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Truth. Thanks.
/r/seduction01/12/12 07:20 PM
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Discovery. Nice.
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:30 PM
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Good point, though I feel there is a balance between humble and openly expressing awesomeness that I can discover. It is true that some people don't want to associate themselves with successful people, and filtering my energy to gain a friendship with them is counter productive to my social goals.
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:30 PM
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I like this a lot. Examples. Express my passions through more than just saying I am passionate, express it through the reasons WHY I am. Don't use the word passion, but make her think it.
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:27 PM
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I don't think it will net you mass appeal with the ladies, weirdness isn't a trait that get the average gal wet. So, if racking up numbers if your objective, I'd say cut it out. But there are girls out there who would be attracted to your style of communication. Keep at it, be confident/unapologetic about it, and you will find them. Just different options depending on what you want/need/are able to do.
/r/seduction30/11/12 02:25 PM
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Yeah man, ups and downs, I'm getting over it though. Some key things: Diet: Blood sugar and what not can have a big impact on how you feel, also the sleepy feeling after eating a big meal. Notice how you feel after you eat certain foods, encourage the foods that bring you up and be careful of the ones that bring you down. Warming up: When I am down, I no longer consider it a hole I am stuck in. It is just the situation I am in. Something may come along and bring me back up, or not. If I am in a …
/r/seduction10/11/12 08:22 PM
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Shazam, confidence!
/r/seduction25/10/12 12:11 AM
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Have bros that love you, approve of you, and enjoy your sense of humpor. In any moment with a girl, fall back on the confidence that you are trying. As you say a joke that fails, as her body language withdraws, as your mind starts to reach for insecure thoughts, rest in knowing "I'm here, I'm engaged, I'm giving it my all" Oh, and eye contact! Smiling too.
/r/seduction24/10/12 08:50 PM
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And I really want to re-iterate. BE SOFTER THAN YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE. The most common complaint on kissing I've heard from girls about men is that they mash their faces and thus their lips together with too much force. Heck I've been corrected on it. The lips are verry sensitive, and girls in general are sensitive all over (maybe that second part isn't true scientifically but lets roll with it for the sake of the tip) so be sensual and sensitive!
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:30 AM
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Don't be frustrated you can not stop them, be happy they are so damn insistent. You will miss that when you are older!!
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:25 AM
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I love the idea of focusing on things you will absolutely not allow. I personally am very focused on creation and showing approval of things I do approve of. But the other end is worth cultivating too, a sense of things which you simply will put down right away if they occur in your presence. Not to beat the tired alpha male drum, but with the right moral compass this can create a very noble alpha male energy. I need more time to ponder specifics: but selfishness and lack of sharing are things t…
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:14 AM
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Well told, interesting. Let me know how it has gone/will go with her. Thinking of how I would engage this situation. Maybe walk up to them talking in their pair, put your hand on her shoulder (in an indicative and friendly way, brief not possessive. though maybe keeping it there would make things interesting depending on your rapport. I'm not at that level personally) look at him and say in a friendly way "I see we have a friend in common!". See where it goes from there, it keeps you engaged sho…
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:05 AM
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Regret is nasty! A horrible emotion! Ugh just typing the world makes me anxious. Yeah it is definitely better to act than not act. If you are not compromising any personal moral code and not acting with the intention to harm an innocent just do it!!
/r/seduction21/10/12 07:57 AM
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Nice bro! I remember my first! I lucked out, the girl I kissed was a pretty awesome person and taught me how when she noticed I was clueless. In short, as a beginner. Be softer than you think you should be Let her lead Focus on the feeling on your lips, or should I say let yourself enjoy it :D
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:17 AM
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I'm currently on the verge of overcoming something very similar. In group settings I could joke, comment, chat, etc. etc and come off as very extroverted. When I found myself one on one with someone conversation lacked flow. Here is what I've noticed, I hope it can help you: -Online conversation advice sort of turned me into a robot. I was able to make a conversation last, but it wasn't really energizing or natural. I felt like an interviewer, asking question after question (with the occasional …
/r/seduction21/10/12 03:13 AM
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This is going to get downvoted but it is solid wisdom. This is pretty big time stuff, we can help to an extent but a therapist is an option worth pursuing!
/r/seduction21/10/12 02:57 AM
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I used to feel that too, and I am getting over it. I do have some concrete advice/techniques, but take them with a grain of salt. I am far from being a PUA, and I haven't been laid in a few months. Though I have a number of girls showing interest in me now, so I speak with some authority. I believe we fear what we do not understand. You see these dudes, you start making all sorts of assumptions about their superiority and compare them to your own imagined faults. You are in an unknown and potent…
/r/seduction21/10/12 02:51 AM
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I needed this, thank you.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:22 PM
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Lyrics from a Tool song "Over thinking, over analyzing separates the body from the mind. Withering my intuition, leaving opportunities behind. I must feed my will to feel this moment urging me across the line" So, overthinking is gonna make you reach crazy conclusions, and while you are overanalyzing you are missing chances to interact with and enjoy the wonderful world around you.
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:54 PM
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When I've told girls I am inexperienced, they've been very receptive. I've got feedback and 'lessons'. I told them in intimate moments, during some post hooking up cuddling. As for your social standing, I wouldn't worry about it. Your lack of sexual experience is part of who you are. If you keep up the confidence and physical appeal, your innocence and willingness to learn could be interpreted as fun and very attractive!
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:37 AM
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Meditate! It teaches you to be in the moment, and to not get distracted by fleeting thoughts or impulses.
/r/seduction04/03/12 03:57 AM
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I was a 22 yo kissless virgin. One year later I've hooked up with 5 attractive girls, lost my v card, am comfortable talking to (and more importanly being rejected by) girls. Its doable. You need to make changes, big changes, uncomfortable changes. Hit the gym, talk to people everywhere, do volunteer work, get new clothes, talk talk talk, read interesting books, meditate. You gotta create a need to become charming, and you need to fuel your power to raise to that need. Create the need by talking…
/r/seduction04/03/12 03:40 AM
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Sounds like you are thinking about it too much, out it all behind you. Gotta let go to give positive vibes. It also sounds like you are pretty bold, that's a lot of attempts and I admire that. And finally that sounds like a lot of fun, with a different mind set you could be laughing and smiling about them.
/r/seduction04/03/12 03:16 AM
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I dunno, talking to them I guess. Different parts of me attracted each one. One my kindness, one my intellect, one my sense of humor, one my life philosophy, and one just the fact I was a guy haha. Though throughout, getting in better shape and learning how to tease/flirt/be vulnerable certainly helped.
/r/seduction03/03/12 04:24 AM
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Thanks for the link. Meditation sounds perfect for you. It sounds like you are on a path of self improvement and self understanding. Meditation allows for greater self control and better insight as to what's going in inside your mind and body and environment.
/r/seduction02/03/12 02:36 PM
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Very insightful. Thanks.
/r/seduction02/03/12 02:20 AM
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It is interesting you brought this up. I'm noticing that a lot of women do truly bore me now. I guess that when I find one that really gets my attention, I don't want to play games with her, I want to go with my emotion. But, thinking about that, the game doesn't have to be deceitful. PUA has taught me not to be like "HEY I LIKE YOU LET ME SERVE YOU", but just have fun with her, keep things interesting, and show my feelings with actions rather than words. So, I guess I can use the lessons withou…
/r/seduction02/03/12 02:18 AM
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Thanks both of you, the ideas about the conflict with the old self and past neurotic habits definitely resonated with me.
/r/seduction02/03/12 02:16 AM
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