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There is a point. My point is that this subreddit is becoming a joke. It started as a resource for useful info and became a place where people ask if their "eye contact is too strong". Is this some kind of joke? But you are right. There is no point in insulting.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:53 PM
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Dude are we overthinking eye contact now? wtf. Do you have any friends/acquaintances? How did you interacted with them until now? How they interact with each other? I understand when people come here to get help to pick up girls and to have general advice on women... but this? Are we really doing this? Are we counting the seconds between 2 blinks of the eyes? People look away because you're probably a weird dude who stare at them for no reason instead of focus on listening and be engaged in a co…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:53 PM
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As u/throwawayyourtvrhcp said, having a good role model to look up to is probably more important than give direct instructions on what to think and what to believe. I personally think that 18/20 years is a more appropriate age to start reading technical and philosophical stuff with some direct experiences under the belt. He needs to try stuff on his own first, the analysis come later. Ad the latin used to say: " primum vivere, deinde philosophari". "live first, then philosophize".
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:00 PM
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I was writing a poem but then I stopped and deleted it. Think what you want. At this point you are just arguing for the sake of it. If you want to talk specifically about your case I'm happy to have a conversation. I remain of the opinion that your problem is probably just a mental one, but I might be wrong, I never saw you in person.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:43 PM
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It's all in the head. When I was chubby I never tought of it as a limiting factor. I was happy and sociable and I had no problems making frinds and getting laid. Things started to go downhill for me when I became self-conscious. There's a thin line between the self improvement you do for yourself and the one you do to impress others. The first kind leads you to some sort of happiness and satisfaction, the second kind never ends and keeps bringing you down. The problem with trying to hard to be l…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:42 PM
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"you are 25 years old and virgin and you are willing to wait another 3-4 years to get laid? That's just insane." Why? Because making a 3-4 years plan to solve a non existent problem it's insane. Also because 3-4 years of lifting won't help you getting laid. So you are making a 3-4 years plan that is completely useless if your only objective is to get laid. (you still should go to the gym or practice a sport for a bunch of other good reasons). Being rich and having status also helps. I have neith…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:11 PM
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Dude, not to be rude, but you are 25 years old and virgin and you are willing to wait another 3-4 years to get laid? That's just insane. Lifting is good for you, taking care of your body is good for you, but you don't need to be fit to get laid. Getting ripped is infact the last thing you need to get lad, it's just the frosting on the cake. If you think you need to wait to get fit to fuck a girl you have a serious self esteem issue. Let me tell you someting: I'm 1.85m just like you and in my twe…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:45 AM
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I find your question confusing, then again I find most of the stuff on this subreddit confusing. I think there's a difference between being an alpha male and being a good womanizer, though being an alpha male often leads to be desired by women. An alpha male can exist only in a social group and can only be defined as such by comparison with other males by definition. There can be no alpha male if there's no other males to compare him to. That's why I think that team sports represent a privileged…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 12:45 AM
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I don't know if it's of any interest to you since it's not kidney related, it's just another element to take into consideration: http://examine.com/faq/does-creatine-cause-baldness/ TL;DR of the article: DHT cause hair loss (if you are genetically predisposed to hair loss) , A study linked creatine to raising level of DHT. My experience: I used creatine last winter and my hair has significally thinned. There's no conclusive evidence and even in my personal experience hair loss might have been re…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 01:01 AM
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live and let die, bro. You have nothing to gain from revenge. Also you have nothing to avenge in my opinion. You got laid, the relationship failed because she was already with another dude. Nothing to be mad about. Next time be more careful and try to read the signs: I can't believe that this girl you liked for THREE years already had a boyfriend and you didn't figure it out. You can't get revenge just because a girl doesn't like you anymore and prefers another dude. She was dishonest and sooner…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:12 PM
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Study! Get a degree, and while you are there get a usefull one. Fuck more! Those LTR are fine but they are not important as you think. Know more people. Why the fuck you feel so old, why the fuck you feel like you have no time to embark on a bigger project?!?! you are fucking 25, you have all the time. Stop drinking, stop smoking, stop going at the same bar every night with the same bitter losers. I'm 33 though.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:56 AM
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thanks. I guess I can easily try most of the the things you suggested. except for the sex and the combat sport.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 03:11 AM
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as I said above. I do cardio 45' 2 times a week, plus some random pushups/squats/row/bicep curl. All at home. I sleep 8 hours but I sleep mostly during the day so I can avoid people. I work 6pm/1am. I eat shit and I drink too much. Sex? what is it?
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:08 AM
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I take a bunch of vitamins. I do 45' cardio a couple times a week. I don't lift, I do some squats and some bicep curls with a couple kettlebells, some pushups. I eat garbage, I drink too much, I have problems sleeping. I try to correct those bad habits but I don't have any motivation. Nothing is going on in my life, just a shitty job, so I have nothing to fight for...
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:05 AM
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Are you quoting random dudes on a subreddit as source for a research paper?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:07 PM
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i think that the same applies to any male rockstar. Isn't it frustrating that mick jagger fucked thousands of chicks? Come on dude... You take the good looking and young local singer as representative of ALL women. Go ask the landwhale who works as a chashier at wallmart if she gets free stuff... The local singer got some cocks, whatever... Give her 10 years and she will be a fucking housewife with an abusive and jealous husband... Nothing is free. EVER
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:07 AM
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I don't understand what are you looking for. I mean.. It seams like you know what your problems are, you wrote a precise list. There's no need for you to get "some sense knoked into you", you just need to start and take actions in that direction. Nobody can do your homework for you.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:44 AM
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I know you want to believe she's the one, but as you said: "once a cheater always a cheater". And you know why? because once you passed that moral line (loyalty) you are broken forever. She already warned you that she's a cheater. Don't get yourself hurt. Don't make her the pivoting point of your life. Have fun, go out with the lady, but wait before investing emotionally on this girl. I'm just trying to say to you to take your time to carefully judge this woman before investing too much on her.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 04:22 AM
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Dude, wtf are you doing here? See the comment below: "lift". That's the kind of help you can get from this community. If you are so gifted you just need get started and go to college or university or whatever the fuck you have in the usa or where er you live. You talk about masculinity when that's the last of your problems. You are fucking depressed. Get some real help. Maybe "lift" isn't a stupid suggestion after all...
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:28 AM
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you need medical attention. If it's a role model you need you won't find it on reddit.com. Seems like you are already the best at everything, it's everybody else's fault because they are not good enough as role models. Come on.... 2 things bro: 1) get help for your depression asap. 2) maybe you are not so special and you need to make a little effort in order to do something with your life mister "I started to read greek classics at around 2".
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:46 AM
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I don't undestand... Why don't you just stop sharing your personal life with your family? I mean, who told your sister you were interested in that girl? When you say that "my older sister got me to tell her who I was bringing home" what do you mean by that? My sisters always ask if I'm dating someone and who am I dating, I never responded to those questions, and my sisters are respectful, I have nothing to complain about them. It's just none of their business. I don't talk about my sexual life w…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:36 AM
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Every person is different, everyone has different problems. Plus I'm not a doctor. In my experience meds can numb you for a while, but if you do not solve the situation that caused the problem in the first place the problem is still there, ready to come back once you quit meds. That was my experience with depression/anxiety. The behavioural and thinking patterns are those that need to be changed, and no medication can do that alone.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:09 PM
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Well, in where I live, psychotherapists usually don't/can't prescribe meds and psychiatrists do nothing but giving you meds. That's also apply to where I live, so you just get a psychiatrist and a psychotherapist to work togheter on your case. It's not uncommon. I've been under medications and I used to go to psychoterapy too. In my experience meds tend to numb you and psychotherapy only works for certain kinds of people (you need to be open and invested in the therapy, not my case). My suggesti…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:05 PM
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It's hard at my age and with my curriculum to get another job. I also need to choose: shitty pizza job and shitty med school without a future or a leap of faith and try to get another job (shitty pizza is a night job so I can study and attend lessons in the morning), quit med school and get a life...
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:28 AM
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Yeah, I know that a bunch of internet dudes can't do shit but I'm in a situation... in italian we say "essere alla canna del gas": to be at the "gas hose".. About to kill oneself. Sometimes it's just to much, I can't even tell my closest friends. I don't know if you have ever been in that place that you are so deep in the shit that you can't even relate. Your old friend come and you don't even know what to tell him. He sees you like the glorious dude you used to be that you can't even begin to t…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:25 AM
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why are you doing this? Why are you trolling like this? I mean. do you have cancer? so why are you paying taxes for cancer patients? why people who does't have a driving licence pay taxes for road maintenance? why people who works pay taxes for public education? Why do you ask such a stupid and backhanded question about beta males?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:15 AM
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do you know how taxes work?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:36 PM
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Beacuse you keep thinking about her. You still have strong feelings for this girl. I had similar experiences. You need to let it go.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:23 PM
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Every relationship and every woman is unique so you might be making the mistake of thinking that what you lost was something precious. At least that is the mistake I make every time a relationship ends. The fact is that EVERY woman is unique means that NO woman is unique. There's no special value in a quality that every human being has (i.e. uniqueness). I'm just trying to say that you shouldn't be heart broken because you didn't lose anything special. Your ex understands this and shes going aft…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:50 PM
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Why do you even answer to this kind of questions?!?
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:42 AM
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It doesn't matter if you can get to be in the top 10% alpha bro pussy destroyer, probably you will not be in the top 10%. only 10% of the population can be in the 10% so there's a 90% prob that you are not. AND IT DOESN'T MATTER Dude the race is long and it's only with yourself. Be the best version of yourself you can achieve. You'll never be 6'5, you'll never have a 8'' cock. Focus on what can be improved, focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 03:08 AM
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I bet knowing that you have the biggest dick in the room at any given time it's a huge confidence boost. It's like living life in "easy mode". I'm a huge fan of Zappa, I mean huge fan. The dude is a genius but probably 98% of his genius is being cocky, which is easy when you have a huge dick.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 01:23 AM
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lvl 30 fag
/r/askTRP20/12/15 01:44 AM
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Dude. No one is judging. There is a simple fact. You are allowing your wife to get fucked by other men. That is what you have said to us. No one is twisting your words or judging. You are allowing your wife to get fucked by other men. The fact that you have a low sex drive is no surprise and is both the cause and the consequence of this fact: Your wife is fucking other men. She is intimate with other men. She go to other men's houses, she bend over and take other mens cock in her vagina. She moa…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:51 PM
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I think you shouldn't interfere with other people's lovelife. This girl may be a slut but you don't know what's going on in other people's life, you can't be the judge of that. Let the dude find out for himself. Your role as a friend is to be there to help him get back on his feet if and when this whore cheats on him. Disrespecting and insulting the object of his desire and love at this moment will only bring to the end of your friendship. Even when said whore and your buddy will split up I sugg…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:30 PM
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If she disrespect you in front of other coworkers just tell her "yes, dude x is way better than me, why don't you ask him out? give it a shot, I think he's not engaged at the moment". Then savor the awkwardness when everybody in the room will think that she's ugly as fuck and she has no chance but no one will say a thing. Point the attention to the fact that she's an ugly cunt without saying it.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:47 PM
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I know people here are obsessed with social status, lift, fuck and all that shit but in this particular case I think you have to look at the problem from a different perspective. First of all in a work enviroment the alpha is the boss of the company. Like in the army, you can't act cocky with your superior, because it's your fucking superior. He can be a little fat man, he can be a woman, whatever, it's your boss and you have to respect that. I don't understand what are you trying to accomplish …
/r/askTRP11/12/15 01:50 PM
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WOT?
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:54 AM
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Tanks for the link. Still, I never met a 25 yo virgin, so it's kinda useless. I don't know where you or OP lives, maybe in your society/religion virginity is a strong value so you are more likely to find a virgin woman in her mid 20s.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 03:36 PM
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I'm not trying to push my standards to anyone. I'm just being realistic... Did you ever met a 25 years old virgin? A decent looking one i mean... Not a landwhale or something like that. I never met a decent looking 25 yo virgin in my life. It's perfectly fine to want a virgin for a committed relationship, in fact, it's statistically proven it's better. Please can you provide a link with said statistics? Or is just made up bullshit?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 02:59 PM
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Dude, how can a woman marry/love a guy knowing he plowed dozens of other chicks? You have to get this image out of your head, it's just insane. Get laid, get a gf if you like to, just stop overthinking. Everybody has a past, men and women. Just avoid Those super-sluts with triple digit sexual partners. A 25 yo girl who slept with less than 6-8 guys is wife material nowdays. You just need to experience more, have more partners, and realize that there's nothing disgusting about it as long as it's …
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:51 AM
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That's pretty much the definition of alcoholism. If you feel uncomfortable without having drinks trhoughout the day this is a serious problem. I suggest you to quit immediatly this devastating habit before it ruins your life. It doesn't matter if you just drink a couple shots a day, what is really alarming here is the fact that you do so in order to feel normal/capable of having satisfactory interaction with other people. This video explains my point of view: https://www.ted.com/talks/johann_har…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 11:30 PM
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Dude it's a simple rule, every society works in ranks. Dogs, chickens, cats, whales, humans... All of them. wherever there is a group of interacting individuals ranks are established. If a person disrespect you like that it means that he/she perceive you as a lower rank individual. Women tend to be emotional, so that explains the crazy bitch behaviour. Maybe dudes disrespect you in a more subtle way, but it's the same thing. Basically you sorrounded yourself of women who doesn't see you as a man…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:10 PM
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You already got lots of good advice but I don't think they are going to work. The problem with many people and most of all people in this subreddit is that they see life as a challenge. They will tell you that you need to lift, improve, unistall WoW, go to a club and talk to random people. Those are good advice but the problem is that you can't go to a club and talk to random strangers if you are a introvert person. You will never find the strenght to do something that is contrary to your nature…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:19 PM
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I can relate. Anyone on this planet can relate. Sex, study, work, sports, having fun, you can always do more, you can always be better. Since we can't go back in time, using the present thinking about those things it's only a waste of time. Every person on this planet have some regrets. If this kind of thoughts keep popping in you head maybe it's because you are not happy with your life NOW. I had my first GF at 21. I used to thik about all the time and the opportunities that I've lost. If you a…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:56 PM
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I'm not a RP expert, I have no game experience. I can't give you advice. The only thing that I can tell you based on my personal experiences is that it takes a very long time before a person changes opinion towards you, once they are used to see you in a certain way. This engaged girl is accustomed to see you as a beta orbiter. I don't know how much this girl is attracted to you physically or how strong is her relationship with her current bf, so I can't give you any good advice. You basically h…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:35 PM
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I don't have enough data to express a valid opinion but I think she sees you like one of her plates/emotional tampons. You started a self improvement journey and she sees that as a threat because she know she's loosing on of her toys. Her boyfriend is her favourite toy, you are just one of many toys she has. But like every child if you take one of their toys away they will focus their attention to the one you took away from them. Your sexual value is ZERO to her. Shes banging another dude (or ot…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:52 AM
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I can somewhat relate with your situation, with some differences... Like you I'm addicted to the quick gratification videogames can give; Like you I have a shitty job; Like you I live with my dad (my mother died). I have some friends but I don't hang out with them very much, maybe once or twice a month, sometimes more, sometimes less. If you need to build (or rebuild) your life, you need to start from the foundation: from what I understand you have a money problem (among the others). Well, in th…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:58 AM
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I feel like I'm finally getting to a place where I'm so flustered and frustrated that I'm going to just start acting. I've gone through this. You won't start acting if you don't do it today. You'll get frustrated more and more, you'll begin to "not giving a shit", and flatline from there. This is my experience. Broke up with LTR four years ago, I don't give a shit anyomre, this winter HAd sex multiple times with a girl, not giving a shit because I'm frustrated and bitter. Alone again, I don't gi…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:01 AM
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Those things are achievable for a small percentage of the world population, usually by the people who don't care about 'em. You are so low on the social ladder that you fantasize only about the accessories of a succesfull life without noticing the core values of it. You only see the "shiny rewads" things while you are totally oblivious of all the complexity and the daily struggle that those rewards takes. It seems like you don't understand the amount of work needed to achieve the life standars y…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 02:09 AM
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Get some order in your mind. You are not guilty of anything. You just want the pussy back. Divide the two concept in your brain. You did nothing wrong, you miss the pussy. Two separate things. Shes a whore. what if she was your wife? Guilt about waht? You miss your relationship. all those bad feelings are there because she is a bad, cheating whore. She's a black hole, draining your energy for a bit and her husband energy for a lifetime. Escape velocity dude. You need to reach escape velocity.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:51 AM
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I'm not the strong male role you deserve but I'm the BP loser you need. I had 2 LTR in my life. Four years each, overlapped for six months. Take a moment to appreciate my neediness. I don't know you, I don''t know your GF. I'g your GF is in the bisexual spectrum maybe you are all right, but when your GF pushes you to have sex with another woman it seems to me that she's just being pitiful in your regards. Let's say I'm a girl engaged with some extra-fine alpha cock: would I encourage him to fuck…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:44 AM
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Never give anyone the opportunity to put a label on you. I never talk about politics, religion, sex, or any topic that could give my interlocutor the opportunity to define me, to put a label on me. I talk openly about anything only on the internet (not a real interacion) or with close friends in real life.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:22 AM
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It seems to me that she's seeking validation. Maybe she's bored, or her alpha bf just dumped her, and she needs to feel important and accepted. So, in order to get that validation she wrote you and you gave her the validation she needed. It happens to me a lot. Sometimes random girls sends me txt, I answer (because I still think that being polite is what I'm supposed to be, and that's plain stupid) and they never text back. Those girls just need to feel important and/or accepted. Once you gave t…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:14 AM
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When you look at all your plroblems at once being paralyzed is inevitable. If you start tinking that you are getting older + you are overweight + you can't afford nice clothes + you are ugly + you are a 30 yo student + you don't know if you can perform sexually... dude, you will be buried by your own problems. You need to divide and conquer. You now have a low SMV that is the sum of all kinds of flaws. What to do about it? 1) Lose weight. Run and lift. A year from now bwing overweight won't be a…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:32 PM
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And my answer to your concern is: No one can ever be trusted. The point is: don't put yourself in such position that your well being and your happines are in the hands of a single person. Be proactive, get to know a lot of people. Spread your interests. You can't really trust anyone. Except family maybe. I'm not saying that she's a slut and she's going to cheat on you for sure. Maybe this girl is the most loyal person ever. I'm saying: who cares? Her loyality shouldn't even be a problem for you.…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:43 AM
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someone who is left with little ability and willpower to change himself for better That's not even red pill dude... that's life. If you can't fight you're dead. If you can't improve that means you are going down. TRP has nothing to do with it. If you don't feel comfortable with a particular set of ideas just don't embrace it. It's not gospel, it's not the truth, it's just an angle. It's the reality of things as seen from a particular angle. If you think that a couple thousands guys from the inte…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 01:07 AM
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There's a specific number I can throw up to give you some relief? <3 is ok, >5 is slutty? What's the nature of your doubt? if you ask me 9 sexual partners @ 21 years of age seems a lot. But that's not relevant at all. Do you want an innocent girl? A virgin maybe? So when you open her up she goes berserk to make up for all the time lost? In my experience the number of sexual partners of a girl doens't relate to her loyalty. In fact I believe the opposite: when people don't get laid enough they te…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 12:57 AM
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thanks for the support, I appreciate it. Sometimes I just need to vent.. These last years have been quite difficult. I started my life over and that's a lot of work to do. Often I don't see the results I hoped for, and when I find myself having the same obsessive thoughts I had for the last 15 years I just lose my shit...
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:52 PM
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Amen. The fact is that I never been rejected or stuff like that, I know it's all in my head, except for my penis... but at this point I think that in my head too.. I'm losing focus. Sometimes I think about my inferiority and the thought get stuck in my head, I just feel like shit and I need to vent somewhere. I'll never be the man I'd liked to be and sometime this thought becomes unbearable..
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:43 PM
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Nice video. Yes, I do watch porn ande I'm sure it's messing with my mind. I tried no fap, lasted a week or so. I guess I'll try again. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:36 PM
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I can't make this step. I know how this is supposed to work but I always put myself below women... or put them on a pedestal I guess. I know in my mind.. I can rationalize what you are trying to say: I should take what's "mine", what I want or what I deserve and say "fuck it" to all the rest. I know it in theory but I feel like I'm sill seeing women like creatures I have to serve and satisfy and my ability to do so determines my value as a man. At least this is part of the problem I guess. Yeste…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:30 PM
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Thanks man. I know I need to focus on the things I can change, but I will always be a betafag by genetics. I mean, swallow the red pill is a joke compared to accepting the fact that I will never have the tools to dominate a woman. Whatever. I need to focus. I need so much fucking focus right now to avoid things like. I just need someone to talk to. Thanks
/r/askTRP11/08/15 01:51 AM
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You always here that you want the sweet, innocent girl. And then not a post later they are talking about pumping and dumping chicks. Either is good, but it's that dichotomy I was pointing out. And don't you think it's a little bit delusional and childish? I think we should stay with our feet on the ground and look at the reality for what it is. Only a blue pill man could be so naive and deluded to want his girl to be innocent and pure and at the same time be a slut, but only with him. that's a n…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:45 PM
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Nowhere in the TRP dogma does it say "don't have children", "die alone", or "live your life like it's a collection of one night stands". That the image you projected onto with your lack of knowledge. I can literally copy and paste at least a thousand comments that says "guys!! Don't get married!" Don't have children!!" Every other posts there's a comment like this. If they are not comments of butthurt people I don't know what they are... I totally agree with you on the fact that this sub is a ki…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:34 PM
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I can fuckingrelateman I have to admit I love to read this kind of posts, for me it's like whatching my life through a crime tv show dramatization. I've never been with a single mom, but I've gone through a lot of the shit you wrote about. Let me tell you something before I begin: I'm kinda drunk right now and me can't english good. 1) Please, have some respect for yourself and forget about this person. Usually I don't like when people in this sub resort to "dump that bitch" as a primary tool to…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:14 AM
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You are more rp than I am probably. I'm just trying to be rational. I'm happy to know that you understand your own value and necessity and decided to dump this girl because she didn't give you what you want. Most people here speak and act out of fear. Half the posts you read on TRP are just rants whit the sole purpose of inciting irrational hatred against women. I agree to the fact that women will be women, but I see no point in being so bitter when you get cheated on. I've been trough bitternes…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:13 PM
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I didn't say that I don't agree, I said I don't NECESSARILY agree. I don't know you nor this girl, I don't know a lot of details. In this subreddit the only solution to any relational problem is "dumping the whore". That is a good advice sometimes, sometimes it isn't. Did she cheated on you? Are you going to dump every girl that speak to or look in the general direction of other guys? Because thats what a lot of guys around here tend to suggest... At the smallest clue of a remotely possible betr…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 11:58 PM
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Good for you. I still can't understand why would you fuck your friends girl. I Think the only reasonable thing to do as a friend is talk about it with the dude, explaining him why you don't like his gf. Period. What kind of friend fucks your girlfriend? Come on!
/r/askTRP02/08/15 11:48 PM
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What a friend you are! I'm 90% sure you are trolling but I'm naive so I can't really tell... Why do you want to ruin tour friendship? I mean, if you are right and this girl is a whore, your friend is going to leave her eventually. Your role as a friend is to help this guy WHEN He'll get dumped by this whore (or dump her), not to interfere in his life and get between him and his woman. I mean.... I'm pretty sure you are trolling me, I can't belive you call yourself a good friend of this person wh…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 11:06 PM
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What do you mean? What do you need to say? You already made your decision to dump her, and I don't necessarily agree with your decision.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 10:58 PM
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Do you enjoy the company of this woman in particular? If so I don't see nothing to worry about here. Enjoy your live and enjoy this relationship for what it's worth. If it turns out that she's cheating on you dump her and start over. Don't give so much importance to what other people do. It's your life. You have your life, she has her life. You two happened to get together for a period of time, enjoy it. The fact that you are concerned about your gf secondary instagram account tells me that you …
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:15 PM
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Do you think you will ever be able to keep a girl from cheating on you? Do you think you will ever be able not to cheat on your woman? Dude, just live in an abundance mentality (and possibly an abundance reality). You are here asking us what do we think of your private life, when your girl is enjoying life. Learn from your girl: start living your life. You are here because your woman has 1000+ cocks lined up for her while you have only her. you are totally depending on this particular girl ehile…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 02:38 AM
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We want a feminine virgin that fucks like a freak. That's what you want, not me. We aren't on TRP looking to use our sexual strategy to pursue men, so why would we care about AMALT? We shouldn't. I was trying to say that a lot of posts here are only a rant from butthurt betafags. When you conceive a principle such as "AWALT" that can only mean that you are so butthurt that you have lost every bit of rational thinking to the point that you have to resort to such a groos generalization. My gf fuck…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:16 AM
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Sometimes I feel like this sub is full of loosers. It's not even a feeling, it's a reality. A succesfull man, an alpha male, doesn't even know what reddit is probably. The gist of my post was to underline the pathetic nature of the TRP reader (I put myself at the first place in this category). Too often I read posts that are nothing but a rant, written by butthurt guys. When I read AWALT!!! in a post I feel sick to my stomach, because I only see a betafag ranting... AWALT guys! AWALT! AWALT your…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:05 AM
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I think a gym is the only option for two reasons: First of all at the gym you are (more or less) forced to do your program, therefore results are pretty much guaranteed. I did one year at the gym and I lost 20 kg, I'm not even kidding. 20 kg. Then I quit for lack of time and I continued working out at home. The problem is that if you don't have time to go to the gym you probably won't work out at home either. I never had a 90 min workout at home. that said I had a decent success mantaing the gai…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:46 PM
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lel
/r/askTRP15/07/15 11:34 PM
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thanks for the input. Sometimes you need to see your problems from a different perspective in order to see more clearly how to solve them. That's why I post here.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:11 PM
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I don't know. I am a straightforward person. I always feel the need to be 100% honest, I always speak my mind without further calculations. I'm not really a RP dude I guess. If you like to read the sidebar I guess you can tell I'm a straight talker.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:07 PM
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The only thing bothering me is that I know this girl since we were 15. I can't just disappear. I live in the same neighborhood, I'll se her every week, like it or not. I was wondering how to properly close this thing, since I feel that just ignoring her is kinda childish. By ignoring her I feel like I'm saying "look, I don't know how to deal with this situation, so I'll just pretend you don't exist". That is not a mature behavior. We hang out in the same places, we have friends in common. I want…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 10:11 PM
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more like r/offmychest
/r/askTRP13/07/15 09:03 PM
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You would pursue a serious relationship with a girl who makes out with random (non-partner) guys in a club? That doesn't leave us with many choices...
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:47 PM
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I appreciate any feedback I can get. I'm already lifting, trying to get my life togheter after years of alcohol and depression. I also read the sidebar, and I found some useful information. That said I don't think that the sidebar contains the secret of a happy life, and it doesn't help me being less shy or awkward with women or people in general.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:38 PM
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I was like you. I lived my 20's basically doing what you are doing now. Maybe you will be happy and satisfied playing lol and jacking off your entire life, maybe not. The problem, how I see it, is really simple: You want to have a choice. You need to have choices. Living like that, I can assure you, will become more and more claustrophobic as you let go all the opportunities life gives you one at a time, just beacuse you are more confortable playing LoL and jacking of. What if you suddenly reali…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:30 PM
1

I wish I could. My social skills are non existent. I never meet new people, I just can't bring myself to talk to people. I usually fuck women that openly ask me to fuck'em. In 30 years it happened ten times maybe..
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:56 PM
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If you can't see the simple fact that A fertile woman is more valuable than a fertile man in terms of conservation I don't know what to tell you. Just go ask any animal breeder. I don't even know why it bothers you so much. Why you have all this hate against women anyway? Women get more nice things than men? so? What's the point? Why call women "lazy parasite"? Your gf left you?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:06 PM
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of course you are smarter than 3 billion years of evolution. Who said the contrary? I was talking about biology, I never mentioned evolution. Biology. you know. Men have a penis, women have a vagina. Listen: If you have 100 men and 1 woman how many human beings do you have after 9 months? And if you have 100 women and 1 man how many human beings do you have after 9 months? I'll do the math for you, evolution guy: 100 man 1 woman + 9 months = 102 100 women 1 man + 9 months = 201 who's more import…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:23 PM
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I'm failing to understand why this should be interesting news. It's important to be aware of this, since you might be doing it to your own kids (if you have any) And you should do it. Females are more precious than males. It's biology. Why should humans be extempt from biology rules?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:05 PM
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This actually makes sense. I'm always concerned about the others, in any aspect of life. I need to change that.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:36 PM
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And as I said self improvement is the best part of TRP theories in my opinion. And that's why I'm frustrated, because there are things you can't improve.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:34 PM
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small enough. Plenty long but skinny. I just can't fill a hole.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:32 PM
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I worry about it because getting laid is the ultimate goal of every human activity. Everything you do, you do it for getting laid. And having problems with your cock is a major bottleneck in the "getting laid" process.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:25 PM
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Dude I don't know. Learn what? I had my relationships, I fucked enough, and to some extent I enjoied it. But there always been this thought deep inside... I don't know. At a certain point it became impossible to me to fuck a girl and mantain a straight face. It's like I'm faking it. I try to do my job but I just feel small. I don't know what to tell you.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:22 PM
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Thanks for the reply, I appreciate it, but I have numbers on my side. I know my place in the gaussian distribution of cocks, and that's no psychology
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:49 AM
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30 Italy. Grower or shower doesn't mean anything to me. The only thing that matters is girth when you go in, that's it. I've never had negative feedback from a woman but something clicked in my head and now I am unable to enjoy sex. BTW I am really sub par, I'm not like those guys who whine about having a small dick and then it turns out they are hung. I'm skinny. that's it. Let me add something: When I fuck a girl I just FEEL that I'm not filling the hole. I'm just in there... I feel useless. Y…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:19 AM
1

I'm not a troll, but I can't prove it to you so you are free to think what you want. My statement is pretty simple, I don't know how to phrase it in any simpler. If a woman can get laid easily she still has to get laid to a man. So what I'm telling you is that if a woman get sex easily then there has to be a man who get to fuck her, and for that man getting to fuck her has to be as easy. I work in a restaurant kitchen and the male waiters fucks different women EVERY weekend. Getting laid is easy…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 12:39 PM
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I mean, just this phrase: sex is orders of magnitude easier to obtain for women than it is with men. WTF does it mean? Male and female population is 1:1 ratio. Do you understand that this is pure bullshit? Men and female obtain sex at the exact same rate.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 11:15 AM
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Come on dude... OP says women fucks more than men.... really? Who are they fucking? Aliens? OP is delusional
/r/askTRP25/06/15 11:08 AM
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Women and man fuck exactly the same amount. In order to fuck you need a man and a woman. Saying that women have more access to sex its just stupid. Who they fuck? the air? A ghost? They fuck men! And it is a 1:1 ratio if we exclude homosexual men and women. sex is orders of magnitude easier to obtain for women than it is with men. Do you understand that women fucks men, right? If a woman has sex that means a man has sex. You can't say they got it easier because they still have to fuck a man. And…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:07 AM
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Oh I'm not in a relationship anymore. Single for the last three years, I was talking about the past but I'm lazy and can't english. I used to love this girl, then this other girl wanted to fuck. I like to fuck. I fucked that other girl but I didn't want to lose the security of a stable relationship. My gf was my beta buck, where the "buck" is emotional support and stability instead of money and stuff. I mean, the world is full of male cheater, I think you can understand why a man fucks random ch…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 08:35 PM
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If I go and fuck 333 women, it does not damage my ability to become a loyal husband and good father. There is no biological neural definite link between the physical and the emotional. A girl can go and fuck 33 men, and her ability to pair bond will be damaged since there is no divide between the emotional and the physical. feels is reals. I don't feel this is unfair or sexist at all. I just don't undestrand how that applies to my question. Two people decide to fuck and accept the consequences. …
/r/askTRP24/06/15 07:29 PM
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Of course we talk about women because they are the object of our interest, but you dont say "all people are like that and women, the object of our interest, in particular", you say that women, and not man, are like that. I don't think it's so hard to exchange place with the girl from the "cum sheets" post, I think that most man wouldn't turn down a good fuck no matter what, engaged or not. So my question here is: "does TRP has "loyalty to your SO" as one of its core values or what? Why can't the…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 07:08 PM
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Wait a minute. If I cheat on my GF I would never admit it. I know I love my GF, the sex on the side "just happens". women will tell you (and the whole world) with their dying breath that they didn't/don't/couldn't POSSIBLY think of ever cheating and the autopsy will show Chad's fresh cum in their stomachs... No shit. Would you admit cheating on your SO to anybody (except your closest friends)? Sorry, I really don't get what you're trying to say.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 06:49 PM
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ok but then why TRP always focus on women (awalt, hamstering, hypergamy etc...) when at the end of the day cheating and fucking random people is not a gender specific behaviour?
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:41 PM
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If you feel that is the right thing to do You have all my respect but many guys, me included, are used to fuck some girls even if in a relationship. So do you agree to the fact that what this woman do, her hypergamous behaviour, is common for women AND man alike?
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:38 PM
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Am I preaching morality? How so? I don't see any morality in my post, I just said i don't understand why TRP theories underline difference between man and woman when those difference some Times (just some Times) aren't even there. And saying that the difference between men and women is that "majority of man wouldn't leave cum stained sheets" is just a weak argument in my opinion. I still don't see the difference between this girl and most men.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:33 PM
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WHYYY?!?!?!
/r/askTRP24/06/15 12:21 PM
1

I still think TRP oversimplify things. I'm not saying that TRP theory is wrong, but there are a lot of grey areas. It's like using Newton laws to describe the universe: it's not wrong, you just miss a lot of nuances..
/r/askTRP19/06/15 06:52 PM
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I understand what are you trying to say, but then again this is whole different topic. For me a big dick is a desirable attribute, like being ripped, or have money/power. Is it indispensable to get laid? of course not. But it's still desirable for a man to have and for a woman to get. But this whole cock thing is just a body image issue I guess. I always joke with a friend of mine about the fact that he envies my hair (he's bald) and I envy his full beard because my beard is a joke. Sometimes pe…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 06:47 PM
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Again, I think those are generalisations. At least in part.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 06:36 PM
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I have no problems with sex. I mean: I have no problem pleasing a woman. Sex is one of the very few thigs my ex-gfs miss about me. Or at least that's what they say...
/r/askTRP19/06/15 06:34 PM
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lol at the edit. I think you painted a very precise picture of my situation. I am Indeed bitter and depressed. In fact I have no problem at all with this girl, I understand why she does the things she does. I knoe the problem is mine and mine only. I know I need to improve. I have only a couple objections Because you don't value her, she's not the kind of girl you want to sleep with. You need to be fucking higher value women. Higher value women? Considering my current situation (imagine a score …
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:44 PM
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Right, but women don't care about any other men. Maybe this thing is more "situational". It's kind of an hard generalization imo. I don't think women only seek the alpha male. There are many other things that maybe don't have the same weight as the social status but still matters when it comes to mating preferences. It isn't just the wasted time (a.k.a. aging) that destroys a carousel riding woman. It is the lifestyle of being pumped and dumped, getting alpha widowed and the drugs/alcohol that r…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:19 PM
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Bonus: Now you know how women feel towards beta males and orbiters. What do you mean? And for the other six points I don't know what to tell you. I just don't get what you are trying to say, I think you can't generalize like that. We can't be all alpha by definition. post wall women are miserable? I don't know, maybe some of them are. I don't think my mother was miserable: she had fun, then she married a doctor (my father) who gave her unlimited money and decisional power, and four children. man…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:44 PM
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Yes, I do watch a lot of porn... But still I'm subpar. Sometimes I don't give a fuck and I'm happy, but most of the time I feel insecure. But again, this is a totally different topic and we could go on forever talking about the impact of penis size in a relationship. I have some female friends and anytime they talk about a big dicked dude they fucked you really can see a light sparkling in their eyes. Whatever, I can't change my penis, so I should focus on the things that I can change, I guess..
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:30 PM
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You know, I get angry because I realize I'm in a bad position (I don't know the right idiomatic expression here...).. I mean... I know I need to fuck her more than she needs to fuck me. She can switch to another cock in five minutes, while it takes ages for me to get to know a girl and find the courage just to kiss her. I'm pretty ridicolous when it comes to dating and stuff.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:25 PM
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I have now but it really doesn't say anything new to me.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 11:55 AM
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