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A hip grab as a starting point is a little bold for my taste and style, but to each his own. If you’re afraid, she’ll pick up on it and ironically increase the odds of her feeling “creeped.” Start lighter... “accidental” legs touching, hand on back, etc... gauge response and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:02 PM
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I think this is a low value post on a topic that’s been discussed ad nauseam. Most critiques of marriage revolve around the financial implications. And at the risk of being reductionistic, if all relationships fail then divorce rate would be 100%, which they clearly aren’t.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 11:57 AM
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Finances and family values.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:48 PM
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Abundance mentality paying dividends for you and your bro. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 06:47 PM
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Physical abuse is easy to see and define. Emotional and psychological abuse is harder as the proof is in the words and actions that aren’t documented and subject to recollection discrepancy (see gaslighting). Personally, I’d rather be a victim of physical abuse by a woman than the latter. Unfortunately, women mostly operate in aggressive words because a true physical altercation isn’t even a contest, and most sane women recognize that likely outcome. Men don’t want a physical abuse... not becaus…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/18 02:10 PM
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It snowballs. It’d be insane for you, or anyone, to decide to wake up one day and suddenly live a drastically different life. Constant incremental improvement is the name of the game. If you made your life 0.1% better each day you’ll see a 100% improvement in three years... with constant success along the way. Maybe that looks like organizing your books, emptying your bathroom trash can, skipping dessert... it all adds up.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:56 PM
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Good point. Laws vary by state, so do your research before cohabitation.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:38 PM
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Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:43 PM
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Sidebar —>
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:14 PM
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Acting like a friend.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:13 PM
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Don’t be surprised by “group dating” requests, as in going on a “date” that’s not one-on-one, it’s a cultural thing. Don’t be if surprised you don’t f-close after a couple dates. I know three date max is the recommendation, but that’s for typical American women. Up your max to about five Don’t be surprised if you can’t publicly K-close or kino much. Again, a cultural norm difference. And remember, AWALT. Just because she looks exotic and has different cultural norms doesn’t mean you should make …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:28 PM
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I think it’s just that TRP is sexual strategy. MGTOW remove themselves from the game - and celibacy is not a sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:38 PM
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Screen screen screen for LTR potential. Move candidates up the ranks slowly, but always start as plates. (Sidebar: Managing Your Bitches) If you’re young and catch a potential early, I’d advise waiting around 7 years before thinking about kids with her... that’s the statistically significant timeline for hypergamy to show itself. Lastly, do NOT get married. Ever. You can still have a family and the two parent household without cucking yourself financially with State enforcement.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:02 PM
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Oneitis confirmed. You break it off because you’re a high value man that doesn’t tolerate lukewarm partners, not to play psycho games to further your oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:13 AM
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I think his point is that plates can break and bring you down to one... likewise, you could start at zero and build up... with one plate being the necessary number in between 0 and 2. You’re being pedantic. Yes, if you’re only seeing one girl, she’s not a plate. But it’s more of a mindset and an intentionality— if he has one on roster and is actively seeking more and isn’t afraid to let his only pussy break, he isn’t in beta territory. To your point, yes, you shouldn’t settle for one plate ever …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:49 PM
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You seem like a hungry troll.... open up: White women are the majority of women in the u.s and your smv is predicated on being able to attract white women sense they are viewed as the most attractive and have the highest smvs. No one here asserts that white women's interest is the measure of SMV. In fact, your own post and comment history acknowledge that Asian women are the most attractive. For example, asians are ostensibly richer and commit less crime than even whites, but this seems to do no…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:49 PM
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Bro, if you want to debate this topic, stay on topic. You’re misrepresenting my points and building strawmen, all while ignoring the only constructive critique and engagement you’ve gotten on Reddit. You’re post is arguably off topic and against this sub’s posting rules, so I’d encourage you to tread lightly as we entertain your white guilt / supremacy / satirization or whatever the fuck you’re doing. The dangers of group identity are real. The victim mindset danger is real. The initial SMV hit …
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:14 PM
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Well you’ve gone from a generality towards a specificity, namely, white women. The selection bias of individuals, where those individuals have a group identity (in this case, race), can be mistakenly ascribed as the bias of a group — and that’s a slippery slope as it ignores individuals. I think TRP position holds. As individuals raise their SMV, the group dynamics and stereotypes would thus change, but it starts and ends at the level of the individual. That’s why you’re getting shit on here— pl…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:28 PM
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I think I take issue with your premise: that it impacts SMV, or rather, that whites are granted additional “points” simply by being white. For the sake of the argument and staying relative to the purposes of the sub, I’ll only feed this troll on this narrow scope, not “all contexts of society”. I am familiar with the analyses of online dating preferences: white males and Asian females are preferentially selected by all races. There is something to be explored there... but I’m not so sure that th…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:05 PM
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Define white privileged.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 07:45 PM
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Was there an explicit expectation of monogamy and exclusivity? I’ll assume ‘yes’ for my response because ‘no’ should be easy to swing without coaching from the locker room. Disclaimer: I have more of a tradcon lens on these things. You fucked up but remember a woman would rather share a high value man that other women want than a faggot without options, so TRP suggests you’re okay here IF you can hold frame. “Yes, I fucked other women. I can’t take it back and it’s who I am. If you want to leave…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:13 PM
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It’s called a coincidence. Sure, maybe intersexual relations were brought to the forefront of other people’s minds throughout the 2016 Elections, in part by the Left playing identity politics and The Don grabbing women by the pussy... but there hasn’t been any grand awakening that you’ve been part of....
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:30 PM
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Not sure, but I know Camille Paglia has mentioned this thing in her appearances and interviews, and she’s written books, so maybe it’s her? Never read them myself.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:19 PM
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Glad to hear that. Our belief is that once the relationship is fucked, it is fucked. There are too many women out there to start/restart any relationship with one you’ve already failed with her, for whatever reason.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:57 AM
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Listen faggot, your LTR failed because you suck, not because of where you found your last candidate. Sure, the quality of most online dating women is less than you’d find in your social circle or through daygame on average... but that’s not the reason. You failed to screen properly, or failed to maintain frame, or didn’t balance A/B, or didn’t dread when needed, or something else, or all of the above. Take ownership of your shortcomings and address them. Your goal should never be to get an LTR. …
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:34 AM
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You need to seek professional counseling, not that of keyboard masculinists.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:30 AM
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I’ll only address the cruise. Don’t let the lost money impact your decision - your sanity is worth more than whatever you paid and lose. If you do go, the most likely outcome is you have a great time, because you’re in various paradises without any responsibility... that trip will prolong the inevitable as you strive to recapture the magic of your vacation in real life.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 09:01 PM
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“Taking it lightly and laughing about it” — idk that that’s right either. The right move is to slow down, pull back, let things cool down and start over.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 10:12 PM
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Some women hold fast to some arbitrary number of dates before allowing PIV. I’d say after three fooling around sessions you cut your losses before she tries to extract commitment in exchange for a bang. It’s not about her age, status, situation, ASD (assuming you’ve played it by the book), that’s her frame... your frame is what are you willing to tolerate and on what timeline... pick one to operate within.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:48 PM
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Discretion.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:37 AM
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“Thanks! Talk to you soon” And let it sit. She might ghost, she might make contact again. It’s out of your hands now, as any “repairing” is you being a beta without options.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:09 PM
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Invite her to study the Bible.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:45 PM
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Actually focus on your studies and grades. You might want to go to Grad or Law or Medical school after your undergrad, maybe not right away but life is long... so don’t fuck your future self’s academic options.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:28 PM
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She is likely doing the same thing — maybe not fucking someone else, but she definitely has other suitors or orbiters. That knowledge helps me alleviate any guilt I occasionally feel... everyone involved is or could be acting out their sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:26 PM
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Lift. Your body should be naturally high in T and recovery should be rapid.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:23 PM
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Lots of fail in the comments thus far. A girl doesn’t allow herself to get plated... you plate her because it’s your choice. If you’re the CEO of You Inc, would you reject a good COO just because she started as an entry level secretary? No, that’s asinine... but you do make sure she’s qualified and earns the promotion.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 10:55 PM
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I’d be very VERY skeptical of any girl that mentions abuse in the past... not because of any “blame the victim” bullshit, but because many women will greatly exaggerate their claims as society has no recourse against them. Believing that, at face value, IS getting in her Frame.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:38 PM
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Whiskey dick is a knock to your value —- not the ED itself, but as an outward manifestation of your lack of control. This doesn’t mean you joined her frame though. “Hey, it happens sometimes, I’m not perfect” is the best you can do. As far as the oneitis... you call her a plate, but do you have at least one other girl you are actively fucking? If not, she’s not a plate, and your oneitis has fertile soil in which to grow. Fix that.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:06 PM
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They don’t have their own identity, their own mission, nor vision. These guys were appendages to the lives of their girlfriends, and these women want to be added on to the life of a high value man...
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:04 PM
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I’m only a user, but I would recommend getting a cohort of truly bilingual individuals to contribute and revise each other’s translations to capture the nuance. Some sort of wiki platform would probably be the best way to accomplish it.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:37 PM
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Consider it your freebie... I saw a lot of narrative overlap between your story and my own.... so my response was probably more empathetic than average. TRP will kick you in your ass, and you probably need some tough love talk from the locker room, but I’ll leave that for someone else ;)
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:34 PM
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You’re right to leave and file, so get that out of the way and get to acceptance ASAP. You were her always available back up plan. Divorce changes that entirely. It will ripple through all of her other relationships as she will now be divorced and a single mother... it could potentially change the dynamic of her current cock. Yes, current, she didn’t stop seeing him. Enjoy your journey. It’s going to be tough, but totally worth it. Shoulders back, heads up, and handle your business like a man.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:11 PM
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You legit fought with a girl you just met? For three days? And you want more? That’s worthy of introspection for you, and worthy of a NEXT for her.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:03 PM
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Way to own it bro. All the advice you need is in the sidebar. All the experience you need is out in the world. Good luck on your journey.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:04 PM
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Absolutely not. She’s demonstrated her willingness to label you “verbally abusive”, why the fuck would you want to converse with her?! Masochist.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:25 PM
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Bro don’t go looking for an LTR, that’s a recipe for settling and disaster. Plates take less time to spin than maintaining an LTRs, so I’m not following your reasoning there...
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:04 PM
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Technology amplified what’s already there.... and what’s been amplified for you is: - you misunderstand TRP - no one gives a fuck about you - you’re voice isn’t equal across all hierarchies, least of all here. Yeah, ECs are human and can make errors and give biased opinions, yeah some are cocky assholes with no “bedside manner”..., but the flair should at least give you some pause to reflect on what knowledge your missing / misunderstanding if you so vehemently disagree with their comments at fi…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:38 PM
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Bro I’m all for challenging ECs, but you need to check yourself here. You came here for advice, got some, argued with EC on established definitions and knowledge, DEER’d, tone policed, and just come off like a whiny bitch. Check your ego at the door before you post again.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:30 AM
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Shit test. “You seem like the kind of guy that pays for sex.” A&A, pressure flip, or AM as usual.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:55 AM
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1- you got it backwards; alpha from end of period through ovulation... beta until end of period (pro tip: the day before the period is an alpha day too because of her Testosterone spiking again). 2- this cycle alpha/beta tailoring really only matters in LTR game.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:37 AM
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Would you make a meal out of leftover sandwich crusts?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:36 PM
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Then hold your crew accountable, Captain. I’m against mate guarding and it leaves a terrible odor. So when you address this, remember not to DEER or say anything that’s assumptive. Stick with the facts, you said no ex as friend, she agreed, she did a friend thing with an ex.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:53 AM
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You’re close... the answer is: “it’s unnecessary”. There is zero reason for their connection. You mentioned “boundary” in your post. Have you set this boundary already? How specifically? A boundary without enforcement is nothing but hot air.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:44 AM
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But somehow made she it to the gas station? Hmmm Don’t make excuses for this validation whore. You’re an orbiter she can tap for domaine here and there, cut that shit out. If she wanted to see you she’d make an effort. Cut her off.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:41 AM
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It’s a weird thing, right? You can totally see it making sense in the social media world... I mean, why snub someone if there is no animosity? And then there’s hypergamy. What better way to respin an ex into an orbiter when your game goes limp than to start liking a few posts here and there, and get some in return. DM slide “hey that trip looked really fun! How was it?” and their off to the races... maybe you’re too alpha and she needs a shoulder to cry on (that becomes a dick to ride on).... ma…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:35 AM
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I actually use threesome inclinations as a screening tool early in the game... If she’s down for a 3way she’ll never be more than FWB.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:10 PM
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PUA is like a sport that exploded and now no one plays so the establishments shut down.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:35 AM
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Interesting. Maybe a devils threesome where you intentionally underperform. Then drop her.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:01 AM
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Why the fuck would you even consider your capacity to provide for another man’s cum spawn?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:44 PM
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Have you ever spun plates? Look, there’s nothing wrong with LTR and monogamy if that’s what you want, but until experience has led you to realize that there are no unicorns, least of all her, and how to deal with their frivolity, you won’t stand a chance at keeping the oneitis away.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:12 PM
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The zinc will thicken your load too so if you noticed a decrease in volume you might be dehydrated.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:49 PM
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Fuck off with this “better than men” rhetoric.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 07:15 PM
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Male sexual strategy in its purest form. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:42 PM
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Should’ve been titled: Friendzone Delusions, part one.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:46 PM
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Agreed. I read it when it came out and it launched me into a knowledge quest in the areas of psychology, body language, sales, etc... fortunately I never wanted to be a PUA or a douchebag, so I took the valuable stuff and left the boas for someone else.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:43 PM
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The emphasis on canned openers and peacocking and negs etc are hated on heavily, but this book was arguably the first of its kind and covers the basics from a beginners mindset.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:21 PM
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Mystery Method Bang Day Bang
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:02 PM
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No. You’ve checked that box for those other chicks. Anything else holding you back with them has nothing to do with preselection.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:18 PM
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Male hamster: “because she was working I didn’t ask her out.” You’re fucked on this one. Cut bait, game other girls. Learn from your errors and improve.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:10 PM
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The first four words in the community info: “Discussion of sexual strategy”
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:00 PM
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This is the study you may have heard about before regarding rats and “fair play”.. the larger rat will let smaller rats win 30% of the time to encourage future play sessions: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/7250521/ No one wants to play with an asshole that wins 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:55 PM
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Texting for logistics only is trotted out for many different reasons. To me, it’s a reminder that texting has many downsides and limited upside, even more-so before a first date. It’s easy to appear too available, it’s impossible to build true rapport because of the lack of your voice. It’s easy to appear too aloof, and it’s impossible to physically escalate over. The attraction building potential is handicapped while the comfort building is overexposed. I have great text game and I do text for …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:45 PM
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Sounds like some Cluster B personality disorder crap; you’ve triggered some abandonment issue. Proceed with caution. Your frame is more important now than ever. Don’t cave, because ironically she’ll try to devalue you again in short order.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:20 AM
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Insightful critique, I’ll tender my resignation tomorrow.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:19 PM
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Who’s the project lead? Has this girl been delegated the delegating? Sounds like you don’t know, and this certainly might be the case. Yeah, she might suck as a leader, but your attitude sucks more. Hold your boundaries but you can’t control her style, so stfu, do your job, play politics when you need to, and you’ll find yourself being the one to delegate in the future. Edit: Man, I just couldn't let this rest. I've managed people for a long time and your post really struck a nerve. And since I …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:34 PM
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She didn’t just break your frame, you joined hers.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:58 PM
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I’m toying with this idea that true comfort tests are only in girlfriend territory since they require beta behavior to address. If you want it to stay FWB, keep treating it like a shit test. Yeah you might end up losing her, but promoting her to girlfriend against your will would be worse.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:24 AM
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My bad bro. I smelled the budding oneitis and forgot the facts; I'll assume better of you here. If you're a LTR guy, no shade, just remember that the game is harder and it's easier to slip back into blue pill ways... So don't set yourself up for failure by slipping up now. You've gotten one green flag with the text rhythms, and one unknown with the sex thing. She is some girl, nothing more.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:01 AM
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Bro my comment was to the other guy, not you.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:28 AM
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Too try hard. “I’ll go with someone else” lol Yeah that’s the mentality but saying it sounds autistic in this context. Fix your inner game.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:21 AM
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Holy fuck do you know where you are? I mean, yeah forcing a person to take hormonal fuckery is shitty (which OP most certainly was not... he was setting an expectation of sex without condoms and without serious pregnancy risk) but fuck that was the most canned extreme left wing bullshit I’ve ever read. GTFOH.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:10 AM
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Advice #1: read the side bar Advice #2: you’re probably saying low value things like “So this guy in my Fortnite squad”
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:55 AM
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Solid points. I’d only caution that it is in fact far too easy for the dude to shitcanned, and there’s no point in sacrificing a fellow bro if he’s innocent. It’s time to trust but verify, for everyone’s sake... “ ** PULL THE PHONE LOGS ** It will show you evidence of any shenanigans. Follow up question for OP: are they connected on social media?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:51 AM
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Sidebar: How To Manage Your Bitches. If this was in defined monogamous and exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend territory then she drops two or three ranks... to either plate status or the Land of Misfit Bitches. Why would you want to take a big step into the depths of the LTR pit with a plate?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:29 AM
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FTFY: good marriages two-parent homes are possible and are important for raising kids in a healthy, nurturing environment Marriage is a terrible deal. You are literally denuclearizing your arsenal by giving away your ability to leave the relationship while arming the wife with a state-backed enforcement capable of garnishing your wages (alimony) and otherwise making your life hell.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:07 AM
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Bro I was with you on some journey to TRP acceptance thing until I read this: I saw some guy kiss her at a party (she didnt instigate to my knowledge) but she DENIED that it even happened If you weren't monogamous and exclusive, this is a non-issue. If you were, then that's more than a red flag and this relationship does not progress. Her family "knows about" you? Cool, never meet them.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:59 PM
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Hypergamy demands both, so don’t be blind to the fact that she could cheat on you with a beta if you’re too alpha. LTRs are tricky that way. She is (or at least was) interested in him enough to give him her number and to engage with him at some level that has caught his attention.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:49 PM
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Missing information: how many other girls are in your roster? I'm guessing zero. It sounds like you're trying to justify some oneitis by creating an apparent conflict in the advice. Those quips are often contextually driven, which partially explains the dichotomy. Sometimes you'll be the guy that she "can't believe she's fucking on the first date", sometimes she's shoving you into the beta zone, and sometimes she really is a girl with more traditional values. Your experience and knowledge of TRP…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:18 PM
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TRP should open to your eyes to the possibility that she fooled around with him (emotionally and/or physically). And for that reason, I wouldn’t go mateguard as this is possibly a problem of her own creation. Offer her guidance on how to deal with it, and see if you can’t fetter out more of the truth... it’s only trickling right now.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:53 PM
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You’re right about both the Prostitute and the Plate securing your resources in the most reductionistic sense, but only the Plate has considered your genetic material in her calculation of whether or not to spread her legs.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:50 PM
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Good clarification point. The risk is you swung for the fences on a target giving you consistent IOIs. You might miss with this move while you might’ve scored had you approached classically.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:31 PM
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Respectfully, fuck that. Prostitution requires no attraction. You’re exclusively trading resources for pussy — that’s bluepill except the woman holds up her end of the bargain.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:17 PM
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Economic marketplace vs sexual marketplace.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:11 PM
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This is a high-risk high-reward move but it keeps your investment low and let’s you give her attention on your terms: Lock eyes, point at her and give the “come hither” sign. Idk your vibe but make sure your energy level is appropriate. It’s a low percentage move but if she comes you’re set.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:43 PM
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I guess there’s “game” in anything, but the Game exists at the exclusion of prostitutes so don’t get confused.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:37 PM
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Cut slowly while building strength. Hit ~10% bf and your SMV goes up. Clean bulk and add in hypertrophy work. SMV up. If you hit 15% bf cut back down while trying to maintain strength but cut the volume. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:30 PM
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From an economic perspective? Makes sense. As a form of sexual strategy? Barely... if you argue that a rented human fleshlight is better than the rubber alternative you can own. The goal of male sexual strategy is to be selected by females. Sure, you could argue that resource sharing (or indication thereof) is akin to prostitution or that the prostitute is selecting you by virtue of her work, but really do you want to be technically right or do you want to have the human thrill of the hunt?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 05:24 PM
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No, this is unsafe advice. That study was on insomnia and in adults. Infants are not scaled down adults, biologically.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 01:10 AM
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Test the bounds of her Oedipal complex... break both of your arms. In all seriousness, I’d suggest reading When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Edit: Also, one of the biggest transitions into adulthood is being able to forgive your parents for how they raised you. Don’t be an autist and tell her you forgive her, just don’t hold it against her if you want to grow a healthy relationship with her.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:35 AM
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Clean your place Listen to a Podcast while taking a walk Watch a lecture online
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:31 AM
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Wtf are you even asking? Everyone has advantages and disadvantages because of their race, sure, there’s no denying that... but don’t let race define you anymore than any other group label.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:58 PM
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Women love children.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:50 PM
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You let a Hooters girl call herself hot and then you validated it by immediately asking her to have a drink with you. You know “that” guy at the bar? You’re the Tinder equivalent here.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:06 PM
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Great point +1 for you. My assumption of genuine rescheduling was faulty and “benefit of the doubt”y based on my experience: I’ve only had three girls from Tinder reschedule a planned outing on me, and two ended up being plates for a few months... the third never reached back to me nor I to her.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:44 PM
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Known to be better for what purpose? That's my point -- there's no purpose to your question. It flies in the face of watch what they do, not what they say. You're not building comfort or rapport with it... and you're damn sure not building attraction with it... so what's the purpose?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:17 PM
3

Some might by stylistic but others are worth addressing: Me: You are the most beautiful 24 year old brunette named Ashley who's an accoutent at Verizon I have ever seen! Stylistic critique. I kinda get why you use this opener, but a rule that I hold fast to is: never compliment their appearance Me: So serious question. Were you upset by my first comment? It really just was meant to be light hearted. No intention to offend. TRP critique. That's some beta bullshit. You be you, if she's offended th…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:40 PM
2

There were a couple missteps in your messaging, we can get into it if you want. At this juncture, I'd let it hang. Maybe a "sure let me know" and go no contact. If she comes back, it was genuine. If she disappears and you never hear from her again? Who tf cares.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:21 PM
1

This reads like a shitty version of The Parable of the Prodigal Son.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:00 AM
1

Well if that’s not your thing then bounce tf outta that situation. I don’t agree with the “immediately take your dick and go home” consensus here... I shudder at the thought of some bitch wrecking my frame with middle school insults while I’m balls deep in her... so I’d go caveman on her loose vag, get my nut, and then ghost.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:30 AM
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Bro idk. It’s all contextual. She might just be a clumsy brat that wants to trigger some aggression out of you... She might be an emasculating bitch. Idk, and it doesn’t sound like you do either.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:12 AM
1

I had it surgically reduced so I can fit it in asses easier. Roll over.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:57 PM
13

I feel like your a nudge away from saying “I’m a sapiosexual, how do you find girls you can respect intellectually?” The problem is you’re 10 years with dry dick and spouting some drivel about what you could do but <male hamster>. If you want to fuck girls, fuck girls. If you want to MGHOW, do that. Chart your course and raise the mast, sailor boy.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:02 PM
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Same thing happened to my buddy... turns out he was gay.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:40 PM
1

What’s your goal after getting the number? That should inform your behavior.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:59 PM
21

I'd posit that abortion is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, you're right; on the other, abortion has no doubt reduced the number of boys that would be "raised" by single mothers and ultimately recruited into the Feminist narrative. Birth control and access to abortion has all but eliminated nature's hedge against hypergamy - sex for a woman carries the risk and responsibility of child-rearing. But it also affords more men the opportunity to build low-risk soft harems... pros and cons. Labe…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:48 PM
7

From the article: Our decisions in life, our aspiration in parenting, family and career, in our business dealings, in the women we Game and the people we hire, all of these aspects need to take on the perspective of how they fit into pushing back against a feminine-primary world that demands we surrender any thought of individuated male power. Fucking brilliant. As we all leisurely discuss and kvetch about the Cultural Marxists and other society-level boogie men, Rollo's above quote should serve…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:31 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to cast PU Artistry as blue or red pill... it’s merely a skill set or a tool box that is used by blue and red pillers alike. To your point, I think, many of the techniques are inauthentic and have a heavy touch of NiceGuy covert contracts like “if I act this way and wear this thing then she’ll give me that which I value most: pussy.” .... and that is blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:13 PM
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That’s not quite what I meant about the Machiavellian behavior. Yours is more of a IDGAF and you were successful because your words and beliefs were congruent. What I meant was that certain PUA techniques are intentional manipulation for personal benefit... like befriending the males in a mixed group or giving IOIs to the target’s friend.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:40 AM
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This makes sense: it's a mindset and understanding social interaction. It's not a short cut, learning 2+2=4 instead of 1+1+1+1=4 doesn't mean you are trying to cheat nature or do something unnatural, it's just PUA isn't intended to solve all your emotional issues, just one specific issues. (emphasis mine) I studied the Venetian Arts when it came out in the late 00s... not to be a PUA or gain their mindset (I quite liked my own at the time), but to better understanding social interaction and appl…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:14 AM
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Grow up children. Sex has risks. Herpes is fairly common, 1 in 10 I think. Be smart about where you stick it but just because they’re on Tinder doesn’t mean they’re walking Petri dishes. Edit: but obviously wrap your stump before you hump... and bail on stank puss.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:27 PM
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Ehhhhhh not really. The winning move is not to play. You want sext or sex?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 08:20 PM
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TRP is irrelevant when you’re wanting to off yourself. Get help.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:28 AM
1

I'm a virgin and i want to experience sex. However, all the things i have to do to get the pussy are bigger chore than the reward. The price of the "cake", no matter the goal, always outweight the sweet taste i will get. You lack on understanding of sacrifice in the now to reap rewards in the future. I don't know anything about you but I'm sure there are some basic areas of your life that are lacking - fitness, diet, hobbies, finances, interpersonal relationships, etc. Fix them. Fix yourself. Pu…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 10:22 PM
1

I mention an app im making money off of and get her number to send her an invitation where she saves money from getting the app and I make money from referring. ^ from your post lol Thanks for the sidebar link... Have you considered: Not shitting where you eat? It's your neighbor's cousin ffs. That putting your hand on his back doesn't mean you'll win a fight with a guy that "seems less physically fit"? If he puts his girl in time out that he more than likely will see her texts? Look dude, those…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 09:14 PM
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You do you bro, but I’m gonna attempt a soul read.... You’re coming from a mindset of scarcity if you’re here trying to justify contacting this girl; for either your app or your dick.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 09:02 PM
2

Be better with your “bored” time...
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:45 PM
2

Suggested reading: Four Hour Work Week
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:35 PM
1

Spin other plates. I hear a little bit of oneitis through your words already.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:32 PM
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No but there’s nothing you can do about it now, with incomplete information... so any worry is energy wasted. Maybe spend some time considering your actions in worst case scenario, just don’t waste your next 30 days wrestling with a hypothetical. I’d plate and spin this one ASAP though because of the circumstance... if she’s your plate you’re more likely to find out if her period came... you don’t want a surprise phone call in 9 months from a ONS.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:16 PM
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Are you happy with your work / life balance? There’s only so many hours in a day and only so much store of energy and willpower in an individual. Not offering that as a cop out for not making the most of your social time opportunities... just saying that you can only have so many priorities and have to rank them according to what you want most... don’t be surprised when priority number 6 lacks much progress.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:10 PM
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Maintain eye contact and kino escalate with the glassware. Don’t rush it but always be pushing. Start with the ice FIRST then move on to the liquor and mixers. Me personally, if a drink requires a blender it’s nothing more than a plate.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:27 PM
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In a pure democracy, I’d agree with you. Fortunately we are a Constitutional Republic so we’re somewhat protected from the idiocy of the masses.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:42 PM
3

Yes and as more men contributed to the growth of society the land-ownership requirement was dropped. And as women became part of the workforce and the nation’s economy grew they too gained a voice in government— after all, their incomes were taxed just like their male counterparts, shouldn’t they have a voice in how it’s spent?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:01 PM
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This is a sexual strategy forum, the self-help stuff you see here often runs along side a intersexual situation and isn’t a primary focus. I’d start with some books off of the reading lists you find in the manosphere. Avoid pick up artist content... your goal as stated is to start from the bottom up, not the top down. Personal recommendation in no order: - 12 Rules for Life, an antidote to chaos - How to Win Friends & Influence People - Art of War - Meditations - No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:42 PM
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This has been a fantastic dialogue, hopefully /u/stickingpoint and others can benefit from it; I know I have. Thank you for engaging. I'll stand by my original position that the event, in isolation, doesn't justify demotion but I acknowledge your higher-level perspective -- and that might be the real advice OP needs. Technical vs practical. I will concede that when additional information is introduced and OP's frame is considered then a hypergamous ending is almost assured as is damage to his ps…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:54 PM
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op is not in a position to be managing bitches with his current frame. ^ this x100, /u/stickingpoints... we are in agreement here. /u/Black_m0ngoose, I think at the root we're disagreeing because of our differing internalization of AWALT. If I'm understanding you correctly, you're fast-forwarding to the end and assuming the likely conclusion; sincerely, that is an impressive and effective shortcut that might be summed up as: "proven non-unicorn, therefore plate and no more." I see it as: "hyperg…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:46 PM
1

Here's what we know about them as a unit: "I've been in a relationship with this girl [for] about 4 months." That's it. Here are my unfounded assumptions about their unit: monogamous, exclusive, and has earnest long term intentions. Nothing she did violated those assumptions of those unit nor their respective inverses. We have to talk about them as individuals as well as a unit... He did not express any boundary or expectation that her actions as described are out-of-bounds... I'd have to assume…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 10:47 PM
1

Maybe we can both act like grown ups, Daddy. You make good points about his mental state, for sure... but suggesting this is an offense worth a demotion is wrong and I’d argue a result of your bias.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:50 PM
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That’s cute. OP, would you go to a butcher for baking advice? No? Then don’t go to a MGTOW for relationship advice. Consider your source... me, the guy above, endorsed contributors, anyone offering advice... we all have our biases.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:21 PM
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I’d leave it alone because it’s insignificant. Plus, what might be an unintended consequence of addressing it? - your value goes down for the heavy handed mate guarding - she starts deleting messages (edit: well, she might already do this, but I wouldn’t give her motivation to get better at it) - she fights against the “wrong” of natural attraction to a good looking dude and begins to wonder “wow, if I’m not suppose to feel like this maybe I don’t feel for OP what I thought I did.... “ and hamst…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:56 PM
1

Great read, thank you. Let’s flip this askTRP script, I have a question for you. As a believer in LTRs, could you share your personal mindset on having ONS and plates when you have a girlfriend? Im genuinely curious about your thoughts on the matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/18 06:17 PM
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Some girlfriends will cheat. Some girlfriends won’t cheat. You know AWALT, so who cares about this possibility, it’s a given. If it happens, or even if doesn’t, what’s next for you?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:16 PM
1

More than likely, but it depends on the state. I think some may even have a process to dissolve parental rights and responsibilities. The real advice to give is: “go see a lawyer.”
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:41 PM
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Some will, some won’t. Who cares, What’s next?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:38 PM
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Do you want to? Are you able do it without resuming your cuck boyfriend status? In other words, do you trust yourself to keep her at plate status and not a notch higher?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:22 PM
1

At the risk of being pedantic... Your child = child support* Alimony is paid for the wife’s benefit to maintain the lifestyle she was accustomed to in a marriage... it is an entirely separate consideration of child support payments. State laws vary on alimony prerequisites (time married, disparity of income, etc)
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:15 PM
1

That’s a fitness test, not a guilt trip. If that arouses feelings of guilt that’s a you problem that you gotta resolve.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:55 AM
1

Definitely some humiliation fetish here.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:08 AM
4

“You’re not trying to guilt me are you?” If it doesn’t end there, continue: “What you’re trying to communicate isn’t coming through. You’re welcome to go gather your thoughts and try again later.” Edit: to answer your question directly, without context it could be either but doesn’t really matter because my response to any guilting is the same.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:58 PM
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Standard game and kino escalation applies. Good on you for envisioning success, but don’t hold to it rigidly... seduction is a dance and the beat is always changing. Move too fast and you’ll hit ASD/LMR; move too slow and you’ll confirm her longstanding belief that you’re no more than an orbiter. Have fun.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 12:42 PM
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You can be honest about it while controlling when you share it. If you want to be up front and pre-screen for acceptance, put “in an open relationship” in your bio. You’ll get less matches but the ones you do get should be less drama and management. A darker way forward would just be to plate them and make it clear you’re not willing to let it grow beyond that... if you’re pushed you can reveal your arrangement but I’d expect more plates breaking than usual once you remove the glimmer of hope fo…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:18 AM
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You’re right, it’s not a shit test; the commenter led you astray. But let’s run with it... if it were a shit test, how would you A&A or fog it? “Yeah, I wish you kissed him on the dick.” or “I know you sometimes make out with other dudes.” That’s asinine... This was a boundary violation, so dole out the punishment... for me, that’d be a NEXT or demotion to Plate status. Edit: after re-reading your post I realized I ignored the nature of your dynamic... so the boundary violation might not apply h…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:56 PM
1

Pressure flip if you can hold frame... as in, if he flips it back then do you have a response? If the second jab lands it’ll be much worse to your group rank than the first. Idk how good this advice is, but for me, disagree and amplify works well with your bros... “I’m not a fag, I just like the taste of dick.”
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:50 PM
3

Channel that anger into the gym.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:46 PM
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To me, it’s not very feminine... and I awfully assume that there’s a mental illness underneath that hair. They can never be more than plates on my roster.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:10 PM
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This comes up a couple times per week in this sub it seems. The standard advice is: Don’t game at the gym but be open to IOIs and setting up something outside the gym. The gym is your temple, not your pub, so act accordingly.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:22 AM
2

Who cares? What works is finding other chicks to smash.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:18 PM
3

She left you. She is fucking with you. Go no contact. If you do get back with her, you're an idiot and are putting your dude piston in a ham clam with a few more notches since you last had it... she had a guilt-free pass to ride the CC, don't be a dumb cuck.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:54 PM
1

Will wait to see a quote. Here's a quote, from me: "Fuck off." Be sure to site the source next time you use it. Just because something isn't in black and white in your text doesn't mean it's missing from the subtext. Just because you bold some words or phrases doesn't mean they don't actually apply to you and your situation. These guys are reading and responding to the subtext - and they're not wrong. No one is going to debate you, they're going to advise you. Look bro, you talk about your dynam…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:39 PM
1

I know your type: you have a very educated and theory-based hamster. You’re using logic to actively or retroactively justify or reject your emotional responses or those of others. This is neither good nor bad, but demonstrates a lack of understanding that emotions are what drives women, men, the stock market, and anything else with a human component... we are incredibly illogical as a whole and as individuals, despite our best efforts and beliefs to the contrary. So while the responses here are …
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:50 PM
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Search for the holy grail stack. I think it’s Zinc, Lecithin, L-Arginine, and Pygeum. A glass of V8 daily and drink plenty of water.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:22 PM
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Don’t lie about your age. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:30 PM
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I think it’s just Reddit market economics. Most people here don’t need help with their EG because on the surface it’s Beta behavior, they need help upping the alpha / self-respecting human behavior. EG means shit if it’s coming from a shitty husband. Having good EG doesn’t eliminate hypergamy, it just decreases the odds of her cheating with an emotional guy and increases the odds of a quick alpha fuck you’ll know nothing about.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 03:01 PM
2

^ male hamster at full speed. Clearly you’re not going to enforce this boundary, and neither will she with him.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:41 PM
1

I’m not sure what I said that offends you so deeply. You’re attempting to bubble-wrap this chump by saying he’s 16 and inexperienced. I’m saying if he’s this retarded I have a hard time believing he pulled and smashed with one swing. You’ve somehow used that to build some weird points that no one has said. Wtf? But to your other points, yeah it’d be retarded to travel to hang or rub lotion as a strategy to build up points to get laid with later, but I don’t think anyone is suggesting that... Let…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:12 PM
2

A 16 year old autist pulled a quick lay at a pub? Something is amiss here...
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:48 PM
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Are you retarded? You fucked up and she’s still making time and opportunity for you. Meet and fuck. Dread is for when she thinks she can withhold pussy cuz you don’t have options. Next is for shitty girls or because you fucked up so bad there’s no way to recover. You’re acting so disinterested for no reason. There’s no glory in using RP tools to keep a dry dick.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:40 PM
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No different than on Tinder, yeah you matched but if you open with “number?” you’re gonna get noped 99% of them time.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:55 PM
1

It sounds like you’re a bit of a combative control freak, honestly. Possibly originating from not knowing, or not being comfortable with, who you are... You’re looking to control others and not be controlled by them - when you’re secure in yourself you control yourself and happily accept that’s all you can control. Know your boundaries and defend them with minimal necessary force.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:01 PM
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I’ll leave the logistics and OPSEC to others... to call this out: ** SHE’S NOT A PLATE ** Fuck her twice, then she’s a plate. Seriously dude, you got bigger things to sort out than this. Sidebar ———>
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:15 PM
1

Quit the porn.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:02 AM
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In general, sexting is beta as it communicates that you don’t have other sexual options: it kills dread. And if you make a big fuss about it, it’ll only hurt your image with her further... IMO, the only thing that comes close to asking for sexting without being needy is something direct like: “Snap me something sexy.”
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:53 PM
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Fantastic read on a sticky topic. It makes sense why many in TRP would think they’re aligned with tradcons. If I’m understanding your point, these red -tinted sheep are signing up to be slaves to men instead of to women... but they’re still slaves. TRP promotes autonomy in its purest form, in an incredibly social way.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:04 PM
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The whole world is founded in the pedaling of ideology. You have a tremendous leg up in being able to recognize one of the many opposing ideologies. Learn to see them in areas other than male-female relations and red-vs-blue. As you gain your own experiences and autonomy, you’ll find yourself spending your time and behaving congruently in part through habit and in part through practice. You’ll betray your beliefs from time to time and often unknowingly. Introspection is scary but effective for l…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:47 PM
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Breastfeeding on stage = attention whoring. Breastfeeding discretely under a blanket while sitting on a bench at the mall = acceptable. More mothers are breastfeeding and it’s a wonderful thing - the health benefits compared to formula are astounding. And let’s face it, being coupled up at home isn’t the best for a mother’s mental health, and eating in a public bathroom stall is disgusting. But this in your face bullshit is just third-wave feminism attacking social norms and playing the victim f…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:20 PM
2

^ this. Both of his examples are emotion puking. Direct communication with women is often ineffective because she’s not listening to what you say - she’s reading subtext and emotion. Both of those scream insecurity and the first even goes as far as to DEER in advance! Yeah, check your bitch, that’s your job in a LTR. If that needs to be done directly then do it within your frame: “I need you to stop that now.” If you’re OI and she knows it, she hears the subtext of “you’re bordering on demotion.…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:55 AM
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That’s an important distinction you’ve made there... there’s a big difference between petting a bitch and being a bitch ;)
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:29 AM
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Exhibiting beta behaviors is different from being a beta; likewise with alpha. Beta provides comfort, shows the ability and intention of longer term investment. Hypergamy demands both beta and alpha so it’s not a stretch to think that a successful LTR should incorporate both (that is if you like bettering your chances of her being monogamous, physically and emotionally). Your emotional investment is a reward that must be earned... so don’t give it away, slut. As you open up she’ll know you bette…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:06 AM
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My god this comment section has turned into a shit show. Thanks to everyone for moralizing on an informal term that is essentially irrelevant to the question at hand. Next time I'll be sure to refer to her as "the Mother, most revered."
/r/askMRP16/07/18 06:43 PM
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Does it matter?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:20 PM
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Thanks for sharing your relevant perspective and experience. I will respectfully disagree with your assessment of the term "baby momma", chief.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:04 PM
1

It was in a stand up. 99% sure it’s on Spotify but can’t recall which album or track.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:02 PM
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Minimal social media activity could be a symptom of underlying red pill friendly values, but not necessarily the cause. AWALT should make you consider that she might have alt accounts, digitally whore herself out on Tumblr, many orbiters in text, etc LTR candidates should be screened carefully and over time. Patrice O’Neil has a great bit about starting women as secretaries... no bitch gets to be a C-suite executive in your company without earning her promotions, regardless of how good the resum…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:12 PM
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Successful wife game is tricky because hypergamy demands both AF and BB from you... so yes they care about your delts and your bank account. If you want her ham clam to yourself then you gotta provide both while accepting you still can’t kill her dual-mating strategy entirely... Lifting helps up your AF externally obviously, but also provides great internal benefits that helps your mindset with momentum in personal growth. TRP had a post recently about women weighing the cost of mate switching, …
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:51 PM
3

I’m that girl. Forget my number, rapist.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:30 PM
2

My vibe is similar; the key is for it to be read as relaxed and confident, not arrogant and disinterested. Be careful not to overcorrect if you’re struggling with Kino escalation... Don Draper is not a fuckboy, so he doesn’t act like one when he’s gaming. Congruence is key. So for me, kino and escalation comes slower, but it seems to have a more powerful impact and doesn’t get read as “oh he’s just a touchy guy”... if I tried to play that it’d be cringe af... from my experience, my touch is read…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:02 PM
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Having music before she arrives is a solid move. It might be a conversation starter, it fills the normal but awkward silence, and deters turning on and getting captivated by Netflix. If you do end up in front of the TV and it gets too distracting I find this works well: - “you can sitter closer if you want” with open and confident body language. - initially, match her level of kino, then escalate slowly... don’t be afraid to pull a back a little now and then. - kiss, escalate to pound town.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 04:42 PM
1

That’s a fair criticism and in some sense you’re right (have an upvote). Yes, I personally think it’s immoral to intentionally damage someone because you’re weak framed and want the oddly-specific outcomes of a more successful man without the internal and external work, and that probably bled through my comment; but the intended message isn’t about morality... it’s about how his motivation for manipulation is the antithesis of core RP concepts. The OP-tailored takeaway is that such targeted and …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:57 PM
1

“Being all cold about it” = butt hurt faggot. Yes, AWALT, hypergamy, etc... but I think it’s possible you just failed a fitness test; hard to tell if it was of the Shit or Comfort variety from your post. If Shit, a better response might be: “I’m sure you could easily find out, cock is cheap.” Teasingly, of course. If Comfort, then she was subtly asking if she was special to you in some way that the other warm holes weren’t. Yeah a hard or soft next works here, but I can’t help but think there wa…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 08:03 AM
5

So you want to be just like a female? Or you want to be a just like a BDSM daddy? Or you want to be the support of a codependent? Bingo. You’re not looking for the practice of Machiavellianism, you’re looking for how to be a perfect Narcissist. Things like love-bombing and the cycle of “idealize, devalue, and discard” can cause long term damage to the victim. And people subjected to these things are just that - victims. It’s one thing to be aware of these dark arts for defense and for benevolent…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:19 AM
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TLDR; “hi I’m a child, where do you keep the dynamite?” Not sure if trolling or if you’re truly dark enough to be comfortable with a lack of ethics in your life. To be sure, TRP isn’t a set of ethics, you should have developed those on your own / with the help of society, family, etc... But a common mantra is: “leave them better than you found them” and what you’re asking for is advice on how to seriously fuck with another human’s emotional and psychological well-being. Those are at odds. I hope…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:32 AM
1

Fuck dude, re-read that sidebar and if you haven’t already buy and read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Also, it’s old and out of favor, but The Mystery Method would make for a beneficial read for you. Had you read enough, you’d know that you established a Covert Contract of “if I’m nice to her she’ll want to have sex with me”... and now you’re bitter because she didn’t hold up her end of the bargain she didn’t know she was in. You’d also be able to read the signs and escalate appropriately. Let’s assume …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:56 AM
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Beta men are more dangerous than women. If you can tell in this “professional environment” that he wants her, and you value his alliance more than smashing this chick, the choice is clear. Also, you’ve considered you might be a participant in her triangulation game - the winning move is not to play. If you are socially savvy with a touch of dark triad you might be able to Black Knight this thing... slowly friend-zone yourself with her to get the friend, while dodging the ire of the TA, then try …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:35 AM
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You know the reality, accept it mentally and decide to act one of two ways: Spin plates indefinitely Get into a LTR full well knowing the L stands for “long” and not “lifetime”
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:16 AM
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If you’re going to play that game then be smart about it and give each other plausible deniability— message her on a different platform “hey I’m going to X at Y with Z. It’d be cool if you swing by” or whatever your congruent approach is...
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:38 PM
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Ignore. She deleted for a reason and it’s not because you didn’t respond right away — and if that was the reason then you have even more reason to ignore. Maybe she’ll send something else more crafted later, maybe she found a different rebound cock that responded faster, who knows and who cares... Go get more leads in the pipeline and more plates spinning.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:13 PM
2

Come on bro, give it a rest. You didn’t like the MRP response, you didn’t like TRP response, and now you’re justifying your weak game to a group of strangers with a misunderstood PUA concept. PUA is a tool set. TRP is sexual strategy. MRP is making the best of a raw deal. Yes there’s overlap, yes there’s difference, but all three agree you should never compliment a woman’s appearance, specifically not first, and especially not to solicit an in-kind response. That’s the equivalent of an elementar…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:10 PM
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Canned lines are like training wheels. Yeah they keep the bike upright but their bigger purpose is to lower your risk of failing while you're trying to learn balance, or in this case, calibration. There are tons of Tinder guides out there but the gist of them are: Be attractive Don't be unattractive Have good pics Open with something you notice in her pics or her profile and for the love of Christ don't compliment her physical appearance in any way Steer the conversation towards planning a date,…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:38 AM
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“Waaaaa I didn’t like the thoughts I solicited so I’m going to DEER and ad hominem.” If you want a stamp of approval you’ve come to the wrong place. No one is impressed that you spent a few months in the gym and told a women she looks good.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:48 PM
2

askMRP was the right sub. Your advice here will be from single men and scorned divorcees... something along the lines of “stop the bullshit and try to smash. Your wife is probably already fucking the milkman. Just human nature bro.” Guessing you didn’t get that advice over there, so you went where you can have people applaud this particular situation instead of pushing on you to think of the bigger picture of your marriage. Do you Game your wife? What level of dread are you on? If your wife foun…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:14 PM
2

Some women have a longer runway, but every woman has her Wiley Coyote moment. 30 is a generalization, to be sure, but +/- 3 years encompasses the overwhelming majority of women first hitting The Wall. Don’t believe me? Set your age range on Tinder for 23-35 and see what I mean.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:00 PM
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Of course you know you, so you do you. Maybe a tactical retreat is the right move here. Food for thought: you caught yourself this time, how do you make sure you catch yourself next time? Me personally, I always date more than one chick to fight off that Fantasy of “maybe she’s different.” Caught myself wondering the other day if Plate A would be good LTR material... then Plate B drained my balls along with that nasty thought.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 12:37 PM
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Low value post overall but the reminder of how the Disney Fantasy Fallacy gets in our heads at times is appreciated. Curious though as to why you're going to ghost her when you could just start adding other plates? I'm not saying she's too good to let go or that you should have a scarcity mindset about finding other pussy; rather, I'm suggesting it might be better for your own psyche to demote her and add other snatch to the roster. She's not a princess, prove to yourself you can treat her accor…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 02:25 AM
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"Links were sent to her family and my sister." Guess what, faggot, she's preparing to leave you. I'm going to guess that your harpy has some abandonment-fear issues that you brought to the surface with your beta orbiting of what I can only guess was a low SMV slag, the "emotional affair." Her discovering PUA articles only intensified those fears and now you're royally fucked. By sending out those links she's softened the ground for her or you filing for divorce, but has hardened the position of …
/r/askMRP01/07/18 12:44 AM
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