here reading RPW? It takes time to develop any new characteristic/trait/skill. It takes patience, and sometimes we fail. The best option is to gather your thoughts/feelings and to try again. I was 'sexually assaulted' by a co-worker. I immediately saw this as 100% my fault and lied to both myself and my SO about my guilt. There is always therapy in order to help you organize your feelings on th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 01:13 AM
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"wasting my youth". Sigh, on what? Not drinking, doing drugs, and partying till 3am? People are ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 06:06 AM
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Ignore their commentary. Seriously, the "you're too young" crap never ends. "You're too young to move out!" "You're too young to live together!" "You're too young to get married!" Mind you we have been together for 5+ years, I am 23 and he is 26, while living together for 4. Surely the next neg will be "You're too young to have kids!". Fat feminists always try and downplay others accomplishments/relationships because if THEY couldn't do it, somebody else won't/can't either. It's a lovely thing c…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 06:03 AM
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Feminists really believe that we need to be "liberated". Ugh, what ever happened to live-and-let-live? If one is happy leading, let them lead. If one is happy to support, let them support. Why do they care?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 10:29 PM
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how? Let him lead and support his decision! My man and I have been together for over 5 years. We started off very "blue pill"; I was a hardcore feminist with many facial piercings, 1/2 inch gauged ears, and short dyed brown hair. He was mega skinny, shy, and underspoken. Our relationship, over time, has evolved into redpill. I grew out my natural blonde hair, learned how to cook, knit, lost 50 lbs, etc. He started gaining muscle, confidence, and knowledge through time. It takes a lot of trust on…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 07:39 AM
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Lady here (sorry!) I am just going to say right quick that you cant always judge a book by its cover. You really need to watch her actions. Sure, some women will appear more RP but in reality they are huge skanks...and vise versa. At RPW, we have a few "alternative" women who love to look a little different, have unusual hobbies, but still promote mogomamy and taking care of their man. We also have exceptionally femimine women who enjoy powerlifting! Now, of course, people are judged on looks fi…
/r/askTRP30/12/14 06:51 PM
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Happiness is not a destination, it is a way of life. While you can not control what happens to you, you can control your reaction to it. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 08:36 AM
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Do not ask a fish how to fish....isn't this supposedly a thing? Moving on. Women respect, admire, and desire leadership. Yes, we can hold open our own door, pay the bill, and lift x amount of lbs. We are individuals with our own preferences, dislikes, and viewpoints. At the end of the day, however, women and men are hardwired differently. She is shit-testing you....to see if you are of value enough to be vulnerable for. As all RP subs tend to be a bit...er, blunt, even with the sweetest of women…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 08:33 AM
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In my experience people are more red pill than they realize Amen, sister. I have a very "feminist" friend of mine (obviously this term is used loosely, as western women do have all of the same rights as men!) who said earlier that she was upset because a 'male friend' of hers was always texting, calling, and being overbearing; she had 0 respect for this guy because she felt like he had no interests besides her. HE was setting the tone for their....relationship, dare I say. tl;dr: being RP in a B…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 08:26 AM
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Aahh, ok. I was really wondering when our sub became over ran with individuals who promoted intuitive eating. Phew, what a relief! While counting calories can be triggering (to both too heavy and too light individuals), it really is the only way to ensure you arent eating too much/not enough. This is where therapy, a loving support system, time, and patience would come into play.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 01:24 AM
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In regards to 1200isplenty, I did make a note that your height and activity level were a factor. Obviously at 5'10", I require much more than 1200 calories and would never recommend that somebody eat below their needs. Plenty of people at 1200 eat well above (1500-1750) the "1200" and it is mainly used to show how much calories 1200 can actually be. "Listening to your body", or intuitive eating, isnt a wise idea. Most people tend to over or under eat; without tracking your calories you have only…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 08:38 PM
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MFP is great for those who need to maintain their body weight or gain. Eating disorders are very, very serious and should be handled with care. If one is eating too much, or too little, this app comes in handy because it records absolutely everything you eat and the amount of calories each item has (which can be triggering to both too small/too big folk). The thing is you, on your own time and with help if necessary, have to understand that there is a balance and food is not the enemy (or the cu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 06:36 AM
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Hi there! I am 5'10". Sometimes a tall woman isn't a man's cup of tea, sometimes they are a beta-ninny. Why these men never approach you is none of your concern because for whatever reason, be it their ninnyness or dislike, they are unimportant. There is nothing you can do about your height and you should embrace it! My man is 5'6". Wooo! He has no complaints and neither do I.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 10:17 PM
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Good luck to you, darling. Mistakes happen and people F-up. You just (and obviously have!) need to remember what your goals are and keep up with achieving them. No shortcuts allowed! :-)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 04:38 PM
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I allowed myself to become a plate. I Joined tinder as a joke. C'mon now. If you are really wanting to fight over this guy, cease the sex (or intimate fun). There is nothing wrong with changing your mind and deciding to go slow. He probably isn't interested in an LTR with anyone he meets on TINDER because, hello, Tinder isn't for LTR's; it is for casual hookups and 'friends' with benefits. Try to add value to his life, bake him a pie, do little things for him, make him work a bit for you but con…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 06:11 AM
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I was toying with the idea of writing a children's book for girls under 10 about balancing femininity, friendliness, and manners, with strength, self-respect, and boundaries. Only 75% upvoted. I am curious as to why somebody would dislike the idea of young women growing up being comfortable with their femininity, being friendly, having self-respect and understanding boundaries? Smh.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 04:06 AM
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I hope you feel better after getting all of that out. :-) Have a nice day and a happy life!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 01:32 AM
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Hello new person! Here is the definition of 'biology'. To answer your question, It's an intimidation factor. Which scenario is a bit scarier: a short, thin man or a tall, thin man? At least with the height there is more of a chance for survival. Not always, of course. Back in the day only the strongest survived. We didn't have over 6 billion people. Only 40% of men reproduced compared with 80% of females. Why? because the female wanted to be protected; she wanted the alpha male. Hooking an alpha…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 09:52 PM
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Yep! Biologically speaking, women will want a tall man because he can protect her from unwanted advances .... and bears. :-) Men will want a woman young & healthy enough to be able to bear and then keep up with the children. It's so basic and yet so controversial.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 09:54 PM
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How dare men and women care about different things? Haha.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 07:38 PM
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Lets not play coy, we all know that unless he is a total ninny that an escalation will occur. You're going to be alone, watching some tv, snuggled on the sofa. If you want to ensure that things don't escalate, try meeting up elsewhere...especially if it is only a 2nd date. If you insist on going over regardless, fine. Just be prepared and try and keep things light. If things get too .... hot for you, feel free to voice that you want to slow down / aren't ready / don't feel that it is quite appro…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 05:59 AM
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Typical American "date" Guy and girl meet at a bar, club, etc. Drunk "friends" exchange numbers and part ways. Later that week he offers to buy her a drink. She accepts of course, hey, free drinks! But they are just friends. A few drinks [on the first date mind you] and the conversation is already getting frisky! There are subliminal messages and a sexual tone. They finish their drinks and he offers to take her home, she invites him inside, they have sex, he leaves, he never calls again unless h…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/14 07:00 PM
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I cannot see what's supposed to be hilarious or funny about these. That is obviously because you are oppressed. ;) Anyway, you're right. This is really simple, and good advice. How sexist of them to raise young ladies to not get too intoxicated, flirt with multiple men, and have correct posture. The nerve of some people....
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/14 01:57 AM
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I absolutely love how feminists generally prefer a cat. They are excited and quite willing to deal with something that doesn't come when its called, is independent, and demands respect. Every personality quirk and masculine quality that they "hate" in men is in their cat! Yet for some reason they continue to treat their cat like it is royalty and shame manly men. So it is alright to bend to your cat's every whim but not even compromise with your SO? Mk. Whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 09:22 AM
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I am a politically liberal atheist. Way to generalize an entire group of people who simply agree with the proven fact that men and women are hardwired differently. We each have equally important but separate roles. If a woman wants to work, or if a man wants to stay home, that is their choice. There is no need to be so rude. If you dont like it feel free to take your leave.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 10:00 PM
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Ideally each person complement's the other's strengths & weaknesses, allowing themselves to help each other in a world that's setup to work against them. All relationships, teams, friendships, marriages, etc work the BEST when this mentality is implemented. What is so hard to believe about having 2 captains is a cause for chaos? Women today are just not taught to be ladies, and men are not taught to be men. No wonder the divorce rates are so fucking high.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 07:05 PM
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Sunflower seeds. A lot of sunflower seeds.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 06:41 PM
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"We are equal in our importance, but we are just different in our performances within our marriage.” It is as simple as that. :) Too bad the feminists don't see it as a personal choice and really think that women like us are oppressed. No, hunny, you're oppressed. You're oppressing your entire feminine identity to compete with the men. Who, by the way, don't even consider you competition.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 06:40 PM
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Calling RPW the 'new feminism' to me is like slathering car grease on caviar. So true!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 10:05 PM
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:D Will do, thanks! Right now my hands feel so awkward with the needles, I don't have any fine motor skills [yet]. Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 05:59 PM
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I am a little late to the party here, but after drooling over all of the fabulous pieces of art in r/Knitting for like, a week, my SO decided it was time that I join them. :) Here is my little stash and my first stitch!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 05:51 AM
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You should! I'm 21 and my SO is 31 That is hot. That is a hot way to live.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 03:25 AM
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Great idea bringing this up. People sometimes think that just because you are online you suddenly can act ridiculous. What are the biggest mistakes women make in their social media presence? The most common? The tackiest Women send the wrong message. Period. They have their main photo of them with a drink in their hand, a short / revealing outfit, or just partying in general. That doesn't scream "family friendly". The most common would definitely be the "party" theme. There is absolutely nothing…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 06:30 PM
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Oh my God! That video was hilarious. I will be singing this song for the next week, I am sure. Obviously a turtle neck sweater with sweat pants is a bit extreme, but those dresses! I am loving that navy blue one with the bow on the neckline. :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 06:18 PM
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But how do you get to that point when you are too shy to interact in the first place? Oh, it is never as bad as you think it is. I am sure that the man in question is quite flattered that he has you so tongue tied. :) If an attractive man doesn't come up and begin speaking to me, I find it very hard to approach them. Do not worry about the men who do not approach you. They are either 1. Not interested or 2. Too afraid to talk to you. Shyness in women is considered sweet, demure, and charming. A …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 09:16 AM
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I was being sarcastic Oh! thank goodness. I was a little thrown back there for a second. Yeah, men do that as well. As do lesbian and gay couples. The divorce rates tend to be more common among southern, religious people. I think we can all agree TRP has a tendency to... oversimplify women's actions at times (not always) I think their explanations of it are simplified. You know, men tend to talk in short, precise sentences. Women are more likely to gab on an on about x, y and z and make sure to …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 04:16 AM
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no woman who has dumped her boyfriend has ever found a new one who makes her happier Why are we in such a bad mood? You know that females are also known to try and return to guys who have changed, it has happened, and it is known to happen with a "certain type of woman". I can't tell you how glad I am that I've ended certain relationships, and I'd never look back. I am glad that you left whatever relationships were making you unhappy! Sometimes it is wrong place, wrong time, or wrong person. I'v…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 01:43 AM
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Oh! Well, thatisembarrassing. My bad, girlfriend!
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 12:05 AM
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I checked out /u/MrStorm. He's been a redditor for four years but only has one post? Maybe I misunderstood something here, please excuse the blonde. :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:57 PM
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Lol! He only has one post. Is he not much of a redditor? I've been in a relationship for nearly 4 years now. That still does not stop me from feeling old...er...ish.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:50 PM
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Fitness, hair, makeup, and cooking. It sounds like you are most certainly on your way. I have very little artistic / feminine skill Lies, all lies. A genuine interest & practice will fix this. I can only sew a button if it falls off or mend a small hole and that's it. Hey, that is something! If you have a Joann's fabric where you are living, they offer both sewing & quilting classes. You can also Google your city & "sewing classes" to see some local options. I also want to learn how to make soap…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:27 PM
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I have a gorgeous RPW friend who uses OKCupid and a lot of the men she meets go out with her a few times then give weird excuses about commitment then disappear Eh, when meeting men online, keep in mind that most of them will not be an alpha or "RP" man. They will hardly ever initiate anything, and if they do, will quickly cancel as to protect their own ego. Or sometimes they just decided they didn't like you, which is fine, out of 7 billion people in the world, a few are bound to not like you! …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 10:07 PM
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Oh, this is cute! It is bookmarked right next to "The Proper Lady". If anyone else knows of any more absolutely awesome and adorable web sites, please let me know!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 10:02 PM
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Oh that is really terrible, sounds like you had yourself a dud. The positive thing for you is that you are a man! You will only get more distinguished and attractive with time. Your "SMV" will skyrocket throughout the years and she will be wondering "why oh why" did I leave that guy? Especially once she slams into the wall and not even the random, non-committed dicks want to throw her any bones. [Prepare for her to come crawling back oneday... lol!] I would recommend going to TRP. Sure, it can b…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 09:58 PM
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Well, it all depends on what you want. When the SO and I initially got together, he was rather "BP" and I was a dirty, loud, non-makeup-wearing-feminist. Over the years things have changed. I lost a ton of weight, found my femininity, and just started acting differently. My SO changed a lot, too. He started working out, got promoted to a management position, cut off his long hippy hair, and controls the finances [THANK JESUS]. I deal with the house and everything in it, he deals with the manly t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 09:49 PM
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Reading this makes me sad and afraid that I am already turning 22. Then again worrying too much is bad for your health. Way to stick women between a rock and a hard place, life. I keep telling all of the little girls in my life that growing up is a trap. They don't believe me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 09:37 PM
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that flies out the window when 7 kids share 1 bathroom. As an only child until recently, This horrifies me. You ma'm, are a hero. [My sister recently turned 2!]
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:15 AM
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Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:12 AM
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Yeah, agreed. /u/Chinny4DaWinny, that is far too much to say. You're going to want to be open and honest with your future woman, but you're not going to want to be too 'sappy'. It may come across...wrong. Keep it short, sweet, and to the point!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:34 AM
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Stereotypes are alive and well, it is very easy to assume that your Asian friend is indeed a "natural" RPW. Like you said, she does seem pretty interested. Even if she is "scoping" you for answers to another guy, it may be a shit-test in order to check your manliness. Remember, she is talking to you, interacting with you, and even sitting on your lap! Uh, hello! Girls don't just sit on a man's lap [well, they shouldn't. This is actually pretty common when flirting now a days. Talk about a clear …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:32 AM
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A mega-badass! :D Things I have done: Lost 40 lbs! Learned how to properly apply makeup & use hair styling products. I Learned a new language. Got really awesome at cooking. I clean every day! [before the age of 19 I was a total pig. I mean mold growing in the cups, plates left in the room, and didn't even know what a vacuum was! Now I am super anal about the condition of the house and my roomies think I am borderline psychotic, which I am, but anytime their family drops by or we have unexpected…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 02:50 AM
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Well, she seems rather devoted if she is willing to cross the country to be with him. They have been together for a while, but if no talks of marriage have come up in 4 years that is a bit concerning. However, do you know these ladies personally? Perhaps the man has some financial difficulty and is just not quite ready to be able to afford a wedding, house, and children. Their relationship could still be quite serious even if the financial funds are currently lacking .
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:33 AM
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I started talking to a guy who posted to r4r looking for a platonic friendship. I am not so sure that the people on craigslist who are posting in "strictly platonic" are totally looking for a friend. For arguments sake, lets say he is looking for a friend - he would be looking for a buddy, a male, somebody who shares a lot of common interests and can "hang out". He wouldn't take his time to befriend a female simply to be friends, come on now. Men & women can't really be friends without some unde…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 10:34 PM
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odd subjective definition of "appropriate" Well, lets see. An appropriate date would include going for a walk, day dates, lunch dates, dinner dates, movies within a reasonable hour, etc. Obviously if he is only texting you after 11 and you're meeting up at 1 am, it isn't appropriate. If you never meet his friends or family and are excluded from anything personal, you know you aren't anything special. As for kissing and making out, I personally never kissed anybody (out of my 2 boyfriends) until …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 09:09 PM
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Are you saying don't have sex until you have a commitment? Yeah, or I am pretty sure I have it secured. People, of course, can surprise you. Any relationship is a gamble. His side would be "is she being truthful? Is she sleeping around?" it is a two way street. How long is that exactly? It depends on the couple. Who says the commitment is truthful Anybody can lie easily. Both male and female. Who says this man wouldn't just go to one of the many other hot cows? He may, but that is why you want t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 08:08 PM
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This is what we are hoping for! Especially since they were friendly for a couple of months before any "activities" happened.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 08:04 PM
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Well, she's kind of in a sticky situation. She wants the relationship to escalate properly and they are in a FWB[ish] situation. You can't exactly tell somebody you aren't serious with, or getting serious with, that you love them. If HE only views her as a FWB, blurting out "I love you" is a sure way to scare him off. Then again, she shouldnt be with him if he doesn't have romantic feelings [wife goggles]. :) Hmm... conflicting feels.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 10:06 AM
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We were friends who couldn't date yet because of social pressure If you like him & he likes you, what pressure was there? 5 months isn't so bad. Just be sure you don't end up a "plate". If you really want to pursue this guy, try it for a bit. But don't get hung up on him if it doesn't work out. Securing a man only gets harder as you get older.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 09:48 AM
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At first, I thought of it as a FWB arrangement (which I would never have seen myself engaging in), but we are so close that it breaks all the rules. That is how he is supposed to make you feel, so that you come back for more. I have fallen for him perhaps more than I should have This isn't allowed to be apart of the deal if you agreed to be FWB. I am concerned that I entered a sexual relationship with him before securing commitment Why buy the cow if the milk is for free? Men are the gatekeepers…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 09:29 AM
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Haha, we haven't even had 1 yet and I am already bombarding him with talk of bouncing babies. To be fair, we have been together for going on four years now! He does like the idea of having his own football team, though. Lmao!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 02:41 AM
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So if the floor isn't swept every night, or there are dishes in the sink, I think I'm not living up to my end. Completely agree, and in fairness, sweeping & dishes are entirely easy. That dishwasher has saved us ladies a shit-ton. I run that thing at a minimum of 2x per day. Jesus! My husband is GREAT. He is seriously like the ideal husband. (Not bragging, I swear.) I know those feels... ;-3 So I feel like if I don't keep up the house, I'm not giving him what he deserves. These feelings are comp…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 02:37 AM
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Congratulations on the new little one on the way! As you know, being pregnant makes you a bit hormonal. You're pregnant, the house is clean, and laundry is done? With a little 2 year old? I guarantee you that hubby is impressed and proud. Not that being pregnant should ever be an excuse to "take it easy", there is nothing wrong with having to move a bit slower. Your body is changing and it will impact how you go about your day. Its normal and expected for you not to be as speedy as you once were…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 02:13 AM
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Well, despite whether or not the other party intentionally hurt your feelings, you can't change how you feel. The best thing you can do is take a few minutes to yourself, think about it objectively, and place yourself in the other persons shoes. If that isn't enough, try talking to the person who hurt your feelings after you have gathered yourself. Open & honest communication is beneficial for both friendships and relationships. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 10:04 PM
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If you only exercise your abs No no, you want to be nice and even. Legs, back, and arms should be equally important. Edit: She also said when she was slim she still had a bit of a pooch, that pooch is due to bloating and not having an "inner corset" of muscles to hold everything in place. Less calories, cardio, and muscle training will be her best bet. Edit 2: Planks, pushups, and squats aren't exactly abdominal exercises
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 10:01 PM
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Well, we at least know you are a man! Ya'lls opinions are always appreciated, especially if one of the mods gave you the flair specifically for RPW. Sigh, I am not worthy of such an awesome flair! But it's cool, its cool. I'm just chopping onions over here...
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 06:37 PM
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Oh! That was totally my bad then. I thought only mods had flairs! Well now I am jealous and want one.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 06:29 PM
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This is the thing that worries me, though. 3 years ago I was at my lowest weight, 118 lbs, purely through eating less (I had never been to a gym in my life at this point), and my stomach was still not completely flat. There was always a little bump. Then again, maybe if I combine diet with exercise this time, I'll be able to achieve a flat stomach alongside a low weight? Yes! You will be able to achieve a flat stomach! Just because somebody is slender, trim, or thin, does not mean they are healt…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 06:22 PM
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What, we have male mods in the house now? Hi there. Having men in the house is a good thing! It offers a more diverse atmosphere. :) Just for future reference, it is ok to gain up to a certain amount of weight. The amount of fat that is acceptable to gain during pregnancy depends on mom's starting BMI. 25-35 pounds if you were a healthy weight before pregnancy, with a BMI of 18.5-24.9. 28-40 pounds if you were underweight before pregnancy with a BMI of less than 18.5. 15-25 pounds if you were ov…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 06:17 PM
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You're a couple of points away from being "overweight" and are technically in the healthy BMI range for a female your size & weight. The thing is, I am 5'10" and used to weigh 160lbs. I was technically healthy. I lost 40 lbs of fat and went down to 120, which gave me a low BMI. I hit the gym and gained 5 lbs of muscle. :) I don't think I'm fat by any means, but I do have a pot belly and fat on my hips Potbelly & fat on your hips indicates that you are indeed a bit fat. A potbelly isn't something…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 05:57 PM
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(Very important life lesson...teach your kids how to clean while young dont always do it for them. It was a battle for a long time getting the 15 when she was 10 to clean up after herself) Freakin' thank you!!! People are always crying "but they are children!!!" Yeah, and children can handle the simple responsibility of throwing out the garbage. It isn't 'child labor' to be a responsible young lady/man, and there is nothing wrong with being taught how to be a productive member of society. Edit: …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 01:14 AM
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You need a schedule. ASAP! I know it is hard to "schedule" children, but it does not have to be a spread sheet. Have a white board set up in your house that includes all of the necessary chores and activities for the day. Label the time and teach the children the importance of a schedule, maintaining time, etc. Example: Wake up at 8am, make breakfast & enjoy with your family 9AM gives kids an activity to do while you clean. Make sure it is something you can "pop in" on so they still feel you are…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 10:48 PM
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During the weekdays M-F I wear a nice blouse + jeans or a pretty dress. On S-S I am slummin' it. I'm talking ponytail, yoga pants, tank top. My SO digs it. It is much better than lounging around in a shirt 4x too big and huge ol' pants. It is still rather feminine and shows off your shape. It is perfect for those lounging days. Now, if you're wearing them 24/7 and they're covered in filth, it might not have the same effect.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 10:40 PM
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So long story short, just cause an adolescent girl menstruates, it does not at all indicate that she would have a healthy or even viable pregnancy. Same goes for women over a certain age.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 10:33 PM
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I am definitely not an advocate of 14 year old freshman getting married. They lack the maturity. The kids were raised differently way back when and I was only using my grandmother as an example. I feel that if women were raised to be women, and men were raised to be men, a lot of "social issues" we have been having lately would slowly decline. Like 18, 16 isn't really an important number. It's just a line in the sand. Biologically speaking, women are ready to bear children when they get their pe…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 09:10 PM
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This. Don't be upset, /u/2102. There are totally exceptions to every rule, to some degree. As Sugar mentioned if you married for the right reasons and not just because "you had to" or "just because", then you are good to go. Being educated, having a personal understanding of yourself, and practicing open & honest communication are key in a relationship. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 07:53 PM
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I suppose the guidelines also partially come from the idea of mental maturity. But if that were the case, why isn't the age of consent at 24-25, when the brain fully matures? Exactly. What is so damned special about 18? You hit the nail on the head with an 18 year old having more knowledge, but isn't necessarily more mature. The maturity of children these days is lacking due to the parenting. Children didn't suddenly drop 15 points on the maturity scale throughout the decades just because. The m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 07:48 PM
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18%! Not too shabby!
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 06:43 PM
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Have lots of bouncy babies I want a hoard of children. My SO "maxed out" at 3, but I am saying 5+.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 06:38 PM
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My parents had me at 20 with basically no income and only a 2 year relationship. Needless to say they were divorced by the time I was 12. You have been together for 4 years You have been married for 2 You are both in your mid-twenties He has a good job Ya'll own a house It sounds like everything is lined up to me. Especially if you are both on board with wanting a baby, I say go for it. Do it while you're relatively young so that you can keep up with the little ones! Not that older mothers can't…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 06:36 PM
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Well, not all men are interested in an RP relationship. If you want an RPW, you need to make sure you yourself are "red pill". Searching for an LTR can take a lot of time. You aren't going to want a woman who "gives it out" so easily, is willing and enjoys cooking, taking care of herself, etc. She should be somebody you are proud to bring back home to your mother. As far as the course of action you should take, just be a manly man. Take care of any masculine tasks, kill the spiders, continuously…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 06:28 PM
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Lol!! Oh my goodness, no no no! I meant after your business & washing your hands before you exit the washroom. Just wall sit for 30 seconds and then leave. But if you can multi-task, more power to you. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 04:25 AM
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I agree with /u/Spongegloss00 about doing crunches during the commercials & daily housework. When I wake up in the morning, I do 50 crunches, 1 min (center) plank, 30 second side planks (L+R), and 50 squats. It only takes a few minutes and you can get it done before you hop in the shower and begin your day. Every day morning I unload the dishwasher, vacuum, and dust. Walking around the house lifting and moving furniture is a definitely an easy way to burn calories. If I need to purchase grocerie…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 09:55 PM
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"naturally". Girlfriend, if you are surfing and practicing yoga, you are burning an insane amount of calories. Plus, washboard abs? You go girl. If you up your caloric intake(+300), and continue to be physically active, you'll easily gain just a small body fat percentage. As far as the small breasts/rib cage/bikini thing, try wearing a push-up top? I know they make some full coverage, one piece, and wearable 2 piece push-up tops. Also, you're surfing without a rash guard? Dat edge! You obviously…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 09:21 PM
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I think "the media" reflects what is considered most desirable. If women really dug mega skinny, super sweet, and very beta guys, we wouldn't be seeing the tall, muscular, and bronzed Gods on a daily basis. We would see something entirely different. If somebody has a taste that isn't mainstream, they seek out what they are interested in. As the "fat positive" community continues to growTeehee , we are seeing more and more plus sized bodies in mainstream media. Fat women are in the magazines, tab…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 09:14 PM
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Well, it depends on what kind of weight. If you have a bit of junk in your trunk, that is one thing. I am just making sure that girls here aren't buying into the whole real women have curves fiasco. 100lb? You know, even without knowing your height, people would automatically have a cow hearing such a "low" number. I am 125 and I get a bit of poop for it. Fatties gonna fat, bitches gonna bitch.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 08:56 PM
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I'm 5'6, 114 lbs and am looking to gain some weight while eating healthy so trying to consume as many paleo calories as possible. You're 5'6" and 114? You're right in the healthy weight range! Be sure to workout so that you gain lean muscle instead of fat. Nice job on "Bacon Butter". That sounds much less disgusting than grease. I will be stealing that one!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 07:51 PM
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I am not saying frat guys aren't good guys. My SO used to be in a fraternity and we have been together for going on 4 years. I am only saying that if you're a young lady in college that perhaps you shouldn't be trying to meet Mr. Right at frat party. You could meet him at the coffee shop and he just happens to be in a fraternity - there is a difference. It is similar to an adult going to a bar and searching for a mate. Letting loose is definitely good advice. Being an uptight stick isn't exactly…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 11:21 PM
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The number of weekends you have in college to go out and let loose is not infinite, go out at least once a weekend. I think that if you're going out to 'let loose' once a weekend, and somehow are hanging out with every frat member, even if you aren't sleeping with them, it is sending the wrong message. The majority of Millennial females are sexually promiscuous and have improper dating techniques - they sleep with the man on a first meeting/date, participate in one night stands, and then are gen…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 11:05 PM
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Well, some people aren't ready to face the fact that they were wrong and need to change. That is too much work, remember? They feel that "society" needs to change instead of them and how they interact with the world. "It is everyone else's fault, not mine. I'm different. I'm special. This story is not like the others. I am right." Etc
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 07:59 PM
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I think women are truly uneducated on how a man's game works. Thanks to the rise of unnecessarily radical feminism and the relaxed moral upbringing of many young ladies, we are unaware of how exactly a relationship should work. Growing up, young women hear many conflicting views; "women are sexually liberated" and "you should wait until you're with somebody important who loves you". Well, if you're an entitled little twit with an ego the size of Texas, you're going to gobble up whatever male att…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 07:51 PM
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Fellow millennial - happy to see there are some of us actually around! You mean sleeping with 300 men doesn't sound very desirable to you? You are obviously oppressed! Sheesh. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 07:37 PM
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Oh, so if I remove the "r/" I will have my post reinstated? Or has it been removed permanently? Or is my computer being weird? Am I too blonde to notice what is going on?!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 11:49 PM
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That was a screen shot, madam! I swear I didn't intentionally brigade! They unban people, or make RP users a mod on their sub specifically for entertainment reasons I didn't know this, I just stumbled across TBP It is almost as disgusting as it was hilarious. The comment section is a gold mine of unhappy fat feminists with their BP men. Its life in action!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 11:39 PM
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BP friends will always be around, especially since the obvious and apparent push from the feminist agenda. How I learned to deal with my BP friends is exactly how I was treated by my, unknowingly at the time, RP friends + family. When I was younger, I never understood or could really explain, how I felt like "I was losing". I knew it wasn't a race, but I could feel it. The way other women interacted with me, the way conversations went, how they carried themselves, etc. I was out of place. Now th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 11:35 PM
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I was seriously concerned that ya'll had unbanned the trolls. If you all delete this mini - thread except for /u/Lady_Motido's comment, you may be able to sneak a few more suckers into believing this! ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 04:54 PM
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With time will come more learning experiences. I am just glad that I have a basic understanding of how things really work and can continue to improve from there.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:47 AM
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Louisa May Alcott: Alcott remained single throughout her life, once explaining that she felt she had a “man's soul, put by some freak of nature into a woman's body." Mary McCarthy: McCarthy managed to fit in four marriages I am afraid to continue reading...
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/14 11:55 PM
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Hi there, female here. :) Women love pleasing men. If they are not actively pleasing you they are not interested. It might be a bit anecdotal, but I used to be a barefoot extreme "feminist" who was smashing the patriarchy and knew that all men feared me. Well I am 22 now and have calmed down a lot. I am also in a relationship that has been going on for 4 years. I, on my own free will, decided to change. The change was not sudden, but more of a gradual shift throughout the years. I started taking…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 10:52 PM
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/r/NoPoo /r/Redditlaqueristas /r/Gardening /r/FoodPorn :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/14 07:17 PM
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I would prefer not to get perma-banned on accident before I've had a chance to understand what's going on...that happened to me in /r/feminism I am not surprised, haha. Those ladies tend to have a bit of the victim complex. Didn't you know by simply existing that you are contributing to rape culture? Sheesh. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 04:33 PM
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when I do hear from him he usually just chimes in at 3am Any texts or calls after 12 from a man you are not exclusive with indicates that you are a booty call/plate/whatever the current term may be. It sounds like he is rather RP if he is giving you plenty of attention and then cutting you off. There is a difference between being with a RP man and being in a RP relationship. Are you just seeing this gentleman or are ya'll serious?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 04:29 PM
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Well if there is an excess of 100+ lbs, how would she find her natural hip/waist ratio? If there is excess weight, maybe she should lose it before saying she has a definitive shape. Also, I need more information on this waist/hip ratio thing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 07:35 PM
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I did rush a bit into assumptions, but I doubt anyone who does a lot of cardio would be "apple shaped" unless they were older or recently had a child. Even then, there are things that you can do. The point is that she shouldn't just accept her current state, there is always room for improvement! :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 07:29 PM
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There is no changing my shape. It's not caused by any hormonal or health reason. My grandma had this shape and had 9 children. My blood tests always show my hormone levels are perfect. No no no, drop that mentality immediately. You need to eat small, healthy meals and do cardio 5x a week along with yoga, Pilates, or swimming. Exercise is supposed to be vigorous and you will sweat. Its good for you. Don't just "accept" the fact that you are currently "apple shaped" and there is nothing you can do…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 06:51 PM
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You most certainly do not have to talk about sex or be escalating us towards sex for us to be extremely interested in what you guys have to say...
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:14 AM
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Definitely. I didn't even belong to a circle! It was quite unfortunate. It sounds like those girls were slut-shaming you a bit. But some clevage? Or a tunic with leggings underneath? A bouncy skirt or pretty dress? Come on now. Haters gonna hate, they just wanted to bring you down. There is nothing wrong with showing off your assets within moderation - and they know that. Just like with anything in life, people judge you. Multiple sexual partners? Judged. Showing too much skin? Judged. Being lou…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 07:11 PM
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100+ sexual partners? That sounds like a great episode of Maury. I was talking more about those girls who sleep with about 20 guys before they are even 20. My friend's little sister defines it as a "quick fuck" that "doesn't mean anything" and "is completely normal" because "everyone does that in college". Girlfriend just turned 21, I fear for her safety. It's about morals, and these things tend to go hand in hand. Say a girl gets impregnated by one of the many other men she is sleeping with. In…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 06:54 PM
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Oh my goodness. So not only is it acceptable to be promiscuous without repercussions, it is now completely ok to lie? About something so serious as the father of your child? With a nice chunk of the population participating? What. The. Hell. Seriously, these ladies, women, females have absolutely no shame. Everyone has a limit. It is just so unfortunate to see the bar placed so low at times.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 07:21 AM
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"Crab mentality." Essentially, the average American woman is an overweight, loud, self-proclaimed feminist who believes that riding the carousel during her 20s instead of learning valuable life skills is important. Examples... 'Don't lose weight, you look great as you are!", "Real women have curves", "Another candy bar / skipping the gym today won't be that bad". If they can't lose weight, they don't want you to lose weight. They want to pull you back into the bucket. "You don't need to wear mak…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 11:40 PM
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You should take a visit over at /r/NoPoo. Since your hair is currently so short, the transition phase shouldn't be that bad. Also, just be patient. It will grow back! For the time being, you can try wearing some hats, bows, or headbands. Anything to add a bit of femininity. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/14 05:58 PM
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Your sexual history is a net positive for marriage, although it might cause guys who aren't looking for anything serious to steer clear of you. Which would actually be a good thing! Some guys aren't worth being bothered by, especially if you are not interested in flings and one night stands.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/14 01:44 AM
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I'm a little late to the party here, but this is fun! Everyone else had a really rad list! Cooking Baking Staying active and fit Cleaning Laundry [We] are learning to dance. Respect Cross stitch [Basic but improving] sewing skills Massages A partner in crime I always appear presentable I've learned how to play a few video games AND am actually quite good. Quilting Basic car care & home repair
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/14 07:07 PM
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Female here. Never go into /r/Feminism and expect a mature discussion. These ladies feel "oppressed" due to certain razors being colored pink.
/r/MensRights06/03/14 06:56 PM
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Personally, I feel that since she is an adult and this is a legal line of work, that she has the right to be an 'actress'. Young women and men should be more educated on the fact that they will be in the public eye and they may be identified by friends or possible future acquaintances. They should accept these consequences as a fact. She should not, however, be harassed simply because she is an adult actress. It really depends on what actually happened. There is her side, his side, and then the …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/14 08:55 PM
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Politically liberal atheist here. Not all southern women are RP, and not all RP women are necessarily southern fried and Christian. There is no mold or specific requirement in order to fit in. Being a RPW is simply how you carry yourself and handle yourself in various situations, knowing that there is a time and a place for everything, and acknowledging your man as captain of the ship while you, as the women, will take more of a "behind the scenes approach". RP relationships are that, relationsh…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/14 07:26 PM
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Don't worry too much about that, and be sure to drink a LOT of water. Your skin could be dehydrated. I know that "dark circles" run in my family as well, but their diet is terrible. The skin under everyone's eyes is always a little bit thinner and bags/wrinkles are inevitable. Drink a lot of water Brush on your makeup! Do not use a sponge, you pull your skin while applying concealer, foundation, etc. Eat healthy, more often than not. Use natural skin remedies such as a chilled cucumber slices & …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/14 10:13 PM
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I lost quite a bit of weight... I can confirm that instances like this are actually quite frequent. Perhaps not that extreme, and definitely not in a professional setting. It generally stems from larger family members or "short term" friends you may have met.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/14 07:21 PM
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This was a really nice read. I appreciate the fact that it mentioned while we do care about our looks and health, that southern belles are not afraid to eat, enjoy food, or cook with butter. It is all about moderation in every aspect of your life. Some may consider us prim and proper, but personally I find it better than the alternative. There is a time and place for everything, of course, and it is ok at times to let your hair down. It really just depends on who you are with and what the occasi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 08:34 PM
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"Why date one person when you can date five?" When you're 35 and hit the wall after years of great partying and sleeping around, and you have learned no other skills than promoting female promiscuity, blasting the patriarchy, and keg stands - we'll talk about this again. :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 09:47 AM
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Squats and crunches!! I've recently wanted to start talking some sort of dance class, so there is that too. This website is really cool. You don't have to want to become jacked, and as feminine woman, that goes without saying. But you can click and select which muscles you would like to workout and then there are different methods along with a TON of advice. :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 03:29 AM
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Lol! Oh my goodness. Well, welcome to "oppression" my friend. :p
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 04:32 PM
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"Don't judge a book by its cover" is something that low value men and women try to push. They want us to "see beyond their appearances". Look beyond my 50+lbs of excess fat, look beyond my inability to confidently speak in front of the room, and look beyond my muti-colored hair. Why would anyone do that? How you handle and treat yourself is a huge indicator as to what sort of relationship the two of us can have. To say I do not have the right to judge you is asinine - I am trying to survive here…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 01:19 AM
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Thanks for sharing this. There are varying degrees of how far into the 'culture' of RPW you get. Some of these ladies, to me, seem a bit more extreme on subjects I am more lax on, or vise versa! It is a personal preference that you and your SO can come to. Personally, my mother was (and still is) a die hard femi-Nazi. She doesn't need a man, doesn't want a man (yeah right), and truly feels that men are "afraid" of loud, obnoxious women. My mother went to school full time and then began working i…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:43 PM
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Being flirtatious and playful is always a great start. Make sure that your girlfriend knows that when her man comes home, she shouldn't be in sweat pants and a baggy shirt. She can spruce up her appearance a bit, flirt, be genuinely happy. When a man comes home from work, he just needs a few minutes to relax and absorb all that has happened. Its stressful, no doubt. She can cook him dinner (or have dinner ready), speak with him about whatever he wants to talk about, maybe he'll vent a little bit…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:25 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. I pop in-and-out depending on the day. Some days I am here nearly all day talking with you ladies and then I vanish for a week.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:19 AM
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"If you really are amazing, you don't have to use a bullhorn for others to recognize it." So true. If somebody is funny, they don't have to say that they are funny. If somebody is intelligent, it goes without saying. If somebody is confident, you can tell. Actions speak much louder than words.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:16 AM
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Aw, that is so sweet! It is so nice that you got to enjoy all of that extra time with your mother. I really regret the fact that I was almost always either home alone or in latch-key. When we did have "family time" it usually meant watching an hour of TV before bed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 01:00 PM
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"Yes, she is just a mother. Which is sort of like looking at the sky and saying, "hey, it's just the sun." How excellent. Too much societal pressures have made women believe that they have to have a career to be a successful woman and feed her children. People have genuinely forgotten what it is like being a stay at home mom! Even without children, I am constantly cleaning, running errands, cooking, etc. We take a "behind the scenes" approach... Sure, it's not directly in the spot light, but tha…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 08:38 AM
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" We don't blame the world and demand that everything around us changes to fit our needs. Instead we push ourselves to make a difference and become better women." So perfectly explained. Even if we aren't pushing our beliefs on to others, even if we're just explaining our side as to why we do something, they feel attacked. They have a huge victim complex, they're isolated both from men and women, and they're projecting their anger on to the world. We can only hope they settle down.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 05:21 AM
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Oh ok, I see. They like to make things a bit interesting for us!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 09:35 PM
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Why is this being downvoted so heavily? This was a great read.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 12:47 PM
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Wait, are we saying that women have been masculinized in photos? Now I am way lost.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 12:21 AM
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"Also, to be frank, men bitch less about the success of other men." So true. Men strive to be at the top of the mountain. If they fall short, they take their respective place. Women stop wherever they are on the mountain, claim it as the top, and argue with anyone who disagrees. Obviously not all women. Some of us like continuous self improvement. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 11:58 PM
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Well, sex sells. Id rather buy an exercise machine from a hot, buff man in comparison to the average overweight male.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 11:55 PM
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How is it unrealistic? Eat clean, workout, burn more than you consume.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:50 PM
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Very nice! If you like vintage, have you heard of ModCloth?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 06:19 AM
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Aw, so sorry that you had to experience that, Dana. As for Jewish moms, well, I've never met a Jew I didn't like! I even know that catchy song... 'dreidel dreidel dreidel, I've made you out of clay! dreidel dreidel dreidel, with the dreidel I shall play.'
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 02:31 AM
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It really depends on the type of woman who is asking the question "is he easy going?" back in my feminist years, this meant, 'can I easily beat him into submission?' Today, when I ask that, I am asking 'does he treat you right, keep a level head', etc. You know, is he easy going? If an adjective is not a term that you would use to describe your SO, explain to your friend the type of man he is. Select a positive trait and elaborate on that point. "You're going to be like him" - maybe that BP beta…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 01:07 AM
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I appreciate your opinion and agree! :) I see where I guess my anecdotal evidence got lost in the general rule - I kissed him on the cheek on the 3rd date, It was a very little quick, shy kiss. (I was shy... he thinks its adorable. xD) and we kiss-kissed on the fourth. Validation and proof of interest is definitely important. Edit: I was his Shipoopi.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 12:54 AM
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Lol! Keep it that way. There is no point in making your skin look like leather. I have to be outside, though. The fresh air and views are too pretty to keep me inside. Now I know why my nana wears a big, floppy hat!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 12:51 AM
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I would love to have children! I want a huge family. I was an only child until I was 20 years old and was raised by my feminist mother. Seeing my sister (2 years old) with little bows and cute dresses is just too much adorableness to handle. Her mother, my step mother, is truly a lovely woman with excellent social grace. My daughters will be little ladies. Ballet, table manners, shorts under the skirt! Do you have children, Dana?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 12:50 AM
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Hi there and welcome! First and foremost, get yourself together. That is going to be your priority at the moment. Continue with the (healthy) weight loss, exercise, and taking care of your body. Be sure to eat clean, drink plenty of water, and remain positive and happy. If you take pride in your appearance, men will notice. RP and BP men, weeding through those will be rather easy. Enjoy your life and find some hobbies you like to do. Learn a few skills, a new language, or ability. When men start…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 11:50 PM
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I thought I hit the jackpot with 'Wen'. It really improved my hair a LOT but it needs more assistance. Somebody just showed me /r/NoPoo (SFW... its about 'shampoo', ladies) and it looks very exciting and fun! Making your own shampoo? nifty!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 10:30 PM
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Hehe! Wendy, tsk tsk. You really should floss everyday. Its a hassle, but really, just do it. Getting gingivitis is not worth it and you'll pay just to hear your dentist tell you to floss more frequently.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 10:27 PM
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It is definitely not a coincidence. People in 'other' types of relationships tend to get comfortable, stop improving, and feel that they no longer need to care. In RP relationships, both parties are constantly working to keep each other interested and happy. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 10:13 PM
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Wow! Very neat. Thank you! I will be snooping around.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 09:27 PM
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No, Joan rivers looks.... not her best.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:44 PM
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You go girl! That is very untraditional, neat though! You're right, it is a conscious choice. Luckily for my man, and me, if he wanted to bring home a cute younger girl somewhere down the line, I would be open to it. We're a little on the, ahem, dark side?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:43 PM
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"My goal is to become one of those graceful, worldly women that everyone wants to be around. I want to be the type of woman whose presence is calming and creates an atmosphere of ease and comfort. Those women take care of themselves but don't spend hours pouring over fashion magazines on the latest fad or cream. These women are timeless and elegant. They offer good advice over a lovely cup of tea in well-maintained homes. These women add value to everyone's lives that they come in contact with. …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:39 PM
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Very true, I just didn't want to say that everyone who is 60 looks like garbage. Ive hooked a man and we have been together for the past 3 years. I just want to make sure I can continue to make him happy. We have discussed future plans, Ive learner that the wall is more for "all the single ladies".
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:36 PM
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Thank you, red. I appreciate this. I am a pale girl and do NOT tan. If we go to the beach, I have a long coverup (for mort of the trip), one piece, and SPF 350 (kidding, of course). My SO prefers me as white as possible, I agree, and I prefer him tan (Latino). I really should be drinking more water and less alcohol. For the past 2 weeks, we have been drinking mildly. Perhaps I should just order something non - alcoholic because I am convinced my skin is already suffering. Essentially, just keep …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:30 PM
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Oh wow! I love that link. Very nice, I didn't even know you could use whole foods like that. Clearly I need to re-do my bathroom cabinet and keep it as natural as possible. I dont know if I am ready to accept the wall. I just recently started being aware of it. My friend, who is about 20, turned to me and said "I'm getting old!" Then it hit me, we are getting old. I was like "I need RPW's advice immediately..." Hehe, the term "wife goggles" is so cute. Much better than hearing "those" women spea…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:22 PM
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Thank you for your response. You had some very great advice!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:17 PM
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Thank you very much! I felt like I had an expiration date for a while! It was kind of heartbreaking. It was like, there is nothing I can really do unless somebody invents a time machine. Anyway, polite company wouldn't ask a lady how old they are.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:11 PM
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Thanks Dana. So essentially just always keep improving. Which, obviously, even young women need to do. But even more so as you age. Balance.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:05 PM
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Thank you! Wife goggles! Oh my. We've discussed it before, children too, he just said he wants a bit more financial securtity. So these are all good signs, I assume. We are both very much into fitness and health, no worries there. Nobody wants to be with an angry fat broad.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:03 PM
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Not as many as Joan rivers. Hehe
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:00 PM
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Lol! Ok, I'm not alone...
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 07:59 PM
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I have - at least Christina didn't become fat and let herself go. She doesn't frown and isn't a negative, horrid, b!?%&. We know that we become old - everyone dies eventually. I just want to keep some femininity and keep my man happy. Thane the the advice on talking to dad, I do have real life experience. If necessary, I could find a stable job and live in a little apartment. It sounds really depressing, though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 07:58 PM
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Thank you. I think I have misunderstood said wall. I thought it was strictly an age thing. I can see where a single woman in her 30s is going to have a much harder time finding a man. I was worried about my man wanting to find somebody younger in a few years. We have been together for 3 years now, we are in our twenties, I just want to make sure I can always keep his interest.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 07:54 PM
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I can't avoid the wall. Freaking out about the wall will only give a lady stress lines! How do I approach it properly? Preferably with as little damage as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 10:41 AM
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I don't feel that you are really helping me out in this situation. I learned how to cook and bake. I lost 40lbs and have been working out and eating right ever since. I've learned 3 languages and take great care of my SO. My mother was a hard-core feminist who would stifle any feminine tendencies. I wanted to be in cheerleading and gym, she shoved me in soccer. Not that you can't be girly and play soccer, but this woman was an extreme. She didn't let me purchase feminine clothes and truly pushed…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 10:11 AM
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Well, I entered the girl-world a little late. I didn't even know what a straightener was until I was 15, if that gives you a bit of an idea. Nail polish? Literally, 1 year ago. I feel like I have wasted so much time and now it is just ... wasting away.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 09:59 AM
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absolutely not. A firm, but polite "No thank you" is fair and you don't come across as rude. You just nicely say you are not interested and hopefully he will move on.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:26 AM
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Preferably, personally, I would appreciate my man to make his presence known. Especially if I have already politely declined any conversation or contact in general. Men have many different methods of going about this, but generally, this is what would be considered appropriate. Nothing too challenging, unless necessary. There is no need to cause a scene. It also depends exactly on how creepy this guy is. If my polite decline, man, and moving away from said individual has not worked, grab the man…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 08:24 AM
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You're fine with straight, brown hair? Husband likes it? I see no issue. Perhaps the other ladies want you to shave off your hair and point your teeth as well? Because, you know, personality is the only thing that should matter. While you're at it be sure to wear this season's potato sack! There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to please your husband. :) He's happy, you're happy, everyone wins.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 05:58 AM
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Of course! Men are always welcome here. :-) If you like, you can check out /r/TheRedPill as well. It is a total "man zone" where no girls are allowed! Haha, but if you have any questions for us ladies, we'd love to be of assistance.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 05:55 AM
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Go the extra mile and they will notice! Keep up the good work. :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 05:15 PM
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Haha! I am so glad you brought this up, /u/nzcrazycat. I was curious about the general RPW mentality & cursing. Personally, my SO thinks it is hilarious when I drop the occasional "bitch", "fuck", or any other colorful word. I was even cautious to not use that language here because I was unsure of if it was appropriate here in the sub. Apparently, it is. There is a difference between using the word sparingly and appropriately and using it with every other word. "That fucking fuckhead fucking tol…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 06:51 AM
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Lol! I am still fairly new (to the sub, not the way of life) and haven't seen much 'foul language'. Now that I know it is tolerated here.. that girl isawhore!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 12:01 AM
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Well, you know, skanks are going to skank.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 09:13 PM
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Lol! Dana! I was not expecting this from you, ma'm. But I totally agree.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 09:12 PM
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Excellent goals, hun. If you're not bilingual, perhaps learning another language would be fun! Especially if you're going on holiday abroad. :) I Haven't gone shopping in 2 years. I still have all of my dirty hippie clothes, so I need to go shopping. Stat. New underwear. New, pretty underwear. Start cooking healthier foods more frequently. Improve my baking skills Save money! Get even sexier! More crunches, pushups, and squats. Sign up for the dance lessons I have been eyeballing for a while.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 09:03 PM
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Amen, sister.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 07:39 PM
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How am I an 'anti-feminist' If I support your decision to be the outspoken breadwinner? You're the one who is not offering me a choice. Anyway, I was an extreme feminist from the ages of 14-19. You'll learn that it is unnecessary to engage others in battle who don't even bother showing up to the fight. Men and women are hardwired differently, its nothing to be upset over. If you want to win the bread, go make that toast, girl! Just don't come over to RPW and be offened by our terminology. Most o…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 08:48 AM
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I would also like to add that I feel you are being a bit over-dramatic. The term 'Femi-Nazi' is a joke and your behavior currently furthers my belief in an outspoken, unnecessarily loud woman. I am terribly sorry that my words have "offended" you, but seriously, I am also german and bisexual with deep ties to Nazi-laden Germany. It is a part of history that many other individuals have to live with. You, by no means, are being persecuted today for your beliefs. Your actions would be condemned by …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 08:41 AM
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Feminism is something that should absolutely be considered a choice. If you want to be the breadwinner, RPW supports your decision. We don't care. The problem is that BP men and 'opposites of RPW', define that however you like, tend to ask questions such as "what does she do all day?" or "Why isn't she working?" It is a form of lifestyle shaming, but to be fair, RPW truly believes that a woman should be at home with her kids. To an extent, we are guilty as well. It is simply that feminists by to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 08:11 AM
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Samantha, I love you. Thank you so much for bringing this up! Before I readjusted my attitude, I would hang out in seedy bars alone while my man was at work. My mentality was that, well hell, I had a hard day at work and wanted a beer. What I experienced was less than desirable. I had to watch what I drank and make sure I left early and during a time I was relaxed but completely able to drive. I regret this decision and I made no 'bad mistakes' except going to the bar alone without, at the very …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 08:06 AM
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Feminism is really a term that is really debatable. I've learned that the general rule of thumb here in RPW is that 'feminism' stands for basic human rights, being able to vote, have a job, etc. What the opposites of RPW believe is that women in todays society are being oppressed because science has proven that females make better caretakers. Anyway, you raise legitimate and appropriate points. Men and women are biologically different, hardcore 'femi-nazis' do believe that what we are doing is '…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 07:07 AM
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Not a mod, fellow red pill woman here. :) I am 5'10" and my man is 5'5". Do not fret, many girls love short men! My SO also has absolutely no problems with me wearing heels, even if they place me at 6'0"-6'2".
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 12:42 AM
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Thanks for sharing this! I was wondering if any other RPW felt this way. "most people have their father's last names anyway, so their last name comes from a man to begin with..." Its like the lights are on but nobody is home when dealing with certain people. They are so dead set to fight against men even though they are, dare I say, "oppressed" since birth? ;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 09:34 PM
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I personally think that having a facebook is acceptable. Don't add random strangers and don't air your dirty laundry. Use facebook the way it was intended - staying connected with those family members six states over. :P
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 09:06 PM
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If they are your close friends and family, politely explain that you two have discussed different types of houses and what your desires are. Inform them of the fact that you trust your husband to make an excellent house selection and that you find it unnecessary to nit-pick every detail. Not every house is perfect, they all have their flaws. If they press the issue, tell them 'it is what it is' - with a smile, of course!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 08:50 PM
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Thank you~! Exactly, women have much more pressing issues than being considered 'as athletic' or 'as macho' as a man. If you seriously cared about women and our rights you would 1. Support whatever the woman wants to do. Be it being a housewife OR breadwinner. 2. Understand science. I mean, seriously? Sure, the female lion can rip the male lion a new one, but at the end of the day one is more suited for raising children and feeding the family while the other is more fitted for self defense and f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 06:52 AM
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Amen! "it also caused a huge ripple-effect that has damaged men and women alike." I completely agree. Lets say for example we have a, for lack of better terms, "blue pill woman" dating a "blue pill man". It is only a matter of time before one of the two becomes red piller. It's human nature and is a ticking clock. Either the guy will man up and stop dealing with his Femi-Nazi woman, or the woman will try to find a more alpha male. This can cause a lot of marital issues, obviously. Basically, fem…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 02:19 AM
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We aren't talking about personal relationships at this point. Feminism today is radical and completely unnecessary. This idea that women are oppressed is an illogical one. We are strictly talking about 'doing what you want'. We, as red pill women, understand that the femi-Nazis will continue their fight against the "evil" patriarchy. It is their right to do so. It is also our right to be RPW. That is what feminism is supposed to mean. Now, with the current definition of the word, RPW is absolute…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/14 11:36 PM
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Thanks for sharing this! If this is the definition of feminism, I completely agree. If a woman wants to work, let her work. If she wants to be a homemaker, more power to her. Honestly, there are far too many femi-Nazis.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/14 11:11 PM
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Well, career based too. There is a difference between being a dirty hippie and a feminist - I was both. Eish. "I think of feminism almost in the same way I think of unions. They were both important and necessary at one time, but are increasingly irrelevant today" Truer words have never been spoken. Back in the day, if a man left a woman high and dry she had absolutely no resources to aid her. Women needed to be able to work and have the right to vote (because hey, our votes don't count anyway, b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/14 10:54 PM
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If he insisted, just let him buy you the coffee. Sometimes, it isn't about RPW/RPM. It's just about being nice to strangers. sometimes. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/14 10:40 PM
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